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Well you have to understand that the guys who think that way aren't usually the type of guys that sleep with a lot of women (or any women for that matter), they come at it from a place of extreme scarcity, so the concept of sex in on itself is such a big deal! When in reality sex is just that, sex! It won't make or break you. And the irony is, the guys that they praise, the guys with "high body count" don't even think like them, and they don't give two shits about what a woman's sexual past look…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/25 02:58 AM
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I have a theory that a lot of men drawn towards red pill has some unresolved attachment issues There are no attachment issues that can be solved by TRP. And I don't think TRP attracts any "certain" types of men. The red pill is about showing you the world for what it really is, most of us are here because we were sold a big lie by our parents and by society. We were conditioned to be beta nice guys from a young age, we were groomed to become the pussyboy husband-material that women settle for la…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/24 04:41 PM
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I found TRP exactly 10 years ago, I was in my early 20s. Before that, I kept getting played, disrespected, and toyed with by every girlfriend I had, only for them to go out there and act submissive with other men. I knew something was seriously wrong with me, and my internal view on women and dating. And then I found TRP, it all made sense, like a big slap to the face, I realized how much of a nice-guy, beta bitch I was. and soon enough, my relationships got so much better as I continued learnin…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/24 04:30 PM
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You're 100% overreacting If this situation is too much for you, then I don't think you'll be happy in any long term relationship, regardless of who you date. The only time you should worry about her past, is if she talks to you about her ex all the time, non-stop, and volunteering info when not asked. This is the only case where breaking up with her is warranted. But if this is not the case, then you have nothing to worry about. As far as her not breaking up with him earlier. People stay in bad …
/r/ExRedPill24/09/24 12:18 AM
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Exactly! I've witnessed this with my friends and relatives too, this is basically one of the main reasons behind the high divorce rates, and how common dead-bedrooms are. women marry those "good guys" but once she gets the marriage and the wedding ring, her enthusiasm for sex just vanishes! and once they have a kid together, the man becomes a guest in the house. And dont get it twisted, these women aren't doing it maliciously, when they finally decide to settle with the "good guy", they genuine …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:49 PM
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I can only speak from my own experience, but I'm in my 30s, and I'm currently dating a 24 year old, the main reason why I started pursuing younger women is because women my age tend to be in a rush to get married and have kids, and I'm not opposed to marriage, but usually when women are at this stage they tend to shift their priorities when choosing a man, they no longer prioritize sexual desire, and they just wanna settle for a stable "good guy", NO man wants to be in this position! if I'm goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:28 PM
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Women can absolutely love men! dont get it twisted! when a woman is in love, she literally belong to that guy and becomes his "Servant" and I know it sounds fucked up. Its just most men will never experience this type of love from a beautiful woman in their lifetimes. in order to get that level of genuine desire from a woman, you have to be at least 9/10 in her eyes as far as looks, and you'll need to have advanced level game to maintain it. because sexual desire is the building block of a succe…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/24 01:13 PM
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You ultimately want an LTR but want one with someone who will sleep with you on the first date AND will also be looking for something serious. I think you're going to struggle to find such a person on Tinder or whatever other app you're using Yeah I realize that, I guess I'm gonna have to be patient until I find her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:18 PM
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Maybe you are not showing enough LTR potential on a first date? Could be, I guess because of the way I look and my lifestyle most women will assume I'm not LTR material, and that's fair. Sometimes it's not "I'm dying to have sex with this guy but I'll make him wait" more like "He's nice but I don't want to have sex today because I still don't know him" Also fair enough, I don't have a problem with that if it's really why they decided to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:17 PM
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The "stupid rule" comment wasn't referring to women that genuinely wait in order to feel more comfortable with the person. I was referring to the ones that have this need to make potential LTRs wait, while at the same time never wait with their casual partners. I've been with a few FWBs that never made me wait, but in their own words "usually make guys wait if I see a future with him". That in my opinion, is stupid, and I'd never agree to something like that. And one time I went on a date with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:11 PM
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You are not a good option for an LTR. Good enough for sex, not good enough for relationships. I totally understand that, and I do fit a certain stereotype that most women will 100% assume I'm a fuckboy and not good for LTR. I'm cool with that. I'm from the "annoying women making men wait for sex", because I need time to feel attraction and feel secure with a person. There's nothing really I can do about it, I understand, I think in your case you need to build a certain level of comfort with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:56 PM
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Not per year since I'm not actively dating all year round, but when I do I tend to make it happen easily. What I meant by sexual confidence is a woman who's not afraid to get sexual with a guy she's actually trying to date long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:52 PM
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There are indeed plenty of women out there who love sex but only within the confines of a relationship. I'm pretty sure they do exist, but personally it is a gamble since I'd never know her true motivation to withhold sex, you could be right, but she could also be playing games. I think I'm just gonna wait until the find the right one, won't settle for less
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:51 PM
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Amen to that bro Every LTR that I had in the past started as a ONS, or they didn't make me wait, and the attraction was undeniable. Once you have that as a man, you tend to never settle for anything less, I guess I'll have to keep playing the field more until I find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:04 AM
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That's how it was with my ex too, it started as a ONS first and then developed into a LTR. That's why it's the type of relationship progression that I'm looking for now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:11 AM
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When I’m looking for a relationship I only date men who are also looking for one, it’s just asking to be disappointed and hurt otherwise. Fair enough, this is the type of answer that I was looking for! And I totally understand not wanting to be hurt. If I wasn’t looking for a relationship and so went on a date with a man who was direct from the get go about just wanting to “hook up” then him suddenly wanting a relationship would be annoying and I’d probably stop seeing him Usually I don't state …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:03 AM
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I‘m not so sure this will be helpful, but I slept with most of my boyfriends right away—the first night together Kudos to you on that! this means you are very comfortable with your sexuality, and that is rare. I need to know someone in real life for a while to make a decision like that. A couple dates wouldn't be enough time for me to decide that I want to be on a long-term relationship. Thats fair enough! personally the only reason I get turned off by women that make me wait is because I always…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:51 PM
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I know exactly what you're problem is, you care too much what other men think, simple as that. The reason you don't want a woman with sexual experience is simply because you don't want the guys that slept with her to look at you as a "beta" or "cuck" like they have the upper hand simply because they've "hit it first". Same way you felt about the guy like you've emasculated him, is the same reason you don't want to marry non virgins, it's not about her, it's a about you, and the other guys. And I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:31 PM
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This boggles my mind too. But the only explanation is women can love men for different reasons, and those reasons will make her feel different types of love depending on the situation. A woman can love a man purely based on sexual attraction and how that man makes her feel while they are together. On the other hand a woman can love a man only based on his stability and security qualities, though this love is not based on genuine sexual attraction, but more of a either appreciation or transaction…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:24 PM
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Yes there's no hook up culture, not because less people are having sex (though it's true) but because it is the natural state of human mating. Calling it hook up culture makes it seem as if it's a new phenomenon and a "culture" that is unique and new. Humans for a very long time had very similar dynamics of mating to what is called hook up culture. Men compete, period. The ones with the best attributes get to have all the women, while the ones with the least desirable attributes try and get to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:57 PM
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The alpha widow is very real. but most people in redpill communities get it wrong. TRP version: a woman that dated or had sex with a high value man (usually the most attractive or most masculine shes ever been with) and was never able to date a similar guy later. this version is absolutely wrong on so many level. In reality, an alpha widow, is basically a woman that dated her "perfect man" for a very long time, at least 5-6 years and up, and was emotionally attached, invested, and saw a future w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:25 PM
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I don't think that people are looking for true equality. Whether it's men or women. While a few people might genuinely be striving for true equality, but I believe the majority of people are motivated by personal interests and bias on a subconscious level, a lot of collectivism to fight for their own "group" or gender, as opposed to fighting for humanity as a whole. The so called mens right activists will claim equality, but if you read between the lines they're just fighting to get back to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:55 PM
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There's more than enough simps out there who make decent money, women never worry about not finding an unattractive beta bucks. most women, even the average ones, will always find a simp that has his shit together. Unless she's overweight or really unattractive then that's a different story. Most women don't care about a wealthy lifestyle, as long as the guy makes decent living.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:30 PM
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Men on here don’t seem to understand that women may feel the absence of a relationship just as badly as they feel about a lack of sex. I think men here do understand that, they're just frustrated that they don't get to participate, from their perspective it's this big ass playing field with only women and attractive men that are playing the dating field, exploring sex and relationships, while alot of men just sit and watch from the outside and don't even get the chance to participate in either s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:42 PM
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That's because TRP's AF vs BB explanation is too limited. It's much deeper than that, women do sleep with Chad, and marry the beta later when she's older, and it's somewhat true, But neither is what a woman ultimately want. There's the third category, which is the "perfect man" basically what you described, usually an attractive man who sort of has his shit together and she's been with him for a while, and eventually the relationship turns into a marriage. That's every woman's dream basically, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:28 PM
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I noticed that yeah. That's why men shame women for being sexually active. And women shame attractive men for casually dating and not committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:21 PM
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It's so annoying, I have female friends that shame me for it all the time like "why didn't you find a woman your age?!". Just ignore the haters man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:19 PM
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If he doesn't marry her she will dump him in a heart beat. Often times when a woman is settles for a beta bucks, she will rush him for marriage and kids, and if he takes his time and plays the "let's take it slow" she will drop him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:12 PM
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You got it twisted man. First when you mention SMV, what's the aim here? Relationships, marriage, or sexual attraction? Because when it comes to what a woman genuinely desires sexuality, it's your looks and charisma. Nothing else matter. Show me one Football player, succesful rapper, actor that struggles with women. There is nobody who u can show to me. Their money won't save them if they have no game. it definitely didn't save Will Smith or Johnny Depp. And if you're ugly but rich, then you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:03 PM
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You nailed it! For most women casual sex is not the default, except for nymphomaniacs. For the majority of women, if they do engage in casual sex it's usually a small phase, often times after a break up, or when they're really stressed out about something and they are single, and even then it lasts for like a week or two. Most women want LTRs, and don't like being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:53 PM
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As a man, your personality can make or break you. First it's important to note that if you're extremely ugly, like if you're 2/10 for example, your personality won't save you with most women. Also, if your personality sucks, if you're too much of a nice guy, or you're simp, your looks won't save you, even if you're a 10/10. With that being said. For most men out there, average, below average but not ugly, or attractive men, your personality can make or break when you date. And by personality I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:46 PM
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It's just a shaming tactic that they use, nothing pisses an older woman more than seeing an attractive older man dating a younger woman. And I'm not saying this to hate on women, but I'm just tired of all the shaming. As far as what's easier, it depends on the age, for men in their 30s it's neither easier or harder to date women as young as 20. For men above the age of 45 that's when it becomes significantly harder to date younger women. Generally the man has to be healthy and in shape and have …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:38 PM
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Absolutely, but the best way to spot this type of behaviour is to have experience with women and learn game. There's no way around it. Young men in their 20s should be encouraged to date casually, and also get into many relationships and experience different types of desire from women. And only then they'll be able to recognize genuine desire from a fake one. Only then they'll have the ability to walk away from a bad deal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:04 PM
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Unfortunately it's not always the case. Especially with men with very little experience with women, they can't tell fake from genuine sexual desire. And usually women do love-bomb these types of men when they want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:11 PM
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It's up to the person, I can't fault a man for wanting a virgin, if that's his thing. For me personally, I don't give a rats ass about a woman's sexual past, as long as she's not a prostitute, pornstar, or a sex addict/nymphomaniac. A woman's sexual past has no effect on her future relationships, especially one night stands and casual hook ups, because there isn't enough emotional attachment, given that she is mentally healthy of course. Matter of fact, I've seen a lot of cases where a woman had…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:05 PM
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That's why you have to vet the people that you date. And it's not necessarily because it's free sex, because even if you do it in a committed relationship those types of guys will still talk shit. Choose better, don't go for uptight conservative men that view sex as a sin, and don't go for beta dudes with no dating experience. These groups are too damn insecure they can't handle female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:33 PM
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Can you point out the part where I said women can't be attracted to teddy bear, dad bods, or average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:58 PM
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It's not rocket science to figure that out, how many people that you know actually admit to their partners that "I'm not attracted to you, I just want your money"? other than sugar daddy relationships, and prostitutes? But for the sake of the argument let's say she did tell him, then that's great, and that's what I advocate for, at least now he knows what he is getting him self into. And will probably get a prenup and keep his guards up and not fall in love. And for your other part if she wasn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:32 PM
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The correct course of action is to be honest with the guy shes marrying, let him know that he is not her first choice, and that she's settling for him because he provides the stability and the marriage life that she thinks she deserves, and not because of sexual attraction. Give him the choice, and it's up to him to either pursue her, or walk away from her. You see, dual mating strategy isn't morally wrong, but the dishonesty and deception is what makes it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:02 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:12 PM
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Unfortunately as much as I wanted to believe that it's not real, but all the real life examples I've seen with women in my life (female friends, relatives, women at work...etc) the wall is too damn real it's not even funny. It's like they hit panic mode when they hit a certain age and are still single, they get desperate for marriage and family, and they end up settling for a subpar choice of a man. If that's not the epitome of hitting the wall, then I don't know what else is..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:28 PM
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That's not how sex works. And definitely not how female orgasm works. Surprisingly some of the hardest women to get off were women with the lowest body count (18-20 years old, from conservative backgrounds) took me forever to get them off, with lots of stimulation. And on the other hand some of the quickest and most intense orgasms in women I saw in total nymphomaniacs with high body counts, multi-orgasms in a single session. Body count has nothing to do with orgasm and pleasure, other factors m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:56 PM
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I can't say that I agree, because even if they lower their standards they won't be happy, and the minute they find something better they'll bounce. It's better to have an all-or-nothing mentality, because then it will motivate you to improve yourself. But then again, women do lower their standards when they hit the wall and lose significant value, they tend to settle for unattractive men as long as they're stable.. so it might work for guys too...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:49 PM
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I know a female friend who displayed dual mating strategy clear as day. All her boyfriends were "bad boys" generally good looking dudes who lived interesting lifestyles, musicians and DJs, and were not the nice guy types. 2 years ago she gave her BF at the time an ultimatum about marriage and kids, he dumped her. All of a sudden she started dating this dude, totally different than any of her exes: average looking, overweight, short, typical nice guy, super boring lifestyle and generally a bit of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:47 AM
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Men and women ONLY age well if they take care of themselves. The average person eats like shit, doesn't move much, and doesn't take care of their sleep, and by the time they hit 35 their bodies start falling apart: Dad bods, wrinkles, double chin, turkey neck, saggy boobs, ED, health issues, joint pain...etc Although there is a genetic factor, but it can only delay the breakdown a little bit. So take care of yourself, and you'll age like fine wine. Also be rich, because then you'll also be able …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:02 PM
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This is accurate. The bottom 80% of men are more eager and desperate because they have no options. The top 20% of men have much more options than most women, that's why they avoid exclusivity and leave women hanging, and women accept it. That's why attractive men get slut shamed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:57 PM
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A lot of good points. Personally I'm neither pro or anti monogamy, I have periods where I'm polygamous and spinning plates, and other times where I'm dating only one woman, I just go with the flow. But during the time I'm monogamous I absolutely believe in being faithful. Now I'll say this, as a man whether you're pro or anti monogamy, either way you MUST experience casual dating and get with as many women as you can for a very long time, because only then you'll become qualified to use your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:07 PM
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Lol, read between the lines. Women don't know what masculinity look like, they are attracted to masculine men but they can't define it or put it into words, when women say "I want a masculine man" they mean that they want a husband material, a man that's gonna support her and make a family with her and be loyal ...etc Whether it's a liberal or conservative woman, when you see her talk about that shit, that she needs a good man, what she really means is she is ready to settle. She's had all the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:53 PM
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I'm really not sure what passport bros are after, but being a foreigner with a 1st world nation passport will attracted a lot of women in poorer nations, either for money, or simply in hopes for a green card. But each case is different and it's possible that some will find love too. Now about the quality they are looking for, what the passport bros claim to look for, is "submissive" women since western women are not as submissive, that's their talking point. I can't fault them for wanting this, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:22 PM
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I'm 50/50 on the topic of nofap, it can be a useful practice for a temporary time to quit excessive porn use and masturbation. But yes in the long run I think it's not a good idea, it's another form of sexual repression, which I don't think is healthy on a psychological level. Personally I like porn every now and then, but I think it's a problem when you use it excessively. Too much of a good thing is bad. Balance is key. Watch porn, but don't use it as a crutch, instead develop your attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:59 PM
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Again, women have sex with dudes that make less money than them, hell beautiful women have sex and fall in love with dudes that are dead broke, if you've never seen that, then you need to get out more. I've already addressed the nerve endings argument, and you choose to ignore it, only to repeat the argument again. And you won't even address any of my other points, so you're clearly a troll, and I won't even bother
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:19 PM
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You typed these long paragraphs filled with theories and (I think)'s and didn't address my points or prove anything. same ol' conservative talking points: denying female sexuality, and when pressed "oh it's a conspiracy, they want to keep it a secret, the hidden truth!! illuminati!" Come on man. While some women do manipulate and fool clueless men for resources, but these same women will still have side dudes and sex with the guys they are actually attracted to. Prostitutes for example will char…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:23 PM
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Alright, just because 90% of nerve endings are centered in the clit, doesn't mean that the vagina is dead. It's like saying that using a condom is pointless for a man and he won't feel anything. Not to mention that sex and orgasm isn't all PIV, when you cite that study to disapprove that women enjoy sex, you make it out as if sex is this mechanical activity where people use each other's body to jerk each other off. If that's the case then men will be satisfied with just masturbating and won't bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:43 PM
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I mean I won't lie if a girl goes straight to asking for oral right after getting creampied by another dude, then she's nasty. I found that almost all women don't expect dudes to go down on them in casual encounters, especially in the first few times you get with them, but they'll happily give you head. And again if it's a must, use a dental dam, it works just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:19 PM
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You're right. Plus the US is huge with all kinds of cultural differences, I guess it's not fair comparing it to central Europe. A better comparison would be the US vs the entire continent of Europe for example so it's as much of a mixed bag as the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:12 PM
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When you say there's a reason for it, I can understand it from a preference point of view, if monogamy is your thing then by all means go for it, my problem is when it's enforced into an entire society. And there it is, the good ol' "fear of surprise liquids" argument. such a valid and sophisticated concern, ask her to take a shower if you can't even tell by just looking, or use a dental dam if you're too scared to ask and oral sex is such a deal breaker for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:01 PM
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When you say there's a reason for it, I can understand it from a preference point of view, if monogamy is your thing then by all means go for it, my problem is when it's enforced into an entire society. And there it is, the good ol' "fear of surprise liquids" argument. such a valid and sophisticated concern, ask her to take a shower if you can't even tell by just looking, or use a dental dam if you're too scared to ask and oral sex is such a deal breaker for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:01 PM
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When you say there's a reason for it, I can understand it from a preference point of view, if monogamy is your thing then by all means go for it, my problem is when it's enforced into an entire society. And there it is, the good ol' "fear of surprise liquids" argument. such a valid and sophisticated concern, ask her to take a shower if you can't even tell by just looking, or use a dental dam if you're too scared to ask and oral sex is such a deal breaker for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:01 PM
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That's what I thought too, until I spent a few years in central Europe, I realized that North America is a bit more on the conservative side when it comes to sex and nudity for example in comparison. I think even though sexual liberation is everywhere, but we're still in this awkward transitional stage where there's still a degree of shame associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:23 AM
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Wait, are you saying that women don't enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:05 AM
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I support casual sex 100%, and it needs to be more and more normalized. Let people experience sex with all its forms without restrictions or shaming, the way it's meant to be. I personally can't imagine living during any other time in history where virginity and monogamy were the norm, and you were stuck with only one person for the rest of your life, fuck that!! It boggles my mind when RP guys talk shit about causal sex, like, my G, don't you wanna have sexual variety?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:44 AM
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It's less about the lack of relationships, and more about the way my relationship with the opposite sex progresses naturally. I don't believe in the concept of "dating with intention" as in going out there with the sole purpose of finding a LTR. For me hooking up is the default, having a rotation, and letting things move naturally, and if something materializes with one girl, and we grow fond of each other then naturally me and her will start a committed LTR, which in itself takes at least 6 mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:18 PM
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I find these arguments amusing. For some reason these anti-age gap people find the need to make it all about the men going after the young women. When in reality most of the time it's the young women that have a preference for older men. It goes both ways, she's interested, he's interested, so they start fucking, end of story. Every age gap relationship that I've had I was the one pursued by the 18-23 year old chick, so is every age-gap relationship that I've seen with other people too. And yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:12 PM
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Both settle down equally, but for different reasons. Women settle down because they couldn't lock down a Chad and have wasted too much time until they get old and now needs to get a husband asap. Men on the other hand settle down because they don't even have any options to begin with, and their lack of dating experience makes them oblivious to the fact their wife has settled for him. Now, women have an easy solution for this, by trying to lock down a Chad very early, preferably in her early 20s,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:26 PM
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Women will always find options, but not necessarily better options, simply because most men are lame as fuck, even the rich and successful ones, still don't have sex appeal, charisma, or looks, and are overall beta. so while women can get attention and can get sex easily if she wanted, but it's fucking hard for women to find a man that she's genuinely attracted to and has burning desire for sexually, who is also successful, AND is interested in her long term. Most of the 'better options" that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:17 PM
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Great points. Only disagreement is the rejection part. In my experience it was completely different, particularly with break ups, I've had in 3 different times broken up/dumped a girl that I was dating, in the worst ways, but I was still able to sleep with them occasionally afterwards even when they were super mad at me. And this is true for a few other people I know too. I know women that were dumped by their boyfriends and were angry at them, but still had sex with them over and over. But your…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:20 PM
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Ok, what's your take?
/r/seduction10/05/23 06:34 PM
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Maybe I'm lost, what was the point?
/r/seduction10/05/23 06:28 PM
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Being rich + wealthy has nothing to do with sex appeal and getting laid. Unless you're looking for a wife. If you wanna get laid, your competition is guys with good game. And even then, it's not really a competition, it's just your turn.
/r/seduction10/05/23 01:12 PM
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You nailed it! Sexuality, nudity, and the topic of sex in general is shamed in North America. I never realized this until I spent some time in central Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:45 PM
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The friendzone is a thing because men allow it. No woman will ever say no to free attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:42 PM
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Yes it's different from one person to another, there are many factors involved like culture and internal belief system, and views on sex and sexuality. I will only disagree with your first paragraph that people don't relax in sex early. Trust me most people (at least in my city) are super relaxed about casual sex, as long as there's sexual chemistry and both know what they are doing. In your case you mentioned it being stressful, so you might have internal/personal hang ups about sexuality and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:28 PM
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In my opinion, I'd say only two things matter, sex appeal, and chemistry. Sex appeal includes: appearance, confidence, charisma, masculinity, and sexual prowess. I wouldn't put much importance on money and status. They are a good bonus, but not crucial. They won't save you if you're soft/simp. they sure as hell didn't save Will Smith or Johnny Depp. So as long as you're not dead broke, you should be fine. Now in my experience, when a woman likes you for your sex appeal, and there is chemistry, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:21 PM
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Everyone's different, and that's true for both men and women. And there are other factors too like cultural differences, internal belief systems, sex drive, comfort...etc I'm one of the people that likes to get sex out of the way as early as possible, if I like her and there's sexual tension even on the first date then I'll happily sleep with her asap. Sex is just that, sex. It's not that deep (or is it? ;)) . Some people have hangups about being naked in front of a stranger let alone having sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:45 PM
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So according to your experience with women, you saying that there's no way a woman will have a burning sexual desire for a man that lasts for years, unless he uses some mental tricks to keep her on her toes. That statement alone proves that you've never been with a woman who truly desired you, and I'm not saying this to be condescending, I'm just saying that experience is the best proof. And if you've never experienced that, then you'll never know it even exists. Let me ask you something, based …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:25 PM
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That is absolutely not how sex works, sexual compatibility lasts even after the early spark stage and leveling out. Women have sex like 3 meals a day and much more than the average horny guy, and it lasts for years and years even in marriage. But only, and ONLY, if she's truly sexually attracted to, and has a burning desire for him. The whole leveling out and putting a show thing applies to relationships where a women isn't totally sexually attracted to the guy, and in it for different purposes.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:58 PM
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I don't wait for sex, and I don't think anyone should wait for sex (unless you're religious or something and you need to stay virgin). Sex is part of the "getting to know each other" stage. Sexual chemistry and compatibility is crucial for a successful relationship. If a woman shows any sign of wanting to wait for sex, then I'm not interested in her and I'll walk away. 2 dates max I really don't understand the mentality behind waiting for sex. Let's say you meet a great person, you make them wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:42 PM
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Definitely, I need to get off Reddit and YouTube manosphere for a bit, i need a detox
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:36 PM
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You're right! I do need to spend more time with a girl before committing, this will allow me to vet properly. And you're spot on with the neurotic doomer talk. I tend to over analyse things wayy too much, and I always expect the worst. Working on it though, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:34 PM
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Read the post again, I don't have a problem attracting women, and I do hook up easily. I just can't keep relationships due to my AF/BB anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:23 PM
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Like I said man, every nation has the right to adjust immigration laws to the way they see fit, there isn't a right or wrong, its whatever you want it to be as long as its what the majority of your fellow citizens want. and yes there is no moral obligation to allow them, cause like i said, immigration is not a basic human right, so there is no violation when you ban them from entering. For its relation to globalism, same thing, I'm not against globalization, but it should come naturally, and it …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 05:55 PM
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First, no one is suggesting to "deny" your tribe, that would be racial guilt, which is no different than racial supremacy. what I'm saying is, as an individual human being, you you should never let these emotional tendencies influence your judgement on others, based only on tribe/race. you only need logic. Second. how the hell did this turn into an immigration argument? I personally believe that immigration is not a right, its a privilege, so EU importing refugees is really up to them and their …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 04:59 PM
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i don't think he was suggesting that we literally forget our genetic differences, its more about not picking "Sides" based on our tribalist tendencies. Tribalism is a basic human instinct, just like any other sort of emotion. so is Hate, jealousy, envy ..etc are all basic and natural. what differentiate an intelligent person, from an emotional train wreck, is the ability to not fall in the "my team is better than yours" trap.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 03:49 PM
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Well yeh immigrants and blacks do commit more crimes in comparison. But it is pretty ignorant to draw a conclusion while ignoring the aetiology behind it. Its the system that needs to be fixed. And no one is safe here. The system is built in a way that each group is fucked with its own unique way. Black people have the worst economical challenges, therefore increase in the likelyhood of one committing financial motivated crimes (robberies). On the other hand, you have white men screwed and demon…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 10:25 AM
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Yeh I'd say the basic grounds of TRP are common sense in other cultures. But It doesn't necessarily mean that less developed countries are automatically red pill. I found TRP 2 years ago when I used to live in the middle east (GCC) and it did change my life big time. while In those places women are more submissive, and less hypergamous than western women. but the rules still apply in the dating game and male to female interactions. most men were beta, including me prior to finding TRP. men still…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 09:13 PM
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