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Yep. And what does this tell you? I dont think insisting will lead you further with her
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:52 PM
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Lots of people saying make a move. I guess they didnt read your post lol. Not to be a downer but that girl has rejected your advances twice, also trying to go on a date in a rush, due to schedule will just scream at her that you are even more desperate. In this kind of cases i'd just move on and go for another. If she is taking it slow as you assume, it is to make you get the hint. Not that you should try to move the situation slowly
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:46 PM
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Its not bad to have standards lol. Same will happen when you meet girls who you catch your attention, some will reciprocate, some won't. Just make sure that when one of the ones you might entertain crosses your path, you'll make your move by asking them out asap!
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:18 PM
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There's a guy saying to choose a side in a disagreement. Lol My boy, it's the first time you meet them and probably you won't see them as often. Show interest, ask them questions what they are into, memories, stuff like that. And if a xontroversial topic comes up, just listen and joke a bit, and change topics. Lead the conversation to nice places, instead of letting it become a tricky situation.
/r/seduction17/09/25 09:49 PM
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Ask for more numbers lol
/r/seduction14/12/24 04:28 PM
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There's a book I read some time ago called 'Psycho-Cybernetics' . Its a book a surgeon wrote about different mental/emotional stuff he noticed on some patients. He noticed that some people even after surgery they felt they were still unattractive. Thats how he got into the concept of Self Image. This is what you need to work on. Don't want to get too deep into it cause you should your research by yourself, but if u want. You can hit me up and discuss.
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:22 PM
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So you are basically saying the opposite of the comment. Guy has no responsility and she just wanted to ascend? Haha. The whole status thing is something repeated by clueless guys. Even OP is aware now how his behavior changed, only issue is he is still associating having money with success and sucess at dating. That's very far from reality.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:29 PM
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Asking a girl to give you a kiss is good(if you are very sure of her attraction level towards you on the date). Asking a girl if you can kiss her, is weak af (even if she is completely into you). Going for the kiss is also good (also need to be aware of signs otherwise its gonna be weird). Anyway, lots of things depend on context. I wouldn't advice guys to ask if they can kiss a girl, cause 9 out of 10 times, they are going to do it in an insecure way, or will do when it is not appropiate and en…
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:33 PM
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I don't know much about all those terms you know and still managed to have success lol. And that is still my point, you are stuck on theory and terms, and no practical experience. Those experiences are what get you in the flow of an actor. Reading the script once or infinitely without rehearse is nothing
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:09 PM
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Well, the fact that you say you don't go for girls who aren't pretty, could be the same case for you. And i'm not talking just about physical attractiveness, your attitude could be the issue. Just following PUA artists is like an actor making huge efforts to remember the lines to say, instead of living the moment and performing.
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:47 PM
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Also, you don't need to confess to women. Leave that to them (ask for exclusivity, getting into a relationship, asking to marry). Your actions are what speak for you. You should give lover vibes, not gay friend vibe. Well, dont worry, most of us have fucked up like this before. Just learn and apply
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:37 PM
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You acted clueless as fuck. Never made any move (and thats something every comment has told you, and you refuse to acknowledge). She was interested in you until you showed how clueless you are. Making a Move is on you, not her. About her not telling you, it is because she owes you nothing, specially since you never made any move. Another guy(s) shoot their shot and seduced her properly, instead of just being the emotional tampon (your approach). Next time, make your move, first date should end o…
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:17 PM
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But how much u wanted to wait for her to make the move? Lol. 2 years for a kiss? Any sexual tension, you dissipated it by being clueless. Next time, its up to you make the move, not her
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:05 PM
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Its up to you to decide if you take her back or not. But keep in mind that any women will disappear if you act needy (and clearly you have been) if you want to hate all women, then yeah, maybe you are fine. You dont need to change how you treat women, because thats how you got to the 2 months, but you also need to learn to give them space for her feelings to develop deeply (something you didnt do).
/r/seduction26/04/24 08:35 PM
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There's a dude that got upvoted a lot. It's not that you were the first treating her well and that she needed to get cheated on. First, you should not listen to that kind of hate speech. Why she distanced? Dude, she has been honest with you. She said she needs space = you are smothering me. And it can be proven with the fact that you asked her to be exclusive. Hopefully this situation leaves you a life lesson: NEVER ASK A WOMAN TO BE EXCLUSIVE OR IN A RELATIONSHIP. Women aren't stupid, if she ha…
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:44 PM
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I feel it is mostly you overthinking. A shit test is to show you are cool with stuff, but a girlfriend wont shit test saying she hooked up with another guy lol
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:36 AM
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Been there, done that. What worked was creating distance, moving on and being indifferent of her presence. Sometimes it could take her a few days, a couple of weeks or even months. Idont know if its vibrational lol, but the moment you start "forgetting" about her, is when she comes. All you need to do is set a date asap, dont engage in too much chitchat. If she is unsure, busy or whatever, it means you should just turn down your offer, tell her to reach out when she has sxhedule clearer, and go …
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:41 PM
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Nice job dude! Regardless of the rejection, you made your move and now she is aware of your intentions. I don't know if it was the moment, don't know how she 'feels' the date went or if she isn't that attracted to you, but what is certain is that you saved time and money haha, if she reaches out anytime, great, if not i wouldn't mind about her in the future. if she reaches out, say its great to hear from her and ask her to hang out.
/r/seduction25/03/24 10:34 PM
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How is it possible to have a specific moment, nobody knows how the date will go lol. Usually you are gonna feel the vibe, and she will aswell, its just that you need to take the initiative. When you are feeling it, look into her eyes, then into her lips, the eyes again and go for it. Dont overthink stuff, it seems you are doing fine.
/r/seduction25/03/24 03:11 PM
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You don't need to add much info. You liked a girl, you asked her out, great. Go on the date, ask her stuff, make good conversation, tease, banter, make her feel comfortable, and go for the kiss! If you can go beyond the kiss good, if not, it is good anyway, the kiss tells her your intentions (not being friends)
/r/seduction25/03/24 02:17 PM
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Its not that words dont matter. Words are about having awareness of context. You could tell a girl "I love how you smell" and be a total creep or make her get aroused. What makes the difference is your attitude and how you convey what you want to say. Of course, words matter, you could start copying lines from PUA and start from there, but in the end you'd have to pick some that are appropiate to your style and context, or you just end up looking dumb or robotic or even worse, a creep.
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:13 AM
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Usually all you can do is to keep your distance. And when the person reaches out, set a date. Nothing you do(directly) will rebuild attraction. Only moving on with life has seemed to work for me.
/r/seduction20/02/24 02:31 AM
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I do that myself, it is just like practicing lol. You practice your body posture, your look, your smile. I don't know if there is any study, but it helps you to notice stuff and get better
/r/seduction04/08/23 01:42 AM
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It would be a little bit more interesting if you give 'good' advice
/r/seduction01/11/22 09:20 AM
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Better do in person(not during sex haha, afterwards or before is more appropiate) , and use the old classic 'what are we?' Not much else to add tbh.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:45 AM
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Reach out tomorrow or the day after. Theres no point in messaging right now when its halloween and i assume both of you have plans. Proceed to ask out asap, dont engage in too much chitchat
/r/seduction01/11/22 12:54 AM
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I think the issue is you are taking things out of context, i don't know if it's on purpose. If you associate having some confidence with being a jerk, i can tell you got it wrong. How many guys with no confidence have a girl? You could debate all you want, but that person had at least at little bit of confidence, even if it was just once that the stars aligned that day, but that girlfriend didnt appear in his life all of a sudden. How many guys without hitting the gym have gf? A lot, but it will…
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:29 PM
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What else could someone say? Invent a new language so you dont get butthurt. Maybe you could enlighten us by expanding our vocabularies
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:44 PM
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How this opening is that popular? Why do you want to ask for her number without even exchanging some words with her? Why is this hurry, you must to go somewhere? Uhh because I'm at work, and she's at work too. Obviously I'm gonna ask for her name, but I don't really wanna start chatting her up when she's a barista making coffee orders and It's not like I'm gonna wait like a creep for her to finish work y'know... I don't wanna hit on someone at their workplace where their coworkers are nearby.
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:29 PM
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I can't agree with what the other comment says. Did you mention having/not having sex? Bet it was her who brought it up. You putting the brakes its not that good as you may think. Generally avoid giving serious answers because saying 'i dont want to do it' its lying. Saying you just want to be friend is lying. A good way to handle that is just joke, you could say 'what? You trying to take advantage of me?' Or something like that. Trust me, you already kissing and touching and in every situation …
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:35 PM
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Well, if those 'dates' weren't dates because she assists to those activities frequently, why would you ask her if she is coming? That, is screaming PLEASE COME I NEED TO SEE YOU. If there's a big chance you'll meet again, let it happen naturally. She is not a random girl who you've met and possibly won't meet again. I don't know how old are both of you. What's making her feel 'safe'? To me that sounds very gay lol. Im not at your events so i dont know. But your goal shouldnt be 'be safe'. Your g…
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:44 PM
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By reading this comment I can see a trainwreck coming if you dont stop being so intense. Of course You should be asking out, who says you shouldnt? However, have you noticed that in like a week youve met like 4 times? Dont you have any other businesses? You are smothering her, thats why she is not texting you as much as she did Right now she knows all about you and you even asking if she is feeling somrthing when she kisses you. Thats not how woman fall in love. Give a step back, wait for a week…
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:07 PM
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Alright, there are a few nuances you'd have to have clear before going out. Is the girl in mention living by herself? You know her previously or you just met up. Does she live kinda close to you, and that kind of stuff. If you are sure she has her own place and you've fooled around before, its just as easy as saying 'hey, when are you free for a date, we could cook at your place and i'll bring some wine' or something like that. Or you could find a bar thats close to her home, have fun there and …
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:19 PM
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The date idea is good, best way for her to have a good memory of the first non drunk kiss. Women see most of these things like a romantic novel, so make sure to remember aswell how it did happen lol. By your responses i can see that the only roadblock is your mindset. Thinking about rejection and stuff. Bro, unless she makes it veeeery clear she doesn't want to, assume she is dying for it to happen and it will flow naturally.
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:35 PM
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Tip: Next time don't ask her what to do. You come with a plan. Instead of ice skating for like 4 hours, go there 1 hour, then move to a park or a bar or whatever is close, and stay there for a while. And of course the bringing a drink to the date is always easy to do. Of course if u can do it without alcohol, go ahead. There's not much hidden info, if she had never kissed you before you might want to see some signals, bjt youve already done that. Act as if she is already your woman. (Of course j…
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:09 PM
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If you feel alcohol helped you the first time, why not go to a bar again? Lol. Or atleast bring some beers for the date She already kissed you once, there's nothing new in doing it again. Not doing it is the way to be friendzoned, you didnt need her to have a sign written on her forehead 'Kiss me'. You just gotta grow a set of balls and do it! Don't hesitate, she is making it very easy for you, even more than most women you will ever meet, so don't fuck up
/r/seduction08/10/22 01:53 PM
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If you can't identify the tone of your comment, convincing you it's going to be nearly impossible. Anyway, gonna make just one effort. You are saying he shouldn't date before he has his own place because the girl will be uncomfortable and will waste her precious time and leave her to real men. You are downplaying him and making it seem as she is a goddess and he should just conform to nothing. This is a thread about seduction, not a thread about comfortably getting used to not risking anything a…
/r/seduction02/10/22 10:28 PM
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Please don't pay attention to this advice lol. Sounds kinda bitter. Just be you, and ask now.
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:41 PM
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I bet if you talked to your parents they wouldn't bother with you bringing someone home. Just be honest. Of course if its going to be a first date, its kinda difficult that you go straight home, maybe you are just going to be out. Thats a more possible thing for 2nd or 3rd date after hanging out And about when? The time to ask is now, just don't take that advice to the extreme. Start by asking out and setting dates maybe once a week, and see how it goes.
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:38 PM
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If you want to fuck her, there's no need to lie her or yourself about it. You can't be friends. If to both of you there's no chance of going beyond friendship, yeah, you can hang out and be friends
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:26 PM
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Haha this scenario is pretty funny. Some being harsh and telling you to ignore her, lots of butthurt people around here. You are on the way to being ghosted or friendzoned as you are keeping track of every little message. Who does this? Someone whos desperate and has no idea. Next time why don't you ask her out instead of just messaging endlessly. There's no shit test when all you have done is just message for a couple of days
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:44 PM
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To me it sounds like you are overpursuing. If you read your post as if it was from another guy you would tell you are all dopey about her. 8 weeks thats what usually takes women to want to be a couple or break it off. The whole, 'we've been talking everyday' it sounds as if you are always available. And if there's no mystery she wont feel anything. I could keep on and on, and say what youve been doing wrong. Just stay away until she reaches out, and ask her out. No more chitchat thru phone or co…
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:37 AM
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There's no issue with wanting to remain virgin, it's your values. I consider getting experience will be helpful but if thats not your thing, stick to your guns. Just don't go saying it openly. If you ever decide to date outside your religion, it might turn off women because they won't want to screw your virginity in case things dont develop further. And also, if you date a christian girl, don't say it either. It's not a fun topic and naturally women prefer being led by men (so if you don't have …
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:23 PM
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Thats why asking her out = taking the lead , his job Relationship = connecting, her job
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:08 PM
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Ask what? Ask for a date, yes Ask for relationship, no
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:39 PM
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I downvoted every comment of his. Just to make easier for OP and others, who not to listen. Maybe in your dream movies, asking to be your gf works, and its all bliss. Well, thats not real world and those scripts come from guys with little to no success in relationships. Just keep dating her until she wants to lock you down. Thats nature EDIT: of course keep dating is 'be concious about her likes and likes, see if you match' not just be blinded by sex lol. Getting into a relationship should be so…
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:39 PM
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All I can say is, dont listen to women advice lol. You see the disconnection between what she is saying she wants, vs what actually happens (getting more ghosted, at best friendzoned) Theres no logic with what she says, 'why you have to prove anything if she ghosted' exactly why waste your time. 'No one tries to swoon the lady' yea by being a creepy texter youre gonna make her fall in love. Of course he should swoon his lady, can you notice the difference? HIS lady. Theres no way you can swoon s…
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:30 PM
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Instead show you are the lowest of the low, it worked in a movie. He has already done his effort by texting and her not hitting back. Romance who? Someone who doesnt texts you back? I know the guy can do better than keep pushing for a pity fuck
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:15 PM
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Please don't do this.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:10 PM
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An outfit that fits your personality? Lots of celebrities you can imitate at first and then build based on what you think looks best
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:54 AM
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If it was a 100% set date. I wouldnt ask are we on? Maybe try messaging her the day of the date saying you are going to be late by 15 or 30 minutes. Saying that, you are making it clear for you or for her that you are still on, if she says its ok, its xonfirmed, if she brings some other thing, you know she wasnt still on lol
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:47 PM
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Who says he should hide his intentions? Problem is, talking about them usually brings nothing vs just acting. Like, you expect him to ask her what do you want? And she says oh i want just sex. Hahaha no way
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:01 PM
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I would advice against asking, she won't want to feel as if she is taking advantage (especially considering she is twice your age), its better that those things feel as if both of you went with the flow, and after they happen, you can just say you couldnt help but do it but you could tell she enjoyed it aswell. Much better approach than wait for her to admit it. Anyway, good luck and update us ;)
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:42 PM
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Direct as being funny, make eye contact and stuff like that, yea Direct as asking 'do you want to have sex?' Please no. Buy a couple of beers and give her one for the walk, notice how she behaves, she might touch you, look at you directly, if any of that happens, go for the kiss lol. Just look at her lips (just like the tv series, it works) and if she stares back at yours its 100% you should, and still if that doesnt happen, go for it boldly. Of course do that after youve connected for a while, …
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:16 PM
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Just ask her out instead of running in circles. In the form you are asking her stuff, its as if you are asking her for permission. Fckin ask her when she's free for a drink. And see what she says
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:45 PM
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Ask for phones subtly, so you can get more, rather than being locked with just 1 girl. Be friendly as everyone says
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:23 PM
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Still the same. A lot of guys swipe on everyone and she finally decides
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:32 PM
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Already took risk by asking out (?) I dont know if u got to read the guy case, but what u say might work if the girl rly rly got to know u and like u. Most girls wont ask for numbers really lol.
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:31 PM
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Lol using your first example definitely won't work. You'd have to be very desperate to ask someone out like that. If we start putting some funny situations we can stay here forever. I meant something in the lines of 'when are you free to get together?' Why would you show effort into thinking place time plan if you don't know what her answer will be, what if she says 'im not free that x day' you'll be asking for a yday until she says she is free? unless its something specific that was in the conv…
/r/seduction09/10/20 12:25 PM
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Why would he set a date time place if she hasnt accepted lol. Just ask for her availability and then proceed to plan
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:27 AM
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I like that you are bold but you gotta learn a proper way of showing that boldness. I doubt he would take your statement well, its as creepy as a guy saying it to a girl. Not trying to be mean btw just pointing facts. What I would suggest is just wait until he texts you back. If he doesnt he might be taken or took weird, anyway its not a big deal. Don't delete him, even if it was a bit of a shock, you spoke your truth and you shouldnt be embarassed of it, thats being honest to a fault and he mig…
/r/seduction22/09/20 02:26 AM
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A little bit of the casual just be you lol. Ask questions, that will open her and make her be comfortable. Find some fun activities to do while in there. And if the situation is great and both of u feel comfortable(kinda pay attention to how she interacts with you, her body language yoy obviously dont want to end up being a creep lol), you may go for the kiss. Tried to keep it simple, dont know if u needed some more indepth help but those are some things u should keep in mind
/r/seduction20/09/20 12:40 PM
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