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| 20 | I am a 40 years old and haven’t dated for 2 years and for the first time in my life, felt at peace with it.Bad ass! I was sold the lie to not do as well in sports--do not beat a man or he won't want you. Don't beat them at anything. Cannot be smarter. Cannot be more educated. Before I went to school for my own education, some dumb dumb therapist told me I intimidated men because I knew so much, my education, and that I had to "let men" do things for me so they felt useful in my life and that I should pretend to be less than. Be softer. Wear flowers. Close your mouth a bit more. Pretend to not be able… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 12:16 AM |
| 24 | I am a 40 years old and haven’t dated for 2 years and for the first time in my life, felt at peace with it.Longest response ever.You are not alone. Also, there are several therapists here. They are easier to spot when it is one of the degrees pursued in life. I am seeing honest to goodness posts that are straight out of motivational interviewing courses, and that is something that is learned. Many have posted about books to read as well, such as Why Does He Do That by Lundy B (excellent podcast on this channel by the way!), The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker, and the book, Anxious in Love. I am also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 12:03 AM |
| 80 | He called me a princessMen do this all the time! I've had men who I have barely known, who kept my contact info, over the course of YEARS (one was when I was contracted to work in tech almost a decade ago!) reach out to me during the pandemic. They all tried to get my info, ask for my LinkedIn or facebook (I refused). They also have asked me where I am living, and if I think I will be in their area visiting. What pieces of fucking shit. Block, delete. What a bunch of useless people. And these men are business owners s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 12:00 PM |
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