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FerrusMan/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 12:25 PM
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Red Pill TheoryFerrusMan/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:53 PM
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Oh it gets even better when they feel like you just turned one of them down for sex. Be very careful.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:20 PM
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There is some seriously good red pill action going on here, tons of good information. An excellent article, and yet 4 days with only 100 upvotes, with not a single comment by anybody endorsed, points, or whatever the fuck else is used these days. I would even say this qualifies for side bar material. It does a good job of explaining actions and behaviors, why they are, and how to deal with them. Good stuff keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:18 PM
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Grief comes out in strange ways, and often way after the fact. You've got to give yourself at least a year to deal with this, so cut yourself a little slack. Try and eat some, exercise some and take it day by day. You'll get there, it just takes time.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 01:54 PM
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Amen brother. I find myself visiting less and less, the quality of posts has gone downhill, it's infested with ignorant comments, upvoting and brigading, but mostly because the lack of real red pill posts and comments. Or maybe it's just too much noise. While this post has some good points, it just screams "dance to her tune" too much. That if you just make her have emotions enough, you have nothing to worry about. If an NFL quarterback moves next door to you, and decides he wants to plow your w…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 01:32 PM
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26 assholes upvote a jackass telling people that using psychelelics is a good thing. WTF
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 01:25 PM
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That's true it does depend on their awareness level.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 01:00 PM
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"She just needs to learn that I really am a nice guy, I just need to prove myself, that I'm not like all the other jerks out there. She's never dated a decent guy like me so it's no wonder that she's a little hesitant" Sadly, I actually thought that way back before being unplugged. Oh, to be able to go back in time and slap myself with some red pill knowledge. I don't think women loathe white knights, more like useful idiots. Great post btw
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:28 PM
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Like anything else in life, practice, practice, practice. Ever play a new sport, try a new hobby out? At first it's awkward, you are unsure of yourself. Given enough time and practice, it gets a lot easier and you are more confident. It's amazing how lucky you can be when you work hard at something.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:20 PM
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Who said anything about evil? And no, there are no exceptions to the rule. There are no unicorns. Once you accept that, then you can move on. You still believe in unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 03:07 PM
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"Now I am familiar with the expression don't shit where you eat" Now you understand why. It never ends good, one of you will end of leaving the company somehow.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 10:39 PM
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Balance and circle? Go abstract all you want, it's just going to ignore the truth of things.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 10:33 PM
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Yeah, and for someone who has red pill knowledge to make a statement like, "I have definitely not been cheated on", almost deserves the response, "go back and read the sidebar". He doesn't understand how far off the wagon that statement ruins whatever else he is about to say. It's a shame, because he's right about the red flags that women throw up. You just have to be able to see them, and calibrate.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 12:07 PM
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I feel your pain. I would like to say I have some answers for you, or that I can say something to give you a different perspective, but I don't think I can. I'm older and married, took the pill way later than you, but have pretty much come up with the same conclusions. The only good thing I can say is that as a woman ages, she's not subject to the same amount of interest, both by others and to others, but AWALT is still the law, and hypergamy never stops. I was not as low as you on the scale to …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:25 PM
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Welcome to one of many bitter aspects of taking the red pill. I've got good news for you, it gets worse! Not only are men cursed like you said, but all (in a general sense) woman will lie about it as well. We are taught from a very early age that women are looking for a good man who will love them and stand by them till they are old and grey, but what you aren't told, is that isn't the kind of man they want to sleep with. You are supposed to figure this out, or "just get it", when you have been …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 01:14 PM
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All depends on how it's framed I think.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:29 PM
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I've read this book, and yes it's amazing to read this section. First, you understand that you are looking into the mind of a genius, he actually worked on the manhatten project, and had discussions with einstein during his life. And you can clearly see his mind grasp the whole red pill concept, and much quicker than I did. He was clearly blue pilled at first, going by what his mother taught him (sound familiar?), and found himself frustrated with women. Listened to some advice by a red pill "fr…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:25 PM
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It's just like viruses and antivirus software. Virus writers are constantly trying to beat the system, and antivirus software writers are constantly updating their software to catch the new virus. Women are now aware of men being taught redpill knowledge. Their hindbrains are coming up with new ways to filter out alphas vs betas. The shit tests are just changing. They may say they hate men, but they still want to get laid by them. You can either be a breeder horse, or a draft horse, it's your de…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:13 PM
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What's fucked about everything, is that many woman are just as clueless and brainwashed as we are. Everyone is walking around bluepilled and dumbassed, and then when things go south we both stand there confused and frustrated, wondering why. " Because just typing this I can tell I seem like a lunatic who didn't appreciate what she had." You can tell she's close, but can't put her finger on it. Sound familiar? She may never learn the truth, that what she really wants is a dominant selfish man, bu…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 10:49 PM
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Nope, I'm long, long past that stage, son. Once again, you've made an incorrect assumption. I don't see the point in continuing this, as I'm guessing you don't either, so I will sign off on a good note. Whether it be family or friends, the real people that matter in life, are there when you need them. And lots of times you won't find that out until you are going through the nasty shit in life that we all experience unfortunately. People you think are rocks, disappear. And people who you just did…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 03:27 PM
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Yep. You talking about a personal problem with a girl, is like a a girl gaining 50 lbs instantly before your eyes - it's repulsive.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 04:50 AM
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You're missing the point, son.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 04:35 AM
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Oh I get it trust me. But keep this in mind, just like when a girl becomes more attracted to you when you show some backbone, family will often start to respect you when you stop being a doormat. (although it will get worse before it gets better) It may not be necessary to cut them off. But it's your life, and your decision to make.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:18 AM
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And sometimes when the chips are down, family is nowhere to be found. Everyone just assumes that everyone in life actually had decent parents who just made mistakes raising a blue pill young man. Maybe, just maybe you don't know everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:14 AM
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No sadly, this is not what will happen. You will have new people come to you for advice. Your old friends, will either become jealous and hate you, will drift away because they don't have anything in common, or will just feel bad about themselves when they see you improve, and are forced to look at themselves.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 12:29 PM
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I's important for the reason I just mentioned, they will despise you. The hindbrain controls, and if you think you can turn a woman down above you sexually, with zero repercussions good luck with that. Even at the workplace. Just throw a little beta out there. Ask questions of another man, show a little indecision, follow rules, as long as it's non-work related, like a hobby. You have to pretend like you "just don't get it". Just enough to make her wonder. You have to pull this off and still be …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 12:21 PM
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This is a red pill tenet by the way. A man can be refused by a woman no problem. (other than the sting of rejection) He moves on. A woman, however, will despise a man who clearly sexually rejects her. You can be offended all you want, but that's like being offended that women aren't sexually attracted to guys who "just be themselves" This gets really important later in life when you work with women in positions of power. There are ways to turn down women without clearly rejecting them.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:28 PM
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Agree 110%. Surprised this isn't voted up higher actually. It's also a good way to learn how to behave when you don't want to have sex with a woman, without causing her to despise you for it. Good practice, as it were. So as you progress, when the hottie at the company higher in employment status than you decides she wants you, you can turn her down without getting your ass fired by HR, or worse.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:19 PM
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Yep, among others as well. Occasional refresher is always good I think. I would much rather see these than the weekly "get out and lift" commercial. It's interesting because the light bulb went off in his head, he's figured it out and posts it. Even though yes, not really anything new, but it's classic and base trp knowledge. Now if we start seeing this every week, yeah no thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:11 PM
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You may be onto something with that line of thinking. Would certainly help with brigganding.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:04 PM
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The problem is that fat girls know they are unattractive, they are taught from a young age how to attract men. Deep down they know why, and are just too lazy to change themselves, but can still get the occasional lay now and then. You would be amazed how many fat girls can get cock. Betas however are taught to "just be fat" growing up, and most have no clue as to why they are unattractive. Until they end up here. 250,000 subscribers ladies, the truth is setting everyone free.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:26 PM
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There are other ways to move forward unburdened by negativity besides blankly forgiving people. If forgiving someone helps you with that, by all means keep doing it. But when the person you forgive, continues to do things that need forgiveness, you may want to consider plan b.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:17 PM
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But in that process of forgiving and accepting your parents, This is a bunch of horseshit, along with the "love your dad for who he is" crap. And it comes from society today where people are simply unwilling to judge. Let me frame it to you this way, in an extreme way, Does the father who sexually abuse his children deserve to be forgiven and "loved for who he was" ? Of course not. The only people who deserve to be forgiven, are those who have owned their mistakes and sought forgiveness. You don…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:05 PM
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However, the difficulty I experience in this community is a glaring difference between what is reality, and what is simply theory.<< This subreddit was created, as a way to explain reality to people who believe the "theories" they were taught growing up. You've got it backwards, this subreddit is the reality. The theories are what a lot of men are using out the in real world, and then end up here learning the truth of things.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 12:41 PM
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You're right, OP in that thread is just getting savaged, with his actual reasonable questions and comments. And crazily downvoted. It's not some giant long story either, basically a short paragraph that he wrote. Putting aside the commenters who are trolls, russians and neckbeards, you are left with women comments. And from a red pill perspective, this is a beta male standing up and fighting, and betas don't do that. She probably had a good reason to cheat, we just don't know it yet, but it most…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 12:30 PM
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Maybe the difference is that women tend to believe their own lies, that's why they do it so convincingly.<< I've never heard it put that way before, but you're right. I mean I always (since unplugged) knew that women lie without realizing they are lying, or without understanding that they are lying. But I always thought it was because they were unwilling to see the truth, that they had a viewpoint they just stuck with, that somehow, you could point out to them that see, this is a lie. But it's a…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 02:11 AM
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No he didn't pedestalize, he just held his fiance to the same standards that he exhibited with her, being honest with each other, like all plugged in men are taught growing up. And no, not everyone lies, contrary to some jackasses who think they know everything. Of course both men and women are capable of lying. Like you said, women are a LOT better at it. Because they are so much better at perceiving how men feel, when even the men they are talking to have no clue how they feel themselves!
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 08:50 PM
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So much for the bullshit about her being your best friend and all, right? That you two can tell each other anything? Ha! Sure you can be best friends, and you can tell her anything, but she won't want to fuck you anymore. Or when she is, she'll be thinking about Chad doing her. Sorry, but at least you weren't married with kids, you know? Not that it's any consolation right now, but at least now you know the truth.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 10:20 PM
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Thank God. Thank fucking god. Truth be told the signal to noise ratio has been brutal. Upvotes don't mean a thing, at least the briganding going on by commenters is so obvious that even I can see it. I've reached the point where if I see an actual red pill post or comment I feel like I've found this nugget in a mountain of stuff. Not manure, but stuff. Every now and then I find one good enough to keep me coming back, but it gets tougher and tougher. This is just what this sub needed.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 10:22 AM
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The peasant who decides to revolt, even if peaceful, will always be slapped down, hard. You will see this even as a grown man. We are still part of the animal kingdom, and there is always a pecking order. Most people don't even realize it, and justify shitty behavior because of it. The world is full of crappy people, even here in this thread...you can't control them, but you can control your reaction to them. You can allow your buttons to be pushed by some moron on the internet, or realize it's …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 02:38 PM
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That kind of proves my point. If I excel at a physical sport, I will have women interested in me, without saying a word. The act itself is physically attractive. The act of playing a video game? You are absolutely right, you need frame to counterbalance it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:05 PM
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It's a facet of AWALT that I've never really considered, but it really sums up the whole philosophy of, not what AWALT is, but how to deal with it. What is AWALT? All women are like that. It means that all women are hypergamous, and have the potential to cheat on you when Alpha Chad Thundercock has higher SMV than you, and he starts whispering in your woman's ear. The post here that you made, really puts it all in perspective. The likely outcome of what AWALT really means. So yeah, plan on it ha…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:28 PM
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Bullshit? You think playing xbox for hours on end is attractive to a woman, because you are passionate about it? You are living in a dreamworld. I know you don't believe me, but don't take my word for it. Watch a woman's actions and you'll see for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:03 PM
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Why oh why didn't I take the blue pill instead...just kidding of course. It's a very bitter pill, in more ways than one.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 12:57 PM
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I'm sure there are nfl players who play video games, and have plenty of women throwing themselves at them. The point is, if you are here, learning red pill, you aren't one of those guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 12:55 PM
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Yeah the problem is that blue pill stuff is so potent. One blue pill activity can counter half a dozen red pill displays.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:28 PM
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And then you unplugged and the world turned upside down. Except, when you learned the new rules, they actually worked like people said they would. I still remember, twice, actually putting my hand up to my mouth to close it because I was afraid it flew open in stunned amazement when a red pill philosophy worked on my wife.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:23 PM
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The problem is you have to understand why it happened, or it will repeat itself again, and again, and again...
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:20 PM
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A good reminder, neediness is never a good thing, ever, in any relationship (men or women). A wild animal never feels sorry for itself.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:18 PM
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Because society has been trying to teach boys growing up that being needy is what women want. "Your wife is your best friend", ie you can talk about anything with her. Is just one example. School boys, when standing up to a bully in school, get in just as much trouble as the bully. Another example. "Men don't talk about their feelings"...becomes "where have the real men gone?" Now we have a bunch of confused men AND women who are sexually frustrated, and they don't know why. But we do, thanks to…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:13 PM
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It's on the sidebar, and I would suggest you read the material there for some good info.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:09 PM
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Simply put, a man playing video games is not sexually attractive to a woman. You can play them, you can play them all you want, just don't do them in front of your woman. A woman watching a man play video games is like a man watching a woman eating big macs. It's that repulsive. It's how the sexual dynamics work. And I love playing video games.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:07 PM
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It wasn't a serious comment, that's why the :-) was at the end.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 09:59 PM
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Isn't it great? Especially when you consider that the reason you had to unplug, is probably because of your family and how they raised you. Remember that family members, more than anyone else in life, know how to push your buttons. They will always try, but the power is within you, because they can only push your buttons if you LET THEM. When you stop and think about this, and watch them go to ridiculous extremes trying to push your buttons, it can get funny actually. Maintain your frame, and us…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:57 PM
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Yes go spend time with your family. You know, the ones who raised you to be blue pill, because that's why you are here. What better way to spend christmas than being around blue pilled plugged in people, right? Merry Christmas you fucks! :-)
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 02:12 PM
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It's a great read, and you are right, a very good picture of unrestrained hypergamy. Sadly, this is exactly how society is telling young women to live their lives. You can have it all, sleep around like men and you'll be happy. Instead you become emotionally wrecked, and unable to pair bond. No older grandmas to give them some much needed advice because too many families live hundreds of miles apart. And besides, the older grandmas who actually have good advice have been vilified and mocked by t…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 02:56 PM
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" and why doesn't she want to have sex more often with me?" Because you keep exhibiting beta behaviors, hence the revulsion she feels towards you. Stop showing those behaviors and you will see desire come back. The problem is, it's going to take time because she is so used to your beta ways, her mind will think it's just a fluke. "but her inner evaluation of what kind of sex she thinks you deserve will never change." Bullshit it can change just fine. It takes time though. The real question is, d…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 04:30 PM
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It's the justifying part that really sends you down the rabbit hole. Especially when you have time to consider what is said, as they justify it. "it's not your fault if he's dumb enough to do it" This said after he left, but at the time interacting with him she was fun-loving, smiling and just a happy person, right? Be very, very glad you saw this, because it doesn't happen often. I've seen it, but never interacting myself. It's always been when a group of women are talking, and they think like …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 03:32 PM
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Pff, join the club. If it isn't downvoted, it's a carefully crafted reply that doesn't even get a thank you. Now I'm not a millionaire, but I don't owe anybody a cent at this stage. Don't worry about the downvotes, there are so many blue pills and women here these days I don't pay any attention to the votes, and haven't actually for quite some time. There are lots of great comments in trp, sitting with 1 whole point. The smart people carefully read through them and use their fucking brains hopef…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 09:06 PM
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Yes it's very concerning to me. This whole metoo thing is almost like a strike back against red pill knowledge. You betas think you can pretend to be an alpha? Well watch out we are prosecuting now and destroying lives. It's almost a giant shit test, because anybody who gives them tingles now really doesn't give a fuck and has some kind of bad boy streak. Because anybody sane now realizes what can be lost by just using sexual play that women crave from men! Don't even get me started about the ra…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:00 AM
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Yep, it ain't fucking fair is it? So much for the bullshit lie about best friends right? No it's best friends as long as she has the feels for you. Sorry to hear about your dad, this will be tough to get through. Remember what you were taught is a lie...instead you really can't show weakness in front of a female. We handle our problems, we don't talk about them, especially when the problems are really hard. It's just how women are wired up. It's fucked up, wrong, and disappointing as hell, but i…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:39 PM
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The thing to remember is this: One of the equalizers in life, is that we all have problems. Doesn't matter how rich you are, good looking, famous or anything, we are all given problems in life to deal with, and they never come in the way that's easy to handle. Ever. Your buddy Chad has problems too. One of them being women just look at him for sex, they could care less about the person inside. Such a problem to have right? When woman after woman cheats on her boyfriend, husband, etc it will real…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 01:57 PM
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They're not lying Noobs are angry they are being lied to, because they ARE being lied to! Hence the justified anger that happens. Whether a woman believes she is telling the truth or not, does not negate the fact that she is lying to her husband or boyfriend. What they believe, does not matter. And you know what, a lot of women lie all the time, and know it. And they assume everyone else in life, men included, think the same way. I'm not trying to convince you of this, but I would invite you to …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:35 PM
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Isn't life grand? You got a twofor.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:17 PM
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Well, THAT'S a loaded question. You know, back in the day, certain friends of mine were known to participate in a certain contest...one guy in particular would win these things "hands down", as voted on by other participants! And he was the best looking guy in the bunch, which having learned red pill makes more sense now. Nothing to do with op's wife, just in general.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 12:25 AM
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"they were just having a good time" I think you're making a bunch of assumptions here, wild guesses actually, only you try and make it sound like you know exactly what happened. Which is bullshit. Were they hitting on his wife? could very well be. They could also have been drunks just having fun as well. Hard to tell really, but if the guy felt like his wife was being chatted up, she probably was. Did she smile at him first though, to see if she "still had it".
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 08:19 PM
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So, the reason women have more orgasms during rape, than having sex with their husbands, is because the rapists are better at having sex? Are you really trying to say that? Oh yes, clearly the rapist is not "most likely only caring about his own sexual needs", that part as well. Good luck troll.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 04:12 PM
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My young son gets into what is a very RP debate with one of the moms<< I think you need to have a sit down with him over this, and how much of a waste of time this is for both him and whoever he is arguing/talking with. A good life lesson on what happens when you argue with idiots, or how you cannot convince someone about red pill. (they have to discover it themselves more or less) The other thing, you are allowing your frame to be broken when surrounded by the beta party. Agree and amplify is t…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 03:35 PM
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The thing is, what percentage of these women actually threw themselves at him, in the hopes of fame and wealth? Since everyone knew this was a "problem" with the Harv, you know damn well he had womens giving him hand jobs and blow jobs with the ( unspoken even ?) expectation of help with their career. Right? Now that the cat is out of the bag, naturally everyone is raped. A lot of them knew what was happening after time. A lot of them knew what "going to meet in a hotel room" was all about. I ha…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 12:45 PM
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Indeed, you start saying the word no, and people react like you are dropping f bombs left and right, the harsh reaction is unbelievable! Once I learned to expect it, I was able to manage my own reactions much better. You have to be prepared to walk away from relationships. What I found is that yes there may be a period of less friends, but you will find yourself making new friends, people who just don't want to be friends with you because of what kind of servant tasks you do for them.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:38 PM
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In a way, yes. The women will "shit test" him to ensure that he is a powerful one, one worthy of having his seed in her for good genes. Or, to put it in today's civilized terms, "something happened"... Why does a bird fly south for the winter? How does it know? Instinct, or genes that have been imprinted by random mutations? But the birds that fly south, survive to live and procreate. The other birds that stay north die off, and do not have future generations. What's left are birds that fly sout…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:31 PM
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I see animals...they're everywhere...THEY DON'T KNOW THEY ARE ANIMALS. Very clever animals, mind you, the cleverest of all, but yet... It's almost like the walking dead. I slather on my zombie guts and walk around pretending to be an animal, in order to live my life now. I have never actually put on zombie guts, mind you, but I imagine it would feel the same. Because if I reveal my true self, an empathetic, compassionate human being who believes all people should be treated fairly and equally, w…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 12:52 PM
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Welcome to the next level of the rabbit hole, Alice! And I've got good news, it only gets weirder as you go down further! Yes young padawan, what you are experiencing is completely normal, unfortunately. Already many good replies here, crab mentality a big one. It will take you some time to process this phenomenon, just like it did when you first became unplugged, but rest assured you will process it. If you can survive being unplugged, you can survive all levels of this rabbit hole. You may not…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 01:03 PM
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Yep me too. And I look back now and realize how some very few older guys tried to do the same with me, but I never caught it. It's kind of like showing someone one of those illusions on paper only you can't see it. What I do now is throw out a single reference, and never mention it again. Say for example, "do you know what a woman's shit test is? No? You should google it." I keep waiting for someone to talk to me at some point in the future, but none have yet.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 12:50 PM
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Sorry to hear about your predicament, wish I could give you some advice but have none. I guess just try and live your life as an example of how someone who is dying from cancer should live, set an example for others to follow. At the end of it I would think you want to look back and be proud of how you conducted yourself. I hear you on the friends disappearing, that's normal unfortunately. But sucks up the ass. Never had cancer, but have had some horrible experiences, and people you thought were…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 01:32 PM
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There are a bunch of essays here with less than 50 votes, that have very strong red pill knowledge and advice. I learned a long time ago to ignore the upvote count, it may or may not be accurate. Sometimes it's just a popularity vote.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:34 PM
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Yep, and then you watch all the blue pilled matrix people make all their mistakes, and there's nothing you can do to help them.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:22 PM
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The other thing is, and I'm upset with myself for forgetting this, to view things from both sides of the sexual attraction lens. As a general rule, a woman will judge a man based on her sexual attraction to him. So, Brad Pitt in his prime decides to have a discussion like above, how do the women react? Probably half hearted claws, but all secretly competing with each other for his affections. Probably he would never have this discussion, just make small jokes about it. And for brad pitt just ins…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 02:00 PM
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That's a good way to put it, and also makes it easier to see why dishonesty is so prevalent with women.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 01:53 PM
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The goal was never to change society. The goal was to teach Beta males to maintain eye contact and stop finger fucking their god damn pockets. However in our quest to get beta males to unfuck themselves we stumbled upon the horrific unspeakable truth of human sexual dynamics. << This is exactly how I felt when I figured it out. OMG, women aren't attracted to jerks in spite of the fact they are jerks, they are attracted to jerks because they are jerks. Can they really be so shallow? Are they real…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 01:08 PM
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Oh I've dared, got the scratches, blood and tattered ears to show for it when the claws come out. One thing I have learned is to remember a woman will always try and press your buttons, and say some pretty nasty things to achieve it. I guess I just kind of thought that, if the majority of men had some basic red pill knowledge, how important leadership was, not complaining about problems, etc you know 101 stuff, both men and women would be happier. But it really wouldn't happen, would it? They wo…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 12:45 PM
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Happier yes..... but it does mean less beta bucks / emotional support / marriage for women which is why they hate it so much.<< That's not a bad point. Dark, but you may very well be right. Have to ponder that one a while.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 08:59 PM
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Ever watch the nature films, when the dominant deer/elk is off fighting another potential dominant male animal, and the little beta males try and sneak in and fuck the female? It's the same bullshit, nothing personal about you or her even. There's a lot of humans running around not much above animal level of interaction. Wors of it is, they don't even realize it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 08:56 PM
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You have to understand that lots and lots of people here are still in the anger phase, so it doesn't take much to trigger stuff. Best thing to do is just assume, "anger phase", and ignore it and move on. Sometimes they don't even know it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:52 PM
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The end result being guys like us, who live a portion of their lives, some of them many years, going through the proper motions and behaviors, doing exactly as we were taught, only to wind up confused and depressed because we are clearly seeing plenty of women having sex, only it wasn't with us. Something is wrong but you just can't put your finger on it. Until you manage to luck out and find red pill knowledge. The really weird part about it, both men and women, as in society in general, are mu…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:38 PM
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That's the key thing, we have natures as well, but we control them. At least better than women. Those of us here didn't learn shit about red pill knowledge, but we all learned at a young age, "don't let the little head think for the big head". It was very hard for me to come to grips with the fact that girls growing up are not taught the same thing, at all. In fact the opposite is promoted.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:27 PM
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If they ever met a male "friend" while on vacation. Friend being the key word here, in whatever scenario.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:22 PM
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ok, here is what my take is on this thing. And it really doesn't have as much to do with red pill as normal fucked up human psychology. I'm not a psychologist by the way, just a critical thinker. When someone makes a change for themselves, a significant one to improve, they are forcing all of the people in their circle of "friends" to stop and look at themselves, and those people won't be able to handle it. The alcoholic's wife, upon watching her husband become sober, will often divorce him. She…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 04:03 PM
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"Actions Not Words" for those about to google this
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:23 PM
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You are right, they won't realize it themselves. But they will no longer feel attracted to you, because subconsciously you are looking beta in their eyes. And it's not woman hatred, it's the truth of how things work.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:21 PM
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Yep, you might as well just tell her, "I'm beta". I think it's like a girl you are interested in, telling you how much she loves eating twinkies and can't stop. End result = revulsion.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:17 PM
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Disagree on this, somewhat. It is very likely for a "dickhead" to be an alpha. Some people call a dickhead a jerk, you know? And there are plenty of jerks getting laid...kind of depends what your definition of dickhead is. But, without a doubt, not all alphas are dickheads, and some indeed are opposite.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:11 PM
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Agreed, same has happened with me. The only thing you can do is kind of hint there is a red pill out there, and let them find it for themselves...like mention it once, and only once, in passing so to speak. And honestly I barely even do that these days, it almost seems like too much. You almost have to hit bottom, yourself, in order to finally accept the truth.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 02:08 PM
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Yep, maybe even worse. "the future is female", is basically a shirt saying, "I fail all shit tests, go ahead and try me if you want to laugh"...or "I'm proud to be beta"
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 02:40 PM
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It's not even his fault, he's just one of a huge percentage of us who were taught everything wrong growing up, by the adults close to him. The worst part of it is, we can't even help him - he has to find this place (answers, manual, whatever you want to call it), himself.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 02:35 PM
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Thanks for the laugh you gave me when I read your comment, I down voted you accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 02:31 PM
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Notice how this is standard feminist advice. That's because women (and their slave beta males) don't actually care about making a man successful. They're subconsciously trying to create a bigger pool of neutered weak men to supply them with all the benefits of an orbiter. It's an evolutionary strategy - weed out the weak, and then fuck the strong men who refuse to bow down.<< I think it's more like this: Women subconsciously realize that when giving out "advice", they have already classified the…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 12:12 AM
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No, but if women would get hot over moral and honest men, you would see crime rates plummet faster than a turd loaded with lead.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 12:11 PM
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"because they are not fully self aware"... Some of course are not self aware, these are the ones that "don't know what they want" so to speak. But a significant portion of them do, and will never tell you the truth. The fact that you are asking a woman how to score a goal automatically puts you into beta status, and you instantly become a sub-standard male, and she's just lost respect for you. Maybe she'll give you information, maybe not, but it's kind of like telling the 5' tall guy just practi…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 12:01 PM
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Well, I don't think it's been clearly and summarily explained just like you did in 2 sentences! I read that and thought, man that guy just hit the nail straight on the head. btw, it also explains why women are so quick to be the victim.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 11:53 AM
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Seems like we all learn this the hard way. Comes from being lied to growing up on how the real world works. The nice thing that happens is that there are women out there that will come to realize that you can't be treated like a tool, and instead treat you with some respect. But you can never, ever, let your guard down. Because that can turn in one hell of a hurry. Maintain your frame, and good luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:40 PM
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8 guys at 22 isn't that bad? Yikes.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:16 PM
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I disagree with the idea that faking confidence is bad. On the contrary faking confidence is a great way to learn to be confident. Practicing how confident men behave, speaking slowly and clearly vs rushing out your words, taking your time to do things vs hurrying, actually help you become more confident. That's how confident men act, it's an air that is projected. It can be learned by practicing. Saying that "faking confidence" is bad for some reason sounds to me almost like "just be yourself".…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:16 PM
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Probably because it has the smell of self-promotion a little too strong. "I have a great program", complete with website link. Also because he tries to simplify/boil everything down to confidence and male dominance. Which do in fact have a large part. But saying you need to be more dominant isn't really helpful. You have to explain what dominance is, how those traits are expressed and so on. The same goes with confidence. You need to be more confident, but without explaining how. Instead you get…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:10 PM
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Your 2nd bullet point about talking to others about hobbies, etc, basically their life away from work...that can be a tricky topic. If you are above them, or have influence with people above them, which you probably do as you are in the finance section, then people can be hesitant to talk about anything that they find more motivating and fulfilling than work. They will get fired up and passionate and it will have nothing to do with their job, it just doesn't look good politically. Not saying it'…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 12:21 PM
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The world is full of women who have a career, or older women who have a career, and still fuck random dudes they meet at bars. "the good ones will appear", is pretty blue pill. All women are capable of cheating due to AWALT and hypergamy. But then if you really understood red pill, I would have to explain these basic tenets to you.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 04:58 PM
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Very good finalFLAASH, you just made your first real step, the biggest, toughest one to take. It gets easier from here, but it doesn't get easy...for the most part. You are about to come to a whole bunch of realizations, all of which will make your life better as you learn more. Money is important yes, it gives you freedom more than anything...but don't become a slave to it. Manage your financials carefully, and make decisions for the long run. Take care of your body, being healthy really does w…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 04:47 PM
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That's not what he's saying. He's saying a woman will be a complete slut to the man she is attracted to. It might be you are your neighbor when she decides she needs to borrow a cup of flour for a recipe and suddenly ran out. Then, "something happened". Hypergamy and all that.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 03:34 PM
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"Kinda feels immoral to/act in ways that women find attractive. " Yes I found this as well. I have a strong moral compass, and when I unplugged the whole world flipped upside down for me. Understanding that women aren't attracted to bad boys in spite of that, they are attracted to bad boys BECAUSE of that. (being bad) One of many red pill examples. You aren't alone in dealing with this.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 03:23 PM
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The sluts never fall to the side, and women who have careers will definitely look to fuck random dudes, because of the laws of hypergamy. AWALT as well. The idea that she will "grow out of it", that's pretty blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 03:18 PM
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The red flags that were missed by the husband: 1) She's bored. That one is huge, and I have no doubts that these were telegraphed to him somehow. 2) Going out with friends without him. Essentially a girls night out more or less. Happily married wives don't do this on a regular basis. Yeah he was alpha as fuck all, but he was lacking in red pill knowledge. And when he stopped getting in fights, because he became a father and realized that was fucking stupid when you have lives depending on you, h…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:22 PM
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WAS, I think is the word here. At least in her eyes, which really is all that matters for this story. Somehow, he managed to become beta. (we all know how of course) You know how some cops live very alpha lives, and yet at home become beta guys? Kind of same thing here I would say. As soon as I read the part at the beginning where he was a man who got into fights, and it really turned her on, I knew it was only a matter of time. Because when you become a father and have lives depending on you, y…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:15 PM
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It's not really about treating a woman like she is beneath you, it's about being the leader. And guys on here have no issues finding good women, once they have learned red pill knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 11:04 AM
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"Be yourself be confident and when the right person comes along treat them like they're perfect and they'll treat you just as well in return. Acting like a jerk will get you nowhere." What you don't realize is that all men here followed that exact advice, taught to them by everyone female (and even male) in their lives growing up. They ended up here because they saw too many jerks getting laid, and realized something isn't right in the world. You are still young in your relationship, talk to us …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:56 AM
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Welcome to the club, we all made them.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:49 AM
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sociopath, sociopathic, extremely misguided, can't even function as a human being. With all of those insults, do you really think anyone cares about your reply?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:48 AM
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Indeed, and nearly all of us here at red pill are from that latter part of that statement.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:36 AM
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No, it's really not about "not acting like a servile kid with Asperger's." The fact of life is this: Women aren't sexually attracted to men who treat them as equals. It's just as simple, and brutal, as that. You can pretend it's not true just like you can pretend the sun doesn't rise in the east. That doesn't mean women want to be treated as a slave, but it does mean that women want men to be the leader.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:35 AM
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It's a decision we all have to make in life. Or at least some of us. Do I choose to be the altruistic man, successful in many areas except getting laid, or do I choose to be selfish, having less friends and less people saying nice things about me, but able to drop my pants and have a nice blowjob when I want it. Because rest assured, the altruistic man is not getting blowjobs whenever he wants them. I think most of us pick somewhere inbetween.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:30 AM
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"Be yourself" Classic typical bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:26 AM
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Yeah that's pretty good actually I like that.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 10:19 AM
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A lot of men were taught growing up, "treat others as you want to be treated". A man wants to be treated like he is special from a woman, so he therefore treats her like she is special. And then sits there confused and hurt when he finds out she has been eagerly sucking Chad to completion and doing anal while she's told him she's not "comfortable" with those things. A man who treats a woman like she is perfect is putting her above himself on a pedestal, and has just relegated his own status to s…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:32 PM
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I had the same thought as well. Seems like a percentage of people here think that looking out for yourself and shitting on everyone else is some kind of goal to achieve as part of taking the red pill. You what though? If you take the morality out of the equation, and look at it from a strictly sexual attractiveness point of view, the selfish man who shits on others will make women wet left and right, while the altruistic man makes women dry up like a Sahara desert. It's a hard thing to accept, b…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:20 PM
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A good article, and I learned something as well. I never put it in perspective of paying to see their true character, that's a good thing to apply to more than just money. Another way that I've found to help with "situations", is to flip the sides around. If I had to ask for money, and my friend loaned me some, how would I act, behave and what would I say? When you see your so called friend behave so far off the scale in the other end, that's when you realize how how little of a friend he is. Of…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 09:10 PM
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Congrats OP on your experience, it's a good feeling to realize you've stepped up from beta hell. Don't mind some of these haters, all it takes to bring them out is a story of success. A very strong way for a woman to change her view of you from beta to alpha is to witness other women attracted to you. It is by no means a guaranteed way, but it clearly tips the scales.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 07:19 PM
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Don't agree with this. If, however, one of them had made some kind of move and he rejected it, not only would he have been friendzoned, but possibly even despised for it. Have to say I was wondering if he did myself, seems like the opportunity was surely there for it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 07:12 PM
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Very true. Would have liked to have him for a teacher years ago as well. It isn't just about working hard, that isn't enough. You also have to work smartly.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 05:38 PM
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Yeah it's great to have those problems. I make a friend with a married guy, and I know it's only a matter of time before his wife hits on me, usually in front of him no less. And there goes the friendship. Fucking awesome. And no, I haven't gone down that road, but sometimes when I'm really bothered by it I wonder if I should have because the end was going to be the same anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 05:34 PM
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It's just a matter of putting some beta back into your behavior. But be careful, a little beta goes a long way. It's potent shit!
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 05:25 PM
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it's just the way of the world, only most of us were never taught this until we came here. There is a "pecking order" in all of nature, whether it's wolves, gorillas, and of course chickens. And we are a lot closer to animals than most of us want to admit. Only humans can be much more vicious. Not only do people want to slap you down when you try to "rise above your station", they will slap twice as hard and as long in order to prevent it from happening again. Ignoring these people is a good fir…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 05:22 PM
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Yes unfortunately that has been the case from what I see. They won't stop, and you'll have to let most of them go. I think it's because they see you improving yourself, and it forces them to look at themselves, and they just can't handle it. They would rather attack you, and put you back in your place, than improve their own self.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 04:58 PM
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This is a great comment, and you should really consider writing a post along these lines. Making a list of people in your life and going over it is just brilliant, I wish I would have thought of that years ago when I became unplugged. Because when you begin cutting people out of your life, ones you have known for a long time and should have been cut out years ago, you will feel guilty because of your blue pill training. And with the assessment you have made, you know you are making these decisio…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 05:15 PM
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"I tried saving his depressed beta ass but again I had "chauvinistic" ideals." You pretty much cannot give the red pill to men, they almost have to discover it themselves. At best, one hint to them that there is red pill out there, and never mention it again unless they say something. The very few people I have mentioned it to have never said anything to me. Also, as you develop yourself into a better man, others will view you as climbing above your station in life, and will try and slap you bac…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 05:05 PM
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I used to have the exact same opinion.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:37 PM
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There's an edit to my post for not getting back sooner. Cannot go into details because of doxing. And your crazy shit comment isn't worth replying too anymore.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:36 PM
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Yes in an LTR, you have to run game 24x7. It takes some getting used to, and great discipline, but it is certainly possible. Eventually you reach a point where it just becomes natural. Don't beat yourself up too bad, we've all been there.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 10:01 AM
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"Whenever I see a man holding a door he smells like a bitch to me." And there you have it! This is why women do not thank men who hold the door open for them. (aside from some people who are just oblivious)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:53 AM
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I never thought about this, but I think you are right. (men holding door open more for me than women)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:52 AM
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Being a good citizen, and being sexually attractive to women are very often not the same thing in today's world.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:50 AM
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You are a woman aren't you?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:49 AM
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In today's world I completely agree. It wasn't until I started experimenting around with this though that I believed it. It just seemed impossible, but results don't lie.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:48 AM
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What's really sad is that you probably sparked some interest from her in you. (he's not like most guys)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:47 AM
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Not really. But it dawned on me that I have changed my behavior and didn't realize it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:45 AM
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I know can you imagine, I actually like to think before acting.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:44 AM
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This is pretty much my assessment as well. I actually enjoy holding doors open for "elderly" women, because they truly appreciate it, not same fake thank you like a queen will give a servant.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:44 AM
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If others do not value my time helping them, why should I invest it in them?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:42 AM
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The one thing I forgot to mention, was that if a woman is already sexually attracted to you, she will say thanks, smile etc. And probably hoping that you are interested in her. (think of brad pitt out of blue holding a door open for a woman) But enough beta behaviors, like holding the door open, and the "weather" will be like a sahara desert, very dry. Apologies for the late reply, sometimes real life causes things to happen.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:40 AM
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Yes, I have committed the horrible crime of not holding doors open anymore for women. You're right, I should go to counseling.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:36 AM
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You are confusing being alpha as being a decent a human being. The truth is that being alpha and being decent are very often opposite. If someone holds a door open for someone else, "common courtesy" would be a thanks, a nod, a smile, something. I'm not pining for affection, or admiration. In fact I even understand that some people have bad days and just forget to say thanks. I just don't hold the door open anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:34 AM
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99/100 males would say thanks. Not women. And no, I don't have a study, just my life experience. And I'm sure the women in whatever study you found are all 100% honest, because as we know, women are always 100% honest in what they say...
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:30 AM
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If someone holds the door open for me, I say thanks, regardless of gender. Your other comments, although colorful, are just bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:29 AM
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Back when I held the door open more often, I used to say "your welcome" after being ignored for doing a nice gesture. Where do you buy these bunnies :-)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:26 AM
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You are right, there is a huge difference in being nice vs being kind. But most women today just lump kind guys into nice guys, the evidence of this is the number of women I have held the door open for in the past, without even a word of thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:24 AM
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The problem is that being courteous to others, and having good manners, is viewed as being weak by most women in america. Which as we all know is not attractive.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:23 AM
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Actually being alpha and being a douche can be one and the same. Have a nice day with your "shit" comment LOL.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:22 AM
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You are screwed either way. Doesn't spend money on wedding, divorce ensues, it's your fault. Spends money on wedding, regrets after, feels like a fool any time he is around you. A one time advice to not spend that kind of money might work. But even then you get screwed because you didn't convince him enough.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:23 PM
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Actually there are plenty of men out there who would be perfectly happy being married to and having sex with one woman. The same cannot be said vice versa, as many have learned the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:21 PM
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"Cheating" was not only possible, but was happening left and right. Genetic dna proves it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:09 PM
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Yep. This short comment has a ton of red pill knowledge in it. I've read pages of posts that can't even come close to describing how it works like you just did. She looks to you to be the leader. If you won't lead she'll find somebody else. And leaders aren't afraid to make their subordinates angry sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 11:32 AM
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"Cheating makes me feel alive!" Unless I get caught. Then I never meant for this to happen.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:35 PM
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I know someone who lost his virginity, and from that one experience won the grand prize of venereal warts. So yes, the n-count sort of applies to her partners as well. I knew that girl too, and you would never suspect it. She just seemed too nice. One of many lessons in AWALT that confused me back in my blue pill days.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:31 PM
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Oh they are out there, but if you show blue pill behavior around them, it's only a matter of time before your sweet snowflake is blowing Chad and swallowing, with enthusiasm.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:29 PM
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Who said anything about using only dread? Your comment was that "dread game was a poor strategy", and mine was that it was a core component, as in part of several strategies. I will however qualify my comment slightly, in that dread game is crucial in an LTR where you are living with a woman. And for those newer at this, the reason is that when you live with a woman, she will see you when you have periods of weakness, and lose attraction. ie sick, hurt etc and you have to use dread to help offse…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:19 PM
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Money is one of those things can either be beta or alpha. An alpha guy with money is on a whole different level. A beta guy with money is more likely to get married, but it sure won't save him from his wife seeing Chad on the side.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 12:34 PM
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But they only like it from upper tier alphas, because they are in competition with the other women he's likely fucking.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 12:31 PM
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Dread game is a poor strategy for LTR Over 200 points upvoted so var, and he makes a statement like this? What is up with the voters? Dread game is a core component of running game, especially in an LTR. I'm thinking most of you voters have never been in an LTR, or you need to read the sidebar. I'll emphasize it again, dread game is necessary in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 12:26 PM
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It's a warzone, filled with spies if you climb the ladder high enough. I've turned down huge corporate promotions because I couldn't stand who I was going to be around, the amount of evil that exists at high corporate positions is frightening. At that altitude if you show any kind of human decency, like caring about people who have worked for the company for 25 years, you will be viewed as weak, very similar to a whale bleeding in the ocean and the sharks will sense it and feed. I've seen groups…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 12:30 PM
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"It actually works" Yep, it sure does, as shocking, surprising, and most of all depressing as that is. I remember being in a business meeting back in blue pill days, and somebody was being an assclown, and I was in a bad mood that day and completely castrated him in front of everyone, not my usual style. (he certainly deserved it) After that meeting, there was a woman who was there who wanted my ass badly. I remember thinking how fucked up is that? I was a jerk to this guy and it lit her fire bi…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 12:56 PM
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I think what blew my mind most of all was just how badly I was lied to over the years, by people who knew better. I mean I always knew that girls could be sluts, and some girls fucked assholes. But I didn't realize that it was basic human sexual dynamics 101. Why would I, everyone close to me kept trying to teach me that a square peg fits in a round hole. When I finally unplugged, it was like living in an upside down world, and all my critical thinking became questionable. What else was I wrong …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 12:47 PM
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I don't know if it's that bad, but it's certainly on the way there. I would say we are at the point of anything considering a man's point of view is considered misogyny. I think men are awakening though, too many husbands and boyfriends getting dumped. They are going to reap what they sow, and the ironic thing about it is that in the end they will be happier, because once the pendulum swings back there will be more masculine men.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 12:37 PM
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Or held accountable for their actions.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 12:33 PM
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"That's a problem we MUST address." Translation: "We must figure out out to separate the red pill fakers from the real alphas." What they don't understand is that by learning red pill thinking, a man becomes an alpha. Or even worse, they do and can't stand the fact that a beta can become an alpha, and we can't have that now can we?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 12:31 PM
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Getting married is not "anti-TRP", although I have no doubt this site is full of people who would proclaim otherwise. There are plenty, well, at least some, men who have taken the red pill and are happily married. In fact, I would argue that the only happily married men are red pillers. It really comes down to what your goals in life are. Rail against marriage all you want, but if you want a family with children I don't think there is any other way to do it. It is a risk and you have to be very …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 11:37 AM
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This short comment pretty much sums up our current societal situation right to a fucking T.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 12:00 PM
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I think any woman will shit test you, LTR or not, from time to time. Again I know and agree with all this. My point was that a mod was giving out advice to be more alpha, which is clearly red pill knowledge. I had assumed that there was more to his discussion like you mentioned above. Now, if he only said be more alpha and that was it, your reply to me makes sense. btw my rule of thumb is that a shit test is about you, and a comfort test is about her. When in doubt use tone to help you figure it…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:10 PM
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Agree with this. The plugged in married guy can fix a lot by just being more alpha. However, to clarify, I did not mean that to be the only, end all be all fix.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 03:07 PM
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The thing is though, "sprinkling more alpha on it", is exactly right. While the wording is a bit flowery, whether you are married or just spinning a plate, using more alpha is pretty much what everyone who swallowed the red pill and ended up here, needs to do. A lot of married guys are so beta, and don't even realize it, that using more alpha behaviors actually works really good. And another way of using more alpha could also be said as running game. Parts of it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:10 PM
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My wife has a thing against touching feet. Even her own feet. One day she came home from buying groceries and announced there were groceries in the car and needed to be unloaded. Before I unplugged I would normally have dropped anything I was doing no matter how important and gone and helped her, or even worse, been the only one getting the groceries. This time I was doing some menial task, like paying bills, and told her "no I'm already doing X, you're perfectly capable of handling that yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:36 PM
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They may not want anything to do with you, because you aren't their slave anymore, you know? Who needs people in your life that only want you around when you can do something for them? It's supposed to be reciprocal. Also, it will take time for people to accept your changes. At first they will think it's some kind of phase and not take you seriously.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:19 PM
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No, you will take actions to be more assertive, and feel guilty for being such a complete asshole. Where, objectively, you're just being pretty reasonable and normal assertiveness on the asshole scale.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 10:16 PM
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No it won't feel right and be awkward as hell and wrong. But give it a fair try, and watch how women react. When I was recently unplugged twice I actually put my hand up to my lower jaw, because I was so stunned when things worked I was afraid I was standing there with my mouth open like some retarded person.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 05:04 PM
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trial and error for the most part. If you are recently unplugged, you are going to err on the side of niceness it will be ridiculous to you when you look back. Right now though, people are so used to you being nice you are going to get severe blowback by just telling somebody "no". They will think you are the most awful person by refusing to drop everything and do something for them. If you are able to really look at things from an objective point of view, and see how rotten people can be to you…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 05:01 PM
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The trick is to say, "shut the fuck up", without really saying it, but in a way that everybody in the room including her knows that's exactly what you mean. When she uses the word asshole, you've done it.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 04:58 PM
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Yep it will feel awkward as hell, but then you hit a homer and say to yourself, holy shit this really works.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 04:57 PM
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Sadly, pretty much. What's even more sad is women will love you for it. And then you'll figure out that being a jerk to a woman will get you a blowjob. Welcome to the twilight zone real world.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 04:54 PM
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I've pretty much reached the conclusion that all people want to fuck, not just guys. The women are just way, way more covert about it, sometimes not even admitting it to themselves until things "get out of hand". When a woman puts herself in a situation with possible alone time with another male, you can bet your ass she realizes what she is doing and the potential that can happen, if she is over 13. Standard shit test I think, see how you react when another male shows interest.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 01:11 PM
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Usually the only way logic works with a woman, is when it's delivered with a strong frame. And even then, she's not responding to the logic.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 12:13 PM
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You handled that massive shit test well, nice job. Any woman who maneuvers things to get some time alone with a man is going down the road of "it just happened". Look carefully at things in your history though. Maybe little beta behaviors that you are doing that led up to this, because they are there. I'm not saying it's your fault, but I'm willing to bet that you have failed small shit tests before without realizing it? Or else this other guy had such high alpha her hypergamous nature couldn't …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 12:07 PM
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Amen to this. Unfortunately there are a whole bunch of married men thinking they are "good husbands", when in reality they are like wives ballooning up 50 pounds. Make a wishy washy decision in front of your wife? You just gained 10 pounds.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:05 PM
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The problem with asking a woman anything is that you can never go by what a woman says, only her actions.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 12:50 PM
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Awful, isn't it? You think you are doing everything correctly, doing nice things for a girl just like you were taught ( by women themselves even), and then reality comes crashing down like a bomb going off and you are left standing there wondering what the fuck happened, where did I go wrong? Welcome to the rabbit hole, Alice, and the bad news is it's going to get worse. You are going to learn things that leave a very bitter taste, but the good news is that you finally got your fucking hands on …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 09:15 PM
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Maybe someone can define Alpha for me, because although there seem to be a bunch of guys here that "get theirs" < In addition to the comment that mentioned the sidebar material, an alpha is someone that women get wet over. Whether he fucks them all, or just the one he is married to doesn't matter. It's how women perceive him. The more women that want his ass, ie rock star singing at a concert, the more alpha he is. The qualities that define an alpha: leadership, physical fitness, social dominanc…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 08:54 PM
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keep twisting that knife for years and years for no other reason than out of pure spite and anger that his "best years" were wasted. In addition to this, she will keep twisting that knife for years over her anger at being "tricked" into marrying, sleeping with and having kids from a beta.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 08:41 PM
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Indeed. Unlike Cypher and the Matrix, once you've become unplugged, there is no going back in. Deny it all you want, but the truth of this stuff has a way of bubbling up to the top and staring you in the face. However different you wish the world could be.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 04:47 PM
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Some of you guys may disagree with the whole "love" part but I think I've found a happy balance with it. I'm simply not a full blown red piller.<< The backlash here against loving somebody is so strong that it's given a name like a disease, called oneitits. It isn't just here either it's pretty much everywhere, roissy, even dalrock. There's nothing wrong with loving somebody, or even falling in love. The danger, is that it is very easy to fall into beta behavior and beta ways when you do. You ju…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 01:11 PM
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When you make a poor decision in life (and we all do it's only human), you can either blame your parent's lousy parenting, or blame yourself. The day that you start blaming yourself is the day you "come to terms" with something like that. It's not easy, but at some point you have to accept that your actions are a result of your own decisions, and nobody else. What I learned from both of my parents, was how to NOT be a parent. Now, raising my kids, seeing other kids and their parents and thinking…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 12:36 PM
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Married with kids here, in my 40s. Got married before the red pill like most men here. I didn't read many of the responses because I'm sure there are a shitload telling you marriage is a horrible idea and don't do it. I think it can be done, but you need to pick a woman with a strong moral compass, and they are rare. But, they are out there. Then you need to run game 24x7 which sounds like a lot of work, but I've come to realize that is just the normal state of being a man. Even then there are n…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 12:01 PM
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You keep working for that beach man, because you are going to get there. Keep on grinding.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 11:50 AM
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The dirty little secret is that deep down inside women love being led by a man. You wouldn't know that as a young man today with the media and feminism being completely out of control. Oh they may complain or say what an asshole, but it's the natural order of things and will raise her arousal for a man who gives her a command vs asking her a question. Driving home from work one day, I tell my wife to "put some coffee on" and she happily did it. Now if I would have asked her "can you put some cof…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:53 PM
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I agree, a narcissistic mother will raise a son believing that everything is about her. Then as the boy gets older and starts applying that knowledge to girls he wants to date, well we all know how that turns out. congrats to you for figuring it all out, it's a hell of a journey to get there. No different than a lot of us I suppose, we all went through some type of hell to get here.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:37 PM
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Being anti-social and reserved is a good way to keep your job, but you will never rise higher. People don't want to report to people like that, and people don't really want anti-social people underneath them. Typically, the people who get promoted are competent, friendly or outgoing, but at the same time are very capable of standing up for themselves and/or team and making a stand when it's needed. Just staying out of workplace drama is most of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 04:02 PM
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"However, to find that girl who gives me a boner and shares the same values as I do might be a one in a million catch." One day, you will learn the lesson of AWALT. It really doesn't mean that all women are like that. It means that all women are programmed like that as a default way of thinking. So if you think you found your one in a million unicorn, and then start treating her like a friend and talking about all your dreams and fears, you will kill the sexual attraction she has for you. You mi…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 12:52 PM
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At least you learned it before you got married and had kids. Yeah it stings a lot, but welcome to life. It could have been a lot worse and you'll look back on this someday and be glad you guys split up.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:51 PM
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No, but you always want other women attracted to you. So for an LTR, you run game 24x7. And for fucks sake, don't ever be self deprecating when another woman shows interest in you in front of your LTR. Your LTR needs to realize that you always have options. And this isn't something she learns by you saying anything, she learns it by watching other women around you.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 02:43 PM
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I think a part of this dynamic shift in trend comes from the mods decision to make this primary focus of TRP primarily about sexual strategy and getting women that was made fairly recently. This is my impression as well, that it's less about understanding the sexual dynamics (for the first time in many men's lives here), and more about a strategy to get laid. Funny thing is that you will get laid as much as you want once you understand how it all works, and the getting laid part just happens all…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:26 PM
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If she isn't sexually attracted to you, a woman will cast shade on whatever activity you are about to embark on.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 05:54 PM
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Yeah this is really good advice, and I would add just agree and amplify on a lot of it. "yeah, you're right, I'm crazy to go to the gym, can you imagine somebody actually trying to work out and become healthier. That's just crazy talk. See you when I get back"
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 05:52 PM
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Plus when you try and improve yourself, you are trying to raise yourself in the pecking order of society, and people will try and slap you down for your temerity. Peasant stay where you belong.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 05:48 PM
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You got some good info from your mom, only thing she was missing was never listen to what a woman says, but watch what she does.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:11 PM
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It's especially hard when you finally decide to stop being the people pleaser. Not only do you have to deal with your own internal feelings of being guilty, wrong, selfish <insert parental upbringing fuck up>, you also have to deal with the shitstorm of everyone you know around you seeing the peasant trying to rise from his station, and oh no we can't have that! It will be very uncomfortable and awkward as hell. But the funny thing is, if you can hold your frame, at the end of the day you will f…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:56 PM
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This comes pretty close to "just be yourself".
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 12:51 PM
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Yeah it's kind of a balance. Smirks are good, but don't stand there and grin because you have nothing to say, it's pretty obvious.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 12:47 PM
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If you hear from a woman "you should smile more", you are being served a shit test fresh and hot out of the oven. My usual response is "I am smiling." (of course I'm not, and maintain whatever look I have). I would be curious as to what others do for this shit test. I don't smile as near as much as I used to, mostly around women, unless I get an IOI. I think it can be so easily construed as a sign of weakness, of a people pleaser, even if you are not. So I'm careful about the smiling. Agree with…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 12:39 PM
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music works for me. I don't mean playing the fucking stuff, I listen to my favorite bands/songs with ear buds.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 11:30 PM
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Move around more, eat less. It's one or both. This really isn't rocket science. Walk swim ride bike, whatever the fuck you have to do just do it.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 11:28 PM
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I went through this myself, and I'm in my 40's. You can imagine how long people had pigeonholed me with my nice guy ways. You can't make them treat you with respect, but you can have nothing to do with them if they won't. Or in my case drop f-bombs when they really try and slap you down for daring to be a better person. Over the stupidest of things no less. People really do not want other people to raise ranks in the pecking order of life. You are the peasant rising up, how dare you! I have been…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 11:22 PM
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I think this is a good distinction, and one that has been sorely needed for a long time here. So many people making comments about anger being wrong, a phase, just get over it etc. The problem with anger is that it can lead you into bitterness, which is a negative attitude with negative behaviors. Which I think it's safe to say 100% of us agree with being bad. So go ahead and get angry, just don't let it lead you into bitterness.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 03:02 PM
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I don't know which is worse, reading this post which fit me to a T growing up, or reading all of the comments below, knowing how other guys were undoubtedly fucking the girls I liked. Because I was that boy, who grew into a man still believing that women actually wanted to be treated with respect and kindness. That boy has no idea of the amount of pain and heartache he will have to go through in his future years, and my heart reaches out to him. I hope he stumbles across red pill someday, and I …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 03:32 PM
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No don't worry, some of them will be used for beta bucks and married and have children. Then while he's away at work on the next google successor she will be blowing and eagerly swallowing Chad the tennis instructor.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 09:04 PM
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I think a lot of guys equate Oneitis as falling in love, it's just a sterile name for it, I know I do. Be it the same or different however, following red pill theory is always best.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:25 PM
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Don't sweat it, we all regress from time to time. It's a marathon not a sprint, and the occasional stumble still won't stop you from crossing the finish line.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:13 PM
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Just don't let your emotions dictate your actions, and remember the red pill theories. You know, don't let her lead, don't be the servant, don't be afraid to make her mad, you know the drill. Remember your training! It can be done, you just have to adapt running game, as it were, to 7x24.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 01:49 PM
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It works, what I have found is that more alpha and less beta typically. But both are important. The beta stuff can be potent however, small amounts!
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 01:42 PM
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Yep, cue the "you put the dishes in the dishwasher wrong" hamster excuses to give herself a reason to blow Chad and swallow.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 01:29 PM
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This was a good post. I have to say when I read the title I was all set to rip it apart, moderator or not, because my first thought was, great, another post by a jackass telling someone who is angry "just get over it" or the other zen bullshit like you said. It's perfectly natural, and normal, to be mad as hell when you've finally fucking figured out just how badly you have been lied to over the years. You don't just fucking accept it and progress to the next fucking phase. The trick is to use i…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 01:02 PM
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While people are uncomfortable with change, most are far more uncomfortable with a someone close to them improving them-self, as opposed to someone changing for the worse. Because most people see other people's faults, and feel better about themselves. The other aspect is that most people are animals, and someone who is trying to increase his rank in the pecking order will be challenged and slapped down if possible. Just like in a wolf pack and "natural order" of wolves. Now if someone slides do…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 07:48 PM
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She said Right here is where the fuse shorts out, and I disregard anything after. Instead actions are watched and paid attention. She said women don't want men to be assholes, but their actions are the opposite, they fuck the assholes. As we have all learned, and trp explains why.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:04 PM
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Around where I live I think a lot of RP guys are just few and far between.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 01:11 AM
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" You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it. " For someone to become unplugged, he has to accept the reality that he has been lied to his entire life, by a lot of people that he has known for a long time. And that can be very, very hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 01:07 AM
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The guy pretty much admits that he didn't want to sleep with his wife, he wasn't attracted to her just to other women. So I wouldn't exactly call him the victim here. But yes, she did decide to be the whore. But once a spouse, man or woman, stops sleeping with the other the marriage covenant/contract has been broken. The courts won't see it that way of course, now that we live in a feminist society.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 01:01 AM
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Another take away in this is don't get inebriated. It has a tendency to wreck your frame. Or even forget it completely.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 05:54 PM
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That was my read as well, she thought he looked good.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 05:52 PM
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Don't be afraid to make your wife mad.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 01:08 PM
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Agree on this, everyone. I used to think that everyone was given respect, and then withdrawn when appropriate. (or in my extreme beta days, I would just try and figure out what I was doing wrong, and correct myself sadly). These days people actually have to earn my respect through their actions, and what surprised me as I started doing this was how much of a happier person I became. Because I started respecting myself.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 01:07 PM
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I suspect the msp's also give executives a place to put blame when things go fubar as well, instead of it being their fault. Thanks for the insight.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 12:57 PM
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You want to feel emotions with women again like you did before? Go right ahead and then watch them despise you for your weakness. Or even worse, watch them, after having taken the red pill, watch their behavior around an alpha with you in their presence. Sure, throw your emotions around again, it worked so well in the past, didn't it? In all seriousness, you will still feel emotions toward a woman. The difference is that you will only feel it when you are treated with respect and kindness. Since…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 01:20 PM
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Oh I think he's on his way, he's just dealing with the rabbit hole and the shock of it all. But yeah, keep reading.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 01:10 PM
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Yep I concur as well, he still has some anger stage that he's working out. Which is entirely understandable.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 01:02 PM
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She gave him a shit test, he slaps it down and she apologizes. I don't see anything that needs to be corrected.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 12:42 PM
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"I am a IT project management person, and these days I am also studying electrical engineering mainly because I can see the writing on the wall for my industry." Off topic, but could you expand on that writing on the wall bit? I agree with you on the women and stem stuff, whether it's women, hb9 visas, refugees or reaching back, even slaves, companies want the best help they care hire at the cheapest rates. The rock stars will always be chased after, however.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 12:39 PM
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In a woman's mind, if her husband leaves her alone like this, he is telling her it's ok to cheat. The logical reasons like maintaining income so you don't lose your house, good school for the kid, etc do not matter or even enter her head. As far as she is concerned, it's like a caveman leaving his woman alone for months at the cave, of course another caveman is going to take her, what was he thinking? Agree on people will cheat regardless of proximity, but long distance away just adds to the lik…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:44 PM
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Welcome to the bitter truth of the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:40 PM
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5 months later and a reply, man have you been thinking over your comment :-)
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 01:39 PM
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Scouting is the last bastion of a group of men teaching boys how to be men, it's no wonder that it's under attack these days. If it isn't the media trying to make them out to be led by a bunch of gay pedophiles, it's the girl scouts trying to force their way inside in the name of equal rights. This has nothing to do with making this equal for girls and boys, but has everything to do with destroying a way for men teaching boys how to be real men. And somehow they snuck some pussies into national …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 08:26 PM
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Mark may be as alpha as fuck, but he married a woman who is a known cheater, which makes him stupid as fuck as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 02:06 PM
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At least he actually admitted it, not that it makes it any much better than the morons who don't. As soon as I saw "didn't read the majority" I could just move on to the next comment.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 08:33 PM
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Yeah most people in IT are way to busy to sit there and review the average employee's habits. Overworked and understaffed, broken printer to troubleshoot and a new project starting up that was never planned for. But, the information is there in case anyone wants it. So if you are bopping the vp's secretary, and she wants commitment and you break it off, all those sites you were visiting, wasting company time, are now being looked at and data is being collected and compiled.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 01:15 PM
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There's a lot of good advice here. I've turned down promotions to upper level management because I couldn't stand the evil you find so often, I would feel tainted by it just being in a meeting room with others. And if they smell you out to be a man with integrity, you will be viewed as weak and stupid. So don't go advertising your virtues, in the business world it's a double edged sword. Oddly enough, companies love to do business with other companies who are honest and have integrity. But when …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 01:05 PM
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This is a great idea, give the people who already have a good reputation more upvote voting power. So for example a moderator (or highly respected member of community) happens to read a comment and thinks it has something of value he clicks the red pill and instantly 100 up votes happens. (and vice versa) Sometimes I see comments with 20 votes and it really should be 0. And sometimes a single red pill vote and it's gold advice. I don't mind sifting through now and then, but once I hit several cr…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 01:03 PM
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BS. TRP spouts rubbish that when it comes to sex, you need to be am Olympic athlete. No you are misunderstanding me. Having money alone isn't attractive in itself, but it will draw her attention to you. (because it could mean power, which we all know is attractive) Exhibiting attractive "alpha" behavior, like telling women what to do with each other with your threesome, gets her wetter. TRP doesn't say you need to be an olympic athlete either, but that one aspect of it is being in shape. But you…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 12:47 PM
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Money can go both ways. They don't call it "beta bucks" for nothing. A guy who exhibits a lot of money will attract women to him, either because he can be a good beta bucks provider, or he has earned it by being socially dominant and alpha. I think it's one of many factors that will get a woman's attention, but by itself does not cause a women to want to fuck you. Oh she may go to bed with a rich guy to secure his money, but I'm talking about the grabbing your ass in the moment of orgasm fucking…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 01:33 PM
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You forget that a lot of guys discover trp after getting married.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:46 PM
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spooky there are guys out there who target married women because of how easy it is, even if it is playing with nitroglycerin.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:40 AM
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You are making the mistake that all men think like you do. There are married men out there perfectly happy with sex with the same woman for 20 years, provided they are getting sex. Sure there are cheaters out there for the reasons you said, but the idea that men cheat in general because they crave variety I think is inaccurate. They cheat because they aren't getting some at home. The sad fact is that it's probably the man's fault and he doesn't even know it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 02:08 PM
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I don't think so. When I first starting applying red pill theory, on at least one occasion I put my hand up to my mouth because I was afraid it flew open in complete shock and surprise when it worked. I wish it didn't work, I actually hate that it does work. I feel tainted, like I am descending to animal level of interaction, and I worry that I will lose my humanity. You know how you can feel tainted when you have to deal with car salesmen? It saddens me actually that I know how women's minds wo…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:22 PM
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I'm not trying to convince you of anything. There is no magical formula that makes woman honest or loyal, or men for that matter either. What I have learned from "red pill" is the depressing truth that most people walking around here are more close to animal level of interacting that anyone wants to admit. Taking what they want, having affairs because of how they feel attracted to others without regard to how their actions can hurt others, I could go on and on. Truth be told I feel like I'm the …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 12:52 PM
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This is the sewage that I just get tired of seeing here. "little lies", no it's basic red pill knowledge. But there's no point in trying to convince you, is there? All you want to do is shoot down some actual good advice for somebody else, while offering absolutely nothing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:11 PM
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Crank up the alpha. Be the leader, smack down her shit tests, work out, and most importantly when other women hit on you in front of your wife don't downplay it. It will work, it just takes time. And even if it doesn't by the end of it you will have plenty of women to pick from. What would brad pitt do? (insert hottie guy)
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:34 PM
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You're right about that. And, he may have this problem with the next one as well, until he finally stumbles here and learns the truth.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:27 PM
6

women marrying men they're not as attracted to as they were (are) to men they fucked before. Sometimes I think they are in the same fucking boat we are. Men aren't taught how to be men and what attracts women. Women are taught to marry men that would make good fathers and providers. And both end up confused and sad about their lousy sex lives.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:23 PM
1

I thought the same thing, man that guy was really fortunate to get a reply like that, solid gold.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:18 PM
4

I think also, that penises and vaginas all come in different sizes. So a woman who has one as big as a house and echos would probably like a bigger penis.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:17 PM
4

Either that, or find another alpha who "makes her feel alive"
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:13 PM
37

She's not into the sex because she's actually not into him. Yep this is it right here. Once a week sex, not even married yet, even that'll dry up while she pines away about chad thundercock.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:03 PM
1

I think we both actually agree on things. Because in the end, no matter how someone was raised or taught things or lied to, or even abused growing up, you still have to take responsibility for making your own choices and decisions as a man. You can blame others for things, but eventually you realize that blaming others just holds you back.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 03:19 PM
3

I have found that the best service restaurants have male waiters. When I walk in a restaurant and see an all male waiting staff, I know I'm going to get good service at least. Applying red pill theory, I think a female waitress becomes upset inside when she has to do servile acts for a man she isn't sexually attracted to, and feels he is beneath her. She can't help it and it reflects in her work. Oh, she may not say anything, but I certainly picked up on that vibe back in my blue pill days. The …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 01:50 PM
1

but this whole thing is repugnant and stupid Edit: Don't get me wrong he makes some good points, Well which one is it?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 01:41 PM
2

Awesome comment. I get so tired of reading sewage here that it just drives me away, and then I'll stumble across a gold nugget like this. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:19 PM
1

Women are attracted to a guys appearance, but it's not enough. If they smell beta, the guy just gained 50 pounds of ugly.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:13 PM
6

You have an unpopular opinion because it's wrong. Lots of guys just weren't taught growing up, they were taught lies. Blue pillers don't bitch and moan, they don't even understand that they are blue pillers. He has a great post, yours...not so good. Calling his post stupid shit?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:04 PM
2

Again, she is looking to you for leadership. It isn't really about what kind of food is on the menu.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 01:22 PM
22

It is a woman's nature to be led by a man. So when she asks, "what should I cook tonight", that is a woman's way of asking you to be her leader, so to speak. Not only that, but give her an answer in a calm, decisive fun way and you will give her tingles.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 01:17 PM
2

You hit the nail on the head in regards to racism vs class. I try telling people all the time, it's not the inner city blacks that are the problem, it's the inner city poor people. It has nothing to do with color. But most people are too stupid to understand this. Then you have wealthy politicians stirring up racism because it takes the focus off of them and their discretions. Is racism out there? Yes unfortunately. Human nature is what it is, we tend to not trust something that is different. An…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 11:41 AM
1

Until a man understands and accepts AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 01:06 PM
4

Yeah but who taught the white knights? They aren't just born that way.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 01:05 PM
9

The same reason guys sleep with bitchy women, they really like rough sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 01:03 PM
2

It's not as easy as you think, and some day you will find this out. I hope you don't because for a red pill guy to get depressed it means some truly nasty shit has happened. Just stop being depressed and be a man. Yeah it's that easy. You can be depressed all you want, just don't show it. Which in my mind is one way to be stoic.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 09:18 PM
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Telling someone who is depressed that there is no point in being depressed is terrible advice. Of course he's depressed, he knows the truth now and understands that as intelligent as human beings have potential to be, ie einstien, jonas salk, the list goes on, we are a lot closer to animals than we want to be, and are stuck with this gorilla primitive level of interaction when it comes to attracting women. And that being a crappy person actually turns a woman on. It's depressing as hell. But, yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:18 PM
2

It's a stage you have to work through, and mostly it takes time. Welcome to the bitter aspect of the red pill. Working out helps, whether you lift, run, etc when you find your emotions running high.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:11 PM
0

Oh there's plenty of better alphas, but there's no denying the alpha of a convicted murderer. What's wrong, you don't agree with the fact that a convicted murderer is giving a woman tingles?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 12:39 PM
1

She was a woman, you think she was subject to the same screening that a man gets?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 12:32 PM
2

You'll probably have triggers from time to time kicking you back into anger phase, don't sweat it too much it happens. It will happen less and less as you recognize it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:20 PM
16

I actually feel my IQ lowering when I'm reduced to sounding out words to figure out what they are saying.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:09 PM
1

Look, I actually agree with you, sound data makes for solid conclusions. But how do you get answers to the questions you posed. Who is going to actually admit to helping prisoners escape? On the other side who can trust what a convicted killer says? They have no axes to grind against prison guards do they? Then you have the whole ignore what women say and watch their actions aspect. That's the thing about red pill theory, it's theory, and you have to apply it in your own life, and judge the resu…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:04 PM
1

Yes of course you can, even though a lot of guys here will say you can't. But you will have to run game 24/7. And whatever you do, do NOT think she is your best friend and talk about your problems with her. The problem is that it's a natural tendency to become more beta in general as you get older, as long as you are aware of that you can calibrate. Just knowing about red pill and hypergamy puts you in a very high success category I think. My wife is well aware of other female interest in me, yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 10:34 PM
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No we don't need any solid data. It's pretty obvious if you understand rpt.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 10:09 PM
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Say that after you spend years with nothing but your hand and cooped up in a building with iron bars. I bet they even have the same bumper sticker, "no one is ugly after 4 years"
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 10:08 PM
1

Yeah I agree they want you to pass these things at some lizard brain level. It doesn't have anything to do with you of course, it makes them feel better about themselves and their ability to pick an alpha guy as a mate. so they repeat the same shit test without even realizing they are doing that.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 12:03 PM
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The one thing about failing a shit test is this, at some point in the future she will, without fail, try the exact same shit test again. So don't beat yourself up over it, just plan and prepare for it happening again, and enjoy the confused and bewildered look in her eyes when you crush it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:42 AM
1

I agree, except I would say "most of us" also fail...
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:40 AM
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Women don't have a problem with genuine self improvement, because they don't connect self improvement with learning to make women want to fuck you by being a fake alpha until you make it. Plus, you can't go by what they say, you know, like "just be yourself", "we want sensitive guys". You can become more alpha and make the woman who thought you were her beta bitch become willing to get on her knees and pleasure you. But, and it's a big one, it takes time and effort, and more time, and you will l…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:31 AM
1

It will eventually, but she will doubt you for a while.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:17 AM
2

Remember that as a general rule, men love it when women touch them. Especially plugged in blue pill men, who are desperate for ANY female attention. Greek god status, maybe not but something is there to attract them so be happy with that.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:11 PM
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Come off meek and your sexuality might be questioned. They get pissed off sometimes too. If you "come off meek" they smell beta and they either get mad at themselves for being fooled or mad at you for fooling them.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:28 PM
1

but still be angry at them for not doing enough In addition, they are angry at them because they are beta. A woman wants an alpha around, and will take it out on the beta, just for being beta.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:26 AM
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He should also add on at the end of the message, "Don't take my word for it, an anonymous message. A paternity test will reveal the truth."
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:21 PM
1

It's the last piece of the puzzle that hasn't quite clicked for me, and I'm hoping someone can explain for my sanity. Maybe she just got bored with her beta hubby. And along comes ace of spades bad boy, who is going to have his way with her, lay the pipe really good and take her like a wild lion. Violent men are attractive to women, they are more likely to fend off enemies and predators, if you want to look at it from a biologic view.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:15 PM
1

An LTR needs a little beta now and then. It's concentrated stuff though, so a little goes a long way. Just watch for shit testing and calibrate accordingly. Sometimes slowing down helps...it's counterintuitive (this is for the "update" part)
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:32 PM
2

As soon as I read this, all I could think of was spicoli during the interview commenting about the other surfers, "those guys are fags". Roosh is trying to be AMOG, ain't gonna happen buddy.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:23 PM
2

That being said, anyone who pays someone else to be coached up as an Alpha really just needs to get out of the house more. It's not that easy, not by a mile for some people. "Just get out more" doesn't undo an entire lifetime of opposite teaching and misinformation. I'm not advocating coaching at all, but if it were as easy as going out more, nobody would be here.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:20 PM
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Welcome to the truth. Congratulations, you now completely understand women and how to get laid on a regular basis. You also understand you can never tell a woman how much you love her, because if you do, you just told her to go suck Chad Thundercock to completion, with eagerness to boot. I feel your pain. But it is the truth of the world, and it gets easier. I still have anger over the moron who created us, and I don't think that will ever go away until we meet. This is the best he could do? Ser…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:07 PM
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Yeah it's a calibration indicator. She gets attracted to you enough she will want to please you. As you say he should look at his game and check for improvements.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 12:41 PM
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Pretty much 100% of everyone here went through the exact same thing I think. All 100,000 of us, which hurts my brain when I think about that.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 12:39 PM
1

Women can have plenty of foresight if it involves an alpha. The beta, not so much. "it just happened"
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:29 PM
2

She is so regretting the fact she brought it up in actual conversation. How is she supposed to sneak in some alpha sperm now? She must have convinced herself that he would go along with it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:25 PM
4

Yeah, the actor Sam once said in an interview he really enjoyed that job, mostly because all of the actors were adults. He couldn't remember the last time he acted for something and didn't have to work with teenagers. That comment really stuck with me, and I started noticing just how many shows have teenage actors.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:17 PM
2

This woman falls in love with him because of his beta traits. Yeah a lot of movies have that theme. What they don't show is the wife fucking the alpha on the side complete with blowjobs and kinky stuff within a few years because she's so repulsed with her beta husband. We like to pretend that we are so much more evolved and intelligent than the animals around us, but we still have those animal instincts. And I think our bodies control our minds more than the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:12 PM
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Unfortunately this is part of the bitterness of red pill. Women in your circle of people you know become attracted to you, they could be single, attached, or even married. In certain circumstances I have acted a little blue pill (acted indecisive, sought other guy's opinion), but I usually regret that, because I'm paranoid of landing back in blue pill hell. Maybe you guys can still be friends, maybe not. In my case I started being very choosy about which people I wanted to be friends with, it re…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 11:57 AM
3

Most people are completely unprepared to be unplugged. It's hard enough when you take the red pill willingly.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 11:35 AM
1

It's not dismissing your own responsibility, its understanding what aspects of men that women find attractive, and using that knowledge however you want. Improve yourself, improve an LTR, or just pick up women. I don't think you actually understand what the red pill is, other than having an axe to grind.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:31 PM
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I think he is confusing "good alphas" and equating them to weak men. I see that a lot in society today, there is an automatic assumption of weakness with nice guys, and actually it's no wonder, a lot of nice guys are weak guys. Your last line is wrong though, women's hypergamy defines who they are.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:21 AM
1

I think it's more of a rule of thumb. A little weakness does not mean she will just stop sleeping with you and screw other guys. But it's potent stuff, a little bit goes a long way, you know what I mean? Be sure to counter it with stuff that still makes you attractive to her. Or should I say, to her hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:13 AM
2

They will support you, but it will cause them to be unattracted to you. You can have a friend, or a lover, but not both.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:11 AM
1

It is sad, but do you want a woman who is your friend, or a woman who wants to fuck you? You can't have both. One of the most bitter aspects of the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:58 PM
2

Sorry but bettering yourself is a red pill philosophy, and part of bettering yourself means you become more successful, smart, funny, interesting and show leadership qualities. All of which you list and then claim these are the opposite of what red pill teaches, and even equating it to blue pill??? For someone who is supposed to be red pill endorsed, I was really surprised to read this. The rest of what was written was very much on the mark, especially about women not being someone you can talk …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:48 PM
1

Another way of saying it is, they only respect you if they are attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:31 PM
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Not only that, once he finds out about the other guys she's been fucking once they get married, he'll end up here if he's lucky.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:24 PM
1

I scratched my head over that one too, HB1? That's not possible...
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 12:20 PM
1

Yeah women will always find another chad thundercock at some point interested in them. But if they perceive that current husband/boyfriend is alpha enough to walk away, and see other women that find him attractive, they won't risk fucking chad. Not logically of course, how will I feel if boyfriend walks away from me.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 12:10 PM
1

contrary to popular belief sensitivity and moral integrity don't really register. Not only that, they can actually register with a woman, but will cause her to be unattracted to a man. This is the hell of living on this earth as a moral and sensitive man, you will actually repel women away from you sexually.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 11:54 AM
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The difference is most men know this, and are aware of this. Not that it stops guys from getting into trouble, but we are self aware. But a lot of women just aren't self-aware of their hypergamous nature.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 11:43 AM
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Great story, and thanks for writing it. The drug addict got a lot of attention, but it was all fake and for show. Just the donators trying to make themselves fell better by having, "made a difference". The ability to persevere and carry on during bad times is greatly admired by all people in society. Of course you know why, because it's fucking hard to do, and you are usually thrown into it without planning or forethought. Trust me, people recognize what you have done, whether it's just saying h…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:30 PM
1

No they really don't, they just give it lip service, the same lip service like "we are attracted to nice guys". They know full well that the guy puts her on an emotional rollercoaster, and lays the pipe good. How she feels overrides everything else. She knows it really isn't healthy for her, but she can't help it, it's how he makes her feel.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:11 PM
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I think her very last line of the piece really sums up a real tenet of red pill: (lots of other good stuff in there too) "Our carnal wants will win out every time." This can also be viewed as, "our vaginas will override our brains every time." Red pill just lays out what those carnal wants are in an honest and amoral truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:01 PM
1

If you always compare yourself to other people, you will never be happy in life. Set your own goals, and work to achieve them. The universal equalizer in life is problems, everyone has them. (robin williams for example) Figure out what you want to do with your life, and start setting small goals to achieve it. Expect shit to be thrown at you, and enjoy the rare moments when things actually go as fucking planned.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 12:20 PM
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Girls who like you love this shit. Girls who see you as BB will hate it. Pretty much the case for anything a guy does, whether it's opening doors, or catcalling to some bimbo walking down the street in ny and putting it on youtube.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 12:16 PM
1

What he is saying is that a woman's hypergamy will influence her to take the best seed she has available to her to father her children. Maybe that's the husband, maybe it's nfl linebacker who lives next door. Maybe her morals prevent her from doing it. Or maybe it's ovulation time, and she fucks him once and then hamsters it out afterward. (husband always working, or saying mean things) I'm not saying it will happen, but her hypergamy will influence her.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 12:07 PM
1

The next step is the same as always, work on bettering yourself. We all have regrets, and can look back at missed opportunities, you think you are alone with this? This shit isn't easy, just keep at it.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 04:22 PM
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In a calm, rational manner. Occasionally, by dropping f bombs if you are dealing with other guys.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 04:18 PM
2

The next time you find yourself thinking "what an asshole" about someone, there is your example. You will have plenty don't worry. Here's one, not holding a door open for a girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 01:47 PM
3

Here is what I do, for those interested. After using a cast iron skillet, use hot water to clean it. If it's dirty, I'll use coarse salt, dump some in there from your box of kosher salt, and scrub it clean, using a rag with the salt. Rinse out, and put on stove on low to evaporate out any leftover water. Finally, use a paper towel and some vegetable oil to coat it. You can use soap, but you really shouldn't, it will rust faster if you aren't careful re-oiling it. I have used soap, but very very …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 01:45 PM
6

I'm in this club too. It's not your fault you know. It's like owning a piece of equipment that isn't working right, has never actually worked right, only gotten worse over the years. You keep referring to the service manual to fix it, and then one day somebody tells you, "you know, that service manual is all wrong, you need to do the opposite of what it says". At the very least, red pill gives guys the truth. Which is everything.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 12:35 PM
1

Over the smallest things too, when you look at it objectively. The rage you get from people when you stop allowing them to treat you like a doormat.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:18 PM
2

Oh yeah, it's awkward as hell, you second guess yourself, and he'll likely have some sliding back into blue pill frustrated ways. Plus you've got the fun of everyone around you not wanting you to change phenomenon. Oh, the happy memories!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:14 PM
1

You handled this really well, I think. Especially not stooping to her level. In her mind, none of it will be her fault, she will blame you, so get ready for that. If she had done her own work from the beginning, none of this would have happened.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:11 PM
3

Hate to break this to you, but women suck dick all the time in the real world to get what they want.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:03 PM
1

it's a double edged sword, so it will sting some as well.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 02:08 PM
3

Oh he will after it happens a few times. First time he'll blame her. Once the pattern sets in then it will all click.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 02:04 PM
5

If you didn't know what blue pill meant, you should read it again, because you pretty much shouted out how much your lack of knowledge about red pill truly is.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:59 PM
3

That's a part of the red pill, the sadness of how the dynamics actually work in real life. But eventually you accept it. I'm sad that lightning actually strikes down and kills people from time to time. It's not fair, but such is life. But I understand that it can happen, and do the best to prevent myself from being struck by lightning.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 10:21 PM
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She also probably thought that she was allowing him to do her homework for her, he owed it to her because she was doing him a favor by hanging out with him. Hence the bitching out session to her friends. "that ungrateful beta!"
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 10:06 PM
1

The women you want in your life, are the ones who are interested in you, not just the other way around. Don't be afraid to let her know you are attracted to her, even if it means a fail. I think she is trying to force you into her frame actually. Once you really get this stuff, you won't even have to "take a risk", because in the words of morpheus, "you won't have to" (dodging bullet reference). A man showing leadership, confidence and living his life is like a young woman walking by in a minisk…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 12:55 PM
1

When you are married there needs to be some time spent away from the house, exercise, time spent with a friend, hobbies etc. Part of running married game. Basically a display of you living your life, and not needing her around all the time. But most importantly, you are living your life, and really don't need her around all the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:36 AM
1

She threw you a shit test with the starfish maneuver, and you passed it with flying colors. She wanted to be put on the "emotion rollercoaster", and rewarded you when you did. I still scratch my head over why we are hardwired like this. But you can't argue with results. My guess, you had too much beta behavior beforehand, prompting the starfish. Analyze your previous behavior and look for the little beta things. (ie not leading, not being decisive, etc) Great example on dealing with starfish btw…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 11:54 AM
1

You are on the right track, workouts help A LOT. For me the anger phase came and went, one day it hits you bad, another it feels like it's gone for good. It just takes time.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:54 PM
20

She probably thinks you are hanging out with the wrong women. Inotherwords, it's your fault. It certainly couldn't be AWALT. I got tons of bad advice, one of them "just be yourself".
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:45 PM
6

Not only that, if the son is turning out beta, it would force the mother to rethink just how alpha the father really was. She would have to admit to herself that maybe he wasn't the alpha he "should have been". She won't go there.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:40 PM
1

You will get the full tingles, keep working at it. Maintain frame 24x7, all year long. Lead her, break or bend the occasional rule, however minor, and especially, when other women notice you in front of her, do not put yourself down or deny it to your wife. Her noticing other women interested in me, solid gold. She gets rewarded for good behavior (good behavior = sex), she also knows how important it is to me (having sex). My wild guess is you are calibrating too much on the beta side, she becom…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:51 PM
26

The beta actually thinks/hopes that one day the woman will make a move on him, when she realizes at long last that he is the one.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:59 AM
1

You can overcome this, it will just take time. Years of training by parents can create such automatic responses that it can feel impossible, trust me I know, but once you set your mind to it, it will happen. Just remember that you will have many times of reverting back to "the old ways", and not beat yourself up over it. They will fade away as you continue to improve yourself. Human beings are creatures of habit, so once you start creating a new habit, it's only a matter of time. Never underesti…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 12:20 PM
1

Now you can sit back and study all of the blue pill couples that are out there, it's painful to watch. Congrats on your success.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:17 PM
1

It's nice isn't it? It gets a lot easier too, you will find her doing things just to please you and make your day better. All those years of being told by everyone how to please a woman all wrong, and in 5 months of red pill theory you now have a more solid marriage that probably compares to when you first got married. A word of warning, you will most likely have something top shelf offer herself to you, it's a test of sorts. I'm not telling you what to do, but rest assured you will be tested at…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 12:02 PM
4

I think you are missing the point. Which is that there is dna evidence showing hypergamy in action thousands of years ago.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 12:30 PM
54

Start showing beta qualities around your girl and you will get a real education of what AWALT means.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:28 AM
3

I went through this phase myself. The dawning and understanding of just what I have unplugged myself into. That women truly are different creatures than men, and that women will never, ever be sexually attracted to a man because of who he is inside (aka just be yourself). It can be quite depressing and hopeless. You have to accept the world for what it is, not how you would like it to be. Just as we men are hardwired to be sexually attracted to a woman in a bikini walking by, women are sexually …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 12:44 PM
1

Married RP men walk a tightrope day after day. I don't view it that way anymore. I look at myself like an olympic athlete of running game, compared to other guys of turning it on when they are spinning plates. And not from a viewpoint of being better at it, but from all the time and effort I've put into it so that it just becomes second nature to run it 24/7. And I've gotten good at it for sure, amazing how good you get at something when you practice it a lot. But how I'm really looking at it th…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:58 PM
1

Yes it is inherently beta to some extent. That's why you have to run game all the time, to the point where you do it without even trying. I'm an olympic athelete on running game, compared to some of these guys here struggling to do their 5k races for their plates. And I got there with lots of work and pain. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate. Ramp up your game and you will see her attention shift to you as well as the kids. I was there.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:02 PM
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You want to spin plates, then sure be alpha all the time. You want an LTR, then being alpha all the time is a recipe for disaster. It's only a matter of time until she fucks the guy who she is "able to talk to". There's nothing wrong with a little beta here and there. You have to be careful though, because a little bit goes a long way, it's super concentrated stuff. Mostly, it's all about reading her body language and calibrating appropriately. And of course never going by her words.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:50 PM
1

You tried to portray yourself as a balanced good person in your mind. In her mind, you became too beta, and she began to realize her "mistake" of picking a lesser, needy man. There's nothing wrong with some beta behavior, but it's very concentrated. A little bit goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:40 PM
1

You are missing the point. I'm not referring to situations where you need to adjudicate a paternity claim, I'm talking about the unknowns due to a woman and her hypergamous nature. Where the husband discovers it down the road, and is still required to pay child support for a baby that isn't his.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 01:24 PM
3

Because they are part of the ruling royalty, and something like this is for the unwashed masses beneath them. Once a political connection or elite gets tangled up, then you may see something.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 10:44 PM
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Yes, but in the end, your average beta will not be held responsible for a child that isn't his. Truthfully I don't see women's behavior getting worse, both men and women are already capable of bottom of the barrel stuff already.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 10:40 PM
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Because women don't want this test done. God forbid their hypergamy be exposed even more, we can't have that now can we, they are entitled to their feelings after all. The state doesn't want it done, you are talking about 10% more single mothers on welfare after the uptick in divorces. All the politicians are fucking married women (and men) left and right on the side, you think they want the testing done? I know you know this already, I agree with you. One of the first things that needs to be do…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 10:37 PM
1

Try taking Noah under your wing and show him the path. He won't see it, until he has eyes willing to see. He will probably think that the new boyfriend is just trying to feed him bullshit anyway, and won't believe it. Best thing would be to tell noah google the red pill and just plant the seed.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 05:30 PM
3

This is a great explanation of nice guy belief. "Fattening up the slaughter" is really accurate, too. Noah is wrong, but most likely he will still believe his blue pill beliefs, because not all woman are like that. He probably also thinks that the guy who fucked his "girlfriend" just tricked her into bed somehow. The original post is a shining example of what is wrong with men of today, utter and complete disconnect with the reality of male/female attraction. -former nice guy and white knight
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 05:08 PM
1

What would you do then, when another man commands you to do something, in an environment where he is not your boss or above you? Especially in front of your girlfriend, wife, etc where social dominance is about to be determined. For me I do it all the time, even when no women present, just to maintain the habit, and prevent myself from sliding back into beta hell. In all honesty, the situation itself does not present itself very often. (or not as often as it used too) For me, when that happens, …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:46 PM
2

Yes I have done it in real life, and it works well for shit tests. I don't see how anyone can think a one liner, delivered in a calm way, can be construed as "overexplanation/sperging". You are entitled to have your own opinion, but I think you have a lot to learn if you are confusing my reply with "beta".
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 05:30 PM
13

If you are in a solid relationship, surfer guy would never have gotten her phone number, let alone texted her, with her replying.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 05:18 PM
5

Unfortunately, you are right. The fact that she even gave her number to him, means that whatever relationship you had is over.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 05:16 PM
1

I am surprised at the responses you got on this, it runs the whole gamut from great point to stupid idea. I think it's a good post myself. Personally, I go with this: her: "hey, put these poles in the shed" me: "no, you are perfectly capable of doing that yourself." (note: if you are new to the red pill, she will be stunned when you do this the first few times, and confused, and will start a shit test storm for you to pass, so get ready) The trick is to not get mad, angry, just say no, you are p…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 01:18 PM
2

It seems unfair to put someone in a game and not tell them the rules. What do you think men have been dealing with their whole lives? Women already know these rules, don't you know that?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:12 PM
5

We live in an information age, where women's ability to multitask and read emotions is often an advantage. We may very well live in an information age, but male/female sexual attraction is still in caveman age.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:06 PM
3

Yet another poor soul who has learned the nature of women the hard way. I knew how it was going to end, but it was still painful to read. The number of men in today's world that are just utterly, completely unprepared to interact with women is just something that I hate about this world. If he's lucky he'll find this place, but probably not before he gets burned another time or two.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 02:23 PM
1

you aren't some self proclaimed 'nice guy' who treats girls right but hasn't got any talent or skill and Even if you have a ton of talent or skill, a nice guy who treats girls right will still be despised by women, at least with their vaginas.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 01:21 PM
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Yeah I know the feeling. It's like somebody just graded me, and I came up short. I used it as a barometer and calibrated accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 01:19 PM
1

It's as if, we don't get what we deserve, we get what we demand< Yeah that's pretty much it. One of the red pill truths that I've learned is that we are a lot closer to animals than all of us would like to think. Animals do not respect other nice animals or value them, and they especially do not want to mate with them, do they?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 01:03 PM
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I found myself admiring the guy, what a great example of maintaining your own frame, and handling some pretty heavy duty shit testing. Also a good example of leading your wife. A master at work. He's also about to learn if his wife cares more about him, or her sister. Because he stepped up the alpha like he did, my money is she will pick him. And yeah, like chill said they fucked that night.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:51 PM
1

I don't clean so much, but I do laundry. It's all a balance. And, not being taken for granted, sometimes I'll stop doing things for a while just so she realizes, or doesn't forget. The reward system you know.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:46 PM
1

I agree, thought it was an interesting post and was surprised by many of the negative comments. Anger phase!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:42 PM
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Read everything on the right hand panel.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:32 PM
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If you're angry it's because you haven't truly swallowed the pill. Actually, the anger phase is more common than not, and is a direct result of swallowing the red pill. And women aren't evil, they are hypergamous by nature. And that isn't evil, but how they are hardwired.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:30 PM
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Her: rude comment Me: Stop whatever it is I'm doing with her. Let her know I'm going to go do something else (ie run), and that I'll see her again when she can stop behaving like a spoiled bratty teenager. Something along those lines. I don't tolerate it, I don't ignore, I call it out as rude behavior and go do something else. I don't need crappy people like that in my life. Let her hamster think, and she'll come back and apologize, usually wants sex too. The trick is do not engage her in an arg…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 01:53 PM
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I would ask them if they needed to reschedule our meeting to deal with it. I agree with this. You can use humor at the same time, and everyone will know she just got told to put her fucking phone away in a professional tactful way.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:02 PM
1

I think it's different for everyone. Working out helps deal with it. It just takes time. At some point, I began to realize that getting mad, although fully justified, doesn't really help anymore. I think it's a gradual thing that goes away over time.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:37 PM
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No it isn't easy, is it? Not everyone goes through the anger stage, the red pill is like that. But I think everyone agrees it's not easy, and can be very bitter sometimes. Generally, the good things in life don't come easy.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:26 PM
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You have to remember that a lot of guys who end up here are going through the anger stage of red pill. So you will see a lot of rage coming out in various ways. I just kind of take it with a grain of salt, understanding the stage they are in, because I was there myself at one point.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 08:40 PM
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Because he wasn't lighting her fire anymore. Too much beta and a woman loses attraction to you. Then Zack who spins plates crosses her path and it's like shooting a fish in a barrel. Hubby doesn't sound too beta, but there are plenty of guys alpha, but with their wife become very beta. It's what we were taught by society this is what a wife wants. The really good cheaters still have sex with their spouse. The next post he makes, if this is real, will probably be her describing sexual acts with Z…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 06:22 PM
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Making breakfast for someone isn't necessarily blue pill behavior. But it most certainly is a servile act for a woman. Which still isn't bad, but if you don't balance that out with enough alpha behavior you end up in his situation. Read some more letcher, and your mind will become warped here too, which is the way the real world is. But I don't think you are ready to be unplugged yet.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 06:19 PM
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I try not to look back too much these days. The mistakes that were made from people who really should have known better, it just will lead me into incredible rage. Comes in handy to motivate me for certain things like working out. Just try to remember that life doesn't owe you a thing, and isn't fair. In fact, it likes to throw shit at you at the worst fucking time. How you handle it today, defines you as a man. People admire others, who despite the bullshit and crappyness of life, can still car…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:22 PM
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No, it isn't. You can tell yourself that if you want to, but it's an extra step or hoop that men jump through. I swat them down easily now, it's second nature, I've long since gotten past the why of having to past shit tests. We just disagree on this thats all. 2nd part of what you wrote is correct, it's a barometer to use. And a smart guy will pay attention and adjust accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:05 PM
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I'll check that link out, I probably already read it, but anything red pill needs to be read several times usually. I agree on having to run game more, truthfully it's just second nature to me now. But, getting to that point was not easy, in fact it was really hard, a lot of mistakes, and frustration. Sounds like life in general sometimes haha. I will say this, if I were in my 20's today, compared to back in the stone age when I was 20ish, I would be a lot more hesitant and careful about getting…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:09 PM
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tl/dr - It is impossible to maintain sexual tension with a woman you live with. I realize you are a moderator, but you are wrong on this. I have to run game on my wife is the short answer. And she also understands that I am playing for keeps, I have no qualms with walking away from everything if she screws up, and she also knows I have options. I will say this, it is distressing to me the number of married women who have shown me interest over the years.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:57 AM
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sigh. I don't understand how anyone could come up with me advocating being a selfish asshole in my reply. Or not being kind, as well. There are ways of being alpha without doing either of those, you know.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:49 AM
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I don't think you are sorry at all, actually. But I really don't give a crap what you think of me, some anonymous moron insulting me on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:43 AM
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I disagree, this is beta behavior land. If she actually complains you never open up to her, she is fishing for control, or an excuse for an action she is contemplating, or already did. I agree with a lot of the rest of what you wrote, but that should be the typical conversations you have with her, no whining, complaining, always be in a problem solving mode so to speak. -- a married idiot who doesn't know anything
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:39 PM
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I never thought about that but you are right, older childhood stories that gives her secret knowledge but really doesn't lower her attraction to you. Probably only a few stories though, otherwise you look like you have problems "stemming from your childhood".
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:27 PM
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Yep, you start opening up, they start losing attraction to you. In blue pill world, neither side knows why.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:22 PM
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"I want you to open up to me" This is like a bank robber calling the bank manager at home to turn off the alarm system at the bank so he can rob it easier. A response to this: You do understand I'm a man, right? This is how we are. or, Ok I'm going to open up to you. I have a secret to tell you. I feel really great when we get naked and have sex, fuck, etc
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:16 PM
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The tricky part is that a little beta goes a long way. Plus I would almost panic about falling back in beta behavior and immediately want to correct it. For me I had to learn and watch her reaction, to my response to her test. Even then it can be tricky. After so many years of beta behavior, my basic rule is to side with alpha. I have found that you can fix too much alpha with a little beta, much much easier than fixing too much beta with alpha.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:10 PM
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You can however make yourself more sexually attractive, whether to maintain a woman you have, or to attract new ones. And a lot of this sub is about the truth of what generates that sexual attraction. I think most people here understand that we are all wired to cheat, men and women. There's a lot of guys who end up here because they had no clue what women are really attracted to, and are learning the truth of things.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:44 AM
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Yeah, I've never liked that term "fitness" test either. It implies something healthy and good, and that sure as hell isn't what a shit test is haha. I think the more you "pass" shit tests, the lower in frequency they come at you. But you are right, they never stop, just like we never stop looking at the menu when it walks by.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:23 AM
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If a woman is bitching at you while she’s ovulating, that means she thinks you are (or is worried that you might be) a loser. This can also be a sign that she is looking for rougher sex from you. Pretty easy to find out, just mention to her that after a remark like that she needs to be punished and watch her reaction.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:18 AM
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You've got me wrong, I don't harbor resentment against "these men", that's why I said, and I am by no means calling that a bad thing. That's a good article, I've read that before, maybe from rollo or chateau link. They most certainly are not victims. I was trying to point out (and maybe poorly) that one alpha widow's true love man can be just your average alpha guy spinning a plate.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:20 PM
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We are all human, and have faults and make mistakes. Can't show that though in front of a woman, because inside she will think you weak, and it will lower her sexual attraction to you. It's all a balance.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:25 PM
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Because if they blamed their cheating SO it means they made a wrong choice in SO and it's their own fault.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 02:28 PM
5

He hasn't learned AWALT yet.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 02:27 PM
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This is a good post, and if I could add to it: "He's not a bad guy, and there's nothing specifically offensive about him, but he isn't in shape, handsome, interesting, smart, or wealthy." But the sex is kind of boring, and although he's a good husband, he just doesn't do it for her. She feels guilty, but she fantasizes about 95th percentile man taking her, and having his way with her. In fact she thinks about him a lot, she supposes this is what is called "pining away" for him. The alpha widow g…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:59 PM
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/r/theredpill should be about improving ourselves as men. That's only part of it. Mainly, red pill is about exposing the truth of how women really think in regards to sex and men. As part of that, various strategies are discussed and debated, one of which is improving myself as a man.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:52 PM
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You do only have one life, and you should pursue your dreams. Life is too short just to do something for money and hate it. That being said, just make sure that your dream earns you enough money to carve out a living. Generally, the things you enjoy you are also good at. Also, if you have kids, you've given up your chance, sorry, but you have responsibilities now. I know very few people who had the guts to do this. Most people piss on the idea of pursuing your dream because they were too afraid …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:07 PM
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I don't know how much I would have done differently, but there is without a doubt one piece of information that I would have appreciated knowing, and it's AWALT. (and it's not because of an affair, or divorce) I understood rep pill theory back then, but it was from the viewpoint of, a certain percentage of women like it when guys are jerks/dominate/bossy to them, not all of them. Or, some women like leaders, but not all of them. Or even, why on earth do women throw their panties at rock stars du…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:27 PM
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Also I noticed how he kept calling Matt by his first name, it reminded me of a "father figure" for lack of a better way of describing it, scolding his child. Really a great example of displaying confidence, whether you agree with him or not.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:30 PM
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How does wealth help with girls? It can go either way. Buy a high end fast car or motorcycle and you've got an alpha boost. A girl who knows you make good money can be viewed as a good beta provider. Both together = loyal committed woman who can give you a good blowjob when you feel like it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 01:41 PM
1

What helps me is doing a good workout when something is getting on my nerves like that.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:32 PM
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Yep, like others said it was gaslighting all the way. Basically a person gets caught in something, and the person committing the "crime" tries to explain it as different behavior than what was perceived, and/or also telling the accuser that they are crazy for thinking that. The second you found her pinching off the flowers, and when confronted she didn't immediately break down crying because of how she fucked up, the relationship was over. Her craziness was just revealed, she was hurting the flo…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:23 PM
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but extreme pain is the only way he might ever find the truth. Yep, or a long time of going without good sex and wondering what the fuck is he doing wrong. Maybe nice guys really don't get laid.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:14 PM
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But that doesn't mean anything!" This pretty much says it all, and means everything. Just like any other beta, he's secretly hoping one night she will just strip her clothes off and launch herself at him. But he's been too afraid to make a move for all these years, because he's been taught by society that women don't really want aggressive guys, and that he will win in the end, because he's being a nice guy. It's only a matter of time, right? It's like a broken record that somehow starts getting…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:08 PM
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That's how I read it as well.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:03 PM
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Here she is just a shitty friend which is also not being debated On this forum, she is probably not being viewed as a friend at all. Her behavior certainly hasn't indicated that. So I'm not surprised there isn't even a debate. 10 year "best friends", and that's how he's treated? Most people here would not be surprised in the least, because it's been seen before, only with serious long term girlfriends or even marriages. Many women choose violent men to be in relationships with, not the other way…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:57 PM
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And 10 years of friendship with a woman? What the fuck were you thinking? He'll be here someday once he chokes down the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:05 PM
1

There are nice guys, and there are weak guys. Unfortunately society, both men and women, have basically lumped them into the same thing. I have to continually remind people that I'm nice, but not weak, and it always shocks them.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:04 PM
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Well I would expect her to at least tell her boyfriend - "you didnt need to do that. He is my friend". Maybe. But you can't go by what a woman says, you have to go by her actions. And she clearly is favoring the new boyfriend. This is what the OP failed to do from the getgo, undoubtedly because he is still very blue pill. If she is in an abusive relationship, instead of complaining about it on the internet, he needs to sit her down and talk to her once about it, and then move on if she chooses t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 01:58 PM
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Yes there is a way back, there always is. It will just take some time. You broke frame, it happens. You will again, just keep at it, and the mistakes will come fewer and fewer. You allowed yourself to get sucked into a conversation, don't do it. Recognize it and just say I've said what I wanted to say, we don't need to keep talking about it. She will get pissed and try and engage you, don't do it. Let her get mad. Don't be afraid of her getting mad at you. The agree and amplify is a great way to…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:13 PM
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PROTIP: Don't go to clubs to pick up women, I have had very little success at clubs over the years. Just out of curiosity, where has the best success been? By club I'm assuming you mean "dance club" ?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:06 PM
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<Can someone explain why I am insecure around people that I deem above me, and how can I fix that?> Because you are always comparing yourself to others, instead of focusing on yourself and your goals. There is always going to be someone richer, stronger, taller, etc out there. You know what, they have fucking problems too, it's the great equalizer of the world. Some of the most successful people are fucked up. (ie robin williams) Stop comparing yourself to others. Also, stop hanging around peopl…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 01:58 PM
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Totally agree. Sometimes in life you will end up on the losing side of things, and how you handle it is crucial. You absolutely cannot talk about it, because it will be viewed as weakness by even the most loyal woman. And weakness in a man makes panties go dry like the sahara desert. Don't get dejected, your still on a mission, this was only a small stumbling block, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 01:29 PM
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I think that's pretty normal, you were expecting family to agree and support you, after all you are just improving yourself. Unfortunately, the reality is not that, and you probably found yourself shocked, and broke your frame. Even family doesn't like it when you are changing yourself, and will shit test you fiercely to keep you in your place. Agree and amplify, keep it funny. They will come around eventually. I also had a few f-bomb arguments due to finally standing up to a severe lack of resp…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 04:59 PM
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I haven't read those two threads yet, but I sure am gonna now, you got my curiosity up. I'll probably regret it though, if the responses are that bad. This place is like a giant school of fish, veering off sometimes to a place it really shouldn't go. (man shaming, bro knighting, or what have you) I just want you to know I appreciate the occasional "reminder" from the mods on things from time to time. It does help, a lot, and keeps my interest in coming back.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:51 PM
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"There is a Mrs. Nice Girl out there, looking for her nice guy, and if he’s busy tied up with the one who’s all wrong for him, he’ll miss out on finding her" The hamster wheel is turning fast on this one. See she is doing it all for his benefit! It's a good article, gives honest insight into woman thought process though.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:35 PM
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One can either be a rule follower, or a rule breaker. Guess which one makes panties wet? The trick is to do it without ending up in jail and being fudgepacked. This is such a low level of rule breaking that it's laughable, but it worked so I will. My wife and I go to a christmas party last night. A bunch of people, with a variety of incomes including some millionaires. A couple of them had brought a really nice bottle of cabernet, but were hiding it so the unwashed masses wouldn't drink it up on…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:09 PM
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I think it's even more than part of it. It's one of the most important parts of being alpha, being a leader. Now obviously we can't all be THE leader all the time, but it's more about leading by example, confidently and in charge of yourself. Others will follow you automatically when you do it right. Mostly, it's about being the leader with her.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 08:52 PM
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Even if you did, you can't fucking "turn the alpha on" and get her to do something she doesn't want to do with you. You are completely wrong about this, you know. Just what on earth do you think game is ? You most certainly can adopt behaviors and actions to increase the desire that females will have for you. And yes, you can increase the attraction that a girl will feel for you, enough to do more "advanced" stuff. I know because I'm living proof. You are missing my point. When I say, "ramp up t…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:18 AM
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For the life of me I cannot understand how this reply gets 16 points. If a woman is willing to do something sexually for someone else, and not for you, it's because she was more highly attracted to that "someone else". ie more alpha, than she was you. The woman who complains about TMJ with you will happily go down and suck brad pitt off to completion and swallow it even. I don't think it's an insecurity thing, it's more of a barometer check. And if you aren't getting the sexual satisfaction you …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:36 PM
1

"Each time I found her texting them, I punished her. When a broad texts dudes while you're around, fix it on the spot and be a dick about it." I'm curious what you did to punish or fix it?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:57 PM
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If I talk about it, I never ever mention "red pill". I remember being blue pill, and believe me, the first thought anybody blue pill has is that red pill = evil, selfish, user and abuser, just throw in your worst adjectives. If they even know what red pill means. Even though it's the truth, it's such an utter shock to blue pill people that they simply outright reject it. You know, like "the earth actually revolves around the sun" sort of deal. An example of how I might talk about it, remember th…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:46 PM
1

Or, you mean sudafed? That red pill?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:38 PM
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Holy fucking shit... a light bulb just came on! Look how it shines boys! Yeah it came on all right. She has just learned to never, ever, reveal anything about her past CC life, and reduce the number of men she fucked whenever she tries to find some beta bucks. This is classic to show how women reach the conclusion to lie about their past. If she is honest she will feel bad about herself, or be judged and we all know women never go through life based on their feelings. It makes me realize even be…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:13 PM
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So far so good, but like others have said if you keep ignoring her she will eventually stop contacting you. But yes, you are "holding frame". The question is, what do you want with this girl?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 02:04 PM
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I don't see it as a whiny rant at all. He identified his beta behavior, and is going to improve it. So he posts here, in an effort for others to learn from his mistake.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:49 PM
1

I think a low partner count is a good sign, for either gender. A 30 year old virgin is not a good sign, she has no sex drive, or is gay and doesn't know it. Tied in with that, is whether she was into dating/fucking several guys at once. Good luck with getting the actual number out of her, she is a woman after all, but use your judgement. Human beings are creatures of habit, and if you are into having sex with lots of people, or with several people at the same time, it pretty much makes you lousy…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 12:01 PM
2

When it gets on your nerves, hit the weights, track, whatever you are doing to work out, and hit it hard.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 01:44 PM
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I think if you got a closer look at him, you will just see the same characteristics that attract women. Alpha guy and social leader for one, listen to his comment: "An FBI wire tap captured White saying, ‘This is my jail. You understand that,’ and claiming to control everything from contraband to mob hits within the prison." He's the leader there, that's going to make panties wet. Plus he's a bad boy, he's in jail...now it's dripping... On top of that, think about why certain women want to be pr…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 03:26 PM
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Are we scared of a little competition? There's no question in my mind this is the case for a percentage of red pill guys. It's not that they are afraid, but why make it tougher for yourself if you have to compete with other red pill guys, when it's so easy to compete against a blue piller. So they don't share info about the red pill, just to be selfish. Which, actually, is a tenet of red pill knowledge, to look out for yourself. See the conundrum? Personally, I share the info, because I remember…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 02:38 PM
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Actually, they are far smarter than you think, it's us the public they think are dumb assholes, because we keep voting back in the same corrupt incumbents, whichever party it doesn't matter. Don't identify with either party, because they have only their own power in their interests.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 12:54 PM
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One of the problems is that there are guys on here whose knee-jerk reaction is to just say "get over it". They either forgot how it felt to be unplugged, or think they are trying to help. I view it like this, if you have recently lost a loved one, you are feeling a very strong emotion of grief. The last possible fucking thing you want to hear, and really the worst piece of advice, is some moron going, "oh, just get over it". The levels of anger that people feel, and the duration vary I think. Th…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 06:59 PM
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I think there are sweet and bitter parts to it, regardless of how you take it.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:09 PM
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Can you give us an example of what he is doing?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 01:03 PM
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I think a lot of guys become red pill, because they have been hurt. There are a lot of amazing women out there, but that doesn't change the fact of what the basic laws of attraction are. That women are sexually attracted to dominance (social), jerk boy behavior, and alpha guys. That is the simple truth, not the amazing beautiful ally that you have in your fantasy world. If you are a man, maybe you will see this someday, maybe you won't, not everyone is willing to look at the male/female dynamics…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 02:00 AM
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when it's all just stupid assumptions You know, I wish your post was the truth, from the bottom of my heart. I really do. The sad fact is that she is most likely cheating on her husband. Not a small chance, not even a 50% chance, but greater than that. Don't take my word for it though, do your own research, with an objective mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 01:20 AM
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What gets me is all the bullshit advice basically just saying he shouldn't feel insecure instead of encouraging self-improvement & working on dread game. You have forgotten what being plugged in the matrix is really like?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 01:14 AM
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Yep red pill all the way, that guy's pregnant wife is probably banging the shit out of her friend, while telling her husband she is too tired from being pregnant. And the hamster is going full wheel, all these crazy hormones in my body from the baby, I would never normally do this.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 01:11 AM
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it's almost more about how evil women are. No, it's understanding the true nature of women. They are not evil, they are hypergamous. Understanding how to be an attractive man to females is only half of the equation, the other half is understanding the nature of women. Sure there are some haters here, there are everywhere. But for you to lump this whole sub into a woman hater group, maybe you haven't been lurking here as long as you say.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:12 PM
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Sounds like childish behavior. That's how a woman behaves, you haven't learned that yet, have you? I'm being 100% serious here. Pretend she is a 5 year old brat, and deal with it. If you don't, the behavior gets worse. So you have to deal with it on a level that a woman understands. To you it feels like childish behavior, but that is how dealing with a woman feels, to someone who is new to the red pill. I would read the sidebar material, it will help. Also, she is shit testing you because she is…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 02:08 PM
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Actually, you don't have a clue what the red pill means. Whether he is bitter on not doesn't change the fact that marriage these days is a risk for any man due to the heavy financial impact of when a wife becomes unhappy. Then you have the false belief that a marriage can be made better by a husband listening and doing what a wife tells him to do to improve things. Your hypergamy, combined with your own inability to understand it, as well as his complete unawareness of it, is the problem most bl…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:26 PM
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Actually I think this happens more often than you would expect, and it's not gender related. What happens is that a person is married to another person who has major problems, like alcoholism. 10 years married, never leaves the drunk. Then one day, the alcoholic doesn't drink anymore, completely improves their life, becomes a better person. Within a short period, the original healthy person wants a divorce. It's because the original "healthy" person now can't use the drunk to feel better about t…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:41 PM
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I've been married over 15 years. Congrats on maintaining your frame and the good results. Be prepared however for some major shit testing, as she will be uncomfortable with the "new" you for a while. Just weather the storm. I suspect a lot of the downvotes are from guys who have forgotten what it's like when you first take the red pill. As you grow and learn, you will probably look back on this thinking it's actually not as big a deal as you thought at the time, if that makes sense. I remember h…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 09:35 AM
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but they bring it on their selves... I don't think they bring it on themselves, they were never taught correctly from the beginning. In fact, society wants men to be beta, that's what we are told time and time again, especially by women.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:37 PM
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Yeah right. If Brad Pitt (or insert hot guy) were dating you, you sure as hell wouldn't want to have equal leadership with him - he won't be as attractive then. And most women's way of "let you know it" means the sex starts dwindling. So you are right there.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:35 PM
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She most certainly can believe it, even at a primal level. It only takes a man, by his actions, showing her, and time for her to believe that he has changed. The problem is that it may take other female interest in you, and by then it might be too late. When a beta turns to alpha, and discovers just how easy pussy is out there, worrying about one single woman doesn't become such a priority. We will just have to disagree on this.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 11:02 PM
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That's what I mean, when you have changed. Not when you have picked up tricks, or tried something temporary, it's when you have actually changed. At first she will doubt it, etc, but at some point she will realize that the "new" you is permanent. Now, that still doesn't mean that she will change as well, but when you start drawing other female attention it becomes a moot point. Eventually you get to a point where you think to yourself, why am I hanging around with this woman who treats me like t…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:34 PM
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I'm gonna cut this knot too, because your dumb ass still doesn't get it. Of course women want to be desired, especially by an alpha male. What you don't seem to fucking get, is that what is more important is that they desire alpha males. A man uses red pill knowledge to modify his behaviors, appearance, etc, causing women to desire him, and chase after him.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 02:29 PM
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Not sure why you are downvoted, this is red pill 100%.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:32 PM
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At least you learned it before you got married like me. The funny thing is that early in my marriage I discovered that getting upset with my wife would lead to blowjobs for some inexplicable reason. Which I refused to do back in the day because I felt it was wrong. ("I'm not going to get mad at her just to get a blowjob") Now of course I understand the dynamics, it was a display of alpha, making her more attracted to me. Thank god for the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:29 PM
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She knows you are weak. No, she thinks you are weak. It's only a matter of time to wear her down with enough alpha and then she realizes you've changed. You are right flipping the switch will not go well, but it will go one way or the other.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:21 PM
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and now I'm fucked. No you aren't, that is a defeatist attitude. You've taken the red pill, you are on your way to changing for the better. Whether it happens with this girl, or the next one, you still have to change. Alpha guys don't whine about their problems, they take care of them. You want to dump her, go ahead. But you still have to change yourself and you are on your way. It gets easier.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:11 PM
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I'd say it would cause him less distress to cut his losses and learn from it. He has to change anyway, because it will happen with the next girl he sees. Might as well be with this one.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:07 PM
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No counseling and no communication will fix this. But it can be fixed with upping your own alpha.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:06 PM
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Making them feel desired is part of it yes. But a bigger part is making them desire you.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:02 PM
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The most bitter aspect of the red pill for me personally was realizing that my wife is not my best friend. This went against everything I was taught growing up and the most difficult thing to overcome. I can't talk about everything with her or she loses attraction to me. Even stupid stuff like where to go for dinner. Back in beta land I would have talked about what she felt like eating where to go etc. Now it's, grab your coat we are going out for steak. Leadership and decisiveness, plus a littl…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:18 AM
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No, you just have to keep running game like you were single.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:10 AM
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There are plenty of guys screwing single women with the same issues you know.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:33 PM
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There's always someone out there more alpha that you, whether you are married or not. The only time you have to worry about it is if you aren't supplying enough alpha in the marriage, then she will look elsewhere. And if another male comes in proximity with a higher smv, you AMOG him. The other really important thing is that you chose correctly the right woman for a wife. Even then, we are all capable and wired to have an affair. That's why you still run game after getting married.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:29 PM
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No I disagree. If you make her desire you, then you are less likely to hear the ILYBIANILWY There are plenty of blue pill guys out there desiring their wife, and the wives aren't putting out for them because the wives aren't attracted to their husband's beta ways.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:24 PM
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In the end that was Steven's first taste of the red pill. A real beta wouldn't have even confronted her, he would have gone home butthurt and cried.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:24 PM
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I think it comes down to how much action you are getting from home. As I took the red pill, and upgraded myself, I've had several "tests". Hot babe wanting me to go over to her house alone with her to "fix" something. Not only is the urge there, but you get offers too. It messes with your mind, especially if it's top shelf stuff. (ie sex rank higher than me or wife) If I wasn't getting action at home...
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:39 PM
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Most men out there are have been raised to think beta behavior is what women really want. And as you have found out, this doesn't make you wet.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:29 PM
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Yes one of the most important concepts for me to finally understand was that sexual attraction is not a choice. You can't decide to be attracted to somebody because they are doing nice things for you.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:19 PM
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Actually I think a lot of guys would, if they were married, and the sex life was good. That's the difference between men and women. A women would eventually become repulsed by her much lower man and hamster out a way to have an affair. "I'm not happy"
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:26 PM
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I don't know I'm not saying it's real, but do you have anything else to back up that it's fake? Some of those girls responses seemed pretty real to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:44 PM
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You don't have to sacrifice your morals to be red pill. You can even still be a nice guy, just not a weak guy. Unfortunately most people in today's world think nice = weak and it's not. Then you have to educate them. What you do with red pill knowledge is your decision. Some guys use it and just don't give a fuck how many lives, or families, they ruin. I'm married, and I use it in my marriage to make myself more attractive to my wife. In the same way that a woman will keep herself in physical sh…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:23 PM
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Right, you are a girl and you are going to get in a car, ALONE, with a total weirdo.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:40 PM
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It's only harassment when the guy is a lower sex rank than the girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:34 PM
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Her boyfriend wasn't alpha enough. One day, he will be here learning as well. Can you imagine yourself being in a video like that? I could easily have been that guy years ago, and thank fucking god we didn't record shit like is done today.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:33 PM
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No, but you are beginning to understand, and it's not what you were expecting or hoping. If it hasn't happened yet, your world is about to get flipped upside down. We are much much closer to animals than we would like to believe. Sex is a very primal, animal act, and you are dealing with thousands of years of evolution causing us to behave today in certain ways that benefited our ancestors in ways that kept us reproducing. Kind of like animal instinct. I'm in my 40's. If you told me 30 years ago…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:31 PM
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anger stage. It will get better over time. What you are seeing with eyes finally open is the true nature of women, and it's nothing like what you were taught. They aren't the innocent, honest and virtuous creatures you were led to believe. It's how they are hardwired. Just like you are wired up to turn your head and start getting a hard on when a HB bikini girl walks by you, women are wired the same way when a man walks by enticing their hypergamous nature. Istrebitel, you've been living in a dr…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:22 PM
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I didn't view him as alpha at all. Asking questions of the car owner, wanting to take picture, letting girl go for a ride knowing that it's making her wet, not taking lead in anything, all beta to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:15 PM
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ask for gas money? No way then she'll never have sex with blue pill nice guy
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:53 PM
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Grab a hammer and hit me while your at it
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:51 PM
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I look back too and just cringe at some stuff, holy crap. Good story thanks for posting. The next beta guy in line she probably started fucking and then sprung the citizenship request.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:51 PM
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In blue pill world that's what a nice guy is, don't you know that?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:44 PM
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She is upset that I am strong enough to say no Bingo! Oh the reasons they get upset: - that you aren't her bitch boy to command around - that she actually has to work at the relationship - that she can't take you for granted, and maybe she better not let the contractor fuck her hard like she was thinking about - that she doesn't have you wrapped around her finger
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:18 PM
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I couldn't agree more, it's crucial to having a good marriage. One thing I have learned that is important, is to let other women show their interest in me when my wife can see it. Don't avoid them, downplay it etc. My wife sees another woman interested in me and she can't wait to fuck me.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:49 PM
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-asking for things with a bad tone of voice (as in commanding you) - asking you to do something for her that she is perfectly capable of herself - asking you to go out of your way to do something for her -asking you to hold her purse, go get her pads at store, basically making you her servant. A good starting point is the tone of her voice.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:45 PM
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She's probably trying to suck you into a conversation about something, and you know you can't out-talk a woman. The game is stacked against you for that. What worked for me is giving her good feedback after good behavior. She learned I'm a much happier/nicer person when I get a lot of sex. She has to learn this I think, you can't tell her.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:41 PM
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The first 2 years of his blog and the primer are good. But after that I think he sold out and started appealing to women readers.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:34 PM
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Perfect example of a blue pill guy. He's still plugged in, not understanding the rules of the game, he was taught lies his whole life growing up, and when he is exposed to the truth, is unable to process it. He's confused and doesn't know what to do. If he is lucky, he'll stumble across a red pill. This is why we are here, to unplug guys like this and for all that we are misaligned, hated, and vilified, all we want to do is offer him the truth.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:40 PM
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Yes you are doing something right, they are uncomfortable with you changing and are trying to control you into changing back. This is totally normal and expected, and easy to see, but when you are the one in the spotlight it's hard to deal with sometimes. Especially when all you are doing is improving yourself. Take their remarks in stride, stay calm and assertive and agree and amplify back. It probably feels awkward, and different and uncomfortable but stay your course and weather the storm. It…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:27 PM
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No it's not afraid of you, it's that they realize they cannot faze you.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:17 PM
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Yep they want you to stay beta. If he can weather the shit storm of testing that is beginning and short lived, he'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:16 PM
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I had an interesting conversation with my wife about this, the video popped up on the today show and she immediately started making comments about look what that woman had to put up with. So I say, "so if you are walking the street like she was, and Brad Pitt was standing on the sidewalk as you walk by, and goes, "Hey Babe how are you", you probably wouldn't have considered it harassment, would you?" She wouldn't answer my question, gave me some kind of "well I'd have to think about that" vague …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:58 AM
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It's going to take a long time, with lots and lots of small steps. Think of it like running a marathon and not a sprint. The other thing is that people aren't going to want for you to change, they don't like that. So be prepared for some confrontations as they try and put you back in your place. If you can be calm, carry your frame, and yet still be alpha, I think that is your best bet. I have failed at this and gotten into f bomb conversations, but in all honesty some guys will only respond to …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 02:24 PM
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Then just say, "I am smiling".
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:24 PM
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Live enough years and you'll understand how life's shit has a way of changing you, or maybe more aptly put, has a way of you allowing yourself to change.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:04 PM
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Well, you could say a great blow job always makes me smile.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:02 PM
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I agree 100%. There is some old bullshit about, "you can pick your friends but not your family". Well fuck that, that just gives family members an excuse to treat you as badly as they want to, and get a free pass. I always say to those people, oh yeah, if jeffrey dalmer was your brother, would you be having him over for thanksgiving dinner? No? Well I guess you can pick your family then can't you?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:49 PM
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I hear you man. I've been unplugged for over a year (I'm in my mid forties), and what I've also noticed are some major huge fights with people close to me, as in related to me. I'm talking loud voices and lots of f bombs. Every one of them has been about me essentially telling them I'm not putting up with this lack of respect any more. Or if female, telling them I'm done with them unless they cut out the bullshit disrespect act. I'm not literally standing there saying "stop disrespecting me", bu…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:37 PM
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You will see shit like this left and right on tv. Wait until you are out in the real world, and it happens right in front of you in person. Over and over and over. The answer to your question is of course, it's not acceptable. But that's because you are red pill. Your question really is, why are so many people blue pill? Because we were raised without being taught the basic rules of male and female dynamics. Some of us made it here.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:29 PM
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You can tell a woman is being honest by observing her actions, and paying attention to that. Even if what she tells you right now is 100% the truth, you do realize that being a woman, she has a certain probability of changing her mind, right? Don't sweat it, everyone lies and actions always speak louder than words. You've been unplugged, the old ways don't always work like you are used to. It's just a matter of calibrating to the reality of truth. It will become second nature eventually.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 01:45 PM
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It sounds to me like some major shit testing, or she has lost all respect. Or is she pushing your buttons like this to get you all worked up for some rough sex? After the pussy comment I would think about taking her to the bedroom saying pussy huh we'll see who the pussy is and fuck her so hard you break the goddamn bed
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:03 PM
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It is a conundrum. Women are sexually attracted to jerks and assholes, because they are jerks and assholes, not in spite of it. Wait until you try a few asshole things as an experiment, and they work, then you will really have a decision to make, grasshopper. There are other ways, just lead, make decisions and not be wishy washy, go after what you want in life, have a plan. You don't have to be an asshole to pull women's interest, but do have to show you are not doormat material. Oh yeah, read a…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:07 PM
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It's pretty common to nod as a way of saying hi, so I wouldn't read into it. Being 6 5 however I'm sure you've run into some guys afraid of you. If you want to be alpha around your girlfriend, just start leading and making decisions. It's that easy. ie if you are going to go out to eat at a restaurant, instead of asking her what do you feel like eating, just tell her we are going to Joe's steakhouse tonight. It will feel awkward at first, but watch how it makes her happier.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 01:04 PM
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I do the same thing, look back and see red pill knowledge there if I had eyes willing to see it. I can remember sitting around playing poker with some uncles and one of them stating women don't really know what they want. In fact one of them may have even stated women often say the opposite of what they really mean. At the time I of course believed NAWALT. I just thought to myself you guys picked the wrong women. I was blindly alpha enough growing up that I just brushed it off. The problem is th…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 01:11 PM
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I was in the same boat, I know what you mean. It won't happen with my children either.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 12:54 PM
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You have to remember that people come here in various stages of taking the red pill, some of them very new. Your post, which comes across as quite angry and bitter itself, will probably lose any of the readers who need to read it before they are even 1/4 of the way through. Anger phase is part of the process, everyone has their own path to get through it. Telling someone to just get over being angry is about as helpful as telling someone to just be himself around women. Be angry all you want, bu…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:50 AM
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Yeah there is some of that, and you've got to work through the depression of realizing that you have to sink yourself down to animal level interacting. And not just with women. That's what bugs the shit out of me. It's an act I have to put on, because too many people assume that if I am a nice guy, I'm a weak guy. So I have to educate them...gets tiring some days having to drop f bombs to educate some moron.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:23 PM
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Amused Mastery is when you are so far above your woman in knowing where she is going to attack that you get there before she does. That's heaven when you get at that level. Not easy. Yep it's priceless. Predicting her hamster reaction, and then countering it without even missing a beat in a calm voice leaves her speechless and with a very confused look on her face. It's like she got beat on her home turf: women's intuition. Game on baby.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:21 AM
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I've done this myself. I have a sister in law who clearly likes me. The other day standing around the house she asked me what kind of coffee I wanted, she wanted to go fetch me some just the way I wanted. Right in front of her husband, who didn't get asked by the way. I go in blue pill mode, hesitated, acted like I wasn't sure, and said umm, I don't know, I can't decide, I'll just get some myself I guess maybe later. I'm sorry. I could actually see the fire in her eyes dim out. On a side note, I…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 02:06 PM
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There are people in life who just don't want other people to get ahead, even their own friends. The BFG is a classic example of this. Her friend, who is dating you, has a great guy and is happy. Maybe this causes the BFG to reflect on her own life, and doesn't like what she sees, so she tries to sabotage things to make herself feel better. As the drama plays out, what does this say about the girl you are dating? Her choosing to have friends like that. What does this say about you, choosing a gir…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:20 PM
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Good job maintaining frame as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:42 AM
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If you say every red pill man older than 22 then I think everyone here would agree. Most guys are blue pill though, and think most alpha guys are just jerks. And the only girls who want to fuck them are a percentage of girls who are morons or get tricked into sex.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 11:29 PM
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One way or another, this relationship is completely doomed. Even if it's fake, it's a classic example of how women will lie about their previous sexual encounters. She thinks nothing about her lying about her history, because she knows that if she told the truth from the getgo, any decent guy is going to run for the fucking hills. He will never be able to get that image out of his head, and as the relationship progresses, and she denies him sexual acts that he knows she was willing to do to othe…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 03:36 PM
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It will get better, it just takes time. Mad at yourself, mad at parents, church, basically anyone considered smarter and wiser over the years spoon feeding you shit and telling you it's steak. It really isn't your fault, you were following your own personal moral compass. (and you should still, but my goodness the difference now) The important thing to remember is that you got here, (as in taking red pill), it only gets better. For me, the anger eventually faded away somewhat when it became more…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:18 PM
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I agree. The anger phase, if you get it, is a normal reaction, and a step you have to work through on a personal level. I've pretty much reached the conclusion that anyone who doesn't understand the anger is an idiot, and not worth paying attention to anyway. Eventually, the anger fades away and you can move on, but that's something you have to do. Telling someone they shouldn't be mad and or to "just" put it behind you is practically the dumbest fucking advice you could give. Telling someone ye…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 08:38 PM
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I would like to comment also on the horseshit brother. He may have been a troll or not, but rest assured there are plenty of guys reading and saying the same thing and not commenting. I took the red pill in my mid 40's, been married over 15 years, and I barely survived it. I read somewhere how older guys have a harder time unplugging, and it was definitely true in my case. Only I didn't read that until yesterday, and I've been unplugged over a year. My anger stage lasted close to a year, and it …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 03:27 PM
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It can be overwhelming sometimes, realizing the truth about so many things. Information overload, I have to shut my brain down and do some simple task like closing the pool, or exercise, hard. Obama: We need to bomb the sand people because the oil shieks told us too, they are afraid of losing power. And if we don't help them our oil is going up in price instead of down, that's what they told me. Also we need to import as many illegal aliens as possible, and the republicans fully support this. I …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 01:57 PM
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I agree. The reason is that some of the stuff that is talked about here, is really close to the core of who you are, the good and the bad, and there is so much blue pill out there I find it impossible to even begin to talk about stuff that is commonly discussed in detail and further here. Then you start letting too much personal stuff out, not because you slip up, but you realize that other red pillers can actually help you better, or learn from you better, with the actual truth. Then before you…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:51 PM
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Thank you dr but you are wrong. Why do so many people insist on extremes? I still like women, I just don't have as much respect for them now. One of the bitter side effects of the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:42 PM
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Maybe. Or maybe it's the dawning of knowledge of the woman you thought you knew just turned out to be a childish selfish person who is attracted to jerks, and it turns you off. Which are the type of women your whole life turned you off because you believed that these type of women are not worth your time because of they are just dumb fools, not smart enough to stop letting their vaginas do their thinking for them, and easily tricked by uncaring bastards. Which then leads to anger phase because y…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:13 PM
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I agree, except for the "mad at men when they exhibit beta". I think it's more of a disgust than anger, or it rapidly turns to that. Then the sexual attraction vanishes. Great video btw, funny and sadly true.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 11:58 AM
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