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| 0 | Should I tell her? | Conversation | Few-Solution3050 | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 07:11 AM |
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| 6 | How often do women approach you?Less attractive, more attention-starved (even 9s can be that), women with higher sexual drive will, from my experience, give very obvious hints - even get sexual both in DMs and in convo as long as they get the vibe that we're on the same wavelength - but never make an approach or the first move. Im no 20s Brad Pitt by any means but used to do modeling as a side thing 7 or 8 years ago for whatever it's worth. Getting grabbed by random drunk girls in clubs was the closest I got to being "approach… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 10:56 AM |
| 4 | Dedicating a few years to cold approach - Crazy to do at 32?I cant answer for all 4, but here's a quick story that should hopefully answer your first q: Friend thats turning 31 in less than 2 months just got out of a almost 2 year relationship. Guy dropped 20+ pounds, hits the gym daily. Was rusty as heck at first but ive never seen him pull as many girls as in the last 2 months. And ive known him since he was 25 and 50+ lbs leaner. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 01:33 PM |
| 1 | one of the best pickup artist Cajun ( appeared in keys to the vip too)What happened to the guy? He still around teaching this? Does he have any social presence? | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Women Want You To Be MysteriousGreat bullet list! I don’t usually screenshot stuff from reddit (because most of it is crap) but this is a great cheat sheet and reminder! I’d say every “don’t” and “never” in your bullet list is a big NO exactly because that’s female energy. It’s a woman’s…”task”(? In the lack of better wording) to: qualify herself - with words, because men qualify themselves with (wordless, zero-expectations-in-return, hopefully) actions express her intentions - studies show that women are much better at emoti… | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Women Want You To Be MysteriousI’d say go to point #2 - drop breadcrumbs, but let her dream and envision that future first. The title of the post is about being mysterious after all. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Socializing with locals in Japan as a foreignerF | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 08:25 AM |
| 22 | "Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what?Inside of you. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell her?I removed the "edit" part about the muscle gain style etc. because so many people are assuming I'm trying to "prove" myself that I'm a better version of my old self now. That was just meant as an explainer to the community, if it should help for whatever reason. I really do appreciate your inputs though! And yeah I'm definitely way way overinvested in this chick. Usually I don't really care what I respond to girls on dating apps nor irl and still get pretty good results (yes, I get it that keepi… | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her?I meant more in the sense of timing / whether following-up would be a good idea. Cheers man. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her?Thanks man, appreciate it. :) Do you have any tips on how I should play it? Especially considering the fact that she hasn't replied my previous text. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Should I tell her?I definitely am overthinking it. My brain short circuited after I realized who she was. I like your suggestion, but do you think it's appropriate with the current chat situation (we only exchanged 4 texts, and the ball is in her court currently). If she doesn't reply, how much do you reckon I should wait before following up? | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 07:37 AM |
| 0 | Should I tell her?...and was probably my favorite person ever on an app to chat with. Not at all. I really would love to meet her. The edit part was more of an explainer. Her finding out that the "me" gained muscle is irrelevant to me (I just got off a bear bulk, so I'm a fatass irl atm anyways). | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 07:34 AM |
| 2 | I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M)Gosh, where to begin with this. ...is a "successful" guy who rarely gets laid I get the "" marks, but success is a very subjective term, in your head, much like in that of every individual woman (person) in the world. Money doesn't necessarily translate into more p00sy. Depending on the kind of group of women you're looking to target, a guy that has cultivated different skills and earns 50k a year, will be leaps and bounds ahead of you. As I'm writing this I also realize how lame and entitle… | /r/seduction | 11/09/23 07:01 AM |
| 2 | What are words other than "cute", "beautiful" or "hot" you can give to a woman ?Damn I have to try that one. No chick slap in the world would make it not worth it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 04:00 PM |
| 3 | What are words other than "cute", "beautiful" or "hot" you can give to a woman ?Ironically a lot of my female friends would make jokes around fertility- i.e. holy crap look at Chris Hemsworth. Ovaries - full, eggs - laid, legs - spread. Or why can’t I find a man - a young, fertile chick like me. Or just the simple “ready to be fertilized”. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | I slept with 2 cute Russian girls in 3 daysThis is the most captivating intro I have ever read on Reddit. Blockbuster material man! Do you mind me asking where you are from and how old are you? As I understand age and nationality are huge factors when “calculating” your success rate. Thanks for sharing your story and best of luck man! | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Lovesick/depressionThat’s a great question. Would love to know too. Asking for a friend obvs. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?You dodged a bullet mate, be happy. And I’m not talking about the bitch shield. The date girl seems oblivious to the fact that she’s alive if she can’t tell that bitch shield is ruining your date. Bonus points for the fact that she “wish you could have stayed coz I had fun”. Find a girl that has enough character to act in a rational manner in situations like these. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 6 | How to handle situation where girl isn't over her ex?This is the only comment you need to read, OP. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 6 | When cold approaching, why telling a girl that she is cute is a bad idea?Exactly so body language haha (even facial expressions and movements count as part of body language). I think my confusion comes from the fact that I didn’t know these two words were synonyms. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 10:21 AM |
| 4 | When cold approaching, why telling a girl that she is cute is a bad idea?Well said haha | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:26 AM |
| 11 | When cold approaching, why telling a girl that she is cute is a bad idea?Sooooo…body language? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:25 AM |
| 36 | When cold approaching, why telling a girl that she is cute is a bad idea?Sorry for the newbie question but - what are subcomms? | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 06:53 AM |
| 47 | When cold approaching, why telling a girl that she is cute is a bad idea?Ngl was expecting one of these three scenarios to be one that actually works 😂 | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on sex and regretYou do you op. If you want to have sex, go for it. If you don’t, then don’t. Simple as that. You literally rephrased my last part. I never mentioned standards. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Need advice on sex and regretDon’t listen to ANYONE saying any hole is/is not the goal OP. I’m personally somewhere in between in the sense that I’ll go for periods where I want stability and “good quality” sex and I’ll have periods where I’ll go out with the sole purpose of finding a ons (pre-covid obvs 🥲). I’ve also met guys at both ends of the spectrum and they all have valid arguments as to why they chose to stay at each end. You do you op. If you want to have sex, go for it. If you don’t, then don’t. Simple as that. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?Wow that’s quite rude. We can’t choose whether we want to have ADHD or not. And I don’t believe everyone who leads an exciting and spontaneous life has ADHD. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?Well there we go. I think we just found one of the possible culprits - commitments. People living those lifestyles are by far in the minority and not considered as “most normal people”. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?I think what op meant was by “epic wild fun ride” is being spontaneous and ballsy enough to i.e. book a trip to the most remote location on a whim, or wake up one morning and say “hey, I wanna try shark diving today”, conquering the 7 summits, and being sociable to meet (and connect with) with these people to create memories with. No offense to picnics (who doesn’t like picnics after all? :D), but I don’t think they fall under this category. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?And some of us are broke ADHD fucks still living with out parents. Can’t do wild things without money. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | As a male, you MUST move outFresh grad from a small country in Central Europe here (and by “fresh” I mean it’s been a fucking year). It’s not just the housing market, but the job market as well. The better paid jobs in my country usually require relocation to the capital, and those jobs can’t even cover the cost of living. On the other hand, nobody in better developed countries (UK,NL,DK etc.) wants to hire people outside of their own country at the moment even though EU requires BY LAW for all labor to be treated as equal… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Went on 3 dates with a 10/10: My experience (so far)Love the fact that you haven't been intimidated by her shit tests! Most men tend to fail or lose their cool at this step. Massive respect for that. Got two questions if you dont mind: Slid into this girl’s (32F) Instagram DM’s. Was it a cold DM, or did you know her from beofre? If it was a cold one, would you mind sharing how the convo went for the first couple of exchanges? Or at the very least, could you say what your usual openers would be in these cases? I know lots of guys who just browse I… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | {Rant} - Freaking tired of your excusesYet when we’re 99% sure they are upset about something we get hit with the agonizing “it’s nothing” /s | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]ngl I felt gay for 2 seconds while listening to this voice memo. Damn your dreamy voice OP!! Edit: a bit late to the party to ask questions but just in short: 1. how do you manage to let so many women go without hurting their feelings (i.e. do you ghost them or are there other tactics involved?) and 2. how do you have the mental capacity to chat with so many women? I swear my negligence to reply within a reasonable span of time cost me so many sure things and second lays | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:01 PM |
| 3 | the massive undertaking of getting a girl to take interest in you after she friendzones you. Work on yourself insteadWow then you had your darkest days during your mid 20s. Im close to approaching that age, and I’m really thankful for coming across your story. Thanks so much for sharing this with us, really means a lot to someone like me. Keep smashing it man! 🔥 | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 12:02 PM |
| 7 | the massive undertaking of getting a girl to take interest in you after she friendzones you. Work on yourself insteadCongratulations man! Always a great start to my morning seeing success stories like these. Do you mind me asking how old you are? Super curious to know at what age someone is able to level up as far as you have, especially after a 4 year rut. I know it may be different for everyone, but it's always nice seeing at what age people get to this point. Many (most) people who end up in a place like that hardly ever come back, and it's really nice to know there are individuals like you who can gather t… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:06 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Someone got boulders between their legs. Congrats bro! | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Hey man, definitely! There’s plenty of things I’d do differently if I could go back in time. The first and most important one is I would stop caring what others thought of me. Trying to act or dress a certain way to impress people is kinda dumb. Even though everyone does it. But that leads to you not being relaxed, which in turn leads to you looking like a dumbass, which in turn leads to someone’s crappy convo skills to deteriorate further. I also found out very late that I have ADHD. The real k… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 01:25 PM |
| 8 | I am a ladies man. Why can't women see that?The 19 chest hairs gave it away for me =‘) | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 07:54 AM |
| 4 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Perhaps it’s not how you look/what you buy, but what you do/who you know. What is it that your brother does day-to-day that makes him get chicks adding him on snap. It’s not like they instinctively know his snap id, right? Does he hang out more than you/in other areas/with different (i.e willing to hook up/add u on snap) groups of people? When I was 17 (24 now), I liked to think I was one handsome guy. I still do, and in high school got hit on a lot but I could not “close deals” every weekend li… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 07:48 AM |
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