| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question) | Basic Question | Few-Tree-9946 | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 01:56 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)That's good stuff. Thanks for the input. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)That's incredibly helpful. Thanks a lot! | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)Anything else to say for increasing the little hope there is for me? Or anything that could be a useful pointer to un-retard myself? | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)No, german. I am certainly very retarded in my psychosexual development. Now I am attempting to make up for it in my early thirties. That's a bumpy road ahead for sure. The odds aren't in my favor with all that subconscious and even conscious (yes I did pride myself with being altruistic in the past) programming. But hey, personal responsibility can go a long way. I'll see for myself. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)That's another very helpful pointer. That is also why the IDGAF post in TRP sidebar made a little but very perceptible click in my head. I am not the shit. And I dont have to be. Thank you for your input. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)That might be right on point. Thanks a lot! I must then get over the emotional impulse to avoid being rude. Being rude is not in itself bad. Compromising one's self is certainly worse. Those questions to ask myself are also very helpful. Thank you very much for the reponses. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)There is a plan to get a child via surrogacy. She rightfully perceives my reluctance expressed in slow pace in setting this up. I already told her a while back that I need this to take some time to see how our relationship solidifies again. She kept inquiring about that reluctance of mine and when I gave in I told her that I needed to build more trust in that relationship to go through with this. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)Thank you for the comment. But why do I feel that I have to respond to everything? What in the betaization process ingrained in me the demand to do so? If I better understand this, I hopefully can better counteract such an impulse. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Why is STFU so hard? (honest question)Thankfully I only think in that language. Not a native speaker though. How and why to STFU is clear. My question pertains more to "why does a career beta feel the need to answer any BS question?" Writing this out here already kind of elucidates the problem space further to me. My idea goes into the direction of: I feel responsible to clarify any possible misunderstanding because I am responsible for my wife's psychoemotional state. That boils down to supplication, external validation seeking and… | /r/askMRP | 26/11/22 02:07 PM |
| 3 | AWALTBravo! Is there a list of the different AWALT dimensions? If not, the end of this article would be an excellent place for it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/11/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Inner game q: how to stop getting discouraged that I'm not "that guy" who girls drool over?I am in the top percentiles of physical attractiveness but a complete AFC. Thanks to my looks, I am not a virgin anymore but otherwise the level of sexual frustration is close to incel-niveau. Look at guys like mystery or style. They were the masters of the game despite being ugly af. Study and practice RP hard and you will have more sex in 2023 than I had in my 15 years of sexual activity. Character is much more important than looks. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 23, 2022Thanks a lot for that very helpful input! I'll definitely incorporate that to the best of my ability. What would you suggest to me, if she were to start some inquiry about the relationship? My first impulse would be to just do wisnifg Broken Record "I handle that", maybe with some Fogging... I managed to do relatively good leadership, clear & directive, yesterday with good outcomes. But I fear to buckle. Any pointers regardong that? Two steps forward one stwp back might be natural but I am afrai… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/22 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 23, 2022OYS 2 32yo, 5'11, 178lbs, married since 2y to a 32yo, no kids Press 88, DL 270, BP 187, SQ 198 Physical Currently entered my first deload week of my first cycle of 531. The weights are too light, except the DL was right on point. I appreciate the small progression but thereby continual progress. That will give me something to hang on to. In the past, I used to overtrain occasionally. That will surely not happen with this plan. It will also help me focus on staying on the training and not let my … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 19, 2022OYS #1 – 7/24/22 Hi, I’m a total newbie career beta. Just found MRP 1 week ago. Got a very rough grasp of a few important points already but got a long way to go, a lot to learn. Will keep it very short for now, since I still got to figure out too much. Any tough love very appreciated. Stats- 32yo, 178cm(5’11”), 83kg(182lbs) married to 32yo since 2y, together since 3y no kids yet Readings: Present: As per the career beta guide, I started with Ayn Rand’s “The virtue of selfishness” (incidentally … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | 3 concepts for getting your wife's BJHi, newbie here. Career beta currently reading the "Virtue of Selfishness" as per the syllabus. I want(need) to build it all from the ground up correctly instead of building from the outside in while maintaing the self-destrutive internal mindset of betadom. Therefore I herein ask for some clarification: What exactly are the covert contracts in this specific example? From the sidebar and additional probing in this subreddit, I do not get clarity on how OP has engaged in these activities from a f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/07/22 09:13 AM |
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