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ConversationFinalWranglers/r/seduction10/11/25 06:35 AM
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ConversationFinalWranglers/r/seduction28/09/21 05:55 AM
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Well the thing is most girls don't see men as normal humans and they react dramatically. At least that's my experience
/r/seduction14/07/26 01:57 PM
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I've been approached by gay men and women that are taken or even married with children. Single women like to be the selector. Some single women in the same group chats would add me on social media out of nowhere but they never initiated anything. The only times single women approached me were when I was travelling with them in group tours (they were all Europeans).
/r/seduction04/07/26 01:58 AM
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I would agree offering instagram is a sign of disinterest. But: First, what if you say you don't use instagram, and she gives you her number? You will never add her on instagram even if you hook up? Otherwise she'll call you a liar and potentially see it as a red flag. Second, even if she's not interested, it does no harm to you at all to have one more woman quietly sitting in your follower list on instagram. Third, if she's not interested already, why would you care if she looks at your instagr…
/r/seduction02/07/26 02:27 AM
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This
/r/seduction07/06/26 05:17 AM
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Yes that's what happened to me. My family is a conventional one. They taught me how to be a good husband but discouraged me from approaching any girl before college. So I started in college and, boom, my self esteem got destroyed
/r/seduction10/05/26 06:58 AM
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"They could always give you a fake number or just politely give it to you" reading this hurts me cuz I can have a great conversation with a girl and when I asks for number she turns all cold and rude. They don't even try to politely give me a fake number
/r/seduction10/05/26 06:51 AM
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Like others have said, the earlier you start the more natural you get. Early 20s is hell mode for guys.
/r/seduction10/05/26 06:43 AM
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Another post that shows people don't understand statistics
/r/seduction03/05/26 06:52 AM
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This. Only attraction matters. Confidence only decides whether they reject you kindly or rudely
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:28 AM
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If I have to choose one, I'd recommend dancing over yoga too. Dancing is more fun, more masculine, and you gonna get to know lotta girls and make friends with them. It's just dancing is not that great for meeting potential partners as most guys think. It's more of a way to build a social circle.
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:07 PM
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I'm a dancer myself. The downside of dancing is you have to compete with other guys on the spot
/r/seduction18/04/26 06:54 AM
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Dance is overrated IMO. Too much competition
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:34 AM
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But why would you want to get girls that consume alcohol if you do not
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:32 AM
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There's a difference between people pleaseing nice guy and manipulative fake nice guy
/r/seduction21/02/26 03:30 AM
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The same applies actually. Asian females are much more desirable than Asian males
/r/seduction19/02/26 06:46 AM
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It's not avoiding risking rejection, but what comes with rejection. Making a move could really ruin your reputation
/r/seduction20/12/25 07:18 PM
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You'll be alright mate. I have my own place and I have money, still can't get dates. You just have to wait until your mom find a partner and you improve your financial status
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:51 PM
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Ok, so I devalue her first, and go talk to her to find if she raises her value. This should effectively get me through the approaching phase. But what if when she raises her value and shows she's a keeper, I start panicking again
/r/seduction17/11/25 02:51 PM
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But if I devalue her, I lose the interest to approach her. What should I do
/r/seduction17/11/25 12:52 PM
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I didn't even know that sub existed until seeing your post . It's legit to complain about any rude person, so why is complaining about a girl any different? Let them complain. It's more like you are giving YOUR time to the losers that are complaining. Why do you care
/r/seduction16/11/25 03:47 AM
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Not dating/having sex with someone is free choice. But being rude is something legit to complain about
/r/seduction16/11/25 03:34 AM
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I'd say rejection is better because ghosting someone is disrespectful, unless you are total strangers.
/r/seduction15/11/25 11:14 PM
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You gotta know that people have had different experiences and chances are they've met rude women when rejecting. And women will have different attitudes based on your attractiveness.
/r/seduction15/11/25 11:11 PM
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I think a scene in suicide squad says it all. If you haven't watched it, there's a scene Harley Quinn is madly in love with the joker, who's apparently a jerk, and imagines he becomes a good man for her and they live a happy normal life
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:42 PM
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I agree what you say, but my experience goes the opposite direction. For some time I was platonic and friendly to every girl, and I never proposed anything romantical or sexual. And all of a sudden, I'm morally questionable according to those girls
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:18 PM
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The problem I have is people making the "nice guy syndrome" a really big deal, and I'm trying to say it doesn't matter
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:13 PM
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I'd agree. So I really don't like it now people are bringing the "nice guy syndrome" up in dating and relationship scenarios. Work on being attractive not being nice or good.
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:09 PM
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Yes, I wonder why too. That actually happened
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:06 PM
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I totally agree with you. What I disagree is the "nice guy syndrome" narrative that portraits doing nice things in your first example as transactional because girls think you are buying flowers and paying for dinner in exchange for a relationship. The syndrome narrative creates a dilemma, when I make my intentions clear, it's transactional, and when I don't make my intentions clear, it's a ploy
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:58 PM
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The thing is I'm playful with my close friends. But with strangers I don't know how they'd feel or react, so I play the safe card. Personally I feel uncomfortable when a stranger teases me. My philosophy of being good is making as few enemies as possible. But I have strong boundaries so not always agreeable I guess. About neurodivergent, I've never done any medical test. I grew up being labelled as a good intelligent introvert, you know the nerd type. But not intelligent enough to be a genius or…
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:46 PM
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Not trying to say being a good man should impact your results. I think it is the "nice guy syndrome" that suggests it changes the result. What I believe is girls would still think good men are morally questionable. Your attractiveness is more dependent on other factors. Also there is a problem of how to be kind selectively. Being selective must be based on something, and that something is often linked to external reward. Otherwise, it's hard to explain why you would be kind to someone and unkind…
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:56 AM
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I guess you are right. Part of the lack of confidence comes from wanting to be a good man, so I'm very cautious when interacting with people and don't wanna make them feel bad
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:41 AM
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I used to have no trouble of being a good man until some girl in my close circle told me they thought I was a fuckboy for being nice to everybody. I mean yes, according to the "nice guy syndrome", you are not a good man unless you dettach from external validation. But on another thought, if a guy doesn't care how others feel and does whatever he thinks is good, is he a real good man, or more likely, a Marvel supervillain? So I see the paradox this syndrome has created
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:31 AM
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Agree. Tease her, give her roller coster feelings. If a guys cares too much about being good, he loses the ability to tease people
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:23 AM
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You've made a point here. People I know say I'm off-putting cuz I'm aloof in social settings despite I'm a good man. But again this kind of proves the point that girls don't care about "nice guy syndrome", they just want a guy that's good at social
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:20 AM
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She might be wife material, and so are many other women that you haven't met yet. Keep looking until you find one that's not married
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:02 AM
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And you should quit thinking "other options are not as good" because this is exactly a scarcity mindset. Gaming is about meeting new high quality women
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:59 AM
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If you were truly "playing", you wouldn't want her to be yours. You slept with someone's wife that sounds like a win to me. So I don't quite understand why you want avenge lol
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:56 AM
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Yes both could be the reason. And I've also heard another possible explanation that when a girl crushes on you, naturally she thinks you have higher value than her. So once she knows you like her back, she wonders why a high value guy will like a low value girl? And because she's so sure that she's low value, she will think maybe the guy is actually low value pretended to be high value (despite that the guy didn't pretend anything), and the girl will feel disgusted. It's all the girl's projectio…
/r/seduction16/10/25 02:02 PM
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That's just another bs excuse women made up to avoid accountability . Think about it, if you are good to someone but he doesn't reciprocate or even disrespects you, you will stop being good to him. That's basic self-respect. If a nice guy treats a girl nicely and the girl doesn't reciprocate, he will stop being nice too out of self-respect (and to avoid being called a creep/stalker/someone that can't take a no). But that girl says him stopping being nice means his niceness was fake from the get-…
/r/seduction12/10/25 04:57 AM
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Solid advice, yet once again we are gonna ignore girls' accountability
/r/seduction09/10/25 09:33 PM
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Speaking from experience, these awkward girls will stop crushing on you and even avoid you once you show interest
/r/seduction09/10/25 04:42 AM
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Doesn't make sense. Imagine a 6 guy been treated like anyone else his whole life and suddenly a 6 girl approached him, he'd be above the clouds
/r/seduction28/09/25 09:15 PM
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I agree we shouldn't assume girls are making up BFs. In fact from my own experience 9 out of 10 times they really do have a BF. But I disagree most of the signs of interests are imagination. First, women can show signs of interests for the attention and validation. Second, from my own experience, I've met some girls actively want to cheat on their BFs or even husbands with me or some other dudes that I know. I hate it but have to say cheating is a common thing. The point is, women are more likel…
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:29 PM
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I do pretty much the same thing, but girls never approach me. So I think I'm fucked up
/r/seduction19/07/25 02:38 AM
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You are saying quite the opposite of another comment that says "you need to express sexual desire". I guess this explains girls are impossible to understand
/r/seduction18/07/25 06:12 AM
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I'm sexually patient. I talked to her a month without even touching her. She ghosted me
/r/seduction08/07/25 10:43 PM
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I don't fear to show intentions but my problem is I don't like hitting on girls that are too young or are already taken. So I need some sort of friendly rapport first to know about their age and relationship status. But this costs me the opportunity to show intentions when we first meet. Two potential fixes I can think of are picking up girls in bars or using dating app, but I enjoy neither of them. So I'm stuck
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:03 AM
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Yep that's a good mindset. Some girls won't show interests initially, so we need to make moves. But after that if she doesn't reciprocate we withdraw attention. But there's something to be aware of. A lot of girls fake interests to get validation from you (and they actually have a boyfriend). So, don't get too attached even when she shows interests
/r/seduction07/07/25 08:17 AM
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I don't quite get what you mean there. Those things are good to have and we should have them for sure. But it doesn't mean we must have them before we can date. Most girls (and boys) are shallow af. Also I wouldn't delete their number. Just ignore and forget them if they don't reply.
/r/seduction06/07/25 01:48 PM
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So with this mindset you have to wait for girls to make a move? Good luck on that cuz girls are not known for making moves
/r/seduction06/07/25 08:34 AM
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The thing you don't understand here is men have a higher chance to be honest and respectful to women who approach men. Because men approaching women is social norm, women don't really appreciate men when men approach.
/r/seduction21/06/25 05:28 PM
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