| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Great second date, lots of chemistry - then ghosted when I asked for another date. How common is this?Probably felt not that great to her. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Matched with a woman I’ve seen at my gym for monthsGym date is almost never a good idea. | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 09:49 PM |
| 9 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedSo if you don’t want them to fall in love, the option to date significantly younger women is not feasible. They will fall in love. They also will contact your wife, generate some drama, etc. Speaking from experience. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 10:16 AM |
| 9 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedBecause it’s sexy in their minds, it’s not that sexy in real life. They are “flaky” because they are not actually serious about the whole thing from the beginning. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedOr spend some money, or be actually good in bed. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:48 AM |
| 16 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedOnly works if you can marry him in the future. Having mediocre sex with a doctor in the vicinity of his wife and kids is not that attractive to a single woman, shocker. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:47 AM |
| 12 | Getting back into the game at 45...and marriedYou can try and look for significantly younger women. Some of them would not care. But yeah, most women in your age group would not find your situation attractive because most of them would want a proper relationship. People in open relationships should be your main focus. I think some of them are also on Pure. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Coworker shit test?She wants you to ask her out and go out in your free time. | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Do women actually prefer "older" guys?We prefer to date someone who’s a bit older — 5 to 7 years is a sweet spot. It’s probably not a reality for older women but for women between 16 and 35 it’s true for sure. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Assuming emotional connection and sexual chemistry, will asking a girl to be exclusive turn her off, or do they typically like it if the guy initiates that discussion?It depends on the girl’s personality. There is no consensus, both reactions are possible. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Input on age difference resistance from daygame approach / number?Bradley is 50 and Pitt is 61, she wouldn't be interested in either of them. Maybe someone like Chalamet or Elrodi would have cultural cachet in her eyes. I would say most girls are into older guys. But she said no outright andthere should be no discussion about it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Need your opinion on this.You were lucky she didn’t kick you in your balls. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How to learn texting womenAre you asking questions? Are they personalized? | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm devastated and hopelessThat’s your cue to take the advice from here with a pound of salt, guys. If you're looking for a female perspective, most of us find it repulsive when a guy approaches more than one girl in front of us. If they see you wandering around a bar and bothering attractive women just because they're good-looking without trying to make a compliment personal, they won't reciprocate when you talk to them next. | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 09:24 AM |
| 0 | Advice needed!!Is he a real friend, someone you want to be friends for life with? Then don’t do it. If he’s just a person you’re friendly with tell him and ask her out. Simultaneously, if possible. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, 50 Shades of Grey - what's your favorite scene?Sorry, I’ve never watched it. I know it has light BDSM elements. Like, maybe handcuffs? Very minimal. You can probably look it up on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Seduction bookWhat “for example”? I named authors. Look up what is available in Baku’s bookstores or libraries by them and try to read it. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 12:38 PM |
| -1 | Seduction bookHow is this even a real question? No, read something from Ottessa Moshfegh or Sally Rooney. Will help you much more. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go to be around women frequently.That’s not true if you’re a douchebag, so idk. Just saying that most women are in book clubs, not in running or climbing groups. Dua Lipa has a book club, and Oprah has a book club. There are millions of them and most have 100% female membership. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 09:57 AM |
| 0 | This is the main reason I am frustrated with online datingAs a girl, I’m not sending you any pictures and I’m not giving you my socials before the first date. Everything is already on my profile. After the first date, and if it did go well I can share my WhatsApp or my Instagram. You not being able to understand who’s fake and who’s real is not by problem. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 06:00 AM |
| 25 | Where do I go to be around women frequently.Book clubs, yoga or pilates classes, DiY and arts and crafts stores and classes. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | I’m stuck at getting 8sYou need to have money or a really cool career (or talent) to date a gorgeous girl. You need to be genuinely charismatic and interesting, if wealth is not in the picture. If girls are disgusted when you approach them, you don’t have neither charisma nor the looks. | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Approached a group but the friend talked too muchNever be rude to a girl's friend if you want her to like you. Don't ever be rude like that in public, and never badmouth her friends to her in private. | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 11:53 PM |
| 124 | How to filter out gold diggers?Do you even have the funds to be worried about gold diggers? | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | She asked if i wanted something serious after one dateBut are you dating to find a girlfriend and be in a monogamous relationship or not? This you should be able to answer even on a first date. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date?It probably was because of something you’ve said. | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 11:26 AM |
| 2 | "What are you thinking about?"There is a different between actually getting lost in someone’s eyes and doing a trick. It looks different and we can tell. You look checked out, not enamored. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 07:42 PM |
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