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Black people need sunscreen too even on cloudy dies. More black people die from skin cancer than other races because we notice it's too late and we don't have a culture of sunblock.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:21 PM
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A lot of makeup supplies contain ingredients that act as UV blockers which prevents the sunlight from reaching their skin, which is also something that our skin requires to be healthy. You only need 15 mins of direct sunlight per day to get the required amount of nutrients. Usually it's morning sun before the index gets too high. Sunlight is the #1 cause of signs of aging. I wear sunscreen all day everyday even inside. Makeup with sunscreen helps to bridge the gap between women who don't know/do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:18 PM
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So anybody with a fetish or just a desire for something different is not well adjusted? No wonder these guys outsource this is this is what their wives and gfs think. Yeah sure he might marry a woman who thinks this (most do anyway) but let me tell you they will go sort themselves out elsewhere. I am amazed at how many people think normal guys aren't seeing sexworkers. Do you think we are making 6 figures year after year seeing just people on the fringe of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:01 PM
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Yup. Or younger guys with GFs. Or guys looking for a specific fetish they can't get in their normal life or to be with someone they wouldn't be with in their social circle (like heavily tattooed, a different race, a different height or body size etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:34 PM
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They are expensive If you can't afford a prenup, then what exactly are you protecting? It's simply a matter of priorities. You don't have to rush off the alter right now. A person can save up for the lawyers required if that's what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:15 PM
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I don't care. Source: Escort who knows not all clients live up to whatever stereotypes people on PPD have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:55 AM
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Most prostitutes I've read interviews by say that most of their costumers are regulars. This is true. You'll make most of your money from your regular clients. You spend less on advertising etc too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:46 AM
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Do you honestly think that men who are well adjusted socially, have no trouble attracting women at bars, are likely to pay for sex? Yes. It happens ALL the time and is not an outlying phenomenon. This probably accounts for 60% of my business. Yes I get retirement dudes and business men, but tons of 20s-40s with gfs, wives, active social lives and are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:40 AM
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nordic model which while still not ideal is the best solution right now. It's a horrible model and nothing close to the best right now. That honour falls to the maws of New Zealand. The Nordic Model is a shit show and we (professional escorts) hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:34 AM
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You body has to adapt to each dietary change you make as it switches gear to process. The first 3 days are usually fine. Day 4-7 is hell but you'll come out on Day 8 feeling better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:33 AM
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Because they like it and it's their sense of self expression. If it turns you off that's ok you wouldn't have liked them without the tattoo either because fundamentally you guys are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:31 AM
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Yes. Men who also are in that scene. See Seattle, Williamsburg and Portland for examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:29 AM
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Why are our only options "be silenced" and "n word"? Because racists of which there are many here do not know moderation. Either it's full on N word or forced silence. I mean this is a group discussing the nature of men and women and using biology as the basis. Wtf do you think is going to happen when you onleash them on issues related to race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:22 AM
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and I always find that a bit ... naive? So the what is the point of dating? dating is for figuring out who you want to spend the rest of your life with If it's not this then what is the point of dating? The "figuring out" part is very important! I'm not going to jump on the first guy and be like husband! But the process of dating is to get to know someone. Do they fit in with your life? Do you fit in theirs? This behavior you thought you were attracted to is it now a turn off? This thing you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:53 PM
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100 times in a row when trying to make a connection Men in dating apps, study after study regularly tell black women how ugly and unwanted we are. Even other black me! I'm yet to see a bunch of black black women throwing a fit over it. We just quietly move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:45 PM
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You are in the reasonable zone for most women. Average women are usually ok with that height and you'd be on the lower end for the tall girls (I have my bumble set to 6'2" when I want to open it up, but 6'5" when I'm being pretentious).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:35 PM
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Then you aren't that interested in her. You don't know her so any girl will do. Find another girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:06 AM
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I mean if the guy is nice to you, then you are a hell of a lot less likely to cockblock. Nope. The least attractive friends know where they are in the pecking order and are hyper vigilant for stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:03 AM
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If hot girl wanted to stay she would have. She's either have given you her number to meet up later or brush off her friend telling her it's fine. Hot girl was not having as good of a time as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:59 AM
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No sir you would not. It's a shared look among friends created over years of being with each other. Subtle things you won't pick up and the fact you think you can pick it make me question your social awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:54 AM
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If she really wanted to stay with you she would have. The fact that she left with the friend is all you really need to know about her desire to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:51 AM
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it’ll be going great According to you sometimes has to do with them being jealous of the attention their friend is getting Nope. She probably signalled she wants to be saved or said at the beginning of the night that she wants someone to interrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:47 AM
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They think we are ugly. Let them starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:10 PM
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all I would like to see is some pictures of a pretty girl, a few words about what she does, what she is looking for, what she likes or dislikes. But that's exactly what they did. They just didn't do it on the way YOU prefer. Which is fine btw because they don't want to attract you. Guys who are attracted to that will message them and they go from there. Marketing is as much about attracting as it is about repelling. You need people to select themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:51 PM
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Never. I'd never knowing be with someone any of my friends have been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:08 PM
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Sluttery and Infidelity are two different things though...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:05 PM
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How does a woman being a whore or slut mean my boyfriend is going to cheat on me? Those are separate things!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:18 PM
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You were never in a sorority were you? Nope. I don't think I'm explaining myself well. Sorority would be a small group while girls at Texas A&M would be the big group. So more likely to defend all the girls at the school as a whole but fight the house sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:05 PM
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If I had the opportunity to post some pretty mild or risque pictures that most men would pay at least $5 dollars a month, it would honestly be a godsend Your audience would just be gay men. They also have only fans and PornHub community accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:57 PM
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Have you seen what pregnancy does to the bone, joints and organs of a woman's body?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:54 PM
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I think this might be a big vs small thing. Woman - Big Groups Good, Small Groups Infighting Men - Big Groups Not Solidarity, Small Group Close Knit. Edit: Like for women it would be more collective, the benefit of everyone sort of thing. But for me more individualism, these guys I'm close to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:51 PM
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But neither of the things you mentioned are wrong? Why would I stand against a woman who is a slut, whore or had an abortion? I don't understand how this would benefit me. When women do things I do think are wrong (sexual assault a la Lena from Girls, Cardio B etc) I do speak out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:49 PM
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losing the guy to another girl who will put out. Thus us a feature not a big. It's what she's doing it. She wants to weed those men out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:41 PM
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I figured this out when I was 13, after watching the movie "Grease," lol. This is what I don't understand. I'm very tall and dark skinned. In my country the average woman is about 6-8 inches shorter than I am. I'm also taller than the average man by about 4 inches. But when I was like 11 I knew I wasn't exactly what the guys wanted. They wanted the tiny girls, light skin girls, big breasted, etc. I knew super early I wasn't the ideal and I would need to do some work to find someone. What is miss…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:29 PM
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Not all therapy is talk therapy. There is also CBT which is mainly action based and requires work. Not just talking to someone for an hour each week. Even the act of having someone external that holds you accountable can be helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:18 PM
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Nope. You read that wrong. She would sleep the the average guy sooner because she doesn't care about him. Says nothing about him being a fuckboy. She would make the more attractive guy wait. This is a looks suitation, nothing about behavior is being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:58 PM
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Would you have sex with him? No. Why would I ? This is like the bare minimum behavior of being a good date?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:51 PM
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Yes it does. I was raised with sex as the great defiler. That probably backfired since I'm currently an escort. But in my personal life I don't have casual sex (that might be a low libido thing though).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:44 PM
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Yes it will be my first time. I was planning to buy in my home country (an island ands vacation spot) but with how travel has dried up I might have to switch gears.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:14 PM
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Ready for them screaming about dead bedroom after the NRE has worn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:35 PM
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If for all your life you've been told that sex us wrong, defiling, degrading etc are you going to suddenly be ok with it just because you said some words and get a piece of paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:21 PM
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I’m readying some cash for when the foreclosures come! I was too young to buy in 2008, but old enough to understand what was going on and housing being cheap. I was planning to buy a house in 2022, but I might just jump in early if the prices look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:14 PM
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I'm not complaining about it. I'm just staying that they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:12 PM
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I don’t date blacks“ or „I don’t date fat women“ But they do write these things online.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:06 PM
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if a guy speaks too elegantly and dramatically, he is considered weird and unattractive by women. I see you have never heard of Benedict Cumberbatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:00 PM
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put the condom on me, using her mouth, in one fluid motion I knew how to do this maybe 2 years before I lost my virginity. I had snuck a Cosmo mag and it said "Tips that drive guys wild!" I tried all the things I was able to do on my own long before interacting with any dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:53 PM
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BTS Behind the Scenes $10/month isn't a whole lot It's a Top of Funnel offer. $10 doesn't sound like alot. People spend more than that on lunch. Once you get someone to spend money on you they are more likely to do it again and in greater amounts. The real money is made afterwards on custom content and upsells.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:10 AM
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Put another zero on that for mid range in New York.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:07 AM
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No? Maybe if they were hitting up super desperate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:48 PM
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It was more of a sellers market then. Alot of the glut has come from girls thinking they can just post pictures and top out at high prices. Hoeing is a business and it takes work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:44 PM
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men’s ability to get commitment whenever they feel like it I didn't know they had this ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:28 PM
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I can take it out if you want. It wasn't meant as an insult, just facts. But speaking from experience as a black woman in an open sexual marketplace were there is an actual price on things, this is an issue my yt ho friends come across. Some Yt guys won't see them if there was even a hint they saw certain types of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:46 PM
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I have zero feelings towards this other than maybe some excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:52 PM
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They why is the most important part of pickme behavior. It's usually someone who needs to do this to be lifted above all others because that praise is what they need to go on. Being a pickme is just the avenue they use to get the validation they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:41 PM
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No they are codependent and rely heavily on outside validation. They do all the pickme stuff to get someone to take over the parts of their life they can't handle. They need that outside force. They have no true sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:18 PM
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What did they think was going to happen when they beat into women that sex is bad? That all of a sudden they would jump at the chance when married?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:42 PM
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Nothing in my life has changed. In fact it might even be better as social obligations have been removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:31 PM
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Man goes on rampage in same Canadian town causing the largest mass murder/ spree killing in Canada. Starts with ex wife and burns down his own house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:19 PM
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I've never done anything to test a partner but I wear unflattering clothes all the time. I have this dress that's only close at the neck and arms. Like if you cut holes in a garbage bag but it's floor length. Let me tell you it's so comfortable, breezy and amazing. Never really cared what any man thought about my hair. It's been long, short, coloured etc. I had a bf like didn't like weaves. Didn't stop me from wearing them all the time. I cook whatever I want. I don't eat carbs but I'm willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:34 PM
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How clean someone's place is the probably at the top of my list of when dating. All the other shit can come second because this is my living space we are talking about. The place you come back to relax as a safe space. I'm not living in a hell hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:28 PM
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Not particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:07 AM
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Anybody can learn foreplay or use toys. I'm insecure that the intercourse is going to feel mediocre. Intercourse is the least interesting thing to me about sex. I could 100% do without it. I don't get off from it at all and it doesn't really affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:47 AM
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dreaming of disembodied cocks dancing around like sugarplums. I need a Broadway chorus line of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:35 AM
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whether it was a choice between that and paying rent. This is the same with any job. Like people work to pay rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:23 AM
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No! legalized Decriminalized! There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:22 AM
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there’s websites where you can discreetly order them. Yes. Lots of reputable website (which cost a fuck ton to place ads on). Please they can even yelp it up and read reviews to see what the girl is like and most have Twitter and Instagram for candids and snippets into their daily lives. It's very easy to hire a lady and have it go give.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:19 AM
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Radfems are usually SWERFs so doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:16 AM
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And if they do any research at all you pretty much avoid that getting arrested bit by hiring a reputable provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:13 AM
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Which is why I don't care what they think. Every action is wrong so I just live with the owns that suit me best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:40 AM
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where only people with a minimum count of 10 and at least 5 previous relationships are allowed to answer I can do one but not the other! I'm here to give the paid sex view side of things. My casual sex and relationship knowledge is very very minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:25 PM
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It's for him it's not about if the girl is into it or not. So you having an orgasm is worth more than her comfort and wishes? You don't see how that could lead to issues for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:38 AM
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I don't remember it being like this 10 years ago. Because there was no social media to show it. But it was there. Additionally woman have been reading women's magazines discussing these things forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:57 PM
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Men willingly turn in their wallets to women. Husbands are welcome to do all their own shopping for food and their households if they want to. They are also welcome to plan and purchase things for their children, follow up with all the activities and ensure the house runs fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:00 PM
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I know that women don't choose spouses very well Since I'm not yet married and will probably start dating this summer, what should I look for in order to find a good spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:47 PM
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There's a newish (?) phenomenon Nothing new about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:18 PM
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6'2" to start but ideally 6'5". That's the height I feel we make a good fit. I'll go up to 6'8". At 6'10" it starts to get awkward. I'm almost 6ft tall if it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:53 AM
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It's good to study your enemy so you can identify them in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:19 PM
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As an experiment I lowered my Bumble age to 22. No lower because that's my brother's age. Every single dude under 28 looks like a baby. It just feels wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:51 AM
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Is it wrong to go into a relationship planning on getting the other person to lose weight? Yes. You'll be frustrated and disappointed if/when it doesn't happen. What then? Just take people as they are. Most overweight people know they are overweight and why. You coming along won't magically fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:11 PM
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Every brightly colored hair woman I know is married with kids. Everyone single one. Some are even SAHM. I had purple hair one year when I lived in Portland. No one cared. It certainly didn't attract any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:38 AM
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I'm telling you, as a professional dick seer with years of experience, there is no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 08:40 PM
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But tall men , well, they just usually have big dicks lol. I'm gonna go ahead and say no to this one. I've found no relationship between height and dick size. I've seen ALOT of dicks and guys across the height spectrum from 5' to 6'10".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:42 PM
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ADHD meds and cocaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:27 PM
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it's not easy to get a prostitute with the threat of jail time. It's actually really easy if he did even the smallest amount of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 06:18 PM
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But what makes you think that men go by what they see in movies and not by what they are told from women? Because entertainment shapes society and vis versa. Whether people recognize it or not the media we consume shaped the way we think. Studying human behavior and psychology is a part of screenwriting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:42 PM
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Tall and Homely. I should mention that shorter men do not approach me in person. On OLD I've gone out with shorter men. I can always see their eyes widen when they see me because they didn't read my profile where I put my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:43 PM
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It's like an army
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:53 AM
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But where do all the litter boxes go? We are inside people!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:23 PM
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Two cats only! Maybe 3 but that's like a full time job with more cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 03:33 PM
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Why do men love bitches? It's less bitches and more "people who stand up and advocate for themselves". Men are attracted to the sense of self and confidence usually present in ppl who stand up for themselves. The pick me style of acquiring a mate isn't attractive for the type a man you'd want a LTR with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 09:47 PM
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One person's scum bag is another person's good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 01:43 AM
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That's because usually you are apart of the second part of their life. When they live in a different state or country. These are soccer dates etc and good guys in the community. I know a few like this. All had a child in their 20s and moved away from it and the mom to start new lives on their 30s. Now they have new wives and kids and barely give the previous ones any thoughts. A few haven't even told the new wife about the previous kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:59 PM
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men actually want women to be with a man that loves them But she doesn't want that guy. Why should be happy that done guy lives her? What about her wants? You don't think that man who loves her is going to realize she has no feelings for him and then feels used?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:09 PM
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"Good Men" leave their kids all the time. I know a couple guys, upstanding members of the community and they all have a first kid or 2 when they were young and then moved away and have an entire new family. You would not know from the outside unless you are their family or the original community. The new neighbors and friends sure don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:01 PM
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BEcause you have nothing to hold him down. You think having a man's child holds him down? Aren't RP men constantly crying about single mothers? Did they hold down the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:34 PM
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No face, neck, chest, upper back or below the knee pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 03:21 PM
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What is your weight max at 5'4"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 11:11 PM
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Do people not know how to cook or make their own coffee? I'm seeing so many people talking not knowing what to eat since they can't eat out. Like, buy groceries and cook! YouTube is free. Blogs are free. It's not that hard. I cook like all my meals. Maybe once per week I'll eat out and it's like generic chain stuff. Any restaurant that I go to is for work or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 09:18 PM
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Transformed wife Thus woman said Covid-19 was so that woman should know their place and stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 09:14 PM
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You actually can. I remember all the shit I don't like and talk about it upfront. I also ask during if things is ok etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 02:26 PM
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girl who didn’t even pretend like she’s willing to pay for any of the drinks we ordered and instead kept ordering, expecting me to pay for everything. On our brief date, she greeted at least 3 different dudes who were supposedly “guy friends” and it was obvious there was intimacy, her phone kept flashing all night with notifications from WhatsApp and Tinder, So all 9f this happens and you still go back to her apartment because there was the possibility of sex? She didn't need to conceal any bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:12 PM
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Nasty. They are children. I just lowered my age on Bumble to see the 25 year olds and they look like babies. I'd feel gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:54 PM
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but I have never, in my life, met anyone IRL where the wife/girlfriend/whatever is financing anyone for longer than a month or two. Have you visited the hood of maybe a trailer park? This usually happens there. The women tend to have some of their shit together but the available crop of men don't so this happens alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 06:25 PM
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very good looking, ig baddie type This is representative of the average woman? regular joes Where would they have met?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:26 PM
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So you would say these are representative of average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:46 AM
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What are the demographics of the people on this date? Where could they have possibly met? Also how old are these people approximately?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 11:08 PM
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Saw this comment today Nobody is courting some chick, taking some chick out on dates, only so she can excuse herself to the bathroom to setup her rendezvous with Chad to get railed later that night. I'm asking honestly in good faith, men and women, where is this happening? Have you seen/experienced this? What are the demographics of the people on this date? Where could they have possibly met? Also how old are these people approximately? Please help me understand this setup. Personally I have nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:19 PM
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PPD Men : Women lied to me about what they want!!!! Also PPD Men: Why are women being so honest about what they want? Why aren't they lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 01:47 AM
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What if he had a shitty job? Little money? Few friends? How would this man be my best friend? How would I have met such a person? I don't currently socialize with anyone who fits this parameter. Man or Woman. Maybe someone in my gaming group but how what would I have in common with this person to have them be my best friend? Ok. Let's say this mythical man and I met and fall in love, what does future life look like? What do you envision as the next step? Let's say we want kids, can we afford the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:46 AM
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Is Jared Kushner attractive?! Ladies, gents, please weigh in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 12:21 AM
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Decriminalize!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:15 PM
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Sustained? Nah. They tap out soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:21 PM
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That is why they get alimony. Alimony is awarded in less than 10% of divorces and usually have to meet many requirements including length of time married and why the woman wasn't working during the marriage. It's not just given out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:47 AM
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I think this worked out best for both of you. She didn't compromise by going home with you and you had other girls. If you had other girls lined up to easily take her place because she didn't go home with you after a third date she must not have been that important to you. Where is the loss? You both weeded yourselves out of each others dating pools by sticking to your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:40 PM
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I make fat jokes at the expense of a fat person, that would be a strong motivator for them to get in shape. Wrong. Fat shaming doesn't motivate people to become thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:39 PM
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It's reasonably obvious. It's not. Perception is everything and people see what they want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:33 PM
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I work alone and from home and all this is how I get my social interaction. I have have ADHD and so sitting and talking at a coffee shop I'd probably bounce off the mentally. I like having something to do a place for the extra energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:25 PM
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Who put those laws in place? Who made the laws surrounding marriage unfavorable to men? Let's look at a few: Child Support. This was UC and UMC white dudes because they didn't want their taxes going to support minority children through welfare. So they wanted minority men to support their children or go to jail. No foresight into what might happen to their own kind in the future. No fault divorce. Old Republican family values Ronny Regan (himself a divorced man) gave us this one. Child Custody. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:21 PM
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You can move to a country with lower taxes then and a more libertarian way if life. The US welcomes you in that regard. You will pay through the nose for healthcare and have no guaranteed time off from work but the opportunity exists. If you really want to go off grid the prepper community will welcome you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:55 PM
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And who out those laws in place?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:50 PM
2

I have never had to fight to get a man. If you have to fight to get him you have to fight to keep him. I'm not signing up for a life of struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:45 PM
1

It's not my close group of friends that I'm inviting this guy to hangout with. It's all the general stuff I do and it's probably based on something the guy and I were talking about. I'm an avid table top board gamer. I go all the time and bring friends, family and randoms. It's not a big deal. The Urban Walking group after work, Free Museum Days that groups head out to etc. I use Meetup for most of my social interaction and I'm always happy to drag new people along. Even if I've never gone befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:38 PM
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My parents were born in the ghetto of a 3rd world country. But they dragged themselves to Middle Class and live in a great house and all their kids went/go to college. I know working class. My younger siblings grew up wealthier than I did. I make 6 Six figs now. Im not a match for trust fund babies and last names as first names, but I think I'd be good in the professional class category. Working for income but it's still a decent income.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:55 PM
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If things look like it's turning I like to casually bring up their wife /gf. Then I know that dude is shady. If he's super blatant I'll cut him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:19 PM
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This when I say "I don't drink coffee but a group of us get together sometimes for x activity. It's really fun, would you like to join us next time?" It's a turn down for the 1 on 1 but it's an open invitation to a no pressure group thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:52 PM
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He's not active on the hunt and less likely to read anything into my behavior or even care because he's got a GF/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:47 PM
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Is this an active pursuit or are you just mistaking general friendliness? As I stated in my reply to OP I'm more reserved in my interactions with single men than married men. It has nothing to do finding married guys more attractive. I just don't want single guys to get any ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:02 AM
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I'm sure I'm typical. It's the atypical women that you are noticing. Women are hearing down the door of married men to take them away. Most women know that they will end up cheating and would be signing up for a life of anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:48 AM
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he has proven he can commit Means absolutely nothing to me and is not an attraction marker. Because if while in a committed relationship he tried to hit on me I'd remove him from my life immediately. A man that cheats WITH you cheats ON you. I'm not looking to collect trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:06 AM
2

A derogatory name for someone on the autism spectrum usually referring to Asperger's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:06 AM
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I don't get more attracted to the guy but I am no longer as guarded around them. This might be what they are seeing. While I don't believe every or even most men I come in contact with are attracted to me, I try to keep some sort of distance from single men because 1) I'm not looking and 2) I don't want to give anyone the wrong idea or lead anyone on through simple friendship markers. When a dude is taken though I don't have to be so on guard. He's got a GF. He's not active on the hunt and less …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:12 AM
2

Men ghost too. This is not a woman only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:00 AM
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November 19
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:22 PM
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Left Hand Day - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Lefthanders_Day Brain Week (which includes Brain Day) - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brain_Awareness_Week The days exist. It's up to people to commemorate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:22 PM
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Straining due to orgasmic pleasure I need this as my new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:25 AM
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There's a difference between nobility and the court jester even if the court jester is wealthy. Beyonce and Kim K are the court jesters. They aren't nobility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:32 AM
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Why aren't men celebrating the day? It exists. What are men doing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:55 PM
1

Reading is fundamental. I ask of him the same things I bring to the table. I know that I can provide for an extra person I want someone who can provide for me because I am also able to provide for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:51 PM
1

I feel my anxiety rising just thinking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:04 PM
1

How was the board interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:51 AM
7

You are going to give him an existential crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:47 AM
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These are the first wives. The 2nd wives if they divorce and get remarried will be younger and better looking. The mistresses are also young and pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:40 AM
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Wtf kinda hell hole place is that? Even in my 3rd works country nurses make more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:34 AM
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Nurses in San Francisco routinely make over 100k/yr.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:29 AM
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Not as his first wife and mother of his children. Possibly his second or third wife. Alot of men my age are in the first wife stage of life now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:27 AM
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Idk co-ops just always felt like a noose to me. Overly restrictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:25 AM
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We have our awkward moments cause we aren't always I to wild stuff. I'm into above average stuff by nature of my job but some things I'm like no. Straight up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:21 AM
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YES (NYC co-op) Why would you do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:03 AM
3

The people who frequent /r/childfree Are outliers. Usually fighting/angry at years of backlash and reproductive coercion. They just want a place to vent. I'm childfree but I don't hate children. I just don't want any.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:47 PM
1

We don't go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:43 PM
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No. I'm fact it's probably made it worse. I used to be very "men are good and awesome" but this place lets me know what they are really thinking. I mean I sleep with guys for a living and still had good thoughts about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:02 PM
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Have you ever observed friendships between women? Other than "too frequently" and "pushing" those sound extra. But talking about problems and getting your friends to open is like friendship 101 for alot of women. If a friend pushes too hard I just let her know it's too much. Then we fall back into whatever pattern we are in. I don't abandon the friend altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:15 PM
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No. I would not marry a man that cannot provide for me. A marriage is a partnership. In sickness and in health. I take those things very seriously. I ask of him the same things I bring to the table. If he's just barely getting by what happens if an accident happens and I can't work anymore and then blow through all my savings. Will we still have a house, food to eat, care for any dependents we might have? I know that I can provide for an extra person. After my first bf in high school/college I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:02 PM
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How do you define too emotionally open?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:43 PM
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Rarely. A photo of an attractive man does nothing for me. Same for a dude just sitting. Men become more attractive via action (walking, playing, even just talking). I can then envision what it would be like to be the recipient of such actions. How does that make me feel. THEN I become attracted to the guy. I'm a very tall woman. I've been out with a guy who was 5'6" one day and then another at 6'4" the following day. I preferred the guy at 5'6" because he has "cooler" to me. He had a really nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 07:37 PM
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She probably means women are not attracted to "men" in the abstract but rather how a particular man makes her feel about herself. Man makes her feel sexy? She's attracted to him. Just a photo online? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:24 AM
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Dude. That's as a result of fisting. It says so in the title. All the related images show the actual fisting. That photos was taken right after the act which why she's gaping. This will never get back to being in shape. It actually will. She's not going to be like that tomorrow. I mean a baby (which is larger than a fist) come out of a vagina and it goes back to it's normal size/shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 02:50 AM
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Because then they are trying to date a stereotype and not him. They have a preconceived notion of who is he. Black people aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:36 PM
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It's considered "Kinda Tall". "Tall" for women starts at 5'10".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:19 PM
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I have male friends who were bald and also one that went fully grey in high school. No shortage of wine for them. They just shaved their heads. The grey one tho be left it all grey and women loved that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:10 PM
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This is where im just gonna ignore OP. He thinks 1 new bf every 1-2 years in your youth is casual dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:08 PM
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This is generally the demographic of men I see if the regular and rarely does it deviate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:41 PM
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it is guys who want to take revenge on life, Director of some department or middle manager The normal dude who just worked slowly but constantly, CFO, CTO, CIO, the rich boy CEO , VP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:46 PM
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Fwiw he's not married. Just shacked up with a gf I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 02:25 PM
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Ask Kandy what the guys in her social circle go for. She's UMC, white and lives in NYC. You'll find those guys overwhelming wants thin chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 11:41 PM
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Thick does not always mean overweight though. I have thighs and a booty. I could never be shaped like a white girl. It's just not the way I'm made and I'm ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:33 PM
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Because that is what their women look like. Look at the shapes of black and Latina women. That is what those guys grew up with in their house, their schools, their media. They see the men of their culture who they look up to dating and marrying those women. Why would they find something else attractive? White girls didn't start liking small waist and bug butts until the Kardashians made that a thing. "Does this make my butt my big" is a saying. They hated having a lower bottom half. Overwhelming…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:49 PM
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Racial and Socioeconomic in my opinion. Whites and Asians on one side and Latinos (not Hispanics) and blacks on the other side. Growing up wealthy? Thin women. Growing up poorer? Chubby women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:42 PM
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A solid 3 as told to me by photofeeler
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:04 AM
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Wow. I was all ready to feel sorry for you but you are terrible. So this woman was making sure her mental health was back on track and adjusting to her script and all you care about is that you didn't get your dick wet? No concern for her and what she might be experiencing while her body and mind readjusts to her medication?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:58 PM
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Now she's back wanting me all hot and heavy again, and maybe the dynamic is back in my favor This is a crazy person. She has a script for xanax too How so you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 09:54 PM
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Temperance isn't more logical. She's just straight up autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:13 PM
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No. Not every woman was some hot girl or even confident in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 02:12 PM
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This happens today rather often. There are tons of "good guys" out there with first families
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:13 PM
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Oh. Those are called "Joseph's Coats" where I'm from because of the many colours and Joseph in the Bible had a coat of many colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:54 AM
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Did you live in a 3rd works country or the deep South?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:52 AM
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Religious people who don't even talk about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:15 AM
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It's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:36 PM
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Why are you leveling the playing field by bringing everyone down. Why don't men avail themselves of these things too? There is nothing on anything you listed that says 'For Women ONLY".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:28 PM
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Terrible picture. I went on a date with a guy I met on Tinder once and he was so handsome in person but honestly looked like foot in his photo. But I liked this bio and decided to give it a shot. Was very surprised when we mer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:21 PM
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Nah. He's married and got with his wife long before any of the movies or TV shows. They met in college back in like 2007 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:14 PM
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No. Some people just aren't interested in trying something new or waste time sitting through something they know they won't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:46 AM
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Yeah. I saw this repeatedly in my cohort before I left the church. Lots of ppl marrying at 22. One dude straight up left his wife at 26 and abandon his daughter and he was a "good guy" in the church. Also out of wedlock kids cause people are gonna fuck and abortion is illegal where I am from. Unless people have lived under these restrictions they don't know what they are asking for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 02:27 PM
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help the guy become husband material Women know that as soon as you help build a man he leaves you for some younger chick he wanted all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:55 PM
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By removing sex from the equation, people has to focus on other traits the other person provided to determine who they wanted. NOPE! I can tell you what this leads to. Tons on young people rushing into marriage based on surface level things because they wanted to have sex and premarital sex is shamed. Ice seen this time and time again with youths under 24 in church rushing to the altar. Then they get pregnant, get stuck and are unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:40 PM
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People are seriously out there having unsafe sex? There ass dudes that contact me wanting bare. And just I gotta block those dudes and blacklist them. Like sir I'm an actual whore and care more about myself health than you seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:05 AM
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Maybe y'all should go outside. Also I've used OLD. The guys I swiped right on were not the best looking, but those that were interesting TO ME. The one dude had pictures of himself in a cave as well as one in front of a remote church in a remote village. I have the same picture and I love caves so I figured this was someone I'd get along with great. Surprise to no one we did get along great. Be wasn't the best looking guy there. But I chose him because we look like we'd get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:25 PM
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They just need to find the girl who thinks they are super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:35 PM
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Exactly. I can't understand why the dudes here don't realize that general average may not be average for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:23 PM
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It doesn't really work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:22 PM
2

My best friend describes my taste in men as "porridge like". Bland, boring and generic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:21 PM
1

Dress size depends on height... Not really unless you have outliers and then you have "Petite" or "Tall". But the standard measurements are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:07 PM
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I said not weight because weight looks different for different reasons. Height, muscles etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:58 AM
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What is low?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:57 AM
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At what size does a woman stop being "thin"? This is for those guys out there looking for thin girls (or just "not fat" girls). Where does "fat" start? Don't give me a weight, give me a dress size.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:42 PM
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We spend all day in the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:35 PM
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unfeminine bumbling amazon woman. This is my new Tinder Bio
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:57 PM
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Older widows and women who are divorced do have a hard time. A 52 year old woman I know got divorced and had men beating down her door. There's were age appropriate quality men too. Sure it wasn't some 30 yo stud but that's not what she was looking for. She's now 55 and dating a 45 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 03:13 PM
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So you want to sit at home and have the girlfriend drop in your lap? How so you see yourself getting a GF?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 09:06 PM
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Then they should invest in therapy that will help them get out more. If you want something and your current methods don't work, seek help to overcome your barriers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:45 PM
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each, or one baby mama, then a wife with kids. I've seen this. They have a kid young ( teens-early 20s) and then they get their shit together, get a decent job, maybe even go to college. Then they have the proper family, wife and 2.5 kids in the burbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:34 PM
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Let's just say that you found interest in a guy, but society views him as disgusting/repulsive/etc. I would not be interested in such man on the guest place. Repulsive? Come on. Even your close friends are like "meh, you can do better than that." This is the default because I'm the friend with the weird tastes. Also my friends never say "you can do better" nor do I say it to them. That's disrespectful of their agency and choice. But I also know our tastes aren't the same. Does the social pressur…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:18 AM
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Because it early days. It's just 4 months. That not even a solid relationship or anything as yet. They barely know each other. If she posts about him and they break up in 2 months? That's just attention that not needed. Social Media is for husbands not bfs and especially not bfs of 4 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:12 AM
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We are the internet weirdos. Ditto on the no social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:01 AM
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I think that's an entire different kink. Like a deeper offshoot. Like the difference between playful spanking and whipping on a St Andrew's Cross.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:09 PM
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I cally father daddy and not weirded out by a daddy kink. The way I understand it it's not an incest or desire for incest thing. More like a protection/caretaker thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:54 PM
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So you want women to date people they are unattracted to? You want a gf who isn't attracted to you? What does that relationship look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:33 PM
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But why try something you know you don't like? What's the point? So you give the chef a chance, you don't like it as you suspected. Why waste both my time and the chef's time? Why give the chef hope that I like what he's cooking?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:23 PM
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Have y'all met people who have a praise kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:42 PM
1

I call my father daddy. He does the same to his father. It's cultural and probably a location thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:39 PM
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I don't mean that he expects you to indulge early in sex, but that he should be wanting it and pushing for it early. So he's pushing for something he doesn't expect to happen? Why would I want someone who wants to exercise futility?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:09 PM
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They have never stepped outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:49 AM
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I've seen these women don't girl very well and can't make friends that are girls I see you've met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:42 PM
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She is me! One and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:04 PM
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My mom selected for "good hair". Worked out well for me. But she also selected for "tall" (5'10") and ended up with kids 6ft+ including the women. My dad selected for "smart" and ended up with 2 scholarship kids and one pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:57 PM
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Trashy Fast Fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:52 PM
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A Queen is 80 inches and at 6'9" he's 1" over that. A King wouldn't help since a since is also 84 inches long. The California King is what goes up to 84 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:48 PM
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I don't know anything about the sex lives of my friends. But I'm not typical in the FSM scene. I have one close female friend and she knows I do sex work. She doesn't know my N count outside if sex work nor do I know hers. I'm not really one to discuss my personal sex life. I discuss sex and queer issues in general but never in relation to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:50 PM
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We get the money up front regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:44 PM
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Ok. I meant stuff like physically too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:29 PM
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I suspect this is common with women who are not conventionally attractive or fit into a niche like goth chick or need chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:33 PM
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that said i don't think these girls end up riding the CC that much True. I dated the first guy that showed me any real interest for 5 years. We broke up not because of cheating or anything but because we wanted different things out of life. Him kids, me to emigrate. and i don't think its a strong explanation for female whoredom Yeah. I'm an actual whore but I never ran around having casual sex or ONS. The only sex I've had is with clients or bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:26 PM
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I too was sexualized when I was young. But that was by old dude who are gross. Guys my age wanted to petite cute girls. I'm a giant. Physically larger than most men I come across on a daily basis. No one hit on me in high school. I was friends with 2 of the popular girls that everyone wanted. I know what it looks like to be on the receiving end but never experienced it for myself. I never had a bf. My one bf I met when I was 17.5 and he was a friend of a friend of a friend and 22. I dated him fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:23 PM
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Parents of PPD, did you chose your child's other parent based on how you hoped your child would turn out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:16 PM
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Ugh. I totally forgot. The dude I'm interested in is 6'10". The next one is 6'5" but I know he fits ok on a Queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:49 PM
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That's because up to a king a bed is 80 inches in length. Someone 6'9" needs the extra 4 inches the Cali King gives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:48 PM
2

r_r just said he got his ballot and it's Sanders is not at the top. He also loves in California. It's random dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:43 PM
2

They are writing for a certain grade to be the most appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:41 PM
1

My main hindrance when dating women in my age group is the expectation for certain societal norms to occur at a much faster pace than a younger individual So this younger woman will go along with you for awhile in her 20s and then she gets older and has moved through the stages of life she will realize that you just aren't. Then you guys break up and she says to other younger woman if an old dude if coming after you more than likely start gonna make it because you'll leave this guy behind. In he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:44 PM
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This isn't just the regret talking now that you're past 30 and didn't sleep with lots of hot 20 something guys when you could? Which woman thinks like this? More than likely they regret spending so much of their 20s building a relationship that ultimately went nowhere. Not that they weren't fucking 20s guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:36 PM
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I'm all about that FS bed. Space is important and I live in a big city. A king is way too big. That's like 2 separate beds! Who wants that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:32 PM
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At what age does one acquire a Queen size bed? Thinking of furniture and I like a full size bed. But apparently it's immature after a certain age to only have a full size?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:27 PM
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Everytime the High N talk comes up men talk about how they don't want to be with High N women because they won't feel special. They'll be one of many and there is nothing unique about them. This ain't a woman specific thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:48 PM
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Go talk to him, and if he's not a total stud that's used to it, it will impress him a lot. Stop spreading these lies. You are only picturing attractive women doing this. Other women will tell you that no, he won't be impressed, he'll be annoyed. It worse totally take interest to get his rocks off. Him not being a stud does not change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:58 PM
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I am no longer the nutjob in PPD Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:45 PM
2

What you describe is alot of female to female friendships as well. Sometimes we are blowing up each other's phone on the daily, then we drop off the face of the Earth, then come back. I have different friends I talk to different things about. I don't get offended when they are off and then come back for whatever purpose I fill in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:03 PM
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She curves me and I ghost because she really hurt me. Do you get rejected upfront by this girl and then you ghost her? Basically the silent treatment which is a manipulative and abuse tactic. She's upfront with you and you then resort of abuse tactics? You don't see how this makes you a POS?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:59 PM
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They are usually formerly poor dudes who got where they are on physical ability. We are taking class markers not just net worth. They tend to have the same tastes as how they grew up. None of the dudes I went to school with would wife up a waitress.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:28 PM
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Sometimes I think when women say they want a long session it's the entire thing. All the teasing, the foreplay, etc etc. The actual intercourse bit can as a shorter time. Cause after awhile chaffing is a thing. Also I'm tired :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:21 PM
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It's like you've never met PCOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:05 PM
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I don't think is so a men thing and more of a "people who don't get alot of attention" thing. Just so happens that men tend to get less attention than women. But there are women that this happens to as well. Myself for example, I don't think check out guys or anything like that being nice to me means they like me, but I tend to mistake other normal nice things for romantic interest. It's usually not. I develop little crushes and stuff but I don't make a move or anything. I have learned that if g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:27 PM
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Yup. Just as I said laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:51 PM
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My time to shine! It's laziness actually. Plain old laziness. A step sister/step mother is a ready made partner. She is there in your house. She's not some girl you have to pick up, get to know, and then convince her to fuck. She already knows you (she lives with you). She accepts you as you are so you don't need to put in any effort. You little can come as you are (Cheeto fingers and all). Step fantasy is girl on tap fantasy. Source: Did the market research on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:52 AM
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Which is why is not a big deal if we both go our own way. He can find a women he values and I can find a dude who likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:05 PM
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Blessed be the fruit. May the Lord open.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:02 PM
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That's was a part of it but like the smallest part. Basic shit like getting to places ontime, deciding what to do or eat. Making and sticking to plans. Just wishy washy. I hated it. If left to my own devices I will run the show and bulldoze any man. I have ADHD and I have to overcorrect to function normally. Someone without a calendar is like the anti Christ. For example " Let's make plans for next Tuesday. What time do you think you'll be free". And then I get an idk or just whenever. I can't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:35 PM
1

Low libido
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 02:01 PM
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I like skinny dudes. Not basement dwellers though. I want to find one to date. I don't want to dead bedroom a HL man. I want someone on my level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:48 PM
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Struggle is my middle name. I tried it with a go with the flow ISFP once and almost jumped off a cliff. It was the most anxiety inducing thing I've had to do and I'm an actual escort meeting strange men on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:45 PM
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Over the past few posts I've seen people say there are low T and low libido men. Where can I find one of these? Not joking but like seriously where can I? How would I look for and filter for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:17 PM
2

Sorry about your pup. We might not be your SO but we can be your little online family. You can lean on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:06 PM
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I usually go for certain types of lawyers and I can usually tell the type the are fairly quickly. I'm one of those women with a "masculine personality" or w/e they call it and I find I usually run over normal dudes quite easily. Sure I could try to tone tf down but why should I. I also really despise go with the flow types. I need that Type A ENTJ energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:35 AM
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It doesn't matter what percentage of Americans it is. Only what it looks like among the dating prospects in your area. I live in large city. 100k is the bare minimum to make it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:07 AM
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Eh this is iffy. Not all lawyers are rolling in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:59 AM
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I'm super into lawyers (also finance dudes). Not usually for the money since I make a decent amount buy usually for the personality it takes to make it in those fields. There are other careers that make similar money but I don't find the personalities match mine as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:57 AM
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they realize the hookers ARE NOT free unless he’s hot. Even when they are hot they still gotta pay. It's business not charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:54 AM
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For example, I daily-drive a brand new Lamborghini Urus. So I just looked this up. I would not be able to recognize this as an expensive car so I would not really car. I also don't live somewhere where cars are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:48 AM
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Upper Middle Class
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:20 AM
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"oh my clients are so nice that I'm too spoiled for going on real dates anymore" This is a real issue. Flakes, cheap men, uninteresting dudes etc. I have no patience for them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:37 PM
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The ppl in relationships won't go there to complain. There are lots there that Are married, in LTRs, actual married lesbians that see make clients etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:36 PM
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I put them in the same category because men reject all of them. They aren't the same though. The motivation is different. Plus one is an actual job.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:25 PM
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Idk. She's got like 4 kids. I assume the parents will leave an inheritance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:49 AM
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Both her and her husband are unemployed and life off her parents money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:37 PM
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Lol. Thanks. My nieces think I'm cool and that's all that really manners. Plus I get to spend all my extra money on them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:19 AM
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What intimacy are they getting from removing themselves all together from the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:29 AM
2

I don't drink wine, but I'm definitely the cool aunt go my 3 nieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:19 AM
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The promise of hookup culture is to have your cake and eat it. Or they could just not be interested in dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:16 AM
2

You've never met an actual woman have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:24 PM
1

I'm gonna be the odd millennial that likes to talk on the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:12 PM
1

I'm from a 3rd world country my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:06 PM
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I went to a wedding once and the groom genuinely thought spousal rape was ok (and argued such on Facebook) and I just couldn't believe a 20 something man living in the teens thought that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:01 PM
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I have never raised my hand in anger to someone. I'd feel such shame in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 07:54 PM
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So to hurt someone? So why resort to actually laying your hand on another person? I just don't understand how you think is ok. Even if it's little slaps? The fact that it was done during a time of conflict is a big no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:54 PM
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Yes it's domestic violence. The fact that you can't recognize that is am actual issue. What is the symbolic purpose of hitting and slappies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:44 PM
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Wtf is going in in Russia that domestic violence is accepted and common? No not even a slap. Nor has any man I've been with hit me. We use our words or walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:11 PM
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I have never in my entire life hit a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:08 PM
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You'll notice that the baby versions of most things are being made in nerdy male spaces (Groot, Sonic and Yoda). This things aren't being marketed to women. But rather TO men, BY men, who are similarly latest 20s and 30s and long for this type of thing they grew up with. For ever woman with Yoda and Starbucks there was a dude memeing baby Yoda in r/starwars and every other corner of the internet. Also let me let you in on a little secret. It's called Merchandising. That's where most of their com…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:41 AM
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NOTALLFOREIGNERS Really it just depends on the culture they are coming from. I'm a foreigner but I don't have those thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 07:12 PM
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No. They can't. Please stop believing this BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:46 AM
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I don't particularly care. My only issue is the future employment possibilities for those that show their face. I have my own views on that. Otherwise eh it's what's it is. Why should we take these people seriously when it comes to relationships? You don't need to. They have other people who take them seriously. Most of the sexworkers I know are in relationships. Some are even married. Some are gay and cater to make clients. So they don't really need the segment of society that doesn't like them…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:21 AM
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Move to Oakland.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:57 PM
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if being a 6 figure earner wasn't impressive why would so many women flaunt at men who earn this? Because its the BARE minimum. I would not date someone who did not earn 6 figures. I live in one of the most expensive cities in the US, I am not planning to join my life to a man who will have us in the poor house or keep us working longer than we should. I want to retire when I can still do shit not when my body gives out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:50 PM
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I plan to make 6 figures before I am 30 This is really not that impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:24 PM
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South American women treat men completely different than US women FOREIGN men. They treat foreign men different. You are the way out. If for wealthy women you are still a way out to a first works country. American women aren't trying to escape anything. Anecdotally American women also treat foreign men differently than American. They are impressed by accents, travels etc. Same as SA men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:08 PM
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I have been both skinny and obese (level 1 and 3). I can honestly say I felt my happiest in Obese Level 1 (between 30 and 32 BMI). When I was skinny, all I worried about was getting fat and how it would be horrible and how ppl would treat me bad. I had to make sure I was thinner that this person or that person. It was a constant battle should I fall off and gain even the smallest amount of weight. ​ Anyway, I gained weight. Guess what all the shit was worried about did not happy. I did not lose …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:36 PM
1

I a non mom, loves throw pillows. My clients always make fun of the pillow mountain on the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:24 PM
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I'm an actual prostitute and not even I would behave like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:48 PM
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You can't fuck a man into staying with you. Men with fuck a sponge and go back for more. This man has you studying tips. Do you think he's doing the same in an effort to please you? Doubtful. Have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:46 PM
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He won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:44 PM
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A 5'8" woman is the equivalent of a 6'1" man. So above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:57 AM
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I expect more out of relationships than J do friendships. I have various levels of friends to get different things from. I'll only have one SO. Some people don't dwell well in ambiguity. I am one of those ppl. I need rules not this wishy washy go with the flow thing. I'm probably won't have a DTR but I have my own internal timeline and things aren't progressing the why I want then no need to stick around. It just means the person isn't on the same page as me and that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:44 PM
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Its not that's I'm bothered to add ppl it's that's I'm bothered to delete. So I just add no one. No work mates, especially no dudes. The ppl on my social media are from high school and college.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:36 PM
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Sure that's illegal but I'll play along. A wall in his home office sure. A secret room no. It's the secret not the vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:57 PM
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I don't know what you are getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:39 PM
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How does condom vs no condom affect things for you? No difference. you've ever fucked a mind blowingly hot guy before? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:22 PM
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Does it feel good to have a dick in you? Not really. It feels like nothing much. Unless this dude outside the average in some way (bigger or smaller) they all pretty much feel the same. And with a bigger variety of men? Aren’t you curious how different dicks can make you feel? No. I'm here to tell you that they are usually the same feeling. There isn't that much variety in dicks across age and races. Some dudes have a better technique, but as you can see it's the dude in question that makes the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:21 PM
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Scandinavian countries The Nordic Model is shit. Either workers and clients are both criminals or none of use are criminals. None of this one and not the other crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:11 PM
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Should we legalize prostitution in the US? No. They should decriminalize it. There is a difference. By legalizing, the government can enforce some regulations which should help cut down on trafficking/underage girls being forced into prostitution etc. These ALREADY exist. Laws against sex trafficking and underage prostitution already are on the books. Why do you think adding more regulations are going to change the issues? In fact Everytime the Govt tries to enact shit without listening to sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:08 PM
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I don't rely on the local economy to make a living. Also I know what it's like to live somewhere with a shit economy. That's why airplanes were created. For vacation!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:31 PM
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If he's cute, no. I don't mind living in South America.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:25 PM
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I will 100% use it. Ppl marry for passports all the time. It's just usually the big fancy countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:21 PM
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In my community this is a given. I don't know where the idea that this wasn't needed came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:57 PM
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I think its pretty obvious by this point that women simply feel guilty about sexless men. Not at all. I will on occasion see sexless men who decided to so something about it. I have no guilt towards sexless me. I myself have my own worries and I don't think the people who have privilege in those area should feel guilty about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:56 PM
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Yes I would. A vagina outside of a sexual situation isn't all that appealing. Also it's work. What wouldn't I want a man gainfully employed in a sustainable field?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:53 PM
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My job is irrelevant of the local economy so I don't care about jobs or whatever. Freedom of travel that a Brazilian passport will afford me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:51 PM
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About 2-3 on here I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:59 PM
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For me. I want that Mercosur Citizenship. I'll take an Argie too but I don't see them represented here. I wonder why there are so many Brazilians here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:39 AM
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I need one of the Brazilians in here to marry me for citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:29 PM
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You are asking a man that specifically sought out a homeless woman to eat so he can be sure she's never leave him. He's not the average dude out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:22 PM
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Have you met a 6'9"? Trust me. He's too tall for most women who are about 5'4" tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:15 PM
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I literally thought you meant when does a guy start getting TOO tall I thought this as well and I was going to say around 6'6" is the benefits top out. After that you tend to look kinda odd. But those guys are who I'm looking for. I tend to top out at guys who are 6'10". After that it becomes u comfortable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:14 PM
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My friends would not publicly embarrass themselves in that manner. I'm.ajee if they thought those things they would look it up themselves online before letting everyone know they are a crazy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:50 AM
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Sure I could make the same in LA. But as I said SF is more compact. For my industry it makes sense to be be based in the more compact city. In LA the wealth is more spread out and I'd be going from DT to BH and the beaches too much. With SF I mainly stay in the city. On the odd chance I need to commute down to SJ it's quick. Plus there is less competition in SF for my services so I can charge a bitch of a premium in my niche. But I do LA and will probably move there when I'm done with this indus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:52 PM
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SD was too car reliant for me. It's entire identity is being a beach city and while the beach is cool, I could skip it and be fine either way. LA is car country as well but I lived in a walkable area, plus I actually use the LA metro. LA is a less a city and more a collection of cities. Seattle was too wet for me. Downtown kinda small. Good public transportation. Kinda pricey. SF is a good mid ground. It's not super big so you can get everywhere you need to. Transportation is good and gets you e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:21 PM
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OK so we've discussed this one a lot Too fucking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:14 PM
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I night ask the ground to swallow me up if I was like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:12 PM
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Too suburban. It's where I'd go after having 2.5 kids to live a chill life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:09 PM
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Needs aren't strong enough for me to tolerate a FWB. I've honestly thought about it and just decided it wasn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:08 PM
1

Is there a way to stop all this crying? Do you let people see you cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:00 PM
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I don't understand being fine with not getting something until you find out that other people got it. This is what I don't understand either. I don't go looking for a guy so that he can do for me what he did for others. I go looking for what I want and see who is willing to provide that regardless of what they did in the past. Who really is going all the way to track exes and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:25 AM
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I thought so. It has a gender ratio in favour of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:12 PM
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In 2018 I tried online dating in a few cities. Results: LA - matches and a few dates. Dudes were up for meeting. DC fewer matches, one date. SF even fewer matches, no dates I feel like this backwards. Shouldn't it be harder in LA?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:08 PM
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What goalposts? I asked for examples of what he found out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:07 PM
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all these women are starting to pay attention to me. Are they the exact same women that knew you when you were lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:35 PM
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I found out about a whole bunch of stuff she had done with me before me, but never wanted to engage in with me For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 01:28 PM
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What's wrong with that lady? I think she looks fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:21 PM
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This is exactly what I think when I hear SAHM. College, Work, Married between 28-30, Work and enjoy married life, pop out the first kid at 32, stay home, pop out the second at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:03 PM
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Is a man with both facial hair and a full head of hair less attractive than a man with no facial hair and a full head of hair? Yes he is. I don't really like facial hair very much. Maybe light stubble at best (think Jensen Ackles on the first few days of Hiatus). Don't worry though, I have a friend that LOVES beards so there's women out there that like it. Taking celeb examples, she only finds Chris Evans attractive with his bread. Like she won't even look at him without one even though she know…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:57 PM
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Neither of those but yes I'm back in my home country which is warm. Birthday passes but the party is today since my friends are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:50 PM
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It's party day! Friends from my hometown are coming over. I've opened the pool. I've hired catering. Cake is made. The wall approaches. How will I find a HMV now at my age? Woe is me!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:51 PM
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Did you marry for status and resources? Are you plotting a divorce rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:33 AM
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Congratulations on the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:24 AM
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Ok. But this is OP is also sex in the context of dating. There is no innate attraction being it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:09 PM
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I don't understand where you are coming from with this? What does my body caring have to do with me being interested in guys "above my league"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:14 PM
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What would you consider yourself 1-10? 3 as my normal self. Maybe a 5 if I am super made up and present as feminine as I can. But that's not really "me" so 3 it is. I did photofeeler sometime ago when we all did it here and I got 3.5 on that. You haven't fucked at all in 10 years or have you only stayed single? No relationship. No but also no casual sex/ONS/FWB either. Notice the flair? Only for work. No Civi dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:02 PM
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I think it means notch?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:52 PM
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If you are dealing with a woman that had a vastly better lover than you ever were, she's settling for you. No sir that's not how it works. Most women I know take in the entire dude not just how the sex is. One dude can be better at sex but terrible in other ways. I would consider myself settling if I only went with the dude good at sex vs everything else that makes him up. Also a dude being"good at sex" has alot more to do with me and how I'm feeling than what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:16 PM
2

When did Automod get married/ a new flare?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:12 PM
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I'm the girl in question, not very attractive. I like to stay in my lane and sleep properly at night. I do not need the added anxiety of dating someone who "has no shortage of top tier girls who want him". Why would I invite that kinda drama in my life? I see RP men say women like to compete and that's why dread works. No. I just walk away. I've been single for over 10 years. No man is worth losing sleep over. One guy was like that who approached me. Too cocky. Not interested at all. Another liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:30 PM
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Do you live in the Bay Area?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:24 PM
2

Ok so where is the middle class? Or where is middle class for a Single Person?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:05 PM
1

What salary is UMC in major US Cities?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:16 PM
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you should fall in love Did this a long time ago. The feelings aren't exactly mutual. Plus I like big city life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:22 AM
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I need to get out of this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:06 PM
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I have actually found most people to have about the same maturity level of when they were 16. They get older, bills etc and they deal with those sure. But if you strip all the adult responsibilities and stuff away at heart they are still just teenagers. I have found that true for both men and women. I spend alot of time with men in intimate situations and we can share a youthful humor discussion pattern. Same for women. And these are proper adults (CEOS, Business owners, people with families), b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:52 PM
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You know those Hallmark movies where the woman who was living in the fancy city and works in PR or Marketing returns home for some family crisis and cozies up with the boy from her hometown she had been in love with for 20 years but they couldn't make it work and you know drama and cuteness happened? I feel like I am living this and I should have booked a shorter vacation. 4 weeks is way too long and I need to gtfo before I quit city life. I have a big party with fairy lights coming up this week…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:44 PM
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There are a couple things are unforgivable for me. This is one of them (pass a certain age when you can fully understand whats going on). I am totally fine with people going off and fucking up their own lives and killing themselves. I draw a massive line when they endanger others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:37 PM
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No I'm not. 50K is not alot of money. It really isn't so I don't see how that's kinda something to aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:31 PM
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Where is the hyperbole? From the city website "$82,200 for an individual and $117,400 for a family of four in 2018" is considered low income and qualifies for benefits like housing. Also I checked out the starting salaries for the major industries, it's 90-120 on Average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:29 PM
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In one of the most expensive parts of one of the most expensive cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:11 AM
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It's fine with me. No bodily fluids though. I'm not pooping on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:04 AM
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They are tons of men out there that had kids in there 20s then moved away and want to make a new family in their late 30s and 40s. I avoid those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:17 AM
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"Have a kid with a sperm donor" is usually said by women who have never experienced or seen single motherhood up close. I have been single motherhood up close. With both women who got knocked up and were unprepared as well as those that made a plan and adopted. Its not just single motherhood that is bad but the decisions that led someone to be there. I don't want kids, but if I did I would be ok with adopting 1-2 and raising them on my own. Being a single woman is just like being an incel. Norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:11 PM
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but this obstacle of a child is what I’m trying to get over That is a child you helped made and brought into this world. I would run so fast from you if I heard you mention your child in this manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:59 PM
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In the woods probably. If a single person in my city makes 85K they qualify for low income housing and benefits. 22 year old fresh college kids are making 120k easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:56 PM
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I made the mistake of drinking too much and getting into bed with her, my judgment was cloudy in the moment. Why would a decent woman want to get involved with a man with such poor judgement? A OOW child at such a young age is not a good sign. It' not a death sentence, but you will need to stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:52 PM
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If you are a single woman, chances are high that you will be living either with your parents or with roommates cuz property prices in major cities are high. Wrong. I live alone is one of the most expensive cities in the country I live in. If you get fired from your job or sick, you're on your own. ​ I have savings. I could call a friend or just idk go to the hospital. I can also hire help. Ppl do that these days. If you want to have a baby, you're on your own. Donated sperm if they want to carry…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:45 PM
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50k a year is big bux. Do you live in some sort of hole in wall place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:41 PM
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I packed up my shit and moved to another country. Then I moved to a city with the best male to female gender ratio in my favour that I could find. If you want to something you make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:54 PM
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I'm from there. Back on holiday and just looking around and I'm reminded me of how the dating market is so different than in the US. Can I ask which country specifically? Nah. This is my ho account and my country is small af. No doxxing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 11:20 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:54 PM
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What I meant was that "beta bucks" is the name of the game here. The dudes on TRP don't want that. They wanna be alpha. That's not gonna get you any decent Caribbean woman. Provider game is where it's at. Money / Status is what works here not that alpha non sense unless you want some trashy ghetto girl. And yes they will drop you at a moment's notice for someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:54 PM
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American men bitching about Beta Bucks and hypergamy would not last a day in a Caribbean country. Well they would because they are white but if they had a switch places with a local and live his life they would run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:39 PM
1

Thanks. First funeral is tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:13 AM
2

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:13 AM
3

“well your roommates will still be in the house” I do not have sex with other people in the house. I just don't . I don't want to see them, I don't want them to see me. Just let me come and go in peace. No one in my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:35 AM
5

That's called a good diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:26 AM
1

So is my own height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 02:14 PM
5

My grandfather died right before Christmas and then my grandmother died after New Year (different parents). I am 100% done with death for a bit thank you very much. I gotta travel to 2 different countries to bury them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:30 PM
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Almost 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:08 PM
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being 6'2" with a mediocre face I am a tall woman. I want a tall man. Usually around 6'5", but I'll go down to 6'2". We will be the same height in shoes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:24 AM
6

I too am a sexworker and I've made more money as I've gotten older
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:16 AM
1

Apartment gym. Slightly more men than women because more men live in my building/city.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:37 AM
1

I had a guy once who had some dodgy potato and he straight up told me he had to go. He left and then 2 hrs later I went to pick him up to frag him back to be with me. Shots happens. We are grown ups my dude. That said, that chick shouldn't have gotten pissy at you. She also should have her own condoms and not rely on dates. For the future but be upfront because if after you said no and she said, "no worries, I have my own!" You'd have to come up with another story why sex if off the table rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:46 PM
1

I'd say like a 7 or 8 just from photos. But he's not my type. He looks manufactured. Too crisp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:32 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:04 PM
2

In the burial hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:18 AM
2

Nah. Going to a funeral. They will all be there. We are friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:32 AM
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In one week, I'll be sitting in a church with all the men I've ever slept with (outside of sex work). Should be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:59 PM
1

There are A LOT of women like this too. They are harder to find for the same reason. Exactly. We are also sat at home not going out to meet anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:43 PM
2

Dental Dams are a thing. Please invest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:18 PM
7

They no. They just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 07:57 PM
1

What type of messy shit is happening that the kids would know? Certainly no adult is telling them outright? They will know something is off. Kids aren't stupid. They can pick up on the change in dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:14 AM
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My friends and I don't share the same taste in guys. Back when I was 12 I did like a guy my bff at time liked. But she was the pretty popular girl so that solved that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:59 PM
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50+ years older and 8 years younger. Dude was in college. Both in a work context. Personal life: 5 years older. Me 18 him 23. We got together when I was 17 but didn't have sex until I was 18. Noone younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 08:36 AM
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Yes I have been stood up. It was a "new friend". We met through a hobby group and we were kinda flirting and getting to know each other. Just kinda feeling things out. Did a few solo actives together to see how we got on outside the group. Planned to go some stuff around town and be stood me up. Then ghosted me for 2 weeks. I have never ghosted or stood someone up. I was very hurt by what happened and I know others mind be used to dating and stuff but I'm not so I don't want to cause others any …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:09 PM
2

If you have an anxious attachment do you date someone else who is avoidant. It's going to create a toxic feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:18 PM
6

So it's about violence and wanting to hit people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 02:39 PM
1

What is "feminine"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:48 AM
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Sandwiches suck and I do not understand the American obsession with them. But I'd make it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:47 AM
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A friend recently announced that he proposed and we were all happy. Another friend confided in me that he and his gf have not had sex in 5 years. He wants to have sex. She has a "mental block". The man is almost 30. How can I stop this wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:49 AM
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And I do think getting a cat because one doesn't have the time/energy for a dog is a poor reason to bring an animal into your life. WHAT? So does that mean people should not get fish, birds, snakes etc? All these are low effort pets. I really don't understand the dog worship in America. Not every pet is just a "dog lite".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:24 PM
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I am ok with that. The worlds deadliest animal percentage wise is a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:15 PM
3

What about the stereotype is funny or worth making fun of?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:09 PM
1

1-3 cats max I think I OK. Four if you have a large living space.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:08 PM
1

And this is a bad thing because?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:08 PM
2

Why do y'all hate cats so much? I swear if it's not single m bashing it's something about cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:27 PM
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It goes up as I age. When I was 18, it was guys under 22 because they would still be in college like I was. I didn't want someone super far ahead of me. Now I'll go up to about 10 years so under 40 is important. I've seen attractive guys at 45, but realistically they are at a different place in life than I am. They will want different things and if they wanted to same things as me I would view them as not as mature. I make good money but I don't have 20 years accumulated wealth as yet. Maybe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:59 PM
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But she didn't have her shit together either. She's looking for an equal. Someone she can grow with and change together. Not someone to rescue her. Maybe ask a women who did have her shit together what she was looking for and it would probably be a guy that was similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:50 PM
2

Instapot..get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:49 PM
1

I see you don't understand eating disorders at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:04 AM
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No. It has no effect on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:58 AM
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Yes they can. If you care at all you can do your own research with a simple Google search. Alot of the posters and lurkers on pro ana sites are actually obese. You can be a "normal" BMI and still have anorexia. It's a mental illness and it looks different across all it's stuffers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:56 AM
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Eating disorders aren't just ppl who are rail thin. Obese people can have eating disorders and often times they do. They have an unhealthy relationship with food. That's what makes an eating disorder. Obese people can suffer from anorexia, binge eating disorder, bulimia, binge & purge cycles etc. Eating disorders don't have "a look".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:40 AM
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The first question out her mouth could likely be "who is she?" This has never crossed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:35 PM
2

The high N women aren't ticklish thing comes up often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:34 PM
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PPD is becoming an exhibition of bad women's anatomy. Granted I'm new here but wtf?!! The ideas some guys have about lady parts is unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:26 AM
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2) Gets a much needed workout down there (you don't want that nasty vaginismus) Wtf?! Is this what the lack of Sex Ed in schools has led to? You think vaginismusis caused by women not having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:22 AM
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TRP list of slut tells include not being ticklish and sitting with her legs apart. Honestly wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 02:47 AM
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doesnt explicitly state this advice is only for high achieving women who set the bar too low Because most women usually know that if they are the bottom I the barrel they will get bottom of the barrel. We know that from youth. It's men that needed to know they have to work this TRP. Most women I know already have their shit together, but was also told to give guys a chance even if they weren't all that attractive, or overlook certain things because "men are like that". They are finally realizing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:20 PM
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Because people use those labels to generalize me because of my age Only a white person would say this. You're being grouped in with the negative traits of a certain generation and it's pissing you off. White people usually get the benefit of "individualism" and think of themselves as solo rather than a group. People also tend to treat you this way as well. I've been generalized because of my race my entire life. I know I'm different and I'm not setting out to change everyone in my race so I'm no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:13 PM
1

Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:05 PM
1

Swamp ass transcends class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:14 PM
1

So, if his bed is unmade, you leave immediately? Yes. It takes 2 mins to make a bed. Maybe like I'd you have to wrangle with a duvet, prop the pillows just right and so a tight tuck. It tells me he's lazy, and does not care about making a good impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:07 PM
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It's not the sunlight that's damaging it's the UV rays.. https://patient.info/news-and-features/should-you-wear-sunscreen-even-when-its-cloudy I mean sure don't wear sunscreen but I don't want wrinkles at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:57 PM
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Its not an actual mask. It's just a thicker gel like Moisturizer but it locks in everything and does good for your face overnight. Sunscreen is really cheap. Much cheaper than cancer treatment for sure. The harmful rays can pass through clouds and some windows
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 03:46 PM
1

It's too much. Like please, I don't want you looking like leather at 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:00 AM
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A 3-4 step simple skin care routine will elevate the skin of many men. Cleanser Toner Moisturizer Sunscreen (Daytime), Sleeping Mask (Night Time) If he wants to get fancy he an exfoliate and facemask 2x per week. Looking like a crusty foot is not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:34 AM
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2 Hrs. How attractive was he? Average 35-55 year old middle management white male. How attractive was he in relation to you. It's been on both sides. I've both been more and less attractive. With as much detail as possible please explain how he pulled it off, where he met you, what the context was etc. He found my ad online, requested an appointment and provided all his screening information in the same message. Since I was already dressed and ready for the day I was able to see him on short not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:25 PM
2

No I have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:19 PM
1

I like to suffer. I want to live in New York and I've been seriously thinking about the move. For about 3-5 years though. It's not a permanent move. I figured since I'm there I could try the dating thing. I can take it our leave it. I'm not too concerned either way but it was be nice to see what this part of adulthood is like. I have no real expensive dating as a adult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:11 PM
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I'm thinking of trying dating next year. I've written it into my calendar with a start date of March 1. Any tips? I'm tall and I'm a minority. Should I move to New York for this? I've always wanted to live there. Maybe I can find a finance bro? In my current city the male to female ratio is in my favour but I'm surrounded by tech bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:44 PM
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women that are super duper organised and go around saying "it is very concerning that you..." Oh look. It's me. Type A
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:16 AM
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Where is Creighton? They usually are good about this part of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 04:01 AM
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Human Development Index. The Human Development Index is a statistic composite index of life expectancy, education, and per capita income indicators, which are used to rank countries into four tiers of human development.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 07:03 AM
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I use it for height. I set it at 6'2". Sometimes I lower it to 6ft to see what I'm missing out on but then I raise it right back. Usually when I'm feeling really picky I set it to 6'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:58 PM
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Like most of them are pursuing a fantasy, essentially a one way relationship where she exists to feed his ego and her wants, needs, desires, problems etc are inconsequential Not meaning to hijack her AMA but this is the same for me as well. That's why when whenever I hear guys say they want a woman to be "feminine" and "pleasant" all I hear is pretty girl with no thoughts of her own and basically acts like the above quote. When men can pay for exactly what they want they do just that. Across all…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:55 PM
2

Sorry. A height filter. That was a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:29 PM
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Bumble has a night filter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:14 PM
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You live in the UK. I'm sure you can find some national health scheme. Or a church basement for free group sessions. Or Better Help or Talk Space or online Skype sessions. Even freaking AA would help
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:34 PM
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Whilst my crying is childish, I don't have a need to stop it. Please stop crying at work. If your emotions are do strong they are spilling out in a professional setting, get a therapist and learn proper coping strategies. Outbursts of any kind (anger or crying) is best left for the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:13 PM
1

We did. A guy was talking about how teens really think because they like that song.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:23 PM
1

That's the generic safe cute guy. Not too weird on either end of the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:06 PM
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Didn't we already have an entire post about this? Also it's not about the words of the song. It's the beat and aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:04 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:02 PM
1

Which of these calls to you more? In like a sex way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:29 AM
1

Hmm, this one feels too dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:38 AM
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Lilith is often envisioned as a dangerous demon of the night, who is sexually wanton This one isn't too bad considering it would be an accurate description of the subject matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:38 AM
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Crowd sourcing: I need an attractive female name that starts with "L". Must be 7 letters or less. Open to suggestions from guys 35 to 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 01:41 AM
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got to start to observe older single women more and more and notice the quality of their life in general. I did this. They all looked younger than their married counterparts. All had more money and seemed to live a generally happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:28 PM
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Yeah. But he's not a gang banger. He's a decent looking dude. Working in a stable field with a stable job. Has a nice place and pays his bills. Far from the gang banger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:21 AM
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difference between a responsible wholesome man and a gangbanger and their propensity to be present and supporting fathers. All the guys I spoke about above that leave their wives and kids to play around and then form new families are "wholesome men". One of my clients at work a 32 year old is current getting married to one such man. He's 42, married his age match had kids and then divorced. He doesn't see them much and does not seem to care. He's ready to start family number 2 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:12 AM
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If he is too shameful to be bfs he is too shameful to fuck. Hahaha! No. Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:01 AM
4

I know all old people. I sit on the old people counsel as Youth Liaison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:26 PM
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This trend combines with a general preference towards giving children to the mother Because most men don't want custody. They want to love free 12 days then have little Billy and Sally for 2 days. They do not want to the full-time responsibility of caring for their children. The work it would take to find a sitter, the hit to their dating lives, hit to their careers. They don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:00 PM
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They'll cry about their exes being bitches and not letting them see their kids, Yup. I see this often on here about mom has turned the kids away and he fought to get them and when you examine it they just straight up don't care. But the worst ones I think are the new family starters. Know a guys guys who dated and has kids with their matches in early 20s. Then as she stays home and takes care of the house he has time to build a career. Gets to 30 realizes that life isnt for him anymore and leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:57 PM
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I'm in my 20s, but I know older people and spend time around. This idea of what the past was like is TV propaganda and marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:51 PM
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Their was some form of long term commitment in mind when having sex it wasnt meaningless it was meant to lead to something. No it wasn't! The meaning was to have fun and have sex. Only if they were caught/the woman got pregnant would they marry. Do you know any actual old people? Maybe spend some time volunteering with the elderly and listening to their stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:24 PM
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I have seen fathers turn their backs on their child because they get into a disagreement /breakup with their mom. Just straight up abandoned them because the mother was no longer available for sex. ​ These same men often go on to form a new family with some younger woman and completely ignore their first kids. So sure he can be a loving an involved parent with his new family but somewhere out there is a kid that knows him as a deadbeat dad. I know of 4 of cases. Some I know the OG kids and other…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:20 PM
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>1 sex Cis Female >2 orientation Panromantic / Heteroflexible >3 age 2nd half of 20s >4. Would you date a transperson? Yes. In either direction, though I tend to be more attracted to transwomen because I am a heightist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:09 PM
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Even the nerds and "ugly" people had partners when K went to high school and college. They dated fellow needs and "ugly" people. I remember one guy , truly not attractive in the face and terrible head shape. Had a gf in high school and also college. He was fun to be around though and also up to hangout with the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:50 AM
1

You are among rampant racists here and got feel betrayed? Did you miss purge week?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:25 AM
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the necessity of washing the backs of plates, There are people who don't wash the back of plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:57 PM
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my fiance Why this man your finace? You need a partner in a marriage. Not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:56 PM
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do you notice how women are strangely silent on all the other "gaps" where men are disadvantaged? Women talk about things that matter to them. News at 11. Maybe just maybe...men too could talk about/bring awareness to things that bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:51 PM
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The only thoughts I have about I guy is "hmm I'd be nice to go grocery shopping with him", "or looks like a great travel partner", " weekends hiking in the park could be fun with him". I don't think about them sexually. It takes me a while to think of someone sexually. Usually at least a month. Sometimes even longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:24 PM
3

Getting far is the most shameful thing where I am from. Without anyone telling you you just know it's not something you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:22 AM
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What race are you? Because in the black community men know that being attractive is important. Both the immigrants blacks (such as myself) as well as the America ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:01 PM
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Older childfree women may feel stuck in this limbo where they can no longer compete with women in their 20s What if I told you there was more to life than trying to attract. Bedwench vs mother aren't the only two paths in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:57 PM
1

All this does is create sneaky children, and even sneaker adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 02:18 AM
1

So what is the right solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:38 PM
1

Would you rather they settle with some man there aren't attracted to and deadbedroom him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:58 AM
2

Instapot is great. They have small since people sizes as well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:33 AM
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It is optimal though. If I'm a woman looking for a man that's not passive, or looking to eliminate some of the anxiety surrounding dating I will sit back and wait to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:16 AM
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She's going to get a passive man and if she is someone actively screening for that it serves no purpose. Also men will fuck a woman he's not all that interested in or even attracted to if he seems it easy. All a woman approaching does it set her set up and P&D or a slow fade from a lazy ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:49 PM
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if youre not interested enough IN ME to approach me, what good are you to me? why do i care what your "reasons" are? I don't know why this is so hard for them to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:18 PM
1

Hahahahahaha!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:07 PM
2

Yikes! You know it always amazes me when people talk about hooking up and no condom and I think are you guys trying to die? Maybe because I grew up in a developing country but sex Ed for us was if you have sex without a condom you are either going to get pregnant or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:05 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:00 PM
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Interested or interested enough the end result is the same. Whatever the motivation he wants into her enough to overcome it. He's not interested enough to overcome his shyness. He's not interested in here more than other girls. Same end result. He doesn't talk to her. That's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:59 PM
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Even if a guy is shy, he's still not interested. Because he's not interested in overcoming his shyness to approach/get the girl he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:27 PM
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but stopping a naked woman from pulling you into her is easier said than done. It's really not. You mean a late 30s dude with 20 years of female interaction and at least 50lbs weight difference couldn't take matters into his own hands to do his bit in preventing a pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 05:40 PM
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Did be take birth control into is own hands by wearing a condom? There are two people in a relationship and they should both be responsible for birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:59 PM
1

Do you know anyone that goes to clubs that does not drink or do drugs? Because I know ALOT. They just like to go there and dance. No drugs or alcohol needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:20 PM
1

The women don't even have to lie. They could just have no outward "tells" according to what I'm reading/these guys are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:30 PM
1

They the dudes or the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:50 AM
4

So running into people working in the food service industry means she slept with them? I'm trying to understand how that correlates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:28 AM
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Can you give me some examples. Either from your our experience or just a hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:07 AM
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It's not catering to men that is annoying, it's doing that while putting others down. No one cares if some lady wants to bend over backwards for some man. But if she does so while squawking that by her doing that she's "better" than other women, it's gonna be a problem. She's literally saying "Pick Me! I'll do all those things that other girls won't". More often than not though it's annoying because in a couple weeks, months etc the SAME women will come and talk about how her needs aren't being …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:53 PM
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it is the advertising of the behaviors WHILE putting down other women. Nothing wrong with being hey I do all these things. What's annoying is I do these things unlike those other girls and that makes me a better choice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:41 PM
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They are less likely to cheat if they think wifey is of good quality and much more likely to cheat if they think wifey is a hoe. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:22 PM
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most experienced men can estimate your n-count without needing to ask How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:17 PM
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To the gallows with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:11 PM
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decriminalization of prostitution (i.e., The Nordic Model) These are not actually the same thing. New Zealand has decriminalized prostitution but it does not have the Nordic model. It puts us and our clients on unequal footing. Either we are both criminals or neither of us are criminals. But this half & half will not help. It will make it harder to screen clients firstly and thus remove the protections sex workers currently have. SWs have been talking for YEARS how this is a shit model. These th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:05 AM
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Emojis give me an anxiety. I don't use them. Probably 2nd in my hatred right behind using lol as punctuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:54 AM
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Of yeah for sure. Wife are "good ladies" for house duties and child rearing. Other ladies are for fun and adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:17 AM
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You just described probably 75% of my clients. Someone they can chat with, lay naked and wax philosophical. All unencumbered by requiring them to do the dishes once in a while and take the kid to soccer practice on Saturdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:16 PM
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Sexism, racism and homophobia often go hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:49 PM
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Literally half the shit I do daily is answer questions I already wrote on my ad/website
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 06:37 AM
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they just don't feel a need to follow your instructions Then they don't get an appointment. If he can't make the slightest effort to follow the basic rules I set to see me I have no guarantee he'll stick to boundaries during a session. He can see someone else who will put up with that and I'll just straight trash the message or mark him as Spam. So you just ignore the questions hoping she'll forget or not caring that she's to ask again and then be accused of being a nag? Is she even competent? W…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:21 PM
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Clients don't read. I'm honestly wondering how some of these men got to VP and C Suite status if they can't do do simple shit like read a website, fill out a booking form to set an appointment. It's not hard my dudes! Every ad I have says DON'T call me. Yet they still call, like I have time for that. Side note: Do men have an aversion to answering questions? This only happens with men (from friends, to co workers to clients). If I send a text or an email with a bunch of questions they only answe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:53 PM
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Would women be so eager to swap genders if they had to live their life as a small dicked guy? Im curious. There's a FTM trans guy on YouTube (Jamie) that did just that. Did the surgery and got a small dick. He's for a fiancee and didn't struggle with girls before her..... so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 10:22 PM
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it's a bit silly to call them an "authentic" person when they're clearly untrustworthy and duplicitous. I think you are confusing authenticity with honestly. Being a liar IS their authentic self, but they aren't a honest person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 10:16 PM
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I'm educated and well compensated and get here I am....I resident PPD pro ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 07:59 AM
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Yes it is. I've had a Note since 3 and I bought it specifically as a work horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:47 PM
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I'm about a 3-4. I used one of those websites that people use to vote on others and it says I'm a 3.5. I also did pretty scale which measures facial symmetry and that gave me a 80%: Good face shape Small forehead Good interocular distance Nose too wide for face Small mouth for nose Chin too big Good face symmetry My nose is my sore spot and I always wanted to get a smaller one. But I'm gonna trust the actual ppl over the AI. Anyway because I'm not attractive I don't get hit on or approached. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:46 PM
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A lady in Sephora asked what foundation I was wearing so she could tell the SA to get the same finish. I had to tell her I wasn't wearing foundation or complexion products. I have peaked!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:15 PM
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But what happened to releasing a whole season at a time so I can binge watch? Waiting a week between episodes is so 2016. Marketing and prolonging the life of a show. TV watching is not just a thing people do. It's a social event in a way. You talk about the show at work, with friends over coffee, live tweet on Twitter etc. What happened with binge streaming is that it removed that element. Everyone was watching at their own pace which removed the social interaction. For example, new Netflix ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:10 PM
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Note 10. But that's because I'm actively anti I phone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:02 PM
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I don't take Adderall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 09:16 PM
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I'm thinking of getting evaluated for ASD? I think I might be an aspie......or it might just be the ADHD. I'm going back on my meds in December. I'm excited and so is my grocery bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:34 AM
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I'm 5'11.5". So no, I don't believe those guys who are 5'11" and say they are 6'2" since I can see with my own damn eyes that they aren't. I've says many times on this sub that I'm taller than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:00 AM
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Is this 36 year old dude really trying to tell us that he’s making 240-320k?? Is he a surgeon?? Is he a CEOs son?? You can clear that easily working as a senior programmer or product manager in Silicon Valley. You don't even need to be VP or C Suite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:17 AM
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I like to watch the analysis of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 08:13 PM
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then share an anecdote that would never happen in a western country, a girl openly talking about her sex work. Thus happens all the time in America. Especially if the person is comfortable with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 04:37 PM
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I always talk about being a heightist. It's even worse because my cut off is 6'2". No go below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 04:27 PM
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Last year when I tried OLD I would laugh to myself when the guy would show up and you could see the embarrassment on his face I'd be lied. I have my height listed on my as because I'm almost 6ft. I can also guess with accuracy heights up to 7ft. Tons of guys who are "6ft" tall that I tower over while wearing sandals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:33 AM
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The relationship immediately before me, ended I guess because he wasn’t really into the girl, and would be very low effort with her by his own admission because he never really felt sparks for her and she wanted more. I.e: not meeting consistently, not participating in family things, and generally not growing the relationship. This is actually a major red flag for me and I wouldn't stay with someone who did this. What this tells me if that he lacks integrity, is focused on ease and convenience, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:49 PM
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I’m really caught off guard by this Why are you caught off guard like this? This is a real question. Like I could see this happening from a mile away. What else did you expect to happen? Lets break it down shall we. From your retelling of the events: didn’t want to hook up with him right away because I told him I didn’t want to be that girl who was just a one night stand while on vacation and he kind of blew off my concern like I was overanalyzing the situation So you stated your boundaries and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:11 AM
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You aren't curious how people people function under less than optimal conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:31 AM
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Where did I state otherwise? Or was the comment not meant for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:30 AM
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Those people would be stupid. Also technically homophobic since their give lesser meaning to same sex relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:29 AM
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If you want to date a woman who has no standards for cleaning just date a woman with ADHD. WRONG! My cleaning is powered by ADHD. Ya can't make blanket statements like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:26 PM
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Yes. Your gf had sex without someone outside your relationship. Its cheating. No technically about it. Just in all possible ways. Why didn't you see it as cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:10 PM
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If I had a man I would be ok with seeing him give AND take dick. I don't care too much either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:05 PM
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Watch some YouTube shows about people with disabilities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:47 PM
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So the same shit I do now which is work from home. Since I am below average intelligence I would work in customer service for somewhere like Amazon or some other simple gig. Lots of simple shit for people to do at home. Just need to follow a script. For acne since I work fr home I probably spend a lot of time on Reddit. I'd start with the skincare sub and ask for help. I'll try the stuff they say. If no fixing I'll save some of my Amazon CS money and go see a derm. I'll probably have some solo h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:20 AM
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Are you black? Yes. And I moisturize, wear sunscreen daily and stay out of the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:49 AM
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Not to mention that sex workers are only really valuable when they are youthful, Wrong! I've actually made more movie as I've gotten older. Tons of escorts in their 40s-50s making good money. Most of the well to do escorts are actually in their 30s. and that sex work is often difficult, It can be. and emotionally draining. It can be. But the same as like having a BF. Source: Escort for many years. Bias: knowledge of the middle to higher end of the business
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:12 AM
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It's also because black people moisturize and don't stay out in the sun as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 01:59 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:27 AM
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Most men chose the least custody option when given the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:20 AM
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the division of assets and debts. You mean the assets and debts the COUPLE acquired during marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:12 AM
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a desperate lonley man will be grateful to have someone validate him. haha no. I have found that they behave even worse. if i am going to be treated badly it might as well be by someone I enjoy looking at. Every time I have given a less attractive man a chance he became got a shit attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:48 PM
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I know I need to learn how to so that I can cook for a family someday You shouldn't learn so you can feed a family. You should learn so can feed yourself. What does your food bill look like? I'm sure it would be less if you cooked even half of your meals. Start with stuff that cook themselves. Like rice in a rice cooker or stew in a Crock-Pot. These just require you to throw things in and they cook. You can work your way up from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:58 AM
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Eh, I think thats ok. But are you being an asshole and pressuring about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:14 AM
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Basic adult skills are important. I wasn't sure if you wanted someone to get off from PIV or just orgasms in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:34 AM
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who does not know how to cook and clean after the age of 21 in 2019? like sure if you made it to 18 and your parents did not teach you, i can see that. but by 21 you should have to drive to learn that shit on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:48 PM
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The majority of them seem happy too. This is what I thought when I was younger, until I got old enough to see the cracks that alot of people i thought were the pinnacle of happiness and family were just putting on a show. its not public unless you know what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:45 PM
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I get a hotel in Thailand I dont know where I can go, who I can speak English to, what not to eat to get sick, etc. You can just go outside. If you wanna be safe buy a guidebook before hand and stick to it. Or just like in America, they have front desk staff who know the best places to go, they have flyers for stuff you want to see etc. Who will you speak English to? Lots of people, usually your hotel staff, some food staff, tour guides. If you find yourself in some jungle or whatever just use G…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:43 PM
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No. I don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:36 PM
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No hobbies. Only men things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 06:37 AM
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How transactional did you perceive sex to be growing up/during your first experiences? I grew up very religious. Sex was not something you did unless you were married. When I started dating outside the religion it's just something I did because I had a bf. I didn't really get anything out of it and I didn't have an orgasm until I was well into my 20s and taught myself how. How did you get into the industry? Saw a documentary. Were you working in another industry before, and if so, which? I was i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 06:27 AM
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how often are there stings where the Johns get arrested? Not many I don't think. Usually it's the "u avail" dick thinkers that get caught. They scroll through some site and hit up a bunch of guys with "u avail". Whoever answers they go to her. They don't any research or anything and she didn't screen them because the cops want you in an out as soon as possible. Other stings might be if the chick is bothering her neighbors with a high volume or something like that. Would you say it's a real risk?…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:52 AM
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That's just it. There is no should. One of them is going to want the other more and she will make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:46 AM
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Do you ever think that you make it possible for some guys to cheat on their wives? I'm a facilitator on that day. people don't hold the same opinions when it comes to selling drugs to kids ??? Drugs to kids I where you want to make a comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:06 AM
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When I do it myself. Only when I'm feeling in the mood which is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:03 AM
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No. I don't know him and he doesn't know me. We are both playing a role. Also he'd probably get dead bedroomed and I would not want that for someone I was fond of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:01 AM
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I have 4 open spots per day that I can see clients. I never book the spots but the logistics are in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:58 AM
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What sort of real-world info? I am know exactly who all of my clients are in real life. Why would anyone trust you? Because they want to see me and that's the price of admission. If they don't want to give that information they are free to book someone who doesn't need it. Because I'm a well established escort. I wouldn't risk my reputation or bank account on some random dude. And are you seriously asking for two letters of reference from other hos? Yes. Do you charge a fee for providing a lette…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:55 AM
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I can only handle the racists once per year. Last purge someone I thought was decent turned to be a raging racist. Tis sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:51 AM
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who makes the first move? The one that's more interested. Who jumps in front of who when a mass shooter shows up? The one who cares more. Also on a ship full of nothing but women who gets evacuated first? Smaller, younger, weaker ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:48 AM
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Are you in a country where it's legal No. how do you navigate that? I screen all clients that I see. Clients tend to know they need to screen. If it's a newbie I explain the screening process. Screening just means I get real world information from them and I run my personal checks based on that. I also ask for at least 2 references from ladies at a similar level as myself. What is your typical client like? This will vary based on the city I'm in. Also depends on which photos I use, the platform …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:45 AM
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Someone wanted me to do an AMA. I'm not sure if that's allowed but this is it. Ask me stuff about hoeing. I'll answer what I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 01:36 AM
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His song on the movie. You can see him better https://youtu.be/93lrosBEW-Q
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:14 AM
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https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/disney/images/c/c5/Profile_-_Tamatoa.jpeg/revision/latest/top-crop/width/360/height/450?cb=20190627030539
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:13 AM
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Where are you from and what is you ur cultural and religious background?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:36 PM
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Someone asked if it was the crab from Moana and I can't unsee it now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:23 PM
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James Dean, Marlon Brando, Rock Hudson, Clark Gable, Montgomery Clift etc. Please use the internet to do basic research.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:10 PM
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So that watched can self insert. What do you think the loser dude who is "special" in some way and then gets the girl exist so much. See The Lego Movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 11:06 PM
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They only regret it because they suck at it. I don't think so. I know women who are very good moms. But they do regret having children. They did all the right things, went to college for a workable degree (teacher, biz admin etc), got married in their 20s as TRP preaches and had kids. They are on the surface good moms. But they don't like it. They are some cultures where having kids is what you do, its the next step whether they really wanted it or not. So they have these children, do the best t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 07:44 PM
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I am just seeing the loud ones who have nothing to lose? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 04:11 AM
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What questions do you have have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 04:09 AM
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I think somewhere she says she's 20. Yeah it's just youth. But as a sex worker that idealism is hurt her. I sense some sort of conflict within in. Like she's doing this and really is at the whim of men for her income yet she is trying to me it into an empowering thing. Poor at her craft indeed is the woman who must trade sex for actual dollars. I am a professional escort, it is what it is. I don't think I'm worse off than a wife. I have a very low tolerance for people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 02:31 AM
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I am straight up playing them and getting rich off of their efforts. I've read all your comments and I find it quite funny that you think you are playing these gentlemen. It's like you need to convince yourself you are winning against them in someway. You are providing a service. A man willfully signs up and says. "Playing someone" implied done deception. Where is the deception? How are you taking advantage of someone that freely chose to pay for something you are providing. "But there are Reddi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:40 AM
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But in your first comment, you try to make yourself sound empowered and like you're winning some sort of clever game over them. This is what I got from that as well. Like sis, you cannot take advantage of a man who pays for the service you are providing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:28 AM
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I meant that it was the time commitment. Ya know getting ready, going out, the sex, having company, being a therapist. All that's different is the admin and my marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:06 PM
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Sadness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:54 PM
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Banish me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:53 PM
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Yes. Probably too much. I nap alot I work from home so I don't have to commute. I have a routine. My clients are usually professionals like I am. They come to see me during lunch because I live in the area they work. I take my lunch at that time too. Then I go back to my home office. Then they come and see me at night after work . I get the "I'm leaving work early at 4" guys. The "I'm staying staying late at work honey" guys that come by starting between 6-8pm. "Client meeting is done" Usually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:51 PM
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They can just get on SSRIs. Some of then need it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:14 PM
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The big conference is coming to town and I've invested alot of ad dollars. Let's hope it works out for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:59 PM
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So plus for him for being there, and for trying to help his daughter not becoming a teen mother He bragged about his son fucking at 14 to whom I ask assume is a teenager. Does he care about the possibility of his son making someone a teen Mom? Nah. He doesn't give a shit about teen moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:57 PM
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Are you the chick that got asked out the the guy who would make you a countess if you married him?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:55 PM
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And here we see empathy developing in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:52 PM
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From 18-25 I went to college and got a degree. Then I started a freelance business. I switched over to a career type of job where I make six figures. I'm also an escort. I see a couple guys per week. They come by we hang out, go to dinner and have a genuinely nice time (most if the time). I'll also clear 6 figs there. It doesn't interrupt my work. I do well at both and my bank account is happy as I am. I have zero debt and I'm saving to buy a house in the area with some of the most expensive rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:32 PM
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Maybe just maybe you should have chosen your educated equal to help make decisions rather than some random homeless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:25 PM
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A man is not a plan. Gonna need to hand this as a card and wear on T Shirts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:15 PM
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It's 2 child policy now because they have about 30 million more young men than women and they are well and truly fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:48 AM
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allowing them to go to school and access services such as health care So these children will be uneducated and suffer health issues? What happens when they turn 18 and qualify on their own for various services? Just adding to the tax payers bills. It's cheaper to educate and keep a child healthy than it is to rehabilitate an adult. I'm sure this will go as well as their last family planning policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:46 AM
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Lots of 1% guys have been dumped and divorced for cheating Literally happened to the most 1% guy there ever was. Whenever anyone tells me to give my "prime years" to don't dude, have all his kids, help with his mission etc and he will have wife goggled, I'm gonna point them to Bezos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:52 PM
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Why do you "have" to pay? Because his gf is a homeless women he specifically selected so that he would always be her "best option" and never leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:34 PM
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I just don’t have what it takes I am not perfect but you have come to this with a self defeating attitude. You are telling yourself that you can't do it instead of asking how to do it or saying, yes I did that in the past but what can I do now. ​ Please read up on Future Time Orientation. If you can't remain without sex for like a couple months to ensure a years of happiness then there is no advice for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:23 AM
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But I just don’t have what it takes to be without sex for months You have no self control? That's all I got from that statement. You need better FTO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 04:52 AM
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so then why tf are you thinking this is about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:23 PM
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Or you've always wanted to try kinky stuff long before you even met your partner but you wanted to be sure it's with someone you are safe with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:23 PM
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I see OP and many people here have never experienced and ED or someone with it. ED are not actually about food or looking good. That's the second degree manifestation. EDs are a form of OCD and a manifestation of anxiety. It's about control. The ED patient picks a part of their life to control and then justifies it after the act. If eating is something you can control then you can justify it away as wanting a thigh gap. The need for the high gap didn't come first, that's just the rationalization…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:20 PM
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Girls have EDs very early before even a hint of male attention comes their way. What about lesbians and asexual people? EDs are not about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:53 PM
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Idk but I can't imagine being this hung up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 12:31 AM
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having a relationship for a month and then breaking it off I don't have time for this nonsense. If I date someone and we break up after a month the due to some incompatibly then sure. At least we made an honest go of it, but if from the outset it's a smash and go I'm. It interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:58 PM
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Cheating is whatever is outside the bounds of a specific relationship as agreed upon by the two people in the relationship. If you able to ask "is this cheating" it's probably cheating. You and your partner should discuss whatever rules you wanna relating to fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:50 PM
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I'm an escort. If you are ctually serious I'll point you in the right direction based on your location and how much you can afford to spend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 06:03 PM
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Some men don’t want to risk being labelled a creep, even if they want you. If a man is asking me out he'll know me well enough to know I'm not going to do that. I don't have random dudes asking me out nor do I get cold approaches. I'm not attractive enough for that. Basically any man I go out with should have gotten to know me enough to know that I won't ask him so the asking is up to him. If he wants me he'll figure it out. If he doesn't then he doesn't know me well enough. I don't go out with …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:50 AM
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To quote myself If he's not asking me out then he's either not interested or values something other than a chance with me If I'm not asking him out then I value something more than a chance with him. That thing is not being anxious. I value peace of mind and asking a man out doesn't give me that. Plus I don't actually mind being home or just hanging with friends. I also have the sex drive of a panda so I'm not really hurting in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:40 AM
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It get much is. I see it ALL the time . Go make a post on those subs and link the responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:33 AM
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I play the piano. I also play the steel drums. I play double tenor and double second When I look at YT videos on how to play a certain song, 95% of the videos are from male users, then there's a minority of females, usually 12 years old asian girls or semi-autistic Eastern Euro girls with a father who passed them down the love for music. Because most of the focus will be on her looks and not on her teaching music. For work we did a series of videos for a destination. We had a dude and a girl mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:32 AM
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Nope. I didn't go to junior high.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:24 AM
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Because if a man is really interested in me he will ask me out. If he's not asking me out then he's either not interested or values something other than a chance with me (his dignity in the face of rejection, our friendship etc). Whatever the reason if he's not asking he doesn't want me enough and thus I'm not missing out on anything if I don't ask him. Plus I've said it before, I used to ask guys out. They would say yes or just go with the flow because they thought I'd have sex with them becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:04 AM
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My bedroom is a no pet zone. Occasionally in the day they can hang out in there if I'm doing chores or something, but pets don't sleep on my room at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:22 AM
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Even if I was sat at home every night with nothing to do and no male interaction I would not ask a man out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:57 AM
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Thus you will get bored of me sexually extremely fast and way more likely to cheat or end the relationship That's not how it works my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:28 AM
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they tend to be "tighter" down there A tight vagina is an unaroused vagina. potentially "used up" What exactly is being used up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:25 AM
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Just food in my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:31 AM
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When I am sleeping I am dreamer about food. Also staying awake is my only mission in life at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:30 AM
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I have my systems in place and my house is a finely tuned ADHD sanctuary. I just forgot about the food bits because I usually had no appetite while on it. I gotta suffer for like a month like this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:29 AM
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I came off my ADHD medication and literally everything is food to me. I'm so hungry ALL the time even when I know I'm full. I should also invest in Post-it stock because I have the working memory of a gold fish and it's the end of the month and billing time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:11 PM
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Im gonna ask some women to comment their experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 01:14 AM
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I very much make plans etc but I've found that guys won't say no even if they aren't interested. They will just go ahead with it because they think we might have sex which isn't gonna happen anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 12:59 AM
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if he asks where I wanna go, or do...like what should I do there? Tell him honestly where you want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 12:58 AM
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Exhibit A: 30M, 25F Fine. Post college. Similar stages in life. Probably onto their 2nd jobs by now. More stable. Exhibit B: 35M, 25F No.. When I was 25 anyone over 30 was basically a grandfather. 32 was my limit before the intense ick factor kicked in. Exhibit C: 25M, 18F No. At 18 anyone over 22 was too old for me. That person was out of college, working etc. Way too different than my life then. I would never suggest an 18 year old get married and have kids. Nah. Go out experience the world. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 11:41 PM
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actual approaching, maintaining contact, planning dates and actually being an active participant to see things go forward. Men don't like this. Trust me sir they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 11:34 PM
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Lol..the man does not exist but I'll take all the pieces I can get
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:35 PM
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In my day to day life I never get hit on. I don't get approached and no one flirts with me. I certainly don't get casual sex attention. So I don't know what my life would be like if I was getting that kind of interest. I also didn't really get matches when I tried online dating. Photofeeler says I'm 3.5. Do you think your professional life would be equivalent without the ability to have casual sex? Probably. How I look has no bearing on my job what so ever. No one sees me and I don't see them. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:43 PM
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How does he looks like? 6'5". The body of Tom Hopper, the face of Phillip Winchester + Asian eyes. Does he need to be well dressed? Yes Well groomed? Yes How important is him making you laugh? He doesn't need to make me laugh but he does need to share and understand my humor. How important is being polite, but also confident? Very. I don't like rude embarrassing people. Do you care about his N count? No. Does he need to be employed? And if so, is how much money he makes important? Yes. Yes how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:32 PM
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Outside of work?? Zero. I'm not counting work since I don't think you want sex work stats in the mix here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:18 PM
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That makes me wonder wtf are Americans doing, is the food just so unhealthy Yup. It's pretty bad. or are they really so immobile and overeating that without knowing we work hard in comparison? Pretty immobile due to car culture. I'm many places public transportation is crap and everyone drives. No exercise. This the gym. You have to schedule in time to work out because there is no natural process of walking daily. It's why ppl on urban built up cities tend to be thinner. Americans are so obsesse…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 01:51 AM
1

Accordingly to the CDC the average man is 5'9" and 200lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:59 PM
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Can't guys tell what a not-ready or dried vagina feels like on their dick?. Generally no. It still feels wet and warm and that is why they register. Wouldn't it feel like fucking an armpit? I just can't imagine that not hurting the fuck out of a dick. Nope. Because it's not bone dry like an arm pit. There is still some lubrication. The vagina is in constant state of some amount of moisture. That's just how it goes. It's INSIDE the body. To get ready for sex however ALOT more lubrication is neede…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 05:35 AM
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I have a sanctuary farm for retired dairy cows Can we come and play with the cows? Do cows play?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:54 PM
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i will sleep with a nuclear physicist, a president, a CEO, a doctor, a Congressman I more to go and I will achieve glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:47 PM
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🙌🙌🙌 Her theme song should be Lizzo - Tempo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:32 AM
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Astronomy. She's my favorite planet. Big, fat and gassy. Just a raging bitch of a planet pushing her way around the solar system. Fun fact, when she moved into position she dragged Ceres with her from the Kuiper Belt and dumped it into the asteroid belt and if that isn't throwing your weight around I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:59 PM
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You missed an unhealthy and unnatural obsession with the planet Jupiter. Studying mineralogy and being a rock geek. Fun fact, I have a magnified and framed thin section of a mica schist in my bathroom and when people ask about it I say "It's just a bit of schist!" Because I have the humor of a 10 year old boy. These aren't hobbies though. They are just to attract STEM Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:25 PM
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My favorite 6'4", liberalish, fatty loving lawyer from the bay /u/reluctantly_red! He reminds me of like a fav client of mine and he also fits the demo of my typical clients. Please stop getting married dude. The two guys with the 88 in their name that I always think are racist because really 88 but then I remember Millennials were born in 1988. The druggie dude from Britain. The swinger dude. Edit: if any of y'all are racist speak up so I can disown you. PanderLaw?? I think that's how it's spel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:30 PM
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Ight Imma Head Out. See y'all next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:24 AM
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It could also be that black that women don't really get approached as much as other races so they have to do some approaching themselves. I know many a white guy that women hesitate to chat up a White/Asian/Latina but if it's a black girl he won't even if he kinds her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 03:55 PM
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Ahh ok. I do feel I'm usually complimentary and I am black. But I'm not American. Was wondering if it was an American thing or a universal black thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:46 AM
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black women usually want to touch my beard. Is it red?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:04 AM
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I wonder why black women are so complimentary?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:03 AM
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Ahh ok. It's going to be 20 years soon. I guess that's a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 12:44 AM
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Enlightening How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:19 PM
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How many times have you confessed your feelings to a man FIRST, and what were the results?. I cannot remember but I don't think it's more than once or twice. I'd say zero but I'm sure I must have. Nothing came of it. Oh wait, now that I think about it I thought people liked and then I kinda showed I liked them back. They weren't actually interested. But I've never confessed to anyone "Hey, I like you" or anything like that before. How many times has a man confessed his feelings to you first? Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:57 PM
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Why would I date a man that truly believes I'm a teenager mentally? A man who thinks so terribly of women? I am also fundamentally not suited for a RP man. I'm borderline asexual, I've been single for over 5 years so I know how to be alone, keep my own company and be self sufficient. The dread, game etc would not work on me because honestly I'd rather be home napping or trying out some new hobby to deal with as ransom dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:58 AM
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Single girls with no life experience probably. "I’m not interested in marriage" is all I would hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:42 AM
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Yes, its very important. I once was chatting a dude that turned out to quite dumb. I wanted to jump off a bridge. It was terrible and I knew going forward that was something I needed to look out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:47 PM
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Can you type me just by things you've seen me day here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:17 PM
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I have never in the decade that I've been having sex had sex without a condom. Like never ever. I don't know what it's like. No STDs, no pregnancy scares or anything like that. Maybe because I grew up in a country that they drilled into our heads about STDs and babies. No man's additional pleasure was worth it. Now it's a standard part of my job. Edit: I had a guy recently that says he'd never had such a good fit with condoms and I was trying out a new kinda custom fit brand. So maybe guys just …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:03 AM
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Yikes. This is a mess. Him taking you to many places is just trying to speed up the bonding practice and a classic PUA tactic. It feels like more dates than just a few because you went to so many different places. Kept saying he didn’t want to just hook up with me even though we were drunk and wanted to get to know me in a nice way If someone says this unprompted they are usually lying. They would prove by their actions. He knows it's a common barrier with women he's trying to knock it out early…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 03:46 AM
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BMI is a study of general trends. It works for MOST of the population. Unless you are some powerlifter, and over 6ft tall you aren't just overweight, you are OBESE. So the first statement in your OP is false. You won't get better by putting some wool over your eyes and expecting women to sing kumbaya to you. You don't get better by being coddled. Forget men for now. They have no place in your life because even if they accept you being fat your defeatist attitude will kill any relationship. Your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 11:36 PM
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Yes your weight is a problem. You aren't just fat, but you are obese. You have to be 6'8" for that to be considered a normal weight or at least 6'0" tall for the upper most level of a "normal" BMI. Sure are guys who you like you as a fat woman, but there are more that you like you when you are thinner. You only need one guy to love you, but if you have chose between 100 vs 10, there is a perfect chance the one is among that 100 that a mere 10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 10:53 PM
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Probably has Marfans. Her limbs looks marfansie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:21 AM
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Didn't know it was that extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:22 PM
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Just from the tweet and photos she could have turned around to ask the dude out. She's dumb. Then she posted her Get Out self on Twitter searching for this black man? What did she expect? After reading the replies she has a fetish for black men and this isn't the first time she's trued to go viral by asking Twitter (and even Obama) to help her find some dude she could have talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:17 PM
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Can you teach yourself the beauty treatments so you can do both?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:07 PM
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I don't think it's weird. When I worked in an actual office, I spoke to everyone men and women the same. I didn't just talk about work stuff though, but what we did in the weekend if that came up. I treated the men no different from how treated to women. I avoided any flirtations. I have a strict no dating co workers rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:33 AM
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Ghosting still hurts people. It's not the act of the breakup and you don't actually have to tell a person why either. Just a heads up that hey this has run it's course. So they don't text you waiting for an answer. Or keep inviting you to things until they realize. You'll be saving that person some time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:47 PM
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Ahhh the racists are washing and ironing their hoods. This should be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:03 PM
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Does that mean I'd have to actually subscribe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:58 PM
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Let's not refuse to consider as if there are no major penalties for the behavior of divorcing one's current spouse in favor of a younger woman. It's not a simple cakewalk. And yet they still so it? They know ALL of that and still so it....they don't care, so why should I care about them if they don't even care about themselves? As y'all like to say, actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 06:34 PM
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Warren Buffett Cheated on his wife. She, like Mackenzie, bore him 3 children, helped support his business ventures and then he jaunts off and has a public affairs with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:42 AM
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The Jeff Bezos thing came out of nowhere but it was his wife that wanted the divorce, not him. So she was supposed to sit there while he fucked their neighbor and didn't even care enough to be discreet about it? A social climber who left one rich dude or another who she then also left for Bezos? What was Mackenzie supposed to do about that? Grin and Bear it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:34 AM
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He's very much pro marriage. So much in fact that he married the same woman twice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:31 AM
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Everyday we drift farther from the Lord's light.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:01 PM
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This dude said a red flag was a woman having male dogs because that meant she was secretly fucking the dog. It spawned many posts and just a shit show of a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:53 AM
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I m gonna be that post wall cat woman that RP rag on all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:51 AM
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I like dogs but from a far. Americans are too into dogs. I don't date people with dogs. I swear it's like a small child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:58 AM
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Today in the park, I saw some ladies walking their dogs and I remember dog fucking week. I've been spending too long on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 11:48 PM
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I give everyone eye contact. It actually freaks people out because I actually look at them and pay attention when they are talking. I also smile alot and hi to people as I pass them and also on the subway/bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 11:45 PM
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I don’t try and hurt girls, I just ghost usually. Ghosting is actually very hurtful. You don't have to explain why you no longer want to see someone but you should at least give them a heads up that you are no longer interested. Especially after 3 months!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 11:37 PM
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I meet lots of guys that show zero sexual interest in me. I really doubt they are all low libido. It's probably the first one tbh. I'm like a 3 on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:56 PM
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Happy to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:17 PM
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People always say low libido women should find low libido men. Well I don't know where those dudes are do I stay single. I work very hard to ensure I can afford life on my own and I'm childfree. If I did want a child, I'd adopt one and then hire some help if needs be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:16 PM
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I can answer this as a low libido person. It doesn't usually cause a sexual desire. And if it does it's like a low hum. It feels pleasant but there is no need to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:51 PM
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total lower libido man. They absolutely exist Where can I find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:46 PM
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Maybe you know trash people? I don't have a car but my house is spotless and I have ADHD. I have one messy room by design and it's not even that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 11:36 PM
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She would be an asshole, e.g. one time we came out of a restaurant where I paid for everything, She looks at a sports car on the side of the road and says: "I wish I was out with someone who drives this car". I retorted by saying this car isn't that expensive and I can afford it, so she goes: "But you don't own it so shut up". How low is your self esteem that you would accept behaviour like this? You've basically told her she can treat you like shit and you'll be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 11:29 PM
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Yes to all of the above. I don't really care too much. I am not the sort thats out there trying to impress people with my partner or worry about being recognized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:24 PM
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No man is going to go to a buddies house and buy shit from him like that. Nah. But they do get together to talk about their new business ventures, their interest in real estate, and the hot new car/watch they will get once they hit their numbers. I've seen this play out many times. It's a different tactic but the result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:52 AM
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most of the MLMs with big social media followings and regular purchasers are not geared towards guys. Because they are marketed differently. Have you ever heard of Organo Gold or World Ventures? They are heavily marketed to males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:46 AM
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Yes. I have like 2-3 years of post history to back that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:14 AM
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why don't guys like these just give their money to high quality, escorts They also want someone to eventually cook for them, clean their houses and do their laundry. Escorts have our own lives to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:10 AM
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Yes they do. Cam girls, strippers, sugar babies, escorts, street walkers, premium Snapchat sellers, Reddit nude sellers, porn stars etc are all sex workers. They work in an industry that is based on profiting from sex and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:28 PM
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Are the clientsugly, or bad with money, or lazy? No. They are just like any other person that sees something and wants it and pay the asked price. They are generally normal guys, even some so called Chads (very tall, very wealthy). They work hard in good industries and are ok paying 500-1000/hr for a woman's company.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:26 PM
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Why don't more women work in the sex industry? Mainly stigma and morals. But mainly because it's actually alot of work. You don't just decide to be an escort and the money starts rolling in. It's a business. There is market research into the type of client you want to attract. You have a build a persona to reflect that, there are pictures, website work, social media marketing, copywriting, admin, screening, planning etc. There is ALOT of work that goes into making the kinds of money would justif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:23 PM
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The engineer please. I have also selected for wealth over looks. Does your own income influence how youd think about this? No. I have money, but if I'm going to be saddled with some dude he better be worth it and looking pretty is not enough. Which guy would be better for appearances within your own social circle? Or the general FSM? I don't know. I don't really have this dynamic among women but if I were to guess the engineer would be more attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:09 PM
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I'm a professional escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:15 AM
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Why would you want to adopt? Because if I ever change my mind about raising a child I know I have ZERO desire to get pregnant. Lots of kids out there need a home, I'll take one of those. And would you adopt a kid from Africa/asia or from within your country. Idk. I'm non white from a non white country so I would just adopt from wherever is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:18 AM
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Old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:11 AM
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Because it's general and everyone knows what it means. It's a quick and dirty grouping. Plus they make you do those tests anyway so your mangers can figure you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:14 AM
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Finding yourself first not have to include long list of past lovers . Lost of people take trips or otherwise disengage from what's traditional dating and just focus on themselves and truly figuring out the path they want to take in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:00 AM
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This is a very low rate and even when I baby ho who didn't know what she was doing I never charged that little
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:50 PM
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SWERF - Sex Work Exclusionary Radical Feminist. FOSTA/SESTA - a set of laws which limit or advertising platforms and makes it really hard for us to advertise. It's been a shit show the past 18 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:25 PM
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Sex Workers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:23 PM
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All 3 can be avoided if you do research into your provider and find someone reputable. With ads on the right platforms, her own website, and active social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:10 PM
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Depending on your city 5-10X that for a mind range escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:08 PM
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We should hire you to drum up business for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:07 PM
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SWs want decrim not legalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:06 PM
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Gfe also typically includes not using a condom Don't spread misinformation. This is not standard GFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:04 PM
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SWERFs are the bane of my existence and actually helped bring FOSTA/SESTA. So fuck them 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:03 PM
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You probably meant STDs. The rate of STDs are lower in sexworkers than the general population. Cause surprise, surprise! It's our job and one cannot afford to lose income to getting sick. If you are running into "disease ridden" sexworkers you have obviously not done your research into hiring a quality provider of which there are many. And they exist at most price points. Of course of you are trying to get rock bottom prices you might run into issues there but most proper escorts care about our …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:53 PM
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This entire subreddit is generalized and I stated as such in the beginning. Also Reddit isn't a full reflection of the world. Engineers are over represented here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:49 PM
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there's also a lot of fit, attractive, and interesting guys in STEM nowadays, & those tend to do fine with women. We have a few of those in the Bay these days (gotta love that California sun).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 10:28 AM
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In the dayjob I work in STEM or STEM adjacent (I guess). In the ho job I defo market to attract the engineer type. If you are going to get into generalist language most women are xSFx. Most people in STEM are xNTx. Usually INTJ dudes. This is not a good match for extro normie girls. I say this as an INTP woman. Tech men are usually BORING to other people. Unless they work in STEM adjacent like sales etc. If a woman is chasing a tech salary dude she can just attach herself to a lawyer or finance …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:50 AM
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"go somewhere where the odds are in your favor, like the Engineering department, or Silicon Valley." Location, location, location. Though not for dating, this is why I dragged my ass to this part of the country. Lonely Tech Bros are a money maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:55 AM
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I see this ALL the time. Have kids young then you can go back to school/work while they are in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 02:04 AM
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Drop the link please. I need a laugh to end the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 11:51 PM
1

is my own fear of being fat Why are you afraid of being fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 07:53 PM
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I meant like physically. Her knee, ankles, chest etc when doing outdoor activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:24 PM
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No. I do a good job because I like my work. I've been unemployed. I know what that feels like. I've also very very broke. I know what that feels like as well. So I've felt the worse that would happen if I lost my job. I didn't die. The world didn't end....so if I were to lose my job again, I know what can happen and I have no fear of it. I've also set myself up so that I have a fairly large savings now. When I had fear I'd bad things happening, and then they did happen, I was still alive after i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:23 PM
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Side note is so creepy for me the guys who go to those ED forums and Target the ladies who are struggling. Ugh. It feels so predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:48 PM
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Did you see the picture he posted of his wife? I was honestly worried about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 04:05 PM
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I think more people should remind themselves that their significant others can leave at any moment. Exactly which is why I think living in fear is stupid. If they can leave for anything why fret and worry about it. If it's not fat today , then it will be for something else. I'm very ok with an SO leaving me because I know I was ok before them and I'll be fine after. I'm not going to allow fear to drive the reason I stay with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 04:04 PM
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Pregnancy puts such a damper on his attraction to me and leaves me with some intense daily fear but it's completely understandable, No it's actually not understandable that you should live in daily fear while growing a human being inside you. Especially for someone who wants to keep you at an unhealthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 03:59 PM
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You are 6'4" right? Didn't they feel like they were going to die at those weights?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 03:50 PM
1

How tall were these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 06:13 AM
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I always assumed that's a natural transition from basically having friend networks served to you on a silver platter to having to build them on your own. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:23 AM
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actively don't want to risk disrupting that by dating anyone they're too socially entangled with. I would never date someone within my core or even adjacent social circle. I don't need that kinda drama in my life if it doesn't work out. Even people too close to my hobbies and frequent hang out spots might be a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:19 AM
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Men will fuck mashed potato. What is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:47 PM
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“ I just ignore it and remember that they can’t get into the same clubs as I can and suddenly I care a whole lot less.” I'm laughing because this right here is the start of the same problem you are complaining about. This is an arrogant attitude. So can you see how it forms? Since it's actually a happening in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:13 AM
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What's wrong with cats? Why so much hate for the little furballs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 07:10 AM
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This women going out for free food to is odd to me. I have a kitchen. I know how to cook and I'd rather sit at home then go meet some random dude I am not interested in. I already meet ransom dudes I'm not interested in and get paid quite well to do so. A $200 dinner isn't worth me leaving my house. My couch is nice and the view is amazing. Also my clients LOVE to book me for dinner dates. I don't know what it is but these dudes love showing off fancy restaurants and feeding me. This is a dude t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 05:13 AM
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Yeah but I feel like guys who know me well enough to get an invite to my house know that I mean what I say that. Also I am a hermit. I don't like going outside. I'd rather everyone come to me. Same for my female friends. I have them come over too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:58 PM
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I love everything about that last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:55 PM
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Maybe I select for beta males. Also the no sex sleep over was one guy and we were moving from the friends to maybe more stage and wanted a sleepover. It was nice. I'm not bringing randoms to my house. I'm talking about friends, people from my hobby etc. If it was a guy that I think would have a problem I wouldn't go to his or invite him over. There was a guy I went on one date with and we kept talking. All future attempts at meeting though he kept suggesting his house and I declined each time wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:49 PM
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"We're not having sex" usually means "we're probably having sex". Not for me. It's really easy to not have sex. You just....don't. I'm always surprised at people who fell into sex like there aren't many conscious decisions that go into having sex. "anti slut defense" I don't need this and if a man does try I know he doesn't respect me or my boundaries and would be a poor partner for me. I might be socially stunted so I just have everything out in the open. As I said it's really not to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:40 PM
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I'm not attractive enough to be thirsted after. I'm good company not like sexy or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:29 PM
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she knows what she is doing. What am I doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:27 PM
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Second, do you always have to specify that? No. If it's obvious that we are just friends hanging out then I don't. Like it's pretty obvious there is nothing romantic. But it's there has been some romance etc, I always just say "hey just so you know I wanna hang out with you at my place but it's not an invitation for sex or anything". It's up to them to take me up on coming over. I might be on the spectrum but I like things clear. Also might be my job. I know what happens at every step so random …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:24 PM
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Usually I have my friends over and we hang out. If it's a guy I'm romantically instead in it's because I want to get to know him better/hang out with him. If it's someone that I think will be chomping at the bits then I don't invite that person to to my house at all. I probably would not want to spend time getting to know that person anyway. I Iive alone but sure why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:19 PM
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I invite dudes to hang out at mine the time with no intention of sex. Like y'all don't have friends? I'm a hermit and I don't like going out so I like for my friends to come to me. I just spent 10 days in a Villa with a dude and like nothing happened because we are friends and have been so for about 15 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:30 PM
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I have invited guys to my house with the intent of not having sex. Even had sleepovers with no sex. Before they come over I say hey, we are just going to hang out etc, sex is not an option. If I go to a guys house I say the same thing. When they come over we hang out and just....don't have. I don't even know how hard it is for people to just not have sex. It's really easy. Even during actual sleep overs. No sex. Edit: Friends and randoms I don't say this to. That's a given. But usually if there …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:22 PM
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I'd rate myself a 5. I was wrong! Based on photofeeler after 24 hrs and 53 votes (so in the precise region) I am: Smart : 5.2 Trustworthy: 6.0 Attractive: 3.9 Here is the break down - https://ibb.co/k8ZNKGM I have one running for business now. Let's see how that one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 11:03 PM
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I'm almost 6ft tall. Yes. I'm more than 120 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:20 PM
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StopWhitePeople2019 But I wonder what they expect will happen in the future when the child grows up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:10 PM
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How am I trash talking him? He asked if his job was an issue and I told him the facts especially as someone who lives in his city and is of the same race. I thought this was a truth sub? I'm not the one asking if my job is a hindrance to getting a LTR. And as for bartenders in general no j wouldn't date one. Many people also wouldn't date a sex worker and thats ok. I didn't need to take to the internet to figure that ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:08 PM
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Its not a strength thing. I'd just just lay on him and completely cover him in every way. Maybe I should have said smush
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:05 PM
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The taller guy. I'm a heightist. I am both taller than and heavier than the little guy. I'd crush him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:16 AM
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many black/african households have a culture of making the kids clean stuff up from a young age What do white people do? I've been cleaning since I could move things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:45 AM
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Hardly inexplicable at all: plenty of women, especially ones who marry/LTR in their twenties, select a man for his "potential". Then the potential is never realized, or she was flat out wrong it existed in the first place. When women don't do this and wait for a man's potential to be actualize men bitch about gold diggers and wanting him for his 'resources'. That she isn't willing to grow with him an lift him up. Every woman I know who got with a potential either ended up with man child or if he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:20 AM
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This is not a useless degree. Have you tried going for a museum job? Tutoring on the side? Working in International Outreach? Basically anything with development, aid and humanities you can use your history degree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:06 PM
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I'm not sure what this means but I'm doing to take it literally. It's not about fear of penis or anything like that. It's about being an extreme minority in this particular city. As I said unless they are serving you in some way you don't see black people in the city. SF isn't the Utopia it's portrayed as. Which is why I asked if OP lived in Oakland or SF. He lives in Oakland. If he lives in SF proper he'd know the lay of the land better as it relates to dating options for black dudes and not ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:50 PM
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So you are a black Bartender in San Francisco trying to date Whites and Asians for LTR? Sir how exactly did you think this was going to work out without a proper career, benefits etc. This is SF. Unless your company is in IPO double incomes are needed. A woman looking to settle down needs to know you will pull your weight. There are like 5 black people in SF unless you look to those working in the service industry. If you are going to go around dating here you have to be the best black dude to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:11 AM
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what are deal-breakers that leave a guy fuckable but not dateable Underemployed, having a child, being too close to family, anger issues, lazy, no ambition, too chill and go with the flow, dumb, flakey. However, I live in SF It's me, your target market. I wouldn't date a bartender. A bar owner in the black possibly, a bartender no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:04 AM
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Are you black and trying to date in San Francisco?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:59 AM
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Hello fellow tallette
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:58 PM
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TV and Film producers, people involved with professional sports, C Suite Tech people. No names but I think that Covers it. Government ppl that I'm sure have been in the paper but I don't know if they've been on TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:57 AM
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It's a guidebook for how to manage people and expectations while still looking nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 08:46 PM
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When I was younger and taking fancy finishing classes we did a letter writing course. One thing that was very important was how you closed the letter. You didn't just say "Bye talk to you later", you had to give an excuse. Something must be pulling you away from continuing this letter. Somee examples were, I've got to go my homework, I must help my parents etc. It was considered rude to leave a conversation without an excuse. I think it's the same for women. Also the follow up to No Thanks is al…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:51 PM
2

Like people you see on TV and in Newspapers? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:38 PM
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I would rather die or crawl into a home than reach out and prospect to some dude on Facebook. I actually feel shame on her behalf right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:16 AM
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when I changed my Facebook status from married to single I had a couple of women from my past reach out. Who are these women and do they not have shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:46 AM
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As the always single, non drinking friend the stuff I know about other people FAR surpasses the stuff anyone knows about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:02 PM
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Using me an as example again past employers I've been self employed ever since college. work colleges I work remotely and have done so since college. I don't have workmates and certainly non I've met in person. Family Most don't even know about the bf I had in highschool and college. They wouldn't be able to tell you anything criminal databases Nothing listed past friends(now enemies) Don't have these really. And if I did there is nothing to tell. You can't tell what you don't know. city cameras…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:57 PM
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Idk. I'm Finch Rose MTA though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:50 PM
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When I was a mid range ho I never met a guy who did Coke. Now that I'm at 4 figures an appointment so much Cocaine. Never saw coke before then. But I swear it's like water to these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:32 PM
2

That was a wild week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:25 PM
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I ask people who know the person, None of my friends would be able to tell you anything other than I dated one guy for a few years from high school and to college. look social media I don't used Instagram and my FB is just so I can admin business pages for work. and check their behavior when drunk. I don't drink. So how would you go about finding the information you require?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:23 PM
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Cocaine. Cocaine everywhere. Source: Obscenely wealthy clients who seem to run on Cocaine. Lots make in the 500K. In my area that's not alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:18 PM
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Basically just carry on a good conversation and have some hobbies you care about and plan a few dates that seem fun. These are things that friends do with and for each other. There is nothing uniquely girl friend here. Sure you don't date your friends but I plan outings all the time. that a woman who puts in the work gets jumped on immediatley. This is not my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:12 PM
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What are "quality girlfriend behaviors". People say this but never actually qualify what they mean/expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:28 PM
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Is it something you would ever consider doing? No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:17 AM
1

My 20 something love is strong and ever present.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:36 AM
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I was home in time! I watched DBZ first (which was the "boys" show), then Sailor Moon. I'm 100% SM trash and cosplay as squad members at Comic Con
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:35 AM
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Look at my husband Prince Zuko. I can tell you why I like him. Flawed. Angsty. Wins in the end. I love his gf too. Similar Flawed and Angsty. But this is love for character, this is not a man I would invite into my life. I like calm in my life, but it's nice to watch some drama from the sidelines. Also how can you leave out Tuxedo Mask? How can you?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 09:18 PM
2

40 year old women are not getting hot for Justin Bieber. Except that they are. Grown ass women flocked to JB concerts because they found him hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:04 PM
2

gray-asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 05:48 AM
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Pretty close without getting into the Ace Scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:20 AM
1

I've not found that to be the case. The last guy I was attracted to is 6'10". He has a nice face. The two before that 6'4 and 6'5" also nice faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:06 PM
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Almost 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:04 PM
1

Is it escort weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:31 PM
2

2x
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:30 PM
1

When men like about how tall they all and lie and then meet me in person and I'm taller than them. I've had so many lie "I'm 6'2"". Then why am I taller than you in sandals sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:28 PM
1

In mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:26 PM
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I'm also shocked when I read about men on Reddit not bathing and combing their hair. Like why? What's wrong with hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:14 PM
1

Chile maybe? I'm asking cause I'm dragging my ass to South America this winter and I want to be in a chill place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:12 PM
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I've seem a lot of women using simple marketing tactics and they were pretty successful. For example? Also side note would you ever move to Argentina?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:48 PM
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Many men get more attractive as they age. No. They simply aren't judges on the same standards as women are. Men become "silver foxes", "dignified", "zaddy" etc. But not they don't become physically more attractive with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:01 AM
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I don't think I have any fetish that people can't know about. Like if they find out it might be odd but I don't think it's career ending of whatever. The most "out there" thing I might be into is Shibari and it isn't even a sexual thing. It's purely for the look. Kids and animal stuff. Women, how would react if your man asked you take a shit on your face? I'd say no cause I'm not into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:05 PM
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90% of my clients are married or in some relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:34 PM
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I never said you hid it. We all know cause you say it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:27 PM
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Wtf is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:29 PM
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I do not know any girl in my social circle who does that. Maybe we are just super boring but yh I don't know anyone who does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:28 PM
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His gf is a homeless woman. Like he specifically went out to find a homeless woman who (I think) does not want to work because he is really insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:24 PM
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No. Because Facebook and Instagram aren't the problem. That's how they are currently manifesting to him. I need to know what exactly is his issue with these platforms. Is it the amount of time spent on them, is it the type of photos being posted, is it the comments from other guys? What if her Instagram is all about her hobby of soapmaking and she uses Facebook for soapmaking groups? Does he want her to delete the apps then? If not Instagram and Facebook are not the problem and he should stop hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:10 PM
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I had a thing for a musician once. Not a good idea. I was constantly worried. I have OCD and ADHD. Nightmare fuel that was. Like am I gonna come home and find him overdosed, he gonna jump off a speaker and break some bones, jump out a hotel window into the pool or spend 5 days on Adderall because he needs to crank out music while in the depths of depression and anxiety. I already have trouble sleeping due to ruminating thoughts. I need the most solid dude I can find. Just no changes to him at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:54 PM
1

Can the type of alcoholic drinks a man drinks kill your attraction towards him? No. This has never crossed my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:35 PM
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Serious question, why would you put up with someone like that? That deliberately does something to annoy/get a rise out of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:14 PM
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The minute I sense a disturbance in the force I'm out. I've spent almost decade single. They is nothing I "dread" about being without some dude. Oh so he can leave? Ok then. I'll be OK afterwards and if he really wants to leave nothing I can do will change his mind nor do I want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 06:33 PM
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Is this DC?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:45 PM
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Are you sure this is in a sexual context and bit a romantic context? I'm a grey ace but I still find people attractive but it's in a romantic context. Of course I'd like to be with someone aesthetically pleasing but that doesn't mean I want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 05:19 PM
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I mean what's the point running round making sure a guy is kept happy when you can do better with the same time, energy and resources by reading books, owning cats, and travelling regularly Ok. This is my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:12 PM
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This all the way. I've been single for about 10 years and it's really comfortable. Sometimes I wish I had someone to talk to or take trips with but for the most part it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 04:09 PM
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On the internet being overweight makes a person an automatic 3/10, therefore ugly Eh. To me being overweight doesn't mean ugly. Ugly for me is strictly about facial features. You have to have some really solid deformity for me to consider you ugly. I rarely see ugly people. Unattractive is more the entire body and face together, but ugly is just the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:17 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:13 AM
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Does that sound like an accurate description for you as well? Yes. It does. I also work a day job and bill clients by the hour /by the project. It's the same. A shit ton of admin, client/provider fit, logistics and deliverables. I get upset at escort clients and my normal day job clients about the same. Cause guess what people suck and I'm an introvert hermit that doesn't leave her building. Would it? Nope. That entire thing is judgement. The tone is that I should expect to be judged but you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:44 PM
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Escort/Sex worker works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:33 PM
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I'm glad I don't have to deal with that. Dudes dropping 4 figures for a meet tend to care about themselves a bit. Plus everyone takes a shower when they get to my place. I at least know he's cleaned himself recently if I can witness it. Usually guys try to dress up and look nice for me. They tell me they picked out a nice outfit and got their hair styled etc. Its very cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 03:32 PM
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Terrible hand eye coordination. Slow reaction time. Poor eye sight. All things that make a terrible Volleyball player.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:45 PM
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Y'all should @ me for these escort questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:03 PM
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Men love the companionship of women. They don't. They like the companionship of "women". That is a woman of their chosing. With no personality other than the one he has imprinted on her. Alot of my clients come to me for the companionship. They enjoy hanging out with a fun girl, who makes them laugh, laughs at their jokes, is cute and interesting. But to a point. They don't want to hear about the bad things in my day, or the issues I'm having. They want an experience of being selfish for a bit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:57 PM
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I thought this too. Just thinking about this scenario I would roll my eyes so hard if he was swayed by this. All respect out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:26 PM
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Yup. To me this is the good range. I'd go up to 6'8 or so. I did have a crush on a guy who was 6'10". That was nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:00 PM
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Would someone who looks exactly like me and was 6’4 have an advantage over me? It depends on the height of the woman. In my case yes, I'd chose the guy who was 6'4". You are fine at 6'2". Most women are between 5'2 and 5'6". At 6'2" you've got a good height difference over most of then. I'm very tall (almost 6ft) so my minimum height is taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 02:58 PM
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It's pretty much a character. She posted a photo off her without her wigs and makeup and she's a very normal looking girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:21 AM
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I did date a guy once who had kids. I'm never doing that again. I know I don't want to get pregnant so I thought kids already there would be fine. No. 1) Are you child free yourself? Or do you have children? I am child free. 2) Did/would you consider the age of the child to be a factor, and to what extent? Yes. I don't like babies. Maybe if they have grown up kids. But that person would be too old for me and their kids would be my age. 3) Is whether his child is out of a previous marriage or an …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:54 PM
1

It might have been you and Poppy fusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:24 PM
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Ahh. For some reason I thought you were the black girl with the tall 1/2 Asian BF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 06:35 AM
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Why did I think you were black? Is Poppy black?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:49 AM
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I don't stand out in anyway. I'm reminded of this every time I walk about in my city. I don't get hit on and I never get approached. I'm very average and unremarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 05:48 AM
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Why did I think you were still fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 07:04 PM
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Not healthy at all. I just moved from insecure attachment to extreme avoidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 10:09 PM
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Not really. I liked a guy once and we kinda had a thing. Then he decided he wasn't about that so he ghosted me. I was very sad and very hurt. Now, I know what that feels like when you lose someone and I'm living proof that I'm still alive and kicking on the other side. So there really is nothing to be jealous about. If he wants to go he can. I'll be fine. If I'm gonna lose him to some other girl nothing I can do will stop that. So why even be fussed? All that's gonna happen I that I'm going to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 09:51 PM
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"Hot" is not a word I ever really use. I occasionally use it here because that's the common vernacular of this sub, but irl it's not something I say. It brings to mind Paris Hilton and the like. Sounds phony, trashy and a little aggressive. This 100%. I cringe Everytime I even think of that word. It's just so outwards sexual and makes me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:24 PM
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I don't want yes from a man that thinks I'm am easy fuck because I show interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:45 AM
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I see you missed this part even if he's not interested he'll still go along for the possibility of
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:44 AM
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No. If a woman has to ask a man she'll be chasing him forever while he just strings her along to get sex/whatever else things men want. A man will rarely say no to a woman asking him out, even if he's not interested he'll still go along for the possibility of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 12:54 AM
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Hoe. Whore. Thot. Slut These are all different things!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 07:34 AM
2

It me!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 07:33 AM
1

Oh. If you have an Android phone download Showbox. If you want to run it on a PC download Blue Stacks which is an Android Emulator. Free movies and TV Shows for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 07:07 AM
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would any gf like to just sit and watch Youtube videos or browse Reddit together? Once in a while sure, but you gonna need more than that friend and you can do shit FOR FREE! If you head on over to r/povertyfinance right now there is a list of free things you can do. You can search for free/cheap dating ideas. You can also search your city for free/cheap things each weekend. Museum Days, City Parks, Walking Tours, Snacking at Costco, pick up sports, little craft and drinking classes were you pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 04:41 AM
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You are in fact good looking. That's a terrible angle. Take the phoot from above. Also those bags under the eyes, get a product for that. The Ordinary Caffeine Solution should sort that if you are on a budget. Actually get a skincare routine. I'll give you tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 04:36 AM
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I don't understand what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 08:58 PM
1

SWERFs are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 06:47 PM
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There are guys more muscular than Hopper. That's gross and nasty for me. Yes Tom works out and it shows but it doesn't looks like, I live in the gym everyday. I did say my ideal is Cumberbatch. That's what j lie the most. Slim and in some cases (his Sherlock role) slightly underweight. Also do you think men care about what it takes for a woman to look good? They don't. Even just like what they like. The woman who is natural thing gets the same praise as the girl reading pro-ana daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:22 AM
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I'm generally attracted to the Benedict Cumberbatch type of skinny. I'll go up to about Tom Hopper levels of muscle. He's also 6'5" so right in the height sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 11:43 PM
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Whenever I hear people thinking of going back to the 19th century I know they clearly aren't anything but a white man. No one else would voluntarily go back to that horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:13 PM
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literally anyone who wasn't rich. And white.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:04 PM
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Nope. I'm really "prudish" and would probably combust from embarrassment. I would not want to go to one. Like when my friends went to see Magic Mike, I opted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 08:40 PM
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Ok. I live in a large city, people want time to enjoy married life before brink along the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 06:06 PM
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If she's a married mother at 29 let's work backwards. Let's put 1 year for pregnancy. She's now 28. 1 year for engagement. She's now 27. 3 years for dating. She's now 24. That goes with what I see in the real world. Most of the women I know who got married before 30 met their person either the last year of college, grad school or early career. Basically once she has done schooling, started her "real job" and settled into her choosen city. All the time before that 18-24 there is a lot of moving a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 05:32 PM
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No. But in my ad photos I focus on my but because it's my best feature. That's the niche I fill. Also so my photos are carefully cropped/blurred so they don't know what my face looks like anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:16 AM
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I also do not have any dreams of thoughts of men to be aroused. I don't dream off having sex with anyone. No mental spank bank etc. Actually there was one time I did dream about a person. But that was 3 months into our thing, I was deeply in like with him and hasn't seen him for a while. I just put his face to the fantasy I always had. Nothing was "him" specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 03:53 AM
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I'm happy men operate this way because I rely on that for an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 03:49 AM
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Not the person you replied to but no. Not at all. I've always been fascinated by people who masturbate to a photo (like magazines etc). I just don't get it. It's static. Nothing is happening! An image of an attractive man is as arousing as a garden or a nice decorative cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:10 PM
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So true. Usually SDs on sites like seeking are Escort client rejects who have been blacklisted or couldn't pass screening anyway. They rely on the "non pro" and the fact that SBs tend not to consider themselves sex workers and thus not enforce boundaries especially in areas of safe sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:24 AM
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and have probably killed off the ability to feel limerence Chiming in as sex worker (but not a SB) I feel limerence just fine. The job doesn't change the way I get or feel about crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:21 AM
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In that Market sure. They can race to the bottom. For other ladies, we try to ignore that and focus on differentiation and commands a section of the market that's untapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 08:18 AM
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I'm a sexworker so my views may be biased. I'm not a current SB just a regular Escort. That said, the current crop of SBs (that watched a show and want to try) put alot of us in danger. They just want quick money and end up lowering rates, they put the rest us at risk by fucking bare, and sites like seeking end of being a shit fest of escort client rejects. Finding a good SD takes work and having a good BS meter. They all want to emotionally suck you dry and take all your time. Now onto your que…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 08:18 PM
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would think such answers would elicit surprise but they seem to understand where I come from, like it's something normal and not uncommon. It's our job to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 10:22 AM
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I think I've listed them here but it's 4 figures for me to open the door. But seriously depending on where you are located a proper escort can be had within your budget if you can go 400+
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 07:15 PM
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Hire an escort. It's less messy than an affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 05:06 PM
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Now is probably a good time to rid yourself of the fantasy and move on. I have. Thus setting up my life to make sure I'll be ok without a partner. My mother is a bit worried though. She thinks I'm a lesbian so there is that. You missed a couple though. I'm a minority (not the cute ones), I'm also borderline asexual. I asked Atlas the MBTI question cause I was curious she's always talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 02:19 AM
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What do you want out of a partner? I think this is the main reason I have not been able to really date. Because I'm not quite sure where a partner fits into my life. I would like someone who can spend time with me, hang out, go on trips, see places. Someone who is driven the way I am or maybe a bit more. No kids or dogs for me. But I could do with 2 cats and some volunteering with underprivileged youth. If we were to ever had a child it would not be biological because I refuse to carry a pregnan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:15 PM
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does your perceived sexual and relationship value feel adequate to catch the guy you are describing to me? Nope. I've seen the type of Girls they usually date. I don't look like them. I don't really know how to be in a relationship so I don't think I'd get a pass at my age for being clueless. I've been alone all my life. Kinda set in my ways. do you believe you have the wherewithal to achieve the desired relationship status with him? I'm not sure. Well I'm not sure it would be changing myself so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:30 PM
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After engagement and the wedding planning is in full swing and we start consolidating our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:16 PM
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or prostitute/escort as a profession This one. I don't fuck for free. Would you really respect a man who got penetrated by 2 other men? Yes because I don't view dicks as something that makes someone "tainted". Also I didn't say you don't like sex, I said you have a low view of men. If the MFF is ok but the MFM is not the difference is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:16 PM
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Aren't you a former sex worker? Current actually. I'm PPD's resident active hermit ho. Girls who are hot enough to be shitty uninteresting people This has never been me. I think I've said it before but I'm not a hot person. Maybe not attractive either. I've always had to be witty, smart and funny. I cannot coast through on my looks. go through a phase of abusing their power before they're dateable Never had this because I have no real dating experience. Especially American type dating experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:13 PM
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2nd half 20s F So would you still be able to commit or be serious with the person if the topic came up and he/she revealed they were involved in a threesome? Yes Reasons? Because I don't care. I've had them too. For Women what would your feeling and reaction be if was a MMF or MFF or even both? I'd be ok with MMM, MMF, MFF, FMF, MTM, TTM, TMT, MFT, all the combinations you can put in there. It would be ok. If you don't really care...WHY? Why would I worry about this? I don't think sex taints som…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:19 PM
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I test consistently on the border of E/I and P/J but usually tilted to INTP. I feel like getting into a relationship with an ENTJ would be the ultimate test of wills but probably also the best thing for me to give up some control and retreat into my head as I'd liked to. I tend to walk over every other personality type. Good ENTJs will make you chase them to prove you have girl game. Don't give up too fast. I never chase and would rather be alone. I will nope outta there so fast if I feel the sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:26 PM
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The internet. INTPs live on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:23 AM
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My best friend is an INTJ. I don't actually have many women friends. The typical "queen of the social scene" girls 100% get on my nerves. I've never had a "girl group".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:17 AM
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what you want one of them for? Lol they go outside and execute. I feel like they should balance me out because I stay inside and plan. Everytime I have feelings for any guy he turns out to be an ENTJ. Idk, I'm running into CEOs and Lawyers and High Level Security Consultants (the last 3 I was interested in). you have to be extremely submissive, dont exist, dont have an ego. I am naturally neither of these things but I do fake it in my job. But that's short term. Admire him, let him rant, support…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:04 AM
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You seem to know MBTI, how does an INTP woman get a ENTJ man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 11:02 PM
1

Lower limit 6'2". Upper limit 6'10". Ideal range 6'4" to 6'6". Had a crush on a guy who was 5'6" once. Amazing deep voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 10:57 PM
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women are terrible at estimating height. they say they want a guy who is at least 6' or whatever because it's a nice round number and is slightly taller than the average male. but the average 5'4" woman can't tell the difference between 5'9" and 6'0" I'm pretty good at estimating height. It's my only super power. I can definitely tell the difference between 5'9" and 6'0" since I'm almost 6'0" tall myself. I usually have issues with the 7ft guys buy my cut off is 6'10" anyway, but I should probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 10:51 PM
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Where is this magical place? I already moved to where guys of my type tend to be (lanky geeky men). But if I decide to give up the cat lady life I might venture further afield.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 08:36 AM
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BTW you better be really attractive I'm not. I look like a troll face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 08:33 AM
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I like what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 08:32 AM
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weeps Openly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 08:31 AM
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I don't feel spontaneous lust when I look at a man. Even a very attractive man. I can think someone is cute and I want to get to know then but I don't feel a desire for sex until I know I know a guy pretty well. Last guy I was all hot and bothered for was objectively not very attractive. He was tall (which I like), but he had a weird face, weird teeth and he was a twig. A breeze could probably blow him away. But we spent alot of time getting to know each other and I feel like he understand and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:06 AM
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I care about height. It's in my top 5 things I care about. Usually I start looking at guys who are about 6'2". This is because I am almost 6ft tall and will be standing shoulder to shoulder with that guy in almost any shoe I own. That's generally the bottom level of who I'll look for. My preference is 6'4'-6'6". I tap out at 6'10". Last year though I went out with a guy who was 5'6". He was amazing and had going for me my other weakness, a very deep voice. If you guys know any 6'2"+ Asian men, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 11:51 PM
1

Chipotle There is no other choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:02 AM
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Low N count man probably is less likely to cheat and like that. I've found it's these guys that cheat at any hint of affection from another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:33 PM
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This would not work for me because I never fuck for free. Hookups, FWB and ONS are not things I engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:26 AM
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It's not being treated worse until you view that as him waiting a bit to have sex so an actual foundation cab be built.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:00 PM
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I have seen the handmaid's tale. I want no part of that life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:22 AM
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How long do I gotta wait to make the relationship sexual? As long as possible to figure out if he's a match for what you want. Looking for a casual thing, fuck him on the first night. Looking for the father of your children? That takes longer to figure out and thus you should wait longer. Looking for casual but ok if he is the father of your kids? Somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 08:17 AM
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Is that Atlas? She doesn't like black people or foreigners right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 05:48 PM
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there's a whole subreddit of guys doing it apparently Larping. People lie on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 03:12 AM
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So you are a child? Please go outside and get some hobbies. Go interact with people without expectations, stay in school and make something of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 03:11 AM
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If you read her reply they didn't get rude until all their polite hints were ignored. From the girl He came and wished me a happy birthday, I said thanks and we all went back to our conversation. I did appreciate being told happy birthday! But he stuck around. We laughed uncomfortably and went back to our conversation. He stuck around and kept interrupting us. Each time he said something, we nodded and then turned our backs to him. We said “thank you, bye” a few times. But he was still standing …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 10:26 PM
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I'm in my 20s too. Younger than the original dude but these girls consider Ignition a throwback. I got a 19 year old sister. Let me see what she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:29 PM
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Politely tell them that you want them to go away They actually did that multiple times. They even gave him some of their cake and said it's for home and told him bye. Then he sat down at their corner booth in a family restaurant. That's when they snapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:22 PM
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They were at a bar and grill. Like a Chilli's or something. You know those casual Friday night family places that just happen to have a bar section attached to it. According to the girl, there was a family next to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:19 PM
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I have both full posts (his and her reply) in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:14 PM
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They said it was a throw back their parents told them about and I feel old :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 08:13 PM
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He said he was attractive and someone she'd set up with her aunt who is more after appropriate. He was fit and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:58 PM
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Even reading the initial post it's obvious he's an asshole there too. From his OP: Then all of a sudden one of the girls snaps at me to “take a fucking hint R Kelly”. I was taken aback and just said “excuse me”. She said to read the room and that they were uncomfortable. Another asked to us to go away. I was going to go but I was really bothered by the r kelly comment. I said it’s fucked up to call me a predator when we are all adults here. My buddy wanted to leave, but I stood my ground Honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:57 PM
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They told him multiple times to leave as well as turned their backs and even gave him cake to go. I've posted his full post and get full reply in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:47 PM
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No worries
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:46 PM
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It made the rounds on Twitter yesterday so I was surprised to see it today here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:34 PM
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I'm not the OP dude. I meant I posted his original here in this PPD thread and the girls reply so people can see "both sides of the story".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:31 PM
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In a restaurant in a BOOTH. The corner booth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:19 PM
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I wrote the original and the girl also posted a reply. Edit: I posted the original
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:18 PM
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I have got both sides of the story in full text, not just the cliff notes. First, the dude: I’m 31 and recently ended a long term relationship. I was broken. I recently went to this cool restaurant/bar downtown with one of my buddies to have a good time. Anyone of any age can come in. While we were there, there was a girl who was celebrating her 19th birthday (They sang happy birthday and they were allowed an outside cake with 19 on it). The birthday girl was pretty so I wanted to go chat her up…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 07:13 PM
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Alot of agencies do not screen. Also they don't hire many black girls. They hire one black girl. I always recommend black escorts be independent because you have to work to build a personal brand if you want to make ant kind if decent money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:25 AM
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You also feel like he might tell people who are easy/slutty. What kinda weird world is this? In college alot my friends at some point fucked either within the group or just adjacent to it. I never had sex with them but it wasn't shocking for partner changes to happen in the group. I have friends who dated like 3 girls or guys from the same roughly large social circle. None of were scandalized. Some of those people ended up together at the end if College, got married and their is a kid or two in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:01 PM
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There are many things published on the topic. But decriminalization will mean it's no longer a crime on either side and will allow both workers and clients to go to the police if something goes wrong. There are already laws against trafficking and child sex so they should enforce those and not come after grown people. Btw, I can traffic MYSELF if I leave my state to see a client in another state or if I go on tour. Legalization is a whole mess. They will probably require people to get escort lic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 04:37 PM
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They’ll just adopt that same male gaze. Or they watch gay male porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 02:11 AM
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Sir I am an escort. The flair is reality. OC said legalize prostitution and I said no thanks because we would prefer decriminalization not legalization. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:13 PM
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I am child free (more anti pregnancy because I wouldn't hate adoption, but I'm vehemently against carrying a pregnancy) and would get rid of any and all pregnancy as soon as possible. I was raised by a strict Christian father who said when you gave sex you need to be prepared for either AIDS or a baby. I saved all my money for an abortion before I lost my virginity. I'm from a country where abortion is illegal so I also saved the cost of coming to America to get it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 05:08 PM
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No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:02 PM
1

Melanin helps for sure but skin care helps. I don't know if this is a black thing but we tends to have oily skin and thus acne and we got tons of skin care information when young. My brother is very into his skin care and not looking like a heel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:52 PM
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Y'all need to go outside more. Seriously. Leave your houses and go do stuff. It is actually pretty easy to talk to people. Being the one to make the first move, If you are somewhere doing an activity you can chat with anyone about anything. Rain in the summer, the shitty wait time for the train, you wanting to a try new coffee. Anything! Women aren't going to run from you. having interesting topics to talk about, Go outside and do shit, this is how you become interesting. Also if you are passion…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 03:16 AM
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Are you a black man? If so what kind of skin care routine were you taught growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 03:03 AM
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Because they have wrapped up their entire self worth and validation in casual sex. That is "I'm hot enough to fuck without her caring about anything else".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 03:10 PM
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Y'all out yet really hating your kids so much. I saw some say it should be the bare minimum to keep the child out of poverty. Is this the life you want for your offspring? Not to thrive in this world but to barely survive? All because you guys hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 02:58 PM
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No. There was a dude posting the other other about wanting to "buy a gf" by offering her 15K per month and everyone told him he was ridiculous. Some of us make more than that and don't have to put up with one man and his terrible shit. What happens when he gets tired her? She upsets him? She ages? There is no security there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 03:48 PM
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Carnivals, Soca Parties or Dancehall it's cool. I've had the same friend group for over 15 years now. We all know each other's partners, their kids, all that jazz. Dancing is just dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 03:44 PM
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while here in America, dance is highly sexualized. Y'all need to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 12:14 AM
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"Americans" or "entitled people who live in a first-world country." No I meant white people. I don't see POC Americans losing their shit over dancing. African Americans, Afro Caribbeans and the Latinx community seem to understand that dancing is not the gateway to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:03 PM
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Cheating is tolerated on a class level just like in America. The poor women don't care if the man brings home the woman. Upper class women will destroy him and take everything he owns
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:01 PM
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Grinding/twerking/whining is a different matter entirely It's not. I've been to carnival and you don't see an awful lot of platonic whining haha. It is. All those people dancing on each other aren't going home to fuck nor are they tempted to. I've been time many carnivals and I've been dancing to soca since I could walk. It's really not thus big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 10:59 PM
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whatever she was earning as an escort, paid by the one guy Guys always say this, but I don't know any escort that would quit working and just be with one client.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 10:39 PM
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This sounds like a bunch of white people freaking out. Have you guys never been to the Caribbean or Latin America? Dancing like this is the name of the game. No cheating intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:01 PM
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This has been my experience as well, which means this would be a woman's true choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 04:00 PM
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They are ambitious, educated and hard working. Apart from being the friendly neighborhood ho, I went to University and I have a "career". I'm going to grad school next year to further that career. I didn't do this for any man or thinking that is what attracted men. I'm from a poor third world country where gender relations are still kinda a thing (in a weird way though). Because that is what they want in a man. I do want that in a man. I don't want a bum I have to carry. Nor do I want to be a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 05:19 PM
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Flaking is in the Top 5 worse sins for me. I don't tolerate it. I never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:49 AM
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And now require someone to work hard and prove themselves before getting what others got for free. How is that fair? Are people not allowed to grow and learn from their errors in judgement? Doing the same thing and getting the same results (that she doesn't want). So she tries something new. That's what ALL people. If you do something and you have a bad reaction from it, you change the behavior. Up don't keep doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 06:19 PM
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I get attached. Then don't fuck until you see a future with this person. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:49 PM
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Chances are the white woman looks 20 years older than the others. It's because they don't moisturize!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:37 PM
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How frequently do you approach a new person with direct sexual/romantic intentions? Never. I never approach guys and I'm too afraid approach women. If I meet a guy in a hobby sense I spend a long time observing him, but I won't make a move. How frequently do you ask a new person out on a date/to hangout for hook-up purposes? Also never. How frequently do you put yourself in situations conducive to flirting with new people of the opposite sex? (meaning bars, parties, clubs, meetups, trivia nights…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 07:26 PM
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I'm here for money. But I only get that at work. I'm a niche product. I'm very average to maybe below looking. I'm the wrong minority for the city I live in and I'm taller than the average man. I've never been hit on. At least not like people say here about guys approaching or talking to me randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 07:09 PM
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By choosing to be childfree are they willfully and drastically reducing their chances of finding a loyal and lifelong partnership? Yes. The dating pool is smaller. But I'd rather be single forever than birth a child. how does being child free effect a mans RMV? To the front of the line he goes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 04:28 AM
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My question is what basis do you use in determining that you have low libido? I have practically no sex drive. I only feel the spontaneous need to have sex like 2 days per month. The 2 days before my period. There have years between me being an active SW where I was not in a relationship and I didn't have sex at all. I had no real desire for it especially knowing that if I wanted to actually enjoy the act it needed to be in some sort of relationship context and I didn't have time for that. A ran…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:32 PM
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Ooo that's great. But OKC is a cesspool so I don't know if I wanna wade through all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:28 AM
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can't a LL woman just find a LL man Do you know where they hang out?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:28 AM
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I personally think 3 months is fine. It give you enough time to get to know each other. Especially for the shine of new person rubs off and they stop trying to hardcore impress.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 08:01 PM
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She also mentioned her arousal and that she dealt with it herself. Do men not have hand as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:57 PM
1

I turn down people all the time. Bargain hunters, boundary pushers, people who are rude to me etc. I don't turn down people for being unattractive or overweight though. Just unhygienic. Men please wash your ass! I promise it's not gay to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 06:08 AM
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getting dicked down well You grossly overestimate the ability of a man to be good at sex in general much less the first time with a new partner the first. Most women do not orgasm from casual sex. They even have trouble with their LTRs. every other week by a hot dude There not that many hot dudes. Also since we established women aren't orgasming in these casual encounters, where is the benefit to her? banging hot guys with NSA Getting with a hot guy isn't a mark of anything. What is she gonna be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 11:45 PM
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I know. But since people here are discussing their LTR/Casual numbers I gave mine. But if I wasn't doing SW my N would be around 5? I'm like grey ace. I don't really feel sexual desire and definitely not a spontaneous one. ONS and casual has zero appeal to me since there's no benefit. In the past 5 years I've met maybe 2 dudes I'd consider having sex with "naturally" and it took months of being friends and getting to know them before that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 04:07 PM
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If she's 5'7" and you're 5'10" and you say you're six feet on your dating profile, she'll think you're six feet. Only if she is stupid and has no concept of anything. When I was 5'7" I could clearly tell who was over 6ft and who wasn't. Just because she doesn't call you out on it doesn't mean she can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 12:49 AM
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Female, 2nd half of my 20s, non Sexwork N = 3. Lost virginity at 18. From a big city in a small country, live in a big city in a big country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 12:37 AM
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women are just better at multi tasking than men Humans cannot multitask so it's clearly not nature. It's very obvious that a alot of women are raised and taught how to do these things over time. They tend to be very good at it because they have years of practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 07:10 AM
1

This actually happens quite often. You'll often see on r/Sexworkers guys asking how to convince their Escort to stop working and date him only. Or girls complaining about guys being super attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 11:01 PM
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I don't lie to my clients . I can find something complimentary about each of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 10:54 PM
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I try to be a nice person. Keeps the gray hairs away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 07:54 PM
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feminist empowerment What does this have to do with height? doesn't mean he is unworthy of sexual happiness. Where do I say this? I've never said anyone was unworthy of sex. Unless you think only Chads should get sex. Then that's a projection. I'm using the term "Chad" here the way you guys do. Aren't you guys the ones all about height?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 07:52 PM
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Thanks Mom. I do my best to be safe. I screen heavily and take as many precautions as I can. I am a whore but I only prefer people in the business to call me that. I don't have a reaction really to slut but by definition I don't think I'm one of those. People can call me whatever they want as long as the check clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 04:35 PM
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Finding an escort is easy. You Google "Escort+Your City". Various ad venues will pop up. You want to make sure your escort is verified. It means they sent in their ID (so they are legal), they also sent in an unblurred photo plus a photo of themselves with a sign so you know what you see is what you get. Check to see if they have a link to their Twitter/Instagram (Twitter is better). Check to see if they have a website (some will others won't). Google their phone number or email to see what pops…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 04:29 PM
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I doubt very much if even an escort is going to happily marry someone short, average or who isn't well off. Lol. Chads only /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 04:10 PM
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I would be a little saddened to hear that I’m worthy of seeing these men at their worst and helping building up their confidence, but they’re grossed out at the thought of making me their SO Don't feel bad. Not for me personally at least. I know men and how they work. I went into my job with full knowledge of the ramifications as it relates to relationships and "commitment". I'm not a stunner and I've never been hit on by a guy (that wasn't cat calling). I've always known since I was little that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 04:08 PM
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You don't have to buy them dinner, take them dancing, or even pick them up. Some guys do this though. They like the dating thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:46 PM
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Johns who cheat on their wives are a pretty significant proportion Is say 90% of my business. Wife or long term relationship. Also this heavily depends on the city too. I used to get all cheaters in more working class markets. Bigger markets I get more the wealthy Playboy type. Probably has some "wife material" girl he's taking to Sunday brunch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:44 PM
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Why a man gotta be 6'2 to be a Chad? Because I'm almost 6' tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:40 PM
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Well I don't think it should be difficult for them to understand. I wasn't born giving good head. I remember way back in my baby ho days a guy said Hey, do this, that etc. And I learned and got better. I get better with every try. Dudes are different too. What works on one isn't going to work for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:40 PM
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I see a wide spectrum of guys. From dudes you recognize on TV to newly landed H1B Visa techie. Some ridiculously wealthy and attractive. Some who need a safe space to get walked around on a leash while they snort cocaine. Hookers and Blow is a thing. While I dont partake (I can't even drink coffee), it's interesting to me to see which guys are into that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:38 PM
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Google "Escort + Your City". See what pops up. Make sure the site looks reputable. I don't think we are allowed to drop site links here but you are welcome to pop over to r/AskAnEscort and read the sidebar
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:32 PM
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This is true. Most of my dates is talking. I have a 90 mins sometimes 2 hr minimum. How long does sex take? 15-20 mins? So most of the time is talking, connecting, touching etc. Also alot of guys that book full sessions don't even want sex (view it as cheating), so they opt of a body rub and HE. They just want to feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:30 PM
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No worries. I like my job and for the most part like the guys I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:26 PM
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It does give him the ability to realize women aren't this magically, mythical creature though. I advertise or some a sensual laid bad experience versus vixen bombshell. Guys get to relax around me and try new things because they know I won't judge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:24 PM
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whores are great. We are. Honestly so many people have this idea of what a guy who pays for sex look like. Weird, unwashed, overweight etc. And while yeah sure you'll get a lot of chubby dudes they tend to be pretty normal and average. Sometime we even get some "Chads" as you guys say. Over 6'2", blond hair, blue eyes, works out, makes over 6 figures, has a job that's upwardly mobile. All those "good guy" things, and yet they still come to see me. The local whore. I also get some young dudes. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 04:38 AM
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ENDGAME SPOILERS BELOW: But one woman did fight for her family. THE first female Avenger. A found family that she loved. She sacrificed so that that family could be made whole again. Do you not see that on the same light as the others? She even has a tearful speech with her closest family member saving him so he can then save his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:23 AM
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I have never watched Game of Thrones. But I did study history and read extensively on prostitution. Wives are for children and running a household. Prostitutes and Mistresses are for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:33 PM
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I think these OPs should read some Regency Romance novels if they think men were marrying for access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:25 AM
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Because no religious men ever rushed to get married asap so the could finally fuck They didn't. Men were fucking whores and mistresses when they came of age. They married for an heir and someone to run their household.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:18 AM
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I've found I do better in my career/hobbies when I'm in a realtionship, mainly because I have a more predictable social routine, and I don't have to waste time approaching and going on dates This is the difference between men and women. When men are single they have to actively work and approach and set up dates/chase sex etc. This is your busy time. For women we have no such drive to search. This is our stable time. My routine is very set and standard when I only have myself to worry about. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:07 PM
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If she wanted to leave and I didn't happen to have a great offer in the city she was moving to the realtionship would end. I don't think most guys are like me though. Except that most guys are exactly like this. They will move for their career and expect her to follow but in the reverse suddenly their career is too much for them to move. They expect that their jobs be the most important one in the relationship. Lots of women know this. So they wait. Especially during early career/grad school yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:58 PM
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90%+ of my clients are married or otherwise commited. So I sleep with married men in that situation. We even talk about their wives and kids. In my personal life, no I would not. I may be a ho, but I'm not a messy ho. If I'm going have sex in my personal life, it's because I'm looking for a relationship. So if he's not relationship material (ie single), I have no use for him. I don't fuck for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:59 PM
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It's wisdom, responsibility, maturity, sexual experience and skill, worldliness, emotional/ relationship maturity, willingness to commit, etc etc This what we tell you or you somehow convince yourself of. It's really just the money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:47 PM
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You have to include M/M. Most (alot maybe?) fics are written about slash (M/M) characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:50 AM
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There is an entire subsection of Supernatural Destiel (Dean/Castiel) dedicated to Chubby!Dean. Usually Dean is a baker or chef but the entire fantasy is based on a dude being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:48 AM
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My best friend and I always jokE we'd never steal the others dude because our taste is so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:46 AM
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OP stop trying to buy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:30 AM
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I have no friends Get some. I don't think I want that from him Except you kinda do. Maybe not so much commitment because you know this guy is a bad choice. But you what the validation that comes with knowing that someone chose you to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:13 AM
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Ever moment longer you spend with this man is fine taken away from you finding someone who is "more financially successful and have less contact with their family". Time us not your friend and you are wasting it on a dude that doesn't want you. Don't chase men. If you, the woman, has to drive a relationship forward ira not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:09 AM
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Looks don't matter once you passed a certain threshold. Ever woman has their own threshold. But personal once a guy has entered "attractive to me", looks don't really matter that much at all. Other things start at weigh more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:51 PM
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No. what are the things you do care about in a male romantic partner? If he's been married before. If he has any children. How discreet he was in the past sexual life. If he fucked the entire town and everyone knows about it, I don't wanna know. If he fucked a new girl on each business trip but didn't bring that type of drama home, I don't care about that. No STDs. Is he attractive to me and treats me well. Does he make enough to keep up with my lifestyle. It's not extravagant but I want a man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:49 PM
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I don't have sex with friends. I think that's on me though. The dynamic would change for me and I wouldn't be able to do casual. I'd start getting possessive. But that's a personal issue not one based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:07 PM
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We probably aren't and most SWs would prefer decriminalization vs legalization. Also I don't incels and the sexless aren't flocking in droves to see us. I haven't had any incels but I have had some inexperienced guys come to see me. Most of my clients are between 30 and 55, married/partnered white dudes who want some excitement in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 06:32 PM
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Imagine an app like Uber which lets you hire prostitutes... professional pics, anonymity, verified std tests, and two way user driven rating systems, so hookers can screen and rate clients and vice versa. Anyone abusive or creepy or smelly gets filtered out and has to hit the streets instead, resulting in a bastion of quality, safety and guaranteed money. Other than the STD part this already exists in the US. Actually quite a few platforms like this exist. Some are regional and some are Nationwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 06:29 PM
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She's a bitch and we hate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 06:22 PM
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What would you rate that guy on the scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:24 PM
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Average. Like a 5/6 or so. There's nothing repulsive about him and nothing about him stands out either. Just plain average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:21 PM
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Number 1. I can't for any reason think of why I'd want every one to be miserable. Also does this assume that being alone makes me miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:18 AM
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I think I'm fun to be around. All the other things I successful I don't matter much because I'm a woman. I think I'd probably do well as a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 07:31 PM
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6' is short. 6'2" is where it starts to get some what interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 07:27 PM
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Getting better at sex comes from a low N-count. Or being a professional. Attentiveness Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 07:17 PM
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Raging ADHD Anxious/avoidant attachment style (intense fear of abandonment). Except this doesn't cause me to cling, it causes me to flee. I tried the dating thing for the first time in my adult life in 2017. Ended badly. Don't want to go through that again. No adult relationship experience (only ever had 1 bf from high school to early college) I have a hard time starting something if I'm not 95% sure I'll be good at it. Borderline asexual (don't come for me ace people, being ace is valid but not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 07:15 PM
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If she has fucked a bunch of guys known in common to a guy she wants to date Who does things like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 06:36 PM
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How many houses and cars do I need to buy you? A 2bedroom, floor to ceiling window "loft" apartment in a luxury high-rise in a coastal city with Bay and Bridge views. A house in the "country" for weekends. A Tesla SUV for the valet garage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 07:31 AM
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a social parasite, debase herself by milking her innate sexual advantage I want this to be my new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:21 AM
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It would be way WAY hotter if her DATE helped her navigate the menu. Is she incapable of reading comprehension? I'm having a hard time figuring out how it's a problem a dude didn't suggest food for her. Is she a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:45 PM
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This means I'd be looking for a man 6'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:31 PM
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To weed out the weak and unsuitable men. /s I like wearing heels. I'm already taller than the average man, bare foot so it doesn't even matter. I like towering over guys (makes me feel like a model).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:24 PM
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Giants only.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:12 PM
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6'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:44 AM
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I'm a woman and I wear makeup occasionally. I'll wear it for work, but it's usually just mascara, blush and a red lip. It takes way too much effort to perfect sex proof makeup. Plus my branding is fun and sensual not sex pot. In my personal life rarely. I do like to practice and play around but I feel no need to wear it daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:22 PM
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I think the Philippines. They don't do divorce there. I think it might even be illegal or extremely limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:30 PM
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I dont think there is a problem with that. For example you can be pro choice but not want an abortion in your person life. You can be for women in the workforce but prefer a stay at home mom. To me being a liberal means having the options available not just one set path. I recogize the paths may be different for others and I want them to have options even if I don't personally use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 08:25 PM
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I feel like you guys live in some sorta bubble. Low value guys cheat all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 08:16 PM
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I haven't. Grew up very religious and they taught "dating is for marriage" so I didn't date cause I was not ready to be married. Had one bf (behind my parents back) when I was a teen, ended in college. Hurt alot. Decided I wasn't going to go through that kinda pain for any short thing and only start dating when I was 100% looking to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 08:13 PM
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Low SMV value guys cheat all the time. I don't understand why people thing this is not the case. Which is why I always laugh when someone hot chooses and uggo and then comes crying when they find out they have been cheated on. Cheating isnt about what have. Its about what you want. You could have an apple waiting for you at home, but if you are feeling for peach you are gonna stop at the store and pick some up no matter how amazing the apple is. You might even still eat the apple after the peach…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 08:02 PM
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No. That is a waste of time. I would rather nap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 07:59 PM
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Nope. Alot of them truly delude themselves into thinking they are helping or trying to save her (like I would give up my earnings for some old dude). If I run ads with my professional photos, pricey copywriting, and website I'll a certain caliber of clients, but when I run ads that are just selfies and "grad student aesthetic" you get the "let me help you out dudes, I don't normally pay for it" even though they found the ad in the paid sex sections of the internet. Just pop over to the sugarlife…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 07:14 PM
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Even when they explicitly come to a sex worker they try to pretend they aren't clients/sugar daddies. They want to "help you out a bit".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:16 PM
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I have no problem with a dude who doesn't want to date. What I do have a problem with is the complaining. If you don't want women and you wanna go your own way why are you spending so much time talking about women? I don't care if he doesn't want to share his "resources". He earned it and is free to do what he wants with it. (What is with this obsession with resources anyway? Is that all men have to offer). If men want to sit out dating it's fine. It's like musical chairs when someone drops out …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:45 AM
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The money mainly. The new experiences second. I saw a documentary about it and wanted to try it out. I tried to figure out how to start a relationship with a low libido, but idk. I occasionally want company to do stuff with though I'm happy alone. Like travel or watch a movie. These people are probably gonna want sex in exchange for keeping me company.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:03 AM
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I like cats. A living thing I can care for that I didn't have to push from my vagina. Also I can stay out later or leave it for a weekend with an automatic feeder, auto litter box and maybe a once a once per day wag check up forb $20. I also like plants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:59 AM
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Thin guys (like he needs food) Bow legs Long slender fingers Odd teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:48 AM
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Yes because I too do not want ant children. Is only be marrying that type of man anyway. But is also not marry a man that thinks marriage is a bad deal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:43 AM
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I figured the money would be nice. It paid for all of college and will pay for grad school next year. Also I like hanging out with dudes and getting to know them. I like to dress up and be another person for a bit. I get to live so many lives and see worlds I'd not have access to otherwise. The men tend to take you along for the ride. I had a client was a rocket scientist and I'm a huge space nerd and we spent most of the time talking about space and engineering etc. He took me to his workplace …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:52 PM
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How often do you go out and meet an alpha Never. I like to stay home. Unless it's to do my hobbies. Then the aim is to get better at the thing, not to look for guys. how old are you 2nd half of my 20s I can't get alpha anymore so now I will settle for beta No I never tried to get Alphas or Chad before. I've had 1 boyfriend in my life. Highschool through early college. He was defo not Alpha in any way. He was tallish (6'2"), but I'm also tall. I was more educated, eventually made more money, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:40 PM
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Only in this setting though. I don't know what it's like out there "in the wild" for dating etc. I don't drink or do drugs so I can never relate to the stories I see here about "bar sluts and club hoes". I don't really have any dating experience in a traditional sense. I started browsing here out of curiosity and this dance and anxiety I see, if that's what's dating is like I don't really understand the appeal too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:15 PM
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I'm not saying every man does this. I am saying there is no specific look to a man who does. He's your pretty typical dude shopping at Trader Joe's and mowing his lawn on Sunday Mornings. Mid Range. About 1K for first time clients which gives them 1.5 hrs of my time. Guys I've seen before can see me during the workday for an hour at 6-700 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:10 PM
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If I can shed some light on men/women when the transactional aspect of the relationship is out in the open I am happy to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 07:49 PM
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I'd say its a pretty accurate look at humanity. Just because you don't see it doesn't mean its not there. I thought you guys were all about life's truths?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 07:48 PM
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My clients are pretty much the dudes you see in your everyday life. At your office, your grocery store, in your gym. There is no typical sex worker client "look". They are pretty much a representative sample of men usually between the ages of 30-65 though I do take some younger guys on occasion. For example my clients have been landscapers, construction workers, tech dudes, C Suites (all the letter combinations at this point), TV Producers, Professional Chefs, Basketball Players, Government Empl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:48 PM
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I have spoken to them at length. I'm a sex worker. A very carefree no judgement zone. Men come to me play out their desires and the things they don't tell their wives or friends. I walk men on leashes, laugh at their cocks and cuddle them while watching Netflix. The fact is almost all of them "want to make it good for you". Go visit the sex worker sub and see how many of our clients this is their aim. And yet! When you tell them what makes it good or direct them that way, they either get huffy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:07 PM
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I see them every day. Men want to please themselves by envisioning pleasing their women. Whatever they come up with in their minds is what they want to see happen, not always what actually works for the woman. It's not about the woman's pleasure. It's about his prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:53 PM
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Nope. Not at all. I am really good at sex. I get told that all the time. "no one has ever done that before" etc etc. I even posted an askmen some time ago for the examples of the wild sex they aren't getting at home and the responses were just meh, like a regular Tuesday afternoon. ​ I have no SO. The best I ever had was maybe last April and there was no penetration. Just everything around the encounter was great. Even though it was a good experience there was still things I would improve if it …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 06:50 PM
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No matter how discreet they are... they can always bump into a John. He usually has more to lose and more of an incentive to keep his mouth shut. If I do run into a client who acknowledges me I'd just say that's a client I did business with. Or their boyfriend can find her profile on “Hookers R Us”. He would have to be looking. Why is he looking? How does he know where to look. Most of us don't show our faces in or ads and remove any tattoos or birthmarks from our ad photos. Or a friend can anon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:25 PM
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Many SWs are happily in relationships and married. I know quite a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:39 PM
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If you pop over to the SW subs you will see that lots of them are in relationships and a couple are single. Some are even married lesbians that see dudes as clients. Many chose to remain single while working as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:12 PM
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I've never commented here before, but I am an escort, and I will tell you that MOST of my clients are not actually looking to just get off. I often have multi hour dates where all we do is talk. Alot of my clients just want someone to listen to them and feel desired. I chose who I see very carefully (I am not forced, work independently and advertise as such). I think out of my last maybe 10 or so dates I have had sex maybe 3 times? I had on overnight date where we didn't have sex until just befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 06:34 PM
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