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| 1 | 50+ Approach, but no success...Don't expect results from cold approaches. Cold approaches are great for practice and overcoming nerves but the success percentage is often low, no matter who you are. And sure, your physical looks and your ethnicity may play a role but it sounds like you've already taken the initiative to work out and you can't stop being asian lol. Have you tried making more friends? Try not to focus on hitting on girls as much. Do other things in life that make you genuinely better. Make more friends and expa… | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 01:17 AM |
| 7 | Help with being affectionate without being needy/clingy?I have a few things to say about all this. First of all I'm going to remove the words "affectionate" and "vulnerable" from your post and break it down for you. You like to call and text girls often. You like to open up and divulge your deepest thoughts and secrets to your girls. You have a supplicating behavior towards your girls and you want them to act the same way towards you. You like these qualities about yourself and you don't want to change. You hope to find a girl who is willing to accep… | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 06:14 AM |
| 1 | For Those in a Bindprops for this post. The mistake I believe you made was sacrificing your career (master's degree/education) and way of life (studying abroad + numerous friends/homies) for a woman. So a little sex and companionship and you're willing to compromise who you are as a person? However, in the long run, I think it will make you better. The bitterness and the "angst" will drive you to become so much better. I just wished you would have recognized the red flags of such a foolhardy decision before it hap… | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 05:54 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Virgin,M,25 - First approach and got rejected in a second.yes yes and yes. before I wrote my comment I took a moment to really sympathize with the guy and wondered if his situation was much worse than an average guy. perhaps he has some of clinically-relevant social anxiety or disorder. BUT I'm going to go with my first theory...this man is by all means probably a normal guy who has self-perpetuated his own fears and self-doubts. he's complacent. lazy. he has not realized or even considered that he is full of potential. this is the theory I'm going wit… | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 05:40 AM |
| -3 | [FR] Virgin,M,25 - First approach and got rejected in a second.funny how you stumbled upon "the game" and the world of PUA but did nothing with the information. that's like counting your calories but never staying within a calorie limit. that's like looking at a treasure map and tossing it away. that's like not following directions for a homework assignment. that's like turning on a red light when a sign in front of you clearly reads "NO TURN ON RED." funny how other guys who stumbled upon similar pua materials, made use of it. practiced. put themselves out… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 12:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR]A nice day in the parki'm generally in a good mood after approaching. the result doesn't matter, it feels good because I conquered my fears for the day. | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Why Persistence is The Key to SuccessNice. But let's make sure guys don't become persistent with one girl. Be persistent in gaming and becoming better with women, not one female. Don't get sucked into the hero's journey and keeping failing with the same girl over and over. Be sure to constantly move onto the next girl. And honestly, gaming girls is something that shouldn't be thought of as work. Inventing the light bulb is hard work. Dating women should be FUN. be careless. be carefree. it's all a fucking game. it'll also make you … | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 01:30 AM |
| 2 | 3 Most Important Components to a Successful DateVery good reminder. I've actually seen myself recently focusing so much on escalating and getting the girl back to my place that I forget to enjoy myself and have fun. There's a lot of steps to a successful close with a quality woman and sometimes our brains get caught up in working through the massive algorithm of pick-up when we should just chill the fuck out and be in the moment. | /r/seduction | 07/09/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Just a reminder: your female "friends" can often be trying to cockblocking you.What women say and what women actually do are two completely different things. Look to the latter for the truth. you shouldn't be taking advice from other women anyways. not many women will tell you the secrets to exploiting them for sex...make sense? | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 07:17 AM |
| 2 | How to Have a Perfect First Dateagreed, just guage her level of interest. sometimes she's just into you and she's all for a kiss or even making out of the first date. hell people fuck on the first date. but if she doesn't seem to be all that down, just keep kino'ing and escalate. a peck on the cheek for good night may be the safest and most conservative move because it's a nice way of saying good night after a date without moving beyond her comfort zone too much. definitely hug her when you pick her up and when you take her ho… | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 03:21 AM |
| 0 | I am very concerned and don't know my next moveprobably the most important thing for you to do right now is to absorb some of the sidebar material. read the books/blogs/articles, don't just browse the subreddit and listen to other users' stories. you have to learn the fundamentals of PUA and gaming girls. try Mystery Method as your first book. also browse youtube for helpful tips from the likes of Tyler RSD, David DeAngelo, etc. simultaneously, I want you to put yourself in situations with tons of girls. classes/parties/recreational activiti… | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Want to establish deep connections together? "Be the buyer, not the seller."kudos to your therapist. i don't expect all of them to be this good | /r/seduction | 28/06/14 04:36 AM |
| 0 | Highlights from Models by Mark Mansonthank you. does anyone else think Manson's writing is conservative and crowd-pleasing? the concepts and the ideas are all there and they're solid but the way he delivers them sounds like he's afraid to piss off the feminists and the mainstream media. so he uses clever words like "vulnerability" to describe what we would call "not giving a fuck' or a derivative of "alpha behavior." 2 ugly sounding things made to sound very pretty and non-offensive.... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/14 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever tried one of Mark Manson's online courses (The Connection Course or The Fearless Dating Course for Men)?ok then wait for it to come out on youtube. there are entire seminars. don't pay for anything. as much as we hate to think about it, PUA is a market and a business, they want to take your money. sure the information might be helpful but the same information is available elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 09:22 PM |
| 1 | I've done over 500 approaches in the past few years while learning pickup and here is what I've learned.instead of saying, "lets face reality. lets back down a bit," think, "back to the drawing board. now I know what DOESN'T work, lets try x, y, and z." if you don't then you're just another chump. and you're not another chump right? | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I've done over 500 approaches in the past few years while learning pickup and here is what I've learned."My learning curve was long and hard. Not until my second year of approaching nonstop did a reliable game system start to become clear in my mind. For the next four years I perfected and refined it into something that got me laid consistently with the girls I wanted. I then captured my strategy into a book called Bang." - Roosh Roosh went out more than you. stuck with it and now he's one of the best PUAs in the world. I'm not saying you should grind your way through thousands of approaches for t… | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Men Overestimate Their Own Level of Attractiveness?agreed. don't allow someone else to tell you you're overestimating your own value. just go after what you like. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever tried one of Mark Manson's online courses (The Connection Course or The Fearless Dating Course for Men)?don't pay for anything. you have Youtube, Blogs, Reddit, Websites, EBooks, PDF copy of Books. don't pay for anything. don't pay for anything. absorb what is useful from books and discussion and go out and practice practice practice. then reflect and make notes for the future. don't pay for anything. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 06:30 PM |
| 1 | My friend's response to his parents "you gotta lock her down and put a ring on her"the way I see it, you should take your time. progress through each level of the relationship and take time to stop and think if this is the girl you'd like to marry. weigh not only how she makes you feel but how she acts and her integrity. think on the things in life you'd like to accomplish. and never forget to ask yourself, is Marriage for me? you don't need to lock anyone down. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 06:28 PM |
| 2 | I've done over 500 approaches in the past few years while learning pickup and here is what I've learned.I was actually going to give you some advice on how to proceed but then i realized your main problem, a problem that I also share at times. you don't BELIEVE. seriously. you're beginning to believe PickUp doesn't work. you believe that you're not attractive enough. and you believe that all this work is for nothing. a post on seduction was listed "Selective Blindspots" as one of his most effective strategies for pulling women. he phased out anything that sounded discouraging (women only like tall… | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Pursue or not pursue- TRP has me confused on this one fundamental concept.ha I've always referred to flirting with women as planting seeds. Basically you demonstrate good body language, make girls laugh, and have great conversations. these may be girls from your kickboxing class or from work (preferably in a different department from your own). they might even be in your social circle. but once you to give them a glimpse of your fun and interesting self, they may come to you. now the power rests with you and it sets the stage for dates. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Skinny fucker here: What are the first steps to getting bigger?www.bodybuilding.com - cruise that site to learn more about training and nutrition. in the mean time see if you can sign up for a gym. go 3-4 times a week and slowly progress to harder, heavier exercises. and I'm talking about weight lifting. eat more. especially protein. www.myfitnesspal.com - use this to track calories and nutrients. it allows you to keep a log. that should be a good start | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 10:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First daygaming ever. Girl working in a small toystore. Went ok-ishgood job, you actually got a date out of a daygame attempt on the same day. success regardless of outcome. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Confused regarding my feelings towards this girl, impart your wisdom TRP.yep you're overthinking. and when you overthink, you come up with excuses that sound really nice. I think in gaming women, no strategy and no routine is as powerful as ACTION. you must take action. I'm not saying you have to rush to get your penis inside her but kissing is a nice start. if you'd like to take a few dates to get to sex then do it. just make sure you leave each date with her wanting more....and more. some PUAs believe escalation means hitting the ass on the first date. to me, escal… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/14 09:32 PM |
| 2 | I've done over 100 approaches in 2 years and here's what I've learnedchoose a less busy week in the near future and tell yourself you're going to go out twice that week. once at night and once in during the day. and on each of those outings try to approach...say...like 2 girls. all you have to do is say Hi or How's your day going. start easy then progress. 120/month right now seems impossible because you haven't started doing anything yet. it's like a 15 year old who's never touched a set of weights looking at arnold's muscles and thinking gosh that'll never happ… | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I've done over 100 approaches in 2 years and here's what I've learnedwow that's a lot of approaches. whenever I go out to the bars or daygame I treat it just as practice. I don't expect them to call back or come home with me. I've found the best results of actually getting dates and getting laid comes from attending events in which you at least know someone (house party, social gathering, etc.). so in a way, I go out to game just to practice so I can be prepared when I meet someone I fancy in a more predictable and familiar setting. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Confused regarding my feelings towards this girl, impart your wisdom TRP.well learning to control your emotions is key. this is a new girl and you don't want to let your emotions trick you into thinking you're in love with her or that you care about her just yet. you could just be trying to fill the void that your girlfriend left. and your insecurities are getting in the way of you kissing/sleeping with this girl. I think you have to get back to the state in which you have fun and go for it. she's definitely ready to get more physical. it doesn't have to mean anythin… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/14 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Be selfish, dismissive, amused, and communicate less -- the keys to successagreed. the idea is to stay positive when you open your mouth. your day, in your own words, was filled with vigor and achievement. OR you tell her something hilarious about your day. it's a basic component of conversation with all people. offer something of value when you engage in conversation. you can feign interest in the other person's passion and make it about them, you can tell a very exciting story for their entertainment and enjoyment, you can make them laugh their assess off, or you can… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Be selfish, dismissive, amused, and communicate less -- the keys to successgosh don't even try to argue or convince people. there's no cure for ignorance. women will never be happy with TRP and manosphere teachings. think about it, we're using our understanding of women derived from evolution/sociology/psychology/economics/philosophy and exploiting them for sex and relationships in which we hold more power. no matter how correct or accurate you are, they will resent you and will never admit you're right. so lets keep TRP among men, and only men willing to swallow it at… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Be selfish, dismissive, amused, and communicate less -- the keys to successi usually reply to texts 1-2 hours later if that. and yes only use your phone to set up dates | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 03:14 AM |
| 5 | Be selfish, dismissive, amused, and communicate less -- the keys to successyep perfect strategy. in a way, you're training her or at least reinforcing the fact that if she irrationally throws a fit or is combative, you'll just walk away - thus she accomplishes nothing. you also avoid incriminating yourself by saying something stupid or hurtful that can be used against you later on. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/14 03:07 AM |
| 10 | Confidence is not "She will like me." Confidence is "I'll be fine whether she likes me or not."my mentality is more like, "lets have some fun and enjoy myself." | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 04:31 AM |
| 5 | "Why I Give A Damn About #yesallwomen"boys will be boys. that used to be the motto. so let them do what they were born to do please. boys are not nice, well behaved, asexual beings. we're wild, horny, and dangerous. let the boys learn their own lessons. let them be raised by their fathers instead of by their mothers. let them grow up. let the boy get laid...and there will be no Elliot Rodgers.........guaranteed. what a retarded time we live in. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Married Man Theory -- Next Best Alternativenot sure if I agree with everything here but at least you're promoting a positive approach, one in which you encourage good behavior by demonstrating it yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Friend wants to "warn" girl of getting taken advantage of...the girl will end up doing what she wants to do whether your friend tips her off or not. the girl will end up doing what she wants to do whether you cock-block her or not. the girl will end up doing what she wants to do whether you tell the guys she's taken or not. if she doesn't do it at this festival, it'll be at the next party she attends or the next night downtown. you can polish em' and dress em' up but a turd is still a turd. just let it happen. tell your friend it's up to him to decide. i… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/14 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What dating coaches mean when they say "looks don't matter".not all humans are created equal. you are not the next guy. and I am not George Clooney. all george clooney has to do is walk into a room and he'd probably leave with a babe or two if he wanted to. you see fat guys being successful but that shouldn't delude you into thinking physique and health/fitness aren't important. learning Game is not a shortcut or a holy grail of life and mating. just because some overweight guy scores with a babe without minding his closet or hygiene, doesn't mean you ca… | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 03:48 AM |
| 1 | A Boy Is Bornwell when you put it that way, I have to agree. but at the same time let's assume the hotel points were accumulated by both the man and the woman's combined money. in this scenario then, neither party should be able to claim the points for themselves. so it should come down to a compromise, with neither party receiving less than the other. so to address your statement about compromise, the only compromise that a man should agree to are those that are fair. he should not compromise just to comply… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What dating coaches mean when they say "looks don't matter".true, there are some ugly, fat guys who get with babes. But that's them. you are not them. things may come harder for you. what applies to those fat guys doesn't apply to you. so do your best to prepare and don't give yourself a chance to fail; lift weights, eat healthy, be well dressed and fashionable, put some product in your hair, fix your acne, walk straight, and shower daily. AND ALSO practice your game and communication skills. | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What PUAs do you agree with? Which ones do you disagree with?Mark Manson is great for developing the correct frame of mind. It also sort of demystifies the pick up game in general, both in good and a bad way. it's more of a pickup approach from a non-pickup artist. The two that gave me immediate results were David DeAngelo and Doc Lov. They were the first figures of PUA/dating that I read about. I'm talking instant and substantial results. I think Mystery does a great job laying the foundation for PUAs everywhere as his book is super detailed. but at the … | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Listen guys, we've been misled. Girls DO like nice guys. They do NOT like dishonest nice guys.there's two ends of the spectrum. there's the super nice guy (aka beta) who gets walked all over and is nice to a fault. then there is the other side of the spectrum where you're full-throttle douchebag picking fights with everyone, defending your macho-ness, and treating everything like a shit-test. find a sweet spot in between these two extremes. the one I like involves a lot of smiling and light negging/teasing/joking around. but I have a backbone. I know when to say No and when someone is tr… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Been carrying around these notebooks and I'm constantly reminded of you Guys/Galsdon't let that book fall into the wrong hands. people will misunderstand | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 12:43 AM |
| 3 | A Boy Is Bornah it's okay, at least you pursued higher education and weren't sexless. sounds like TRP made a good person into an even better person. your initial comment sounded so sad lol. happy for you brah | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 12:29 AM |
| 3 | A Boy Is Bornor bang the women who rejected you in your 20s who are still mildly attractive. then realize you're doing all this to satisfy your ego, your self-image. and you'll eventually come to pity these older women as their worlds come crashing down, much like their breasts. then you'll go back to banging younger women. so moral of the story, bang younger attractive women. jk. do with your red pill shaft as you please. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 12:21 AM |
| 8 | A Boy Is BornI think it's better to change your actions and behavior instead of shouting it out to the world. they will not accept these ideas. not yet. but we can change ourselves. and lend a piece of advice to our closest friends from time to time without preaching. we must also teach our sons. these things are within our power to do, convincing the stubborn world is not. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 12:18 AM |
| 6 | A Boy Is Bornso how did you spend your 20s? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 12:14 AM |
| 2 | A Boy Is Bornsex and relationships are highly amoral. sleeping with different girls every night is completely acceptable in my mind. just don't promise them the world or your hand in marriage before you fuck em'. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 12:14 AM |
| 9 | A Boy Is Borncareful there about hotel points. that's rather trivial. standing your ground and holding the power in the relationship is important but bitching over stupid shit 24/7 is not ideal. don't make your wife's chewing the last piece of juicy fruit a power game...some thing are not worth it | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 12:12 AM |
| 2 | A Boy Is BornI discovered it at the age of 21. except my discovery wasn't of red pill. it was of PUA materials and an older, more mature buddy of mine who pushed me and gave me proper advice - both of which somewhat echo red pill concepts. from there, I got relationships, sex, attention, etc. I feel for the boy in the story because that was me for long time. I could have suffered the same fate as him. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/14 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being attracted to my friend?simply choose to | /r/askTRP | 08/06/14 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Even worth worrying about STDs?most STDs are treatable now. herpes stay in your body but many people can control the virus and prevent breakouts for years at a time. but obviously seeing your dick get infested by warts/lesions/etc is traumatizing and not to mention painful. there are even some great medications for HIV that now extend the life expectancy of patients. but guess what? simply slipping on a condom of your choice drastically reduces your susceptibility to ALL of these infections. so go with the words of these good… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/14 11:44 PM |
| 5 | I am very good at picking up women. In my relationship experience though, they start to lose interest after a month or so. Any tips on keeping a women interested?keeping a woman is an art in itself. try creating a sense of absence - try to see each other only 3 times a week. maybe 2 on a busy week. don't text and don't call. you'll see each other soon. this tactic promotes independence in both partners and ultimately adds longevity to the relationship. whatever you did to get those women in the first place is what will keep them. were you flirtatious? were you a great conversationalist? did you tease her often? did you work harder on your appearance. all… | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 02:38 AM |
| 3 | The Pill is not free.in terms of gender dynamics in this country, the odds are stacked against us men. women are hypergamous. so they'll want someone better than them...meaning your 6s will want 8s as partners. that means most men will have to date down. women can't give you the love you truly desire (a mother's love). their love is conditional. relationships with women can become games of power filled with manipulation society and the legal system protect women. you'll lose a lot through divorce even if they cheat … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/14 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Contradiction...conversing with women? Nick Sparks vs. RSD TylerNick Sparks makes a lot of sense to me. How to Speak like a Man video and his stuff on conversation is so basic yet so effective. I guess you can say Sparks's form of PUA makes you look like you're not trying very hard - which can be to your advantage. he supports dropping little hooks everywhere instead of approaching a girl straight up. he encourages you to lead a conversation but not dominate it. your responsibility as a man during a conversation is not to be funny or super interesting, your … | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on sticking points when in conversationMan: hi what are you drinking? Woman: uhh...cranberry vodka M: oh i love cranberry vodka, it's kind of a girly drink though so I can't be seen sporting that around. W: haha...oh i see, it is kind of girly M: so i take it, you're not a tom-boy W: well, i guess. sometimes I like to do manly stuff like watch football or drink beer. M: ah i see. where are you from? W: new york, but now I live here. yeah i miss it. M: oh new york? you know what I was just in new york not too long ago. W: where did yo… | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 02:42 AM |
| 15 | I asked a girl to pay for herself on a first date. I didn't feel good about it, but felt I had to stand my ground.you asked her to pay for her own movie. cool. I get it, it's a principle thing. i think it's fair. but i think another thing to address is your behavior leading up to the movie and during the movie. if you knew a movie was a bad idea for a 1st date, why weren't you more adamant about doing something else. you put yourself in a bad position to start with just because you did what she wanted. being late is pretty shitty on her part but it's a tinder date. you can't expect that much. and during the… | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] did I respond correctly to this shit test?yep, she didn't want to go out with you. just move onto the next girl. doesn't make any sense wasting time pondering about a lost cause. | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Some of you are missing a vital point.yeah...in this day and age, I've gotten similar materials and works for free. i haven't paid a single cent in my life for any PUA product/seminar/teachings. the same goes with red pill books. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Some of you are missing a vital point.You know, before red pill, I just had PUA material. David DeAngelo and Doc Love. Those two guys made me go from 0 luck with women to two long term relationships and a few flings in between. it didn't take long. that stuff works. i think when I found red pill, it basically solidified ideas that I already knew about women from studying pickup and dating. however, it also made me angry. really angry. i spent more time being angry and lamenting women than I did practicing my skills. what I'd also li… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Some of you are missing a vital point.I see what you're saying. you have to find the best path for yourself. I'm 5'8 with a semi-muscular build but average or below average looks. I'm also an ethnic minority so sometimes that plays against me. I've found what works for me is to adopt a "wolf in sheep's clothing mentality." my thoughts are red pill-esque and masculinity teachings run through my blood BUT in real life, I do not overtly discuss or get into debates about these topics or force myself into behavior that may upset the peop… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Some of you are missing a vital point.i think what OP is trying to say is that if you've been beta for a long time and just now learning how to become alpha, you don't want to go off the deep end and overcompensate. overcompensating (trying too hard to be alpha or going too extreme) can come off as try-hard or off-putting. so the main idea is...don't go overboard because when you go overboard, you become a quasi-alpha-douche that gains nothing. want to spout off your opinion when you disagree with someone? stop and think before you … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 01:37 AM |
| 7 | To tell them they're cute or not.I would say I have average looks and I think the indirect approach has worked much better for me. to me, making her feel like you're just being friendly and starting conversation works really well because she doesn't think you're hitting on her so she won't have her guard up. i don't know if this is an actual phrase, but I sometimes like "incidental" pick up lines. for example, you're standing around waiting for your starbucks coffee. she is too. so all you say is, "what drink did ya get?" and f… | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 04:15 AM |
| 2 | girls you meet that are super into you but then flake later on?she may have used you as a temporary ego-booster for attention. there's nothing you can really do. just hit up the next girl. in my opinion, I generally like to wait 5-7 days before texting the girl, it really makes their feeble minds wonder. | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Mark Manson: 6 healthy relationship habits most people think are toxicI see what you're saying. his work is still worth going back to from time to time. his advice on honesty, vulnerability, and intention have really shaped the way I think about people. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Best methods to use when another guy tries to put you downyep, those strategies work pretty well. a guy who tries to pick on you in front of girls is not something you have to worry too much about. maintain your composure and just have some fun. pretend like he's just joking around with you, which some people may do. "Agree and Amplify" are the words you're looking for. If you handle the situation well, you'll get everyone laughing and having a good time. generally, guys who are trying to make other guys look bad won't get very far. you just have to ma… | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 06:14 AM |
| 23 | Mark Manson: 6 healthy relationship habits most people think are toxicModels. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Been doing this 3 years.... still not getting the "7s" and up. How can I improve my results??for the most part, it sounds like you're getting results. you're attracting women. you just aren't attracting women who are "7s and up." these are a harder breed. they were born with beautiful features and they know it. they don't want to sell themselves short so they're looking for a man with the whole package - physically attractive, social importance (you're the boss or CEO or you have some really cool friends), and a little bit of money helps as well. all of that I just listed you could prob… | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Is hooking up with someone else in front of a crush a good idea?I have a different opinion of the matter. When a woman catches the glimpse of you flirting or having a good time with another female, it automatically gives you attraction points because you appear as a male that is desired by women. it can even stir up a little jealousy which may make your target even more attracted to you. dating and mating can be looked at as simple power games. and that's exactly what you're doing when you flirt or make-out with another girl in front of her. you're forcing h… | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 02:55 AM |
| 28 | Mark Manson: 6 healthy relationship habits most people think are toxiche's probably one of the most authoritative and respected voices of the PUA community. any man would benefit from reading some of his blog posts or his books. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Questions on the endurance of TRPreally depends on what you want. red pill is not a religious doctrine that tells you to do this and not that. it's what you make you of it. it is simply a tool to help you achieve success in several aspects of your life. if you do eventually get married and have children, remember the red pill concepts and teachings - they will guide you through rough patches of the marriage and make sure the relationship and dynamic with your wife is healthy and balanced. it will also protect you from being tak… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/14 04:28 AM |
| 2 | It finally clicked: I finally get why women turn down sex when they actually want it.ah I have a few ideas. last minute resistance is actually a very common concept among PUAs and red pillers. just play along and say something like "okay" or "i know" and keep making out with her and escalating. a lot of times they lose control to their urges. I've seen it happen personally. she can't reject if you don't give yourself a chance to be rejected. you can take this many ways. absence makes the heart grow fonder. so busy yourself with other things in your life and wait for her to text … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 05:20 PM |
| 12 | It finally clicked: I finally get why women turn down sex when they actually want it.I agree with you. not only does rejecting the man make the woman feel more empowered and self-important, some are actually trying to milk the man for everything he's worth before giving up the ass. Think about it, if the girl gives up the sex on the first night, she hasn't seen any of his money, enjoyed any of his social status, or exploited any of his resources. heck she may not even be able to use him as arm candy if he puts it in the first night. he may never call back! so yeah it's a form of… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/14 06:54 AM |
| 15 | When do you know your SO simply won't be down with TRP. OPP!???some say that people will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. and by the time their image of you is solidified, it is very difficult to change their opinion of you. with that being said, please don't be violent or do anything destructive to your wife, family, or yourself. I have a few suggestions. I don't want you whining to your wife. Don't complain that you don't get her respect. The next time she does something that is obviously disrespectful, tell her about it. Say it in a calm an… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Turning down sex at the last moment. Am I over-thinking or is it a good power play?don't feel guilty about it. you weren't necessarily planning to lead her on, you just decided at the last moment that it wasn't a great decision to have sex. besides, she may be even more attracted to you at this point. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/14 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend introduced me to RPW and now I feel like I need a REAL RP manHe doesn't sound like he truly understands red pill or its concepts. He definitely doesn't know how to apply it. If he's just throwing out those terms and treating people like shit, he's not making himself a better or attractive man, he's just alienating himself from men and women alike. and it almost sounds like he did himself in by talking about it so much and introducing you to RPW. and even, worse he's not motivated to further his career or lose weight. this is the worse scenario of a red pi… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/14 05:23 AM |
| 2 | How hard do you actually work at your career? How Hard SHOULD you be working? ADVICE neededNice simplification. I want high sexual status and upper middle class economic status. I want 2 children. 1 boy, 1 girl. but probably not thinking about kids until 30s Ideally, I'd want to have a balance of work and leisure. Working Mon-Fri from 9-5 and having the whole weekend off would be fantastic lol. I'd be fairly satisfied with my life if I got all those. I'd probably be happy...but at the same time it comes down to my success with women. if I had no woman/women in my life, this would all … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How hard do you actually work at your career? How Hard SHOULD you be working? ADVICE neededDo you think youd miss work after you quit? And what are your plans for land? Id like to buy a condo and rent it out, practically making money from rentors. Then repeating the process until I have several properties making me money | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/14 04:49 PM |
| 1 | What kind of stuff do you Neg a girl with and how hard do you do it?I was asking a general question about tactics and wanted to hear what everyone else's style or approach was. yes, I've read the sidebar and I know what negging is and how to do it. | /r/seduction | 20/05/14 04:57 AM |
| 1 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than Oncehas been on my reading list for some time. thanks for the input, lots of good information here. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 08:02 PM |
| 1 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than Oncemy heart and soul agrees with you but my brain is trying to find a compromise. Honesty and truth comes with a cost. People in our world aren't ready to hear such honesty. They become offended. They will see you as a monster of sorts because what you have to say disagrees with everything they've been taught and raised with. with that being said, we do need to speak up if we want to see change. either in men's rights or in your own respective life. BUT, we have to choose carefully when and where w… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 07:34 AM |
| 12 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than Oncethat's eye opening to say that betas are the ones who argue. makes sense. that means a true alpha chooses wisely when he opens his mouth and deliberates on what exactly comes out. it wasn't my change of behavior that got me into trouble. it was my brutal honesty and bluntness. asking inappropriate questions and challenging people's thoughts/behaviors/opinions. Which I now realize provides me no benefit. it doesn't give me more power, more sex, more money. it just pisses people off. stupid huh? I… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 07:25 AM |
| 1 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than Onceprobably the scariest thought I had during my struggle was the idea that I didn't need anyone. I was willing to let the friends or people in my life turn their back on me. I thought I was being my true self and that if they didn't accept me, I was better off. I can't believe that was me. to somehow think I could go through this life without friends and companionship. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 07:18 AM |
| 5 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than Onceyeah you can really destroy some relationships by getting to deep into the philosophy and theory aspects of masculinity and the manosphere. I'm lucky enough to have caught myself before burning any bridges. I think the dark triad (narcissism, psychopathy, machiavellinism) are bit extreme for a normal bloke like me. I'm not a conqueror or a politician and I'm not one to climb corporate ladders and throw others under the bus. I think it's more reasonable for most of us to utilize a less radical tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 07:11 AM |
| 3 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than Oncedefinitely on the money. i have to stay neutral or make it lighthearted, I've definitely seen positive reactions from men and women when I keep a humorous demeanor. and yes women may take many red pill ideas the wrong way | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 06:59 AM |
| 0 | My Mouth has Gotten me into Trouble more than Oncecorrect, most likely in trying to be alpha I became a wreck. i've a better idea of how I should carry myself now. and if you weren't aware of psychopathy, it's one of the three dark triads. they're pretty interesting and is often a topic of discussion in masculinity | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/14 06:57 AM |
| 0 | Where To Start If You’re Lost With Women, Part 7: Where To Meet Women & How To Talk To Themgood post. realistic advice without getting too carried away with PUA tactics. | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How to Apply The 48 Laws of Power (Become More Effective in Your Manipulations)true. if it's an acquaintance, a friend that you're not that close with, perhaps you'd be more inclined to use him for your own gain. but if you're not masterful in the execution, you can hurt your reputation and become the guy nobody trusts. so i reiterate my point, do what is necessary for what you need and justifiably deserve. sure you can utilize machiavellian tactics and become so engrossed in them that it's second nature. you can treat people as vessels for getting to your end goal. or you… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How to Apply The 48 Laws of Power (Become More Effective in Your Manipulations)nah, there's no morality when it comes to the things you need and the things you want. i'd like to think I preach principle. your principles are your own. they may not look like mine. a man should have his own unique set of principles. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What to do if I don't drink/smoke?you're overthinking it. you can replace smoke weed with anything. drinking coffee. watching a movie. working on a puzzle. playing a game. the activity is just a piece of plausible deniability to gets them to your house without feeling like a total slut. now if you were to say "come over to my house and we'll have a fuck fest." that wouldn't work most of the time because it's too overt. all you need is a reason to get them over. if they like you or are attracted to you, they'll come over almost a… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/14 06:32 AM |
| 8 | How to Apply The 48 Laws of Power (Become More Effective in Your Manipulations)i think it's interesting to remember that Machiavelli, himself, was never a ruler or a conqueror. he was never in a position of high power. he simply observed the siege, conquering, capture, recapture, loss, disintegration of various kingdoms, states, and cities and wrote a manuscript on what an ideal prince should do to avoid the mistakes of the past. these tactics, in my opinion, should only be used if absolutely necessary. you have to stand to gain something significant and that gain should b… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/14 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Emotional Intimacythe desire for emotional intimacy is natural. obviously it sounds like you want a partner and not a fuck-buddy. but if you've done some reading whether through the sidebar or through other manosphere works, you'd understand that a man controls his emotions, not the other way around. this longing for emotional attachment can make you needy. and when you're needy, you are extremely unattractive to women. furthermore, the more you give into idealistic concepts of emotional intimacy and love, the mo… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/14 05:55 AM |
| 1 | What to do if I don't drink/smoke?you can go to a desert bar in the city. you don't even need to order alcohol, just share a nice dessert with the girl. it's cheaper than dinner and it's not a whole meal so you guys can head out after and stroll around the town, maybe pick up a cup of coffee and check out the scenery and the shops nearby. works well if it's a spot you're very familiar with. honestly though, you can make anything a date idea. invite her over and cook for her. invite her over for a movie. go out with ice cream. yo… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/14 05:04 AM |
| 6 | Study: "Happy guys finish last". Women find happy guys significantly less sexually attractive than swaggering or brooding menLemme break it down for you. the unattractive kind of happy: This is the guy who is ALWAYS smiling and saying HI! to people after waiving their hands in the air and then giving people unnecessary high fives. His level of energy is discordant to any normal day conversation or interaction. he has no other spectrum of emotion other than hysterically happy. he agrees with everyone and he is complacent with the occurrences in his life, whether they be good or bad. "Gee, it's all right! I'm happy to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Take a look at the Bigger Picture Folks.how so? just to reiterate, I'm not bashing seduction and game. i think they work. i simply believe there's more to it than just that. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Guys in a LTR/married: does "dating down" have its benefits?I'll reiterate what everyone else is saying. At first she'll be dating up and you'll be dating down. but it may come to a point where she'll consider the value or herself and you as equal. what was a catch before is now just her status quo. with that being said, you're not doing yourself any favors by dating down. dating down is a reflection of your insecurity of your fear that you're inadequate. everyone has those fears but you can't let that fear become an obstacle to what you truly truly want… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/14 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Was she kino escalating!?:) :) :) | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Was she kino escalating!?haha, I can't help but smile a little when I read this. you're money and you don't even know it. you got like the whole package. all you need is some game, both inner and outer. ASSUME ATTRACTION. whenever you get an interaction or a sign like that from a female, assume attraction! assume that she's into you. who the heck grazes and touches your hand while reaching for a graphic novel? I started with some noob reading material and it worked wonders. here's what i read: Double your dating by Davi… | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 01:56 AM |
| 6 | Knowing girls SMV and your own SMVget muscles. get red pill. get fashion advice. get hair done nice. get money. get lots of friends. get talking. get flirtatious. get sexual. get a woman. get several women. get a rotation of women. let's be frank, in most cases appearance dominates attraction. if you're ugly or lacking in that department, then you have to put in a large amount of effort into your other categories. don't just work out, lift to get big and ripped. don't just dress nicer, look at fashion advice and latest trends an… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/14 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Discussion of Fashionloving the discussion here guys, great input. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Discussion of Fashionthat sounds like it would look really slick. i wear a lot of fitted express shirts and slacks when i work. they are super stylish but I want to somehow translate that look to a more casual setting. you got any suggestions for a casual blazer/suit jacket that I can wear with a t-shirt and dark jeans? always wanted to do that look but thought it'd come off pretentious. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Discussion of Fashionred wing boots huh? I keep hearing you guys talk about these. they look pretty fresh, I'll have to go cop a pair | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Dry Spell plus High Libido, the bane of my existencehorny as fuck my friend. need some hole. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Dry Spell plus High Libido, the bane of my existenceha! getting laid regularly means you can ease off wanking. but thats just me. being horny and delaying masturbating is a good motivation for me as suggested by Mark Manson's Models. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Research overwhelmingly concludes that humor is one of the biggest components of attraction. How do I make myself funnier?I've been using these on girls lately, my material changes frequently. If i see one of my female friends chomping down something delicious, I'll just straight out say, "Wow, didn't you just eat like 15 minutes ago, PIG." Works great for skinny/normal shaped girls. (I DGAF about weight jokes, I think they can be funny if you frame it right). A girl will say gosh all this work is making me fat. I'll say, "It sure is, i can definitely tell." these crack me up | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Several things that might be Holding you backnice list. I think I hit most of them. but currently in a dry spell (~4 months). getting turned down by the numbers I get, women at bars, and many approaches that go nowhere. can't control my high libido at this point and have been masturbating more frequently (3 times a week about). give me some motivation, some fire. words of wisdom too. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 07:20 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Meet HB9 at the beach. Date a few days later with f-close.good point. and the question that begs to be asked is, "does anyone truly need seddit?" is seddit simply a primer, a launching pad for a man to become reacquainted with his true nature? if one goes out and reads Mystery, Models, and Double your Dating and then lands two chicks in one night, should the credit be given to PUA literature or to the PUA himself? lets not forget how capable we are. good job OP, well done. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Research overwhelmingly concludes that humor is one of the biggest components of attraction. How do I make myself funnier?agreed. making fun of other people should be done in a light-hearted manner. the intention should be to make everyone laugh and enjoy themselves not to offend or to belittle. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Research overwhelmingly concludes that humor is one of the biggest components of attraction. How do I make myself funnier?stop looking at research...this isn't some scientific formula to get women. it's an ART. art of seduction. to answer your question: agree and amplify - when someone says something negative about you, agree and take it to the next level in a over-the-top, comical way. say things simply for shock value that you find funny. people will be surprised you said such a thing and they'll inevitably laugh. make fun of people dont fish for reactions when you say something funny. say it loud and proud, and … | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Short conversation with my dadcowboy up brother. your BP nature can be explained by numerous things. perhaps you were raised predominantly by your mother, you've spent too much time watching TV and romantic comedies/dramas, you were molded by the media, you took advice from girls about how to get girls way too seriously, you're shy and have low self esteem, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 08:34 AM |
| 2 | After you've constructed a fulfilling life for yourself, and have attained a confident, comfortable mindset, here are some concepts that I've learned through trial and error over the years.i love viewing my life in a third-person as well. it really takes the mental inhibitions away. like you're watching something entertaining | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 06:11 AM |
| -1 | How I got out of a 5 year friend-zonei like your story. sounds like you did a lot of self improvement and made yourself and overall attractive male. for the future try not to make a girl/girls your life. be proactive in excelling at things other than women. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Epiphany I had while travelling in Chinaawesome. they probably didn't understand a word you said. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 07:03 AM |
| 34 | Girl cheats on fiancee because of "wedding planning stress"yep you should know better to never listen to a woman's words but to judge her by her actions. hamsters will go through a laundry list of excuses (weak men will too actually). the proper response here would be for the guy to go have some downright kinky sex with strange women, photograph the acts and then show his woman the pictures after dangling a fat diamond ring in front of her face that will never end up on her finger now that she has cheated. [just kidding, but really this woman needs to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 02:43 AM |
| 121 | McAlphaDick pulls my girl so I respond by pulling another one. She comes back like nothing happened.dont fight for her. she is really just another plate, unremarkable, replaceable. apply the dread game if needed. in due time, everything you do will convey to women that they need you more than you need them. this gives you power. we can't control everything. we can't control if a super star wide receiver comes in and dances with your girl. he's more physically attractive than you and probably has a lot more money than you. but he may never know the things you know. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with her Ex with higher Status & Money you?master the concepts of this sub and the read the required readings. your potential for improving your Frame, your Body(fitness), and your status (career) are boundless. consider them a work in progress. continue to become better and do not compare yourself with others. besides, she's getting the D from you, not her ex. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/14 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I can't convince myself that it's ok to talk to strange womenIn the hit series True Detective, matthew mcconaughey says the biggest mistake that the human race ever made was that of consciousness. you're fucking inhibited by your own mind. you're constructing boundaries and restricting yourself. understand that it's not real. fear is not real. social rules are arbitrary and social skills are relative. there's no right or wrong way to be a person and there's no right or wrong way to fucking talk to or approach someone. furthermore, a helpful exercise to do… | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 06:05 AM |
| 2 | I swallowed the RP. Should I restart and choose a different major and try to be a top student?be aware that a lazy fuckup is a lazy fuckup regardless of whether he's majoring in CS, biology, music, or literature. so don't be a lazy fuckup and don't expect a change in major to steer your life for the better. take some time to look at your major and the possible career paths. can you see yourself doing any of them and being content? do they pay well? is the job satisfaction high? would these career paths compromise your life in a negative way? would these careers make you totally miserable… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/14 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Recommended books?Ghengis Khan biography? Alexander the great biography. Caesar (choose one) biography. Napoleon biography. The prince by Machiavelli. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/14 04:54 PM |
| 11 | My buddy's hypergamous girlfriendfrom the picture of the text message and the way you're describing the woman, I think "hypergamous" is the wrong word. Hypergamous refers to the desire of women to marry men better than themselves. In your friend's case, his girlfriend is really just using him for his money and car (treating him as a beta provider). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Non stop shit tests from GF?there's a few ways to deal with these so called shit tests. ignore her until a later time don't take them seriously and throw witty one-liners at her say "my friends are more important because they were there for me before I met you and will be there for me after I leave you" let her know how selfish and controlling she sounds | /r/askTRP | 28/03/14 08:42 PM |
| 1 | You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do?Relax and try not to let it be a big deal. Put your arm around her waist while you both converse with the dude. be an active participator in the conversation even if you don't want to. do not try to monopolize the conversation or compete for the girl's attention. at some point when you've had a short little conversation, say "it was nice meetin you man, excuse us for a second." and tell the girl to come with you to get refreshments. you'll probably not run into the dude again. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 08:37 PM |
| 7 | Even my mom thinks I'm an ass to girls. How do I change?Please please please please do not ever emulate things you see on television, movies, or anything the media tries to sell you. Do not get sucked into works of fiction (chick flicks, dramas, romances, novels, etc), these are not real and don't accurately reflect real life. you should never take advice from your mother about women. Never. the thing about the media and your mother is that they'll both teach you to be a well-mannered, polite, suppressed, passive, naive, girly-man. your charisma, cha… | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 09:50 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Ice Skating First Date, K-Closejust a reminder to all of my fellow PUAs, there will be a lot of women that you will not close no matter how tight your game is. pick up does not teach us to master the seduction of every single woman on earth, which is impossible. Pick up teaches us how to capitalize on as many opportunities as we can. oh and try not to overlook the fact that some women just flat out dig you. | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 07:02 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Ice Skating First Date, K-Closeloved the micro-escalation explanation. i think the main thing to remember is that it should be gradual. I like to compare it to a wave. At first it's just a small swell out in the distance. but as it gathers more momentum with the help of some nice offshore winds, the wave grows and compounds until it reaches a peak at which point a fuck-ton of collected water crashes thunderously at the shoreline. but one thing I'd suggest is to try not to analyze or think too much. we can sit here and theoriz… | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 06:56 AM |
| 24 | Things I wish I knew years agoPUA is a useful tool for socially inhibited folks, but it is pathetic at a certain point. I'll have to agree and disagree at the same time. I think after you've internalized all the PUA information and applied it in a real-world setting, you end up simplifying everything. This stuff really isn't that hard but at the same time I feel some of the veteran PUA stars have things to offer you that no one else can just due to sheer experience and years spent doing this. with that I'll leave you guys wi… | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Field Report Feedbackbe careful following Mystery Method too strictly. I feel like mystery has a lot of important foundations that every PUA should understand but the way he lays out his schematics and plans are often way too detailed and over-complicates things. quite simply, OP just needed to escalate harder. i agree with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Field Report Feedback"i have a boyfriend" never stops me. and if you cant f-close, get a number. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | A reminder: Tinder is a waste of your time.those kind of results sound awesome. don't know how you do it. online apps and dating sites have always yielded shitty results for me | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 02:28 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14I agree with most of what you said. But I dont think you should ever verbalize your interest or that you like her. Let her wonder and guess. use her imagination to your advantage | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 06:49 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14Avoid gaming girls from work if you're worried. Pick a rotation of bars and hit many up. If ur going at night when its crowded, no one will remember you. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 06:44 PM |
| -1 | [Mod] They're talking about us again... and we don't care.... quick guidelines.Had the same thing happen to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 06:35 PM |
| 1 | [Mod] They're talking about us again... and we don't care.... quick guidelines.Is our sub in danger of being banned at all? there are plenty of outside manosphere resources but it would suck | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Honesty in Plate SpinningFrom all the responses here, I think establishing early on that you're not looking for commitment or any sort of relationship is the best method. It's honest and if anyone ever accuses you of leading her on or being manipulative, you can argue that you were very clear and communicated what you wanted and did not want. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/14 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Honesty in Plate SpinningIt's undeniable, however, that a man's status/resources are part of what attracted these plates in the first place. If it is clear as day to the female that you have no intention of offering her any of these securities, what good are you to her? but yes you make a good point. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/14 04:54 AM |
| 7 | Treating Women Like Children"There, there honey." *Hug her. Daddy's gotta run some errands but if you tag along, maybe we'll pick you up an ice cream. girl: "OooOOk," in the highest most girly voice. stuff like this works more than you think when she's having a shit day. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Social Circle Pickup vs Bar/Public Pickupi really liked that video. what youtube channels are your favorite source of pick up videos? | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 06:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Waitress Number Closeanyone else have opinions on this matter? kino the waitress or keep it to a minimum?? I feel like our fear to touch the waitress is based off of social convention, things that hold us back. Obviously if she shows any sign of disinterest in your touching, you can back off but I still think you can add some light touching. | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Grinding - little tricks to make a girl *irresistibly* attracted to you?love it. this deserves its own category, "kino dancing." what do you recommend for someone who doesn't dance a whole lot? is it more of a gyrating movement, a side-to-side movement, or a thrust movement (probably not this one lol). educate me with the basics of grinding | /r/seduction | 26/02/14 08:01 AM |
| 1 | You wanna get laid? Then put your balls on the table right nowsweet idea. does a number close count? | /r/seduction | 26/02/14 07:47 AM |
| 42 | You wanna get laid? Then put your balls on the table right nowgo up to a girl without earrings next time and say "Nice earrings." She'll say "um...I'm not wearing any" Then say "I know. it's the only pick up line I know...my name is so-and-so by the way." | /r/seduction | 26/02/14 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Taking the First Step... When it doesn't feel necessarydo what you're doing but next time nonchalantly open conversations with several different girls in one night. don't expect anything out of it and take it merely as practice. sooo yes you have to talk. | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 08:39 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/24/14I have a huge hesitancy to hit up the bars alone. My reasons are usually 1. I need a wingman to open groups, 2. lonely guys appear needy, 3. running into someone I know will lower my value as normal people don't go out alone. But of course, I shouldn't worry about all that and just go out there. Any soloing tips or mindsets? Specific types of places to hit up while solo? | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 08:32 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/24/14lemme add my take on this. I'm assuming you're reading up on you seduction techniques and pick up literature. What I like to do is to create a situation in which I just happen to be where the girl is and my "open" is simply logistical or relevant to the setting. I start small and progress gradually but quickly. I'd do it like this: boy: do you know if class A is meeting on friday? girl: *response boy: Ah I see. I'm billytalent by the way girl: I'm *name, nice to meet you *shake hands Now that yo… | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 08:26 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/24/14A relaxed bar environment, preferably with a few games to play. Have some drinks then invite her back to your place for a movie or a downloaded tv show. drink more, escalate. boom | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 08:11 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/24/14it depends how strict your work/job is about those sort of things. you may not want to spit 100% of your best game at work. often times I've found the work environment is a great place to start conversation with your co-workers or other people in the building. Conversation and joking around are always welcome in the work environment if you ask me. and then slowly you can sneak in some playful negs and light kino and I'm sure you'll have their numbers anyways for logistical reasons (picking up sh… | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 08:09 AM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/24/14I feel ya, going out solo feels strange to me too. "just grabbing a few drinks before I meet up with my friend." may be a good line. but in the end you need not explain yourself to other people | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Post-RPI wouldn't worry too much about shit tests. Whenever I run into anything that seems like a shit test I either give an answer that amuses myself or pull a little hoop theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/14 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Social Circle Pickup vs Bar/Public Pickupyeah I feel like some nights on the bars, the sets Run Dry really quickly as their friends grab them or they have to go back to their friends. and then there's the issue of finding a wing man who's available for the weekend. day game has been promising as the girls don't have their friends protect them and they are usually more receptive | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Social Circle Pickup vs Bar/Public Pickuptrue for most people. I'm required to network in my field and meet other colleagues. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Social Circle Pickup vs Bar/Public PickupIm in graduate studies so college more or less continued for me. I think taking classes are a great way to meet people: dance, yoga, Crossfit. Find something to do outside of work that is filled with women | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Social Circle Pickup vs Bar/Public PickupAre you ever reluctant to go out alone? For some reason I always need to call a friend to go out with me. Does it come off try hard if u hang ouy at bars alone? | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl with boyfriend, help wanted.here's a fun experiment. the next time you're out on a date, just pretend that she'd be down for anything. go in for the damn kiss, put your arms around her, make-out, and then proceed to the bedroom. not only are you demonstrating your ability to act and be bold but you're being true to yourself and going after what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Tell us about your successful first dates!I see so many OKCupid, Tinder, and other online dating posts. Does anyone else feel like online dating is a cop-out? I appreciate that there is a whole set of gaming techniques dedicated just to online dating but isn't it a shortcut? You're not putting your neck out there and risking rejection during cold approaches; you're just setting up a profile and sending messages. I can see the benefits of learning from the many dates set up through online dating but I just don't think it should be the pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Tell us about your successful first dates!ha you got a signature move. is it usually a cheek kiss then or do you manually tilt her head with your hands? seems like a random time to kiss her. but i like it | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Tell us about your successful first dates!sounds like a pick-up honeymoon phase. I also started out with David Deangelo and Doc Lov (the system), freaking worked wonders for me. Doc Lov reminds me of TRP sometimes. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/14 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Meeting girls was too easy in Europe. Now I have AA.Interesting topic you bring up. I do know that women who are traveling are more likely to be sexually open and more adventurous. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Getting the dates, but nothing further...If theyre on a date with you, just assume shes down for anything. Just go for it. Pretend like shes alrdy ur gf. Escalate, escalate, and empty your mind of all inhibitions and consequences. | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] SpikePUA College FRs - Entry 1 "First day 2 since ex" 12/9/12Your writing is atrocious. Next time, remove the haha's and idk's and try to structure your post in a way that makes someone actually want to read it. With that being said, I have a few simple points that you should keep in mind. Continue practicing at a high volume. It's the only way to improve. Learn to open better. Asking a random group of women if you can eat with them without a proper "Open" is not smooth. Develop conversation skills. Not only do these skills apply to every other part of yo… | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 08:23 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Great approach, but lost interest over the following week. What can I learn from this?Ha, you passed her a note. What better way of telegraphing your interest and your emotional investment than fucking plainly writing it out on a piece of paper and handing it to her. Go learn how to open and then from there you can work on conversational skills, escalation, humor, flirting/negging, etc. But your most powerful tool, right now, is NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT! | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Hey! Let me tell you what will happen if you wait too longThis game still requires you to take the necessary risks. You can only read and learn so much. You have to put your neck out and risk rejection. Annnd rejection is probably the least concerning thing as it happens all the time. Be thankful you can work on your game and improve day by day and that you're not crippled, blind, deaf, facially mutilated, a midget, or a siamese twin. :) | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 07:57 AM |
| 4 | The illusion of romantic loveYou know what is ironic? This is exactly what women used to say about men before the age of feminism. Feminism speaks out against "objectifying" women and the dominating nature of men. But in reality what woman doesn't get wet off a guy who takes charge in a relationship, leads her, tells her what to do, and fucks her in the most savage way possible whenever he feels like it without asking for permission. Hell, I say take us back to pre women's rights. I fucking bet you, the women were happy to … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 07:43 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else come from a female only household?In my honest opinion, mothers, as awesome and nurturing as they are, have a huge tendency to hold you back. They raise us to be polite, well-mannered, caring, non-confrontational, honest towards women, non-sexual, passive, and conventional. As true as TRP is, women hate to hear it and will never admit that these tactics work on them. Mothers will never be able to give one lick of good advice to their sons. Motherly love, that type of unconditional encompassing love, is what betas look for in wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 07:18 AM |
| 3 | What is it with girls who are attracted to posers?have you considered that these posers are actual alphas and what you're feeling is envy and bitterness? don't be angry and tone down that ego a notch. Make yourself more TRP and do not focus on outcomes or closes. And don't live your life measuring yourself up to other people, those who do are truly miserable. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/14 06:59 AM |
| -1 | Okay, TRP, Someone messaged me to post here. Help?no answer for you. please read the sidebar content and and absorb what everyone else is saying in other posts. comment and be active. soon you'll see how minute this one girl is and you'll enter the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/14 06:39 AM |
| 2 | The moment I swallowed TRP, and understood that men and women love differently (a full year before I found the manosphere or heard of Reddit); AKA The Tale of Fatty and Omega...awesome post. always establish yourself as the one with higher value. after all, she's merely a passenger in your outrageously interesting and meaningful life. Instead of treating her like some sort of queen and giving her everything (approval, affection, time, etc), you should set boundaries for yourself and place expectations on your women. If some gal is going to be your girlfriend or wife, shouldn't they be held accountable? Bitchy behavior or unreasonable demands should be met with criticis… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm good friends with wants it..set a date to grab a drink at night. get to the bar have a few drinks, tell her you're going to show her your favorite youtube/reddit memes/videos at your place when you get tired of the bar. When you guys are chilling at your place, put your arm around her and slowly escalate to making out. then fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/14 03:19 AM |
| 3 | I am a 24yo virgin male who got red pilled a year ago. I've lost all interest in women, do i just have a case of sour grapes?Hey man, you only live once. You owe it to yourself to start changing things. Change EVERYTHING. Women are not your only problem in life. It sounds like you suffer from social anxiety and an utter lack of drive and ambition. I don't call that living my friend. You're slowly dying and wasting your life. Work on finding a profession/job/activity that occupies a lot of your time that you feel passionate or compelled to do. Is it writing, art, music, science, working with children, etc.? Change your… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/14 09:07 PM |
| 41 | “I’ve been hurt in the past.”That's the problem right there. You think leaving a woman is a bluff. You think this is a game of poker and you're trying to get women to fold and if they don't fold, you lose your pot. No it's not a bluff. You're literally prepared to leave and break contact with them at any point in the relationship. And that's the way it should be, you owe it yourself to seek out the best opportunities and positions that make you happy. Being with a woman who is telling you bullshit and not giving you sex is … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 08:38 PM |
| 104 | “I’ve been hurt in the past.”Yeep ignore what she is saying to you. She doesn't actually love you more and she is not as attracted to you as the other guys she's laid. You're nice, polite, sensitive, letting her dominate the relationship and calling the shots, and you're not going for what you really want (ass). You give off an aura of neediness and emotional attachment. This problem never should happen in the first place if you took the correct steps in escalating and being a man. Some helpful tips for anyone who doesn't e… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Get angry.I've been in your place and fall victim to anger periodically. What I've found though is that anger becomes acceptance and acceptance becomes clarity. I think you did a great thing for yourself approaching that group. It not only exemplifies your confidence but also demonstrates your social skills. Your roommate should not be undermining your efforts. I'm glad you stood up for what you believe in and expressed yourself. Now here's what I see wrong. You can stand up for yourself and debate but yo… | /r/seduction | 17/02/14 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Waking upYep, you are awesome on paper and you're a man in uniform, that's a plus plus plus. I'm going to assume your body language, your physical stature, and your confidence talking to people are all adequate. My guess is that you're falling into the boring polite guy category. Flirting Engaging Escalation Humor Something is lacking in one of the above categories or in all categories. You can't expect the success you've enjoyed in your career and finances to be enough to attract and a keep women around… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/14 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Women do not give a shit about your problems!I agree with 95% of what you said. I do believe being very emotional and filling your conversations with SOB stories is no way to command the attraction and respect of a woman. The woman should be the one venting to you and all you have to do is go "Come here baby, there there." However, I believe a small ounce (quite small) of vulnerability on the man's part goes a long way sometimes. If every now and then, you share something deep and very personal about yourself, I believe that establishes em… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 07:39 PM |
| -8 | To Liberate yourself is the only way to Play this Game.how about you change your disney tone of voice and try to understand what I'm actually getting at here. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 09:44 PM |
| -6 | To Liberate yourself is the only way to Play this Game.What's wrong with being selfish? Why does idea of "selfish" carry such negative connotations. I am selfish because I love and respect myself and I'd like to improve my quality of life. Being selfish is healthy. Treating others how you expect to be treated is a fairy tale. You can't expect anything from anyone. The only expectations you can make are those of yourself. Those expectations create accountability and a strong sense of who you are. | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 09:42 PM |
| -11 | To Liberate yourself is the only way to Play this Game.how far has being nice got you in life? | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Short, baby face and skinny, how do I gain confidence and reply to comments about it?Young man, I know exactly where you're coming from. From one asian brother to another, let me drive home a few points home that may help you. A young-looking face is not a deal-breaker nor should you perceive it as a weakness. Your anxiety and insecurities are all in your head. Wash out those negative thoughts and pay less attention to those unimportant details. It's more important to focus on how you carry yourself. Skinny is not bad thing. At least you're not overweight. Hit the gym or do some… | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Any of you guys want to get close to girls and have regular casual sex but hate the culture around pickup and game?You obviously sound like you've studied the game and have had success with it. Maybe at this point in your life the game is no longer bars/clubs/lounges or day pickups. Perhaps the game for you should be attending journal clubs, seminars, talks, conventions, meetings, and other intellectual gatherings in which you can not only meet women but also expand your social circle in general. I also spend most of my time in an academic setting and I see so many opportunities to network and to meet new wo… | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Any of you guys want to get close to girls and have regular casual sex but hate the culture around pickup and game?It sounds like this breakup was taxing both emotionally and mentally for you. You sound disillusioned, hopeless, and frustrated. Here are my responses to your concerns about the PUA community. PUA materials do not force you to become one specific mold of a person. You shouldn't feel like you're putting on a performance or acting. There are many different coaches and figures in this community with varying styles. You learn and practice PUA skills but you have to eventually make them your own. Soc… | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 08:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The strategies here work, but how do I get over ex nice guy guilt?Let me put this in perspective for you. You had a girl who was very interested and attracted to you She touched you. She kissed you and went home with you. She got comfy on your bed and basically asked you to have sex with her, just without saying it. Not only did you not get laid but you also disappointed her. You didn't close because you're afraid to take what you want. You're obviously attracted to this girl and you knew she wanted it as well. I don't know what you think a man is but it sure … | /r/seduction | 29/01/14 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you get girls to introduce you to other girls?A. you don't need your friend to introduce you. you can introduce you. your mutual friend will be a nice take-off point for conversation B. when you offer value to a friend/acquaintance, they're more likely to invite you out to meet their other friends. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 09:09 PM |
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