I wanted to hear some opinions and input on a particular matter. The art of seduction like many other endeavors requires practice and focus. Anyone with some experience will tell you that they've had the best success when they weren't concerned with the outcome and just enjoyed themselves.

So how do you strike a balance between practice/grinding/going out often and really being outcome-independent and self secure. Does it seem try-hard if I approach 20 girls every weekend? Am I being outcome-dependent if I have a goal number of how many numbers, closes I want to get.

I am a firm believer on practicing, setting goals, and progressing in the field, but are these things holding me back in an inner-game sense. Is caring too much about pick-up the exact thing inner-game teaches us not to do? Doozy of a question, I know. Let me know what you think!