FireflyGurl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Harvard article: Stay single if your spouse doesn't support your career. What matters is how well the children are raised not who does the raising. How could who stays home be more important than the child themselves?	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/17 02:24 AM
1	Harvard article: Stay single if your spouse doesn't support your career. Let's not argue with semantics. Call it her working less if you will. Some women have career goals and child goals. Some only have one or the other. Again it's good you discussed it before marriage. Either way I believe responsibilities should be close to equal. You cannot support each other if it's 70/30. Things will fall apart.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/17 02:22 AM
1	Harvard article: Stay single if your spouse doesn't support your career. I responded to the points you made in your comment. How is that not a discussion? I see, you go on the attack when you feel threatened.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/17 02:03 AM
1	Harvard article: Stay single if your spouse doesn't support your career. People are good at different things. You cannot say there are no good fathers or no bad mothers. Husband and wife should be close to equal in the amount of responsibilities. Do you clean while she gives the kids a bath? Does she cook while you watch the kids? Her time is just as important as yours. I wouldn't want a spouse who thinks he can do less because of the amount he makes. Say you two work the same amount of hours but you get paid more. Your spouse would not be afforded the same amount le…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/17 01:40 AM
3	FR - Random Interaction I shot myself in the foot on. Show up next week. If you were on her mind she'll be there.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/17 11:25 PM
1	Recently Got Back Together With My "Oneitis" You handled it better when you refused to talk about what happened when you were broken up. She should have done the same and refused to talk about it. Has she lied about anything else? Have you guys talked about why you broke up in the first place? It got stale is the real reason?	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 10:18 PM
1	Sending that initial message and getting her number? Plain and simple. Get a convo going. Ask her on a date in the second convo. You have time.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 10:06 PM
1	Should I stop gaming as a teenager forever? I agree with the others. Time management. Make yourself a schedule. Maybe you can still fit some gaming in there.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 10:03 PM
2	Harvard article: Stay single if your spouse doesn't support your career. What part don't you agree with?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 10:01 PM
1	A girl texted me that I left my singlet at hers wondering when I can come pick it up. Is this an IOI or am I over-analyzing this way too much? Awww did I hurt you?	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:54 PM
4	What’s your opinion on slicked back hair Depends on the face.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:51 PM
1	Wtf is wrong with me? Don't make any moves, two months is not enough time when a loved one is killed. Just be friendly and joke around. That way she will have good feelings around you. Just pal around at work, build up those good feelings. Do not hang out socially and fuck things up. You wrote that you won't be there long so get her number then when you are close to leaving the company. Persue her then.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:51 PM
2	What do do in this situation? What do you mean she looked awkward? Barring that I think you should have approached her again. It could have gone well or she could have excused herself quickly, either way I don't think it would have turned into a scene.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:45 PM
-1	Got a first date coming up, want to see what you guys think of my plan. Well then don't expect sex.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:39 PM
2	Got a first date coming up, want to see what you guys think of my plan. Coffee good. Walk good. Forget the Airbnb. If she wants to have sex she will invite you over her place and put moves on you. Has the conversations with her included talking about sex? Has she mentioned what she is looking for, casual or a boyfriend?	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:36 PM
1	Do you agree that one never reaches the top of mountin? I agree with the get therapy part for the man and the woman. You need to get over the hurt and she needs to deal with why she did it.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:31 PM
1	Should I ghost this girl for a week who flaked yesterday? Did she apologize? If not leave her alone. No ghosting just move on. Make plans for a date. If she flakes move on. There are other women out there.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:26 PM
1	Why would a woman kiss with you and let you touch all her body but stop you when you try to touch her vagina? If she says No and you then escalate like you are wearing earplugs it then turns into sexual assault. She didn't want to go that far that night. It doesn't matter why. There is no one single reason for that situation. Be happy you got that far. If I was in a guys bed and said no and then he sent me home I would not be seeing him again. Guys should have some patience.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 09:21 PM
1	askTRP Megathread October 25 Personally I feel closer to a guy when he shares his feelings with me. If you can't be completely open with your partner than you are with the wrong partner.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/17 08:54 PM
1	askTRP Megathread October 25 I dated a guy who was a virgin. I didn't think less of him or get turned off when he told me. He just said something like " I haven't gone all the way before" Do not say something about it being uncomfortable. Mentioning it will put that thought into her head. I suggest having sex for the first time with someone who is a girlfriend or who you have fooled around with a bunch of times already. It will be more comfortable that way.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/17 08:47 PM
3	Previously promiscuous girl doesn't want sex since we got together A woman can change her ways for herself not to get something. Sounds like you can't handle the lack of sex OP. With her saying she wants the guy she has sex with next to be her last guy ever, are you ready to get married? Would you even be willing to marry before you even know if you are compatible in bed? I think you need to let this woman go. A woman can be strong-willed in her beliefs no matter what type of guy she is with. Do not blame yourself.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 08:38 PM
1	Harvard article: Stay single if your spouse doesn't support your career. I agree that you should talk about child rearing before you get married. You should also talk about what is expected from each other in the relationship. A woman who has to lower her career goals to help with children because her husband isn't helping equally, probably has a husband that didn't help equally with other things in the first place.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 08:27 PM
-2	A girl texted me that I left my singlet at hers wondering when I can come pick it up. Is this an IOI or am I over-analyzing this way too much? LOL what a bunch of sad saps. All it takes is an invite over to her house and all thoughts go to, she wants it. Go over, on time and pay attention to her lead. Ask her if she had fun that night, talk about mutual friends and if she is flirty ask her out on a date. Maybe she will lead you to the bedroom, maybe not, but to walk in there with the mindset of, she wants the D, is not helping you any.	/r/askTRP	29/10/17 08:14 PM