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| 19 | Successfully ran The Mystery Method last nightThis. For as much as a game stan I am I got to the same conclusion that whenever game “works” is because you hit on a chick that liked you and there were good logistics to pull. I am still a huge promoter of studying game for guys who still struggle with girls because it really gives good insight on how an attractive man acts in life and approaches dating and it really gives newbies that little boost of confidence in their new techniques, effectively serving as clutches for those who might need … | /r/seduction | 02/08/26 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Guys who don’t care about rejection what is your mindset?If we are talking about a rejection on a night out, you will find me talking with another girl before I can even fucking process the first rejection. It’s really about putting things in perspective: ideally you only want to date girls who are with you enthusiastically so if they “rejected” you they just showed you they don’t qualify for a good sexual relationship (of whatever kind) in the first place | /r/seduction | 30/07/26 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Does cold approach work as an average guy?Yes if: You are willing to face countless rejection (is part of the game) You have good logistics (live in/ close to a big city and can easily get them to your place) You are willing to improve all aspects of your life as well since they will make everything easier (you should be doing this regardless) That’s it, with this 3 you can easily have massive success as an average guy (even below tbf) | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?This. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How often do you work out?Be more consistent and do one big bulking fase to maximise beginner gains | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 07:28 AM |
| 22 | I'm told female nurses and air hostesses are promiscuous. But how do I use this information?I worked as a flight attendant myself, works as well | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How often do you work out?If you never trained before you can expect consistent visible improvement for 6-12 months, after which progress keeps steady but slower. From your comment I assume you’re either skinny or slightly skinny-fat (little muscle with a bit of belly fat) I was like that when starting at 140 lbs 5’10 and it took me about 6 months to have abs a some muscle tone to the point that the girls I was hooking up with made compliments about it | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for a comeback in flirting after 3 years of innactivity and a weird journey?I wish there was a magic pill to cure your approach anxiety but the only method I know that works is: go out and talk to people. You already have experience even though it was in the past, take that as a reference and baby step your way up. Start by getting comfortable at talking to strangers again by doing some chit chat and eventually bring it back to approach women with intent | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 07:32 AM |
| 27 | Between October 2023 and June 2024, I got over 40 numbers and since then I've gotten over 100. Every single one has ghosted me. I'm starting to think there is a problem with ME.Movie or restaurant are usually what an inexperienced guy would propose as a date since it’s what they do in movies lol, it also paragraphs that you might be looking for something serious (whether that’s the case or not, it still sounds like it ) What I suggest you moving forward is to either go for drinks or even better to invite her and her friends to do something with you and your friends so it will be easier to know her better with lower social pressure since it’s a casual hangout rather tha… | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Is the life of promiscuity worth it?I believe you want a period of promiscuity to achieve the abundance mindset of “if I want a new girl I can get one” This gives you the confidence to not tolerate bullshit from a relationship you otherwise would | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Need some tips with college party gameFirst thing be self amused and have fun when you are there, focus on fun above everything else. Talk to everybody there asap and try to get into social flow by not judging how well you’re doing Jump between sets and reopen, eventually you’ll find a girl who is sending IOIs that you like, isolate and escalate | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Im slowly getting over my fear of cold approach but what do you guys usually ask during the approach?It’s mostly about your tonality, body language and overall energy when it comes to vibing. Obviously you can’t talk gibberish but you can talk about the weather, tell her a story that happened to you recently, ask her an opinion about something, create a role play… it doesn’t actually matter the exact subject matter as long as she feels you and wants to see you again You can tell the same story with completely different energy, emotions and delivery so to answer your question this is what’s left… | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Im slowly getting over my fear of cold approach but what do you guys usually ask during the approach?Usually I avoid asking too many questions since that can come off as boring, my advice is too free associate thoughts as they come and to lower the barrier of what’s “good enough” Focus more on the vibe of the conversation and make sure both of you are having a great time, what you say it’s not as important, she’ll remember more how you made her feel than what you told her anyways. Finally don’t worry about “he is hitting on me” type of pressure, it’s normal that there’s tension and it’s a good … | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 01:58 PM |
| 2 | rant about affirmations / you all should watch neville goddardI agree with you but I’d change the wording, rather than “affirmations” (which are you thinking something you want to become real as if it is already true like “I am attractive” “girls are lucky to be with me” “I am a leader”…) I’d say what you are talking about is positive thinking or positive reframing. You want to consciously change your thoughts in a positive way, which includes affirmations but it’s not only limited to those. If you catch yourself thinking “this rejections sucks” you refram… | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 01:51 PM |
| 16 | Going out with a high-value friend and two girls — need tactical adviceThe best advice would be to actually just have fun. Pump yourself up with some music and if you are driving to meet them sing out loud, and I mean LOUD, this way you will already feel less stifled. Once you are with them focus on adding value by being lighthearted and say/do things that make you have fun and feel good. Avoid getting competitive with your friend, he’s your friend after all, and even if he ends up getting all the attention from both the girls (which btw is not going to happen if y… | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I get started?The game is a great introduction to “game” but only in the sense that really shows you what’s possible and gets you motivated to go out and take action Being a novel it’s very diluted and even tho it explains some of the fundamentals it’s still based on old methods and it was published in 2005, nowadays the dating market is in a different place | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Gaming with mediocre looksIt’s pretty common knowledge that in sales you can’t turn a no into a yes, only a maybe can turn into a yes. This is the same when it comes to game. Even tho I heavily rely on game (about 15 lays all from real life no online) I still emphasise that looks matters, think of it as the packaging of a product: it catches the eye and makes people want to know more about it if it’s good while if it’s bad people skip over it. For average/below average guys It’s pretty much mandatory to get in shape and … | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 04:28 PM |
| 16 | Is it possible to date these woman .Think about this logically, the first thing you need is to actually be in environments where they hang out in order to meet them. This means big cities and often exclusive venues. This is more true for celebrities since they don’t really hang out in common people places, I think models are more reachable since they usually keep a lower profile and are just really hot. Online is a straight NO since everybody is already simping on ‘em and their DMs are flooded. Let’s say you have access to the ven… | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 01:49 PM |
| 17 | Is it possible to date these woman .If you want to indeed “date” them and frequent them often then mostly yes, to hook up money won’t help you a bit | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Best place to travel alone?I was about to say Barcelona ahahah but since you are Spanish come to Italy, here girls have a weakness for you Spaniards. Any big city would work out but I suggest Rome for more of a pub/bar scene or Milan for clubs | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 01:37 PM |
| -12 | Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex?Bro that’s litterally what I do hahaha, sometimes we get far enough to fingering, eating pussy and them sucking my dick but “no I don’t have sex the first night” bitch what does it even change at this point😂 | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 12:21 PM |
| 3 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?Just answer honestly , you can also had “I always meet cool people when I’m out so o don’t mind going by myself” by this you show that you are social and outgoing which are always good traits to have | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Who has the most "Game"?Og rsd Julien was a menace | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Why you need game (other than looks)Study, go out, try what you studied, assess your results, reiterate | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Why you need game (other than looks)It means that you have a stronger reality than hers. Let’s say for example that you approach a girl and you appear to be confident and a bit cocky because your frame is “I’m a sex worthy guy and I won’t beg for your approval” At one point it might happen that the girl might try to impose her frame of “ I’m a hot girl and you should beg for my attention” by doing something like telling you “ I bet you say that to every girl” or “you are an asshole” (these are classic shit tests) The guy that fall… | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Why you need game (other than looks)I agree that you have a higher rate if success dating down as a man. This being said watch out for limiting beliefs, I slept with two girls that most guys would consider a 9 by being a 6/7. It might be harder to keep them in the long run due to social conditioning but fucking them is not a problem as long as you have your shit together and you try to do it. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Why you need game (other than looks)I recommend you chess | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 05:45 PM |
| 14 | Why you need game (other than looks)Expressing yourself in a free way, not falling in her frame, being willing to walk away, preselection, command presence, passing shit tests just to name a few… There are many resources online and on this sub to learn this stuff | /r/seduction | 12/06/25 02:01 PM |
| 3 | I want to improve my game and to get laid moreMost girl will openly say that a “playerish” guy is creepy because he is obnoxious but would fuck him at the first chance behind close doors | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 04:47 PM |
| 6 | How to win against physically attractive guysThe way that I have done it (and how it has been done on me too lol) is to just acknowledge the guy (say hello and fist bump first) and them to “zone him out” by making the conversation 1-1 with the girl leaving him outside (also physically). Sometimes you can just take the girl and leave to a different area of the venue, if he follows it shows he’s reactive and needy. The issue with amoging is that it is 100% matter of who has a stronger frame between you and him and if you start getting anxiou… | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys have any morals or boundaries in the Game of Seduction?Exes of my friends are a no no | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Reinventing myselfGet rid of them the advice they give is shit and they don’t seem nice people. Imo you should get clear on what you like and get yourself as your priority for a while. Start going to the gym (this will help you learning how to cook too since diet is an important part of getting in shape), look at your features and see if there is any actor/ musician that you look alike to get inspiration on some clothes and style you can try, indulge in your hobbies and give yourself some goals to work on on a da… | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Bad logistics - how to fixIt depends, if you can afford it ABSOLUTELY move near the paces you hang out at , if not get a car and instead of always trying to pull same night try to set up dates on a different day where is near to your place | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Accountability Group for Intermediate Seducers!You can count me in! I guess I check all the boxes too | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 07:53 AM |
| 0 | How To Get A Wingman If You Have No Friends?I quote this, just chat with some guy who seems fun and propose to meet some girls, most dudes are just waiting for it | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 07:47 AM |
| 1 | From Loser to Fuckboy to Loser Again: how did this happen?Wym? | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | From Loser to Fuckboy to Loser Again: how did this happen?I wanted to use “chode” but I guess most new guys don’t know that term ahahah, i don’t feel like a loser I’m just struggling to get some ahahah | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | From Loser to Fuckboy to Loser Again: how did this happen?I agree but it certainly felt like that | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | From Loser to Fuckboy to Loser Again: how did this happen?The last couple situations I had were indeed a bit painful so there might be truth in this, I guess I have to get back to focus more on myself and my own enjoyment and well being and better girls will come | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 04:56 PM |
| 4 | From Loser to Fuckboy to Loser Again: how did this happen?Thank you man it’s a good reminder💪 | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 04:54 PM |
| 0 | What is the best career for game ?Yes | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 02:18 PM |
| 3 | What is the best career for game ?Yeah man, I liked it. The sacrifices required are to stay away from home a lit and work long hours but everything else is pretty dope. It doesn’t pay a crazy amount but it was my first real job and it worked out fine for me and since you are very young too I guess it will also for you . Also you will get to visit many new places and you have a few benefits depending in the company who you’ll choose so I definitely recommend it 💯 Game wise you will be surrounded by a fuck ton of hot chicks and tr… | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 02:16 PM |
| 7 | What is the best career for game ?I have been a flight attendant and I was pulling more then the pilots themselves lol. It is because I was spending way more time with my colleagues than them so I would say flight attendant is a good one. The money isn’t nearly as good tho so I quit, don’t choose your career based on how much pussy it would get you. | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Barney's playbook?Which one was that? | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 12:04 PM |
| 2 | 20M at a Mansion partyA good opener since you’re all college student can be “ehi what’s your major?” Or something contextual to the party, an opener is just that, a pretext to start a conversation so don’t overthink it. If you want to escalate first thing to remember is to test her interest, start the night by meeting as many girls as possible by having small light conversation and look for the ones who show you more interest (eye contact, body language, asks a question to not let the conversation die etcetera) Once … | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Text game debacleStart by stopping to text her for a week or so and check if she spontaneously hits you back to set up a date. If she doesn’t after that period you might text her again to huge her interest and try to set up a date again and if she declines it means she’s not interested so move on completely. I suggest you to go out and meet new girls while you back off tho because otherwise if she’s the only girl in your mind it will fuck up your frame and you will come across needy because you will be. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | How easy is it to start a rotation and how do you go about starting itI quote the guy that said use all of them but I would add to focus on the method that works best for you. If you have good logistics and get a lot of dates through cold approach/ social circle IRL is always best, but if you get a lot of matches on dating apps and many girls start to follow you on IG maybe online will work best for you. See your rotation as a funnel so if you are starting from zero you need more traffic so doing both online and IRL is a good idea but after you start getting consi… | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Text game debacleG remember: girls always have the right to change their mind at any given time. They do it all the time to everyone, one day they are into you and the day after for whatever reason they can stop wanting to meet you so take it easy. In this situation I’d say don’t stay hung up on her and move on to different prospects, stop replying and probably she will even contact you to reschedule a date when she feels like it | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 06:36 PM |
| 14 | Don’t know what to do with this womanShe’s playing on you. The “I really like this one” is a classic scarcity mentality sign btw, my advice is to cut her off and see more girls. Don’t block her but just take way longer to answer her texts and find excuses to not see her while instilling the doubt that you might be seeing other girls (don’t tell her directly). This way she will see you in a different way and she will either bail out since she can’t play with you anymore or do a 180 and start advancing sexually on you. Either way, mo… | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 02:52 PM |
| 12 | How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?Your uber home baby | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 07:04 PM |
| 6 | The Best (Maybe Only) Way To Have An Abundance Of GirlsI would start by making friend with 1/2 very popular and friendly guys that can introduce you to their network. You can meet them either from your job or if you share a common interest and frequent the same places. After you know enough people you and your friends can start to organise private parties where everyone invites a few girls and there you are, warm leads coming your way | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 12:46 PM |
| 2 | how to seduce hot but stupid girlsDo NOT be boring is the most important point: talk about bs and avoid logical topics. These type of girls, at least in Europe, tend to be basically all into alcohol, drugs and parties. If you are a sober guy it’s not impossible to get chance to hit on them but definitely gonna be hard, if you’re a party boy yourself tho just let loose and hit on them with full confidence. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Bars/clubs are a waste of time to game, here are my reasonsIf you are a beginner and you are looking to get the reps in bars/clubs are the best because there are so many people you can literally talk to every girl you see and you would still have many more you didn’t speak to. Also imo if you have good logistics (you live <10 minutes by foot from the venue) it’s your best strategy to get laid consistently. This being said, having a big social network and organising party and meet ups is probably the best way to meet a lot of women and to screen them to … | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 08:13 AM |
| 1 | İ cant make eye contact, any advice?My advice would be to start staring just a bit more every time you feel uncomfortable, kinda like progressive overload in the gym | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 01:00 PM |
| 2 | İ cant make eye contact, any advice?This is actually sound advice ahahah | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Did I just get the friendzone of the year?Guys we found it, THE NEGATIVE ASPECT OF BEING HANDSOME😂 Jokes aside dude if you are really as attractive as you say she might consider you the best she can do so she’s purposefully teasing you without giving in to soon to make you invest more and get you to commit afterwards. Imo you will be able to sleep with her relatively soon but don’t get played if you only want ons or short term things | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Anyone here quit smoking weed to improve their dating life?Same problem, if I smoke I become a potato couch. I had to quit due to regular testing in my job, best decision in my life: I am in the best shape of my life, more confidence and mental clarity and I finally lost my virginity and started dating regularly. Now I quit that job but I wouldn’t go back to weed | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 03:22 AM |
| 1 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?Go out regularly and make an effort to be social | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 03:08 AM |
| 6 | You must touch the stove to know it burnsYeah I played this very bad😅 What I meant with the title was not a suggestion but a warning tho. What I meant is that we can know all the theory of the world and still be played while we know. It takes a lot of self awareness and cunning to play around certain risks and we can’t let our guard down. I have another friend who’s also red pilled and knows all the theory and he still willingly put himself in a LDR. My point is to not make exceptions to the rules in any situation because if certain ru… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/24 10:05 AM |
| 10 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.It’s like sales: you can’t turn a NO into a YES. What game is here for is to turn a MAYBE into a YES when a girl is interested but not 100% sold on you yet, and it helps to avoid fucking up when a girl is a YES from the beginning but we still can manage to find ways to fumble the bag😂 | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | ProactiveJust imagine you have a 10 inches dick made of diamond and if she touches it she will realise all of her dreams, if that was the case why would you overthink the approach? You are offering her a once in a lifetime opportunity!😂 The point with this is to say that it helps to “be the prize” and to believe that you are making her a favour by approaching her, since you are a high value man with options and that she was lucky enough to get your attention. Easier said than done done I know, I also sti… | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Where to find women if you’re under 21?Be proactive, befriend cool people both guys and girls in the places you frequent (gym, job, clubs, hobbies etc…) and organise nights out to some cool places like a bar, club, bowling, house party, skating or whatever you like to do that other people might enjoy too and you can tell to bring their friends too so you meet girls through them | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Attraction has been set but I suck at textingI’d respond every few hours avoiding boring questions and sending something that lives the convo open like a pic with a caption or telling a story that happened to you that day with a vocal note. Btw when she says “I’m not easy” don’t trust her😂 Look at their actions not their words | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 09:38 AM |
| 1 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?I had the most hook ups from Spanish girls (in Germany tho) that’s why I said it ahahah. There are opportunities everywhere you only have to find them, don’t think every girl is hard to get where you live otherwise it will become the reality for you | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | choosing a place to liveI love listening to audiobooks on my commute, so I would opt for the next to night life one | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 09:14 PM |
| 9 | How to hook up or meet goth emo girlsSounds like a bad choice. I’m in. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | How to stop Catching Feelings when dating?Spin more plates. Go on more dates. Always meet new women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | In need of wingman.Make another post stating that you look for a wingman in your area, most people from there would not bother opening this thread otherwise | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?Idk why nobody said it, just approach dude. I barely get eye contact from girls in the streets, I’m 5’10 with a receding hairline at 22 although in good shape with “hunter eyes” I get laid consistently just by going out and approaching a lot, I don’t pretend girls to approach me. Work on your game g, there is everything you need to know online | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?Spain is a pussy pool g | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:47 PM |
| 3 | 20M What does this mean? Am I cooked?I had once a girl who was usually very interested and showed it through messages go “colder” one afternoon (short messages, more detached tone) This was while I was texting to meet her that night and when we did she told me she had problems with her documents and she might not get into the job she was applying to. This made me realise how much we guys overthink shit and we always think if the girl acts in a particular way it’s because something about us, while a lot of time they have some shit g… | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Would a women date a man, in a lower income bracket?I’d say short term FWB situation? Yes LTR with possibility of family? Not really | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 08:33 PM |
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