Two days ago I was at the usual bar I go to with some friends and colleagues.

We are all set at a table and a girl I kinda liked already was with us.

I do my usual push and pull and I am a point right now where my game is tight, I can escalate comfortably and I develop quite an eye to read social cues which I was fucking oblivious to just a couple years ago.

Even tho the girl kinda responds well to my moves I can tell she’s more into a friend of mine ( she goes out of her way to seat next to him, touches him etcetera).

Here it comes the looks vs game part: I would describe myself as a 7/8 , I’m 5’10, white in good shape , hunter eyes (I hate this term is even a thing lol but I have very good eyes and I always get compliments on them, they also green) but I have a bad receding hairline at only 22 so I’m not the best looking but I’m definitely good looking enough.

My friend tho is a black guy like 6’3 also in good shape with an average face that we could say it’s about the same as mine all things considered so just the height should put him at an advantage, and also the ethnicity gives him a boost since in Europe being anything except Caucasian gives that “exotic” vibe that many girls like.

This being said at one moment the girl goes to the toilet so I start telling my friend to make a move since it was obvious that she liked him and during the night I basically gave him a free bootcamp training Ahahah.

I am at a point where I don’t really care if I get laid or not luckily, I believe a big shift happens in our life when we stop caring too much about results and we start simply enjoying the experiences without caring too much about the outcome.

When I see the opportunity I told my friend to just isolate her, and obviously she complies but after almost an hour he still didn’t make a move on her and a couple other guys introduced themselves and started talking to the girl over my friend.

I see that and I kinda get pissed so I just invite my friend over with me and a couple friends for other guys to play pool while I give him a quick debrief on what happened and what to do the next time.

Once we finish playing I tell him that it has to be one of us to get her and that we can’t let other motherfuckers to play one on us ahahah

We walk back to them and I start spitting straight up game on her. She ditches the guys who were there and we keep talking for a bit. It’s very late so me and the friend go for a last drink at the bar.

I see her going towards to exit so I tell her to wait for us because “I am scared to walk alone” ahahah (we live basically next to each other)

We go out and my friend gives us a lift home and before we go to our houses I tell her to smoke a cigarette together. After not even the time to finish it we were already making out and I got a blowjob out of the night.

She didn’t wanna fuck because apparently she has a boyfriend in her home country


Obviously fucking another guy it’s cheating but taking his dick in your mouth it’s notđŸ€ŠđŸ»â€â™‚ïž chick logic.

The lesson is that even tho my friend had the upper hand when it came to attraction and he literally had me coaching him (I think he is not that experienced by how he was acting so I felt compelled to help) he still didn’t get what he was going for and I got this girl almost without trying.

If you guys still think that looks are everything get rid of that belief because it comes to a lot more than that, looks only play a role.

My take on it is that we only need to be “fuckable” when it come to looks to have opportunities so if you are waiting to get to 10% body fat and super looksmaxxed before even trying because “what’s the point anyway” please stop making these bullshit excuses and start hitting on girls that you like WHILE also taking care of your looks.