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Game to me is learning good social skills, flirting, teasing and when to make a move. Usually she will give subtle hints she wants to move things forward. She will ask what’s the plan. She will touch you more. Nothing is guaranteed but you’re looking out for signals that increases your chances and then you have solid logistics to invite her over. Invite her for more drinks, to see your pet, or anything that gives the frame of it just happened. I’ve had to charge my phone one time so invited a da…
/r/seduction27/07/26 01:55 PM
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You’re tall or have the facial look women like in your area if you’re still getting success with selfies
/r/seduction13/07/26 04:51 PM
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Hinge works if you really max out your photos. Make the voice memo decent too. How? Have photos that show off your lifestyle and good style. No selfies.
/r/seduction12/07/26 11:54 PM
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Reference experiences and proof of achievement like getting a first hookup does help a lot though
/r/seduction12/07/26 01:08 AM
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If you can meet within the next few days hinge is fine but I also find it better to get IG or # if you’re going to meet in a week or so. If she declines that’s her loss.
/r/seduction10/07/26 04:58 AM
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NYC is good because a lot of young adult females live there with roommates or rich parent money. Subway makes it easier to drink all night for a hookup. Bars all around for easy logistics. Still have to be competitive because there’s so many people in general.
/r/seduction06/07/26 05:55 PM
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No one is coming to save you. You have to adapt. If you want to call it out go ahead. If you want to go your own way go ahead. This is a seduction subreddit for those who accept the shallow game.
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:48 AM
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Women change their mind on a whim sometimes. It is what it is.
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:36 AM
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5’10 is fine but he should ironically go without you cause you’re the comparison. It starts to get really hard if you’re 5’6 or shorter then you have to max everything else out. It is what it is.
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:32 PM
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Didn’t break any laws but private property can choose what to do.
/r/seduction20/06/26 10:27 PM
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Flirt, tease, make sure you meet her at a place within 10 minutes walking or a quick uber from your place then just pick a reason to invite her if she’s into you. I personally do this on date 2 or 3. Hey want to see my pet? If no pet, find a reason to invite her to your spot
/r/seduction18/06/26 09:45 PM
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Sometimes it’s lack of escalation or sometimes you didn’t treat them like shit enough. If you’re hot enough you can get away with it but sometimes being more average as a man you have to really amp up the dark triad.
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:19 AM
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Get talented in something and show that talent. 5’4 guy who had 100+ matches pretty much showed a clip of him playing piano really well and then a photo hanging with his dog and then a photo of those Disneyland roller coasters
/r/seduction31/05/26 04:00 AM
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Sometimes people subconsciously wanted a hookup and get scared of something with attachment implied. Avoidant personality. Better it happened sooner than later. Humans are complicated.
/r/seduction27/05/26 08:59 PM
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If they are coming over and cuddling you’re being too friendly or you’re trying to sleep with women that specifically don’t want to sleep around on date 1.
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:07 PM
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It matters a lot for men to max out their looks but if they have 0 social skills it’s going to be bad also. Need some social skills even if you maxed your looks out.
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:45 AM
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Indifference game works if you’re exactly her type because it is seen as being non reactive and confident which is a turn on
/r/seduction15/05/26 03:37 AM
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Starting to change but long way to do with how it was in the 2000s for example
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:17 AM
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50-50? Realistically you’d be good getting a date from about 1/10 assuming you’re slightly above average, 50% phone number or IG maybe but flakes will be high.
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:17 AM
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usually want to have a place. if you really must do it I've had a few hookups just grabbing a motel or hotel when you could tell both of you are really dtf. usually on date 2 or 3.
/r/seduction03/05/26 06:37 AM
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Yes if you didn't get lucky with a high school sweetheart, college sweetheart, meeting a friend of a friend, or a mutual hobby in real life. Those are the only ways you don't have to play the numbers game. Online dating is all numbers game.
/r/seduction03/05/26 05:42 AM
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Agree with this post. What helps is that if you look like a celebrity sometimes if she’s horny enough that’s good enough to get you laid. It is what it is. For example if you’re an Asian guy just lean into the kpop stuff now. Still need to do the basic get fit and have good style stuff.
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:21 PM
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Yup best gift to myself was travel hard and experience dating between 25-35, even if you keep fit, the dating pool narrows because majority of women prefer to date within 3-5 years of their own age.
/r/seduction20/04/26 07:19 PM
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Insane how different the answers are to 5-10 years ago because of the economy and inflation. Also you have a plan that you will move out in 2028 anyways so if you share that with a woman there’s a plan there and not basement dweller doing nothing. Answers tend to vary between those under 30 and over 30 especially. In summary it matters but get creative if you don’t have a basement with a side door. Her place, the car, Airbnb, whatever.
/r/seduction06/04/26 10:35 PM
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Fake it til you make it. Then when you make it the confidence comes from already have experienced positive reference experiences. For example, I got a lot of LMR from a hookup recently and literally had 0 care if she left because I’ve had a good amount of hookups already. That indifference when you’re already both in the room with the implication is a turn on. Still flirt, still move things forward, but indifference is a great place to be because it expresses confidence. If you overreact that’s …
/r/seduction06/03/26 06:54 PM
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I only got decent around age 26. Whats your height? Whats your fashion? Those matter and get muscle to be more universally attractive to women.
/r/seduction15/02/26 11:26 AM
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You should give an example thread of how you built enough comfort to get 60/65 women to go to your place right away
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:33 PM
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Find long weekends to go to nyc lol
/r/seduction02/02/26 12:23 AM
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Either move where there’s more Asian or Hispanic women or you have the look that doesn’t appeal to white women. Maybe remove glasses, get more buff, etc
/r/seduction02/02/26 12:22 AM
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Race matters especially if you’re more average physically. Lean into the scenes where your race has a lot of fangirls. If you’re Asian, kpop. If you’re African American then athletics and hip hop culture. If you want to have this matter less then get fit. Six pack is universal attraction.
/r/seduction21/01/26 07:27 AM
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5 always seemed tiring. 2-3 seems best.
/r/seduction03/01/26 06:18 AM
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Match on tinder, meet at a bar, chat until 1am, bring to my room, do the deed until 4am
/r/seduction14/12/25 08:28 PM
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Yup. Want to add that if you’re her type then that natural physical attraction makes all of the tension, eye contact, teasing even easier. If you’re not getting the results you want then gym, improve style, and if using online dating apps, improve photos.
/r/seduction10/12/25 01:06 AM
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Depends on the major city too. A lot are too male dominated like SF. Need to go to a female dominated city like NYC to hookup easier.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 01:47 AM
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Chasing is chasing validation. That’s very different than actual seduction. This story is a perfect example of a warm approach. It’s obvious the two women are interested if they are asking questions that don’t make logical sense in order to start conversation. That’s when you flirt, get the number, set the date near your logistics, and then invite her if the date goes well.
/r/seduction04/12/25 09:46 PM
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Race matters but not as much as before. Interracial dating was basically illegal until the 60s. All races now have some sort of representation so lean into that. If you don’t want to what’s the universal thing that turns women on that you can control? Getting fit and stylish.
/r/seduction22/10/25 01:07 AM
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At the college bars and clubs since you literally live by the area. Just pace it out since you might get a reputation. Accept that 80% of women don’t want an older man but the 10-20% don’t care or really want an older man.
/r/seduction20/10/25 08:36 PM
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I'm a more average guy who has had to grind for all the hookups I've had but the point is I've seen every situation play out. It can easily make you cynical. You just have to really find the women that prioritize loyalty which is really rare to find since they're already the type usually in a relationship.
/r/seduction17/10/25 04:25 AM
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Intimacy and commitment are not intertwined as much as you think OP. She wanted sex with a younger man or the guy she was staying with was annoying her or she wanted another dick. It’s just your turn sometimes. Doesn’t matter got laid.
/r/seduction16/10/25 05:26 AM
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Find the girls that like your look. Listen to them talk about stuff and flirt with them. Have drinks. Invite her to your place to see your pet, watch a show, have coffee, have more drinks, to see your art, to check out your dj set, anything. Then make moves.
/r/seduction13/10/25 03:21 AM
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All the sacrifices, hardships, bad and good times you go through matter for the right woman who knows your value. The main word is right. there’s a lot of women that will ditch you too. Have to have the social calibration to know your situation.
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:27 PM
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All true except 2. I've been many women who just wanted a one time fling also because horny, needed a rebound, liked the place I had, I was somewhat close to how her idol looked, revenge on how crappy her crappy bf treats her, and the list goes on
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:56 AM
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Yup the better looking you are then the easy the game gets. With online dating and social media the game is now 80-90% outer game and then 10-20% have good flirting skills and knowing when to get to sex.
/r/seduction06/09/25 02:10 AM
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I feel very plausible but OP should share his physical traits. Over 6 foot and fit I’m going to guess. Minimal game works for this type of man.
/r/seduction01/09/25 07:15 PM
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OP literally had 2/3 girls agree on the second date or meetup
/r/seduction29/08/25 04:59 PM
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Yeah and at 22 way less judgement, especially if you move it to 25+
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:32 PM
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Hamster running out of tingles is never a good place to be
/r/TheRedPill14/08/25 09:47 AM
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Control variables you can like more fitness & improve style. Besides height and race you have to keep testing and trying to see what gets you to the women you want.
/r/seduction13/08/25 01:32 PM
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So if we both know it’s a one time fling then 1. This can be either due to one or both people traveling for example. Mostly 2-3, although I’ve had a couple happen on 4. It should happen by 4 at least in my experience. I’m sure some can argue 5 or more if it’s progressing.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:12 PM
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You need a backbone and have some unpredictability with being kind which offsets the weak points of that trait. Keep your significant other excited and thrilled about the relationship to the best of the ability. You can’t take the commitment for granted either. When did this sub become blackpill?
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:02 PM
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Good advice above. Also try to get as fit as possible. You get more leeway the better looking you are.
/r/seduction03/08/25 09:24 PM
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Book was released during the early times of online dating so women had less choices. Play the numbers game. It’s difficult but doable if you max your value through fitness, status, talent, high quality pics on dating apps
/r/seduction30/07/25 03:04 PM
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What I learned through my hookups and relationships is that the moment she looks past you or ignores you, get up and leave. Obviously this is way harder when married but that’s why marriage is overrated in this era. When you have the power to walk away that’s the ultimate defense against any sort of wandering eye. Trust your value as a man to have options or work towards it if you lack options.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/25 01:43 PM
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Yeah women go from the carousel to wanting to commit because their biological clock is limited to around 35 and then degrades a lot at 40. This isn’t made to offend. It’s a lot of biological and genetic risk after 40. From 18-somewhere in the late 20s they have beauty and youth as a very high value trait. So the morality cost of the hookups and sleeping around may lower her long term potential but sex isn’t really moral is it? If two or more adults are consenting, it is just the way it is becaus…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/25 06:11 PM
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I’m your height and probably not as fit. I have taken a ton of rejection. The thing that’s missing is making it sexual. If not a troll you’re missing the flirting and sexual tension and making a move to make it sexual. Flirt, flirt, flirt, touch her on the thighs, shoulder, lower back, then go for the kiss. Invite her to your place to see your pet, drawings, coffee, a movie, whatever then let things happen to sex.
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:29 AM
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Yes going to Europe gives you +1 on a 10 scale because American accent and slightly less Hollywood negative stereotype influence.
/r/seduction10/07/25 05:25 AM
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Yeah I’m actually pretty average but have a lot of matches on Hinge probably due to my voice so I try to share voice memos to the ladies all the time.
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:19 PM
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I have the same. Voice memo and video clip gives you some charisma and personality. Bumble has this gated behind matching and Tinder doesn’t have it at all.
/r/seduction11/06/25 05:18 PM
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Unless the social circle all wants to sleep around, I’ve heard Apple retail stores are an example but that was second hand
/r/seduction30/05/25 11:47 PM
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Either max your looks and photos more or meet women in real life where they are less shallow..
/r/seduction30/05/25 05:53 AM
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Indifference to any outcome is a turn on. It also gets rid of those who are desperate for sex or those who are too literal and friend zone themselves due to inexperience.
/r/seduction30/05/25 12:56 AM
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Testing you, protect against you thinking she’s easy
/r/seduction30/05/25 12:56 AM
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Learning experiences
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:15 PM
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Yeah I like to have a first date max of $40, $20 for her and $20 for me. Ice cream, coffee, one drink at a bar, cheaper dinner
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:47 AM
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pick your battles
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:46 AM
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accept the sexual tension. don't run from it. it's okay if feels awkward at first. become comfortable with it.
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:45 AM
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OP has the point above where you need to pick your battles. You can just nod your head and let it go putting the girl into the hookup category but not long term potential. For me personally keeping contact with an ex is a dealbreaker.
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:45 AM
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Learn social skills first. That's half of the battle. The Charisma Myth is a good book to start. Once you can talk with a woman then you up the flirting.
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:40 AM
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Either max your value out or find women that aren't into excessive double standards. A good example is I'm not 6 foot so any woman that needs a guy to be 6 foot is already off my radar anyways. The higher her beauty the pickier she can be. Attraction is not logical. Most people who don't want to seem bad by having these preferences or bias but especially when it comes to dating all is fair in love and war.
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:39 AM
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Yeah and Reddit isn’t real life. Have to touch grass.
/r/seduction27/05/25 03:25 AM
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Muscle overrides any race bias
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:33 AM
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Unless you’re trying to sleep around which has its own price then this is actually good to filter
/r/seduction24/05/25 07:01 PM
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Yup if she wants a fancy dinner then ditch. I don’t mind a casual dinner like <$20 for each persons food but that’s the max. Also $40 isn’t a huge deal to me in my 30s.
/r/seduction24/05/25 06:30 PM
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As a respect to parents, I would do is either get an airbnb for a day or a hotel. I've done this with girls on the 4th and 5th dates so that it isn't make it seem like it's cheap and easy. If she's horny she will go along with it.
/r/seduction19/05/25 06:23 AM
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Depends on the nightclubs. I talked to a NYC bouncer that boasted he had that access.
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:29 PM
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Nightclub bouncers and bartenders at the exclusive places where 10s frequent
/r/seduction10/05/25 04:44 PM
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Accept a ton of rejection. Learn to flirt and have good convos. If she’s interested she will hang and then go for the kiss. Meet close to your place then invite women with some sort of reason.
/r/seduction07/05/25 11:36 PM
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Miami, Vegas
/r/seduction27/04/25 07:38 PM
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You wrote your own solution. For the demographics, find a location 5-10 minutes away from where college girls hangout besides their sorority. That can be a popular bar and lounge in the city.
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:39 PM
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Yeah because from a cold approach standpoint you could get probably 50% numbers if you are really good looking and showing choosing signals. There's still going to be a lot of flakes and ghosts from that. Even the most buff PUA dudes that shared their numbers only had 7/100 dates from cold approach.
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:08 PM
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Ask how her week is instead of tonight so that it isn't a logistical issue. If she leaves you on read here then she isn't interested.
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:03 PM
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Meet other women so when one flakes it doesn't really matter.
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:01 PM
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I allow 1 reschedule. If she does it more than once, I delete the number.
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:00 PM
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Yes I also find match to meet is 1/10.
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:59 PM
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Yes, voice messages reduce flake rate. I forgot about this and probably lost a few texting boring stuff or too much.
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:58 PM
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I find that flakes happen a lot so it's about accepting a match to meet rate of about 1/10. If you are getting less then your text game is way off. Otherwise it's just how online dating is. Sometimes women are nervous, change their mind, have another guy or 5 that are higher on their priority list, busy with work, busy with family, and the list goes on.
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:57 PM
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Discipline to only sleep with the guy on the third or fourth date. More likely to stick around. No guarantees though.
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:52 PM
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Until you’re official no one owes anyone anything. Choice paradox for women and the highest tier men have made dating very difficult.
/r/seduction18/04/25 10:27 PM
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It works both ways. Of course women do it more because of more choices.
/r/seduction18/04/25 10:27 PM
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Sometimes people believe they want commitment but they only wanted intimacy for a particular amount of time.
/r/seduction18/04/25 10:26 PM
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Sometimes people believe they want commitment but they only wanted intimacy for a particular amount of time.
/r/seduction18/04/25 10:26 PM
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Yeah it is 50-50 depending on what she wanted or how she reacts. Sometimes they feel shame you didn’t go all the way then ghost or other times they are like it’s a challenge. Humans are weird.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:38 PM
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Could’ve been in a bad mood. Worth 1 extra text to invite and any cold response would’ve ended up, no real loss
/r/seduction25/03/25 10:12 PM
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Avoidant personality disorder. 20% of the population has it. She could’ve just wanted a casual fling and didn’t think you were that good of a long term prospect She was horny That’s why for long term I prefer to wait for until at least the third date because then you’re spiking her emotions in a way where she knows you more and there’s longevity to the situation. It isn’t perfect but it helps when the chemicals go down a bit
/r/seduction25/03/25 10:11 PM
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Ideal is 3. Enough for options. No sweat if 1 drops. However time to do other things too. Obviously cut off the others once you become official with 1.
/r/seduction23/03/25 09:41 PM
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Fair point awkward timing. Glad it worked out anyways.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/25 06:29 PM
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It depends if you’re willing to lose the lay which I did a few times by confirming some behaviors. This of course helped with info many times over for future hookups but it’s what you choose. Curious though why not get another hotel room if you really wanted the lay?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/25 05:31 PM
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When she said losing her that was another shit test because you started talking about RP stuff. Just my opinion. The moment you start adding logic to the mix her attraction meter started to drop and so passing another shit test brought it back up enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/25 04:55 PM
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What helped me was knowing that even if she moves on or loses interest, if my life and charisma is still great, I can attract more women. Have the abundance mindset and if women aren’t coming around ask yourself how to make that happen. Fitness, style, traveling (a part of your life not all of it), and manly hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/24 05:40 AM
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After Covid dating apps got even more popular. Theres also running clubs if you’re into that. You’ll have to tell us how many approaches. Did you look better in your 20s? That could be it too
/r/seduction24/11/24 05:21 AM
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It’s fine as long as it’s a casual topic.
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:52 AM
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All moved to LA
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:27 AM
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One of the worst cities for dating unless you’re top tier in looks because too many men and the women aren’t the prettiest
/r/seduction11/11/24 09:38 PM
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First step is taking care of yourself and learning to talk to people in general. Then flirting, building sexual tension, making a move to kiss her, inviting her over when she’s really interested. The sidebar on this subreddit does a good job of going over some basics then you’ll have to accept failing through trail and error. Race matters but not as much anymore because of kpop and positive representation.
/r/seduction11/11/24 03:49 AM
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>Maybe it’s the fact that I’m talking to these women at parties therefore they don’t really get to know me. You answered your own question. If you don't hookup with her that night and there's no common thread that makes her remember you then the flake rate will be very high.
/r/seduction27/10/24 05:37 AM
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This is a seduction subreddit not a friend subreddit lol
/r/seduction19/10/24 12:01 PM
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If there’s some initial interest and you maintain frame, you can keep her attraction very long.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/24 10:15 AM
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Sexual strategy doesn’t care about your feelings. Evolution only cares about reproductive fitness. This means giving women tingles.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 06:53 PM
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Psychopathy is boldness without remorse or empathy. It's an objective respect from a sexual strategy perspective rather than moralizing. As long as everyone is consenting then it's respectful what OP did.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 01:57 AM
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Game > Looks for social circle game. A 7 in looks with good game can beat a 9 in looks that doesn’t do anything.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 08:38 PM
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Really some dark triad stuff here but if you never committed then it’s choice
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 06:00 PM
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It’s as simple as give her time to daydream about you and have the thrill to get your attraction and attention.
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:13 AM
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I’m a rarer dude where I’m still average and not white. However I hustled to learn niches where the % of women that like me really like me and then just amping up the jerk game to infinite to get her tingly. Dark triad really does work. Even when in a relationship, it’s always good to have her think you have options and can walk away without any damage. It’s also good to keep the thrills as best as possible. Do surprising things, do funny things, pass her shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/24 05:24 AM
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Agree, you could be a bouncer too
/r/TheRedPill29/09/24 05:10 AM
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It’s only your turn. Most women had to move on if the alpha died while battling or hunting. So that moving on thing got passed onto future generations. Women will love you as long as you give them the tingles but it’s way more rare for a woman to have the discipline to be with one guy once the tingles reduce. You have to do your best to max thrills and keep it fun. If she still strays you picked the wrong woman and it was just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 09:24 PM
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Trendy. Women follow trends.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/24 04:55 PM
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Some girls don’t like texting just ask her to meetup for round 3 and if she gives hesitation then next her
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:09 AM
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His free stuff on youtube should be more than enough imo.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:39 AM
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You did fine. Sometimes if it just hits wrong for the girl then it's her own issue or lack of compatibility too.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:38 AM
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you're not building enough attraction before asking for the number. make it flirtier and funnier to reduce the ghosting chances. you will get a lot of ghosting in online dating so it's a part of it.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:36 AM
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Don't ever have an idealistic projection of the woman you're with. Just know it's your turn in most cases. When you have interests, passions, and a purpose that goes beyond women then you'll get closer to the calculated indifference you need to have the best chance at finding a genuine, loyal woman. You can give attention and love to a genuine, loyal woman but remember a solid rule of for every 3 or so things she does for you, do 2 back. Make sure she's always chasing you.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/24 05:34 AM
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Not all but majority. It helps that I got dozens of hookups also so I don’t mind if my girlfriends have their share of hookups but I go in knowing it’s only my turn. Serial monogamy makes you less crazy about this type of stuff.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 06:38 PM
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Look up the term LMR last minute resistance on this subreddit and you'll find guides on how best to overcome.
/r/seduction31/08/24 05:20 PM
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yeah the term is keyboard jockey. The ratio should be 80-90% going out and meeting women (don't care how, cafes, rock climbing, building cars, photoshoots, running meetups, school, work (not your boss lol)) and then 10-20% reading the material to get better. The first goal is if you're a hardcase or have issues socializing is to just socialize. Learn how to thread topics like the weather, food, travel, all safe topics. Then flirting is simply humor, teasing, with challenge added. Then logistics,…
/r/seduction31/08/24 05:12 PM
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Polarizing is the key to seduction. You have to play into the numbers game anyways. Remember that love and hate are very close in the brain so those type of intense feelings create sexual attraction. You do that by making polarizing comments and doing polarizing actions.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/24 09:52 PM
2

Less dating pool because majority of women like men in their dating range +/- 5 years. However the 5-10% that like older men really like older men so you’ll try to find those women.
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:52 PM
41

My advice is accept that it’s only your turn. Don’t project an image or fantasy onto her. Accept things as they are. If she says busy then move on. If she doesn’t reply then move on. If you enjoy the present moment and your mission as a man then women are just a great bonus.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 10:46 AM
24

Women are not nearly as linear as men. Many women can move on quickly to the next obsession because of social media and dopamine hits as well as evolutionary it makes sense to move onto the next alpha or man quicker because women have to if the man died in battle or hunting. Tl;dr it’s a combination of social media dopamine hits and evolutionary biology to move onto the next man if he dies for reproductive purposes.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/24 10:44 AM
1

You could also be attracting women with avoidant personality so once they get feelings they kinda get cold feet. It happens. Thats why I prefer to leave the first date with either sex or if she’s not that type then just some kisses to show interest. Making out hard satisfies her enough without the sex.
/r/seduction12/08/24 04:38 AM
6

I personally don’t like making out hard only on the first date. Either kiss her a little bit to have her wanting more for the second date or have sex. The category D girls go by their feelings so if they feel they already satisfied their sexual needs they won’t reach out again until they want or need to again. In many cases very attractive women can be lazy about another date for any number of reasons.
/r/seduction12/08/24 04:31 AM
1

Girls have huge interest in your personality if you pass the threshold with the 4 points you wrote
/r/TheRedPill27/07/24 02:10 PM
1

It's the default state for majority of people who use dating apps cause avoidant personalities use the apps a lot.
/r/seduction26/07/24 04:51 AM
12

Mutual caressing. If you rub her hand and she rubs your hand back the chances you have sex with her is high. If you rub her hand and she does nothing but allows it I found it as more of a she’s still deciding or she needs more time. If she removes it she’s just a friend.
/r/seduction23/07/24 06:01 AM
1

Needy is when she’s not trying to meet you halfway and you’re chasing. Attraction means flirting, knowing when to make moves, inviting her to the room, it’s a fine line. If you’re too distant then she won’t be interested either.
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:03 AM
1

If you're fine or into drinking then Swedish culture is all about meeting up at the bars anyways. This includes chatting with women. If not then Tinder.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:34 PM
1

you caught feelings. Move on. What she did was fine because you are both casual. That's the way it works.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:33 PM
13

Go to London if you’re black.
/r/seduction13/07/24 06:04 PM
3

For beginners doing their first 100 approaches if you get laid once that’s decent
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:20 AM
3

Hotel, motel, Airbnb, car, her place
/r/seduction08/07/24 11:05 PM
1

Removed but he had a clip playing the piano and some good Disney themed photos and a pet photo
/r/seduction08/07/24 11:04 PM
2

Are you leading in the bedroom? After fingering her I usually ask her to blow me and if she doesn’t like that then handjob. Then if she blows me I eat her out, if she doesn’t then I just keep fingering. Then I eventually move it to PIV sex. You have to take the lead, you’re way to passive once you get to the bedroom. What helps me is I occasionally ask if she’s good to make sure consent is still ongoing and all that.
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:54 PM
2

I've paid for many years and used it. I absolutely maxed out my photos and would recommend Hinge over the others because it gives you a chance at a video clip and a voice memo. I have had 10 numbers, 6 dates, and 3 hookups this year with swiping almost everyone just by having a solid voice memo and maxing out my photos with fun, candid, traveling photos.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:38 AM
6

Have good logistics. Have a spot in the center where all the women socialize.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:37 AM
3

Looks are almost everything on online dating apps and then photo quality. If you're 5'5 it's best to meet in person or absolutely max photos to make them as interesting as possible. For example, on Hinge you have a video clip available so a 5'3 guy who had success showed his piano skills which made women match.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:36 AM
1

Sharing fun stories turns women on.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/24 03:35 AM
3

You approach women in the gym. That alone creates haters cause there’s a big cult around the idea of never taking to random women in the gym or random women ever lol.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 07:42 PM
3

I find that I hookup with women with 100-500 followers which is similar to mine. Anything over 1k and I don’t even continue talking.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/24 11:48 PM
2

It’s a source of danger if it’s not well kept.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/24 11:47 PM
1

assess what mistakes you made with her romantically sometimes you can do everything right but she wasn't ready or she had avoidant attachment. It is what it is. Keep meeting more women.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/24 10:22 PM
0

Adrenaline rush and you have some control compared to dating apps.
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:15 AM
1

If she leaves or moves on it’s no loss to me so onto the next one. I know I provide value.
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:46 AM
1

You can use Machiavellian tactics for the greater good
/r/TheRedPill16/05/24 05:33 AM
8

Reddit tends to be extremely anti age gap. If it’s legal and you and the girl are consenting it is what it is.
/r/seduction09/05/24 03:54 PM
2

1% success from approach to hookup is a decent number to aim for when you’re beginning. If you understand cues and women into you, you can raise this to 5-10%.
/r/seduction05/05/24 11:53 PM
2

Random cold approaches have a fraction of interest. When a woman matches you on tinder and meets you then the chances are way higher she’s into you already.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:55 PM
1

American women can be like this but you went to a bar in one city and judged a whole country? Lol American women in Miami versus Seattle are quite different for example.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:50 PM
0

If you makeout hard without the lay, I find the woman is flaky because she got her fill already. You may have had a chance with the frame where it just happens if both of you are extremely horny but if you wanted to build out that sexual tension you would’ve just kissed her goodnight and then invited her out again.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/24 06:01 AM
5

Yup same. Women can go from very strong emotional connection to 0 within a weekend. The more mature and stable then this lasts longer but women have the adaptability to move on quicker. My guess is because they had to get over alphas dying during evolutionary times.
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:56 AM
1

Seduction is ultimate ambiguity. Things happen. Clean your flat and play the numbers game.
/r/seduction19/04/24 07:13 AM
4

Did you make a move and kiss her? I find that not trying to kiss a girl puts you into the friend zone in a lot of cases. This may be different for some women that prefer more dates before kissing and sex in general but I find majority of women on online apps want you to sexualize and polarize asap once she’s comfortable. You’re making her laugh maybe too much like a friend rather than a date.
/r/seduction13/04/24 06:42 AM
7

Yeah some projecting here. The male lost SMV and she kept hers. She wants to be around a high value male.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 03:19 AM
18

Will smith is a beta that has allowed his wife to open the relationship and cuck him on live TV, the really evil part is the cucking on TV.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 03:18 AM
2

He wanted to play one year too long and she wanted him around. The side guy gave her tingles and he was around.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 03:17 AM
35

Everyone wants to branch upwards. That’s why you always need to have options. If you’re married you have to always keep seducing your lady.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 03:16 AM
15

It sounds like her husband was an 8 while dating then dropped down to a 4 watching football every weekend. She will definitely stray.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 03:15 AM
10

Her bf had the Disney story in his head that he only needed to put a ring on her to have full loyalty. If he was starting to let himself go then most women especially 8+ will look around for a boy toy. Even if she keeps the marriage for the money, family social status, or whatever of course she’s going to stray. Stay fit and always keep her tingles as high as possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 03:14 AM
31

Reddit hates people living with their parents then complains about being paycheck to paycheck. I’ve had a couple of friends in your situation and they got an Airbnb or hotel for a night. If the date went really poorly you have a night to yourself. It is what it is.
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:42 PM
4

Thrill of the hunt types and pleasure of sex types
/r/seduction28/03/24 05:14 AM
1

The frame is you’re the prize. Asking her qualifying questions shows if you’re compatible and if she deserves to get with you.
/r/seduction27/03/24 02:17 AM
3

Flirt harder, tease her more, and ask her questions to qualify to you. I find that when women meet up your chances are better because she has so many other choices from online dating. I like going for the kiss when I'm on the way to grab another beer at the bar. After a few rounds then I invite her up. That's why you try to go to a bar only 5 or less minutes walking from your place.
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:54 AM
106

The surviving PUA became self improvement gurus. For better or worse a lot of game and PUA got attached to manosphere stuff.
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:51 AM
1

While this post isn't from meeting online, nowadays because online dating is so saturated with choice paradox that if she actually meets you in person all you have to do is not mess it up. OP's post shows the frame of mind to have. You don't have to impress her because she's already into you. Let her chat 60-70% of the time unless you feel she's anxious and then take the lead to flirt and make it fun. Once you have a few drinks as long as you keep the I'm having a ton of fun and don't care what …
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:48 AM
3

It helps after you’ve had 10+ hookups. It all feels the same anyways.
/r/seduction22/03/24 05:21 PM
2

Looks definitely matter but you may have something that makes her interested anyways. A deep voice, tattoos, you’re cocky and funny, tall, contextually high value like a male bartender, high value in general like a musician.
/r/seduction22/03/24 01:47 AM
8

You wrote a post to get validation because you blocked off all the solutions. The answers are there right in front of you. To build a roster you have to be social even very social. Go to bars, events, and other social places. If you want to keep your ego comfortable that’s not our problem it just means no roster for you.
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:42 PM
2

As long as it’s decently average it isn’t a huge deal. If you can’t get it up cause too drunk or too nervous then maybe she won’t be a fwb but it’s a one night stand anyways so who cares.
/r/seduction20/03/24 07:47 AM
12

Getting over oneitis and limerence is important for any guy. What helps with this is meeting other women, playing the numbers game, and having a purpose outside of women. For example I enjoy making money and focusing on my investments.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/24 05:18 AM
7

I had a few easy hookups this past month because I focused on the women really into me.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/24 04:58 AM
4

But like all the other default subreddits told me it’s creepy and shames men for trying /s
/r/seduction19/03/24 01:14 AM
1

You’re 6’1? You just need better photos on the dating apps like professional candid level photos. Imagine someone using a DSLR camera and then you’re doing cool stuff like playing beach volleyball or working out at the gym (no selfies) or hugging a pet. All you have to write in the prompts is 6’1 over and over lol.
/r/seduction19/03/24 01:13 AM
3

You might need a dopamine detox. Get off social media for a week or two and then focus on the gym. It'll make life exciting again. If not then consider going to the doc to get checked out for depression. For the dates, you could do something more activity based like rock climbing or mini golf.
/r/seduction18/03/24 01:54 PM
1

The issue is if you’re smart and not hot enough that’s not going to work. Need some physical looks too.
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:51 PM
6

Humans lean monogamous for this reason but because evolution only cares about passing on genes that’s why polygamy, cheating, and hookups also happen.
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:50 PM
1

No the manosphere provides a flawed solution. Isn’t a flawed solution better looking than isolation? It also works on the type of women who think narcissism and impulsiveness are so rebellious and confident. Lol
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:49 PM
3

Are you willing to be extroverted and a party animal to go to nightclubs that the hottest women like to go to? Meeting the hottest women means meeting them at their places they are around a lot.
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:14 AM
4

Most women like a challenge. If you shower them with attention it’s too easy and boring.
/r/seduction12/03/24 01:13 PM
1

“I had a nice evening.” If you don’t wanna see her again. Ask for how her week looks if you want a repeat thing.
/r/seduction12/03/24 11:28 AM
1

It isn’t the joy on the other side being avoidant either lol
/r/seduction12/03/24 11:27 AM
1

If you’ve already quit porn and it isn’t other things like beer then Doctor. Consider ED pills.
/r/seduction12/03/24 11:26 AM
1

It happens when hooking up. Too much beer or something. Make sure to limit masturbation and cut off porn. If you truly see no improvement even when limiting beer and other things then consider the blue pill. What I’ve also found is if a girl sleeps with me multiple times as a fwb or girlfriend my body responds better too probably because I’m slightly calmer and used to her body.
/r/seduction12/03/24 11:25 AM
-1

Men and women can be friends but you have to meet other women to date at the same time
/r/seduction12/03/24 01:44 AM
0

There’s a window for attraction.
/r/seduction12/03/24 01:43 AM
1

Men and women can be friends but you just need to meet other women too lol.
/r/seduction12/03/24 01:43 AM
3

50-50. 50% of women you can never, ever be vulnerable. 50% you can be but need to have the solution in the same thought process and never have it like a full mental breakdown. Just a bit angry here or there.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/24 10:47 PM
3

You have to max your photos and fitness for OLD. I understand the difficulty and ego pain that comes with getting no matches but keep maxing your photos and fitness. Also try hinge which has been better to me than tinder.
/r/seduction08/03/24 09:42 AM
1

There’s so-so game and then negative game. Leeway doesn’t mean ultra beta or omega game. If you are very attractive and buy her a dozen roses like a beta but then do decently on the date showing some alpha traits you’ll be fine. If you’re beta all the way through that’s a bad time.
/r/seduction23/02/24 06:12 PM
10

You also have more leeway to “mess up” if you are good looking
/r/seduction21/02/24 10:41 AM
12

Try approaching 100 to get your charisma back. Play the numbers game.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 02:30 AM
0

Find women that don’t squeeze you to that level. Yeah AWALT but some squeeze you less than others.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/24 11:00 PM
17

The cute women in Cali got spoiled by all the rich men. They have leverage because there’s a lot of fat women too.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/24 10:59 PM
3

changed my age on apps (26) (I look very young) and started dating women graduating college or just graduated. Instantly life was great. A million matches, people wanting to have fun and just do stuff together. I started a casual relationship with someone and came clean the second it started becoming serious. We are now engaged and it's my dream relationship. It's funny how much crap that I got when doing this because I look younger. It's very morally gray if you come clean after the hookup or w…
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:56 AM
1

Yeah. Looks matter. Extremely quality candid, lifestyle photos matter too. Charisma and game matters if you’re not so fixated on dating apps.
/r/seduction15/02/24 11:45 PM
2

You just have to lean into the niche. A lot of women don’t like black men but the women that like black men really like black men. Same for other races of men that aren’t white. Travel to get laid if you want but you still need to be competitive. It just maybe adds a point or two.
/r/seduction18/01/24 05:02 AM
40

This is a good tip but everyone saying that if she’s at your place that 100% she wants to sleep with you. It’s definitely very high but not 100% because she’s still vetting some final things like is your spot clean? Are you ultra pushy? Things like that
/r/seduction14/01/24 05:14 PM
1

You’re getting friendzoned. Take more risks. Touch her more like on the arm, shoulder. Make a move to kiss her. Better to be rejected than friendzoned.
/r/seduction03/01/24 03:00 AM
2

I’d say her mom’s influence and her interest in religion. No one did anything wrong. You two just became incompatible. It was just your turn. Meet more women.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 02:07 AM
14

His girl got more fanatical about religion
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 02:06 AM
12

So you posted on redpill about being insecure about a chick you already broke up with. Just move on and accept that it’s just your turn. Always have enough options to where if she does do anything you have other options.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/24 09:46 AM
5

Women are entitled to their preferences but if they have min 6 fighters and the man has to eventually out earn then they have a limited dating pool. Reap what you sow. It is what it is. Standards are fine but not being open to slightly less is what turns me off.
/r/seduction27/12/23 08:34 PM
15

When she writes in all caps I WILL MAKE TIME FOR YOU. Of course it’s just your turn and this will go away but for that moment she’s into you and wants to sleep with you lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/23 04:07 AM
13

I understand the moral discussions on redpill that have always existed but on the sidebar it says sexual strategy is amoral. Enjoy the decline or find spaces where the degeneracy isn’t all over the place.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/23 06:13 PM
-4

I have a relative that’s a male nurse and he’s very low sex drive but a lot of these are true.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 04:59 AM
10

This is a humble brag and it’s funny how you’re posturing over the top of other comments
/r/seduction17/12/23 09:32 PM
31

To add on, try to reduce or avoid any huge gaps of seeing one another especially in the beginning cause if the tingles fade away then she will almost always ghost.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/23 08:54 PM
86

This includes shaming men that date younger women and shaming men for making fun of her weight. You have to remember Reddit leans neurotic so whenever you get shamed just because society deems it weird it’s just one big shit test. Obviously don’t do illegal stuff.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/23 06:34 PM
21

Because it gives them validation that their shallow preferences are accepted.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 10:07 PM
12

You’re reasonable. No one should keep in contact with anyone that cheated on them 7 times.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/23 10:06 PM
12

When boredom hits then women will create a thrill which is in some cases cheating if he’s not around
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 03:54 PM
7

Better a very interested 7 than a disinterested 9. More interest means less game you need to do. It comes down to an effort thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 08:37 PM
1

You do know that relationship frame where she’s already highly invested and interested in you means you can give more affection and intimacy right? Lol
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 07:18 PM
8

You’ll get polarized comments because a lot of remaining users in this subreddit prefer self improvement and maxing out variables rather than being a junkie that gets mid women. That said, she was the type that wanted to fix you. Once you gave the clear answer you wouldn’t stop for her instead of staying ambiguous with it then she got turned off. She wanted to mommy you to fix you up. Some women really get off on this frame. When you said you won’t stop she lost interest.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 07:08 AM
1

It’ll definitely make it easier although it can also be that your photo quality is mediocre or you’re too average looking on photos. If you’re truthful and getting lays other ways every 2 months or so, you’re still doing pretty well. 6 hookups a year is decent and if you can make 1-2 into fwb that’s all you really need.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 10:30 PM
1

Social proof is very important and one solid concept to get women. It isn’t the only way.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/23 09:42 PM
1

Redpill has always had associations with staying in tribes but then it goes against becoming a sexpat around the world? It really depends on what you prioritize.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/23 08:12 PM
16

So dread game works best for women 18-25 but works for majority of women. Women appreciate what is scarce, in-demand, and difficult to keep. If you’re willing to walk away or have other hot options then you can roast, even offend, with very flirtatious behavior which gives women tingles.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 07:57 PM
31

Yeah if you get oneitis then it shows a lack of abundance and turns her off.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 07:51 PM
24

That’s dread and social proof
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 07:51 PM
1

Yeah cause tinder isn’t as hip, shiny, and new anymore. A lot of women use TikTok instead so it’s like a competition of their attention span.
/r/seduction15/11/23 08:21 PM
1

You have to figure out what gets you in the state where you’re mentally on. During my days of cold approach that meant exactly 2 cups of coffee. 1 cup I felt too lazy and 3 cups was too anxious. Then play the numbers game. If you do 100 approaches, decent numbers are like 25 numbers, 5-10 dates, 1-5 hookups.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 07:15 AM
49

I’ve seen every side. I’m pretty average but I have a niche of women like me. The more red pill stuff I used the more I got laid. The nicer blue pill stuff I used the more I got nothing and actually ghosted. It’s comical when people say NAWALT.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 05:47 AM
94

If she’s at the club, her tingles > everything else in her life. This includes her bf, her husband, her kids.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 05:29 AM
14

Even if this were true, getting involved means long term relationships. She would still sleep with an alpha if the tingles happened no matter his lay count whereas she would harshly judge the betas lay count.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/23 01:42 PM
1

Says the guy that has a lot of exes lol
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:33 AM
1

Evolutionary biology powerful males passed their genes on to have the best chance at more powerful males to pass their genes on to…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/23 10:24 PM
42

I’ll say it bluntly. Your social circle sucks lol. Get new friends and meet ten new women. Easier said than done but this circle has given you two cheating women so it’s time to cut it off completely.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 07:06 AM
26

Why did you keep in contact with the guy your first gf cheated with? Thats a weird theme with a lot of these posts. I’d never meet the guy that my ex cheated with. The solution is go meet ten other women. If it takes every seduction skill in the book and playing the numbers game so be it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 06:48 AM
2

You’re inexperienced still so you got nervous. It took me around 5 or so hookups to know what helps me get hard. I actually prefer 1-2 beers to relax and then go to town with my hookup. More is obviously bad for ED. You failed the sh*t test at the end and that happens too when inexperienced. If I were the girl I’d think about you making an excuse that you’re tired lol. I actually ask the girl to blow me to get hard so I can get her off too. Tl;dr once you keep hooking up you’ll know what gets yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 01:49 AM
3

Logically you can keep her as a plate as long as you know there’s an expiration date. The issue is I think you like her too much.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 12:31 AM
4

A lot of women change the moment they see emotional weakness in you. It’s ingrained in human nature. It’s usually a lost cause but we don’t have all the exact context because your post is vague.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/23 12:41 PM
3

Lmao taking advice from the guy that slept with your ex? Yup cutting sugar helps mental health lol
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 06:56 AM
21

But there’s no unicorn. AWALT. You just try to LTR one that isn’t so brainwashed. The reason why redpill of 2014-2018 is gone because all the vets have moved on with their lives. Almost everything about RP theory is on the sidebar already.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 08:22 PM
9

Very zero sum type of post. Leo was sleeping around with the ex wife, Italian model, of musician Anyma. It is proof that women will monkey branch if the SMV is high enough. The point is do your best to improve SMV to maintain abundance. That’s the controllable part of it all.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 01:12 PM
30

Red pill has dropped a lot in quality. What about the other 9/10 entrepreneurs that had to suck it up and go back to that soul crushing job because their venture failed? Lol
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 02:55 PM
18

Life is competition. But better to obsess over like 2-3 things rather than trying to do 10. That’s called burnout. Even Goggins just keeps running and lifting weights lol.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 02:40 PM
16

Good to do this for ~3 years to learn the game and seduction process. Then you can do whatever else you want including a long term girlfriend as long as you can always be willing to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/23 08:31 PM
2

Then play game that isn’t related to anything of monetary value.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/23 05:41 PM
4

Why concern troll the original purpose of the subreddit which was written in the sidebar. The subreddit is about sexual strategy. Don’t take the money thing so literally. If you’re taking her to a fancy yacht or secret society type nightclub that probably turns her on. If you’re a simp paying for dinner and that’s your only trait then you’re doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/23 05:13 PM
63

Tl;dr women will fuck for many reasons. Use your resources to fuck. By resources this can mean your love, your value, your fancy car, your $1000 suit, your muscles, and the list goes on.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/23 07:26 AM
15

Game is game. broke guys hookup with women if their game is on point. 75k job means you’re average. Don’t go for gold diggers.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/23 08:53 PM
8

Niche. You’ll match some women that really want a kpop idol.
/r/seduction19/09/23 03:40 PM
69

Yup so there’s a higher flake rate too.
/r/seduction19/09/23 03:38 PM
2

You go after different women and play the numbers game. If 10 say no or flake then it’s awesome when you hookup with the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/23 04:03 PM
4

Paraphrasing RSD you’re a part of the secret society when you pass all the tests. What did you do for the ASD and LMR? Vague about that
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 11:27 PM
21

I’ve done better in my age 30 and 31 years than most of my 20s. This includes 18 and 19 year old hookups.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 03:45 PM
23

Keep playing the numbers game. The more women you meet the more likely you can get a LTR. Even if you believe in AWALT that means many concepts work for seducing women and then it comes down to chemistry and compatibility with lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 03:44 PM
1

Fancy coffee spot or industrial bougie dinner (nothing over $30) for the first date or second date. It shows I have money without having to shell over $40 for a date or meetup. It’s a taste thing. If she makes it to date 3 or 5 or 7 then I can reserve that $100 eat out. Invest in the women that invest in you. It doesn’t have to be so black and white.
/r/seduction11/09/23 03:50 AM
9

So you’re humble bragging about how hot these girls are but you’re losing their interest? How bout be disagreeable and state your opinion but make it flirtier rather than get into logical debates better made for an actual debate.
/r/seduction06/09/23 04:36 AM
25

You made the first step. If you watch actionable advice it’s getting out of the house. Using the sidebar and Todd V videos to learn how to communicate with women. The first thing is literally just chatting with people and women. Just talk about weather and small talk. Then interests most people have like travel. Then use more Todd V videos to learn flirting, kissing, escalating, logistics.
/r/seduction05/09/23 04:55 PM
24

My favorite hookups are after getting flaked multiple times in a row before it because that meant I had success just by never giving up.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/23 05:19 PM
1

So men under 5'5 (<168cm) really need to showcase talent and skills. A successful 5'3 hinge profile had the guy showing off a clip of him cooking and a clip of him playing the piano. Then he had a cool photo at Disneyland. That is very high value to some women. So he did okay.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/23 04:59 PM
11

Why is this on redpill. You need a guy friend see what’s wrong. Could be monotone voice or something else wrong.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 08:31 PM
1

A good way to get over one girl is to meet ten more.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 02:13 AM
1

Yup figured your flaws were what kept you from a lady committing to you. Be a bit more humble while still knowing the tools of RP and you’ll have a gf in no time.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/23 01:15 AM
1

It gives you a high for a bit of time like a week or month. Then you go craving for more. What I don’t understand is how something long term didn’t come out of this. If she stays around you and you continually slept with her well one of these girls would be eventually asking about commitment.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 11:15 AM
11

I’m not white. I appeal to women that like a particular race. It isn’t black either.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 12:46 AM
94

Yup. I’m in my early 30s now and I hustled to get my ~30 lays or so. I was at 1 lay and a broken man at 25. Then I decided to never give up. I’m an average height, average weight, and not white. I found a niche of women that really like my look and got hookups that way. If I got flaked ten times in a row I made sure to use that as fuel to eventually get laid which I did. I played the numbers game. TLDR never give up and keep self improving. Assuming decent social skills, flirting skills, when to…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/23 01:48 PM
3

Massive rejection is a part of the dating game.
/r/seduction31/07/23 12:00 AM
13

Then work on your weight. You answered your own question. Even top tier model looking men get rejected 90% of the time.
/r/seduction30/07/23 03:33 PM
2

Insecurity. She was going to show you the messages. Lol
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 02:28 PM
9

Very irrational. she was going to show you messages to prove her statement and you refused cause you overreacted. You’re the type of insecure guy that will lose the rare decent woman at this rate with these actions.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 02:23 PM
3

Even if she wasn’t crazy she’s too entitled. Even in an Asian country like yours I wouldn’t expect a woman to be picked up on a 8am coffee meetup lol. Girls treat betas like betas first. Girls tend to sleep with alphas.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 01:42 AM
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Don’t meet up women at 8am. That’s way too early. That said, the moment she changed the frame and started gaslighting you to pick her up, that’s a huge red flag and you NEXT. What you should do is meet ten other women who are better than a potentially borderline personality disorder woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 01:08 AM
3

Extremely on point photos too. Your tattoos help too.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 12:10 AM
69

Yeah it’s true. Learn the behaviors and seduce with this in mind. Black pill imo is dangerous because it assumes you have no control. I’m average looks, average height, and not white. I still got dozens of hookups through sheer will and appealing to the niche that likes my look. Use this info to help your dating life.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 03:09 PM
21

These aren’t shit tests. Just lack of interest on all of these examples. Sometimes the window is merely hours or a day. Meet 10 more women. Part of the numbers game and rejection. If you still keep rejected by all then work on your fitness, style, and photos.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/23 11:52 PM
1

Hit on 1 or 2 and don’t overdo it
/r/TheRedPill25/07/23 01:11 AM
2

I’m as average as they come. I’m not white. I could’ve used any number of excuses. Guess what? I gave myself permission. I know I provide value to women who like my niche. They really get off. I don’t have 100 lays. Through hard work I have ~30. Much better than whining.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/23 06:20 AM
5

Provide benefit to all. See who gives benefit back. If someone comes and goes then stop providing the benefit. If someone doesn’t appreciate the benefit stop the benefit. If someone doesn’t do something for you, don’t do anything for them. Calculate where you’re at all times.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/23 02:41 PM
6

Yeah cause newbies will think an approach is saying hi and then running off. That’s good in the beginning but you need to get used to her rejecting you, saying no, saying she has a boyfriend. Then that’s when you move on.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 03:40 AM
12

Make a conclusion about seduction and game after 250-300 approaches. Use the first 100 to get experience. Use the next 100 to start getting dates and numbers and results. This is where you add in more advanced concepts like staying in the set for a minute or two until she says not interested or walks away. Only stay for 1-2 minutes unless you see she wants the instadate. Things like that.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 02:41 AM
2

Go to casual bars and lounges rather than nightclubs.
/r/seduction04/07/23 10:00 PM
5

Stop reading the default subreddits lol
/r/TheRedPill04/07/23 02:04 AM
7

Arranged marriages reduces incentive to learn how to seduce and have general social skills.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 07:21 PM
22

Arranged marriages so they have no incentive to learn how to socialize. Just code, make money, and marry some random woman. It’s like any other non white man. If he lifts and learns how to seduce women he usually has no issue.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 07:20 PM
15

If already grinding try to turn around and make out and then ask if you wanna get out of there. Obviously if the music is too loud you’ll have to figure this out differently.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/23 09:32 PM
3

Failed the shit test. Although that seems like an annoying one. Move on and meet ten other women.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 07:00 PM
2

Huh? Everything is basically at will employment in the US. Don’t stay loyal to companies. Understand their benefit and keep it professional. Definitely a weird choice of words in a work setting. This would be crossing the line only if he was charged of a crime cause of 1st amendment but employers have free choice just as employees do to end the employment.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 07:56 PM
1

Just watch Todd V videos. The game and mystery method are overrated due to it being outdated. https://youtu.be/KgyRjAnHIAU Todd V how to destroy AMOG
/r/TheRedPill21/06/23 05:57 AM
1

Just don’t be the dancing monkey. Add in sexual tension.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 11:06 PM
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For the fourth point I like to offer two days. Gives choice and still shows I’m reasonably busy.
/r/seduction20/06/23 05:06 AM
6

Don’t be shamed by all of the crappy default subreddits.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 02:47 AM
15

I’m not the biggest fan of the Madonna vs whore complex but for you can’t really make a woman who sleeps around and parties around into a housewife. It is what it is. Tl;dr you don’t make a ho into a housewife lol
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 12:24 PM
2

I’m not the biggest fan of the Madonna vs whore complex but for the most part you can’t make a woman who sleeps around into a housewife. It is what it is. It would apply to men too but have to consider for men it is many, many times harder to have access to sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 08:22 PM
12

If it’s your first date in 7 years and you understand your mistakes then improve on them next time instead of beating yourself up about it. Dating is a huge numbers game. I’ve gotten rejected hundreds of times and messed up hundreds of times. Because of that I’ve had successes too.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 05:48 PM
3

If you harness the anger into effort that makes you go to the gym or talk to ten other women
/r/TheRedPill09/06/23 07:52 PM
6

If you were top 10% in looks all you need is #11 actually lol. If #11 alone is friendzoning you then you gotta improve your fitness, style, and flirty charisma. Points 4, 7, and 9.
/r/seduction08/06/23 11:07 PM
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If she’s interested already cause she’s physical attracted to you. All you really have to do is #11. Add to the convo of course but make it 70% her and 30% you.
/r/seduction08/06/23 09:01 PM
8

Without sex you’re friends. That’s the problem.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/23 12:35 AM
5

Devil D is the only way because her dopamine circuits have such a high threshold from consumerism and social media.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/23 12:35 AM
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The devil D is a real thing too. If the sex is good for better or worse couples stick around.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 01:17 AM
2

Modern era basically brainwashed women that they’re all special snowflakes. If they went the career route this is irrelevant to what attracts men to women so all they can offer is companionship and sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 01:16 AM
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Being crushed by a dream girl brought me here many years ago too. A lot of guys will say move on and don’t give any thoughts to her. I used that for motivation everyday. 100s of rejections don’t matter to me anymore because I’ve made it to some successes through redpill and self improvement. I’ve experienced almost every concept of red pill in my dating life so that’s why I believe it is mostly true. Say less than necessary, make her qualify, keep the sexual tension high, next a woman who ghosts…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 09:21 PM
2

It’s promoted because it leads to more profit lol. Tell women career is important to get their taxes.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 05:01 PM
21

Different animals mate differently. There’s a gradient of polygamy and monogamy. Humans lean either way depending on many variables.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 07:59 AM
13

Michael Jordan paraphrased. I failed a lot of times and because of that I succeed
/r/seduction04/06/23 12:38 AM
15

remember that reddit isn't real life. college campuses are all about social circle and dating apps. I approached occasionally and had a few dates and slept with a girl back in uni approaching for a couple of months before graduating. The majority of women who are cool with approaches aren't on reddit lol.
/r/seduction01/06/23 02:51 AM
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If it helps your mindset it’s okay to fail your first 100 approaches just to practice. If you get a few dates out of it it’s a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 07:48 AM
2

Top 20% because some high value betas exist (Will Smith is a poster boy for this)
/r/TheRedPill23/05/23 10:11 PM
3

lol you could always just go your own way… Still get laid passport bro
/r/TheRedPill23/05/23 09:27 PM
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Even more during the last 10 years with tinder and IG getting huge. Pre social media most women had to go on actual dates or meet up with a social circle group to get attention. Now all she has to do is upload something on IG, Snapchat, or any of the other social media apps.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/23 05:13 PM
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You didn’t fuck her well enough. She got satisfied by another Chad and then decided to slowly ghost on you. Some women especially at her age become distant after sex. They wanna ride the cock carousel. It is what it is. Go sleep with ten other women.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/23 11:17 PM
5

Why is general self help in red pill?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/23 08:08 PM
1

Making out is not having sex. Improve your fitness, style, and never give up.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/23 07:39 AM
1

That’s another variable. Lack of comfort raises the chances of ghosting. You don’t want too much though or else you risk friendzone.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 11:39 PM
6

They get horny too but it’s sometimes just bad logistics too. Also the woman puts this on purpose to protect against having sex because she’s more interested in validation. Makeouts are easy ways to get off and get validation. Because I’ve had my share of hookups already if I figure out my situation is like this I actually just kiss her a few times and then plan a second date or meetup. If she ghosts whatever but if she meets a second time she’ll more likely find a way to make time to make sure …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 11:39 PM
8

So I’m a believer that when a woman keeps saying LMR stuff like I have to go soon she’s on the border determine if she wants to sleep with you or not. When you say you finished you didn’t have sex with her in your car right? If you get close like that and don’t seal the deal it kinda makes the woman have some sort of remorse about being close but not getting laid. Women get horny too. It’s a weird thing I’ve experienced too. It’s ok once you sleep with 10+ women anyways. Just keep trying and goi…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 11:03 PM
4

Once you sleep with 10+ women you start to have oneitis less cause you stop putting sex on the pedestal
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 11:01 PM
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Women aren’t linear like men. So one moment she got horny and the next morning she realizes she has 10 better options than you on tinder. It’s really cold but that’s the side effect of online dating apps.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/23 11:00 PM
9

The subreddit is about sexual strategy. A lot of us want to sleep around lol. We see through the Disney bs of marriage and all of the disadvantages that brings
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 07:55 PM
5

I think that once you have a handful of experiences and hookups, you can easily have this mentality because p*ssy isn’t on the pedestal anymore.
/r/seduction03/05/23 11:11 PM
7

You can but you have to max everything else out more and accept you’re a niche.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 09:52 PM
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Because this is how it worked in human nature for thousands and thousands of years. Women like social proof and once they see you’re cool to talk to and your 6’5 height attraction becomes natural. Also women get horny too so it’s much easier to sleep with someone you’re used to, comfortable with already, and attracted to. Online dating apps work but you have to have extremely on point photos. Also it’s you versus 1000+ guys for every female profile. I ask some of my matches how many matches they…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 08:00 PM
15

40 is when the winners and losers magnify. A niche of younger women are into older men but you better be fit, high status, and financially successful to continue playing the game at this age.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 08:14 PM
18

If it takes a wild GLO post for men to become passport bros then so be it.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/23 03:55 PM
10

Being an a-hole and disagreeable works with short term mating strategies. I only apologize to women I know where it may affect a greater social circle of mine. Otherwise if she’s calling you out it’s best to double down or at least change the subject. He could’ve replied with “ok where do you want to eat though?”
/r/TheRedPill23/04/23 06:15 PM
1

If you're a 7 as you think you are then move on and then go for 5s. I get you want that higher SMV leverage to make game easy but why women this ugly?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/23 10:41 PM
11

Have a phase to get your hookups in if you want like for 2-3 years. Then more balance like following your passion and approaching the occasional woman that interests you.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/23 06:48 AM
2

Or the childhood trauma, I still deal with the same extreme family problems today but handle it much better and as best I can, though I’m probably pre disposed to certain functions having a crazy parent. I also have a horrible diet, maybe all the fucking chemicals I consume are factoring in. And then another massive one, just having not progressed in my life goals at all for such a long period. One way to improve your coping mechanisms is balancing your coping mechanisms. This book saved my life…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 07:17 PM
1

The two pathways I see today are be top 20% with insanely good photos for the tinder game or socialize a lot more to be able to play the numbers game at bars or house parties (assuming access to that)
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 05:09 PM
6

Lol cause this subreddit got its share of mgtow types. The reality is if you’re above average like a 7 you could easily smash your way through 5s for experience or getting your rocks off lol
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 04:00 AM
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Good you improved yourself first but it’s funny how the subreddit is about discussing sexual strategy and how many posters here want self improvement instead lol. Social skills, flirting, seduction skills are a different tool. You can read the sidebar here and take what works. Basically instead of agreeing all the time, tease the girl playfully. Instead of talking nervously, let the ho talk the majority of the time while you let her qualify herself to you. Learn when to make a move to kiss the g…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 02:26 AM
1

The interesting thing to me is the more the left goes into that kind of stuff, the better it is for profits. So it’s a libertarian paradise underneath it all if you know how to profit off the trends.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 11:55 PM
3

The sidebar says discussion of sexual strategy so what do you expect? Lol
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 03:20 AM
3

Writing about her like she is some prize. If you were invited to a group thing it seems like it's her, her two orbiter guy friends, a third potential orbiter or rival, and you. It's a lot of competition for so little gain if you got other options. Social circles are like dating and job opportunities. Some are really closed off, some are decently closed off, and others are open. It all depends on the type of people and vibe.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 12:38 AM
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She's been saying she doesn't trust me, does that have something to do with how I don't open up? She's the 4th girl to basically say I don't talk about myself. It's obvious you have some oneitis. If you're as AMOG as you describe yourself, buffer guys need to build more comfort. Obviously this girl had way too many orbiters around her. So if she's serious you need to have her come out 1 on 1. If she flakes or ghosts on that you move on and talk to that other girl you got the # from. If you're ha…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/23 07:06 PM
3

because reddit isn't real life. just move on if they say they have a bf or aren't interested.
/r/seduction07/04/23 11:35 PM
2

Besides changing the therapist you know what helped my self esteem at least somewhat? Once I improved my looks, style, and photos enough, I got a dozen or so hookups. I also got a lot of rejection too. Now I know the mindset, charisma, social skills, and logistics needed to get laid. It doesn't have to happen all the time but enough to get my fill. That improved my self esteem quite a bit. tl;dr IMO outcome independence only comes after you've had a handful of lays to know you can do it. When yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 11:26 PM
2

He's the meal ticket and that's okay if you keep frame. He lost frame.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 10:44 PM
17

Yup got laid the most when I let the chick talk 2/3 of the time. I’d only talk to let her talk even more or flirt with her.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/23 03:18 PM
19

This is like an advanced version of the concept of staying mysterious and even a bit aloof
/r/TheRedPill06/04/23 03:08 PM
105

One solution is to realize the rest of the world isn’t as extreme as North America and Western Europe. Go to places where the women are more feminine and traditional. Another solution is to lean into it and become the fu*kboi women want to sleep with. You can also do both.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 08:33 PM
4

because virtue signaling helps with profits.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 04:34 PM
8

Nobody will save you except yourself. Younger men are drawn to red pill because you see women getting with the men with status and power. Whenever you did something nice it backfired on you. The best sexual strategy is learning game and if you can be it, dark triad. Feminism, dating apps, and social media allowed women to get attention without having to leave their house. Covid made it even worse. This is why 30-35% of Gen Z men haven't had sex in the last year or are virgins. Women nowadays are…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 04:33 PM
4

Whenever GLO posts I agree sometimes and I get a laugh sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 04:57 AM
25

You misread my comment. As a 6'3 guy who built himself up you will alwyas have it easier than a shorter guy who also built himself up. However if both you and a shorter guy gain value both of you will have a lot more success.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/23 07:54 PM
34

You have it on easy mode because you're 6'0+ but if men here work on their fitness, money, and charisma, almost ALL men can get the desired hookups.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/23 07:35 PM
25

don't do that victim mentality here. I'm average build, a manlet as some would say here, not white, and okay money. I still have had a ton of hookups because I never gave up. I just found my niche. Work on your money, fitness, and charisma and some women will come through.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/23 07:33 PM
9

I’ve met a few of these men and it’s on them. If they can’t accept rejection is a part of the game it’s their loss.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 02:52 AM
14

Practice your charm and charisma. Trying to make friends is also a numbers game. If you vibe with 1/20 then you’re doing well. Don’t have to vibe with everyone.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/23 07:35 PM
2

Yeah. I showed you the solution in my previous comment.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/23 06:57 PM
6

You showed weakness to a red flag woman. Of course she’s going to be turned off and end it lol. Go meet and try to sleep with ten other women if you need a rebound. Then find women more securely attached with a solid family when trying to commit to one again.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/23 06:48 PM
14

Mens value and SMV is determined by usefulness. Hard skills like changing a tire is useful. Soft skills like charisma is useful. Being nice is not useful. If someone is injured you think being nice stops the bleeding? No only a doctor or medic does which is a useful occupation. That’s why being nice does not register in woman’s attraction. It can be one small tool in the charisma toolbox but if all you bring to the table is nice you’re worthless to society.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/23 01:11 AM
2

Tl;dr what women want on dating apps they will settle for half of those wants for a hookup if they’re horny enough.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/23 05:18 AM
2

Go into the ideal. If she likes a brown dude and you’re brown cool. If she doesn’t then pick and choose the approaches to grind through or walk away from.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/23 02:37 AM
9

BP actions only work if you’re top 20%. Dark triad works wonders if you’re climbing you’re way up to top 20% or you’re more towards average. Also as crappy as online dating apps are sometimes if you get professional looking photos you get some matches and then those girls who match will rarely shame you unless you’re overtly BP.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/23 05:51 AM
12

Anchor it to a higher purpose or passion. I really like to travel. I’ve also hooked up a lot while traveling. I meet friends while traveling. Ironically I’ve been to Northern Europe a few times and while the life measures are all excellent, the hookup culture there has made people feel disposable there. Just remember it’s only your turn with any woman and you’ll be fine. You don’t have to be all in or nothing. For example you can try to get to a goal of 2 fwb and enjoy other things in your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/23 02:56 PM
1

Make the dopamine come from the self improvement effort process towards becoming a higher value man and a challenging man. Learning game means learning how to become a challenge.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 04:29 AM
26

Yup this is proven by science. It’s also okay to try to meet 100 people through work, other friends, events, random approaches. A lot of people have already filled their quota or incompatible. That’s okay. It’s like dating. If 1-2 of these become really good friends then that’s all you need.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/23 12:09 AM
2

It’s fine to give in small doses after she has sex with you. The main rule is 3:2. For every 3 things she does that you like give 2 things back.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 07:51 PM
11

I gave a gift to some ladies as a test of what would happen. 100% of the time she lost interest. You have to give off that sexual energy first, that masculine vibe. Once you have sex with her then you can start to balance it.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 07:49 PM
1

I’m in the belief that red pill is mostly truth but allow a little bit of leeway. I’ve had exceptions that I wouldn’t recommend but that’s living life. For example I met a 21 year old girl on tinder and she brought her friend. Usually pros say don’t waste your time but I wanted to just have a couple of drinks. Next thing you know all 3 of us are pretty drunk and both girls agree to head to my spot and we have a 3 way. Just live life with red pill principles and if you don’t get laid learn from i…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 12:23 AM
4

Well there isn't anyone else seriously lol. If the girl you're dating becomes potentially long term then consider but men don't owe commitment until she's a girlfriend or wife. Even then of course always be willing to walk away then call your side piece if a break up happens lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 08:26 AM
4

For hookups 100%. For something decently long term like a fwb reveal things slowly.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 08:23 AM
1

Better to learn now. When you’re in a relationship you still need to keep red pill frames and concepts the majority of the time. An occasional gift or love letter is fine if she’s given you one too. That’s it.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 06:09 PM
7

You think during the caveman days, men were worried about women liking him for being the unique snowflake that he is? No, women got with the assholes and the alphas to continue reproduction of the species. Simp energy shows too much weakness and doesn’t pass genes on well. Simp energy only exists for child rearing, not attraction. Simp energy is bad these days because it means you’re too dependent on her for your own happiness which is also a red flag. You’re not a special snowflake. It does get…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 05:22 PM
6

Blackpill is dangerous because it implies that the 20-80 thing is absolute. I believe hard work and hustle gets you some lays. I’m average build, average salary, not even white. I maxed out game theory and do cool stuff. That gets me a few lays or so a year which are all I need. I may have to work 10x as hard as Chad to get there but I get enough lays to satisfy my sex needs just through game and doing cool stuff. Obviously if you’re below average in height or hygiene or social skills then you’l…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/23 09:39 PM
41

A lot of the time when sleeping with a woman you get a longer window of time where she’s interested until your turn is over and she rides another dude. It can be a few days, weeks, or months. It’s all random. The universal truth is that it’s only your turn.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 05:19 PM
2

Challenge is definitely powerful assuming you have a looks threshold for her to be interested. If she is interested and you challenge her then her attraction goes up in most cases.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/23 08:38 AM
2

It’s called red pill for a reason. A lot of men like to stay in the blue pill because being intellectually correct supposedly is better than getting laid lol.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/23 11:19 PM
2

Then you’re giving yourself the shame and you wrote this post so we can resolve you of this shame. Just accept you like approaching and your conversations will be better and more comfortable. In the future then get better logistics if you’re still trying to hookup into your 20s. 1% close rate from cold approach is good.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 07:55 PM
5

So your logistics suck but first lemme ask what’s your height? Are you overweight, fit, skinny fat? Are you putting effort in your haircut and general style? A haircut and fitted clothes goes a long way (in university I feel H&M and uniqlo is okay for clothing) my bet is you’re below average looks and on cold approaches your rate will be under 1% Chat to lay rate if you’re below average looks. Yes you’re slightly higher value for being brave to approach but any attractive woman has 100 guys on s…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 04:09 AM
1

Have to meet via acquaintances or friend or a friend or have 10/10 dark triad game at bars. Should still be above average in all of the other stuff.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 09:22 PM
5

Keep trying to find the one thing that makes you feel alive. Traveling improved my mental health. It also confirmed that women in countries outside the west are more quality. As for companionship do you want a traditional girlfriend? When you say you broke up with your ex and it was ugly did you just move on?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 03:53 AM
7

Yup. She may not swipe right on you on a dating app but if you do meet where the threshold is lower like friend of a friend and you give her thrills your chances are better.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/23 05:54 PM
1

Art of seduction. There’s a lot of different archetypes that get women. A lot need strength and some don’t. But since confidence is universally attractive it’s good to aim towards strength. Even if you’re an artsy mess of a dude the groupie woman into you that’s likes your guitar skills you don’t need to have strength but it certainly helps.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 11:30 PM
13

LOL just get drinks at a bar near her place or your place and then lead into doing the deed after if the vibe is there. I’m down to shoot the shit with my fwb(s) for a drink or two as long as we bang. If not then I next the girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/23 10:14 PM
20

Most of my hookups I realized I let the woman talk 60-80% of the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/23 02:58 AM
27

I was nervous as it had been a couple of months since I last had sex. Almost slipped here. Never show weakness.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 06:35 PM
15

I understand. Life is unfair. Even if some men get 1000 without trying and I get 10-30 trying harder instead of sulking I think I’m ahead. But to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 11:00 PM
5

You lacked discipline. I got discipline. That’s the difference between me and you. I’m average build and average height and not white. I chatted with more women and added extremely high quality photos on online dating. I got flaked 9/10 times and it was hard but I kept trying and then I hooked up with a good handful of women. I kept trying. I made 7 rejections in a row fuel to keep trying. So you have to try.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 10:14 PM
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Tl;dr women are bored out of their minds now because of all of the social media dopamine hits and the world being locked down for two years. If you tell a threesome story and other general travel adventures this helps associate you with thrills and adventure. Thrills, adventures, sex. All dopamine hits.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/23 04:12 PM
8

So OP you used your 20s to go into those high status circles to get with good looking women and got a few. It seems like you didn’t really enjoy it or for whatever reason you are too outcome dependent now. As I gotten older I have less outcome dependency because I know I have my niche of women that really like me and all I need is solid game to close. My advice to you is accept the flakes and ghosts as part of playing the game. Even you can sleep with even 10% of the women interested you’re good…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 08:31 PM
25

Disney gave everyone the illusion of happily ever after. Human nature is all about sexual competition that’s neutered with marriage and religion. If you take those away it becomes a free for all where 80% of women are fighting for the top 20% of men.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 04:12 AM
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Well in the past couple of years I’m guessing the experienced red pill types already got their info and are living good lives which leaves those who need an asktrp and more of the mgtow types remaining on the subreddit
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 05:07 PM
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Tl;dr don’t give up, get fit, keep challenging yourself, get your career going, and do the things you want to do. Looks and game both matter to be successful with women so train and max out both.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 09:03 PM
3

From cold approach 1% is decent and good. There you go. If you’re under this number get more fit and max looks and social skills more. If you want a challenge 3-5% is really good but 1% is decent and good.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:14 AM
9

Other ways to make her orgasm. Eat her out or finger her. Sometimes she gets off and leaves but a lot of times once you get a woman off she will do almost anything to make you hard. You can always do your best and if you go quickly just do round 2 once you recover. You’re young and what has helped me with my performance is experience. I know what helps me get hard and what doesn’t. If that still fails just lay off the porn and consider the blue pills.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 09:00 AM
9

I like the post because you have to enjoy the journey of rejection and loneliness in order to have the best memories and experiences. Maybe a good looking natural doesn't ever have to experience this but only 10% of the top men get to have it that easy. So enjoy the journey.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 05:49 AM
-6

Even red pilled women are like pfffff 100 lays so easy what are you talking about? Lol
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 03:25 AM
2

2 is a dealbreaker for a lot of men and that comes down to preference. 1 and 3 is the bigger red flag because she lied both times with 1 being the worst. A lay count of 3-4 is okay but her lying is not.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 01:21 PM
2

Not always because if you’re the best guy on paper but boring as hell she’ll get with a semi decent boy toy to get thrills and tingles
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 07:54 PM
0

Naw most people in general are only loyal up to their best option including most women.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 07:32 PM
1

You have a lot of mgtow types now in this subreddit. I like traveling and I like photos so it is natural to me to do this.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 02:37 AM
21

It’s supplemental. I found it easier to have women chat there because it’s less personal than a phone #. Then again I date a lot of women under 30.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 02:14 AM
18

All OP has to do is go into relationships, fwb, ONS and whatever else knowing it’s only his turn. Always be the one willing to walk away so you don’t have to post crazy studies on Madonna (virgin) vs whore complex.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 05:43 PM
14

This is a great post but very long. Women have all sorts of subtle shit tests and the reality is that many actions can be valid as long as you assume the cocky alpha vibe. For example I went on a tinder date with two women that wanted to have fun and since they were younger it was obvious they wanted to use me for drinks. After the first round they tell me how we are gonna split this and I just say I got it and make a joke of if I bail now how broke are you? And the girls go on to say they would…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/22 01:47 AM
4

I’m more average looks and average height and I get a niche of women just by having charisma. Have social skills, flirt really hard like a jerk, and understand it’s a numbers game.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 10:27 PM
13

They’re legal plugs to get into clubs, VIP tables, and other benefits in nightlife.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 10:23 PM
12

You can use these stereotypes and bias to your advantage. You think an Asian men that’s confident would have an issue getting laid at a kpop after party?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 09:10 AM
1

Even if some women believe in these ridiculous stereotypes you mentioned some women prefer Asian men because of Asian media like kpop and kdramas. Just find those women. TRP principles work on any women. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 09:08 AM
-2

So I played this frame for a hookup too and it probably came down to both of us being drunk but I paid for 5 rounds of both of our drinks. However I was aloof and flirty and roasted the hell out of her to keep her attraction. Balance can work but it is more of a fine line.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 08:34 PM
4

Doable but you better pass any shit tests she gives you.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 08:31 PM
15

Got taken over by mgtow somewhat. I’m a believer of monk mode but getting laid is an important human function.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/22 09:35 PM
11

She wanted to use you to monkey branch swing to you and that’s why she wanted exclusivity even if she was married. Her loss and you got clarity. Tl;dr try plating single women instead of being obviously fixated on this woman
/r/TheRedPill06/11/22 09:33 PM
2

Bars to hang with your bros and then dating apps while you’re on the toilet. If the occasional girl catches your eye then you’re high value enough to have a good shot.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/22 02:59 AM
11

It’s good to have a pussy phase for a few years then balance it out with other priorities. If you’ve gotten your share of awesome hookups and want to focus on other things that’s cool too.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 05:29 PM
3

Always go for a kiss on first date then read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 06:47 PM
2

After a week of doing so, she asked me out (asked if we could get a coffee together so that we could reconnect a bit). I accepted, we hanged out and was overall a good date i'd say. Did you just talk or did you at least kiss her? If you just talk you're placing yourself straight into the friendzone because in this day and age you're not just up against the social circle you're up against any other decent guy she can find on online dating apps or social media.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 05:54 PM
2

You’re the side guy. Text her way less. That’s how you control the frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 07:46 PM
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If you prefer long term don’t go for a fuck on first date. However second or third date is a must and try your absolute best to be her best fuck ever and you’re on your way. So yea you better hurry up and fuck her well. Women like sex just as much as men.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 07:42 PM
2

Yeah coldness is a bit of mysteriousness. Women would rather have cold, mysterious, and a challenge compared to a guy who just proclaimed his love for her.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/22 09:12 PM
1

OP can just get an Airbnb for one day and then stack a few dates. If it doesn’t work out it’s a chill day away from parents.
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:46 AM
3

Get an Airbnb for one day. Stack a few dates. If nothing happens it’s okay think of it as rest away from your parents for a day.
/r/seduction18/10/22 08:44 AM
4

Wow this is a rare productive post these days. Nice job OP.
/r/seduction12/10/22 09:27 PM
10

You don’t owe loyalty to the women of your own country Gtfo lol
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 07:56 PM
6

Disagree. Hollywood media has less power in non anglo countries because of YouTube and alternative media outlets. So there’s competition towards what women see as most attractive.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 07:55 PM
26

TripAdvisor and other travel guides help you know which places to avoid. Usually the more they are aggressive in trying to recruit you to a spot the shadier it is.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 07:53 PM
1

Same. It’s good to read a lot of guides to know where the international people hang out in any particular city to minimize your chances of being scammed or jumped.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 07:52 PM
4

Top 20% looks but you’re boring. Flirt more.
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:24 PM
9

When you showed all your interest she lost interest. When a guy is cold or chill or non reactive he keeps a certain mystery that most women like.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 11:53 AM
10

you experienced your oneitis. When you said you’re falling for her too you lost your frame and eventually the girl. It isn’t your fault that most women don’t like honesty that way. Most women especially these days want thrills and men to stay mysterious. She was with the ex because deep down the cold demeanor of her ex is what she desired.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 11:00 AM
3

It came to the English speaking countries last. Still have to look physically attractive and for Asian men over 30 it’s going to be less effective cause older women will still hold Hollywood biases.
/r/BlackPillScience07/10/22 10:36 AM
3

It’s right at the cut off. I agree although idealized forms of Asian culture is a much lesser evil than the Hollywood stereotypes before this being the harmless comedic sidekick.
/r/BlackPillScience07/10/22 10:35 AM
0

Just my opinion but I discount studies before 2019 because kpop gave Asian men something to refer to to be seen as cool and trendy at least to some women. I feel for older Asian men as they got a really bad luck of the draw. You can always travel somewhere for a few weeks at a time. A lot of these studies that prove Asian men have dating difficulties have a blind spot in that majority of the studies are in English speaking countries. Hollywood’s influence is most powerful in English speaking cou…
/r/BlackPillScience07/10/22 10:10 AM
9

Proves that Asian men have it rough in English speaking countries. A solution is for Asian men to go to Asia or South America where these bias are less.
/r/BlackPillScience07/10/22 10:07 AM
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Or you could improve yourself and go to Asia or South America instead of feeling sorry for yourself. Different cultural stereotypes means a different outcome.
/r/BlackPillScience07/10/22 10:04 AM
24

It was only your turn. For 2 months it was your turn. Now it’s someone else’s turn. She is saying the friendship stuff to try to keep you around as a a backup or worse an orbiter but just move on to another girl.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 04:25 PM
12

they also need acceptance. I wouldn't call it acceptance. I call it security. The bf in this story is an emotional tampon that will listen to her when she isn't on her A game as she directly quoted and also her bank indirectly.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 03:37 PM
4

they will dump you for being a bitch about it. Women will dump you for being a bitch about anything. One time I got really drunk when I was younger and sent out butthurt texts to a couple of the friends in the circle. (solution is being outcome independent through having options). The following day they told me do you remember what you did and got friendzoned in that whole circle. Sexual excommunicado.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/22 06:30 PM
4

It could be anything. You can't control every variable. Getting back with the ex, she found a hotter guy than you on online dating, she is busy, her period happened, she is anxious/lazy/tired/overworked/sleepy, she is out of town, tiny window of horniness, and the list could go on.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/22 06:25 PM
8

Cute quote. This is a long version of soft next. No need to hard next because it’s just ego stuff. If she reaches out it’s back on. 18-22 year olds have a LOT change in the span of even a week not to mention a month or year so sometimes she suddenly gets horny and if the timing matches it matches.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/22 04:44 AM
2

Gave a note? This isn’t 8th grade bro. Ask for her # or IG. Just give your phone to her to put it in. If you’re paranoid bout your phone have her write it down on a card or something.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 11:14 PM
3

redpill and pua have some crossover
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 10:32 PM
1

redpill and pua have some crossover
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 10:31 PM
13

Never post before it happens because last minute flakes happen a lot these days. Probably the general anxiety created by not being able to socialize for the past 2 years.
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:36 PM
2

Eastern Europe, Asia, or South American women are more what you’re looking for.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 08:30 AM
4

Monk mode is okay up to a year. MGTOW is something I don’t agree with because humans need intimacy. Your argument is valid in that a cute 6-7 can be beneficial instead of the crazy 9 that makes your life miserable and you have to out alpha every other male competing you.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 08:28 AM
3

Go to Eastern Europe or Asia where what you want is more common because feminism isn’t as prevalent there.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 08:24 AM
4

to add onto this just remember where you're at. if you're a friend and you start getting feelings then it's best to cut it off.
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:18 PM
29

Relates to the idea that’s it’s only your turn. Once the interaction goes from emotional high to stagnant she’ll leave.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 04:15 PM
3

good post. I want to add to not put any expectations on any particular person or date. That's when you get butthurt and act needy. Friends are also about the numbers game. Maybe 1 in 20 like you. If no one likes you make sure you have a decent hygiene, style, and try again.
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:59 PM
2

Still will be acceptable to those willing to accept more risk of not having a job. Also doesn’t apply to those with a high demand skill like engineering.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/22 04:35 PM
6

You can be in and out of the labor market now more than ever. It’s acceptable in the post CoVid world. LinkedIn even allows you to put gaps in your resume now.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 10:18 PM
4

nothing wrong with this as long as you wrap it up and you know it's only your turn. too many black pill and mgtow types these days thinking this is useless. if you're getting off then you have more time to focus on the self improvement and purpose stuff too.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 05:20 PM
21

I have an acquaintance that's a she/they at 21 years old has over 100 lays. I'm pretty sure some were for $ too. You have to remember it's only your turn. I keep in contact because her parties have netted me a couple of lays. You know you have them when they aren’t playing games because they can’t afford to play games and risk you walking away. When you're their specific type or you're extremely high value it's hilarious how easy it becomes. The woman is the chaser and almost feigns interest in …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 02:23 PM
3

Mystery is very old school and outdated. There’s better people to look into. Mark Manson Models is a good book to start. When you approach like this you’ll have to risk being creepy just make sure to escalate and leave the interaction on a high note and with a common interest so that the girl is less likely to flake when you get her #. From there escalating to the bedroom comes down to flirting and sexual tension which the book will go over as well.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 04:52 PM
3

Looks matter a lot but if you click on the video you'll notice the slight variance of what interests women so you don't need to look like a male model just be above average and you'll get female attention.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 01:32 AM
12

I think too many men think dating apps equal to real life. Average looks works in real life because you can show your personality, charisma, confidence, voice, game, style, hobbies, and skills which all work towards attracting women.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 01:27 AM
-6

Red pill is gonna give you flak for this one cause you got her a new ticket but if it got you a lay then it is what it is. Red pill is about sexual strategy so.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/22 06:15 PM
32

tl;dr Use anger for productive fuel instead of projecting towards others. Figure out what's going on to fix your bs.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 05:31 PM
9

Maximize your looks by going to the gym and getting stylish to get the best looking women. Solid social skills are implied. Keep working on yourself. If you need a year to monk mode go ahead but it’s best to keep shooting your shot while continuously improving.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/22 01:16 AM
2

I get the time sink when it comes to women but if you’re at the gym and as decent looking as you think you are it shouldn’t be too hard to find a decent woman that is attracted assuming a baseline of social skills. Our attraction to women is to continue fitness (reproduction) of our species. Love is what we call an intense mutual interest to continue this fitness.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 02:03 PM
1

I think majority are acquaintances especially in college settings.
/r/seduction07/09/22 01:44 PM
2

20/80 principle got placed into the mainstream
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 12:01 AM
3

Good progress just GFTOW (go fuck ten other women)
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 07:29 AM
1

Most women will say looking for a relationship and then if the sexual vibe is good enough may be open to a hookup or fwb. Other women will only want a relationship and that’s cool too.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:43 PM
29

I mean she learned later than sooner. Too bad but many don’t learn ever. If she truly wants to take the chance to find a guy who will marry her and have her kids then she has that right but if her current boyfriend declines then that’s his right.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 12:18 PM
24

Very harsh dread game in a marriage and LTR seems excessive but it does show the principle from a game perspective.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 08:35 AM
5

Being hyper social is 80% towards getting laid. The loser in the story still goes out and shoots his shot. If the girl really has a 420 thing that alone is high enough value. Tl;dr being a plug has some sort of value and getting laid for that or associated with that is some sort of value.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 09:59 PM
156

Once the tingles are there all sorts of beliefs go out the window
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 10:39 AM
10

She is trying to fix him and she’ll move on once he’s fixed.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 08:53 PM
11

You were too perfect. She wanted to be a mother and fix a flawed man. These types are rare now but exist.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 08:52 PM
5

Abundance helps give off an indifferent vibe that many of these women like and if she goes away then you got abundance anyways
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 08:52 PM
4

Tl;dr it’s only your turn and I don’t get why you’re saying it goes beyond that.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 08:50 PM
3

I agree just maximize your photos. If you still get no matches get feedback or workout and try again.
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:35 PM
3

Don’t stick your dick in crazy. If you really have to bang then bang then it is what it is but why have a relationship with crazy?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 10:15 AM
3

Being nice works for friends. Being assertive and confident works for hookups and relationships. Yes assertiveness and confident can be good or bad boy. Up to you relating back to polarization. You can the slick charming flirting type, quasi narcissistic impulsive bad boy, the comforting boy toy (works if you're physically very masculine), misunderstood musician, etc.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:46 PM
0

Just put you're 6' and wear boots. How many approaches have you done? Even decent pick up guys like GLL (admits to taking steroids) but an example to see what a buff guy would do. 100 daygame approaches, 48 numbers, 14 dates, 7 makeouts, 6 lays. Even the best only get single digit lays out of 100 random approaches. The hottest women that I’ve been with have all been met through friends, and I feel like that social credibility of knowing them through someone helped me out, because it gave me an i…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/22 06:31 AM
3

I believe the correct way is just a level below this. You still need to be alpha and place yourself in situations where the girl is very horny. Then realize it’s only your turn. Masculine behavior can extend your turn but it’s just your turn. The hotter you are the less “perfect” you have to be but still need majority alpha tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 12:24 AM
2

Yup just have to be in a good spot when she’s really horny and then know it’s only your turn. You can extend your turn if you’re very masculine in the bedroom but it’s still just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 12:23 AM
2

Yup just have to be in a good spot when she’s really horny and then know it’s only your turn
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 12:22 AM
5

He’s a challenge cause a lot of women want to change a man to make him a beta. It’s a challenge to make the alpha into a beta cause if you get an alphas genes and tame him to become a caretaker you get both benefits. Obviously this rarely happens and the woman eventually loses respect for the man if he were to submit but the sexual strategy is to make the man a caretaker to raise the baby even for a few years.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/22 06:20 AM
1

Have the woman move to you
/r/TheRedPill31/07/22 06:17 AM
2

Women talk and the usual route is hang out women open to experiences (sorority women, alternative women, women into drugs or whatever. You can judge this on its own merit but this is the demographic you’re looking for when OP is looking for ENM) and then make her sexual interest high with all the things you posted. Drugs, cooking a really good dish, other thrills. If you f*ck her well and keep hanging with her friends then her friends may get interested too.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/22 02:26 AM
78

Tl;dr pass shit tests and soft next undesirable behavior. Hard next red flag behavior.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 06:19 PM
6

This is the way to do monk mode and gain the rewards
/r/TheRedPill25/07/22 01:45 AM
1

Only thing to know is when the girl is a red light and you got no chance and when she is a yellow light and may become interested. It’s up to you if it’s worth the effort.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:14 AM
12

Tinder
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:30 PM
3

Yeah usually two or three meetups after college in the US because they need the potential for a relationship to justify it. Of course if you’re hot enough you can still pull on the first meetup.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 10:56 PM
4

While exceptions exist most people date and end up and settle in their own league. Most 5s end up with 4-6/10. Most 7s end up with 6-8/10. As a man the fortunate thing is you can bump your rating up 2-3 points with muscle, fitted clothing, and target selection (a sorority girl isn’t going to rate a rocker guy the same way as a frat guy even if objectively both men are the same looks wise). Also your metrics you care about are wrong. Women like high value men so if you’re looks are a 5/10 but you…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 12:07 AM
10

lonely bros have huge egos too. I've had times when I've been flaked and ghosted on 10 times in a row and it sucks. Then I get sucked by a girl that doesn't flake or ghost and it sucks good. Have to play the numbers game. If you are getting zero success consider getting to a threshold of physical attractiveness which most men can get to and a threshold of social skills which most men can get to and try to play the numbers game again. If you need some time for monk mode do it. If you need to be M…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/22 09:46 AM
1

If the woman flakes you have another option
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:46 PM
22

The pretend leaving challenge joke works to enhance attraction that is already there by framing the interaction as you as the prize. This is why overtexting is bad because you have more ways to lose the frame where you’re being a typical beta chasing the woman. It doesn’t always help but icing the conversation on text or going no contact can rebuild attraction and challenge if you built a decent enough foundation of attraction for the woman to get thrilled again to hear from you. When I’m hookin…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 04:45 PM
4

How women want to be treated in real life is different than how women want to be treated in the bedroom. Do serial monogamy. Always know it’s just your turn and that things may go south. But you can find a long term relationship as long as you vet the woman. If it dwindles then onto the next.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 10:03 AM
5

She continued "- how you convinced <45 year old lady, 4 our of 10> to get girls for you?" tl;dr this is the moment she knew you were high enough value to be a boy toy. I failed many times when I was anxious or stressed trying to figure out the seduction process. All you have to do is use social proof to your advantage like OPs post. Social proof helps ease tension around you but you can also keep sexual tension for the hookup. I had a tinder match with a 21 year old an hour away and she said she…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 05:29 PM
19

I know FR these days polarizes people because so many people think it isn't possible but you can always take something productive out of this even if you only date through social circle or dating apps or whatever. She says that they're gonna go home but I object and say nah lets go to the after party. I tell her we can get drinks there. She says she's done drinking but she'll smoke weed. Now, I don't have weed but there are 24 hour dispensaries in vegas so not a problem. I said, yeah let's pick …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 05:15 PM
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Tl;dr target selection is very important. Also mirroring what your target selection likes. When I’m going for 21 year olds that want thrills I talk about the fun house parties my friends and I have. When I’m going for 25 year olds that you can tell want to settle down then I talk about other interests and take her to fancy dates for example.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/22 06:18 PM
8

You can do all forms to balance your time. Online dating and Instagram game is for when you’re on the toilet.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:30 AM
1

I know naturals that didn’t have to learn red pill because they were so attractive (in the top 10%) that women would flock to them. Usually what happens is that one of these women that hookup with the natural want commitment because his value is just as high or higher in her eyes so then you can act more lovey dovey. You still need the red pill to call out any shitty behavior but if you are extremely good looking and have extremely high value I could see a woman sticking with a natural.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 05:46 PM
2

Less dread and more balance. Show affection when she shows affection. Reward good behavior but call out bad behavior. Be willing to walk away if the bad behavior continues.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/22 11:08 PM
24

When you’re a man no one will save you except yourself.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 05:30 PM
6

good post OP. I like loose structure like this because most women that match me have similar tastes and interests. I think these type of posts piss off the naturals because it isn't as structural like this. Most first meetups are 1-2 bars within 10 minutes of my spot walking and then inviting her to my spot.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 07:28 PM
18

Your post and story can be summed up as women want to be with a winner that is on top. He stayed on tour too long and the frame became starving artist working too hard and being too distant. This is the same reason why you cannot ever show vulnerability with women including your significant other. Human nature is ruthless and women need men to be masculine. If you need to rant and cry find a close male friend or if you’re lucky a close family member. Show high value by having talent and then mak…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 08:20 AM
34

That's the nature of women. The moment you start being too nice they will ghost and flake.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:40 PM
9

Doubt it because birth control pills are around. Even in the old days people didn’t stop having abortions just shadier ones when illegal.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 10:40 AM
28

Irrational confidence, knowing how to build sexual tension, having good logistics, and fucking her well.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 10:38 AM
34

Have the irrational confidence, impulsive thrill seeking, and Machiavelli ways to manipulate attraction and you’ll get your share of women in their early 20s because they want fun and thrills. Just always remember it’s only your turn.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 09:46 AM
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Damn this was written 10 years ago and it’s only gotten worse. I’m around 30 now and everything written here brings me back to university where I was similar to the OP. It took me many years to get there but red pill saved my life. The way to heal oneitis and other hurt when it comes to women is learn everything on the sidebar. I’m still not the best looking dude but I learned how to become more dark triad than ever and got a good amount of hookups too including with a ton of 19-21 year olds. I’…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 08:29 AM
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You told the details without giving your readers incentive to learn. If you make her orgasm she will more likely want to have a friends with benefits or long term thing with you (if you play your frame correctly then a long term open relationship too) because not every guy can make a woman orgasm
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 11:39 PM
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Yup or contextual high value. If you’re a popular musician you’ll get laid anywhere. If you’re a local musician in your hometown you’ll get laid by some of those hometown ladies because you’re high value in that town. If you’re a bartender you’re below average but if you’re a bartender at a trendy club where all the hot women are then you’re higher value too.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 07:35 PM
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I was about to write this comment. The top 80% of women want a top 20% man. In this era where marriage is looked down upon and have tons of sex partners is the trendy thing to do it’s human nature to go towards this. Marriage and religion tried to repress this somewhat but it is failing. So in reality all of the sex positive stuff reverts men and women back to human nature which is 80% of women want the top 20% of men.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 07:21 PM
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I mean that’s why this is called the red pill. Majority of men still think of relationships with a blue pill mindset and it’ll cost them over and over. Whenever I started getting too nice with women pre red pill and just to test shit out post red pill the woman would always lose interest. AWALT so learn the game and accept the red pill. Whenever I treated women with keeping myself mysterious, flirting, asking them questions, letting them talk about positive topics, and having drinks, it was usua…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/22 10:36 PM
8

Totally not my style but good job on the group management. If they see you as a cool guy and they like the friend that’s into you they’ll kinda wing you too.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 05:10 PM
8

Always be willing to walk away
/r/TheRedPill26/06/22 05:28 PM
158

You got the hookups out of your system. Find a girlfriend and seduce her everyday and you’ll be good.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:18 AM
2

That’s a good ratio thanks for sharing
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:30 PM
1

what's your rate of getting dates percent wise? I think this will help show others that even if 1/10 women you talk to come out on a date with you 10% > 0% when you're not trying
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:30 AM
5

Social proof also helps. If you’re someone who has some friends it shows you’re a cool guy.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:02 PM
2

1, 4, 5, and 9 are all similar. If she wants you it’ll be pretty easy. If she ghosts or flakes on you, you can double text one time to see if something has changed on her end. If she doesn’t reply after a double text one time or has become distant the answer 99.9% of the time is move on.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:01 PM
11

Similar but humiliated is probably name calling and degrading kinks. Dominated is just the other takes the lead and you’re submissive.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/22 12:18 AM
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Yeah people release their primal needs in the bedroom even if morally they want that to be different in normal society
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 07:25 AM
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Most people that have extreme beliefs do the opposite in the bedroom as a release. If you’re dominant in everyday life you tend to be submissive in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 07:24 AM
1

Better way to measure is if you cold approach 100 women you can get 50 #s but maybe only <10 dates or meetups. So 1/10 from approach to meet is good and then 1/100 to makeout or lay is good too.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:12 AM
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Damn you gotta be called out for having a huge ego. You soft nexted her and she got with an alpha. Then you ditched her again cause you got mad. What do you expect? She’s not gonna fuck anyone while you’re wishy washy? I’m cool if the n count is in the low single digits. You’d be surprised how many women I’ve met (as hookups) that have n counts 50+ or 100+ in their early 20s. Tl;dr you’re an upper beta that was wishy washy. So the girl hooked up with an alpha because you nexted her. As long as s…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 08:41 PM
3

Then you have to pay for platinum to just be shown. Not plus, not gold, but platinum.
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:41 PM
8

The vast majority of women hate when men become vulnerable. It’s primal.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 05:59 PM
23

Follow her actions not her words
/r/TheRedPill19/06/22 08:37 PM
6

traffic light metaphor. OP thinks only green and red exists. lots of yellow exists but you have to have the charisma and social skills to pull it off and you have to differentiate between yellow (you may have a chance if you're charming) and red (nothing you will say will attract her)
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:37 PM
6

it's a whole lot easier to lose the girl by talking too much than to attract her by talking too much
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:35 PM
2

who cares as long as everyone is clean and you're sleeping around too
/r/TheRedPill19/06/22 06:31 PM
1

don't have to live together but a long term relationship and can sleep around
/r/TheRedPill19/06/22 06:30 PM
-1

Not bring down but create a roller coaster. The reason is women get bored if you’re nice all the time.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:18 PM
26

They crave attention. If the man is dominant she will also fuck him. If the man is a beta she will lead him on for that attention, money, and other resources.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/22 03:56 AM
5

Dread game is a challenge. Dread and being a challenge is a dopamine high these days.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 11:39 PM
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I understand. When the oneitis hits you start going beta and then the attraction is lost. You can always booty call when you’re visiting. If you decide to move on it shows dread game works even when you and the woman are on good terms. In this era everyone is chasing the dopamine high. Dread is dopamine these days.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 11:13 PM
5

It feels very open long term relationship frame which is what I recommend these days. What made it end?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 10:47 PM
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They’re chasing the dopamine high
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 06:21 PM
10

LTR in the form of serial monogamy is good or open LTR if you can make that work if you want the lowest effort. Sleeping around is fair game too. Based on society it’s awful if men have preferences but with women it’s 100% acceptable to have preferences.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 03:39 AM
4

Same I’ve been on both sides too. It’s wild.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 10:46 PM
4

I know a lot of minority women personally that have skeletons or had their share of side flings before their significant other.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 10:33 PM
2

Try again or mgtow. Both have merit.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 10:11 PM
4

Dopamine hit > commitment for a lot of women these days
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:21 PM
14

looks is only a part of attraction. you need game and dark triad traits to keep it interesting. even in LTR you have those traits just less so.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:19 PM
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everyone is chasing the dopamine hit these days. nature doesn't care because it only cares what reproduces in our population and both monogamy and sleeping around create babies
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:18 PM
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you'd be surprised what kind of skeletons the best, hottest chicks have hidden.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:16 PM
11

It's okay to get LTR, preferably open LTR, as long as you're always willing to walk away at any moment. Just never marry.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:15 PM
26

AWALT. She was your rare type that admitted it. Cool that you were the boy toy for a year and kept it on the down low.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:14 PM
1

Yeah she’s into you already at least somewhat if she’s meeting you so listening to her stuff keeps you mysterious with low effort. All you have to do is keep her talking about positive topics and again having some drinks helps.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:32 AM
2

I could relate to this post. I lost the edge to be the cocky, dark triad type that women love to sleep with. So I did other things to get laid like letting the woman talk 70% of the convo and just asking questions about her. As long as you let the woman talk and then keep that mysterious tension that works for some hookups especially if there’s some drinks. Also social proof helps and inviting some woman to some house parties with your friends also helps.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 05:44 AM
12

Ops writing is horrible but he got the lay in the middle of his post and then failed to get the threesome at the end
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 05:50 PM
4

Not being available I don’t talk to girls everyday and it keeps them so strung along it’s crazy. This is what keeps interest. It isn't forever but this keeps your window open longer compared to being too available and/or too needy.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:39 AM
3

Good post. Ration the validation you give women.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/22 02:31 AM
1

Even if society forced it women still followed their tingles and then got punished in harsher ways.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/22 05:07 PM
2

The Many Reasons Women Have Sex is the name of the post. Search it because trp has removed commenting with links.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 05:58 AM
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Sorry to hear about your childhood friend. Yeah man as long as you know it’s just your turn then you’ll be fine. I had oneitis for a few years myself and the best solution is getting fit and stylish and then meeting tons of women. Once you’re in double digit hookups like I am too you definitely see the world differently. You see hella sketchy situations but that comes with the territory. Fwb has companionship just make sure to pace yourself and know it’s only your turn. You can always make anoth…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 09:35 PM
3

If you’re fit there’s a niche of women that really prefer older men. Yes a lot will reject you but many will be more interested. I’m 30 and I’ve slept with my share of 19 year olds in my later 20s. Just make sure you get fit and stylish. If you ever use online dating or sliding into DM just have a professional do your photos after you get fit and get stylish.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 09:30 PM
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It was only your turn. There was a post a few months ago about why women have sex. Money, babies, validation, drugs, fancy dinners, fancy mansions, cars, tingles, COMMITMENT, etc. It’s ok to fall for feelings as long as you put the frame down like you’ve done and move on if the woman continuously disobeys that frame you’ve put down. I don’t think the alpha beta balance was ever there. Women just did better hiding it because you didn’t have social media or the internet to spread all sorts of stor…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 07:05 PM
1

To make it in a sexual direction you have to be willing to lose the girl by flirting and building sexual tension.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:18 PM
2

Do enough to get laid. Do not give the woman too much attention or validation with more than a couple of texts or replies a week. I usually only text a woman for logistics. If I have fucked the woman and want to make a fwb then it’s okay to ping every week or so. Make the ho chase you but do enough to make her chase you. Show the high value if and when you two do meetup.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 09:09 PM
1

It’s obvious when 20 year olds that message you hard go cold or flake once age is known. It’s fine since being 30+ is a polarizing thing anyways. If you’re good looking enough it shouldn’t matter.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 07:39 PM
1

Interesting I’m more 18-30 where I’d consider a relationship from 21-25. I’m around 30 now and I’ve been rejected for being too old actually but that was when I had tinder without an age estimate. Better to just swipe with the age.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 08:15 AM
7

Preselection is so powerful and in some cases like you OP helps you sleep with your oneitis
/r/TheRedPill08/06/22 02:05 AM
1

What's the age range of the women you go for?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 10:53 PM
4

Don't believe in madonna vs whore and you'll be fine. Accept even the most innocent woman is most likely hiding skeletons in the closet too. Just know where you're at with the woman or women you're sleeping with.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 10:40 PM
3

Don't believe in madonna vs whore and you'll be fine. Accept even the most innocent woman is most likely hiding skeletons in the closet too. Just know where you're at with the woman or women you're sleeping with.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 10:38 PM
1

It is very polarizing. I experimented with hiding my age and the girl asks. I've always had a lot of flaky women or women ghost if they felt I was too old. So I just put an age very close to my current age and go from there. A portion don't care (maybe 10%) so play the numbers game.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 10:32 PM
1

Yeah it's a gaslighting job by older women because it makes them feel old. It's in their sexual competition mindset to discourage this behavior because of competition from women between 18-25. All you have to do is create a thrilling adventure full of tingles and the 10% of women that prefer older men will enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 10:30 PM
2

Natural alphas do this because you can spin multiple dimes but is it worth the amount of time and effort? If Leo switched his woman every month that would be incredibly time consuming. Switching every year looks like long term relationship stuff that didn't work out. The media can take that more easily too.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 10:27 PM
8

Anything that creates reproductive fitness is advantageous so many sexual strategies work. Men and women sexual strategies contrast but serial monogamy is where it converges the most. Look at George Clooney in the 90s, 00s, and half of the 10s he just dated a different woman every 1-3 years. Look at DiCaprio who changes his woman every time they pass 25 every 1-2 years with a woman under 25. While Hollywood jokes about it he gets away with it cause he’s an alpha or contextual alpha.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/22 10:34 PM
2

You know how many Snapchat messages and texts an attractive female gets? Lol if she isn’t responding to you at all within a day or two then you move onto the next girl
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:32 PM
20

It’s only your turn. You ditched the first girl and so she came back as an alpha widow for some fwb side action. You’re going to have some flakes and ghosts from online dating. As long as you get a portion of the women out in real life for a date or hangout you’re doing good. High SMV > high potential unless she’s actually extremely hooked on you like those college sweethearts. Even then you never know. It’s always just your turn. Oh and you passed the 2nd girls shit test so she sucked your D.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 10:13 AM
2

Uhhhhh once you get over this meet other women. That’s what helped me get over my oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 05:51 AM
5

I think it’s fair to call it out because you were on date 4 so it was obvious she was stringing you along. This usually ends sexual interest but at least you know. Move onto the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 04:43 AM
2

One of the popular posters here wrote that around 10% of women prefer this big age gap and I’m not really surprised by it. Can’t override the tingles if you create the tingles. If it’s consensual and legal it’s fair game in sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 09:57 PM
2

Tinder I believe a particular percentage of women like going for that age gap. My female friend in uni was 22 banging some 60 year old. It helped me gain the knowledge. I’m around 30 and bang 19-21 year olds quite a bit through tinder.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 09:54 PM
26

Even if your friend has amazing game some women just want tingles and drama. Good on your friend cutting that loose.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:25 AM
20

It was only OPs turn. She wanted daddy dick which a subset (10% or so) of women want before getting married. For example I’m 30 and a lot of the women I’ve slept with have been 19-21.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 12:47 AM
7

It’s only your turn. The vast majority of woman are with their man because of the value he provides. Once that value drops or is lost she will most likely leave or branch swing.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 05:54 PM
11

Hilarious post. If you’re fwb she can do whatever she wants no matter how much history you have. She is sleeping with you because you’re the higher value mate currently because the other guy is a beta worshipping her. However you wrote this post so once a better alpha comes around she’ll branch swing. It’s only your turn especially because it’s fwb.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 05:42 PM
4

Your post is a decent hookup and Fwb strategy with drama queens. If you’re high SMV and she’s chasing you then dread game makes you a huge challenge.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 06:21 PM
1

Airbnb
/r/seduction25/05/22 11:13 PM
3

On the first meet kiss only and then have sex on the second to third meetup.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:38 AM
3

Got corrupted by incels around a couple years ago
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:53 PM
4

Tl;dr social proof game works. Contextual high value status game at a bar works wonders too.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 08:51 AM
3

Hilarious how mixed the reviews are because Perrion’s style works for hookups in some parts of the world as long as you balance it with concepts from Book of Pook. It also depends on the type of guy you are and your location. Probably works in Europe and for women in their younger 20s especially if you are attractive and let them talk about themselves. I doubt Perrion works in third world countries where women are looking for security as the number one trait. You think some soy boy game works in…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/22 09:02 PM
11

Asking about herself and travel
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:37 AM
1

Rely on your successes and what you did well. Then try to visualize a layout of that allowing for different discussion, ways of escalation, etc. I think flirting and letting the girl speak (making sure it isn’t boring topics or friendzone topics) helps a lot. Going for the kiss on date 1 helps a lot. Then sealing the deal dates 2 or 3. It’s okay if things go south too it’s all a numbers game. Try a different US city.
/r/seduction22/05/22 12:05 AM
1

If you’ve been on a shit ton of dates and slept with few women you need to look at what’s wrong there. Are you meeting near your place for better logistics? Do you flirt and keep the sexual tension up? Do you know how to escalate sexually? For the creepy approaches take a vacation for a small amount of time and take a break from so many cold approaches.
/r/seduction21/05/22 11:21 PM
1

What do you prioritize? Are you okay with being paycheck to paycheck if you move out?
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:01 PM
3

Meet 10 other women
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:32 PM
2

For every 3 snaps she gives you give her 2 back. If she stops snapping you then stop snapping her. Same with texting or calling or anything else. If you have something really thrilling or an adventure that you’re going to enjoy with or without a girl then you can invite her and see what happens. Don’t give excess attention.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 06:31 PM
7

Same with the blue pill stuff. Took me some years of trial and error. When you’re non reactive to a rejection it is a turn on. You may not always get the girl but you do get respect and if you run into the same girl again the interaction can be much better. Being non reactive will get you quite far. For example a girl I hooked up with was snapping me everyday once a day for two weeks. Sometimes a few Snaps. I sent one a day also. Suddenly she stopped a few days ago. I figure she’s busy and this …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 06:15 AM
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Especially in the university setting. It was only your turn. You caught feelings. The girl got cold because she is sleeping with a different guy that gives her tingles or multiple guys that gave her tingles. You may have gotten boring or you were away for too long. It happens. I’ve seen this happen an infinite number of times in uni.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 02:48 AM
2

Gotta have other hobbies and priorities. It’s only your turn is the motto of this subreddit. Even if you’re in a long term thing it’s only your turn for a longer period of time.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/22 08:50 PM
11

Tl;dr become the father figure you never had for yourself and have high SMV and all sorts of ladies will come through. Decide what you want and where to give that value even if it includes crazies.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 03:30 PM
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I got 7 flakes and ghosts in a row and then 2 lays right after. If I quit then I wouldn’t have gotten laid lol. Use the rejections and ghosts for fuel to keep going. Now if you’re getting 100 ghosts in a row get on the self improvement and improve your looks and game.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/22 03:18 AM
1

Lol the bio is the least important part. Show your passion. Do you travel a lot? Have cool friends for social proof? Do cool hobbies? Not needed but it’s a good addition if you have a lot of friends, a really dedicated hobby like music or photography.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:36 AM
14

Friendship and attraction are very different skillsets.
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:55 AM
8

She finally complied because her friend and her friends bf said that it’s okay to ditch the group. Sometimes the girl needs the blessing of her friend to prioritize from hanging with friends to having a hookup.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 12:28 AM
3

Also since these girls aren’t in your social circle you can take more risks to build attraction without the fallout and without the social circle competition.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:18 PM
-1

It’s also preferences of women too. Some love that thrill and adventure and others only like meeting men on their terms. It’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:17 PM
1

Daygame is actually good if you’re above 1% cold approach to lay. Your issue is that you want validation from every woman which you will never get. If you want to improve your numbers you have to get fit and ideally gain muscle.
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:16 PM
25

Women into you will make things easy for you to meet, escalate, and create a situation to fuck. If a girl says she’s busy and does not give an alternative then it is 99% a time waster.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 03:58 PM
25

If you have to settle for a high status beta the drama is the thrill
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 01:00 AM
29

Always better to have irrational confidence than rational humbleness when it comes to dating. Of course the better looking you are the more your chances work in your favor and easier things get sexual strategy wise
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 03:09 PM
33

If you want to get laid at any cost then yup it’s okay to fuck average women because you’re still getting laid. Once you’re higher value and your SMV is high then you get to decide quality only or a balance of quantity and quality.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 04:57 AM
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It’s only your turn. The moment you give vulnerability she’ll lose interest. Have friends where you can express the tears and the pain. Never do this in front of a girl or else she’ll lose attraction 100% of the time. In OPs situation I would minimize and scale back all the resources that were taken for granted.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 06:59 AM
12

yup the times women were most interested in me is when I acted like the dark triad. The moment I gave kindness ladies left. The moment I was vulnerable the ladies metaphorically ran out the door.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/22 07:56 AM
15

Amazing post since I’ve been messaging on Hinge/Tinder and I see the variety of responses. If a girl doesn’t give me her # or IG when I ask for it then I unmatch. If a girl then doesn’t meet up after another few messages on # or IG after asking to invite or offering a reschedule and meeting the second invite I delete the # or IG.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/22 09:14 PM
2

99% of women would be fine with this because if you do the whole divide your age by 2 and add 7 that puts you at 19. When I was 25-28 those were the years I got the most lays and a good portion were with girls 20-22. That said I matched these girls on Tinder.
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:27 AM
3

She put you as text buddies. Ask her to meetup again and if she doesn't then move on.
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:51 AM
0

Read the sidebar for the knowledge. Then start with getting solid social skills and and then practicing the knowledge you read.
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:50 AM
3

When did this become an incel sub lol. Get more fit and stylish and then try talking to girls again.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 06:42 AM
16

make sure you aren't a slob and when in that situation make a comment about your surroundings
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 06:39 AM
2

Vegas
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:31 AM
5

I mean if she’s sleeping with randoms just cause you called out her dirty room but she picks you and flies you to Maui that’s borderline personality disorder. The classic splitting symptom is 100% showing here. I would’ve left. You live and learn. I am sorry for your loss of your son.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 09:35 PM
4

The one flaw of redpill is the Madonna whore complex. It shouldn’t exist. Just be smart and don’t marry the girl who has slept with 100+ men. Just know where you’re at with each individual woman and never take shit from her. If she cheats walk. If she wants to open your relationship walk. If she has a red flag walk.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 05:49 AM
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Good starting list and I'll add more reasons. Being non-judgmental about sex is a good trait to have as a man and being very cool about it which creates a it just happened frame more often. The logistics were very easy. For example buying drinks for her right next to your spot when she's horny enough. Destressing. You wouldn't believe how hard some women work to pay the bills with multiple jobs so it's good to help them destress. For drugs or she is on drugs and wants to experiment. Your race re…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 09:53 PM
3

In your point system would this value (her leaving value) fall if you gain higher value during the relationship?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 06:04 PM
13

It can go up but you have to play dread game. If you’re at 90 and she gives you a huge shit test “Omg are you looking at (insert some girl as hot as her or hotter)” and you come back with some witty comeback that makes her tingly then you’ll gain +1. That said it is much harder to go up.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 05:34 PM
1

Consider Viagra but talk to your doc
/r/seduction02/01/22 10:59 PM
5

You could always get one fwb just to get off and then do your mission and purpose in life. No need to always get to 3-4 plates which is a ton of work. Once that fwb gets into a relationship or the tingles end for her find another fwb.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/21 05:43 AM
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Share your hoe phase and then you two can try out all the stories you’ve done. However do not give your loyalty so easily. Always be ready to next her. Start it off as a fwb and go from there.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 07:58 PM
28

OP is the pleasure of sex type. Men that approach are thrill of the hunt type. You can do one or both methods to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 06:54 AM
4

Whoa what do you mean pay? They’re down if you pay them something? Yikes. Times haven’t been bad due to douches but online dating apps have made it all about looks.
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:39 PM
3

It does matter but what will you do about it? If a girl is racist it is in your benefit to have her show this asap to move onto the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 05:45 AM
3

It’s a reasonable theory but I think womens standards have already risen quite a bit thanks to social media. While women are more woke now and try their best to not be racist I feel they’re way more shallow than 10-20 years ago because social media makes everyone think they’re in their own magazine cover. I know many girls that use an insane amount of filters when posting selfies on IG, Snapchat, and TikTok. However you forget how many girls like men for simply being a bad boy or have a hint of …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 05:49 AM
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If you’re looking to get laid wearing boots and lifts is fine. I’ve personally laid a few girls 1-3 inches taller than me just wearing boots that gave me a couple of inches to be around her height.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 07:53 PM
1

What made you revert? I feel that environment is very important with CPTSD diagnosis.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 07:53 PM
45

Here are some possible reasons of Inferiority Complex. Getting bullied Abusive parents Narcissistic / sociopathic parents Absent parents Getting fucked over by a woman Big failure The first 4 are CPTSD. If you feel inferior or your mental health is messed up you have to consider you might have CPTSD. Childhood or Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. This it the fallout of all of the Narc parents, physical, and sexual abuse. I think OP is right that you should consider therapy but all you need…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 04:46 PM
1

Do you put the same amount of effort in your looks and style? You need to pass an "okay" threshold to get to 1% success rate (approach to lay) Even buff dudes like Good Looking Loser got 6% lay rate on 100 approaches.
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:55 AM
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First of all this might be better in asktrp Because even plain girls can get laid at anytime and create a fwb. That is the way that is works. Women hold the power with sex. Men hold the power with commitment. no yes it does matter although it's up to you to decide. some men want as little n count as possible. others don't care as long as it isn't some crazy number. with caution this sub always says it's just your turn at your age the sub would probably tell you to make her a fwb because they wou…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 07:52 AM
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Dark triad and psychopathy works in short term sexual strategy because all traits are beneficial in the short term. Psychopathy is described in the OP. Narcissism means that the man is self-centered and brings attention to himself. This is seen as self-confidence in the short term. High in Machiavellianism means being able to manipulate to say and do the right things to benefit himself.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 07:20 AM
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If women with tattoos float your boat, go ahead and proceed. Just don't come crying to us when it backfires on you. Red flags are red flags for a reason and its not like the wise users here just pull the "tattoos are red flags" out of their ass. Always have more options. They lean non-monogamous anyways so if you have high SMV sleep around too. If you want something more LTR friendly find girls without tattoos.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:13 PM
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It's similar to looking for jobs. You should date around until you're official. Even when official keep yourself in top form so you have options if shit hits the fan.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:11 PM
-1

Sexual strategy is amoral. You could've still had sex with her if you held frame. You could've hugged her real quick and moved that into a makeout and further. If she is consenting and interested you could have empathy and have sex with her at the same time. Think about it this way. Based off what you wrote she sounded interested in you. She wanted a fulfilling sexual experience with you instead of having to do it for the bills as you wrote.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 08:34 PM
21

Doable but much harder to go from loser to winner. That’s why so many prefer to blame something external. Accept the way the world is and improve the best you can. If really out of SMV range, go monk mode.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 08:46 PM
42

Women can tell based of pheromones and other indicators men who have gotten laid recently and men who haven’t. They can also understand men with high stress, an indicator of lower value, and low stress, an indicator of higher value.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 08:18 PM
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Act like nothing happened. Only talk to her about work related and business related things if your work needs you to talk. Meet other girls.
/r/seduction05/09/19 06:36 AM
1

get boots that gives you a free couple of inches. Now a good portion of women around 5' or 5'1 will look at you for a relationship. Not all of them want the tallest dude ever. You wrote you're socially awkward. Start by trying to talk to all people. Say hi to 10 people. Then hi how are you to 10 people. Work your way up to learning how to make conversation. Then add in humor and flirting.
/r/seduction04/09/19 07:34 AM
5

Todd V, formerly Todd Valentine from RSD, which has its own legal case but he is one of the best mechanical seduction PUA
/r/seduction09/08/19 04:54 AM
1

Even though I logically know about racial disadvantages being asian male due to reading threads on r/seduction, how could I get over it?
/r/seduction15/10/13 04:05 AM
1

I tell her "Look, I'm not looking for a relationship, just someone to be intimate with, you can either walk away or stay". That is the most direct way I have read anyone done it. Thanks for helping
/r/seduction14/10/13 10:18 AM
1

wow i'm going to save this reply amazing
/r/seduction13/10/13 07:35 AM
1

yeah so they get bias based on sucky approaches good points
/r/seduction13/10/13 07:20 AM
1

good point
/r/seduction13/10/13 07:20 AM
3

I understand. Just seems so creepy since so many reddit women say it's creepy
/r/seduction12/10/13 07:31 AM
10

is it ok to talk to girls on the street? reddit threads lately seem to lean towards no
/r/seduction11/10/13 11:02 PM
1

I don't doubt they could do well outside of online dating but this particular method you posted isn't the magical pill for all men unfortunately. I am glad it worked for you though
/r/seduction30/06/13 09:09 PM
4

Try being asian it automatically dips your reply rate to nothing
/r/seduction30/06/13 09:05 PM
1

This only works for big cities and white people so please put that in your disclosure
/r/seduction30/06/13 08:26 PM
1

Good points and feedback. The problem comes in forums where too much theory hinders action
/r/seduction04/06/13 06:38 PM
1

not really just realistic because there isn't a baseline of fairness but you make do with what you have. just see what you want out of this
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:59 AM
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however I'm sick of being alone, cold at night, depressed and watching every girl I want friend zone me and not be able to climb out of the abyss as I watch them date some lame-o-d-bag I can relate but that is their choice. The most control I have for myself is to like myself a lot so I can be content regardless of what happens while meeting enough girls.
/r/seduction03/06/13 05:08 PM
1

I agree the people you do talk to is all you need.
/r/seduction03/06/13 05:03 PM
2

Maybe I'll change and open up too but right now I like the solitude. I agree with your point about it not being that black and white but I used an extreme example to get the point across. A photographer who networks well could probably get success without excessive partying for example.
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:10 AM
1

Social interaction is important and I wrote I chill with my friends and have more solitary hobbies. Talking to people in any way possible is beneficial indeed. Building my skills will continue as well. Maybe my vision will change but right now all that glamour and nightlife seems excessive for my tastes. I have gone out and tried to have fun in it a few times but I didn't like it.
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:08 AM
2

Learning the sidebar will get you more success than not learning the sidebar and I support all the self improvement related qualities on this subreddit. My argument lies in disposition. If you are a quiet guy and you enjoy solitude but you dream of laying hundreds of hot models you will have to decide what is more important to you because those two are not really compatible. Learning game or any skill is one thing. Building value and a lifestyle that allows you to lay models on a consistent basi…
/r/seduction03/06/13 08:09 AM
2

Talk to girls and sometimes first impressions are wrong. The more girls you talk to the better your chances.
/r/seduction03/06/13 07:53 AM
2

Keep looking and meeting more girls
/r/seduction03/06/13 07:44 AM
2

on /r/seduction it is acceptable to many. outside of r/seduction even within the seduction community many believe it is a waste of time or creepy when someone does it more than just going about their day. When it comes to solutions for success with women you need to talk to more women and how you go about it seems to be in the form of social events or bars or something.
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:48 AM
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Thank you for your kind response. I disagree a little bit because the truth is that some men have it easier. Anyone else who says otherwise is deluded. The world is never fair and the hookup and dating scene is no different. Gurus tend to become what their genetic disposition or wealth situation has given them. Men like puacurveball who had a great interesting career and awesome skills were predisposed to success once they learned seduction. This goes the same for mystery who used magic to seduc…
/r/seduction03/06/13 05:28 AM
1

Exactly because of the creepiness and shame of male sexuality so unless you meet them in an "acceptable" way it is wrong. I wrote this specifically to get rid of that mindset for myself and for others reading the thread thinking that they have to be some master extrovert to get laid. An extrovert at parties will get laid more but that is not the only way.
/r/seduction03/06/13 04:44 AM
2

acceptable is through friends, online, hobbies. In my view any open public setting is good but I have had a lot of disagreement with other people on r/seduction and other related forums with places to meet women.
/r/seduction03/06/13 04:32 AM
2

As simple as "talk to girls" when you feel like it and play the numbers game and learn the stuff on the sidebar
/r/seduction03/06/13 03:49 AM
1

She has invested quite a bit because she was the one who wanted to hang out for a 2nd time and she is willing to drive 50 miles to see me but is that only as a friend since she texted me "alright buddy"? Does that mean she friendzoned me already or is that overthinking it?
/r/seduction08/01/13 11:41 PM
1

Good to hear, how is your general approach here? Do you tell them upfront you're just walking by or chilling on campus? Or do you let them warm up first and then let them know?
/r/seduction07/12/12 05:24 AM
2

the campus is interwoven with a city, so non-students are frequent "on campus" Thanks I go to campuses that are interwoven like this to talk to people in general Many colleges have a tribal vibe to them, if you're from outside the tribe It's an extension of high school and I would only do this for bigger campuses that merge into the city thanks for your reply
/r/seduction07/12/12 03:13 AM
1

too homely indeed half girls are awesome
/r/seduction23/03/12 09:48 PM
1

I figure some of them are okay. Just with any Americanized girls, a good portion will feel entitled to everything their way just because they're a girl that needs to be treated right. It should be equal
/r/seduction23/03/12 09:46 PM
2

Hispanic. That sums it up. Im asian btw.
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:47 AM
3

opinionated girls are okay if they're not so self-egotistic and need to be right about everything
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:35 AM
1

Alternative scene, anything except the boring mainstream types I prefer skinny, smaller butt, smaller bust
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:34 AM
4

Asian girls also put me to sleep. I fully agree with this. There's like a weird extreme, they're either too shy or too entitled.
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:32 AM
2

No thanks; too entitled.
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:32 AM
1

Yeah I made fun of her diet. I'm pretty sure she's an introvert meaning I had to be less aggressive. I asked for her number in an extremely unpolished, aggressive manner. It didn't happen the way I visualized it. My mistakes to work on are framing the conversation to be seen as unique, interesting, and confident. (Better comments and questions), More KINO, and making her earn it through qualification (more of it). An introverted girl needs a string that's VERY indirect. "Yeah, you chose water? W…
/r/seduction26/01/12 12:44 AM
1

What types of questions would you suggest? I should've branched it as to why she chose a history major. Then work from there.
/r/seduction26/01/12 12:40 AM
1

If that's your only shot to get that girl at that moment you must approach. If your friend is a good friend it shouldn't matter as long as it's not happening every single time you interact with your friend.
/r/seduction26/01/12 12:39 AM
1

Appreciate the feedback. It does seem inconsistent. I'm pretty sure I went wrong there and it's something I need to clean up. Any advice for being smoother with asking for the #? I usually ask for a # the first time cause I'm practicing for cold approaches. I know I should've kept talking to her to make it not seem like a pure "pick up or desperate" Maybe I should've continued talking to her and then slowly bring in the idea of doing something with her, then having her confirm to do it with me. …
/r/seduction25/01/12 10:42 AM
3

Thanks. Yeah I wonder if that positioning scared her (cause it was exactly as you stated). I figured based on the last FR that I had built enough comfort/rapport. Guess not. Some girls just don't like cold approaches at all and she could one of them. Maybe too introverted, too tired, too pissed off, whatever the case, next girl.
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:29 AM
6

I hold myself back because I am walking with someone or some other lame excuse. It's just feels so different during the day. I am so used to night game. There are so many people around me that I feel out of it to approach. I am not hidden under the music and darkness of night game. Just approach anyways. I was walking with my friend and I talked to a girl and he didn't mind. He just sat down behind me on the bus. That's how it goes. WORK WITH THE URGE
/r/seduction25/01/12 02:58 AM
1

Thanks for that. My buddy got her name.
/r/seduction13/01/12 08:02 AM
7

Best metaphor for game I've seen.
/r/seduction13/01/12 05:33 AM
3

Good post. Do what you desire. As long as everyone is on the same page (consent also), do what you want. Just want to add: Sleeping with a girl is giving her value as well = win-win.
/r/seduction13/01/12 05:32 AM
1

My personal taste. If you want pure physical lust ONS, so be it.
/r/seduction05/01/12 12:01 AM
1

It states he wanted to improve his flirting skills. If he didn't state that, I'd see your argument though.
/r/seduction03/01/12 12:03 AM
2

I've always believed DHV to be overrated. Just have fun and make her have fun.
/r/seduction02/01/12 10:08 PM
1

So if you experiment you're automatically an idiot? He improved his flirting skills and understood the awkwardness that comes with approaching women.
/r/seduction02/01/12 10:07 PM
1

I agree. I wonder if equal economics means less feminine women. Could be the cause there. Other factors I bet. K, good to know when I visit. Thanks for the knowledge. I wonder if there's a generational gap (I'm in my early 20s) for certain taste as the world slowly gets more and more interconnected.
/r/seduction02/01/12 10:50 AM
1

Thanks for the personal account. Don't mind me asking but what country are you from? I've read so many variation on the best country to get girls because of the foreigner thing. From UK, go to East Europe. From the states, go to UK. Just examples, may not even be right. I wonder because I've heard that there's so many different demographics within Amsterdam now. (There's a minitribe of folks that only speak English there that live there separated from the Dutch speaking folks) I'll see for mysel…
/r/seduction02/01/12 10:21 AM
2

It's a numbers game. If I talked to 1000 people, even 1% success rate means 10.
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:55 AM
1

Okay but would it still be dirty if you connected with all of those people on a deeper emotional level? Let's say 20 or so. Some ONS, some FWB. I wouldn't say that's shameful or dirty.
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:44 AM
1

sex with dozens of anonymous strangers kinda is. Not if both parties consent and there's an emotional connection, even if the interaction is over one night for a ONS Example of sleazy: Would you lie that you've been to 50 countries, been in a band to get a groupie type girl for SNL when in reality you've done neither?
/r/seduction02/01/12 07:06 AM
1

Thanks. I am aware of it. 100sets is great but I notice a ton of flakes/no activity as well. If there's a competition (not for success) but for the # of approaches, then that could make more people approach in general. If it's a contest to approach 100, 200, 250, then people could interact that way.
/r/seduction02/01/12 06:41 AM
5

Check out the terms on the sidebar.
/r/seduction02/01/12 05:55 AM
5

When it came to flirting, I knew that my intentions were honorable. I didn’t have a sleazy agenda, I wasn’t trying to trick girls into sleeping with me. That made it much easier. My values and actions were in alignment. I didn’t have to adopt some fake persona to try impress anybody. I believed that the real me was enough. I just needed to get past the fear and anxiety and allow myself to connect. "Sleazy" in that paragraph's content seems to mean: creating a fake persona to try to bed as many w…
/r/seduction02/01/12 05:19 AM
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