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4

This. Anything else is just delaying the inevitable conversation where she "doesn't feel respected" or some bullshit. Make it crystal clear what she means to you from the get-go
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:37 PM
17

I kind of just assumed YouTube would ban him immediately. And I mean that in the most flattering way possible (fuck youtube)
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 05:15 PM
1

I hear you. Point taken and thanks for the fair conversation
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:37 PM
1

Well, I could reverse that and say of course you could pick up a post-wall desperate roastie in a few minutes. If I thought I couldn't, trust me, I wouldn't be here. I would feel like shit after that. For me, I'd rather fondle a 19 year old Korean for $100. But yeah, to each their own.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:21 PM
1

I hear you man. But men can't build anything but themselves in today's world. It's a shame. Hang in there
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 09:48 PM
1

Okay I think we understand each other a bit better. But I want to make it clear I've done the "plating" thing, for a couple of years. I had three at once at one point, one was from a bar where I put in zero effort. So I get your point. I guess where we disagree is where you seem to view it as debasing myself to pay for it. I see it as debasing myself to put in more than ten minutes to get to the point where I can put my dick in a vagina, when I could be at the gym, or working on my side projects…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:46 PM
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I wasn't admitting to being a simp, I was disregarding your opinion. Simp, not simp. Don't care Is it really hard to understand that approaching women, texting them, and meeting them doesn't fit into my goals right now? Or that I see it as a much more valuable use of my time to get to the point where I can minimize the time needed to get from approach to sex? If I apply a monetary value to my time, unless I can approach a woman on the street, tell her to come over and fuck, it's already "wasting…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:16 PM
4

I made it pretty clear I find it to be a waste of time right now, and that $120 of my disposable income isn't a big deal. Instead of asking loaded questions how about you argue my point? I don't recommend it for virgins, or guys who need a cope, or whatever. In fact, it can be damaging to the psyche.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:53 PM
3

Yeah, maybe.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:26 PM
8

It sounds cliché but if you fret over the things you can't change, it's going to eat you alive. Somewhere, right now, a 5'4 dude is fucking a hot blonde. At some point in his life he started making decisions to max out parts of his SMV he could fix, and to not let the things he couldn't occupy his mind. I'm 6'5 but was beta as fuck until I was 34. Still am to a degree. I can't fix my age but there are a multitude of things I can.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 07:50 PM
8

Going against the grain here, but for a guy who is comfortable with himself, cultivating hobbies and life outside work, and genuinely has no interest in any kind of relationship with a woman, paying $120 for an hour to appreciate the female body every few months isn't a big deal. In my city it's legal, they are young and fit (not like the horror stories I've heard about $800/hr vegas hookers who are like 45 years old), and good looking. Just get a plate you loser! Even that would require wasting…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:35 PM
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I mean, if you're happy with your new life direction that's great. But this sounds more like a hissy fit and overreaction to what should have been a simple wake-up call.
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 05:28 PM
5

My experience is very similar, though I started at 33 (35 now). Everything just seems to fall into place when my life revolves around lifting as opposed to anything else. Strength gains are slow but even just dialling my form in a little bit, coming up with a new queue, crushing a pr, or even just showing up when I really didn't feel like getting out of bed-- my day is infinitely better after no matter what I'm facing.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 05:07 PM
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I get triggered almost daily about this. What a fucking travesty modern society is. What a disservice to whatever the human narrative is (or was). All the shit humans went through to come out on top, and the model human at the end of civilization is a fat sack of cellulite that looks like cottage cheese dumped into a condom. It makes me sick.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 08:52 PM
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Start counting on your fingers 1..2..3..4... "A little over 400 I guess" Has never failed to get a laugh. If she keeps pressing, say "Well no one's a saint in 2019." Change the subject, if she keeps pressing, seriously consider nexting her because it will be an issue.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:06 PM
10

"Chinese ass" is definitely a thing. Flat, wide, and a total boner killer.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 03:36 PM
2

Thanks so much. Actually I've been keto+OMAD for a couple of months and feel fantastic, but although I do believe it's possible to build muscle on keto, evidence is scarce... But I'm still 18%-ish bf so I'm not going to worry about that until I'm much lower
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 04:58 PM
2

How do you feel about "carbs as a function" ie. carb cycling around a strict keto diet?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 02:59 PM
223

It blows my mind that today, where women are handled with kid gloves and life is easy mode compared to men, when it comes to personal development they have one fucking job-- don't get fat. But apparently that is too much to handle. Fucking clown world
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:06 PM
1

Who gives a fuck. Chalk it up to experimentation and move on.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:44 PM
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After doing it for a couple of minutes, go up for a deep kiss and say "You taste good". This makes them more comfortable with themselves (girls are always worried about their pussy smell/liquid) and makes it easier for her to orgasm.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:37 PM
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I don't think that's necessarily true. His sister's re-writing of his work didn't really stick and is pretty much only attributed to her attempts to conform his work to Nazism. He has a bad rep because he was relentless in his conviction that the world is split into those who lead, and those who follow. That in itself instantly places him outside any kind of leftist/humanist circle.
/r/MGTOW26/06/19 04:40 PM
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I would say keep only 1,2,3. Less is more This is debatable but I had much better luck with a blank bio. Or just putting my height, but I'm 195cm
/r/askTRP25/06/19 03:10 PM
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Since you took my criticism well I'll say you have good hair and jawline. You'll do well if your texting game is good. Slay away my man
/r/askTRP25/06/19 03:06 PM
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Too many pictures. Take out the ones with any dude who's taller than you Take out the last one showing your ass (why) and shit on the floor No offence but I'd shave because you can't pull off a full beard. It's a bit too obvious Remove the bio. It's not doing you any favors
/r/askTRP25/06/19 03:03 PM
3

Have you guys also figured this out or am i missing something here? Nope, this is our new, shitass reality. Men fighting to be in the top 15% to get the bottom 90% of women. And those bottom 90% are more entitled and spoiled than ever thanks to social media. I stopped chasing white women a long time ago (with exceptions here or there) because foreign women are (were) generally more conservative and traditional. But now even those women are installing Tinder as soon as their plane lands and they …
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:16 PM
5

When I see an email from a coworker and it looks like they just slammed their head into the keyboard a few times, I feel embarrassed for them because they are projecting an image of stupidity. Grammar and vocabulary falls within the realm of "giving a fuck about your appearance". Give a fuck or don't, I'm not going to be "butthurt" about it.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 07:09 PM
1

Lol I love how this made a showing way down the comment chain Well done
/r/askTRP27/05/19 06:52 PM
7

Fix your atrocious spelling for one thing.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 06:10 PM
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You could do that. But as a guy who has been through this a few times, you're going to feel better about yourself if you nut up and do it in person. Not for her sake... Look at it as practice keeping frame and handling things like a man-- one on one.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 06:21 PM
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Actually my fitness journey started before I got into TRP... I had sharp pain in my knee and my doctor told me I lacked supporting muscle and I should try weighted squats. Cleared up the pain in a few months. Anyway. I don't use knee braces or belts. If I'm aiming for a deadlift PR or if I'm doing high volume I use straps. Other than that I don't use anything. I'm 6'5, 215, about 20%bf right now on a cut. Just finished a short bulk. I only started lifting a couple years ago and I was extremely s…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:49 PM
1

You avoid knee and back injuries by strengthening your knees and back. With consistency and a good diet you can add strength well into your 40's. I mean, I wouldn't be pushing for new PR's every week but the thing is most guys just completely let themselves go after 30
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:25 PM
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He's an idiot. FOBy Asians are clean, submissive, and have less of the feminist indoctrinated bullshit that comes with entitled std-laced white girls. And not speaking much English is a good thing. Listening to a white girl drone on and on about stupid shit is a boner killer.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:13 PM
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People will be enthralled with a show like "Mad Men" and the way men behave in the show will soak a woman's panties-- but when those interactions are formalized and put into writing-- it becomes an offense. In general, people don't like to think about how they feel. Especially women. They are waves crashing on a rock. Try telling a woman she's being unreasonable-- it makes her lose her mind. tingles uber alles
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:10 PM
1

It's over. You're 20. Go have fun with someone who isn't mentally over you
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:45 AM
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Don't take her to taco bell a couple hours before, that's for sure
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:23 PM
2

If you are in such a sad state that your only source of validation is fucking a fat girl, then she wouldn't have helped anyway. Preemptively block her, stop scrambling to get your dick wet, and focus on yourself for a bit.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:26 PM
1

Yeah I hear you. It took me a while but it feels somehow peaceful to accept that it just boils down to genes+effort. A very simple mix of things that are entirely within my control and entirely out of my control, and that all the veneer of social conditioning we operate in with other people doesn't really mean anything at all. It's just a means of control and pulling wool over our eyes.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:14 PM
1

So your story was basically mine until I hit 32. Wife "fell out of love" and dumped me. Went through the phases. I was never really angry at her, just myself, for believing in fairy tales. A funny side effect of TRP is that I'm actually in a place where I think to myself, "Why didn't she dump my ass earlier?" I was a true skinnyfat beta. Anyway. Not sure where you are mentally but you need to make the gym your default. Unless you're at work, sleeping, or balls deep, you are in the gym. It's not …
/r/askTRP18/04/19 05:58 PM
3

Came here to say this. It's really good.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 04:12 PM
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You're fucking 26 years old. Pour some cold water on your head reassess whatever life decisions have put you in a scenario where you're obsessing over any girl that gives you a whiff of her pussy.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 04:35 PM
2

I guess how I feel after fucking/jerking is pretty easy to identify. But I don't have a lot of data tracking my success rate and how far it was since the last time I did either of those things, so...
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:05 PM
1

Totally depends how long it is. I keep mine about 1/2 inch and I put raw shea butter in it every morning. It adds a bit of sheen and keeps hair from going rogue and sticking out Any of those beard-specific products are just a waste of money. The oils are just mixtures of almond/jojoba/olive oil or whatever and a cute label. Go to a soap making shop and buy a liter of almond oil and call it a day
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:01 PM
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I'm definitely more confident a few hours after a fuck. I'm definitely less confident after I play with my dick like a pathetic monkey.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:56 PM
3

Short and sweet. I like it
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:55 PM
10

That is not dread. That is a guy who, despite being an "absolute Alpha" as you say, was entirely emotionally invested in a female getting cucked. This is why for the most part marriage+TRP are at odds with each other-- he didn't see this coming so he reacted like a child. Dread is just reminding a woman that you are ready at any time to walk out the door and leave her behind.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:16 PM
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That void is the creeping realization that the time you spent putting your penis in a vagina you could have been writing a book, learning a skill, painting a picture, learning a language... You know how to get pussy now, so put it on the backburner for a while. Instead of putting your dick inside some talking dick warmer, it's time to fill... yourself.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 09:27 PM
4

I do every single thing in your list after researching and self-experimentation for years. It works. People get their omega ratios completely fucked and wonder why they don't feel good. If nothing else, eat lamb OP. You'll wake up with a diamond cutter in your pants in the morning
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:56 PM
2

You are trying too hard, and she has (sorry to tell you this) checked out of the relationship. Security has killed attraction. Read this, process it, accept it OP As soon as a woman pops out a baby, she realizes she can get your cash without needing you around anymore. She has no use for you. It's over. Get snipped you dummies. Freeze some before you do, if you really want a kid later.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:51 PM
5

Hello fellow anxiety bro. First, it happens to the best of us. But since it seems to be a chronic issue, let me ask: Do you have morning wood Does porn make you hard Do you refrain from jerking off too much Do you lift weights, have a decent diet If you answer "yes" to all of the above, it's probably rooted in anxiety. You have self-confidence issues, and unfortunately the only fix is the long slow road of getting the fuck over it by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations. Not just with wo…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:03 PM
2

"And this one is my favorite poem... And this one means love is eternal in Chinese.... And this one is my mother's middle name... And this one~~~" It astounds me that they listen to themselves repeat this shit and never stop to think, "No one fucking cares, do they?"
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:56 PM
2

I agree completely. But what he's asking for is already unreasonable (losing a bunch of weight in a short amount of time) so...
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:16 PM
8

Listen to this man. Lift like your life depended on it and start fasting. Do 24 hours and work your way up to 72. You can easily lift after 48 hours fasted (though your endurance does take a hit) and you will shed fat like crazy.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:21 PM
2

Your dick said "Welp he's trying to scissor fuck this girl so clearly he doesn't need me anymore" and bailed on you. I would soft next. If she hits you up then try again, otherwise move on
/r/askTRP06/04/19 03:06 AM
8

This is obtainable by most men with two solid years of strength training. No excuses boys. I'm 35 and reaching this after a year and a half-ish. The gym is your default. This means, unless you're at work, in the hospital, or balls deep- you are in the gym.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:41 PM
4

I did carnivore for a few months. I enjoyed it, and even made strength gains. The problem is your body is using the meat to produce glycogen for your muscles (instead of straight carbs) so you need a fuckton of it. There were days where I'd have steak and eggs for breakfast and then an entire roast chicken for dinner and still be hungry. It was prohibitively expensive :(
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:48 PM
2

This always works for me: "Okay well there's a city full of good looking guys out there. Go find one." It's always the same thing: silence, followed by them changing the subject, followed by better-than-usual sex. Because the fact is-- you don't care if she walks out the door to find a better looking guy, right? If that's not the case, you need to start at step 1
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:59 PM
13

the availability of no fault divorce removes that component and makes marriage impossible. Bang on. Right after it happened to me, my three closest friends got engaged. I always supported them, but in my head I was thinking, "Fucking hell guys..." 70+% of divorces are filed by Women. Like you said, no fault is just maybe tilted in one direction?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:50 PM
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Exactly JP has an absolute faith that "fixing" the world is to fix yourself, when that's done, have a family-- the idea being that your "goodness" should only propagate into the world when it can contribute positively to it. This, in my opinion, is a fantasy-like interpretation of the world where a grand narrative can be achieved. TRP tends to lean towards "Enjoy the decline", in that, feminists have permafucked everything and there's no turning back. Still fix yourself, just... Don't get marrie…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:04 PM
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Dear Diary It has now been 19 hours since our last encounter. The scent of her hair still lingers in my mind. I have refrained from showering in an attempt to keep every trace of her emanations clinging to the cells of my body-- my soul erupts with desire to court her, but alas our last meet was interrupted by Jerome the strapping young produce boy, who seemed to occupy her attention for long enough to pull her away from me. With time...
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:41 PM
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Get snipped and don't get married, boyos. But seriously, get snipped. I caught one in the bathroom scooping cum out of a condom and trying to ram it up her holiest of holies. The look on her face when I told her I had a vasectomy and only wore condoms for STD's
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 09:15 PM
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You're going to look back on this with regret many times over the next couple of decades unless you ditch the bullshit LTR and redeem yourself immediately. From someone who was committed in his 20's and only now free in his mid 30's-- don't fucking waste it. The number of girls who threw themselves at me and I thought I was being "virtuous" by turning them down still ties me into knots. You have one life my dude. I know this is Redpill 101 but apparently it needs to be said.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 08:54 PM
1

I was into Buddhism in my 20s. Honestly meditation is the only useful part of it. The whole religion is based around tearing down our perceptions, namely our sense of self. It's more or less totally at odds with TRP. Meditating is great and highly recommended though, of course.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:57 AM
1

When you're mid-30s, you have to date younger women. Women my age (34) are trash. They are full of self-loathing because they're not married yet, their sex drives are (typically) in the shitter, and they're just boring. The wall is real. Milfs are fun for just sex if they are recently divorced and were married and loyal throughout their 20's, but otherwise younger women with older men is just natural. I grew a beard recently and have noticed way more attention from younger girls. I was on the su…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:30 PM
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Under postmodernism, you can insert your own reality into the world and achieve a feeling that some might call power. "Women can be CEOs too." They were right. Some women can. Maybe, on average, they aren't as likely as men to be CEOs, but it can happen and was an inevitable and reasonable result of the rise of feminism. I am 6'5, 220, fit, and fairly athletic. But I'm in my mid 30's and no matter how hard I try, I will never be an NFL player. Maybe, if I find a time machine and go back twenty y…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 05:48 PM
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Not sure what anyone else expected from "When things are ramping up with a woman" besides escalation, but okay.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:21 PM
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My point is. They will sit there and stare at me for long periods, conversation or not. And to be clear, this is after escalation or even sex, I'm not just standing at the bar staring at them.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:00 PM
3

I don't mind seeing the blood, the part that gets to me is the sensation. It's stickier than pussy juice and it just feels wrong. But if I'm really horny I do it anyway
/r/askTRP29/01/19 03:55 PM
2

Just out of curiosity, how did you fuck it up?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 10:28 PM
38

People actually call instead of text?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 01:51 AM
5

This is one story about one girl presented as a demonstration of something I had a hard time believing when only reading it online. That's it. You want to read a bunch of my apparent personality traits into it? Knock yourself out.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 08:46 PM
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In order to adjust behaviour for best results, we need to make observations-- that's all I'm doing. I don't think anyone is bitching here. If anything, I find her story to be tragically hilarious. I learned a long time ago not to feel anything at all about whatever whims a woman feels.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 07:47 PM
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What I left out of the OP to keep it short on fluff is she told me about a couple of the really top-tier BB guys. She's in her late 20's and she said repeatedly that she wants to settle down (she knows damn well the wall is coming). One middle-aged millionaire Chinese guy took her out over a period of weeks, bought her whatever she wanted, took her on a vacation, paid for every meal... And eventually offered her marriage. He would probably buy her a car, they'd have a swanky apartment downtown, …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 09:45 PM
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After growing up reading heaps of bullshit on the internet I'm inclined to skepticism. Combine that with deep BP conditioning and, well, it's really hard to swallow some RP theory without seeing it firsthand. I'm learning.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 06:37 PM
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I'm not gaming at the moment so I didn't really have designs to try to fuck her last night. I figured if it went in that direction... cool. But after just our conversation I had to take a shower. Yikes
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 06:15 PM
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This whole thing was shocking to me in two ways. #1 I've always been sceptical of AWALT but this girl comes from a very traditional household. Good relationship with both parents and she cared for her dad as he withered away from cancer over the course of 1.5 years. No history of abuse that I know of. #2 Emotion (or just tingles?) can subvert hypergamous tendencies. She had access to objectively much better guys. But she is dead set on taming the wild boy who treats her like shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 06:11 PM
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I was just listing all the traits she told me about him. I doubt BPD is good in any way except being able to be completely detached from other peoples' emotions at times
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 04:15 PM
2

This happened to me with an ONS. I had been drinking all afternoon/night and was exhausted. Couldn't stay hard. So I finger fucked her until she came, ate her out, and we fell asleep. She woke me up a couple hours later begging me to do the exact same thing. At this point I recovered a bit and could get it up so I got off later. My point is, yeah it sucks, but it happens, and you damn well better have a backup plan to get her off. If you're relying on your dick it's going to bite you in the ass …
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:37 PM
2

The other day I was on the subway and saw the goofiest looking guy. He was maybe 5'5, no jawline, nerd neck, weird bird nose. But he was with the hottest girl in the car and was having blast not giving a fuck about whatever people like me thought of him. He was groomed and well dressed, and didn't have the demeanour of a whiny manchild. You give too many fucks. Stop giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:32 PM
3

Yup. I worked night shift with a bunch of men for a couple of years. The way they gossiped was far worse than I've ever seen from women.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 09:58 PM
2

I refer back to that post sometimes. It was fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 04:51 PM
5

...? I don't.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:16 PM
4

My gym gets fucking busy around 5am so I get up at 3:30am so I can get half my routine done before I have people wanting to work in on my rack. Then I go home, eat a massive breakfast, shower, shave, and out the door. This essentially neuters my social life because I'm in bed by 7:30 but whatever. Monk mode time
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:23 PM
6

For some reason seeing a woman eating McDonalds is a massive turn off. I always get the feeling her pussy will taste like secret sauce and she'll smell like old cheeseburgers
/r/askTRP16/10/18 02:55 PM
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For me, nothing changed my mentality more than when I was able to have multiple plates. Even though I had a lot going for me physically-- my self esteem was in the shitter my entire life. I always assumed I was a burden, that people were going me a favour by giving me their time, that I wasn't worth much more than the shit scraped from the bottom of an outhouse. When it got to the point where I was turning plates away, or choosing which one I felt like fucking, it's as though all the RP truths c…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 11:56 PM
2

Gotcha. Will do.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 01:56 AM
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It's meant to be sarcastic/deflecting because she initially thinks I'm just going to say "three" but it's obviously not three hundred. But yeah, point taken.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 05:03 PM
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How many girls have you slept with? I get this all the time. My go to's are: What, this week? Count three on my fingers-- Around three hundred
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 04:28 PM
1

This is why I feel like my ex did me a huge favour in initiating the divorce. I had felt it building for a few years prior, but I didn't even entertain the idea because of pride and the idea that I was building something with her. Now, two years later, she's still begging to be back with me, I have the sympathy of my family because she's the one that bailed, and I have my freedom. It could have been a lot worse.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 03:16 PM
1

That's why I'm confused about mine. If it was an abuse thing she wouldn't want my hand on her throat. I'm probably just going to drop her, not so much because of this but her tits are kinda small.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:06 PM
1

Okay
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:56 PM
1

Good idea but I think you're right about the assault thing. If she's so prickly she won't suck dick she's probably looking for trouble. I'm probably just going to next her
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:49 PM
1

I enjoy eating pussy regardless. And yeah, my point was that she does one standard thing but not another. I never gave hints of oneitis or her being a unicorn. It's not a big deal, I've just never encountered it so I'm seeing what other guys think about this situation.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:47 PM
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