Matched with this pretty traditional foriegn abroad Asian girl who speaks enough English for us to have a basic conversation. She also had just moved to my city 3 days before we match. After talking to her over two days, I got her number. But moved to SC cause it was easier for her to translate.

After talking to her over a bit I say we should meet up. She said she is scared and needs more time. Okay, I get it. New to the states, don't speak much English. Eventually she tells me her roommate likes her and how he is so nice and treats her good. But she cannot love him aka zoned. However, she won't meet up with me unless he goes with.

Fast forward a few days, we decided to meet at gym. She didn't tell him I was gonna be there. We met, small talked and then her friend comes running over to try and cockblock. Talked a little more and I went to workout. After like 10 minutes, the friend literally disappeared. I went and talked to her again, kino and etc. She was telling me about how he say it dangerous to meet guys alone and etc then i went back to working out. Told her to come say bye if she leaves before me. She didn't but messaged me she was leaving.

Turns out he went home, grabbed her phone, gave it to her and told her he was gonna wait in the car until she was done. So she didn't want to feel bad for him and just left then.

Told me she was glad to meet me and how handsome I was. Tried to set up a date again but still "needed more time" because she is scared and that her friend is worry about her. Prior to this we added each other on IG where I have photos of girls I've photographed and stuff. So it's not like I'm a creepy guy.

The last foby girl I hooked up with took 2.5 weeks before we met. Went the whole I'm scared to meet and so shy and her original flake ended up being true. Wasnt until the 2nd date till we fucked.

I have other girls I see, so i dont mind working on this girl. Any tips?