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Guy here. The exact attitude you have right now is proposal cryptonite. For any masculine men, their primary love language is acts of service. However, if you are the type of person who NEEDS things to happen on their terms... Then commiting acts of service feels hollow. It feels like... i am gifting you a 100k - but you feel like I already owe you 100k. Giving you that gift would not put you in a good place. It would barely put us at zero.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/26 09:32 AM
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I love my wife deeply. I met her when I was red pilled already. The difference is, that before redpill, love isnt truly love - because it is based on a wrong understanding of the other party. But if you can truly see a person for who they are, fals included - only then do you have the opprtunity to fall in love truly and deeply.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/26 03:54 PM
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Nice one. Your best piece so far,IMO.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/26 04:14 AM
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Are you not attracted to him? Or is he not attracted to you? How does this problem manifest? Do you like eachother?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 03:15 AM
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I find that my business mostly scratches the same itch for me. (Strategizing, competitiveness, making numbers go up, grinding) I also have some hobbies that i try to stick to before i reach for games. (Martial arts, music) When I play games, i do it mostly to socialize with friends who live far away. My best friend lives in scandinavia, i live in the Mediterranean - we finished Baldurs gate 3 and divinity 2 together, which was nice. Basically, you need to find a row on the ladder of priorities w…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/26 05:30 PM
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Try jerking him off with edible lube. If he is close, finish it with your mouth. No reason to give yourself lockjaw. However.. lasting 30 minutes on a blowjob is likely due to psychological / sensitivity issues.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/26 07:37 AM
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Bro, this is your mum. And your wife is not even your wife. She is barely even a girlfriend. You'll never forgive yourself for dumping your mum for a woman past her prime that you don't even have kids with. Where is this supposed to go? Do you want a family?
/r/askMRP08/11/25 09:34 AM
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Man here. The red pill is a community that tries to fix broken men. Naturally, most men in the community are broken. Naturally, this also attracts many grifters who sell themselves as red pill gurus to financially take advantage of these broken men. These men are not good partners, because they are still in the process of fixing themselves - and some may never achieve that. The faster they want to fix themselves, the higher the rate at which they have to face uncomfortable truths about themselve…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 07:56 PM
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I would suggest working on your sensitivity to rejection. Let‘s make a thought experiment: Imagine you asked your boyfriend to play a video game with you (instead of having sex) - and he declines you request. Does this hurt more or less? It probably hurts less. But why? Probably you care less about video games than about sex. And having a sex-request declined hurts more, because you care more about sex. But why do you care more about sex? What does it make you feel? Or - sometimes more important…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/25 06:44 PM
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A word of caution, because I have been that boyfriend: While it is true that young men have higher Sex drives, they are also emotional creatures, like everyone else. When having Sex, a good lover will also open up to the emotions of the other party and be tender, available and conscious. That can be emotionally draining though. Especially if saying no is not truly an option, because it comes with an emotional reaction, Sex can become emotionally draining and feel like labor. I am not saying this…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 02:32 AM
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Imagine not being able to discern moralizing from pragmatic long-term thinking.
/r/askMRP28/04/25 02:45 PM
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You got it backwards. The reason this works is because some (most) women have insecure attachment styles. And so do (most) men. So you have an insecure woman who can't deal with security, so she creates drama. Then you have an insecure man who can't deal with insecurity, so he overcompensates by going into provider mode. Your solution proposes making her even more insecure. Which is weak, reactive behavior. It may seem to work short term, but it will create more problems long term, because she w…
/r/askMRP25/04/25 12:10 PM
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That's why it should be combined with horn goat weed. Works perfectly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 06:23 PM
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To be honest, most doctors don't give a fuck about men's libido issues and don't test very throughly. It could also be an issue with dopamine, prolactin, shbg or aromatase, thyroid, etc. Example: Some men have a a harmless tumor called a prolactinoma which keeps them in a constant post orgasmic refractory state. Do a thorough blood panel and ask chat gpt about the results. As for supplements: try cialis and/or horny goat weed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/25 07:35 AM
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That's not even the bare minimum. That's not something you love. That's something you tolerate and that you gaslight yourself into loving. I am guessing you don't even know what love is. Because if you did you would know it is not this. If your wife was 100 percent loyal, not-crazy, caring and passionate for you, pretty and clean (wtf)... ...that would be the bare minimum for a wife. That would set the stage for love to develop on top of it. These are not utopian visions. These are very basic th…
/r/askMRP15/01/25 11:49 AM
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Mfer learned about entropy.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/24 11:36 AM
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Sorry this happened to you. Are you by any chance from a non-western country? Because for my very western sensibilities, your fiance should be in prison and your social worker fired. I have bad news for you. Your fiance will likely so it again and if you stay in this relationship, you will experience a world of violence and pain. Men like these don't get better - they get worse. Leave and get protection!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 08:59 AM
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Great post! I would probably break the first part into two paragraphs as well. Because there is a difference between what she THINKS she can get vs. What she can actually GET. This is often reflected by women THINKING they can GET a better man into a relationship - when the man only wants to fuck her and then drop her like a bad habit. Other times, a woman may objectively be able to get a better man, but will not THINK that she can.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/24 01:00 PM
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She thought she could get a better man, but she was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/24 12:57 PM
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That's why I added the second paragraph. The key is independence. you must always be able to walk away and replace her. You can have your shit together and enjoy a free, happy life on a small budget.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/24 10:11 AM
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That's why I added the second paragraph. The key is independence. you must always be able to walk away and replace her. You can have your shit together and enjoy a free, happy life on a small budget.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/24 10:11 AM
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Back in the day, I was a musician. Most women I dated had more money than me. But it worked since I existed outside of societies hierarchies. It's not a problem if your woman makes more money as long as she does not control you with the money.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 09:19 PM
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Dating apps are like sales. If you suck at it, you will hate every minute. If you know what you are doing, you will never be broke again. As an average-looking guy, I ordered women to my house like pizza. It's all about having a repeatable system.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/24 02:33 PM
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Dating apps are like sales. If you suck at it, you will hate every minute. If you know what you are doing, you will never be broke again. As an average-looking guy, I ordered women to my house like pizza. It's all about having a repeatable system.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/24 02:33 PM
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Hard to tell, but have you noticed that all your sentences start with "I"? You talk a lot about what you are, yet very little about what you do and how other people react to it. People always say that attracting men just happens... but that's only true for people who naturally do the right things. everyone else needs to modify their behavior to get a different output.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 01:13 PM
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My wife has a similar condition. It's called PMDD. It was exactly like you described. It got better over the years. Now she is only depressed, not aggressive like she used to be. But that was with a significant amount of self-work, reflection, and therapy involved. (Fortunately, my wife has the will to work on it.) This is probably not going to happen with your wife. She severely lacks impulse control and she has no will to work on it. A surefire way to tell is the fact that she gets angry when …
/r/askMRP01/08/24 09:11 AM
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Super solid post!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/24 02:39 PM
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Boundaries: Women confuse boundaries constantly. Imagine two neighboring states. One state’s boundary goes like this: „Don‘t cross our borders. Don‘t steal stuff from us. If you do, we will consider our boundaries violated and we will shot.“ The other one goes like this: „Also, don‘t cross our borders. Don‘t steal stuff from us. Also, give us all the stuff that we ask for. If you don‘t do the last part, we will consider our boundaries violated and we will shoot.“ Guess which one is the woman. Wo…
/r/askMRP02/04/24 05:14 AM
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Also - RE: Your Fight - here are some responses: „Are your boundaries more important than my boundaries.“ => „To me, yes. To me, my boundaries come first. I am not compromising them to fit yours. That‘s what boundary means. If our boundaries don‘t seem compatible to you, you‘re free to leave.“ „Your sleep is more important than my feelings?“ => „Yes. If I don’t sleep, I don‘t function. That helps neither of us.“ „You can‘t just move on and leave me mad like that.“ => „I can. Your feelings are no…
/r/askMRP02/04/24 05:08 AM
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Your problem is that you lack nuance. And this is because you lack experience. Going from your old post, your initial assessment is correct. Your woman does not respect you. Let me explain your situation with a metaphor. Imagine you were playing a game. It‘s fun for both people. But now you realize the other party is bending the rules a bit. So you knock the board and the pieces of the table and storm out. Now you have nobody to play with. And you seem like a weak upset loser. You went from 0 to…
/r/askMRP02/04/24 04:53 AM
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Biggest plus is probably that I truly DNGAF. I like her. I even love her. But if she left me tomorrow, my life would not be a single bit worse. I made a few things very clear early on. I told her early on that everyone is replaceable. Me, her, doesn't matter. I told her that I understand that there are times, when her biology will tell her to do things that aren't compatible with a monogamous marriage (I.e. hypergamy). I told her that i am going to judge her by how well she has herself under con…
/r/askMRP02/03/24 09:03 PM
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My wife has become pretty red pilled. I don't use the jargon (its really only suited for discussing things on a forum), but we talk about the underlying psychology all the time. She used to oppose me all the time in earlier years, but the fact that I am consistently right about people made her come around. (I have the superpower to predict every break up in our friends circle.)
/r/askMRP27/02/24 07:35 PM
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What you are stating is survivorship bias. But that does not help OP, as she is not among the "survivors". We don't know if the survivors were successful because of the dating apps or despite them. We don't know how many more people could have been successful if the dating apps were actually working efficiently. What if dating apps are only creating 20% of the matches they could? What if 80% of the people who use them could find a partner? Would you still call yhe current state successful? I wou…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 07:29 PM
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Popular does not mean successful. It also does not mean that the local dating market is efficient. The companies owning these dating apps are designed to make their investors money. They do this by being just successful enough to keep you coming back for more. Not by creating a truly efficient market aimed at finding people their match. It's a bit like Amazon. Amazon is shitty for buyers and sellers (price and quality wise) but it's also the most popular place to shop.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 07:00 PM
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Online dating apps are not the reality. They are not meant to get you into a happy relationship. They are meant to keep you single and scrolling. (Same goes for social media)
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 10:20 PM
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I am not really sure if this is the right place for this kind of question. Let‘s hope the mods don‘t give me a slap on the wrist for answering you. First of all - Shit falls downwards. Don‘t stand where it falls. Fogg and evade. „I know you are a good person and you are trying to do right.“ „But I have enough work to do as it is and I can‘t help you.“ „It‘s not your fault, but it is your responsibility now, because you didn’t refuse.“ „I suggest you speak to the boss, tell him you only accepted …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/24 07:10 PM
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Personality ist not fixed. Its a tool that guides our attention and energy. It changes in response to our environment. Eaxmple: You are a different person on vacation vs. Work. You are different when you are hungry and cranky. I used to be super neurotic. Now i am stoic like a rock. I changed my environment and let go of the toxic people that used to agitate me. Maybe you need to do some travel to find yourself? Maybe move? Therapy also works, though. It just tales a while. Maybe start Journalin…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 06:44 AM
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Same situation here. Marrying a girl with decent character is a game changer. But... make sure you have fucked enough women. If you feel like you didnt get your share, it will radiate into your marriage.
/r/askMRP12/02/24 07:26 PM
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FIY - if some guy on the internet needs tp remind you to breathe and use a calendar, the gene pool is better off without you.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/24 08:08 PM
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As others said, it has very little to do with the number of sex partners u had. However, some women tend to feel wider when they are not comfortable with the situation. Their canal reflexively widens to avoid unpleasant sensations. I suggest you experiment a bit with pelvic floor training and find a partner you feel safe with.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 05:41 AM
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Cross fit is for pussyies, so that checks out.
/r/askMRP17/01/24 05:18 AM
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Nice take, haven't thought about it before.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/23 09:14 PM
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This one specifically? Probably gone. Others like her? Pretty common. However I strongly suggest you evolve your taste in women. It reflects your lifestyle choices. Which are weak and disgusting. Think of it. Would you want to marry some girl that was sucking frat dick being basically a maid while her dude did nothing but drugs? Of course not. Then why ltr her? I tell you why. Because you are lonely and insecure, and quality women are already giving you a wide berth. Your lifestyle is gonna get …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/23 04:16 AM
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You might want to read up on attachment styles. Your wife's brain is basically retreats into Single-woman mode. It's probably how she has learned to form attachments as a child. That being said... women generally detach more quickly than men. Yours especially. What makes this one difficult is that she attaches slower than she detaches. But the answer is all the same.. mare you the type of man that women quickly attach to? It not - why not?
/r/askMRP24/11/23 07:01 PM
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Counter point: What you experienced in your childhood shaped your Personality. Your personality shapes your decisions. It's involved in everything single one of them. There probably hasn't been a single thing in your life that was not shaped by your insecurity in some way. Until you uproot it and get rid of it for good - that's when the illusions start to break. That's when you see things for what they are. You'll probably reevaluate a lot of your life's decisions then. Also, you'll probably be …
/r/askMRP16/11/23 08:03 AM
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If you cant live without a girl, that's a surefire sign you should not be living with that girl. She is not your girlfriend, she is a cope. (and judging by her behavior, you are not her boyfriend, you are the mealticket to a single mum that is manipulating you) Not being able to live without someone means you have a hole inside yourself. That hole needs fixing. Not filling. There are probably some childhood issues that lead you to believe that things will finally okay when you are loved. That, i…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 09:22 PM
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My man, that guy is a saint. He saved you not from one, but TWO cheaters. Next time, play it smart and introduce your girl to him early on. Maybe even pay him to give you proof. Might save you a lot of trouble and time. :)
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 10:09 PM
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They don't need to sabotage you. They just need to be neutral to give you non-fuckable vibes. To be fair, I see your point and I have some great female friends as well. But just because it's your or my experience, it's not generally applicable. Most people on this board are social retards, and their "friends" probably are as well.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 06:06 AM
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I knew I wanted to marry my wife after a month. We got engaged after a year. But since covid happened we only got married 3 years later.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 05:45 AM
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Most people are incredibly bad intuitive statisticians. We FEEL like there should be more of those people, but only because we pay close attention to them. It's very similar to buying a car and then suddenly seeing that car everywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 09:34 PM
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Nice theory and all - but bringing a girl to your friend group is only gonna work if that friendgroup wants to bang you. Otherwise, they are just adopting their frame.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 09:03 PM
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What the fuck doth I just read?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 06:47 PM
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This one is right down my alley. First of all - yes, there are higher pursuits than sex. But unless you solve the topic of sex for yourself, it will keep getting in the way with everything you do. Business, Marriage, Enlightenment, you name it. (Think about all the „successful men“ who ruined everything for themselves because they could not keep it in their pants.) What does it mean to „solve sex“? It means proving to yourself that you can get attractive women to fuck you enthusiastically on a r…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/23 10:13 AM
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I meant that neither of them have a future in stock for YOU.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/23 05:35 AM
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This woman is fine with letting your children STARVE - and you are here theorizing on reddit. How much more of a sign do you need? Leave. Now. Get your fucking house in order.
/r/askMRP25/09/23 11:25 AM
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Drop them both. Neither of these have a future.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 11:15 AM
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Enforce boundaries early. Ever notice how borders have a security zone before the checkpoint? That's so everybody knows to behave near the border. That's what you need. Example: She raises her voice at the dinner table of menial things. "if you keep acting like that, you're gonna have to eat alone." If she keeps going, get up and leave. Get in the car, get yourself a nice dinner and eat alone. (with your phone on silence) If she ignores you when you come back, great! She accepted her timeout. As…
/r/askMRP01/08/23 09:08 AM
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I am not a drug-dealer, I am a drug-MAKER. My dealer always comes by on tuesdays.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 11:44 PM
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You are doing the right thing. In sales there is this concept of "rapid disqualification". It's when there are more leads to close than your sales team has time for. That's pretty much the situation you are in if you've got your shit together in your late 20s. Way too many girls, and so little time. You can't possibly afford going through the motions with all of them, because you'd never get anything else done. Personally, I had a two-strike rule. One strike - she get's ignored for a week. Secon…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 11:41 PM
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Who cares what it comes across? You are living in other people's frames, my guy. If something is a net-negative to your life, you remove time and attention.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/23 11:25 PM
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It pays to have city knowledge. If girls are new to the city, tell them you know a cool place nearby. I always know a few quiet places with great views. Even better if you have a car. Take her by the hand and pull her Slight towards you. "hey I'm gonna get some air. You wanna come?" Often it's easy as that.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 12:27 AM
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Move to a bigger city. You dating pool is too shallow.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 07:18 PM
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You are reading too much into this. Next time, improve your logistics, as other users mentioned. If she is cool with hanging out with you, she already decided to fuck you - provided you don't fuck up. Your only job is to remove the logistic obstacles. Make it easy to say yes, hold frame, be friendly and outcome detached. You got this!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 05:34 PM
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Canned opener, 5 minute of banter, drinks or coffee near my place, offer to show her my cute cats, bam. Works any day of the week and you get a good night's sleep.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 10:10 PM
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You missed the point. Why the fuck would I pay for a table at a nightclub, when I can order women like pizza via online dating?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 10:30 AM
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This. It's absolutely possible for a short fat bald ginger with autism to pick up girls at the club - it's just not very likely. It's way better to leverage your strengths in an environment that compliments them.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 05:39 PM
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I glad your penises honor is intact. All 3 inches of it.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 02:29 PM
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High quality post! I'd like to add that women dating up usually leads to women dating men who are more successful and therefore often older than themselves. This almost always means you got your shit together more than her. You are more mature, more resilient, more experienced. What could you possibly gain from open communication with her. The chance she can teach you anything is near zero. Especially when she has her own emotions to work with, there is not even a driplet of brain juice left to …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 02:00 PM
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Basically, yes. High stress leads to inhibited emotional control, which then leads to the trauma being triggered more easily. It's actually REALLY easy to trigger people's traumas once you know the trigger and they are tired, stressed or hungry (ego depletion)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 03:36 PM
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Each trauma comes with at least two sets of "Valences" that get forced into he subconscious. Valences are behavioral programme's that ensure future survival of the traumatized person. Usually there is a victim Valence (the traumatized persons behavioral routine) and a winning valence (what the traumatized person considers the winning behavioral routine) Whenever the trauma is triggered, the traumatized person tries to enact the winning valence at all cost to ensure survival. This is the reason w…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 01:50 AM
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Anything that can get you on a stage will make legs spread. That is so true, it almost hurts. :D
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 08:24 PM
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Exactly. It's a similar thing when going to asia.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 08:22 PM
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That's a totally unrelated topic. Being the best you can be is self improvement. Being the best available at a given moment is sexual strategy. It's not mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 07:20 PM
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That's quite a deep one, so let me just brush over it really quickly: Basically, resilience is like a tank. Building a bigger tank is hard, making sure you drain the tank slower is easier. Change your environment. Move away from triggering surroundings Cut off contact with toxic people Live below your means so that your are not constantly stressing out about money Make a mental effort to only worry about things you can control Take inventory of the stories you tell yourself about yourself. Examp…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 06:08 PM
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That's also very condensed!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 04:00 PM
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That's exactly right. The internet unified all the markets. There is so much competition and it's extremely competitive. The only way you can win is by treating your own contests - and rigging them.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 02:30 PM
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Sleep apnea can also be the results from building muscle quickly, because the body has not learned how to sleep with the extra bulk. It's very common among bodybuilders and strength athletes.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/23 12:40 AM
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As a disabled person who is also ugly, you are supposed to be on the bottom of the totem pole. Now you are an ugly disabled person who is jacked and can beat them up. That fucks with their perception. They now rank lower than the ugly disabled guy. People have a hard time accepting this, it triggers them and they engage in irrational behavior to reframe the situation for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 07:17 PM
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High in openness, risk aversion, neuroticism and extraversion. Low in agreeableness, consciousnesses and emotional stability. Basically the perfect psychological template for a girl that's always in a mood and will eventually cheat on you.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 07:14 PM
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Oh boy, that's a tough one. However, the other guy liberated you from cheating girls twice. Learn your lesson. Never date musician girls. Don't give shady men access to your loved ones. (I was a professional musician for 10 years, I had to learn that lesson as well.) Build a new life and protect it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 07:38 PM
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This is the way to look at it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 07:33 PM
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As a musician I can tell you it is all in the delivery. Having a great audience helps, having good material helps, having great skill helps... But at the end of the day it is all about stage presence. The key here is of course to not give a fuck, but also not to the point where you become disconnected and tone deaf. Sometimes people give you great input, you gotta reward that with reacting to it. When she gave you the gang member line, you could have told her you want to teach her the secret han…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/23 07:51 AM
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You broke no crucial rule. You are a kid and you learned how to have a relationship, which is a valuable skill to have. Last thing you want is be 30 and having to figure out how to have a girlfriend. If moving abroad is you next step in life, your next lesson to be learned is how to break up like a man. No drama. Just tell her it's over, it's not her fault, she is wonderful but you need to move on. Not being afraid of breakups is a legit superpower. So is learning to walk away from a situation t…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/23 09:23 AM
2

All these are major red flags. This woman is not LTR material. No growth mindset. Ditch her.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/23 09:19 AM
4

If you don't want to punch yourself from five years ago in the face, you are not growing.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/23 09:18 AM
1

Actually, if I were a woman, I'd be more concerned about men with several serious previous relationships who still aren't married. They have a track record of committing to the wrong woman and making bad relationship choices. Man who truly stay single and own it, even though they could easily get a relationship, are probably a safer bet. Their relationship means something because it is not easily squandered. However, there a some hole sin this theory, since there are obviously sex addicts and gu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 06:43 PM
3

Think about it: A good looking man with great income, who has got his shit together and his mind sorted - what the hell would you imagine he does when he is single?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 08:31 AM
16

I know of several HVM who use them to order women like pizza. It's very easy to get bunched up with those, so make sure you discern yourself from the crowd.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 07:26 PM
113

First of all: Let's a raise a glass to your Gramps! The old generation had their flaws as well, there were plenty of valid reasons to do things differently nowadays. Our job is to distill what works. What you need to do is honor what made your gramps great, add your own wisdom and pass it on. If done properly, what used to be your grandpas personality (as well as yours) will turn into an incorporeal force that shapes the lives of your descendants.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/23 01:06 PM
1

I know no place where you would find it as condensed as I put it there. Took quite some rummaging around in esoteric rabbit holes. Best source to start, imo, is a free PDF called self clearing by a guy who calls himself the pilot. It's about 800 pages and it will give you some solid basics. The pilot was a former scientologist who released a lot of stuff on the internet until he died under mysterious circumstances. Make of that what you will. Please be careful with that stuff and don't mix it wi…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 03:52 PM
1

I know no place where you would find it as condensed as I put it there. Took quite some rummaging around in esoteric rabbit holes. Best source to start, imo, is a free PDF called self clearing by a guy who calls himself the pilot. It's about 800 pages and it will give you some solid basics. The pilot was a former scientologist who released a lot of stuff on the internet until he died under mysterious circumstances. Make of that what you will. Please be careful with that stuff and don't mix it wi…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 03:39 PM
2

I know no place where you would find it as condensed as I put it there. Took quite some rummaging around in esoteric rabbit holes. Best source to start, imo, is a free PDF called self clearing by a guy who calls himself the pilot. It's about 800 pages and it will give you some solid basics. The pilot was a former scientologist who released a lot of stuff on the internet until he died under mysterious circumstances. Make of that what you will. Please be careful with that stuff and don't mix it wi…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/23 03:39 PM
8

Think of it like this: Everything that ever happened to you, is a mini-story stored in your subconscious. The more impactful (emotionally charged) the situation, the deeper the story gets imprinted - and the stronger it affects you. Normally, your brain „makes sense“ of an event and and stores it as a story. As you progress in live, and learn more, this information can be added as context to the story. Example: You were really impressed by the older teenagers behavior and thought it was really c…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/23 06:24 PM
38

I spent about 2 years doing weekly self regression to eradicate my insecurities and childhood trauma. I have nearly zero insecurity about anything civilian. I can confirm that my success with women went through the roof. It allowed me to walk the fine between being engaged and emotionally available, but also able to disengage at a moments notice when my boundaries were pushed (as in shit tests)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 02:02 PM
8

The only way to hold frame is to have a powerlevel sufficient enough that whatever they do will not affect you in any negative way. Most CEOs are just normal human beings and a lot of them have no clue about shit either. But a mafia boss is dangerous and can fuck up your life. However, most people you are around are neither a ceo or a mafia boss. And getting your powerlevel up to the point that nothing they do affects you is rather trivial.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/23 02:00 PM
15

Fat bald brown guy can't get laid on tinder. Imagine my surprise.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/23 09:27 PM
6

This is it. Plenty of cuties where I hang out.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 05:12 PM
1

I never really ask. People are very forthcoming with information with me for some reason.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 05:08 PM
3

Dude here. For casual dating I do not care. For wife material, 5 is the max.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 11:22 AM
30

Major factor is probably the trauma. Good friend of me was beaten and tortured and his long term memory is shit because his brain is permanently self censoring just to function. My theory is that it censors out everything that might remember him of his traumas. Stopping with all the drugs and binging might help you, but for my friend the game changer was moving to a mor positive environment. He was able to improve his behavior right away, and his brain got significantly better over the next 12 m…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 07:31 AM
3

As an employer, that is not true. Most people are actually doing less work than what they are getting paid for. Every company has 5% overachievers who generate 95% of the revenue. The rest of the people are only there to offset costs that would occur if no-one was doing the thing they do.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 09:25 PM
13

Underrated comment. The real red-pill is how to fuck your employer.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 07:45 PM
3

Based Bayesian comment! :D
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 07:07 AM
5

Oh, I forgot - it means passing as „conventionally feminine / masculine“.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 03:14 PM
7

Star-Spangled Banner intensifies There already IS a red-pill for transgenderism. It‘s called „gender is performative“. In short: You are a woman if you can PASS as a woman. (And you are a man if you can PASS as a man) Which of course, the left does not like, because most of them pass as neither.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 02:28 PM
88

Because you are in love with the picture in your head. You love the person you loved in the past, not the person she is now. Letting go of that love means letting a part of yourself die.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 09:32 PM
4

Confidence is reeled in with a thousand foot rope. It takes time. Don't forget your growth is exponential. Once you have reached critical mass, getting girls will be like ordering pizza.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 08:33 PM
4

That's called selection bias.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/23 06:12 AM
0

That's simply not true. Overload a muscle often enough, eat enough protein, it begins to grow. It just takes years of consistency, which the fitness and influencer industry don't like to tell you because it turns people off from being motivated. (also, more diverse movements than squats and donkey kicks) Yes, Some women are lucky because they deposit fat there without losing the shape. Good for them. But the human body is extremely malleable over long time. Most of us aren't genetically lucky (a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 03:37 AM
6

Man here. First of all: unlike boobs, ass can be trained. Go to the gym. Second of all: building an attractive body through exercise and healthy eating will easily put you in the top 3rd of looks for people your age. Third: this is a you-problem, not a him-problem. You have not received enough compliments in your formative years, so now there is an unfulfilled hunger for that. Understandable, but that's your life now - you can't expect another human being to compensate for that. So you now have …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 07:59 AM
1

Second this. Sounds like adhd and vitamin deficiency.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/23 09:23 PM
6

I bet 100 dollars that there is something else constantly agitating you in your daily life and you ex was the thing that made it bearable. Shitty roommate? Shitty living conditions? Shitty job? Shitty health / physique?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 05:27 AM
11

Wedding singer here. Can confirm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 08:03 PM
11

Dude. I am a vegan and I agree with you on every line. Hunting is less cruel than even farming crops. Provided you are a good shot. :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/23 07:51 PM
1

You don't have to step on other people. There is such thing as a win-win interaction. Regards, A successful person.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 07:32 PM
25

Why would a man risk getting stabbed or sucker-punched in a streetfight for a random woman he does not know, because the other said something mean/creepy? Cat calling may suck, but it‘s not a reason to get in a fight over.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/23 06:20 AM
6

At this point maybe you are just a creep?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 05:59 AM
3

"I choose drinks at your place." That was funny! It almost un-cringed the rest of your post.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/23 12:16 PM
7

Well, you are in luck, because I am high-stakes negotiator. Divorce (or the threat thereof) is pretty high stakes, so this one is right up my alley. I also wrote a long-ish post on this called "respecting the jab" on the main TRP sub-reddit. You can find it in my post history. The problem with ultimatums is that when you feel you need them, it is already to late. The other party usually feels entitled to their behavior because you let it slide so many times in the past. So it is less a boundary-…
/r/askMRP30/12/22 01:00 PM
4

Depends on how well you can handle getting cheated on. Because the likelihood is extremely high.
/r/askMRP23/12/22 06:04 PM
1

I used tinder gold and it was like ordering pizza, very solid. (I have good pics,interesting bio, live in a big city)
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 02:31 PM
41

Dude here. Sorry to break this to you, but yer boi is gonna fuck. Either he is going to cheat, or he is really an inconsiderate, oblivious moron. Both is not good you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 03:26 PM
3

You are right. When you are young, people's default assumption is that you are an idiot. This sucks a lot if you are a very talented outlier. Only a competent person can accurately judge your competence. Everyone else will just resort to heuristics like age, looks and whatever. Hence you need an older, established, competent person to be your champion.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/22 08:48 PM
2

But you don't need to study business in uni, you can read a book for that. The only reason to study business in uni is getting a decree and connections to get into good positions.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/22 08:34 PM
2

That was my impression as well.
/r/askMRP23/10/22 09:34 PM
51

This is good advice. Also one addendum from someone who studied art: Don't study art. If you want to be an artist, you are better off investing a year or two into doing art full-time whilst working a side gig, because that is what the life of an artist is like. If you cant make it profitable in two years or if you can't stomach the sheer difficulty of it, do something else. You are not cut out for it. You just like the idea of being an artist, you don't like the life of an artist or even art tha…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/22 09:24 PM
14

Here is the deal - is she an effective leader or is she just bossing people around? Is she taking responsibility when her leading produces bad results? Most women trying to be leaders suck at it. They want to boss people around, they overthrow everybody's decisions, but when the chips are down, everyone else is to blame if things go south. If she sucks as a leader, and just likes to be a boss - simply don't give her power. Make your own decisions and see them through. And if she makes a decision…
/r/askMRP23/10/22 09:15 PM
6

The problem is not in the „how“ it is in the „from where“. Right now, you are in a position of weakness. You are in this position because you have acted weak in the past. Every ultimatum you make will make you sounds weak as well, because it is seen within in the context of your prior weakness. If you were in a position of strength, you would be there because of prior strong behavior. The very same ultimatum will be seen as strong, because it is seen within a context of prior strength. An ultima…
/r/askMRP23/10/22 12:56 AM
1

Quality answer!
/r/askMRP22/10/22 09:23 PM
1

Maybe the real mission is the shitlords we meet on the way?
/r/askMRP22/10/22 09:20 PM
2

Most likely he is going to be CLEANING houses and cars and watching other people sell them - hopefully picking up sales skills along the way. Next stop is most likely going to be a junior sales position, meaning lead-generation, cold outreach and pre-qualification. It‘s also going to suck, but it breeds sales skills. Stepping down to become a bartender during uni makes sense - you can‘t run a full fledged sales job while studying. Bartending and promoting pays off from the social learning curve …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 11:59 PM
58

Hello Kid! I am 34 years old, so twice your age. I feel your pain, because I had a similar backstory. Today I am abou 2 years away from being able to retire and I could basically fuck a new girl every day. So let's see how I can help you. My first advice: SHUT UP. Keep all of the "men and women" and "alpha vs beta" bullshit to yourself. No one wants to hear that. 90% of the people out there don't wanna hear it and will instinctively sort you into the "creep" category. The other 10% already know …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 09:56 AM
23

Don't worry, you'll be alright. Read the sidebar and lift. Your kindness is not a bad thing. Kindness is always good and morally right. However, people don't value it when it does not come from a position of strength. For other people to value your kindness, they must see you strong. So strong in fact, that you could be a total asshole and still get things your way. So strong that just using your power and status could get you things way easier than being kind. Being kind under those circumstanc…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 05:54 PM
5

This may hurt but it is the truest comment here.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 06:21 PM
5

Oof - this one hit close to home. Especially the part where you went into how most interactions with women are boring now for you. I have been there. It's like being able to play a few songs on guitar really well, but people aren't really interested in your art. They just want to hear wonderwall. I eventually dialed it waaay down because I realized I was turning myself into a consumable. I was being dated for the sought-after experience I could fire off reflexively, not because there was any gen…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/22 04:31 AM
2

Fun fact: I actually fought a TKD blackbelt and broke his foot. Saw his spinning kick come from a mile away and made him kick my elbow with the span of his foot. I have been practicing martial arts for about 30 years now and I can smell the hyped up vibes you give off from a mile away. You are practicing a game of acrobatic foot-tag derived from Karate. It's not a warriors art and not a tool for enlightenment. And it is certainly not good for self defense, because for that you would need to pres…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/22 12:07 AM
1

You're gonna be real emberassed of that post, once you actually learn a thing or two about martial arts. 😄 Spiritual value can only be attained in truth. And two people beating, kicking, and grappling the shit out of each other in the Octagon is a truthful as it gets - no ifs and buts. Anyone who claims to teach you self-defense for the street is very likely a charlatan. Especially, when based on TKD.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 11:09 PM
7

Could you find a less adult way to handle this? That's just borderline manipulative.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/22 07:22 AM
3

Most dance classes I have attended had a LOT of things going on during after hours.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 06:34 AM
21

Looks matter, but guess what: Most people look average. And most people get laid. Yes, very attractive people get laid more - but attractiveness is a competitive advantage, not a competitive requirement. I am an average looking dude (average height, glasses, fit but not shredded) and I can easily fuck a new girl every week. Why? Because I spit tight game, have an interesting life and I optimized my process and logistics.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 04:02 AM
3

I knew a guy just like that, but he was called snake. :D
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 04:52 AM
3

Learn about business, first of all about idea validation, lead generation and sales. Read: - the Almanach of Naval Ravikant - zero dollar startup - the MOM test - predictable revenue - skin in the game In that order. You could probably scale your personal trainer business a lot more. You are disciplined enough to be jacked at 35, you should be disciplined enough to build at least a moderate 6 figure business. If you can, try to find a way to build a B2B-business - it yields more revenue and can …
/r/askMRP24/08/22 02:50 AM
1

I can teach you how to make six figures per year with 2 days of training and 3 months of practice. I might even do it for free just to prove a point. :D
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 06:46 PM
5

First of all, understand this: To socially inept people, other people are like a black box. They just keep throwing input at it to get what looks like the output they think they desire. Second: Remember people get murdered by crazy people. If you spot crazy, cut them out of your life. Even if they don't kill you outright, they do so in slices by eating away at your time and energy. They had 20+ years of daily compounding to build up the crazy - you are not gonna fix it, not even with hundreds of…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 01:16 AM
19

You are right! Better analogy: A musician practices every day with lots of deliberation and within dedicated time frames, so he can spontaneously jam out whenever the situation presents itself.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 01:06 AM
39

You basically told us to not philosophize by philosophizing. :D
/r/TheRedPill25/06/22 07:45 AM
17

Yoga is awesome and you can do it for free. Any type of sport will do. You can also learn to dance, take singing lessons or learn an instrument. With all these things it is important you do them because you enjoy them - not becausenof the image they are supposed to project about you
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 12:34 PM
11

Dude here. I lost a ball to cancer, so my t levels are naturally lower than before. Let me tell you from experience that there is a wide gap between the stage where low T affects your libido vs when it affects physical energy. Libido goes out the window way earlier. The way you describe him sounds very similar to me after i had my surgery. I suggest supplementing with vitamin d3, omega 6 and zinc and pine pollen. Also, he might be overdoing it with the sports.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 01:08 AM
1

Powerful post right here.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/22 12:21 PM
3

From a perspective of game theory / economics, your theory works out. However, you are missing a key variable: The size of the dating-pool. For the majority of our evolution, our potential dating pool consisted of our tribe and maybe the neighboring tribes. There was only so far you could move up via hypergamy because eventually you exhausted the dating pool and had to pick and settle. As a woman, you could *see* the upper end of the spectrum and your position relative to it. On a similar note, …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 09:10 PM
5

Simple: Cost of opportunity. The time (and by proxy energy) you spend fighting fools could be invested in something that actually matters in 5 years. If someone "fucks" with you and you feel compelled to fuck back at an equal or greater level, you just lost. Imagine it this way: I pay a hobo 10 dollars to shit on your doorstep. Now, because you got angry, you pay another hobo 15 dollars to shit an even bigger turd on MY doorstep. Effectively, I just stole 15 dollars from you that you could have …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/22 01:02 AM
5

To be honest, I don't. The question is really not "what" to read, but "how" to read it. Most of my thinking relies on pulling bits and pieces from other works, toying around with them, and then trying to assemble them into a unified "theory of everything". It is usually the process of trying to fit new learnings into an existing worldview and the friction that comes with it which allows me to draw the most interesting connections and conclusions. I rarely make it through an entire book, because …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 04:30 PM
28

Being brown is a lot like being black: It polarizes and amplifies everything you do. If you look average, have a thick accent, can not hold good eye contact and are not socially calibrated: Brown creep. If you are jacked, well dressed, groomed, less of an accent, good eye contact, socially calibrated: Exotic fuckboy.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 10:43 PM
22

Thank you so much! Comments like this make the time spent writing worth it. :)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 07:51 PM
5

You are missing a key factor here: You make a temperature check so you have enough prep-time to swap out the chick for a different one from your roster. Also - most things I do to enjoy myself are not going to be date activities. So when I am up for a walk-and-coffee date and she does not show, I‘d much rather be in the gym, working or riding my motorcycle.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 05:13 PM
-7

Dude here. I see the reasoning behind that sentiment and ultimately - it is your space, so it‘s your rules. However, I do quite enjoy posting around here because I feel it is an investment in the future of our society. The more women can be empowered to live life in a way that is a) healthy and balance and b) also gets them what they want, the better. Since the input you are looking for is mostly from HVMs, maybe you should look into verifying the HVM-ness of the men posting here, so people know…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 05:01 PM
1

Dude here. I am ten years older than my wife. We don't get looks in public because I look 5-6 years younger than I am. (At least to people in my age, younger people can still sense me being old somehow 😄 ) The most important aspect to make it work is that you have to be in similar or compatible phases in life and that you have similar values/ethics/mindsets. When I met my wife, I was a music-hobo-playboy trying to get his act straight and breaking into the business world - she was a business con…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/22 11:53 AM
2

Dude here. Probably lack of testosterone or some some building block of it. Try this: fishoil, zink, vitamin D after breakfast. 7 salt Magnesium before bed. Pine pollen extract for extra libido. Get him out into the sun and let him have as much sleep as possible. Cook good, healthy meals. It takes about 2 months to swing things around, so set your expectations right.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 02:51 PM
25

Dude here. You put the finger on a thing that has been in the back of my mind for quite some time now: "If you come from a difficult background, you have enormous difficulties spotting a good partner and even more so potential." Damn, that hit hard. Also, kudos to you being there for your men. Women have enormous transformative power. Mine transformed me from music-hobo to successful businessman. :D
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 09:21 PM
2

It sure as hell is not prestigious, otherwise she would milk that shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 12:43 AM
4

Mid 30s guy here - this is genius advice. Can confirm!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 11:55 AM
8

Instructions unclear. I ate a beta male.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 12:53 AM
3

If you do BJJ with plenty of sparring, you will burn that fat off pretty quickly - IF you keep your diet clean. Just focus on wrestling with the heavy boys and also do a lot of stand up grappling. You will build a wide back, as well as beefy arms and shoulders. You will probably not build a lot of chest, as most pushing motions that involve the chest are avoided via proper framing. If you do BJJ and Fokus on Chest, Shoulders and legs, you are going to be fine. Source: Me. I do mostly BJJ, Runnin…
/r/askMRP07/04/22 10:24 PM
3

What's with the adhd crowd being unable to comprehend a 5 minute read recently? It's not like you're all some executives with a highly constricted schedule.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 06:39 PM
6

Spicy take take, but I'll allow it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 05:40 PM
22

Newsflash: you are not a kid any more, the ante has been upped. That skinny son of a bitch would do even worse nowadays and he is gonna do way worse in 10 years. The more you succeed, the more you beginn to push the envelope and the more pronounces the feeling of weekness and powerlessness become. This is the ultimate red pill: being powerful is hard and lonely. This si the reason why many people are so afraid of succeeding. This is why they sabotage themselves. They instinctively feel what it w…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 03:16 AM
2

There is several factors: Cost of Opportunity: Going out costs money and time I could be investing otherwise (lifting, business, actual fucking) Better Pre-Selection: Going out requires me to compete in an environment for the chance to interact with women who may want a totally different thing from the interaction than me (attention). I have to jump through way more hoops. My day has only 24 hours and I was pretty booked with tinder and the occasional hookup at private events. I never really wen…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 09:18 PM
2

If what you said is true, then TRP would be just one OP saying: Shut up and lift.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 09:14 PM
5

The prescreening analogy is pretty neat, but the reality is more like 1 out of 100 will agree to a date on a cold day game approach, and then about 20 out of 100 dates will get you laid. Yes, it is still a numbers game, but it also means there is 500 women for every lay. You get much better results by investing some money in Tinder Gold and simply swiping right on those girls that swept right on you. Go on a date 5 days a week, get laid once, use the weekend for hanging out with your buddies or …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/22 10:56 PM
13

Why is everyone complaining recently about the OPs being too long? Has the short-attention-span-generation arrived at TRP? It took me 60 seconds to read the whole damn thing. :/
/r/TheRedPill20/03/22 10:50 PM
-2

If someone "aspires" to teach, run as fast as you can. Good teachers have to chase off students with a stick.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/22 09:28 PM
2

Well, think about this: All the good things and the bad things you just mentioned - it is all inside of you, all of the time. How bubbles to the surface and controls your behavior, however, is largely controlled by your outside world. The military was an outside world of discipline that, despite everything that went wrong, kept you in check to a certain degree. Now that your surroundings have changed, different aspects of your being come to the surface. Therefore, if you want to live a peaceful,…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/22 11:28 AM
3

It's alright... I am still feeling out my audience and balancing out the elements. 😄Thank you. ​ I enjoy writing with a little prose and philosophical concepts thrown in. I get that it's not for everyone, but I gain a few followers with every post and this is more fun than sitting down and writing a book in one sitting. It is similar to fixing a computer: Some people google the youtube tutorial and follow the step-by-step guide. Other people are interested in HOW and WHY the fix works.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/22 08:19 AM
3

If saying fewer words was an effective way to convey information and produce change in people, then the TRP-sub would only have one thread saying: "Shut up and lift." ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/03/22 08:14 AM
2

Were you able to be disciplined and strong-willed in the military?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/22 08:10 AM
2

I work in sales, but I like philosphy. 😄 I get plenty of shit done on the daily (I even wrote an OP about it). These are more like my after-hour-musings. 😄
/r/TheRedPill14/03/22 06:06 PM
12

It's okay - a lot of the smooth-brains on this sub are only here for the "muh hypergamy", "muh grind" and "how get vagene" posts. It's eternal September.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/22 05:18 PM
1

This sentence aged well. :D
/r/TheRedPill13/03/22 01:55 AM
1

I literally wrote all those things. - Don't set off peoples disgust (by displaying low-value behavior) - Find ways to move around those people and never let any one single person block off your access to opportunity My life is anything but a mess. I make a crapton of money, I have a great circle of friends, travel the world and do cool shit. and rarely is anyone ever shitty to me, because the people I interact with are heavily pre-selected. And if you think life is not that adversarial - maybe y…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/22 10:22 AM
1

I assure you, you are not. The relationship the working class has with big-corporate is borderline abusive. But the white collars don't have it much better... they simply have nicer cages to distinguish themselves from the unwashed masses.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 11:58 PM
2

That is a perfect example. I never give a price to people who have not shown at least a modicum of commitment.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 11:57 PM
1

Think of it this way: No rich person (barring those who are new to the lifestyle) is going to spend hours on your page, comparing prices or doing your the favor of reading all your texts. They want little appetizers to tingle their senses. The whole process of investing work to find out more, to have an experience that is exclusive to them - the journey - that is what interests them. If you want to deal with art to rich people, think of how you can provide a journey they can tell their friends a…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 11:55 PM
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I do in fact have severe ADHD, but I am of the "dreamer" archetype. I zone out when I am bored but I am not hyperactive. Regarding your advice - yes, that is all true. But not when it comes to dealing with Lids. You see, Lids don't hit strong people. They have them thrown out of the venue. Lids cross your lines repeatedly, because that is what puts you in your place. And Lids talk behind your back - to your manager. Lids don't need familiarity to shit on someone - they are perfectly fine shittin…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 11:52 PM
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Being yourself works, if your self is awesome. ;) Otherwise, you need to but a little spin on it. Usually, everything great comes at a trade-off. Being aware of your strengths and their trade-offs is what beats those questions.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 11:44 PM
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In case you did not notice - the world is going down the shitter. We are witnessing the end of the US-Empire and the next 10 years are going to be more (and worse) of what we have seen so far. The only way to immunize against the death-throes of an era is being rich and high enough in status, to have diversified assets around the globe. I don't plan on having a bigger house and a bigger car - I plan on having several houses in tax havens all around the world. I mean, I get the punk-rock nihilism…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 02:17 PM
1

AHIQ - sound like a noise Goofy would make. 😄
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 02:12 PM
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Spend time writing. My older material is way worse, you can look it up. It takes some time to find your voice. After a while, you begin to have a structure in mind. ​ Mine is as follows: Interesting Intro-Line, Opening quote, opening anecdote, exlaboration of the core concept, general advice, actionable advice, snappy tie-up.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 02:09 PM
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Much appreciated. The art dealing world is pretty good for moving up socially because as an art dealer you can easily drop the common social status cues (suits, watches, cars) and switch them for those relevant to the niche you operate in (the people you hang out with, individualist clothing, the events you frequent). If you hang out more in the art world than your customer, you will know more and have a kind of status that money can not buy. You can also create the aura of elitism by doing the …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 02:07 PM
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One of the problems most people, especially from working class backgrounds, do have, is that to them interviews are another hoop to jump through - and therefore they start behaving like a trained poodle. In the past, having a job was life - so, over generations, a lot of anxiety around those topics built up in people and was handed down. Here is the thing though… you are not a poodle, and you don‘t have to jump through that hoop unless you want to. In interviews there is usually three types of q…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 08:32 AM
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You can improve your zoom interview success rate by treating the area in fron of your camera like a filmset. Get a good camera, a podcast mic and lighting… or, if you can not afford it, at least shine a lamp directly in your face to light it properly, have a pristine room and have a few conversation pieces in the back ground (for me it is a guitar, a Buddha statue, a motorcycle helmet and some self-painted artwork). People may not consciously see it, but it sends a message.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 07:26 AM
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Part 10 is still in the drafting phase… I forgot about that until you asked :D I don‘t have a blog, because I feel I don‘t have a high enough output. But I might turn these into 10-minute podcasts when I have enough of them.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 07:21 AM
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I'd judge myself in the same league as you - and my genetics are probably slightly worse. During my time on Tinder I pulled about 50 women in 1,5 years, most of them hotter than what you posted there. Happy to provide pics via dm. Since our product is about the same, here is all the other things I did different and better than you: - I picked a city with a favorable men-to-women ratio, lots of tourists, and great logistics. - My photos were WAY better than yours. The only good one is the paramed…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 11:22 AM
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Frame is the structural integrity of your own, private reality. It governs our feelings and behvavior. If you have strong frame, your internal reality remains un-impinged by outward factors. If you are very powerful, you have the ability to project your private reality outwards and also govern other peoples emotions and behavior.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 01:40 PM
2

Floor blowjobs as well? Because you can damn well get the clap that way.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 02:06 PM
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Yup. Beware of traveling girls. At least the bar skank is honest. :D
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 01:48 PM
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You deserved that, you dirty commie! ;) But if there is a lesson to be learned here: Stay away from travelling yoga girls. They are bar skanks in a different flavor.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 12:23 PM
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I read that household husband thing as an offhand remark and I have made that same remark countless times. (and I earn mad cash) Don't forget: we are only seeing half the picture here, op might as well be over-estimating the seriousness of that comment. I strongly suggest not reading too much into ops post and giving her advice based on that - especially when one has a strong emotion to what op wrote. It will just turn the whole thread into a self reinforcing eco chamber. Example: you assumed op…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 06:53 PM
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You misunderstood. The problem is not in the feeling of ick, but in the unquestioned computation that led to this feeling. Everyone is allowed their feelings, but as a mature human being, one should always question the computation that led to the output of that feeling at least once. Now most people will do anything but that. I am of the strong conviction that people should first double check their own psyche before we demand someone else alters their to fit our needs. Usually the stronger the d…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 06:44 PM
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I think this is entirely your personal issue. It is understandable you have certain rational requirements and you are entitled to that. But having an ick is an entirely subconscious reaction, a gut reaction that you are now trying to backwards rationalize. Instead of thinking about him, you should contemplate your own character and find out where that gut reaction came from. Where did you pick up the conception that this behavior is icky? From what I read, he seems like a decent guy and if you s…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 11:53 AM
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Yep. Throw her on the bed, maybe eat her out for a few minutes and then pound her hard because you find her irresistible. Being irresistible to a high value man is like crack to the female psyche.
/r/askMRP02/02/22 09:31 AM
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You wife/gf has not learned how to properly deal with difficult situations emotionally. Her go-to-choice is to immediately „vent“, which you both seem to confuse with an actual conversation (it is not). And you have not learned how to deal with other people’s emotions / venting / seem to be unaware you are being vented to. Regarding the first situation: 1. A problem that can be fixed right away is not a problem. It is an unpleasant situation you for some reason choose to endure. 2. A problem tha…
/r/askMRP01/02/22 04:26 PM
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You could probably cave man her any time of the day. :D
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:54 PM
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I don‘t really have any input, except that coffee in the morning would lead to me being on the shitter for half an hour instead of fucking.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:51 PM
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These people are not your friend. You are the court jester / village idiot. Find a new social circle, move to a new city. Reinventing yourself is easier than fighting an uphill battle against the opinions of people who ultimately don‘t matter anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 07:44 AM
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Did roosh melt down on shrooms? That's how he found God?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 04:48 AM
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She is normal weight and I share her life goals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 01:06 PM
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Learning to put your dick into women on a reliable basis is essential in building a good life... But it is by no means sufficient. It's just that lots of people on this bord are hung up on that topic.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 01:13 PM
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Terrific advice to pissing your life away and chaining yourself to a shitty mid tier shithole.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 09:40 AM
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If you have to work more than 5 hours per day in a freelancing gig, you don't have a business, you have a job without any of the benefits.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 03:13 AM
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I'd suggest freelancing in a b2b context, mainly coding or sales. Dropshipping, crypto and nfts are too volatile as a main source of income.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 02:52 AM
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You heard of intermittent fasting, did ya..?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 02:36 AM
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It's a lifestyle that is unattainable for you, you misshapen autistic butter-golem.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 05:45 PM
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Have you ever tried eating several meals during the day in a hot ass country? :D
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 04:48 PM
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Usually the same for me... But whenever I am in a country with some proper sun, my sleep patterns just magically turn healthy.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 04:46 PM
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How do you piss on a bird though?
/r/askMRP17/01/22 06:18 PM
3

Some are simply better at being perverts than others. :D
/r/TheRedPill14/01/22 08:20 AM
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A little addendum: If you find yourself missing the wonderful relationship you had, realize this: Regardless of what you doing - That relationship is gone. That relationship has likely never existed - because wonderful relationships don't break up in the first place. And it will not magically start to exist, even if you get back together. No amount of make up Sex is going to bring it back.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 05:10 AM
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“ I'm not the sharpest...“ \thread
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 05:23 AM
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Pervy yoga teacher vibes. Love it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 05:07 AM
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Dont worry, no offense taken. Asking how to get rid of laziness is like asking how to get rid of gravity. You can‘t. You can only fight gravity. You can do so by pure strength, by proper structure or by momentum. The best approach is to a) build mental strength, but to also b) and c) implementing proper structures and workflows that conserve energy. All tasks drain energy. But sometimes you can do them in a way that builds momentum (think cycling), then it feels like little effort and is quite f…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 07:50 AM
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Looking like a twink works till mid 20s... Then you better be jacked.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:24 AM
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Don't be a sperg. Learn to differentiate between what is your relationship to your wife vs your relationship to others. You go primal and alpha on your wife if there is conflict. But if you interact with other people who could potentially fuck up your life, you do stakeholder management. Contrary to what everyone else here says - talk directly to your MIL. (but update Our wife on the plan first) Tell her you are reeeeallly sorry of the inconvenience, and of cooourse it is a lot to ask, but at th…
/r/askMRP05/01/22 10:06 PM
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Similar story for me, except that it went on for 10 years and I was super broke all the time. After I snapped out of it,I banged 50 girls jn a 1.5 years and leveled up my carreer. Now, 4 years later,I am a Chad,I play in a band,I make 150k a year and I do a shit load of other cool things.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:27 PM
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I read this thread right when you posted it but somehow I forgot to reply. But better late than never… My perspective is that of someone that might be considered a HVM on this forum. I work in a high paying job and run several companies, I am fairly good looking for my age (33), I am physically fit and driven as well as emotionally stable and mature and hoist of other loundry list items. I am currently engaged to a wonderful women which I will marry, if covid wills it, this summer. Before I met …
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 08:48 PM
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As a cancer survivor I concur.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 04:12 PM
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I agree with your headline, but your „advice“ is a surefire way to drive any sane man away from you. The best way to have generous people around you is being generous yourself. However, being generous is an art - a lot of people who consider themselves generous are either wasteful, habitually stuck in covert contracts, or they have no boundaries at all.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 03:06 PM
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The thing you need to understand is this: You have no right to demand anything. Especially you have no right to demand anything done a certain way and up to your personal standards. (the same goes the other way around, BTW) If you ask your husband to take out the trash, he might do so. But not because you are entitled to him doing that. He does it because he loves you. Never ever confuse one for the other. You s.o. Is not your employee. A relationship is two people giving freely what they deem a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/21 04:40 AM
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If gym wasn‘t an issue, you would not weight 300lbs. It’s good to hear you are not cripplingly obese, you probably have above average genetics, but that is worth shit right now, because you have a shitty work ethic. For what it’s worth, you might as well be inbred. And sorry to bust your bubble, but those „100bls of pure muscle“ on your frame are just going to make you look like an average dude. As for your wife: If your wife really wanted to be in your life, that would include your sex life and…
/r/askMRP27/12/21 02:02 AM
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You should add „having a big dick“ to your upside… otherwise I can not explain how you bang your wife with a belly like that… I mean.. did you even see your dick recently? :O Blocking your wifes number is really not going to help you in any way other than to fast-track your divorce. Cutting people out of your life is only a power move when they actually want to be IN your life, which I am sure she does not. I‘m gonna chime in with the others and recommend to hit the gym ASAP. But there is also a…
/r/askMRP26/12/21 10:31 PM
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This is what you get for being a dense fuck not once, but twice. First: Don‘t move in with women. Second: Always be clear about your intentions. Don‘t conflate friend stuff with fuckboy stuff.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/21 03:06 AM
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I haven't even finished There is literally a paragraph that says: stop starting, start finishing. :D
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 09:16 PM
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Didn‘t you get the memo? Having a work ethic is right wing. :D
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 01:08 PM
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And handing out validation to low value people is simp behavior. If you are a low value person and you validate yourself, you are the lowest form of a simp. ;) Also, you fell victim to a false dichotomy: Just because you don't value yourself just for existing does not mean you have to see yourself as a sack of shit instead.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 01:49 AM
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our value as men is inherent, innate, that it doesn't have to be earned or questioned, we simply have it by being men.+ No one in TRP ever said that ever. Your value as a man comes from the things you build - be it your character, your body, your skills or your wealth. When you are a skinnyfat, kissless, pennyless virgin, no one gives a fuck about you - and rightfully so.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/21 01:32 PM
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Great post, OP. As a person who has suffered from undiagnosed ADHD for most of his life, I am so glad I realized how to hack my own dopamine to finally get shit done. Here is what I found most useful: - Caffeine (obviously) - sleep - regression therapy to work out my emotional problems (keeping your otherwise unsorted emotions in check costs you dopamine) - interesting hobbies to calibrate you for dopamine derived from hard work instead of cheap dopamine - outsourcing of bullshit tasks (Hire a m…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/21 01:02 PM
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Guy (33) here. Not a woman, but I feel I can weigh in because I have a lot of experience on that matter. First: You should not force your sex drive up, when it is not there. From the perspective of your body, you are living in a dangerous time (death of one of your „tribespeople“) - therefore having sex and becoming pregnant are - from an evolutionary perspective - the worst things you could do right now. You should wait for that emotional charge to cool down before you attempt anything. Second:…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 12:32 AM
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I suggest doing Sports for attractiveness, reading for better conversation topics and listening to interesting podcasts.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 03:15 PM
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Yes.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/21 10:07 AM
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Posting this as a reminder to explain stuff about self regression as therapy.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 07:36 AM
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The article misses a bit of payoff because the „loud“ subject line is not expounded upon, but other than that, it is a great piece of writing advice and I wholly agree withthe message. Here is my experience with it: I am 33 now and I grew up during the golden age of video games. You absolutely right with games never producing that „high“ again. There were so many masterpieces in terms of story and crafty usage of limited processing power… it was like the golden age of music production in the 80s…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 06:11 PM
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Yep,I feel the same. Once you are done spinning plates and you had your fill (which was about when I turned 31), a good relationship is better than being single. And being single and spinning plates is better than a bad relationship. But now I even prefer being alone and celibate over a bad relationship. I have fucked enough women to last me a lifetime, no amount of pussy is going to keep me in a bad relationship.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/21 09:19 PM
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There is a lot of layers to this debate... Prostitution:First of all, most people only have a passing familiarity with the actual reality of being a prostitute, therefore they are quick to liken a woman's behavior to a sex worker. However, being a vocational sex worker is still a whole different shtick from being a party girl / tinder slut these days. And while the sexual liberation has moved today's women's (openly exhibited) behavior closer towards the prostitutes of yesteryear, there still is…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/21 08:01 PM
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You don't have to change anything about yourself. In fact, you CANT change anything about yourself. You are, what you are. What you can change is how you act. You can change what you DO. What you do is not who you are - it is a reflection of what you are going to become. You may not be able to decide to do something, but you can always decide to NOT DO a thing that is incongruent with who you want to be. You may not be at a point where you can work out everyday, eat healthy, make a truckload of …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 09:58 AM
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Yep. Behavioral therapy is one of the corner stones of producing wage slave drones. I know quite a few people who did that stuff and they are all broken husks of a man.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 08:09 AM
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If you have to ask wether you should ghost a woman, you don't deserve to have an opinion. ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 08:07 AM
3

These retarded kids nowadays have no sense for satire, irony or nuance. 😄
/r/TheRedPill02/11/21 08:06 AM
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The thing is this: Most people are full of shit, women included. Most people lie and cheat and they all come with a truckload of emotional baggage. When you come to terms with this reality, you eventually realize that aiming to find people of genuinely good character is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. You eventually accept that people are shitty - and if you have to date a shitty person she should at least be hot. That does not mean genuinely great people don't exist - in fact, they …
/r/ExRedPill31/10/21 02:09 PM
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It's because most gen z kids are tapped into the digital hivemind. It's not that they could not make shit happen if they wanted, but shit is made to happen for them in the digital realm 99% of the time. There is zero incentive for them to break out of the mold. They grew up in the matrix and they are trapped in consumer mindset. And even WHEN they get active, engaging in politics or getting an education, they are STILL only consuming. Unplugging is way harder for them because they know little to…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/21 07:53 AM
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Well and I wish I had a bigger dick, but here we are. :D The thing i was getting at with my dick analogy was this though: No single dimension you are obsessing over is going to be a dealbreaker if your overall-package is solid. The nice part about the overall attractiveness is that as a man, a lot of these factors are under your control. (Women have it a bit harder here, the world is more superficial in that regard) As young men we start life with a starter package which is very unlike the packa…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 12:35 AM
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It's a matter of nuance, as it is with most things in life. You might be too young to get that at the moment though. I will try to elaborate. When women (and men who are so inclined) say penis size "does not matter" they mean it is not a deal-breaker on an otherwise great guy - especially when he is also a skilled lover. They also clearly prefer a less than average dick over both small and enormous outliers. (also, by the time the dick comes out, the woman has usually made up her mind about weth…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 10:53 PM
1

Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 09:22 AM
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It's probably the lowest form of voluntary sexual interaction two (alive) beings can have... but yeah, I guess. For some people jerking off on other peoples shoes counts as a hookup as well. Everyone is a pervert.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 12:41 PM
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Kiddo, she 100 0ercent banged the dude. How do I know? I was once a guitarist on a cruise ship. You would not believe the amounts of pussy I got thrown after me. This woman is not going to last as your LTR, no matte rwhat diagnosis you get here. You are going to become more attractive and you will most certainly get a younger one when you are 30 or so. Use this opportunity to figure out your insecurities and solve them. Don't sleep on this, or it will come back to bite you.
/r/askMRP21/10/21 09:41 PM
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edification My stupid ass learned a new word today. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 06:15 PM
1

There is no singularity. It is a market bubble. It is going to burst.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 06:14 PM
1

I make a point of watching what they do, instead of what they say to some writer. I watched plenty of them Tinder girls undress.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 12:55 AM
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How the F did you manage to get 103 comments and zero upvotes?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 02:16 PM
2

I had to looker over my shoulder to see if you were watching me you wrote this. You described exactly my life. I am never going to look back. :)
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 02:15 PM
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No, I have not been in a similar situation... ... because I am not a gullible idiot.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 02:10 PM
1

BDSM is rape LARP for beta cucks.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 12:48 PM
3

I see what you did there. :D
/r/TheRedPill01/10/21 10:32 AM
1

Well my uncle molested me, so checkmate, incel! It's not like their story are not worth listening to, or those guys have no wisdom to share - but modelling your life after that as if those guys figured everything out is just borderline stupid.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 09:23 PM
2

I agree, a disclaimer indicating the intended audience would be in order.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/21 09:22 PM
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Well, yeah, if you want kids, figure that out as soon as possible. However, there is more to life than kids and some men and women don't want (more of) them - and to those, 30 is but a number.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/21 01:23 PM
2

Ghost both women, quit your job, move to a different city and start over. You are still young, reinvent yourself. This weak ass beta shit is not working and your will fall off a steep cliff once you hit 40.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 12:04 PM
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There is no problem with sticking it to a gold digger if you can afford her. Problems start, when you confuse them for a person who actually cares for you.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 12:03 PM
1

Yep, this would be a claim-conflict. You feel your team has a certain claim over this time, he does not feel that way. There is several ways to hash this out. Usually one could negotiate, but this might as well give the asshat more leverage as it legitimizes his position. Can you instead leave him out of some things in return, since he is not behaving like a proper teammate? Just say "you forgot" next time or mirror his behavior whenever he has a request - but without explicitly stating the reas…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 11:54 AM
3

No problem bro, just suck my dick real quick.
/r/askMRP28/09/21 03:35 PM
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We have 8 billions people in the world. If getting laid is your problem, you are an outlier. As for their brokenness.. They have elaborated on that on several podcasts. You can also hear it in their voices - especially with joko when he is not busy voice acting his tough guy persona.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 11:50 AM
1

And still most high end business men are not ex SOF. Why? Because if you want to succeed in business, spending years in the military is a waste of time. The only reason to get into SOF is this: You REALLY want to be in SOF. But acting like it teaches you some profound and unique lessons about life is bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 11:45 AM
1

Bitch, I am a vocal coach as a (paid) hobby. I am a business consultant. :D
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 11:42 AM
0

There will always be obese people, let's stop working out.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 11:35 AM
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Here is the deal my guy: if you find yourself in an environment where shined shoes are important, you either have the money to have someone shine your shoes for you - - or you are staff for the people who do.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 11:33 AM
3

Does AskTRP still exist? Wasn't it banned?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 01:19 AM
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I don't know.. should I take this regurgitated, limp-wristed collection of run-of-the-mill self help advice as the epitome of your intellectual capacity? Or in other words: Are you really that fucking stupid? Next time you grow a semi-chubster over some dudes garbled attempt at wisdom, just because he went to bum-fuck nowhere and and went shooty-boom at some brown people, you should google the word "survivorship bias". Just because some dude is successful and attributes his success to his abilit…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 01:10 AM
1

Just beause there is a certain amount of RP qualities in special forces does not mean that training in the special forces PRODUCES these qualities. You simply need a certain level of RPness (read: manly, gritty toughness) to make it through selection. But most of the training is actually made to BREAK you and keep you in line like a proper tin soldier. Basically, there is an RP-ceiling in any organization. If you ever want some proper crimson red RPness, you should hang out with some high end bu…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 12:45 AM
0

So can the YMCA, but with less killing and more butseks.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 12:40 AM
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In fact, I know plenty. They all have a hard time thinking for themselves... which fits a vast majority of the TRP audience, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 09:02 PM
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What a load of crap. Why would a sensible, intelligent and aspiring person voluntarily treat themselves like government treats expendable cannon fodder? Why would I take mentally and phsyically broken people like Goggins, Willink and the likes as any kind of role model? If the military and its methods were any good at realiably producing high achievers, why arent they cranking out red pilled alphalfa fuckers by the thousands?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 06:27 PM
3

That is very true. I have also found that a lot of times when entering a new space, the men (if there are any actual men) there will give you a more or less easy opportunity to prove yourself - this might come in the form of a slight joking jab at your self esteem, or giving you a downright opportunity to flex by asking for your job or hobbies or whatever. It‘s all a slight intrusion, but usually done in a way that allows you to show strenght. Just the other day I had some guy at my new job comm…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 03:23 PM
3

While the Zeitgeist seems to be obsessed with „learning to let people in“ I pretty much deem it a non-issue. IMO it is reflective of how everybody wants something for nothing these days. People want access to your inner circle but they are rarely ready to prove themselves worthy. Getting „Let in“ must be earned by the party wanting to be let in - not learned by the party upholding the boundary. If you have a boundary (and a valid claim to it), you have every right to keep it up as long as you se…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 03:17 PM
11

Thank you, GLO, this means a lot coming from you. :)
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 05:35 PM
9

I put on my game face for 2 minutes and won points like a little bitch.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 05:33 PM
3

I wrote this in a markdown editor on my iPad and then copied it. Maybe reddit didn't like that.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 05:29 PM
4

My mothers first reaction, after meeting my girlfriend for the first time was: are you sure you can keep her around / not fuck this up? Thanks mum! Feeling really confident now! Anyhow... The most important part of a relationship is that both parties involved must WANT the relationship. Not in a maybe-kind-of-way but in a hell-yes-kinda-way. If that is a given, everything else can be handled.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 12:49 PM
1

What is she going to do? Lock you up? :D ​ As for the "back then"... you always need boundaries and you not having them back then is directly responsible for you situation now. At first she gave you the benefit of the doubt and assumed you had them. Now she found out you don't, and hence, you are fucked. Only relying on other peoples respect and impressions in order to maintain your boundaries is a bad strategy, because it leaves you at mercy of their subjective and fimmsy perceptions - you are …
/r/askMRP22/09/21 04:27 AM
4

If you are dating a fifty-something woman, chances are you are in a simliar age bracket and therefore not able to measure up against hot, sun-tanned carribean guys who bang rich tourist ladies for a living and/or greencard. You simply can't, especially not from afar. This is the equivalent of your middle aged ass going to thailand with your buddy while she stays home. Which, in fact, is exactly what you should do, now that I think of it. The problem is that you can not retroactively invent and e…
/r/askMRP21/09/21 05:42 PM
2

Things are similar for me. There is several reasons for that. First of all - you are probably underestimating your looks. „Good body“ as in muscular, broad shoulders and strong arms can take you very far on a dating app, as long as your face is not hideous. Second - People you meet during your day are not actively looking for a hookup, therefore they will mentally be in day-to-day-mode. If you want to get a flirt going or even close from there, you gotta snap them out of it first. A little maths…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 03:07 PM
6

If it's just for the nut, you should avoid relationships. However, relationships DO have a lot to offer,if you are with the right woman. You save boatloads of time you'd otherwise spend to keep your dating rotation going. You save boatloads of money because living together is cheaper. However... That is if you do not date narcissistic parasite. Relationships always give you more of what you already attract. If you attract mediocrity, lazyness and mental problems... And LTR is going to set you up…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 01:22 PM
3

I had an even funnier thing with an ex of mine. We both worked and we both payed half of everything. However, since I was working from home and also working less hours, she expected me to do more of the household - which of course I refused. :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:15 PM
2

I am pretty sure, you are the one who is lost. Source: You have been writing OPs like this a fucking day ago. And you are a fucking CHILD. Been meeting this girl who’s 24 & I’m 22, we don’t text much as I don’t quite like texting loads but when we meet the vibes and energy is there. So we’ve met 3 times & I’ve initiated the last two meets, I was pretty busy last week (week after I last saw her) and I wanted to gauge her interest and see if she’d reach out, it’s Monday the following week now and …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 10:54 PM
2

That's low resolution thinking. You SHOULD do both. But that does not mean you alway CAN do both, nor that you can AFFORD both. And even if you can, you can not neccesarily do both at once, which means you have to prioritize. There is always some form of (opportunity-) cost and constraint to work around, which then forces you prioritize. And if you have to prioritize, prioritize lead generation (and lead quality) If your closing rate is reliable on a quality lead, moving on to a new lead is bett…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 07:39 PM
2

Both are true. In marketing there is two approaches for selling more: Improving closing rate or generating more leads. Depending on the cost of the lead and the reliability of closing rate, it is sometimes better to simply buy more leads than invest in sales training or invest more time into the sell. Since on the sexual market place leads (opening a conversation with a girl) are mostly free, there really is no point in optimizing your closing rate before your pipeline is saturated with a consta…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 02:49 PM
1

Sometimes one can not control ones emotions. But you can always control your behavior / external reaction. If you kid makes a scene in public, things are already shitty. At that point there is no running from it or fixing it. You might as well toughen it out so NEXT time is better.
/r/askMRP11/09/21 12:12 PM
12

You are being a bad leader. You wife is clearly asking for your guidance. She bases all her behavior off your reactions and the comfort you hand out. She is well aware she has no influence on wether you will stay around or not, except for sucking your dick in the early morning. You need a clear concept of how you want her to behave and then give out comfort to reward such behavior. You need to give her a sense of agency and power over her circumstances. How do you want her to behave? Instill tha…
/r/askMRP11/09/21 01:24 AM
1

Again - you are afraid of other peoples emotions. You are not operating from your own frame. When find you are trapped between a rock and a hard place, you 100% fucked up a few steps back - probably because you acted unwise and short sighted. If you visit a restaurant, you either interact as a family - which means going by the lowest common denominator (your kid) and doing something the kid enjoys as well - i.e. playing a card game and eating chicken fingers. Your kid is a little person after al…
/r/askMRP11/09/21 01:07 AM
8

Try this: There is only five basic tools in education. Incentive, boundary, reward, punishment and non reaction. Incentives get rewardes when the criteria are met. Incentives need to be made clear in advance. This gives the child something to aim for. Boundaries require enforcement via punishment when willingly or neglectingly overstepped. Boundaries need to be made clear in advance. If you do not enforce boundaries, they do not exist and you will invite the crossing of other boundaries. If you …
/r/askMRP10/09/21 10:55 PM
10

Okay, so here is a few thoughts. Imagine you had a kid with a bad temper. Whenever the kid experiences something that is unpleasant to it, it is unable to handle its emotions and the lid blows off. It will start screaming and thrashing and making a scene. If you as a parent allow yourself to react to these things and start changing stuff in direct reaction to the temper tantrum, those kind of emotional outbursts will become learned behavior. Even if you kid throws a tantrum in a store and you ta…
/r/askMRP10/09/21 05:11 PM
3

No shit,I learned game first and was really surprised when I found out how business really had a concept for every aspect of the dating scene. I have been advocating the use of business principles and game theory in every day social interaction for years on this board. Good to k ow I am not the only one. :D
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 04:42 PM
4

The point about MRP is that respect is not freely given. It is earned. This is done to provide you with an accurate measure of how much you actually suck. Because let's face it - you do. And the more seasoned users on this board can tell from your writing alone. We don't hand out the emotional equivalent of painkillers to make you feel less awfull. We tell you what works and then leave it to you to actually do it. And if you do anything but putting in the work, you will get shat on.
/r/askMRP07/09/21 02:19 PM
3

Frame describes the solidity of your worldview/private reality and hence it informs your mode of interaction with the outside world / objective reality. The more solid the frame of your private reality is, the less often it is challenged by the private realities of other people. They either bounce off, change their form according to your frame or they get crushed under it. You will feel your private reality shift less often and you will validate it more often, which in turn reduces cognitive dis…
/r/askMRP06/09/21 02:38 PM
16

My sex drive is that of a hillbilly fishing with dynamite.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 02:25 PM
4

Dude, you write like you have a learning disability. No way are you going to be a billionaire. :D
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 02:21 PM
1

That's probably because all the hypersexual girls are more attracted to the dating scene vs staying in LTRs and not being on the market - i.e. panel selection bias.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 02:20 PM
5

It's going to happen in vast patches of europe - Germany being a prime candidate as Germans have a notorious hard-on for authority.... even the German left and green voters are hardcore authoritarians. America is going probably not going to fall quick on this matter, but if there is one thing big tech has figured out in the us, it is how to run circles around the government with them unable to react in any meaningful way.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 02:18 PM
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Make this the golden rule: If you are considering she might be crazy, she absolutely is. Also: Stable, well adjusted women with good looks are very rarely single. And if so, not for long and they rarely engage in casual sex. Therefore, most women you meet through the usual platforms are some type of crazy.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 12:17 PM
3

This is literally autism on steroids. You were a fucking wimp through highschool and a fat fuck in college, then you suddenly decide you want to get jacked and decide to throw money on the problem. You get a fitnesstrainer that recommends you a training schedule that has you come in often, so he can "spot your form" - which roughly translates to "extract more money from you." Considering how much of a weak fuck you were before training, your whole training schedule just screams "overtraining".
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 02:12 PM
7

This should have been more aptly named: me and my friends are lying cunts
/r/TheRedPill02/09/21 02:37 AM
10

I am writing a book on human interaction right now and I am going to summarize a chapter from that: On the emotional level, people usually do not feel the current state of things, but the change of things. We develop a kind of emotional homeostasis with our surroundings. Imagine yourself not feeling the air around you - you may perceive both 18 °C and 20°C as room temperature und you may not be aware of the room temperature. But if the temperature suddenly dropped from 20 to 18, you‘d be very aw…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/21 05:17 PM
1

As with most things in live, the balance is in the middle. I generally practice positive stoicism. Control what you can, accept what you can't, cultivate the wisdom to tell one of the other.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 04:35 AM
3

Tonight I shall drink to you and your buddy. Godspeed!
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 04:33 AM
1

Actually, my buddy calls me "McEgg" now. :D
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 04:32 AM
2

As someone who experienced this clusterfuck first hand, let me explain my reasoning. I don't think expressing emotions is always the way to go. The tricky thing about expressing emotions while with other people is usually that for someone to express something, there needs to be summon who is witnessing/listening to it. But most people can not "just-witness". Most people can not hold frame. Expressing your emotions in front of them just kickstarts a cascade of their own emotions. If your emotions…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 04:31 AM
2

How about you shut the fuck up, before I slingshot my cancerous ball at you?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 05:28 PM
1

I live mostly by a saying from a German monk: God give me strenght to change what I can affect. God give me grace to accept what I can't change. God give me wisdom to tell one from the other. Whenever I am in any situation I ask myself - is this mine to claim? When something bad happens - did I cause this or can I change this? NO? Then I must accept it as it is. When something good happens - did I cause or earn this? NO? Then I must be grateful for it instead of proud.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 05:21 PM
3

This is kinda tricky, actually. Where I live, you can only get TRT by order of a doctor. And the medical consensus is that testosterone production still is adequate with just one ball. However - adequate does not mean optimal. Long tearm, most ball cancer survivors experience a 25% drop in baseline T. Also, T production is happening slower now - so the body takes longer to react to influences that might induce rising T levels like exercise, sex and sunlight. It takes longer for me to feel invigo…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 05:16 PM
4

I was 32 (now 33) and it has not happened to other men in my family. However, cancer (prostate, colon) has always taken a few people out over the years.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 10:37 PM
4

Some of them. My equilibrium seems to be about 83-85kg now.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 10:30 PM
8

It kinda hangs in the middle, but it still feels like it is on the left. I opted against a fake ball because it might interfere with healing.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 10:15 PM
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Some testicular cancers do. Mine created a shitton of beta HCG which is a growth hormone in pregnant women that the male body does not know what to do with. "In men, hCG acts as an analog of LH, therefore stimulating the testicles to produce more testosterone. LH also stimulates production of sperm within the seminiferous tubules, which are structures inside the testicles, and therefore maintains fertility in men"
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 05:02 PM
1

I think the problem here is learned dependancy.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:39 PM
1

For some people, less lubrication is actually better because increased friction can mean increased sensation. If you have a very wet girl, this may help.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:38 PM
2

Then you don't know how to fuck, my guy. Switching up positions is not half as effective as switchting up rhythm and angles, as well as doing some light choking, caressing and kissing. Switching up positions takes the girl out of the experience.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:36 PM
2

Question 1: *what she does is gets all pouty, I ASK her what's wrong,* This is your problem. Don't ask. Fuck off, do something else. Question 2: Look better, take her out - maybe to the beach, swimming pool or sauna. Women are constantly comparing, she will notice how she is the squeaky wheel among the two of you. Question 3: Not your concern. If she cheats, she cheats and she is dead to you. Have an exit plan for such cases, protect your assets, leave without so much of a word nor an argument. …
/r/askMRP24/08/21 01:49 PM
6

You should break up with him. It will probably both knock him out of his rut, forcing him to get fit and driven again, and save him from your me-me-me-attitude. He is better off working on himself for a few years and then finding someone younger. Your man is straight up depressed. He might be having the worst time of his live right now. He is in the dark night of the soul. I can only imagine how fucked up I would be if I was injured to the point where I could not excercise as well as being stres…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 12:58 PM
3

This is exactly what stfu is supposed to do. It shows you what happens in your world when you are not busy arguing against the state of things. This is your world if left to its own devices. This creation is the result of every single decision you made up till now. Trying to talk things through is a cheap attempt at changing things. It changes nothing. It not working - it is mostly venting.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 12:44 AM
4

Also, when you are ugly, at least be RIPPED and ugly.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 04:30 PM
1

It really depends on your plans to handle the debt and the reason you accumulated it in the first place. I have a bit of debt from my student loans left and I also have bad credit because years of depression can leave you broke. Paying debt is not only a problem of income, but a problem of cashflow. Having a partner not only reduces your costs of living, they can also cover living expenses for a few days if you have to zero out your account in order to not-miss a due date for a payment and havin…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 06:16 PM
3

You are trying to rewire established TRP semantics, that's not going to end well.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/21 05:35 PM
48

Op is 100% correct. There is very few girls whose looks don't fall apart when naked. One usually does not notice because they are the vast majority. But when you put them next to a girl who is genuinely in shape (not just chubby with some decent cardio), you will notice the startling difference.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 05:38 PM
1

For that she would have to be a fully realized human being who has climbed the top of maslows pyramid of needs... For which there is no incentive in today's world, as she can endlessly and effortlessly move from on guy to the next. Eternal consumer mode. In the past social communities were smaller, so such behavior was not sustainable long term.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 09:13 PM
1

In that case, yeah, youd probably have to resort to ice baths or cryotherapy. You don't have to full-on shiver, but having to resorts to compressed breathing to fight the cold should be the minimum.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 09:08 PM
2

Uhhm... just to provide a dudes perspective. He might be one of those men who less good at task hopping, who also have a hard time switching from work mode into boyfriend-mode. I am certainly one of those men and when me and my fiance were seperated for work reasons, it took us a lot of work to figure out how and even if we wanted to stay close during those times. That being said, being busy is no excuse for being unavailable - because how are you going to get to know someone, when you are not a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 07:17 PM
1

Dude, your reading comprehension is lacking. I don't hate black people or any race, gender or political affiliation. I hate stupid people, and unapologetically so. Stupidity and irrationallity are the single biggest problem in the world. I never said anything about black people as a "whole". I talked specifically about the descendents of the victims of US slavery, who make up a large portion of the US's black community and are therefore central to their culture. I am saying we crippled these peo…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 07:10 PM
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Even better: At the first sign of a woman being violent, you leave and you don't come back. I always made this very clear with any girl I dated: I don't like being punched, hit or slapped, even in jest or out of frustration. I dislike it immensely when the other party gives into the urge to use force out of frustration. Even if they do it just a little, giving into these kind of urges makes it a little worse every time. The same goes for any kind of infringement on your freedom or property. If s…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 08:46 AM
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You went through a lot of extra steps to have strangers on the internet look at your dick. ;) But regarding the topic: I never understood why people are so anal about never disclosing their n counter. I has never once backfired on me. However, if you must deflect, here is a list of my favorite jokes: Pretend you are counting in your head, then say... "...do siamese twins count as one or two?" "... that one orgy *was* quite massive, so I'd say between 10 and 73" "...probably more than you... unle…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 08:29 AM
7

She probably cheated on you and dreads going back to you, hence she is sabotaging her relationship with you (even more). Sorry to break it to you buddy, but this ship has sailed.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 10:32 PM
3

Being cold enough so your body has to compensate for the cold. Cold shower is okay, but only if the cold is more than superficial. Better is a walk outside or riding your bike in the cold.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 07:47 PM
1

I got news for you, my guy. Some things in the world are base realities and no amount of lofty intellectual discussion or illuminated values are going to make those realities go away. Biology and genetics is one of those base realities. Another is game theory (the math-kind, not the PUA kind). Now I you kidnap people from another continent and enslave them for generations, you will end up with three kinds of slaves. Stupid and docile, smart and docile as well as stupid and agressive. The docile …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 05:22 PM
3

Whatever man, I am not watching 45 minutes wort of youtube to lecture a stranger over the internet. Read my sources and kindly fuck off. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/intermittent-fasting-surprising-update-2018062914156 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8784108/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5394987/ https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/healthy-weight/diet-reviews/intermittent-fasting/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC329619/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 03:34 PM
2

Well you should read some of the studies the bros have brought out over the years. There is WAY more to fasting than caloric restriction. (And even caloric restriction has a lof of benefits). These are the benefits I derive from it: increased insulin sensitivity reduced leptine resistancem, thereby reducing overall need for leptine activation of MTOR pathways (helps you live longer) reduced body fat increased growth hormones Knocks out a lot of factors that cripple testosterone production / tran…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 09:21 AM
1

Imagine coming here with the attitude that some stranger owes you anything…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 09:13 AM
4

So? Is this the part where I listen to some rando on the internet instead of... you know, an actual scientist?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 01:57 AM
2

I am sourcing mine from the netherlands, those guys are ahead of the curve.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 01:26 AM
4

Pseudoscience? Well, what can I say except this guy disagrees with you? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrew\_D.\_Huberman
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 11:21 PM
16

I dont mean outside direct skin exposure. I mean being awake during the day and exposed to natural light (windows, etc) Your eyes are photon receptors and they need to be stimulated by natural light for improved sleep, recovery and brain function as well as eye health.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 09:47 PM
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You are missing a lot of stuff there, whilst being totally anal about shit that does not matter a lot. Use NMN - it helps reduce negative effects of aging Drink Water Use Tongkat Ali / Fedogia Agrestus / Ashwaganda - all kick up T Use a good multivitamin Fast 16 hours minimum Sleep 8 hours, get 8 hours of sunlight Lift / train every other day Freeze once a day, sweat once a day Breathe through your nose Avoid stress and negativity
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 07:30 PM
2

I not patronizing him because he is brown, I could not give two fucks about that. For all I care he could be whiter than a chalked wall. I am patronizing him because he makes a suprised pikachu face when he tries to bring his archaic relationship concept into the west, only to realize that none of this works if you don't have a whole society to back it up with social policing. The whole point of TRP is to only fuck women who want to fuck you. Any woman who fucks you for any other reason than wan…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 02:49 PM
5

ADHD guy here. I found out in my late 20s and I am opposed to taking meds for a variety of reasons, but that being said, they are supposed to work great. Therapy is a mixed bag, because much unlike pharmacy, therapy is not an exact science and the crawl of progess is slow, because the whole field is ripe with ideological battles. That being said, I found most success with accepting my condition and building my life around it, basically building safety rails as much as possible. My jobs revolve a…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 10:30 AM
5

Your eternal september attitude is what fucks up this board. Shut up for a second.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 09:59 AM
4

Am I the only guy around here who prefers normal sex? :D
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 09:54 AM
8

It's almost like people who are forced into a social bond they did not choose themselves develop or worsen already existing mental issues. Imagine my surprise. Or, to phrase it differently, yes, you wife is toxic and she does not have her impulses in check. She says whatever comes to her mind and immediately resorts to raising her voice when something slightly annoys her, because that is how she gets what she wants and how she sets boundaries - because it always worked. But to make things worse,…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 09:52 AM
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Dude here. Good on you, hypersexuality can be a real bummer if it goes unchecked / unquestioned. I was once dating a girl who was using orgasms like other people use vicodin. She used it to help fall asleep, cure anxiety, feel loved and cherished, etc. Sex and orgasms were her cure all pill. Problem was, she was never REALLY satisfied, even after leg shaking orgasms because she was trying to fill a void sex was not made for filling anyways. She was feeling it in her body, but it was not nourishi…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 01:06 AM
0

Haters gonna hate. If you like him, you like him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 02:49 AM
7

Musician here, can confirm. Whenever I played in a high end place, when there wasn't the hot daughter of some captain of industry, one of the workers there was always a safe for not having a long ride home that night.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/07/21 11:21 PM
3

A duck it is, then! I agree with that sentiment, but other Germans will die on that hill, crying that it is not a tax. You might be right on that timeline as well. Better hurry up my exit plans.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 11:16 PM
3

Yes of course. But that agreement is only possible if there can be trust that the other party will not stab us in the back and vice versa.And the greater the leverage of one party over the other, the greater the incentive for backstabbing and the more dire the potential consequences. While you may still enter such a contract, building something upon that contract would be a foolish idea and may very well introduce a hoist of anxiety and trust-issues. There is a reason the rich keep to themselves…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 11:13 PM
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This one needs to go sidebar ASAP. It is crisp, clean and concise and very powerful. I am writing a philosophy / psychology / game theory book at the moment, and I have pretty much the same theory in it, though I approach it from another angle. Therefore, I would like to offer an addendum: You (usually) can not be friends with anyone who has too much leverage over you, or vice versa. The whole relationship will be tainted by power struggles. The incentive to re-distribute the leverage (or to get…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 05:38 PM
12

I'll do you one better with this anecdote: My fiance grew up in western Germany. In western Germany people ask a lot of question about you to show interest and be polite. However, I grew up in (formerly soviet) east Germany and my parents generation spent half their life under soviet rule in a surveillance state wiht about 200.000 Stasi agents spying on the population. Needless to say, eastern German people consider asking question about a persons personal life very intrusive and rude. We just a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 05:30 PM
3

now, don't get me wrong, you are entitled to your opinion and your decision and I am not the guy who is going to talk you out of it. However, some people are just not that interested in other peoples inner workings, their past or their personality. They are more interested in the now or the future, taking the other party as they are and building from there. You can read up on "time-perspectives" if that kind of stuff interests you. Some people are also not big talkers and prefer other "love lang…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 03:18 PM
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Too be fair, I don't really care to ask my fiance about her day either, because if it was important, she would tell my anyway. Truth is, most peoples day are pretty uneventful, so why bother discussing it?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 02:56 PM
11

I'll admit that I have not read all of this because I am an oldtimer on this board and it repeats a lot of very basic points. But you hit on a very important point with regards to relationship: FIRST: BE THE GUY SHE WANTS TO FUCK REGARDLESS OF THE CONSEQUENCES You then may or may not upgrade towards a relationship, but avoid being looked at as boyfriend/husband material at all cost. It is way better if she thinks you are fuckable but not dateable, only to then discover you are actually great rel…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 02:09 PM
4

Not me, but a guy in my year did in high school. First time, both of em, she got preggo. Wasn't a death sentence though because while her family was very catholic, they were also very rich and took care of the baby.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 12:48 PM
-1

To be honest,I cringed a lot reading that shit. Who fucking cares what a womans perspective is?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 10:23 AM
11

Yeah, our social system is the biggest threat to our society because it is very easy to get in, and once you are, there is little incentive to leave because you will only make little more if you break your back in a manual labor / low education job. Also, a lot of migrants work for free for family businesses which are registered in foreign countries. So you will have guys receiving welfare for themselves, their wife and their 4 children while they are still hustling used cars for their uncles im…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 08:33 AM
2

I‘d say have a steady girlfriend and explore a little further from encounter to encounter. However, I am painfully aware that this concept seems to slowly be fazed out amongst younger people. Therefore, my advice would be to get out of your head and into the moment. Touching girls is fun. Practice getting out of the performance mindset into the fun/experimentation mindset. Whatever you do, do it because you enjoy it. Don‘t finger her pussy like you are handing in homework. Finger her pussy becau…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:35 AM
3

Condom is NOT optional on your first time. Believe me on that. :D
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:27 AM
1

This kind of crazy is everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:22 AM
44

Now I am probably just a cynical old bastard, but that kind of lovebombing should set off all of your alarm bells, because it screams „crazy bipolar bitch“. You may not have enough experience to tell just yet, but „normal“ girls don‘t do that kind of shit. They also are not constantly-cold, aloof bitches with the stare of a russian sex doll that has seen too much. A „normal“ girl will invite you to hang out for drinks/coffee, maybe cook for you and go on walks with you. Maybe you will ride in yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:22 AM
20

German invading the comment section here. I agree with you mostly. Health care is not payed via taxes, it is automatically deducted from your salary to make sure you pay your healthcare - and only if you work in a certain range of jobs. So most people tend to forget about the amount they pay. Healthcare is top notch though. I had cancer in 2020 and I got fixed within the week with no additional costs. Dental work is still expensive as fuck though. Fat and generally unfit teenagers are an enormou…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 07:06 AM
9

My sister is a nurse and has a horse and she is fucking nuts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/21 10:24 PM
47

TBH, If a girl started planning our future after barely knowing me, my dick would go flaccid in self defense. But jokes aside, have you ever entertained the notion that despite you believing you were into her... Maybe you weren't? Maybe not really, beyond superficial appearance? I have been some model tier girls with porn star skills, but looking back on it, they didnt really excite me much. I found them conventionally attractive, but only from an internalized societal perspective. In the other …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 10:18 PM
3

Most numbnuts hear do not get this post. They key is "delayed gratification". Those who are able to cultivate the ability to delay gratification are usually more sucessful and dating apps are no exception. Delayed gratification brings options and options bring success. While you ideally SHOULD BE ABLE TO satisfy your sexual urges with hot women instantly, you SHOULD NOT HAVE TO follow up on these urges instantly. It is really not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 08:57 AM
7

It's funny. Everytime I read a post by you, I am completely unaware it is you until about halfway in, when I nod in agreement and find myself scrolling back up to check who wrote it - it's usually Andy... or Uncle Vas or GLO. Keep fighting the good fight! PS: I lost my V about 18 years ago on a monday afternoon with my then-girlfriend. The event was super nice and pleasant for the both of us but other than that it was borderline unremarkable. I have yet to figure out why people make such a big d…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 08:56 AM
17

My question is - how much pussy were you getting before your marriage? Because likely that is the same amount of pussy you will be getting after your divorce.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 10:43 PM
2

Yep.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 06:19 AM
29

I actually took some shrooms last week and my slightly above average dick went into baseball bat territory. Bloodflow and erection quality is the no.1 factor for good dick game. As for the coochie: Kegels are just one part of the game, which is the active contraction of the pelvic floor muscles. Another part of it is passive muscle tension and elasticity, which is what overdicked girls usually lack - think of very flexible athletes who dislocate joints easily because their ligaments are all nood…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 09:54 PM
14

As a boyfriend and fiance going shopping and being forced to have an opinion about minute differences I don't really care about sounds excruciatingly boring.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 07:15 PM
39

It would also be biological for me to kill some girls husband and her offspring and take her for myself. The thing is: we need to temper some of our urges to have a stable society. As long as a woman is single,I don't care what she does. However if her behavior indicates she can not be trusted as a wife and mother,I am not going to invest into the relationship. And if this kind of interaction becomes the norm in a society, the society loses social cohesion and falls apart. Women who are unable t…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 10:46 AM
4

You are young so your LTR is probably young as well. Young girls are incredibly insecure always want more attention. Since there is no risk of divorce I'd say risk offending her and tell her straight up to stop being so annoying and instead of annoying you at work to channel that energy in preparing after-work fun times. She obviously has way to much time and energy ot channel into annoying you - make her channel it into supporting oyu instead.
/r/askMRP20/07/21 08:28 PM
3

You're going to be okay if you stay aware and awake. Shrugging off shit tests will become your second nature. There is an old school post on Baby talk vs power talk - you should check it out. Once you know what to look for, you can find it anywhere - and you will notice it everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 05:20 PM
3

You are not self congratulating,I'll give you that. But you were still trying to save a shred of your ego by basically saying "I am fat, BUT I am funny" as if the latter was in any way redeeming. Women - and life actually - does not work this way. A car with a fucked up engine goes nowhere, no matter how funny the bumper sticker. My advice to you would be to drop the act entirely and see if you can even talk to people without being funny. Chances are, you can't, because being funny is the only w…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 12:16 PM
39

You mean like... In whole sentences and all congruent? That's what us oldtimers called writing back in the day. :D
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 04:04 PM
1

There is a vast difference between getting a date and closing a date. You can get plenty of dates who have no interest in fucking you. But it only counts if you close. Imagine lots of people walking into you store because it is entertaining, wasting all your time and energy, but never buying anything and never having the intention to. That's this guy. He is to busy clowning around and he is afraid of taking risks, which is why all his escalations come across as awkward: it's a scarry and stark c…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 06:53 AM
3

She is also a creditanalyst, so prepare to get sized up in absolutely every way even before the date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 06:43 AM
-3

You not cocky funny, you are an asexual clown. Man the fuck up, lift some weights and start leading.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 10:07 PM
1

I don't disagree with you, you are correct. However you are only able to reduce the text to its base elements because you are experienced. Most newbies are not gonna be able to do that. Any teaching that is layed out in a manner of "here is how you make a woman feel" is ultimately futile because it tells you how to peck at the skinner box that is a woman. You are still operating under the frame of trying to figure out the right order of pecks in order to get to the treat. There is a difference b…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 10:35 AM
36

Tl;Dr Your reality is a private hallucination that has been constantly reinforced.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 12:39 AM
13

Everyone here is now stupider for reading that shit.
/r/askMRP17/07/21 10:18 PM
6

Mine was the same! Tonight we shall drink to our bear wrestling alpha grandpas!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 04:21 PM
3

Despite the obvious tinder profile, I am a musician so I meet lots and lots of people in a context that pre-qualifies me as "cool guy".
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 04:02 PM
1

Meeting in through an app that took both parties the same amount of effort to set up is meeting on neutral ground. If she swiped right on me, she is already a pre-warmed audience. I then send a canned CTRL+V joke that serves as a (dis-)qualifier. If the response is positive and meets the energy level of the joke, she has already invested twice. From then on it is just a matter of upselling. Also: I can do all that while taking a shit. If done properly, and with a wide enough initial funnel (big …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 04:01 PM
6

Who says you gotta? You unterstood it exactly right. Cold approaching is entering the other persons frame, which is why it is a waste of time to base your sexual strategy around it. Getting a steady supply of pussy is a matter of funneling leads down a sales funnel, sucking up as many new leads as possible and disqualifying them along the way. The more you can automate this process, the better. Cold approaching is a hard sell with barely any prequalification on a cold audience. It works sometime…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 02:36 PM
3

If it is a normal flow of interaction, why would I need a guide then?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 02:02 PM
47

Here is the twist though... If you do all this shit to capture her mind and to make yourself harder to replace, your are STILL operating in her frame on a fundamental level - because your behaviour is guided by her reaction to it. Focus on building an awesome life that YOU enjoy and be unapologetic about that. Invite her into that life if you feel she is a worthwile addition. And kick her out if she is not. Whenever you are interacting with a girl the only fear you should ever have is the fear o…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 01:28 PM
3

Great post, as always! I want to add a thing, though: "MOST people fail at MOST things MOST of the time." Failing is the default result of nature. Most people get by simply by not failing to hard. Success however, is HARD and it is RARE, which is why it is valuable.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 01:05 PM
11

My LTR is always amazed at how little of a fuck I can give about her whever she annoys me. I just go do whatever I was doing anyway. :D
/r/TheRedPill14/07/21 02:00 PM
1

Since I was aware of the problem I solved a lot of it by being a minimalist. If you have less stuff, less stuff needs cleaning, dusting, etc. If you only own two sets of plates/bows/cups etc. there is less stuff in the sink. I only bought what I was able to eat within a day on my way home from work. This way the place was never really clean, but it took a long time till it got unbearably dirty. I was never living with other people - that increases the messyness exponentially. On the other hand, …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 10:23 PM
1

I already did. Search for "the invisible war" parts 4 and 5.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 09:42 PM
3

I believe there is a lot of common ground that can be reached. Being messy in itself is not a problem - being messy and making it OTHER PEOPLES PROBLEM is a problem. Because then you are not only messy, but irresponsible as well. While I have a million better things to do than clean stuff to someone elses standard, I totally understand if someone does not want my personal chaos to negatively impact their lives and I am perfectly willing to not let that happen. And there lies an important distinc…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 03:28 PM
23

Damn, I am really one of the old guys. I remember reading this one when it first came out.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 03:22 PM
1

As above, so below. As within, so without. One of the main benefits of inner growth is that it eliminates knots and loops within your own mental system, which cause you to burn way more mental energy than you'd normally have to and therefore hindering your growth on the the outside. Example: Imagine carrying somekind of psychological trauma that overshadows every social interaction, requiring people to tread carefully around and which burns their mental energy and makes them uncomfortable around…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 02:45 PM
5

Messy male here. Here is the truth about my messyness: I simply do not give a fuck. I have so many better things to do than cleaning and always being on the lookout for dirt. Having a clean place gives me no additional pleasure and no amount of nagging can sustainably motivate me. Being extremely clean and tidy takes vast amounts of mental energy from me which I find are better invested in my sidebusiness, sports or fun time with my woman. Doing the kitchen for an hour twice a week is the most I…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/21 01:24 PM
3

As a messy man myself I fully agree with this post.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/21 01:04 PM
15

Have a main girl who is with you exclusively, openly fuck chicks on the side / do threesomes. Be upfront with that expectation if you are ever confronted with her asking for an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 01:16 AM
67

Tldr; Homie discovered Ying and yang.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/21 08:06 PM
1

She may or may not know - but even a stupid question can be retroactively turned into a smart question by reframing the answer. The question is stupid because no one wakes up one morning and dumps his girl after suddenly realizing she is fatty. Discussing such scenarios is futile, because they never happen. But the answer I gave brings clarity because it is about values and how I expect a good relationship to work. And she is reassured that even though I will dump her if she gets fat, she will n…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/21 03:50 PM
2

You are confusing short term policy with long term policy. Why would I want her attention? SHE wants MY attention. Sure, you can feed a dog, get its attention and maybe get it to follow you around. That is short term policy. If you try to apply that long term, you will end up with a dog that is spoiled, confused and untrainable. It's not the kind of dog you want to share your house with, because it will only react to you when you wave food around. Otherwise it will chew on the furniture and shit…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/21 01:48 PM
1

Nahh, there is diminishing returns as in every aspect of your life. Hard Full body workout 2-3 hours a week can get you jacked if you eat a decent diet with a little bit of slack and normal sleep. Anything more will still yield better results, but the return on your time investment is so bad that you should rather spend the time in a different way, for example learning a skill. I only hit the gym once a week, and I go to bjj 2-3 times. The rest of my free time I play music, read non-fiction book…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 11:47 PM
18

Especially in that butt. :D
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 07:15 PM
11

I dont have a general rule, but I can give you an example. My fiancé once asked me if I still would love her if she ever gets fat. I told her no. Because if she gets fat that means she got fat despite my efforts to support her. Despite me offering going to the gym with her and coach her, despite me encouraging her to make healthier food choices, despite giving her the chance to course-correct early. People don't get fat all of a sudden. They get fat from compounded bad life choices. The deck is …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 07:13 PM
1

Depends, you gotta read the room for that.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/21 04:29 PM
8

Did your asshole hurt a lot after?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/21 04:28 PM
-9

Can confirm. I had a Tinder date set up with a Thai girl visiting my country on vacation. I was to pick her up, but she kept making excuses and pushed the date back further and further and I was wondering if she was just stringing me along. I am happy I was persistent, as she turned out to be a fucking ten. Model looks, pornstar body and the skills to go with it. My dick was sore after plowing her all through the extended weekend until she went home.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/21 03:59 AM
5

I am one of the scruffy dudes. The answer is game, talent and zero fucks. There is a lot of scruffy guys who are incredibly and effortlessly good at something (think: skilled artists, writers, musicians). They usually care about their stuff more than they care about pussy. And they will not compromise.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 07:34 PM
5

And if she is fighting you, there is always chloroform.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 07:30 PM
2

Squat down a little, make a loop below her butt and grab your own wrist, then look up and lift from the legs. Her belly button, your belly button and your toes should align in a vertical line. Lifting her this way is incredibly easy and also increases her perception of height.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 07:30 PM
20

She offered, you bought. You did not buy the premium though - and nowhere were you obliged to. Nothing bad is going to come from this, don't worry. Lesson learned, though: Revenge is shallow. Better work on the things that REALLY make you happy.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/06/21 08:31 PM
1

Only using cash is a very sensible response to credit card overspending. Involving a tactile component in buying things makes you think about how you are spending your money. Smart move from your husband and exactly what a leader should do. Your job as a SAHM is making the most out of the budget you are assigned. If you can not do that, you are a liability to the household and it would be better if you had a job. The right reaction to the situation would be to make a point of staying UNDER budge…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 07:37 PM
1

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5424551/
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 10:20 AM
1

about 2-5mm per slice. It is also very tasty in a cocktail with ice cold ginger ale and limejuice.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 07:09 PM
1

The keyword being almost. Honey has lots of properties that are very beneficial. I have a huge jar of honey with a chopped up root of ginseng in it. I eat a few spoon full before workouts or when I am getting to much inflammation. Great for the boner as well.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 11:20 AM
2

Have you ever thought about finding a plate that has graduated college? No shame in banging a few late 20s and keep yourself out of trouble. Just remember to wear a condom.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/21 05:43 PM
3

Here is the thing - your SOs sensors are improperly calibrated. You are such a pushover that she probably has no reference as to what ACTUAL disrespect from you feels like. Your whole „k“ strategy is not going to get you anywhere, because she will keep overstepping your boundaries, making shit worse and worse. It also ironic that SHE is the one disrespecting you, because her bahaviour implies she thinks you‘ve got nothing better to do and her trivial demands are more important than whatever thin…
/r/askMRP26/06/21 01:11 AM
3

Especially amongst artists. :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/21 03:51 PM
1

So let's get a few basics out of the way first. You need to be your wives rock. She needs to understand that external problems like this do not faze you. You are the captain of your relationship. You lead, she follows and falls into your frame. If you frame is: These quabbles are pointless and not wort stressing out over, then she should accept that frame and not carry any of the stress into the space that is your relationship. However - she is still involved in a power struggle, however minor, …
/r/askMRP23/06/21 01:59 AM
2

This man is correct!
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:29 PM
1

You begin working to build a life that is worth living. If some bitch is being a bitch then you just go on doing your thing, going to the gym getting ripped, working hard to make money and achieving your goals. You wont even feel a sting if some girl acts up or breaks ties with you.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:29 PM
23

Here is the rub: A woman who looks hot in her 30s has still been waaay hotter when she is young. She is going to compare herself to THAT. The men she dated in her 20s were way hotter than what is available now - she is going to compare THAT. Also, her pool of suitable partners shrinks, as most good men are either off the market or have settled into a lifestyle of perpetually spinning plates. Also she is going to find herself financially and socially outgunned by all her married peers - there is …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 01:22 PM
4

The more i see you write about that woman, the more I get the feeling you need to leave
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:54 PM
1

Imposter syndrome is a bitch. Especially when you make your first successful strides and realize how much you SUCKED before... which then begs the question of just how much you suck NOW without you realizing it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 08:55 PM
6

That flag is crimson red. Also, I am not sure if you are openly spinning plates or if you are cheating - in the latter case she may have a lot of leverage, so pray she does not use it.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 04:40 PM
7

Don't do this. Break up clearly and maturely. Don't fuck her over with that kind of weak ass pussy bullshit.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:34 PM
11

A buddy of mine is a photographer. He pulls shit like that all the time. He walks over to the girls, tells them he thinks they are beautiful and hands them his card, which leads straight to his Instagram. (which of course is full of hot girls and him doing cool shit in nice places) They usually meet for a quick shoot, sort through the Fotos over a bottle of wine...Bam. Too bad I am colorblind and can't use that approach.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:13 AM
1

Sperg post. Since when does texting for logistics mean that you try to skip the most important part of any logistical chain - the procuring process of raw materials? Texting for logistics is not just texting people a time and an adress - she is a human being, not a drug mule. Texting for logistics means that any texted interaction furthers the logistical chain. So instead of doing idle chit chat in a desperate attempt to qualify yourself, you will tell them what awesome thing your are going to d…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 11:27 PM
3

Get an older man or grow the fuck up then. :D
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 07:35 PM
1

It is a similar kind of hate like the one in els feel when they look at pretty stacies. Looking at you makes them feel bad.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:43 AM
6

Search for "the invisible wars" in my post history if you want more material like this. :)
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 12:09 AM
60

After being semi-sucessful musician in my early 20s, I lost most of my mid 20s due to depression and being trapped in a bad relationship. I fixed my mind and broke up with that girl when I was 29. After that every year got better and better. And guess what? After I turned 30 I became more sucessful with women than ever.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 11:36 AM
5

Step 1: Open door Step 2: Go out Step 3: Close door /discussion Your wife is not and will not be resenting you for it. Your wife will resent you for being an uninteresting piece of drywall and a bad leader. Imagine you and your wife are a unit of soldiers in a war. You are her superior and so far you have been both getting yourself dirty in the trenches, without much time off. You may have been a sub-par leader, but so far that has not mattered because you had a common goal. At least you were in…
/r/askMRP15/06/21 11:24 AM
5

I am just very interested in decision making, game theory, economy and psychology. Having a sufficient amount of distinction between cases is paramount when navigating social space. Most people have trouble behaving in a socially calibrated way because they confuse one case for another. i.e. a beta bitch boy confusing a girls attention for attraction and reacting accordingly, totally misjudging the kind of situation he is in.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 01:43 AM
93

I have one little addendum that helps me a lot in clarifying things - especially when managing relationships. Each time anyone makes a request to you, categorize it one of the following categories: A) They request you to STOP DOING something that causes them harm. (Example: Stop eating the treats that I bought for myself / Stop being loud when I have a video call with my boss / etc.) These are usually reasonable requests. Meeting them usually costs you little and shows basic respect and curtesy.…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 02:16 PM
82

This should be sidebar material. Very well put!
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 01:51 PM
-1

Read this post he is probably better off without you anyway. If I knew my woman was talking like this about me behind my back,I would send her packing.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 12:10 PM
11

Can confirm. Also - top 10% is not that hard. Just have a bit of arms, shoulder and chest muscle and visible abs/ribs (you don't even need a sixpack), ONE talent (drawing, singing, piano, sports, etc.) and make enough money to have your own (shitty) place and (shitty) car. Okay haircut/bear, fitting pants and t-shirt, clean shoes. Upright posture and relaxed eye contact. All those things are not hard to attain.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 12:36 AM
22

You bringing your daddy into this, made me respect you even less. :D
/r/TheRedPill10/06/21 06:29 PM
1

"But then again, my father also always told me to hit women only with a phonebook, because it leaves no marks."
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 12:27 PM
5

It is not smart to use extreme statistical outliers to model your behaviour or though process after. For every famous logan paul there is a million cringey wannabes with the exact same behavioural pattern.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/21 11:03 AM
1

I look fairly average actually
/r/askTRP07/06/21 10:56 PM
1

For plating it does not matter. If you want to get married,I'd suggest she would have no more than 5. She should have had at least one serious long term boyfriend and she should have experienced a one night stand in order to knock that fantasy out of her head.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 02:39 PM
2

I lived near an airport for two years, where they are usually staying at hotels. This means I am in closest tinder range and I have laid many a pipe to them.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:26 AM
2

Ill do you one better - flight attendants are probably kind of job that is easiest to get laid with. I lived near an airport for a few years and I have been a regular at the hotels nearby, because I went upstairs with a rotation of them every few weeks. They are bored all the time on layovers and they either fuck the pilots or whip out Tinder as soon as they land.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:25 AM
10

Dont get your hopes up. I live in a country where prostitution is legal and it is the same shit over. They just found a way to stigmatize guys who go to professionals even more. :D
/r/TheRedPill05/06/21 10:09 AM
1

Yes, that is largely correct. However: Latvia, Lithuania and Estonia are actually pretty neat. They have the same pretty eastern European girls but they are rather modern and less reactionary than say Poland.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 04:44 PM
3

Well as a European I kinda feel like the countries you mentioned are not even European in the classical sense. Switzerland has been neutral for ages and have had their evolution. Poland and Ukraine are only 30 years out of a dictatorship and they are poor as fuck. There has been no era of European enlightenment here. You really do notice when you cross the German border into Poland. It's like going from the US into Mexico. Scandinavia, Germany, France, Austria, Benelux, and to some degree Spain …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 02:04 PM
19

And then she went on reddit and posted about how a creepy guy at the gym tried to give her his number and how she pretended to put it in her phone.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/21 08:50 AM
2

Asking a girl out purely for busting a not is not worth the hassle. You reasoning is correct and confirmed by your post-nut-clarity. However, you may also have fallen into the trap of backwards rationalization - eating apples instead of strawberries and then telling yourself you did not like strawberries anyway. You should ask the girl out because you enjoy the experience of going on a date and conquering a new woman. If you do not enjoy this experience, you should question why that is instead o…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:52 AM
4

Ouch. :D
/r/askTRP26/05/21 04:34 PM
4

I am not talking about this concrete situation. I am talking about how you are unable to tell one situation from another and how therefore you should err on being peaceful. Otherwise you are just subject to confirmation bias. Imagine you had two berries... On of them kills you. Since you can not decide which one is non-lethal you eat one based on your feeling at the moment - and you survive. Now you decide after the fact that, since you are alive, your reasoning was correct - but in fact,it wasn…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:34 AM
14

Here is the rub though... You should not be going around punching people of you have to ask strangers for their moral blessing after the fact. You should absolutely only pick the fights you can not avoid. And from the perspective of an older guy I can tell you that those are very rare... Maybe once or twice in lifetime.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:51 AM
1

First off: look at all those quality answers! This community can be incredibly wholesome sometimes. Second: 33 yo business consultant here. I had a somewhat similar experience. I got deep into spirituality and learned how to do regression therapy to work out all my inner demons and child hood trauma. It worked great have not been anything but happy in about 5 years now. After reading your story my theory is that some neglected part of your psyche got stuck during childhood and has not matured to…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:35 AM
1

Interesting read. As a musician I know a fair share of gay dudes, and while the gay world seems to work somewhat differently - it is waaaay more streamlined and therefore redpilled. And even as a straight guy - the only thing worse than a gay dude desperately hitting on you, is a gay dude desperately hitting on your without any game.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 03:23 PM
-1

"lol, who dis?"
/r/askTRP15/05/21 11:43 PM
3

Basic hand to hand is just as important for avoiding violence, as it helps with weapon retention, distance management and it allows for smaller degrees of escalation when confronted. You don't have do produce your weapon to scare off the other guy, and you can save it for when you actually need it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 01:28 PM
8

And into his brain apparently.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 01:23 PM
6

That post was borderline autistic.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 01:21 PM
4

While women keep on shrieking about how the vagina is a muscle and how it bounces back even after child birth... Lose vaginas do exist. You can try to Google lose vagina syndrome, and you will only find the occasional reddit thread - everything else will be buried under denialist propaganda pieces. Here is the raw deal though: Dicks can absolutely be to small and girls vaginas can actually become lose. However, there is a little wiggle room. As for dick size, you can try edging and some light (r…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:38 AM
2

Here
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:53 PM
0

I don't k ow if you noticed...But we are in a fucking pandemic.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:33 PM
5

That's a lot of words to tell us about your man-crush.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 02:13 AM
1

Is getting cancer enough? :D
/r/TheRedPill08/05/21 03:03 AM
4

The exact same thing happened to me... With my then-girlfriend. Threw her clothes out the window and shoved her out the door.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:51 PM
2

This is it! Having a good body is the one thing that will level up your looks like nothing else will.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 01:39 AM
1

This is exactly how it should be. If she wants to break up over silly shit, she may very well sleep in the bed she made.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:58 PM
7

It's the same shit. Women are not to be admired for things out of their control. Intelligence and looks are mostly genetic. Would you admire someone for winning the lottery? What you can admire about a person is things the person has built by themselves and possibly against resistance - like work ethic, emotional maturity or kindness.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 04:11 AM
16

This. Obsessing and comparing over minute details is for girls.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 04:07 AM
6

A woman that uses sex as leverage to get what she wants is the same as a man who uses violence ot get what he wants. It is not the kind of partner you want for a relationship. In a relationship you either vibe and want the same things - or you do the things you like and she can follow or not.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:03 AM
20

She wants all those things.... from a guy who is hot and tall. :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 01:18 AM
7

Think of it as a tool kit. If you buy (or heck,even borrow) a toolkit, and apply it,eventually you run out of things to fix, some minor maintenance aside. It's still good to have it should something go wrong, but if you did everything properly, you are not going to need it often. However, some people buy tools upon tools but never fix anything. They are in love with the idea of (some day) being able to fix things, but they never actually do. And then there also the shifty professional repairmen …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 06:26 PM
1

Think of it this way: Do you consider yourself boring? If you are boring - become more interesting and you will attract more interesting people. If you are not boring - what is the chance there is not at least ONE female who is equally non-boring. Also - even randopm sex gets stale after a while.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 02:30 AM
1

Hmm,, then u fucked up somewhere
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:44 PM
2

German here. If you ever get into a discussion about the gender issue, remind them that the -er suffix is indicates the acting subject. A suffix indicating female gender was introduced hundreds of years later for cases where the female gender specifically mattered, for example for the wife of the acting subject. The guy who bakes is a baker and he had a wife, they would be Bäcker and Bäckerin,even if his wife was a seamstress by trade. You can still see this in old fashioned German where the fem…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 04:22 AM
1

She definitely fell in love...But not with you. You have outlived your usefulness. Did you ever even fuck her? Because if not, you have been used for resources only.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:43 AM
5

Judging by how much of a pussy you are, she is probably getting dicked right now. But jokes aside... the best way to not care is to be busy fucking other girls. So best line something up, dump her ass and proceed to fuck a new plate.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:10 AM
6

As an artist who knows lots of artists.... Most of them are ass holes.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:24 PM
9

Shitty musician here. can confirm.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:22 PM
1

I second this post with a few addendums. I think teenage years or even college may be a good time to have a temporary LTR - I actually call those MTRs (mid term relationships) because they usually last 1 or 2 years. Best experience IMO is a steady girlfriend from about 15 to highschool graduation which then ends in an amicable no fault breakup due to different colleges. There is a few relationship skills one needs to gain and these are best gained when young - and experiencing a break up is the …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 11:36 PM
6

The sooner you accept you can't walk on water, the sooner you can learn how to swim.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 10:08 AM
1

Then you best make sure those heads you lopped don't have powerful friends and family. Allies erode, enemies accumulate. ;)
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 11:32 PM
1

Even though I work in marketing and customer behavior prediction, no, this is the first time I heard about it. The username Kenshi was gone, so i slapped some ooos on the side of it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 04:15 PM
6

The key is in using properly. OLD should be a zero effort marketing funnel, constantly funneling new sexy leads into your inbox which you then convert into offline dates. Local dating is personal network marketing, where you gain more than you invested in time.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 03:05 PM
3

Thanks! I made some changes. :)
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 07:40 PM
2

For me the deciding factor is mostly sunlight. (live in Europe) I'm rarely horny in winter, but come March I turn into a fuck machine. :D
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:25 AM
2

Either shut up and work, or be your own boss.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:09 PM
1

There were some good answers already. I usually went with I just didnt feel the vibe lately. Sends the hamster into overdrive.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:05 PM
1

This response is weaponized autism.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:01 PM
1

While most has been addressed there is also such a thing as being too horny. Basically in that case there is too much adrenaline in your system, causing constriction of the blood vessels, resulting in a non boner. To check for this: is your boner better if you fuck for a second time?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:54 AM
5

Dude,run!
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:32 AM
2

You got money, get a transplant. Also, get jacked. Also, if you are interested and it is fun for you, learn to play guitar, piano or sing.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:20 PM
3

This man has understood it. Godspeed on your journey.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:27 AM
4

As an advanced RPer I really enjoyed your write ups. A more elaborate version and more content in general would be much appreciated. Thank you. :)
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 02:40 PM
20

That's not marriage material, that's a train wreck.
/r/askMRP20/03/21 01:12 PM
3

Did you kiss her? Did you make out? Did you feel her up? Did you have sex? If not, try those things, in that order and then ask again.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 01:36 PM
1

Nah, I am not angry. I just enjoy being an asshat know-it-all. Yoga and meditation don't make a person immune to bad temper. You may become able to control it better, but unless you work on your shadow and resolve the toxic parts of your psyche, you will always have to expend mental energy to keep your shadow in check. Especially if it is constantly triggered and denied external reassurance. (spiritual bypassing,ifyou have heard of it) You don't need to initiate an argument to live out a bad tem…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 11:38 AM
1

Maybe...But then again, I am not the one whining on reddit, desperately searching for angles to insult other people or reasons to feel insulted myself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 11:16 AM
2

Most women who are obsolete made themselves obsolete. My wife certainly is not, but then again, she worked hard to be more than a pretty face with a tight body.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 10:21 AM
0

She has shown how horrible she is in several comments now. That lady has a bad temper with a hair trigger. Imagine being more of a rational, introvert guy who doesn't like to fight and having this shit explode in your face everytime you say something that is perceived as an insult... You'd probably shut up about most things as well and just let her have it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 10:08 AM
1

Who cares?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:12 AM
1

Nope. YOU FELT like he went for those things. What he actually went for.. How would you know? Did you ask him? Also, how you speak to a random internet stranger is of no concern here. What is concerning is how your mind operates. You reflexively take your mental reactions as truth. You are easily ticked off,even by blunt randos on the internet. You retaliate with an eye for an eye. You may be nicer to your husband - especially since he wields financial power over you. But i am 95 percent sure yo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 03:03 AM
1

No problem. How about you envision a life that is great in its own and, should you find the right woman,is even further enhanced by her? Once you have a clear vision,it is even easier to find a woman that fits that vision.
/r/askMRP16/03/21 02:33 AM
1

Why would something that is not true insult you? If the shoe doesn't fit - why wear it? Why attack the shoe salesman? Isnt the whole goal of meditation to like... Ya know... Calm the fuck down, stop the reactive mind and being peaceful? Someone gave you their opinion. He was blunt, yes. But that is not an insult. And the fact that you read it as an insult AND also retaliated with an even worse verbal transgression is very alarming to me. I totally understand it FELT insulting to YOU. But you use…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 02:29 AM
10

I decided for marriage... After I met a girl that qualified. After I built a great relationship with her. After we struggled through some pretty hardcore shit (cancer). Going wife shopping with your mentality is like walking into a car dealer with a case full of cash already in buying mode. You are not critical enough because you really want a car. And that's when the dealer sells you a lemon.
/r/askMRP16/03/21 02:06 AM
1

What we count a insults says more about our own character than the insult itself. That counts double if we take a perceived insult as a legitimation for what we consider retaliation. Quote the paragraph that insulted you and explain why. Chances are, you can't and you will probably retort to more aggression instead. Why? Because you have a fragile ego and rather than admitting how and where you are wrong, you double down on the stupid. Short term this protects you from being uncomfortable. Long …
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 01:55 AM
-1

I don't care. And I care less the hungrier I get. But my wife cares more the hungrier she gets... ... So she is in charge of meal decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 01:45 AM
4

If a Stern opinion has you that easily triggered into emasculating aggression,I can only assume the shit your husband endures from you. No wonder your husband would rather not have an opinion in your vicinity. If someone broke into my home, I'd let him kidnap you and make some tea while wating for him to drop you back off after he has had a nervous breakdown.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 01:44 AM
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Since the link between language and psychology is one of my fields of expertise (I work in advertisement) I think i can answer this one. Words are tools. Some tools are used by experts in an expert manner and they can provide great value. Other tools are used by idiots in wrong situation and they can do great damage. The benefit of these words, hence their widespread use, is that they allow us to more accurate ly model our inner workings. However, where experts make great effort and invest a lot…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 11:32 PM
4

It's not your job to prove that she is a liar. It is her job to prove that she is worthy. She fucked that job up. Leave.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:56 AM
9

While you are correct in applying the law of diminishing returns to the sexual market place, you rating system is waaay off and by that you are feeding the rampant inferiority complexes around this place. So let's get this straight. Physical attractiveness is shaped like a bell curve. The is no point in dividing what is "achievable" into 10 sections, because attractiveness is always relative. Therefore, you need to divide the PEOPLE into 10 different sections. Anything above an 8 would be the to…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 04:39 PM
1

TL;DR Something about fucking cats.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 01:21 AM
3

First of all: She seems like a genuinely nice person, her response was polite and respectful and therefore you should reciprocate. Tell her you see her as a woman, not as a friend and politely decline the friendship without being butthurt.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:08 PM
17

Warn the guy.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:42 AM
1

No, you are realistic. But there is a little nuance there: Not ALL western women are trash. Only the vast majority, to a point where you might as well try to find a needle in a haystack. However... if you want to find that needle - you have to turn yourself into a magnet. ;) Also, you should not think about marriage before you are 30. Also, if you are going to get married, second generation immigrant women are usually a good place to look. They usually have their parents work ethic whilst still …
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:34 PM
132

While she sounds like a genuinely nice person, she also sounds like she is already waist deep in the crazy. She is basically writing up a wedding vow. If you have no romantic interest in her, I'd stay far away. Best case scenario: you are going to damage her. Worst case scenario: She is going to damage you, your life or your reputation. When spinning plates I make it a point to leave them better than when I found them. So MY response would be: "To be honest - I felt tempted to continue meeting y…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:30 PM
5

No man is an island. it in my own self interest to live in a healthy, productive society - if only to have a light tax load. BTW, I am 33, I fucked enough women to stop counting. You nihilism and your ad hominems betray your weakness.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 12:01 PM
99

Balance is key. I think there is no harm in some fucking around and some experimentation. However, serious relationships bring the most personal growth to a woman (if her man is growing himself as well). But since most women nowadays are more interested in fun and alpha dick, they stay teenagers all through their 20s. They are unable to live in a relationship and to be good mothers and rolemodels. This eventually leads to a society where half the society ads nothing at and lives as teenage minde…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 05:04 AM
3

Any type of networking with people under 30 is usually a circle jerk.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 02:28 AM
1

Okay, in that case you could probably stand to invest 2K in crypto right now, if just to have it and to see how it pans out. Since you are tied to your location anyhow... Is real estate an option in your area? If you are confident you can pay off a cheap unit or two within a year, it might be wise to invest there now, since a lot of people are foreclosing thanks to covid. If you can pick up something at an auction and have one unit for yourself and another one to rent out, you might be able to r…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 02:11 AM
1

Can you work remote? How about moving to a very cheap spot to live, like Thailand? That would net you more money than any investment strategy.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:54 AM
3

It is not instant attraction if she does not fuck you. You misjegded the situation. She does not care about you. Next her.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:50 AM
1

Hwo much money od you have in your war chest? About 6 months worth of savings? No? Then start saving money while keeping your expenses low. Yes, that means living with your parents a little longer. Power is built by having fuck you money. Also, if you are the person to ask that kind of dumb ass question, you should not be speculating. You should be diversifying, slowly investing a fixed monthly sum (additional to you rainy day fund) into ETFs, precious metals, a little crypto. Real estate might …
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:43 AM
1

Don't put your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:33 AM
5

My boss has this kind of beard. He is a small guy, but powerliftig and a big ass beard make other people respect him more.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:19 AM
22

Funny, cleaning drains me of so much energy. I can work for 12 hours but I am done for the day after cleaning for one.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 08:41 PM
1

Maybe you should lay off the test a bit. Too much testosterone can also whack your body and mind out of balance. I recently had testicular cancer and my test whent through the roof as well but I got really depressed. I also have an ADHD brain, and I had nowwhere to go with all my energy, because of the lockdown. I could not go to BJJ, not make music, no gym, nothing... so I spend hours riding my motorbike in near-freezing temperatures :D After my surgery everything went back to normal.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 02:33 PM
1

You sound and look like a sad fuck.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:15 AM
1

Here is the thing: a lot of women overdo it in the dating phase, be aus ethey can keep themselves and their emotions in check for a couple of hours during dates,etc. You are seeing the best version of themselves and they like oyu because you can and do motivate them to bring that side to the forefront. They associate being their best self with you. When you live with a woman though, she can not keep that shit going all the time. So now she associates you with just her being her normal everyday p…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 09:55 AM
20

Either you win or you learn. Today - you learned. First of all - your human need for connection is totally natural and healthy. There is no point in being an alpha-chad with a thousand meaningless hookups if you do not enjoy that. That being said... being an alpha-chad with a thousand meaningless hookups is still better than getting stomped on by disloyal hoes. So protect your heart better next time. It is still a worthwile endeavour to built a nice bachelor life. One additional point: The way i…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:49 PM
1

We have a saying in music: if everything is loud, nothing is loud. People feel shifts in dynamics more strongly than the level of dynamic they are at. If you went slow for a bit and then go deep and hard, she will feel that more than you boning her in the same (hard) pace for extended periods of time. However, you probably already conditioned her to only feel shit when you go hard. So you need to a) recondition her to feel more with less and b) learn how to stay in control during sex without jac…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:43 AM
3

I am in favor of exactly One explanation. No talking, nothing else. But it depends on whether you can bear the brute force of her hamster. I had a similar incident. I texted her: I know about x. This kind of behavior is not what I want in a relationship, which is why I don't want to see you anymore. Please don't contact me.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:49 PM
5

Be forever thankful to that girl!
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 12:43 PM
1

Just because someone does not notice or see the big picture, they still feel the ground shifting and adjust accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 09:29 AM
48

That's a lot of words to justify your butt-fetish. :D
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:23 PM
3

Another sperg who does not understand nuance.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 01:29 PM
90

I dated a 19 year old when I was 30 (and also plated a few). Upside: Their bodies were incredible, some of them were even "porn-ready" or easily brought to that level. Since they talk so much much, shutting up and being a strong, silent type is incredibly easy. They are also easily impressed - I had a fast, but incredibly unrealiable Jaguar. She loved it. I played music in a shit-tier band - she loved it. Downside: Sex was often mediocre because they were not comfortable with being vulnerable, w…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 06:51 AM
5

I agree with this. But I find it also easier, because the rules are plain and simple. Be alpha, be attractive. If you fuck up, you nearly always know what you did wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 06:46 AM
6

Ask her: are you the blonde one or the stripper, sorry really bad with names
/r/askTRP19/02/21 06:11 AM
5

This was a blessing in disguise. Yes, you have been disillusioned. But that's good, because the illusions you had before are gone now. Be careful not to replace them with new illusions. The girl was never your LTR, because if she poisons the well with such a power move, she clearly is not long term oriented and unable to see the consequences of her actions. (despise all astrology chicks being crazy anyhow) Sensible people will not treat you like that. She was just some chick you fucked which tur…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 06:02 AM
2

Dude. Shut up about politics. Read 48 laws of power.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:53 AM
3

... Or so she told you Women would cheat with a hobo if she feels it helps her -find herself
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:52 AM
5

Gtfo then. Austin is nice, I hear.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:51 AM
6

Why would you invest any WORK into that? Work on yourself, your career, work in the gym and in education. But not on brainwashing yourself into staying with an outright whore. Even if she was truthful, 12 guys at 21 is A LOT. My tip: draw the line at 5 - you included.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:30 AM
8

In Germany we have a saying "The noble oak does not care if the boar rubs against it." Don't let that psycho live rent free in your head. Move on.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:42 PM
20

Bro, you went full sperg in front of our esteemed uncle Vasiliy. :D
/r/askTRP14/02/21 04:50 PM
101

And you are still letting that bitch live rent free in your head whilst wasting time banging out these paragraphs. Your post should have gone like this: "Yo, guys, I though I was red pill, but it turns out I am not. I LTRd a whore and after she "kissed" some other dudes dick, my frame folded like a lawn chair. Don't be like me, stay vigilant!"
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 08:42 AM
2

Yes, you are correct! Good job!
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:01 PM
7

Ill bet my ass that ass looks only good in that pose and in those pants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 01:22 AM
2

Solid post, expert advice. Can confirm 100%.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 12:09 AM
3

Or.... you could just fast intermittently, eat whatever you want and save the brainpower for something more productive. Going through extreme lengths like cutting out sugar (that stuff is pretty much everywhere) is a waste of time that is better spent elsewhere. (Like making money) There is really no need to get educated about nutrition, other than "stay away from things with labels as much as possible" and "don't eat for 16/18/20 hours a day".
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 04:50 AM
52

Singles with no kids pay the highest taxes. Since men a) make more and are b) less likely to have kids as opposed to single moms, those taxes are mostly paid by men.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:15 AM
28

Use emotional upswings. Much like temperature, people don't feel feel the emotional tension of a situation (unless it is extreme), but the change in said tension. The mood might swing either up or down - that is when we feel it the most. Much like a rollercoaster. Therefore, right after there is an upswing in emotions - maybe after a good joke, or a genuine moment of emotional connection. After that emotion is experienced, there will be a slight pause which feels like the opposite of uncomfortab…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:29 PM
11

You ignore her. If she doesn't like it, she can leave.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 02:55 AM
2

This is all stuff that will sort itself out with time and increased experience / confidence.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:35 AM
3

I really don't see the problem. :D But on a different note, you should probably learn to defend yourself, because maybe you radiate some kind of do-stuff-to-me energy. I can recommend bjj.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:15 AM
19

We) I am not gay, but 20 dollar is 20 dollar.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:12 AM
6

Vocal coach here. The part about the voice is spot on! Fun fact: I noticed I get laid even more in English than my native language because I talk slower and lower. :D
/r/TheRedPill03/02/21 05:39 AM
1

Maybe don't associate with someone named Candice?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/21 04:58 AM
2

No, you are quite wrong, because you assume that what is true for the part must be true for the whole. Women as a species are quite adept at intuitive heuristics.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 11:46 PM
1

Middle class men aren't disappearing YET. But they will. What is happening NOW is no indicator of what happens when a bubble bursts. (And quite frankly, I am suprised to see so many people say "but now it is different". Thats, like, the whole point I am trying to make...) If the Sexual Marketplace is really a market, then of course it will run through the same cycles as regular markets. And as far as I can oberserve, the dating market is always a few years behind the national markets. The americ…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 05:42 PM
1

The problem with authority is when one has no choice but to submit tothe., because then their authority rests on power, not merit. Build a life where you have options, so you can avoid those relationships where you are subjugated by the difference in power. I have no problem working for someone if I picked a job because I wanted it. But I have a problem working for someone who picked me while I needed the job.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:59 AM
1

Who cares what they "would rather"? I would rather walk than drive a Prius over my Mustang - but I'f I have to get to my clients, you can bet your ass I will ride that Prius whilst whispering soft, sexy words of encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 05:17 PM
1

Exactly. Tell that to all the knuckle heads here remarking "but right now it is different, hurr durr..." No shit, doofus - that is why we call it CHANGE. :D
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 05:14 PM
1

How about I not answer bullshit posts on Reddit.... ..oh wait, I just did... Shucks!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 05:05 PM
0

What they believe now does not matter. Their beliefs will change as the times change.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 11:32 PM
1

Taking what is available is not settling. A low tier alpha is still miles above an average beta. ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 11:31 PM
2

​ Username checks out.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:42 PM
3

And then guard that blistering ulcer of a state apparatus against being eroded by corruption within a decade or two....
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:39 PM
3

because he is not mindlessly indulging in the "mUh hYpeRgAmy" rethorik.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:37 PM
3

Men don't buy when they can rent/borrow. ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:29 PM
3

I mean that men are getting shafted on every end of society, which eventually leads to truckloads of disenfranchised younglings. Boys do worse academically, they have no positive rolemodels, they are constantly under attack for everything masculine. By the time they leave college a lot of them are effectively neutered. Now they are getting fucked in the workplace by hiring quotas, equality-officers in HR, risk of getting me2ed, etc.Meanwhile, they are also getting the short end of the stick on t…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 07:15 PM
2

Start saving as much money as you can, diversify your assets. Learn a job that can be done remotely and gets yourself a steady stream of western money. Find a way to get an automated second income stream. Move to asia (preferably Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore, Phillipines, Malaysia) , live cheap, invest in real estate. RCEP is a done deal, the boom will come.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:42 PM
1

I never implied this wouldnt happen. I expect an evaporation of the sexual middle class.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:34 PM
1

Take a look at what happened to the dating scene after WWII.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:33 PM
3

I predict a combination of several reactions. Women opting out of the SMP Women ganging up to become polygamous Women forcing earlier marriages Women staying single forever
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:30 PM
0

I'll just fuck your mum then. ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:29 PM
0

Business as usual will never happen again.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:27 PM
3

In Germany we have a joke: "So you are also left wing? We can be friends - until the revolution is done...."
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:23 PM
1

Well in Germany our unions are powerful, but they behave like bureaucratic, state-like entities themselves. They are slow, bloated and oblivious as wel as hostile to progress. Most people who would need a union are actually too stupid to understand what a union does and why they need it.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:16 PM
1

Good call. Most guys here arent thinking beyond the wall, but everything your described will start haunting women earlier and earlier.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:11 PM
3

Yep, but it since the middle class of men increasingly evaporates, less and less women will be able to cash a suitable BB check, leading to either earlier marriage for mid-tier women or to joining an alphas polygamist harem.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:07 PM
1

My predictions are: The middle class of men will evaporate. High Tier Betas will experience more attention, but will be pressured into early marriages by mid tier women. Mid and lower class men will join the ranks of the incels. Polygamy will become more accepted, to the point where it becomes a central issue of identity politics.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 06:04 PM
1

Some people did call previous bubbles, though. It is actually my job to predict customer behavior, and I tend to be right about such things. But yeah, most people not only not realize the bubble - they are also very adamant about ignoring even the slightest possibility of one existing. As can be seen in this Thread.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 05:33 PM
2

I never said inceldom was the driver. I actually see quite a lot of "mini alphas" popping up lately. They have all the outwards characteristics of alphas - tall, jacked, money, looks. But hey have no internal frame besides accidental stubbornness. Or guys which have none of the above besides rock solid frame. I am quite sure it is becoming a thing, but I guess we have to wait and see. We only have our limited perspective. To me it seems plausible, because imperative always is "evolve or die".
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 05:29 PM
2

Because you said that I wish. I don't have to wish for a burst. I have no agenda in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 05:25 PM
1

While that was funny, you are missing the key difference. Pokemon trainers aim to be the very best. It is a meritocracy based on cockfighting.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 05:24 PM
2

As I said in other comments: I think the middle class of men on the SMP will evaporate, just like the middle class evaporated in america. Higher Tier Betas will be nudged to marry early. Alphas will either stay chads or have multiple wifes. Mid-Tier and Low-Tier betas will join the ranks of the incels.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 05:22 PM
2

Unless you are really old, I think you will experience the burst. I guess it will happen within the next 15 years, depending on how hard Covid and the pandemics of the future hit us and how well the world economic forum manages to implement its great reset. I think the bubble is going to burst because every bubble either bursts, or is externally stablized, in which case it bursts later and harder. And I don't see anyone stabilizing it soon - unless sex robots become a thing, maybe. Judging by th…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 05:19 PM
1

I never said betas would have it easy. I said that women will come earlier for the higher tier betas, leading to a devaluation of pussy alltogether. I highly doubt pussy and dick will be in perfect equilibrium. Like any marketplace the sexual market tends to evaporate its middle class. My prediction is: Women will probably latch onto their partners earlier, or never. High tier Betas will be in stronger demand, average and lower tier betas will become incels.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 04:48 PM
5

Suitable marriage-betas are becoming exceedingly rare. Much like the american middle class, the upper tier betas evaporate. They either become mini-alphas or increasingly decend into inceldom. This will lead to an increasing number of women cashing their BB checks early.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 04:23 PM
3

The thing is: Chads are being produced at a slower rate than chad-chasers. Also, much like the middle class, the healthy middleground of men is evaporating. Those who can either step up their game and become mini-chads, or they start their slow decline into inceldom. Upper Tier betas will become rare, making it harder to settle on beta bucks, thus forcing earlier settling.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 04:19 PM
1

No, it is more like speculate > panic > sell under value. :D
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 04:15 PM
3

Some of the ideas based on Marx were pretty good. For example the Unions (Gewerkschaften). It absolutely makes sense for workers to unite to make their interests heard. Historically, workers unions were very powerful political entity - until they were hollowed out by the government in various ways. However, they forced the German Emperor into creating a social security and healthcare system - if only to steal power from the growing movement of socialists. ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 04:14 PM
7

It get's even worse - a powerful private entity, which trives in a free market, capitalist society will become even more powerful the less free the society becomes. If has the lawyers and the offshore accounts to stay afloat while all its competitors start tanking. This is why all the tech companies support the leftists - it helps with keeping the competition at bay.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 04:12 PM
0

I don't care either way. I am getting pussy regardless.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 03:57 PM
0

Women will bang what is available. Once the burst happens, there will be a decrease in value of pussy. It will not reach the value of dick (which has always been free), but it will drop. The question is - how will it manifest itself?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 03:56 PM
2

You actually made my point for me. Women will bang what is available. Chad becomes increasingly scarce. What is left?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 02:59 PM
1

Again, you are describing the NOW. But our NOW is a process, and any process reaches its point of saturation eventually.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 02:55 PM
1

I am well aware of all these things and I have had excessive amounts of pussy on and off tinder. However - nothing you just mentioned is a static factor. Everything is a process and every process has a point where it is saturated, at which it morphs into another process. This is why we have bull and bear cycles in the economy. If you have trouble seeing this, you are probably the type of person who has no saving / investment strategy either.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 02:53 PM
1

It also means that only fans stops being a viable option for most. Akin to becoming a youtuber.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 11:14 AM
3

Well you can also back a currency by trust - but who would trust a woman? ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 11:06 AM
4

You mean a shock event like a global pandemic? ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 11:05 AM
0

Wrong. The bubble DID not burst before 30. But that does not say it wont happen in the future. Most people did not see the bubble of 2008 coming. And mostl people are missing the dating bubble.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 11:05 AM
1

Impaired resource allocation due to high prices procued by speculation. It is really not different from crop speculation in Afrika.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 10:11 AM
8

The problem with marxists is that most marxists dont even understand marx and reduce the whole theory down to "forcefully redistribute resources!"
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 10:08 AM
1

So not believing in reality shield one from its effects? Are you like Neo or something? You make the mistake of thinking anything will change for the current generation. It wont. They will head straight into the abyss you described. However... as the cases keep piling up, combined with the economic crash that is ahead of us, the younger ones might either learn their lesson or instinctively shift to a different pair bonding strategy.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:49 AM
1

But.. but... he is a six figure earner who LIFTS, goddamnit!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:46 AM
4

That was actually just a tongue in cheek remark, but thanks for the lecture. :)
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:43 AM
-1

Speculation is not planning. It is wishful thinking, and women are good at that.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:41 AM
3

Most of them are mortally afraid of that destiny.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:41 AM
4

I never said I did. In fact, IMO female perception of reality today is quite often very unreasonable. Often so much that it can be called dellusional. Which is why I expect the rubber band to snap back. However, people are actually quite robust and adjustible. If the negative examples keep piling up - and they will - some might learn their lesson.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:38 AM
0

Your accurate representation of the present is well put - but it is not an accurate representation of the future. During the 2008 crisis most people were filling their pockets and handing out toxic loans right until the whole thing went boom. And when it all came down, even people who knew nothing of the stock market adjusted their spending habits.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:34 AM
1

Actually, the world moves in cycles (or more accurately: spirals). All this has happened before - albeit at a smaller scale.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:31 AM
2

You actually made my point. Which men were the men who stayed at home, whilst others where putting their life at risk? Those who were either too weak, too old or too afraid to fight... so not exactly Chad tier material. This coincided with very unstable social and economic condition for young women... and boom, there you have it.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:29 AM
-5

Without going off on a tangent... It does not matter if men or women perceive reality differently, as long as their perception is a) reasonable and b) workable. As long as your subjective perception of reality is a useful approximation, you are going to be fine. If your perception of reality is "subjective" to the point where it is dillusional (as it is the case with many people today), you are in for a bad time.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:25 AM
15

Damn, you should make this into an OP. Well written!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:21 AM
14

Exactly. Who gives a fuck what a 23 year old says?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:20 AM
-17

It does not matter what reality means for anyone. It only matters what reality IS. It also does not matter what women say, but what they do. And women will not go unfucked. They never have. Also: What makes you think the dating market is not linked to war?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 09:03 AM
1

I may be wrong on the timeframe. Who knows... maybe we will get our own "great reset"? Marxist style centrally planned LTRs?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:48 AM
1

As u/Sigma-Angel_of_Death wrote: Just take a look at the end of World War 2.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:46 AM
3

Because the dating market has become like the stock market. People are speculating on future supply.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:43 AM
-31

No, they won't. They'll get fucked by Alphas in their prime (because men are always in for a no-hassle lay), and spend the rest of their lives bitching Where Have All The Good Men Gone? That's what they'll do. I get all that. But just because that has happened within the past decades does not mean it is going to happen in the future. Up until now it was possible for women to ignore the reality you described - but no objective reality can be ignored forever. Eventually, things will rubberband bac…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:39 AM
5

It does not matter if there is a surplus of men as only the men above a certain bar are valid / valuable. (Only the ones able to afford a Porsche... or a least a BMW.) Pussy has priced itself out of the market to the point where no amount of competition will even get a beta on the playing field.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:36 AM
6

Yep, but it is becoming increasingly hard to aquire a critical mass of simps. Just watch how only fans got flooded and how all the girls are complaining how hard it has become to make some actual money there.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:34 AM
3

No, but it is working like a market - like every domain that is subject to the problem of resource allocation. The stock exchange would the virtual world of instagram and online-dating, where things are not being traded for their objective value, but for the speculative value.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:33 AM
11

So you talked to a girl and listened to what she told you? How about you read some of that side bar again? No, seriously: Watch what she does. What she says is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:30 AM
-12

Becoming rich and having fuck you money are two very different endeavours.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 08:26 AM
1

Hello Friend, I am going to help you swallow that red pill.... with another, even bigger one. You, my friend, are egoistic. Your view of the world is transactional. You are not a good guy. You are "good" for the sake of "getting actual results". Being "good" is your strategy. It is not who you are. If you actually where "good" you would do good things and expect nothing in return. You would be outcome independant, detached. Now, if you eventually learn to let go from your ego, you will discover …
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:25 AM
39

You should make that essay. IMO this is one of the most important realizations a man can have. Some people are trash, and deep down, they know. Not for being born trash, not from life experiences - but from the very fact, they never really did anything about it. And if they are for some reason uplifted from their circumstances (which happens more often to women than men), they will sunconsciously sabotage themselves to get back into the shit show they came from. It is the biggest red flag of all…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 06:16 PM
0

You approach is also pretty cringe. You are fishing for a topic ton open with - and people can tell. How about using an opener that is a) funny and b) polarizing and c) can be copy pasted everywhere because you do not need to spend time scrounging her profile for bits to latch on to. Heck, you can even be an offensive asshole... "Wow, you look amazing! Together, we could make such beautiful abortions..."
/r/TheRedPill24/01/21 01:08 PM
1

So that's what happens to festival-hopping-yoga-girl-who-is-also-kinda-into-molly after she decided to "trust faith" on the whole birth control issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 01:37 AM
6

The thing is - her face is mega hot. If she weren't a chubster, she could be model tier. Also, I think she is kinda funny - the nugget-line and the CV made me chuckle. If she was still dating fuckboys (as in, had the age and looks to do so) she'd probably be a very fun plate. However... None of this makes her wife-material.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 01:33 AM
10

This is correct. Addendum: Any chit-chat on apps like tinder is mostly to save face rather than "warm up".
/r/TheRedPill20/01/21 01:14 AM
70

While I pulled chicks without talking at all, I am more of a talker and I had great sucess with it - but you already put your finger on the spot: "You don't HAVE to." Most men feel like they HAVE to talk, like they HAVE to contribute to the conversation, like they HAVE TO DO SOMETHING. Well, you don't. Talk if you like to talk. Shut up, if you don't.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 09:27 AM
2

It's not you. The majority is damaged. Not attracting these kinds of trainwrecks is an actual art.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 05:48 PM
28

Girls that go with the flow go home with chad, if he puts enough pressure on. Find a girl with firm principles and ethics.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 04:53 PM
1

sets is not beneficial to a body and I've learned that on myself. This was something I was doing and in the beginning the progress was good, then after I while I wasn't feeling right. So I started googleing to find out what was happening. I was starting to feel anxious and depressed a short while after the workout, like a half a hour later. Researching I was able to find that by increasing reps and sets I was increasing cortisol levels in my body. This caused depression and anxiety, and also low…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 03:27 PM
1

I think your list is pretty much complete.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 10:02 PM
0

"I believe men can not be truly feminist, just like white people can't be truly anti-racist." (And women can't be truly independant... ;) )
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:06 PM
1

I appreciate your post! My perspective is somewhat different though. I had so much sex with different women it litterally did not excite me anymore. Getting laid was like playing a videogame on autopilot - and just like a videogame it was a waste of time. I did some downsizing and just kept a nice clean rotation with low maintenance for a while and eventually settled for a quality LTR. But this has only been possible because I have been around the block to the point where literally nothing a gir…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 11:24 AM
1

Yeah, thats not gonna happen if someone actually want to hurt you. :D Armbaring and triangling people as a low trained person is just asking to be punched in the face. :D
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:15 PM
3

That is probably correct, but OP stated that the antagonist was physically stronger. Also, OP did not seem like a natural fighter to me. In BJJ the ability to reliably beat an untrained, but physically stronger opponent is usually attributed to blue belt level, which takes about 2 years. But yes, very often people need to only learn shrimp, guard retention, a simple sweep and how to keep mount and they will win most "dominance fights".
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:50 PM
14

Learn jiu-jitsu. Most people have a hard time punching others, you seem to be one of them. But if you have no problem grabbing his collar, you should have no problem doing a snapdown to guillotine. (check it out on yt.) Also, most people don't know how to grapple effectively. With 1 or 2 years in bjj you will whipe the floor with him.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:11 PM
3

Most of Europe.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:39 AM
-3

Providing "sCiEnTific EvuDuNcE" would be futile in your case, since you are not even literate enough to read your own study. Also, you seemed rather fond of annecdotes, when you mentioned R.C. - but now the data that thousand of physical therapist have collected is not viable? Come on, dude. Your study says EXACTLY what I just wrote. Training between 15-25 IS VIABLE BUT IT TAKES LONGER for the same effect. By definition that is inefficient use of your time. Doing lower reps for the same effect s…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 05:14 PM
3

Rubberbands actually perform better for that cause. Heavier weights (or a weighted vest), due to inertia, tend to increasingly strain the muscles at the beginning of the motion when the body is instable. Rubberbands instead increase resistance when the body is the strongest, thereby creating a combined effect of light reps where the body is weakest and heavy reps where the body is strongest.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 04:41 PM
-2

You are strawmanning again. No one lifting for health / looks / functionality is going to lift like R.Coleman. Drawing the line at 1-5/5-30 is stupid. Bodymechanically speaking, lifting something 5 times is VERY different than lifting it 30 times and encompasses different physiological processes, breathing patterns, kinetic linking, etc. Only being able to do 1-5 reps either indicates that the weight is very heavy for you, in which case you are unable to control it in a healthy manner. Or if it …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 08:20 AM
0

1) Have you ever seen a hunter gatherer do pushups? Walking (especially in hunter-gatherer-land) is not repetitive. It requires you to constantly adapt to an ever changing ground. Also, if they are buff, it is not from walking. It is usally from practicing some kind of combat, mostly wrestling as well as throwing stuff. This is what I meant: Once you did you covered your need for hypertrophy, you are way better off training a skill than cranking out reps. Strenght built with endless repetition d…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 05:49 AM
-2

It is kind of not. Your knowledge is outdated / incomplete. Lifting TOO heavy (and with wrong technique) makes you prone to injury. Well-done heavy lifts are good for bone strength as well as joints. A good rule of thumb is to always aim to control the weight and not have the weight control you (because then you start to compensate, wobble, etc Both high-weight-low-rep and low-weight-high-rep exercises build muscles, if you are able to create hypertrophy. Depending on the muscle tissue you may a…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 05:34 AM
1

Just some cautionary advice: The human body is not made for repititious movement. Any kind of excessive repitition over long periods of time (years, decades) will detoriate joints and mobility. You are way better off in lifting heavy with low volume, which helps with bone strength and builds muscle and then use the remaining time for working on movement and mobility to become functionally strong. Pumping out hundreds of pushups will not bring good results for the majority of the population. Ther…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 09:48 PM
11

32 y.o. Here. I'd guess I am about a 6 looks wise on a good day. Average height, average income, glasses, very fit but not yoked. Also I apparently have some kind of a gay vibe going. However, I dont really have the same problems and I have banged models 10 years younger than me, and never a serious chubster. If asked my secret I would attribute it to a) logistics and b) tight verbal game.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 09:23 AM
1

Great talk,you guys. I learned a lot.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/12/20 10:23 AM
1

In bed? Probably more than I dare to find out. In a relationship? Probably not, because I don't tread alpha widows as LTR material.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:27 PM
1

I am glad I like my girl better without makeup. :D
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:59 AM
2

Instead of obsessing over this needless bullshit, you should just remove your attention from it. Attention is life time that you carelessly spend on these idiots. Time that you will never get back. If you want to teach these fakers a lesson: REMOVE. YOUR. ATTENTION. But then again, if you actually knew anything about the red pill, you would do that anyway - because that is how you treat low value women, too.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:13 AM
-3

Quality post. made me realize how far I have come.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 03:44 AM
10

Number 5 is especially important because it highlights how she treats weaker people.. Like your kids.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre29/12/20 03:01 AM
0

I had a similar thought about the bdsm scene and their still called doms. Most of it is rape cosplay that feeds the feminine imperative and where a woman, no matter what role she is in, still has all the power. It is artificial wish fulfillment for women, psychically manifested erotica novels. There is no actual dominance there.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:52 AM
4

How about this: don't get a TV. Not only does it limit how you can set up your room, it is also a waste of time and money. If you like to watch movies now and again, save the money and invest it in a decent laptop / iPad. Added bonus: watching movies on a small screen is plausible deniability to snuggle up. .... What else? Decent lighting! Besides to obvious bonus of setting the mood with girls, good lighting can boost your productivity, improve sleep and stave off depression when staying indoor…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 07:16 AM
5

You days are numbered my friend, I have seen this kind of shit. She realized she is too weak ot break up so she will do something stupid to make you break up with her. Bottom line:. Get the paperwork for her dog and then dump her.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:29 AM
1

I appreciate the offer, but if you arent gonna help me move heavy ass furniture next weekend, I‘d much rather fuck you.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:54 AM
9

I am 32 with a 25 yo fiance. We both have good careers, she is a high level business consultant, I develop software. I annoyed my freedoms a lot before I met her, fucked about 20-30 new women per year until hookups became boring. I began to expand my growth mindset into my romantic relationships as well and I found a woman who shared my values. My idea here is this: if you are a good leader, you will be able to shape your relationship according to your values. If you value freedom and personal s…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:55 AM
3

Just to offer a different perspective... Have you ever considered you priced yourself out of your market?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:57 AM
2

Oh, yeah, I read that. Good post!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 06:15 PM
2

He had me in the first half.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 01:57 PM
3

Make this post an op! Is awesome!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 01:56 PM
11

I know plenty. But they are all musicians. :D
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:59 AM
1

Some people are more interesting to talk to then you are rich. Some men know how to be sexual and sensual in a conversation that gives women tingles. Some men have a huge dickprint through their pants... the variations are endless. At the end of the day, if you are a woman, money is not indication of wether you will be getting fucked good. That chubby, hairy, balding sax player who can make you laugh and dance and plays your emotions like a fiddle? He can get in tune with your body.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:38 AM
2

As a piss poor musician who has dated millionaire girls I can assure you... The hierarchy does not exist - at least if you manage to break out of it.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:15 AM
2

So she is not YOUR bank manager? In that case - go for it. Worst she can say is no. :D
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:40 PM
3

A word of advice from a seasoned vet: Besides the actual girls trying to orbit you, there is also a small set of women who are suuuper into brat game. They want to tease you all day and night, only to pull back. Some of them are even so into it, they want you to take them by "force" - even going so far as not agreeing to any safe word, abusing said safe word and blocking any attempt of establishing consent. She reads a lot like one of those girls. The key here is to verbally escalate and turn th…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:45 PM
1

You need meditation and more life experience. Once your have seen enough of the world you will be able to take it a little more easy.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 12:00 PM
1

It's mostly body language. Taking her by the hand with a big open smile and leading her to the dance floor, spinning her around for a bit. Pretty much like foreplay. :)
/r/askTRP03/12/20 11:54 AM
2

Dancing is in many ways similar to sex. If you bust out threatening dance moves, you also need to be able to create comfort with a girl. Maybe be a bit more sensual when approaching her - you already demosntrated your brashness.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 09:00 AM
8

If it is your first time gaming a woman and you need advice, you are not yet an RP man. However, I strongly advise against dating a chick that knows your financial situation and has access to it. It falls under the don't shit where you eat protocol.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:02 AM
1

Make the family a safe haven, but create challenges outside of it. Always give the opportunity to work for something they desire. As for challenges: Let them play sports. Judo works especially well.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:58 AM
12

Life experience means notch count. Everything else is secondary and can pretty much be done with the right partner as well.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/12/20 06:27 AM
1

I was joking, actually. However, one might argue that in this way you might be saving another guy from her. Because one might argue that it is not always about you.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 06:19 AM
1

Make her break up with him, then dump her.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:22 PM
1

Can't speak for everyone, so this is just my take. I love the vegan diet, but one should make sure it pu tsome research into it and supplement b12, d, and iodine. Also one must make sure to balance omega fats and get enough high value protein. But for me, it worked. I weight 86kg at 180cm with visible abs and broad shoulders.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:35 PM
3

Vegan here, who also did the all meat (plus a few veggies) thing a few years ago. I felt it was meh. Bad skin, bad breath, hairloss, body odor...
/r/askTRP01/12/20 03:19 PM
1

Same for asians.. but there still is a lot of them.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:17 PM
1

Why would I call you a beta? I don't know you. This has been a respectful conversation so far and I intend to keep it that way. Regarding the topic: Your perspective on relationships is that of a teenager and it betrays your lack of experience. Most of the things your cited as requisites for a "genuine connection" are of virtually no importance. They are a cluster of random factors your generation uses as a surrogate for a personality they have not yet created through life experience. Once you s…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 04:05 PM
1

I get what you mean, but you are missing an important factor: time. I have had that kind of relationships with much younger women - even with a 19 year old model while I was 30 years old - but one thing was always obvious: It is not going to last. Would I call them meaningful regardless? Probably. They meant a lot to me. But I was always aware that there is a deadline to this - and so was she. We still did our best and had that genuine connection, and we gracefully let go when the time came. It …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 08:44 PM
2

I was going to be a smartass, but I am genuinely curious - what is a "meaningful relationship" to you?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 01:10 PM
2

This answer is probably gonna get burried, but I liken seduction to driving. First, you gotta spend a few hours to become proficient at driving, then you can go it pretty much automatically and it becomes a tool in your skillset o get you from point a to point b. However, some people are still super bad at driving and it is mostly luck that protects them. Also, some people become enamoured with the experience of driving and they devote their time to become better and better at it. Where you fall…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:40 AM
6

You mean wether I want a 20 y.o. hardbody who can suck a golfball through a a garden hose? Who has not yet developed her manipulation game to threatening levels? Who is not yet jaded and worn out by the realization that her power and upwards mobility evaporates with her looks? Fuck yeah.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 11:20 AM
6

You'd be surprised. The vast majority of them just want to get dicked by a real man, and not by some simping mangina that looks at anime all day.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 10:39 AM
4

Here is the deal. Boomer me does not need to understand. Boomer me has build an attractive body and lifestyle, so Gen z girls will want to get dicked down by boomer me regardless of whether I get memes.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 10:04 AM
5

You text to settle the when what and where and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 10:00 AM
22

Easy. If she wanted to smash, she'd make it easier by giving out her phone number for whatsapp
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 09:59 AM
3

Awesome prose, love it. But most younglings here won't understand... yet.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/20 05:21 PM
2

"Normally yes, but you mum is afraid of covid."
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:09 AM
8

How to recover frame? Fuck a new pussy!
/r/askTRP17/11/20 11:05 AM
1

It's fucking rona time. Grow it all out for at least 6 weeks. nobody is gonna see it anyway. Meanwhile lift and eat proper diet. If you have money get a nice wardrobe: fitting chinos, fitting black t-shirt, slick sneakers, leather jacket.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:37 PM
26

Imagine I made you the best Hamburger in the world. I am a master chef. I get that grass fed beef, bacon, truffle sauce and blue cheese. And also I put a liiiiiiitle bit of shit on it. Would you eat it? Or nah? There is your answer.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:34 PM
1

You look like a russian mobster about to drop into a slav squat. I suggest growing it out a bit and then going to an expensive barber to get a decent cut / beard trim. Also, I suggest fixing your neck posture, because you have a recessed lower jaw, which leads to the impression of you having a double chin. But most importantly, you need to lift. You are entirely to small for your skeletal frame. You should be 15 lbs heavier at least.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:22 PM
0

They are fucking me, at least. And I am not a model by any means. Btw, OP, you look like retard on your pics. Get a decent haircut, lift, and do interesting shit in your pics.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:10 PM
3

Yeah, been there, done that. Banged about 50 in 18 months. After that I took it down a few notches and focussed on improving other parts of my life. :D
/r/askTRP13/11/20 10:44 AM
1

Dude here. I have made a similar remark about my first girlfriend, whom I "dated" from 14-19 and broke up with because all our fuck-ups kept accumulating and eventually it was better to break up. However, she was (and still is) an amazing person and her influence on me has been very positive, for which I am thankful. His comment is much more indicative of a "grown-up" who has developed a balanced view on his past. On that same note... your comment is very indicative of an insecure person. So... …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/20 02:53 PM
2

The way she submits and is all over you screams bpd.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:36 AM
0

Damn, that's fucked up. From an objective standpoint though, your wife's behavior is in acceptable. If I were you, I would try to ally with the boys grandmother, whilst at the same time consulting a custody lawyer. The granny might be able to set her daughters head straight at least enough so she doesn't spin out of control completely, thereby improving your son's situation. Keep track and document everything your soontobeexwife says and does... Because you will need ammunition. Also make up you…
/r/askMRP01/11/20 04:30 PM
1

You did everything right. Move on.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 01:47 PM
8

Well here is a thing: don't fucking cheat on hin!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 08:35 AM
5

You will after he is done with you.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:40 PM
1

You obviously live in Spergistan, because if you actually took the time to read an understand my OP, you would have noticed that I wrote some Buddhists are using Buddhism as a means of emotional suppression - highlighting a weakness of the culture surrounding the practise. The only reason you are redundantly pinpointing this out, is your enflated ego - or autism, I am not sure.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/20 04:54 AM
2

If it is practiced in the way it was intended... Yes. However, the lived reality of it is often very different. There is a lot of repression and spiritual bypassing in Buddhist cultures. You could liken it to the way that Christianity as practiced by most people is probably not practiced the way it was intended by its inventor.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/20 05:47 PM
12

While some people have advised to do more pre-date work - I want to point out a different route. TLDR: Have many dates and find a way to streamline the whole process. It‘s like a sales funnel. I rarely ever pre-date and I never go on actual „dates“ (like bars, etc.) either. The reason being is that I just can‘t be arsed to invest more time than absolutely necessary in a girl. I could use the same time some guys invest in their „pre-date“ strategy to simply set up more dates with more girls. I wi…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 11:36 PM
0

Yeha, IMHO Rollo is dead wrong about that part. Maybe back in his day that was a thing, but my experience is quite the oppsite. I always reveal my n-count when asked. I first start out with "probably way more than you" and if she presses on, I will tell her straight away. (My n-count is high double digits and during my man-slut times I would probably have had sex on the same day already.) It has NEVER cost me any pussy. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 09:26 PM
6

Yes, I did this several times
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:57 AM
1

Yeah, maybe once to try it. My woman tried pretty much all my activities once, but since most of them require a certain amount of weekly practice and commitment - and sometimes even suffering - she lost interest in most of them Things we tried: Jiu jitsu Kickboxing Weight lifting, Playing piano, Singing / karaoke Stand up paddling, Pen and paper RPGs Motorbiking Videogames Yoga (she only stuck with the last 3)
/r/askMRP27/10/20 03:31 AM
18

Come on man, 20 bucks is 20 bucks!
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:10 AM
23

Pretend to actually be gay, get her fired for homophobia. (Works only if she is white)
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:38 AM
3

I can't link the thread because the auot moderator won't let me. It is very early in my post history though.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:16 PM
4

Vocal coach here. I wrote a guide on better voice over at the redpill subreddit.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 06:27 AM
1

Yeah, but most "nice" degrees are overpriced pieces of paper that teach you no marketable skills - and most "nice" jobs are horrible treadmills of quiet desperation. Get a GREAT degree and a fucking great job!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:32 AM
-1

I am actually monogamously engaged. However, I was single for about two years after my last relationship of 10 years tanked, when I was about 29. After that I was not interested in comitting to a new woman and I also needed some more time to focus on myself. Most of my notches came from Tinder, where I had great sucess even though I am at best slightly above average in attractiveness. IMO a man who has a high body count is not really a red flag in itself. I'd be more bothered if had a string of …
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:33 PM
2

Of course they won't. But they can also frame the whole interaction before you even made a first impression. And if the first girl didn't fuck you, she's gonna frame it in a way that the second girl won't fuck you either. (Same goes for the opposite - if you fuck one girl, you can pretty much fuck her friend as well, if you keep it on the down low.)
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 12:44 AM
20

Well yeah, maybe he is, but what your girl also instinctively realizes is that a friend of the opposite sex isn’t just a friend, it’s a friend who you could maybe fuck. This instills pretty significant dread. They’re aware of this, hence part of the reason they love telling you about their orbiters to begin with. Plus your girl won’t be able to get mad at you if some random chicks’ names keep popping up on your phone. You’ve already used the “she’s just a friend” defense in valid context before.…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 01:58 AM
6

"I live in a spacious soutterain, though I don't get to enjoy it much, since I work all the time. I drive a custom made super car. I have a servant that caters to all my needs. Also, I fight crime in a bat suit."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/20 03:49 PM
1

Stop being a pussy and ge tlaid more Sex is like pizza. Even if it is bad, it is pretty good.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:25 PM
2

That would be like trying to learn piano by smashing the keys often enough. It might even randomly produce okay results, but it's not gonna make you a pianist.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 05:09 AM
1

Yeah, but the how is more important than the actual number. Most guys who got game simply do their usual stuff, because they also lead interesting lives that naturally include Sex women. They don't go around like a doors to door dick peddler.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 04:55 AM
2

I have probably been mediating longer than your brain even existed. Be careful what errors you assert onto others, especially if you think you read them out of a cheeky remark. Or, you know, entertain the notion that I might know more than you until you can verify for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 04:53 AM
1

Yes, but you don't do that manually, by directly approaching a cold audience and by investing time into the first stage of the funnel. The first stage of the funnel works without your active particition. And you don't push people into it, you sick them in... ... With a superior product and value that's well-communicated and easily understood. You basically 0re qualify yourself. You focus your time towards the last stages of the funnel - the close. Anything else just does not scale, is a waste of…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 05:04 PM
1

You my friend, are a low value man. The equivalent to a beggar on the street. A pussy beggar. Become a high value man through working out, grooming and building value instead of wasting your time as well as others.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/20 12:27 PM
6

This is incredibly shallow. If you are approaching getting laid like sales, and trying to make it a numbers game, you have reached peak autism. It is the equivalent of some door-to-door salesmen peddling useless insurance. Don‘t be a low value dick-peddler! The key to any close - in business and seduction - is PRE QUALIFICATION. Without pre qualification, sales are going to be shit. Pre qualification comes in three steps: Ensure product quality => Become a superior man and continually improve Di…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 12:18 PM
2

Keep stabbing that ocean, Caligula.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 09:10 PM
4

The secret protects itself. Those who have eyes will see. :)
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 08:13 AM
5

Nobody said you should run on emotions. Trying to get shit done only on high emotions - as many artists are prone to do - is a surefire way for self destruction. However, trying to get shit done without emotions is slow decay. Hence my advice to take a measured approach and to learn to handle emotions properly.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 11:24 PM
2

Another masterpiece by Uncle V. Thank you, kind sir!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 05:37 PM
1

Ironically - no. I am was slightly above average, but by no means was (or am) I the typical alpha male that comes to mind. I am of average height (179cm), I weighed 75 Kg, I was slightly muscular with visible abs (think connor mac gregor), had glasses, full hair but slightly receiding hairline, patchy beard. I was also pisspoor, but I drove a cool car (V8 Jaguar). However, if pressed to it, I‘d say my most distinguishing features were: I am a musician and I can sing, I have top tier social intel…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 11:13 AM
1

More like 60.. About 50 of them in two years.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 05:05 AM
1

Why are you all yapping about youtube celebrities like a bunch of women? STOP CONSUMING AND START CREATING!
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:20 AM
1

Not a US citizen. My country encourages marriage and children, which results in tax breaks. :)
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 02:46 AM
3

Thank me by stopping to talk like an imbecile... Bro.. :D
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 10:14 AM
2

Truth is truth. If both of you have different truths, either one or both of you are wrong, or either one or both of your views are incomplete.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 08:25 PM
17

I am a dude, and I like grey. It is my favourite color - for clothing. However, I like how my woman made our home very cozy. We have colorful velvet furniture (deep blue couch, deep red recliner chair), most metal is gold (lamps, coffee table) and everything is really heavy and sturdy. (kind of an art deco meets industrial style). Each room has one wall painted in a strong color, the other ones are left white. Living room is matte black, work space / dining room is an earthy, greyish clay and th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 05:21 PM
1

He does not want to explain it because it comes down to karma and reincarnation - and he knows very well he will be laughed out the door. :D
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:14 PM
3

Also, your girlfriend probably has not even discovered hypergamy yet. Wait a few years until she grows weary of your meandering ass and want's some caveman to fuck her brains out - if only to experience it once to scratch that itch.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:11 PM
3

Dude.. that guy is a WAR VET. He is a MAN. He is accomplished and he has proven himself - to himself and others. Most users who come here to learn are NOT MEN YET. They did not have a trial by fire, no initiation, no nothing. Just empty consumerism and low-value-media-blue-pill-fairy-tales. They need to painstakingly learn what life has beaten into this guy within a few years.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:09 PM
2

No one contests you can be happy and feel loved being yourself. Self love and prioritizing ones own happiness is one of the main tenants here. However, if one is (objectively) an unlovable, weak piece of trash - one will have trouble loving himself. In fact, if he tries to love himself regardless, he will probably become insane. We can only love ourselves if we grow. If we refuse to grow, or even de-evolve, we don't feel love - and rightfully so.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:07 PM
7

You don't understand the RP people. You confuse the students for the teachers. The students may come here in a state of brokenness as you described. However, most teachers here - those are the endorsed contributors - are accomplished, self secure men. And on a final point: Fear is not repulsive. Fear is a natural, rational reaction to a perceived threat. Low value reactions to fear are repulsive... e.g. men who cower or start yapping like little dogs... or women who lash out against those who ar…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:03 PM
3

Well, to be fair, we can not perceive it from an independant standpoint. But let's say you have a hearing impediment - that does not mean you can not gain crucial information about your surroundings via hearing. He simply made a logical fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 04:57 PM
3

Well, I am also and avid proponent of the monistic idealism... however.. you argument lacks in several ways. You also clearly have not understood what this subreddit is about, because it takes more time than you invested. Thoughts may shape your reality, but any reality that is shared with others is either a collaborative endeavour and hence also shaped my the thoughts of others - or it is a private reality, as in a dream or fantasy. Since shared reality is a collective endeavour, what matters i…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 03:16 PM
5

Dude, you are still a child. :D
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 02:58 PM
4

I am fairly confident your man has PTSD. Loosing his job scarred him in a way he does not understand. He is 26, he probably has not experienced shit like that before and his subconscious is unable to deal with it. One of the most common symptoms auf PTSD is "future blindness" and the inability to organize oneself and priotize tasks. The brain is stuck on short term survival and every task extending more than a few days into the future seems surreal and unattainable. Everything seems like trivial…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 10:30 PM
7

Nah, mensa is full of elitist mental masturbators. The baller way is to keep plowing models until you find one with a degree. ;) Which, ironically is not that hard. Beautiful women tend to flock to well earning men who are usually quite intelligent. Women that have stunning looks are often very smart and their genetics come with a high IQ. However, there is still the questino of nurture. If her environment nurtured her wrong, she will still end up as a washed up waitress once she hits the wall.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 01:19 PM
3

Diversified, non-tracable and easily liquidatable assets. Gold, cash, some bitcoin, watches, stashed in multiple locations. Either with people who won't betray me (my parents / grandparents) or at banks in multiple countries. An easy way to funnel cash away is buying things with credit card, then anytime you have to return stuff, you let them give you cash. A collector's hobby that works without state-involved-contracts (watches: yes; cars: no), that yields high rewards and absolutely bores the …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 01:00 PM
3

You need to access the right social circles.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 12:47 PM
8

Quite on the contrary, the things worth achieving are pretty much anywhere. Just pick any task where most people fail due to its difficulty, or the endurance needed. Study: get accepted into and finish a degree that is hard. Career: Land a job that you a) love, b) pays and c) benefits mankind. Fitness: Attain a great physique and keep it. Hobbies: Learn an instrument to mastery, master a martial art, etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 12:45 PM
32

Jeez, this OP is weaponized autism.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 05:06 AM
3

I am a shallow fuck and I want to make copies of myself. Here is what's gonna happen. I plow my way through 50 or so plates until I get sufficiently bored. I find a girl who is about 8 years younger than me, in her early to mid 20s, who also has a well paying career in a stable field, looks great, has good ethics and is psychologically resilient and self reflective I vet, promise to put a ring on it, and use the benefits of only paying half in rent and utilities to pay off all my debt. We use ou…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 04:29 AM
1

ean to offend, but you probably know as well as I do that you’ve kind of wandered into the lions den here. As genuine as your comments on choreplay and gift giving may be, it will sound very much to us as typical ‘acta non verba’. I get that the man doing the dishes is nice b/c you’re free to relax, but is that honestly giving you the sexy tingles? I very much doubt it. While we are being transactional... How about you keep your dry bits to yourself then and I bang that sexy housekeeper instead?…
/r/askMRP09/10/20 12:52 AM
16

As the Louis CK bit goes: "They there is someone for everyone. NOOOOOPE, not true. Not at all. There are some people no one will ever love. No one touches their genitals. They just wash them and then they die." *crowd going: aaaaaaaaaw* "Don't you fucking awww me! You can fuck one right now! You can end this! What? No? Then shut the fuck up, you fucking hypocrit!"
/r/askTRP09/10/20 12:41 AM
2

Dude. That was way more of a reply than I could ever be bothered to write. I just hope the kid takes the advice to heart. I took a glance at the womanese and my eyes glossed over. My response would have been something like "Dear T, I think you are mistaking me for someone who cares. XoXo, T."
/r/askMRP07/10/20 03:53 PM
2

Saying she don't play 'dem games no mo' means she used to play 'dem games.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 02:05 PM
2

This
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 10:52 AM
1

It's different from person to person. For me, resting is more important. I used to work out 5 times a week, but I got my biggest gains during Corona, when I actually had some time to rest. Now I do bjj 2-3 times a week, one heavy full body workout on the weekend. The rest I spend getting massage, sauna or cryotherapy.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 04:30 PM
1

You are a grown man who vapes and collects shoes like a woman. How about you shut the fuck up?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 04:20 PM
1

If the six foot guy has anything less than a blue belt in jiu jitsu, judo or corresponding wrestling experience, I am going to murder him. If he has some training, it might be a drawn out process or a draw. But the people who possess both the training and the muscle mass to rip me in half are rare. Weight classes exist to compare skill levels. Because there is also skill divisions at competitions, so athletes will compete against people of similar skill. The are no skill divisions in the wild. A…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 10:15 PM
34

If he actually learned to fight in a gym he is gonna be pretty chill. 99 percent of trained fighters are extremely humble.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 08:31 PM
7

Now you have to realize two more for full existentialism. No amount of biological immortality is going to keep you alive. Eventually our Planet and even the universe will be uninhabitable. 2.realize that even if true immortality (infinite life) is possible, space and time will eventually collapse in on themselves at the death of the universe. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 05:53 PM
3

Underrated comment. People in general hate being made self aware and will retaliate in every way imaginable.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:29 AM
6

And hold hands with them to make her jealous
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:18 AM
11

You can also get chlamydia and tripper from oral (because who the fuck puts on a condom for a blowie)... ... Which is pretty fucking bad, because some strains are resistant to antibiotics.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:18 AM
9

Dude.. Otter is gay lingo, just saying. :D
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:07 AM
1

Slow down there, cathy newman... :D Raising children is simply not a job for a slut. I woudnt hire a slut for that, just as i would not hire a functional alcoholic. Even though the risk is never zero, one can minimize risk by properly selecting assets. The remaining risk can be manages with frame, game and the occasional application of mild mind control.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 11:53 AM
1

While I know type 3 to exist... I would never wager having children on this type of woman.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 10:55 PM
3

To teach English in Vietnam you mainly have to be white.even better if you speak actual English and even more so as a native speaker. However, regulations are becoming more strikt in that regard. You are over qualified. However... Việt Nam s toruism is growing at an astonishing pace. They are legit building whole cities along the coast. If you can get proper certification and also learn a little vietnamese, you could train hotel staff and / or middle management and easily make western tier money…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 12:04 AM
2

Yes! That was by fair the best. The are around quý nhon (kỳ cọ) also some nice cliffs to traverse, if you want to get to the lagoon.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 11:54 PM
3

I love sluts as well... For fucking. I couldn't care less what anyone does in their free time. If you plan on having children with someone, an intact pair bonding mechanism is a high priority - especially when this women is going to be an example to my future offspring. Though, if you do not plan on having children, an LTR is more or less an elaborate pet, so in this case: whatever one prefers.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:49 PM
2

Dude, I am not an idiot. My country's alimony law is pretty neat... You only pay alimony if your wife was a housewife during your marriage (because it is assumed she sacrificed her career to benefit you). If she made the same as you during the marriage, common assets are split even Steven and that's it. Child support, however, is a given... And really not a problem.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:19 PM
7

Dude.. Double digit n count is way to high for wife material. I draw the line at 5. Also, you should have satisfied your appetite for years to come. I don't think my LTR will last forever, I am not that naive. I am saving up money for that kind of rainy day, hopefully my children will be grown enough till then. If she leaves, she leaves. I'll get a hotter, younger replacement.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:15 PM
2

Depends on the foreplay. If you start out in bed, lying next to her and fondling her, spoon position may be good.. Why? Because it allows to build comfort (good if either of you is nervous) and escalate seamlessly to doggy from there. I usually make my next move depending on how tight her pussy is. If she is ultra tight, I go for cowgirl because that is where I last the longest. If she is a little loose, I hit it doggy. Either way, I usually finish with missionary / legs up, because that is my s…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:09 PM
15

32 yo. Decided to have children with my LTR in a few years. (lived single life until then, banged a new girl every 2 weeks.) LTR is smart, pretty, feminine and she makes about as much money as I do. Say what you want, but having double income in a household and not wasting time on sluts freed up a lot of time and money and propelled both of us ahead.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:38 PM
8

I am mostly a freelance musician / teacher, but I also work in tech / advertising and whatever else comes up. I am a jack of all trades really. :D
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 07:07 PM
16

It was. Straight up the best time of my life. It made me decide to buy a place over there and move there full time in 2023
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 05:14 PM
91

I had a similar feeling when I was riding a beat up motorcycle across Vietnam. I rode up a mountain pass during heavy rain.. And once I got out on the other side, I was greeted with tropical sun and a view of the pacific. Life was good. :)
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 12:45 PM
9

If you not a soy boy your body can take it. :D
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 12:27 PM
2

Winning comment!
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:42 PM
6

That's probably it.. Most girls your age are aiming for guys a few years older. When was 30 yo I was consistently bagging 20-25 yo.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 09:01 PM
2

I had great success. Would rate myself 7/10. Maybe you are just too young?
/r/askTRP02/08/20 08:53 PM
6

Kind of like women confusing the emotional reaction to a scary movie with arousal from the guy she is watching it with.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:25 PM
1

You are in no position to make statements about reality either. People come here to learn and apply red pill knowledge, not to listen to you cucking yourself. You know nothing,so STFU.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:03 AM
11

I once talked to a sexologist about this. From what he could gather, it is kind of an adrenaline thing going on in the cuck, because his body realizes the wrongness of the situation and releases hormones to fight off the "attack". It's probably the most intense feeling this kind of human is able to experience.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:55 AM
7

Pros: You have a good face, good eyes, decent arms and shoulders. You look better than me for sure. Cons: You look like a teenager from ten years ago. scruffy heard and a haircut that has been out of style for almost a decade now. Make the sides short, keep the top a little longer. Trim the heard down to a stubble. You also have sub optimal skin, you look a little sick. Clear up your diet and sleep schedule, stay off drugs and alcohol. You could also get a bit more definition. you DO give off a …
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:48 AM
4

Shut up, incel. You are in no position to give advice.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 06:29 AM
1

Take an uber then. :D
/r/askTRP31/07/20 09:58 PM
93

What is this middle school novel shit?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 09:39 PM
2

You need to travel. Take 6 months off. You got the money and chances are, your career can take the time off as well, because your increased confidence will accelerate your growth. Go to Thailand, Vietnam, or any other asian country... You can live like the king of Chads. You will fuck rows and rows of women - not sluts or prostitutes, BTW, but regular girls throwing themselves at you. Most with model looks by our standards. (can provide pictures, if you want). Also, dating women with a language …
/r/askTRP31/07/20 02:09 PM
5

You are able to see who liked you right from the get go. Just pick one of the chicks that liked you first, swipe right on her when the time is right (early evening hours), shoot a canned and very polarizing message. If she responds within time frame, get number, set date. If she does not respond, or only responds lukewarm, wait 24 hrs till your next tinder window. Try again. If still no response, ignore, delete after a week. Being able to see who liked you first is extremely powerful. It puts yo…
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:01 PM
1

I got 90 percent off tinder. I look average, I am exactly 5.9, but I don't tell in my profile. Fit but not buff. Glasses. Investing in tinder gold is the way.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:17 AM
1

Hit me up, I can help.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 01:57 AM
31

Unfortunately, lots and lots of cool girls are actual train wrecks. I once dated a 24 y.o. carpenter from arizona. She was into guns, martial arts and out door stuff. She had a great sense of humor and she was smoking hot. She also knew how to cook and be a housewife. Her father was also a multi-millionaire, but she made her money all by herself. Sounds like a dream girl? Well yeah... Aside from the coke addiction and the fucking-around-with-low-life-drug-dealers when we weren't seeing each othe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 04:55 PM
2

Chill the fuck out, son. Beisdes performance anxiety, the most likely explanation is you subconsciousnes responding to her her nervousness / feeling awkward. Humas have very sensitive antennas for other people being uncomfortable. Chance is, her awkwardness combined with your natural empathy as well as your nervousness killed the mood.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 11:58 AM
5

German here. Angela Merkels policy is FAMOUS here for not making any decisions. It's her whole thing. Not only that. She made sure to exile any party member who actually WAS making or at least trying to make decisions. This of course weakened her party greatly... To the point where she has no viable successor. Fun fact: 2017 we basically did not have a functioning government for half a year and people barely noticed. The only thing politicians where able to get done during that time was unanimou…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 04:45 PM
3

That is what a women considers interest - not being disgusted but still leaving that possibility on the table.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 06:28 PM
24

Women will share a winner.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:57 PM
3

It's actually not that easy to grip the balls of someone who is in control of your body.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:35 AM
4

Taking down a stronger (untrained) person is relatively easy when you do not need to watch out not for lightning fast guard passes. Thứ is why bjj was developed in the first place. Just grab them and sit the fuck down. They will follow you.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 01:34 AM
2

It really depends on what is available. Wrestling is a bit harder to learn when one is already past puberty because it is quite hard on the joints. They also focus on different aspects on the game at first. You probably get the most complete package with combat Sambo, then bjj, then wrestling or judo. Make sure your school spars every week. I'd say try them all and pick the one that is most fun to you. Because if it is fun, you are going to keep attenting. Fun is a way better motivator than fear…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 08:17 AM
7

The reason this gets posted is because it's exceptional. An exceptionally overpowered fighter against to weak people. This is not the norm and it's going to be bad for you in 99 percent of the cases. A wrestler that is equally high level would murder two untrained guys in the same way. Also, you don't need to armbar someone to win a fight with grappling. You can also chuck them to the ground or smash them with elbows from a dominant position.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 04:27 PM
3

You won't be able to box properly in a crowded space, because you won't have the footwork. Also, if you want to get away fast, grappling is way better for that... You can drop the other guy better You know how to break grips better You know how to get up faster You know how to get up from bad positions. If an untrained person manages to take a grappler down by accident, he sure as hell can't keep him there.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 11:59 AM
9

Neither does striking. More than one guy? You are toast.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 11:56 AM
2

Answering other people questions in your own words is a great way to apply, double check and deepen your knowledge.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:49 AM
18

You use that opportunity to elbow them into oblivion or bend something that's not meant to bend. Really, whenever someone grabs something, he can not use that hand to protect himself or strike and he is usually extending it, making it easier to seize and control. So the moment he starts clumsily reaching for your balls, you have a million options to really really hurt him.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 10:54 AM
2

2 hours ago I'm going with "I pissed myself on the couch after drinking so much water, and then I passed out." ;) And I woke up to her boyfriend mouth-raping me.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 01:55 AM
13

I base it on my extensive knowledge in martial arts. Wing Chun has a very fundamental flaw: It is not pressure testible. If you want to become good at strikingfighting, you need to train with non-cooperative partners on a weekly basis - ideally people fighting a different style than yours. That means: Train MMA, spar, maybe even get into a full contact fight. If you don't do that, all your style will fly out the window the second you get hit square on the nose. And if you do pressure test it, yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 01:44 AM
16

Dude... Wing Chun does not work. It. Simply. Doesnt. You are better off learning how to box... or grapple. Trust me, I have studied it myself and I have studied Martial arts for 25 years now.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 12:37 AM
51

As someone who has both extensive ground and standup experience, I'd say go for a grappling martial arts - like wrestling, BJJ or sambo. An untrained person will not be able to fight back against a grappler with even a few months experience, and they will for sure not have the striking game to keep him at bay.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 11:45 PM
-7

How about you also but a dildo in your ass, to get the full experience No really - why would you waste your time with that?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 11:34 PM
3

A girl that is unable to recognize and fix her patterns is not LTR material. Drop her. My girl is mid 20s as well. Whenever I point out a destructive pattern of hers, she tries her hardest to fix it and ask for help when she gets stuck. Everything else is unacceptable.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:19 AM
10

If short people couldn't succeed sexually... There'd be no short people. :D
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:21 AM
1

Everything sounds kinda gay when you read with hobo-dick in your mouth.
/r/askMRP23/06/20 01:55 AM
6

Yes, I had that experience on the regular and I am absolutely annoyed by it. Sex is supposed to be fun, not some form of dick-xanax to calm her the fuck down. I want to have fun and relax, not powerfuck some brat into a submissive puddle.
/r/askMRP23/06/20 01:27 AM
1

Tinder has worked sufficiently well for me, especially when using tinder gold. However, since my 32nd birthday I rarely get (hot) matches below 22 - but it still happens every few months. If I want to go young, I usually achieve it through one of my hobbies - I am into music and fitness. There is always at least one or two cute girls at every show. Oftentimes, they work as waitresses or hostesses as a side-gig and are bored out of their minds. I'd chat them up between sets, opening by asking the…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:56 PM
1

Yeah, it's showbusiness. Just a matter of identifying and attracting fitting customers. :) Good luck!
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:34 PM
1

In my experience, your taste begins to widen. I can appreciate a sexy 35 year old as much as I can appreciate a sexy 18y.o. Hot women above 30 are rare... but those who are, are almost always have incredibly tight bodies, because at that age being skinny-fat like most girls usually are in their 20s is not an option anymore. So she is either chubby or she is fit. The sex is also more dirty, less awkward and there is less mindgames - again, if you pick right from the get go. I usually like to keep…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:33 PM
2

To add to your point... maybe you are also afraid of younger hot girls, because those are the kinds of girls that first rejected you in you life? It certainly was for me until I got over it. Also, I am 32 and I still look mid 20s - depending on my beard. Wrinkles or hairloss are not a problem, as long as your look sexy-old and not creepy-old. Most mid 20 guys also don't have six packs - and if they do, they rarely also have wide shoulders, thick arms and a buff chest. Anyhow, yes, you need to do…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:20 PM
2

Get really good at playing an actual instrument (or singing) and play gigs at rich people events - preferrably those where your music is not background noise but the main entertainment. An entertaining conundrum ensues. Individually, each of the rich guys there has more SMV than you. But with all of them in one place and you being the person on stage, LEADING the event, you can become the most attractive man in the room. You will then have their wives shamelessly eye-fucking you, while the guys …
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:08 PM
1

Then it is a matter of economic analysis. What is a dimension of attractiveness that is a) under your control (money?) and b) lacking in your peers (again, money?)
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 02:04 PM
1

Nah, he won't. Sure, he won't get all the 18yos he desires, but that shit happens all the time. All you need to do is establish non creepy contact and then keep escalating with plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:37 AM
1

Well, no, being reasonably muscular will not put you into the top percentage. But with our generation consisting of soyboys and doughy neckbeards, it puts you above average. It will also fix other aspects, like the way you move and talk, making those things above average as well. And if you check enough boxes being above average, you get laid. I can show you pictures of me via DM if you want.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 01:10 AM
1

You are suffering from representation bias, my friend. Think if your attractiveness as a spectrum. On the low end, you have the incels. They pretty much have nothing going for them. They probably are not physically attractive, they are not intelligent nor witty and they probably have a hoist of mental problems as well. And those deficits feed on eachother, creating a downward spiral. And just like the person who is hungry cries for food, the incels cry the loudest about their lot. However, incel…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 10:29 PM
1

Dude.. I am at best slightly toned. I am short for my zip code and I wear glasses. I also have a nasal voice and a weird walk. I am probably on the autistic spectrum. And I STILL had sex pretty much on tap and banged several nines. The bar for men is not that high. You are confusing a women's wishlist with what they will actually jump for when they are horny. You are afraid of risk. Your longing to be a demi God who gets laid 100% of the tine is fueled by your anxiety to be rejected. Otherwise y…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 01:19 PM
23

Be a musician. Seriously.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 11:58 AM
9

Pick the best one you find, but always have a way out and position yourself in a way where the eventual disaster doesn't harm you.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 11:37 AM
3

Shoot me a DM if you need advice in the future
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:44 AM
3

Quite a lot of answers already. Here is my take: I never had a 8-9 job. I actually very rarely did a job for more than a year. I am 32 now. I have been: A wedding singer (5 years and going)) A vocal coach (10 years and going)) A music teacher (8 years) A tech journalist (3 years) A self defense teacher (2 years) A hypno- and regressiontherapist (1 year) A copy writer (3 years) A ghost writer (3 years) A burger cook (0.5 years) A delivery boy (0.5 years) A camp councellor (1 year) A cleaner (2 mo…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:25 AM
2

First: Hats off to you, sir! A plan well executed! Second: To the younger guys - Having threesomes is really not that hard. You simply need to be the guy that radiates he is "in the know". The guy who "gets it". At some point talking about and executing threesomes becomes natural, just like one would schedule a fuck date with a plate. third: I personally don't enjoy threesomes nearly as much as I once thought I would. IMO it's just something you need to get out of your system in order to demysti…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 12:57 AM
28

The whole thing with the "do this minute task for me, please" is a very common occurrence. I made it a point to smother those whenever possible. I flatout told my current LTR: "Stop delegating benign shit to me, I am not your fucking intern." She poutet for a bit, but eventually she got the idea. I am not all against helping other people out if it is less of a hassle for me than for them. (Me picking up something from the store when I am going there anyway) However, I am very against doing stuff…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 08:26 PM
2

I fucked 80% on the first date. Second dates are usually initiated at the end of date 1. The key is strong pre qualification.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 01:11 AM
4

Hehe... My fiance is 8 years younger than me. (32/24) ở got the occasional hate. :D
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 11:12 PM
3

The issue is less with being a cool girl, but rather with trying to be smth you are not / which does not resonate on a deep emotional level. I have dated girls from all over the spectrum, from the petitest, girliest violinist to a hard working carpenter girl who built her own furniture and owned guns. The issues where never about "cool" vs feminine, but about deep seated emotional troubles they were unable to overcome.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 07:33 AM
17

Actually thats what Kings do,because otherwise they end up dead.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 08:53 PM
3

Yes, but even an ugly girl can get a nice body, which will bump her to at least a 5 or 6 on the scale.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 03:21 PM
45

Girls can only relate if they had to overcome stuff theirselves. My girl was born a daughter of immigrants, but she hussled hard and is now a senior consultant at 24. She can relate to this kind of struggle. Most girls have it easy though. That's why they think people are born a certain way and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 11:19 AM
2

First of all.. Highly intelligent people have diminishing returns. 110 iq seems to be the sweet spot for still being socially calibrated. Second: if you are short, go to Asia, bằng some Asian girls first. Third: learn jiu-jitsu. It will do wonders for Our confidence Fourth: your writing style is rather good. You might have above average verbal intelligence. Maybe you should seek out a career in copywriting,which can be well paid.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:58 PM
4

I have had depression for 6 years until I conquered it. M life is a blast now. The key was to do some really deep digging in my subconscious.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 12:55 PM
1

There is telltale signs.
/r/RedPillWives08/06/20 01:14 PM
1

Never ever ask her for that date. Bang other chicks. She may or may not come around, but for the love of god dont be a simp.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 02:18 AM
5

She is trying to reel you back in as a simp. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:42 AM
3

You don't. They enforce it on themselves because you radiate your expectations. If you are clear on your convictions, she will pick up on it without you saying a word or initiating the topic. Girls are pretty intuitive and can predict social behaviour very well. If she can not predict your actions, you will notice that she will ask questions around the topic, gathering information and testing your frame. If you are the kind of guy she wants in her life and she predicts that you will drop her ass…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 09:11 PM
9

32 yo guy with a 25 yo fiance here. A logical approach to the science behind it should ease your anxiety. The study merely showed that the average man prefers the average woman in her 20s to the average woman in her 30s. If are an above average woman in your 30s you don't have to wore about an average woman in her 20s. That eliminates most of the competition. And as far as the above average 20 y.o. hotties go... Yeah, they look nice and some of them are awesome... But they are also oversaturated…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 01:17 PM
2

Don't be butthurt. Smash that asian puss.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 12:32 AM
3

I get your thinking, as it is perfectly rational for your current situation. However... Eventually you going to need the skill wrangle a girl, and you are not going to develop it by being a fucktoy. Your style of plating is going to lose traction once you hit 30 after that it becomes all about power... You get them to be faithful while you fuck around. It's an all or nothing game.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 05:05 PM
14

I don't know man... keeping five straight up crazy whores in your line up sounds like a bad idea for multiple reasons. The women you describe are crazy. If you keep sticking your dick in crazy, it WILL eventually backfire on you. Rape allegations, stalkers, jealous guys... It's not a question of wether it will happen, but WHEN. Same goes for diseases. You are inviting a hoist of diseases into your live. Not every disease that comes from sex can be prevented by wrapping it up (and also condoms br…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 12:11 PM
1

Yes, I see your point. But I don't agree with your view on Buddhism. Buddhists are all about judging and critizising, they just don't do it reflexively and during meditation. Judgement is a rational, deliberate act.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 12:10 AM
2

She is insecure. Insecure women need constant reassurance, and no matter how much affection you pour over them, it will evaporate within a second. You need to teach her to become more stable. Maybe help her find a hobby that she enjoys on her own. My LTR likes to paint and do yoga - and it gets her to shup up while I do my stuff. When she is done she comes back refreshed and chipper and dealing with her is a pleasure instead of a chore.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:10 PM
2

Thank you! 1) Well people LOVE to hear themselves talk. I certainly do. I'd file that under the basic need for stimulation, but I guess one can slice and dice them in whatever fashion in useful. 2) Well, it depends why you created the WANT in the first place. Both the phone and the shoes might just be an elaborate need for stimulation (consumerism) - or they might be NEEDS bred by another WANT (for example social acceptance, being seen as cool). There may be a million ways to see this problem. W…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 05:04 PM
6

There is several components to this, but your general idea is correct. To kill a WANT, you must use your higher reasoning to uncover and uproot it. You need to clearly identify the WANT and why you created it in the first place. If you have some degree of mastery over your emotions, you will then soon realize why having a ferrari is not that important, especially considering all the NEEDS object will enslave you to. You higher brain will negotiate with your lizard brain and your limbic system, a…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 04:51 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:37 AM
1

In Germany we have a saying that goes like: The proud oak does not care, of the board rubs against it. Be the oak.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:07 AM
1

It makes sense when the whole amounts to more than the sum of its parts. And for that, people need shared values and goals. However, it takes quite a lot of people skills and experience to tell a genuine girl from a liar, which is why I advise against LTRs before the age of 30 (for men).
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 07:49 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:51 PM
1

One needs to add a tactical beard.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:16 PM
6

I have seen and heard a lot of women talk about bald men like they are some sort of ugly goblin. However, they are a loud minority. Most women do not care about balding heads. It makes you look manly if you have the body to go with it.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:52 PM
1

The End of Normal and of Inequalit Have you read Mises in German? Because I found hime quite clear and concise. I have added Shaikh to my reading list, looking forward to it!
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 07:03 PM
2

My rite of passage was a mixed martial arts fight. I got humbled a great bit.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 06:51 PM
5

The thing with most RP men - they are realists and objectivists. What is attractive to them is probably was is attractive. period. That means: *Has not hit the wall *good-looking, healthy appearance that indicates healthy genes *intelligence *hobbies and interests beyond blind consumerism *moral standards and ethics which usually align with christian values *n-count 5 or below. Most, if not all of those from stable relationships *healtyh psyche and psychohygiene *no kids *no past divorces *no ch…
/r/RedPillWives22/05/20 01:52 AM
4

Me... as a >30 y,o. with a lot of experience... I could probably ride that thing till I ejaculate spinal fluid. But make no mistake: This woman is batshit crazy. However...If you really need to ask questions about this and how to respond, chances are, you are not experienced enough and this girl might fuck up your life. I suggest you drop her.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:29 PM
1

"Thinking fast and slow" by Kahnemann is great for identifying faulty thinking. "Frogs into princes" by NLP-Guru Richard Bandler is very interesting to read as it deals with the subconscious. I'd take it with a grain of salt, because a lot of NLPs benefits have been widely blown out of proportion. Ludwig von Mises: "The Theory of Money and Credit". A treaty on money and economy by one of the forefathers of libetarianism. "Theory and History" / "Human Action" A pretty interesting read on how huma…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 09:20 PM
3

Am I the only smelling a sales-strategy here?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 08:49 PM
1

It's free, and most people in my country have it.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 10:36 AM
5

It's a play of words that only works in German.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:23 AM
9

I usually use tinder gold and just pick from whatever girls liked me. I always have a few hundred in the back burner, and I am extremely average looking. Also, it come with a boost which I use strategically. I always send the same canned line and transition over to WhatsApp. Most of my dates resulted in first day lays.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:09 AM
1

I agree! As long as your road leads you to Rome... As for the books - I am having a hard time narrowing it down. Is there any field / topic / problem you are especially interested in?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 11:03 PM
1

While I get why people like that book, I can not bring myself to share that sentiment. It just seems rather plain and basic and some of his observations about the mind, trauma and the pain body are plainly false. In my opinion, this book is entry level spirituality at best. And while it produces short term gains in a lot of people, it also produces more entrapment, because it enable people to be more efficient at "spiritual bypassing".
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 10:20 PM
0

Professor time knows his shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 10:14 PM
2

Yes, that's exactly what happens when people throw advice around they don't understand. "Just, like, live in the moment, maaan. Carpe diem 'n shit." *injectsheroineintohiseyeball*
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 04:57 PM
6

That is exactly the point and what I meant by "productively relating towards time". People throw advice around because it sounds good, not getting to the bottom of it. Telling someone to live in the moment CAN be good advice, if he has a maladaptive perspective on it, and is constantly worried about the future and things out of his control. The problem however is not ones perspective on time - but rather the inability to change that perspective. So, picking up your beer analogy, being a mindful …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 04:55 PM
2

Have you read my "insivble wars" series?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 04:46 PM
2

What you are describing is a marketing problem. You do not know your target audience and are hence miscommunicating. Also - maybe there is simply less girls interested in bad boys in your area. You need to experiment more to taylor it to your audience. OR: The girl you swipe right on don't like the bad boy attitude and you are missing out on all the girls who do. My profile is what I would call "nice-guy-with-balls-who-is-also-fit". It is non-threatening enough to provide plausible deniability, …
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:29 PM
1

In most cases its a shit test. Disarm and continue. Say: "I am not here to be your boyfriend."
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:10 PM
6

Depends a lot on the market and your living situation. If houses are cheap to buy and maintain.. Sure, buy. But if they aren't, you are going to tie yourself to property you can not reallocate easily and which, once they have gone down in value, do not go back up again.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:47 PM
39

To offer a broader perspective: there is decent women. However, they are incredibly rare and almost invisible. Guess why? Because they don't slut it up. You will rarely see them at parties, never on a a dating platform. They live quiet lives with their longterm boyfriends, and of they don't marry their high-school sweat hearts they are single for maybe half a year in their entire life. Of course awalt applies still. If you are a fucking loser, she will not date you and she will use her discretio…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:08 AM
1

Things are on well-meaning neutral ground right now. We had a talk, she apologized and realized what she did was wrong. But she never made attempts at getting back together. TBH I think she learned her lesson though and also realized it was futile. The magic of post wall clarity. :D
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:58 AM
1

Well I tried riding the dead horse for about another year, then I dropped her. Then I proceded to have the time of my life for about 2 years. Things got real good really fast. I banged a girl with porn-star-level looks in my fourth week of being single. I pretty much had a new girl every week, startet a new band because my creativity skyrocketet, got the car I always wanted, finally picked up jiujitsu... time. of. my. life. Things constantly improved from then on. Just this december I travelled …
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:07 AM
1

Godspeed, friend! My story goes a little bit like this "After 10 years of being together, right before I wanted to propose, I happened to find out that I lived in an open relationship! Can you imagine my surprise?"
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:51 PM
1

In those cases, I do it like the comedians: I find the funny in it. You have the most horrible story ever, forever. And that shit is golden. Pure, comedic gold. That shit is so hilariously over-the-top evil, it is super fucking funny. You win every "my horrible ex"-one-up-battle for all eternity. Find a way to tell that story in a funny way - you will be over it in no time!
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:25 PM
3

3 = Monetize videos of cancer handjobs
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 10:57 PM
6

True abundance.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:39 AM
4

You are on the right track. Just keep doing what they are doing. Just agree and amplify. Eventually the plates break - but seriously... who cares?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:27 PM
3

Then my advice is to move out. At your age this shit should not even be a factor in your life.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:21 AM
4

She keeps you on the back burner. Drop her
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:31 AM
1

Because I want to tailor my advice towards your age.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:30 AM
1

Just shut up, let her talk. Don't add fuel to the fire by entertaining her yapping.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:14 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:04 AM
6

Here is the thing: Do you actually know for a fact how much of a pussy are? Do you know how much pain you take before you tap out? Can u actually fight? Have you tested that? What people perceive is the mismatch between you looks and your actual threat level. They realize you are more harmless than you look and therefore go all the way, assuming you are a pussy. I am the exact opposite of you. I am a harmless looking white guy with glasses. I have weird proportions that make me look more skinny …
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:50 AM
4

Both work. The stoic hunter thing usually works when you high smv is clear from the get go. (tall guy, chiseled jawline, tasteful suit, big money environment, etc) Then it gets them ultra wet and is usually a very rewarding experience. That kind of stoicism is ultra high value behaviour because it let's her know you know she knows your worth. ;) It also works when you have a tye of girl you like and that you know will fall for you as soon as your eyes meet and hence you can afford to remain unim…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 04:29 AM
1

Interesting! Can you link that by any chance?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 10:16 PM
-2

Something about this post smells. There is two possibilities as to what - and either are alarming. A) If everything you said is 100% factual, you spend 3.5 years of your life with a low value man, who, besides his overall shit-tier boyfriendery, managed to dupe you with his wealth. or B) you were not 100% factual and reframed the whole thing to fit better into your personal narrative, probably to protect your sense of identity. Either possibility is increadibly alarming and should show you that …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 05:02 PM
7

Well if the intend of moving towards marriage is clear, moving in together before marriage is actually a pretty good move to pressure test yourself. However, IMO the timelime should be co-habitation for a year, proposal within the next, then marriage within in the next 2 years, then children if you want them. In order to know a person well, one should have lived with them for a full circle of seasonal hormonal upswings and drops. I certainly know that I am a vitamin D deficient slouch during the…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 03:29 PM
0

You are not being petty. Manipulative people start out with small lies to test the waterst and proceed to make them bigger and bigger. To some of them, lying is an adiction - just like stealing is to kleptomaniacs. There is a reason people developed a strong gut-reflex towards lying people - they are dangerous. You may cut her some slack, but MY personal stance in life has been to drop liars instantly. Forgiving the overstepping of boundaries tremendrously weakens you in the long run. It has a d…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:22 PM
4

Storys all follow the same arch (as does most music btw) Exposition, conflict, climax, solution, takeaway. Exposition goes like: So me and my buddy were at a bar the other night. Conflict: And in walks this beautiful chick. My buddy and me both want to approach her. Climax: Since we both could not figure out which one should get her, we decide to both walk over - may the better man win Solution: However, while we arguing, some black dude in had pretty much picked her up in 3 minutes flat. Takeaw…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:11 PM
19

32 yo male here. My oldest was probably 39 or so. My takeaway from plowing through dozens of sloots was that pretty much any trait a girl has becomes even more pronounced as she breaches the wall. If she works out, she will be even more fit and trim and her pussy will be nice if she does kegels. However, since most pretty girls are lazy fucks with good metabolisms, there is a lot more saggy meat to go around. The same goes for psychological traits. Sluts will become even sluttier. Neurotic, frig…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:02 PM
42

Let's just be friends
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:18 PM
1

Yeah, that's what I figured. I got the vibe that it is kind of a vacation for them. I talked about this with my LTR today, and the conversation was quite faszinating. She seems more open to it than I initially thought. From what I could read between the lines she felt a bit "between the chairs" about this. Kind of like she would like to be a slave girl during ovulation, because her brain is all mushed up from hormones. What kind of rotation do you keep between your girls? I think I am gonna intr…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 08:45 PM
1

Faszinating article, thank you for the insights. While I totally get you digging that kind of stuff, to me personally, it just seems too much of a hassle. It would not fit me naturally. Plates I usually throw out after fucking, because I'd much rather spend time with myself or my projects. FWBs usually get to stick around, because we usually share some kind of interest (maybe music, or some kind of sport, or a topic of conversation). Right now I am in an LTR with a carefully vetted woman who I'd…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 01:24 AM
3

Nah, bruh, you missed the point. 1st wave Feminists did not want to kill-off marriage. They wanted power over their own lives - which is something I absolutely endorse. Self-sovereignty does not exclude prostitution in any way. I can sell anything I own - even my own body. A self-sovereign prostitute is more free than a housewife who is forced to have sex when she does not want to.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 12:07 AM
3

If you can afford it: go visit a hooker once a week. Hear me out though. Be frank with her about what you want. Tell her you need some practice at sex and you want to try stuff without performance pressure. Most prostitutes are actually very understanding and really chill, nonjudgemental people. What you need to do is become chill about sex and erections. This is normally achieved by having a steady girlfriend in your teen years with whom you can explore sex. Since that ship has sailed, you need…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 07:55 PM
1

It kinda worked for a while when I was 19/20. Then I went into a relationship for approx 10 years. Then in my 30s I was plowing a new chick every other week, whilst keeping a constant rotation of 3-5 plates.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:42 AM
5

Can someone ban this dumbfuck already?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 03:38 AM
0

Date better girls. If she had enough experience to decide she won't waste her time on a tiny dick, she is probably not a quality woman. :D
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:33 PM
5

Call you chaddiest Chad friend and take turns blowing him.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:17 PM
1

One is a perfectly normal reaction to external circumstances - sometimes even permanent, if the external circumstances are sufficiently shitty. The other is a chemical imbalance in the brain which the body is unable to compensate.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 03:02 AM
1

Because most high SMV women are at best mildly interested when the interaction begins - unless the guy is prequalified or sufficiently hot. But yes, as I tried to insinuate in my post above - you need both game and SMV because having only one or the other is going to make your approach to women one-sided.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 03:00 AM
1

Dude, you are so wrong on so many levels. Game is not for turning a "fuck-no" chick into a "fuck-yes" chick. On average, either kind of chick is a rare statistical occurance. The objective of game is to turn mild interest into fuckable-interest. SMV helps you pre-warm those interactions so you will have to do less gaming and maybe move a high SMV fuck-no chick towards mild interest. Think about it like martial arts: Being big, strong and fast is usually enough to win a physical confrontation. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/20 01:38 PM
0

What the fuck is this video doing here? It is stolen content, snipped out of JREs podcast by some wannabe RP youtuber who wants to grow his channel. How about you ad something original to the conversation intead of being lazy?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 05:50 PM
4

This was my idea exactly. Like always, there is different levels to a womens loyalty. There is women who are always loyal, some who are only loyal for the right guy and some who are never loyal.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 07:20 PM
1

It's all about angles and depth. Your natural style of fucking may fit very well with your dick - just like some people are just naturally good at dancing because their moves match their anatomy. If you go to shallow, she might not feel enough. If you go to deep, you might hurt her. If your dick is girthy, you may need to angle it less. If you dick is thinner, you need to angel it more (usually towards the pubic bone) Also, you need to figure out how your dick actually produces sensation. Thick …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 02:33 PM
1

You got some quality advice in some of the responses here. Stop dwelling on the past and focus on becoming whole and stable in yourself. Resist the urge to fill the void with another man.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 02:17 PM
2

My man's missing out on a crucial detail: You may need to conquer her first. After that it is usually smooth sailing with her simping for your ass and acting all submissive - but you may need to conquer her first. Let this be your guide: Are you steadily moving your interaction towards fucking? Good. If not - next.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 12:45 AM
16

This serves as a good introduction for people with not-a-lot-of-experience. However, me being an older guy and having banged a wide variety of sloots, I want to add a few things. Forget about her orgasm. Unless she demands you doing things in no uncertain terms ("yes, just like that, fuck me harder..."), just keep doing things you like yourself. The more focus you put on her orgasm, the less relaxed she is going to be. Anything you do to make her cum should feel at least as good to you - if not …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 10:31 PM
11

Thats a surefire way to fuck up your joints. Running with gear is the single thing that will destroy most soldiers joints - second only to parachutes. If you want to make pushup harders, get a resistance band. If you want a good pump, restrict bloodflow to the limbs.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 01:02 PM
5

I am 32 yo currently getting married to one of said quality women. Best advice I can give you is to wait until you are about 30, because chances are, you simply lack perspective on what true quality is and you probably have not yet experienced how even a quality woman can change into a whore under the right/wrong circumstances. Get some life experience first.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 12:49 PM
3

Exactly. Quality women are a silent minority. You can find them, but they are incredibly rare, usually taken and since they rarely engage with men, they are on nobodies radar.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 12:44 PM
5

I am a vocal coach and I have had to fix this issue with a lot of people. What I always tell them is: "Never ask question, always make statements." Even if you HAVE to ask a question - make it a statement with a question mark. Instead of "How are you?" say "You're doing good?" Instead of "Are you new in town?" say "Soo.. you are new in town?" Talking in statements-not-questions also has a nice side effect: Even if you are full on wrong - people will try to correct react your statement, thus forc…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 04:31 PM
-1

This.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:51 PM
1

Good points from GLO, as always.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 06:50 PM
2

I see your point because I have experienced this, but I think you voiced it poorly. The essence of it is very true: If you can heal another person, that will greatly improve possibilities to build a relationship with that person. It is even better if you help that person to heal her/him-self. However: TRP as a guide for sexual strategy does not aim for healing and building relationships with other people - it aims for healing and building relationships with yourself (and hence maximize your smv,…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 08:58 PM
10

Best way to shut them up is hinting at the miles and miles of slugs you already banged. They dread comparison more 5han you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/20 01:59 PM
4

Yes and no. There are ways to turn pretty much any girl into an eager fuck doll. How ever it is less a process of teaching and more of a breaking /unlocking of psychological barriers. It is an art and a science.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 12:30 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 12:24 PM
5

It's interesting you refer to it as an aquired taste. It's a perfect despriction of pretty much an urban underground style of the pre-digital era of music production. People lacked money and proper equipment, so their music sounded raw... but they made the most of what they could do within their constraints and came up with new sounds and styles.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 02:12 AM
3

They do exist. But AWALT. However, some are easier to keep in check than others. Always have enough fuck you money, always have an escape plan, always stay attractive! Many RPers underestimate the power of a great working relationship. Despite cutting a lot of costs in half, you also save soooo much time because cooking, chores and whatnot can be done for two in pretty much the same time. I would advise against LTRing someone if you are not ready for marriage yet. If you still feel like you not …
/r/askTRP02/03/20 06:35 PM
8

Been there. I got better after I noticed that plowing through rows and rows of plates did not make me happy anymore. Had a great car, money, nice place and I could have banged a different hottie everyday. It was extremely fun for a while, not gonna lie. But eventually it all felt like playing a video game on repeat over and over. I refocused on spending more time doing what I love (music and martial arts) and switched jobs to better supplement that. I also switched from plates to LTR, because I …
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:56 PM
2

I dropped out of music university due to severe depression. I was hellbent on not having my parents (or, worse, the state) support me, so I decided to give private singing lessons. I just left some leaflets in my part of town and eventueally I became pretty good at it. I had low costs of living, short commute to my teaching room and I only had two work a few hours per day. Eventually I started teaching ensembles and choirs, which then translated into regular music classes at schools. (we have si…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:48 PM
6

I am in a similar boat. You may consider having two jobs. Have a job that pays your bills without draining your life and work that for as long as you can mentally afford. Use the rest of your time to focus on one of your passions and turn it into mastery. You can make some nice money on the way as well, because other people probably have the same passion and are willing to shell out money to be taught. You will probably pick up a lot of skills and knowledge along the way. Once you achieved maste…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:47 AM
8

Not to mention... Once you secured a position and a network within a company, you can start carving out a niche that fits your interests.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 09:34 AM
1

This!
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:17 AM
16

Your estimate is way off, my guy. There is a great thread over at TRP detailing what makes you top 10 percent in a lot of smv contributing sectors. The difference between a guy who can afford to run a Ferrari without the cost of it eating him up and fucking smoke shows and a guy who just barely qualifies for the top 10 is larger than the difference between the second guy and a mid tier guy. After a certain point, increasing smv has exploding costs and diminishing returns. You may feel like you a…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/02/20 07:41 PM
26

Dude, you are literally in the top 10% and call yourself average? :D Call me back when you are a brown, balding, middle aged midget janitor and still get laid by not giving a fuck. ;)
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/02/20 06:35 PM
4

Talk about exhausting a metaphor... It's almost like.. You are beating a dead horse... :D
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/02/20 03:00 PM
11

Suck his dick to assert dominance.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:15 PM
6

I don't know man. That loser just sounds fucking desperate.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:14 PM
3

How about Mr. Fuckrightoff?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/20 07:26 PM
9

They are all used up. :D
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:52 AM
3

Yes, and they become annoying orbiters as well.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:26 PM
2

Just look at post wall women. They can not handle that shit and get more clingy and desperate than the most thirsty betas. You have to see it in person to believe it.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:16 PM
1

To be fair... That's a funny threat. :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/20 04:13 PM
1

Actually yes. :D Why would you ask?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:09 PM
3

Having a similar situation right now. TL DR, I do what I want and if she is not happy with it, she can fuck off and get another dude. As long as you get your shit done and keep growing, be unapologetic about it. If she is bothered by it, it usually means she is a home a lot herself and bothered by her inability to entertain herself. Longer version: I work two teaching jobs and a side hustle, I make decent money. I also train jiu-jitsu 2-3x a week and play in multiple professional bands that make…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 08:35 PM
2

She is allowed to have any requirement she wants, but whatever "league" she deems herself in isn't determined by her job or education. ;) Also, if she is the kind of woman who thinks a certain type of job makes a quality man, both the carpenter and the neurosurgeon are better off without her anyway. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 09:37 PM
1

You are still young and chances are, you have not yet found your crowd. I keep contact with exactly one person from my late teens and chances are, your social circle will radically change. Give it time. :) Same goes for the boyfriend. Chances are you have not accessed the dating pool with the most fitting prospects yet. People change a great deal after graduation, so maybe you are better off picking someone who is already working in his field.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 09:22 PM
25

I get the vibe of needing to nerd out about stuff. It's good to have such people in your life and to have an outlet. However, that is not a critical factor in a long term relationship. You can nerd out with friends, teammates or colleagues. Your long term partner should share ethical values and lifegoals, as well as a sense for communication. He will pick up pretty much anything you are interested in to the degree that you guys can have a conversation about it. I am super into jiu-jitsu, but my …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 04:02 PM
65

If I was the guy, I would not date you. Not because you rejected me, but because of the whole neurosurgeon getting to your head thing, to the point where you missed obvious red flags. Work on that before you pick a man and waste his time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/20 03:32 PM
2

Yes, that is a good point. Vertically integrated creative services is what it needs. Once you find a few other like minded freelancers, it becomes easier, because you can work as a collective of loose cannons. ;) Regarding the enjoyment part... I suggest picking a grind you actually enjoy. Cause if you don't, you might burn out before you ever get to enjoying life. I would do my job for free, fortunately I don't have to. :D
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:26 PM
10

Depends on the country. Where I live, there is a shortage of public school music teachers, so I get to dictate the terms of my employment, which then makes it very friendly for other ventures,touring,etc. I am also the best teacher for my instrument and genre (rock vocals) In m city, so that makes for well paying private lessons that advertise themselves via word of mouth. Playing cover shows for corporate events makes decent money and usually works incredibly well via word of mouth. I also writ…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 02:01 PM
38

While I am not loaded, I do what I love (music/teaching) and I get paid handsomely while rarely working more than 5 hours per day. Also, I get a lot of free shit and great opportunities by being around rich people a lot. More free time is always sweet as well, because time is the most valuable asset. It is really all about abundance mentally and carving out your niche. Not having to feed a family and not having to flash money around to get with women saves you a great deal of money. Then, Once y…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 09:06 AM
2

Depends on how valuable an asset you are. If you really killed all the interviews you can easily get better job offer from other companies, then go to your superiors and tell them straight up: Give me an opportunity to do x, or I will leave to do x elsewhere. Loosing good people is about the most expensive loss a mod level manager can deal to a company. He won't want that. Anyhow, if they don't give you what you want, you need to leave. Abundance mentality. However... In that case it might not h…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:28 PM
2

You should definitely live together before marriage, because that is where most incompatibilities become apparent.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 03:26 PM
2

Some advice from a 31yo I k Wo the feeling you describe. Truth is.. How ever you decide, you may be blatantly wrong. So let's look at some of the objective factors. It's a fact that you are still young. You can break up, play the field for a few years and start a life with a younger woman. The gr gap will then work in your favor and you will be more relaxed about your need for the hunt. Being young also means that you could have children with her now and keep working on yourself and dump her, wh…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 02:03 PM
1

Russian classics are pretty good, as Jordan peterson tends to keep milling on and on about. Shogun by James clavell is an exotic insight into the strange world of feudal Japan. Heart of Darkness, the literary inspiration to apocalypse now. Faust I and II by Goethe are pretty interesting if you are interested in occult topics. Some people would consider certain works of Stephen King classics. Namely the dark tower, IT, the stand. Religious works, such as the Bible and the Upanishads may also be v…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:10 PM
1

I never understood why one should not disclose. If they ask me they get a real number, which is most likely higher than theirs.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:56 PM
2

Ragd was meant to mean rage. Typing on a phone. Regarding the trauma... It does not have objective standards. Traumatization is a neurological process and hence highly dependant on the individuals make up and frame of reference.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:48 AM
5

Your oc was spergy and cringe anyways.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:07 AM
2

I have written a series of articles called the invisible war on TRP. It's mostly about the brain and social interaction, but there is also an installment about emotional trauma, because that is what your case seems to be about. Repeated waves of ragd indicate that you are cought in a loop. You repeating the same phrases over an over again in this thread indicate the same.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:05 AM
1

Correctly assigning blame in an argument is next level shit for LTRs. Making a women own up to her faults by coherently disecting the situation at hand takes a lot of time and energy - the kind of time and energy you only invest into LTR prospects aka women who you pre qualified and who is actually interested in personal growth and a productive solution. Women shit test you by luring you into these kind sof arguments without them being properly qualified for said time and energy. It's a both a s…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:22 AM
1

Yes, that's good advice right there.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:33 PM
35

Never ever worry about being thirty. 30 y. O. Was the best year of my 31 y. O. Life so far... 2019 was only bad because my best friend died, other than that things kept moving upward at a stellar pace. I fucked about 30 different women at 30, most of them at the first date. 30y.o. Was the year when I had two 19 yo plates with model tier looks. Some things positive things that happen kind of automatically when you reach 30: your voice matures. The male voice keeps changing until about 30 to 35. Y…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 05:28 PM
1

Just be real with her. End it like a man, firmly but gently and send her on her way. Also, no contact for at least half a year. A full year would be better. The best way for the both of you to detox is zero contact.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:29 AM
41

I would advise against marriage - For now. Why? A woman who is not even 20 years old is still a child, albeit she is a well behaved one. Her personality may still change drastically. Let's say you guys get married and she experiences a "life changing" event like traveling for a yoga seminar or whatever... There is still a lot of volatility, still a lot of unknown factors about her developing psyche that you do not know yet. Young girls with high submissiveness and child like outbursts are highly…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:19 AM
13

Yeah, there is a rare kind of raw material of girls who grew up ulgy and poor and clawed their way out of it - and then at the top did not fall into the hedonism trap but discovered sprituality and altruism. But let's be real here.. That shit is super rare for men and even rarer for women.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 07:42 AM
1

The music scene can be an interesting place to meet people, of you are interested in that kind of thing. Even if you don't play an instrument, you can offer to shoot videos, do social media or even simply be a stage hand /drum tech /guitar tech and lift heavy shit.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:17 AM
5

I found that being actually good in bed and able to break a girls ingrained patterns will make a girls feel much more dominated (and satisfied) bed than some ritualized pseudo rape larp - and hence be more fun to all parties involved.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 01:10 AM
1

Pretty much anything north of Munich
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:10 PM
2

Depends on the culture you are moving about in.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:46 PM
2

True!
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:19 PM
13

It doesn't. He fucked up. Always judge people by their actions. It's the law of entropy. Something that breaks can never be whole again - you may repair it, but it will never be the same. Do yourself and your dignity a favor and bounce. (BTW, I am a dude.)
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 10:56 AM
16

It's so weird how everyone advises to approach men. In Germany that is a surefire way to instantly be the weirdo. :D
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:52 AM
3

Gaming while in an LTR is a whole different... Well.. Game? When you are in an LTR you can not be offensively chasing tail, at least not, if it is not in your core values. However, you can still build yourself up while in an LTR, build your social skills and lift, which will eventually result in women becoming I tested in you... Which leads to you achieving more (and giving them the tingles) with less game. This in turn gives you abundance mentality and creates subtle dread for your LTR.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:34 PM
7

Bro, you are so on the money. I am actually 180cm, but because of my wide shoulders and proportionally short, thick legs, I look way shorter than I am. People constantly estimate me to be 175cm and are surprised when they actually measure up. :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/20 04:12 PM
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I banged a couple of 18 and 19 yo last year when I was 30, and I have exactly zero regrets about it. Chances are her pussy is better than average because her pelvic floor isn't yet all weakened from bad posture and zero exercise and who knows - maybe she is trainable?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:53 PM
1

I'd say go organic vegan and use a cucumber.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:47 AM
5

I have relatives who deal in Asian real estate. It's pretty easy, actually. Many retired white divorcees keep moving between Vietnam, Thailand and the Philippines, having bought cheap real estate in developing tourist areas like Danang or vung tau over the years. They just renew their visa every so often and all they do is bang hookers and manage their portfolio. However, There is no reason not to semi-retire early, if you make/have enough money atm. Why slave away at a company, fighting an uphi…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 10:59 PM
2

I cint care much for dancing. I don't hate it, it's just an overall meh sensation that I happily have given up on. I have danced in a club maybe three times. Have I gotten laid anyway? You bet. My point? If you have no interest in dancing, don't do it. You are operating under someone else's frame.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:22 PM
3

Sue her ass.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:19 PM
1

Your next step is conquering that void. You seem to have mastered the outside world. Time to master your insides.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:17 PM
42

Can't get a pregnant girl knocked up... But she sure as hell can give you aids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 08:39 PM
2

In about 2-3 years, depending on the finances and our jobs. My to-be-wife just turned 24, so there is still a bit of time.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 06:33 PM
8

I will even one up you. Move to a tier 1 or tier 2 city of a country with significantly less buying power. Example: 100k will buy you a nice, modern apartment in a coastal city in Vietnam (like Da Nang). You can easily save that kind of money by living frugally and working a decent job, whilst building an online source of income. Once that is achieved, you can live like a king on a a thousand bucks a month, bang the hottest chicks and horny tourists, enjoy great weather year round and still save…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 06:02 PM
3

As long as you have enough if a V shape and a low body fat face, you are good. Just make sure you wear fitting clothing. However, you need at least one body part to stand out visually. Arms is easiest, shoulders and chest are harder. Back, ass and legs are easily doable, but highly dependant on fitting of your clothing. The shorter you are, the more muscle you need. Generally, you want to be muscular enough that you instinctively feel bigger than taller men and hence communicate this via body la…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 05:23 PM
3

31 now and yes, I felt that urge. Fortunately, I was smart enough to spin enough plates beforehand and to vet my current LTR properly. She is going to make a great mother.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:06 AM
5

I never said clownword is a win for women. I just said it seems like it to them... For a while.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 06:29 AM
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I see your point. However, in most countries the amount of money one would get out of a divorce is tied to the years spent together. Building a nice betabux portfolio takes times and thinking about the future... Which dem slurs don't do.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 06:28 AM
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Well to be fair... For a naive young woman, marriage seeeems like a bad deal. Why only extract resources from a single man, when you have loads and loads of orbiters at your whim?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 04:22 AM
2

Learn to sing and play guitar like 2 years ago.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:18 AM
1

Usually, if someone hears something that was not meant to be implied or misses something that was meant to be implied, it's not a problem of communication, but a problem of a missing vibe between two people. In that case, they need to speak more plainly until they vibe better. If people vibe, they "get" each other. But sometimes they don't, maybe not right away, maybe just not right now... It's good to have contingency for said situations if you are a couple. To many couple rely on vibe alone.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/19 01:42 AM
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I am from a European country, so the advent of online dating came a little late over here and I can elaborate as a 30 year old. The most jarring difference between then and now is unified markets. Back then, my dating pool would only consist of the night scene and the places I visited during the day. (and since I did music for a living, I got a lot of both and a lot of pussy as well) The fragmentation of dating pools made niche game powerful, and if you were smart about it, you knew how to steer…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:35 AM
1

I am not American so I don't know about that. But I am in the communist north with my father in laws family atm and people seem very friendly and hospitable. I don't mind people trying to get money out of me, they gotta make a living somehow and people are poor as fuck here. (I still try to get good prices though, it's business. :D) Their behaviour is simply how they adapt to their surroundings. I just do my best to be friendly and compessionate, smile often and say thank you {on vietnamese) a l…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:10 AM
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