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No you dumbass, we don’t. Try that shit with the wrong one and you’ll catch a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/23 03:35 PM
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Who the fuck let males on this sub?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/23 03:34 PM
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Why are you on our sub? Female only, GTFO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/23 03:34 PM
1

💯 same sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/23 03:29 PM
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Wait a minute, is the sub back up and running?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/23 03:27 PM
2

Boss shit 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:22 PM
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He has probably thought sexually about your daughter before, it’s a good thing you’ve blocked him. Keep him away from you two as best as humanly possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:58 PM
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I couldn’t have restrained telling him off for thinking that way about my kid. Holy shit I can’t humor male “friends”, need them like I need a hole in my head...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:57 PM
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Lmao no he didn’t 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:33 AM
2

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:45 AM
10

You sent me @ “their Dracula hairlines” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:25 PM
32

Good thing in the US women can own guns and put these fuckers in the ground if they try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:37 PM
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“Men are lucky women want liberation and not retribution”. LOUDER FOR THR SCROTES IN THE BACK! (Who said that btw? Because it’s solid 💯% truth)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:34 PM
5

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:27 PM
7

Die mad scrotes, we ain’t scared of y’all 💅🏼💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:24 PM
21

That add has me 😂 “It scroted off into the distance...” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:23 PM
9

Endlessly so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:17 PM
29

Oh boy, I had no idea...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:41 PM
40

What did he do in real life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:38 PM
15

Yup, found this the other day and disabled it. No more loser incel stalkers 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:35 PM
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Lol, he knew smooth Sean would’ve made his move and possibly been successful 😂. Thanks for the info
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:57 AM
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We’re just gonna have to agree to disagree because telling your man to move on while still married to you is a Pickme/“CoOl GiRl” move no matter what...and if there’s truly love and care one can still medically/financially care for a divorced partner—even legally. There’s no excuse or reason to have sex with someone else while married. End of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:54 AM
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Then they should divorce—it’s in the marriage vows. “In sickness and in health”. Don’t take them if you can’t take them seriously. You can still take care of them if you love them, but divorce before moving on romantically. Just grow a spine and divorce and be free—don’t cheat and try to make it look like it’s anything other than plain old cheating. Doesn’t matter the circumstances—get a divorce or you’re a cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:35 PM
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And a penchant for pedophilia...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:26 PM
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What Sean Paul situation? Spill that tea ☕️ sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:23 PM
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I have dealt with close family (and still am) with the disease—I see it all too well up close. It’s still no excuse. “In sickness and in health”. Don’t take marriage vows if you can’t keep them. Waiting to get his dick wet isn’t “putting life on pause”. He can wait, holy shit his wife is DYING, and he can’t wait to get into new pussy? It’s not a life or death need! He should be more concerned with his vowed life partner and her demise than getting some strange! He’s trash and so is anyone who do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:05 PM
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Yea, it’s fucking weird. It’s Pickme and scrote logic tbh. I mean, it’s laid out right there in wedding vows, “in sickness and in health”. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:35 PM
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Sticking around til the end means NOT fucking someone else as your wife lays dying. It means prioritizing your spouse in their most extreme time of need and not worrying more about getting your dick wet. If the genders were reversed Molina would be judged much more harshly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:34 PM
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You’re correct. It doesn’t sit right because it isn’t right. We all know if the genders were reversed and Molina was a woman who did this to her dying husband, she’d be called all manner of misogynistic slurs. Considered cold and heartless for not being with him til the end and of course waiting for years before finding love again—if she’s even allowed to, as we know historically men didn’t like it when they couldn’t keep possessive hold over us from beyond the grave) In the end, it’s all just m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:28 PM
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I love this and would definitely watch! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:08 AM
10

Same, I don’t go to men professionally for anything if I can help it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:32 AM
9

He’s clearly too stupid to go to college and get a real degree if he thinks any sentient woman would want his bag of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:29 AM
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Yup, she would fuck him up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:25 AM
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He’s tryin to sound like a sexual Baskin Robbins but he’s really a brokedown Craigslist pedo-truck with a soggy Good Humor box thrown in 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:23 AM
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“Live in prostitution”. Ie., sex slavery...they want to have sex slaves without going to prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:47 PM
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They really think they’re being clever when they dress the same old sexist oppression in “cute” lies. We see right through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:45 PM
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Yup, more homeless women end up dead (by male sexual violence) or trafficked, homeless men are who you see because that’s who is left alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:37 PM
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Community dick is best thrown out—it’s germy and not good for you 🚮😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:45 PM
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“It doesn’t matter if you have tattoo sleeves or a hijab” ☝🏼This Men sexualize and objectify us as children, thin, fit, fat, old, crippled, and everything in between. It’ll only stop when we’re dead (and sometimes not even then 🤢) so we may as well live life on our terms. We can’t negotiate with terrorists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:16 PM
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I would take out a life insurance policy on him and encourage him to do every cancer-growing thing ever 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:19 PM
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Yup, and after murdering us for daring to pursue science, they smugly turn around and say, “see, there’s no women in science” 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:31 PM
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Fruit ninja those dicks 😂 (My eldest used to play that on her tablet so I’ve got quite the image!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:31 PM
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Lol, facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:16 PM
2

Lol, stay mad and pay up then pathetic punter. And maybe you’ll get a crumb of pussy 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:00 PM
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If you pay for a date expecting sex, you’re a John, a punter, and should be treated like the degenerate ATM you are. NEXT 💅🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:38 PM
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So all men are johns who sexualize and objectify women? Then shouldn’t women always be looking to get as much out of men as possible without giving up pussy? It would only make sense since men are just sex-beasts, right? That would mean there’s no such thing as “divorce rape” (there isn’t) because men should’ve been paying all along for those services then, right? Also, since men are just sex-beasts, why should women ever care about a man’s emotions? If he just objectifies and sees a prostitute,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:23 PM
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Not all men...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:45 PM
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Filters out broke boys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:19 PM
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Nobody is having sex for a dinner. With no sex on the table there’s no hooker...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:14 PM
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Yes! 🧙🏼‍♀️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:57 PM
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For real, I need to know there’s a happy ending 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:04 PM
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🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 One of the few guys here who gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:21 PM
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😆💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:04 PM
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“her now mangled up body” I agree with everything but this. We can’t say stuff like this about our fellow women then get mad at those women for getting plastic surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:02 PM
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Lol, stay ignorant I guess, but for those men who wanna be good lovers and not lose their woman to a man who knows how to make her cum—US WOMEN DO NOT ENJOY ORGASMLESS SEX! WE ONLY FUCK WITH MEN (or women 😉) THAT MAKE US CUM! That is all, and you, wack dick, are blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:05 PM
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You are right and this was my plan before I went to college. I should’ve stuck with this 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:35 AM
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99.9% are not—-just a bunch of 💩🐒💩🐒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:18 AM
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Men lying to them and pretending they have a relationship is why. Just look around here for proof of that exact sentiment and strategy. You sound ridiculous, imagine if a woman was like, “I don’t have to be a man to know what having sex as one is like. Men don’t care about having orgasms!” 🥴🥴🥴<——-that’s you, but reverse the genders. It’s embarrassing at best, gives away you’re either a virgin or a terrible lay. Take the grain of knowledge from the other side and grow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:06 AM
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I, a woman, am telling you how this works from a woman’s perspective and you, a man, incapable of knowing what sexual pleasure/sex is from a woman’s perspective are STILL trying to mansplain what I’m saying away. Willful ignorance at its finest. What I said stands, and plenty of women have or continue sex purely out of pressure with zero pleasure but sure, she’s just sooo all about orgasmless sex 😂 Why do women masturbate to orgasm with increasingly sophisticated sex toys if our orgasms weren’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:24 PM
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Nope, I leave men who watch porn. Not gonna be disrespected and stay unless you want it dished back times 3, just call me Karma 💅🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:38 PM
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This ☝🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:25 PM
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As a woman, that’s a fucking lie and a big HELL NO. I’d rather masturbate for life than have a shit lover who can’t make me cum—don’t give a fuck how hot he “thinks” he is. Cuz he’ll look ugly fast if he’s a bad lay...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:25 PM
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Then you agree that women shouldn’t stand for the men in their lives cuckqueening them for porn, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:02 PM
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Have an abortion, divorce him, and only get pregnant by an HVM (if you find one), otherwise, money up and just go to the sperm bank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:47 PM
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I’m a woman, you are a man attempting to generalize women incorrectly and I corrected you. It’s not generalizing to also point out to you that I am in fact NOT a minority and many women are in fact like me. Your bias won’t let you believe it is all. So now I’m good on the back and forth with someone who refuses to open his mind and get out of his biases. So you’re blocked. I simply don’t have the time, but you’ll maybe learn one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:43 PM
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I’m not the one who made the generalizing statement. An open mind is free, have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:22 PM
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There’s a lot of us though, and for every one of us that chimes in your point looks like what it is—bias. It’s best to stop generalizing and realize women are people and we don’t have a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:17 PM
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I have literally done this, and many times. I fall in love with certain makeup palettes and brands and go to town experimenting and just enjoying how beautiful I am—just being in my own house. Not even posting a pic online. Not sure what’s so hard to believe about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:53 PM
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I’m pretty sure she has an ASMR channel and I’ve seen her videos. She does funny ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:42 AM
1

I’m good sis, but whatever you need to believe to help you get through your sad life 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:36 AM
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Lol, someone’s super bitter for being so fulfilled 😏😂. I’ll let your obvious unhappiness speak for itself as to who’s got a better love life, lol. Once again, pervert, I’m not giving you sex details to jerk off to, but rest assured I’m an amazing lover and that’s why someone married me and not you honey 💅🏼💍. Enjoy being the town cum guzzler though, you’re obviously not bitter at all 😆🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:34 AM
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Lol. yawn Have fun being a mouth fleshlight for men who wouldn’t hold your hand in public after splooging down your throat, I’m sure you feel loved and fulfilled. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:37 PM
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Lol, not sure why you’re trying to imagine my sex life, that’s weird, and you get no details, pervo. Just trust we good little fella 😆, worry about yourself. For all the “fun” sex you have you don’t seem to have anyone trying to keep you...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:21 PM
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Maybe they should lay off the porn and misogyny then, then maybe a woman will put up with them...not my problem, they ARE losers! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:18 PM
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I’m married dumbass, been for over a decade 😝. I get what I want in bed or I would’ve never married him. Lol, nice try though, good luck keeping all the loser lovers us women won’t bother eDuCaTiNg 😆 Our bodies aren’t dysfunctional, they cum beautifully for ourselves, men who know how to eat pussy and fuck, and other women 😁. The rest of y’all just stupid, can’t fuck, and can’t LISTEN when we communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:16 PM
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Listen fucktard (you started it with name-calling), we just next loser lovers for men who can rock our worlds—or other women! Not our problem if he can’t fuck or eat pussy, on to the next 💅🏼. Really is good to have this freedom, and the men who suck in the sack will die alone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:19 PM
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We won’t be pressured to fuck who we don’t want, stay uneducated and impoverished all to give birth for losers and be miserable from birth to death. Those days are thankfully over! And if “sOcIeTy” needs this of us, it can crash and burn instead, fuck that shit. 💅🏼💃🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:05 PM
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Yup, even the FBI has documented that men are criminal monsters. They commit over 73% of all violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:49 PM
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All of this ☝🏼. Someone gets it! 🙌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:39 PM
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With all the femicide statistics and human trafficking and rape, yea, we really SHOULD start a Women’s Lives Matter movement. This would be GLOBAL! WLM 💪🏼✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:54 AM
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Truth☝🏼. The demand came before the supply. Gotta have the sexually violent urges before you bully and mold society around them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:49 AM
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All I know is men are losing women left and right to people who know how to actually get a woman off, and that’s their fault and problem. There’s nothing wrong with our bodies—just losers for lovers who can’t fuck or eat pussy, and don’t care to learn due to misogyny. So we next them and get ones who can 🤷🏻‍♀️. And the men who can’t please women will be alone because that reputation will spread. Don’t see the problem really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:15 PM
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It’s misogyny my dear—that’s why as a gay man you don’t have the experience from men that heterosexual women do. So since you don’t, you can’t speak on it. I have slept with men though, and they are terrible in bed by and large. Their misogyny keeps them from caring about their partner’s pleasure. Porn surely doesn’t help. No one here cares about sucking a dick, we’re trying to give WOMEN orgasms for a change, so men need to take a page from lesbians and learn to eat pussy or else their girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:42 PM
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Lesbians don’t have this problem...men are just shit in bed and that’s why heterosexual women have the least orgasms. This leads to women being less interested in men altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:13 AM
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It’s not...they’re just trying to gaslight us into doing it anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:26 PM
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Very close and it’s actually worse. Men commit 73% of all crime according to the FBI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:47 PM
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Not all superheroes wear capes. You the MVP ✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:50 PM
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He’s a psychopath. This is Ted Bundy shit. Record him talking about this and have his ass involuntarily committed. Throw away the key. Men need to be VERY uncomfortable sharing these thoughts, or even feeling these feelings because we need to start turning on them and turning them in. Force them to change or get locked away...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:51 PM
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Girl yeeesssss! 😝🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:11 PM
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So handsome 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:10 PM
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He’s sick and twisted and so are any men like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:26 PM
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That’ll teach them! (but hopefully no man is touching you without consent)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:20 PM
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Ugly inside and outside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:10 PM
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Lol, he got what he deserved. Good for her 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:58 PM
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Warms my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:56 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:06 PM
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I usually don’t see ones I find hot, but I JUST posted Lewis Tan before reading this. Check out that hot Asian man (well, he’s half but whatever).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:18 AM
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I’m just gonna leave this here. I was watching that new Mortal Kombat movie and I was like, “whoa” 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:16 AM
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Chris Hemsworth is definitely one of my top three—goddamn yes. Him, Jason Mamoa and Henry Cavill—I have a type, and it sure as fuck ain’t “dad bod” 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:10 AM
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It’s the “thousand fap stare”—he’s utterly pornsick and his brain is broken. Unfixable and one must avoid males like him at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:47 PM
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Yup. We are NOT men, and that is a GOOD thing. I’ll never understand women trying to find equality by being like our oppressors. The male model doesn’t work for us because it thrives in keeping us down. Know your femininity and nurture that instead of trying to turn it into masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:40 PM
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Lol, I have this book on my nightstand 😆 They’re so cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:39 AM
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Shaming works! Love these young queens! 👑 To be so young and so brave—this needs to be a trend and I love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:30 AM
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Gotta have that will updated on their deathbed 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:16 AM
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Men would be off-brand tampons—a dime a dozen and you think you need it until you put it in your vagina and you realize it’s no good 🤣 See scrotes, we can play this game too 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:34 PM
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Gun
/r/askFDS05/05/21 04:31 PM
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What if women are with other women in increasingly large numbers? That would also explain why more young women are in relationships. And that’s a much nicer thought than being with some old scrote 🤢 I’d rather be with a woman (or hell, be single!) than be with an old scrote any day. The only exception is if it was a no-sex relationship and he was dying soon and I was getting all his money 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:29 PM
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I would belly laugh as the police I called escorted this stupid scrote out of MY house in handcuffs. 🤣💅🏼💃🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:25 PM
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I’m friends with a woman I met in the gym who’s in her mid 40’s, looks amazing, her ex husband and baby’s father was a decade younger than her, and she’s now regularly chased by men in their 20’s. I have another friend who’s in her late 40’s and just divorced a flabby older scrote and is now with a tall ripped Adonis who’s at least 10 years younger than her. Same with my mom after she divorced my stepfather. None of these dudes are getting a single penny from these women. It’s hilarious how wron…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:06 PM
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Wow, so they’re just admitting to being misogynistic monsters who don’t care about women who are raped. Guess it’s a step up from the usual feigned ignorance and gaslighting but holy fuck—men are really 💩out here. Oh, and for any lurkers who actually believe their bullshit about men or even boys being victims of rape more than women or girls—males are responsible for 97.2% of all rapes and 90% of all adult rape victims are female, as well as 82% of all juvenile rape victims
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:25 AM
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Lol, abs and ANY visible muscle. I’ve triggered flabby losers this way myself 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:11 AM
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This is a big one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:08 AM
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I like Anfisa because I saw all this and know exactly where she’s coming from. She sees the world for what it is and knows men ain’t shit and only want to use and abuse women. So she leverages what they want against what she wants and what WON’T abandon, rape, or abuse her: MONEY! She’s a straight shooter and doesn’t mince words or spare feelings about it. The world hates her for being real and not giving herself away for free a la “libfem” feminism. It’s obvious that Jorge is a gross fat pornsi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:16 PM
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I’m going to wear one of those “the future is female” shirts, and really set them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:09 PM
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Sex-based oppression against female human beings is one of the oldest and most pervasive forms of oppression and prejudice worldwide. We deserve a place to speak up about our experiences because they are real, and those who gain from our oppression seek to destroy any and all platforms we have. We must never stop fighting and we must never back down. And we must never include males (of any kind) because that’s how it all falls apart. I’m grateful for this place and these moderators everyday. To …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:41 PM
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Beautifully put. And it’s true—they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:26 AM
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Oh of course, he’s desperate for any live human woman to pay him any mind. I’m sure he’s tired of his Cheeto-crusted hand 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:53 PM
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So much truth. I’m so hopeful for our youth dismantling misogynistic propaganda and spreading realness! To renewed sisterhood! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:16 PM
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I don’t feel sorry for them. If they can research sick porn they can research a damn recipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:42 PM
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That so weird, she’s darkskinned too...🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:31 PM
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Queens come in all colors and they are BUGGIN thinkin she’s anything but beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:29 PM
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Lol, she went IN! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:27 PM
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🙄😑😒. Yea, the creators of torture, and perpetrators of pedophilia, rape and murder are the lOgIcAl ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:30 PM
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Good 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:20 AM
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These ladies are funny 😆 I think the food focus is to help us cope with the insanity of it all, just think of the yummy French fries 🍟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:54 PM
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The entire entertainment industry would have to shut down and be rebuilt from the bottom up. Misogyny is so pervasive. It would be an unrecognizable world—and so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:50 PM
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Finally. I’ve always wondered when misogyny would be treated like the hate crime it is the way racism is. I always knew why though—penises of all colors have banded together and bonded over their shared hatred of women. When the world rallies against racism but not misogyny the silent reason why is “we can’t hate these different colored people because some of them have penises like me and that’s not fair”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:49 PM
17

“Men jack off with their left hand and point with their right”. Preach!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I’ve literally said this same thing for a while now. Their hypocrisy is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:18 PM
35

This ☝🏼. Women’s prisons aren’t filled with nuns, but with battered/abused wives and girlfriends who finally snapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:39 AM
15

I don’t know what explains the “gay for pay” and “prison gay” phenomenons but those dudes swear if it were other circumstances they wouldn’t do it. Don’t know, gotta ask them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:37 AM
9

Aileen Wuernos knew this all too well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:35 AM
46

That’s when you’ve gotta fuck with his head and say that you’re looking for a lovely woman already 😆. Nothing makes them more mad than when their dick is rendered meaningless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:31 AM
133

Women were the originators of other fields notoriously thought of as male such as the medical field (the gatherers were women, and those who gathered the herbs came up with the first cures—and ancient midwifery predates all other medical professionals), and funeral service—as it was considered “unclean” to touch the dead and so women were traditionally relegated to the task of bathing and dressing the dead, and sitting vigil by the body. Men take over by force and then give themselves all the cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:29 AM
158

It’s similar to women who take being called a b!tch, c@nt or other sexist name from men—it’s all hate and for some reason too many women stand for the men who claim to “love” them spewing hatred to their faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:32 PM
90

This, always remember this☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:14 PM
7

Why does your vagina have hair, Daniel? Don’t you know they’re internal organs?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:12 PM
7

See folks, they wanna play porn with their pornsick minds but when it gets real because life ain’t a twisted fantasy, they wanna run from the consequences. Say no to men into weird shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:08 PM
87

Ah yes, the hardcore studs and butches that aspire to be “fuckbois”—no bueno. They usually have misogynistic views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:52 PM
2

Wait a minute....this guy would rather stew with shit on the floor of the kitchen and smell that for 2 WHOLE DAYS than brave some disposable gloves, disinfectant and clean that up within 5 minutes?! These creatures are on a whole other level of gross 🤢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:44 PM
45

Holy shit, this☝🏼times a thousand! All of these are better than asking a man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:29 PM
4

I don’t think Melania is terrified of Trump at all, she’s always got —> 😒sort of face and attitude around him, like just “ugh, not you again”. Which is still shitty because that’s a whole other trap. I saw more hidden fear in her face meeting Putin...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:55 PM
6

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:37 PM
10

Unless it’s a separate account and even then legally, if they’re married, it’s her money anyways. Clown shit. She should just take a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:35 PM
20

Lol, kids are hilariously open and innocent like that. Although you are absolutely right about the 2 year old—leaving them unattended in a tub for more than maybe a necessary moment is a big no no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:48 PM
3

Don’t give up on the life you want, no one deserves to settle. I’ll say this—age and culture definitely plays a role in how men feel about this sort of thing. Usually men who are older don’t care as much to have children, and western secular men tend to look more favorably on a childfree or adoptive life than men from more religious or traditional cultures. I wouldn’t beat myself up over privilege when it comes to surrogacy and adoption—surrogates are usually women with a true want to do this fo…
/r/askFDS28/04/21 02:45 PM
31

No, not normal. If your little one comes running out naked in front of strangers (something that should be prevented by doing bath time at a different time at the very least), you grab and towel-wrap them quickly with a polite embarrassed laugh and get them to their room and dressed straight away. They showed you some chaos early! At least you got a warning—I can’t stand my husband’s family but for maybe 2-3 members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:05 PM
13

What makes you think wives and mothers are any less symbiotic? It’s naturally who they are and what they want to be and do, no one is doing this begrudgingly, and just the same they find men who value that and want to provide for and protect them. You can find men who align with your goals and beliefs to do the same. It’s not different. You’re letting your frustrations embitter yourself because it’s the same, just different wants and lives.
/r/askFDS28/04/21 01:49 PM
2

All of it can be boiled down to “business” if one wants to see it through that lense—including what you want to do. You want to be protected/provided for and your feminine essence, as you put it, would be your “bargaining chip”. Or else, why would he?
/r/askFDS28/04/21 01:39 PM
16

I’d say you can definitely achieve what you want but you’ll need to find a man who wants the same things—all part of the vetting process. If you’re childfree, then you’d need to find a childfree man, and if you want to adopt instead of having biological children, you’ll need to find a man who wants that as well. It’s not impossible, you’ll just have to weed through more men.
/r/askFDS28/04/21 01:35 PM
28

Let’s not denigrate wives by calling them “glorified sugar babies” and women who raise their children aren’t “surrogate mothers”. I understand your frustrations but that’s just untrue and kinda hateful.
/r/askFDS28/04/21 01:34 PM
2

Oh god she’s so clueless—yes, this stupidly simplistic viewpoint solves worldwide misogyny and women’s current and historic second-class citizenship! 🥴 And yea, the oppressed getting angry at their oppressors isn’t “cute” or “attractive”—-it’s not supposed to be! And neither is being an oppressor but Pickme pendeja here doesn’t seem to care about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:57 PM
7

Dogs are supposed to submit to men—not women. Outta his goddamn mind 🥴.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:42 PM
7

His nerdy lookin ass needs to take a fuckin seat and think 😂. What he lacks in looks he sure makes up in audacity though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:39 PM
54

I love plants—they’re the only truly innocent life forms on this earth. They don’t rape, murder, abuse, lie, cheat, or steal. They literally give us the air we breath and are the basis for all the medicine we need to survive. The only plants that can harm are purely born from adapting to being abused and eaten, so it’s all defense. Killing plants at that magnitude should be a crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:54 PM
15

I smiled 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:52 PM
5

Case closed! Fuck 50/50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:42 PM
5

Maybe support for dad in that room would matter if it was HIS genitals getting ripped apart to deliver that baby 🤷🏻‍♀️. If a man can’t put his selfishness aside to be there for the woman who MAY DIE delivering that baby, then he doesn’t deserve to pass his genes on in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:40 PM
201

Most dick isn’t even good, you can buy one yourself that’s the EXACT size you want AND won’t abuse, rape, infect, or impregnate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:36 PM
14

Makes sense to me—if men think they’re so superior and we’re just a hassle just go and fuck each other and leave us alone 🤷🏻‍♀️. Women worldwide would definitely be better off than dealing with these rapists, abusers, pedophiles and murderers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:31 PM
35

His mom probably just tolerates him with this face 😒 because she knows she’s responsible for birthing this terrible creature, like a reluctant but admirably responsible Dr. Frankenstein trying to take care of her abomination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:27 PM
14

Yup, men are assholes for always doing this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:24 PM
27

Fucking loser doesn’t realize he’s trash 🗑and that’s the reason not one, but TWO wives ran away from him 😆 Btw, I love “scroterman”, it’s like slenderman, except men are real and are responsible for like all real life rapes and murders so slenderman is better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:23 PM
33

I had a smug white male piece of shit call my kid a “fuck trophy” to my face many years ago—he was a boss of mine, I imagine that’s where he got the gall. The me of today would’ve said “fuck this job” and decked him right in his stupid hipster stache and called out his dehumanization and sexualization of a minority child. I hope that piece of shit scrote got prostate cancer and died slowly and alone. And I mean that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:54 PM
28

That’s fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:50 PM
33

Also their pathological hatred of children. They should be ashamed of themselves—they’re goddamned adults spouting horrific dehumanization of babies and children and “joking” about wanting to enact violence upon kids. Some of them are truly fucked up people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:47 PM
223

It’s better company than majority of males on this planet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:41 PM
6

Men really are a bunch of 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:55 PM
1

Women are so badass. For my last birth I was stubbornly cleaning up and tending to my garden while in labor before I finally went to the midwife. I’d just squat down holding the wall and deep breathing when the contractions hit 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:57 PM
5

That’s only because for all of history men have a vested interest in misogyny and haven’t tried to see women as important to the human race. Punitive measures for companies who don’t hire qualified women would be a good solution to this misogynistic crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:13 PM
10

This is why it’s important for women to get into positions of leadership—they most certainly will try to keep us out of any power otherwise. They always have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:10 PM
5

I used to squat almost twice my body weight for 15 reps while growling through period cramps—those losers need to STFU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:08 PM
13

Don’t give those sick fucks any ideas, you know they’ll try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:06 PM
27

I don’t see where it’s unfair. Because it’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:05 PM
7

His IQ and shoe size are the same number—like many men apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:03 PM
10

Yup, it’s more misogynistic bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:58 PM
51

Those electric simulators pale in comparison to the real thing. Those pansies can’t take a little cramping from electricity yet the pain of actual birth has killed women by the millions since time began. They have NO idea. I’ve broken bones and had surgeries and nothing compared to that pain—I did it all naturally without even a Tylenol, and more than once. I don’t think there’s a man alive who is tough enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:56 PM
16

That whole aesthetic is goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:21 PM
26

And the compact they came in would be a mini trash can 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:39 AM
24

Those scrotes sure are sensitive 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:38 AM
24

It’s because single moms doing it all show the world how incompetent and useless majority of men are. Makes them big mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:03 AM
25

That’s what I did with mine—I didn’t change very many diapers because I did all the heavy work of pregnancy, labor, birth, and breastfeeding. When he came home from work and at night, he was on diaper duty full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:59 PM
13

Same. Fuck their opinions 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:30 PM
4

Yes, that’s why I said almost entirely, because there were some small numbers of males persecuted, but for different reasons and not enough of them to make “witch” be a word ubiquitous with being male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:19 PM
4

I love that movie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:10 PM
5

I’ve practiced the craft for over 25 years. Her best teacher is her culture, the nature around her, and the folklore and recipes from her own family (primarily the women). What’s in the New Age sections of stores is all rudimentary and cloned information based on one new age movement—Wicca. Anything claiming to be expert information on Hoodoo, Vodoun, Santeria or the like is white-washed Llewelyn-esque hogwash because those are family and initiated traditions. The true power comes from within an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:07 PM
5

This is what I tried to tell a stupid scrote who wanted to pretend that “mEn WeRe PeRsEcUtEd ToO” as witches. It was almost entirely women, and that title is ours to either reclaim or discard—not for modern males to appropriate because suddenly witchcraft is “cool” and they like playing magician. It’s so infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:02 PM
12

Makes me laugh because they really think they’re doing something with their tiny dicks 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:40 PM
17

Big time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:13 PM
41

Yup, that’s why men invented it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:59 PM
7

Good for you! Get what you deserve ✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:56 PM
5

Yup, they’re either “edgy” (ie shitheads) or they’re too stupid to rub some brain cells together and figure out what’s up in history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:19 PM
2

I love how the spelling is even more fucked up—I see you! 🤣 Rapists can go to hell with improperly spelled gravestones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:18 PM
3

Why are you being such a Pickme for him? Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:45 AM
7

I don’t care he’s a rapist 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:40 AM
13

This would be ideal and revolutionary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:29 PM
17

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:12 PM
83

I have an aunt that was mysteriously infertile for her whole youth (even ended up adopting) and then naturally conceived and gave birth in her mid-40’s. Life’s wild like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:11 PM
52

A world without males would be a world of peace, it’s unfortunately true and only THEY can change that truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:07 PM
19

97.2% of all rapists are male.. That statistic was 99.1% in 2012.. The change was likely in turn with more woman-identified males in the years after. The crime stats are slowly being skewed but even then pretty much every rapist is male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:15 PM
16

Damn, I’ve gotta read about her. Doesn’t surprise me, there’s so much of this world soaked in the blood of slain women and no one seems to care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:58 PM
37

Yup, it should’ve been Breonna’s death that brought about this outcry, she was actually a good person. Note: police brutality to POC is the central issue of course, but the focus was obviously on George and not Breonna, meanwhile, why? Women’s deaths never seem to matter...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:41 PM
14

People as a whole are very superstitious about death and fear potential haunting/fallout if they speak ill of the dead. That’s the only reason I can imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:38 PM
69

I felt the same about that rapist Kolbe Bryant—fuck that guy. The only deaths that were tragic there were his daughter and everybody else on that plane. But the rapist? Lol, good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:35 PM
82

Notice how he’s clearly mad about her fixing up her body too? He really wanted to have her permanently “marked” by him and now that she’s gotten those marks surgically erased he’s seething. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:35 PM
99

I would’ve just gotten the abortion behind his back because it’s MY body and fuck all that 🤷🏻‍♀️ (and this is coming from someone who has children!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:29 PM
15

Disney World is a blast and brings out the inner kid in all of us—go for it and live it up! Fuck what these losers have to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:01 AM
4

I collect some dolls too—we’re cool 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:58 AM
38

This is serial killer shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:48 AM
34

There were so many women like this who held up their “great men” and were lost (on purpose) to history. I’m so glad to hear more of their stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:45 AM
12

I actually learned this first from some black women who made a short play about it—so you may be surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:41 AM
14

Just thought I’d throw out there that Martin Luther King Jr was a known womanizer, who cheated on Coretta with several women. This is documented. So yes, him too, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:39 AM
1

That sounds like me 😆 So far so good 🤞🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:12 PM
9

Make them pay to figure paternity too. Have it be default unless proven otherwise 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:12 PM
7

I think most men would rather pay a little money than have no freedoms or prospects of autonomy and happiness for the rest of their lives in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:10 PM
109

These are misogynistic hate crimes and need to be prosecuted as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:58 PM
9

This. This is the REAL difference and it’s dark—men are literally causing, enabling and jerking off to human trafficking, rape, abuse, coercion, misogyny and pedophilia. The fact that they even try to disingenuously compare the two is enough to make me stabby 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:00 PM
10

I love this skit, the parodies are the best. I tried to show my kid this show and they were like, “what is this ?!🤨”. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:08 AM
73

His dick is diseased, otherwise he wouldn’t avoid it. Next him.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 03:05 AM
26

I sincerely hope this is fake. If not, he’s a psycho who enjoys inflicting pain and misery on her and is actively trying to kill her for fun. Charge him with everything that’ll legally stick and see his ass arrested and jailed. Disgusting piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:21 PM
3

I know this channel and some of these stories. It’s so sad 😞.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:46 PM
6

Hmm...great idea! And since only men want it so badly, fill those brothels with only men as the prostitutes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:45 PM
1

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:42 PM
3

Lol 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:39 PM
8

You know damn well this spherical scrote doesn’t eat vegetables 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:36 PM
3

That phrasing sent me 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:35 PM
3

Holy shit—while PREGNANT?! That’s a Goddess come to earth in human form!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:26 PM
2

So...she’s saying rape is fine then. Can’t say no after all, heavens forbid the AbUsE the poor men would have to endure 😒. This Pickme pendeja is the derpiest of all derps 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:04 PM
25

Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:05 PM
18

It’s likely he did force her. Pimping is very old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:58 PM
12

They lie and cheat anyways so why not just get yours? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:54 PM
10

I had old out of shape scrotes make unsolicited comments about “I wouldn’t wanna marry a woman like that” all because I have visible muscles and I lift. They are insecure and jealous that I’m likely stronger than them 😆. My husband more than likes it though, and holy shit do men AND women wherever I go seem to appreciate my physique! Just the other day I had a man AND a woman flirt with me just going about my errands—-that’s why these losers try to tear us down, they know it makes us desirable a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:53 PM
13

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:42 PM
21

Me and my husband lead very active lives and I wouldn’t have it any other way. If I were ever (Goddess forbid!) single again, I couldn’t imagine getting with a layabout. That’s so BORING. We like to walk for miles on a whim, mountain bike new trails together, and we lift weights together. We also correspondingly prepare healthy food and eat clean meals together. I couldn’t imagine a life with someone not into fitness and healthy living. We’d be completely incompatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:41 PM
10

Aww, I’m glad you found your guy 🥰—never settle for less!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:35 PM
8

Porque no los dos? Lol I like buff 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:33 PM
12

I like gym rats because I’m a gym rat too lol 😆 We can just workout together—even more bonding so win/win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:32 PM
24

“I think they both desire and fear our beauty, our innate worth and power.” 💯% truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:29 PM
10

Word! I myself have visible abs, so you best believe my husband does too! We were even gym buddies pre-covid. Women deserve to be attracted to their men, and if you’re attractive yourself the man definitely should bring his best. If you are, why shouldn’t he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:13 PM
15

I used to say that then discovered my bisexuality mad late so—-sometimes wishes come true 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:27 PM
73

It’s hilarious—I’m a whole-ass Pagan Witch, and I’m vehemently anti-porn. We come from all walks of life. Side note, thank you for all your work in those subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:07 PM
15

This is so well put and succinct—saving it. Gonna show it to any loser who wonders why women aren’t truly free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:14 AM
16

I know, that was just for the lurkers 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:08 PM
24

Better than being a pickme 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:42 PM
71

I hope she divorces him, takes every penny, takes the kid and leaves him too broke to ever pay to rape a prostitute again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:13 PM
111

Fucking seriously. The “happy hooker” narrative is just male moral masturbatory bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:11 PM
5

They should hold her sentencing and punishment until the massive backlog of male revenge porn criminals are also sentenced and punished—its only fair. While we’re at it, they need to be getting to all those backlogged rape kits and throw those fucking rapists in prison first. Women are too often punished lightning fast for shit men have gotten away with for YEARS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:58 PM
9

I know it’s hard but don’t be sad—get MAD and use it to fuel you in this misogynistic world. Women need to start getting really ANGRY and make men feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:54 PM
28

The first two weeks of nursing was hell, every time. It felt like sewing needles shooting out of my breast through my nipples, pulling at nerve strings deeps inside my chest at the same time. I’m not even kidding. During those first two weeks I would have the baby on the pillow and in one arm while clawing into my rocking chair with the other and shaking my leg like crazy from the pain. My husband felt so bad for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:39 AM
56

I wish I vetted my husbands family. He’s great so I didn’t even think of it. I don’t like most of them. My MIL is an asshole who’s always trying to tell me how to mother even though the dumbass was an absent addict during her kids’ childhoods. And a bunch of misogynistic dumb dicks are in his family too. He’s like honestly the only good one other than his grandma 😩. I barely go around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:09 AM
58

Or the fact that your milk doesn’t even truly come in for DAYS after birth. It is a nerve-wracking time waiting for it to fully come in trying to make sure the baby is getting enough (and that’s with nursing EVERY HOUR!). I rented a hospital pump to help and I was hooked up to that thing like a cow ALL the time it seemed. I ended up learning and next time PRE-PUMPING starting at 32 weeks (with midwife permission) in order to have a colostrum supply ready for the baby’s arrival. I ended up with e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:02 AM
22

Eating as healthy as you can and getting exercise will help tremendously. Oh, and a good pregnancy body pillow (because sleeping will suck in the third trimester). Preggo pops for nausea were a godsend as well. Also, midwives and doulas tend to be far more in touch with women’s issues, needs, bodies and psyches during pregnancy and birth than obgyns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:56 AM
31

Damn, I developed new allergies too and I never thought it could’ve been tied to my pregnancies but the timing lines up 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:49 AM
14

That sciatica was so terrible I couldn’t move at ALL when those shockwaves hit. Thank the Gods it went away after birth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:47 AM
21

For real! I used to be a wild lady who was brave AF and never backed down from a fight. Now? I’m so scared of everything for my kids, and I avoid as much conflict as possible to avoid any blowback on them. The old saying is true, you never know true fear until you have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:45 AM
27

This is true. I have children and love them to pieces (even went the all-natural birth route with a midwife in a house), but I didn’t go in blind. Even still, certain negative after-effects were a surprise like: —even with kegel exercises, there will be less ability to hold your pee (I can’t hold it forever like I used to that’s for sure, and a small “surprise” can definitely still happen with a hard sneeze or cough) —my vaginal stitch sites (from 2nd degree tears) STILL cause shooting pain on r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:39 AM
5

Thank you sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:15 AM
6

As a bicurious/bisexual (idk what to call it when you have that intense sexual attraction but never acted on it) woman, this guy is a piece of shit. My boundaries are ironclad and my standards high AF and if you cheat on me it ain’t gonna be some fun porno shit—I will just fuckin leave your ass. To add insult to injury, I might steal that girl on my way out 😏😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:29 PM
28

And you brought those RECEIPTS girl!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Thank you for this—let’s hope it gets into some thick scrote skulls and leads to change (who am I kidding, they know all this and it turns them on even more—straight evil).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:17 PM
15

Lol this is my kind of energy and I LOVE her for it! Especially using the taser as a beat for the song 😂 That first lady is a dumbass though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:39 PM
5

When they point out race and crime, it makes me laugh for two reasons: 1. It shows their racist asses for who they really are and 2. IT IS STILL MEN COMMITTING THE CRIMES! Check the stats—Just about all crime worldwide has a dick behind it, doesn’t matter if that dick is pink, brown, black or whatever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:34 PM
4

Thank you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:17 PM
53

Definitely not the same effect, especially on women. In filmed pornography we have actual human trafficking because of the demand to abuse and rape women and children on screen. That breaks something deep inside of ANYONE who watches it, and inside of those who are victimized by it for the viewers’ sick “pleasure”. Written erotica doesn’t have any human involvement—not even a picture of a human! I think as long as nothing sick or twisted is being explicitly written about (like rape, child rape o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:37 PM
6

Damn, he must’ve known that too and positioned himself there purposely. Glad you got out ok, and hell yea fear is a gift—our intuition tells us so much but we have to be open to listening to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:05 AM
12

Queen Andrea 👑! Love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:22 PM
9

He’s lucky you didn’t stab his wannabe possessed ass, since you were where the knives are and all. Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:56 PM
15

😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:45 PM
49

Lmao, that ending “one bullet and YOU all gone” had me laughing out loud for real. Men always think they’re invincible, that they’re the worldwide judge and jury, but a centimeter of metal would end every last one of them. Be more humble men, and also, let women shine, like we let y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:43 PM
28

I’d rather be killed for turning a man down than killed anyways after I degraded myself for him. The kind of man that would kill over that would likely kill you anyways🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:14 PM
18

Stop having sex with men who won’t pleasure you. They’ll either get the point and prioritize your orgasm or be all angry at which point you dump him. Either way you’re not dealing with bullshit so win win. I orgasm at least once every time. If I don’t I won’t do it. I can masturbate and not be bothered if it’s just gonna suck anyways. And don’t let them get you with that “bonding” bs. You can bond in a myriad of intimate ways that won’t leave you frustrated with an upset pH balance for no damn r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:40 PM
19

Stop sleeping with him immediately and also dump him. You can do better.
/r/askFDS30/03/21 04:32 PM
99

Witchesagainstpatriarchy isn’t a very feminist subreddit either. Got banned there for saying only women could be witches. Even with historic evidence. Men, you can’t come up with a slur to round us up, torture and kill us by and then when it becomes “trendy” come back and pretend you shared the label the whole time. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:44 PM
6

Why couldn’t the story Monster be an authentic way to push back? It was a true story after all, unlike the other movie. If every John got shot by the sex slave he rented (ie. “prostitute”), they’d be pretty scared. That’s why they gave her the death penalty despite her mitigating circumstances of rape and abuse—can’t let a woman think she can get away with killing her predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:14 PM
8

Congrats! Proud of you! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:40 PM
77

Ooo, protest! I like this and it would definitely get the point across when all the boys have to attend prom alone or it’s altogether cancelled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:30 PM
10

The media. Run with this story to any and every outlet that will hear you. From online platforms to print to even tv—this could be a story someone will take. Blasting (otherwise known as shame tactics) is very effective even if you don’t live in the area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:28 PM
11

This is what you do for children to boost their self-esteem, financial knowledge, and give them a “grownup” experience that seems interesting and new. However, this is embarrassing as fuck to do for a grown ass man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:19 PM
47

Much worse than that—I’ve smelled dead bodies but I do NOT want to smell what 40 cum shirts and thousands of piss bottles heated up repeatedly in an attic would smell like 🤢🤮. He’s beneath an animal because even they don’t do anything this gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:01 PM
25

Yup, Einstein was just a smarter-than-average scrote. But still a scrote through and through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:21 AM
51

Nope. He too stole some of his most genius research and ideas from his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:24 PM
23

There’s a scene in an old Marilyn Monroe movie where she puts it perfectly when her soon-to-be father-in-law tries to accuse her of being a gold digger (his son was pretty ugly in comparison to her). She was like(paraphrased), “if I was your daughter wouldn’t you want me to only marry the best suitor and live a good life with nice things? So why is it different for me?” It stumped him silent. That’s the rub—when you frame it as what would they do if it was them or what would they want for their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:00 PM
52

Yup. I’m much more of a fan of the Aileen Wuernos movie (and story). She gave no fucks and was ugly as she wanted to be and just shot those guys. Her life was a tragedy though and it’s no wonder she ended up how she did, but yea. Fuck that hypersexual “femme fatale” crap. I wanna see a woman get angry in these movies and just wear combat boots and military gear, shave her head or some shit, lift weights and off these dudes with the same cold brutality of a war-worn soldier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:54 PM
5

I’m sorry for your loss💐. He sounded like an amazing man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:42 PM
11

Me too please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:14 AM
11

Wow, I’ll never understand hating a woman for being nice enough to have sex with you. Men are stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:06 PM
7

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:29 PM
8

Yup. I overdid it early last year and ended up in the ER. I was on an almost constant cut while lifting heavy 3-5x per week and not hydrating enough. Kept that up for many months until the crash. I didn’t even realize I was putting my health in danger. Now I’m far more balanced in my approach. Not so rigid in my diet and I’m trying to drink lots more water, eat more and not go crazy in the gym. Feeling more energized these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:30 PM
12

Damn, I liked him too. See, can’t have hope in men. Off to unsubscribe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:01 AM
17

Sis threw down nothin but straight FACTS! Be mad or change it men 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:41 PM
2

Yes, forgot the character’s name but she’s the one. And definitely she was fucked in the head. It was an odd season. My fave was coven, but I’m a witch so I might be biased 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:42 PM
5

Yup, my husband doesn’t even have a Reddit account, and when he’s on social media he’s posting workout stuff and looking at strongman/bodybuilding or financial level up stuff. No time for dumb shit. He’s grinding making that💰or being a family man. The males always online yapping and being hateful are the losers of society. Another reason to avoid OLD. The most well-rounded and successful men usually aren’t on those apps. They’re too busy killin it in the real world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:39 PM
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Good point, and one I’ve noticed as well. Me and my husband were watching AHS 1984, and I was so pissed at how they romanticized Richard Ramirez. Guy was an absolute POS who looked and smelled gross (his teeth were rotting so badly he’d repel people by opening his mouth it was so pungent 🤢), yet in the show he was played by a more handsome actor who had perfect teeth and a rockstar personality 🙄😡. Literally part of the storyline was his “relationship” with a woman who fetishized violent killer m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:15 PM
13

Apt description 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:53 PM
55

He is ugly as fuck and I don’t know what scrote spread that bullshit lie about him being handsome cuz ewww 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:53 PM
31

Exactly. I’ll never put myself in danger by helping some strange man. I feel so badly for women who fell for predator men because of their nurturing instinct. Those evil men use our good natures against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:52 PM
4

Smart? 🤨 He’s a world class asshole who never loved her or that child. I can only hope she cheated on him, then at least he’d get stung too in all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:15 AM
0

Here’s hoping 🤞🏼(and how pathetic are these dudes and their “revenge fantasies”?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:00 AM
20

Try not to take it to heart. I’m also a SAHM, but I know how sage the advice is in general. I have my own separate savings account, investments, and I have stacks in the bank he can’t access. Also have a small (fledgling for now lol) business of my own and I’m always working for MY grind and future as well as my family’s. Not very many women who are SAHM have this sort of situation though, so it CAN be a very precarious situation. I try not to take it personally since I know I’m an outlier. I’m …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:42 PM
12

Yup. I’m currently a SAHM. Me and my husband have a great marriage, and that’s good. For many reasons but also because if we divorce I’m taking my half. I helped build him up, and if Goddess forbid we don’t work out, I’ll be taking my cut. I didn’t (and wouldn’t) spend all these years doing all these things for a man (esp. having his babies) for no guarantees. I’m an earth sign, I don’t do instability 😂. A smart man with skin in the game will work at being a good husband, so it really IS an insu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:27 PM
22

I’ve always said that’s why racism is seen as the big baddy in the world but not misogyny. Men care about every color of penis in the world before they’d care about even the woman that birthed them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:05 PM
12

If every shit male just committed su!cide this world would be a utopia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:03 PM
25

I’m so angry hate crimes against women for being female aren’t even classified as such. Fuck this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:43 PM
1

😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:28 PM
9

Not offended, I thought you were so I clarified. It’s all good 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:47 PM
8

I never said anything about white women being the problem though...or any woman for that matter. I drew the parallel between internalized racism and internalized misogyny. I saw both clear as day as I am both black and a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:08 PM
20

This guy gets it. Really, what kind of monster bemoans making a new friend? One that never saw you as someone to befriend in the first place. Friend zone is a term of insult to women’s humanity because it insists befriending us is a downgrade or punishment. Don’t entertain the company of men who unironically use this term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:05 PM
15

Thank you. Being half black and a woman, I’ve seen this parallel for years. We’ve got to wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:01 PM
51

It’s like internalized racism, when some black folks think being lighter or acting racist towards other black people will win them favor among white people (ie, those in power here), when really, racist white people would just treat them like useful pets and laugh at them behind their backs. Same thing with Pickme women and their internalized misogyny. They think hating other women and being the “CoOl GiRl” for men means they’ll be treated better or spared the hate. Meanwhile, men use and abuse …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:54 PM
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Exactly. I’m married and came from GC, so I always saw this place as a feminist—a REAL feminist—space, first and foremost. I didn’t need the dating advice, but I needed the sisterhood and TRUE feminism in this clown🤡world of misogyny. I hope we really are the 4th wave—fuck this pandering 3rd wave bullshit. No more talking about the boot—we’re knocking that fucker off of us and STANDING UP! ✊🏼💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:49 PM
60

He made me laugh 😂. See ladies, they know; it’s been a joke for them for a looooong time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:25 AM
44

I’m so happy to see this. I want this sentiment to keep picking up steam until it becomes a scream that cannot be ignored. We are fighting systemic misogyny and it’s getting attention—I have so much hope for the future! ✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:21 AM
13

My 30’s are so awesome you couldn’t PAY me to go back to my 20’s! I’m the hottest I’ve ever been, in the best shape of my life, have more money and leisure than I could’ve ever had in my 20’s, and my husband is no longer a “kid” making dumb mistakes. He worships me like the Goddess I am, because I’m a grown ass woman who commands respect. I’m happy and surrounded by the attentions of men AND women of all ages. I’ve never been in a better position in my life and I’m just getting started! Pay Inte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:30 AM
2

Gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:24 AM
14

Yup, it’s denial. She’s trying to pretend there’s no way he could cheat with her. But....he already has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:17 AM
4

If men could get pregnant they’d learn the words “misoprostol” and “mifepristone” in kindergarten. Fuck their opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:47 PM
38

Thank goodness for the island of Lesbos then! 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:41 PM
8

Don’t call yourself bad names. Really, that’s step one to better self esteem and therefore better life outcomes. I want you to replace those negative descriptive words with positive ones, and keep practicing that. One day you’ll effortlessly describe yourself in positive terms and you’ll actually feel it to be true. And from there you’ll only deal with positivity in your life, as entertaining negativity will be against your grain. You’re so young, be kind to yourself.
/r/askFDS16/03/21 11:37 PM
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Yes, when a man is attractive women will approach (or at the very least be quite obvious about our desire). It’s not the move (approaching and asking him out) if you want him invested, but if all you want is fun well then yea, that’ll work 😆.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:37 PM
19

Those are two of my celebrity crush trifecta 😍, the third being Jason Mamoa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:27 PM
3

Get good at giving yourself pleasure and pretty soon you won’t want what men have to offer unless they can do better than you—which is rare. You won’t be so easily swayed anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:10 PM
5

Her face at the end is everything 😂 It’s like if “Lord, help me” was a face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:59 PM
5

My husband has always been well aware of my activity on FDS. As a father to a girl, he is very supportive of the message and glad women are helping each other out. Whenever I’ve given our kid some FDS advice (age appropriate of course) he always says “that’s solid advice”. HVM know the deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:06 AM
14

It’s so sad that men pretend our struggles and the unique violence against us don’t matter—and as a result, they don’t believe we have to do these things. As a humorous aside, I used to do the fake phone call until one time as I was doing it and passing the creeps I got a freakin loud phone call. I just ran off. It was like out of a twisted sitcom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:23 AM
3

Gender Critical. It got banned like over a year ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:13 AM
7

I know—but they’ll never escape the label and didn’t escape the persecution, much like women and oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:03 PM
8

I’m married to a man—how could I hate someone who’s children I birthed? However, I know bullshit when I smell it and I’m here to discuss the many ways men bullshit women worldwide and throughout time and how we can avoid being engulfed in that stench and cleaning shit that isn’t ours to clean up. I’m talking patriarchy, misogyny, unfair gender roles and the whole nine. I came here from GC, so I was always talking about this stuff. If that makes me “hateful”, then I’m good with it 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:13 PM
3

Use your newfound knowledge to light the fires of ambition and happiness in your life. If men and the world would love nothing more than to crush women, take immense glee in living your best life and rubbing it in their faces. You can’t unlearn the truth, but you can use it to set you free.
/r/askFDS12/03/21 05:44 PM
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Or it’s some “devil’s advocate” shit—like who wants to argue from that side? Of course men like to argue from the side of evil and think it’s a normal thing 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:37 PM
7

Well, I for one am a practicing Witch so in a sense...🤷🏻‍♀️😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:35 PM
9

But that’s not where the HVW are so they stay away (once they’re done harassing the Pickmes in those spaces into falling over themselves to defend men and it gets boring being placated and pandered to , of course).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:34 PM
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I’m shredded vs bulky but I’d bulk up the muscle to help my fellow ladies out 💪🏼. I’m hella short though 😂. I want to see us thrive and feel safe and have spaces of our own. I’m saddened to see so much of what we built be taken and destroyed by men over the years I’ve been alive. For fucks sake we couldn’t even have Lilith Fair! 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:30 PM
18

Same! It’s funny too. I hope it lets them know they’re unable to message us because that makes for a hilarious little mantrum I’m sure 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:25 PM
6

Yup, so call DCFS or CPS and report him for abuse. Boy that legal rigamarole will straighten his negligent ass out—then leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:14 AM
9

This is perfect, except just do it, don’t ask. Just an automatic wallet punch for being incompetent, like a fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:12 AM
5

There was a cop who was leery and trying to make moves on me when I would walk the park with my infant when I lived in NYC. All of a sudden “coincidentally” he’d be parked where we’d enter and at the usual times we’d go, always leering, trying to “chat”. I got the worse feeling from him and stopped going. Started having my husband take her and at a different time. Terrible, they ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:05 AM
5

Of course, I’m serious as well. Women really need a female only space to escape the violence and harassment at the very least. That’s why I wonder if buying land and setting it up as a co-op would work to skirt the legality of keeping males out. We need a lawyer to chime in...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:57 PM
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I’d be in—anything to create a true female-only space. Seriously, if we could pool our money and resources, what would be the legality? I imagine there’d be some red-tape with having to keep men out without appearing “discriminatory”, but if we utilize legal loopholes, I wonder if it can effectively be done? If so, we should run it like a co-op or collective, where you front a certain amount of money and after board approval you are part owner. If it’s private property in that sense I believe we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:49 PM
1

Bargaining with terrorists always works sooo well 🙄😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:59 AM
10

Poignant; I’m sure I’ll see that one as I work my way through it. I only saw it here or there as a kid, and a lot went over my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:25 PM
6

I didn’t see it on Amazon, nice! It was featured in the “90’s week” section on Hulu so that caught my eye on my memory lane stroll 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:23 PM
2

Fuck all of that to hell, I’d have gotten an abortion and a divorce stat. But then again, I’d never end up in that situation because my standards even pre-FDS were always higher than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:56 AM
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Why don’t you attach monetary value to that work? A good babysitter alone makes at least $20/hr, an au pair/nanny can make up to 6 figures, a chef/cook’s work is compensated, same as a maid/cleaner and chauffeur. Would you expect those services for free or do you value those people enough to pay them? I’ve also been on both sides, and that’s why I I make sure I’m well compensated as a SAHM. I realize most women won’t be able to do this, so it’s not a good bet for most, however those jobs DO have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:26 AM
0

Marry rich (or at least well off enough for a good bit of disposable income) and put away money in your own accounts for your own property, savings, investments, a business, or all of the above prefably. In the interim, maintain an amazing life insurance policy on your husband. This is what I’m doing. If one wants to go the SAHM route, it’s pretty much the only way to be protected. Also, pursuing certs/education with that disposable income and having a prenup protecting you are good ideas. The o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:07 AM
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Idk, I feel that’s reductive. We can’t talk on opposite ends. On one hand we say women’s labor in the home is valuable, extensive, hard work and we deserve to be compensated for it fairly, but then on the other hand reduce these women’s numerous jobs and skills down to “wifing skills”. We can’t have it both ways. Either what women do as work in the home has value or it doesn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:53 PM
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Most definitely; we always have been. 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:02 PM
7

Happy International Women’s Day ladies! 🎉🥚💪🏼💃🏻🍾🥂🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:20 PM
7

I hate males like this disingenuous asshole. He knows damn well women and children are who porn most hurts—through trafficking, rape on film, strong arm tactics, revenge porn/hidden cameras, actual strangulation and assault on film, and the obvious disrespect of our bodies and sex. I agree little boys shouldn’t be exposed, so maybe porn should be fucking BANNED you dimwit, for EVERYONE’S greater good. But nah, he’s a porn addict himself. He’s just mad women get paid for their abuse and it’s not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:08 PM
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This☝🏼. I love the heck outta all that you just said 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:04 AM
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I’d hate to have to sift through the bs these women have to sift through. Our mods are awesome 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:58 AM
7

This movie was precious lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:56 AM
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This dude made me actually LOL. Good on him for calling it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:16 PM
5

Oh absolutely, I doubt Gal would’ve been opposed since she’s no stranger to solider training. Once again it’s men in Hollywood who didn’t want that. I’m hoping one day the tide will turn. Personal anecdote, the guys I would work out with regularly used to call me Wonder Woman in the gym because of my lifts and visible muscle, made me feel 💪🏼. I almost dressed up as her for Halloween so I could be a more muscly version for representation. I’m not bulky buff though; small and curvy but ripped (at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:31 PM
8

I would’ve messed with his head by having the dolls taken by garbage men and destroyed. Fuck enabling that perverse shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:08 PM
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I love this. The lurkers are probably dying inside reading this since they can’t handle that women are human beings. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:02 PM
4

The only reason I’m fine with Gal Gadot as Wonder Woman is because she was at least a real life soldier, so she fits that fighter mold. I think her body is slight in build either for personal preference or to fit in with Hollywood and stay employed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:54 PM
7

Damn, well, at least you tried 🤷🏻‍♀️. Some people just don’t listen. It’s sad though, I hope that girl will be alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:27 AM
8

It’s so WEIRD isn’t it? Eww 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:25 AM
15

I don’t feel sad for men like that. I simply hate men like that and get joy out of their failed lives 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:23 AM
34

I want to see female super heroes actually look like buff, muscly women who can kick ass, not ballerina bodies—it takes me right out of the movie with how unrealistic that body type is for a female fighter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:30 AM
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Aww, momma did her best ❤️. It’s nice your dad helped. Sewing is no joke, very technical and precise stuff to get such a crisp and professional look. I too make my kids’ Halloween costumes (this past year I took a break and we all just bought some). I’m the only one I know who does this, so I guess I’m that mom in my neighborhood 😆. I also crocheted fun Halloween treat bags that get complimented every year—-I’m far better at crochet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:58 PM
24

Oh no, I hope they get that sorted out and nothing comes of that creeper 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:16 PM
27

That’s awful, and so true. At our libraries they have unisex for the small children’s restroom in the children’s library, but the adults still have separate sexed ones. Doesn’t matter about the kids’ bathroom because the toilets are so tiny and the door locks so it’s meant for parents to take their kids in and not have anyone else there. I may live in a liberal place but at least they’ve never lost common sense....yet 🤞🏼 (for the love of Goddess hopefully never)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:25 PM
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Speak with your dollars—never patronize or spend money at a place that does this. They’ll notice the loss of revenue and either fix it or tank. I’d walk right out and go to the competition that actually has some damn common sense. If it’s a school? Raise hell, get together with other parents (who would likely be on board, especially if they have daughters), go to the school board and PTA. This is another instance where money talks. If you can, relocate to a school that also has common sense. If …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:25 PM
152

Why are her teachers using the student bathroom and not the teacher’s one? That’s weird. Teachers usually have separate offices or a “lounge” where they have a restroom, table, chairs and microwave or whatever. I’d keep an eye on that situation if I were a parent...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:21 PM
101

Holy crap what country?! We NEED to do this in the US!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:44 PM
29

Yup, the societal machine needs more workers and taxpayers, and those at the top will not risk losing their money—even if it means forcing women to be broodmares. They don’t care, as the women of the 1% will never be forced into such positions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:36 PM
5

I actually have a nice little story. When I was pregnant and we found out it was a girl my husband was ecstatic (later when we had our son he was equally so). I remember after he was born my mom saying something like, “now you have your ‘heir’, I know you’re happy” (my mom is a long story, and I had to shake off internalized misogyny and Pickme beliefs in my youth). My husband without skipping a beat says, “I already had an heir”. I thought that was so sweet coming from a man raised in an old-fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:05 AM
15

You put this so well. It’s such bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:11 PM
45

Big time hot take. Our time is the most precious resource we have ladies—don’t let asshole men trick you into wasting yours on them. Keep it moving until a HVM worth your while makes you wanna stop 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:46 PM
23

This, such cold-hearted insecurity (and audacity!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:43 PM
38

I was looking for honest feedback like this before I was gonna say it. Glad you did first.
/r/askFDS04/03/21 08:09 PM
4

New in this boat but “hey girls heyyy!” 🏳️‍🌈🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:38 PM
16

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. You sound like a wonderful girlfriend to your partner. And yes, men really DO need to step up, as a whole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:22 AM
36

Fuck Cosmo (no anger at you). That’s one Pickme-ass magazine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:41 PM
19

You replied like a total queen 👑, which is why he tried to talk to you after. Glad you blocked, because he’s a damn clown🤡. You simply made the men feel insecure about their hollow, porn-filled lackluster lives by being a well-rounded badass actually LIVING the one life you’re given. I have a similar list of hobbies and I’ll never stop. Life is short and if a man can’t (or doesn’t want to)keep up leave him in the dust 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:09 PM
11

Good info 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:02 PM
26

Yea, it’s misogynistic and backwards, like sex work “ruined” her mothering ability or something. What happens if kids walk in on their parents having sex? Is that also child abuse? I agree—no porn or doing porn, but finding a video is child abuse? What happens when a woman’s sex tape (which may have been taken without her knowledge) is leaked? Her kids see it—she should get charged with child abuse because she was a victim of revenge porn? Remember—attack the system (porn, misogyny, patriarchy),…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:00 PM
23

Lol, pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:28 PM
80

They are such sensitive sad sacks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:48 PM
5

That’s amazing. Good to know—gotta watch it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:20 AM
5

There is so much truth here—I’m saving this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:16 AM
3

This guy? I freakin LIKE this guy ☝🏼! He gets it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:15 AM
104

Yea, I like that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:46 AM
22

My now husband (who was 17 at the time) spent more than that on a gift for me—that HE suggested—on our FIRST date! That’s not including the cost of his train from another state to come see me (and to go back home), and the cost of our food. This dude is just a straight up LOSER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:01 PM
5

Sensitive sad sacks, the lot of them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:34 AM
10

Wow, that’s crazy. Your mom sounds like me except I am teaching my daughter how to be strong and independent and that she never has to take bad behavior from a male. I had a strong mom too, but unfortunately she was still a Pickme. However, I also saw this woman get into knockdown, all-out brawls with men—and come out in one piece, having fucked them up as much as they did her, unafraid and in their face. I definitely got that from her. I, however, was disgusted that such a tough woman would als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:08 AM
3

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:40 PM
49

I stopped visiting Jezebel over 5 years ago for this very reason. Between the TRA pandering and all this cOoL gIrL, lib-fem, “how to be the best sex object for him” shit, I saw the damage it was doing and wondered how the hell did we end up here? I haven’t been to that garbage website since...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:30 PM
6

Fuckin’ A, this 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:46 PM
27

Elsa was a queen 👑 (literally and figuratively)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:36 PM
3

They know this. They’re just collectively gaslighting us because they think we’re stupid. We’ve gotta call them out as the shitheads they are so they know we’re not playing around with their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:53 PM
3

This ☝🏼. We have to FIGHT or else they’ll never stop. The Lysistrata strategy is just one weapon. Speaking with our dollars and only supporting ACTUAL feminist businesses and causes is another. Getting our education and taking up as many corporate and legislative seats as we can is another. Protests, the whole nine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:49 PM
4

Exactly. Hate that show and others like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:05 AM
18

Wow, I was about to try to see if there was a subreddit for that term because I’m pretty sure that’s me if I’m ever single again—and wow, it was taken down. Males really hate it when we don’t wanna have sex with them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:01 AM
8

Love this! 😆😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:58 AM
2

It’s ok for it to feel like a constant climb—that’s exactly what it is until you reach your goal. Stop and enjoy the view along the way, but once you get there you can look out and see how far you’ve come. It’ll all be worth the hard work.
/r/askFDS19/02/21 06:40 PM
4

Have him show you his budget and how he pays bills—if he doesn’t have an organized system then he likely isn’t on top of it and may be behind on bills or debts. My husband has dedicated notebooks and software and I watch him crunch numbers. He is serious about it and makes sure that everything is accounted for. This is important because a family has a LOT of unexpected expenses come up randomly (illnesses, projects, fundraisers, extracurricular supplies and equipment, etc) and so good money mana…
/r/askFDS19/02/21 04:48 PM
9

That’s gotta feel amazing for her—love to see that kind of fire 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:43 PM
2

I want to have hope that everyone would rebel against the idea, but growing up when porn was mild (and considered a gross secret habit) and women weren’t expected to give anal to where we are now...yea, I’m not so sure we’re not just free-falling as a society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:56 PM
2

Don’t give these pro-sex “work” weirdos any ideas. They would LOVE to do that if it helps their agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:39 PM
26

Wow, what a nasty chode. I ran into Nikki Sixx outside of Trash and Vaudeville many years ago and the dude was trying to hit on me. I didn’t know who he was until after I ignored him, but I’m glad I did 🤢. I was easily half his age and though I was in college, I looked young and was wearing my fucking BOOK BAG. He’s not the only old ass rock star to have tried it with me either. My grandma flipped on my naive, high-school ass after an autograph signing where Dez Cadena and Jerry Only invited me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:35 PM
6

Yup, it’s in his canned responses. He knows exactly what he’s doing and he’s getting off on the humiliation and/or attention. ALWAYS just block and delete (report too if possible)—our presence and attention are the prize and not to be given to gross males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:01 AM
27

😂 she got me with the little crown and “I said what I said”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:50 AM
39

This makes me angry for her. I lift weights, and pre-covid me and my husband did together and had a little crew of regulars that we worked out with. I am much smaller than all those guys in the weight room, and I lift and pull much smaller numbers (except on hip thrust, squat and dead lift—I matched some dudes!). My husband in particular benches and deadlifts multiple plates—and he and the other guys always would get excited and high five me and talk up how strong I am. Even now that hubs is in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:54 PM
7

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:58 PM
25

Shows how awful they know they are deep down inside when the worse thing is to be someone who fucks them....just look at misogyny (and as you said, hate for homosexuals).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:48 PM
23

Hot take, seriously, that is something I never saw put so well that explains so much of their bro-macho behavior. Once again more of their projection as they have daddy issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:45 PM
29

Self-actualization. The more you level yourself and your life up to be what you dream of the less you want to escape. The happier and more fulfilled you are in your life the less you will daydream about a different one. One useful thing you can do (if you’re able to easily harness and control your emotions/energies) is use your daydreams in a positive way as opposed to “maladaptive”. Manifest your reality by focusing on ways to create the reality you see. Use it as a fire inside to create and su…
/r/askFDS16/02/21 05:40 AM
13

😦🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:11 AM
10

And animals, and the dead, and furniture...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:52 AM
3

Yes! Get it girl! 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:58 AM
8

Me too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:49 PM
1

Sure, yea I’ve had those off for a while now—not worth the harassment from misogynists. I’ll pm you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:47 PM
3

Lol, this is true. With my husband it would be that look and a silent saunter off...next thing I know it’s done 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:30 PM
24

Damn, their hatred is so real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:33 PM
16

Same. Once upon a time I thought I had male friends too. They disappeared quickly one by one as they realized it really wasn’t gonna happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:05 PM
23

Oh man, I don’t play the incompetence game. If anyone in my household wants to pull that manipulation with me, they’re favorite thing will just mysteriously disappear (or the WiFi is mysteriously “not working”) until the task they were asked to do got done and done RIGHT. Wanna make it tough? I’ll win that one...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:31 AM
8

Love this whole comment and definitely about men’s bullshit words over their actual patterns of behavior. Never listen to them, watch them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:28 AM
78

Why do males do these things to us? Why are they so depraved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:06 AM
13

Big time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:00 AM
30

In a world where women always have to hold our tongues, nah, I want us to speak our minds here. It’s one of the few places where we even CAN without bullshit. If some men don’t like it, meh🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:58 AM
6

This ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:54 AM
36

Giiiirrrrl, same! Except add has a good career and money to spoil me—no fucks given and if I were single again and couldn’t find another like my husband, I like women too 💅🏼😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:53 AM
76

Ha! Get her! I can’t stand it when women take their internalized misogyny out on other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:43 AM
5

Ok, all of the above about HVM is well and good (and true), but in reality “love don’t pay the rent”. Kids can’t eat and grow off of happy times, and they certainly won’t be afforded greater opportunities from virtues alone. Part of being a HV man for any woman who wants a family should be a good, stable and upwardly mobile career that’ll enable family growth. Being pregnant is an incredibly vulnerable time in a woman’s life—so vulnerable she could die! If she dies or becomes crippled (Goddess f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:34 AM
40

It’s by design. But our communities on the Internet are changing that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:06 AM
31

She is going to grow up to be an amazing, no-nonsense woman; I have hope for our girls! 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:04 AM
14

You really believe branding yourself as a man’s property in a patriarchal world as a woman has NOTHING to do with internalized misogyny? You SUPPORT this action? I never once attacked this woman, but I damn sure don’t support acting like chattel to men. What have slaves worldwide fought and revolted for, so some ignorant free modern woman can play pretend slave and get her kicks while helping a misogynistic male get his too? Disgusting. I would never support such misogynistic buffoonery. She sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:00 AM
12

You must be a troll. How is a tattoo branding yourself as essentially male property “empowering”? We’re not Pickme women here, we’re actual feminists, so of COURSE we don’t condone such bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:58 AM
13

This ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:38 AM
31

Exactly! And if you’re having their kids—replicating their genetics and being vulnerable under their care—then you get to be EXTRA picky. Let the losers of the lot die mad about it 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:22 AM
11

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:15 PM
16

I actually read about that recently, sounds interesting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:58 AM
45

Yup! Love it and need more of it 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:55 AM
14

I can’t even with these dumb dicks 🙄😆. I’m too busy these days leveling up and living it up to even be bothered with their ish...so anyway 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:51 AM
19

Laugh it off and always think of yourself and do YOU. In the end, this may be female dating strategy, but you can always drop the dating and remember “female strategy”—always strategize for maximum female benefit in ALL realms of your life and you can’t go wrong. They rail against your awakening because their male strategy relies on your subservience and easily guilted compliance. Never listen to men’s bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:20 AM
67

Bingo. They know damn well they’re gaslighting us. Never listen to their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:53 PM
22

Interesting how vanilla sex—the ONLY sex where women are able to have reliable and fulfilling orgasms—is the kind of sex that’s vilified, but not the kind that hurts and degrades us and leaves us frustrated and in pain 🤔. I LOVE vanilla sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:10 PM
11

Ooo, love going to a great French restaurant and having some crème brûlée! Delicious 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:58 PM
11

We’re women, and women have periods. We may talk about it from time to time 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:54 PM
3

Same 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:53 PM
7

It’s one of those things where we all try to teach kindness and sharing and playing together and all that good stuff, but they get into little dramas even at their young ages and we all just 🤷🏻‍♀️and try to peacefully mitigate situations as they arise. I’ve been pretty lucky that everyone thusfar has been cool and my neighborhood is close-knit and everyone is trying to just give their kids the best life. This is a pretty liberal, upper middle class town though, and that may have something to do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:10 PM
8

No nothing like that. Just a “policy”, so even if you send your kid with invitations they won’t let them hand them out during school time unless it’s class wide. Of course all of this was pre-Covid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:25 PM
81

All of this! ☝🏼. It’s such an unfortunate reality but as women I believe the reason we’re so socially intelligent and intuitive is because we need a magician’s hat of psychological tricks to avoid dangerous men. We have to accurately read the situation/male and have the appropriate reaction/defense or it can all go south. Some men you can cuss out or even hit and they’ll take the message and leave you alone. Others will put you in the ground for the same defense. Trust your instincts and act acc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:03 PM
51

It’s unsettling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:54 PM
67

My kids’ school has the same rule, but us parents circumnavigate that by just giving out the invitations by hand to those we want or having our kids do it after school. I’ve literally been waiting with a stack of invitations in hand for the bell to ring just to rapid fire find these kids and their guardians before they leave. Or I use the class list since most people put their addresses on it. They just put that policy in place for the kids who never get invited places to not feel left out—and I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:54 PM
115

Exactly this☝🏼. My husband is the same and it’s soo possible if we just hold onto our standards and have boundaries in place for our benefit. Edit: It goes without saying that this is entry level in the world of standards, and the sad part is most men don’t meet these even. A true HVM goes above and beyond these but this is a basic guideline of where the line needs to start for women to get better treatment in their relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:13 PM
15

Glad you didn’t bow to his manipulation. You gave yourself the gift of your future and freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:30 PM
17

Men have the misogynistic equivalent of the insanity of Holocaust deniers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:30 PM
106

This is one of the reasons why men really hate abortion—we take our freedom back and they can’t control us. We must ALWAYS fight for it 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:04 AM
16

This made me nauseous 🤢. Such disgusting misogynistic sexual abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:42 PM
7

Umm...that’s a straight up LIE! Lol, and these scrotes know it. Clown shit 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:42 PM
39

Let’s talk about how men mine women (and literally female children 🤢) of their youth and beauty in order to jack off to it in an industry where they’re raped, abused, coerced, trafficked and dehumanized? They expect to do this for FREE mind you...How their old asses marry a young virgin, rape her, force her to birth and then toss her out on her impoverished ass when she’s 30 for a new child bride? How (in the West) they’ll future-fake a young college woman into giving up her youth and beauty to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:00 PM
126

Whoa, a mod flipped and went full Pickme?! I wish I knew who...that’s wild. Why though is what I’d want to know...why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:33 PM
16

That was cool as hell; she’s awesome 😎💪🏼☺️. I got choked up about that woman’s story—bet she won’t have to deal with that ever again. Now I want to take some sort of fight/self-defense class...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:32 AM
2

This made me lol 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:15 AM
2

Can’t wait to read it! Side note: I had both nipples pierced and didn’t lose any sensation (had no problems nursing either, but they were long-gone by then). However, it hurt, especially the healing and my bra was full of blood that first day. One of them never fully healed and also got it caught in my husbands nipple piercing so that’s when we decided to take ours out 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:49 AM
36

That young man gives me hope for our youth. Grown men can learn from him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:20 AM
12

I realized I was bi when I was getting seriously flustered by certain women—heart pumping, blushing, shy, the whole thing. Then I realized I was sexually attracted. It has been a journey. I’ve always loved women, but only recently discovered a physical attraction (or, if I’m being honest, examined an already existent occasional attraction). You are so correct—if they can’t stand vagina and women by extension then they are gay...and that’s fine, but they shouldn’t be hateful of women or string th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:03 AM
13

You’re not the only one for sure! We also have lesbians here too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:57 AM
13

This ☝🏼. I wouldn’t even get the area pierced (I went through a piercings phase) I was so scared of losing any sensation. Don’t rob yourself of your pleasure for males who will never care enough about it in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:10 PM
5

That too. I am doing a lot of media and performance. It DEFINITELY helps to be as attractive as possible to get the jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:57 PM
16

I love classic makeup for this very reason—it’s actually feminine and more natural and not this drag queen inspired fakeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:50 PM
7

I’ve thought long and hard on this very subject as I’ll be getting my breasts done in a few weeks. I’m doing it for me—I didn’t even ask my husband (and he’s totally supportive and telling me I don’t need to do this) and though I love him and value his opinion, this is for my own image and confidence. My body was out of my control as a child, and I had to suffer health consequences for it. I got my health and body into my own control and have fine tuned myself into the woman I always wanted to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:47 PM
3

Sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:39 PM
8

I’m far from stiff and laugh at all kinds of jokes (and I remember that flair and it was funny) but on this platform I’m very aware of our reach and influence and sooo many young women are coming here to read our words. I just want a place where they don’t have to see misogynistic language (since misogyny is everywhere) and that means we have to lead by example. I myself have to deprogram certain words out of my vocabulary in real life. It’s a constant level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:30 PM
3

Nice, I’ll give it a watch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:51 AM
4

Sounds amazing 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:48 AM
10

That’s why I’m a witch for the win! Lol 🧙🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:46 AM
48

Better yet: POV porn as the woman being sexually worshipped and serviced by the hot guys—in the way women REALLY want, not the male gaze bullshit. These males would have a meltdown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:40 AM
11

Boom ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:37 AM
2

Dooo it! It’s amazing!😌💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:15 AM
24

Completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:38 AM
58

Thot? Let’s not perpetuate misogynistic language here...and they didn’t get cheated on “because of stuff like this”, they got cheated on because their men were LV cheaters...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:34 AM
20

Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:29 AM
10

Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:30 PM
10

I agree, it doesn’t actually serve any women at all. Liberal feminism only works by brainwashing privileged women through the protective shield of their money and community ties (in the West this would primarily be white women as a result of the history here). It doesn’t work for poor WOC because the fallout is immediate so the brainwashing can’t take hold. There is no money or community/historic cushion to pad their fall into that world. They end up fast prey to pimps, rapists and murderers. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:28 PM
12

Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:17 PM
48

*testerical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:16 PM
9

I thought they were a handsome lesbian 🙊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:56 AM
4

I do tarot readings, and the first time a client asked about that I was thinking, “what the fuck is that even?”😆 Never heard of the concept before that and even among us in the Witch community it can be laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:54 AM
28

I happened upon Revolutionary Road the other night, not knowing what it was about halfway through. It was a fucking horror movie to me! I was freaking out for poor Kate Winslet (her character rather). Like, shaking. Give me ghouls and ghosts anyday over that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:48 AM
18

Proud 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:32 AM
43

Saving this. Holy hot damn is it such truth and so concise! Hot take: radical feminism is the only feminism that actually cares about ALL women. Liberal feminism is self-serving only to the white and economically privileged Western women—oh, and to men of course with all its “yay porn/yay ‘sEx WoRk’!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:11 AM
16

Yes. A spot stimulation and just generally like penetration too. If it’s the right material it’s great. And I’m married 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:23 AM
6

The last is my favorite! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:20 AM
7

The public shaming and infamy as a pedo are good enough as a starter punishment for them IMO. It’s better than the usual nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:35 PM
13

I never knew true fear until I became a mother. I was very cavalier in my youth and now I’m terrified of the world on behalf of my children. My cautiousness has even ruffled a lot of feathers (because of course male feelings matter more 🙄), but I can’t care. I have to always be on the lookout for my kids in a patriarchal world that seeks to victimize children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:18 PM
11

Unless that older woman is an utter total pickme with nothing going on in her life, it’s the opposite and he was only projecting his own growing desperation onto her to feel better about himself. Older women are notoriously no-nonsense and have a lot more going on in their lives to keep them busy. They also know the game out here and wouldn’t sweat not hearing from him because they’re likely busy talking to other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:03 PM
64

This is misogyny. This is what it is to live in a patriarchy. Little girls can’t even be little girls getting an education without being sexualized my men. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:17 AM
1

I was 50/50—half the times a “party girl” and half the times a stone sober dancer who was able to get them drunk and get their money 😆. I liked abstaining to be in absolute control at all times—safer too. They used to pay $12 for me to have “shots” (water) with them. I was a world class actress with my “ooh that’s strong” face and everything 😝. VIPs were another animal, and I didn’t like doing those for simple fact that it was sooo tedious having to “entertain” for that long. I much preferred be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:32 AM
20

Yup. I get more male attention now than ever and I’m mid 30’s. These dudes range from college athletes to corporate mid 50’s types. That’s not including all the wildly inappropriate attention I’ve started getting from high school boys. The pool of males coming at me has only increased over time. In a nice plus, I’ve gotten some rather flattering female attention as well so I suppose we just really hit our hotness stride in our 30’s if we’ve taken care of ourselves. All in all, the wall is a myth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:45 PM
6

Lol, same 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:47 AM
17

That 2nd edit? Queen shit 👑. I love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:18 AM
31

This is the key here ☝🏼 ladies, to never betraying your own boundaries and standards, and staying leveled up. Married or single, you can’t let yourself just give in to the built up desire and have lackluster sex with a man who didn’t do anything to deserve it or get you going properly. It’ll always disappoint and you won’t be happy. This is also why so many women don’t think they’re very sexual or that they can orgasm. They never let themselves discover their sexuality and have orgasms outside o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:15 AM
19

Bingo ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:01 AM
42

This tickles me because it’s true. I’m so happy women are waking up and men have to step up or fuck off. And the losers among them are seething hahaha 🤣💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:59 PM
4

I do this 😆. You eventually just get tired of bs and demand accountability. Age is a big part of that process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:10 PM
5

😦🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:26 PM
8

This is true. The dancers making the most bank were always in their late 20’s to 30’s—even a few around 40. They also danced stone sober and had bodies that were out of this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:17 PM
20

It’s hilarious poetic justice for all the ageist bullshit they throw at women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:14 PM
9

He’s probably so pissed you can’t be bothered by him and he’s no longer relevant in your life. Good for you sis! Greener pastures ahead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:11 PM
5

This ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:06 PM
96

Seriously, it’s a compliment. What they’re really saying is, “You’re too smart and accomplished to believe or put up with my bullshit and I’m not ready to grow up sooo, I’m gonna predate upon younger women because I think they’re idiots I can use and abuse.” No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:06 PM
3

Seriously, and I’m so happy you found a good one! So many young ladies don’t realize that he’s out there, and more than one in fact, but age (and maturity) is a factor and sometimes it won’t happen until they’re older. Hence why to focus on leveling up and living your best life—that way it’s not a “waiting game” for when he comes along, but a full life of awesomeness that will suddenly have a co-star 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:58 PM
2

I need one of those set ups for little tea times I wanna have! Its so pretty when it’s all set up. I’ve got a lovely kettle, antique silver tray and China set (thrifting is the bomb y’all!) so far. Wild that a site that calls themselves “English Tea Store” doesn’t ship to England, but I’m sure you guys have got comparable teas anyhow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:54 PM
19

They are stronger than us most times so definitely. My husband is a powerlifter who is quite bigger than me—it would look and feel ridiculous being the one doing the carrying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:30 AM
31

My husband does the same—it’s a thing out here for sure ladies! I also never have to carry the groceries up into our house. Sweetness is still alive and well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:28 AM
286

She can be killed either way—may as well try to protect yourself 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:23 AM
10

It definitely does, if you want it to and he wants you. Won’t work with a guy who isn’t already HV and crazy about you. With all the constant growing and changing people do over time, different goals and looks and careers and hobbies, locations and friends—there’s always a way to keep them interested and chasing. Not that I do it on purpose, but I’m a bit unpredictable and am always up to something independent of him. I also keep up my body, hair, skin and nails, and know how to slay some makeup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:19 AM
35

This is true. My husband even said this. He likes that I’m someone he has to “work for” and chase. He said, “I don’t want what’s easy.” That’s a recent quote y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:31 AM
89

That is definitely a problem. I’m hoping one day pop culture won’t require women to pander to the male gaze. I feel that they are trying to work within their parameters while sprinkling feminist messages in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:29 AM
38

I freakin love these two (and my girl Meg)! And I love how our message is so mainstream that it’s in music videos! Yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:27 AM
126

Love the theatrics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:18 AM
39

Don’t fall for the ‘We’Re EqUaLlY aS bAd’ tripe. As per these 2017 FBI crime stats, it’s a no brainer there’s far more HVW than HVM in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:59 PM
8

Yea, my time in the industry definitely put me off of men—how gross, entitled and misogynistic they act there most times. Also they talked terribly about their wives and girlfriends and disrespected them with their behavior as well. I too love nature walks and nice tea ☺️. If you haven’t tried Lady Hannah Whole Fruit Tea from the English Tea Store, give it a go—it’s so divine cold on a summer day or hot on a winter night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:49 PM
14

I’m glad you left ❤️. Not to be TMI, but in sharing this sort of thing, and to let you know you’re not alone, I too have recently discovered an attraction to women. If I’m being quite honest with myself though, there were times in the past I should’ve figured. I wonder if latent bisexuality/homosexuality is common after dealing with men? I love my husband, and he’s become amazing, but my past with males in my life—-including early tough times with him—-and knowing what I know maybe has turned my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:06 PM
61

Exactly—women just aren’t this depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:46 PM
12

Yea, I got into it way back when from a twofold bit of bullshit myself: I was in desperate need of money, and my then boyfriend disrespected me by going to a strip club with his friends against my will. I wanted vengeance/comeuppance and I needed money. So I started dancing. Most of the women I worked with didn’t even like men and were bisexual or lesbian. Most of them also either had massive bills and debt to tackle (like college students), drug/party problems or family to financially take care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:43 PM
20

I do. Men who are attracted to teens are straight up pedophilic. They’re messed in the head, and looking for targets to predate upon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:15 PM
3

Where’s the lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:13 PM
7

Me too. But we can make it trendy again! I always told myself in my elderly years if I didn’t have my husband (Goddess forbid) I’d love to live a Golden Girls lifestyle with friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:54 PM
7

I can’t believe the uptick in Pickme/LibFem rhetoric here lately. What is going on? 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:37 PM
2

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:34 PM
34

Bet he wouldn’t recommend such a “date” to a sister or daughter...they know, and he’s an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:56 AM
30

All the reasoning is in the handbook. This is FDS, there’s a set thing we follow here and according to that, no, this would be a “date” and guy to skip. He even says he has “stories” of how he gets away with low-effort, low-bar behavior. He KNOWS sis, and it starts young. He’s still a grown man doing grown man stuff, and the consequences will be very adult and all fall on the women who thought they were “being too harsh” in having high standards. The vetting and standards are to protect us (and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:55 AM
105

No, he’s a bare minimum male. A HVM wouldn’t even be doing Netflix and chill at home dinner dates in the courting stages. It’s nice he didn’t take advantage of her obviously broken self-esteem (the bar is in hell), but that doesn’t make him a HVM...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:10 AM
13

He should be put up on charges for his crime and handled by authorities. Fuck sympathizing with these sex criminals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:06 AM
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All. Of. This. ☝🏼 And think of it this way, why pay half and have to do all that for him and be monogamous to him when you can pay half with a female roommate, spare yourself the extra work and be with whatever guy whenever and keep vetting 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:29 PM
10

I feel you. My husband has taken a bit of a political turn and I used to argue about it but stopped myself. I realized I honestly don’t care—certainly not enough to create problems where there are none. He’s still a great husband, hard worker and father and treats me like a queen. His traditional values are what make a huge part of him being HV. We just don’t really talk politics anymore😆 Note: he’s not a trump supporter (and y’all know damn skippy I’m not!) 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:37 PM
7

Exactly. They know this too, but we’re supposed to be silent good little girls and never remind them 🙄🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:02 PM
31

Yup ☝🏼. It’s the only way it’ll work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:59 PM
6

I’m sorry to hear about what your mom went through, and I hope that she’s doing better now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:19 AM
4

And the Etsy ring would pay for nothing , not even food for the day. Once again, you’re missing the symbolism as well and the effort required—-it’s all part of the value. HVW won’t settle for LV efforts and attempts because they symbolize a LV partner. It’s an insult really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:00 PM
7

I do understand that side of it, however, nominal value is better than none at all, and it’s still far more valuable societally—just like a marriage. We’re trading symbolic value here too, hence why weddings are a thing despite being a net waste of money. In a bind, the person with a few carats and real quality gold to sell is better off than the person with colored glass and scrap metal. Just the same, in a relationship bind the woman with a real marriage is better off in getting legal protecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:37 PM
78

Any man who goes to prostitutes is a rapist. I said it, and it’s true. She wouldn’t be fucking him if it weren’t for the money or a pimp/abuse or fear of homelessness. He knows this and does it anyway. Any man who can have sex with someone under those coercive conditions is a rapist and deserves jail time. It IS a crime in most parts after all—and with good reason! She needs to not only leave him but put his ass on blast so no one else has to deal with his disgusting dick in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:28 PM
9

Oof!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:30 PM
11

Thing is it’s a representation of investment and value. Some things just don’t have value, even if hardy and practical. There’s a reason the royals of the world don’t keep CZ in the Crown Jewels and nobody collects it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:29 PM
26

That ring was $50 or less at a mall, guaranteed. The thin “gold” (likely just dipped if there’s any real gold), the tiny lab created stone. I worked in a few jewelry stores. This will break soon (especially if she does anything with her hands) and need replacing. He should have shown his future wife a better start and investment into their lives and future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:26 PM
11

We have more power than most of us realize—men realize it though, which is why they’re always trying to silence us. We should shout loud and strong and do whatever we can to make change—because we can 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:08 AM
54

I’ve been called a misandrist (not a real thing)for sharing FBI crime stats that show how they are responsible for like all rape and the lion’s share of all other violent crimes. It’s like—this is a government website, scrote, stop being in your feelings and just change if you don’t like it. Call out other men. But they don’t wanna do that since it takes bravery and work—easier to yell mIsAnDrY and hope they can get you to shut up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:01 AM
42

They are my favorite horror couple. He adores her and she loves him so much 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:39 PM
17

You don’t need to sympathize with them, but you should refrain from misogynistic language—that only serves to bring us all down. Really. When we use the language of our oppressors to address each other we look like 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:34 PM
17

I’m so sorry you had to deal with such an abusive POS, and I’m so glad you dropped him and found someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:27 PM
15

You’re not seeing what I’m saying here. I don’t disagree about us being sold lies, but if you really want women to make different choices in these tough situations, you can’t take a hostile stance against them using misogynistic slurs. It’s not going to do what you think it will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:12 PM
2

I love this story! 🥰. I’m so glad for your parents and for you for having such a wonderful family! I’m currently living a version of it myself (minus the teen pregnancy), and so many people forget how important the woman’s role is in a leveled up life. If we don’t demand the best and have high standards, the men in our lives won’t be much and therefore the children will suffer. My husband raises and has raised his standards along with me; works harder for his family’s future because he wants to,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:07 PM
16

The language of the patriarchy is problematic because it serves to only degrade and divide us. I remember a woman in my stripper days getting angry about my being a dancer and making a similar argument—what was the purpose? It didn’t serve to bring us closer or to make me see her point. In fact, a nearby male, recognizing the misogynistic language, swooped in and took my side, saying she was just jealous because she was too “fat and ugly” to do it. In the end, misogyny begets more misogyny. If w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:42 PM
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Exactly. I think this is a good thing. Men should put as much concern and care into their appearance as women do theirs. I like that they’ve paid enough attention to what women desire that they’ve taken measures into their own hands to appear more attractive. Also, a beard will make any man’s jaw look far bigger than it is too, so it’s not necessarily even beard-fishing as much as optical illusion. I like beards and hats personally 🤷🏻‍♀️. So long as neither are raggedy/unkempt and they’re puttin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:29 PM
9

I like snap backs that have style (basically ones you can’t get just anywhere), and since I’m into lifters (married to one), caps are a thing for sure. Raggedy Walmart caps or sports team caps I’m not a fan of though. Gotta look crisp and fresh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:25 PM
1

I think so as he’s laid off the interrogations for now, lol. Once he does some basic research I’d be more than happy to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:14 PM
10

I have a gay male family member that just discovered New Age practices and instead of doing the due diligence and research and finding himself that I did (and many other practitioners—Witches for us women but I guess just magical practitioners for the males? Whatever, males aren’t Witches is all I know), he has been blowing up my phone trying to mine me for information. It’s like hello, I’m a married woman with kids—I can’t just spend all my time typing you long-winded, fully explanatory respons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:58 AM
6

It’s a good thing you turned off your DMs—best thing a feminist woman can do. There’s nothing but bullshit and harassment otherwise—my Reddit experience is much better now. Just feminist stuff and cute hobby communities. Wholesome 🥰. Also, they know what they’re doing. Men can spend hours combing the Internet for whatever obscure or perverse interest they want more info on, but suddenly they can’t google a simple question? They know sis. They are desperate, ugly losers who will do ANYTHING for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:44 AM
9

I love the vintage styling too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:16 AM
9

What a batch of bullshit from this guy 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:50 PM
25

Yea, I like beards on the right guy and my husband has one that’s been complimented a lot (it suits him nicely). They key? He actually gets it professionally shaped, trimmed and maintained. It’s easy to cross into hobo territory if they’re not careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:47 PM
5

If I’m not married I’m single 💅🏼 (So it’s a good thing I am 😝)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:55 AM
23

It was the worst pain of my life (and I’ve broken bones), my blood pressure dropped to almost emergency levels and my vagina tore and needed stitching—why would any woman beg a man for any of that? Nope—they need to beg US! This is how foolish the egg chasing the sperm looks ladies. Straight 🤡 shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:49 AM
4

Thank you for her name, and for another example of this widespread thievery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:32 PM
18

He’ll never be a normal man—he’s already broken, and so young. How sad. I’m glad that young woman knows what he is now and can distance herself accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:25 PM
79

I will never go to a male doctor again in my life if I’m conscious and have the choice, I swear to Goddess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:09 PM
8

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:28 PM
10

She should put those piss cleaning wipes into his lunch or coat pockets and gaslight him back that her “condition” (pregnancy in this case) makes her loopy and forgetful, and with all the chores and cleaning, whoops! He’ll really be pissed then (pun intended)! 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:25 PM
31

Sis was on point in that last slide. I am so happy women are waking up—we’ve been lied to, abused by and stolen from for our whole history by men. Gotta spread the word and take shit back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:06 PM
38

💯—-like another commenter said, we’re half the human population and in charge of raising up the entirety of humanity yet we’re to believe we never came up with anything? I see men steal ideas and take credit from women ALL.THE.TIME. This has also been proven with certain scientific theories and inventions (Einstein’s wife coming up with “his” ideas being a prime famous example). Why wouldn’t that be true for most of history?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:04 PM
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This is true. The only exception is for youth (pre-college/college)where it’ll be next to impossible to secure the funds for a married life—in which case all parties should be focusing on leveling up, not dating seriously. In my case we were college sweethearts and he proposed at about the 4 year mark—right after graduation and he got some good work experience under his belt. He was a provider from even before that (my job was bad for my mental health at the time and so I quit and he paid the bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:58 AM
16

😳🥺🤬—-I can’t even with a woman like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:14 PM
48

He’s permanently broken and a monster pedo rapist in the making. Men who watch porn not only should be avoided—they should be divorced and their children forbidden from their lives. They are dangerous dick demons looking for people—women and children—to destroy. They are beyond redemption. I hope her and that baby girl can get away from him forever ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:12 PM
9

Same, I’m Neo-Pagan and my tattoos are religious. Saying having tattoos means mental illness (once again, I’m waiting for science—these are quite the claims to make with nothing to back them up) is an insulting, overly-simplistic and reductive way to look at tattoos. Also with cosmetic surgery—it’s beautification if it’s not coming from a patriarchal point of view. What about people who lost over 100 pounds and can’t stand the loose skin anymore? It’s mental to get rid of it? Really? This is jud…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:28 PM
12

Wait a minute, you’re saying having tattoos is a sign of mental illness? Imma need some science/stats on that—like I provide when I make claims. That’s what misogynists say about women who have tattoos. Why do you believe that? It’s also racist and elitist because tattooing is an ancient and often cultural art—-are those peoples just mentally ill?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:26 PM
2

Oh I bought this like in ‘03 in college—most probably from a NYC punk shop thinking back on it. I’m sure it’s available in some form somewhere else but I have no idea where.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:54 AM
8

I used to have a belt buckle that was a brass knuckles with a skull crusher/puncture piece. It would’ve been highly illegal but the workaround was there was a small notch that then “made it a belt buckle” 😆. Shit ended up stolen because of course, it was too cool. Miss it, went so great with my punkish outfits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:12 AM
11

Wow, they really are a bunch of rapists only thinking of the feelings of fellow rapists, wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:45 PM
14

This is a good one ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:19 PM
2

Thank you! We’re hoping too! 🤞🏼❤️ They’re only mined in a small area of Tanzania, hence their name, and they’re 1000x rarer than diamonds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:39 PM
9

From what I’ve seen of his videos, he’s got good FDS-esque messages, so I like him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:15 PM
1

Thank you! I love my colored stones, but I had to have diamonds in there too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:36 PM
2

Thank you! It’s blue and purple (depending on the light)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:36 PM
2

Thank you! It is most definitely not easy (sharing your intimate moments and evolutions on life’s journey with another person doing the same is challenging a lot of times) but it has been an amazing journey with a good man. I hope for our happiness into the future as well! 🤞🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:35 PM
2

Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:29 PM
3

Yup! I fell in love with tanzanite when I was in high school working at a jewelry store. It was a toss up between this and sapphire but I hate how natural sapphires look like onyx under most conditions. Only the created sapphires have shine and brilliant color but I didn’t want a lab stone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:29 PM
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Thank you, it’s a tanzanite solitaire with pavé set diamonds and a diamond wedding band. It changes color from different blues to purples depending on the light. It’s one of my favorite stones 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:26 PM
2

Thank you! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:24 PM
8

Thank you! I wanted to keep the ring pics train going! We deserve kindness and love whether from others or ourselves, because we bring love and kindness to the people in our lives ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:23 PM
5

Thank you! It color changes from different blues to purples depending on the light. And this bag is bigger than my coach so it’s gonna be my go-to since it fits all my things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:22 PM
13

Seriously! My husband would say, “we’re having a baby” but never that WE were pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:11 AM
18

Thank you ☺️, but no need to be jealous, i tell people this lifestyle is “simple but not easy”. As in, what I do is super basic and requires nothing much in the way of money or anything, but requires daily consistency and discipline which can be quite difficult. I came a long way and lost over 100 pounds and kept it off, so I get the struggle on both sides. But if I can do it, I believe almost anyone (barring health issues) can do it. I came from an unhealthy home and had to unlearn and relearn …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:02 AM
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Meh, bodybuilding is a spectrum, and a scrote is a scrote no matter his hobby or lack thereof. Myself and my husband are bodybuilders (for lack of a better term—fitness enthusiasts? weightlifters? Idk), so we’re not all so bad. And those of us that are ladies don’t look anywhere near that muscly and vascular 😂. I wouldn’t be able to pull off my vintage fashion hobby if I didn’t still look curvy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:37 AM
8

*men This ain’t a “people” problem...this is a male problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:45 AM
7

💯% this ☝🏼, and it’s such transparent hypocrisy and misogyny on their part. And for real, they do that? That’s fucking gross, who’s getting that material willingly?!🤢🤮. Don’t they realize they’re perpetuating demand and therefore feeding human trafficking and creating more child rape videos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:45 PM
17

It gets even worse than that. I need mind bleach after learning about the darkest depravities males on the Internet are into/have commissioned. I won’t tell you for decency-sake, but when I say there is NO evil too low and sick and twisted and disgusting for a male to get off to and actively try to pursue—I mean it. It’s life-changing to find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:13 PM
37

He’s scared that the more women who decide to forgo men, his PP will always be dry and lonely. Gotta try to put a little fear in you to make you submit—it’s the male way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:02 PM
30

What?! Damn these scrotes are hella broke then 😂. They know they could never provide what we can provide for ourselves, making them unnecessary. It’s hilariously impotent too—-what can they do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:48 PM
17

Lol, the end clip with the logo of him with the huge pants sent me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:42 PM
239

Males never have an excuse for “dad bod” because they never actually have the kids! If they can’t get pregnant and carry another human in their body, why are they so fat? As a mom with abs, flabby men disgust me viscerally as there are NO excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:39 PM
11

Wow. My jaw dropped. I love her emphasis though—it’s crazy how inconsiderate men are towards women. She’s IN LABOR, and this sorry excuse for a scrote couldn’t get his own gas and cigs? I hope the baby ain’t his 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:24 AM
6

Very pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:21 AM
6

FYI, the permanent size change isn’t even necessarily something most women will go through, and is mostly associated with injury, and not a natural byproduct per se. I’ve given birth vaginally a few times and both me and my husband notice it’s the same. I know other women who have the same story. Weakened pelvic floor muscles or torn ones are usually the culprit for any changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:20 AM
4

😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:19 PM
3

Definitely one of the big takeaways from this. It’s only a waste of our time using it to cOmMuNiCaTe and “teach” these males. Best to move on—and well before sleeping with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:15 PM
18

Even then—no. Men shouldn’t be able to commodify our bodies by paying for sex, and even with a ring the man still needs to act right and be a good man or no sex. Men should never get “easy” sex, because they don’t appreciate it or us if we’re easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:11 PM
4

I don’t know what my great-grandmother wanted in life, but I do know that no 13 year old wants to be married and have their first of fifteen babies...to be so utterly let down as a child by your whole community. She was a tiny woman too, so I can’t imagine how small she looked back then 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:49 AM
4

Definitely not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:37 AM
8

Interesting...I make very radfem comments (always have...that’s me baby) but I’ve never had that flair. I always thought it was because those users said something well...super pickme-ish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:23 PM
4

Lovely ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:05 PM
19

💯 seconded. Married too and use it the same way and with the same results. FDS will help us women no matter where in the relationship cycle we are. It has been life-changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:36 PM
3

Thank you for this! Such truth. I’m so happy to be a woman—an adult human female is a beautiful being full of miraculous energy. I wouldn’t want to be a man. The only problems with being a woman on this earth are brought about by male violence and depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:26 PM
3

“So therefore I have the opportunity to give you a big role or no role. So stick to the mudafuckin script”. Lol, queen shit 👑 and I love her for it. That energy will save us from so much time and effort wasted ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:44 PM
2

Congratulations!🍾🎈🎉🥳 I love this stuff—-ladies going out there building wealth and saying no to dusties 💅🏼👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:40 PM
75

Had a guy like this briefly before meeting my husband. Couldn’t call him a boyfriend because he vehemently didn’t want labels. However he’d get jealous when other guys would hit on me and rush to come hold my hand—gross possessiveness with no other benefits. Sexual stuff that actually pleasured me was off limits for “girlfriends”. He was also a passive aggressive pig who’d name-call and act like it was endearing. He had some nice moments but that’s bare minimum bullshit. I got sick of his hot an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:29 PM
24

How does he know it’s not “unethical”? There are digital pimps, revenge porn, and even if not it still perpetuates and supports an industry that harms women and children globally so that’s still a hard pass. My husband doesn’t watch porn—LVM lie to keep a woman trapped. And even if it were true and all men watched porn—then good riddance, we can be happier alone or with each other than with those who would willingly hurt and disrespect us. You’ll do better without him. Be strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:07 PM
2

All families are included...and I love how you’re ignoring how blatantly violent and rapey males are... in favor of a moot point about what, less than 1% of the population? Lol, you’re a silly scrote joke. Blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:58 PM
5

You’re either too dumb or lazy to read the graph but all crimes are accounted for. It says males are responsible for 77.1% of all aggravated assaults, 72.3% of all other assaults and males are responsible for 73.4% of all offenses against children and family.. Males are the majority of all violent criminals, by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:50 PM
4

Don’t spread misinformation. This is straight from the FBI. Males commit 99.1% of all rapes AND 92.2% of all other sexual offenses.. Women offenders are a blip on the radar compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 05:48 PM
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Ooh, good observation and yes, these words have power. No more referring to filmed child rape as child porn—also, we should head in that direction linguistically with women in “porn” since so many are trafficked, coerced and abused. ‘Filmed victims of sexual abuse’ is more truthful and will hopefully drive the point home of what we’re REALLY dealing with here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:32 PM
26

Yes—put all their guilty asses on trial! They probably personally get off to it—both CEOs. Why else would they risk such liability?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:26 PM
138

You are doing the Goddess’ work, be blessed 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:24 PM
17

Men are shit for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:18 PM
35

I’m so proud of you. You are what we need in this world! Fuck Reddit for promoting misogyny AND pedophilia. I hope they get dragged in the presses, and every creepy disgusting scrote that participated gets prison time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:16 PM
8

It’s true though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:21 AM
36

Little dick energy. They are so scared, insecure and threatened by a beautiful woman who is too wise for their bullshit. Lemme tell you—at 35 I’m in the best shape of my life and get fine fit men in their 20’s hitting on me all.the.time. It’s to the point where my husband doesn’t like being away from me too long 😆. These guys think I’m about a decade younger. It’s insane how opposite our real life experience is from the tales these scared little boys tell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:43 PM
6

Gotta get ‘em with “Well a nub ain’t a dick so I’m gonna get a real man now, bye”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:31 PM
8

🙋🏻‍♀️Half Latina with her family having discovered decades ago that Latin grandpa had a whole ass side-family(cheating on my sweet devout catholic grandma who had 6 of his children)—same with my husband’s (Latin) step-grandfather (he left them in DR and everything). His grandma was the matriarch that kept his family from shambles too. What is up with this trend? Oh I know—more misogyny, but this time Catholic and machismo flavored, where women are blamed for every sin of man and blatantly disres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:06 AM
24

Gross. Women don’t do this stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:48 AM
30

This is why it’s important not to save yourself for marriage—a man is hardly worth it in the first place and then this sort of shit can happen. Make sure he pleasures you and has you reach orgasm BEFORE any kind of intercourse and well after established investment/exclusivity. This can be avoided. My heart breaks for her. She needs to keep his nasty dick out of her mouth and just divorce him—he doesn’t deserve BJs or any other sex from her. And then she just masturbates—terrible! She can do bett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:37 AM
14

Even more reason to disable DMs—they just yell into the void and we’re untouchable 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:00 PM
14

That’s👏🏼what👏🏼I’m👏🏼talking👏🏼about👏🏼 Yes🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:46 AM
13

Yes, I’m not the only one! Glad you found a sweetheart. My husband brings me breakfast every morning too🥰. He makes breakfast and lunch for the kids as well—everyday since he’s been home working (and he’s does dishes nightly). I pay it forward with delicious dinners and desserts. Currently I’m baking a million Christmas cookies from scratch with homemade icing. It’s the thought and effort that count!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:43 AM
20

Physical and sexual attraction are HIGHLY important to me. I like sex and if I don’t want to have sex with the guy I’m dating, why bother? Masturbating would be multitudes better (and safer). So yea, they can shove this bs “bUt WoMeN aReN’t ViSuAl LiKe Us”—because yes, yes we are. VERY much so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:29 AM
67

The girls are alright. The boys watch rape porn 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:18 PM
4

They need to make it make sense...or just fucking admit we have every reason to be wary of them and vet them ruthlessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:09 PM
3

Lysistrata ladies, and a general strike against men. I think that’s the only way anything will change. No pussy, no cooking, no cleaning, no emotional labor, no birthing their children, no ANYTHING. Give them absolutely nothing if they won’t change. Applying FDS on a global scale if you will. What happened to feminist communes? Why couldn’t we pool money for land and property to have separate female-only spaces again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:07 PM
10

What the flying fuck?! Males are dick demons, straight from Satan’s dirty anus in hell I swear. Being a woman around males is like being a farmer living among swine that pretend to be human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:57 PM
18

I’m glad he’s your ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:54 PM
8

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:54 PM
8

This is a great bunch of resources—saving your post, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:52 PM
32

This is why I don’t go to male medical professionals, I try to only give my business to women business owners, and I try to stick to the women’s only sections in gyms (when not on the barbell)—staying far away from males is the only peace for women and children. I’m even debating going back into my other career I trained for since it’s female dominated. Even they know they’re shit which is why the descent ones panic when they have a daughter—all the male depravity they know is there, they know w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:50 PM
36

That’s a LOT of straight up evil males—be wary of each and every one of them ladies, and make your standards even higher! The ones who are worth it will climb to meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:45 PM
6

I agree. I know those subs. Nothing but anger to men from me—fuck them (except not because eww).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:43 PM
16

Love seeing this pick up steam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:02 PM
9

Nope, we’re a giant beast awakening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:31 AM
22

For REAL! I’m hated on by a lot of women in our families because I’m the only one who is a SAHM in an affluent suburb with my bills and wants paid for. It’s like, wtf? I’m hot af, talented, educated, fit (among many other things) and I risked my literal amazing self to give birth to our children and his genetic legacy; fed them from my breasts through all kinds of pain, and was their first teacher—you best believe I’m gonna be treated like a queen and compensated like one too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:15 AM
20

It’s the “gold digger” thing. It’s just broke scrotes whining that they can’t fuck a hot woman for free with all risk (and no reward) on her. They’re mad that the women they want actually want something too. It’s dumb af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:10 AM
20

See, yes, many women will have to be ready to GTOW, even once in a relationship if the guy gets shitty. But I don’t think it’ll end in loneliness for women. Our support systems are amazing and we tend to self-actualize in beautiful and fulfilling ways. MEN will be lonely and desperate (like they already are) and since I don’t believe they’re stupid (they just play that card to be assholes and get out of stuff), they’ll end up changing and leveling up to be worthy of US in turn. The sperm chases …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:00 AM
9

Interesting. I’m not up to speed on all these new terms, but it just seems like common sense strategy to evaluate and plan according to reality—feels and dreams be damned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:50 AM
3

This ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:46 AM
5

I love your username—it’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:42 AM
5

She can get a better deal out of a dildo. At least it’ll be the size she likes and won’t go soft or abuse her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:32 PM
9

💯truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:30 PM
63

Most men who buy magnums 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:26 PM
2

Definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:18 PM
28

What the fuck is up with men and rape?! I’ve heard men talk like that to each other plenty as well. They are twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:41 PM
4

Facts (another NYCism 😆)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:23 AM
2

Beautiful 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:11 AM
12

I said “Noooo!” out loud when I saw the ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:34 PM
5

So happy for you sis! That is quite baller and sweet of him 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:10 PM
7

This is my neck of the woods and how things are. And I agree. Some sort of economic or educational threshold seems to need to be met before women suddenly have this confidence. I myself may currently be a SAHM but I’m educated, started a career path before this and will have no problems picking it up. I keep fit and pretty and carry myself with confidence because I KNOW I don’t need a man—I have them hitting on me at any given time and I have my own means to earn money if I wanted/needed to. Men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:47 PM
29

This is how I hype up my kindergartner when he plays Sonic 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:35 PM
4

Same. Truly, what kind of evil is THAT?! I can’t comprehend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:46 PM
0

Love this 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:20 PM
6

About damn TIME!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:57 PM
38

Thank you! This martyr shit is sold to us by the same misogynistic assholes laughing at our acceptance of sEx PoSiTiViTy. It’s so women will continue to be the backbone and workhorse for humanity and pretend sacrificing our potential and happiness is an honor. There is nothing in this world that could get me to be such a cuckqueen; we HAVE to respect ourselves because men sure as hell won’t! That baby would’ve solely been that man’s responsibility from the moment I answered that door to the mist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:46 PM
5

Holy hell! I hope your friend is doing well considering what she’s been through...what a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:18 PM
6

I use tons of emojis (life’s short and they’re cute), but I also know how it’s perceived. Manipulation can go more than one way scrotes...😉😏😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:13 PM
5

😂 for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:37 PM
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I love this queen shit (and it’s true). I worked with several Russian women like this in my dancing days—-they always made bank and almost never smiled 😆. Boss energy 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:27 AM
42

This is another reason why I stopped replying and turned off my DMs—they do this to get off sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:33 PM
7

Awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:30 PM
7

Amazing stuff! You go! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:29 PM
12

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:27 PM
6

Lol, let’s see I... kept up my abs and physique (and got even better at pole dance) amped up my skin and hair game (even made my own organic products) booked and paid for my augmentation countless leveling up in my professional and hobby goals (from learning tech programs to social media) and I’m about to dye my hair I’ve literally used the “downtime” to focus on me and level up into what’ll be a whole new woman shortly. My husband working from home was such a blessing because it afforded me the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:25 PM
12

This is a good tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:13 PM
25

Good for her! Wearing her 👑already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:13 PM
2

I agree, and for the same reasoning. Makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:02 PM
13

What about when she remembers that there are other men who wanna pay for the privilege of being with her too? Then what? His “power” is delusional. Not to mention she can just get a job...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:28 PM
2

Absolutely, and thank you for the sub recommendation. I’ll check that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:54 PM
6

Absolutely. I’m looking into getting into stocks soon myself, and other investments as time goes on. Gotta secure the coin 💰, as you never know what can happen...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:32 AM
7

Her and her daughter need to just leave those two scrotes to deal with their bullshit on their own. They really ARE trying to ruin those women’s lives and steal that young ladies’ future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:50 PM
16

This is why FDS not allowing male comments is important—they will stop at nothing to prevent us from keeping each other safe with actual sound advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:44 PM
5

I agree with not having casual sex, they are not worth it IMO, but different women can handle the dry spell differently, so I just provide the warning. That’s why my first advice is the dildo/vibrator—waaaay less bullshit to deal with, no chance of rape or violence, and you’ll always have (GOOD) orgasms!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:16 PM
15

Likely not, a lot of men won’t do that for their partners. If she’s doing the work, she gets to credit herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:07 PM
18

I pull out money monthly. Our labor has worth and financial independence is very important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:45 PM
26

I feel the same as you (current SAHM) but did not get a prenup (got married over a decade ago). Legally it seems I’m still well protected and I’m building my own savings and education/career as I go, but having a solid prenup outlining compensation and terms is great advice. It’s trying to have the best of both worlds so to speak—the solid quaint suburban/rural family unit, but also the solid foundation, savings and nest-egg for future wealth and prosperity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:16 PM
34

She’s likely the one buying them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:11 PM
275

The answer to any and all questions is your CashApp 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:07 PM
2

Pen names, PO Boxes and other measures I’m sure could help...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:39 PM
21

Exactly. It’s too easy to go full in—it’s addictive. That’s like messing with someone who “only does meth on the weekends”, like, the fuck? That’s a slippery ass slope fam, and more than likely he’s gonna slide...No porn at all is better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:28 PM
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Yup, and he’s the one who used to help detectives catch other killers. He gave them the secrets—so he was telling the truth on this. If anyone would know how one becomes violent and depraved against women it would be Bundy, so yea—believe that! It twists them up, makes them tear US up, and they know it. NO PORN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:26 PM
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They don’t realize how much women mean it too. We’re statistically happier without them, not the other way around. They can’t comprehend that we’ll just go on sex strike, and not care. Maybe if most of them weren’t shit people with shit sex skills they’d be missed more 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:22 PM
8

*hoping. 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:18 PM
38

Hope that piece of shit fails out and can’t make ends meet for his lifetime. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:16 PM
24

Lol, hope he loses his job 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:15 PM
13

I’m so glad I’m not 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:14 PM
39

Males are showing us who they really are—BELIEVE them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:12 PM
29

Let them fall apart into depression then—it’s the LEAST that should happen to them! Much deserved, the sick fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:12 PM
30

Men know. But even they are horrified at how disgustingly evil their sexuality can be, so they spin tales they’re hoping to convince THEMSELVES of as well as us. They gaslight us constantly if it’ll let them get away with their worldwide campaign of misogynistic and pedophilic abuse—any depraved thing to get their nasty little dicks hard. One of the most empowering lines for spotting their bullshit and how terrible they’re behaving is always remembering: THEY KNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:09 PM
4

That is a great idea. I wonder if the mods/authors have thought about going this route...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:58 PM
7

Hold onto the tactic, and get used to it. Hell, get a good dildo/vibrator to help—or you can sleep with males you’re not trying to date. It’s not like you’re married or exclusive, so you can “scratch that itch” per se, but we know that can go sideways for us women with possibly no pleasure, kind treatment and nothing in return, so...ymmv. I even use it in my marriage and it’s worked wonders. I used to be a maintenance sex woman even if he pissed me off or didn’t stick to his word or whatever. No…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:55 PM
7

WE are that organized front—spread the word. We’ve already got about 110k members on this subreddit alone, not to mention women who follow other FDS-esque advice like those who watch Sheraseven1, Anna Bey (School of Affluence), etc along with our website. I’ve already heard and seen FDS lingo and ideologies out in other parts of the Internet and before long it’ll be leaking into everyday discourse. It’s happening, but we have to keep it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:42 PM
7

I know, they’re fucked in the head, but also...Good. Can’t convict us for rejection, so it’s a perfectly legal “torture” then. Let the games begin 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:37 PM
5

Yes, there are also males who want to sleep with their mothers and daughters too—sick world. In general when they “de-sexualize” a relationship though, the way they talk about men and what to look out for changes entirely. She was indeed lucky he didn’t want to sleep with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:30 PM
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Yup, I’m quite a fan of the Lysistrata model of making men behave. It was known even in ancient times that it works to “starve ‘em out”, so to speak. The power and pull of pussy is well known—and one more reason we’re hated. If we collectively used ours wisely, I think we can go a long way in getting what we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:45 PM
8

Fascinating. I wanna check that book out. Thank you for bringing it up 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:41 PM
46

They are so fucking evil it’s almost beyond comprehension. Dismantle it all, and let them drown in their depraved tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:29 PM
69

Oh men definitely know the truth of their sexist and abusive ways, and it always comes out when they’re talking to a woman they actually love and not want to have sex with (like a daughter, mother, or mentee). That’s when you’ll hear them warn you about men and male nature. But then they gaslight every other woman because they want to be able to manipulate her into sex if the opportunity presented itself. It’ll be a good post topic when you make it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:25 PM
42

I was sexually harassed and groped as a child dressed as a mascot-style bundle of grapes—at a family charity event. Males are just depraved and wanna offload their sickness on women through shifting blame. Abusers be abusive like that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:20 PM
2

This is true—there is no such thing as a perfect man. I take a pragmatic approach on top of romantic (feelings are necessary but not the only requirement) though so my question would then be: what are your dealbreakers and do their pros far outweigh their cons? We’re not talking major infractions like violence and cheating, those are obvious no nos. Are they self-motivated in their “pros” or are you having to mother them to get anything good out of them? One can be worked with, the other can’t. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:14 PM
6

Idk, hubby is big and always tries and NEVER skimps on foreplay 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:10 PM
2

Seems like instead of bargaining with terrorists (rapey males) we should lock them up in zoos like the animals they act like...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:07 PM
13

Glad you found us. Word of advice: be available for courtship by other men ASAP and drop this pornsick loser before you’re tied to him legally or with kids. He’s not your only option or even your best by far. Good luck hun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:00 PM
26

Truth ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:57 PM
24

This ☝🏼. It has been sooo wonderful not having to read any of these sick men’s crap. I’m sure they still send messages to me in flurries but I have no idea 😆. Be just as untouchable to them online as in real life ladies, you don’t have to put up with them harassing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:48 PM
6

This is a good thing. Why would any woman pay to reproduce the genes of a gross, sickly man? It only makes sense to aim for good genes and only willingly propagate those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:43 PM
6

They’re not, never have been. Men are a dime a dozen. Just walk around lookin’ cute and you’ll have a new man before long if the one you have ain’t actin right 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:51 AM
5

She should fuck hot younger guys with tighter bodies and harder dicks and see how he feels...and then still divorce him 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:23 PM
12

I’m sure it’ll be just as hilarious to her when she’s the one getting beaten by her man...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:10 PM
10

Thank the Gods, but I figured that much as well—they stay lying 🤥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:04 PM
5

I don’t know how they keep up. They are awesome 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:01 PM
7

I wasn’t sure I’d find it because I read about it years ago, but here it is! Also, notice they’re trying to go with the “but he’s a good boy” angle in the story and trying to vilify her using baseless crap “she looked high” (anger will do that! 😆), or “she has assaulted in the past” (so of COURSE the pedo didn’t deserve it! 🙄). She chose to believe the kid. So many don’t. He likely just hid his disgusting tendencies from the people in his life like all pedos do. She’s a hero in my book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:24 PM
14

I like to imagine that she likes the ladies as well and is living like a queen in there with a sexy girlfriend getting free room and board and never having to be around men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:35 PM
12

Thank you, I’ll die defending my kids I swear it. That is so traumatic, and yes, you had the luck of a leprechaun with that situation! I hope more blessings come your way. Same to your friend. I wish we lived in a world where kids can just keep their innocence, but alas, men exist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:17 PM
14

Yup. The gaslighting isn’t working anymore so they’re just not even trying to pretend they’re not evil these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:13 PM
17

I like that they generally also end up depressed and suicidal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:11 PM
13

My Gods, that so so terrifying. I’ve already called cops twice on pervs trying to get at my kiddos (not trying to take them thank the Gods, but trying to/touching them). Men are such depraved trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:08 PM
9

I like the site name 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:05 PM
15

Never trust a supposedly female space that allows males—it will always be corrupt with their misogynistic agenda. Thank Goddess for this place! There are so few female only spaces left. They want to silence us, and they’re obsessed with infiltrating—rapey as always, sticking themselves where they’re not wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:01 PM
10

Imagine being that fucking SOFT and PATHETIC!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:30 PM
17

Abducted?! I’m so sorry hun. You’ve gone and are going through so much. Your strength is out of this world. Hugs and blessings hun 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:23 PM
30

There’s a lady I read about that is an absolute badass queen to me. Pedo moved to her block and started raping/molesting the neighborhood kids (hers may or may not have been as well, can’t remember), and she marched to his house with a baseball bat and smashed his dome to pieces. I’m pretty sure she’s in prison for life but I’m sure she’s getting the royal treatment in there forreal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:21 PM
8

Give it to the cops and have his ass put AWAY instead! Gotta take out the trash, too much of it around these days...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:17 PM
46

Males are out here creating fake oppression because they don’t know how to actually DO shit else these days. It’s so 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:55 PM
73

Let’s not forget men commit 99.1% of all rapes, 92.2% of all sex offenses, 88.7% of all murders, 82% of all arsons, 87% of all robberies, 77.1% of all assaults, and 73.4% of offenses against families and children. Can’t let them forget that whenever they try that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:45 PM
50

Smart way to live for women actually. We’re blamed for our own attacks when they happen anyways, may as well be preemptive and treat men as guilty until innocent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:33 PM
12

Been with my husband for 17 years—we waited 3 months to have sex. Waiting works for women to weed out shit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:15 PM
2

It’s a long one, posted it above ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:25 AM
15

I met him in 2003 in college—I was sort of “dating” his brother. The bro was a dud, but I met my husband through him at a hangout when he was in town one night. We had a lot of chemistry. We met again a month later by freaking CHANCE despite being in NYC and him going to school in another state! He left the girl he was with at this concert to come be with me when he saw me. I remembered him and we spent the show together. He was quite smitten (but shy about it) and asked for my number from his b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:23 AM
56

I’m typing this to you as I take a quick break from my beautifying treatment, my kids have dessert (that dad gave them), and he’s currently cleaning the shower because I didn’t want to ruin my manicure. I pretty much have done nothing of obligation but some light tidying and parenting all day. This is common for me. He also took me on a $1000+ weekend for our recent anniversary and treats me like a queen. He’s also attractive and a devoted, hard-working family man. Does he make the occasional sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:04 AM
12

That turnaround is delicious because it shows that it’s bs when men and libfems say that women would still do sex work if they had better options—-if they liked doing it they wouldn’t switch it up to selling less lewd content when given the opportunity! That pattern right there shows that women only truly ever sell sex under coercive conditions—-usually economic. Hence it’s always morally reprehensible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:28 PM
6

Oh absolutely. The men wouldn’t get a dime—that’d be like giving slave masters restitution for slavery. Every penny to the women and children trafficked, raped and coerced on camera.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:36 PM
21

Honestly? They sooo deserve it. Just desserts for thinking they can get away with such blatant dehumanization of the female sex—all that trafficking, rape and horror just for their stupid orgasms. Disgusting, and whatever darkness follows them is justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:30 PM
10

It’s a start but it ALL needs to just shut the fuck down already. We have so much damage to women and children (and yes even men) to undo—at least to try to. All these companies should be forced to pay their billions as restitution to those victimized by this predatory industry (and these predatory men).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:28 PM
23

I used to do this. Wouldn’t you know that I got treated with less respect then than now? I used to do all the submissive wifey bullshit years ago, but after that all wasn’t appreciated the way it should’ve been I pulled a 180 and went ice queen. I love him, so I’m not mean, just no bs and no unearned sweetness from me. I get treated better than ever...interesting little phenomenon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:09 PM
10

Coffee and caffeine pills...😕. I could just sleep but then I’d have no time for what I wanna do, so gotta go hard, crash and do it again the next day. My husband has taken a HUGE load off of me since COVID has him home though, so honestly I have waaay more me time (and I love it!).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:56 PM
13

I have some good news, though anecdotal—some of them do like women their age or older. My dad gets a lot of flack for his girlfriend from assholes, but he’s been with her for almost two decades—and she’s the same age as his mom (my grandma!). Now, she’s a former gym rat herself who looks amazing for her age mind you, but she’s a solid 20+ years older than him and he’s smitten. He wasn’t a HV guy for my childhood though, and I can’t attest to how much has changed, but in that regard he’s refreshi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 10:22 PM
16

My dad just about has the body of the guy on the left (as does my husband). The secret? They eat clean (mostly meat and veg), and they are active—husband is a lifter and dad works a seriously physical outdoors job. It’s possible, but it’s consistent effort and most men can’t consistently put effort into much of anything these days. Yet those same lazy men want women with snatched waists and big butts—which requires the same consistent effort. It’s so hypocritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:44 PM
6

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:29 PM
6

So much truth here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:07 PM
16

This one applies forever—even in marriage. It’s a game-changer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:02 PM
5

Lol but of COURSE! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:58 PM
2

💯%, Men’s opinions on these matters are absolutely meaningless to me. As they should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:55 PM
18

I got that DSL “compliment” once—it’s so damn nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:35 PM
55

I walked a parade for charity as a 12 year old girl—I was dressed as a large bunch of grapes and going around handing out healthy treats (it was a family event). Wouldn’t you know a couple of grown ass men in the crowd grabbed at the front two grapes or made grabbing gestures?! They sexualized child me dressed as a bunch of grapes, mascot style, as I was doing charity work. My horrified confusion I still remember clearly. Men are truly disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:33 PM
25

So...pretty much all BDSM. No wonder these “kinks” are being pushed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:17 PM
4

Now THIS is accurate!—and utterly disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:41 PM
5

Do it! I had a friend that rocked the buzzed sides/back with just a bit of hair on top over 10 years ago when NO ONE was wearing that—she had such bold fashion I’ll never forget her. She’d shave pretty designs into the buzzed parts and have them colored along with her top floof and wore bright fashionable clothes and jewelry. She legit looked like a fashion designer, and only got compliments. You live once—rock your style!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:51 PM
12

Yup. I’ve called the police/filed reports on men before and will do it in a damn heartbeat again. They wanna play stupid games imma make sure they get their stupid prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:44 PM
8

I read this and was gonna post it, so heartbreaking, that poor young woman 😢. Stay vigilant ladies, men are DANGEROUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:37 PM
9

82% of all juvenile rape victims are female, and over 90% of all adult rape victims are also female Women and female children are the primary victims of rape by a long shot. He knows, we ALL know—but yet we have to always “umbrella” and pretend they have just as equal a chance at being raped. Nope. It’s a problem of male violence against female humans—full stop. They know and they get defensive because they don’t want it to end. It’s sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:11 PM
3

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:01 PM
17

It’s so bizarre—were we just supposed to have an abortion? What if we don’t want to have elective abortions due to sex selection?! Like, wtf...we’re supposed to uplift one another. We’ll never end worldwide misogyny otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:40 PM
2

I get what you’re saying, thank you for clarifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:33 PM
3

Interesting, and thank you for explaining...but doesn’t that lack all nuance for abuse victims? Women who can’t get out so easily and have to “play along” for a while before they can? Do they just fall through the cracks and get no justice? And why do courts take this approach when proving sexual activity in divorce cases but not rape cases? I’m just confused as to why the law seems to easily sus out sexual activity in one type of case and in the other, it seems like pulling teeth to get courts …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:30 PM
1

“Hit him up style” sis! 😝 (Great revenge song for cheating men btw) She’s gonna get that 💰 and 💅🏼🧖🏼‍♀️💍💃🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:10 PM
5

How would there be proof that she slept with him if she did? He’d have to record it—likely without consent which is illegal—otherwise it’s his word against hers that she slept with him. I don’t see how it could mess up her bag 💰(OP’s case)...in the case you mentioned I imagine it was proof of the dates that shows condonation(like receipts, etc)? I’m just confused as to how sex can be seemingly easily proven in court when rape is hardly prosecuted...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:01 PM
51

It is definitely time consuming! I have hair down to my butt, and most times you wouldn’t know it because it’s in a bun or something so I can workout and do mom stuff. Only when I’m able to “chill” for a day can I get away with doing my hair all nice and some makeup. Then I’m gonna be pissed if I have to cook or clean because I’ll muss my makeup and hair. They really don’t think of these practicalities because they don’t see women as complete humans with shit to do and wants and needs and stuff …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:32 AM
3

You’re welcome 😊. And yup, catty Pickmes have always been a problem. It’s such a shame, we need unity to defeat misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:29 AM
44

That’s wild because ATJ’s so pretty! Wow, perceptions...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:54 PM
4

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:04 PM
3

I got you! So far I’ve got 5 sources (with their cited sources for their research), and I had WAAAY more. Check these out: Women as Witches: Past, Present and Future War on Women?: The Malleus Maleficarum and the Witch Hunts in Early Modern Europe A Feminist Perspective on the History of Women as Witches Witches, Wives and Mothers: Witchcraft Persecution and Women’s Confessions in 17th Century England The Role of Gender in Accusations of Witchcraft: The Case of Eastern Slovenia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:51 PM
4

Bingo. It really is sad seeing it all play out because it’s only human to want to shield yourself from pain, so we watch as they build worlds of delusion that they can live in that aren’t as terrible as the real one. They’re still being hurt in this reality, they just get to close their eyes and pretend they’re not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:31 PM
6

Trying to find all my links and that argument in my comments now but it won’t let me scroll back that far (this was like last year) for some reason...I’m gonna get back to you after doing some searching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:18 AM
61

Fake feminists can’t handle real feminism, that’s why they don’t want to even HEAR us. It’ll burst their little libfem bubble to bits to know the truth of their oppression. Most people prefer a comfortable lie over the truth—then they don’t have to fight or change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:08 AM
10

I practice a combination of my cultural crafts, mixed with a bit of what I’ve picked up from research. So my practice is a bit of a hereditary and scholarly hodgepodge. African-American Hoodoo with a splash of Puerto Rican folk magic/Mesa Blanca and different European traditional spells. Hoodoo and the different European traditional spells are especially rife with magic using bodily fluids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:24 PM
19

PERIOD! (pun also intended)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:19 PM
34

Yup, true witchcraft is very in line with nature and therefore things like period blood and breastmilk have power and are used in spell work—stuff misogynists (and TIMs who play witch) HATE! Being a woman—hell any female—in nature is to have innate biological power, and when we discover that we can unlock worlds. They want to stifle any power we have, so of course they demonized it—and still do! This is why I love practicing spellcraft that requires having natural female anatomy—it’s POWERFUL an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:18 PM
23

Yup, I got banned after saying only women can be witches, as it’s a highly gendered word and always has been. It was used to enact violence against women and now men wanna take the label because it’s trendy and powerful? Fuck them. After handing some dude his ass with pages of research then yea...banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:13 PM
12

What was once a joke men made in the 90’s is now reality in today’s 🤡world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:31 PM
36

That’s the only thing that makes sense. I’m similar—I’ll play any sport for fun (whether I’m good or not is another question 😆)because I generally love being athletic, but I can’t stand to waste time watching other people play—for what? I don’t even know them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:25 PM
18

I knew some folks from the NYC ballet—crazy fit people! They had muscles visible that most people don’t even have developed. One woman I partied with was so amazing—I watched her bring her leg up BACKWARDS, grab it and just have that foot over her head—standing straight! 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:14 PM
13

There should be a horror series depicting the lives of everyday women around the world in the past...shit would be stomach churning and traumatic. All the child brides, the r*pe, the dying in childbirth after the fact, the beatings, the terrible husbands—my Goddess I’m so glad I was born here and now to have the rights to walk away. Our foremothers sacrificed so much ☹️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:14 PM
82

😂 they really are a whole ass mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:01 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:00 PM
5

A woman is not “rubbish” for being a victim of sexual violence and coercion (aka prostitution). I can’t believe you blame the oppressed for their own sexual oppression. Lemme guess, your narrative is painted by the 1% of prostitutes that are white and economically privileged and parrot the “happy hooker” libfem lie. The ones who aren’t trafficked, beaten, r*ped and pimped out. Do better research and do yourself a favor and get rid of the internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:57 PM
37

Wow, my surgeries are more than that and my husband is fully bankrolling them—while also paying all the bills. Unreal to see examples of how different it could’ve been if I didn’t vet properly. Talk about things (or rather people ☺️) to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. I love my generous guy so much (and for far more than his generosity).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:44 AM
34

I don’t douche, I don’t use “feminine soaps” or perfumes (only gentle unscented soaps really), I barely ever shave, and if I do it’s because I want to (and it’s NEVER bare or even close—I’m a grown ass woman and pushed babies outta there, fuck that pedo shit—and it’s itchy/irritating when it grows in, so no). And, not to be TMI, my husband is RAVENOUS for my pussy and sometimes even I’M surprised (like when I’m fresh out the gym or on my period). Actual heterosexual men LOVE pussy and it’s natur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:40 AM
9

No, no “niche” and catering to gross males, how about just no sex work. It only hurts us; it doesn’t help us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:51 AM
7

Would never be me 💅🏼👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:53 AM
63

Community dildo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:52 AM
19

No, he’s vain AF and not even cute like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:52 AM
33

He’d be nexted and blocked immediately. Such disrespect! Never let them disrespect you like this queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:32 AM
11

It’s because strippers use Tinder and other dating apps to advertise and bring in paying clients. Butthurt scrotes who actually thought they had a chance get mad about it 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:12 PM
28

Many men die alone, he can very likely be one of them. Let’s hope! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:30 PM
15

You’re bringing your third human life into the world and raising up a new generation of humanity—you’re job is very important, please don’t undersell yourself by thinking you “haven’t accomplished much in your life”. Don’t drink society’s misogynistic kool-aid—women are the very driving force of humanity, the life growers and givers, the first to nourish and teach the world. We are so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:10 PM
4

Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:06 PM
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Why so abusive and rapey? They are truly depraved...and so insecure and scared to boot. They’re too scared to call a woman pretty or beautiful; they’re too scared of the vulnerability. So the LV males resort to violence and misogyny to convey their message instead 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:26 AM
26

I’m so happy for your level-up journey—blessings and good luck out there sis! 😊🍀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:20 AM
4

😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:16 AM
13

Yup, 💯%. It’s to try to shut us up when we point out misogyny, point blank, end of story. I’ve been called a misandrist for posting FBI crime stats—-fucking lol at being so unable to handle the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:00 AM
23

If he gets it, best believe all the rest of men do too—the evil ones just enjoy raping then gaslighting women, and the others enjoy protecting their evil friends because they’re shitty like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:57 PM
1

Aah, get it gurl! I’m trying to get that wild hotel action this weekend too! That’s good 🙂—-cuz ladies, if he ain’t the whole enchilada don’t eat him! 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:37 PM
6

Very sound advice that proves true in my life. I love my husband to pieces and have given everything for him and our family we made, but he does as well and on top worships me like a goddess and I wouldn’t have it any other way. We celebrate 17 years Friday ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:28 PM
7

Your boyfriend and my husband sound similar, aww 🥰. I agree, I think having to “glow-up” makes a more humble and wisened man that has more empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:26 PM
3

It’s not that there’s no desire for love and commitment on the woman’s end, it’s just that we should reserve that only for the man that truly loves us—-and more than we do him. Why? Lukewarm feelings from a man can ruin your life—literally. What happens if you fell for the bull-ish for years, building your life around his “CuZ uR iN lOvE” and he leaves since he wasn’t as into you as he should’ve been? Now you’re stuck with several of his kids, a gap in resume from doing the SAHM thing for a whil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:20 PM
2

😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:12 PM
8

Yup, some dudes just “chase tail” to play conqueror with their LV selves. Loving you is different though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:12 PM
15

They wanna act up like this but pitch a fit when you next them for some new dick...make it make sense fellas, can’t have it both ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:01 PM
39

Hope she gets EVERYTHING in the settlement 💍💰💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:53 PM
43

That’s because this is completely made up. Like most of these stories they spread purely to rally misogyny...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:37 PM
20

What’s worse is Lorena only did it so she could prevent John from raping and abusing her anymore, so it was defensive and a trauma response—they always leave that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:36 PM
3

This! My husband also does these hanging off our deck siding! Love it when he picks me up off the couch and carries me upstairs. It’s not all the time but it’s sexy to have a man strong enough to just scoop you up like that—then you can make love mid-air and that can be quite fun too 😝. Glad you found a good one hun :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:51 PM
9

Not to drag your dad, but if he’s a chemist, he can fry an egg, he just didn’t want to...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:51 PM
3

I’ve been married over a decade and men used to have to literally PAY ME to look at me and be in my presence—they project more than a movie theater. I’m so glad we bother them though—maybe they’ll be driven to improvement? Yea right 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:58 PM
6

All. Of. This. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:47 PM
8

Fuckin forREAL! Men always try to get women to fall for some dumb self-sacrificing bullshit while they laugh about us behind our backs. Fuck the “high road”—I get money 💰💍💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:46 PM
20

Exactly—they’re just assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:37 PM
7

Do you have a source? I’m seeing a lot of weird language here about women who have sons having different brains—that’s a serious and wild claim that needs proof. Otherwise it’s very alienating, some of us here are huge feminists and have sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:27 PM
23

That sounds like lsd every woman should try 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:47 AM
8

Porn (and before that, worldwide misogyny where women weren’t allowed to work or own anything so they had to marry even the grossest scrote just to have a roof and a meal)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:43 AM
4

Gotta go watch that movie again—that’s something, and how woke! This wouldn’t be made with this in mind these days, since we’re unfortunately regressing in feminism...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:25 AM
16

That’s because Reddit hates women and wants us miserable with loser males for our entire lives. You went against the patriarchal programming and they’re pissed. You did great—Queen shit 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:11 AM
7

He got what he deserved for being an inappropriate dumbass. You did the absolute right thing. It would’ve only escalated—he was zeroing in on you, and knew exactly what he was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:46 AM
39

Same, I love that assholes really DO get karmically kicked sometimes. Justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:31 AM
27

It’s a frustrating catch 22. Men want to have children, and they themselves want the best for their kids and want breastmilk for them. It’s disgusting that they then shame the women who gave of themselves to literally provide all the nutrients for a rapidly growing human being with only their bare breasts. We provide miracles while men provide jeers. Typical. For any women who want children: only have them for YOU and on YOUR TERMS. You’re the only one who risks your literal LIFE to procreate, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:14 AM
5

Just stop having sex with him! Men like this will either have to change or gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:42 AM
19

My husband is notoriously bad with answering family texts (to his family, and most folks in general—but not me 😝), and he doesn’t remember their birthdays or give gifts (rarely to them at least). Do I chime in and mother him into remembering? Into gifting? Nope! Hell, I don’t keep up either (some of his family are phony jerks and I don’t care for them), and I know that this type of stuff isn’t thanked or considered. I’ve literally handmade his family things (shit I actually get PAID for because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:36 AM
48

Thank you. They’ll get my sympathies when they give a fuck about women or don’t act/talk like sociopaths. I couldn’t be arsed about their sadness otherwise, and no woman should. It’s their problem so they need to fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:15 AM
142

Yup, I turned off my private messaging a while back and it’s been GLORIOUS! So stress free 💅🏼. No more dumb dicks sliding into my DMs with bullshit and hate—now they’re just as invisible to me as they are to every other woman in their lives 🤣. I love that I took away their chance to speak to me—-as we know, nothing makes LVM more angry than being denied access to us 😁.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:43 PM
10

Yay! Congrats hun, and always wear your FDS crown 👑 to go with your lovely new ring. I wish you happiness 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:39 PM
52

Good 😈. Their brains are broken from purposely getting off to violence and degradation against women, trafficking and rape—-they deserve their dark, lonely fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:29 PM
48

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Lysistrata these assholes into compliance, yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:19 PM
21

Absolute truth and an amazing post. It’s so obvious, but their hatred blinds them to reality! This needs to be stickied or go in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:18 PM
2

She needs to document his sexual depravity and inconsideration (if she’s in a state where recording convos are legal she can record him being callous and repeatedly trying to break down her boundaries—also the unwanted touching and assaults), and threaten to divorce and take him to the cleaners if he doesn’t go to therapy and knock it off. This is of course if he’s not a violent lunatic like so many men are. But if he is, she should just go ahead with the divorce (and a new anonymous address!) w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:10 PM
25

—Erectile dysfunction —premature ejaculation OR death-grip induced inability to orgasm —gets hard for your pain/displeasure —doesn’t enjoy sexual activities that give women pleasure (cunnilingus—done RIGHT!) —wants to try humiliating/degrading sex acts, usually only when they degrade the woman —wants a threesome/group sex (usually with other women only) —can’t maintain an erection during normal sex acts with a woman That’s what I’ve got for now but there’s definitely more though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:04 PM
27

I personally think porn and other sexualized (misogynistic) media has messed them up more, but mommy issues can definitely be a reason for some.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:53 PM
14

Such a simple sentence with such weight and truth. I wanna see the same amount of talk around women’s issues and worldwide misogyny—the only talk we get from men (and some women!) is gaslighting, victim-blaming bullshit. Nah, they wanna go on and on about WAP and how terrible it is because it gasp empowers some women. They are so transparently hateful of women it’s sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:35 PM
7

This guy is such a pathetic turd 💩. Gonna leave this here so all the scrotes can understand why women must always stay weary and vigilant around men. Men commit over 99.1% of rapes, over 88% of murders, over 87% robberies, over 77% of assaults and over 73% of all offenses against women and children. They need to see that they act like monsters out here and it’s on THEM to change that shit or else ALWAYS be seen as violent beasts. I don’t care if most men die alone because of this—it’s their own …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:24 PM
10

Oh yes, lol, my husband isn’t much of a good dancer (he sure tries though! 😆), but he has some sexy “man-lingerie” he puts on for me and he gets on that thing and show off some acrobatics for my entertainment. It’s sweet, silly sexy fun 😁 And I agree, this is why we’ve gotta be ready to move on when they act up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:12 AM
59

Better to have those assumptions and stay safe than be caught off guard...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:02 AM
3

I literally have a reply to a recent post with that exact phrase (in quotes and all!) as the start of my happily ever after. So this is quite accurate 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:49 PM
9

I’m proud to say my 5 year old boy makes his bed and folds his clothes and blankets neatly (when asked usually, but sometimes not!). Sad he’s already ahead of these guys...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:42 PM
65

Lemme tell you, when I did these things early in my relationship (like over 10 years ago) I didn’t get nearly the respect, work, and good treatment out of my husband as I have since I’ve crowned myself 👑 and said ‘fuck that shit’. I get more respect, kindness, gifts/money, and work from him now that I know my worth. He tries harder in bed too. It seems counterintuitive, but men really do like a challenge and a woman who won’t just roll over for him. Another key is I really DON’T care if he doesn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:29 PM
22

A fool and his money are easily parted 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:15 PM
25

That’s because our work is priceless—so valuable a monetary number can’t be put on it because without it the world would end in days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:03 PM
30

Thank you! That was a JOB! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:02 PM
2

Happy Birthday! 🎂🎈🎉🎁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:52 PM
5

Lovely! And you’ll do better without him, stay firm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:28 PM
29

I love this! The more media exposure the better! An entire generation and beyond of young women can live better lives—and in reaching out, every bit and every voice matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:37 AM
18

100%, steer clear of any man who talks about loose vaginas PERIOD. Either he has a tiny penis or pornsick death grip. No bueno either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:47 PM
8

TeamBigDick for the win! 🍆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:45 PM
2

Same girl! And I didn’t accept less! They definitely hate it when we have standards that disqualify them. Oh well, they always have each other if they get lonely 😏.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:54 PM
56

Yup, and this is part of why I’m a witch 🧙🏼‍♀️. Female empowerment baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:58 PM
20

This is my motto. Men love b*tches (it’s even a book!). I get waaaay more out of my husband being “mean” (which is just taking no bs and calling them out and forcing accountability) than I ever did when I was a pickme. Evil queen vibes all the way 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:51 PM
32

Their stupidity is only eclipsed by their insecurity, violence and of course...audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:33 PM
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Funny how they change their tune for that pornsick shit, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:31 PM
24

That’s what happens when their IQ is the same number as their shoe size...🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:30 PM
19

There’s nothing high value about a sociopathic jackass who happens to have some money...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:13 PM
35

So then Mr. Tired Sack needs to step to the side so Mr. New Nuts can do the fucking! Any man who says that forgets his dick is replaceable and a line of new dick is waiting behind him for the chance to slide in when he fucks up 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:06 PM
2

I have a copper IUD, and though I feel it is working great for me, this is terrifying to read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:59 PM
7

I’m hoping Mr. Rogers is the one good one...but I’m scared the shoe will drop on that too one day 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:46 PM
20

Ooooh, girl you gotta spill that tea! I wanna hear about his small wee wee 😆 Such a shame about all I’m hearing about him and his behavior; he’s a cutie, but alas, scrotes gonna scrote...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:41 PM
15

If they can’t help you finish, don’t let them use your body to finish! Walk away, tell him to kick rocks with his swollen rocks in hand! They need to learn consequences because they will only stop when women tell them no. Hell, I’m married and on the rare times my husband is lacking I simply end the session right there—if I don’t finish, no one does...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:25 AM
10

That’s some psycho shit that dude was on 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:18 AM
12

Lol, this is my way of handling things 😆. Gets them to at least quit the bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:17 AM
18

Or had an abortion...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:17 PM
2

Oof 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:53 AM
12

All the truth! ☝🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:41 PM
5

Off to collect more art....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:52 PM
4

He sounds like a bridge troll 🤢. Disgusting scrote. Lol, he shot his shot, and since no one will answer (there was no previous woman, he’s just hoping some poor lady will believe him) now hopefully he’ll shut up and die alone already...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:36 AM
9

The entire field of medicine...if men were primarily the hunters and women were the gatherers (ie. herbalists) and midwives (ancient doctors), then women paved the way for the entire medical field. We STILL take ancient plant knowledge (first discovered by medicine women) and apply it to modern medicine or use it to make modern medicines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:32 AM
65

And when he’s lying and blathering online for sympathy you won’t EVER hear of him having degraded and called his wife names until it chipped away at her self esteem and she left him. Nope—it’ll be “WoMeN aRe BiTcHeS”. His loneliness will be hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:12 PM
16

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:44 AM
64

She made him look like a little boy FAST 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:44 AM
50

This is true. When my husband pisses me off—no sex. I won’t force it if I don’t feel it. He has to earn me now just the same as he had to in the beginning. This is how to avoid them getting complacent. When he’s awesome it lights my fire and he gets the goods 😏. The concept of “maintenance sex” needs to die. Either it’s real sex with real passion or it’s a real PITA. No thanks. This is why so many men have dead bedrooms. They fuck up constantly, don’t try to make things right, and it just piles …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:24 AM
10

What a wonderful young man! Gotta clone him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:07 AM
21

I’m like MsPennyLoaf, and I agree completely. It was a lot of luck and I 10/10 don’t recommend it. It could’ve all turned out so much worse but he flipped his life and kept it up and keeps improving. That is rare AF and simply unrealistic to expect from most. This is why FDS is so important and the vetting process must be ruthless—most men won’t change, they will get worse, and then you’re miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 07:16 PM
26

Men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:08 AM
7

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:26 AM
22

Just about every mammalian female proves this—including human females when backed into a corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:26 AM
19

You would be a modern-day Robin Hood saint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:22 AM
73

As Yoko Ono said, women are the n*ggers of the world (if the word is offensive, my apologies, but I’m black and it’s true)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:20 AM
45

Women are better than men; we don’t do or say this nasty shit. They are sick and depraved animals more times than not. It’s sad but true—just check crime stats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:18 AM
12

They DO realize it. The sinister truth is worldwide patriarchy purposely pulls the wool over women’s eyes with pretty lies so men can easily get between our thighs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:00 AM
4

Those legs don’t look muscular in particular to me, rather thin and just low body fat. Then again, my husband and I are amateur bodybuilders...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:55 AM
7

This is why women as a whole should demand more, and unapologetically. They KNOW...and they feel like crooked kings when they get away with so little effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:53 AM
8

Exactly! Self-care for me (though I can be very “girly” and love makeup, nails and such) is makeup and fluff-free. Herbal/essential oil baths, skin treatments, meditation/ASMR, hair treatments, massages, nature walks or drives, etc. I like to gussy up, but not all the time (I am a mom to young ones and a fitness fanatic after all) but I’m married and it’d be a lie to say it was all for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:50 AM
18

This. This is exactly what Pickmes are signing up for. I’m glad you’ve dropped him and claimed your crown 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:39 AM
1

Thankfully for me I got lucky and it’s not, but having a considerate lover really is key. I couldn’t possibly be aroused enough if he wasn’t. Then again, I don’t rely on fantasizing or anything—we’re all in the moment! Women who fantasize can get there even without the most considerate lovers, but it’s not him who’s skill is causing it, rather the fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:34 AM
3

I was just singing some Amy tonight! Wild...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:24 AM
27

She should‘ve given herself the gift of freedom with an abortion. Instead she got locked into a marriage with this predatory dude. He most definitely knocked her up purposely...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:20 AM
4

Holy fuck she nailed the societal gaslighting and misogyny right on the head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:15 PM
41

He’s a whole-ass septic tank 🚽. Imagine women writing for men to be “obedient” and “hot” and must “give head”, men would lose their sensitive sacks over it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:10 PM
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I’m glad I chose my husband everyday I read these insane posts by shit men. Couldn’t be me. I’m an asshole if disrespected, so I’d probably prove how hot I was by getting a new man right in front of him if he pulled that shit...I don’t do disrespect. Also, STOP giving birth for men who haven’t proven themselves by jumping through flaming hoops for you (he needs to marry you first off)! You can’t take it back and it’s the one decision in your life that can either make it or break it! And it’ll ei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:05 PM
18

I would’ve left in a fucking heartbeat, and probably alerted authorities to an unstable man plotting murder...she’ll just be blamed for not leaving if he kills her. Women are blamed for their own murders all the time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:57 PM
6

There are no sexual lows too low for men—that’s the sad, disgusting truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:34 PM
3

Seriously, hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:33 PM
61

He’s an absolute piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:06 AM
11

Lemme tell you how dead dudebro would be....I did have pizza in my bed after delivering my first but I deserved it 😆. My husband’s entire focus was me and my needs during my labors (and camera work, but that’s because I personally wanted them documented). I can’t believe how selfish and unattached most men are during what should be one of the most important days of their lives...vet, vet, vet ladies! Men need to prove they are worthy of fatherhood and your physical labor and sacrifice—-women sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:02 AM
11

This is why they don’t correct each other’s misogyny and abuse towards women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:10 AM
5

I can too but it takes the right angle, arousal level, pressure and right sized dick (long and girthy). It also helps tremendously to have had an oral orgasm first. Sorry if TMI, but THIS is why I think so many women have trouble attaining vaginal orgasms—the right circumstances are difficult to come across especially if the guy isn’t a very considerate lover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:00 AM
7

Can confirm: husband is former punk guy 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:57 AM
4

Yes!! Men lie their asses off, so do it first! This is the kind of stuff that makes misogynists seethe and I laugh 😂—-if they can dish it they better get ready to take it! 🥊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:50 AM
14

That’s exactly how to stay satisfied—make them give you an orgasm first. It would be inconsiderate of them knowing the differences in sexual response and biology between men and women if they didn’t, and inconsiderate men should not be allowed into our bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:46 AM
1

My husband says men absolutely are jealous of women’s power as life-givers. He says a part of him wishes he could’ve experienced it. And this is a very “manly” looking man you wouldn’t expect this sentiment from—muscles, beard, tattoos, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:45 PM
20

Fucking seriously! These new gender politics are ludicrous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:39 PM
8

They don’t like those women either—they use them until they get bored and drop them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:30 PM
4

This is correct. It’s our body and we’re the only ones with any physical stake in pregnancy—you don’t need to tell them; if you want an abortion just get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:12 PM
14

I’m teaching my daughter she doesn’t need a guy (but GOOD relationships are lovely)and to live her best life and go on adventures and achieve her dreams—and only if a guy adds to her life in valuable ways to give him the honor of her heart. She’s pretty young so it’s couched in age-appropriate language, but it’s never too early to teach a young woman her worth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:44 PM
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I really hope it’s overturned🤞🏼. When we work together we can solve anything ladies; we are queens 👑💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:33 PM
8

I gave birth naturally so it was pretty loud and intense 😆. At one point I’m sideways on the bed and he’s kneeling next to me holding me—-as I’m holding his shorts. He uttered one “my shorts!” before realizing (and smartly self-silencing)that it didn’t matter in the slightest. I ripped his belt loop and almost his pocket off! I was birthing his nearly 10 lb, 22 inch son all-naturally, I can shred his clothes and more if it gets me through that pain alive! The guy from the OP would’ve been scream…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:11 PM
16

This is heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:01 PM
14

This is why it’s so important to only give birth for men who have proven themselves as worthy. Men who show their love all the time with no games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:23 PM
14

Yup, only someone pornsick and messed in the head would think of that. They stay telling on themselves...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:12 PM
1

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:51 PM
7

Love this 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:35 PM
4

Lol thank you! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:05 PM
13

YESSS! Handed that arrogant ass his dick and told him to fuck himself! Haha, Queen shit! 👸🏻 I just hope she’s doesn’t let Reddit’s retards get into her head. And yes, I stand by calling them retards—-they are socially and romantically (hell, usually also fiscally) retarded. 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:43 AM
1

That makes me sad, they’re only kids once, and it’s so short-lived😔.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:29 AM
7

Yes! My husband brings me a drink while I sit on the couch watching the same while he does dishes. But I bet these guys who gave all those awards would HATE our anecdotes 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:14 PM
8

The only thing men can conjure is bullshit and the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:51 PM
19

Same! Lol, say no to age gaps! 🙅🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:10 PM
9

Yea, the cuddles should’ve been initiated by him, he seemed barely there for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:09 PM
1

This is pretty much my life, let alone a week. What’s so crazy about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:08 PM
6

His kids want to see him more and he’s saying no. That’s a shitty dad no matter how you slice it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:45 PM
3

And then he woke up, all alone...😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:40 PM
5

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:13 PM
3

I would put quotes around “women”, since yea....they’re not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:40 PM
12

Lol @ the attempt to self-brainwash. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:15 PM
2

Truly spooky! 👻😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:13 PM
4

Me and hubby are thinking of doing the same. Thinking we’re done and although Paraguard is nice and non-hormonal, a vasectomy would free me entirely. He’s totally cool with it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:25 PM
5

I was just thinking he looks like a bird! Pinche pajaro 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:41 PM
8

Oh yes, men love it. My husband was all over me when I was pregnant (same as always but being pregnant with his child was indeed a turn on), and I even had some creepers follow me around all googly-eyed when I’d try to shop while heavily pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:33 PM
18

I was just gonna say that part of the story sounded made up (or maybe the guys saying it were just being extra assholish). Labia don’t change from birth, vaginally delivered a few times myself and it’s the same. I think it’s more misogyny spread through pop culture. I’m glad you’re free from him 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:01 PM
6

Preach! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:02 AM
4

The job I was trained for is macabre and intense—I feel ya, I’m more fearless and badass than most men I know simply by virtue of my chosen career. They couldn’t cut it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:01 AM
4

She sounds so badass 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:57 AM
14

It’s mind-numbingly misogynistic, isn’t it? How does one hate the only parent who stayed and cared?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:48 AM
3

I always laugh because it’s like “hello! I’m a whole ass married mother over here!” I comment a fair bit; this is like my only non-monetary social media 😆, so they are just willfully ignorant to protect their fragile egos. They need to believe we’re all lonely uggos or else they have to come to terms with having to be better men or else all the women they desire will pass them up. Since that’s work and men are allergic to accountability we’ve got this bs floating around 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:42 AM
10

Scrotation 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:01 AM
6

Morgan freeman is a fraud of a good man and is pure scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:05 AM
3

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:54 AM
14

Same sis, I have a son and though he’s small, it’s never too early to start to raise a good future man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:04 PM
75

Lol @ him thinking his former girlfriend is “being used” and needs warning 😂🤣. What an idiot for thinking women don’t have serious romantic and sexual feelings for each other and that he as a a man was somehow “the star” in all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:08 AM
2

A literal crown 👑—-love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:58 AM
73

Not to mention there’s no worldwide human trafficking because women like romance novels— it’s men and their sick urges as to why countless women and children are sex slaves and raped and murdered daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:12 AM
2

I know the feeling, when you come from abuse (for me, mental/emotional and physical), and yea, I don’t wanna go back to childhood either. ::Hugs:: We made it sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:09 AM
11

🙂thanks hun💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:07 AM
15

I hope so, he was a laugh-riot and a sweetheart. Lost touch over the years unfortunately, but I wish him the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:04 AM
2

☹️ glad life is better now sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:17 PM
58

This is gonna be controversial, as it’s not FDS, and certainly wasn’t worth it overall, but here’s where being a dancer/stripper in the past has made me unshakeable—I KNOW I’m hot, and that men want me, and badly. The absolute THIRST that came in, the loneliness—they give their last dollars to women of all races, ages, shapes and sizes. I’ve seen and experienced this, so no man will EVER have that power over me. Once you realize just how much you really ARE the prize, and the table, it’ll change…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:49 PM
14

Nasty 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:29 PM
46

I had a gay friend (who either was confused or closeted about it at the time, and frankly we didn’t know either, just thought he was flamboyant) in high school who asked me out. He was beautiful like cut from stone—and a romantic. Took me to see that Juwanna man movie and when I “aww”d at the part where he gets the lady flowers and when asked says “because it’s Tuesday (or Wednesday, whatev, haven’t seen that movie in forever!)”, he made a mental note and showed up with flowers and the same line…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:19 PM
22

I got one of those. Some stupid scrote talking about how my comments about dick size preference caused his friend to commit suicide. I laughed my ass off. I couldn’t give a fuck—first of all, it’s likely a fake story to try to guilt me out of my preferences (😂), and if not, that person was so mentally ill a cloudy day would’ve caused the same thing—if a stranger on the Internet not even talking to or about them made a personal comment so “tRiGgErInG”. Puh-lease 🙄. I’ll take my dicks big, my man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:27 PM
4

Congratulations! 🎉 He sounds amazing; I’m glad for you both ☺️. I’d say definitely rest up while you can and maybe cook and have some meals frozen around when you’re due, so no one has to worry about cooking for those first few days. They will be surreal, you’ll have enough to deal with! If you’re delivering vaginally, be sure to bring that water squeeze bottle with you to the bathroom EVERY time (you’ll thank me—the relief!), and you will bleed a LOT—cups and tampons are a no go during this tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:32 PM
23

Shook my head the whole time. Sis needs to let him know that she won’t have sex again until marriage because she’s been used for her body so she understands 😂. This dude is laughing his way to the bedroom every time. She can get sooo much more, all around from so many other men if she just believed in her own worth. Being a Pickme is clown shit 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:07 AM
23

This is sweet! I sent my husband a pic of my made-up face and hair done yesterday (I was excited about my new lipstick 💄), and he sent emojis of lovey-dovey eyes and being smitten. I never send him nudes. Porn isn’t a thing in my house. Has he ever gotten nude pics of me? Yes, it’s been 16 years and we were much younger in the beginning, but I’ve gotten rid of most of them (professional boudoir pics are different and artistic imo—-also not nudes, just risqué, so those are kept). I think men can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:36 PM
2

Thanks! Excited 😊❤️. Mind if I pm you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:15 PM
2

Yup, going for salines and a lift in the spring after once having had large breasts that deflated after weight loss and breastfeeding. I’m doing it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:48 PM
38

Look at him try his sad sales pitch for vagina 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:34 AM
6

I would’ve flipped a shit, that’s so damned nasty! 🤢 My husband, though not as neat (by a mile!)as I am, at least would never stoop anywhere near so gross. Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:23 AM
22

Or in true crime 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:56 AM
14

Because it requires empathy, something men seem to lack for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:27 AM
11

😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:20 AM
40

So much this, and so much denial on their part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:58 PM
5

Of course not, because that would require brain cells that haven’t been put in the wash 🧼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:28 PM
10

Or in their case, NOT fucked! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:14 PM
28

Seriously, can’t follow up a truth bomb like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:35 PM
7

No, I had stitches to repair internal tearing from giving birth vaginally, as I was hemorrhaging out. Twice. I have residual nerve pain at times. I wouldn’t want to push girth for that reason alone. Although, my standards are still solidly in big dick territory, so 🤷🏻‍♀️😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:49 AM
4

Oh shit 😝. Glad you moved on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:29 AM
8

This was so transparently scrotally stupid I REALLY laughed out loud! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:21 AM
20

This is awesome 😎🤣. Ok, if men can do it we can too! Locker room talk, amiright? 😏. So for me, I need a big dick and amazing cunnilingus—-and just licking isn’t enough, gotta do all the mouth things to all the parts, if ykwim. Really be ALL in and about it, like a starving man. For penetration I need a long (at least 7”, but I’ve never had longer than like 8.5”), and thick but not too girthy (over 5”, but not more than 5.75-6”). I’ve given birth vaginally a couple of times, and have been stitche…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:19 AM
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Yup, it’s A-spot if it’s that deep (past the cervix). That shit is my JAM, powerful orgasm every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:03 AM
63

Real queens 👸🏻 get real gold 💍 while pickmes get Reddit gold 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:19 PM
6

I hope they lock up every last one of them. Then toss the key 🔑. It makes me happy to know something is finally starting to be done about this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:27 AM
13

Wow, this is pretty impressive! Good for her; I hope he stays sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:15 AM
9

Word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:56 AM
5

Yup. Got one and it’s great. Never have to give out my personal phone number for business or anything. Highly recommend 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:20 PM
5

I almost instinctively downvoted 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:09 PM
9

My thoughts exactly. I don’t own lube, never used it, nor do I ever plan on it because if my husband doesn’t get me going organically then it’s just not meant to be 🤷🏻‍♀️😆. Men will actually put in effort if you’re willing to not have sex otherwise. You’ve gotta show them that you’ll walk away at any moment, even mid-sex if it’s bad. It’s the only way they learn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:04 PM
12

Truth, but I think it’s even more imperative for a woman looking to get pregnant to have great sex: she’s putting her very life on the line, just to carry his seed and birth his child. She deserves at the very least a good orgasm for the trouble!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:58 PM
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🎼🎤 And don’t tell me what to do! And don’t tell me what to say! And please all I ask of you: don’t put me on display! Ba ba ba, ba ba ba, ba ba ba, BAA BAA! No, no, YOU DON’T OWN ME! Ba ba ba, BAA BAA! YOU DON’T OWN ME! Cuz we are Young and free: YOU. DON’T. OWN. ME! Ba ba ba, baa baa 🎤🎼 (Such a powerful scene in one of my favorite movies—I still remember the song as you can see 😆)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:36 PM
19

This is super sweet ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:10 AM
21

Love this! Raising my daughter to be just as queenly 👸🏻as this young lady. I’m so proud of today’s girls! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:07 AM
9

Oof, that’s a plight I wouldn’t wish on any woman 😬. I am curvy (though athletic) and very “womanly” in that sense, so thankfully I don’t have to worry about that kind of questionable attraction (also the being married thing 😆). The good thing is she’s only 19, so she’ll quite likely fill out within the next few years and that’ll all change for the better for her. In the meantime, I hope she realizes her worth and doesn’t stay with that guy who isn’t good for her, but I can understand her fears.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:47 AM
6

I live in an old house (no Queen Anne but maybe in some years!), in an old part of the country, and LOVE it—everything looks so pretty in the town, but it’s stupid expensive. Wanna eventually move to a less expensive area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:35 AM
4

I LOVE watching tiny house shows! There’s a YouTube channel that highlights them specifically. But I also love gigantic Queen Anne homes and Victorian era moldings and detail so I’m all over the place 😆.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:30 PM
3

I know! They’re stuff is so cheap in comparison! I can’t get a single thing done here for that price 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:20 PM
2

That used to be a big issue for us too, it’d hurt him because he kept getting the barb poking him. The docs they were like, “oh he can’t feel it, it’s too deep”. My husband was like, “what kind of small-ass dicks do most guys have that they didn’t believe me?” 😆 Finally they re-cut the string really low and then wrapped the remainder into a small spiral—-that helped. We just aim for going to the A spot past the cervix and it’s all good! (And I do mean GOOD! 😝). Sorry for TMI...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:18 PM
11

5’3” and same! Gotta be over 7” (it’s a good thing I got to marry a man who had what I wanted—not letting him get away 😝).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:05 PM
17

100% agreement. They are often single because their standards aren’t as low as they want women’s to be (and how dare you suggest that they should lower them to a more realistic—for them 😆—-level). Forget that crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:04 PM
27

I’m sad that labiaplasty is even a thing, it’s such bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:01 PM
20

Not to be TMI, but when you have one and realize how many pornsick misogynistic freaks want it, it makes you feel 🙃. I’m just glad I don’t have to deal with these weirdos. I think I’d stay single for life if I weren’t already married 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:00 PM
12

I’ll never understand it. My husband has a beard (and it’s a few inches long), but it’s got such a sleek look because he gets it professionally trimmed, lined, and shaped up. Monthly, and it’s only like $20, including tip! These dudes have no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:46 PM
1

Awesome, I’ll send the same to any audacious men who won’t leave me alone (at least I can get paid for the trouble before I block 😆)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:04 PM
4

When did that happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:50 PM
2

Aww 🥰. I feel the same; it’s such a unique and wonderful place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:49 PM
29

As a woman, who also bikes around town for exercise on occasion—I feel this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:22 AM
4

We’re gonna be watching this! Yay! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:16 AM
7

Love this! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:14 AM
1

Oh, I don’t use it; you can get cash off of those? Interesting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:07 AM
3

Is that a cash app thing? Hilarious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:33 AM
15

That’s the thing—in the world, we’re NOT equals, as women are an oppressed class. Even if we were socially and legally equal in all ways all over the world (pipe dream really), we still carry the brunt of reproductive and sexual risk. They need to pay to show investment in us and in our care—what if we got pregnant? No birth control is 100%. What if he gets us sick? STD’s disproportionately affect women’s health waaay worse than men’s, and condoms can’t prevent a lot of them. Also, they’re still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:43 PM
6

This made me lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:37 PM
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