FitnessJunkie92 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Looking for Advice		FitnessJunkie92	/r/seduction	15/02/19 08:50 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Trouble getting a second date Yeah man I completely understand that, I'm a busy professional too. But even if I'm free shortly after meeting a girl, I'll say I'm busy and suggest something for the next week. It just projects better and gives a greater sense of independence. I used to do what you did (trying to see them again as soon as possible because I liked them) and it just never ended up well for me. Keep in mind that these are only 2 dates, which is not nearly enough of a sample size to assume you are not good at getti…	/r/seduction	06/03/19 02:47 AM
2	Trouble getting a second date Just offering some constructive criticism here, don't take it personally. I can feel your neediness shining through in this post, and I'm sure they felt it too. With the first woman, you should not have texted her until after you knew she was back from the wedding, and you certainly should not have double texted her when she did not respond. With the second woman, identifying a specific date and time, especially the next night, was a mistake. That projected low value and and a sense of neediness…	/r/seduction	05/03/19 09:29 PM
1	Let me know if it’s me but I don’t think it is. Move on to the next one bro. I'd also not view her stories or social media posts, that just gives her validation that you're still after her. If you can't control yourself from looking, then unfollow her on those platforms and stay strong	/r/seduction	05/03/19 01:31 AM
2	Worth going out with a girl that's leaving the following day? Any opportunity to practice interacting with a female (or anyone) is worthwhile.	/r/seduction	01/03/19 02:27 AM
1	Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a few weeks. We are obviously very attracted to one another but I'm not sure how to bring up the topic of making things official. Any help and suggestions would be greatly appreciated. If a girl wants to be official with you she will let you know about it first, just play it cool for now.	/r/seduction	24/02/19 01:11 AM
1	How do you overcome this. Talk slower, relax. If they move on, so what - just approach more women. Don't be too hard on yourself either, approaching itself is a win. Just keep practicing.	/r/seduction	23/02/19 10:37 PM
14	How To Seduce Women With The Power Of Your Voice This is great and something that is not talked about enough. One of my biggest insecurities is a weak voice even though others have told me it is not. This is especially the case because I often get a lot of interest from women from their observations; however, once I begin interacting with them their attraction clearly goes down. I will work on this and start recording myself to see what I am doing wrong.	/r/seduction	23/02/19 07:02 PM
2	I really like girl from my work and dont know how to ask her out I have been in this situation before, and I ultimately asked her out at an after work happy hour with multiple coworkers there. She said yes but don't be offended if yours says no, some girls simply don't like dating people they work with.	/r/seduction	15/02/19 09:08 PM
1	How soon to set up date on OK Cupid? Extract it off the app as soon as possible after you've established a rapport and kept it interesting.	/r/seduction	15/02/19 09:05 PM
6	Direct messaging women on Instagram? I have never been a big fan of trying this simply because it is uphill sledding going after a girl who is super popular on social media. The brutal truth is you are probably one of many guys who DMed her that day. The best solution is to go on about your day, improve yourself, talk to women in real life, and forget about her. That being said, I do think social media can be a good way to get women eventually if you build your own and are popular, which is something I am currently trying to do.	/r/seduction	15/02/19 09:04 PM
1	Don't let online dating be your main way to meet women Also a good idea to go into your phone and look at your usage to put it into perspective. I had been pretty successful meeting up with women off of dating apps but felt as though I was becoming too obsessed with it. Checked my battery (iPhone), and sure enough I was averaging 5 hours on Bumble and 3 hours on Hinge per week. Deleted the apps shortly thereafter to focus on school and my own life, and not letting online dating control my life.	/r/seduction	15/11/18 02:03 AM
2	I have a problem...and it's shyness One principle I live by which helps me in these situations is the idea that regret is worse than rejection, as evidenced by this post. Imagine that you had said hello and been rejected, you would still probably be happier than you are right now. This is actually an easy scenario to practice in versus cold approaching that is often touted on here. Practice simply smiling and saying "Hey, how are ya?" and making light conversation in these situations, including with females you aren't attracted to…	/r/seduction	25/09/18 10:19 PM