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| – | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menWeak shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 09:23 AM |
| 2 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyGoing full monk-mode is nothing but an escape, it's cowardice. True masculinity is about voluntarily partaking in carrying the burdens of those around, thus moving society forward. You suffer with a smile because you love indiscriminately and want to see those around you happy. Why? Because why not. You're capable of it when others aren't, and you ask nothing in return. You do it out of your own set of moral principles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 05:06 PM |
| 3 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyYou know what's even more alpha than bitch slapping a professional comedian half your size on national television? Not overreacting to your wife's inability to take a shitty joke. Like the dude literally embarassed himself in front of the whole world and destroyed his image in 10 seconds because he's just that pussy-whipped. Dude decided to get all gangsta for the first time in his life against a dude that can't react back because of the setting he's in. Will's an insecure bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:57 PM |
| 11 | FDS in mainstream media (The Guardian article)Chris Hemsworth a 7? What blind mole made this scale? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?It's only been a recent development however that some 60-70% of college graduates are female as opposed to the more stable 50-50 of a decade or so ago. Women still look for someone of equal or higher value so from simple logic follows that the dating pool for highly educated women is shrinking very fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Men dont respect womenYou're not making a lot of sense but just because some dude treats you badly, that doesn't mean men as a whole don't respect women. It just means that specific dude is an asshole. I also think you have a really poorly defined idea of respect. Respect is appreciation born from shared experiences. For example: I respect a guy that can lift 400 pounds because I know how much work it takes to achieve that level of strength. Respect is based on commonalities between people. Men as a whole have a bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Men dont respect womenI mean respect in a way were youll be treated normally, and not as an opportunity to have sex with So respecting someone means you won't try to fuck them? You need to understand respect and friendship are two very different things. Respect usually comes with friendship, but friendship doesn't automatically come with respect. It sounds more like you're just interested in being friends with guys and you think that's impossible because they don't respect you but that's not how it works at all. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Women still expect men to be masculine while refusing to be feminine themselvesFeminity isn't respected? By who? Men? Why would that be an issue to you? You think men don't respect or love their mother? You think men don't respect a woman who can take care of a child and provide them with a warm environment? Absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Women still expect men to be masculine while refusing to be feminine themselvesEspecially the sundress part Uuuh no there's not a man on the planet that doesn't appreciate a nice sundress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Women still expect men to be masculine while refusing to be feminine themselvesAgreeableness is a personality trait that can be described as cooperative, polite, kind, and friendly. People high in agreeableness are more trusting, affectionate, altruistic, and generally displaying more prosocial behaviors than others. Ah yes truely disgusting to expect your life partner to be a decent human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.The question was about size and strength. Not looking like you lift. And if you already know the answer why ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.6 months to two years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.It's literally last. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2019-year-in-review Just seeing something on the front page doesn't mean shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Bullshit, a beginner can start off with 1 to 1.5 hours of work 3 times a week and gain ridiculous size and strength. You don't know what you're talking about. Post body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.lifestyle compatibility I'm more so guessing it's about something else entirely but honestly I'll just let this bit of godly satire do the talking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.For guys really into fitness, especially body builder types or military Leo’s it’s way more than that. They spend 2-3 hours a day at the gym 6-7 days a week and even on their “rest day” they still go to the gym but the work out is less strenuous and shorter. Why are you taking an extreme example of someone who is clearly doing this practically for a living instead of the more standard example I described that 95% of gym-goers adhere to? Do you not see the strawman you've created? Not to mention … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:18 PM |
| 14 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Yeah but that desire to do physical harm is repressed way harder by society in boys from a young age, than the emotional harm girls do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.It's 1-1,5 hours, 3-4 times a week. It's no different from any other hobby. You don't need to spend every single hour of your spare time with your SO. That's ludicrous and only amounts to an unhealthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Then there’s also lifestyle compatibility. They want a man who has time for them. If you're the type of woman who can't miss their man's full attention for even just 4 to 6 hours a week then girl no mentally healthy and independent man is going to want to have anything to do with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Hail /fit/izen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Dad bod isn’t straight up fat. It’s a guy who usually has nice toned arms AND THERE IT IS Had to scroll way too far down for this hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I wish this was /fit/ so I could tell everyone in this thread to "post bod" lol. Would clear up A LOT I'm sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Then admit that you're just strawmanning the argument. This whole "gymbro" stereotype this thread is putting up is fucking hilarious cope. I wish this was /fit/ so I could "post bod" every single one of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 11 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Copium overload | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Kinks exist but as a general rule of thumb we can clearly state obesity is not viewed as an attractive trait by the majority of society. I know that's a hard pill to swallow considering 70% of the US is obese so most of those might not have a choice but still, this whole thread is filled with way too many PC bluepills if you ask me. Just reeks of cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.It's not about taking something away, it's about men not having a clearly defined role anymore. Most men aren't out to be domineering jackasses, but most men are wired to protect and provide. Having someone to work and labour for. We're wired to take pride in creating and sustaining, persevering through hardship because of a personally defined greater good. But for men who saw family as that greater good, it has mostly fallen away. Hence: "why do we suffer?" has become a much more pertinent and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Is this finally a safe place for progressive men who believe in equity for all? Please help me with advice on my extremist partner.It'll take balls but remember you're in no way wrong in thinking this. Nor are you somehow a "sexist, racist, misogynist,..." or whatever other some such bullshit for simply standing up for yourself and expressing how you feel in an earnest manner. Good luck buddy | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 7 | Is this finally a safe place for progressive men who believe in equity for all? Please help me with advice on my extremist partner.Yes that's 100 percent the gist of it. After all if a partnership doesn't include basic respect, is it really a relationship? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 13 | Is this finally a safe place for progressive men who believe in equity for all? Please help me with advice on my extremist partner.My partner is a very far left extremist believing that white men are responsible for all her woes and misfortune and that by being me that I somehow play into the paradigm. an issue that somehow white men conceived and brought about to systematically oppress anyone who isn’t white or male She's the left, woke, female version of /pol/ lol. A racist conspiracy-theorist. I hope you're just pulling our legs here. If you aren't, run son. Run hard and fast. I guess the question you can drop on her if … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/12/20 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Is love for men actually out there or am I destined to be giving more than I receive forever?Replying because I want to remember this list for later. Great stuff | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/10/20 11:59 AM |
| 23 | A 15 year old boy was bullied and called in AITA for being over worked and denied foodSeriously though, AITA is probably one of the worst - as in lowest quality - subs on reddit. Blatant validation posts are rampant, not a single bit of decent discussion to be found, downvotes used in the most blatant "I don't agree with you" way possible. Not to mention the clear biases it has against men, adults/elderly, parents etc. I tried to participate a couple times with what I thought were valid points, but you just end up getting gangmobbed if it's even a slightly dissenting opinion. Gar… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad game>Cold approach pick up( Insider tells all, evidence inside+field reports)Are you retarded? What do you call someone who sells sex for goods? A prostitute. Do you add a notch on your "I-got-laid-stick" after paying for having sex with a whore? The answer is self-evident. Maybe you do but no self-respecting man would. Not to mention these aren't even high-quality women to begin with. Actually if you've spent any time at all reading the sidebar you should have reached the same conclusion. It seems to me you have some sort of chip on your shoulder. A bone to pick with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Babied by parents - I feel like my mom does not want me to grow upWhile I've been raised by women my whole life, especially by my mother, I feel that what you're describing now is basically the reason why I've grown fonder of my father over the years and started gravitating towards him. Even though I had relatively little contact with him growing up, I've come to respect him a lot especially now that I've moved abroad and am in the process of lifting my business off the ground. He's noticed my newfound independence and drive, and now actively supports me. It's… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 10:58 PM |
| 7 | Do women challenge men who act dominant?Good lord something that savage should be illegal | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 09:03 PM |
| 2 | how to pick up crackheadsTime to look in the mirror. And call a psych | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Hiring a Tinder manager?1 girl for every 30 hours investment That seems unusually high. ? Either you're 16 and looking for validation or a troll. You're contradicting yourself. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Hiring a Tinder manager?1 girl for every 30 hours investment In what universe is this a good ratio? AND you want to hire someone to throw money at digital pussy? Man, you got issues. Work on yourself not on getting pussy. Pussy is the side dish, not the goal. Pussy is abundant, there's only one you. And that you needs a love tap | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:41 PM |
| 7 | Got brutally remindedAgree with everything except this hit the gym at least 4-5 days a week 3-4 times a week is a better goal for a beginner. Your body isn't used to exercise yet, and you'll be sore as hell going full blast like that in the beginning. Not to mention your muscles need to time to grow and repair. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Don’t Develop Friendship Oneitis for Old BuddiesRead an Oxford study not too long ago that for every new relationship they get into, guys lose 2-3 friends on average. Unsurprising but backed up by science so.. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/19 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Shit test or comfort test?Aye figured as much. Funnily enough though before I could respond (after 20 min) she also texted: "Sorry that was a weird message. Have fun!" I ultimately responded: "If you weren't unique I'd already be gone. Don't worry you're in the harem top ten" Pass or fail lol? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend LMR but could have gone further. What to learn from this?Basically exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks for the advice | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend LMR but could have gone further. What to learn from this?Yeah, basically means touching. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | If, by Rudyard Kipling. Pretty damn good advice. Almost a blueprint for frame.Hm I got mine from a local shop, but I'm sure you'll find something on here or on Amazon or something. | /r/seduction | 26/08/18 09:25 PM |
| 34 | If, by Rudyard Kipling. Pretty damn good advice. Almost a blueprint for frame.Ow right, so basically this poem got published in 1909. 5 years later WW1 broke out. Kipling being a big-time patriot wanted his son Jack to enlist. However, his son had very bad eyesight and didn't pass the medical examination and was refused enlistment. Kipling, being a famous writer and a veteran, pulled some strings in the army. His son got in, and supposedly died after 3 days on the frontlines. Here's the wiki. Kipling spent the next 4 years in vain, scouring field hospitals in search of hi… | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 01:33 PM |
| 11 | If, by Rudyard Kipling. Pretty damn good advice. Almost a blueprint for frame.Got a print of it above my bed. Favorite poem. Although it gets kind of a bittersweet aftertaste if you know the context behind it, and what happened to his son not long after. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Can someone update the sidebar please?To be fair for a sub this big I'm surprised there's only 3 mods | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Severe problem with low energy and low sexualityTo be fair, I read somewhere that it's like a bell curve. Can't find it atm cause phone, but not jerking 4-5 days gives you max T, and after it sort of dwindles down. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Cheating wife gets what she deserves2008 called they want their Ray William Johnson memes back | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/01/17 11:15 PM |
| 18 | How to become more mentally quick/wittyTo add onto the improv classes, it's been my experience that improv classes are helpful simply because you're put into a situation where there is no need to filter yourself. That's the big issue. Alot of people can be witty, but have this internal filter that acts subconciously so they won't be judged upon. When you manage to break through that filter you'll be more relaxed and funnier. It's about the not giving a fuck attitude. This is also why alcohol is such a popular social lubricant. | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The quick guide on how to naturally attract women you want to date with the correct mindsets and understandings (Some of what you read near the end may surprise you)Isn't it a beautiful metaphor then that you need man and woman to create life? Yin and yang, destruction and creation what have you. Would you say you agree when I say that men are a necessity for the balance of the world? Notwithstanding all that, you have some issues. You should see a councelor. Also, as my ying to your yang, I'd appreciate some respect as well. None has been given, so I'll give none either. | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Got accused of rape for the second time in my life, and I'm only 21. Confronting her friday. What to say?Euhm SMV? Sorry kind of new here. And no, actually she was the hottest chick there by far. Besides I'm fairly well-liked by everyone, but I do have a slight reputation of being a 'player'. Mostly from stuff I did in the past. I never use the word, I even hate it myself when people call me that, but it doesn't help the whole ordeal ofcourse. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Got accused of rape for the second time in my life, and I'm only 21. Confronting her friday. What to say?I don't know what specific words she used, but from what I hear, she used them both. But I'm guessing she used rape since it sounds heavier than harrassement. I know her backup friend. It's a chick I've known maybe 2 years longer than I've known her for, which makes it doubly fucked up that she would even think I'd do this. Anyway, I have sufficient backup of my own. And no, telling her about the previous accusation would be like pouring oil on the fire so I'm gonna stay away from that. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Got accused of rape for the second time in my life, and I'm only 21. Confronting her friday. What to say?Great article. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 03:40 PM |
| 24 | Met a cute girl in a club. Very little talking but got sexual fast. How to message her on next day?Your message was fine, she was willing then when she was in that vibe, she wasn't the day after. Nothing to do about it. Don't message her a second time, just move on. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Seeing a girl with alot of jealous guys orbiting. How to handle?Your first point shot through my head a couple of times as well. Been debating that, which landed me here! Thanks for the solid advice. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 03:32 PM |
| 1 | First date troubles...Conversation is an artform. I truly believe this. But that doesn't mean there are no crutches to be found. One of the most important things when having a conversation is 'listening'. Well duh, but I mean listening to what she says, how she said a certain word with that distinct tone of voice. A specific word she used. Unless you get one word answers there is always something to be found deeper. To get a sense of that, perceiving her body language and having strong eye-contact are key. A little g… | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 04:59 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/17/15First date with a girl that recently came out of a long term relationship. Do i avoid the subject entirely and quickly switch to another topic if it comes up, or take a more 'empathic' approach? | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Can the guys in here who have had a lot of success landing hot blondes in the USA share some advice?Well you could also just be stereotyping them too much. Like the fun, dim-witted, party girl so to speak. Which translates to your unsuccesfull with them, since you have a set pattern in your head on how to deal with this specific stereotype. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Can the guys in here who have had a lot of success landing hot blondes in the USA share some advice?It sounds to me as if you rate blonde women higher internally. Which is understandable since we associate blond hair wih youth (babies) abd as such, fertility. Now that you know the why of it, you can rationalize it and put blondes at the same level as brunettes and redheads. A blonde girl is not different from a brunette because she's blonde, it's because you rate them differently. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I let off a girl without coming off as uninterested? (texts inside)Nah she doesn't know who she is, but it's kind of a lost-in-translation thing. The girlfriend is just a female friend (=platonic). But yeah, maybe she got jealous/scared off I don't know, that's what I'm trying to figure out. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I let off a girl without coming off as uninterested? (texts inside)Honestly I'm not sure, I don't think so atleast. We have an unspoken agreement that we can see other people. We laugh about it sometimes when she brings up other guys. I'm definitely not, but maybe she is... Oh, also I should mention we haven't seen eachother for a couple of months. (4-5) | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 11:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I let off a girl without coming off as uninterested? (texts inside)Nah that's something that's kinda missed in translation. She's simply a female friend, but it's possible she mistook it and got jealous. And no she doesn't know her. | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 11:04 AM |
| 9 | "thats not how consent works" pure ownage of feminist at a rallySerious question. I get that women want to wear what they want, totally get that. But they can't possibly imagine that they won't be judged because of it by men (and women) on the streets right? I mean, I don't live in the USA so I don't know what your 'street etiquette' is like over there. But a girl that wears something that only covers up 20% of their body, like some of the ones in the video will most definitely get some nasty looks as well as lustfull stares. It's nature right? It sounds sil… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/06/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | "thats not how consent works" pure ownage of feminist at a rallyIt's Churchill... right? braces butthole | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/06/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Apparently wearing skimpy clothing in a school environment is a way to support women's rights and "equality in school"Many entries in the spank bank will be made by the boys in that school. Best weeks of their lives | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/05/15 09:34 AM |
| 1 | BP: If you overhear a muscular, bald, bearded man in a tank top say the following statement, what would be the first thought that comes to your head?My first thought? Well he's obviously not afraid to speak what's on his mind so I have to give him credit for that. Which would be followed by, but that's kind of rude though to say in a public place though. But then again it isn't my conversation or my business so what the hell do I care. That would probably be my thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 12:19 AM |
| 2 | [Serious]How to not get a raging erection when talking to women?Like... simply talking to one when you're 2 feet away from eachother or when you're up close and personal? In any case: ayyy | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:59 PM |
| 1 | So I have read The Tao Of Badass more than once and another book, what else is worth reading?The book of Pook, Models, No more mr nice guy,... | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:52 PM |
| 4 | What to say if a girl asks why you approached them?'Because I wanted to talk to you.' Or something like 'Why not/wouldn't I?' However, the tone is more key than the words here. It's normal for people to want to talk to eachother. Act like it's not a big deal (because it isn't). Or if the blazée attitude doesn't suit you, you could go with 'Afraid you'll fall in love with me?'. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Well, here goes nothing.Coolcoolcool, looks like it's all set up then. You flirted with her, she flirted back, you asked her out, she said yes. What can we deduce from this sequence of events? => She likes you too. Keep that in the back of your mind. Assume the attraction. You've already gotten the hard part out of the way, now it's up to you to gather your balls one more time and pop the question without pissing yourself. You got this. Think about what Mark Manson said: Showing this kind of vulnerability is scary, but… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 12:46 PM |
| 3 | If a female friend (casual environment) is standing so close to you that her boobs 'squish' and she doesn't step back, is she flirting with you?Nice! I'll do the same. Keep me posted! | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 12:22 AM |
| 4 | If a female friend (casual environment) is standing so close to you that her boobs 'squish' and she doesn't step back, is she flirting with you?Hehe i know right. They're both valid though which is why we probably need a female perspective on this. Can anyone text/call an fwb or something? It's 3 am for me and mine is already sleeping | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | what to do when flirting with the same girl?Alternatively, make it into a game. This needs to be done with big shit-eating grins and confidence but it's hilarious if it works out. Essentially, you start playing blind-date with the three of you. Opposite sides of the wall or just with their backs to eachother. You/friend ask questions, they answer, then you switch positions. It's key to make the questions absolutely absurd and or sexual. Like, would you ever lick chocolate off his balls? for example. Or make up a story together where you g… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I hurt my GF and she left me for another guy. I know she still loves me.. please help me get her back.. i may have messed up alreadyCut it out. No more text-messages, certainly no meet-up where you pour your heart out. That's just giving her fuel (for ending the relationship) and ammo (to get back at you later, as well as for all her friends.). You don't want to do either of those. It's time to become stone-cold man. A paradoxical truth here is: the less you care, the more she'll care and what you're doing is the opposite of that. The more you care, the less she'll care. In other words you're digging your own grave by sendin… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number when she had a boyfriend. Whats your favorite response to "I have a boyfriend"?I don't get this sub anymore man. When I first came here a couple of years ago, I learned SO MUCH. Some of these seemingly harsh/disrespectful to women mindsets and attitudes etc. that were discussed here back then have yielded me great results. I'm still seeing 1 girl in particular to this day from my early days on this sub, and I would have never met her if I didn't know about all this stuff. The point I'm getting to is this. Cut the crap. You're on this sub to learn how to pickup girls right?… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Judge Judy denies this girl's pussy pass throughout her entire testimony.Anyone got a mirror? Or the title/number of the episode? Can't find it anywhere | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/03/15 09:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about No Fap?I've never done it for long periods of time. 2 weeks at most, but what I've learned from it is that, it's kind of like a cheat code for a simulation (not the real thing),... of how you're supposed to act with women in a sexual manner. You get a brief glimpse of that world where you're just not giving a fuck about reactions and want to get pussy fast. It makes you straight-forward, unscrupulous but a bit of a mad-man at the same time. However, obviously it doesn't last and be warned you can do so… | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 03:57 PM |
| 2 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manAre you OP on a different account? You defended him in another question somewhere above. Smells fishy | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 02:00 AM |
| 10 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manDon't come across as so condescending. You sound like a 16 year old who has just read The Game for the first time. Interesting | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 01:12 AM |
| 16 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manHonestly, I find the value of this passions/hobbies pseudo-circlejerk so overstated. First off, everyone has hobbies although they may not be recognized as such by society and they might not even know it themselves. Going out to a bar every night isn't exactly what most people would call a hobby, but what if I reframed it as 'socializing and networking', 'bonding with (potential) friends'? It's all a matter of perspective. Secondly, every human being, wether they're ugly, beautiful, fat, slim sh… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 12:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] "You're different..."Where is the part in the TOB about how to treat other men? | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Problem talking to short girlsUuhm, just don't worry about it? Unless you're freakishly tall like +2.10 meters I wouldn't make an issue out of it. I'd rather taller than shorter, trust me. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 09:26 PM |
| 3 | How can I find out if a girl has a boyfriend?You could always ask.. But why not just try to game her like any other single girl? If she has a bf, she'll tell you. Lot's of possibilities here. | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 03:47 PM |
| 1 | is sex on the first date advisory?Lol, guess u are a retard after all. Good luck pall | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Just came back from a partyMy 2 cents on your (way too general) question: you're at a party to have fun. Flirting is fun. Party=fun=flirting. Have fun. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 02:23 PM |
| 3 | is sex on the first date advisory?This is a bad question because seduction is not a science. Look at it like psychology. Everyone is different, and every situation is different. If she takes off your belt with her bare teeth while she's ripping your clothes off and you say something like: 'you know, I think I'd rather wait..' It's going to rub her the wrong way. Unless u absolutely do not want to have sex with her ofcourse, but this should be a given. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 01:56 PM |
| 2 | What are some good "filler" conversations?To build onto this: When she finishes a story/sentence,... Rephrase it in your own words. This shows that you listen to what she's saying and will validate yourself and her in the process. You can await her response or tack something extra on there. This is an easy way to portray value and maked every conversation alot more open-hearted and easy in general. You can use this with everyone, even your guy friends will appreciate someone who actually listens. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 01:51 PM |
| 20 | [FR] Warning: Long! #/K-Close, dealt with an AMOG and an AFC, intentionally said no to F-Close (explanation within)You left her, (and yourself) better than when you first found her. Awesome. A true gentleman. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 05:03 PM |
| -12 | Seddit, what is your "go-to" escalation for the kiss/sex once back at yours/her place?Just whip it out. If you're already back at your/her place, I'm guessing both of you know what's up. Why not be ballsy about it and go caveman? | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line.Different strokes indeed! But that's the thing about the game isn't it? There isn't that one magic line you can say to swoonnover a girl. This approach has worked for me a lot of times, but it might not work as well for others. I can only share it in the hopes someone else will pick up something from it! | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:21 PM |
| -20 | Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line.Nice one! If I can share mine as well: 'What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done?' blabla 'Well we're going to beat that' kiss | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 11:47 AM |
| 7 | Are you a boy or a Man? Your 20 point checklistI have this poem hanging on my wall above my bed. It's really my all-time favorite poem. It's also a great thing to have when girls come over. It displays value because you're bettering yourself, you're into poetry, blabla... Little known fact btw, Rudyard Kipling was a great advocate for WW1, and scorned those who didn't adhere to the call of arms of their country. So he insisted that his son, Jack would fight in the frontlines. However after being turned down twice due to his poor eyesight in … | /r/seduction | 25/05/13 09:15 PM |
| 3 | [FR] #-closed a cute waitress by working on inner gameProps on this one! Came across as very chill and down to earth! Keep us posted OP! | /r/seduction | 25/05/13 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Don't go out to get girls, go out to have funExactly! Well put | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 04:17 PM |
| 26 | Don't go out to get girls, go out to have funAs well intentioned as this post and the message it conveys is, I can't help but feel somewhat... reserved about this new hype of 'don't try to seduce, or think about the girls, just have fun' kinda thing that has sprouted up recently. For one, I don't know if you all realise this, but seducing girls is SUPPOSED to be fun! If you have this mindset that seducing is work and not play, and you'd rather hang with your bros untill you've entered god-mode so to speak, you're missing lot's of opportuni… | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, let's construct a checklist/summary of all the pointers you want to keep in mind before going out.Mystery?! Is that you? | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Struggling With Inner GameI get what you're feeling. Felt like I had everything going for me and everything was working out great in the beginning of the year, and now since february-something, I don't have that 'oompf' anymore, that drive to chase girls. Like I switched my engine into a lower gear. I still hang out plenty with my circle, but it's different at parties nowadays. I'm just having fun and not getting distracted with the constant hassle of chicks. Personally I have no idea why this came to be, but I think tha… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Going To Start Going Out In Hard Mode.Going 'hard mode', as you call it, seems like a really stupid idea to me tbh. So what if girls like you just for your looks etc. You probably just had a bad night, it happens to everyone. Simply try again with the next HB8, don't be too hard on yourself. Don't throw away all your hard work, it'll just make you more insecure in the end. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Should I[M22] go for it?These kind of questions can pretty much always be answered with the same answer: 'You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.' Meet up again, get a sense of how comfortable she is around you (kino, escalate etc.) Then make up your mind, and go for it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/13 04:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met girl from OkCupid for a casual date, f-closed her roomate. WTFQuestion: I've come across the same thing you've had with 7 a few times now, meaning: i want to date and i really like you but i'm not down for a casual hook-up. How do you let a girl down easily in those situations? Or even better, any way of avoiding em? | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 01:28 PM |
| 2 | ITT: We post our best lines/moves/whateverKinda mooshy this one but what the heck right? Should be done right before you're about to kiss her: 'What's the most adventurous thing you've done in your entire life?' 'Her reply', you: 'Oh, well let's (go?) do something about that. 'Kiss with sparkles and firework'' ! | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingWell, I might have implemented an accidental brain-fart into my post. Anyway what it comes down to is that RSD is awesome, but you should take everything, not just RSD, with a pinch of salt. This goes for life as well btw. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 10:30 AM |
| 11 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingNormally, I wouldn't openly advocate for RSD. But in this case, I say: 'Dude, go to youtube, type in: Rsdfreetour/rsdtyler,... And wat h some of those vids. I found their advice really helpful in those situations. Remember that what you think is awkward, is actually less awkward and what you think is less awkward is actually more awkward. Ex: standing against the wall = less awkward in your perspective, but it's actually more awkward because you're just standing there while everyone around you i… | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 06:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] From platonic "date" to F-Close. Guys, take a girl dancing.Nicely done! You did well, just remember that you are the shit, you have what it takes and maybe even more! Small-talk is hard sometimes, just relax and try to step out of your head and into the moment. Good luck to ya! | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 10:30 AM |
| 3 | 3rd time I've got in the boyfriend-zone. Tha fucq?Solid. Thanks for the advice. This was an eye-opener. I'll make sure to keep the 'plausible deniability' in mind from now on! Didn't hear about this before, so thanks. All of you, have an upvote for shits and giggles! | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 10:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Failed club pick-up, too loud?Honestly, you are giving me, and yourself, a hard time figuring out what it is that you want. You mention in your first fucking line that you wanted to start your real pick-up experience. Yet when you enter the club and (or at least so you claim) the first girl that sees you, wants to kiss you, you bail out. This would have been a perfect warm-up. As easy as it gets, get the horny going. Which will put you in state and raise your social value,... I don't fucking care if she's a 3 a 4 or a Victor… | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 10:49 PM |
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