Well, here goes nothing.

keep_on_keeping_on · 2015-04-28T03:54:48+00:00

Sounds like the two of you are in high school based on your prom comment which is awesome because it makes you a young seducer. This means that there's a strong likelihood that you will meet and seduce numerous women as your journey continues.

My advice to you is simple: if you like her, the easiest way to find out is to talk to her and ask. Be as direct as possible. It sounds like you might be a bit nervous about this prospect but it's only after we face our fear that we can build courage. It might seem overwhelming at this time, but in 5 years when you look back at this memory, it'll just be a story. So try and go in relaxed. Have fun with it and see how things go. Just make sure you find out whether or not she's into you.

And if she's into you and she's into you then fantastic! And if she is not into you then, that's cool, you learned something from it all and you'll have many more opportunities in your future.

FlashAttack · 2015-04-28T12:46:13+00:00

Coolcoolcool, looks like it's all set up then. You flirted with her, she flirted back, you asked her out, she said yes. What can we deduce from this sequence of events? => She likes you too. Keep that in the back of your mind. Assume the attraction.

You've already gotten the hard part out of the way, now it's up to you to gather your balls one more time and pop the question without pissing yourself. You got this.

Think about what Mark Manson said: Showing this kind of vulnerability is scary, but hugely attractive as well (if done right) because it shows you are not afraid of getting rejected. You know that it won't be the end of the world if it doesn't work out, but if it does, all the merrier.

MrSelfImprovement · 2015-04-28T20:30:30+00:00

I always live by the idea "Don't tell her you like her, show her." Flirt with her. Prolonged eye contact and smiles while talking. Establish physical contact and escalate from there. Eventually culminating into holding her hand or kissing her (depending on how far you kids are willing to go).

Title	Well, here goes nothing.
Author	Slaglord42
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	April 28, 2015 3:35 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/34445c/well_here_goes_nothing/
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