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Cut it out. Learn to give your advice without the condescending bs or leave.
/r/RedPillWives21/10/20 02:56 AM
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Ask a men's sub
/r/RedPillWives29/09/20 07:40 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWives/comments/iy6ajm/what_is_redpillwives_how_does_it_differ_from
/r/RedPillWives24/09/20 08:58 PM
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A single slap when a man loses himself out of anger is very different to dragging you around by the hair, poking you in the eyes (!!) and pouring water over you. That crosses a line from being angry to being sadistic in my mind. You're not married, you don't have kids, and this is a pattern. You've obviously got a lot of work to do on yourself and you know that, but first step is to get yourself out of this mess of a relationship. Just pack up and go stay with a friend, and please don't try dati…
/r/RedPillWives20/09/20 12:26 AM
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Oh, my bad. It's nice you're on the same page, but honestly at 18 a lot can change. I don't mean to be negative, but until you are married and your husband is making enough to support you both, you should be working off the assumption that you will need your own salary. It's possible you don't marry this guy. It's possible he doesn't make enough to support you both. It's possible he decides he no longer wants the stress of being a sole breadwinner. He may lose his job. He may divorce you. SO man…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 07:04 AM
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Even for women who want to stay at home, the assumption should always be that you will need to work. IF you end up with a man who can afford to support you both and IF that man actually wants you to stay home indefinitely, and IF god forbid you never divorce or left alone prematurely, then great. But that outcome is just not something you can count on with any certainty. So in a sense, your mother is right. At 18 you should be focusing on working toward a profession that will allow you to suppor…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 06:51 AM
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I would bet my house on her problem being less about housework and more about feeling unappreciated and bored. Do you still seduce her and flirt and praise her cooking and take her on dates like you used to? Taking care of a three year old and doing the same repetitive chores day-in day-out without adult company is no fun either. This is going to get removed as the sub is not for male questions, but you need to go over to MRP, read the sidebar (not so much the posters) and learn how to be a man …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 06:49 AM
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At the moment he's getting everything he wants. Sweet attention from you and sex from the ex. You're kidding yourself if you think they aren't fucking. You've told him you're open to being casual with him, why would he not take you at your word? Don't tell men things you don't mean. It's going to be tricky to backpedal from that, but I think your best bet now would be to girl-game and flirt with him, make your intentions known, and when (if) he makes a move you try to have that conversation agai…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 02:01 AM
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I'm curious which advice from this thread you feel is not RP?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 10:27 PM
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Yes! I listen to her lectures when I go running sometimes hah
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 06:53 AM
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So then how do we explain men who live with a woman for years and never marry her? You're talking to one of them ^ If your goal is to marry, then you're better off listening to married women than unmarried men.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 04:38 AM
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I mean, she wouldn't be in the wrong to end it over anything she felt like ending it over. Him complaining about her boobs made her feel shitty, why on earth would you continue a month-long "relationship" after that?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 11:11 PM
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Here? In this sub? I don't think you know where you are.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 10:36 PM
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If you're going to break up with him, there's nothing to "navigate". Don't even meet up to talk. Just call or message him and tell him you don't want to see him again.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 10:33 PM
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Yeah, it's one thing to think it. Completely unnecessary to say it out loud unless it's a deal breaker. Shows poor social skills.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 10:30 PM
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Love that you read Camille Paglia. She's got a lot to say on gender dynamics.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 10:21 PM
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You're welcome :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 01:07 PM
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Dominant and submissive are just words we use to describe more complex patterns in relationships. Red Pill is all about recognizing that men and women have different drives and are satisfied in different ways. For a man to be happy he generally needs to feel like he's in control and has some kind of ownership over his woman. A woman typically feels better in a supporting role to a man she admires and can happily defer to. This surface-level dynamic is male-led, but it doesn't mean that a woman d…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 12:32 PM
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Women possess and always have possessed soft power over men. RPW is actually all about soft power - treating your man in a way that makes him happy and makes him want to take care of you and treat you with affection. We recognize that men are happiest and feel most masculine when they are in control of certain things, and everything we discuss here is really at its core about nurturing those feelings because they lead to happy relationships and happy families.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 10:37 AM
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Laura Doyle's book The Surrendered Wife was basically written for someone like you. Give it a go.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 09:25 PM
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What exactly are you asking? Do you want advice on changing his sexual preferences? Some guys just don't like it. You can wait a few days for it to finish or do something else in the meantime.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 09:24 PM
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Right and wrong aside, is this a smart decision? No. Uprooting your life for a boyfriend will always raise an eyebrow from me. Add to that that this is an LDR - how much solid time have you actually spent together? Are you compatible in the day to day? Will you live with him immediately? How did you meet? Are you a student? What do you do for work? What will you do for work over there? How will you even work without a visa? Is he aware that he will need to marry you to keep you there for longer …
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 01:03 AM
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You're going to struggle finding a liberal non-feminist
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 01:01 PM
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Politically liberal but not feminist?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 12:34 PM
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Is it not possible that the research scientist 10 years your senior has a better understanding of the world than you? All this prattling on about sjw indoctrination and fleeing the country during some impending national disaster is coming across as incredibly neurotic and immature, and I suspect that his refusal to discuss it may be to avoid telling you as such. You're coming at RPW backwards. What you're doing now is reserving your deference because you don't know his specific stance on x, y an…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 10:15 PM
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that's great that your husband recovered from his alcoholism, and i truly hope it stays that way, but the reality is that most people with addictions do not recover in the long term. of course we should vet for character, but an addictive personality falls under that. the women here are mostly young, and for a decent young woman the options are almost endless. we should be encouraging these women to pursue the best option possible, and that includes avoiding things like alcoholism when there is …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 06:23 AM
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I didn't say it was easy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 02:52 AM
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You're 30 with children of your own. If your parents are problematic at this stage you leave them behind. Indulging in drama with your dad is behind you now.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 02:26 AM
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My husband asked for my dad's blessing, but they're close and it was just a polite thing. My dad asked him "well what are you going to do if I say no?" and my husband said "well obviously I'm going to marry her anyway", which was the right answer, apparently.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 11:38 PM
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I don't really know what you're looking for here. Your dad made it clear he doesn't like your bf, your bf for some reason asked his blessing when you're 30 years old and already have children, and your dad reinstated his feelings on your bf. What was the bf expecting when he went to ask permission? Why are you surprised? You're both adults, you have a family together. Getting hung up on a pointless traditional formality and turning it into an issue is a waste of energy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 11:36 PM
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No, if he doesn't reply to your last message then let him go. If he's not interested in chasing you now it's only going to go downhill and you'll just be left wanting.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 06:58 AM
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RPW isn't a place for men to pick the brains of women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 11:45 AM
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Why have you come to the women's sub to discuss what men should do? This post is for TRP, not RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 11:41 AM
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Maybe try The Way of the Superior Man. Similar concepts without the TRP talk.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/20 12:03 PM
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You're literally describing a masculine women in a pretty package.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 09:41 PM
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What? She came here to discuss it, not to practice and display her femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/20 01:09 AM
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And what's wrong with that? Single sex spaces have always existed for men to talk among men and women among women. I don't understand why guys insist on interjecting here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 10:39 PM
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Go back to your gross porn subs
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 10:34 PM
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Your best bet on this is to just ignore the world outside of the one you've built for yourself. Does your boyfriend treat you well? Good. That's all that matters. Ignore the men at Work, they're not your problem. When the guy tries to show you pics, just say no, not interested. Practice letting go of these things that don't directly affect you. It will help you in lots of areas, not just this specific issue.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 10:33 PM
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Ok and what makes you think RPW is the right place for your mgtow screed? Sucks you've been hurt, but this thread isn't about you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 10:28 PM
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You're not married, if you're not into infidelity then leave him
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 09:19 PM
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He's a liar
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 08:48 PM
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She was a cam girl that he bought services from... she posts nudes on her social media and he looks at them. Yiiikes. This would have been relevant to add in the post. There's a difference between "a friend you're not comfortable with" and "a sex worker he's paid money to". She's not a friend, and those nudes she's posting are advertising. No loss on your end. Move on and date a guy who doesn't need to keep in touch with hookers he's hired ffs.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 11:44 AM
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This is dead in the water and you know that. Why are you asking us permission to leave him? Just do it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 04:36 AM
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We never spoke directly about proposals, but knew we were on the same page regarding marriage. Before we were engaged, my husband mentioned wanting to buy real estate together. I told him that I would love that, but would not mix our finances until we were married. He proposed a month later and we were married a few months after that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 11:58 AM
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You should stick to the men's sub https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/hblwta/mens_questions_belong_on_asktrp Men who participate on RPW should have expert level red pill knowledge, demonstrated by an extensive post history on the men's subs.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 09:44 PM
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You're talking a lot without saying much. What is your intention in coming to the women's sub with your rambling theories? Why are you here?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 09:35 PM
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Oh come on. Are you saying men didn't cheat on their wives before the sexual revolution?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 09:13 PM
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That has absolutely nothing to do with what I or he said. Perhaps you should review the rule about male participation on the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 01:29 AM
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What are you talking about, retard? I'm married to a brilliant man and have never wanted for male attention. Get out of the women's sub.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 12:47 AM
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When we were dating, my husband initiated almost all of our dates. Now that we're married and both busy with our lives, I will usually check in with him when he's got time and plan something for us to do together.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 12:41 AM
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Your response is a personal preference and doesn't help OP at all. This sub is here for her to learn, not you
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 12:39 AM
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She's not trying to date you
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/20 01:29 AM
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He's a grown man, he's not going to. You should find someone else who aligns better with your values. It's been 4 months, that's nothing. The point of dating is to suss these things out and move along if they don't hit the mark.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 08:53 AM
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Yes, you can, but you need to be willing to outsource the unnecessary bits. You can't be mom and wife and doctor AND Betsy Homemaker baking fresh bread and scrubbing the toilet. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/hal16c/z/fv6phfs
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 05:32 AM
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Heaven forbid a woman have "feelings" about her marriage, her husband, and her rape. Are you a woman with advice to give, or just another guy dropping in to hear himself talk?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 03:06 AM
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Do you believe him when he says he doesn't remember you telling him about the rape? I find it very difficult to believe he would forget a conversation like that, and as much as I dislike the word, denying it happened is pretty classic gas-lighting. I would advise you to try to separate your lack of spark or emotional connection from his objective flaw (inviting your rapist to your wedding and then lying about knowing). The former can be dealt with and is something you can work on, the latter is …
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 02:55 AM
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I think you'd be better off directing this question to people from your own culture/religion. Most of the women here are western and only have experience with western men. Outside of religious circles, it is very rare for a college age couple to date for 10 months without having sex.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 01:10 AM
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Block him
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 09:20 PM
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Oh yeah? Were you dating women 40 years ago?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 07:37 AM
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I think that porn is singlehandedly responsible for much of the softness and laziness we see in men today. They're replacing their natural urges to pursue women with an easy replica, and it's dampening their masculinity. I'm sure there are people who use it in a less destructive way, but ick, no thanks. I'm so glad my husband isn't into it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 09:28 AM
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He said that ideally, I would be a stay at home mom and he would be the provider. He's not 100% sure about marriage and kids either because you hear all these stories...proceeds to talk about unfair court systems" You need to get on the same page here. He's 31, he should know by now where he stands on marriage and children. This feeble back and forth is weak minded and a far bigger problem than how much money he makes imo. If he's expecting you to be a stay at home mother as a forever girlfriend…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 12:20 AM
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Who exactly is bragging about men trying to fuck them?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 01:53 PM
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Then i asked if there were gonna be other women at the “get together” and he said yes. Next
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 01:51 PM
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Red pill is correct insofar as it describes the differences between male and female sexual strategy, motivations and behavior. I've read the way of the superior man (albeit years ago) and the only difference is the book leans into and appreciates these differences, while the men who show up at TRP communities tend not to. There's a lot of anger over there because these men can't accept and enjoy the fact that women are different. We're not seen as a distinct and complementary sex to them, were s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 12:53 AM
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I think it was Marilyn Monroe who said "I don't mind it being a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it". Feminine traits are looked down on as weak and useless by most men today. Emotional, irrational, indecisive, weak, superstitious, dependent. Men today don't want women, they want a man's brain in a hot female body. Why would a woman work to hang on to her femininity (making herself soft and vulnerable) when it isn't valued? It's far safer and more acceptable to appropriate men.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 12:32 AM
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What I mean is that feminists have seemingly jumped straight OVER the feminine and have, themselves, further emphasized the masculine, but for themselves. No. Feminists behave masculine because we live in a world that is run by men, for men, where the default way of being is as a man. Femininity is seen as less than, so the only way to be taken seriously in a man's world is to behave like one.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 10:39 AM
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I do think that men as a whole have lost their frame, and that when you combine this with the devaluation of femininity, it makes sense that women are pushing further and further into feminism. Just like in a relationship, it's unwise to surrender and show your softness when you can't trust a man to lead competently. I think that a lot of the bitterness we see from men toward women comes from a place of weakness. They don't feel strong enough to lead/direct a woman, they get angry and sour over …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 10:35 AM
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I've seen the same as you in regards to high powered men wanting successful women. None of the men in our circles keep housewives, and they generally don't need the money. I've kept my career (bar a few breaks here and there when needed), though am more strict about not working overtime etc than my husband. My family time is family time without exception, and while this has slowed my career progression down, it hasn't ended it at all. I view my role in housekeeping as more of a manager than a "w…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 01:10 AM
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Do you think you're perhaps a little depressed? Have you spoken to a doctor or psychologist about these feelings? We all feel a little lost at times. When I'm feeling this way I like to take stock of my life and think about where I'd like to make changes, set some goals for the next few months. There's a lot of systems out there, but I've used this one and like it - https://alexvermeer.com/8760hours/
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 03:39 AM
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This is very vague. Can you be more clear on how you "are not who you truly are"?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 03:26 AM
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I would honestly avoid anything Red Pill adjacent when looking for a man. "Red Pill" is all about recognizing the differences between men and women, and using that to achieve our own sexual strategies. Because men's and women's strategies are often at odds (sleeping around vs marriage and children), you'll likely run into trouble with red pill men. /r/TheRedPill generally advises against commitment and marriage, most men there will be looking for casual sex /r/MarriedRedPill are mainly men who a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 03:21 AM
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Ok, we'll see
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:52 AM
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Ok I disagree with you that there's any chance of pedophilia being legalized. I think the furthest they'll ever go are those Romeo and Juliet laws where teens can have sex with someone close to their own age without being prosecuted. I'm personally fine with that. But the adult man, young boy dynamic that nambla is about is a non-starter. Look at the disgust and outrage around Epstein. He's as powerful as they come and was on his way to a life in prison had he not died. I agree with you that ped…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:28 AM
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No, I'm not saying that at all. I can recognize that she is philosophically consistent without liking the practical end-game of her theory. I am morally against pedophilia, of course, but reading her thoughts about it doesn't outrage me. There is exactly zero chance of pedophilia being legalized in America. Her discussing these things is an intellectual exercise with zero practical implications.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:20 AM
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We both know that nambla will never gain traction and pedophilia will never be legalized. There is no practical implication to her saying these things. They're just words.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:15 AM
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What has she said that is incoherent?
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:10 AM
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I'm not sure it's that. Her beliefs are controversial and she likes to be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:02 AM
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Ok sure, and like I said I'm interested in her writing on sex and culture, not the moral implications of that. I don't think that writers have an obligation to be politically or morally correct. In fact, I appreciate her writing because she makes no effort to hide herself, even when what she believes is disagreeable.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 02:01 AM
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You're doing yourself a huge disservice by giving him this much of your mental bandwidth. Meet someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 01:58 AM
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Wait, are you even with the guy? You say you were seeing him "a while back". If you're not dating, it's none of your business. Just move along and date someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 01:52 AM
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Ask him
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 01:45 AM
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I'm actually not interested in discussing morality, and nor is Paglia imo. Her writing on feminism and sex and culture interest me on an intellectual level and I'm able to disconnect that from any personal morals I hold. In the same way I can enjoy a Polanski film despite disagreeing with things he's done.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 01:35 AM
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/r/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 11:54 PM
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Her writing is far better than her videos. Provocations is a great place to start.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 11:49 PM
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I'm also off-side with her re the nambla stuff, but if you read her works and look at her statements in that context I feel like it takes on more of a theoretical than a practical slant. It would be philosophically inconsistent for her to make the arguments that she does against puritanism and modern neuroticism and then 180 on this particular issue. It is the logical conclusion of her thesis, whether or not we like the results. It's very difficult to separate our moral feelings (of course child…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 11:48 PM
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LOVE her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 08:52 PM
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Sure, just know that you'll be perpetually misunderstood
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 10:18 AM
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No, words have meanings and you're using them wrong. SMV and RMV are different.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 05:37 AM
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No. SMV and RMV are totally different things. I have no idea why either of you are discussing a link between travel and SMV (which for women, pretty much starts and ends at looks). It affects RMV for sure, but in different ways for different men. Some men want a worldly, adventurous woman, others see that as a liability. There is no RP truth on women who travel, just personal preference.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 04:35 AM
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Right. And men are not a monolith. My husband and I both traveled extensively before we met, and he loves that my idea of fun is trekking around the sketchy parts of Sri Lanka with him. Being an experienced traveler doesn't make me sexy, but it sure as hell makes me a more enjoyable wife for him. If /u/mugatucrazypills wants a sheltered girl to stay home in an apron, great. That's his personal preference and irrelevant to RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 04:07 AM
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Why are you so hung up on SMV? This thread is about marriage, RMV, not sex.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 08:53 PM
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People who marry in their late 20s are typically meeting these men in their mid-20s.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 09:48 AM
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If the subject is raised elsewhere (eg friends break up due to cheating, storyline on TV) you could just casually mention it. "Oh that's so awful, I would never stay with a cheater!"
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 06:18 AM
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She needs a positive female role model, this isn't something you can teach. Put her in touch with an older female cousin, aunt, friend who can guide her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 06:09 AM
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If cheating is a deal breaker, you need to be prepared to walk. Your dad keeps doing this because your mother lets him get away with it. Make sure any men you're dating know you require fidelity, and don't end up in a position where you're unable to support yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 04:56 AM
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I'm sure this will be deleted soon, but why on earth do you think western women would want a mail order husband service? This is nuts.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 12:02 AM
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He's a married man who spends his all time in MGTOW forums. He's failed spectacularly at building a happy marriage, so I wouldn't listen to a word he says.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 06:49 AM
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That particular MRP, sepean, turned up with his wife asking for advice a few years ago. He was threatening to leave her while she was pregnant, because she wasn't acting slutty enough for him... While she was pregnant. He's cranky with RPW because we told her that making threats to abandon her while pregnant with their 3rd kid is not hot alpha behavior, it's a liability. He thought that her following RPW was an excuse to carry on like an idiot, and she'd have to smile and go along with it. I wou…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 05:15 AM
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Do you live in America? Are you religious? Secular westerners have never obsessed over virginity like this. Get out of whatever weird youtube hole you've fallen down and look at the normal people around you. Are they all marrying virgins? Where exactly would your guy even find a virgin? Virgin women tend to be very young and/or religious, and they're not giving it up for 30 year old men who have been engaged before. Is this something your fiance actively complains about, or are you getting yours…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 12:06 AM
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Yeah. He's just a tradcon who is mad that he didn't get the tradcon life he thought he was entitled to. He's mistaking his bitterness for red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 12:30 AM
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Which is almost every man who has high marriage market value False. Every man I've ever been attracted to, and every man I've ever seriously dated (including my husband) has slept around, and none of them have obsessed, or even asked, about my count. Attractive men sleep around, and women are pretty universally turned off by men who are unable to. Have you heard of preselection? You're looking at the world how you wish is was, not how it actually is. There is nothing red pill about what you're s…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 09:12 PM
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Attraction is not negotiable, and women who are not attracted to their husbands are chronically unhappy. Your boyfriend doesn't seem to be masculine enough to trigger that attraction in you, and there's nothing either of you can do about it. You're young, you've learnt a valuable lesson from him, now it's time to find someone more suitable for you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 05:13 AM
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Perhaps sort out your porn addiction before coming to school the ladies.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 03:24 AM
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Oh yep that makes a lot of sense. He's often in here telling women that it's our responsibility to spark our own desire for our men, that no matter how he carries on it is our job make ourselves feel sexual attraction. This always confused me as it is entirely contradictory to the RP canon that attraction can't be negotiated, and the mindset of TRP and MRP that a man can and should game a woman to stoke her reactive sex drive. In his mind, everything is always the woman's fault, which totally ma…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 04:00 AM
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99% of his posting history is juvenile complaints about the sex lives of women he's never met. I have no idea why he thinks he has something to offer this sub 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 12:35 AM
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He just comes here to play team-man. There's nothing RP about his opinion on this.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 02:04 AM
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Slippery slope
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 10:43 PM
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I think it will be difficult to get appropriate advice on a site where most people are western and secular. Dating culture and strategies vary vastly, so what works for a young American woman in a big city is not going to be relevant to a non-western religious country.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 07:59 PM
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If you're planning on remaining a virgin until marriage, I don't think dating at college will serve you well. Most men your age are not looking for a celibate relationship leading to marriage. Are you American? Religious?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 11:20 AM
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Perhaps because core to the red pill worldview is that men and women are different and have sexual strategies that are mostly at odds. A man that is following red pill will usually have goals that are not in line with a women who follows RPW. Married red pill is a little different in that they're working within the context of marriage, but if you spend a little time there you'll see that most of the men on that sub advise against marriage. Many of them are simply sticking it out and trying to im…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 07:21 AM
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I disagree with OP's weird moralistic stance on this, but is it not RP thought that a woman can be attracted to traits that she doesn't display herself? That men and women are different in what they bring to a relationship, and what they value in each other? I'm fairly introverted and enjoy spending time online, but am attracted to more extroverted men who spend their time out in the real world doing practical things. If I was dating a man and found out he spent a lot of time on reddit, especial…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 06:58 AM
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