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Dude's not even a book, just a pamphlet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:59 AM
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AND never nags you for anal! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:14 AM
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Yup, exactly. So immature..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:41 PM
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Ah yeah I met a lot of these guys too. They tell you how they prefer your 'trim' to be before you even come close to sleeping together. Another said he didn't like vaginas where 'things stuck out'. I mean really... so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:52 AM
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Yaaas queen! Keep living the good life, you deserve it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:19 AM
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Can vouch for this. Ran into several of these guys and YES that is exactly what they mean. Do not be fooled thinking they actually mean 'open to other cultures/viewpoints' or something, because that is not what they are saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:09 AM
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This woman is my new spirit animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:18 PM
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I especially relate to the 'getting to know eachother slowly' part. These days, when they're not 10000 % in love/lust with you on the first date, you get discarded like yesterdays newspaper. Like wtf, you don't even know me and I don't know you, if there is a basic level of interest, common interest and attraction then I think it is worth it at least exploring it a bit further? But I guess I should be happy when this happens, because it shows such an immature mindset and most likely they have so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:27 AM
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Yeah I noticed this too. It's so sad, you'd think they would be happy to have a wonderful woman falling for them, but nooo... suddenly the chase is over and *poof* they're gone. Happened to me so many times, am sick and tired of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:10 AM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:57 PM
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This, exactly. Some of them are just never satisfied with the women that are actually interested in them but are always looking for that perfect woman. Yeah, good luck with that 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:37 PM
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Haha thanks! Hmm not sure if that’s the case, but definitely left him on read just to be sure. Already blocked and deleted too, not worth spending too much thoughts on anymore today or ever :) Thanks for your support, man I love this community ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:30 PM
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Consider it dropped! Or well actually he just sent me a message that he doesn’t want to continue dating so it’s all good anyway! Said it has nothing to do with that discussion but well guess we’ll never know ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:24 PM
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I’m so sorry to hear you went through this. I am almost 100% certain there is nothing you could have done. Men make decisions with god knows what but most of the time it is definitely not their brain! That said, rationalizing this helps a bit but the pain can still hurt like a motherffer so here’s to you: stay strong and never doubt you are a wonderful human being 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:22 PM
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Thanks. Insidious it is because for a moment there I actually thought I might have overreacted! This is why the silent treatment is just so mean, ultimate form of gaslighting. Thank goodness for this sub and you lovely ladies ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:40 PM
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Woah yes, that sounds about right to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:04 PM
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Oh and for those that are wondering what it is that I said wrong: I called him out on saying ‘I don’t drink gin tonics, they are so gay’. I said I thought that was a very stupid thing to say and I hate it when people use gay as a swearword. That apparently massively hurt his feelings and he made me feel guilty for being so nipping and he didn’t know me like that. Guess I wasn’t sweet and submissive enough, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:39 AM
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Yeah going through this right now, was having a great time with a guy, seemed super compatible, then I said something wrong apparently and now he's not responding to my messages anymore. Thanks for the reminder, am definitely dropping him, definitely don't deserve getting the silent treatment (which I also see as a very immature punishment technique from LVM's).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:54 AM
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Are you me?? Beautiful, love every single thing on it. I hope you realize every single goal on there ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:04 PM
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Girl, get rid of him. You deserve better!! Much better to be alone than being with someone who is just playing you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:31 AM
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Imagine this would have been about him assaulting a kid... Would they still be saying 'oh yeah so he raped this kid but he apologized so you definitely should stay with him, he deserves to be forgiven'? I think not. Or well, with men you're never REALLY sure I guess. So hypocritical, yuk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:19 AM
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I work in an office where women are vastly the majority. It is never bitchy, they are all great and there are never any fights or disputes. Truly a very harmonious environment! My belief is women only need to be 'bitchy' when they work in a largely male dominated field where the men also get treated better than the women working there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:16 AM
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Hahaha! But at least with turnip harvesting you get to keep your clothes on and your make-up/hair half decent ;) Yeah this happened to me a few days ago, as a suggestion for a second date. Boy... no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:04 PM
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Also, sex every day for 4 years straight? Ain't nobody got time for that, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:05 AM
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And going swimming! Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:50 AM
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Uuuugh just have to vent!! Went on a date with this guy on Sunday, seemed pretty nice so yeah was open to seeing him again. Then today he proposed to go swimming for the second date... I mean really? Cheap and you get to see me without clothes on the second date? So I told him I am not up for doing that as a date. Then he came back with saying ‘oh yeah that means you would have to wear a bikini right lol’ so yeah he knew what he was asking for. And also said he didn’t like to call meeting up a ‘…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:25 PM
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I read this sub every day, and honestly it gives me so much comfort to know all you awesome ladies are out there. To many more new girls and women joining in the next year(s) 🍸🍸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:32 PM
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Ugh I feel you. Just so. Damn. Tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:05 PM
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Ugh, almost had me fooled... pretty scary indeed :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:40 AM
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Sure:) ‘Not always, some of us need time to blah blah blah’. Do you see how patriarchy works? Are your eyes open yet? If not let me spell it out for you. Men use your kindness to get away with murder because they realize society has conditioned women to be selfless to the point of exploitation. After this he continues about potential and not buying into that, he even uses the term Pick Me women haha! ‘You have a right to have shallow standards because shallow standards are the only way you get h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:16 PM
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From ‘The Unicorn Delusion’ by G.L. Lambert. Can’t say I agree with everything in this book, but there’s definitely some interesting parts like the excerpt above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:50 PM
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Someone on here recently called it ‘the horny hours’. This made me lol so hard and I want to embroider it on all my pillows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:42 PM
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Ugh I feel you. Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:42 PM
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It’s a sad day when you realize you’d kind of want to be a crow rather than a woman. Fingers crossed for reincarnation 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:36 PM
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Very interesting, thanks for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:45 PM
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Man. The bar has really been incinerated by our earth’s lava core 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:38 AM
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Cameron is just... yaaaaas. This is what we are looking for! Poster boy for HVM ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:45 PM
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They just don't seem to want to get it, do they? They think it is a powermove to force our dates into some kind of submissive position, when really it's a way to see if the guy is really interested in you and not just as a pump and dump. Truly not rocketscience but I guess they have to make it fit their own sad narrative. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:41 AM
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Thanks a lot, appreciate the tip :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:58 PM
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Text was retrieved by a kind soul, if you still want to read :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:17 PM
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Unfortunately forgot to ss it, however the comments paint a pretty good picture of what it said :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:15 PM
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Lol! This made me snort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:52 AM
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One of the commenters also said ‘yeah sounds like she cheated’. This is what rape victims deal with, so ffing sad and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:14 AM
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Yeah it’s not hard to read between the lines here. He also probably feels some disgust towards her now because of being raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:05 AM
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Yup, exactly. He’s trying to justify his shitty action. Gross and she is better off without him, in the end. Just feel so bad for her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:56 AM
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This! I've seen it so many times it's an instant left swipe for me. Like say something original, at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:51 AM
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Conclusion: many men have thought like this since the beginning of civilization all around the world. What hope do we have that things have suddenly changed now? Depressing af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:11 AM
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Have you noticed how they make it seem like Dan is the prize HVM but actually he is a total dickhead? Funny how perspective changes over the years ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:51 AM
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Hahaha, his face is like 50% actual face, 50% forehead. I'll pass on those two nights of being badly sexed up, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:46 AM
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Hahaha I once tried to date one like this too, also food industry. He just said just come to the bar where I work then you can have a drink and watch me. Yeah wow so exciting, sounds like a total snoozefest. Politely declined then got called a stuck up, rigid bitch with no spontaneity because I did not want to come sit at his stupid bar last minute late on a weeknight. Aaaand unmatch :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:40 AM
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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:54 AM
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Your guess is as good as mine 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:30 AM
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Ssshhhh don't give away our strategies so openly... You'll expose us! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:03 AM
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Awesome! Thanks for doing this. I know what I'll be playing when working from home today ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:34 AM
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And before. And sometimes during. If he even has a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 01:09 PM
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This made me proud by proxy. Very strong move on your part! Wish you much happiness in the future, it can only get brighter :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 01:07 PM
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You have a real skill for writing, keep it up! Hoping for a part two :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:02 PM
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'Not on here much, follow me on insta: @ fckboi923002' Naaaah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:45 AM
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When he is always on his phone, literally a phone addicition. On his phone when watching a movie, when in the shower, when out for dinner, first thing when waking up... You will get less attention than a damn device. No thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:08 AM
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On average the guys in my city (in Europe) are relatively attractive, but combined with a surplus of girls here and the OLD driven idea that a new girl is right around the corner, they are also mostly shit. But yeah when you go out there's always a lot more pretty girls than guys. (Edit: forgot some words to make this coherent 😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:15 PM
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Ugh that subreddit is the worst. So predictable with all the name puns. Also, it makes me sad when I see all these screenshots of young girls having things like 'I give great head' etc in their bios. Depressing :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 08:13 AM
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Lol yeah I had one like this, texted me late at night and when I replied in the morning, he said he just got home from a party (eeehmmm it was 10 in the morning, ok) and if I wanted to come over and be naked under (or on top of, gotta love he provided options) the blankets. Shit I hadn't even had my morning coffee yet! This was after maybe 10 messages sent and not even one date. Great, saves me time when you straight up let me know you are a dick with fingers. /block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:29 PM
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My god. Suggesting a threesome to make his wife more comfortable with herself... this is truly next level psycho shit. And obviously therapy won't help the psychopath and his utter lack of empathy and love, he is just evil and will never change. The scariest part is that she has no friends/family and a little kid... hope she finds a safe place to stay if she dumps this toxic fungus that's been cosplaying as a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:02 PM
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Sweetheart he told you straight up that he is not in love and doesn't feel much emotional involvement. What does this leave? Physical attraction. Sure he will wait around and see if you will sleep with him, but that will not magically make him fall in love with you as you might have read in countless other posts here on reddit surely. Worst case scenario he will drop you after and tell you that he already told you he wasn't in love and he warned you about it beforehand. Please listen to the ladi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 12:37 PM
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Can't text when you are going 80 mph anyway, that shit's dangerous ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 12:20 PM
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Hun that is a good thing, him not trying to get around blocking. Blessing in disguise, don't you see? This is not about him starting to miss you that way or realizing that he wants you after all etc etc. This is about YOU, protecting yourself from further embarassment, hurt and disappointment. I see you making excuses not to block him straight away, needing to be ready for it and so on. Believe me, I have done this in the past too but I was fooling myself. You still want him to contact you, your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:53 AM
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Hahaha brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:45 AM
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Great!!! On to one that is actually WOW ;) Proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 11:59 PM
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Just threw up in my mouth a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:38 AM
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Who needs BLEH anyway? There’s enough MEH’s in life already, don’t need to add more BLEH to it. Stay strong, let him go, you got this girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:36 AM
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Thanks, needed this reminder today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:17 PM
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Wow definitely some gems in there too... what is up with guys on OLD giving people the finger though? Been seeing more of these recently.. do they think that it’s attractive at all? Truly baffled by this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:53 PM
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Oh my these are hilarious! Please post more whenever you find the time to edit them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 01:56 PM
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No worries if we are lucky he is poly and then we can shaaaare ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:31 PM
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Get in line girl I just texted him where and when we can meet, then getting roughly sodomized (and hopefully survive) after which I will be ghosted. But hopefully then on January 7th at 2.36 am I will receive an ‘wyd’ or if I’m REALLY lucky an ‘u up’ and we can repeat the process once more :). #pickmeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:18 PM
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Oooh tempting! Not scary at all 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:40 AM
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Or this one, such a gem: https://imgur.com/a/vzxDbSz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:16 AM
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Once I dated this guy, who always wanted to have sex without a condom (don’t worry, didn’t let him). He then moved away and we stayed in touch a little bit after that. Some sexting happened and during that he texted something like ‘ooh yeah I want to f*uck you without a condom so badly right now’. Yup, this dude even sexted raw. Go figure 😂 Edit: obviously this was before my fds days :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:42 PM
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Dunno kind of get the feeling more than a few of them are guys larping as women. Some posts just don’t... feel right. More like a guy writing a concealed directive than a woman sharing her experiences. Although surely some are real, sadly :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:22 PM
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‘Anything that allows them to fuck up the world more than they have’. Hahahahaha yes the world is fucked up because of women, not the dickfaces that are currently world leaders. Maybe by ‘the world’ he means his parent’s basement where his pasty ass spends most of its time? Obviously though he has thought long and hard on this but alas, in spite of there being obviously nothing wrong with his moral compass he still isn’t getting any, so yeah best to keep women and imprisoned and enslaved. Even t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:13 PM
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Stumbled on this by the way because I was trying to determine if the guy I am seeing was shittesting me by planning a date one day and then cancelling the next to see how I would respond. Bad move on his part!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:13 PM
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Was looking up some opinions on the book I just read, 'Men don't love women like you' by G. L. Lambert. Then this sub popped up because someone here commented on it. While the book was ok, the gem that is this sub that I found turned out to be MUCH more valuable. Everyday I'm reading new insights and it's the first thing I open on my phone in the morning. The results of all the advice here are already showing, could not be happier. Also seeing this sub grow substantially everyday gives me a lot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 10:31 AM
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Haha was actually gonna type 'but maybe I'm just paranoid' in my message but then decided 'nah, just because I'm paranoid doesn't mean they don't all want to f*ck on the first date ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:07 PM
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Hmm I find it a little shady. Sounds to me like knowing upfront that there was no possibility for some 'fun' after the date (since you are going to a party after), he decided it wasn't worth it and rather reschedule (last minute too, yuk). I'd move on and keep my guard up when he does come around again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 04:00 PM
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Ah I see. Well personally I would not be so impressed with this dude. I mean why didn’t he just ask for your number? He put you in the lead now and I think that doesn’t show genuine interest. And also he did it when drunk, so it didn’t even take a lot of guts to come up to you. Lastly he will now know straight away that you are interested, which kills the mystery of chasing you straight away. To;dr: I would pass on texting him. If he wants to get in contact with you, he needs to work for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:21 AM
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Personally I wouldn't text him. He's your classmate right? If he really likes you he can just ask you out in person when you next see eachother, and he's actually sober.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:10 AM
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Agree. Never, ever again. Especially since I don’t even smoke it! Made him lazy af as well, so sexy this 32(!!) year old. Lesson learned though, these days I run at the first sign of a guy being ‘420 friendly’. Ugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:35 AM
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Haha my ex to a T. Wake and bake, play some stupid video game and then watch the Office. All the while saying that tomorrow he's REALLY going to Jiu Jitsu. Never saw him actually go once in all that time! Lol, so glad to be rid of this cliché :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:14 AM
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Where I live there are special gyms for just women :) Going to check one of those out because I experience the same thing. Maybe there are some in your city as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:57 PM
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So I have only discovered this sub and the subsequent literature/articles for about a month, and boy am I glad I did. All my life I have been a pick me and it got me nothing but heartache. So the last month I have been applying these strategies although I definitely need more practise. Both guys I was dating turned out to be only after one thing (what else is new huh) but this time I found out before we actually did the 'thing' ;) Although it saddens me that they both turned out to be such dipsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:19 AM
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I have plenty of dates as well. Defnitely not ugly or lacking attention! Same reason as the other ladies, trying to weed out the wrong guys before things get too serious. Working pretty well so far!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:55 PM
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