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Yup! Nice try though!
/r/seduction08/04/20 05:17 AM
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What moves are there to make besides FaceTime?
/r/seduction08/04/20 05:12 AM
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Yikes. When she said she felt sick we talked for 2 days with long texts about the virus AND advice on what do w her family she's living with. Since then it's been 3 weeks and now I texted her.. and what do you know! She texted back. You seem to have some serious issues. Weird you're browsing the "seduction" board if you have that type of baggage. Your funeral. shrugs
/r/seduction08/04/20 05:11 AM
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white knight alert
/r/seduction08/04/20 05:09 AM
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You're texting your boss "good morning' and "good night" weekly?
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:42 PM
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According to this forum I should be saying, "good morning' and "good night" to a girl I haven't gone on a first date with.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:16 PM
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I agree about the importance of seeming abundant. I am getting the sense may put a feeler out, but then wait a LOT longer next time to hit her up, probably the next time being PLANS to meet up (which could be 1 month, could be 2 months or longer ugh who knows). Tough times gaming at this time, and haven't found much of anyone who has a good answer for it.
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:47 AM
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Lmao, no thank you.
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:44 AM
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Ehh I don't really care. I trust if I can get her out then it'll work out. If not then her loss.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:13 AM
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Ehh I'd rather not give away my "mystique" right now and still am unsure how far I want to pursue it w this girl. I see the appeal of it though.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:08 AM
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I don't have a "plan" My fear is that if I start texting her like weekly or few weeks.. convo will get boring eventually and this virus COULD LAST FOR 2 MORE MONTHS.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:07 AM
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Bc I didn't say "good morning" and "good night"? Bruh.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:01 AM
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There's absolutely no way I'm saying "good morning" and "good night" to a girl I have not gone on a first date with.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:46 AM
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LOL there's no way I should be texting a girl like weekly I've never even gone on a date with. And she said herself she was quarantining herself (since she felt sick).. how is she finding new guys in this time period where no one can leave the house?
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:37 AM
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way too easy to get into friend zone brother given a girl I haven't been on one date with yet.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:23 AM
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Id wait 2 week for so. Even if you do get a girls number, given the circumstances right now I think the chances of flaking are even higher than usual.
/r/seduction15/03/20 02:48 AM
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Well already said I take art there when she asked
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:25 PM
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did you not read the first 2 paragraphs (she brought up the initial plans to hang out, she offered to go near my neighborhood, we texted back and forth 5-6 times, she said that'd be a great idea after texting two days later, her last text was "ok let me know whenever you're free next time")
/r/seduction12/03/20 09:30 AM
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.. maybe Friday?
/r/seduction12/03/20 09:23 AM
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thanks dude
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:13 AM
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lmao true I have no idea. reapproaching sets for me is awkward. I'm thinking of waiting not this week (so it'd be a week later) but in 2 weeks time so it's not an immediate thing.
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:03 AM
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Yup but I think it wasn't made clear at all to them which one I liked. I assume they think I like sister 1 (since I got her number), and if I write another text it'd be the 3rd text presumably without a response. Better chance I think imo I have of running into them again and then just showing interest in sister 2 and getting her number.
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:04 AM
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I only have one of their numbers, and didn't get the one who was more interested
/r/seduction15/02/20 06:03 AM
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what is google voice and how does it work?
/r/seduction22/01/20 05:55 AM
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2 years later?
/r/seduction09/01/20 10:59 PM
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Well if I’m talking about their major or they ask what major I am then there needs to be something
/r/seduction30/10/19 10:05 AM
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Bc you need some sort of plausibility in that scenario...
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:49 AM
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Or I just wait till tomorrow and see what happens?
/r/seduction18/10/19 10:46 PM
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True, it's always kind of a brain trick bc you have to decide at that SECOND you want to stop (and risk taking an extra 5-10 minutes if she's not what she looked like, or etc) and from that second on having to carry the distance of when the car stops. Ugh confusing
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:20 AM
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u/devbev
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:00 AM
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I usually just end the ride as I think it'd be embarrassing to see the driver watch my approach lmao and if it didn't work out then get rejected and back in the car. The difficulty is getting them to stop the ride that VERY SECOND or giving them instructions to turn around bc it's awkward or otherwise having to speed walk 2 long blocks thoughts as an uber driver on this?
/r/seduction15/10/19 01:35 AM
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So after I send the value text (Halloween funny picture) and then if she responds (even if it's just like "cool" or "that's funny" etc) which text would you recommend? "When are you free this weekend?" or "What day are you free this weekend?".. I feel like if I write "How's your schedule this weekend?" then it leaves it open to her being like "super busy" or something. Also what day would you recommend? I'm thinking either tomorrow or Wednesday.
/r/seduction14/10/19 08:43 PM
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I'm considering sending her a value text on Tuesday (a fun halloween picture) before asking her out. Would you recommend that or not? The idea would then be after I text that, she writes something back, and then I figure out her schedule vs. just going for the meet up on the next text I send her. Let me know your thoughts in terms of neediness etc..
/r/seduction13/10/19 08:15 AM
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No, I had asked her if she wanted to hang out Thursday or Wednesday and she told me she's really busy during the week but we could meet later in the week if (I was) free. So I took that to mean she's more free/available on the weekends. I'm considering sending her a value text on Tuesday (a fun halloween picture) before asking her out. Would you recommend that or not? The idea would then be after I text that, she writes something back, and then I figure out her schedule vs. just going for the me…
/r/seduction13/10/19 08:14 AM
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What exactly was I doing that was needy? Also I wrote back to her that day "Congrats have a good X" and she wrote back a minute or two later "Thank you". Good sign?
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:10 PM
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Idk I think it might not look good to be texting for plans the following weekend during this weekend. Do you recommend talking w her a bit before making plans or just throwing out plans off the bat? Also any specifics on what to write to her? “Hey what are you up to this weekend?” “Do you wanna hang out either Friday or Sunday?” “When are you free this weekend?” “Let’s get an ice cream - when are you free?”
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:29 AM
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Would you recommend a value text initially before asking her out, or just on Wednesday or Thursday just throwing out plans like, “hey she are you free to hang out this weekend?” “Hey when’s a good day for us to hang this weekend”
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:28 AM
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So after writing "Saturday should be done by X" she wrote a few hours later "sounds good" then a few hours after that I wrote details of the place and time. The next day she wrote, “hey X, I just booked a short film it starts filming on Saturday” I wrote "Awesome congrats etc.." and she said "Thank you". I plan on hitting her up again on like Wednesday or Thursday asking "How's your schedule this weekend?" or POSSIBLY before that sending some sort of value text first. what do you recommend?
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:06 PM
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hey man just private messaged you, thanks.
/r/seduction09/10/19 10:35 PM
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probably will just wait till next week and go for the hangout. In your opinion would it be cool to write, "Hey X, how's your schedule this weekend?" I've already done the This Day or this Day and on the last text she wrote it made it sound like is super busy during the week but not the weekends. Also beginning to wonder if she's lying about the flaking for this and was just trying to back out... Or if the reason she's flaking is bc I wrote her too quickly last night
/r/seduction09/10/19 10:23 PM
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absolutely not way too early
/r/seduction09/10/19 10:15 PM
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Girl just texted back saying she couldn’t make it (sent you reply in most recent post) plz advise
/r/seduction09/10/19 09:44 PM
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CHANGE OF PLANS: Girl just wrote, “hey X, I just booked a short film it starts filming on Saturday” In a way I don’t think it’s an excuse but obviously it makes Saturday not possible now. Would it be weird to ask, “you free on Sunday?” Or just tell her congrats and hit her up again for plans next weekend? Obviously if she doesn’t meet up next week either then it’s probably a flake but IDK what to do now...either try to make plans for Sunday or what? Or a text like: “that’s awesome congrats - we’…
/r/seduction09/10/19 09:42 PM
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Fuck. Stupid roommate. Sucks when you do everything “right” for the most part and potentially one small slip up of texting her back that night instead of waiting till the. Next day could fuck things up And hypothetically if she does text back with an “ok” or “sounds good” tonight or tomorrow, would you still recommend sending a confirmation text on Friday?
/r/seduction09/10/19 09:20 PM
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Damn, I knew I should have waited but my roommate was like, “just text her already” and not play games. (Which I should have) I mean the previous day she wrote me an 730pm and then I responded back at 1130am the next day.. then she didn’t write me till like 6pm and then I wrote at 9pm.. guess I should have waited again. Is it a major issue or no? Yeah date is set up for Saturday night (5pm). And would a text on Friday night if she doesn’t respond till then like, “we still good for tomorrow?” wor…
/r/seduction09/10/19 08:37 PM
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Ok so like 8 hrs later at like 6pm the girl Wrote back “sure sounds good”... and like 3.5 hrs later I wrote, “ok let’s meet at XYZ at 5pm” I assume things should be good but it’s tomorrow and haven’t heard back As a confirmation yet.. should be good though? I guess at this point if hypothetically I don’t hear I’ll just write on Friday, “we good for tomorrow?” But seems like things are good. In hindsight maybe should have waited till today instead of last night to write back like I had done w las…
/r/seduction09/10/19 07:10 PM
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FUCK Also it seemed like it'd be weird to make plans on a Monday for a Saturday night after I just offered up Thursday/Wednesday to hang, so I made it seem like "I had to go over scheduling" till earlier this morning when I texted. But maybe I'm overthinking it. Seriously hoping I didn't fuck this up for good OR I'll have to double text by Thursday. Why is this shit so fucking difficult bro. FUCK
/r/seduction08/10/19 09:40 PM
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Well my thought was I didn't want to respond last night at like... 9:00-9:30 bc then it's sorta late for texting and the ball is in her court. UGH. We'll see hopefully I get a response by tonight and we can get sorta go back and forth for a bit.
/r/seduction08/10/19 09:31 PM
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Cool cool. So far it’s been about 2.5 hrs and havent heard back (granted she wrote me last night at 7:30 and I didn’t respond till like around noon today) but hypothetically If I don’t hear from her today do you think I just throw out a “...?” Like on Thursday or what? Tomorrow Wednesday might be too early but I def need to figure shit out by Thursday to solidify stuff imo
/r/seduction08/10/19 09:18 PM
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Cool, let's hope so. Hopefully there aren't any issues w the day I picked, how long it took me to respond, or anything.... All should be going smoothly!
/r/seduction08/10/19 07:12 PM
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I ended up writing "Sure, let's meet up Saturday. I should be done w my classes by 4" We'll see what happens
/r/seduction08/10/19 06:55 PM
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OK, so I ended up writing "Sure, let's meet up Saturday. I should be done w my classes by 4" Also she texted back 1 hr and 20 minutes later not 20 minutes. It was also like 7:30, so decided just to wait to text till this morning instead. Hopefully it continues to work out
/r/seduction08/10/19 06:47 PM
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I totally get that and know I have to escalate on the 2nd date appreciate it
/r/seduction08/10/19 08:26 AM
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What if I just say, “how about Saturday afternoon? I should be done with my classes by 3pm” Or What day works for you? I should be finished w my coaching on Saturday by 4 That way I’m not saying “Saturday or Sunday?” And I’m also acting like I have things to do earlier in the day on Saturday And then also get a date going at 5pm Saturday? Seems pretty good Let me know your thoughts
/r/seduction08/10/19 08:25 AM
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Think you misunderstood what I wrote. I don't plan on writing, "Are you free Fri Sat or Sunday?" thanks for the suggestions though.
/r/seduction08/10/19 05:05 AM
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I understand that... I think you misread my post I never said that at all. I told the girl we should hang out Wednesday or Thursday. I haven't given her any indication yet of my weekend schedule.
/r/seduction08/10/19 04:53 AM
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there's no way I'm telling her "I'm busy this weekend" come on man...
/r/seduction08/10/19 04:48 AM
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So I wrote "Hey let's get an ice cream Wednesday or Thursday" and she wrote back (An hour 20 minutes later) "I am really busy during the week but we can meet later this week if you are free" My initial gut is that she's playing "Hard to get" and doesn't want to be perceived as easy. What's a good response? Think she means we should meet on the weekend... also not sure how to proceed from here. Note: We had our 1st date on Thursday of last week and English isn't her first language. How about some…
/r/seduction08/10/19 01:52 AM
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So I wrote "Hey let's get an ice cream Wednesday or Thursday" and she wrote back (An hour 20 minutes later) "I am really busy during the week but we can meet later this week if you are free" My initial gut is that she's playing "Hard to get" and doesn't want to be perceived as easy. What's a good response? Think she means we should meet on the weekend... also not sure how to proceed from here. Note: We had our 1st date on Thursday of last week and English isn't her first language. How about some…
/r/seduction08/10/19 01:52 AM
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What do you mean pattern/timing? Like don't text them after each date 20 minutes later?
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:04 AM
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OK, leaning towards the day before with the "backwards confirm".. seemed to do the job right last date unless it's not good to do 2 dates in a row. Also would it be the worst thing to write, "Hey you wanna get ice cream Wednesday or Thursday?"... leaning slightly towards that, unless it's a significantly worse text... not sure still lol. (sorry disregard above ... think I'll go with the original plan) Last thing: What are your thoughts on texts immediately after post-date? I usually tend to writ…
/r/seduction06/10/19 08:50 AM
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also would it be the worst thing to write, "Hey you wanna get ice cream Wednesday or Thursday?"... leaning slightly towards that, unless it's a significantly worse text... not sure still lol. (sorry disregard above... think I'll go with the original plan) Last thing: What are your thoughts on texts immediately after post-date? I usually tend to write a line or two 20-ish minutes after the date to solidify it, and if she writes back it's usually a good sign. Do you do this too, and if so for how …
/r/seduction06/10/19 08:48 AM
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Thanks. HV= high value. The ice cream place is near my place so gives me an opportunity in that regard. Two things in terms of specifics: 1) Before I ask her out, should I send her some "Value text" or is it ok at this point to just go for the meet up? And 2) Do you think I need to confirm the date w her (for date #2) like I did for the first one? Context: (For first date) Thursday she agreed to date.. didn't text her till the Tuesday we were supposed to meet. And 3 hours before the date I said …
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:16 PM
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Thursday she agreed to date.. didn't text her till the Tuesday we were supposed to meet. And 3 hours before the date I said "see you in a bit" and she apologized and had to cancel, but double texted and asked if I wanted to meet a different day. We agreed for that Thursday and the date went good. The day before the date (Wednesday) I changed the time on her to "backwards confirm" The date as well. And I'm saying would it be weird to once again (the day before the date) change the time with a tex…
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:15 PM
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Thanks. Yeah I plan on just texting her on Monday with I guess the first text and going from there. Assuming we meet on a Thursday, do you have thoughts on a 2nd confirmation text for the 2nd date before next Thursday? Context: She agreed initially the first time on a Thursday to a date the following Tuesday... didn't text her at all in between and that day (Tuesday) I wrote "see you in a bit" and she flaked immediately but offered to move it to Thursday. The next day I texted her a "confirmatio…
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:57 AM
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No actually ended up going out w/ that girl and went pretty well! Lots of tension and high value things and she seems open to meeting again. Texted her right after date and she responded right away positively too. What do you think is a better text to send: "Hey let's get an ice cream Wednesday or Thursday" or "Hey do you wanna get ice cream Wednesday or Thursday?" Planning on sending it Monday afternoon-early evening. Any specifics or subtle things I should be aware of?
/r/seduction05/10/19 01:11 AM
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Hey, went out on a date w original girl and went pretty well. Lots of tension and HV and she seems open to meeting again. Texted her right after date and she responded right away positively too. What do you think is a better text to send: "Hey let's get an ice cream Wednesday or Thursday" or "Hey do you wanna get ice cream Wednesday or Thursday?" Planning on sending it Monday afternoon-early evening. Any specifics or subtle things I should be aware of?
/r/seduction05/10/19 01:10 AM
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Yeah me too, doesn't sound great. Good lesson (as you said) probably not to mention Friday as an available day. What could I do about a change of mind after the number though? I guess possibly banter a bit yesterday on text after getting the number maybe. Also this is the 2nd number recently where I met the girl, got a response, then asked her out the next day and no dice... maybe a sign not to go with this format. Would you recommend next week mid-week just throwing out something like, "How's y…
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:49 PM
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OK I texted her the options of "Friday or Sunday" and a few minutes later she wrote, "Hey sorry I can't I have volunteering" What's the next move from here? Assume it's some sort of value text during the week and then this time maybe "ask her schedule" and then if still no go then just move on? Weird cause when I asked her about her schedule yesterday she said it was not as busy bc midterms/finals haven't started up yet. Should I even respond to her text or just wait till mid-week?
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:28 PM
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OK I texted her the options of "Friday or Sunday" and a few minutes later she wrote, "Hey sorry I can't I have volunteering" What's the next move from here? Assume it's some sort of value text during the week and then this time maybe "ask her schedule" and then if still no go then just move on? Weird cause when I asked her about her schedule yesterday she said it was not as busy bc midterms/finals haven't started up yet. Should I even respond to her text or just wait till mid-week?
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:28 PM
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Haha it’s not about meeting ASAP just want to have two possible days she might be free. Still thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:25 AM
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so percentage wise what would you recommend between "Tomorrow (Friday) or Sunday" vs. "Sunday or Monday"? Is it THAT bad to ask for a first date on a Friday? It could I guess hypothetically look like I still have evening Friday plans if I make a coffee date for 4PM-5PM or something.
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:50 AM
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I just feel like with college girls it's tough to get them out during the week bc of classes/studying whatever. Think I'm just gonna go w texting tomorrow morning-ishh (btwn 11:40-1:10 range) and probably just go with "Friday (Tomorrow) or Sunday". IDK just think it's tougher during the week whether it's Monday or Tuesday.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:45 AM
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She answered pretty quick, but also met her in day game. Two girls ago I texted her the next day asking her out (Although I wrote, "You around for a coffee this weekend?" and no specific dates) and never heard back.... the last girl I met I did a value text, then a few days later texted asking her out and seems to be good. Not sure still....leaning towards texting tomorrow morning but we'll see.
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:48 PM
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Yeah think I'm leaning towards asking her out tomorrow, and just debating now either Friday/Sunday or to write Sunday/Monday. Still might potentially text her tonight, but heard a couple people (and you) say "asking her out same day you met her" is needy so pretty sure I won't. Do you have a time preference when is better to ask a girl out? I heard tomorrow morning, but I'm more of an afternoon person. Also then if that date goes through tomorrow, I won't be able to text this new girl for probab…
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:45 PM
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Also she’s in college so if I text her tomorrow with “you wanna get a quick coffee Sunday or Monday” I doubt she’d be free Monday since she has classes. So idk what to do.. almost would have been better if I met her yesterday and I could have put Friday or Sunday (since maybe it’s weird to say tomorrow or Sunday since it seems like I don’t have any plans for friday?? IDK) so confusing plus you said to do the banter thing which I’m not great at lol Thanks for your advice
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:24 PM
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Ugh I really suck at banter. No idea what to write or what would be good. What about waiting till tomorrow and asking “Hey X, you wanna get a quick coffee Sunday or Monday?” I was thinking of asking her out tonight but you think that might indicate neediness asking her out on the same day? (And it would be for Friday or Sunday in that case) — Other girl couldn’t make it but offered to reschedule and have it tomorrow - sending a confirmation text tonight so we’ll see if it still goes.
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:15 PM
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Honestly never even crossed my mind. I’ve always done text girl that day I meet her (let’s say on a weekend) Then two-three days later text her asking her out. But that hasn’t led to always a ton of results. — I’ll consider texting maybe tonight but it’s not weird to text her same day and then on next text that same day ask her out? Just never even thought about it or considered it an option. Is that usually your go-to of doing things? Curious about the optimal way to text getting girls out
/r/seduction02/10/19 10:58 PM
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hmm ok I have a date set up for 2:00 tomorrow.. would it be bad to wait till like 5pm tomorrow to text this other girl? Or I guess the other option is to write in a few hours “hey you wanna grab a quick smoothie either Friday or Sunday?” (Or write it tomorrow morning at 11:00-12-00 I guess) I generally don’t ask a girl out the same day I meet her (today), so I’m not entirely sure. Please let me know your thoughts, apologies for the overthinking.
/r/seduction02/10/19 10:44 PM
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Hey, I got a different girls number today and need advice. Met her doing college game and did same, “Hi X, it was nice meeting you” and two minutes later she wrote “Hi it was nice meeting you too!” My question is now what to write on next text - She goes to college but I want to give two options (like before) of when to hang out BUT by tomorrow it would already be Thursday. Would this work? “Hi X - happy Thursday. You wanna get a quick coffee either Sunday or Monday?” “Hi X - happy Thursday. You…
/r/seduction02/10/19 10:18 PM
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Hey, I got a different girls number today and need advice. Met her doing college game and did same, “Hi X, it was nice meeting you” and two minutes later she wrote “Hi it was nice meeting you too!” My question is now what to write on next text - She goes to college but I want to give two options (like before) of when to hang out BUT by tomorrow it would already be Thursday. Would this work? “Hi X - happy Thursday. You wanna get a quick coffee either Sunday or Monday?” “Hi X - happy Thursday. You…
/r/seduction02/10/19 10:18 PM
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Cool, if I send it like 3 hours before the date is that cool too? Or does it only work like 30 minutes before the date (aka when I'm leaving my house)?
/r/seduction01/10/19 07:25 AM
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Or "Hey will see you @ (X) in a bit, finishing (activity I'm currently doing"
/r/seduction01/10/19 06:22 AM
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So something tomorrow like, "See you in a bit" would work and not look needy?
/r/seduction30/09/19 10:03 PM
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My last text was Thursday (when we made plans) and the date is tomorrow. What about tomorrow on the day of writing, "See you in a bit" . Does that indicate the same things? My main goal is to just not look needy.
/r/seduction30/09/19 10:02 PM
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Or do I just not text anything and go to the date? What does that indicate?
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:09 PM
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what about "see you tomorrow" .. does that work or still seem needy?
/r/seduction30/09/19 07:01 PM
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OK cool. Would a text as simple as, "See you tomorrow" or "See you tomorrow @ _____" work as a confirmation text? My issue is I just don't want to seem needy and I heard confirmation texts can sometimes appear that way.
/r/seduction30/09/19 08:23 AM
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OK cool thanks. If the date does go well, is it weird to try for a date that next weekend? Note: the upcoming date is on Tuesday. I would think it'd be weird to text maybe that Thursday to go out for the weekend (if I already went out w her on Tuesday)... more likely maybe I would text her the NEXT Monday for Wednesday or Thursday? Thanks.
/r/seduction29/09/19 08:14 PM
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OK cool thanks. If the date does go well, is it weird to try for a date that next weekend? Note: the upcoming date is on Tuesday. I would think it'd be weird to text maybe that Thursday to go out for the weekend (if I already went out w her on Tuesday)... more likely maybe I would text her the NEXT Monday for Wednesday or Thursday? Thanks.
/r/seduction29/09/19 08:14 PM
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I mean "opening text" as the first text you ever send to a girl who's number you get. BTW, girl just agreed to a day 2 for Tuesday so good news! Is there a text you'd recommend for the day before to confirm it?
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:28 AM
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OK cool, I offered here either Tuesday or Sunday and she agreed to Tuesday w follow up texts afterwards. What's a good confirmation text to send the day before? o Otherwise won't be texting her till the day 2 (Tuesday) so it's definitely a few days in between.
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:27 AM
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OK thought of this text as one I think might work. Thoughts? "Hey X I'm back in Y. You wanna get coffee either Sunday or Tuesday?"
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:25 AM
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thank you. Appreciate the help, as this should all help w my texting fundamentals in the future anyway. Do you think there might be an issue if English isn't her first language and it's kinda a long text? So far our interactions have been sorta like one line each, and I'd think that text could be like 4 lines or so. Might be overwhelming/investment? Also wondering if in general your way of doing things is "OPENING TEXT" (wait 2-3 days) "Send the text in your 2nd paragraph"? Thanks.
/r/seduction26/09/19 01:17 AM
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Good news is I got a reply back after I sent the pic! She wrote "Hey how are things going" (English not her first language) and then I wrote the next day, "great, leaving for X right now" (but no reply). On the next reply, what do you think of these options? Hey X, I'm back in Y. Do you want to meet up for coffee on Sunday? or Hey X, I'm back in X. Do you want to get coffee on Sunday? or Hey X, I'm back in Y. Do you want to meet up for coffee @ X on Sunday?
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:44 PM
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Alright cool, good news is I got a reply back after I sent the pic! She wrote "Hey how are things going" (English not her first language) and then I wrote the next day, "great, leaving for X right now" (but no reply). On the next reply, what do you think of these options? Hey X, I'm back in Y. Do you want to meet up for coffee on Sunday? or Hey X, I'm back in X. Do you want to get coffee on Sunday? or Hey X, I'm back in Y. Do you want to meet up for coffee @ X on Sunday?
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:43 PM
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Hmm, what about if the picture I would sent from my trip (the "value text") sorta relates to something we talked about on the initial approach? Still too much investment early on?
/r/seduction24/09/19 12:41 AM
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Lol nah it's just tough hearing conflicting info since I've asked a few people (like you said, some recommend the value text). Thanks for the suggestion though. My style too is usually just (initial text), her response (ideally), and then on the next text invite her out. But it fucking sucks cause everyone has conflicting info and like the last thread I had, the girl responded to the initial text, then I asked her out next day and never heard back.
/r/seduction24/09/19 12:40 AM
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I see... what about something like, "Hi from (place I'm in) with an emoticon"? and a pic of the view? In your opinion is that still too much investment?
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:30 PM
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Just curious why not from a personal standpoint? I usually don't do any extra "ping/value texts" before the first date either, but then again my success rate isn't great so looking for any possible "edge". lol
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:43 PM
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u/Synth_Lord
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:00 PM
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u/drdavidbanner20
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:00 PM
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u/alphabachelor
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:00 PM
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Oh no, I had just told her in person I was leaving for a work trip. The only thing I had texted was "nice meeting you" and she responded back.
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:59 PM
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Hmm what about on Thursday (instead of Friday) "Hey just got back from ___. Up for a coffee this Sunday?" Also curious what you think is needy about my idea. Saying, "are you around for a coffee this Sunday?" Appreciate the input.
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:36 AM
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OK, just texted something in that manner "Hey so I'll be in XYZ tomorrow if you're down to hang at XYZ (nickname". For the future, would you recommend making plans on the same day I met her? Part of me was thinking after she initially wrote "Hahaha it was nice meeting you too!" I should have just immediately asked her schedule or something that same day. Still trying to fix my texting issues.
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:10 PM
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The whole point of "game" is to date girls out of your league physically, lol.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:11 AM
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I don't care, but you're wrong. Not gonna argue it when Kong's already discussed firing Jesse in videos. And yes, if Jesse wasn't still listed on the site he'd sue. You ever see the Facebook movie?
/r/seduction31/07/19 12:42 AM
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Kong had to fire Jesse he said in his kickstarter which he said was "Difficult" and then an employee (Who later deleted it) said the reason was bc Jesse was sulking the whole time after he found out she cheated on him w Kong. Also Jesse doesn't follow either of them anymore, nor do they
/r/seduction30/07/19 11:50 PM
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they flaked and then said they could meet the next day but I just said I had plans.
/r/seduction29/07/19 01:06 AM
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such bullshit, how does someone write 18 hrs before "Ok cool what time" and then "change their mind" by the next day. fucking sucks, now I have no Friday plans.
/r/seduction27/07/19 12:42 AM
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Bc I went for the group text and after an initial value text that both responded to, the other girl (who I didn't originally text) made plans after I . So either she is more into me or she's just better at making plans??
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:08 PM
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u/bcool87
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:04 AM
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u/bcool87 just curious what sort of escalation do you think could happen if I get them back to my place again? We're all hanging out again tomorrow and at minimum I want to make my intentions more clear. I just am not sure how I'd be able to make out with one of them while their sister is just... at my place. That might be weird.
/r/seduction26/07/19 07:59 AM
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Well I was hoping she'd respond and THEN I could go for plans... but no dice so far. Could be bc she responded a minute later and it took me like 20 minutes after that. So tomorrow just throw out specific plans and then if nothing happens that's it? On the group text or the single text?
/r/seduction25/07/19 12:45 AM
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u/sixfeetunder98 so I ended up just sending a group value text with a pic and a caption, and the girl I've BEEN texting wrote back a MINUTE LATER, "Omg with 4 laughing emoticons".. I couldn't think of something to write back, so 20 minutes later wrote a semi-funny thing back and haven't heard back yet. Do I just throw out plans to both of them on the group text? It's weird that this girl keeps responding.
/r/seduction25/07/19 12:38 AM
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Do you think there's no chance at all? Getting replies like "Let's definitely hang this week" (literally yesterday) and "Shit my sister and mom just got into town Maybe let's try a different day??" and then her writing 2 texts a few hours later when I didn't reply don't mean anything? I'm thinking tomorrow of sending a group text to both of them that just gives value/no logistics and trying one last time for plans. As someone else said, maybe I've been texting the wrong sister the whole time? --…
/r/seduction24/07/19 02:09 AM
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not good :( u/sixfeetunder98 copied from another thread I made: 3-4 days later I immediately asked if they wanted to get X this weekend. She wrote back wrote away, "Sure! I'm already getting XYZ right now lol". And then I wrote back, "Great how's Saturday at X time?". I didn't hear back. The next day I wrote Todd's, "...?" text and she wrote back immediately "Shit my parents and sister just got in town so maybe a different day??" I ended up not writing back at ALL and 3 hrs later she wrote back …
/r/seduction24/07/19 01:10 AM
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yeah I was also drunk/high at times (which I'm normally not in game) so that was part of it too. its annoying that she's still relatively responsive on text so it feels so close like I could get another chance.
/r/seduction23/07/19 07:01 PM
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yeah just felt a little tough with two sisters but I get it.
/r/seduction23/07/19 06:30 PM
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We'll see. I think at the very least if I get them out again I can possibly try with the other sister since I got both numbers. We'll see.
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:28 AM
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I did just spend like 3-4 hours with them the night before.
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:20 AM
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tbh I've never been to a club. they actually invited me to go out with their other sister who's coming to visit them next weekend but I don't know the first thing about them. plus I'm super short and assume they wear heels and shit. think ill try for more intent next time and ideally just focus on one of them with it and hopefully they can lead to a 1 on 1 in the future before they leave and can then kiss/etc then.
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:19 AM
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Im not sure yet if these are unpromising leads. Again, they don't live here and it really didn't feel comfortable trying to escalate on one that soon. Obviously I should have in some way PICKED one of them by the end of the day, but if they still want to hang (which I'm 85% sure they do) then I think I can re-adjust it for the next Han gout. And unfortunately I don't have any legit wingmen/buddies of mine. Guess I'll just ask them out and then hope to change it up next time I guess??
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:51 AM
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99% sure they don't have "other guys" since it was made pretty clear they don't know anyone else in town. They're here for some sorta summer class thing. She also wrote back the next day saying she "sucks at texting and we just walked around X all day and today we did Y" . But yeah, if I get them both out again I gotta make it intent clear with at least one of them (if not both). would you recommend just asking them out again on the next text or starting it with a "ping/value text" and then aski…
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:35 AM
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These are fair points. The reason I thought asking what they were up to was "stupid" was bc I think (and it was sorta the intent) that if she wrote back they weren't doing much I would have tried to meet up again that next day. Which was probably too rushed in retrospect considering we had made tentative plans for next weekend already. And you're right, I didn't make any of this clear. The closest I got was to asking at the bar if they were dating and they said they weren't then asked if I was a…
/r/seduction18/07/19 12:56 AM
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think its all deleted forum wise, but I can still access my account if you had bought it originally I think. and it is a shit show. how ironic two guys who knew each other through game, made a company on it, stopped that company to create another company, all while Jesse made that "Im in love" video with her to later have her cheat on him with KONG. Could not think of a bigger betrayal. not sure of the context but Kong seems like a shitty guy to do that.
/r/seduction09/07/19 10:22 PM
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what a crazy plot twist. they'll obviously never comment on it unless they get engaged, but that's crazier than anything that was in Neil's The Game book. Betrayal.
/r/seduction09/07/19 08:17 PM
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get Todd's "winner game" product. its' free and covers a lot of approach anxiety things.
/r/seduction09/07/19 12:17 AM
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Focus on getting girls not "making friends" "because I'm lonely". If you're that lonely, focus on alt interests.
/r/seduction04/07/19 04:35 AM
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"The respond 3 days later" part was a typo. She wrote back to me a few hours and I initially texted her and the "3 days later part" was when I asked if she was around that weekend.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:43 PM
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Im leaving this area in a few days and only had this weekend to hang. She knew this.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:37 PM
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And then if she never "lets me know" or then I end up asking her late on a Friday night? I don't see how either option is helpful.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:29 PM
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Well what was I supposed to do? We had potential plans for Saturday and it was already Friday. Just wait till like late afternoon Friday and be in limbo?
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:13 PM
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You should not have opened her with another date offer before establishing availability. What does this mean? I mean she already established that if she was free it'd be on Saturday, and all I was doing was asking for a specific time. Feel like it's establish availability. Also not sure how she says, "If I'm free Saturday would be good" to "can't make it". Was it a mistake to say, "I'd be free Saturday at 2pm?"
/r/seduction03/05/19 08:50 PM
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Umm if she "clearly wasn't interested" she wouldn't have responded right away off my initial text nor made an effort to say she would be free on Saturday. And she never "responded 3 days later" because she had sent the last text.
/r/seduction03/05/19 08:03 PM
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1)It was a solid number based on the interaction. Way more positive than a. regular interaction and it still led to her responding. Also if she wasn't interested, I doubt she would have continued to respond to me OR put out the suggestion that she might be free on Saturday. 2) So you're saying I shouldn't have made plans at all? Or let's say I met on a Sunday make plans for that Tuesday or Wednesday? 3) What type of opens do you like for starting a text convo then? I find you try to get too fanc…
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:59 PM
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not at all, real world pick up
/r/seduction25/12/18 07:55 PM
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*Girl not girls.
/r/seduction25/12/18 07:54 PM
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OK, since it's valentine's day next week, I'm thinking I'll give her a week off, and then the next 2 weeks go for it. If by March there's no traction, I'll forget about it till either after the test or whatever, or just move on. But the plan right now, I think is in 2 weeks to hit her up again. Thoughts?
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:14 PM
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I probably should have given more context, but she initially gave me some interest, and I read signals wrong and hit on her identical twin sister instead (who had a BF it turns out). So that's where I believe the "resistance" is coming from in this case.
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:11 PM
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Thanks. The only reason I actually believe she's interested is because her first text to me initially was super positive, and then because of complications (and a group text situation) I ended up hitting on someone else she was close to and after realizing THAT girl had a BF I went to her. It was super confusing, but after a second text to her her latest text was super long and seemed genuinely interested. But I'll try to take your advice.
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:19 AM
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I think we just have different experiences regarding this issue. I've had times where I asked a girl out and she couldn't make it, and then later on went out with her and had a great time. Either way, appreciate the advice.
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:27 AM
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but text is not in person, and is just interpreted at face value.
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:27 AM
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Got it, but she hasn't cancelled any meeting and her texts so far have been super positive.
/r/seduction09/02/18 07:16 AM
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OK that's cool, but I dont plan on texting her every day and talking to her on the phone for a month. Would just appreciate advice on generally speaking what's the best way to approach long apologetic texts.
/r/seduction09/02/18 07:04 AM
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Before you can get girlfriends you need to get numbers. And before you bring girls to your house you'll need to go on dates. But having a negative attitude and only doing 10 approaches is not the right way to go.. DO 100 approaches (at the rate you're going, you'll probably be done by beginning of March) and get back to me. Process over outcome. It's how every successful thing has ever worked in life.
/r/seduction09/02/18 06:47 AM
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Ugh! I already asked out the other twin in the text after the one where the first one said she had a BF. Hope I didn't blow it. To be fair, they are twins and they were really similar when I met them and I was talking about "Both" of them in the first few texts. How can I recover from this?
/r/seduction08/02/18 06:34 AM
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Also, does your pro-tip about "group chat's" include sisters/twins? Cause I can understand with friends but not sure otherwise.
/r/seduction08/02/18 05:33 AM
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Thanks. Already texted back asking if the other twin was free ("Are you around this weekend") on the group text after the other girl responded with a BF. But if it doesn't work out this week, I'll probably ask her out on text 1 on 1 next week. We'll see, but I'm hopeful.
/r/seduction08/02/18 05:24 AM
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Thanks. I've already texted them both in a group text about 5-6 times already, so do you think I should still ask for plans for the other girl in the group text? Or just start a brand new text convo just 1 on 1?
/r/seduction08/02/18 04:45 AM
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