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1

Oh just watch some of those Betty Boob comic videos. It will get you a drift in what a woman does.
/r/seduction17/04/23 06:04 PM
11

Set yourself some easy to obtain goals and make them happen. Confidence is derived from successfully achieving goals.
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:31 AM
3

I don't f*ck girls who f*ck other guys and I don't f*ck girls with a high body count either. Access to a woman's p*ssy shouldn't be that easily obtained.
/r/seduction01/11/22 08:49 AM
-1

If she says: “We’re not having sex.” The thought of having sex with you already crossed her mind. And she will resent you, if you don’t initiate.
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:42 PM
1

Men bond over doing difficult things together. Girls bond over sharing their feelings while having a cup of tea.
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:44 PM
1

Then go focus on shaping the life you want and doing stuff you like to make money. Stop worrying about girls, if you’re struggling they wont have sex with you and the ones that do only bring more trouble.
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:27 PM
1

Start by setting boundaries with people and hold them accountable. You’ll push all the toxic ones away.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:30 PM
1

Drop the “you have to be respectful” narrative and stop giving a shit what she thinks.
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:09 PM
3

It’s 90% mindset and the ability to deliver results.
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:08 PM
2

Always have your girlfriend pick the girl. She'll pick someone less pretty than she is otherwise her competition anxiety gets too much and you risk collateral damage. Believe me I've been there.
/r/seduction25/10/22 02:41 PM
3

Don’t care, if she’s one of those harpies that make an issue out of it, I don’t want her. Which you can easily test for.
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:43 PM
1

If you rub one out, you release that sexual energy. She’ll notice and find you less attractive.
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:42 PM
1

One needs to screw up in order to learn social cues on the subject of kino.
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:20 PM
1

Oh learn to play a little bit with girls emotions. Yes, it's less mature, but sure is fun when she's receptive to you. After all women are vastly different from men and appear less mature, because they've evolved from having the ability to nurture, interact and lead children.
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:15 PM
2

I spent €50 to register my company and the company is thriving.
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:40 AM
1

Learn to fight. Learn to get results. Learn how to handle conflict.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:14 AM
1

Those things help, but they’re not the main driver for attraction. The main driver is mindset.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:20 PM
4

Then you’re chasing the wrong excellence.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:19 PM
5

Don’t chase girls. Chase excellence and girls will chase you.
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:05 PM
3

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/r/seduction13/10/22 02:03 PM
1

It’s an extension of your skills to deal with conflict. So master that first.
/r/seduction13/10/22 01:59 PM
5

Don't chase girls. Instead, chase excellence and girls will chase you.
/r/seduction06/10/22 07:40 AM
1

Women who want to be women and no women that want to be men.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:31 AM
2

Romania
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:32 AM
2

I'd treat her as sex only and no wife material.
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:41 AM
1

You get over it by taking the lesson of no approaching has given you.
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:22 AM
1

It depends on the type of girl. Some have studied physics and can explain how muons behave or how general relativity works. Some are just in it for the fun and can only explain how to put on make up. But a general rule of thumb, they all like to have their emotions sparked. So say stuff that sparks a reaction. Also.. hold your frame when she gives you shit.
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:25 AM
1

Women don’t care about your looks. They care about your attitude and how you handle shit when it’s handed to you.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:47 PM
2

Every boy needs to go through a process in his teens to make friends with girls again. If you don’t do that in your teens you need to go through that period in life later in life and that period will take longer for you to take the necessary lessons from it. Here’s my advice if you don’t have experience with women make friends with some. See where it leads and learns the lessons it brings, cause those lessons are necessary in order for you to become successful as a sexual being.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:23 PM
1

Oh man the stupid shit men do to get some p*ssy. There’s plenty of women in the 160s.
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:30 AM
0

The peak sexual attraction of a man is around the age of 38. You’ve still got some time buddy.
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:39 PM
1

Easy stop giving a shit. And if you’re dating her and she’s still banging other people, there’s the door sweetie.
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:02 PM
1

Sexual attraction doesn’t abide by social rules. Also women are masters at saying no.
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:36 AM
2

You can either play the results game or the social status game. If you play the social status game people will approve of you and if you play the results game, people will hate you for it, but you'll have far better results and more results minded people around you.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:46 PM
2

You can’t reason about emotions. Take fear for example, it’s there or it isn’t. That’s it. Nothing more nothing less. It’s up to you to start doing despite feeling fear and your fear about it will becomes less.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:36 PM
7

Stop chasing girls. Instead chase excellence, girls will notice and chase you.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:15 AM
2

A girls phone is basically a d*ck dispenser. There's too much competition going on in that device. So don't communicate for fun, only communicate when you want to setup a date or logistics and sprinkle that with some fun.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:19 AM
-1

I'll let you know if one of the two relationships ends.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:00 AM
1

If she flakes once the next round is on her. If she flakes twice ignore her.
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:59 AM
1

Be feminine. Send me something spicy during the day, when I'm busy doing important stuff. Don't wear any panties, when I arrive.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:34 AM
0

If you’re a girl and you don’t get matches, you should lose some serious weight. Better picture won’t help there. I’d you’re a man getting professional pictures won’t solve the problem of getting matches. Your mental state is. You can change that by updating your beliefs to one’s that helps you understand dating, what women are looking for and what attitude can get you results.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:12 PM
13

The dark triad traits ( narcissism, Machiavellian’s, psychopathy ) are sexually attractive to women. It’s hard to distinguish them from confidence as it looks like it, but it isn’t.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:42 AM
21

Unless they’re shamed for it, a woman won’t experience guilt for ghosting you.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:22 AM
1

She doesn’t care if she’s seen topless. Neither should you. It’s also not something you’ve never seen before so start a conversation anyway.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:06 PM
4

The one where she shows of her body and that she enjoys the sexual attention, she’s getting from me.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:02 PM
1

Her looks and her feminine personality.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:19 PM
1

If you're a man it's become easier in your 30s. If you're a woman it becomes more difficult in your 30s.
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:56 AM
1

You need a certain level of social skills. As dating is an expansion on a certain level of social skills.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:12 PM
0

Don’t hangout with losers. Hangout with winners and start improving.
/r/seduction06/08/22 11:56 AM
1

Stop expecting something. Also, stop chasing women and chase excellence. It has a far better ROI as women will notice and start chasing you.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:32 AM
1

Just be a hot girl of approximately 23 years of age.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:24 AM
28

I would never push for sex. I would try to escalate towards sex. Different incentive, one is creepy the other isn’t.
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:42 PM
1

I don’t lie, about basic stuff. If I catch her doing that she can go.
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:47 PM
-1

Women are group animals. If one sees an advantage, they all want that advantage.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:57 PM
13

Don’t approach. Chase your purpose. Go to events where people show up. Girls will also be there and already preselected due to the type of event. Your more likely to naturally get in contact.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:22 PM
1

There's only one way. Be a better alpha than the A.M.O.G. So that he has to submit to your presence.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:15 PM
1

I don’t call all women cute.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:04 AM
8

Yeah, shy girls are hot and shy guys are not.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:53 AM
73

Most boys nowadays grow up playing videos games instead of venturing out in to the world and doing stuff with friends. They don't encounter girls that way. As a result they don't have female friends in their teens. And it takes a whole lot more effort later in life to learn those skills to flirt with girls.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:33 PM
1

Women are masters in human interaction and getting what they want. If she’s that much older, she’ll play him like violin and he won’t even notice.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:23 AM
9

If the woman is much older she will play you like a violin and you won’t even notice it. This is not a psychologically healthy environment for you as a man. If you do it (yes it’s still loads of fun, trust me) time frame to max 3 to 6 months before ending it, because it’s playing with fire you don’t see the consequences for yet.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:39 PM
1

It’s the that’s not where it’s supposed to go look.
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:58 PM
0

I’d cancel the date and walk away. No reason given.
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:39 AM
3

Within what context and why did she say she had a girlfriend?
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:12 AM
1

Yes, women only look at the top 10%. By the way top 10% is based on attitude mostly. And most men are domesticated to the point they’re behaving like a good boy and do as they’re told.
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:46 AM
0

Women always want a man who’s taken. I guess it’s a social proof thing.
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:32 PM
1

Aim for rock bottom and work your way back up. Nothing is going to move you after staring your worst demons in their eyes and tell them to f*ck off.
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:31 PM
1

I’d ignore her for a while see what she does.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:57 PM
1

Make her wet. Put it in her vagina and you’ll both think it feels awesome. Don’t sweat it.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:08 PM
1

According to your theory a lot of men are unable to pleasure women. https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/penis-size-by-country
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:43 PM
1

Learn womenese.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:30 PM
6

You can’t negotiate genuine burning sexual desire. It’s there or it isn’t. If it’s not there figure out how to increase sexual attraction. It’s mostly get in shape and get your mindset corrected. Have her step back into your frame and be willing to lose her. And seriously stop calling her your partner. Men and women are not equals. They are complements.
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:33 PM
1

Actually it’s you that’s turning her off at that point, but she can’t tell you that as you won’t perceive her as a nice girl.
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:16 AM
1

I became older.
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:09 AM
0

You don’t. You go find one of those guys.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:35 AM
1

As far as I know pleasure of the woman is 90% the energy of her man and about 10% technique.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:19 PM
1

Lower the quantity and increase the quality of your presence.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:06 AM
1

I’d make it easy. Want my attention? Let’s go on date. If we’re not on a date I’m busy doing other stuff with other people.
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:28 PM
-1

I’d should her a massage 24 hours in advance and leave her to do her thing for that week.
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:09 PM
-3

Highly confident women usually don’t have somebody and are usually lonely, because they’re too much a pain in the *** to be with.
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:40 AM
1

It depends. I usually need some time for someone to grow on me. In that time period there will be less communication from me.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:07 PM
0

She just wants a slice of the pie. Why bother?
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:03 PM
5

Women shame each other for being a slut, so a woman will portrait the good girl image for herself and go off to fuck mister exciting.
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:31 AM
0

In a healthy relationship the man sets the frame and the woman willing steps into that frame. If she rejects the frame or constantly fights it, she doesn’t respect him and she’s with him for his other traits than the fun In the bedroom. So don’t negotiate, make decision and set the frame. If she likes you she’ll mold herself to fit in your frame.
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:26 PM
-6

Don’t like the rules? There’s the door. I got more stuff to do than text all day.
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:46 PM
23

Less is better. Don’t text her during the holiday. I’ll make it clear up front through a statement I only text when it’s necessary and I live by that rule. This rule makes it easier to have 3 weeks of no contact and she’ll be overly excited when you’re back.
/r/seduction02/07/22 12:48 PM
0

Don’t chase girls. Chase excellence.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:14 PM
3

Chasing women won't work in this state of mind. You're not shadow banned girls are simply not swiping right you. Bring the fun back in your life and go do some fun shit with other men.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:44 AM
2

Depending on your age, you don't need any money. You need to right mindset and have fun attitude.
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:24 AM
1

Don’t make friends with women. They have a totally different notion on what friendship means.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:28 AM
17

Girls have instagram profiles for the attention it gives them. If you send her a message, your message ends up among all the messages all simps send her. There are far more effective ways to get into contact with an amazing girl. And that's next to the fact that some women just build their business around thirst trapping men. Bottom line is if you're using the same entrance as all the thirsty beta males, what you're getting from her is about the same as what they are getting.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:39 PM
1

If you freeze up don’t do it.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:09 PM
1

Yes, so she sees and will treat you as a girlfriend.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:45 AM
1

Her arguments don’t matter. Women don’t communicate overtly. Instead, watch her behavior. She’s not having sex with you and she is treating you like a girlfriend.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:11 AM
1

Yes, this is the frame of situations like this.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:00 AM
1

No, women have girlfriends and boyfriends. If you’re not f*cking her, you’re a girlfriend to her. She’ll treat you as such. And yes men and women have different notions of friendships.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:55 AM
1

They say no to dating and sex. But, you’re still free to give her attention and validate her.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:51 AM
2

Women like attention from men and they don’t like being the bad guy. So they offer you friendship instead.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:41 AM
1

Oh she said something nice to you and now you’re hooked on her. Forget her. Go work on your life’s mission. Once you’re successful you’ll have multiple women to choose from.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:00 AM
1

Don’t confuse it with being needy. Those two are closely related and by interpreted like being needy.
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:15 PM
4

Boys fuck anything that moves, so… should be just saying yes to any opportunity. And take regular STD tests.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:13 PM
4

Read "The Game" by Neill Strauss. The book points you in the right direction for as much as a blue print is possible.
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:52 PM
1

Nope no shit luck. Only the top sexually attractive men get all the sexual attention from women. Meaning these men won’t settle down because why would they? Having unlimited sex with unlimited women and not having to commit.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:45 AM
2

What happens in a woman’s brain is some kind of voodoo. Everything she says like “I like you” should have “in this moment” added to it.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:57 PM
1

Improve your life and get a hotter girl. I’m sure it sparks some FOMO on your ex.
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:11 AM
0

The answer to that question is: “Hell no.” Develop a zero fucks given attitude. Be a bit aloof about whatever is thrown your way. And learn to hold your frame. That’s all you need. Sexual confidence is something that comes after.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:46 PM
2

Women should invest in themselves. They are themselves their own most valuable asset. Men on the other hand should invest in their mindset, skills, social connections of value and the ability to get results.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:09 PM
5

Sexual attraction of a man is 60% mindset, 30% muscles and 10% looks and another 100% results to show for.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:47 PM
1

Even the most beautiful girls I've slept with are insecure about something about their body. And you know... I'd rather have a little less beautiful woman who's actually comfortable with her own femininity and sexuality. That shit trumps looks by far.
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:43 AM
-6

Guys who fuck regularly don’t masturbate.
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:39 PM
1

It’s not the contents of the line, but the context with which you say it.
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:51 PM
2

Don’t ask questions about daily stuff, it’s boring to girls.
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:47 PM
1

Stirling Cooper has some YouTube videos about men and sexuality.
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:11 PM
1

Ignore the whole statement and continue talk something you like to talk about.
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:17 PM
20

And all the boys who don’t get any, think at least you’re getting something.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:30 PM
9

I don’t do dating apps anymore. The competition is too high and there’s always a guy making a wittier remark then I do. Simply put, the juice is not worth the squeeze. I’ve been focused on building my own company. Since I’ve been getting successful in making a living from this, I have no problem attracting women at all. I guess it has something to do with how I carry myself.
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:40 PM
0

Read "The Game" by Neill Strauss. It will give you insights of the behaviours you need to show in order to be seductive. The whole book is based on his own stories.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:54 PM
7

On and off 20 years.
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:39 PM
1

I don’t. I’m not a sales representative.
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:18 PM
1

There’s a book called “The Game” by Neill Strauss. Read it. The book will explain through stories what behaviors are sexually attractive to women. You can extrapolate that on to sending messages.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:47 AM
32

As a man your brain is not wired to process the stuff a woman vents about, the way a woman's mind does. Plus if you do it too much you risk being used as an unlimited emotional tampon where she can just dump her emotions on you. To be honest there are more fun things to do. So always time frame it. In this time frame you give her your full devoted attention. So she can vent. So here's how you handle that: Her: Pulls an emotional story about her venting about something. Me: Interrupts her and say…
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:10 AM
7

Let her come to you. Where women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers to a relationship.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:00 PM
1

Because it’s the same as porn, but then written.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:48 PM
2

Well, he’s not a friend, friends don’t fuck each other girls. And she can stick around for just sex no boyfriend or any other attention benefits.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:44 PM
1

Next time you see her with her friends. Ignore her completely and go talk to her friends. For two reasons. If her friends accept you it’s easier to talk to her and you can fun her when she tries to join the incrowd you created.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:34 PM
2

Call her out on her bullshit. There’s a way to have an awesome time here. Just be a good girl and be nice to people.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:26 AM
7

She’s probably shit testing you and you’re failing gracefully.
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:22 PM
1

This only works if you pull out your phone with a picture of a very hot woman (hotter then her) making a bitter face. What do you think is she too hot for me?
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:05 AM
14

“I hate that dress.” Let it sink in. “It makes your ass way too hot.”
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:15 PM
1

So, pick smaller women.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:12 PM
15

Hint: The only place where toxic masculinity is still wanted is in the bedroom.
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:36 AM
7

It’s a social gathering. Talk to the guy like nothing is going on.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:14 PM
2

If she says I’m in an open relationship, I call the date short and remove myself from the situation. I don’t have time for this type of crap.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:49 PM
1

Women make dating fun. Without one I wouldn’t do it.
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:22 AM
69

How to subclass an NSIncrementalStore to create your own custom NSPersistentStore.
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:36 PM
3

You’re in luck every woman is different, but there are several things of which a few of them work for her. So ask what works for her. Also check out the YouTube channel of Stirling Cooper. He has a whole YouTuben channel about men, sexuality and the act of sexual. Including stuff for virgins.
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:36 AM
1

Yes, but there’s a difference between her having sex with you for whatever reason and her having sex with you, because she has genuine burning sexual desire for you and craves that validation that you want her too. It’s a whole different kind of sex.
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:20 AM
4

A woman experiences a connection with you when you swing her emotions. Like when she asks: “Do you think of this dress?” You’ll reply with a smile and something like: “That dress sucks.” Pause to let it sink in. “It makes your ass look way too hot.” Of course this requires some more social calibration, but you get the drift, right? Also don’t be afraid to be a d*ck. You’ll be tested for that.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:29 PM
1

A woman doesn’t want you to be vulnerable. She wants you to lead. The fact that she says she wants a connection basically means she wants you to play with her emotions. That’s how she experiences connection. Also extra bonus points if she’s the only one who you show a bit of emotion. Then she feels she’s special to you. But never ever go completely open and vulnerable, that shit never leads anywhere if you want to f*ck her brains out.
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:45 PM
3

Probably because this sub gets flooded with images.
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:23 PM
1

Only approach girls who are with their partner in crime.
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:04 PM
1

Yeah, I know. I’ve been there. Give it time. And focus on getting results towards your own mission.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:01 AM
4

That women never get really sexually attracted to men who are struggling. Yes, he might be able to provide for her, but then she’s with him for other reasons than sex and the sex will never coming from a place of genuine burning sexual desire.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:59 AM
90

Boys, women don’t care about your struggles, they’ll fuck a winner at the finish line.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:20 PM
2

It’s hidden. You have to pick it up in her behavior. For example one of my FWBs gets overly chatty and tries to challenge or oppose me when she wants sex. There’s more signs.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:42 PM
2

You can’t walk up to a random girl and expect her to come with you. But, there are some cases where a girl at the foam canon party on Ibiza has sex with a guy within 15 minutes of meeting him. Either way you need to build a. Connection, have frame and she has to be in that time of the month where she’s almost ovulating. Her argument after would be, it seemed like a good idea, he was cute, one thing led to another, etc. But with an average dude, she wouldn’t do that.
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:29 PM
2

That question can only be answered with all the details of the sub communication and even than it’s a guess.
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:04 PM
0

Read “The game” by Neill Strauss. The book will answer your question. In great detail and examples.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:23 AM
1

Don’t go there for the girls. Go there because you want to learn to dance. Girls smell neediness from a mile away and they don’t like it.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:46 PM
1

She knows you have crush on her. So she gave you a shit test and you failed. Now she won’t consider dating you. Move on.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:27 PM
-3

Here's how you solve the "average" part. A female "friend" of mine, she's a gorgeous woman. Everything she touches becomes feminine and beautiful. She goes to a beauty parlour every now and then. Hair treatment, face treatment, skin treatment, etc. And to be honest the difference is night and day. Besides her I know several girls who go to a beauty parlour and several who don't and there's a significant difference in level of beauty between the two groups.
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:22 PM
9

Ugh.. the expectations people put on sex and being able to go al night is just stupid. Have some sex when you want to, don't have some sex if you don't want to and if the D* refuses. Don't sweat it. He'll be back. We all need a break sometimes.
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:16 PM
10

Men have a very steep learning curve in learning how to flirt and seduce women. Most men never learn this. And the Men who do, are capable have a certain attitude developed with social calibration developed where women love to be on the receiving end of it. And every man wants unlimited access to sexuality and to be like that guy who women like to fuck.
/r/seduction30/04/22 05:41 PM
0

If she wants to fuck you, you’ll know.
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:02 AM
1

What kind of date is it? You know each other already and go on first date? You met online and go on a first date? You bumped into her in the supermarket and go on a first date? Lots of different options, with different default responses.
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:38 PM
3

I don't care. What I want is a sweet, loving and caring woman. Who complements my life, wants to make my life easier and loves to fuck my brains out. Dominant, strong, hot, most capable and most charismatic women don't complement my life and disagree on every decision I make. On top of that there's a high chance she'll weaponise sex to make me do her bidding. That type of sex is not even mediocre at best. It's best to stay away from these women, they only make life harder.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:43 PM
7

I’m an entrepreneur. I live for my hobby.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:01 PM
5

I want a woman who makes my dick hard not my life.
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:37 PM
3

70% is attitude
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:29 PM
2

When I was 20, I used: “Yo, let’s date.” And we dated for 6,5 years.
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:32 PM
3

I don’t bother and treat them like one of the boys.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:04 PM
1

Nope, women respond differently to sexually attractive men. Or when they want the sexually attractive man removed from that position. Sex is also simply weaponized these days.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:38 AM
1

Yeah PUA skills from 12 years ago was a real thing. Learning some routines and most girls fall for these tricks. Plus younger women are an easy target, because seeing the difference from somebody what who fakes those skills and someone who has those skills is not very easy.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:34 AM
1

Seduction skills are an extension of social skills. Men with great social skills are usually successful and those seduction skills at that point come naturally. You can fake those skills, but she won’t stay around and it erodes her trust in men over time. And this is why being genuine socially capable and having the evolved seduction skills from that trumps the fake it till you make it guys.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:35 PM
-1

I don’t chase women at all. They chase me. It’s all in your attitude and a healthy physique.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:23 PM
6

If you’re a pretty man. It’s flirting. If you’re overweight and/or plain ugly it is harassment.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:20 PM
2

Yeah, if you don’t make judgement calls in certain things, you’ll end up struggling. That struggling can go all the way up to depression, because you let stuff happen in your life. As for women with high notch counts, they’re less likely to be able to pair bond with you over a longer period of time, which is required for a long term relationship. As a result she’ll get this itch to have sex with someone else in the long run and be unable to resist that temptation. But, hey if you don’t want to m…
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:53 PM
2

As a woman it’s in your best interest to keep past sexual relationships to yourself. Men are wired to worry about paternity. So they instinctively worry about low notch counts. It’s the very reason why virgins are so popular. Sharing this information will simply devalue yourself in his eyes. After all men are worried about her past and women are worried about can he provide for us.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:44 PM
1

Well, me and my first girlfriend took about 4 months before I asked her out. In the mean time all our friends already knew. Don’t sweat it let the prices run it’s course. And at some point ask her out: “Let’s go on date and both be too nervous to speak.” I’m sure it will work out.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:32 PM
1

My dad warned me for girls like you.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:07 AM
2

Be honest with yourself. Why are you being her guy best friend?
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:58 PM
3

Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you’re not fucking her, she considers you a girlfriend. Girlfriends share all kinds of crazy sex topics with each other.
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:41 PM
2

Who the outrage mob? It gives them something to do.
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:36 PM
10

Easy. It starts by realizing the only place toxic masculinity is still allowed is in the bedroom. I’ll let you do the thinking now on what makes a man sexually attractive to a woman.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:25 PM
0

As a man: chase excellence and learn game. As a woman: maintain your beauty and keep your notch count low. These two things have far better results than “dating apps”.
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:57 AM
17

“That dress sucks.” Small silence to let it sink in. “It makes your ass too sexy.” And say it with a zero fucks given attitude.
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:00 PM
2

Take the necessary precautions and have sex without a condom. Condoms suck because of the muffled feeling.
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:40 PM
25

Humans used to live in tribes of roughly 75 people. Being rejected by a woman might mean you got labeled as weird and rejected for the rest of your life. As a result men who we're cautious not to be rejected got selected and passed their genes of to the next generation. As a result most men have that evolutionary selected circuitry and they're afraid of rejection. It's only the ones who are able to face that fear and act on it, that get successful. On top of this most men are not very successful…
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:33 PM
-2

Oh no, women are devious to get what they want, who would have thought?
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:32 PM
2

Just a text saying: "Ok, have a nice life." and don't send her anything else. Let her decide if she wants you or not.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:24 PM
-2

We all know that men fuck anything that moves and women will only fuck the best. So that rule only applies to women.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:23 PM
2

Because you’re a man, the burden of performance falls upon you. And that’s next to the fact that the socially acceptable narratives don’t work when it comes to sexuality.
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:28 PM
6

Just ask her out for <whatever it is you want do with her> on a time that works for you. It actually gives two options. It allows her to decline, by saying I can't do that. If she doesn't reciprocate for a different time you're pretty sure she's not that interested. And if she does reciprocate on the time you specified or another time go have together. Also don't forget to tell her: "It's a date." And yes, the first rejection feels the worst. It will get easier over time.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:27 AM
1

You can either love women or you can understand them. I chose understanding them and I get far better results.
/r/seduction14/01/22 05:07 AM
13

Don’t make friends with girls. If you make friends with she’ll consider you a friend. Girls have a different notion of friendship. Meaning she considers you a girlfriend not a boyfriend. But, you already discovered those effects, right?
/r/seduction13/01/22 10:00 AM
2

Google Stirling Cooper. He’s both a porn actor and a male companion for women.
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:57 PM
18

It depends on why. If you cry, because you’ve been treated badly by people at work she going to lose sexual attraction. If you collapse and cry because you just lost your brother, it’s a whole different matter.
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:38 AM
10

Amsterdam. 2/3 is a woman in her 20s or 30s.
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:35 AM
2

Read “The game” by Neill Strauss.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:39 PM
2

Put a drop of lube in the condom.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:21 PM
9

Only text to set up a date.
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:49 AM
1

Put your dent in the universe and make bank. Convert your problems to the level of I should hire someone, so make a €30k extra this year. Once you at that level, you already have game, otherwise you can’t handle people at that level. Expanding that game into the realm of dating is so hard. Social status first, than comes dating.
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:41 PM
0

Men have a way of complicating their lives and justifying why they do it. Just ignore her and don’t bother.
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:45 PM
3

It's possibly a shit test and a tricky one in the current state of social conventions. If she's making out with you and you do all kind of other sexual stuff and she says she's not ready for PIV or fill in whatever reasons she gives. You have two options. You either need to demonstrate she wants you to take her, not matter what she thinks or she honestly she wants you to back off. Without the entire context of the situation it's hard to judge, but the way I understand female nature it's one of t…
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:52 AM
2

Women leave clues and opportunities to approach her. Men just openly go for it.
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:04 PM
1

Stop giving a f*ck what she thinks. Make it unambiguously clear what you want from her and tell her that despite her possible reaction. "I want to have casual sex with you and see where it leads." Let her decide if she wants you too. In the meantime keep at your own life's mission. She'll come to you if she wants you.
/r/seduction30/12/21 07:04 PM
1

Being attractive as a man is in your attitude. Being attractive as a man is in your attitude. Yes, build muscles, muscles is what girls want. What you're looking for is "Calisthenics". Google it there's a lot of exercises for it.
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:18 PM
3

Don't flake. Be a man of your word. And... make your time and attention both a scarce resource with the purpose of putting your own dent in the universe and not because you should be less available more often.
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:00 AM
7

This movies make terrible first dates. Unless it’s already agreed upon that it’s movie and chill.
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:14 AM
5

That’s the basics. Next question. What makes a man sexually attractive to a woman? Ask this question to men who are successful in dating and not to women. Women will give you an answer that is going to make you feel good or make her look good.
/r/seduction22/12/21 07:18 AM
4

I’d apply a soft next and withdraw my attention from her and have an unambiguous talk about it if she comes back.
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:56 PM
7

Having just a bunch of routines and tricks learned, but enough substance to keep her around for something worth while.
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:49 PM
0

I don’t feel about it. A woman will take it as an insult when a guy she clearly sees as unattractive approaches her and starts a conversation to get with her. So she imposed rules onto men and she’ll break those rules if she wants the guy. On top of that the guy she wants ignores the rules she imposed and doesn’t give a shit about her opinion about it.
/r/seduction18/12/21 09:55 AM
1

Yes, read "The Unplugged Alpha" from Richard Cooper. Everything starts with seeing how the world works and what lies you are believing and start by eliminating unnecessary drama from your life. The question what do women find sexually attractive is something that comes after, cause a man that is struggling is sexually not attractive to a woman.
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:59 PM
11

Nope, I’m just not interested in friendships with women.
/r/seduction15/12/21 06:30 PM
29

I don’t bang my friends girl. She’s the one crossing the line not me and I’ll just be the one messing with her. My friend knows my boundaries. Messing with her cool, banging her not cool.
/r/seduction14/12/21 02:38 PM
80

Today? It’s been only 6 so far. How about you be my number 7?
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:29 PM
5

Initiate the first kiss, but break it off too early. Stay in control of your urges, she’ll want you more.
/r/seduction12/12/21 07:13 PM
2

Yup women push narratives in society to protect themselves. If a woman can't raise a kid without the presence of a man they're forced to get married. If she's bother by f*ck boys a lot narratives are pushed that are against men becoming sexual with women. Once you see through the bullshit and go after what you really want, they're more likely to give it to you.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:46 PM
1

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/r/seduction09/12/21 11:38 AM
2

A kind and genuine man as you say is sexually not attractive to women. Women will test a man and if he's not capable of enforcing boundaries and showing is self worth, she won't have sex with him. So yeah, your friend is right.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:24 PM
1

Dude, chase excellence not women. Once you're in your late 20s and you're doing better than most, girls will start to notice you and approach you. There is plenty of beautiful women, but it's the chasing excellence guys that are just a few. And it also sets you apart from the other guys. By then your game is not a trick, it is a part of you and responsible for delivering the results you have in life.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:22 PM
-3

Mixed signals are the message. Move on.
/r/seduction07/12/21 05:58 AM
-2

The eye of a woman has a bigger viewing angle. Where men need to look up and down along a woman's body a woman just views the entire picture at once. What you do as a man is sexually more important to women compared to your looks. That's why a man who looks like Danny Devito can still have a different girl every week. A mans peak sexual attractiveness is around the age of 37 and it starts going up when you're in your 30s not before.
/r/seduction06/12/21 07:42 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction04/12/21 09:12 PM
1

I don’t do cold approaches.
/r/seduction03/12/21 05:05 PM
3

Testosteron goes up.
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:59 AM
-2

Learn to f*ck her properly, do some real kinky stuff and make her cum. Seriously put her on her belly and do some PIV from the back. You'll be pushing against that nerve center in the front of her vagina. I'm sure she'll come back for more.
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:57 AM
9

They're also all very beautiful.
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:58 AM
21

Move to Amsterdam. 2/3 in the age bracket 20 until 35 is a woman.
/r/seduction30/11/21 05:52 AM
3

There’s a book called Mode One. It actually explains what works and how to say it.
/r/seduction24/11/21 12:04 PM
1

Go YouTube and watch the content about dating of entrepreneurs in cars. The guy is unsugar coated in his approach, but he tells you exactly what you’re doing wrong and why. There is a high chance you might reject what he has to say and that dependent on how invested you are in the narratives that girls put out there. “Oh you’re so sweet. I don’t understand you don’t have a girlfriend.” Lines like this keep you in that mindset, cause she’s saying you’re doing a great job at making yourself attrac…
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:57 AM
1

Make small achievements. Small achievements make you feel good. That reflects in becoming more confident.
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:30 PM
4

Yeah, mode one communication works best at all times.
/r/seduction21/11/21 10:20 AM
1

Also give her a call half an hour before the date at your place, before you come over I’d like a milkshake from McDonalds I’m craving for one. Bring one yourself. I’m buying. If you get a long monologue of I’m not doing anything for the soul pleasure of a man. Cancel the date. Ask her about her best childhood memories. If those stories don’t contain her father. Call the date short. Women who didn’t grew up with a father (masculine role model) will never accept what you as a man being to the tabl…
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:06 PM
1

Yes, a woman knows. Certain behaviors give it away. Just like we men know a woman wants to fuck someone. Take a look at Jeff Bezos’s girlfriend give him the please fuck me look.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:40 AM
4

It's called "buyers remorse".
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:12 AM
-25

You're 20, move out.
/r/seduction14/11/21 01:14 PM
2

No, it makes you tunnel buddies or sausage sisters. Depending on the gender you’re into.
/r/seduction14/11/21 08:49 AM
1

Flip the script. Hey I’m doing x, y, z tomorrow night. I’d love it when you join me. Let her decide if she wants that or not. If you ask a question like what are you doing tomorrow, it means you’re not entirely sure of yourself.
/r/seduction10/11/21 09:47 AM
1

There a guy in YouTube “playing with fire”. He actually gives solid examples.
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:37 PM
1

Women like to fuck men who other men want to be. So... you're a strong competition compared to your friends. They simply try to take you down, because you're success is not inline with their values.
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:30 AM
1

There’s no valuable people in the night life. It’s better to stop focusing on changing women and start chasing excellence. It has a far better ROI.
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:47 PM
1

I’d tell her sure, go ahead, but exclusivity and long term is out of the question. That shit is reserved for women who only date me and wanna see where stuff goes from there.
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:46 PM
4

Mode one communication works best. Tell her straight up you want to have casual sex with her. She might be a bit shocked, just act like it’s the most normal thing in the world you just said. She’ll probably dismiss it at that point, but chances are she’ll come back to you in the future.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:45 AM
0

I can see your camel toe and walk to the guy behind the girl standing there with a camel.
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:34 PM
0

I don’t have a rotation. I’m having sex with one and a pool with potentials. I demand exclusivity from the first date on. If she spreads her legs for other guys too I’m out and if it’s time frames for a few weeks or months and we know it will end. I’m totally cool with that.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:19 AM
1

Easy tell her: “No” with a smile. Extra kudos if you can make her feel ridiculous about her request.
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:05 AM
0

Make sure you know the girl outside of social media.
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:05 PM
1

Try something. A girl might say this as a how serious are you test or some resistance test to see how you handle it.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:53 PM
0

She applied a shit test to you and you failed so she walked away. One of the things that happens when a girl might have potential romantic interest in a girl is she will subject him to a shit test. This particular example was a compliance test. Can I make you do my bidding? That’s what she wanted to know and you did as you were asked, which is a fail. Your answer in a case like this should be no. No keep in mind this is during the getting to know each other stage and it doesn’t hurt to be a litt…
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:50 PM
1

And here’s why FWB is cool. But no sleeping with other people while we’re FWB’ing. If she does she’s out. I set this rule early on. I’m totally cool with we’re dating for certain amount of time, but no sleeping with other people. I don’t like dealing with the fallout that comes with it.
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:04 PM
1

Ok, so she disqualified herself as possible wife. Just go have fun with her. No strings attached.
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:57 PM
1

Girls are not the only things that are counter intuitive.
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:44 PM
4

So, she didn't feel like continuing. Big deal.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:23 PM
1

If I’m the owner of Tinder or any of the other ‘dating’ platforms out there. Would I be interested in people finding each other for happily ever after and not coming back for more or would I be interested in people finding each other and breaking up so they come back for more. You do understand I make more money when they break up and come back for more. So I’ll be exploiting that behavior that makes them come back for more. And this behavior expands outside of the realm of online dating. So, ho…
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:27 PM
1

You still want her. I guess she's looking for attention first. Based on that I'd make it clear. It's a date, your goal is to have casual sex with her and see where things lead from there. Tell her that straight up. Let her decide if she's cool with you pulling all kinds of stupid shit to achieve that, while you two hang out. If she doesn't want that, don't hang out with her. Don't get in contact. And simply don't bother. Chances are if you play it like that, she comes back to you in the future.
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:56 PM
1

If you cold approach and 1 out of a 100 is not a mental retard from your perspective you quickly learn that cold approach is very time consuming and you have a better use of your time. Having a high IQ is a curse rather than a blessing. So it requires a different approach.
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:52 PM
2

Why I say this? Well let me see... People with IQ of a 100 will put people with an IQ of below 70 in a mental institution, because they're retarded. Right? Now... I have an IQ well over 130. So, I'm in the top 2% range. Meaning 1 in 50 is someone I could connect with the rest of the people seem utterly retarded to me. But... the IQ distribution curve for women is different. Meaning at the far end are less women to be found. It's about 2 guys on every girl. So.. 1/150 is a woman I might be intere…
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:43 PM
11

Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not fucking her, she sees you as a girlfriend. And yes, girlfriends can also have sleepovers together. I had a girlfriend like that a long ago and I actually learned a lot about non sexual intimacy from her, which is also important. So if I were you, I'd keep these (ir)regular non sexual sleepovers with her and keep looking around for a girl that actually drops her panties for you.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:48 PM
2

After 100000s years of evolution we men developed a paternity scare, because the men who raised the offspring of other men and not their own have not been able to reproduce and have been cancelled from going into the next generation. Therefor over time we men developed a circuit in our brain that gets triggered in case our woman sleeps with another man. After all sex with another man means she might be with child from another man.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:39 AM
1

I use Google on the term Pick Up Artist or PUA. The rest is history. But, I'm sure you're not going to find there what you're really looking for.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:40 PM
4

Stop chasing women and start chasing excellence. Excellence attracts women, cause there's a lot of women and not so many excellent men. But, that's probably not what you're looking for.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:05 PM
2

Get at ease with sex. Look at her like you don’t care about her opinion. Next level is looking at her and identifying how she feels. She’ll probably start to giggle and look away when you do that. If you already know each other and have a good vibe. Look in her eyes and imaging fucking her brains out. I’m sure she gets nervous when you do that. And in all cases stop giving a fuck what she thinks.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:28 PM
23

Women on social media get showered by simps. Don’t bother.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:28 PM
2

Women date up and across. Men date across and down. So if you want to date hotter women, raise your value on the dating market.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:25 PM
5

Yeah, one of your women sleeping with another dude is invoking a paternity scare circuit in your brain. Getting jealous is a totally normal reaction. Same as a woman would gets jealous when a guy diverts resource to another woman and build an emotional connection with her.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:18 PM
0

If she has a boyfriend. Reframe the relationship as friends with benefits and just leave it be. She’s responsible for the agreement she has with her boyfriend and she’s also responsible for honoring or not honoring that agreement. In either case just have fun and don’t bother stirring up the trouble.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:08 PM
3

Most advice here requires training yourself to increase your ability to read someone else's emotions. Here's a simple hack on how to train that. Go to a park or any other place where there's lots of people. Have seat somewhere. If you see someone passing by try just by observing to identify how that person is feeling. See if you can feel that and see how it makes you feel. Make it a habit of training that 15 minutes a day just by observing people. At some point that skill becomes available in in…
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:53 AM
15

Stop giving a fuck about the outcome. Stop giving a fuck about her opinion. Be straightforward and playful. Only do that when you have a vibe. And keep in mind there are techniques to have someone like you really quick.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:55 PM
2

Have the girl pick the girl. She's probably less attractive than the girl who did the picking, but it's simple price to pay for her not being jealous.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:56 PM
6

When a girl says she "doesn't do <fill in the blank>". The thought of doing that with you already crossed her mind. And for this particular case... no clove no love.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:32 PM
1

NOPE, sorry, it doesn't work that way. In my experience it does. Women are like cats. The ones that resonate with you, come to you if you ignore them and operate on a clear why you're doing the things you do. But, I'm curious. Why do you dismiss it.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:14 PM
1

You're twisting my words into something I didn't say. I only say the whole cold approach thing has an effort gain ratio that is off and it's basically like shooting a shotgun to hit a target a mile away. You can better chase excellence and flip the script. Shape your world, make it entertaining, awesome and high class. Once you deliver such a world to yourself, women will notice and the right ones resonate with it and come to you.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:52 PM
0

Yes, and a 100 girls later. You still have no clue on how to build and maintain a relationship. You just know how to keep it superficial and how to make it appealing to a woman to sleep with you. You have to use manipulative tactics to do that, which puts a stress on everybody involved and neither gets what he or she really care for. Therefor it's better to shape your world first, that will simply attract right type of women. Cause the superficial ones they can't handle it.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:38 PM
0

Ok, so you basically incorporated the plow through method in the way you do business? I’d rather have my results speak for themselves. That way the results are my sales pitch, instead of all the talk. There’s too much talk in the world already from everybody who wants or show themselves and no real quality results.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:33 AM
1

Here's how I did that in one of the coffee places I frequently visited. At some point she was having a coffee break at the table next to me. I started a conversation with her. Next time we met I asked her if when she was available for another coffee break. She joined me for a cup of coffee. On thing led to the next and at some point we were being friends with benefits. She didn't want any commitment. I didn't want any either. We both live in different cities. Occassionally chat and the great vib…
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:19 AM
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I've never gotten the whole cold approach thing. The whole effort gain ratio is completely off, where you almost literally have to plow through women to find one that's says yes to your advances. I'd rather focus on chasing excellence and increasing my socio economic status, that's a much better use of my time. Women will notice that and will do the approaching for you. After all there are plenty of women, but there aren't so many top level men.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:12 AM
17

Oh man this reminds me of how me and my first girlfriend got together. Just ask her out on a date. And since you’ve been hanging out a lot. Pick your place to go to. Cook a delicious meal together and have some fun doing it together. It will tell you a lot on how you two cooperate. From there go in for a kiss again. And for reference it took me and my first girlfriend about 6 months to get together and another 4 months before we had sex. We were both that nervous about it. So yeah my main advice…
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:13 PM
-1

She's colleague. I'd send a her a text that says: "Yo, did you die or something?" And leave it at that. I'll treat her like normal when I bump to her and crack a joke. Like something like: "Good you're alive." And leave it at that. The balls is in her court now.
/r/seduction03/10/21 08:15 AM
1

Watch the old James Bond movies when he was still this “toxic masculine role model”. His attitude where he lets a woman wait until he’s ready is both an act of violence and it attracts women like a magnet.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:34 AM
2

She's older than you. A woman older than you is on a communicative level far more advanced than you are and she has the ability to manipulate you, without you knowing it. If it's going into a relationship it will be an amazing experience to you, but you'll never know you'll be manipulated. In order to protect yourself I'd recommend time framing it to half a year max to experience it and then terminate the relationship. Not doing that, is putting you're mental healthy at risk, because you risk ge…
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:14 AM
-1

This is probably due to the fact that you're on the high end of the IQ curve. Men have a different IQ distribution curve than women. For men it's wider. So on the low end mans IQ go much lower and on the high end mans IQ goes much higher. If you're in the high end part of the distribution curve you'll find the vast majority of women to be childish and stupid. Even at your own age when you're in your 30s. Here's the thing.. Women make up for this in the emotional realm. So what they lack in ratio…
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:02 AM
4

100% of the women are going for the top 20% of men and that's independent of Tinder. 100% of the men are going for the top 80% of women. So the top 20% of men get all the action, while the bottom 80% barely get any action and if they do they have to settle for a girl, that's not really their type but it's the only thing they got. So start chasing excellence. Start making bank. Build muscle. Increase your socio economic status. Do fun things. And then you might find yourself having to turn down w…
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:54 AM
2

Go there to learn to dance and have a good time. Meeting women is a bonus not the other way around.
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:34 AM
2

You're probably smatter than most people your age. Be careful in getting with a woman older than you. They have developed their communication skill to such a level that they can manipulate you, without you knowing it. Making it an awesome experience and it can get you addicted to that and it leaves her in full control of you without you knowing it.
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:12 AM
1

There's a book called Mode One written by Alan Roger Currie. Read it. It explains your question in great detail.
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:52 AM
1

Lately? No. I have almost zero interest in women right now.
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:11 PM
2

I don’t chase women. To get one. I go some place to have a good time. And if there happen to be a woman and we have a good vibe together, I might maybe tell her that I want a date with her.
/r/seduction25/09/21 03:00 PM
1

How to put your mental health at risk. Part 1.
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:52 PM
2

Start realising attraction from her is not a constant. Be indifferent to the outcome and tell her straight forward what you want from her. It's up to her if and possibly when she wants that with you.
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:14 AM
17

This book Dangerous Personalities doesn't use the Dark Triad model. It's based on FBI profiler experience to identify someone's personality type in the shortest time frame possible.
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:42 AM
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There’s a book called dangerous personalities. It has checklists for each personality to spot him or her. Memorize them. Next time listen to your gut feeling and verify it against the checklists.
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:37 PM
1

When I add something to the conversation, I'd rather have it some weight else I don't have something to add.
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:50 AM
2

I only had a kid with a girl from a dating app.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:22 PM
1

I got proof I'm not a virgin. I have a mini me walking around with the same sense of humor.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:12 PM
1

If you don't get the results out of life that you want, you need to take a good look at the person you see in the mirror. That dude is letting you down my friend. Go to YouTube and find Richard Cooper with his entrepreneurs in cars channel. You might not like what he says at first, but when he says something it makes sense to apply in your life. This way you can keep unnecessary drama out, get better results and get the girls.
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:45 PM
0

Seduction is a numbers game for boys who are not sexually attractive yet.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:35 PM
1

There’s two variables that can make a vagina feel different: The level of tension in her pelvic floor muscles. How turned on is she? It causes her to get wet and her vagina swells up more.
/r/seduction10/09/21 05:07 AM
6

I rather have a beautiful woman in my bed. All vagina's feel the same. Next time you're interacting with a beautiful woman. Put all notion of she's so hot from your brain and replace it with: "She might be interesting to hangout with." That way you don't get the dopamine hit of being with a beautiful woman. And stop watching porn. It triggers the dopamine centers of your brain in the wrong way. So it messes with how you see woman. Plus it's basically watching another dude fuck a woman you desire…
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:51 PM
1

If you’re a man, don’t listen to the dating advice from women. They’re saying things to make you feel good, but applying it doesn’t really get you what you want.
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:40 AM
17

If you do continu with her. Get to a frame of mind, where you don't get hurt by being to hooked up on her like: "She's not yours it's just your turn." Here's why: She's getting married and clearly after you. So any investment in anything exclusive is a risk of her doing the same thing to you. Same goes for anything long term with her.
/r/seduction05/09/21 08:13 AM
3

Women are only interested in the top 20% of men. Especially now in the Tinder/Instagram age. So if women are not interested in you, focus on improving yourself.
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:49 PM
2

When a man has an orgasm prolactin is released in his body and he loses interest in sex. It clears the "I need fuck urge" from his brain. Next to that on average it takes man 7 minutes to reach orgasm, while it takes a woman much longer. Personally, if his interest in you doesn't come back after a few days, I suggest you move on.
/r/seduction31/08/21 06:29 AM
3

Peak of sexual attractiveness of a man is 37 and peak of a woman’s sexual attractiveness is around 23. I’d say proceed and have fun.
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:31 AM
2

She needed sex. You provided that to her. Move on. There’s more women like that who just get a man when they’re in their ovulatory period after that they ditch him. Just like that. Next time when you sleep with her. Send her a text after with “that was 🔥🔥🔥” and see how she responds.
/r/seduction23/08/21 12:57 PM
2

No, it’s about becoming independent of outcome. Here’s what I would do if I were you. When the vibe early on is good between the two of us I would say at some point. “I want to make out with you somewhere in the forest.” Just like it’s the most normal thing in the world. This way you remove ambiguity from what you want her and you leave it up to her to decide if she wants to do that with you. Women make the decision about whether or not anything of sexual nature will happen between the two of yo…
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:09 AM
8

Well, I’d start by becoming outcome independent. Women smell it when you need a certain outcome to happen and she’ll reject you for sure.
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:01 AM
0

Depending on context if a woman says, “I’m not looking for anything serious”, it can mean she wants something serious and the thought I’m doing that with you has crossed her mind. Same thing when she says: “we’re not going to have sex tonight.” Most of the times it means I want you to initiate sex tonight.
/r/seduction20/08/21 08:59 AM
2

She’s eager to cheat on her current boyfriend. She’s likely to do that to you as well. Treat her as a friend with benefits. Hangout. Have sex. Do fun stuff together, but do not make her your girlfriend. She’s likely to cheat on you.
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:50 PM
1

Google Stirling Cooper go to his YouTube page, I’m sure he has a video on that.
/r/seduction14/08/21 09:08 PM
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You’ve got a great deal to learn about women.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:53 PM
1

There’s a book called Mode one. Read it and apply it. The book explains in great detail why your strategy is less effective and being straightforward is.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:52 PM
1

Don’t drop hints. Make it clear. If you have a good vibe with her tell her upfront with a attitude where you don’t care what’s happens next: “I want to have casual sex with you.” It might not happen tonight, but it might happen in the future. She knows what you want and it’s up to her to decide if that’s going to happen.
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:03 PM
1

A woman is 5000% more empathic compared to you as a man. So if you have the goal of sleeping with her in mind. It’s not going to happen. It’s a turn off for her. So, I think you have to unlearn something in order to achieve what you want.
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:41 PM
3

You really wanted to hook up with her. You were outcome dependent. She picks that up and doesn’t go with you. Moral of this story, always be outcome independent. As don’t give a fuck about if the night ends in face down in the pillow give to me more kind of sex or just lame, whatever screw you guys I’m going home.
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:03 PM
7

She's a woman. Don't listen to what she says, observe her behaviour and draw your conclusions from that.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:45 PM
2

Seduction as a man works best when you’ve got the success and the results to show outside of the dating world.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:25 AM
1

Why? According to my experiences this advice works like dynamite and is very effective.
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:02 PM
1

I’d move forward and I’d make it clear this is going to last a maximum of half a year and that’s a hard limit. Cause she’s 50, she knows exactly how to manipulate you and make you do her bidding without you knowing it. And yes, it’s going to be an awesome experience, but seriously time frame it, when the date of half a year has passed make the break a clean cut no hard feelings.
/r/seduction04/08/21 02:15 PM
1

Don’t send vague little messages. Just tell I want to have casual sex with you as soon as you have a sense the two do you have a vibe together. It’s clear, unambiguous, she knows what you want. It’s up to her on how she handles this information. And if you say it with a I don’t care attitude that’s indifferent of outcome, chances are she loves your bold straightforwardness and she goes along with it somewhere in the future.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:50 AM
1

I think it was a shit test to see if you lose your shit over this.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:46 PM
-1

No, it’s not. If she’s already flirty with him, he shoot just tell her. I want to have casual sex with you and see where it leads. If it doesn’t work out it’s all cool and he should move to the next girl.
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:44 PM
-2

All women are the same. It will shock her at first, but she’ll like your boldness very much.
/r/seduction28/07/21 08:52 PM
5

You solve that by the same thing a man would do. Put yourself out there and contact or date other women. It gets the Oneitis out of your system and the pressure of of the one you like beyond anyone else.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:29 PM
1

Yes, failing is part of learning. I wish you lots of failing.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:27 PM
11

You tell her straight up. I want to have casual sex with you. It's up to her what she does with that information. Chances are she might reciprocate later down the road if you be up front about it.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:26 PM
1

I had girlfriend who was amazing and actually turned that into an art with flirting and making people happy and feeling good about themselves. It was crazy never met any girl who was so much fun, radiant and warm. But she was always worried too much on wether people would like her or not. So, in your case I suggest you do like her and turn your worry of being liked abs turn it into an obsession.
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:15 PM
1

Make a better profile. Women only go for the top 10% of men. So step up your game.
/r/seduction16/07/21 06:42 PM
1

What would be good places for me to meet girls and make this scenario a reality? Ever heard of Tinder? or any of the other online dating apps?
/r/seduction16/07/21 06:36 PM
1

Tell the 1st girl. No, I’m busy that night and rescheduling is cool.
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:12 PM
3

Stop chasing women. Chase excellence. If you do that and you do far better than most men in 6 years, women will flock towards you. Problem solved.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:41 AM
1

Yeah... despite a lot of advice, don't play games with women. Say what you want from her to her. Straight forward and be honest about it. Even if it's socially not acceptable what you say. Let her figure it out if she wants the something with you. It will take away the possibility of her manipulating you and you have a created a 'not playing games' environment around you.
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:07 AM
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If a woman sleeps around with a lot of men. Men become easily replaceable by her. If I invest in her wife her at some point she's going to get that itch to have sex with another man. Be it cheating or breaking up doesn't really matter. So... that's a risk if I just made kids with her and she gets this itch. That means that she'll break up the family we're creating and I'm at the mercy of the law in how much resources a reroute towards her. While a woman who has very low notch count is more likel…
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:15 AM
2

You’re 18. Your peak sexual attractiveness is around the age of 36. Don’t worry about it at this point.
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:40 AM
3

She’s an alpha widow. At this point collect data and talk to a divorce lawyer on your options. Once you done that, make it clear to your wife, you don’t tolerate this behavior from her. Tell her to stop doing that or there will be serious consequences. She’ll probably do it again. Find something that works for your situation to get her a punishment. Like take me out to dinner and you’re buying. If she doesn’t comply make it something more severe. Like I’m not paying for your car’s fuel for this …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:00 AM
9

Porn is like McDonalds. Too much McDonalds is bad. Look up this journalist who made documentary on what happened to his mind and body when he ate it a month.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:41 PM
-1

Why is it that reality is always downvoted?
/r/seduction16/06/21 10:57 AM
1

It’s the best he can get.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:56 AM
2

Nope, I still get nervous from a beautiful woman. But, I also have living proof I’m not a virgin anymore.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:55 AM
0

Neither. For anything long term. Pick a woman before her epiphany phase hits. Take 1,5 years to vet her properly. Only after that you 'wife' her up and make babies with her.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:48 AM
1

Exactly, but that's a pill too much to swallow for most people.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:19 PM
3

Have her get the girl from Tinder. So she doesn’t get any anxiety of her being more attractive to her, cause this is a real back fire if you pick the girl.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:25 PM
5

Go have some fun with friends and post it on Instagram. It gives a clear signal you don’t need her to have a good time.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:23 PM
9

Stop chasing girls. Chase excellence. And raise your sexual market value. A woman is always cheating on you, because she doesn’t respect you. So chase excellence and raise you value. This way she’s more likely to have respect for you.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:20 PM
1

Stay away from anything that gives you a dopamine hit. Porn, mobile phones, social media, fapping, etc… if you do this for half a year, you’ll probably get it up in no time.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:03 PM
1

I think you need to grow up and start acting like an adult. She’s asking for a sex detox, because you’re showing immature behavior. This her way of letting you to end the relationship.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:00 AM
6

Women are the weaker sex. Their form of aggression lies in the realm of words and translates very well to social media. Also a woman's opinion is dependent on what the people around her are preaching. Since a lot of female content is about feminism and female empowerment. They'll adopt that mindset. Plus from an emotional view point they have it appears makes sense to them. If you want to make something of your life by taking leadership over your life and steer it into the right direction. You'r…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 08:26 AM
2

I disagree. Get both clear on what you’re looking for, before going on a first date. It saves a lot of shit and uncertainty down the road.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:30 PM
1

Treat it like any other fear. https://youtu.be/aCPc-hsj2sA Jocks has a good explanation on how to do it.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:28 PM
1

You asking this question is part of the unplugging process. Just trust that the answer will come. Updating ones beliefs structure isn’t something that is free of pain.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 01:25 PM
8

It didn't work out with the guy she was seeing the past 4 months and now she wants to see if you're available. Since you're the best she can do. Now you know this act on it as you please.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:36 PM
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