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"lust for life" is a euphemism for "risk taking behavior" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:51 AM
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I'm talking about the kind of girls who break up with their boyfriends out of nowhere and then you ask them why and they say something implying "he was boring". I'm only 23 and I've already seen this happen with 6 of my friends. (mixed male and female, so both sides)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:28 AM
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how do I "hang out" with women who don't hang out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:06 AM
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thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:04 AM
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all the women I've ever gotten to know reasonably well have been like that, and I'm not in any party circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:04 AM
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so just you should ask yourself where you think a woman like this usually hangs out. I literally don't know. I don't "hang out" anywhere other than my home or the bush, and the kind of girls I want to meet wouldn't either. The only time I hang out somewhere is when someone invites me, and I only go because it's important to maintain friendships and social skills. I'm curious to see some examples of excitement you're talking about. I like going out once or twice a week for a walk in the park or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:46 AM
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I don't care why the men like it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:42 AM
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Where do I need to look? Dating apps are notoriously useless, and they won't be out socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:25 AM
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It does work out that way when the people aren't immature. Maybe you should meet some more mature people with a better understanding of how to maintain a relationship and you'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:57 AM
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and he won't be strong forever. That's part of the social contract. He continues to love her when she isn't quite so sexy anymore, and she continues to love him when he isn't quite so strong anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:40 AM
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It seems like you won't accept me speaking for women. But I certainly can speak for myself and I can speak for my male friends: Men want a loyal, sexy woman who makes him feel appreciated and won't cause drama. That is all. For what it's worth I come from 4 generations deep of happy marriages lasting a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:34 AM
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Women hate the chad because he won't commit to them. In either case, the whore/chad are being fucked by people who resent them afterwards. The outcome is the same, although the reasons are different. Hence it's the same phenomenon, not directly the same thing 1:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:19 AM
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You understood what I'm getting at perfectly. Explained it way better than I did. Thank you! If I could pin a comment to the OP then I would pin this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:07 AM
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Every organized religion that advocates a blueprint for running society outlaws prostitution. Why do you think that is? Personally I think that there are some things that people shouldn't be allowed to have even if they want it, because it does more harm to them and those around them in the long run. Also, don't forget that (my) goal here is to get things into a state where the majority of men and the majority of women are satisfied. Is it possible to satisfy everyone? Absolutely not. But we CAN…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:56 AM
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My problem with this is that I don't believe this integration is fundamentally impossible. Women can settle down without a history, and then learn how to properly make their husband feel loved. IMO men only want "the whore" because many women don't even know how to make a man feel loved. The 5% of men who genuinely want to fuck around and never commit can go with the similarly small 5% of women who also want to fuck around. Likewise I believe that any man can be an alpha provider by having a dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:19 AM
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The difference I'm pointing out is that women want to have sex and lock down a relationship with Chad. The average guy competes with Chad for sex and relationships. Any women who are trying to get chad to commit are deluding themselves, because if he commits then he isn't chad anymore. Chad's existence is predicated on the idea that he is fucking multiple women but not committing to any of them, keeping them off the dating market and preventing them from pairing up with men who would actually co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:27 PM
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nah man I fully agree with you. That's what I'm saying - the girls that PPD complains about being beta/chad chasers are dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:57 PM
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Here's the link: https://web.archive.org/web/20081030002608/https://www.ncfr.com/pdf/press_releases/PRESS%20RELEAS2.pdf Check on page 14. I needed a wayback link to bypass a paywall. The table links are broken, but I have the one showing the 48% 1 partner divorce risk if you want it. It’s how you missed that those who are traditional and religious tend to have lower sexual partners and do not believe in divorce. The study I linked actually finds that more religious men are related to higher marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:21 PM
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now youre adding a third category into the mix yeah, it is a nuanced topic that's difficult to get everything down in a concise way without oversimplifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:05 PM
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If you believe that the vast majority of men have their status as 'beta' preset for them at birth, then there isn't much of a conversation to be had because we disagree about something too fundamental. Also, the chads who commit and provision are alpha providers. An actual chad has no interest or no capability of provisioning. An alpha provider is something different, and it does have a female equivalent. Usually they wind up together, because they're actually worthy of eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:28 PM
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You're writing this as if it's supposed to disagree with me, but everything you say supports my argument, just phrased a bit differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:27 PM
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Men across the world are biologically programmed to prefer women with low notch count for commitment. Studies have also backed it up - one study I found shows that a virgin bride has a 15% lifetime divorce risk, while a woman with 1 prior sexual partner (so 2 notches including her husband) has a 48% lifetime divorce risk. It only gets worse with more notches. Note that this study was actually trying to track cohabitation's impact on marriage stability, and it accidentally found that notch count …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:24 PM
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This is tone-deaf, he wants to improve his own well being by fulfilling his need for intimacy. He is literally dependent on their opinion to fulfill that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:51 PM
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Toxic positivity is a good term, I'll have to file that one away for later. If people hadn't fed me that bullshit when I was 14 then my life would be so different today. Maybe I wouldn't even have such a problem with authority, imagine that. Thanks parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:37 AM
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Alright, fair enough. I have seen this happen, but only known two guys who did it. I don't meet many men, so I won't try to comment further on that. Maybe I just need to meet more. On a different note then, I'm sure you've seen the whole genetic thing where most men never reproduce because women push sexual selection so hard. Do you think there's any way to have a stable society where women are allowed to have equal rights to men without getting all the "excess men" killed (like what russia's cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:27 AM
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People can't seem to shut the fuck up about it. Isn't "find your purpose" just a euphemism for "stack cash bro cuz hoes dig it dawg"? As you said yourself, if a dude's "purpose" is being the best magic the gathering player in the world, that doesn't drop any panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:14 AM
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Maybe I've just been lucky then? Or maybe I'm in that top 20% without knowing it somehow despite not having had more than 2000$ of cash to my name in the past 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:03 AM
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I think you make a good argument. Do you think there are enough calebs that it accounts for the discrepancy though? It seems to me like there are many top 20% dudes who aren't slammin' for various reasons, or personally choose to not give multiple girls the run around (however much they may deserve it lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:56 AM
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No, I got redpilled in late highschool. A girl I considered a good friend, it turned out she was secretly dating one of my friends but he wasn't exciting enough for her, so she started flirting with me in front of him to try to get him to do something. Then everyone found out, and my sociopath player friend fucked her and uh, taught her what happens to sluts and then she left the school entirely. But I haven't seen evidence that all girls are like this. It feels to me like redpill guys are going…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:39 AM
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It's not a random thread. It's this very thread. It was posted AFTER I linked that article.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:30 AM
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He makes a good point. I've never been contacted for any survey about anything remotely relevant. Who's completing these surveys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:29 AM
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Too bad this comment exists. Lol. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11o8bzb/how_is_it_physically_possible_that_there_are/jbrix1x/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:57 AM
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https://www.girlschase.com/article/dating-rules/20-men-are-doing-80-dating tl;dr, the principle is misused. A better way to use it is that 80% of your dating results come from the 20% effort of putting yourself around attractive women. For me personally literally all I need to have girls flirting with me is for me to put in the 20% of effort to be around them daily so they actually have the opportunity to do so. Or well, that's how it would be in school where you're actually in a mixed gender en…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:09 AM
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Do some women share men? Yes. But I don't believe that 2/3rds of women are sharing 1/3rd of men. So by extension I also don't believe that 80% of women are sharing 20% of men or whatever it is that the red pill claims the ratio is. The numbers on applying the 80/20 rule to that just don't check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:02 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:01 AM
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Sampling error is a good point, I think that probably contributes a lot. But it certainly sucks then that I think it's reasonable to conclude approximately 2 men for every 1 woman are living a life of depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:50 AM
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It's very difficult to tell what's actually true and what isn't in the red pill because it's chock full of poisoned waters. If I read the red pill and blindly trusted everything they say, I would unironically kill myself immediately afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:46 AM
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are they actually testosterone fuelled? most of them look low-test to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:04 AM
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How is it mathematically possible that 63% of men are single but only 34% of women? I mean, it supports my own experience. I meet single men CONSTANTLY while women are somehow usually taken. But like... how?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:45 AM
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I looked into passporting a while back. Personally for me, I'm an attractive guy and I don't have issues meeting women. But I refuse to marry a girl if I'm not her first, so dating hasn't been going well for me. I looked for similar situations - passport bros who are attractive men with plenty of options, and who moved to the country permanently never returning to north america. I found plenty of glowing stories, saying that they met a girl that they loved enough to marry immediately after adapt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:57 AM
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I'm in the same situation as you! I'm a 23yo man who appreciates traditionalism and christian values, but I've never had a spiritual experience and don't believe there is a higher power. I'm looking for the right woman for me! So men who are what you want do exist. But this means that I have to meet and screen a lot of women, and I have to do it reasonably quickly. I force myself to meet at least one new woman every time I leave the house. I've been doing this for 6 months now and still haven't …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 12:34 PM
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the issue from the perspective of the average man is that non-monogamous relationship structures don't benefit him. The average man lives a life of sexual scarcity, and so even just having a single woman is better than usual for him. This creates an inherent power unbalance in favor of the woman who will have no issues finding additional partners, so for the average man an open relationship is sexually suicidal. This idea of power unbalance is directly relevant to red pill, because both the male…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 01:33 AM
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She does have a point. She's not trying to shame alt girls, she's trying to shame girls who aren't worthy of commitment. Traditionally, alt styles are about rebellion against conservative gender norms which is already a bad sign. On top of this, infidelity is highly correlated with mental illness AND with sexual adventurousness. Not all women who have a mental illness, reject old gender norms, and are sexually adventurous will become unhappy in their relationship and start looking for greener pa…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/22 02:28 AM
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I'm a man, 5'11" and 130 lbs. So I'm only bone and muscle. I love the sexual dimorphism of phat tits and a dumptruck ass, and usually her BMI is going to need to be a bit higher for that. If I wanted to have sex with women that feel like twinks then I'd just skip the extra step and have sex with twinks. So it isn't as clearcut as "heavier men like heavier women". It's more that men who put effort into their appearance want women that put effort into their appearance. Whatever his tastes may be -…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 02:15 AM
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The idea is that womens' biological imperative is to branch swing from man to man until they get the best man they can find, while the man's biological imperative is to have sex with as many women as he can. The logic goes that if the woman participates in serial monogamy (as her biology dictates) then the man is allowed to participate in casual sex (as his biology dictates). If you want to have a redpill man commit to you without wanting to pursue casual sex on the side, then you'll need to pro…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 11:20 PM
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There are many people who can't function on fewer than 9 hours of sleep. You're genetically gifted and it's not reasonable to hold others to the same standards. If anything I would advise encouraging him to get the sleep that he needs and helping him maintain a consistent sleep schedule. You get extra hours in your day that he isn't lucky enough to have so I'm sure you can figure out how to help instead of using the time selfishly. If you want to put yourself in his shoes, you can try sleeping l…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 07:38 AM
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Sounds like you're here to tell others how to think rather than talk and broaden your own understanding of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:06 PM
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There's evidence in this very thread that some women would care about that statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:02 PM
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How about the case that statistically the lowest divorce rate is for couples that married as virgins? If I'm a man that wants to find a life-long partner, it's statistically in my best interest to find a girl who has not had any previous partners. I don't think the idea of this statistic being ingrained in our biological attraction to women is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:05 AM
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How do you feel about women's attraction to starving artist types? These men are fully capable and more than intelligent enough to make tons of money but they never intend to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 03:54 AM
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what word would you prefer I use to describe a girl that thinks of relationships with wonder instead of cynicism or practicality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:01 PM
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Who wants to be around someone who is home all the time? I don't care what my girlfriend does in her free time as long as it's not degenerate. She's not a clown to entertain me, if I want to be entertained I'll do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:01 PM
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And what about if the man in question never intends to earn big money despite having the potential to. Does he stay attractive long-term?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:59 PM
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No. Naive, as in not jaded to the world. As in optimistic and sees potential everywhere. You could even say naive as in bluepill true love fantasy, I don't want a girl that rifles through casual relationships for kicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:54 PM
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Why would I spoil a girl that isn't being good anyway? Bad girls can go date bad boys instead of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:08 AM
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Yeah exactly. No matter how flawed my numbers may be, the thrust of what I'm saying is pretty much inescapable: The quickest way to a lonely grave is being too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:57 AM
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I am very picky yeah, across everything in my life. I generally want the best and don't like to settle although that doesn't necessarily mean expensive. Usually I can find what I want, and if I can't, I learn how to create it myself. I'd rather spend 10 hours in my workshop than spending 5 minutes and settling. In terms of not settling for a girl, I just want someone that I want to fuck when I look at her, has a sweet/innocent/naive personality, and is both willing and capable of doing her best …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:45 AM
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If she has a piece of shit father and complains about him constantly, then she's likely to project her hatred onto her boyfriend because women are attracted to fatherly traits. If she has a piece of shit father but has come to terms with it and distanced herself from him like a normal healthy human being, she has likely come to terms with her relationship to masculinity and can have a healthy relationship with a man. It's not being judgemental, it's covering your own ass. Because nobody else is …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:31 AM
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Do you want to marry those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:18 AM
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For me it's about managing expectations. Let's say that my basic requirements for a girl's looks is a 6/10. That cuts out 60% of the population at step one. Out of the remaining 40%, let's say my personality requirement cuts out 30% of them. I'm down to 10%. Now let's say that 75% of women value money. If I want a woman that doesn't value money, my dating pool just took a gigantic hit down from 10% to 2.5%. At this point it's getting small enough that my standards may be too high and I need to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:13 AM
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I can't figure out your power level and it's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:07 AM
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Well it's hard to have sex with a friend ^^ or well, I guess I could, but I would want her to only have sex with me... and that kinda defeats the whole point of a FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:59 AM
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Don't get me wrong I do things for her. I just do things that don't cost money. One of the most favored gifts I've ever given was something I made myself out of scrap metal, which cost nothing. I haven't been with that girl for 3 years and she still has it on her keychain. I'm just talking purely in terms of monetary value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:53 AM
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I use a one-up system. If she gets me a gift I'll get her one that's a bit better. But I'm not the one that takes the initiative to spend money in greater amounts than five bucks. And I keep this rule to myself, I don't share it with them. So you'd never know that's what I was doing, the only effect you'd see is that the more effort you put in, the more effort I reciprocate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:47 AM
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I don't expect to own a girl, and I don't expect a girl to want to be owned. But what is breadwinning if not buying her affection? If I wanted to buy a girl's affection I would do as you suggest and find a sugar baby or prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 04:07 AM
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If it helps at all, I don't think it's unreasonable for a woman to want a man that doesn't fantasize about fucking other women, and definitely wouldn't call a woman who wants that possessive or psychotic. How is this different?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:28 PM
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I'm sure insulting people that you believe are mentally unstable is a great way to get them to come to their senses
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:23 PM
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Well apparently I'm a psychopath then. I don't see it to be unreasonable or crazy to want a girl that doesn't have previous men taking up rent in her memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:19 PM
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You posit that I want a virgin because she won't break up with me if I have issues. But then you admit that everybody has issues. Do you live in a paradigm where only completely perfect men get to deserve an LTR with imperfect women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:13 PM
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I think my perspective of how "normal" relationships work has been influenced by the kind of relationships that I've seen - I can't think of a single relationship between people the same age as me that has lasted longer than a year. Not only that but typically they don't break up and then stay single, they just jump right on to the next person. Hence me using the word "rent" as descriptor: that's the way all the relationships that I've seen have appeared to be like, and it's important to me to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:47 PM
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Yes I am willing to wait until marriage. I'm not trying to despoil a virgin into a mistress for a few years. If I just wanted to get my dick wet I could do that whenever. That being said, I do think the breadwinner thing is interesting. I look at things in terms of a "give and take" kinda lens, in the sense that if she expects something of me then I'm going to expect something from her back. The major give and takes that I'm aware of are me expecting sex and in return she gets to expect the masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:34 PM
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"I think you believe a virgin girl will want to stay with you and deal with your bad shit." What makes you think that I have bad shit in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:32 PM
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why do women like dominant men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:35 AM
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Makes a lot of sense. My logic for choosing day game is that even the super shy introverts have to go shopping eventually. Do you know of a more efficient way to potentially meet them? Joining a community is basically off the table for me, I'm the kinda guy that absolutely detests being told what to do by anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:27 AM
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Thanks, those are good points. How do you suggest negotiating the hobby front? My hobbies are cars, combat robotics, RC aircraft, programming... those kinds of things aren't exactly very female-centric, and it seems like faking interest in a female hobby just to meet a girl is going to turn off those exact girls that I would be there to meet. I've been considering going to college with the lightest possible course load for the social experience, maybe that will be one of my best bets?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:21 AM
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What cultures are there that glorify chastity? The only one I know of is the rural slavic kinda culture, but then I've gotta deal with the whole "a man's wallet is a shared wallet, a woman's wallet is a private wallet" BS that they've got going on over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:10 AM
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nooot a virginnnn
/r/askMRP26/04/19 12:37 AM
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Got it, thanks.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:19 AM
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Do you have a better screening method than this then?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:59 AM
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So you're saying to always be chad 100% and hide any hint of beta traits while screening. This does not turn off girls that want an LTR? It seems like I'm fucked no matter what I do tbh.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:47 AM
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Yeah I get it. I be the chad, if she fucks me then she's failed the test.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:41 AM
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Yeah exactly, that's why I think the "fuck asap" approach is a good screening technique.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:13 AM
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Sure dude I'll phrase it your way. I'm turned off by high N counts.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:52 AM
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