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Good evening Echo.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:06 AM
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She will 100% cheat, speaking as a guy who bangs a lot of foreigners. 4 months is way too long. Break it off or embrace being a cuck and buy a strap on so she can fuck you good once she gets back. If she valued your relationship she would never consider leaving for such a long time.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:07 PM
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You are a troubled woman lol Fix yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 04:57 PM
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That's her own problem to deal with. She's fated to have a miserable life. Now go out and become someone.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:29 PM
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In your story, I'm the guy who goes to your princess' house and beats her pussy up, while Billy the beta puts up with her shit and gives her money. Go back to your bluepill or cuckold subreddit little cuck boy
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:35 PM
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Chad is the dude going over to your unicorn's house, smoking some weed and then railing her hard raw while you're Billy, the one writing testaments, losing his mind over her and giving her money (LOL). Later little cuckboy
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:15 PM
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Keep it together little boy, while you were writing this testament about her, she was getting railed by Chad. I gotta give her props, sex is indeed better when high.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:55 PM
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Ban this cuck from our sub, thanks.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:42 PM
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If they're not coworkers, you should answer in the same token. They will respect you more because you don't put up with their bullshit. Tell them wrinkles and eyebags on a woman look terrible.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 04:43 PM
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You're being cucked.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:43 PM
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Of course, in fact it probably boosts it. Women don't give a fuck about the struggle or the work you put in to achieve success. All they care about is the end result.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:18 PM
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I'm in the same spot but worse. I don't have a car, nor money of my own and I'm studying full time for a Master's in a highly paid STEM field, which leaves me without much time. I've come to realize it's not worth pursuing as many women for the time being. I'd rather focus all my energy on lifting 6 days a week and on my academic career. Now don't get me wrong, I still occasionally go out. But it's very occasionally and unless the girl I'm talking to is dtf and has a room for us, I'm approaching…
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:01 PM
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lol no dont go monk mode, simply bang 10 different bitches
/r/askTRP17/11/19 03:57 PM
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She was 100% banging her ex too while in the relationship with OP also. Hard next.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:54 PM
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Drop this LTR or embrace being a cuck.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 03:16 PM
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Scarcity.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 04:06 PM
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Not really, americans have by far the most purchasing power in the world. It's not even close. Which makes all the talk of privilege incredibly amusing.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:52 AM
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I think he's saying girls will want to give you oral. Same thing happens to me, HB9s have legit told me they wanted to blow me in some hidden spot in public.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:27 PM
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I found the exact opposite. American/Canadian girls are really easy to get in bed with whereas in Europe they require a bit more comfort.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:11 PM
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That's why I'm giving you simple solutions for your problems. If you have ED symptoms use cialis temporarily until you get your test back to a good level. Or keep being depressed.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:42 PM
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It is ED if you're getting weak boners like you said you have. Stop rationalization. Or keep being the beta little bitch you've been as of late.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:34 PM
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Get on TRT, lift, enjoy the gains. If you still have ED problems go to the doctor and get some cialis
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:30 PM
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lol my approaches are 99% always direct openers with a compliment and my success rate is fairly high
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 03:53 PM
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How long have you been lifting? I bet you don't look like you lift + your game isn't good like you think it is. To have 0% success rate over 1200 approaches there is something definitely wrong and it isn't your height or skin color.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:33 PM
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The fact that the argument I just made completely went over your head means you're way more or a noobie than I thought. You're gonna fuck this one date and many others and then one day you'll read a post similar to mine and realize how much of a chump you are.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:02 PM
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He's got a legit point, you have scarcity mentality written all over you. Overthinking logistical details with the implied intent of not wanting to fuck it up with this one girl suggests you do not have an abundance of women in your life. If you did, you wouldn't worry about details that you'll learn later with experience don't matter whatsoever. Frame is everything. A high value male with an abudance of women wouldn't overthink a typical meet-up with a girl who's clearly down to fuck.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:52 PM
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Viagra/Cialis - > Injections - > Implant You have an ED problem, whether psychological or physical or both, fix it.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:30 PM
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Nothing will make you redpilled faster once you see your buddy's girlfriends hitting on you even when they're around. Lifting has made this a reoccurring thing.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 02:43 AM
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"Guys what do I do about being in a situation where I'm getting tons of pre-selection"
/r/askTRP22/06/19 02:40 AM
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I replied to a similar topic on asktrp with the following: Last saturday, the last girl I got the number from (got 4 numbers that night and 2 make-outs) asked me for my instagram and said she didn't give her phone number to strangers. I maintained frame, looked at her in the eyes and told her "Listen, I don't use instagram. You seem like a cool girl. I'd like to get to know you, but if you don't wanna exchange numbers it's fine by me". We continued to talk. Later in the conversation, she says "A…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:39 PM
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Last saturday, the last girl I got the number from (got 4 numbers that night and 2 make-outs) asked me for my instagram and said she didn't give her phone number to strangers. I maintained frame, looked at her in the eyes and told her "Listen, I don't use instagram. You seem like a cool girl. I'd like to get to know you, but if you don't wanna exchange numbers it's fine by me". We continued to talk. Later in the conversation, she says "Alright, take my phone number". Now I am somewhat of an attr…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 05:44 PM
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The use of brb by OP comes from bodybuilding.com where people used it in the same fashion. It does mean be right back.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 05:37 PM
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Putin.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:38 PM
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Good points. What do you think I can do to tackle the negative thoughts of other people watching me approach in crowded places? I can approach women in large and uncrowded places without a flinch, but the moment I see people standing around nearby or walking by, my train of thought starts to derail. I don't know how I should handle being rejected in a setting like that. Laugh it off? Just give out a smirk?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 12:47 AM
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Hmm no, PPL and PHAT routines do just that.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 12:31 AM
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The question is why you're even asking them if they're single. NEVER ask if they're single. Just assume they are. If they make sure to mention it it is 95% of the times because your game sucks at that moment and she wants you to bounce. The majority of women I've banged, I found out later had boyfriends at the time. They never told me. Tingles don't care about that. Women are always on the lookout for branch swings. As OP said, if you demonstrate you're higher value than whatever she's got she'l…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 12:30 AM
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You answered your own question.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:43 PM
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All these Chads saying no, go ahead, more pussy for me. Nothing gets me more and better results than the HB6- girls I know introducing me to their friends.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:43 PM
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A lot of 5s/6s can become valuable friends to have for social networking.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:40 PM
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Also, foster preselection. Whenever I'm out with a girl, if you're good in a social setting, you can make her go crazy and want to "keep you". I don't even do that with this purpose in my mind, it's simply a byproduct of the way I like to be in a group. When I'm in a social setting, I engage with everybody, I make sure that everybody feels better when I'm around them than when I'm not (through multiple avenues), I lead the group and initiate group-actions throughout the night. What ends up happe…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 07:27 PM
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Yikes.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:59 PM
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TIL this is me. Must be why I often don't enjoy the feeling of sex itself, I get off on what's happening, not on the sensation. I gotta get uncut lol, thanks for letting me know.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 03:47 PM
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What exactly were you experiencing during sex that made it mediocre when you were uncut?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 03:18 PM
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Bahaha fucking retard.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:26 PM
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lol. Agree and amplify. If they do those signs or bad mouth you when you walk by, look at them, smirk and wink at them. Do this everytime. They'll eventually stop once they realize they can't get under your skin. Lift. In two years, once they see you got buffed while most guys around them are skinny fat betas, they'll be wanting to wrap those same fingers around your dick. Make sure to make them choke on it when they do.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:48 PM
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This is my method: After texting her with a day/location, immediately delete her phone number and the entire conversation. This way the beta within you doesn't trick your brain into shooting another text if she doesn't reply. This is prone to happen with women you have not built actual tangible attraction with. She doesn't know you well enough and now that the alcohol or girls night out drive is out, she's second guessing her decisions. You haven't yet had the opportunity to show you're a man un…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:12 AM
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Same. Girls who have approached me have ALL been confirmed whores. Not that I mind. After a few dick downs, I'm outtie. Higher quality women will simply be in your vicinity and occasionally glance at you waiting for you to approach her.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:55 AM
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Move out
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:18 PM
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This right here OP. Do this.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:18 PM
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Difference being that it wasn't socially accepted, much less reinforced as it is today. Girls today are way more sluttier than before. Just the other day I watched a video on youtube of two teenage girls, couldn't be more than 14yo, twerking to a brazilian funk song. You can't tell me that shit was happening back in the day. A bar slut is more slutty than a virgin raised right by a cohesive family. AWALT doesn't mean there aren't different levels of quality of women. It simply means they all hav…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 07:42 PM
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We're increasingly shaping the culture toward more of our own values. This will increasingly leave a lot of the CC-riding-sluts and basement dweller beta cucks angry once they realize a growing number of men see them as having no value. The future is bright.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 06:12 PM
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I don't understand, what do you mean?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 12:21 AM
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One of the moments I figured out validation seeking was when I was talking to a girl and watched her attitude flip 180 degrees due to the way I maintained my frame. I was talking to this girl who I had just met. We were talking about vacations, as the college semester was almost over. I ask when she would be free. She replies with "Oh I don't think I'm going to have any vacations, I have to go pretty much every exam" and laughs. Now in her frame and from what I've seen in the majority of young p…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 11:47 AM
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Speak louder and assertively, improve your posture and eye contact.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 01:09 PM
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If you think the end goal of working on your mission is about getting laid with bar sluts you don't know TRP at all. Keep shitposting though and get me my coffee when I stop by McDonalds on my way to work.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:18 AM
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Oh look, another self inflated masturbatory shit post.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:07 AM
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I should be implemeting that, yes. I tried it for a while and ended up feeling sleepy as well when I meditated, almost as if my body associated the breathing with sleep time. I may have been doing it wrong though. Ill look into it and try it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 04:11 PM
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Well I live in Western Europe. The yearly schedule is different.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 04:08 PM
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Yeah, thats great but it depends on the setting. I loved having all that energy when I was lifting 6 days a week and meeting new people. Now that I'm in the period of college finals, it's not that pretty. I have to spend 8+ hours each day in front of the computer, busting my ass to get a good GPA and all that energy does is make me unfocused.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:53 AM
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Dont come asking for advice if you're going to choose to be a beta cuck
/r/askTRP21/05/17 12:00 PM
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It doesn't wane after day 7, trust me. I've started nofap about 2 months ago and I've done two 3-weeks streak and the sex drive is still there, probably even increased slightly for me in the 10-14 days. I can't vouch for past that as I've always failed to do more than 3 weeks, but I'm assuming at some point it wanes. However, the idea is that porn makes you desensitized to sexual desires. Staying away from it, then, will increase your sex drive and sexual performance no matter what. Personally w…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 12:30 PM
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tfw reading this post the day I broke my 3-week streak. On a serious note, nofap is the best thing you can do for sex drive. I could fuck a wall after staying away from it for two weeks. Hearing a woman moan from doing ab exercises across the gym is enough to get me want to drill ten different holes inside her pussy. Shit like that would never happen before when I was fapping once a day to porn.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 10:31 PM
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The only fascinating thing that I saw is the way you rationalized your hookups with those 2 guys. "He got me drunk", "I was sad", this is classic rationalization and avoiding responsibility for your actions. This tells me you have a lot to work on to become a high value woman.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 02:03 PM
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I enjoyed your post. I'm not sure I'd use some of the things you say, I'm not sure my SMV is high enough for it to work, though I'll starting using some more of those mystery lines from now on. It's a good way to get a woman's attention, have her chase that carrot in a stick, while you continuously push it away from her. Everyone wants to know how they come across to other people, especially women. She can't help the fact she wants to know what it is about her you noticed. Without her realizing …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 12:53 AM
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It works in social circle game. Many times you'll befriend fatties and ugly girls you would never fuck in a social circle. It's not a good idea to dismiss them. If you apply these principles to those women, they'll end up really liking you. Then when you meet their friends, you'll already have social approval. A friend of mine got laid several times with different girls because he maintained a friendship with 2 women he knew from high school. All he has to do is listen to their bullshit ranting …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 11:21 PM
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Reading that reminds me of my own fuckups. It took me so long to understand female psychology. Once I was at a college party on campus and I noticed a girl was always in my immediate vicinity, even away from her friends and giving me IOI's. Knowing some game I knew this was how girls act interested. I approached her. After 10 minutes I had pulled her away from the place where her friends were at and had my hands on hers at first and then on her hips. As I went for the kiss she laughed, slid away…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 07:13 PM
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