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What actually is your point in making these posts? If you want closeness then how does being fake (holding frame), lying, concealing your emotions, and manipulation work to achieve that? Simple - I prioritize having great sex. Then we will see what comes next. Emotions and closeness are nice, but secondary. At this point I do not even fake. Achieving this bluepill way worked approximately 0 times. Answering your question in the subject - no it is not bad. Do what you want. Just dont try to convi…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 10:08 PM
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We mostly discuss sexual strategy here - and the sexual tension is created by how you express yourself, how you look and also how you behave. What you say is not that much important, it is more important how you say it. It mostly comes down to not fuck up in major way when it comes to verbal communication and that's it. Why would I be hostile? It's good you are reading. It will help you to understand male and female behaviors better if you try to do it from neutral perspective.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 01:42 PM
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Hate towards women's sexual agency has to do with the fear that women will express their sexual agency superficially which the same way a male would if they were desired as much sexually as females are Except anybody who digested TRP is not hating it. It comes down to understanding and admiring it, then navigating the terrain to have sex with girl of your choice. Why would I hate nature? Hate does not benefit me at all. This has a massive effect on how men are not allowed to be weak or express e…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 01:29 PM
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Now you made me wet. I am not like others tho, I do not sleep on the first date
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:25 PM
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My advice is exactly how I get laid with smart women. It works. This is absolutely contrary with all my experiences. I am great person for conversations like this. I like astrology, history, philosophy and not only. When I was starting my RP journey I was talking to girls mainly about interesting stuff, to also show that I am not "some dumb idiot from the club". At best I could get myself into the friendzone and great guy for chit chat. What I found working is exactly opposite approach. Now I am…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:09 PM
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If you are so smart and intelligent, read the sidebar and it will be piece of cake for you to learn how to properly navigate conversation in order to make date lead to sex. It's not that complicated really. And you can be flexible and have fun if you have good social and common sense.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:02 PM
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That's what happens when smart guys talk to thots. Find the smart women. They sploosh when hearing a guy talk about something intelligently. Maybe for purely conversation purposes with some rare girls passionate about particular subject. Never give advice like that to a guy who wants to get laid.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:00 PM
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Correct. There is no point in reading this now because you will never get to first 3%. Next time when somebody publish the refreshed 3% version, just buy all possible supply and then nobody will be in 3%, only you. It can even be better then because less men will be 3% means you can even get to 1%.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:50 PM
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This is it! That was a missing puzzle. I know what to do now, my people need me. Thank you bye
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:36 AM
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As bad as I want to have proper wild sex, I can't (and I know I prob sound like a pussy) fathom the idea of cheating. I have done it in past relationships and it didn't make me feel any better about myself. The social conditioning when you were being raised did great job to keep you in check. Been there done that. Just remember that these rules were created to keep YOU in check, not her. I'm not worried about moral correctness, but I do want to do it subtly to minimize shit tests. Shit tests are…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:22 PM
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Looking back, living with her a bit of a mistake, but it is still better than my previous living situation No it is not. It doesn't support passionate regular sex, which you want to have. ​ I honestly make the coffee in the morning for myself first and since I'm already doing it Cool, then you make your coffee and you leave 5 minutes after because you have busy shit to do. You forgot to make her coffee because you even forgot that she was here last night (wonder why?). If you don't have work to …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 01:55 PM
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I read it. If what you say about you is really truth (gym, routine, personality, mindset, I dont care if you lie, it is for you) then there are "only" two major mistakes you've made. Living with her. Supplicating to her via blue-pill behavior like making coffee, making her laugh etc. Regarding point 2#. Don't get me wrong. Let's imagine there is a girl I am deeply in love with. I would like to do that as well. But behaving like this is not what is going to make her like to have sex with you/make…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 01:37 PM
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On the contrary. The shit advises on AskTRP are reoccuring with greater frequency each day. The best what anyone can do is to sort main sub by top posts of all time and read it 20x times. I can't emphasize it enough.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:41 AM
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Whatever works for you. In the end it doesn't matter if you are beta or alpha or omega. Results matter and your mental health matters. If you are looking for the correct answer in terms of TRP moves - indifference is always an answer.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:39 AM
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Whatever works for individuals. You are supposed to test it yourself and use it as a tool in order to success. TRP works for me in every aspect of my life. I would not use it if it wasn't true. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:38 AM
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if a woman tells me "no," one, single, time... for the rest of the night, she's WORKING to gain my sexual attention because i STOP, COMPLETELY at the instant the word, "no," is said. again... she has to only say it one.single.time. Works only on girls below your SMV. I agree and tested it many times. Try to game a very hot girl with the approach like that. You will not make it happen. I would never have sex with those if I did not push through barriers
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 09:44 AM
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I agree. And it is not that "BAD" as people picture it. It pushes us to be better people and constantly improving. Therefore you are enabled to value yourself and also have standards and demands. Which is natural. That's how I see it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 02:01 PM
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Post has a little bit of "anger phase" vibe. But agree with everything. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 01:46 PM
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Contrary to what lots here believe, it is possible to be in a great relationship with a woman who loves you and is loyal AF to you. You just have to be able to inspire it in her You just have to have internalized all the knowledge here and all other parts of the pie chart have to be in check. You are in the game always. Forever. Try to stop, see it falling apart. If you think there is commitment in sake of commitment or "true love" for good and bad, I have bad news for you. This rule was created…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 01:44 PM
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I see this is not your first day lurking here, nor you stumbled here by an accident. Where do you think we are? This should be classified as a troll post. The reading you did is 0. If you did homework you would know that it is unlikely "WINNING" her back (yikes). Even if it was, it is absolutely not worth it, because she will never make you feel as your fantasy projection in your head presents it to you. Move on champion
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:02 AM
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Downvote me into oblivion, but I disagree. Most of my problems went away with money, then some of them with gym and rest of them with TRP. I do not care what anyone says trying to give less priority to money. It never worked for me and never happened to be truth for me. Of course, everyone is free to have their own experiences.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 01:22 PM
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"I have tons of hot female friends and I think it helps me picking up women immensely. " - If this is the case and this is what you looking for, keep it up. Works.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:55 AM
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Sort main sub by top posts of all time
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:49 AM
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" My girlfriend who I’ve been with for 6 months would tell me about how when she was ..." - woah hold on. You listen to what she says? We do not do that here. Get familiar with the basics. All the rest is in your story
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:47 AM
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Stop making up these cringe ideas and just reward her with something adequate to her gesture - if you feel like doing it of course. It's your FWB so what she likes? You know her. Do what you want just without giving any false impressions if you are not going to commit. Avoid flowers.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:45 AM
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You should always prioritize your development over any girl. That's sure as hell that you ain't going nowhere and you will be with yourself forever. Money is very imporant. It can buy you, to very high extend - health, comfort, happiness and status. Do not believe anyone who tell you that money can't buy happiness. It can and it does. I do not feel like I paid the price. I just prioritize my mission and more often than not - girls just come. And go.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:42 AM
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You are expecting people here to tell you how to live? Do what the fuck you want. Test more things and then come back with specific questions. I'm afraid "Female problems" is the last of the problems you currently have
/r/askTRP23/07/19 11:22 AM
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I agree with you, as long as she is not shaming or despise girls who dont want to do so. For me, being feminine is absolute essential. She can find cure for cancer and I will admire that. It just wont give me erection if she displays masculine traits only. I have nothing against women different ambitions
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:33 AM
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Indeed. Just not for the guys on this sub. I see at least 20 posts a day they are mad their plate/fwb fucks someone. Last post I saw was guy furious that his fwb invited their mutual friends somewhere. Not my business but this is laughable
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:21 PM
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It is the effect of our times and "womyn empowerment" movements. Blue-pill social conditioning in general. Basically if girl wants to be feminine, they are being ashamed by society. The societal pressure is high for them, so they pursue career and for example view cooking/taking care of home as "SlAvErY". She will not serve to "oppresive men". Raising children? Fuck that, nanny will take care of that - office work and dealing with things that do not actually physically exist in reality is what t…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:29 AM
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Only rock solid frame helps you here. Ideally, you make it transparent what you tolerate and what you do not tolerate by not communicating this overtly, but by actions. It is obvious that any girl will test the boundary, as any child would do. If you give second chance, then it's clear she can mess with you, and she will. ​ ​ "if you sleep with him again then I’m not talking to you anymore” - do not say that. If you are in relationship with her, you do not have to say this because it's obvious. …
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:19 AM
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" And if you fuck up you're approach, you came off a bit weird " - for who? Don't make me laugh. Listen, the only men this post apply to are guys who prioritize girls as their main and most important goal. The issue with confidence disappears when you actually have important shit going in your life, contributing to your future, health and well being. Women is none of them, she can actually drain those things out of you if you don't know how to manage her. Women is an addition, to your well built…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 08:34 AM
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Amsterdam is excellent for hookups and dating in general. Not sure about cities nearby And of course tattoo is gonna help with that, it represents risk taking behavior and "bad-boyish" personality for female lizard brain. Luxembourg city here - terrain is very specific and navigating it requires lots of adjustments to TRP general rules. Area is important
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 09:11 AM
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I know what you mean, maybe it is area where you live, maybe it is your looks. Maybe it's you or maybe it's maybeline. I am quite good looking now, shredded body, great presence and got my shit together. Of course I am getting IOIs and high interest, but only from girls below average. In my area, if girl has at least passable face and is not overweight (achievement in 2019), it's gonna cost you time and "effort" (game is fun when you know all the rules), to make her to have sex with you. There i…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 08:35 AM
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Cool story, bro and also absolutely shit advise. Happy it works for you tho. Started working for me just a little bit when improved I after 4+ years of hard work. Do not listen to this OP Chad, keep your game tight and develop it folks.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 07:55 AM
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Actually been there, done that. This is salvagable but not worth it. The time you will spend on re-framing it and creating proper dynamics is worthless, and sex will be bad anyway. Plus you will actually get hurt again. You are not her top choice and never will be. She already has picture of you in her head. I know this will be difficult in your situation of scarcity AND very likely oneitis but move the fuck on. Seriously.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:25 AM
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You pathethic fool. You have every tool necessary to make a change. Many guys do not even have that. You are healthy, probably at good age, not THAT much retarded. Just start doing the fucking work. Some random girl defines your life - how you want to be a male of high value? You should be busy with building your future and female is just cherry on the top. She can join or get the fuck out. Not only model-looking chad would beat you, but also a lot of simple guys who just have their shit togethe…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:17 AM
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"RP denies love" - bullshit. TRP teaches how love works, how to create it, how to maintain it and how to manage it to end up with happy and fulfiling relations. I have experienced true intimate loving just because of this place. Was it more physical? Yes, but this is where my needs are met. I disagree with most of the shit you wrote but I appreciate effort. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 09:21 PM
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They would definitely be higher and you would have more room to operate. How much higher - I don't know. Considering her low interest level, not much higher.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:28 PM
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Back when I was starting raising up my SMV and hitting girls "out of my league", the problematic contact situations happened quite often. The reason for that is I was not their top choice. Guess when these issues disappeared? However, I was able to salvage some of these, but never via messaging/reaching out. When you are not top choice for her - any needy behavior is like stepping on the mine. You have to be much more careful here and work on improving yourself/projecting yourself as higher SMV …
/r/askTRP15/07/19 11:02 AM
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I do not recommend texting her as what will happen is: a) she will leave your message on read (or not) and pretend never received it or b) make it difficult for you to set up logistics. Even if, shit tests incoming. Do you want to deal with girl who is genuinely not into you? Or playing some shit to shape how you feel? If she was much into you, she would contact you long time ago. This situation is very difficult to salvage, I really recommend moving to another prospect. You can just message her…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:47 AM
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" she told me she’s watching Netflix with her “brother”. Most likely getting boned by another guy? She’s not even the slightest bit close with her sibling. " This is golden man, keep posting
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:40 AM
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"I told her "Text me if you want to do this again" she smirked and nodded her head.' - you brought it upon yourself. Now you put yourself in the shitty situation because you challenged her, triggered ASD and also put the ball in her court. Well done. " I find out sometime at night she unfriends me in facebook " - there you go. Does not even matter if it is shit test. If you message her you are in her frame anyway ​ The only thing you can do is to meet her somewhere randomly. Then pretend that yo…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:34 AM
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Go into oneitis/unicorn paradise, get burnt. You are heading there anyway. Inevitable lesson
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:29 AM
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"A friend of mine is hot, but never fucks. She..." - she sure does not fuck, m8. " I think the current college generation is pretty sad and don’t understand TRP. " - how can you understand something you have not been introduced to? " I’ve read that despite this hookup culture, the current generation is having less sex" - the current generation of MEN surely have less sex. But this is result of our times, which is covered in multiple threads and sidebar. It works in favor of everyone who is TRP a…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:26 AM
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Anyways, gender doesn’t define you, neither does your past unless you let it This is so cute. Anyway - when it comes to rules we have to follow to grow/success in SMP, they are different. That's why our point of view for development and improvement has to be different.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:39 AM
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First two points apply only to epiphany phase. Third point applies mostly to epiphany phase, but also somewhat earlier.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:33 AM
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Nothing. Play according to hypergamy rules and adjust yourself. Never stop improving, it benefits you anyway. It's that simple. ​ For men - it differs. I know what evokes it in me, you know what evokes it in you
/r/askTRP11/07/19 12:33 PM
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Never been married but I would just ignore it completely. If she would cause drama because of that or repeat that 2 more times max, I would just remove the cause of her issues - me. And never look back. It is hilarious reading this from my perspective.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 12:32 PM
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Yes it's beta. Also when there is only pink toilet paper available, do not wipe your ass under any circumstances. You will probably never recover from this loss of frame.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:09 AM
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When after 22 years "of doing everything right" I had no idea how the relationship dynamics are working and what the fuck is going on, I was probably reading a lot and came here somehow. What my blue-pilled environment learnt me however was great capability to adapt, for all costs. I couldn't figure out how it works myself, but once I accidentally stumbled here - I tested everything myself. And I radically maximized it. The respect, the success, the hookups, the IOIs resulting from applying this…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:03 AM
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What happened here is that you have been outplayed on every possible level by a "tricky" slut. Just as I stated above. It is not like you have fucked up by sending A traditional shy girl with low n-count wrong text. You did not trigger ASD. You are not Her top option for intimate interraction or sex whatsoever. You are piece of meat. Girls like these usually have high quality looks and are experienced in the field. Where you fucked up is on fundamentals. The dynamic was set in Her favor to salva…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:01 PM
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You have been outplayed here on every possible level. You are her toy. Nice lesson for you. Move on.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:54 PM
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Cohabitation with female without years of vetting inside well established LTR? Yikes!
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:36 PM
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This whole post made my day, its golden
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:00 PM
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" Except when I neg. It seems to work with some women but totally blow of others. I can't seem to fully understand the concept. " - You do not have to do it. It's not mandatory. It's a tool. I almost never do it. ​ " My body is way above average in my area. 82kg, 6% body fat." - you wot mate? Do you understand what it takes to reach 6% BF? Body fat, in terms of girls, is not as important as general aesthethical composure of your body anyway. ​ " I flirted with a girl on snapchat that told me she…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 01:15 PM
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"Broke up with ltr of 3 years. 6 months passes we start talking again. But 2 days ago she starts an argument." Lol, right back into the river of shit. Imagine being this much outplayed. You know what to do.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:41 AM
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Although I don't see why would a man willingly choose only one girl over so many. I know why I would. And I also know why it may never happen in the current terrain we navigate. It is up to every individual.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:52 AM
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I actually got 2 new girls since beggining of 2019 and one of them is almost gone. I still consider them as you call "plates" because all the plate management rules apply. And these rules work. This is why TRP is toolbox. I am fine with being beta if I do not meet alpha chad quantity.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:27 AM
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Better start from scratch with someone else. You can try to do transition but you will be nuclear shit tested if you try to set new frame and dynamics. You can do it though for experience purposes, will help you in the future. Have 0 expectations.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:54 AM
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Yes it is your fault. If you want a successful LTR with healthy dynamics, you have to be captain of the ship. You either form relationship with a girl where you take steers + all the responsibility and make it happen. OR you let her do it and you guys have conversation about your feelings and how to make it work... long story short - enjoy the shitshow. In first option you throw her out of your ship if she is not following. In second option you eventually get cucked in the longrun or don't have …
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:35 AM
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Whole solution summarized in 3 sentences. Saved
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:33 AM
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If you have autism, listen to these guys and ignore, will be safer. If not and your text game/behavior is in check and it fits your personality - you can reinforce however you see fit. Simple "bad girl" is fine. Depends on dynamic with this girl and the situation. For one girl not responding is correct, for other girl responding something witty is correct, for third girl making joke of it is correct, and for fourth girl you will nail it by inviting her ASAP. Be smart.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:26 AM
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Yes. Also the app you are using is mainly for hookups. Cheers.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:34 AM
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" After I looked at some of the evidence surrounding happiness in the world ..." How are you even able to measure such thing is beyond my understanding. This is not possible to measure. It is very individual and intangible. Secondly, listening to whatever woman says, especially in some official studies or other shit, is laughable. What you need to understand is that women do not even know what makes them happy or what turns them on. And when it comes to happiness, it very often applies to men as…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 08:32 AM
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Everything is on point here. I just want to add that what you described above is just small piece of desirable man "pie chart". A small piece. Guys think that being discreet/mysterious and a little bit "best-friendy secret keeper" will tremendously boost their chances with particular girl. Sometimes they try to work their way to her pants like this. I've seen that million times. This is wrong. What actually works is giving the feeling that you are private and silent like a grave, but never givin…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 08:15 AM
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But in this case its not 8.5/10 HB - she was fat. So it's more believable!
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:27 PM
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Benelux
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:21 PM
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If we lived in a world where actually such effort would pay off, I would be the first to encourage him to do that. Don't get me wrong, old me would do everything to make this girl happy. She is "so innocent" after all. And maybe there is actually no fault of her in all of this. However, we all know how it is. I get your point though.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:44 PM
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Deadlifts are as safe as your technique, mobility and body preparation to do them. When I was starting doing Deadlifts and Squats as total green piece of shit, I was starting with 50 kg. Focused weeks on stretching and proper technique. Then when I became more advanced, I had my first back injury during Squat because I was too confident and let my abdomen muscles relax during repetition. (For deadlift it would end the same). It all depends on your approach. I wouldn't do it without my personal t…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:40 PM
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This is bad advice. Confronting her father is bad move. The whole approach here is bad. You want to be captain save a hoe where the truth is that this shit should be resolved without his involvement, especially at such young age. This girl is not his wife. This sounds like advise that typically woman would give in blue-pill conditioning circumstances, when it's man responsibility to rescue her. Don't be this guy. Focus on your mission, your goals and improve yourself. You sure as hell aint going…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:29 PM
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Her mother speaking her voice would be leaving. Not even mentioning having kids with total piece of shit in the first place. Thats offtopic tho. I have no advice apart from isolating her from toxic family
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:08 PM
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I base my advices only at my experiences. What you you described here is well-trained girl with values coming from good family background, which I would happily consider LTR with as well. Not a girl beaten by her father. At any case, you could only isolate Her from Her father if you had possibility and resources to do so. It is not happening in the nearest future tho. Btw. Father like that says a lot about her mother as well.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:23 AM
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It can be linked to many things. Porn sure as hell doesn't help with anything. It sets you back at most. You get irritated because you don't have much fun I guess. If people have fun they seriously look forward to the next meeting. It's natural. I even bet it has nothing to do with being introvertic. Set up going out in environment/people you genuinely enjoy. Or girls you find attractive. To sum up, do whatever the fuck you want to.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:00 AM
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What you should do, according to what we learn here, is get yourself out of relationship with this girl. It is very difficult to create relationship based on healthy dynamics and respect with girl who faces daddy issues. This is the sad truth. I do not know if it is possible, but I assume it is not. You need to decide for yourself if you deserve better. ​ If you want to go through it because oneitis/unicorn, I guess you should follow the road of blue-pill at relationship advise sub or somewhere.…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:52 AM
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Probably. Fortunately for us, it is available.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:26 AM
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Here in Europe the principles for SMV are the same, however to some degrees AWALT does not apply. I had couple of situations where surprisingly blue-pill and full beta moves made better results than what we learn here, but in general not much differences.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:25 AM
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Asian, I see. Sure, try your best. Sounds like a good experience. You can actually capitalize on what she said if played correctly. Risky, but experience-worthy.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:18 AM
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Sounds like a boring girl but if you do not have better options, try again. In terms of kino, 1 step back 2 steps forward. If she keeps getting negative after you polarize, it's time to bounce. Do not get butthurt, drop her somewhere and soft next/ignore. It will be natural because I do not think you will want another date like that. If you have been clear in intentions - it is IOD. If you have been not clear in intentions - you are being pushed to friendzone. On the next date - High-risk, high-…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:14 AM
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Nice adventure, kid. If you want to have some more fun in this emotional rollercoaster, keep doing what you are doing. If you want to progress/move on and don't get fucked over in the end, have a seat and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:06 AM
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I dont know. I would assume that damage is not possible to correct as I had a girl like this before. At certain point I decided I will not put up with this shit any further and dropped her. Dont want to generalize tho. You need to decide for yourself if you deserve better.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 05:42 PM
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Essentially, life can become a simple game that happens to have consequences for not winning. Becoming good at it like a pro gamer who goes to Street Fighter tournaments becomes good at memorizing combos allows you to have fun and actually win while maintaining a healthy level of detachment This is quite how I feel when I analyze it. However, it have been so much internalized into my personality that I cannot tell the difference. I do not feel that I am acting anymore. This is just me now. Peopl…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 02:36 PM
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We could elaborate hours on this subject. Long story short - if girl had bad relationship with her father, she will tend to look at every guy with more scepticism and less respect. I am not saying these things are beyond correction. But the childhood conditioning is something that has big influence on your adult life. This can also go other way - craving male attention in father-way as she has not had it before. It is up to you if you want to put up with this shit. There is long list of disadvan…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:49 PM
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I became you and I have zero regrets. I would not say I am not capable of love (or other emotions), but I am immovable rock and I will never put up with shit anymore in my life. My cold calculations and correct mindset takes me places and got me relations with girls that I could not dream of getting before. I am focusing on having fun and amusement, never expecting desirable outcome at the same time. And I do not have to be an asshole to do that. I would like that the rules were different and we…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 01:20 PM
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/r/askTRP05/07/19 12:31 PM
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If you are really satisfied - yes, and you will probably be more picky. Depends on you. If you fake it till you make it - no and this is part of attraction game that will help you get what you want
/r/askTRP05/07/19 12:30 PM
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You obviously have things for her. I also call bullshit on the disclaimer, because you would really ignore whole situation if not for ONEITIS case here. Having said that you have two options - Salvage it and go through all the shit that is coming your way. Maybe you will win her over or not. Either way you will get burn. I bet my arm she will emotionally outplay you. Focus your actions somewhere else and dismiss her, leading to getting cured from ONEITIS eventually. ​ I can expand on 1) if you w…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:41 AM
1

I would refuse. How you approach this is up to you and your relation with him. You know the best what to say. Lie if you have to. When it come to the speech, anything you say will not be sincere. But if it's fine with your personality, you can also go with it and do it. Decide for yourself, be flexible.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:08 AM
1

I really see no point in analysing this at the situation where you are interracting with a plate you already had sex with. The whole idea behind projecting sex-satisfied mindset is when you are hunting for a new girl or want to get sex from those you already have. Combined with smart approach/game and IDGAF attitude, this will make her more likely to get it on with you. Thirstiness repels them. So answering your question - no I do not use it to make her hamster spin. I recommend keeping these mi…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 08:00 AM
1

Welcome onboard. Once you come to acceptance with your new-discovered rules of nature, there is nothing to be angry about. Everything is really pretty simple and using this knowledge, you will finally have your desired outcome. You just know the rules now and can play accordingly or stay angry and never play again. I recommend making peace with your mind and go with the first option.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:45 AM
1

And as for the rom coms and 50 shades comparison, the point is it’s because women enjoy the way they can feel with men before sex. Whether it’s a “beta” guy who can make her feel loved and comfortable, or a “dominant” guy who can make her feel desired and trusting— it’s different ways of experiencing similar emotions. Yes, everybody here will agree that women love experiencing wide spectrum of emotions. However, only correctly navigating this will lead you to what you ultimately want and enjoy t…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:04 PM
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To be honest, I am not sure If I am in position to tell you where your mindset will take you. Considering that with this approach you were able to pull anything from the bar at age 21, not even mentioning hottest girls which were older than you. For me, this is absolutely advanced game and frame handling which I had to practice years. So what you did effortlessly, took me huge amount of work and improvement. I am doing it now - after years of progress. We have different experiences. ​ Having sai…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:56 AM
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Thanks. I dont see the reason why would you lie because it is just talk between internet strangers. However when I had your approach and honestly thought like you do - my right hand was my best lover. Having your mindset, I would never get where I am now.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:31 AM
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Sounds exactly like something I would write and post 2.5years ago. There are so many things incorrect that I dont even know where to start. What is your experience in hookups, plating and relationships? I am genuinely curious. Does that what you wrote above work for you? It possibly could if you are actual high value man with internalized proper mindset (natural). In that case females will be A LOT more forgiving for the approach you described. And still I would doubt it. If you are advising AFC…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:02 AM
1

Sure. I understand. Now explain that to female hamsterro-tingle generator. Does she understand? Maybe. Does she care? No.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:49 AM
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Others forgot to mention or point it out clearly - the idea is that you should display all the high status/TRP/alpha male values (you name it) naturally. TRP teaches you these values, so you are not a "natural alpha" which female desires. You "cheat" their subconcious verification system by learning those things. This is also the reason why when you are improving or changing attitude the shit tests intensify and become more frequent in comparison with someone who always naturally displayed "alph…
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:55 PM
1

I completely disagree. I have not seen one successful/good friendship between man and woman. It usually starts or ends with attraction anyway (FwB is a good deal tho). Besides, women are really shitty friends, which is because of how they operate via hamster. Or maybe it needs much more knowledge and understanding of their modus operandi from the guy? Even if, why bother? From TRP perspective, you should absolutely not bother. Maybe only if you are skilled to use it for pre-selection.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:28 PM
1

Change your actions and your feelings will follow. You will suffer through feefees some time. There is no workaround
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:09 AM
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At this moment, I feel euphoric.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 09:07 AM
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Posts, such as yours, always make me wonder why you guys even bother asking anything. Seems like you have it figured out. She has a boyfriend of 5 years, you managed to fuck her good through all semesters. Just do exactly what the fuck you were doing. If something is not broken, never try to fix it. Same amount of texts, same type of game, same type of convo. Keep doing what you are doing, do not fuck up. You change approach or re-think it only if she is starting to flake/break
/r/askTRP31/05/19 08:40 AM
1

Literally putting too much thought into it. You just walk and ignore the degenerates. Intervening or reacting to that is last resort.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 08:33 AM
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"...and living together" Yikes. The quickest change of dynamic, beside all the reading, would be solving that.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:02 PM
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Try to take her to this BAR on the SIDE. Guys there are drinking and share great information
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:05 AM
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I am currently in quite similar situation and what EC advise here (besides fixing your oneitis sickness), is to not bother. All these games are correlated to the fact that her interest level is low. What you should do is to move on and game other girls, because in such short-time span you cannot raise your SMV high enough to make you her first option (which is already in contradiction with "you are the prize" philosophy"). Move on, you can do it. ​ However, if you plan to be a cuck like me and s…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:33 AM
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Perhaps it could help you to know that she will have even more guys after your turn is over
/r/askTRP25/05/19 08:09 AM
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You need to run dread game at every step of relationship. The adjustments and intensity depends on the dynamic. It does not mean you cheat. It means you covertly imply that you have girls willing to do that if you needs are not met. And you actually should have. How? Sidebar. There is a lot things to cover. Also if you did not push things like blowjobs from the beginning, it is additional work later. Read Sex God Method Good luck
/r/askTRP25/05/19 08:06 AM
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Thanks Fereally!
/r/askTRP24/05/19 09:09 PM
3

If you game a girl, then do not do this. If not, then whatever. In general save such conversations and serious topics to debate with your male friends.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:48 PM
3

Looking good. Proceed as usual. In this case you could also tease a little bit if things go quiet, but no response is also correct
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:04 PM
1

In spite of everything, I keep AWALT in mind. Yep
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:00 PM
2

It will probably end like this. I am definitely putting too much thought in that. Thanks
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:58 PM
1

Ok, thanks
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:58 PM
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Before upgrading to LTR you need to do proper vetting and pick on things according to your preferences. Did you do that? If you are confident in yourself and your game, you will not be paranoid. If you never had LTR before, try for yourself and see what kind of field you have to operate in. If you keep your head cold you will not get burnt that severly. Keep in mind what you learned here
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:55 PM
1

thank you
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:48 PM
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Solid troll. +1
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:35 PM
2

You cant break frame by saying one or two sentences. The way how you say it and all other context matters
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:33 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:00 PM
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in your 20s Do everything to move out asap.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:39 PM
1

Ok. Is there any question? I doubt you will find anyone here competent enough to advice you anything on that. Guys on this sub struggle with texting a girl or palms sweat. And you want to discuss harem
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:37 PM
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This is not how you hit on such young girls as older guy. Wrong setting and environment. /u/VasiliyZaitzev - uncle is a specialist in that area. Read his posts and when it can work
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:26 PM
2

Check amazon, there is this small water revolver called swifty sidebar, because you can always carry it at your side. You shoot at her crotch when she doesnt expect. She doesnt have a chance for any defense
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:07 PM
5

I would just add always escalating physically, at every occasion. Other than that, this
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:46 AM
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Overtly given up on her ex alpha, covertly having tingles for him. He was her best lover and he generated tingles for her with most intensity. Catching her making comparisons to her ex dickhead asshole which favor him. She will never perform sexual acts or be submissive as she was with him. Etc, you got the drill.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:44 AM
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She will most likely not kiss you first. Girls do not initiate ever. Some guys say it happens, but I never seen it happening. You must make a move if you want to make it happen. You can fish for more IOIs but trust me, for her it is much more big deal in ASD aspect than for you. You must be 100% confident that you want to do it and lead her to believe that it is 100% OK and fine at all the steps of f-closing. When it comes to LMR if you make it that far, I would say proceed as per TRP material h…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:32 AM
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If she rejects me, my whole extended family might know lol that'd fuck up my social circle so much You just answered yourself if this is worth doing. If you have any doubts or thoughts like this, don't do it. Why the fuck would you fuck your family member? If you have everything in good order, girls would not be scarce to even make you think about messing with family member. You are asking for trouble. But if you genuinely can handle something like this, I do not judge. You can do it if you have…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:22 AM
2

You do what works best for you. If keeping friendships seems like too much work or annoyance for you, don't do it. Genuine friendships that benefit both of the parties, where you have fun together, will last.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:18 AM
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Go for it, why not. If she flakes, spin more cousins.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 10:16 AM
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I agree with all you said except implying that ex-chick you failed with will get sexual with you, even if you make tremendous progress. From what I have seen, she will notice the progress, she will admire the progress and may even get back in contact with you, showing interest (aka "crawling"). But if you really expect to not be heavily shit-tested, doubted, manoeuvre through shit to get to f-close her, you are wrong. And this especially applies to high value hot girls. It is possible, yes. But …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 08:56 AM
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If you seriously suspect a girl of cheating, you pretty much have to end the relationship... because you may not always be correct, but if she hasn't, she will soon Could you elaborate on that? I read many times you state that, but I always disagreed. Suspicions for cheating in most cases come from insecurities a guy has or the issues that relationship faces in current period of time. It does not mean that she will cheat and it does not mean that she already cheated. Sometimes correction of beha…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:46 AM
1

Great summarize. Saved
/r/askTRP24/05/19 07:35 AM
1

I think such scenario is a little bit out of scope what we learn here. If I found myself in such situation, at that period I wouldnt worry about the later relationship performance of my wife. Burying your own child probably leaves bigger scars and issues than if she orgasms less in bed. This shit is trivial in such scenario
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:25 AM
2

Possibly. I just have so many things going on that whenever I play video games, I catch myself to get anxious. I internally feel bad and feel like even if I spend 2 hours, many things could be done in this time. When I walk, relax and meditate however, I feel in control and build plans in my head
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 08:31 PM
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I do not even try to moderate it. It is how it is. Also even if I have time, I usually find myself not willing to play anything. I would rather go on a walk, meditate or take a nap. Can't explain this
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 08:17 PM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:13 PM
2

In this particular case I agree. I went through similar situation and I agree that many people (not only girls) will not accept your transformation, dismiss you, laugh at it or claiming you are a fake. Yes. You will probably never bang the same girl which you messed up sexual escalation with. But with your change you surely make an impact.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 06:56 PM
1

did you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:43 PM
10

Spin more wifes, so you don't have to smile anymore
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:22 PM
3

No. Makes no difference. Higher smv increases your chances for lay in general.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 04:01 PM
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What you said is true. They are consuming a lot of time Yes, I still play whenever I find myself in a situation when I am alone, had productive day and nothing going on particular evening. It is my favorite activity to relax and chill out. Currently it is 2-3 hours max maybe 2 times a week.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 03:33 PM
3

Read top posts of all time on the main sub. All of team. Repeat x10
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:59 PM
1

You know the situation better. If this is how you said, then she overtly wants to sleep with you. Which is rare. Go for it
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:37 PM
2

Just do not apology to her now. Play your cards accordingly. If you read material I will not expand here. Adjust this behaviour next time Edit: ah you already did apology. Fuck. Ok then you will have some frame to rebuild here. She will use this situation to test you at some point. Just be ready to play it correctly
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:49 PM
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You have to be flexible and adjust accordingly to the girl. But yep.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:45 PM
1

Apart from what others have said - if this was First Time she did it, what is your fucking problem? If you have trouble to give Her any of your non sexual time then walk away untroubled if she denies sex. But you were even saying that she is your LTR prospect so I assume you do not seek only sex? This is great example of how to not overdo TRP and become autistic. The sex would probably happen anyway if you just brushed it off, hugged Her and spent some intimate time with her.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:40 PM
1

How about an actual blocker that you apply overnight for your dry, hair shaved skin? This is for actual skincare subs btw
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:44 PM
2

Why do you even discuss with her? If she provides sex, great. Keep it up. If not, completely ignore this bullshit and carry on with your stuff
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:43 PM
1

Did you try to spin some antiperspirants or blockers?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:38 PM
2

Your ex is not trying to put you in Her orbit. Simply trying to get back with you. When it comes to the actual question- this is not excercise for them. This is natural girls behaviour. They do not put much work and thought into it. Keeping orbiters for validation, attention and resources is proper way to go because all of above serve her cause and make her happy.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:29 AM
1

Half an hour is key here. You save chit chat for face to face meetings. You could have led this happen by several short messages and quick 3 minutes call later to set up her coming over. Anyway, Proceed and go for it. Always good experience
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:15 AM
2

Unfortunately I am pretty sure you will not be able to do this. Considering all backstory, you agreed to talk on Skype? Never do that with girl. Your frame is weak but you could actually fake your way towards the lay if you did the reading and internalized some rules here. Your proper opener should be to send her short messages when she reaches out, leading to face to face meeting. As long as she is in another country - you do not reveal much information about you and you do not give a shit abou…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:02 AM
3

If most of your success relies on beauty, it is not high price to pay. Men have it much harder to climb ladder at SMV. As I said, for girl, her beauty opens all the doors she needs for success and happiness. She did not choose some appearence traits but she can focus all her energy on making her body look hot, making her hair look great, making her appearence and feminine traits appealing. This is biology. So what if she is perceived as a trophy? Why would she give a fuck? There is no workaround…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:27 AM
2

From what you have written in original post, I have no idea why it happens. If you are athlethic, your Social proof solid, other areas figured out - just approach more.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:49 AM
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There is unfair and there is "unfair". Hot beautiful woman have it difficult to make genuine actual friendships. Believe it or not, girls hate them or want to benefit somehow and she gets a lot of attention from guys pretending to want to be friends. Yet again its more benefits than disadvantages. Her appearence if used correctly opens all doors for her and leads to happy successful life. Periods, menstrual cycle... Just biological things. None of them should concern this sub anyway
/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:37 AM
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Good post, thanks Video games are a great buffer and escape from reality. I was raised by SAHM and my sister and became the ultimate respectful gentleman for all the girls in neighborhood/school. I was bold and confident in interractions, but I was operating on absolutely beta vibes. The only social success I could have was in multiplayer games. They were my drug and I felt proud from my accomplishments. I had to learn dynamic rules by myself after all. For almost 17 years I did not even have a …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 09:30 AM
2

Red flag. Wrong LTR vetting. You should always prioritize walking away and not getting involved to pointless phyiscal fighting. Especially on the street. You fight only when there is absolutely no other choice. You brush it off, walk away. Not worth your attention Girls are not accustomed to handling conflicts anyway. Her preferences do not matter. She might subconciously start doubting your fitness but then you rebuild it in later in other fields. Risking hurting yourself over chick? Yeah I wou…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:05 AM
1

Close your eyes, move the mouse cursor to the right side of the screen and click. You might be lucky and click on the material located in the deep weeb (codename: $1I)3B4R). Repeat this step infinitely
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:59 AM
3

Up to you. Bi-sexual woman are great for plating and excellent for maneuvering to make threesome happen. Go for it and have fun
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:55 AM
2

All works as intended. I do not see the problem with anything you described. What you want? A break from improving SMV/playing the game? Fuck off. Other than that good job and enjoy.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:53 AM
2

You don't. You suffer through it. Ideally she should get visibly aroused to some guy that you also know, and then make you realise how pathethic you are and what you have to improve. Rage/pain should be your fuel to spend at the gym. Work on yourself, work on social proof, work on SMV, follow the routine. Be aware of all of this. IF you do it with each day your SMV rise and at some point you will be able to game her properly.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:54 AM
1

agree
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:49 AM
1

I started going to the gym with co-worker (double don't shit where you eat) and hooked up with her after some time of gaming. If you already have athlethic body, do it and game her, you can afford fucking arround. If you do not have athlethic body and struggle to get it, you need to have 200% focus on yourself at the gym and not let anything distract you. Even improving weights by 1.25KG makes huge difference in time. Don't get distracted Cheers
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:45 AM
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This. + you forgot about all the SIDEBAR and 10x reading top posts of all time on the main sub. The latter changed my life and made me happy, successful man
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:41 AM
2

You don't. Suffer through it. Realise you are pathethic and internalise it. She does not give a single shit about you or you are her friend. Enjoy shitty nights and interrupted sleep. You probably deserve it. Hit the gym the next day, follow your routine, improve SMV. It will pass as soon as better prospects come. The more work you put to become better man ,the higher chance she will boomerang someday and you will be ready to game her properly
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:33 AM
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I do not give a shit what anyone says about manliness/happiness etc. If you are starting career as a young man, you do everything that brings you as much money as possible. Money is more important than love and all the other shit you have been thought your life. Money will buy you happiness and comfortable life. For the decisions what brings you happiness or what is manly etc - the time will come when you are older. Make money, be independent, have a car, pull girls
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:28 AM
3

Ideally, as successful man, you are truly busy with your shit, working on yourself, making money and doing hobbies. If you are not, you fake it and follow 2/3 rule
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:26 AM
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To be honest I am unable to have sex with a girl who I do not have common ground with (unless she is super hot and I am more tolerant of her bullshit). However, you should tailor your strategy so she does not break so fast. And make last your plate longer. If you feel you are giving out too much -> what you value more? Sex with her or your space? Its up to you
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:24 AM
2

Archetype of Chad is more or less what you described. If you do not care about the rules, if you do not have formed habits and if you are not game aware - you can still pull chicks. But you absolutely lack control game and influence on the outcome. You want to appear outcome independent but form the outcome as you wish
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:17 AM
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Doesnt matter. She is a plate. As long as you have what you want let Her even call you her "best friend that she wishes all men were like you"
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:05 AM
1

Everyone will spot changes in their own case. There is no pattern to that. The changes I noticed were long-term and they evolved: - Immidiate reduce in sexual arousal (this one was fast and obvious) - Less submissiveness to your leadership (aka. more questioning/bullshit) - Less submissiveness in bedroom --> reduced pleasure for her --> most likely less intense pleasure for you - Two above points are also correlated with shit tests that are coming your way to re-test your fitness - She subconcio…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:41 AM
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It never stops and there are no breaks. You should be always willing to go through this bullshit. If you get the correct grasp of knowledge and habits - it becomes fun and you pass through ez. Then you are more successful in stimulating her behavior
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 05:50 AM
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Hello there, Below the points I do not agree with or have something to add: 1# - Women are not emotionally stronger than men. Their hamster operate in different way. Also they tend to fall in love MUCH SLOWER than average guy. 4# - Getting mad at women ever is a bad idea. However she will show you her best sexual side only if you are high sexually driven confident AF, not BB. 5# - I have never seen women getting sexual with her orbiter/friend. If she gets sexual if her orbiter/friend, you incorr…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 09:35 PM
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I cannot say I agree, but this is more personal stuff. In my case, the moment I completely eliminated neediness from my arsenal of insecurities - it was the moment when I started to make sucessful lays. And no, it was not pure IDGAF attitude, I genuinely faked abundance mentality along with IDGAF. I faked it, I made it. The first moments when girls could spot that was in my bed, because I was not so much experienced back then as I covertly presented myself to be by being confident as fuck. After…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 09:14 PM
1

Dude is harsh, but he is right. I could put it in more polite words for you. But the message will be the same
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:48 PM
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Show abundance by spinning his mother. Then when you say" I fucked your momma" he will know you are no joke. No but seriously, others pointed good tips
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:31 PM
3

Also be elastic and open, but not desperate. If she comes up with idea of hanging out - sure but with logistics leading to your place
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:27 PM
1

Ok. Right now you wait 2 weeks for date and ideally game other girls. Do not double text her regarding date, you text her minimum 2 days before date that you confirm it happens I.e "see you saturday my place ;)" If she flakes, she might boomerang later if you present outcome independence because she is attracted. Keep communication short, you can follow 2/3 rule Good luck
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:23 PM
2

Need more details on the evening she came to your place. You sucessfuly isolated her. What happened? What was The problem with f-closing? How far did you go?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:09 PM
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I agree with all you said. However it is not about denying it costs you work. Its about not making A big deal out of it. It is more of making it look easy. For intelligent woman, successful man is hard working man. Just never bitch about how much dedication it takes to keep your 11% body fat to keep your abs visible in any light. She subconciously knows it. You have to respond and carry yourself like its easy and not a big deal.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 03:51 PM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:35 PM
1

That's cute. It's boring but we will make it more interesting later ;)) Your face is boring and I dont bitch arround ;)) Yeah, most interesting things happen with more action, less talking ;))) Pick your poison. These are actually playful things. If your personality do not match such behavior, change approach or see what works for you. You Either want to get your dick wet or enjoy high quality talks with you male friends
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:32 PM
3

According to all the reading here etc - It is a great move. I actually pulled this on purpose once. Did not turned out good for me with this particular girl. She was disgusted finding other girl's underwear and in general it cock-blocked me from proceeding later. No amused mastery/DGAF helped here. But again, I do not leave in the USA and this was a conservative girl. Otherwise go for it
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:19 PM
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Amused mastery. You explain things shortly like to a 5 y/o. You do not fall for argument/debate. You keep topics and conversation fun/stimulating for her mind and emotions
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:16 PM
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In general, I agree. However: "The unknown is food for her hamster, what she doesn't know about you she'll fill in with the most idealistic, interesting version of you possible, fantasy is a women's default setting". - according to what I went through on my journeys of most successful lays, this was never the case. The behavior of a girl was always opposite. It means she was doubting, shit testing, asking for details and was sceptical whenever i provided some little information about myself in i…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 02:44 PM
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If you can handle treating this as just sex without emotional investment - by all means go for it. If you are fucking from time to time, it is possible to make it happen again. I do not really think that you are able to do it with this girl tho. This is why I recommend ending this. I have seen quite high value guy being emotionally outplayed and rejected by beautiful single mother (solid 8.5/10 and even worse because she was in her 30s) This leaves big scar and shatters confidence.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:31 PM
2

Solid Oneitis my friend. Been there done that. I recommend removing yourself from situation. Immidiately. Not saying it will be easy as you are emotionally invested into beautiful girl. ​ Couple of points to realise: Single mother. Hot, but single mother (all the details are in the TRP material. Bad decision making, you will always be on 3rd place. In this case 4th place as she definitely has tingles for bad boy ex). You are a catch for her, realise that. 26 y/o, having good job, unlock your pot…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:04 PM
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She can, absolutely. And they would run to her. But have you ever seen the girl who allowed her actual orbiter/friend to get intimate with her? They are usually turned off by their friendly presence, messaging through apps etc. I have never experienced this myself or have never seen that any of guys managed to actually get sexual with a girl who they did orbit. She could get sexual with actual guy who gamed her and did it properly tho. Then again, she must have perceived him higher value than OP…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:28 PM
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Answering shortly - this
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:06 AM
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Would be much easier to say if you watched her behavior and body language. Any touching, IOIs? If you are interested in her, try to pursue her a little to evoke interest. Solid frame, invitation for drinks at X place at Y time. No more friend vibes. You must express your sexual interest to be clear, but still in covert manner. If she brushes you off, tell her that's too bad and you are going anyway. If she doesnt come - soft next. She came back and apologied so do as I adviced above. See what ha…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:03 AM
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Serious question, how old are you and how old is her? You are probably both in your early 20s First of all, frame. If she was hot, remember that you are entering the field where orbiters are the norm. They are actually very useful, because if you are secure, confident and work on your SMV, you are already above them. And your interraction with your girl should only confirm that. Because they are orbiters. You read the sidebar and all the material on main Sub, so you know that you would never all…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:55 AM
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As much as I would like this to be true, my experience and what I have seen do not confirm that. There is no giving a pass. She may support you, but she will never look at you in the same way again. Hell, she can even stay with you and you will not spot a change for months. It's mostly subconcious. One of the worst aspects of swallowing the pill is to realize that female can't love you in a way you are expecting her to do. ​ Suffer in silence
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:45 AM
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Indeed mate, Sometimes it is hard to not give a fuck if you get even a little bit attached. But remember, where are your actions go, your feelings will follow.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:24 PM
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I have never had an account on reddit before. I decided to make it yesterday and contribute to this community because it changed my life. I am still probably on beginner level, however I went through shit, had sex with girls out of my league and improved SMV significantly. I finally feel in the position to advice EDIT: words
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:15 PM
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Hi there, I am the same as you. Even though I have improved my life significantly thanks to all the TRP community, eliminated bad behaviours and other stuff, this sticks with me as well. Even from current position of abundance. I have no good advice for you. If this is the girl that you are trying to pull, you are already overinvested. The trick is to keep suffering anxiety and never double text (even worse, mentioning EVER anything that you were waiting for the response) Sometimes it takes mont…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:04 PM
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Seems like crazy chick. Would avoid anything higher than plate. Yes you should keep up this dynamic for as long as possible. You enjoy it, she is a plate. Also she is absolutely not LTR material and you realise that so no discussion about this. Her dread game clearly has effect on you, but you should pretend to not be bothered by that. Do not respond or respond "cool, hope you ok" and change the topic. However, if you are starting to catch feelings or wanting something more - do not let her pull…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:54 PM
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Depends what caliber this girl is in terms of looks, social circle and other important stuff. I have never met a hot girl who plays video games (apart from Twitch bitches). First of all, sidebar. Your frame is zero. Second of all, if you read sidebar, you should know that you must present yourself as man with options who is outcome independent. You always have fun, no matter what. Because you do shit you like. You saying that you want relationship is proof that reading material you did is also z…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:41 PM
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I have been browsing all pill subreddits for over 1.5 year. In my opinion PPD is rarely a debate and just a bunch of shitty advices/views which are in the contrary with reality. If you swallowed red pill, it is laughable what you read there. I would not treat this zone as something to be taken seriouosly. For new guys who try to improve - do not waste your time analyzing opinions in there. Avoid and focus on what actually works.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:28 PM
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You should actually do the opposite. If she is clearly the hottest one in the group, build raport with one who is on 2nd place in terms of appearence. If your game is tight, you can pull the hottest one if played right. You have to feel the atmosphere and navigate accordingly. There is no recipe as every situation is different. Must do thing is when you build raport with other girl, ask the hottest some trivial questions about her like "your friend is really pretty, she must have getting all the…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:18 PM
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Up to you. I would strongly recommend breaking up with her and gaming other girls. Also from your post I conclude that you lack abundance mentality without other options. As 32 Y/O Man you are at your prime. Basically you should be able to replace her in very short time. Her lack of enthusiasm and orgasms (you do not stimulate her mind) is effect of her knowing that you probably can't do it so quickly. And other reasons that we could elaborate here... ​ However if you decide you want to keep her…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:07 PM
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Standard shit test, she could even respond that on auto-pilot in subconcious manner. You start the frame battle from the beggining of every interraction. In most of the cases, dinner is shit idea for a first date. Also from what you have written - I assume its not your natural setting Tell her that you will be at X bar at Y hour and make it clear that you are going there anyway. She can come along or fuck off. You go there and have fun If you are going for first date lay, figure out logistics + …
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:56 PM
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Remember that the correct approach to these concepts is to treat them as a toolbox. In general, you should strive to develop your personality in a way that you create solid basis. Then you can modify yourself or change your behavior without appearing as someone that you are not. Any gaps or unnatural behavior - trust me that the girl you are interacting with will pick up on this in no time. Once you are confident in yourself and know your strenghts/weaknesses, you will be able to naturally come …
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:46 PM
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This
/r/askTRP21/05/19 06:32 PM
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