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Holy shit this is good. I needed this aswell.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 10:11 PM
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Thanks man. Really.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 09:04 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 08:39 PM
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Thank you. I appreciated. I was actually doing good. But I have been ducking since Friday. It seems to hit me every couple weeks. Duck. Thanks man
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 06:45 PM
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Hey. I like this. I'm almost done with my divorce. And I'm having a hard time grey rocking her. 😭 but your so right about this. I just don't want give a duck about her but don't know how to.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 06:16 PM
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I'm going to teach my son about this before he makes the same mistakes
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 09:41 PM
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Damn this is good. Thank you but I'm also stuck in a similar situation as the guy that posted this. Fucking sucks. She works tow degrees and I have to give her all my shit. What the hell.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 09:39 PM
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How can this laws change
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 09:08 PM
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Holy shit. What the hell. I'm sorry disgusted at this laws and the way a man looses.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 09:08 PM
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I’m into this book it really describes a lot of us
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 10:26 PM
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Fuck I don’t even know how I will react when she tries to introduce the kids to someone new. I agree with you guys, but I’m still fuck up.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:38 AM
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I’m on the same boat.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 04:37 AM
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Damn this is a good post.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 08:48 PM
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Dammit. This is true we pay for sex no matter what
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 12:58 PM
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Man. I’m in month 6 and still have the pain. This week I had therapy twice because I was having such a hard time. Listen to the advice from this guys man. It has helped me out a lot. It will get better. You’re going to be way better. I’m still going trough this. Stay strong man.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 01:32 PM
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Good way of putting it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 06:31 AM
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Thank you so much
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 11:09 AM
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Man that’s how I felt at the beginning as well. You have to stay strong man
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 07:26 AM
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Ok. I will.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 04:18 PM
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Man I hate this. And I’m trying very hard to move forward as well. She chose divorce over the family. And that’s her choice. Things were not perfect but still. I have accepted her choice I won’t be turning back. Good luck man.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 03:51 PM
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I understand. You had her 2 as long as I did. And it’s painful now so yes
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 02:16 PM
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31 years damn I thought my 17 years was long
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 04:06 AM
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Oh man
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:17 PM
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Man I retired for the military as well. And thought we could worked trough anything. Jokes on me. 17 years married and now she jumps ship. There’s a lot more I can put on here but it’s not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:38 PM
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I love ChatGPT haven’t even thought about using it for this purpose what do you ask?
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:34 PM
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Fuck yeah I’m going to do this
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:27 PM
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This might work
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:20 PM
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Holy smoke that might work. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:20 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:20 PM
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Thanks so much for clarifying this. I really appreciate it and will do the outmost to keep myself from the bad habits.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:03 AM
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I had panics attack last night and didn’t even know. I hate to know I miss her. And want to be free. And don’t know how.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:43 PM
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Man my turns into a demon every time we argue. Calls me names and just doesn’t give a fuck what comes out of her mouth. And now that we are going trough a divorce she literally texts me and says she has never called me names. All paper trials for her. But I look like the bad guy.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 04:55 PM
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So guys she says that I’m fucking other women because she hasn’t given me sex since November and she knows I like sex. I told her that’s the least of my worries. And of course I asked if she was fucking someone on talking to other men and she said. Now guys I don’t believe that shit. But I am going trough a divorce and I don’t think it matters what I do. Obviously I care what she does. Because I love her. But fuck. Man
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/24 01:41 AM
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Figured that was the it as well. Looks like I am ok. She’s so damn worried I’m fucking around. Having sex with other woman.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 12:46 PM
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Holy shit. I think I’m in that situation. Not sure. I’m being told that she needs to work on herself , heal and that I need to do the same thing. And that later she will consider the relationship. Wtf
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 04:37 PM
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I am sorry for all that you have gone through, and hope you keep getting better. I agree, You sound like an amazing man.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 03:15 PM
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Yeup
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 06:02 PM
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I was thinking the same. I will educate my son better in the matter. No reason for him to go trough this pain and misery
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 03:26 PM
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I hate to agree. Wich is why asked why is there no movement to fix the laws. I just started my divorce after 17 years and. She’s is alerted i want half your pension wich she will get for the rest of her life and I was like fuck. Then. Half of the houses wich by the way I took care of. Nothing from her. And yeah I can keep going but…. Now I have to start from scratch at 45 again. Fuck this laws are so out dated. She begins with new body smoking hot, a lot of money in her account and buys a new ho…
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 03:24 PM
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Damn seriously
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 03:55 PM
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Yeah. The older guys told me not to do it. Even her father said. You take her don't bring her back.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 10:45 PM
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So true
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 10:21 PM
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I was told when I was younger not to do it. And my heart told me it was the right thing and well guess I was wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 09:05 PM
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I want to feel like this guy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 09:04 PM
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Bro follow this seriously. She is going to do it and your going to be caught of guard get serious.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 08:18 PM
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Man let me tell you I saw her today at court because for some reason she needs a DVRO. And well I get to see my kids Thursday and Mondays. And when she shows up not even a word. She didn't even bother. So much for her and how she wants civility trough this process forgetting that she is the toxic one.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 06:44 PM
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I don't understand why. I'm not the ass hole but I'm definitely not a saint. But the shit she is doing is too much fuck
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 04:01 PM
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Fuxi I'm an emotional idiot and I don't think I will handle this well when it's time
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 02:16 PM
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I wish I would have done it like this as well. Fuck I'm such a pushover for her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 10:44 PM
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I figured
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 09:35 PM
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I'm interested to know what happen. Or rather a follow up?
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 08:56 PM
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What the hell. I feel that's going to be my case. She went on dates a week after asking for the divorce.anyways man I've been doing what I need for me and she doesn't like it. And I know she was doing her while I was crying my eyes out and angry so. Just do you man. Enjoy your new life this group has helped me out a lot. Thanks everyone. Serious.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 04:02 PM
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Unfortunately that's so true. It hit me like a brick wall. And she was so relax and good just doing her on thing moving forward whileno was crushed trying to catch up. Now that I'm a little bit more relax she is accusing me of sleeping around. And it makes no sense she's the one that wants a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 02:47 PM
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So true
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 12:05 AM
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Hope you guys find something that lifts you up. I felt like this month one. I'm at 3 months now. But there's days I feel the same. And when those happen I leave the house. Stay positive my friends.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 09:41 PM
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Thanks man I’ll watch it
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 04:20 AM
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Dammit
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 11:38 PM
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Haha I’m in California
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 10:27 PM
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Yeah. US if A. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 09:34 PM
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This is true and funny because there’s an IG video of single woman owning houses. 😂 ( they are the ones that got divorced and kept the houses. I’m laughing because I don’t want to cry about this.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 08:02 PM
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I’m not glad that you guys are in this situation but I’m glad you guys shared because this also my story. 😢 I have 3 kids my 16 is special needs. She is trying to mess with me emotionally by telling me that we have to work on ourself and then when we are good see if we can get back. I’m thinking yeah nah. If this is the case why get divorced. Again she knows I love her and well she plays on that. But it’s been 4 month’s now and I’m ok and good. So I will continue to live just for me and the kids…
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 08:00 PM
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Bro I’m 45 getting divorced and I haven’t ever lived by myself.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 07:54 PM
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Bro. At least you kept the house. Every time you feel like this look at all the positive things not the negative. Get yourself to the gym like this group always says. Gym therapy works.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 07:49 PM
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Man I’m going to make my own list now. I know she has one of me. But blames me for everything. How I abused her mentally, emotionally, physically, how I wanted just sex all the time.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 07:00 PM
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Why would you tell her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 12:01 PM
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This is the truth. It hurts like a mother fucker. But you have to go trough it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 04:46 PM
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Agree.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 07:21 PM
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Shit I needed this at the begging. Literally happen to me. And I though me and her where civil and where going to do the best for our kids. Yeah. This literally happen. This should be the first thing new guys see.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 02:54 PM
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I’m sorry this is happening to you. I have a good support system. And I’m thankful for it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 02:48 PM
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This is my problem. She is doing everything I wanted to do with her. And since all this has been going down she’s doing it with others. Fuck. It sucks
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 11:25 PM
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Hell yeah man. I’m happy it turned out like this for you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 11:09 PM
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Beautiful
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 06:00 PM
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Great advice guys. I love reading some of this stuff. It helps me out as well thank you everyone
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 05:57 PM
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I agree with this guy. Great advice and the one above as well.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 05:56 PM
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Love it
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 07:52 PM
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Bro don’t feel bad. I was in the same boat.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 05:35 PM
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I hope it’s a gift for me. I’m having a hard time.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 02:13 AM
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That’s what happen to me.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 02:12 AM
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😂 no love boat man that’s how I ended up married. In the first place.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 11:44 PM
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I just started my divorce. I wanted the same thing with this woman for 17 years. And now she says I’m the bad guy. Oh man. I’m on board with this guys. Marriage one time deal. Man.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 07:48 PM
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I’m on the same boat
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 07:45 PM
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How old are you now??
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 07:39 PM
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Bro. She is gone. And don’t try to get her back. The more you try the worst it is. I speak from experience I promise. Work on you she will see and if she wants to come back better you better for the relationship. Don’t chase her anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 04:48 AM
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Tell her now. Don’t be dumb this guys are right.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 09:11 PM
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Thanks so much man. Really appreciate it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:39 PM
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You’re great man.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:31 PM
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Man you made my day. I just started this divorced journey, I filed. And your story is great news to me man. I have common issues. Thanks for sharing man
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:24 PM
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There’s a wall up now and you don’t know how thick it is. He might need time. Also talk to him let him know what you’re thinking. If you never say anything it things will continue like that.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 09:30 PM
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Man. I wish I could help you man I’m literally on the same boat you are. Seriously. Same boat
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 09:59 PM
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Funny I download that book last week. Great advice here guys. Thank you so much.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 09:40 PM
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Brother man. I can so fucking relate to you on this. My story is a little different but damn same key points. I just started the divorce processs and man it’s hard I feel for you. Best advice I have been given “take it one day at a time, work on you”. It will get better and it has an end date
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 09:32 PM
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Bro don’t try. I got told she wanted a divorced in December 25. I have tried over and over to fix it but I have made it worst. I went January 15 to get the paper work and she said she will file. Guess what shit got worst and well now I have a lawyer that has taken care of everything shit is expensive with lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 10:54 PM
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Fuck man. I'll talk to you. My story is the the same as some of this guys. Here man. Luckily I have been to keep going. This shit sucks man but support systems keeps telling me it won't last for ever. Hold on day by day.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 02:35 AM
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I'm in the this same scenario and It sucks. The advice from this guys are real and true listen to this guys man. I'm working on me. Do the same work on you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 04:53 PM
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Damn man that sucks. You should try the 10’s. Your wife did. And if you don't like it well then go back if you still think that it's what you want. But don't forget she kicked you out. And if you go back she will keep doing it. So just don't go back man. Trust me when I tell you it hurts. I'm going trough this pain right now. It hard man.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 04:42 PM
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I feel like this is what's disrespectful as fuxk. Man. I'm going trough some simelar shit. And well fuck man it's hard. Good luck stay the fuck away man. It's not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 10:03 PM
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Thanks guys
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 07:19 PM
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Bro that's our downfall
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 09:41 PM
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Holy shit man. I hope you listen to this wise people. The love you have for her can be from far away. Fuck that. Leave her alone
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 06:06 PM
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Man I'm just starting this journey and this shit sucks. I get you man. I'm sorry. My knows exactly what buttons to push and I fall for it every time. I'm sorry I can't give any advice. I feel your pain.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 05:07 PM
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