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Karaoke bars, walking through a crowded park and saying hi to people as they pass, join a group on meetup.com. Generally, cultivating a curiosity about others and how they are living or what they are doing, is enough to start a conversation. From there, it's figuring out if you have a connection with someone, common interests, and then offer value. Be positive and non-judgemental. Giving good energy will get good energy.
/r/seduction15/06/16 09:53 PM
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I never vibe well with the idea of going out for the sole purpose of gaming girls. Instead, I incorporate game into whatever else I am currently doing, and it feels a lot more natural. I'll stop at a bus stop to chat up a cute girl for a few minutes as I'm walking by, or talk to somebody in line at the coffee shop. If I see people doing something interesting in the park I will go over and introduce myself and get in on the situation, or if there is a cute employee at a store I am browsing in, I …
/r/seduction07/06/16 07:15 AM
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My uncle in his fifties dated a girl who was 26. As long as the compatibility and mutual interest is there, I'd say explore it.
/r/seduction01/06/16 01:09 AM
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I spent the better part of my life addicted to drugs because they helped me fit in and mask my social ineptitude, depression, and anxiety. Even until last year when I got sober, I had never initiated physical intimacy without the effects of alcohol or drugs. Drug addiction is nothing to take lightly.
/r/seduction23/04/16 02:21 AM
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I still get anxious sometimes when approaching customers in the store I work in, and I've been selling there for almost three years. Logically, I know that I'm one of the most knowledgeable and friendly salespeople they will encounter, but I tend to over-empathize with their assumed reluctance at being approached by an obvious salesman. A shift in commission-only retail sales can be an incredibly accurate reflection of a night at the club doing pickup. Sometimes you may get lucky and other times…
/r/seduction06/03/16 06:33 AM
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Before I discovered seduction I worked as a line cook and general labourer. Introverted and not much of a conversationalist. As I learned about seduction and practiced my social skills, I embraced the discomfort of pursuing new challenges and opportunities, of which many seemed to materialize. I ended up being offered a job in furniture sales through a chance conversation I started with a stranger at a restaurant, and have been successfully developing myself there ever since.
/r/seduction06/03/16 06:25 AM
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Introduce yourself to the person next to you. Make an observation about them or about the venue. Engage them in conversation. Back off if they don't seem interested. Turn to the room and make yourself comfortable. You own the bar. Be calm and steady. Take deep, calming breaths. Relax and slowly scan the surroundings. Notice if anybody seems interested in your presence. Make eye contact with somebody at a table or booth, smile, approach, introduce yourself, make small talk, remember to breathe. E…
/r/seduction29/02/16 04:09 AM
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Most importantly, have fun. Engage with the environment as well. Socialize with everybody, not necessarily just the girls that came with you. I usually treat the group of friends like a set that didn't need to be opened and in which I already have good social proof. I will also use them as a home base to bring other people into or to keep my energy up between sets.
/r/seduction08/02/16 04:54 AM
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Working on exercise and meditation will give you a better ability to think positively and clear your mind of thoughts. Putting a better energy into the world will give you better energy back. Stand straight, relax your muscles, smile, and make slow, unwavering eye contact with your surroundings. Be calm and steady and deliberate in your actions and movements.
/r/seduction06/02/16 11:29 PM
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My brother is a natural. Tall, physically attractive, fit, confident. Women seem to be drawn to him. Wherever we go, eyes drift to him, to the point where he frequently gets opened by women. I am 5'9, and not so much physically attractive, but I dress well, have good hygiene, am slim and athletic, and have a habit of pressing myself into uncomfortable situations. Women have never come naturally to me. I've had to work for every inch of progress that I've achieved. I get more attention and attrac…
/r/seduction06/02/16 11:12 PM
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As a recovering alcoholic, the perfect number of drinks for me is zero. I had a lot more success when I used to drink and game, but I feel like the progress I am making since gaining sobriety is a lot more solid. Before I quit drinking, 2 pints or 4 drinks was the perfect zone for me... though I typically didn't remain there for long, haha... Learning game was the catalyst that brought me on this path which eventually led to me quitting alcohol and nicotine. Alcohol is like an automatic state bo…
/r/seduction06/02/16 07:38 AM
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Be friendly and open towards not only the other people there, but to the staff as well. If you get to know the staff you can go there any time and have social proof. Energetic, "Hey! How's your day going so far?", followed by, "my name is x, it's nice to meet you", is usually enough to get a positive response. Introduce yourself to anybody who seems like they wouldn't mind a quick conversation. Try to get people talking about themselves and find genuine things that you can compliment them on. Ha…
/r/seduction06/02/16 07:24 AM
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Zero drinks. I just drink water now... lots and lots of ice water. It has its pros and cons. The negative side of not drinking is that it's harder to keep my energy level up throughout a long night, and I have a harder time with approaching and escalation. On the positive side, I am always coherent, I can dance much better, and I can remember everything that went down the day after. I go out solo 95% of the time, as well, because most of my friends are either working early or have families to de…
/r/seduction08/10/15 10:02 PM
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Before seddit -pale, acne, 120 lbs soaking wet, scrawny, long messy hair -no care for my appearance whatsoever -terrible grooming -no confidence with girls at all unless I was drinking -even when drinking, never had success with women -always buried in a book -dissatisfying job as a line cook -moving from job to job due to alcohol and drug use -uncomfortable making eye contact or touching strangers unless I was drinking -video game addict -only had 1 relationship that lasted 4 years After seddit…
/r/seduction08/10/15 12:28 AM
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When I used to drink, I would go solo to clubs all the time, and I would pull semi-regularly, although I don't remember many of the interactions leading up to that. I'm having a harder time now that I don't drink, although I have only been going to clubs for about a month sober. I've found that it's easier for me to start conversations with people while waiting in line or at the smoking spots (though I quit smoking as well). The crush of the crowd inside the club environment is a lot for me to d…
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:09 PM
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I made a resolution to stop letting pretty girls like you take advantage of me ;) Oh, look at the time... still a half an hour until midnight!
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:45 PM
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Nice job man. It's always great to read about people's progress. This isn't an easy undertaking, trying to break out of AFC mode. One thing that I noticed, if you were trying to target the HB6/7 though you may have used too much push and not enough pull. At the second spot where she wanted to sit next to you, you could have let her, maybe teased her a bit about trying to take advantage of you, and had a great opportunity to escalate kino. Either way, good luck in your future endeavors!
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:42 PM
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And a top hat on the door to announce a gentleman's box social? Really... if there's anything on the door just don't disturb, lol.
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:50 PM
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The best nights start with an hour or two at the gym beforehand.
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:08 PM
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Yes. Definitely don't wait to midnight before you kiss her. If the interaction is going well, just continue to escalate. You'll make things awkward and unnatural if you wait too long IMO.
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:06 PM
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This is why it's a good idea to establish a home base bar where you can start the night and build state. Works like a charm for me. I've actually pulled what I would consider to be the two best girls I've got from there, plus made many friends and contacts just shooting the shit with strangers. I've also got some great experience spilling beer on myself there, lol.
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:02 PM
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Shoulda left a sock on the door man. Nevar forget!
/r/seduction31/12/12 06:57 PM
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There was a girl at the bar I was at for karaoke and pool. Chatted her up a bit before I was up to sing, and about half an hour later she storms up to me looking pissed and says, "Either you and me are fucking tonight or I'm leaving right now." I was taken by surprise and started to laugh pretty loudly. She quickly got the hell out of there. It was the first time a girl had ever been that direct to me. Another time, this guy was trying to attract a woman and I was watching him drown, so when I g…
/r/seduction31/12/12 06:49 PM
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Happy Birthday! Hi five or hug.
/r/seduction31/12/12 06:32 PM
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You can have both if you try hard enough.
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:33 AM
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What is everybody celebrating tonight? Is it your birthday?
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:31 AM
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It really helps to have some kind of context or situational observation to open up a conversation. If you don't have one, you're going to have to be direct and say "You're kinda cute, I just had to talk to you.", which automatically establishes context, but if you're not confident in your approach, nothing will really work for you. Your best bet is to just continue making smalltalk and eye contact with everybody you meet, and make sure to check the side bar on inner game and start incorporating …
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:29 AM
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You're absolutely right... Move along now, nothing to see here ;)
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:26 AM
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If you are at the point where you can consistently attract females, are confident and comfortable in your own skin, and have your inner game pretty much worked out, then this is a very strong point. If you're new, this could be confusing the issue a bit, I think.
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:23 AM
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I really needed to read this, but what about with a girl who lives out of town you don't get to see often, or haven't been on a date yet? My logistics are really crap right now, so I feel like it's the only way I can build rapport.
/r/seduction30/12/12 09:51 PM
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I like this attitude. The only thing I would caution is if you're not that good at reading social interactions or people, don't step on the actual host/ hostess's toes, and some people might not be comfortable enough in socially dynamic situations to have a relative stranger introducing them to others. Try not to come off as overbearing or trying too hard.
/r/seduction30/12/12 09:44 PM
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Try finding something unique about her that you can make an observation about. Another good opener is "You look like you're havig the most fun out of anybody here! My name is xxx" This can work if she looks bored, or if she actually is having the most fun. If the latter is true, you may have difficulty in matching her high energy. When opening multiple girls, I just ask what we're celebrating tonight and offer a cheers or high five while making eye contact with all of them in turn. If you're goo…
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:54 PM
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I have done the wingman thing with a girl I was dating for a bit, while we were on a date. She was a knockout. When she came in heads would turn, and people seemed shocked that she was there to see me. She would get approached by a lot of guys asking her to dance or trying to DQ me, which I always encouraged her to take them up on the offer. Sometimes I would get her in a set and just wander around by myself opening everybody and dancing, and she would come looking for me 10-15 minutes later and…
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:15 PM
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You should find a bar that has foosball or pool tables and ask to get in on the action. Meeting new people is never easier than when you're chatting over a game that you're all focused on playing.
/r/seduction30/12/12 07:03 PM
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So random, but while I was reading this I got a text from a girl I had given my number to over a month ago and hadn't heard from. So I guess it never hurts to give your number to a girl, but I never asked for her number first, I just gave her mine.
/r/seduction29/12/12 09:50 PM
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Started working out, bought some nice clothes and shoes, stopped playing video games, and started making eye contact and greeting everybody I passed. Slowly built up my kino to now it feels unnatural when I don't greet somebody or use kino in my interactions. I used alcohol as a crutch as I was learning, but am now confident sober, although still haven't tried much day game (just a couple sets when I was starting out). I also started focusing on enjoying being social and being genuinely interest…
/r/seduction28/12/12 02:20 PM
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Focus on her interests and be an attentive listener. Also talk about situational stuff that is happening around you. Don't forget to be flirty and escalate kino. Personally, I'm the kind of guy who involves people around me in my conversations because I genuinely like to make friends wherever I go.
/r/seduction27/12/12 07:40 PM
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This is a true statement. I've had a bunch of casual sex in the past months thanks to the confidence I learned through seddit and improvements in my life/ game. When you meet the right girl you will not find the sex to be lacklustre or unenjoyable. You'll be doing everything you can to pleasure her. Unfortunately, one thing that is difficult is not slipping back into full beta mode when you do meet her.
/r/seduction27/12/12 07:34 PM
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I quit playing video games around the time i discovered the gym and PU. If you can balance your life and career goals while being a gamer, congratulations, but for me I would get hooked right into them and it was unhealthy. I really have no interest in playing again, which is great because life has been so much better putting that time to better use.
/r/seduction27/12/12 07:14 PM
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This is how it works best for me too. I've gone sarging with a guy who had a list of routines he had memorized in his phone. I ain't got time for that, and it just feels corny as hell running routines and canned stuff, because I did it a few times when I was just starting out. The cube is the only one I have memorized still, but that's more because I think it's a neat game to play with people.
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:34 PM
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This is how I feel as well, and why i have turned down girls who have aggressively tried to take me home with them. I'm in this game to find a LTR, but my problem has been when I finally find, attract and sleep with girls who meet my standards, I start to talk about relationships and find out they aren't ready, or just want a fling. Needless to say, it's a little frustrating, but I'll continue to go out and meet new girls, make new friends, and still maintain these flings to see where they end u…
/r/seduction26/12/12 11:14 PM
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Wouldn't this fall in the category of qualifying yourself and not be a great idea? I would probably say, "I do too! Maybe we can introduce them so they don't get lonely while i'm getting to know you better" or something similar. I am not great with lines though. My style is just confidence and self amusement. I haven't really learned or used many lines and routines.
/r/seduction26/12/12 03:02 AM
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I have a bad habit of breaking up fights when I go out to the clubs if it happens close by. I've stopped a couple of full-blown brawls from escalating just by putting myself in between and making eye contact / forcibly separatig the combatants. Girls are pretty impressed with how calm and composed I am in these situations, and luckily I've never been seriously hurt doing this. 5'10" 140 lbs. And i've dove in on some pretty rough situations. I also am the kind of guy that will calm down really dr…
/r/seduction26/12/12 02:23 AM
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Don't ignore her, just be polite but make it clear that you are directing your attention at the one you are wanting to talk to. Address questions to her and use kino as well.
/r/seduction24/12/12 07:50 AM
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Makes sense. My game isn't great to begin with, I just go out to have fun. I don't use lines or routines, and I rarely try to close. I'm more likely to make out with four girls and get zero numbers on a given night out, and usually the numbers that i do wake up with belong to people i made friends with or wish to network for business.
/r/seduction24/12/12 07:48 AM
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Be direct. If you've known her for two years, and have her phone number, just call her and ask her if she wants to join you doing 'x' activity or at 'x' party. If she's not interested, then move on. If you don't have her phone number, next time you see her, ask her for her phone number so you can talk. Basically just isolate her and force a decision.
/r/seduction22/12/12 04:35 AM
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I probably would have just said. A is pretty great, but we had a chance to talk and I don't think she's my type. You, on the other hand, I haven't had the chance to talk to, so we should definitely change that. Give me your number and we'll figure things out. (or something similar) Always be blunt with your intentions. If you're not into A, then be nice about it, but make it clear you're not into A. If she's still resistant, then you haven't built enough comfort / rapport in the set with B for t…
/r/seduction22/12/12 04:25 AM
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I am in a similar situation, and was really looking to read some thoughts on this, although the girl in question is more like a FWB scenario, because she doesn't want a relationship and I do, so I told her she would be winging for me when we go out together. She's the type of girl that turns heads, has no AA, and an incredibly fun personality, but for various reasons she doesn't want a relationship at this point. FML ! The upside is that if I strike out, I still have an HB9 to go home with, haha…
/r/seduction22/12/12 04:17 AM
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Where were you 4 hours ago ! I read the first part yesterday, and was eagerly anticipating this resolution. I had a date tonight, and although things went rather well, I could have used this as a good pep talk before-hand. Although, my sex drive has been lacking quite substantially lately, and the logistics were heavily ill-favoured, so I probably wouldn't have done much differently. Still... Bookmarking this for re-reading purposes.
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:56 AM
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Assign them nicknames based on personality or physical appearance. This could backfire if they call you on it and you break your confident frame. Have an appropriate response handy in case that happens. Another solution is to hand them your phone and tell them to punch in their contact info. Sounds kinda lame, and it didn't really feel strong the one time I've had to do this. The best solution is to stop forgetting names. Use it repeatedly, almost obnoxiously if it suits your frame of getting to…
/r/seduction22/08/12 10:34 PM
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This situation resonates deeply with a perceived flaw in my game. What I've realized about my game, is, I tend to enjoy being the life of the party more-so than trying to pull or attract girls. I'll approach out of nowhere and start some conversation / get laughs, get some interest, conversation, comfort, and rapport going, and just as quickly as that I'll disappear to another group and start dancing with one or more people. Is this a game deficiency? To an extent, yes. If my goal on any given n…
/r/seduction22/08/12 09:42 PM
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This man has the most soundest of logic in this thread. Upvote infinity. By the way. If Donatello had 100 years to train, could he challenge Splinter, do you think?
/r/seduction08/08/12 08:35 AM
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Okay, so there's a king, a priest, and a rich man, with a sellsword in the middle... But seriously. I've asked a girl if she prefers giving or receiving anal before within 10 minutes of meeting her. It's really not 'What' you say so much as the underlying theme of your interaction, or... 'the frame'. Don't be afraid to step outside of the box and just have an all out tickle fight, ending with you conceding defeat in the force of such overwhelming odds. Whatever is fun, go with it. Obviously, tra…
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:31 AM
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The question you have to ask yourself is... Do you want to hook up, or find one special girl to spend a relationship with?
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:09 AM
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Meditation is a useful tool that takes an incredibly long time to master, but also allows you to subdue your ego in most ways. Look into that if you are having validation issues. Also. Fake it til' you make it. You really need to just train your mind to give up on negative situations, and try to resolve this into positive situations. In a lot of cases, what you thought would be a negative, turns out to be a positive, if you keep your cool long enough to figure it out. Always positive thinking an…
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:02 AM
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Wear a conicular painted hat, and one of those noisemakers. Get so shitfaced that you can't see a thing, and then try to drunkenly grope anything in your immediate vicinity... NO. The fact that you feel you need to 'use' your birthday as a way to gain attraction means you aren't actually grasping the concepts being taught here. But playing devil's advocate, I would just make eye contact when I approach, introduce myself, and tell them 'you know it's bad luck not to kiss an Irishman on their b-da…
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:53 AM
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In essence, just be yourself. In practice, try to enjoy your interactions with women more, and find ways to become openly sexual. This can be as easy as bringing up the topic of masturbation and then transitioning to probing questions about her sexual preferences and style. Always amuse yourself first. But don't be perverted. Try to calibrate each interaction with a clear head, and judge how far you can open up to somebody. Never be somebody you are not. If you are just in this to get laid, you …
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:44 AM
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Good on you :D Never settle for anything less than you deserve. You will be tested time and time again. Never give in. Never break your rules. It's surprising how many things you can seemingly 'fuck up', but turn into success just by being solid. Also. Your journey doesn't end until you die. This subreddit introduced me to self evaluation and improvement. From there I've gone all over the map. Now I'm focusing on what I want to do with the rest of my life. If you haven't, check out /r/psychonaut…
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:19 AM
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I'm always a big fan of "What's your favourite ice cream flavour". If they answer anything but mint chip, the date is over... FAST ! It's like a junior mint in ice cream format. It's minty, it's chocolatey... it's DELICIOUS !
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:04 AM
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I used this a couple of times. I'd set up on the beach close to some potential sets, go for a swim, and check which sets looked decent while I was swimming a bit, then I'd go relax and read or tan or whatever for a while. Get up with your towel and walk over to the set. "Excuse me ladies, (insert introductions) I have to ask you an important favour. Would you mind keeping my towel company for a bit?. I have to grab something from my car." Proceed to grab something from your car, and when you ret…
/r/seduction07/08/12 12:03 AM
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Time is of the essence. The more idiot you end up looking, the more you learn :D
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:37 AM
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I still have off days where I'll forget people's names almost immediately, but I really have no fear of just saying, "hey you ! I already forgot your name, but xxx, okay?" or something similar. I'm never apologetic for missing a name, because it's something all of us fall victim to. Try opening big sets and introducing yourself to each of them, and then try to repeat the names back to them immediately. If you're bad, you can make up names, or say something about what they're wearing. But always …
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:33 AM
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Go out and get a job not in your field. Something you think you would enjoy doing. Something new and different than what you're used to. You can still apply to jobs while you're doing this, and it's fun to change roles every once in a while to learn new skill sets. I recommend landscaping. Good workout and solid interpersonal communications.
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:23 AM
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If you don't value this group that dislikes you, then it's no worries. But if there's something you are blatantly doing to make a large number of people actually dislike you, then do a little reflection and figure out what it might be, because that could manifest in any further interactions you have with others.
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:19 AM
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Just talk to the old people and their kids also. Have fun creating conversation and genuinely showing interest in the interaction. It's amazing how cheerful people become when they meet an enthusiastic person who isn't intrusive, but is very easily approached for conversation. I love flirting with people on the phone, when you have to call a random number for something. I had a professional lady from WSIB laughing and enjoying herself within 60 seconds the other day when I had to call her back a…
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:16 AM
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Thanks, I'll look into that. To be fair, I can decently dance already in a club setting, and am usually the first one on the floor having a blast, but I'd really like to get some more confidence in my moves, and learn something that I can have more confidence doing. Oh, and if you ever see me driving by in my work truck, and a song I like is on... I'm busting a crazy move and singing at the top of my lungs. Does that count as dancing?
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:10 AM
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Yep. Even the ones who don't make eye contact with me or recognize my existence in any meaningful way
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:09 AM
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I am a positive thinking individual. Almost every time I have a negative thought about what's going on in the moment, my mind has been trained to destroy it and replace it with something positive. I achieved this over time by monitoring my thought processes, reflection, and also through interactions with negative minded people reaffirming my belief that exuding a positive state is what I want to be about. Still have some bad days, but even through those, I can work out what's bothering me and un…
/r/seduction26/07/12 02:13 AM
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When you start to notice success in attracting women (THIS WILL HAPPEN IF YOU WORK HARD AND PRACTICE), keep this in mind. It is easy to start slipping, and show needy / oneitis behaviour towards women, especially when you are new to this. Remember you live a life of abundance, even when you start to have feelings towards a specific girl. Needy behaviour and emotional responses can ruin a sure thing. It's a fine line between investing emotion into a relationship with a girl you like, and being em…
/r/seduction23/07/12 06:22 PM
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My standby is... Underwear model. Sometimes they challenge me, and I can sex it up a bit and usually ends with girls touching my abs. My second backup is Ninja, because who the fuck doesn't find ninjas absolutely amusing. (Wish I was really a ninja) Always make girls curious by giving them answers they aren't expecting, and don't really answer their initial question, if it's going to be boring or expected, but do it in a playful way. I've had girls who then say "seriously though, what do you do?…
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:56 PM
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Pretty solid FR. I'd appreciate reading one from you where you mess everything up, but I won't hold my breath :P
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:48 PM
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I began reading this, and within about 15 seconds added it to bookmarks. Great resource to generally summarize what we're trying to do here to make ourselves more attractive. I recently came to the conclusion that I'm going to be an incredibly successful person. Don't ask me when, how, or why. I'm going to continue to learn, grow and become a better person, spending time upgrading myself, and eventually things like women and money will find me, due to my newfound confidence and ambitions. The on…
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:36 PM
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I went from 120 lbs 5'10 to 150 lbs 5'10 in the past 6 months from sporadic gym visits. I started lifting a couple months before I found seddit, but honestly, it felt so good to look at myself in the mirror. Gone are most of the ribs showing through in my chest, and although I don't need the validation from others, it was nice to have friends that I haven't seen in a while comment on my new physique. Also, I enjoyed reading this article. Got me pumped to go out tonight. I need to do the invisali…
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:31 PM
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I have a hard time talking to unattractive girls. Anybody else have this issue? When I'm talking to attractive girls I turn on the charm, flirt, and am genuinely interested in getting to know them. With girls who I don't have an interest in physically, I tend to shy away from engaging in conversation because I don't want them to think I'm flirting with them (I feel uncomfortable about their lack of physical attractiveness). I will add, this only really applies to girls around my age, because if …
/r/seduction28/06/12 12:36 AM
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Not everybody who is just looking for a physical relationship will attempt to sleep with you on the first date. I'm looking for a LTR, but I quickly figure out whether or not I'd like to be in a relationship with somebody (usually 2-3 weeks), so I date (and have sex) with multiple women. It's a fine line between leading on, and getting to know somebody on an emotional level. It's hard to find LTR material if all you're doing is trying to sleep with a girl quickly. I don't appreciate women gettin…
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:53 PM
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Well... I did this and it seems to have fixed some of my problem. I just told the girl about a funny strikeout I had the other day with a cutie who I was asking on a date. It shows that you're actively seeking dates, you have an abundance mentality, and you're not the kind of person who commits to every girl, and the fact that you 'striked out' means she is less likely to feel the pangs of jealousy, or think you're sleeping with multiple girls in the same week / weekend / night.
/r/seduction14/06/12 01:46 AM
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From what I read, this has little to do with seduction. Good job, either way... If Nicola asks you to do anything illegal at any point in the near future, please say no, and also choose to make the first time you meet in a public area :D
/r/seduction06/06/12 01:14 AM
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Will do so. I don't really hide it, but it's not something I bring up when I meet new people. I don't make a habit of defending my lifestyle or choices, but I'm openly honest about it if asked, with a little teasing involved to keep things on the lighter side.
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:29 AM
15

Stop caring what anybody else thinks about you and do what you feel like doing because you think it will be fun. Since when do you base your self-perception on the opinions of others? Also, nobody will care in a week that you had an embarassing sexual experience. Just continue making mistakes and learning from them. Telling her you are a virgin will accomplish one of two things. Either a) she will have sex with you or b) she will not have sex with you. If you want to have sex with these girls, t…
/r/seduction31/05/12 02:33 AM
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"I'm SO glad you came over and talked to us!" "You have a sexy little butt!" "You've missed over half of the classes this semester and you're still getting an 80% average..." ~VP in highschool, don't know if it was meant as a compliment, but I took it as one.
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:13 AM
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That makes sense. I'm going to push my comfort level next weekend and set a goal to close / blow out with at least 10 women. You're right, it was intensely gratifying to be the center of attention and have so many awesome interactions, I guess I was still anxious to escalate them. It's just unfortunate that I don't get to go out at all during the week. I'm looking forward to stepping out of my comfort level and feeling the pain. I work 12 hour days, 6 days a week, and am doing some school course…
/r/seduction24/03/12 07:49 PM
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Yeah, I've been thinking about it today, and I really didn't try to close with any girls. I think being intoxicated had a lot to do with that. I'm going to insist on those icewaters next time, and maybe start my night a bit later.
/r/seduction24/03/12 05:09 PM
1

Great job man.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:05 AM
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Thanks for the support, I'll keep that in mind. At this point I'm enjoying meetiong new people. I'm glad for the experience, and I'm looking forward to more results. ^ I'm definitely a lot more comfortable using physical escalation now than before I started reading seddit and working on my confidence building techniques. There's nothing to lose, and so much to gain, by putting myself out there and becoming more physical with the people I'm interested in.
/r/seduction19/03/12 01:09 AM
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Nice one ! I'm a really easy going person. There's absolutely no reason to get involved in a downhill conversation with those types of people. It's actually useful to run into them, because it helps isolate the person you're interested in talking to anyways, and you look like a much more mature and adjusted person in comparison. It's also good to share a knowing smiile when they finally realize they're having no effect and bluster themselves out of the situation. Like you said, they will keep di…
/r/seduction18/03/12 08:22 PM
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I'm not really comfortable posting pics on this site, because I know people who use it. This is a throwaway account just for seddit.
/r/seduction18/03/12 08:15 PM
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Why thank you, good sir. You don't seem too bad yourself. ^
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:35 PM
1

Maybe sometime in the future if I feel it's justified, but for now... sorry.
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:33 PM
5

There's a post about it somewhere, I'm not sure how to link to other posts, and I'm new to posting on this site, but basically I start with a question, and then pick out the possible topics from her response, and just keep naturally progressing with the conversation. If it's going into boring talk or in direction you don't want to go, you can ask another question or just back up a bit and talk about a different topic you got from the response. Works wonders because you're able to focus on listen…
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:31 PM
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I'm going to have a hard time setting anything up, seeing as she lives in another city, and I just started a new job with crazy hours, but I'll definitely touch base with her tomorrow and invite her back for a date this weekend, and if that is a no-go I'll just tease her a bit about what we talked about and figure it out from there.
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:27 PM
4

What I used to do was just move in and try to establish eye contact. When she looks at you just nod once, jump in the air and cross your legs, do the Michael Jackson spin, and then wink them full in the face... holding out your hand to them clearly shows intention as well. What I would do now, is approach, maybe put your hand on their upper back or around her waist, pull her towards you, make sure you make eye contact and smile, maybe a little mischieviously, and read her reaction. Life's too sh…
/r/seduction18/03/12 09:31 AM
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Good stuff man. I get bad AA when I have no liquid courage in my system, but I'm realizing that once I get into a conversation I bring so much value to the situation, it seems very silly for me to hold back. I'm still working my approach exercises, trying to eye contact, kino, and converse with almost everybody I meet outside of the "pick-up" setting that I'm used to. Once I get over the AA, I know I'll be up there with the best of them, even though I'm probably a 5/10 on physical looks. if not …
/r/seduction18/03/12 09:21 AM
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So true. As long as you're showing her good body language and making sure you use kino to escalate, there is no confusion on her part what you'd like from that particular scenario.
/r/seduction18/03/12 08:56 AM
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