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Too many untrue suppositions in that question for me to answer it.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 12:17 AM
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Who says showing vulnerability does anything. As a command let’s say. It’s just not evidence based. It’s feminist based propaganda
/r/MensRights21/11/18 04:19 AM
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I like salsa dancing and basketball. Might include reading philosophy if I get into that more. What are your hobbies?
/r/MensRights20/11/18 05:53 AM
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Eric Weinstein is good to listen to on this.
/r/MensRights19/11/18 08:25 AM
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My workplace is loaded though and much higher female to male ratio meaning my value is higher. As much as I want to keep this. I value finding a mate. I need tips on keeping risks low. Or am I just being dumb and risky in attempting this at all?
/r/MensRights18/11/18 05:51 PM
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I thought the rule was “be attractive 2. Don’t be unattractive!”
/r/MensRights18/11/18 05:50 PM
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For me current indicators are: pins and sewed badges on clothing or bags and adopting masculine mode of dress. Those women I would not approach. I’m a bit of a small talker and I like meeting people, especially in a new environment. My colleague who’s training me (male) has given me a specific talk about this kind of thing.
/r/MensRights18/11/18 04:38 PM
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Coming back for an update? How are things going?
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:35 AM
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Installed a cell phone usage tracker app. Time is high as I thought. Will be tracking in January and bringing it down to 90 min/day.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 07:25 PM
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While I didn't take the time to read the legalese, your post, and your interpretation of these events for the manosphere, and your insight, is an important contribution. I'd like to see TRP go more in this direction, not just talking about they way things ARE, but the way things are GOING to be, and reacting to it. Just super.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 06:15 PM
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Looks OK. Physical is just one area of improvement. Identify others and consider "goal cycling" between them.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:54 PM
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Can we down vote this insensitvely written silly fable just on principle? Come on people.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 02:37 AM
1

It's not about equality. You won't get your way through a verbal argument to try to "convince" someone.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 02:16 AM
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Thanks for the advice. The moral clause was hilarious. A five minute morning food porn video is an interesting idea.. I just read that that's sometimes all you need to dispel cravings.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 11:16 PM
1

Interesting take OP. Where to find eastern European women in a Canadian city?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:44 PM
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If she is having sex w multiple guys, following red pill from a man's point of view, she is not a quality woman. Personally, openly promiscuous women creep me out.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 09:02 AM
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Find a more creative way to attract girls. You don't need to be a bartender. At 80K you could creatively save to partly own a bar in a few years. Which has more social proof?
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:16 AM
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This guys here to get paid lol.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 08:15 PM
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Welcome.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:03 PM
1

IQ isn't that important. Expertise can be built in many skills through practice and training. The best practice is consistent practice. There is the 10 000 hour rule for becoming a world class expert in any field. (takes about 10 years dedicated training) There is also little crossover between activities. Roger Federer is not an expert ping pong player. So choose what you want to be good at because you can't choose everything.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 04:41 PM
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All I know is that crazy can't be untaught.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 05:15 AM
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In general I'd opt for being quieter for several reasons. Ever hear your own voice on a recording? Sounds like shit doesn't it? In general the things that come out of our mouths aren't as enlightened as we think, and aren't as enjoyable for others to hear. We're not blessing the unwashed masses with our words. If you've spent 10 years developing expertise in an area feel free to talk about it. Otherwise say less than you think you need to. The fact that you love to talk has a corollary. Others l…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:09 PM
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"Binary thinking is always toxic" lol. Thought it was a great post. Would read again.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 05:31 AM
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Lol.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:34 AM
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It's OK. Thanks though.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:17 PM
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Be constructive.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 05:55 PM
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gets pissed. well turns out she wanted attention, and a pat on the back for her apology and the "hard work" she did getting over it. Give her props (mentally) for apologizing though.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:37 AM
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I've been thinking of not mentioning the other women, but also denying requests to be exclusive (haven't come up yet). Don't want multiple girls going around thinking they're my girlfriend.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:20 AM
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OK. If you want some paternal style direction here it is. Let me tell you in no minced words that you're fucked up OP. Coming here means you want to change yourself, which is why I want to help. Your health is more important than your habits. Good habits must be supported by good health. Improve your health first. Fix your diet. No processed foods, no sugar. Don't eat anything that comes in a bag or a box. Don't eat fast food. Make it yourself. Eat salmon and broccoli 2x/week. Research what it m…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:30 AM
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"Do what is best for you." God damn that is good distilled wisdom. Can someone relate this to the Nash equilibrium?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:23 AM
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Let me play devils advocate. Maybe you're not getting more IOIs you're just noticing them more.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:19 AM
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So, I can share my experience, never did more than one girl simultaneously before, because that's not how 'society' said dating should be done, so when a girl I was seeing went out of town, and I had a bumble date set up I had to battle my own internal guilt, which was crazy, cuz I was only a few dates in on girl 1. However I projected a relationship I wanted to protect in my own mind. Fast forward to today, I've nexted girl1 for terrible communication, and the girl I dated is shaping up to be a…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:15 AM
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Win both ways OP. Step 1. Convince your friend that girls not worth it. Get another girl for him or if you can't, then pretend that you can "hot Asian friend of yours saw your Facebook, etc" Step 2. Once your friend is not emotionally invested in this girl, give her the ol sex metaphor
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:08 AM
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Letting him lead is not telling him to plan something and get you an outfit. Who's leading there? You. Going down on him while driving might be your fantasy but its obviously not his. He doesn't tell you what his is straight up? Well be more observant and play detective and try things out. You want to make things work so change your perspective on this guy. If you think he's a cuck, you'll have confirmation bias and only see situations in a way that confirms this. You could see that he works har…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 08:38 PM
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Can you be more clear, with concrete examples, of what you don't like that your husband does? So far I'm interpreting what you've said as that you're chasing a feeling. The butterfly feeling. Hollywood love that you see in the movies. If this is so you are hamstering hard. Your female hypergamy wants you to attain the commitment of the best man possible. Now that you've got him youre wondering if you could have done better. AWALT.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 07:30 PM
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Good Practice. I will DM you with a question.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:37 AM
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She's hopping on cock bro. Good for you for the next.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 01:06 AM
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How did you go about studying and reinforcing the laws in 48LOP. I've listened to the Audiobook twice and occasionally I think about them. That is all.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:04 AM
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Leather work seems pretty cool. Is that a hobby that you have? Maybe I'll start with canvas, it's cheaper. Damn, I could make me a bespoke duffel. Thanks for the tip. I will use the jar one. Cooking is also a big interest of mine. A nice meat and tomato sauce or soups could be a perfect evening activity.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:05 PM
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"4 months" the amount of time the LTR stayed after Red became Blue.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:52 AM
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Just wondering if this is what you're recommending. I slept with a girl on the first date and she was super weird and clingy that night, decided she was not fit for any type of relationship. Didn't message at all, but a week later said "Sorry things didn't work out, it was nice meeting you" which she appreciated. Is this a similar circumstance or different?
/r/askTRP20/11/17 12:46 AM
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Stop seeing them so often. If they die.... They die.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:43 PM
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Hmm. Gonna have to watch me some Limbaugh
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:53 AM
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Story time? It could help to reinforce the lesson.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:51 AM
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What does go cold on you mean? Clearly she responds well to you ignoring her and not giving her commitment and validation. Keep doing that.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 05:48 AM
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I'm not a lawyer and I'd say refer to the top post, and don't listen to my advice, just adding to the general discussion here, I heard it mentioned that if someone is accusing you of rape and you have consensual sex with them at a later date, or texts that prove you're on good terms, it makes the previous rape allegations very tenuous.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:37 AM
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Lawyers are dicks but they're right about this kind of thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:33 AM
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Cringey indeed. But keep playing the part OP. Shoulda nexted earlier. Value your time more! Instead of trying to break through brick walls. This girl is weird and led you on but you should know better.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 03:15 AM
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You like chicks and you wanna bang this one. OK you're like every guy. But you might fail, you've got scarcity mindset and let's face it she has very high value to you as a friend. Just ditch your oneitits OP. Don't be attached to the outcome of you and her. Keep bettering and improving yourself not for her but for every girl. You're too invested in this for it to go well and after you nut in her and she's a crappie lay that house of cards will come crashing down and then what? Build the skills …
/r/askTRP18/11/17 03:12 AM
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One thing I read, and I forget where, not on TRP, really stuck with me. It was about responsibility and not being the victim. Let's take your obese middle aged hamster infested woman who demands everyone accept her fat body as beautiful instead of getting off her ass to change it. She takes no responsibility for being fat and will be a victim of societal perceptions because it's easier. At a certain point we are all at the mercy of our parents generosity and neuroses. You could have literally be…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 03:03 AM
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Good job. Quit smoking. RP says spin plates, but I want a son with a LTR. Finish this bulk then cut 20 lbs. All are achievable. 1 year, maybe 2.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:09 PM
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I'd say I'm already pretty well versed. Can close a pretty high percentage of my dates. Always looking to improve of course. I'm working on the physical posture to correct a slight forward head tilt, and have no problem feeling (and therefore conveying?) confidence on dates.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:02 PM
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Some anxiety is normal. Develop the skill of being able to talk yourself down from it when it gets in the way. I recommend the book The Chimp Paradox. The best self help I've ever read.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:00 AM
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It's good to not text unless it's to set up dates for the most part. At least don't text about your day and keep it shorter than theirs. If you want chatting buds have a bro or a girl you've earmarked to not fuck and she knows it for that. Sounds like you need some joie de vivre (joy of life) OP. Make sure your nutrition is in check. Things involving girls and things that are fun aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:57 AM
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This is a great answer. Confidence through experience and adversity is truly confidence.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 05:54 AM
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Hmm...
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:52 AM
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I say "I just don't tell as a rule" and stick to that. I've tried out the joke with mixed success: Her: "How many girls have you slept with?" Me: "you mean tonight?..." counts in head, carry the one... Actually it's good. Softens em up for the "No, I just don't tell"
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:50 AM
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"Wanna see my holographic Mewtwo?"
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 05:48 AM
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Habits change over time. You're a blue pilled nice guy until you learn, perform, and ingrain red pill practices. Fake it til you make it is where you start, then all of a sudden you're not faking it anymore, and you're a strong independent man who don't need no man.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:45 AM
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You can definitely ask for hers and not tell your own. I have. It's not always appropriate to ask right away, but if it's very high there are slut cues. If she slept with you on the first date for instance. Also is 5 the updated number? I thought it was 8
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:43 AM
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Damn. That led you to the pill?
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:36 AM
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OP the myth of healthy fit looking guys living life on easy mode is true and the relation is linear.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:34 AM
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Try r/bdsmcommunity this doesn't seem related to negging, value, or dating
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:32 AM
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I'd move to greener pastures. Not gonna get more than a couple lays before the "squeeze".
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:31 AM
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Can you elaborate on how you convey your strength and power OP?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 05:29 AM
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This is advice for males, not females.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 06:45 PM
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I'm not sure what else there is, other than not enough time for comfort, or couldn't overcome LMR. I honestly didn't try very hard after she said no.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 06:06 PM
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If I can tell you don't have patience and DGAF attitude from an online message, a woman will notice it from 50 yards.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:45 PM
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I lost one of my jobs after matching on tinder with a girl who was related to my work. It didn't work out between us. Lo and behold she even complained about me and I resigned. I didn't lose that much by losing that temporary job. I like to think I even gained by picking up that truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 06:01 AM
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Ooh you sell xanax. Big baller alert.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:09 AM
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One good thing about being short, they'll be super comfortable with you approaching. And sounds like your looks are good enough to get you in with no resistance, that's easy. Try to meet this girl, talk to her, and ask her out.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:33 AM
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Here's what you ask yourself. See relationships as a tool for your happiness and fulfillment. They're not a chore and they're certainly not an obligation. You can end it whenever. Is any of this the fear of branching into new territory? Also if it's not anything she's doing that's pissing you off and you just "feel smothered by love" that's something you're going to have to introspect about.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:23 AM
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I think a foundational point is your willingness to walk away. If it's there, and has been from the beginning she'll know. She might still act out and get on your nerves, but she'll be a heck of a lot better behaved than with the guy she knows needs her. You never say "I could walk away at any time, and I don't need you." that would come across as spiteful and controlling, the opposite of what a man of abundance is. I don't agree with "if you've spoken you've lost" word for word. I like setting …
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:17 AM
1

It's not exciting for her to flirt with you anymore. Maybe she knows what to expect from you and is now more bored. She'll never risk making herself look bad in front of the group to go for you. Do you guys have strong enough mutual interests to really connect on a date? Keep going for her, be bolder, use other girls in your group to create jealousy, or at least show proof. Above all, don't be boring.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:09 AM
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Personal qualities, game, attractiveness, muscularity, style, achievements, etc.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:01 AM
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No problem train smart, train with effort, and train consistently.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:28 AM
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My willpower is very low in the evening hours. Yes it is limited. Some getdisciplined faithful will be like "learn a language, meditate, every day etc" well time is a limited resource too, you gotta do the things that matter. Self first, for me that means lifting and nutrition, career and mission second, time left over for a date, friends, and family? Enjoy.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:27 AM
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You have to be good. And that's attainable with effort. You don't have to be perfect. I'm spinning a plate rn, and I don't have anywhere near as much going for me as I thought I'd need to have success.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:24 AM
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Lol. Just icing her might be better for long term prospects. But if that's how you feel great for letting her know.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:22 AM
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High school is a complicated environment. Focus on self improvement and success in your goals following 3 steps (Train smart, train with effort, and train consistently ) I don't know you well enough to know what you should do, but from my experience in high school you probably have the urge to nut in anything with a vagina and a pulse. Don't fantasize too much. Take an inventory of what you have and where you're starting from and work towards where you want to be.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:20 AM
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I'd say no. You don't work at the gym. Go for it. You can always ignore her if it goes south. Still if you'd like to keep in the gym be maybe more gentlemanly about it and don't ask to pee on her on the first date.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:16 AM
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Train in the gym. Train around the injury. It'll promote healing. If you're not healthy to compete what else can you do? Focus on what you can do and not on the cocky dipshit who will be in your spot next year.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:14 AM
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Another fun, multiple activity date should be good. I like to use the 10 hour spent together before sex as a baseline, and if it happens earlier great. If it doesn't happen after, Bounce.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:11 AM
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You're not a dick at all move on. Learn the lesson from it though. Maybe she didn't feel enough comfort. Sex shoulda been on the table. Maybe you were pushing too hard for it and she thought you were low value. Get some other things on the go and the next girl you're with will feel you're not dying to nut and you'll get some.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:07 AM
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This is so funny OP. Let me try to help you reframe this and gain perspective. Tom Brady didn't fuck your girl. Youre being compared to arguably the most attractive sports superstar out there. That's a compliment and a good thing. She just wants to have fun with you. Also on what metric are you competing with Tom Brady on? Are you trying out for the pat's next year? He's the better football player. You're better at some stuff he sucks at. So stop using this as an excuse to let your dick retract …
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:00 AM
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I'm not quite sure what you're saying and we're more than likely miscommunicating, especially if you have to send me to google. Why don't you DM me?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 12:39 AM
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I could make a case for it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 12:13 AM
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The study is very real, if that's what you're referring to. I shouldn't out as male when posting?
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:23 PM
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Thems the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:05 PM
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This is gonna sound like a weird comparison. Supermarkets carry Halal and Kosher products because 2% of the population refuse to eat anything else. Likewise the mainstream media opinion has to blow smoke up the ass of the feminist perspective or they will face complaints and loss of advertising revenue and readership. Fuck the news.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 09:52 PM
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Your n-count is 2. As a red pill woke guy I defer to the studies showing that n> 8 women have less success bonding and I use that mark as a rule of thumb.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 09:45 PM
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😂
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 09:43 PM
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It gives me hope that self-aware women like you exist.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 07:30 PM
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Your ability to reflect and realize your behaviours is huge. My parents just split after 30 years of marriage. I would constantly witness my mom badger and let her emotions run free on my dad. Yet she was devastated by this divorce, and when I asked if she'd consider changing she rejected it out of hand and just pushed the blame. You are who you want to be. You'll make it there OP
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 03:08 PM
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As a guy, I realize voice is one of the most important elements of attraction after body language. I focus mainly on loud, low, and slow. What tonal qualities do you think are the most attractive from women to men?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 04:07 PM
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What were the safeguards and what is the reckless behavior? I just don't really understand your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 06:28 PM
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It's an interesting step back from the "forever love" idea. I heard of one very well off millionaire who had like $20 000 per year of marriage and $230 000 per child conceived. But love is priceless amirite?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 06:18 AM
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For me, the foundation of self-improvement is two fold: Learning >> Application I'll recommend a great book for the learning part "The Chimp Paradox" but any self improvement book that resonates with you should do the trick. It's up to you to apply it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 08:11 AM
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I've read the author.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:23 PM
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Nice distinction. Separate your ego out from the process. Get rid of the need. Get the results.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 01:00 PM
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Robert Greene has a book, the 33 strategies of war. I haven't read it. But maybe you should.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 12:54 PM
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Found the beta
/r/askTRP13/08/17 12:45 PM
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Yeah I saw that one on a "top 5 evo psych list" I went with two from the middle, also the Evolution of Desire. Decided to skip Pinker.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:42 PM
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If you liked the selfish gene, the extended phenotype is a slightly more complicated but worthwhile read. If you want to branch out from there to evolutionary psychology (the evil scientific granddaddy of trp) I just started the mating mind, whose theory is that the brain is an expensive signal of mating fitness like a peacocks tail.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 01:39 PM
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I always talk to others around me in the few minutes before class. In my early years of college I would sit beside the prettiest girl. Now I actually prefer to sit beside any guy in the front row. Hamming it up in the front row, getting those academic gains, and showing the whole class you can meet people is the biggest social proof. Basically in the last class I took friended up the front row nerds, (I'm smart as well so I fit in) had a great time in class, had friends to support and support me…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 05:02 PM
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The 'Blue Pill Example' tag seems kind of harsh. It seems to me this is a story that revolves around the strength of a woman's hypergamy, in the face of inestimable male value (no homo) and not the small mistakes (letting his girl out) that some average not necessarily BP Joe made. Compounded by the fact that shit, people fuck up when they're drunk, particularly when you never drink. Damn this fuck up is big as hell though and I'm not quite ready to excuse it like that though. I've always though…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 03:52 AM
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I climb and do salsa dance. The latter is an amazing venue cuz you're already engaged in touch with very attractive girls. Additionally in dance it's the guys responsibility to lead. Another thought though: Rollo does apply the concept of a 'buffer' to things like online dating, you're putting a buffer of security between yourself and real world rejection, similarly in dance, the organized nature of it socially sanctions touching and leading a woman. It's up to you to make the next step, going f…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 07:26 PM
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My turn to play Internet doctor. The first doctors were called the 'empiricks' the root of what we know as empiricism today. It involves observing what works and going from there. I'd suggest dropping everything you can, Coffee, cigarettes, sugar, herbal remedies, making sure your sleep hygiene is on point and controlling stress throughout the day. Only when you have this baseline would I suggest adding in things like non-prescriptive medication to notice it's effect. Could be a long journey. I …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 12:22 AM
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Any decent looking girl on tinder will have a laundry list of guys and a severely inflated SMV. Approach irl.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 06:10 AM
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I like this guy.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 01:04 AM
1

Although in theory talk push kinda = negs no?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:27 AM
1

Nice.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:27 AM
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Nothing will be time to value like summaries of Game. Push-pull everything with a vagina and observe your results.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:37 PM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP30/06/17 03:17 AM
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Pua term that Rollo Tomassi used "A woman should have/display IL"
/r/askTRP29/06/17 09:20 PM
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