Anyone wanna help me settle this question once and for all? What's the best way to be and what's the optional way to balance it?

Personally I am a person that likes to have fun, I like to amuse myself and if a conversation even with a guy is too logical/complaining mode/gossip mode I get very bored fast.

With both girls and guys I am playful naturally, I'm always happy and smiling. A lot of my friends are not this way, they are more on the serious spectrum, we laugh etc but conversations tend to be very logical and boring.

An example is if we're hanging out with girls my friend decides he wants to show pictures of his holiday for one hour on the phone, talk about school, compliment on eachothers achievements and you can just feel the energy dropping.

So my question is, how do you think the ideal man should be? Should he be someone who has fun 24/7 and I'm not talking about clowning around for attention but rather when you're talking keeping to topics that engage, dancing around not being stifled.

Or should he be smooth like James bond, not dance around always saying the right thing?