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Casual sex is nothing more than hypersexualising a man. You can sexualize him in other manners like you so described, doesn't really matter as long as the end result happens. At the core, it's more about sexualising than casual sex. Most women don't understand that because to them, getting fuckzoned is a shameful failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:06 PM
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You're missing the point. Your values and men's values are different. If you want to make the man you love valued and happy, it's much more effective to sexualize him. If you tell him you love him for who he is and what he provides for you, and that you don't care that he can't fuck you like your ex did or isnt as attractive then that's not going to be a compliment despite him giving you all the things you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:36 PM
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What constitutes the red pill here ? Is it old school Rollo Tomasi glorified pua tactics tool box à la "you get to decide wheter you want to use it or not" or the Andrew Tate new wave of validating the anger phase and possibly never getting out of it thanks to social media algorithms ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:55 AM
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I will to that. He didnt specify the boys had to engage in consensual sex to lose their V card.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:45 AM
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You must be increadibly short sighted to think thats the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:58 PM
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Benjamin Franklin warned against this. Sacrificing freedom for security is a pathway to lose both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:11 AM
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Buying a wife in a third-world country would avoid wasting time tremendously then. Also since time is money, shouldn't the money invested be accounted for in the dating process ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:34 PM
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That would be correct if : men and women looked for the same thing in a relationship. poeple did not cheat. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:10 AM
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This situation only happens if the mother fails to select a suitable partner. Someone who doesnt respect herself by opening her legs so easily obviously wont inspire respect (either from her fling or random people)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:00 AM
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Just an observation, but most blue pill men talk about these issues while being clearly unaffected by them. Its very rare to see a young male unsuccessful with the ladies, struggling in his studies due to selection bias, without a strong male role model and coming from a single mother household hold blue pill views.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:36 PM
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Couldnt find the sauce about asian celeb so you can discard it. And yeah even if you take away the indians i wouldnt be surprised to see asians still struggling. Average heigth, build and sexual dimorphism arent the best so worldwide that could lead to a masculinity issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:59 PM
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80% rated as below average is evidence women have an unrealistic view over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:37 PM
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While its true that Asian male statistics are skewed because of indian men (most undesirable ethnic according to OLD) it has been reported that asian celebrities & models have a comparatively harder time dating than their western counter part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:33 PM
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So here we have the Cathy Newman of PDD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:46 PM
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Enough of PPD for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:13 PM
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Not old (<25) Not ugly Not dumb Aaand i guess thats about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:59 PM
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Plastic surgery is not an accessible means for middle class westerners (reddits main demographic). Comparatively to the US it migth look cheap, but factoring travel expenses, accomodation and such it goes a long way. Also big doubt on those stats. Plastic surgery may be rampant in the show biz but thats just ridiculous. Sounds very much like a 1 in 3 women on us campus were raped stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:29 PM
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Still needs a fukton of therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:05 AM
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Please enlighten us on how to be lean on the nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:09 PM
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Race: White or asian Why not both ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:14 AM
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I have a hard time believing one can go from 20 to 35 by gaining less than a kilo, granted that person was active and not a sorry slob of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:40 AM
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So if you get a partner who has the same or higher level of income he has high chance of leaving. And if she has low income you get shafted on alimony. And so many wonder why men get cold feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:17 PM
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First time i agree with you kind neighbour from La Manche.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:06 PM
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Blackpill made me appreciative of what i have and far more understanding & caring for my unfortunate male peers. Bluepill is fucking usefull to use when trying to woo or get someone from the opposite side to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:11 PM
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I would chose neither as they are unfit for LTR. But B would pose the higher risk yes. Not by much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:03 PM
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If a N-1 woman cheats, she's no longer a N-1 since she just increased her body count. So technically the loyalty rate of n-1 is 100%. this isn't supposed to be a serious comment but more a jab at how dubious statistics can be used with a set agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:17 PM
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B. Because A most likely married the guy after the divorce whereas B (assuming she isnt a frumpy old 30+ yo woman she has little experience in LTRs unless she went back to back with both LTR's and ONS which is disgusting) is a disaster waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:52 PM
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He isnt wrong though. A n-1 woman doesnt cheat. N-2 however is higher, hence the increase in cheat stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:47 PM
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So long as she's open about her past i don't see any issue in communicating her desire (or lack of) regarding possible prospects. If the guy then accepts those terms then its 100% on him. I wouldn't wait long for a springbreak slut but thats my personal prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:36 PM
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You're asking too much from modern women mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:10 AM
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It is a woman's duty to please her partner. I mean by that point if she doesnt why bother being in a relationship if you don't want whats best for your loved one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:14 PM
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Its actually quite simple. People become jaded and bitter with time through dubious experiences, hence the term damaged goods. So when I meet someone with trust issues and baggage she expects me to put up with, all I see is getting punished for her ex's behavior. I have a good enough character to claim all my exes have broken with me on good terms, with some more painful than others so I cant exactly relate to her experience nor her ex ex bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:31 PM
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Rudeness is a perception based on manners, which is how you were brougth up eg culture. What will be considered rude for an american migth not be the case for a frenchie or a south asian. You can't have a more subjective matter. Of course, there are universally rude things but in the context of creepy behavior well, that really doesnt apply. Take north africa for example, women who show skin there are considered equal status to prostitutes and treated as such. It is considered rude towards yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:46 AM
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Some guys should really try to pretend being a woman on the internet. And vice versa. There's nothing like a pokemon fans telling you they'd beedrill you with a twineedle attack man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:29 PM
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Quite surprised by this but it reminds of the saying men think they want a lot of sex until they meet a woman who wants a lot of sex. Same could be applied to NSA casual dating i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:24 PM
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Not equivalent, its a valid form of foreplay done on a man. And theres nothing wrong being unable to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:04 PM
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I remember being fucking derpy about girls showing interest back in highschool and messing it up. Also didnt like how most girls who approach did it from friends or in such a public way my parents would tease me h24 about it. You can't expect a teenager to be okay with that. Hence my conclusion is that im half in agreement with what you said. Yes it probably has to do with highschool experiences (first love yadayada) but I do think guys in that age bracket were not socially prepared for being pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:10 PM
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This is more a personal experience than a popular sentiment. And pointing fingers doesnt really help. I could argue women are just as bad with sex (cant even deepthroat or arch correctly) and still expects him to please her while doing the bare minimum. Like holy shit woman you're so out of shape you can barely ride me for a few minutes. How about trying to figure out how to help your partner in getting better sex rather than just standing there like a starfish ? In my case they were just a lost…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:08 AM
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You claim to have found an incoherence in his reasonning. I just provided you with added context eg age that explains such duality. If you arent open to explanations why the fuck are you even making this post ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:21 PM
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I fail to see the problem with the quoted statements. He simply doesnt have a preference for old women (30+) who want to wait and take it slow. Im pretty certain he would not have the same stance over a younger woman aking the same. This is an important distinction women tend to ignore because they dont like being reminded of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:55 PM
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I'm all for having standards but disqualifying a fair share of the population based on circumstances outside of their control sounds quite superficial. IMO it should be a point of concern but its still within an individual's agency to identify those issues and work on them. The OPs only focus are people who have yet to take action over their issues. Whether it is the norm or not, and i would argue it fluctuates greatly depending on your social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:57 PM
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That would explain why i keep seeing fat broads. Sauce : am a french southerner (Toulouse)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:22 AM
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Dude just move out of those communities and meet people who actually enjoy those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:55 PM
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I just said people both attractive inner and outside are rare, the fact that you did not find one kinda proved my point. People want validation to their insecurities. And it seems rather obvious to me what those are for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:50 PM
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Just because you find it dehumanising doesnt mean it is. Maintaining a fit body requires discipline, time and money you simply can't afford if you are too taken by other aspects of life. Sure you can have fit bums but if we're talking UMC people (engineers, doctors etc) then keeping a healthy body is work. I actually have a lot of respect for people who manage to balance everything and i've accepted that my prospects will remain quite low unless i raise to that standard. And honestly i'd rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:43 PM
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He didnt say much but his look and demeanour was very judgemental. Most men who test often are not straigth, as the gay casual scene is very strong, so i'm posotive he thought i was ploughing dudes. Not that i am but still none of his biz. Doctors are known to let their personal bias greatly affect their medical practices (refusal to sterilize young adults, abortions despite being legal etc). Note that i live in france so the system is very different from the hyper capitalistic usa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:14 PM
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How about promoting sexual health in straigth relationships and destigmatizing STI checks ? Its so fcking annoying to see doctors judge you when you just want to keep an eye on your health, wether or not you're at risk. If I had to choose, then number 1. But honestly i think i would be content with having a few fwb with mutual trust, and keep regular checks as to garantee everyones health. 1 is only a problem because people neglect their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:40 AM
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If you marry number 1 then divorce the dude you get half the millions he was too stingy to spend on you rigth ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:32 AM
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What do you mean by low-level of stress financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:27 AM
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Yes and no. In a fwb situation you can either focus more on the 'friends' side or the 'benefits'. Either way its still a fwb, but you will get vastly different things from one to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:21 AM
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Never said it doesnt happen, but attractive men both outside and inside Henry Cavill style are a rarity. I can think of only a handful of men who i could grasp the appeal despite being straigth (eg true inner beauty). But whenever you (not you specifically) talk about the ideal partner its always about the inner side because ppl fear appearing vain and superficial for vocalizing their physical standards. I think society would benefit a lot from people (not just women) being more truthful about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:18 AM
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Girls be going in modelling careers and go down in anorexia but sure beauty equals health.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:33 AM
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The rules in modern dating dictate that we are free to have our own set of rules, so in effect there are none. Plus i have a hard time taking any woman talking about inner beauty yada yada then throws herself in the arms of mr tall handsome stud. And no, its not dehumanising because your body is also a part of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:26 AM
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If a girl did that to me i would just burst in laughter and call her an angry midget all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:13 AM
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Getting personal is an admission of defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:29 PM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:52 PM
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Yeah, thats not cool but other than learn your lesson and try not to be duped next time what else can you do about it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:34 PM
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Cant brake a promise if you dont make one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:31 PM
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I was talking specifically about men with a higher percieved status. In the context of marriage I see very few men I would feel envy over their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:27 PM
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I'm not blaming the victim for getting raped. This is a tragedy i wouldnt wish on anyone. But if she does not take action to help further the cause by going through due process, then you can't expect things to change. If 33% of rape gets reported and 1% gets convicted, then having 100% rape reported means the number of rapist convicted triples. Not perfect by any means but you cant exactly do much on an individual scale. Besides i would 100% a cause helping victims speak out that has no feminist…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:29 PM
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Men with options having tolerance towards bad behavior from women is news to me. Women put up with A LOT from the guy who doesnt give a fuck about her. Its not a gendered thing, but a power dynamic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:37 AM
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If crimes are unreported this is 100% the victims fault. If you want to help the community and bring down criminals you have to report them asap, go through due process, prove an actual crime was commited and nuke the fucker. At some point you have to put on your big girl panties and stand up for yourself. PS : im suspicious about unreported crime statistics. How do you know how many crimes havent been reported ? Because by definition an unreported crime is well... unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:26 AM
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Which is exactly OPs point. The actual number of offenders (even when accounting for unreported ones) are an extreme minority of men but men as a whole are being punished and prejudiced against. This is sexism 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:12 AM
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And how are you supposed to account for unreported rape ? How many of them occured ? In what frequency ? You could argue a vast amount of geniuses never see their talent bloom either. It could be because they couldnt afford an education, a bad accident could break a promising career in track field etc. Sure the numbers are not an exact figure but its far better than pure speculation based upon feelings which is 100% what you do when you assume a man is more likely a rapist than a scientist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:50 AM
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Based on wiki stats of 2013, the report of actual rape was 0.4 per 1000 habitants (or 0.04%). Based on trends i would argue the rape stats is even lower today given communication outlets, gps and global awareness. Also 50% rape cases emerges from family & current / ex partners. So the number would be closer to 0.02% which seems pretty in line with what i'd expect from statistical outliers like geniuses or athletes. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_the_United_States
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:39 AM
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The day a woman manages to top the best man in a given field you can bet we'll hear no end to it. In the meantime, they have to settle with women just being there. Also the OPs point is rigth. You will always assume a random guy to be potentially a serial rapist or a murderous criminal, but never a genius scientist or a top class athlete despite the odds being similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:24 AM
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To be fair as a prostitute its unlikely that you would be successful if you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:41 AM
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Which is bs because weaker men get no sympathy for starting shit and getting pummeled for it. Women are considered frailed and worthy of protection because socially the vagina is queen, not because they are physically weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:50 PM
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Slut : a woman who sleeps with anyone but ME
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:08 AM
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Seems any kind of nuance is lost on you, wether it is the pillosphere or social issues (that you just label as racism). When you are so obsessed with being rigth, your argument stops making sense. It migth work IRL if you shout loud enough but on a written basis you just sound chaotic. A discussion with you has proven fruitless so goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:35 PM
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??? Whats stopping you as a man to play hard to get ? And why would you give a fuck if she whines about pursuing you ? ... Ah. I see. You were an ass about it and her friends are giving you shit about it huh ? Well if thats the case lesson learned buddy and be smart. Be vague and fade away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:39 PM
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You can help men feel better about themselves without bashing on women, but its totally possible to feel good about seeing entitled women getting countered over their opinions. I mean... if that wasnt the case then those podcasts wouldnt be popular. None of these men are self improving and are now just bitter. There are different stages into the redpill and most are stuck in whats generally called the 'anger phase' after reality and their worldview clash. I would agree "redpill" aka controversia…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:30 PM
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You expect me to watch those clowns who talk about raw sexual appeal when they themselves call escort services to get laid ? In my eyes those guys have lost all credibility after backtracking their trashtalk against Aba&Preach, went full damage control when their subs were starting to fall and apoligized like little bitches. Plus the girls they invite on are bimbo instagram models from miami. Its absolutely not representative of the demographic the average man or male student will meet. So not v…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:32 PM
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The best insigth i have got was from my friends in the gay scene. There are multiple body types who happen to be visually attractive such as the bear or otter type. Those men were hugely popular among women as well, so i believe the attractiveness align pretty well, its just that women are shit at describing what is attractive physically and visually about a man, like the appolo's belt or V shaped back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:24 PM
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Is it that the guys dont get it, or that they pretend not to get it because they arent interested ? When in a fwb the covert communication is actually pretty convenient to avoid bothersome discussions, for a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:37 PM
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Then i would say your sex life is pretty good. And no, it is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:53 PM
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As you said, being at n-1 you have no comparison and are content with what you have. There are people (both men and women) in your case who broke their marriage by fear of missing out and experiencing the greener pastures. Plus, there are different levels of lusts. Are you telling me, you lust your man is such a way that you enjoy the smell of his sweat, found his saliva to be sweet, being so wet all the time that you had to use a vibrator to keep up with the mad sexual appetite (after 8 times a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:36 PM
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If thats the case then shes going at it wrong. From what i've seen she mostly invites post wall women who are effectively a lost cause. If younger women cone along they tend to be rather meek and dont engage much nor have a very insightful opinion. Besides TradConRedpill and RedPillMarriage was a thing back then so i guess shes trying to live it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:20 PM
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Its sad from a man's perspective to never be sexualized as the most physically attractive mate she at the time will ever experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:14 PM
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Redpill IS about accountability and self improvement. Pearly things is just defending men's woes on the dating scene and pointing fingers at women as to knock modern women down a peg. I dont even think she believes in her words, she's just arguing with dumb feminists because thats what gets you views. Pearly isnt redpill, she's politically incorrect but definitely not advocating for self improvement like Kevin Samuel (may he rest in peace) did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:05 PM
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Have you ever said to a female friend the reason she cant lock a man is because she's fat and has a bad attitude ? Because i used to hang around women a lot, and they would use every excuse in the book to NOT change and improve. It was mentally exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:00 PM
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Thats sad. I remember getting my ex wet just looking at her in the eyes. She was crazy but man did she know how to send me in heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:50 PM
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Well errr, best of luck with your medical bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:29 PM
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Are you suggesting america is a shit hole place unfit for western standards ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:13 PM
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To add on my answer, i like to think that way. If you do something wrong its a mistake, if you keep repeating it its a pattern. Mistakes should be forgiven (within reason) but a pattern is not your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:56 PM
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Why would I want to build a relationship with such a dumb person ? If she's that deaf to my concerns, whats to stop her from covering her ears to future hard truths along the line. Speaking from experience, I had an ex who kept on babling about communication is key and could solve any issue. Well, she progressively put less effort in the bedroom while putting on more weigth, and any time i tried bringing it up it would end in her shutting down and crying about my misogynistic views. So really, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:51 PM
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A better term would be sexualized. Only a minority of men are sexualized by women, ie almost in a fetishism manner, or rather in a similar fashion to how men view hot women. In those cases yeah I could see the numbers adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:46 PM
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Dont lump all minorities with problem ones. I myself am from a poor immigrant family and managed to middle class thanks to welfare, social programs and grants. Growing up in a multi ethnic city (Paris) you have no excuse to fail with how much help the government gives out. Only way to fuck up is if you have shit ignorant parents and/or no discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:40 PM
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Cry me a river, i dont give a fuck about low class blacks wimping because all they can do is gang on bystanders because they couldnt bother getting an education. Besides the comment thread is about personal accountability, something both unsuccessful women and poor losers are devoid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:12 PM
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Doesnt take a genius to assume in a ghetto chances are pretty high if someone shakes you he's gonna be black.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:03 PM
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Being held accountable is not victim blaming. If i go alone at nigth in a black neighbourhood I KNOW has issues and a history of crime and get mugged the robber is 100% at fault. But i'm still an idiot for putting myself in that position when I should've known better. Because if I dont self-reflect then I am bound repeat the same mistake. When I see women jump from abuser to abuser and start seeing a pattern, it is safe to assume she's just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:41 AM
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If sex is so unimportant why do women dress so provocatively ? Whats the point of a women being pretty if she doesnt want to have sex ? Applying female strategies on straigth males just doesnt work. And vice versa. That being said, in the gay scene where casual sex is rampant you do see top males on the pole as bottoms. Dominant ones on the other hand are so in demand the physical aspect is secondary. Back to straigth males, being sexualized is hard. Harder than you can ever imagine because it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:12 PM
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Its called personal accountability. You can't say you dont select for violence then choose violent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:38 AM
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High body count as a man is an achievement. Low body count as a woman is an achievement. I dont see any hypocrisy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:28 AM
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Agressive =/= Violent And by virtue of those stats, you litteraly chose a violent man if he was your ex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:24 AM
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Good man from a male pov = integrity, responsability, reliability, modesty etc. Good man from female pov = attractiveness, aggressivity, adventurous etc Same can be said of a good woman btw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:45 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to answer. Its interesting to see JP has two main "facets" regading his speech. his spiel over free speech, the masculinity crisis and how he denounces western gynocentrism is what made him popular throught the world his political opinions and more so his ideas over Canadian issues just cannot be shared by his whole audience since they dont overlap at all I myself love his stance on free expression and compelled speech. Reminds me of 1984 with the new language that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:16 PM
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I've been talking about both issues, you just ignore what you dont like to hear. Rape is rape. Fine. Rape is anything sexual without consent. Fine. Consent can be given and retracted at any given time if you prove deceit, misinformation or an inability to make decisions at the time. Hmmm. That is not the case for drunk driving or causing physical harm. So rape IS handled differently. Now that I think about it, I do beleive our system is far too lenient with the definition of consent and should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:41 PM
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Being accused of rape means being labelled a rapist. How can you even dispute that ?? And being labelled a rapist has grave consequences for a man. A woman sexually assaulting someone is NOT labelled a rapist as is proven on media and journalist reports. And even if she is the social perception of her is not even close to the stigma a man will endure. And if your reaction to this is "lol not my problem" then you are a fucking sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:15 PM
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Actually sexual assault IS a special case, because what you're saying is that paying 1€ less a whore makes you a rapist. And being labelled a rapist has social consequences because what is commonly known as one is that of a violent aggressor. But why would you care, you're a woman AND a feminist. This is a situation you have zero chances to face, hence your total absence of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:28 PM
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What im suggesting is that sexual assault is the only bodily criminal act that has no gradual categorization. By your definition, paying 1€ less a whore would be rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:12 AM
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Sexual attraction is litteraly that yes. And women pretending not to be the bigger hypocrites is kinda telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:04 AM
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First i never said they shouldnt get justice for what is clearly a scam. The man should be punished for his deceit, but he did not rape them as they consented on the moment. Unless that is, that you consider a scam over sex on the same level as a violent sexual assault gangrape on a lone teen girl. Which is what you suggest when calling it rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:55 AM
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Care to elaborate on the things you agree / disagree so as to not sound so generic ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:42 AM
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Statements like these are dangerous because its dilutes the word that is supposed to be a heinous and traumatic event to that of a simple con act. Same with baby traping or divorce "rape" (which is actually a way of making fun of how everything is rape now). What is the definition of rape then ? That if you were lied or misunderstand then your consent can be voided ? If so whats next ? If the covid misinformation is proved real are we going to call out pfizer for raping the world with their vacc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:32 AM
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You know its funny how you dont mention anything about combative women. Those who HAVE to be rigth, argue non stop and drain your relationship energy. You can have a 50/50 girl who listens and communicate well. But having to put up with a woman is a no go for a vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:43 PM
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Interesting take on the glass ceiling of the sexes and really puts in perspective the feminist figth to break it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:31 AM
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Imo that is something else. I like the analogy of porn with drugs because depending on its use it can be either harmful or beneficial. If you use drugs / porn as a form of escapism not only will it not solve anything you will get saddled with more problems. But if you use either as a recreational activity, it can add value to your life. Eg : drugs become a social outlet to bond with peers, porn can became a safe space to explore kinks as a couple and find ways to give pleasure and hapiness to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:27 AM
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If you view asian aesthetics positively then yeah I usually am popular (I kinda looked like noctis in highschool). But from where I come from (france) asian arent hugely popular outside the weebs and since I'm estranged from my asian family & community i stick out like a sore thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:18 AM
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No and you are derailing so much from the post its obvious you havent read much of it. So I wont engage further into your trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:31 PM
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I am talking about women who shun men's sexual energy. Those are the ones with issues, and think what they need/want is an assexual man. Honestly assexuals is like 10% of my post but people only lash onto that part [because they cant read] while the discourse is about how the sexual urges are a drive to self improvement or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:19 PM
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Where did I say in my post that assexuals have trauma or mental illness ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:14 PM
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After checking the definition, I should put the terms on quote since it is not used in that way. Also its absolutely not how we used it back in school so thank my education system. What i meant is that to gauge the influence of sexual urges on personal motivation, if you can observe a distinct change in the absence of it wouldnt that confirm its influence ? Morality being left aside I guess the real control subject would be an average dude and the true experiment would be to castrate a man and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:11 PM
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B. And throw her on the treadmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:47 PM
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You will always find exceptions, and since assexuals are already a minority this leads to an even smaller population that should be ignored. Besides, assxuals can still express attraction (its just not sexually charged) and many of them happen to be gay in denial. I say this because i have seen a few of them end up in same sex relationship. And those who did where physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:42 PM
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Assxuals here are used as "control subjects" to my main point which is that male sexual drive is the prime motivation towards self improvement. Just like "control subjects", they are few in numbers, but if the results are consistent then you can validate my hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:39 PM
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This has a lot to do with social hierarchy. Being pretty as a woman has many advantages that reach way out of the sexual domain. People are more lenient towards you, better grades on non anonymous essays, lesser jail time convictions, free stuff given to you in social settings, people are more socially inclined to talk to you, receptive to your opinions [as long as its not too technical] etc. For a man, we dont respect men for their attractiveness. We admire work, discipline, success and to some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:29 PM
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Honestly i dont think dating preferences can enter racism territory. Sexual attraction is discriminatory by design. It could be height, body odour, voice, teeth, political views, religion, food habits w/e and colour skin can totally be something you are attracted, or not. Racism is just a socially unaccepted form of discrimination, and I say this as a non-white person. It has no place in the dating scene. Source : i am an unconventionally attractive half asian half british man. A minority of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:51 PM
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Lets not fool ourselves. The percentage of men 'identifying' as red pill who are actually putting in the work for self betterment & lifting is minuscule. Doing it 'for yourself' is pretty much like studying 'for your future', only a minority end up with the discipline to get through. Red pill is a toolbox you use as you see fit. I personally dont see anything wrong with using the female (and gay) gaze as sexual validation to motivate you towards your goals. The point is to get beyond a point of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:48 PM
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I didnt want to expand too much on her for that exact reason. My point over male sexual motivation stills stands and is what i wish to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:41 PM
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Its actually a pretty harmful when you think about it. This reminds me of my first relationship, back when I was holding similar views (i believed sexual urges were exploitative over women and repressed them in order to not pressure her and make her feel uncomfortable). That actually backfired terribly when a good friend of mine came on me and popped my cherry umder the guise of friendship after I emotionally supported her through hard times [i have a hardcore savior complex]. So yeah. First tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:51 PM
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A man obviously is a person who identifies as a man. You bigot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:52 PM
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Yes and no. Having kinks and a gradual sex depravity is imo a natural response to constant stimulation, as with time you get less and less sensitive to what tickles your rocks. Same as with drinking or smoking or even drugs : in the begining only a few drinks or puffs are enough to floor you. Then to keep on that same level of intoxication you need to increase the consumption. Sex is quite similar in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:50 PM
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If you have never seen it, then you just havent looked hard enough. There are plenty of cases of women admitting to watching porn : the guy is enthusiastic at first because he thinks they will recreate some stuff. Then is happens to be attractive males just jerking off while looking at the camera, and the bf gets mad. Sounds a lot like a fictional uno reverso (esp the mad bf) but i have fwb who enjoy watching such videos. Honestly watching them just motivates me to work out more, too bad women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:41 PM
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Well that's my point. When there is 0 sexual drive you tend to observe no motivation and/or success. You can argue that it doesnt need to be 100%, but its still present, and when your needs are fulfilled its actually quite minor. You know the quote "when sex is good its 10% or the problem, when its not its 90% of it" when talking about relationship issues. I believe the same logic applies here, to a more extreme degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:15 PM
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If we're talking commitment then a racist family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:14 PM
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They can have all the expectations they want, its not any indication of success. Most of them are brainwashed by tiktok garbage on female empowerment and have no grip on reality. Fat / ugly still chase attractive guys and are used up all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:53 PM
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So.. you give her the emotional support and let other guys fuck her senseless ? Yep thats cuckoldry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:08 PM
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By saying men age 20 look better than age 30. I guess my 31 yo ass took this as a little jab
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:19 AM
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I agree. But if they take care of themselves the difference is negligible. (Just wanted to point that out bc your comment suggest past 30 look like shit) The same can be said of women, though she has to put significantly more effort than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:11 AM
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Calling yourself chad when you look like mr potato (without the mustache) is pure cringe. Couldnt focus on the video because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:07 AM
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Only had one virgin and she was among the best sex partners i ever had. I dont think virginity is much of a factor in sex skills if not at all. IME those bad at sex do share common patterns of feminism ideology, an excessive tendency over verbal communication and truth to be said subpar physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:42 AM
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But why would you invest in some used goods others got at a discounted price ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:50 PM
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Being short is an insurmountable obstacle to dating. That has nothing to do with the fact that you won't be successful by virtue of being tall. Oh and if you're getting flaked 99% of the time then you arent as attractive as you think you are and / or you're doing something very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:27 PM
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What changed for me mostly is that i am far more sympathetic towards short men and their struggle. I can understand the anger and frustration of "losing the game without the chance play" in a world where men's value is built, not earned. And it made appreciate more what i have. But mostly the pillosphere is divisive as fuck and runs deep because at the core one gender will never fully understand the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:17 PM
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How most people see the fitness world : You're either a twig gymnoob or a steroid injector addict who cant get it up so he has to take it up the ass to get sex. No in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:17 AM
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If you become attractive overtime... yes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:25 PM
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Classic example of that would be the chubby / fat dude who transformed in adulthood, Henry Cavill style. Those dark years still hurt and did a number on one's self worth, but the ones i know happen to be modest and non superficial. If they can overcome their insecurities they then make a killing with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:54 PM
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Already am amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:49 PM
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Says employment and dating are separate then expands on how they share the same obstacles. For a man, they work the same way because the value on which he's being judged is built (wealth, social skills, physical fitness, intellect...), not given at birth, as opposed to women (beauty, youth, social background). Love is conditional, dating is transactional. Which isnt a bad thing really : a good transaction is mutually beneficial, a bad one is exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:42 PM
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Its like a shitty phone vs a shitty phone w/ a apple logo. Marketing 101
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:19 PM
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Funny thing, i had an ex who like you would always praise how communication would solve all problems. Our sex life was scarce (once a week), she put in weigth and didnt like many positions other than missionnary. Tried communication, was called a sex addict who only wanted her for her body. Shit like that makes me furious because you end up in a lose / lose situation : break up. She will feel validated in her narative and will smear your name in your social circles. be miserable. You end up mast…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:16 PM
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I completely agree with the sentiment. By treating sex as a transaction, those women impose a dynamic based on selfishness and distrust. Too many women chase after selfish men, get burned and become selfish themselves by pure spite. I make it my mission to sexually satisfy my partner, expecting the same should be baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:05 PM
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Maybe if you want a mediocre man. Those who know their worth dont get stuck with an inflated doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:42 AM
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They often frame it as 'liberating themselves from male expectations' and/or hearsay about sexual acts she no longer performs (bj, doggy, anal, etc) Since women are socially catered to they can afford to openly demonize male pleasure, but all this leads to her hating sex even more. Kind of sad when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:22 AM
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Same thing as saying men want sex and women want good sex. There is no pressure of performance on the womans side, heck some even yell proudly how terrible they are in bed. At no point is there a discussion about the men's need. Too many thots believe being a dead fish missionary is enough to keep a man interested. Fuck that noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:08 AM
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Thats odd, i usually install snap when i see somehone and its a lot of fun to snap before a date to 'give her a taste of whats to come' You need to find better sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:41 AM
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People get to see your dick without you going through the hassle of sending them. Absolute win
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:35 AM
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Honestly by that point i would just go full adventurer mode with a group of friends on a road trip FFXV style.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:42 AM
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Hard for me to answer as 3-4 is what i would like when on a busy schedule (on days off you could triple that). But i did have moments where once or twice a week were sufficient. Those times were with women who required a lot of work to get off. You see, one of the biggest perks of porn is how the man's pleasure is at the center, and he gets taken care of. You must also factor sex appeal too. In my teen / early twenties i was so horny i could fuck uggos easily. Now not so much, i really need a th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:30 AM
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Are you exclusive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:21 AM
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She was an easy lay, made the first move and didnt ask for much. Did break up once she started asking for more (was very clear from the get go about our situation) Pretty sure most plain janes chasing after a man have been in her shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:24 PM
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Had an ex dye her hair red for me and loved to get called a slut. Guys dont get they should buid their own horny slut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:19 PM
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Pretty sure if a single dude becomes more desirable once he gets a wife hes getting something from the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:09 PM
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One that comes to mind is social proof. A man that pulls a desirable women is perceived differently from his peers. People pay more attention to him (could be good or bad, but isnt ignored) and more often than not married men get more opportunities to cheat because they become more attractive socially (and less desperate). Women on the other hand crave validation beyond their sex appeal. All this 'romantic' bs, dates and whatnot that makes her feel special is to comfort her in the fact that she …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:36 PM
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Time will tell, but thanks anyway !
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:17 PM
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Well im happy to hear that you found confidence from your relationship, but i hope this will lead to more self love. And in the event that things dont work out, that you still manage to keep treating yourself that way. As for me, i havent had a relationship longer than a year, a few flings and mostly failed relationships. At age 31 I would say my n count is around 25 so im definitely not an incel lol The biggest issue i've met is that each girl i engaged with would end up in one of those situati…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:41 PM
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Am in software engineering (mobile apps) and asian too (half asian, half european) so i can more or less get what you mean : not ligth skinned, not petite and no baby-like face features. And yeah, hot women get approached. But that doesnt mean you cant take care of yourself and be attractive. Because it takes work, and i can garantee it is worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:22 PM
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Depends on your environment. In male dominated fields you can get attractive males coming to you even if you are subpar. Women there are actively cattered to and coddled, because having more females in a male space attracts females with similar interests. [unattractive] men are usually unwelcome in most female places or tolerated granted they keep to themselves. I would be very insterested in a female dominated space where male presence is so sparce they thirst even for average male presence. (N…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:01 PM
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Holy you are american. 56 kg for 152 cm is pretty chubby outside of usa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:45 PM
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Men as a whole ? Nope. Charismatic and respected ones ? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:44 PM
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I see. But then again i'd argue women treat sex as a given, but when they feel undesired it also gets quite ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:08 PM
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I will attempt to CYV. I believe the 50/50 financial split is not a good metric because it leaves out many factors and most of all the fact that men and women bring very different things to a relationship. Most of which cannot be monetized. Hence, I dont think most women are aiming for a unequal relationship in their favor. Most if not all believe the financial distribution is the final and easier to fine tune parameter to even things out. Wether the offer will sound legitimate to the other part…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:13 PM
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From a male perspective, being sexualized is the greatest form of validation regarding our masculinity. This will sound weird to the gender being saturated with sexual advances since puberty but on the man's side this demands tremendous amounts of work (fitness, social skills & status) and luck (genetics, social upbringing etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:50 PM
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Without the height your weigth is meaningless. 80 for a man is standard if he's 1.80 but fuck he's overweigth if he's barely 1.65
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:37 AM
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Which opens ups plenty of other problems. Retirement (dunno about usa but at least in europe) with a smaller workforce is unsustainable. Countries with low birth rates are going into panic mode so i dont think it would be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:22 PM
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Based on the replies you get, this reminds me of when i dated the hottest girl in highschool : never did i ever get that much hate and racist insults than when i got the pretty one. You absolute madman, dont let anyone stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:59 PM
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Thats not what i said. Please read more carefully what people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:30 PM
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USA allegedly one of the most powerful countries in the world sits at 20% of its population under the line of poverty. If you think a revolution is all it takes to eradicate poverty from a country then you are in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:22 PM
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I'm gonna ignore your juvenile take on redpill since you obviously believe incel = trp (lol) and just jump to your example. How in hell do you abolish poverty ? Do you pass on a law that outlaws anyone on the streets and/or on welfare ? Or do you decide to impose massive tax on the rich who totally wont outsource their business elsewhere and leave you with sky high unemployment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:14 PM
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You cant quantify it but you very much put value on it. My guess is that the emotional burden is currently overvalued while simultaneously looked down upon. Eg : no one wants to get into the 'support' role because it is seen as an admission to being lesser than your partner. And now we have women competing in men dominated field because they want to earn apex men's respect, which never ends well for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:18 AM
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Then it is not parasitic, its symbiotic. Problem here is that emotional labor has no 'fixed' value, and is left to individual appreciation. Conservatives push for a clear split dictated by gender roles but dont take into account inflation and high costs that make the financial burden increasingly more difficult than before. Progressives (i dont like the term liberal as im not american) push for an equal share in both financial and emotional labor. This at first seems like ideal, but isnt realist…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:55 AM
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Interesting take on the abusive term. Assuming a couple where the man is deemed abusive by the woman (grey area as to what is abusive, but id say anythingthat isnt jail worthy), divorces ensures and she ends up in a worse situation than when married (old & single with too high a standard, expecting better than what her ex husband provided). Who is deemed parasitic in this case ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:34 AM
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There are many ways that lead to the discovery of the red pill which dont necessarily means they get adopted. Also please define abusive, to me that word has as much value as racist due to its overuse and blatant wrongfull meaning. I say this because people will do harm if they wish to, blue or red be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:21 AM
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If around 50% of your sample states they can come about 50% of the time then the success rate of PIV throughout your whole population is roughly 25%. Sounds pretty close to the initial 20% to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:12 AM
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You can. But in most cases, red pill comes naturally to people who experience hardship and look for an explanation to their failures. While what redpill offers can be debated, the answers it provides does give a satisfying and plausible explanation to ones failures. Blue pill words such as 'lack of chemistry', 'lost the spark' and other plattitudes do not adress the recurring faults in your character because you are fed the lie of 'someday you will find someone who loves you for who you are' whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:03 AM
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Talking about AF/BB pretty much signals that you are aware of the pillosphere and very likely redpill leaning. Then again, i'd argue a women who is aware of red pill is very likely to be jaded and 'damaged goods'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:26 AM
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I agree. Most socially inept women i knew could find dates, but no man wpuld take her seriously and she was always being treated as a quick fuck by the men she was pursuing. You can get away with it all if you are sufficiently hot, but most of the time you choose poorly and end up hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:47 PM
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You mean to say because men watch porn they will no longer try to approach women ? You'd have to be a hardcore addict incapable of leaving your house for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:05 PM
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Black men (and women) are being pushed in positions of prestige for diversity tokens, but i guess since we all know they arent legit they hold no power.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:21 AM
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You think the ones getting easy access to hookups are putting effort in pleasing their partners ? Thats not how it works. Men who use women as a commodity dont take care of them (a large part of the 60%), and those who do (minority of the 40%) tend to enter long term fwb situations with those who provide the best "service" (while still fucking on the side for novelty sake).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:18 AM
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If its not hard then why do women keep complaining about the quality of their hookups ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:00 AM
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Yup, competition is fierce for east asian men. And interestingly enough, i was never met with as much racism and hate than when i was in a relationship with popular western (read white) women. Guess it is a status thing after all...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:55 AM
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Those stats convolute brown men (ie indian) with eastern asia (japan, china, korea etc) so it shouldnt be taken too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:38 AM
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...then masturbate after doing a marathon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:49 AM
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Asian beauty for females is rigid beyond sanity, but male beauty is weird. Both soft looking pretty boy and roughed father figure are appealing. (Then again you could argue young JK [highschool] and sexy MILF milkers are a thing) And ironically Korean pretty boy fever is on the rise everywhere so that kinda messes everything up...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:48 AM
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Where do you live ? Im from France and lived a fair time in Paris close to the asian district (13ème) so it probably had a major influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:29 AM
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From experience, the truly attractive ones are white obsessed with delusions of grandeur regarding living the high life in a western society. Most of them flee to the west once they hit 30, since they are regarded as leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:21 AM
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Ppretty sure the avg height in japan is 160cm so theres that. When i went to SEA i could pull married women and ppl would compliment me on my looks just by virtue of being mixed and tall (182cm). Different game, different rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:11 AM
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Thats actually a fucking good analogy. TRP works, but man are they shit at explaining why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:06 AM
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If every sexual encounter you had was bad then its probably a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:29 PM
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You have it backwards : women attracted / interested in you will latch on any trait you have to hold your attention. If she isnt attracted she wont give a f about your other skills anymore than a man would. If you have no redeeming skills she doesnt have much to work on but you can still score once or twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:00 PM
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When was the last time you heard a feminist come up with a practical solution to a woman's issue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:44 AM
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The special flavour of irony from Tyler Durden telling us gym fitness is intellectual masturbation while rocking a killer bod by lifting weigths just hits differently 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:38 AM
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It seems silly "to you". A tall and imposing imposing black man who will first be percieved as an unintelligent and agressive beast. Is it racist ? Hell yeah it is but we both know we visually judge people based on prejudices. Nonetheless, you seem to recognise much of this "masculine" perception people have of you are uneared qualities you were born with (ethnicity, heigth, voice etc) You could even say you have an excess of this masculine perception, and you naturally came to offset this a bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:40 AM
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Take a shot for the infamous "emotionally abusive" justification bs you find on every top answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:16 AM
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Gen z are 20 something (fuck me, not so long ago they were in nappies) so a lot of them are phazing out of it the same way millenial dont have the time anymore to dedicate so much time to gaming. I guess its more about what you are putting aside time-wise that is relevant rather than the game itself. When you are 30-something playing lost ark since release chances are you're either unemployed or a software developper working from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:09 AM
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Well their point still stands. The amount of women who would see a man playing video games as a good thing are a minority. Couple where both play videogames extensively are actually quite rare (anectodal experience) so i'm inclined to believe there still a stigma around. Plus there's a clear difference between a casual fifa player, a hardcore mmo tryhard, an indi sandbox weirdo (me) and so on. You cannot lump them all in one box.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:40 AM
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Did you read my comment ? I never said women didnt play games, i'm refuting the fact that they play 'as much'. You are biased because you yourself seem to play a fair amount (and good for you) but that doesnt change the fact that in terms of volume of hours played, its not comparable. [Puzzle games such as IB, lieat, Dreaming Mary, or even professor layton arent going to compete with mmo's or moba who're mostly targeted for males]
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:23 AM
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People take issue in that statement the same way they scoff at the gender pay gap : it is inaccurate, oversimplified and holds a heavy (and false) message. When you say 'women play as much' it is demonstrably false. If you added all total hours played from the male side combined against the female, it wouldnt even come close. What you mean to say is that the proportion of men and women who have opened a game is roughly equivalent. And yes, if you account for mobile games (gachas are surprisingly…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:06 AM
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I agree, but poverty is also a factor (which is the whole point of social aid).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:56 AM
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But it begs the question : if a girl doesnt go lesbo to get my attention wouldnt that mean shes not that attracted to me ? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:17 AM
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There seems to be a misconception about what prostitution was "back in the day". By design, sex workers were not meant as an outlet for sexually unsuccessful men. There could be a few cases, but the main "clientele" was that of established men (and in many cases married) who required a service. So by taking on the lower range of men, you are expecting these sex worker to provide not only physical intimacy but also some degree of emotional support and psychological care. This actually ties nicely…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:04 AM
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Errr no. Red pill uses the AF/BB to explain in simpler terms the evasive and inconvincing excuses women throw to justify their choice in relationships. From there, once you get this different perspective (wether it is "truth" or not is debatable) you are free to do whatever you want with that knowledge. If you want to fuck a lot of women, there are A,B,C things you must do. But in all honesty, Red Pill is the first outlet many young men will encounter where they are actually encourage to pursue …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:28 AM
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Seems you cant get enough of me on the other post, i'm flattered ;) And while i dont see how thats relevant to my comment (fuckboys and sluts are wildy different) i'll answer you truthfully. The perception is different. A man getting a used woman is seen as a loser and ridiculed. Nothing worse than telling a married man how you fucked his girl in the most depraved way to really get to him. A woman chasing after a successful man is seen as pitiful. But she isnt blamed for her poor choices publicl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:46 PM
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First and foremost, I never said that "no woman wants a low libido man". What i told him was along the lines of "a woman with a higher libido than you will grow resentful and insecure about being rejected time and time again". Even if you discuss this before, be it man or woman its VERY hard (and sad) to maintain a relationship where your sexual needs arent met. Not IMPOSSIBLE, but very unlikely - which explains the issues around assexuals finding a partner you oh so conveniently ignored. And fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:37 PM
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And are you going to pretend ASS dont widely have any trouble finding suitable partners because you as an individual managed somehow ? Its called survivor bias and sets unrealistic expectations for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:26 PM
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I said this assuming he would be open about it from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:21 PM
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You know the saying "when sex is good its 20% of the relationship, when its bad its 80%." Well seems like it can be applied to finances as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:46 AM
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"Respectable" only holds value within a social circle. In a vacuum, a girl getting ran through has no bearing whatsoever granted she has no std's nor behavioural issues (doubtful but not impossible). The problem comes when you insert your spouse into social settings. A man who commits to the local skank is ridiculed and humiliated, hence will lose "respect" for his poor decision making. A woman has no such social pressure so you are establishing a false equivalence (like any woman who disputes s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:42 AM
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If my type doesnt include sluts, then both are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:34 AM
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Begs to wonder how did she get so high at 18. Was she attached to a restroom stall and used as a human toilet or what ? Holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:30 AM
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"Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." I have no time for people who keep making the same mistakes over and over because in every case they became defensive when i point out how it was a bad idea beforehand. There's a difference between a woman chasing unavailable men and then crying she got hurt like an idiot, and a woman being cheated on after years of solid commitment. I have no sympathy for the first, but the second has my whole support.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:47 AM
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Yes, a 100 times yes. The "woe is me" type is the worst friend to have. I usually drop them after the third time. You can stumble once or twice, but if you get hurt repeatedly by the same thing then its a pattern and your inability to self reflect is a sign of stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:25 AM
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Welcome to modern dating where the rules mean nothing because everyone has their own. You have to figth chaos with chaos mate ; set up your own rules and dont bend them. If a girl doesnt play dont be apologetic and gracefully tell her to F off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:18 AM
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Because thats the same kind of "trap" woman love telling : the one who initiate should pay for the date, knowing full well men are the main initiators as is it expected from them. When you barely know someone, expected them to "trust" your character would be seen as dubious outside of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:04 AM
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Unless you end up with an even lower libido woman, she will hate it, cry and moan about feeling ugly and unwanted because you dont want to fuck her when she demands it. Oh and if her morals are weak you will cheated on. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:32 AM
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Because thats gay. (Seriously spending time with my gay frirnds have given me so much insigth on male beauty its unreal)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:37 PM
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You can indirectly "show interest" about possibly commiting and use plausible deniability when push comes to shove. Two can play that game shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:38 PM
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You mean the same men they chose to be with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:26 PM
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Doing something easy is nothing worth to celebrate. Abusing your advantage for personal gain is what exposes you to disdain and critique. When you discuss woman's promiscuity you put everyone in one basket. The serial monogamist, the depraved college girl slut, the career independant sex snacker, the escort, the east european OF content creator etc... So to go back to your premise. easy to do + morally acceptable = dont care hard to do + morally questionnable = i think anything thats hard to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:32 AM
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I didnt say female social status never changed, i said we never managed to completely equalize the sexual dating market place and I question if this will ever happen because men and women are fundamentally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:14 AM
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I'm disappointed, you just call him chad because he's your first and you dont know better. Well, best of luck i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:11 AM
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Drop the blackpill koolaid, you arent required to be a model to earn respect. Attractive people get a better first impression, but for men its first and foremost about frame, assertiveness etc which beauty can help but isnt vital.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:09 AM
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Yeah no. Modern times only made racism and classism less socially acceptable, but the disdain hasnt died. Slavery is more than just a matter of race (americans tend to think that but it doesnt stand outside of their country) so I wont expand on that. While the analogy with slavery is interesting, there is a fundamental difference : the sexual asymmetry makes them fundamentally more desirable, hence valuable. No amount of social engineering and technological progress has managed to change that, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:39 PM
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When you say that porn is run by men, do you infer that things would be different under female management or that the market is tailored for them hence own all the decision power ? In almost any sexual context (bar a few amazon tribes), women throughout history have always been seen as objects. And to be quite honest i dont see how you could overthrow that. Feminism failed on that account, so I dont hold much hope tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:49 PM
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Its kinda too late now, genie's out of the bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:26 PM
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When engaging in any activity, theres always one party that will be more enthusiastic than the other. Take my favorite board game for example, i've played in hundred of times and am sick of it. But when i introduced it to my brothers they went nuts about it and begged me to play with them ad nauseam. I wasnt feeling it to start with but once in the game they were one of my most cherished moments with them. You wont always be at 100% onboard at the start, but sometimes you just need to heat up be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:55 PM
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After rereading our discussion from the beginning your answers seem slightly different from what i remember, did you edit them ? (The context doesnt change but the precisions are actually welcomed) Seems to me we arent exactly in disagreement so i'll leave it here and say it was a nice exchange. I'll keep it in mind next time i engage into a fwb situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:25 PM
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You clearly didnt read me, so i'll reiterate. A fwb with more focus on the benefits than the friendship is still a fwb. It doesnt fit your idea of a fwb but is valid nonetheless. I did not say anything about a fwb with zero friendship, you did. And on a personal note i prefer to keep "friendish" activities to a minimum, because too often it had led to expectations of changing the relationship towards a more serious tone (if your partner whished to stay fwb you wouldve been in that situation). Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:09 PM
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Its common when you're easily replaced. What did you expect punching above your league ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:56 AM
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Nope, just that the interpretation is different. A fwb where the focus is more on the benefits than the friendship is still a fwb. And you dont get to dictate how a relationship dynamic should operate anymore than a third party would, man or woman. Just as what one would call cheating in a relationship could be seen as normal in another (ex: watching porn) you dont have authority over their relevance because we kinda shattered most social norms in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:43 AM
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Toxic masculinity is only a problem when it comes without the good parts of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:26 AM
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Its not absolute, but that doesnt mean it can't be applied. Because if we only debate on absolutes you will always find outliers to prove your 99% rule. (Not saying 1% of women engage in pure lust fwb no string attached but its certainly not 50% and definitely less than men)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:23 AM
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When you put women in mens shoes it doesnt go the way they it goes. You only see the benefits and none of the bad sides, which is why I cant take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:29 AM
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Be careful what you wish for. If men ignored women they didnt find 'disney beautiful' as you say, those same women would experience exactly the same issues current undesirable men face. Really alice, its time to wake up from wonderland.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:08 AM
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Women take it as an insult, but are very happy to comment on men who build themselves up despite not having the best of genes (short / ugly face). To be fair, guys also tease about overcompensating somewhere but nonetheless there is respect for their discipline and accomplishment. What they dont understand, is that not being sexualized AT ALL has a huge impact on your self worth, and knowing these factors are out of your control just feeds them more into despair. I get that being flooded with se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:55 AM
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Theres an entire sub called r/butterface that counters the idea that face and age are the top factors. The MILF category is top searched in america, not teens. Fitness is very high on the priority list whereas fat ladies with a nice face are viewed with 'potential' or past their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:32 AM
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All this shows is how wildly different women and men view the fwb status. This man was your friend first and foremost, and the benefits really are on the backburner. Would make an interesting discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:11 AM
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Lets be real, men dont forward their intention of casually dating unless the woman does first. Telling a woman you only want her for fun is pretty much saying "i dont care if you walk away" so you have to come from an abundance mentality to afford that. When you think about it, its quite ironic that you would demand straightforwardness but the only guys who would do so dont really "value" you (because they are detached from the outcome), but value themselves. PS : based on your flair, what does …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:54 AM
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Its actually pretty simple. Men are okay with casual sex so long as they believe the woman / women they are getting it from thinks you are the best sex she has. When she starts being more coy about another guy watch them lose their shit. Yes. Even in casual setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:12 AM
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Red pill : YOU are the prize, she should make you happy. Blue pill : HER happiness is YOUR happiness. When you think about it, its not all that contradictory. But you must be prepared to choose, should those statement enter in conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:48 AM
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...are you suggesting that senior housecare will transition to concentration camps ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:27 AM
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Sorry i cant take you seriously if you believe theres anything complex about weigth loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:44 PM
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He didnt say they disappeared, but saying online communities didnt contribute to their reduced state would be dishonest at best. It is a trend and with how work from home evolved it could go down worse (or better if you have already established social outlets)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:55 PM
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Last i checked you didnt need to go to medical school to stay healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:58 PM
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Unless you have a medical condition that prevents your body from exercising or eating correctly then no, its not outside of your control. As for mental health, exercise is actually a freaking good thing to help that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:21 PM
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Wow you couldnt be more wrong. Incel are more black pill oriented since they convince themselves they are helpless due to their looks (and social retardness). Back when TheRedpill had a sub, it had A LOT of jaded men from failed marriages, divorce raped etc hence are not in the 15-25 age bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:23 AM
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You took it backwards. Attractive women did not "earn" their attractiveness. It was given to them by virtue of good genes and is gated by youth. This means all in all that their attractiveness is beyond their control and have no agency over their sexual worth. Note : i dont 100% agree since even attractive people have to maintain their body but its still a huge advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:52 AM
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Theres a difference between making the first step once and being the one who engages most in the relationship. Having a girl so invested in you is cool, but most times it comes from desperation more than love. And no its not the same for guys, as we are expected to pursue (but imo you should be working on yourself and having a hard limit on how much you invest in a girl) so theres that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:01 PM
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Thank you for this obvious rebuttal, but how does that relate to my comment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:54 AM
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When you think about it, isnt men at 182cm (or six shoe holder) about 15% of the USA as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:39 AM
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This is as impractical and ridiculous as when Japan considered imposing a "beauty tax" in attractive people to make lesser ones more financially viable mates. (I see they made a movie about it. Jap never disappoints man) If this were a course on corporate social standing, or integration campus sessions in a rather informal way i would be all for it. Nurturing social skills through organic interactions (introducing oneself, conversations over shared interests etc) would probably benefit a great d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:29 AM
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You missed my point. There's the missing "good" part in the mens portion. I found that detail amusing, as I have indeed experienced 'good sex' with a few partners and believe me you dont get tired of it easily. Take this from a guy who can easily go 6 to a dozen rounds a day if he has free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:13 AM
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I like how you frame it. The more good sex a woman has the more she wants. The more sex a man has the less he wants. Kinda telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:18 AM
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If we are going the historical route, we perceive men and masculinity very differently nowadays. TBH it is more reactionary than trendy, and having women become more accountable has a nice ring to it. But you are rigth we cannot get rid of simping, much like the traditionnal male is still just as desirable (safe for a few outdated opinions that make bad PR). Western society is changing its rules fast, too fast for most imo and it will come to a point where we will either go full circle and back …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:08 AM
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Yeah no. Even old frumpies have golden standards from their youthful adventures, but they add social and financial expectations from age. The older you get, the more confident you become in what you want. But sadly you dont necessarily get more attractive so theres that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:17 AM
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Am french so even if I didnt want to im aware of marcon's love life. That still doesnt translate to how the general population views and accepts age-gap relationship. Macron is under fire for his marriage because its an easy attack on his character (he isnt very popular here for numerous reasons, but still comes ahead against our far rigth party) but if he were not famous people wouldnt give a shit about him boning a grandma. Also, France has a clear legal age of 18 as opposed to the weird ameri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:21 AM
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Where are you located ? I've noticed a certain contempt from asian women in the west towards asian men (even mixed) that i never experienced in SE asia. Its like you get the worst of both world : high salary / career expectations and family approval from trad values and exciting adventurous personality from western trends. Then again even as a 182cm decently attractive half asian, i was only considered as a secret love in SE Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:04 AM
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Why France ? Please dont believe CNN when they say it is a no-go muslim country. Well so long as you avoid Paris and Marseille its actually pretty nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:52 AM
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The OLD bio is writing itself. Rock type pokemon weak to water moves i'll see myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:37 AM
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This is the answer. It all comes down from the male bias to misunderstand what a "good man" actually means. Eg : what is considered 'good' from the male (social integrity, reliability, competence) and female perspective (sexual appeal, ressources, social volatility) within a man are fundamentally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:13 AM
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The classic numbers i guess. +180cm > 15% of men Attractive > 15% of that High income > 15% again The numbers are bullcrap but you get the point. Its more about setting realistic expectations because if you standards are impossibly high, the feeling of "settling" is only going to poison your hypothetical relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:04 AM
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She was perfectly content with just once a day, just so happens that our free time allowed us to indulge in her "greed". Also i can assure you her needs were fully met, as we were just fwb and while she had the choice i would always be first. I needn't elaborate all the details of our sexual encounters, but can nonetheless assure you she was fulfilled. You can buss hard and still want to go at it again, people are just built different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:58 AM
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Thing is, until a man has met a women who facilitates the courtship, the poor fella has no idea how easy its supposed to be. And knows only how hard it can become. Reminds me of a skit from dr nerdlove about men waiting for the 'good moment' to go to women but being totally clueless to their tells. And who can blame them, since we changed the rules so as to not assume friendliness for flirting but are still expected to take the initiative. Dating in 2022 is definitely a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:37 AM
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This isnt an issue specific to women. Most people are supportive of the LGBT on the surface level (to not be labelled a bigot / homophobe) so long that it doesnt affects their personal lives. A boyfriend who took a dick ? Unmanly. A son who takes dick ? Shameful. A brother who likes dick ? We dont talk about it. A daughter who wont produce any offspring ? Unfiltered disappointment. Theres always a level expectation within the family that overrides all these pretentious values of acceptance. TLDR…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:17 AM
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I dont think mass shooting is the only issue here. We are talking about a population of individuals who not only are marginalized by society but arent even recognised as such by the american legal system (because a lot happen to be male and white). Due to their fragile emotional state of rejection, they are a prime target for religous and political extremism, which i dont need to extrapolate on why it can be a problem. While i dont think we should be going out of our way to save them, I still th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:04 AM
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Women think the latter is better, but when they become invisible i believe medication and anti depressants are rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:38 AM
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Unemployed at the time so it was my job indeed. Besides at some point you start to wonder why bother putting clothes on...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:19 PM
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They do. And its about as disingenuous and helpful as telling a homeless man to go find a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:06 PM
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If you do all the work, yes. I had a partner who was so enthusiastic and invested in our sexual activities that her insane appetite (>6 per day) wasnt a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:36 PM
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Straigth men being ok with female bisexuality is only a problem when the reason behind is selfish (eg porn expectation of threesomes centered around their own pleasure). You could argue the woman going off to another girl while in a monogamous relationship isnt respectful of her own relationship, nor the same sex one (since she would commonly rationalize it as 'not really cheating'). I dont think policing what is rigth or wrong between consenting parties is the way forward. So long as you are re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:26 PM
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Assuming their goal is a monogamous relationship, what difference does the man's sexuality make ? I fail to see what a bi man could inherently provide that a straigth couldnt (since things such as political leanings, lgbt stances while influenced etc are NOT sexually motivated).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:38 PM
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To which Oscar Wild would say : "everything is sex, except sex itself". eg. If you break down one's actions to enough scrutiny you could effectively trace it down to a sexualized motive. Its actually hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:46 AM
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Thats some sweet porn script potential ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:11 AM
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But thats precisely the problem. For "just sex" a fwb or casual dating is fine, so long as shes responsible enough to be std-free (at least to me). A relationship entails much more than "just sex" so obviously a woman who is only good for "just sex" isnt eligible for more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:08 AM
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Accountable for letting yourself be treated like a meat toilet. Men dont want to invest and commit to cum dumpsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:43 AM
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Thats just being a crackwhore with no extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:20 AM
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I dont recall saying anything about chasing women. When you enter your 30s with a clear career path, a housing project to build wealth, etc you dont have the time for that. Only a minority of undersirable men are truly hopeless, because a man is 'built'. His confidence comes from his accomplishments, who then attracts women who want a part in the spoils. Looking for a woman to get a meaning in life is pathetic, but to pretend that pussy at some point isnt a part of a successful life is copium ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:10 AM
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All i see is a "woe is me" attitude about your situation. You dont seem to put the effort into understanding why or what is the cause of your predicament. If you happen to give it some thougth one day, let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:01 AM
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But thats pretty much true with many things in life : many candidates but few worthwhile. The problem with dating for a young male is the drougth in candidates, while not having the quality to even it up. Though this becomes less of a hurdle when you start getting established so all i can say is to stay strong ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:45 AM
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And why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:44 AM
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And do you have any dating experience ? Because irl sexual intercourse is very different from anime porn, so you will have unrealistic and totally wrong expectations. Oh and i'm curious as to what genre you look at (i'm guessing its probably age-difference related with an older male [teacher-student] stuff)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:31 AM
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Are you a teenager ? I remember back in the day girls were all about Riku from Kingdom Hearts II while calling the guys potatoes. Fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:22 AM
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Then just find your tall dark haired cosplayer dreamboy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:14 AM
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Black racism being seen as the ultimate hate crime is a result of america's social engineering efforts. You cant exactly apply it on other races or in other countries so blatantly so its really a specific case. Where i am from for example, its quite uncommon for college girls not to see black men as animals (trauma and SA is rampant). And no, i am far from living in a shithole [France]
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:25 PM
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That definition was far from my perception of chad though i see chad as a model-like drugged up loser whos most comfortable in the nigthlife. The qualities i listed previously can be found on anybody with a healthy self esteem. What i wanted to emphasize was traits they did not list who were nonetheless important and voluntarily ommitted as to appear more modest / less superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:19 PM
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I dont agree with everything they say. But the "watch what they do not they say" is hard to disprove.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:57 PM
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Men are expected to be responsible, and honestly once you're becoming established I find that quite comfortable. You have set goals of building skills and wealth, you can (and should) work on your body to stay physically healthy and attractive. You have the agency for choosing a partner, and as a man no amount of shame should lead you to lowering yourself to the level of a jobless & old single mom. (Ive no problem with self sufficient attractive ones, but their standards are usually bonkers) The…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:07 PM
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Its a free world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:57 PM
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They say they want that, then go for a man who definitely will not provide those traits. But he's charismatic, assertive, tall, attractive and socially dominant. Fucking clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:45 PM
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Easy. I just say that I need romance and cant see it work with women over a certain weigth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:41 PM
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To adress the abuse problem, I have no experience on eastern culture but in the west (i am french) most families would actually support victims but they were put in the dark and /or were threatened by possible harm of the children. To be quite honest this goes beyond the scope of the discussion but I would be happy to discuss it further. And so the respond the second point. There is a difference between : Spending some alone time specifically with one of them and excluding the other. Spending ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:26 PM
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So if you are in a relationship then will cut off all contact with men ? I mean, since you view attractive ones sexually that would pose the threat of infidelity. And you yourself described wanted nothing to do with unattractive ones. That would make social interactions quite complicated and restrained to females only outings. I wont even argue how difficult that would be in a professionnal setting. I'm all for having boundries and respecting one another but I honestly would be rather pissed if …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:01 PM
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Doesnt change the social stigma brougth up by being a single mom which is especially rampant in religious communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:27 PM
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Its not just asian women, influential modern culture from asia (china, japan and esp korea) is just built on extreme social proof. This is why money occupies such an important place ; you can buy status (clothes, cars, housing) and attractiveness (plastic surgery is rampant in korea) and to an extent family (family approval is central in asian culture and theres always a money talk). So back to heigth. Asian culture is greatly influenced by western values (skin whiteness, brands, pop culture etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:22 AM
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Can we stop pretending men are "intimidated" by commitment ? Lady, thats just means you're good enough for a fuck but not worth the ring. Nothing to do with fear. Men are not "affraid" of bad trade offers, they're just not interested. And to answer your Q you are free to pursue whoever you want but dont cry if you shoot too high and fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:11 PM
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I always found the sanctitty of marriage a laughable concept. Your husband fucking cheats on you, disregarding completely the commands of the bible and yet expects you to upkeep a pseudo high ground morality bs despite the blatant humiliation you are subjected to ? This goes both ways and i will never understand such hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:37 PM
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I do find the line between porn and erotica quite blurry at times. It does seem like something worthwhile to explore as a sex positive couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:28 PM
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What about a burlesque strip club ? I remember having fond memories of an outting with my ex-gf to a uni freshers week with a stripper event. Believe it or not she saw her art teacher there and had a tchat with her after. Personally i dont mind male stripping since most of them are actually entertaining (very self aware & funny) and i probably wouldnt be compatible with a girl who couldnt see the beauty of the female body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:09 PM
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Its ironic since complaining that the "military measures things men are good at" reinforces the idea that the military is "a man's job". Which isnt wrong per say, the amount of athletic women combat-able are an extreme minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:01 PM
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I dont kink shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:13 PM
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Well their obsession with pale skin and western brands must be purely a collective imagination then. Have you even set foot once in a south eastern country ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:45 AM
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Women are adults that have autonomy and freedom of choice. or Women are children, ergo even if they consent since their choices are bad we should invalidate them. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:01 AM
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Fresh & Fit lost all credibility towards a duo of black dudes and a squeaking floor. If you want to make a point on TheRedPill, wannabe youtubers surfing on a socio trend isnt exactly a good source material. Most youtubers nowadays (with the infamous Andrew Tate, Sneako etc) are more so clown spokesmen targeting a young audience looking for edgyness. They are aiming to profit from male unhappiness and are quite successful in doing so, and that's culty i give you that. RIP Kevin Samuels though, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:58 PM
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Could you elaborate on what you mean a high sex drive ? I've had women claim that and be done in two sessions a day, leading me sorely disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:45 PM
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You hold a good point. How does one measure physical attractiveness ? Even accounting for symmetry, priportions and such, there are cultural tendencies to be wary of. Anyone whos travelled a bit knows thattrends vastly change from one another (asia worships whiteness, scandinavian countries love tanned (but not ethnic) skin and america loves fat cow asses). Same for money. Financial attractiveness is situationnal, 29k€ is not bad inside a small village, but in NY you migth as well be homeless fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:42 PM
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If you pick 1000 randomly selected women and asked to discriminate over various male traits, you would have conclusive evidence that tall men is a desirable in a majority of cases. This would infer that objectively a greater number of women find tallness to be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:35 PM
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Lets not pretend personal experiences arent at the essence of our beliefs. By fucked up i mean serious trust issues within the bounds of a relationship ; Im not an obsessive control freak, quite the opposite actually. Think more the wanting to play it cool type, no strings or serious talk, always ending in fwb situations because i just dont wanna make the jump. If you want examples i could cite a few. I've had a few women travel to meet me while telling their bf / husband they were with friends.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:54 PM
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31M Had a religious upbringing but remained atheist througout (complicated situation) and actually went against most conservative ideals about women, gender etc. In my teenage / twenties i wanted to be a SAHD, was very in touch with my emotions and wanted a partner to take care of me. The pill terminology hit me 4-5 years ago and it did a number on my worldview. I was introduced to casual sex, met married women and single moms which kinda cemented my distaste for commitment but put me on the rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:31 PM
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Gay men arent concerned by traditionnal marriage so I dont see why you would even bother counting. The dating scene on grindr is such that nobody gives a fuck about numbers since most have fucked each others. Ironically gay men have a harder time finding long lasting bonds because of this. But thats not really the point and accounts for kess than 1% of the population so i wouldnt care too much. Seems you've missed the point of Andrew & cie, this is a straight male POV slightly red pill oriented …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:04 PM
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Children doing things togheter reminds me of the disturbing stuff in Brave New World, im not thanking you for bringing me back those cursed memories. Also yes, a woman getting penetrated in any form would count as "having sex". As for a man getting his prostate examined, the sexual nature comes from intent. Or else a woman would have her number increase during childbirth or after every visit to a gynecologist. Besides having his prostate stroked is more akin to masturbation than sexual intercour…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:51 PM
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A victim of sexual assault is still having sex so her count would increment. Hence she would be seen as less desirable, coupled with all the mental trauma that usually comes with such an experience. Figures such as Andrew Tate and religious nutjobs (happens to be a fringe of his audience) revel in the idea of a woman being punished for out of wedlock activities. I dont believe they see much of a difference between casual sex and rape in terms of "devaluating" a womans value. Not that i support a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:26 PM
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Imagine if the increment went up everytime you orgasm. Most would be over 10k from masturbation alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:12 PM
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Funny how nicely split the answers are. Women have an easier time finding partners due to sexual attraction. But female friendship is high on maintenance and investment so they treasure the people who can undergo that. Men on the other hand can bond easily through shared interest and dont require a high upkeep. But a relationship (more crudely just access to sex really) is a social proof that contributes to his state of mind in many ways. I will agree that finding meaningful friendships past 30 …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:41 AM
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Is it too much to not cherry pick what i said when i specifically addressed the babby daddy phenomenon one paragraph above ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:56 PM
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Single motherhood (aside from widows) is the greatest failure a woman can possibly achieve. Its like growing up in a priviledge environment and still managing to fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:32 AM
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I've seen nowhere in the article a before / after comparison of fathers earnings after divorce. The men arent magically unaffected financially by a child, but id wager the hit still puts them ahead of women. All this data suggests is that men on average earn more than women and females who are irresponsable and codependant tend to birth (more) children. Men need to be in a certain financial bracket to be considered elligible as a suitor which explains the financial disparity. Besides living as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:29 AM
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Here's an easy answer. Gay dudes know best what is a physically attractive man. The fact that there are specific labels (otter, bear...) to describe desirable body types that arent shared among such a superficial community is a testament to the complexity of male beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:13 AM
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This doesnt account for socio economics for both genders (a single mother with a career vs a SAHM, a male professionnal is far more likely to have kids than a jobless loser). The only thing the study shows is that kids are a financial burden. Who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:56 AM
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The girls inability to understand she's not worthy of his commitment isnt his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:22 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly so i'll go on a tangent since only agreeing is boring. If your spouse IS a professional therapist then wouldnt you expect him/her to accomodate you better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:02 AM
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The time frame and frequency is important. Having to uplift your partner from time to time (once or twice a month) is not only fine but a perfect opportunity to deepen the relationship. Having to deal with suicidal tendencies on a daily basis will only strain the relationship and chip away ones energy. Much like a job. I dont think people have a problem supporting their partner in a reasonnable way, but most of us are unequipped to handle individuals who require professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:57 AM
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Sadly you will have no answers because your rebuttal hits too close to home. Besides, single mothers definitely push their sons to be self hating doormats while chasing emotionally unavailable men. And its always funny to see my aunt complain about her daughters teen pregnancy. Wonder where that came from hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:25 AM
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Why would they live for it ? They are already suffocating from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:23 AM
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"They constantly complain about everything, even when the problem could be easily solved". Damn i felt that. It comes to a point where you just pretend to listen because she just wants attention, not solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:58 AM
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Doesnt the UK have a welfare system for large families ? In France a family of 3 kids on RSA (french welfare assistance) lives better than a couple working average jobs (30k€ a year) due to all the social programs. And if the kids arent too dumb they can go to college for free (thats how i got my CS master). Ps : I'll always remember the face of my friends in Brighton at UoB during my exchange program when i told them i paid 5€ for the Bsc course.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:53 AM
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I fail to see the problen here. You can fantasize all you like, it doesnt affect anyone other than yourself. The dude never acted on those, meaning he could separate his desires from reality. And his comment was more a roundabout (and clumsy) way of telling you he found you attractive the moment you met.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:13 AM
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I fail to see the difference with women inserting bananas in themselves. Yet it is deemed hot and sexy when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:07 AM
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Funny thing is, those who are violent wont care, and those with empathy will become even less confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:37 AM
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You completely miss the point. It was never about attracting every woman on earth (there are some who find henry cavill unatractive) but having a "niche" you will thrive on. Its about NOT attracting even a single woman, which is the experience of an increasing number of young men. And to explain your question, women just have stupid standards based on emotions, social pressure and because the bar is set so low for them they are burdened by choice and invent stupid rules to lesser the number of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:57 AM
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You can be aware of AFBB and find nothing wrong with it. I would argue that to be hardcore blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:01 AM
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Huh interesting, i'll keep that in mind. This advice might come in useful for my bisexual fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:52 PM
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Pretty sur the user was refering to the red pill movie, e.g a hardcore feminist who tackled mens issues and ended up being a public enemy for exposing misandry.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/22 02:09 PM
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Reminds of a friend who struggled in the dating scene because she looked "too straight". Which im guessing would be due to her being conventionally attractive, natural hair, no visible tats nor piercings. Is that even a thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:45 AM
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If by "using" you refer to deceitful methods such as lies, coercion etc then maybe (though aggressivity is known to be an attractive trait). Also what do you mean by "high value female" ? A woman valued highly by her peers or a woman valued by men ? Both sexes have very different viewpoints so their "value" obviously differs. Eg a HVF from like fds will look nothing like the good old HB10 from trp. Same thing can be said about a man, which is my the new pseudo "high value" lingo should die. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:32 AM
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High value != respectable. Men who can extract sex from women without commitment are in fact valuable enough in some ways to not offer a counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:11 AM
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Then why was a father arrested and trialed for misgendering its child ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:23 AM
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Honestly at that point why even bother having a wife ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:40 PM
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Some african tribes are an exception, sexualizing legs far more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:26 AM
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It could also be because i've heard women refer to their gf as a "snack" then asking for the "main course" somewhere else. On a more serious note, i've had multiple bi friends confirm straight and gay intercourse to be so inherently differently you cannot (and should not) compare. If you are one to enjoy both, i wouldnt want to restrain my partner in this endavour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:49 AM
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Western culture sexualises breasts so his point still stands. I would assume any woman wandering in public with her breasts out to be an exhibitionnist. Also attractive women are depicted as a desirable commodity in media and social avenues (bars, clubs...) so I guess that would explain the sexual normalisation. On a side note, Hollywood seems to be pushing for male athlete nudity so there my be a gender balance in a few decades. Finally i'd like to emphasize on the attractive part, fat (over 25…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:39 AM
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Chad meme is a male fantasy made to embody peak masculinity in a humorous and grotesque way ; muscles that big represent effort, commitment, perseverance and discipline will are all traits respected in a man. Next you're going to tell Arnold Shwarzy or Kratos from God of War were not popular among the ladies...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:22 AM
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Agree. Best way to get a girl is when you don't need one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:17 AM
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When does ED happen ? I've been a masturbator for 27 years consuming porn 3x a day and have yet to encounter any problem. GF has no qualms as she gets plenty enough when we see each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:14 AM
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Sounds about right for OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:17 AM
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There should be a notice on the side bar to explain this but... When men say "woman do x" in the context of dating they are referreing to young attractive females who respond positively to this. Its not 100% but its not 0% either. This means that in the case of the chadfish experiment, the fake account did have women swipibg left for whathever reason and/or declining his "want sum fuk ?" but they are by irrelevant since a significant portion of females did respond positively. They did, no matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:34 PM
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Is it really baseless though ? The stigma towards single motherhood is much harsher than fatherhood. It might not manifest overtly in liberal cercles but lets not pretend it does not exists. Im not saying single moms who were sahm are so useless they dont date or marry again but they certainly arent swept with attractives prospects either. I agree with your last two points but thats not what i am about. My point was that if you marry a partner of equal financial status and once the baby is born …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:19 PM
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I never said countries were not prospering, only that the middle class would disappear. This means higher disparity and a majority of the population worse off than before. Take south american countries for example, brazil and argentina have high gpd and the upper class lives well but that doesnt change the fact that its a shithole for non rich people. People will adapt yes but then again people will adapt under any regime, doesnt mean the regime is good. Never talked about the US specifically (i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:57 PM
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If after 20 years of marriage you are unable to live independendly then society as a whole will consider that yes. Why is it that single moms are frowned upon compared to men ? I dont believe it is JUST sexism at play since career women have options (they are just comically picky). Entering the job market after a twenty year gap isnt even funny. We shifted from a single household income to dual income, so such a choice should not be encouraged full stop. I am against childcare as a primary profe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:40 PM
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If after 20 years of marriage you are unable to live independendly then society as a whole will consider that yes. Why is it that single moms are frowned upon compared to men ? I dont believe it is JUST sexism at play since career women have options (they are just comically picky). Entering the job market after a twenty year gap isnt even funny. We shifted from a single household income to dual income, so such a choice should not be encouraged full stop. I am against childcare as a primary profe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:39 PM
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That does not adress my question. Families already in this situation (not just single mothers) will resort to crime in order to survive which will directly impact middle class (those who cant afford to live in neighborhoods with skyrocketing orices). I'm no economist but something tells me that a country with no middle class citizen is not one you immigrate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:22 PM
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Women in the 1900 couldnt work so you're talking bs big time. This is about treating women like adults and not children who avoid the consequences of their acts by 'changing their minds'. I would leave my ex wife destitute if she decided to slob all day and decide not to earn her share. Raising a child is a responsability that should not substitute to a job, since she forgoes the hard earned independance women fought for in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:05 PM
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So that you get more crime from poverty ? I dont think we need even more financial disparity than we already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:59 PM
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Are we living in 2022 or the 1900s ? In modern couples i would expect both parties to work and contribute equally to the household. If the woman is underachieving despite all the affirmative action going on i have no sympathy for their situation. Your personal choices (and preferences due to outdated ethics) should not be used as guidelines for legal battles. She chose to forgo her career path for child rearing in a world that embraced the double income lifestyle. Once our contract is void that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:55 PM
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He does make a case that intention is hard to prove (premeditated or not). I like the analogy with drunk driving, one should not evade responsability because they chose to be inebriated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:45 PM
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Not the person you answered but i'd like to highlight one thing : marriage is the only contract you can breach for no fault and still reap considerable benefits. This here is the main issue and i believe no man would oppose a divorce with no (or fair) financial repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:40 PM
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So if a man is responsable for an abortion he's a chad ? Puh-lease. We dont need extra babies from broken homes sucking on welfare anymore than we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:30 PM
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Yes. The proof is called chadfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:26 PM
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I though fuckboy was a compliment. You mean to tell me being sexualised as a male constitues an insult ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:29 AM
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And how would you know ? How many women have you bedded to make this bold claim ? My experience sample is quite low (27) but i can assure you not one of them where the same. And even the same woman sometimes required a different approach to get her to climax, so really you are full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:08 PM
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Its simple really. Women have this weird idea that physically attractive guys should love them for their personnality alone. Thats called being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:39 PM
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A woman would probably try to get on with him, since if they are only two of them no one would help her should he assault her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:59 PM
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Women don't feel comfortable doing anything because they are used to everyone catering to their needs. Strangely enough once you stop bending to them they start being far more invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:58 AM
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Thats because 9 times out 10 it is used as an excuse to avoid saying no directly. Then you her throwing herself at another guy a few days / months later. Watch and learn shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:41 AM
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Racism is a far more complex issue than the dichotomy racism = bad younger folks spew out of moralistic contempt. After all, not all discrimination is condemned equally - this in itself is quite discriminatory. So even the so called anti-racist are by definition far more racist in their view of 'protected class'. As you grow up and gain life experience, you pick up on patterns and cues to identify and judge more accurately people. Its a necessary skill for sales, security, hr and so on. A securi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:24 AM
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One is a result of life choices, another is a fact brought upon by birth. Judging someone based on your past is basic adulting, BUT the conclusions you take can be an issue. If you judge someone with a wild partying life as incompatible FOR YOU then thats fine. If you judge her to be unfit for child rearing full stop and live on the streets or in a trailer thats another story. Same about race. You go into a bad neighborhood and avoid contact with the POC locals. Is it racism ? Kinda yeah, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:45 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:34 AM
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How will signing papers before she does change anything ? If you work and she doesnt i have a hard time believing you wouldnt get shafted. Couple couseling is useless if one party doesnt make the effort. Great, you dont agree having a slob as a wife what are you gonna do ? If she's a little smart she can call the fucking police and accuse you of abuse if you so much as raise your voice. You can do everything right and its frightenly easy to get fucked. I saw my own father get dragged to the poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:56 PM
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At that point why even bother marrying. The way I see it, binding us togheter 50/50 in a joint investment (home, business...) would actually make more sense than a marriage. It would also make a separation smoother (i would have no problem giving back 50% of a company she invested half in, since she also also shouldered the risk).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:39 PM
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Which is luck based, so irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:27 PM
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And due to the income disparity you end up paying child support and she mooches off you. Game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:27 PM
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Look at me, I am the stay at home parent now !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:25 PM
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Bold of you to assume male 10's are straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:12 PM
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TRP advocates casual sex as a benchmark for self worth, ergo being sexualized as a male. It was never really the end goal (or at the very least back when sub TheRedPill was still a thing). Once you get it, there's no real meaning in pursuing it. You should have others goals by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:09 PM
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Okay, say you get partnered with a self sufficient women. You marry, then you have a kid or two. She goes on maternity leave, then decides she doesnt want to work anymore. A few years later, divorce papers for whatever reasons. Her earnings : zero bc SAHM. What could you have done to avoid this ? I mean other than being lucky and / or foresighting the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:56 PM
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I'll always remember the change in behavior from peeps when you go from fat & short to tall and thin (growth spurt). Ever since i despise people that talk about internal beauty as an ethical badge yet have attractive partners. Fucking hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:50 AM
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Eating pussy is quite another matter since many women dont let their partner do that, even in committed relationship. Dont ask me why, they can find a million reasons to sabotage themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:29 PM
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Reminds me of a tinder hookup who didnt know a man could fuck her doggy and rub her clit at the same time. Kinda sad when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:28 PM
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I kindly disagree. The poetry is on WAATGM, not trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:20 PM
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Asian men look significantly younger / better than the white default male ( i myself am 31 but people assume im still in college). So its not a fair comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:55 AM
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The r/AmITheAsshole sub is known for fake story making, no one takes the stories there seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:52 AM
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Its called post nut clarity. The dude just realized he was thinking with his dick and decided she wasnt worth it beyond a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:48 AM
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To be fair in Japans case, women's hypergamous nature is definetly NOT the primary cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:24 PM
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I find it quite sad though that it has to be an either or situation (sex crazed gold digger bitch OR a deadfish submissive flower girl). Theres value in both teachings and (as a westerner) i cant see myself commiting to someone who hasnt a bit of both (assertive but not bitchy, sexually open but loyal etc...).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:20 PM
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I remember a documentary about this, following a "housewife" course where you would learn to move with your shoulders during a bj to lessen your fatigue and get better results. (Now that i think about it, might not be russia but Lituania or Estonia, but il pretty sure most eastern countries have similar issues regarding prostitution and human trafficking)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:08 PM
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Fun fact : the period i was consuming porn the most was when in a relationship with a hyper sexual person. It wasnt from a place of need but constant stimulation just made me that horny. Best years of my life might i add. And she looks back on them fondly too (although we arent togheter anymore due to me being an exchange student at the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:06 AM
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Okay for some, for others not so much. I wouldnt stand a woman dictating what I can / can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:41 AM
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Give an inch, they take an arm. The days of discussion where non-hetero normative people were asking for simple rights to live as normal people are long gone. Now its a parade of exentric deviancy protected by the PC language that continuously pushes for priviledges rather than integrate. Also do note this isnt just a phenomena in the US, and even in my country (France) the rise of extremist rightwing at over 30% is a fact that would be unheard of decades ago. This strategy of painting anyone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:31 AM
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On a side note women are just as bad, and we generally assume that one who doesnt is more often than not a professional. I remember discussing it with a bi guy (clearly more gay) about how incompetent women were at blowing him compared to guys. But you know, since bad bj is better than no bj they all think they rock shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:56 PM
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If they're the equivalent, whats stopping you from visiting the joytoys and shutting the fuck up about it ? There will always be asymmetries when comparing male vs female lives, i dont get how you cant just play around them and get what you want ? As a man, if you want sexual liberation become as attractive as possible (read physical fitness, money and connections) then start making amateur stuff with your gf or social media wannabees and start the legal prostitution. If i ever get married, i ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:24 PM
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Maybe, but from a male perspective the idea of commiting to a woman who longs after her slutty days isnt exactly enticing...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/21 02:26 PM
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Men are flaky as hell. F-bois are flaky, most arent unless you are ugly. And yeah it is a bargaining chip. So long as the subtext is "if you want sex from me do x and y" its manipulation. Nothing inherantly wrong with it, men do the same about commitment but pretending otherwise pisses people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:09 PM
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Because women are flaky as hell and investing time and money (dinner & conversations) for extended periods of time is just a bad idea. They can bail at any time, and you're not getting anything valuable out of it. Also, sex should be a mutual enjoyable experience so using it as a bargaining chip to manipulate a man profoundly disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:57 AM
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Just as doing some gesture to a woman you are intimate with is now labelled as simping, its annoying how those terms are injected into the mainstream and incorrectly used.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:26 AM
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By that logic why do we find skinnier people more attractive than fat people. I would have thought that being fat and therefore have more access to resources, would be more attractive Drawing a line would be arbitrary and just faulty because oversimplifying complex issues never ends well. On to the second point, im assuming you refer to concepts such as briffault's law where the female dictates the terms of a partnership. While it did transcend a few civilisations, the applications of such behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:50 AM
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You do realize a big part of your biological growth is your environment right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:18 AM
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By that logic why do we find skinnier people more attractive than fat people. I would have thought that being fat and therefore have more access to resources, would be more attractive During medival times this was the case. Now being skinny (not skin and bones skinny but thin with a nice figure) is a sign of wealth due to diet, exercize and a limited stress life. This is more cultural than evolutionnary but then you could argue than evolutionnary is just caveman culture shrugs (damn that would m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:11 AM
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Had a women reject a model for me on tinder and kept going on about it as if it were some huge favor. Honestly it wa more annoying than ego boosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:15 AM
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Lowering inhibition does not mean getting violent Thats not what i said. Like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:36 AM
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Alcohol lowers inhibition. I remember being an aggressive drunk back when i had high stress and a manipulative ex. Ever since though its been happy go lucky. So theres that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:23 AM
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I believe the black pill is more team man than TRP. But it did raise awareness about how brutal and judgemental people can be towards physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:20 PM
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She thinks sexual attraction equals physical attraction because... thats how men operate and since women are equals to men so it should work that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:45 AM
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You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:03 PM
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You mean the fingers ? Pretty sure any woman who isnt obese should have slim hands. It takes a paticular kind of morbidity to have fat run into your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:51 AM
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Oh i see. The problem is in the order. Most people take the blue pill then the red and end bitter. But youre supposed to take the red before the blue. Maaan who knew...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:27 AM
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Which is a thing of the past. Or at the very least should be (there are still idiotic women who go in and stay in physically abusive marriages, can't say I have much sympathy when everything is done to help them with their mistakes). I don't find the old masculinity very appealing tbh. Had a father figure like that, incapable of admitting he was wrong, unable to listen to another opinion, incredibly religious and had his wife on a leash. It's probably appealing to ther lower educated but the hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:01 PM
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Having a numerical value for each gender has little value in itself. There's a portion of men who cheat, and the majority I'd wager being those with options and temptations. On the woman's side, from personnal experience cheating can come from two places : a lack of self esteem and a thirst for male validation. Low education is often tied within it. absence of respect for their partner due to their high achievements. If I had to guess to guess, less men as individuals cheat but cheat a lot while…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:27 PM
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Long term isn't my game (or perhaps late thirties) so I could care less honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:16 PM
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Easy, the reason will be because she find him attractive. Heck, if you play your cards right you may even make them do some amateur porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:48 PM
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Read again, I did just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:25 AM
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Doesn't it bother you that the McDonald's steak was from cattle grown over the Amazonian deforestation ? Doesn't it bother you that your phone, clothes and basic necessities are mostly produced in countries with no child labor regulations ? And to answer your question no, it doesn't. I'm more bothered by hypocrites with no self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:28 AM
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It's the apex fallacy. Top 1% men are better than women therefore men are oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:30 AM
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Unattractive and old women don't exist in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:58 AM
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My guess is... America.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:49 AM
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That's because the women who put themselves out don't deal with rejection well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:23 PM
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Err yeah there are creeps on the internet, who knew. Big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:21 PM
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It's a fact that the most visible women in geek cultures are Caucasian & Asian though, so it seems rather objective to me. I already explained that it was due to the underrepresentation of coloured female characters in the medium (unsurprising since Japan is rather ethnically homogenous compared to the us) and until they favor an international market I doubt this will change. Nothing to do with racism, it's just audience profiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:14 PM
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I disagree. Men have an intrinsic desire to be sexualised, and getting lusted on by their partner makes for a very strong foundation. It's not unrealistic to want the woman you will invest into to want you physically. If you take good care of your body and have a good dose of self respect you will eventually encounter someone who will satisfy this. As a man, time is on your side hence there is no reason to chase the damn woman. You should have better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:00 PM
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....how is that relevant to the discrepancy in cosplay between causasian / asian versus other ethnicities ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:46 PM
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Err. You do know girls can get visually aroused by a huge d (fictional or not) and still find it impractical or even unwanted for actual intercourse right ? It's the same as how huge knockers are a great show but I just find them too distracting in everyday life and it gets annoying for your gf to garner so much attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:37 PM
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Never said there wasn't. If you go out and meet people, enven on OLD it's only the gullible hot ones who try that. and if you pursue them well that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:13 AM
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It's not a turn off. Or at the very least, her having a career or money most definitely isn't the issue. It's just that those attributes aren't valued as much to men versus emotional intelligence, physical attraction or youth. If a career woman was also pleasant, communicative, understanding and encouraging towards her partner I daresay no man would write her off because she was an independant woman. Also pleasing to the eye. Thing is, those modern women are so combative it's unrewarding to work…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:45 PM
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It's just a female romanticised fantasy. Back in the day, the usual trope was to go on an adventure with the exciting guy but go back to the stable one at the end (Boy Toy, Vicky Barcelona if I were to name a few...) I'm not educated enough on the genre to tell if there was a shift towards ditching the stable guy or not, but honestly I don't really care. In the same veine that most men have no problem seeing porn as fiction, those romcom aren't taken seriously by most women as well. And those wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:31 PM
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An observation based on race isn't necessarily racist. All he did was notice black girls didn't garner as much attention in geek circles, especially cosplays (aside from the occasional Korra or Nessa) which is pretty much expected since most characters in anime are depected as European and /or Asian. Same can be said about the male counterparts ; I happen to be half Asian half European and even the asexual ones like my aesthetics. You can't blame preferences c'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:43 PM
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A valid concern though is the fact that a drastic change in money income can leave someone from a modest income quite clueless as how to manage it. It's not unheard of lottery winners spending all that money in a matter of months / a few years. Or inheritance being blown just as quick. There's little way of knowing if a poor person will succumb to greed once it has access to money. Especially money that they did not earn themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:40 AM
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there's no need for a dating app when you work with the public Gender imbalance in STEM 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:35 AM
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Trust Me, the young folk of today would blush if confronted by the Roman orgies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:49 AM
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SE Asia has a whole different dynamic though. Cost of life there is so high both parents are expected to work, leaving no time for taking care of the children. But thanks to strong family values most households include the grandparents for baby sitting and early education. We call it the "generational gap" where grandparents take care of the house while the parents work. Way too different versus the western values for any comparison to be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:20 PM
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But those two group struggle to date for VERY different reasons. Female struggles in the SMP are self inflicted while the male counterpart is more about social pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:10 PM
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What's your age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:34 PM
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Reversing the roles does NOT work in sexuality since men and women are biologically different. And to dispute your point, men are more worried about the taste of their cum especially in relationships where it happens that she swallows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:39 AM
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When bad sex equals low effort I agree. My point is that sometimes, despite your partner putting in substantial effort... Some women just didnt orgasm. I have no idea of the figures but it happened to me (my partner's were at a loss and we just hashed it up to incompatibilities) so I'm assuming it happens to others. And in that case, do you still treat it as bad sex and brush him off ? I was casual back then so I didn't think too hard about it, but in a serious relationship that would be hard. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:53 PM
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Men can’t be surprised women aren’t enthusiastic about sex all the time if they can’t ensure she will orgasm. And that's fair. I actually agree with you on that account ; if he puts in no effort into making it pleasurable for you then there should be no deal. But here's the thing ; you seem to equate bad sex to low effort and or miscommunication. And while this can be true oftenwise, there are cases where despite being careful and attentive... Your partner just doesn't manage to get off. It's sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:29 PM
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You seem quite demanding. I just hope you give out just as much as you ask for. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:01 PM
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What exactly do you mean by 'terrible at sex' ? Is it a lack of preliminaries (unsure if that's the word in English) ? Too quick ? Too long ? Too small ?... The meme about not knowing the clit is getting old, even as a virgin I knew about it. And among my friends we did talk quite a bit, mostly about how satisfying it was to give pleasure to your partner. Nonetheless I did have my fair share of terrible. I had a woman who was just a bad fit because if I wasn't at a perfect 45° angle it wasn't pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:46 PM
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I mostly agree with your point, safe for this part. There's less risky ways to find out if the dude is smart, willing to please, and good at listening. This usually carries over to the bedroom, so no need to rush. While this is purely anecdotal experience, the women and men who really seemed eager to please their partners were mostly... Very fond of sex. And by fond I mean bordering nymphomanic tendencies (horny h24). That was the common factor. While kindness and thoughtfulness was also there, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:22 PM
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What's so different about teaching a partner what you enjoy in bed versus what you like on your plate ? This goes both ways, and as an example I've met a few women eager to learn about orally pleasing me. If the communication and the willingness is there, I fail to see the problem. You're just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:55 PM
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That's odd. I've managed to get back into it seconds after an orgasm (granted it was quite rare), just as some women couldn't bare being touched after a good session. Then again I can go on for 7-8 times with a few minutes of recovery time so I'm not in the majority (and no I'm not just talking about wanking).
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/21 03:48 PM
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An insatiable woman is both a curse and a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:27 PM
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Because only a minority of men are sexualised enough to feel like objects. For a man, being objectified is (one among many) metrics of modern success. Sexy men get a very different treatment relationship wise, and more often than not the accessibility to sex can roughly translate to how physically attracted a woman is towards you. I don't think men as a whole are ignoring the other parts, it's just that most of them (us?) didn't realise until recently how game changing physical attraction was in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:49 PM
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Mature cheese is just a subset of cheese ; it's an acquired taste but exceedingly rare in the grand scheme of cheese variety. While cheese may age well, very few do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:52 AM
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True but mature cheese is just a subset of cheese ; it's an acquired taste but exceedingly rare in the grand scheme of cheese variety. While cheese may age well, very few do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:52 AM
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True but mature cheese is just a subset of cheese ; it's an acquired taste but exceedingly rare in the grand scheme of cheese variety. While cheese may well, very few do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:52 AM
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I was addressing your premise of "men your age look like shit", not the evidence that a healthy lifestyle slows the aging process. You complain about men in your age range looking old, whereas I see women hitting thirties hard. It's stupid since it's not a monolith, and you only notice them because you look in places to find what you are expecting to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:24 PM
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This is confirmation bias at its finest. I'm 29 and my gf 21 yet most think she's the older one. Besides women my age and 30-35 look like they could be my aunt it's gross. So yeah, confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:24 PM
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No. What I assume he tries to say is that during his formating years (teens) he was bombarded by the anti male message e.g women give up sex to please and keep their man as their duty. I used to think like that and really hated sex and myself for having those urges. Many believed I was assexual when truly not (my libido is unreal) but after a few years of failed relationships I finally stopped putting women on a pedestal and make them an after thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:06 AM
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You give women too much credit. I've lost count of the women I explicitly told there was no serious business, caught the feelings and got burned in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:09 PM
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I would argue that if you estimate your marriage to be a gamble due to your lack of observation skills then you aren't half an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:36 PM
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If you only get hit up by single fathers, you either live in a non student city or physically you give off more than your real age. That's a you problem more than anything really. Only advice I can give you is to take care of yourself, be healthy, active socially and physically and so on. I'm 29 going 30 but no one gives me more than 24 and any women over 25 is written off as too much work. Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:30 AM
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I don't understand. In your post you yourself admit to getting hit on by single fathers, so how is that being written off ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:16 AM
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Not really, only broken women with aggravated trauma or questionnable education are that sex negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:53 AM
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Asexual women can and do find the male body attractive. They're just not sexually aroused by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:58 AM
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I would argue carnivorous plant attract their prey with a sweet scent before catching bugs unaware. Seems pretty fitting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:57 PM
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Man if 20+ is high i was out of the game by 24. Besides, high count men don't have any problems attracting women (fwb and dates) who wish they would commit so I've got a hard time figuring out what's the issue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:25 PM
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The easy solution for her is to befriend the gay. My bisexual friend actually taught me quite a bit on erogenous spots and whatnot I didn't even know about the male body and what a girl should do in a fellatio. Only problem is telling a woman she sucks sucking. You best bet is to tell her before you get intimate what turns you on and pray she was paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 06:11 AM
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This is stupid. Porn is a great way to discover things you want to try out and explore possible kinks. Unless you are completely retarded you learn from an early age that porn is fiction, as much as movies aren't real life. As far as I remember in my social circles, pleasing a woman right was always the primary concern regarding sex and now I'm even meeting woman who enjoy porn like situations (submission, bondage, outdoor, role play...) Being honest about your wants is important if you want you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:07 AM
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Just to point it out, but video games, comics, manga and the like used to be traditionally masculine. When compared to their 80's early 90's counterpart there's a notable shift in the audience target. Protagonists went from hyper masculine men (Houtoko no Ken, Berserk, Bastard!...) to more androgynous femboys (most shonen post 2000) because editors noticed an influx in female readers and steered to a more ambiguous character for sales. Comics made a similar approach in injecting more and more sj…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:56 AM
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One mistake doesn't define your character. But expect to be judged if people can observe a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:51 PM
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Reminds me of my college ex... Was her first experience and she turned out to be rather good in every way (didn't work out due to me being an exchange program with the distance). All I can say is that you are perhaps looking too hard instead of letting things unfold. It's good that you are level headed enough to know what you want but your screening is imo far too rigid and you'll invariably miss out on many things (not exclusively relationships)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:58 AM
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You have bars open ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 10:22 AM
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According to Oscar... Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:04 AM
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Being both half asian and half european (UK) I've had pretty much the same experience. Asian standards gravitate towards fair skin colour (historically a symbol of status and wealth since only poor farmers were tanned, now it's more of a culture complex as to appear 'white' which also explains the excess of branding, Christianity and so on...). Back in europe (france in my case) while it could be said that I'm unconventionally attractive there's a fetish for western asian people due to Japanese …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:56 PM
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That's because you'd rather spend hundreds of euros on makeup and clothes than run a few kilometers a day and burn that fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:14 PM
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I don't subscribe to the evo-psych shills, I'm basing this on my observation from dating tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:03 PM
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I would argue the dating hurdles for tall women stem from their preferences for a taller man. So while they do struggle, it's quite unsurprising to not expect scarcity when only a fraction of eligible men are considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:31 PM
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This definition of promiscuity is just a labelling to suggest that adventurous people have no standards and really isn't worth discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:38 PM
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Well the answer to this is pretty self explanatory. Whenever a woman does not find a man who satisfies her fancy (read the 10-20%) she would rather stay single than engage with a lesser man. It's not that 10-20% buy all the selling sex, but that minority is actually selling and the woman are mostly buying from them. It's pretty common knowledge that top 10-20% men have it reversed in the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:06 AM
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The apex fallacy gets old real fast. And once you get the fact that most complaints just lack nuance and could be legitimate IF they did not group the other gender as a whole things become so much clearer. It's not 'men' as a whole but 'men who are above me professionally, financially and physically'. It's not 'women' as a whole but 'women who are above me socially and esthetically'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:28 AM
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Part of being an adult is recognising patterns to more or less predict future outcomes. That being said race and culture differ fundamentally since a race is what one is born with and a culture is what brought you up to who you are. This distinction is especially prevalent for second generation immigrants who have little contact with their ancestry (my case being of Asian ancestry but lived my whole life in France). You can hate the culture, but let's not fool ourselves since you identify it by …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:27 AM
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Social support system aims to pragmatically address that to diminish multi-generational poverty. How so ? I'm interested. My take on social welfare has always been a bandaid to avoid low income families resorting to crime in order to afford the increasing costs of living. It also encourages big families in the hopes of evening out low birthrates usually seen in développer countries. Disclaimer - am french and talking about a system where a couple of engineers (35k euro before tax each) and one c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 09:16 PM
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"I look at him for more than three seconds and if doesn't come to me I assume we wasn't interested." x 10
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 10:23 AM
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Well when you cry wolf...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 09:02 AM
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Thing is whenever a woman will cite the reasons for divorce it's going to be abuse or infidelity since that's the acceptable standard. So unsurprisingly people are going to doubt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:41 AM
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Since when does society care about unsuccessful men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:53 PM
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That's easy to explain, Sharia law was instaured as a means to shape the SMP into a structured patriarchal society. Same can be said of any conservative culture where marriage was the business of the family's head btw. Rape is a matter of sexlessness and opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:15 PM
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Then why would a woman go on a boat if that's the expected outcome ? LoL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:40 AM
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Female beauty isn't so rigid, and I could list several others with just as attractive faces (Monica Bellucci, Cameron Diaz, Panward Hemmanee...) who were absolutely stunning in their prime. But yeah Sofia just doesn't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:55 PM
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The face is really stiff, possibly from too much surgery. A better example would be Liv Tyle or Janet Montgomery who just look plain better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:20 AM
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Not really. They seek action, attractiveness is just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 10:55 AM
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Note that this is applicable regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:24 PM
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Because you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:06 PM
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To be fair, out of all demographics European women aged 18-26 are usually the demographic most attracted to Asian men. At least in my experience (half Chinese Brit living in France) Black girls were insufferably racist and Arabs didn't want to be seen with an Asian dude. Asian women on the other hand were a weird bunch, always physically receptive but never considering you unless you had the bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:52 AM
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Race can be a problem, white worshipping in Asia is real. All the craziness for mix asians is just a by-product of this fantasy. But then again, it's not like black people realize racism goes beyond the scope their black vs white mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:58 AM
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Funny story, I used to enjoy kissing women but then tried it with a man and made me realise how lazy and uninspired they are at it. I'm straight so didn't try but my bi friends tell me it's the same for BJ's as well. So I guess I kind of understand the mindset that women aren't much sexually outside their wet hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:13 PM
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Almost got beaten by their boyfriend hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:57 PM
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Redheads are crazy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:45 PM
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https://www.businessofapps.com/data/netflix-statistics/ 57% users on Netflix are female. Also 50% are in between 20-29 which does align with most trendy show genre (ROM com, drama, teenagers...)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:42 PM
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That's bull, momen are the highest demography of TV shows and a not so negligeable clientele for movies. Your statement only works for male pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:11 PM
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More and more enjoy anal, seems pretty faggoty to me. On a more serious note, with the gym membership explosion and Hollywood's new standard for male actors I'm inclined to believe there's some realisation about male Eros that just wasn't as explicit before. Gone by are the days where simply having a stable high paying job would net you a doting wife. And I honestly think it's a good thing as it should lead to better sexual chemistry in new partnerships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:50 PM
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While this is true, sexualising men in a similar manner to how women are depicted would lead to an easier dating life for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:29 PM
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Because a man's smv isn't entirely tied to his physique ? You were the one linking us the 1-10 diagram of women's smv and emphasizing that male smv couldn't be measured that way. Also at similar attractiveness female desirability > male desirability until top 20% where it flips over due to how we value both sexes. (Henry Cavil is probably more popular among women and men than say a generic model with a similar sexual appeal)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:15 PM
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Well a fit ugly boring bitch kinda is the looksmatch of a boring fit dude. We both know they don't have the same smv tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:32 PM
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Perks of being a guy includes doing just that and staying thin as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 03:24 PM
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This post, while entertaining to read, overly focuses on the effects of red pill, disregarding the state of mind of individuals leaning to such ideology. Your premise would work perfectly if healthy minds and socially well adjusted youth suddenly turned red to exhibit a more pessimistic worldview (i'll address the criminal and aggressive behavior further on) That's simply not the case, and your take on the anger phase as a perpetual expression of red pill dogma betrays your superficial outlook o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 08:31 AM
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How to trigger half the internet 101 lol People are free to engage whoever they want, its not their job to filter themselves out, its borderline ridiculous and really shows your immaturity. And now that you've described yourself all i can think off is a certain blonde wearing a "stop being poor" T-shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:51 PM
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Shit. I'd better not tell anyone that im broaching the thirties !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:35 PM
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Assuming both were attracted to me, i'd go for both and enjoy their strong points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:52 AM
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13% bodyfat here, 182cm (or 6 american feet) and 75kg (more or less 150 murican pounds). Im not even doing any sports and junk eating 5 times a week... how do you guys get fat ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:55 PM
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I did, helped the woman through all stages of abortion (yeah it was mine) and nearly got attacked by her boyfriend. Hey its not my fault if she travels half the country to get some asian dick shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:24 PM
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So ? The guy can just next her and move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:27 PM
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I do, but its SOME men. A small percentage and certainly not half the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:37 PM
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So basically irl tentacle porn ? Not sure i wanna see that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:19 AM
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We live in a lazy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:18 AM
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In my experience I usually loved taking care of my women. The times i wasnt was usually when i wasnt attracted to her anymore and out of boredom. So if you find men unwilling to cater to you, heres that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:39 PM
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The joke was lost on you, shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:27 AM
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Not really, he's just correcting your selective bias with constructive precisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:21 AM
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Pretty sure in France 15 is not even a hard line.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:18 AM
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He needs more variety in his diet. Im chineese too (although only half) and never got these comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:37 PM
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Ahah i know dw. We watch the simpsons too ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:35 PM
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Hey wheres the love for us frenchies ? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:19 PM
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Know a guy at work whos like that and unmarried and couldnt tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:20 AM
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Since when are firefighters well paid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:50 AM
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Nothing much. There are women who enjoy asian specs, usually in the younger department (16-24) and most dont care much about the age difference from what i've gathered. But i feel you as a half asian in a similar situation aber not as extreme yet (28 mistaken for 20-24). Just learn to play with what you get, and attracting younger cant really be that bad can it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:47 PM
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San and Lady Eboshi from Mononoke Hime come to mind. It's clear Hayao Miyazaki wanted to depict those women as capable leaders, by being skillful and very resourceful... but also not without faults (San being wild and emotionally driven, Eboshi too prideful to easily admit when she errs) which makes all the more likeable. Heck you could switch the genders in the movie witch ashitaka and it would still run just fine. I believe movies should strive to depict characters, not just women, in such a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:11 AM
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Sooo... what are the conclusions to be taken from this 2008 study ? That men, as a whole regardless of social standing, culture, education and personal beliefs are universally more prone to violence than women ? This reads like a highschoolers paper, no value in there. This is why social science should die, this half baked study brings absolutely nothing, no insight... just pointing fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:16 AM
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Well to be fair.. red has pretty much won at this point so having a bit of man-hating fem speech is nice to have to remind us about the debate else we might as well rename it redpilldebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:11 AM
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I'll never forget my father coming back with a black eye from my step mother and telling me he couldnt do a thing else he would be charged for domestic battery. Was 12 at the time but still remember it clear as day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:07 AM
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He's free to not engage if he deems the deed not worth it lol Or is it only women who get to choose ? Fuck that white knight noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:10 AM
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Not gonna happen. The state needs population growth, and with marriage rates declining single motherhood is the next best solution after immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:07 AM
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Hot indian guys do exist, i've met one even and usually they are because they're... extremely westernized. Its the same thing for any asian country actually, myself being half white half asian the difference is quite noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:53 PM
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Sexual Market Value. Basically the pillosphere attribute an inherent 'value' to each individual. This in turns correlates to one's success with the opposite sex. High value generally means attractiveness, social awareness and social status (with varying order of importance). High smv male (AlphaBucks) : tall charismatic caucasian athlete 6 figure with interesting hobbies and strong social circle. Also high smv male (AlphaFucks) : tall non-indian athlete with an aggressive behavior, dangerous lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:28 PM
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I agree. But in practice a trashy but faithful woman (to her month long relationships) barely gets more respect than a serial cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:33 PM
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Ik. I was being sarcastic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 09:22 AM
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Well its like guys warning his bros that the girl he's chasing is a hopeless slut who cheats like she breathes. But thats slut shaming and bad shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:15 AM
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Hence my second point. All i ask is for her to be attractive and not a burden. I've noticed sex is always really good with a non nagging partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:42 PM
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Because physical attraction is a big deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:18 PM
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Sweat. Theres fucking sweat in every rolls of her body. Given that fat, if shes got a hummongus chest you can count on watery underboobs too. In practical terms, while not impossible its clearly unpleasant (to say the least) to have her on top. There are so many positions you just cannot do, making the sex already pitiful into some booring chore you have to conduct 100%. Source : went out with a fat chick to encourage her during her weight loss. Don't be me, don't touch fat fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:25 AM
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No sex on the first date. Oh and the 'what are we' question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:15 AM
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Seems logical to me. If a girl was desperate enough to do all the work I would also assume she'd be an easy lay and go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 08:19 AM
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This reminds me of a scene in "Women come from Venus and men from Mars" where the mc explains how most men treat relationships as a job to uphold. You must first pass the job interview (NRE, honeymoon phase etc) then pass the trial period but once this is done he will assume the partner "knows" he is serious about her. Spoiler alert : she'll only notice the drop in attention and effort on his part, wonder why hes not so into than before, look for that spark elsewhere and repeat the process until…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 08:07 AM
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Back when i was using Tinder a year ago I had on average 1 match a day (i was swiping quite aggressively and i was difficult) The success rate after that was... variable. I did get a crazy ex from there and a few cool flings, but the effort and amount of mindgames you have to put in just doesnt make up for it. I might go back tho after i get a better phone and some bulk back but im in no rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 03:29 PM
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In other news, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:26 PM
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28 next month . Date range is 18-26 but there are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:45 AM
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Moving the goal posts isnt going to stop smoogs from scoring you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:26 PM
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I don't believe porn, highly sexualized media, casual sex or n-count to be deciding factors to your partner's unsatisfaction. People are quick to shove the blame on anything but themselves on their short comings. Aside from sexual compatibility which does play a role (body odor / type, ethnic preference...) all non-medical issues come from low effort interactions. People become more and more insecure instead of working past the fucking problem. Porn isnt the problem. Maybe if you weren't such a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:19 PM
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On the contrary, we understand you far too well. All the jaded people here were gullible idiots buying the family dream to start with. Unless its a typo being a preteen leaves quite lacking in life experiences so i don't believe you'll be taken setiously, but thing will come in a timely manner. Seriously though don't bother with this stuff and enjoy the middle-school flirting, thats something that won't come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:48 PM
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What can i say ? Habits die hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 02:38 PM
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That's fine if its weekly. Just don't try that in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 02:28 PM
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I'm Broke so more often than not I end up BB'ing my partners. And when i get enough money to pay them back I usually break things off and go casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 02:02 PM
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The men who are unhappy and the men women freely have sex with are two distinctive groups. Something women tend to forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:16 AM
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My point was that being rude and / or insensitive does not equate to being hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 03:07 PM
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Reminds me of a post in r/AITA where a woman was a nuisance to everyone just by 'being honest' and running her mouth without thinking. Seems to me that people no longer see the difference between hate and rudeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 10:57 AM
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Pretty sure it's the French who complain ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:07 PM
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Oh it's definitely stupid, and can even seen quite cliché but all the heavy sexual encounters I've had were initiated by such signs. They can also be used to emulate attraction, so I'd wager people interested in ones resources could pretend in such way to fake raw desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:23 AM
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Ever had a guy / woman insistently eyeing you from afar ? Turning around and coming over with a wide smile, initiating light / medium physical contact ? Diving into ones eyes, biting a lip while pretending to follow a conversation just to hear more of your voice ? That's pretty much how I'd describe the manifestation of said desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:33 PM
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Is there an instance where rape can be justified ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:02 AM
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Almost word for word.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 01:04 AM
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Yep. To give more insight, the first one is a longtime (6 years) celibate who believes he will earn a nice (pretty) girl with his personality (niceness). Tried going for a girl after befriending her once, got frienzoned hard and is afraid of making a move ever since. Other one is engaged to the female friend. She has offered a few times to get intimate with me (didn't act on it) so it kinda speaks volumes on how she views him. My guess is that the female pedestal is off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 01:04 AM
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No, just that among my friends the ones voicing this opinion were all male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:49 AM
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I meant the way of "I also believed everyone thought murder was worse than rape but it seems not everyone does" So yeah they proved me wrong by disagreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:21 AM
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I thought the same, but my friends proved me wrong. So I'm wondering if this is a BP/RP viewpoint or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:12 AM
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Oh I get what you mean. Yeah when you chase guys above your league it does seem pointless. Goes both ways tho, nothing gendered about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:06 PM
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You are making two different points. Men mostly only care if you are good looking. I agree, to some extent. I prefer attractiveness over good looks as it encompasses other important aspects. Your attractiveness determines your options, molds your character and life experiences. The more desirable you are... Well the more you are wanted. Duh How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant Well it isn't a binary system where you get a universal no after a certain amount. You should see it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:40 PM
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Gotta love an honest answer. By owning your choices you've owned my respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:21 PM
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Well TRP advises against commitment where you do not hold any sexual power so yeah, it's his fault for getting in such a situation. Co-dependance is anti red as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:40 PM
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That's exactly my point. Women choose better = more sex for higher males The casual scene is favouring females and high males who have no reason to commit. One man spreads to multiple females hence an obvious discrepancy. I honestly don't care, since I'm a top male in my ethnicity and fullfil a certain preference I'll always have pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 01:04 PM
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Less sex for men usually means less sex for women as well. In a hook up culture this couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:13 PM
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6' something (182cm) half asian. Just turned 27 but haven't changed much since 18. Sounds stupid but I often get compared to a taller and older Noctis from FFXV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:24 PM
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Are you generally considered attractive ? From where I come from black women have pretty much the short end, being considered ill-mannered and unfeminine so I'm genuinely interested. I'm asking since poc beauty standards vary immensely from one anothers country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 05:02 PM
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This looks more like a CMV than a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 10:19 AM
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IME 90% of the time looks-based jugement are coming from a sentiment of envy. It isn't a gender based, and even I would find myself putting down partners of women I fancied. It could be projection, self-rating or whatnot, it's always about the ego and wanting to appeal or at the very least self reassure oneself of their own worth. Now to answer your question, women CAN be influenced by other opinions, they even mostly are. It actually takes a great deal to do go against such an ordeal (rebelliou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:11 PM
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No that would be failing to pay after a consensual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 04:58 PM
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By that logic raping a prostitute should fall under the case of working hazards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 04:55 PM
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Male SMV is only partly esthetical as opposed to female SMV whos is essential. TRP is / was a reactionary means to a deceitful upbringing of passivity and servitude. IIRC TRP originated from a branch of PUA that decided to not only emulate attractive behaviour but work on themselves as to make it natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 08:02 AM
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Double Dick. The natural consequence of a partnership between a CCer and a BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 04:03 PM
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Now that you mention it, I recall a vaginal woman (as opposed to clitorian.. not sure if I'm using the right word) that had great difficulty finding decent partners despite being really easy to climax. On the other hand, I actually had a good time with most women. I would even get a few compliments for giving a damn about their pleasure. Sad world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 02:08 PM
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In that case we agree. It's fair game to ask for an open relationship, but pretending both parties are on anything but unequal footing is... Questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:21 PM
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That's like saying it's fair since woman and men have equal opportunities but women are less successful due to premarital leave risks and being overall less career oriented than men. Thanks for confirming that open relationships are bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:29 AM
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"feel unequal" ? Are you suggesting it isn't ? And if so in what regard ? A reasonably attractive woman will always have sexual outlets, and an open relationship suggests she will act upon it without guilt nor shame. Only way I can see this working is if the man has literally no investment in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 08:50 AM
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Maybe they do love them, just not the ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:37 PM
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Wait flat earthen are getting silenced ?? Now you have my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:43 AM
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Ya well, what do you expect from societies that have no middle classes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:52 PM
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Being Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:01 AM
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Not really, it's just that parents apprehend success as middle aged people : career, finances and social status (in corporate / adult settings) Why ? Because that's how you brag among your peers, fuelling your pride by your offspring's success. You can find it inherently selfish, but on the other side becoming a liability to your parents as an adult is just as selfish imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 01:34 PM
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You work under the assumption male actors in teen pregnancies are the type to pay attention to sex negative teachings. Spoiler : they aren't. Besides the more controlling you are of female's sexuallity the more freedom they seek out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 08:09 AM
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No, this leads to young boys with empathy hating themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 06:52 AM
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You just nailed it. Desirable women are usually hard to get due to their selective behaviour. On the other hand women who play 'hard to get' are mimicking this behaviour to emulate similar value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:42 PM
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Abundance of women and abundance mentality are two different things. Dread works very well on men. Especially the ones that have been used to women throwing themselves at him (i.e ‘abundance’). That is abundance of women. Which is what i described in my previous post as well. Abundance mentally is something that differs greatly : it is the independance of outcome, mental strength to leave because you have options and better alternatives (or at the very least the mental fortitude to do so). You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:57 AM
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It benefits the people as a whole, so yes i doubt there will be any meaningful change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:59 PM
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The way I see it, low birth rates leads to an excess of old people that will leave a considerable gap for the next generations to come. Not only so, look at the consequences of china's one child policy to reduce its population, combined to its culture they are bound to fall if they don't integrate massively middle eastern and african immigrants. In this case, pro choice being an exclusive female right is also a way of encouraging new families to emerge. (at the very least a mother, the children …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:26 PM
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I'm young, so I don't back away from a woman asking from me a dozen time a day (unless she's bitchy). Sadly I just don't have enough time in a day to balance work, hobbies, work outs, friends and such a sex life. Which is why I won't marry nor live in with a partner. Women stop having sex because they lose attraction, and also respect for them. The cause mostly comes from the man letting himself go physically and mentally. As to if a woman is legitimate in not feeling attracted to me anymore... …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:20 PM
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All i'm saying is that you don't really spread your political views when discussing how to easily kill a boss in an mmo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:06 PM
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Oh being a white knight is definitely not a good strategy to get laid. It's quite the opposite, being fuelled by envy and jealousy towards the successful isnt really attractive. I remember one girl's '' best friend '' quietly telling me he would cut me to pieces if I hurted her. Poor sucker kept weeping and asking her out through high school. Those things happen mostly between men, so it's not surprising you wouldn't know about it much. As for the white part... not really, it's just a feminine t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:01 PM
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You sound like my ex. For the reccord, she lived in a socially poor neighborhood, with low security, single mother home and huge self esteem issues. To which I agree, not many white knights to be seen there. The men of PPD have a rather umc background, so i'm positive the mismatched experiences come from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:57 PM
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Two words : white knight Not so long ago I had a plate tell me since she knew where i lived, if she wanted she could make up a sob story where i threw her out, needed to get her things and would bring a few randos to beat me up. Back then i laughed it off, reminding her that i could easily get to her as well since she's seeing me despite her boyfriends plea and how it would be a shame for her christian family to get to know their daughter better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:12 PM
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Assuming that gender politics have no place in videogame culture, it is far more likely that sexists (misandrists and mysoginists alike) frequent these subs without expressing these views. That's actually how i made friends with people who happened to be rather PC leaning and still enjoy them despite our political differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:59 AM
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Assuming that gender politics have no place in videogame culture, it is far more likely that sexists (misandrists and mysoginists alike) frequent these subs without expressing these views. That's actually how i made friends with people who happened to be rather PC leaning and still enjoy them despite our political differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:56 AM
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From my experience, only certain types of alpha fall for this. A good example is the naturaly aggressive attractive type, the one who grows tired of women fawning over him casually and yearns for something more meaningful. Those are the romantics, still pedestalizing women due to a lack of social understanding. I remember one telling me he just '' wanted a woman for more than just a quick bang '' before entering his abusive relationship. But honestly any alpha with abundance mentality will just …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 11:44 AM
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Anyone is free to divorce for whatever reason they wish, isn't that the whole purpose of the no fault divorce in America ? If your partner wishes to divorce you because she realised the sky will never been green well at least you'll have learned two valuable but costly lesson : people (and especially women you commit to) are fickle and twist things to their liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:28 PM
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It's only a problem in you date above your SMV though. Do you want to be in a relationship where your partner doesn't feel physically attracted to you? Thing is it's not ONLY about looks, but if the looks arent there then most won't bother with the rest. It's looks first, then red flag hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 06:28 PM
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Contrary to popular belief, female attractiveness is not the be all and end all of dating. There are behavior patterns, personnality traits and habits that make the the seduction process a chore. RP claims that high SMV naturally erodes such character from women, which imo is true. To an extent. Showing disinterest, distance and unavailability can encourage a woman to act in a pleasant and aggreable way, but honestly it's a considerable waste of time and energy. To answer your question, well I b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 05:01 PM
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Well... if it kills the sexual attraction in a respectful relationship, i can totally see why it is seen in a negative light. Can't really speak for others here, but sexually satisfying my woman is a huge deal for me and anything detracting me from it (even core things such as a demanding job, long distance... and attitude) would make me reconsider the relationship. Now i'm not saying women can't be bitchy, they can act however they please for all i care. Whats on my mind is identifying what lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:46 PM
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Hence the attitude. Guess its time to send her off then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:29 PM
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How is pointing out women having an attitude have lead men to experience less sexual arousing misogynistic ? Besides it's not like I didn't want sex, I just could not make it happen. Which came to a shock since it never happened to me and i'm known to have a wild sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 06:24 PM
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Since my satisfaction derives from my ability to pleasure my partner... both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:46 PM
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If their approach is unattractive... yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 11:09 AM
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Casual hookup culture favours sexualized individuals, which refers to a majority of women and a minority of men. All exceptions aside, there's no wonder casual dating is seen as 'liberating' towards women. Feminism is about having a choice, mutual consent and decision power. Hence they are free to make decisions they might regret later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:20 PM
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I feel you. Had someone ask me once how i could be over 180 cm tall and asian at the same time. Now I just laugh it off and tell them they can throw away the cliches. unless its food, i fucking love to cook and white women usually can't stir fry for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:09 AM
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Because men strive to be sexualized, become a fantasy or a fetish is rather complementary to their other assets. As a half breed asian with british blood, i've had a few occurence of being fetishized (ranging from intense staring to jumping the gun way too quickly for my taste). Since courtship and seduction traditionally rests on the man's shoulders, having an edge on sexual attraction lessens the effort and makes the whole dating experience far more enjoyable. Women OTOH are insecure about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:24 AM
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male, 26. often disclosed as its nothing to talk home about... but it's 22. never lied, back when i was a sex negative virgin i had female friends prove me wrong. good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:37 PM
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Thats because theres this accepted idea that promiscuous females have trouble settling down with a mate for LTR after a wild past. Theres no scientific evidence of this, but the clinical observation is quite substancial so keep that in mind. Last time i checked, this does not seem to affect males. Quite the contrary actually, males in the casual arena seem to long for a LTR after a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 07:24 AM
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Like i said, the data is imperfect as it does not factor the important stuff. Sure your prospects drop by only 9% but keep in mind that a good chunk of these prospects are unsuitable for marriage / LTR. We're talking tinder, okcupid and bumble here. We're not arguing that a woman does not get any attention past 30. No dear god. She can get fucked all she wants, there will be prospects lining up endlessly. Question is, out of those prospects how many of them is she really into ? Does she pull the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:39 AM
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Taking melania trump to argue the wall doesn't exist is like pointing a wealthy ethopian to prove the country has no economical issues. You are full of bad faith, because your examples are scarce and do not reflect the reality for the most of the post wall women. If you want stats, go look at dating sites and instagram data. Not the best for the absolute unquestionable truth we all look for, I concede, but at least the data is unbiased. https://www.google.fr/amp/s/amp.businessinsider.com/likelih…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:25 AM
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I know you probably aren't arguing in good faith but there are historical and social evidences. Back when marriage was a partnership more than a romantic declaration, female youth was sought for child bearing. The looks and naiveness were nice bonuses that would push up its value. You can also look at China, who looks at women over 27 as "leftovers". And honestly in a society where there are more men than women I can't really blame them. All in all 1970+ western culture is not the norm, neither …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:50 AM
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TRP isn't a couple therapy advisor, as such the focus is given on unfullfilled men and how they can improve their lives and move forward towards happiness. Are the men in need of guidance upstanding members of society ? Probably not, else they would not need guidance in the first place. And what TRP tells them is that their choices led them to their miserable situation. TRP is about owning your choices, steering the wheel of life and making decisions based on informed opinions so as to produce r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 09:25 AM
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Both of them are great friends i value highly. The woman keeps pushing for some private time with me (with thinly veiled intentions), despite my platonic attitude. Makes me real sad for the guy, as they are seriously engaged and don't want to see them split. I probably should talk to him, but otoh I think so long as nothing happens i should just stay clear of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 01:15 PM
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Will do.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:50 PM
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Tinder mostly since i've moved to a new city and avoid women in the workplace / gym. It's odd though, i've had success keeping the conversation flowing and getting them to put out. But not so much since i moved city, so might be something social.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:38 PM
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In this matter, i'll agree that the experience / skill ratio is not linear. Just because you've sucked dick like diet coke from a straw doesn't mean you're a pro. If you love blowjobs, enjoy pleasuring your partner(s) and are attentive to their preferences you'll get good fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 08:03 AM
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Do you have the male counter-part to this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 12:28 PM
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Nothing to do with lesbians. Just the state targetting people with money that doesn't go through taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:18 PM
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Agreed. Being sexualised as a male is a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:28 PM
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I'm more inclined to believe personal skill in the sexual area has a limited effect compared to sexual chemistry. I don't have objective data, but I my experiences split quite even between mad hot sex craving for more and blatant unsatisfaction from either parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:22 PM
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You did not specify it, so elaborate on what you consider a 7/10 and 4/10 personality. Edit : wrong numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 09:32 AM
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No the second guy has the better personnality. He's caring, helps put out the trash, cooks, faithful and all those qualities you claim to look for. Its just that the feeling of security and stability oozing from him is less compelling than his more abrasive and confident counterpart who doesn't bend sideways for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 08:52 AM
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Alpha widow is the inability to appreciate further mates due to competition being of lower standing thereafter. You described a possible cause but as TRPs focus is on the male perspective we only care about the outcome. Heartbroken > keeps lingering in your mind > emotional unavailable > unappreciative of new man's effort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:56 AM
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Love is inconsistent, conditional and thetefore ephemerical. Not really something i would put my trust in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:50 AM
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First is an average of 6 and the second an average of 7 so theorically you increased the standards. But as you might suspect, there are many more variables that derive from looks and personality. An 8/10 looks will have attribute beffiting his physique that a 7 might not have and that you'll miss when choosing the new guy. This is basic alpha widow 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 06:44 AM
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Social gatherings are your best bet. Since you are religion bound, you should have a community within it, try and expand on that maybe ? Other than that, all I can see is trafitional parent decision marriage. You aren't really modern dating material so you might as well go all in with the traditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:41 PM
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Going on a dating site to look for a LTR is like going to a fast food and expecting a full course menu.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:28 PM
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Men who engage in casual sex and enjoy variety are a minority. Men who experience dificulty in finding a partner, let alone a faithful and marriageable one are a majority. So lets get this straight. You point at the actions of a minority (high value desirable men) and then blame the dating hardship situation of the majority (the rest) under the banner of "Men" ? You clearly have a poor understanding on gender dynamics, dating and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 01:05 PM
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Keep in mind that he's beyond 50. I'm confident you can rake the numbers quite easily just by taking care of yourself, being independant and ressourceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 12:13 PM
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It was referring to the OP quoting a post shaming sluts. What I mean is that when you become successful with women (one of TRP's goal) you don't get troubled by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 06:02 PM
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Keep in mind that upvotes and popularity have little meaning around TRP. Judgemental posts are highly upvoted due to the high distribution of anger-phased users, but that does not make them TRP endorsed or whatsoever. Also, do note that there are two cases of people judging women to be slutty and aggressively insulting them : other women (competition, jealousy, drama etc) and men who do not benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:34 PM
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Keep in mind that upvotes and popularity has little meaning around TRP. Judgemental posts are highly upvoted due to the high distribution of anger-phased users, but that does not make them TRP endorsed or whatsoever. There are two cases of people judging women to be slutty and aggressively insulting them: other women (competition, jealousy, drama etc) and men do not benefit from it. Seems pretty straightforward for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:33 PM
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That would be a rather refreshing debate environment. The thing is, too many people argue in bad faith just to prove a point, volunteerly misunderstanding points and extracting things out of context. TRP is extreme, no one questions this. But that's precisely what individuals staturated with political correctness require in order to change. TRP is antagonizing precisely to teach the pushovers to fend for themselves. The less they care, the more they do, accomplish and move forward to their goals…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:41 PM
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There's a nice sidebar with approved material that conveys rp philosophy in the desired way. The rest is just discussion about it, and debating about possible new implementation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 06:38 AM
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If you compare shonen manga from the 80s-90s such as Berserk, Bastards, Ken and Jojo to the more recent ones such as Tsubasa Chronicles, Code Geass, Tokyo Ghoul, Code Breaker, Masamune's Revenge etc theres a visible change in the main character design (muscle men to androgynous boys). This actually comes from the rise of female interest in shonen, which in turn made protagonists more gender neutral so women could identify with more ease. Female traits have also been blend into it, such as the se…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 08:20 AM
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Its up to women if they want to benefit from this or keep getting played. I fail to see how being judgemental will somehow improve their situation. Making the most of it on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:34 PM
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Lower SMV women are far more wary and insecure about relationships than a more attractive prospect. More often than not, it's pretty much the same hard work to keep a working relationship with a lesser valued woman so I question if its actually worth it. And in the case of high smv guys who aren't physically attracted to them... well I feel kinda nauseous when i try to fuck a nice woman who i'm not that into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 07:36 AM
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Wouldn't the solution to these issues stem from a more careful and precise approach to law ? Beating your child black and blue should not constitute the same offense as a quick smack on their backhands. Ideally you should be able to assert yourself without violence, but you always have shitheads who will push you until you break. Then again i'm against abuse, but discipline can be hard on the entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 04:49 PM
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If most women want marriage / commitment post-30 and have a harder time do to so, isn't it de facto an indication that they are becoming less desirable ? I have a hard time remembering where in TRP is there a concern about women's sexual outlets past 30. The main concerned is not being the provider she settles for once her youth spent. I do agree with most other parts otoh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 05:35 PM
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Kotaku in Action. The gamergate sub basically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 08:54 PM
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Reddit being a free platform for discussion is a huge joke. The relationship subb continuously bans any commenter who has a history of red. Try posting in KiA and watch all the auto bans flying. Now back on the subject, TRP advocates for discussion under the premise that said discourse can be refered in some manner to the side bar. Direct frontal attack is just as good as going on the feminism sub and shouting how much the pay gap is bull. I really don't see the issue there, unless you only find…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 01:12 PM
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I concede hyper communications and social media has inflated peoples dating expectations due to the sheer volume of prospects. But here is what i've noticed : in most cases what men expect from a women and what women think men expect from them differ greatly. A man mostly expects a woman to be pleasant, reasonably attractive, sexually satisfying and respectul. This should be enough to spark sexual interest and keep his needs fulfilled. A woman believes, as you have said, she has to be off the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:45 AM
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I find this pretty dishearting that if you don't agree with red, you're blue by default. And vice versa. This as ridiculous and monochrome as americans discussing politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 07:54 AM
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TRP advocates for casual and playfull answers but emphasizes to tread carefully. Just because the conversation is casual does not mean it has no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 07:40 AM
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This raises the question. Do humans shape socieity or are we shaped by it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 05:17 PM
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This. If you want to pursue happiness... d'ont marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 12:16 PM
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The wording is set to a provocative tone as to help those stuck in the anger phase to cope with their issues. We all say / think harmfull things under rage, doesn't mean we actually act on it. And if we do, we suffer the consequences. We're men after all. Trust what they do and not what they say. What TRP advocates is to accept the world as is and just adapt. The strong language comes from the betrayal they feel and suffering one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 08:38 AM
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Dammit. And here i thought you were blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 08:10 PM
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Fair point. This also explains why TRP is viewed as toolset. TRP is amoral. But what we do of it is another story. It can be used to improve oneself, regain status or confidence within a relationship. Or it can be used to manipulate women, use and discard them in the same manner so many of us men have been used. Are those men immoral ? Totally. But should you hate them ? I don't think so. You should hate the game that enables them. And by them I mean opportunistic individuals, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 07:58 PM
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Paternity tests are not forbidden France, but require legal action to be performed under clear circumstances. As for the question, I believe it is self explanatory. It isn't in the woman interest to let her provider risk knowing of her promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 11:47 AM
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You have to mostly not care. The less you do, the less she'll go elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 05:59 PM
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I would argue even 'success' regarding casual sex holds a rather individual meaning. Are you in for as many one night stands as you can stomach before dying of stds ? Or do you have only eyes for the princesses ? I myself lean towards a confortable 2-3 fwbs to keep me sexual while keeping my focus elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 06:46 PM
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If I have to assert dominance outside of the bedroom, you're not the girl for me. Play by your rules so you won't be played with, a wise choice. Much of RP material is about having standards, and explaining why it is not a natural reaction in the modern socieity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 06:41 PM
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Like I said, religious people are unable of distinguishing the ethical and logical aspects of things so this discussion is pointless. And don't mind me. I actually do good around my peers, but not because I fear god, but because it will benefit me in the long run. I despise god and his worshipping complex, he who cares more about their usefulness than happiness. If a faithless good man is doomed to hell, then heaven is more perverted than one would dare imagine...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 11:19 PM
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Then who is ? God ? That may be true for believers who make no distinction between morality and rationality but what about those who question such rules ? Something becomes 'wrong' the moment a conglomerate of humans attach negative consequences to it. There is no such thing as 'universal morality'. Having been brought up in multiple cultures and viewpoints I know this all too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 11:06 PM
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I don't live in an amoral world and neither do you. That's an interesting perspective, but I disgress. You get punished for cheating, therefore cheating is bad. But are all cheaters punished ? No, only those who get caught. Hence what we punish isn't cheating, but the clumsiness of getting caught. This is applicable to pretty much any immoral act, so i'm pretty confident we live in an amoral world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:58 PM
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Not everything, but if she's eager to please shr might as well do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:45 PM
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Garner accomplishments. Ever tried mastering a difficult sheet of mozart ? Resolved a treacherous mathematics problem ? Have you tried running 5 km nearly every day and then suddenly you noticed you could do 7 without a sweat ? When you achieve stuff, this is when start beleving you can do stuff. Tl;dr this is a longer version of lifting.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 03:53 PM
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Well it's common knowledge that your association of masculinity is invertly proportionnal to intellect. Forgive my lazyness for not referencing the claims, but i recall on multiple occasions claiming partners ranging from the reading impaired to the manual job go-geter. This always had me imagining you getting ramed up by some savage bear-like barbarian in the woods before going back to your everyday office job. I'm genuinely interested in such an outlook. I for instance believe masculinity to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:30 PM
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When a criminal shoots a civilian do you blame the gun ? Fuck. You americans actually do...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:42 PM
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Not at all. Or maybe you should explain what you mean by 'better'. Is it status ? finance ? sex appeal ? commitment ? The answer varies depending on the variable you use. You have many cases of open relationships, following different expectations, different rules, for different reasons. I have little experience over 'open mariage' (is this even an acceptable situation from a legal / financial perspective... seems only social to me) so i'll keep it to the relationship part. The situation where a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:39 PM
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Pretty sure that's not the full scope of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:13 PM
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You didn't even bother reading the rules of the sub before posting, no wonder you got banned. IIRC there even is a prompt before posting that asks you to carefully read through the rules. Sorry but i'm not going to bother with someone who can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:10 PM
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Did you ask on theredpill sub or on asktrp ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:49 PM
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Ah yes, the infamous 'if you read might as well be gay' Atlas trademark.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 01:57 PM
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Asian society expects elders to take care of children while the parents go to work. So they all live in the same household most of the time. I don't think you can really make a judgement over which is best, as both west and eastern style have their shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:31 AM
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Just so you know, i'm not trying to 'win' an argument. I'm more concerned by getting a better understandment of the subject, people and concepts. Couldn't care less if i'm wrong, i'll adapt. I'm starting to think i'm having you confused with /u/SecSlab 's views so i'd like to have a recap of your views if you don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 10:21 AM
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Men want to be valued as sexual beings. So its no surprise they get enraged when they realize they were chosen for other purposes (financial stability, emotional support). Women can't understand that due to a difference of priorities due to the conflicted gender identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 10:00 AM
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Hot chicks are harder to game, so they see it as a challenge. TRP still advocates a clear understanding of effort/value ratio so if the girl is being too bitchy despite her looks the overall quality decreases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 09:52 AM
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This would have been true for women. Your mistake is making the assumption men and women have the same goals, expectations and emotional response towards relationships. Casual sex is losing when sex is abundant and low value. Most men start at the bottom and have to grind their way on the sexual ladder before even being looked up as a possible prospect. Most women hit puberty and get attention. You can't expect those two to aprehend casual sex in a similar manner. For a man, its actually detrime…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 09:37 AM
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The reason their ‘western counterparts’ don’t do these things is because most western men aren’t worth this and will take you for granted as you become the beta bitch of the relationship. Seems pretty accusatory to me. Oh and leave the victim card will you, it's an overused thrope that everyone and their mother is a victim to an untold conspiracy and it's getting ridiculous. Also, you do realise there's a middle ground between catering to a man's needs like a fucking servant and acting like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 05:52 PM
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Just because you fail doesn't mean it doesn't work. Look you can complain and blame men all you want, that's not whats going to improve your situation (assuming you actually want that). If you struggle you have two paths to solve it ; become a better partner (ie workout, improve social skills) or lower your standards (easier competition).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 12:49 PM
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They are discouraging SAHM lifestyle, not marriage. My guess is because when you divorce as a SAHM you have less of a social standing and financial situation than still being active. Could also be that women like to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 12:12 PM
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I forgot to mention this strategy only works for attractive women who look to game their future prospects. If you aren't attractive you should work on yourself before pointing fingers. This is a tenant of trp but applicable to really anyone, so i see no reason not to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 11:34 AM
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Well academics (highschool and non stem) value a superficial understanding of many subjects. While i'm not saying woman are not capable of thriving in specialized domains, they are a minority. Also, theres a fair point of bias towards women in male dominated fields ; i lost count of how often i've heard my teachers complain about how few females were taking the CS course, because corporate were in demand of female software engineers. Still figuring out how this adds value as a worker btw...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 10:08 AM
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If he fails and blames you, this just shows his looser mentality. Why are you bothered with what looser thinks ? If he abandons you for a 19 year old, this just means you don't give any value other than beauty. Unless that 19 yo is more mature and level headed than you. Relationships are a lot of work and to me it seems like you haven't matured enough to find a suitable partner. You should spend less time on ppd and interact more with men, understand their language and become a better communicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:59 AM
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Good question. A man is usually put in the leading position but this does not always translate to him having power. Actually when a beta is in power, I suspect both parties get frustrated as they are expected to fill in positions they don't want. (A beta hates to lead and the woman resents her beta for being weak willed and having the power) But i don't believe a beta becomes alpha by getting in control. An alpha is in control by nature, but the reverse isn't true. How would you see it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:14 PM
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Allow me to add some details to my previous comment. Don't tell him you want an accomplished man. Men will understand this : "I only validate males that already have proven themselves. Those who have the financial stability earned through hardships which are up to my demands are worth my time, the others could roll over and die for all I care." This is basically what they understood in the comment section you linked. Tell him he can be an accomplished man. Men who are worth their salt will under…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 09:04 PM
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Don't tell him you want an accomplished man. Tell him he can be an accomplished man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:27 PM
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There is always a lover and a loved one : in the event of a perfect balance between them, time will grant the one with most options his (or hers) rightfull power back. What that person does with said power is up to them. [*]They can betray their partner and strive to a better prospect. [*]They can remain faithful and resent their partner for the missed opportunities and sour the relationship. You would need a perfect balance of power between them, which implies a mutually consistent dread to act…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:36 PM
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Well how does a man earn respect and pride in the first place ? It comes through accomplishments, the thriving success over hardships... actions. Women who instill in men the idea, the courage and / or the guts to get through such obstacles are giving them the tools to reclaim their pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:25 PM
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True. And I always enjoyed the company of an asian woman's honesty in that regard. IIRC women there were taught to protect a man's pride, something I believe their western counter-parts could learn a great deal from when they expect masculine endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:11 PM
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Respect is the main component to communication, no arguing there. But what made me really think this through was a comment over at trp about women classifying men into two categories ; those they can control (beta) and those they cannot (alpha). "Women keep in line the man they can control as a provider, and has fun with those they can't control." So as to paraphrase him. Overly simplistic but accurate enough to apply to both sexes. TRP advocates a certain behavior towards women (aggressiveness,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 06:59 PM
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Pretty sure his statement stands wether you like fries or mussels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 06:49 PM
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FOB ? didn't catch that as for me fob is an alternate rock band i used to listen to back in highschool. But nonetheless, i can tell from an asian male's perspective, building up a masculine body is really hardwork - harder than any race. Back when i was living with my half brothers of arabic descent (same british mother) I could see them develop athletic bodies with far better ease than me, despite having a similar physical routine. You also hear many asian coaches in martial arts compare easter…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:54 AM
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In theory it could work. But remember that you are not dealing with loyal and honest people. Feelings change, expectations too. I tried that with a woman once. Fell in love with me and when she knew i wouldn't commit she went exclusive with another.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 08:16 AM
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Just joke around men and be minimalistic towards women. If they can't take a joke don't engage then. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 06:13 PM
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Have you read the sidebar of TRP ? There's this sentence "women are incapable of loving men the way they want to be loved". This is not meant as a demeaning act towards women, but as a state of fact. How does a mother love ? Eternally. Unconditionally. Blindy. Ad vitam Aeternam. Those are the traits men look into a women. But it just does not work that way. Adult love cannot be unconditional. This pretty much extends to men's expectations of marriage. There is an incompatibility in the fact that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:37 AM
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This reminds me of an adam show about marriage and rings. In the US and most Western countries before the mass consumption ads flashing the idea that "if you love your woman you should buy her a 4month salary rock" marriages were not met with such a financial obstacle. Higher classes may have different ways, but then again i doubt they were going into debt throwing up a parade. From what i can gather, we are made to believe money brings up happiness. And while its true that money gives us the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:20 AM
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There's actually some truth to this. The sexual liberation and uprising of feminism was initially thought to benefit men. In theory more promiscuous women would mean more and various sex. Sounds good doesn't it ? The catch though is that such a scheme is only applicable to the playboys with a lifestyle that allows them the extravagance. TL;DR - post modern feminism only benefits the top 20%. TRP is about reaching that standard, or at least living with the realization of such leatherboards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:01 AM
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Asian woman brought up in the west culture have been a rather unique experience on my end. They incorporate the western culture rather well, and align their expectations towards men accordingly in terms of social and beauty standards. But again, I've had no issue attracting asian women (they're the easiest since i'm a half white half asian 5'9) so I'm guessing there's still some cultural reminicense towards asian traits. I've also noticed they're as straightforward as asian women regarding wealt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:03 AM
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If all people had the same needs, expectations and mindset this could be a possibility. But since each individual has its own standards it'd be pointless to put up such a general rule. His point still stands though, you just call it differently. What women call 'not having any feelings' or 'checking out emotionally' is roughly translated by others as 'found a bf less fugly' or 'finally found someone who fucks me good and has a house'. I'm being extravagant, but you should get the idea. Just a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:49 AM
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Well to be fair... I expect a more intelligent man to have a better grasp in terms of decision making for a LTR partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:07 PM
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I don't believe the solution to misplaced communication is no communication at all. Men strive for recognition, success and appraisal. Ideally it would be the woman's job to steer that drive in the desired direction for their spouse to act in a particular manner. But to these women, the man is expected to just 'know' the needs of their woman. Most guys learn to just 'know' how to get in a womans pants for the first few times after all. From personal experience, the most insufferable and nagging …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:37 PM
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For the same reason single adults raised by enabled parents behave like overspoilt children until (if ever) they get hit hard back in line. Why would a woman grow if their spouse puts up with it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:23 PM
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How is it misogynistic to think a woman capable (and is highly likely) of leaving you ? Same applies to men, since it's more of a rapport-issue (who loves and who is loved) than a gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:17 PM
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This isn't a gendered issue. Happens on both sides. Now I wonder, isn't Oneitis the consequence for cheating your smv ? After all, you only catch it over people well over you, with the underlying fact that you don't believe in finding a better partner. This could also explain why as people age, their inability to bond with a lesser partner shows, ie settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:20 AM
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Shamo. I also miss the times shonen was about manga such as Bastard. Back in the 90's Berserk was also a shonen iirc
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 10:57 AM
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A man is defined and valued for his choices. You will see highly successfull men pursuing ladies into misery. Poor loosers screwing more girls in a week than most in a year. All it takes for that man to hop from one group to another is time and willingness. So from a male perspective they aren't so different. I'd agree to a woman who only sees the end results this would be night and day though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:58 PM
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They're pretty much the same actually. Main difference between the two being that one understands how not to get his hopes up and the other... doesn't yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:40 PM
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To the question as why the men have most interest in your sexual value comes from the saying "A woman is incapable of loving a man the way he longs for." If you take aside the madonna / whore complex and focus on the love a man expects, it can be grossly compared to that of a mother. : Unconditionnal, eternal and undying feelings of attachment that will go through thick and thin with no second thought. While i'm not saying all mothers are the pinnacle of love, you should get the idea. What most …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:02 AM
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I find it dishearting to admit that my personal experience aligns with such train of thought. Women stay hooked on me when I show disinterest and value, while investing in others will just run over their heads and 'waste my potential' as they so like to call it. But allas it is not quite as simple. There is a long way between calling Orgasms trivial and believing they are the be-all and end-all of female expectations. Truth is, it is merely one parameter. A simple number allong the many requirem…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 09:43 PM
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Well I firmly believe you are the main actor in your own misfortune. If the guy is just miserably complaining like a woman I would probably just tell him he will find someone better next time or some other PC bullshit. If he would ask me directly what he did wrong and actually mean it, I would gladly show him his flaws and mistakes to work upon. But in truth... I don't give advice much as experience taught me people want change but never to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 05:13 PM
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What you would call a lack of love is probably a consequence of the outcome independance mindset. Pretty sure buddhism explains this better, but a man becomes fundamently happy when his happiness is no more dictated by external sources (read relationships) but solely through himself and his own craftmanship. This guy did things because he wanted to do them, and not because he expected something in return. I'm fairly confident this is what makes him happy. The woman on the other hand placed her h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 05:01 PM
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Like i said previously, aside from the losers on the sub, TRP is not bitter about women getting their way. They accept what they are capable of doing and just adapt. It's the basic principle of hypergamy. And yeah, a woman of greater value would totally shit on a lesser man. It's so common they wouldn't bother with it actually. As for my personal opinion, i believe the man was honest about his intentions. He was very open about his expectation and made a lot of efforts in the communication aspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 04:49 PM
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"Do not trust what they say, but what they do." This is applicable to both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 04:33 PM
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Finally, if the genders were switched, TRP would be calling the woman post wall, insufferable, feminist, etc. Can't speak for the incels and MGTOW but actual endorsed contributors and well established members would be calling out the man for being a loser in life and getting his ass handed to him by a woman. TRP believes (knows) men are held 100% responsable for their situation and don't beat around the bush. So no, genderswaping doesn't work that way...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 04:26 PM
10

Fapping isn't the problem, the excess of it, large consumption of porn and the like are. You have to identify what builds up your frustration (most probably sexual) and directly adress it. If you are masturbating in excess, chances are you are not stimulating your body enough during the day which can lead to sleeping problems. Physical fitness can cure this to an extent. If you are constantly thinking about porn and / or women in a sexual manner which impair your concentration you have too few s…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:28 PM
3

Self esteem is a by-product, a consequence that naturally derives from your hard work. I see many people aim towards this and fail, in the same way men pursue women for naught. Look at your mindset. You fail because your pessimistic outlet leads you to believe you will fail. I highly doubt anything will change until you actually put in the effort and witness your improvement. Yesterday you ran 2km. Today you can do 5, then you understand tomorrow you will be doing 10. The emphasis on gym trainin…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:15 PM
-2

When you talk about France being on the verge of a civil war, i believe you are referring to how Nicolas Sarkozy (former interior minister under Chirac then former president himself) was provoking a turmoil in the surbubs to intentionally rise the feeling of insecurity. Also low skilled immigration is a thing of the past. If you discount illegal immigration which is an issue in every developped country most immigrants are level headed with competitive skills. I agree about the homosexuals tho. P…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 05:34 PM
1

If the father doesn't reckonize the child, he will not harbor any legal or financial responsability. This only applies to non married couples.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:58 PM
1

You do realize in French legislation, the Father has the right to not recognize the child, right ? In non-marital cases you have zero obligations unless you decide to. Pleasr educate yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 08:13 AM
2

Every woman is different. The only advice we can give you is to experiment, see what she enjoys and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 10:51 AM
1

All votes has the same digital value, meaning we are theorically all eaqually responsable for these turn of events. Moderation is merely damage control that occurs after the system takes effect.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:22 PM
-1

This highlights the issues relative to the voting system inherent to reddit. While the Red Pill was initially made to be an absolute meritocracy ruled by wisdom and knowledge, the democratic and egalitarian system dilutes this greatly. I wouldn't go as far as wish only endorsed contributors should vote (not against it though) but the increase in low quality content does detract from the initial message. IMO the freedom of expression (in the case of TheRedPill) should not be distributed so lightl…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:20 AM
1

You answered your own question really. They are angry, bitter and aggressive all the time because they are unhappy, frustrated by their own shortcomings and feel the need to compensate by downplaying their surroundings.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:20 AM
1

Scarcity mentality is leaking from you. Go do somethkng else, they aren't worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 03:12 PM
6

Then sorry but you're just dumb.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:43 PM
7

Listen. Go on TheRedPill, and go through all the articles listed on the side of the sub. Your understanding of the red pill is insufficient and leads to questions answered there. Your ignorance cannot be excused by lazyness.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:39 PM
5

Tldr : you're boring. Girls have no reasons to stick around you. Your goal is low. Honestly, you have far more things to worry about than women at the moment. Stop comparing yourself to people under you, look at people above you, learn and improve.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:55 PM
6

Are you a girl ? SMV isn't just about looks. Even more so in a college environment, there are social ladders that dictate your place within a club / frat / etc. Where is your game ? What is your purpose ? What are your social proofs ? Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:35 PM
1

Wouldn't that be incels ?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:05 PM
8

SMV is too low. You have to establish that your time is valuable and can't be spent orbiting girls (in a more diluted fashion). The lesser she's attracted, the more shit testing you go through. Besides, younger girls are known to be insecure and easily bail out. Older ones have no time to waist. Use it at your advantage. Hint : abundance mentality (which you don't have) is attractive.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 03:04 PM
3

This should not come much as a surprise. Women push for commitment when they believe their charms are not enough to 'control' you. At the end of the day, the sexual dynamic is a power dynamic. When the sex she offers does not make you submit, she changes strategy. Commitment makes her special, grants her more validation than her competitors. There really isnt much else to it. You want my opinion ? I always state that controlling behavior is a deal-breaker. You do you and i'll do the same. She ca…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:28 AM
3

Western Feminism encourages greatly body dismophism through aggressive virtue signaling and normalizing such behavior through social media. "Plus size" models, Fat Acceptance... While feminism may not cause direct obesity, they clearly disincentive the drive to stay healthy.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:16 AM
6

Thank you for the transparence. Would have been a shame to strip this sub from its quality content.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 10:01 PM
2

Can't argue about the ROI part, i'm definetly not doing that again.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:41 PM
2

Well i only did this as an experiment, since i was curious to see if i could carve an ideal companionship rather than find an off-the-shelf product. Other than that, i will always advocate for internal locus of control.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:19 PM
1

The theory is good, very good. Women can be shaped into the frame of their alpha. Such examples are dime a dozen, with the common one of religion conversion ; submitting to foreign dogmas, engulfed into a culture she would ridicule not so long ago. I tried myself to shape a female into something more advantageous. But despite high attraction, dread game and her emotional dependance on me, I still fail to instill some value in her. Since she doesn't eat much time or effort I still have her around…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:45 PM
3

Only if you know how to utilize this energy in a productive manner. Anger Phase is just a reactionary emotion to your new worldview. Learning to deal with your emotions will eventually lead to a mind set for success.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:14 PM
6

True. This is anger phase at its finest.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 08:02 AM
6

In my experience chasing too many goals tend to accomplish nothing. I would rather increment my progression than chase too many deers at once.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:26 AM
30

You have to ask yourself : why bother ?
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:12 AM
3

True but then again. Redpill is about choosing between the poor Chads that gets the action versus the rich uglies who fork the bills.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:03 AM
6

Be unique, like everyone else.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:17 AM
1

Very good insight. Yet I believe this can go further ; this isn't only a gendered issue, but also a generation one. How many millenials and Z-gens do you see actually taking time to understand the devices they use ? To be fair, we live in a more and more complex and gadget-heavy era, so getting inside every little bit of technology seems rather uncalled for. But then again, this could very well be another cause to our feminized society.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:08 AM
3

What exactly does Mike owe you ? There's an underlying entitlement in your behavior, as if this dude was obliged to stay and educate your friends on how to play the game. If Mike wasn't having fun he is in his right to go where he pleases. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:47 AM
5

Obvious case of Oneitis here. You clearly are not emotionally independant. We can't help you unless you agree to see the cause of your lack of progress.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:10 AM
1

I can only agree. Change doesn't come in huge drastic measures, but in our inner habits and details of daily life. Do you wake up early in the morning ? What do you do first thing out of bed ? How often do you clean bedroom / dishes ? Meditation ? How productive is your day ? Basically... How well do you manage your time ? I'd argue this is the single most important life skill. Edit : almost forgot. Do you lift ?
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:07 AM
7

Not exactly the same, but back in my student years i had to crash at single mom houses and always got along with the kids. Yet the moment something went awry with the mom all that would go down the drain. If someone asks me why i don't date single moms, my response would probably be along "I would end up attached to the kids and if the mother isnt right the ones who pay are the children." Women have a way of weaponizing their children and the emotional blackmail they do is on another level.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:51 AM
2

How did you go from direct confrontation with male competition to basic shit-test passing ? I never said that smv replaces game. SMV makes your game easier, and i always advocate a healthy amount of both. All i'm saying is that if you game too hard, you're essentially wasting energy that would be better spent increasing smv.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 01:07 PM
4

If that happens a lot this indicates you are in the lower bracket of smv and should spend time increasing value before getting the benefits. Ego is a hindrance, so i would probably dual plate spin (if we are clones we should have an equivalent amount of success) with him to increase the variety of girls. I know better than anyone how i think, so i know i long for spiritual male companionship. I'm telling people to re-evaluate pussy value. Is competing to get her attention worth it ? Depends on t…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 12:12 PM
8

Cut your losses and go find a better deal worth investing your time. Society comes with a social hierarchy, and getting into this situation only proves how much one needs to improve. It isn't Alpha to get stirred in a confrontational competition for female attention, that's just ego making you its bitch.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 11:33 AM
0

I highly doubt the porn industry is trying to push any sort of agenda UNLESS they have a clear benefit from getting judgmental of its customers. They really don't care what is your fetish (so long as it stays within legal borders) and will gladly give it to you. This is the big data era, where data mining analysis is running rampant to optimize sales and engross benefits. Those so called 'categories' are simply results formed by the data provided by the userbase. I do agree women look for simila…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 01:01 PM
6

How do you ghost a woman who hasn't answered your text ?
/r/askTRP23/11/17 09:52 PM
3

Thank you kind sir for your informative response, the application was sent as requested. I have taken the liberty of forwarding you a copy of the document. Please let me know if anything unsual comes to mind.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:01 PM
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