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How far do they typically go back to determine if there was "marital waste"? Will a lawyer go back 5-10 years ago to see if a husband was withdrawing cash from his bank account to "reduce" marital property? Or do they typically only go back a few years to review whether there was any "marital waste"? If they only go back a few years, wouldn't it make sense for men to always consistently withdraw cash from their bank accounts during the duration of a long term marriage, just in case they may get …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 05:17 PM
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Thanks for the detail. On average, how much does health insurance cost per child in Texas? Trying to get an idea of what number to put into that calculator for health insurance premiums for two children.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 09:47 PM
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Looks like this is for a prenuptial agreement. Curious if you know of any examples of postnuptial agreements being upheld. There seems to be a lot of confusion around whether they are truly upheld in Texas if they are signed voluntarily just a few years after a couple gets married, and then a number of years later get divorced. Example: A couple gets legally married and then signs a postnup a few years after marriage indicating property should be separate moving forward. They get divorced 20 yea…
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 09:41 PM
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How much does health insurance on average cost per child in the State of Texas? Is that added on to the below Texas child support amounts or already included? According to Texas law, if you are paying child support for one child, you'll need to pay 20% of your net monthly income. If you have two children, you are paying 25% of your net monthly income, three children are 30%, four children are 35%, and so on.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 07:00 PM
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Do you mean limited duration alimony?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 06:48 PM
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So in other words, a postnuptial agreement (e.g. 3 years after marriage) signed by a wife, that separates assets entirely, would likely stand in a Texas court? Any resources or links you can point me to that talks to this specifically standing more in Texas versus other states?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 06:45 PM
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This is really interesting. I agree with your point about new people in law making positions potentially changing things positively for men, as they hold different views than law makers today. I do think things are changing for the good, but at the same time, there's an unfortunate narrative that I think some Western countries are trying to maintain, which may limit (I could be wrong) major changes to the system. This narrative is the United Nations/Nanny State/We Help Refugees, Women, and Child…
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 08:28 AM
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How long were you ordered to pay alimony for, and for how much?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 07:38 AM
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Really appreciate it. Wanted to ask a super random question and get your opinion on something. Do you think that with the growth of things like the Red Pill movement, conservatism, more men calling divorce a scam/more people now knowing how higher earners can get fleeced in divorce court, is it likely or unlikely that divorce law/family law in the US will be slightly reformed in the next 50 years? I find this interesting, because with things like DeSantis ending permanent alimony in Florida, Tex…
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 07:22 AM
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No worries. If you don't mind me asking, how much did the divorce settlement cost you in total? I would like to get an idea, as I keep seeing most men get fleeced in divorce courts, but I'm wondering if a man making 100k and some savings can expect to lose more than half a million dollars in a divorce if his wife is stay at home.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 07:10 AM
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Alimony is not half the marriage length in Texas, it is limited to 10 years, even for marriages that are longer than 30 years. If it were half the marriage length, it would be 15 years alimony for a 30 year marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 07:04 AM
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Thanks for the detail. I'm wondering, why are there so few states in the US that share the same ruling as Texas when it comes to alimony? I find it strange that there aren't at least a couple other States similar to Texas when it comes to restricting/limiting alimony. (It seems 99% of other states allow long term alimony) You'd think that there'd be at least 3-4 other states that align with Texas and restrict alimony . The only other state I found is Indiana, which only offers rehabilitative ali…
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 06:56 AM
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Which states are known to recognize postnups more than others?
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 06:08 AM
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Where did you find that postnups of only 2 years should be fine? Lawyers have told me they're valid for as long as the validity period in the postnup mentions, not limited to 2 years.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 01:32 AM
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Kuwait.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 05:22 AM
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You can also reduce divorce damage by just having the same career as your spouse. There’s no alimony if incomes are equal. And just keep separate finances. And there’s always a postnup. I wonder if I totally quit my corporate job and opened a joint business with my wife whether I could avoid these legalities altogether in the future. For example, if I open a consulting company and put both my wife's name and my name on it, and just live off of that business.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 02:51 AM
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I agree with everything you've said and also agree I'm stupid for not looking into this more. I will say, however, that I was more misinformed about the specifics about how divorce law works, rather than completely oblivious to it. I knew about 50/50 asset splits before going into marriage, but I thought this was for assets held in joint names. I didn't know a spouse could claim 50% of something solely in my name simply because we were married. (For example, post marital earnings/savings I keep …
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 02:47 AM
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You shouldn't be thinking about making a sacrifice for her. What about her making a sacrifice for you? She's making a significant sacrifice for me. She is now open to the idea of leaving her family and moving to the US with me because she doesn't want the marriage to end. She has come to terms with it and it has been difficult for her. That's great that she loves you, but work on whether you love her and if you want to be married to her. The problem is after discovering how divorce laws work, I …
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 10:18 PM
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Which country did you live in prior to moving back to the US?
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 08:17 PM
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I definitely agree that this is something I should have known and figured out before committing to marriage and something I should have communicated about. It was a mistake on my part, and I feel bad that it also affected my wife. She definitely loves me, and I do think that I love and care about her. I feel I would go through a 1-3 year period of sadness if we divorced but that I'd eventually get over it after 1-3 years. I sometimes wonder whether a sad divorce now would be better than risking …
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 08:14 PM
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Exactly 12 months.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 07:46 PM
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Kuwait
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 07:45 PM
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Better to just move to another country entirely then?
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 10:17 PM
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What was her income and what was yours?
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 10:05 PM
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It says clearly you have to be married for 10 years in Texas to get alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 06:57 PM
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