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Really good. She dead now tho
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:33 PM
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Kudos to you for providing more details which showed that you have shit going on for yourself. And you're totally valid for feeling the way that you feel. Most guys use dating apps to actually date and meet up, and a lot of women only use them for fun and to talk to guys. In terms of your last question regarding getting them chasing back, there's no "one text" or series of actions that will give you that result. The main idea is to show that their actions do not phase you (hence the simple 'ok" …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 08:03 PM
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Okay, so... ​ So I matched with this 9 + got a date scheduled a few days away What's a few days away? You have to remember these girls are constantly swiping so her cancelling on you means she found a better option. You usually gotta schedule dates pretty soon unless you're hot shit with plenty of options and an abundance mindset. "... no worries, if you change your mind get in touch” ? Drop this part. Not needed. I usually leave them on delivered and take a long time to reply back. Play stupid …
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:33 PM
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The short answer to your DIRECT question is yes. In your ability to actually get girls? No. However, the physical aspect of your SMV will rise to the point where you'll get more IOIs or opportunities whereas before you might have relied on lifestyle, personality, confidence, etc etc. That being said, you should be lifting regardless and almost everyone agrees that once you start noticing results, your confidence spikes and you're no longer doing it for stupid reasons like receiving validation fr…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:37 PM
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Most girls aren't very straightforward. Girls adding you first on social media is them hitting on you 9/10 times, so ys.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:37 PM
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I'm graduating from Engineering April of next year so have an early congratulations from me :) It's a shitty situation because there is no obvious or clear answer as you seem to have been brought up in a functional and caring family and don't really bear any bad blood or resentment to either parent. So while on one side, if someone had shitty parents - they would easily make the decision of fucking off somewhere and focusing on their future. But in your case (and mine as well), we feel like we o…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:43 PM
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I like social media (22 if that matters). It's an opportunity to sell yourself to others, showcase your hopefully cool lifestyle, your hobbies, adventures, feats, etc. Can this be used as a source of validation? Absolutely. Can using this help you with women, or even help with dread if you have a large following? Oh, 110%. In the long run, I post shit occasionally on my social media for future me, because I personally very much enjoy looking back at shit. Which is the same reason why I haven't d…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:06 PM
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I have not communicated this with her. The reason for this mirroring your point at the end where she might be worried not to fuck things up since it is a relatively new LTR. I’m the same in the sense that I feel like if I communicate this part of me where I want her to put in effort or initiate (me opening up), then that would by trp standards also turn her off (and that’s on lack of abundance after entering an ltr as well as oneitis) The bedroom isn’t an issue. She was a virgin prior to me (lea…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:27 AM
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Very good post in my honest opinion as it not only mirrors how I was brought up, but also my recent experiences and findings with younger women and your 5 points are spot on and the absolute basics of vetting plates. ... females. I approached every single one of them thinking that there is potential for us to have the same thing that my parents have - after all, that was the primary male - female relationship that I've been exposed to all my life. This is also a very very important point that I …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 04:00 PM
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I just wanted to let you know that I read your reply in the morning, and I've been coming back to it because those words are so hard hitting. I mean, it's the core of TRP to raise your SMV and get on your purpose, but something about the way you arranged your words hit me lmao. Good shit
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:15 AM
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The word "nice guy" has lots it's meaning. Most people on this sub are keyboard warriors and treat this forum as the bible without actually living it. Being nice (or rather a good guy) is absolutely fine. Being a nice guy in the sense that you shower her with validation without receiving any, or doing things out of the blue because you're expecting a relationship or sex is wrong and exactly what women look down on. In general, - Look at her actions, not her words (words carry no value. stuff lik…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:10 PM
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By talking to more women and meeting up with them, it is the only way. I was in a similar situation where my parents and grandparents had fairy tale relationships and was raised in the same way you are. I talked to women, acted nice, and got turned down every single time. Then when I started giving less of a shit and adopted the mindset of living life and letting women come to me (or just reacting to their IOIs and advancing) instead of actively chasing girls because I thought I needed that, onl…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 05:58 PM
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OP DEERed to a girl and is now DEERing to people giving him sound advice, nice.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:33 PM
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Yup, gyms closed for 3 months here too (Ontario). I bought 2x 50lbs dumbbells 6 months ago despite them being super expensive and I'm glad I did. I hate it though haha, dumbbell squats and presses are not fun at home without proper benches and stuff. Hopefully it's over soon
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:19 PM
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I'm 22. Discovered TRP at 20, was mad at the world and everything it stood for for an entire year, but remained comitted to working out and on my self. 21 I flipped the switch, stuck to meeting girls outside or via dating apps and I learned a shit ton about just how little effort is needed most of the time.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:55 PM
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I mean does anyone really just say “lets do this on x and x time” and just ghost till the day of? I had a good laugh when I read this, because this is literally how I met my now-LTR. The whole point of texting (in the begininning especially) is to get that girl out on a date. After you have a little bit of back and forth, you have to meet up and that's final. Women like need to be lead and this is as direct as you can be. Any girl who says no, doesn't provide an alternative date, or isn't as rec…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:49 PM
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Happy to hear that. I only mentioned the jaw part because you mentioned a lot about your physical appearance (good shit), but you just gotta remember that there's more to it. Being physically attractive gets you "in the club" in the sense that you attract more girls a lot easier without trying. But at the end of the day you're going to have to open your mouth :) ​ I just wanted to add another heads-up. I don't know what your situation was, but in my case I was generally average or unattractive u…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 02:36 PM
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This is what happens when all you do is work out, focus on appearances, read TRP content, but don't work on your self emotionally or psychologically. You tense up, you pedestalize (despite reading about not doing this), and then you fuck up and go back to the gym because clearly you're not good enough for some girl. Please. I can’t approach her, she’s different to others girls, my feelings will be EXTREMELY hurt if she rejects me Buddy. This is a random fucking girl you know because she's a frie…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 01:52 PM
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Do you want to change the time? If you were supposed to be doing something else earlier before meeting her, then you're bending over backwards to fit in with a girl's schedule. That being said, - nothing wrong with changing the time. - 18 year olds and the like have logistics issues if they're still living with their parents (they will always be lying to their parents etc etc) Sunset where I live is around 5:30PM. If I was in your shoes and had no plans prior, I would be fine with changing the t…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:59 PM
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Sex God Method Are you having regular sex? If yes, read this first. It was an absolute gamechanger for someone timid, shy, and not overly dominant as myself. Good shit. The Rational Male Models Models I found not to be all that TRP-focused, and has blue pill ideas, but it is a very very good book in my opinion that all men should read that deal with clinginess or gauging/building attraction. I enjoyed this read. The Rational Male gives you some stone cold truths like TRP and is considered the en…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:23 PM
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I misunderstood you then. I thought you meant that she's not replying and that you feel hurt/want her to engage more. Mate, you're in a LTR. This isn't a plate where you can just do whatever and do your own thing. Shit tests become comfort tests and she just wants to engage with you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with replying to her lmao
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:59 PM
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Okay so 13 months is (in my opinion at least) a long time, where you can start to relax things like "texting only for logistics". Logistics texts imo are mainly used until you're actually dating. Regardless, you gotta focus on your hobbies and interests. Your girl shouldn't be your priority, she's simply someone that adds value to your life, but should not be the highlight. By caring about these little things 13 months into a relationship, you're just coming off as insecure and needy. ​ and for …
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:24 PM
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D. Stop playing fucking games. Definitely stop wasting time checking minor things like when she's online or whatever. Why do you need to text? Are you in a LDR? Are you actually in a LTR? I'm asking because the only time I really text is for logistics or when we're meeting up again. Anything else is pointless and makes them lose attraction unless you're actually dating for some time. "The worst number of chicks you can have is 1" Talk to other people. Work on your interests and hobbies. Get busy…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:51 PM
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Thank you for the link, listening in right now!
/r/askTRP07/01/21 03:18 AM
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I always take posts in this subreddit with a grain of salt, but this post was really really well written with very very good points. Kudos to you
/r/seduction06/01/21 08:50 PM
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So there's a few things at play here that maybe not everyone here at TRP will agree with, but this is what I've noticed based on your situation because I have been in it. First off, I do think she's attracted to you. Friends don't sleep in the same bed together and she wouldn't want to see you if she wasn't interested. 1) She might be a virgin. If that's the case, she might want a special moment etc etc. BUT. Even if she is one, and wants something special, that still means kissing, oral and may…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:58 PM
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That last sentence is all you need OP. Also, stop talking to her , but more importantly stop explaining yourself to her. You're trying to escalate to sex verbally from what I read, but that's just not how it's done. Like Vas mentioned, isolate and escalate (***physically, aka NOT with words)
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:12 PM
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I 100% agree with everything you said, but I think a little bit different. I'm a busy guy in university that's currently working a co-op so my days mainly consist of work, lifting, cooking, and sleeping. I have maybe 2-3 hours after that to work on my hobbies and side hustles. Because of Covid, the only real way to meet women in my locked-down (about to be curfewd) state, is online dating and that takes a little bit of effort. It was a lot easier before when I stayed up until 2-3am where booty c…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:06 PM
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I would imagine yes. Because at that point you open yourself up with your intentions, and if she doesn't reciprocate then she holds all the power. But even then, you said you wanted A, but she did not want A, so why would you stay?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:02 PM
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Haven't checked out MRP in a while, but I guess they would have more on it, will do more reading. Very good analogy with the phone fanboys and oneitis.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:12 PM
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Some girls are shy/too chill to bring it up and others either want to or get anxious you’re seeing other girls and want to lock you down. This is exactly my point. Some chicks are really shy, but WANT you to make the move, WANT you to rail them, but their feminine side keeps telling her that she is the woman, and the man needs to make his move to prove to her that is in fact a man that knows what he wants and not a boy. But as you said, some chicks are the opposite and anxious and want to lock y…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:11 PM
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Thank you for your response. You raised some very good points and it gives me more to think about. I feel as long as she knows that you have options, and could easily get with someone else if she acts up, then she would still be worried even if you're the one that initiates the talk. Good analogies and thanks for the personal experiences
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:09 PM
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Sometimes you just gotta learn through repetition and making the same mistakes. - I really liked 1 girl when I was 16 and saw my future with her, she didn't like me back. Thought I would never find another girl I felt about this kind of way - Same shit when I was 18, new girl, same thoughts, same result (but she was perfect, so much in common, very feminine, no way I could everrrr feel or find someone like this again). - Same deal when I was 19, but this girl pushed me over the edge by leading m…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 05:23 PM
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Bingo. Pair being a nice guy, losing your mom at a young age, and then getting lead on a girl and oh boy are you going to change... I almost don't recognize myself from a year ago.
/r/seduction05/01/21 08:17 PM
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Messages like that invite orbiters to validate them and slide into their DMs. Same with how girls and guys sometimes post stories only for 1-2 specific people to see.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:14 PM
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I stumbled upon your reply through reddit's search function, and I just wanted to thank you for the last 2 points of your reply. My mom passed when I was 18, and I only discovered RP when I was 21. I had my own methods of coping (not drugs or alcohol), but your first point made my heart sink because what you speak of is the raw reality. And then your second point basically strikes home too because that's how I feel and I can no longer really trust women fully because I always am aware that it's …
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:26 PM
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100%. The only reason I used to mope around or be sad that it didn't work out with girls I used to like (aka when I was a nice guy), was because I was just confused and wanted an explanation. The lightswitch effect and how women are emotional terrorists and lovebombing were the main things that allow me to relax now and understand women.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:04 PM
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"The lightswitch effect" paired with the whole "you are not her first priority" posts helped me a lot. Go on to the main sub and sort by top of all time or dive into the archives. The sidebar is just a small part.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:48 PM
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Church girls are no better. You just think they're better. Sure they might say they are virgins (and not be lying), but you can still suck dick, do anal, and get fingered and still be a virgin. ​ It's 2021 mate. The quality women you speak of simply no longer exist. Maybe there still exist a few unicorns, but I can guarantee you that they are not on dating apps. Even the land whales you mention get hit up constantly by guys on those apps (even moreso than you believe me...)
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:40 PM
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The only woman in the world who will love you unconditionally is your mom (if you’re lucky).
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:40 PM
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Now I feel like I am starting over. Having trouble talking to chicks, because when the topic of “what do you do” comes up I have no idea how to say I was laid off without instant interest decrease. Read this sentence you wrote again. Good, now read it over again. Now answer my question, Why is your focus on talking to chicks instead of yourself or finding a job? You have to remember that women are supposed to complement your life, not be the be-all-end-all. Get you head out of the gutter and get…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 09:42 PM
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Just a name idea I had when I first read about TRP. By no means a chad, but I would like to think I bumped up my smv a few points, and my whole life has improved since then haha But I agree with you. Maybe the unicorn bit is a stretch, but communication is definitely up there as far as LTR-able women go for me.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:57 PM
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Respect the level 1 and level 2 suggestions haha Why would you see her as being salty rather than just open/want to communicate that?
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:53 PM
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Will do, thanks!
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:52 PM
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The second part of your response is exactly the reasoning behind me writing this post. Communication is rare so I respect her for sending it. I'd much rather that or simply letting go versus that BS response lmao
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:52 PM
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Thanks for the examples, cheers!
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:16 PM
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I'm 6'1, but I'm the opposite in the sense that I like shorter girls (5'3-5'8). Taller girls I find to be less picky and shit test less, because well...they usually dismiss shorter guys, and shorter guys ALSO dismiss them because well...they're tall and the guys are insecure. I've been with someone that was basically my height 6'0 and it did feel a bit weird (For me). I was able to move past it and have great sex & all, but it really depends on whether you can put your insecurities or thoughts a…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:52 PM
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Thanks for the insight. For #2, I did something similar on a different date before, but what happens if she keeps pushing for it? Like in my mind, there's the following scenarios - you keep on ignoring/bullshitting about somethign else and she drops it - same as above and she keeps asking for it (would get annoying) - it just casually comes up.. like you're walking and she just asks for example "so what's the longest relationship you've been in" or something like? I feel like it would be weird t…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:09 PM
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Don't text her mate. Get back to the gym and back on tinder, etc etc. Trust me man. I met someone on tinder that became a plate of 2 months and she literally lived 800 metres away. I simped a little and fell for her because well, it was super convenient, she was really hot, and we had great fun. Then I noticed signs of her losing interest (no longer showing the same amount of energy, rain-checks, less initiation, etc etc) so I decided to not respond to her for a week and she came back (only temp…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 06:45 PM
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you said you read it and the first post is "There's this one girl..." Grow up
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:47 PM
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Someone you're never gonna bang? Bitch, you've never even met the person Jesus dude. Read the sidebar and start lifting, that is your only answer - especially at your age lol
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:32 PM
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So you're 20 and use snap/IG like every other girl and guy your age, great. Spin other plates, talk to more women If you want to spin her, you simply keep snapping occasionally until you can meetup and that's that - don't give her more of your time than necessary (aka sexting or texting) since you haven't met up.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:23 PM
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You know, but you don't accept it in this case. Look at your sister's messages and see how many invitations to hang out she has, why isn't she hanging out with them? Now replace your sister in this scenario with your oneitis and ask the same question. You are not her top choice bud.
/r/seduction03/09/20 02:16 PM
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Go read the sidebar and use your search function to see the countless similar threads to this one. You're asking about alphas finding a community to teach them about being alpha and how they found it? Read your question again mate.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:15 PM
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Man, people keep throwing these autistic fucking scenarios around and using the word "plate" like it's gospel. Listen. You fucked her so she's a plate, awesome. She fucked your friend and you got butthurt? Okay, so she's not a plate, rather your oneitis and you just want to invest in women and have them be exclusive to you (aka, NOT PLATES). The only takeaway from this situation is that she can never be LTR material and your mate's not one of the boys. You just have to ask yourself whether you w…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:13 PM
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it’s just weird like why keep switching the energy Don't try to rationalize women's thinking or behaviour. Do yourself a favour and game other chicks. Do yourself an even bigger favour and get a hot girl friend to show you her tinder and look at the shear number of matches she has compared to you - that should at the very least tell you that you're not the only one she's talking to. Welcome to online dating
/r/seduction03/09/20 02:10 PM
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If you want to buy TRON, then do yourself a favour and spend the money on a financial advisor or bettery yet, give it to me to invest it because someone hasn't done their research on what a vaporware crypto is.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:06 PM
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She insinuates that she would like to meet up. So you texted long enough for her to get frustrated about you not making a move and her having to do it herself, escalate sooner. I was bit conflicted about her meeting my parents ( I soon realized that was a beta move) Koodos for having an action date. I wouldn't label this thinking as behaviour (I would only introduce plates if they're more than that or they stumbled into each other. I would however, have my logistics sorted out before you go on a…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:08 PM
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Spin older plates. Learn to sail on older yachts - they will easy acce Can I go on your yacht mister? I liked your response, I'm guessing you're 58 based on your username ;)
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:22 AM
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1) Smile 2) Lift. Keep lifting. Lift more. i'm also practicing photography, it's just another hobby and it will help with online dating and social media I hope you're doing photography because you enjoy it, not because you thought it would help with women... because that's a big no-no. after consuming redpill material without social interactions for years... you didn't consume squat. TRP doesn't preach, encourage let alone talk about minimal socialization, quite the opposite. Have some more conf…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:25 PM
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While I feel like you might get some funny comments making fun of you, I'm curious to what other people have to say. Personally, I don't sweat it too much. Plate comes over, drinks + movie that we never finish or even start, walk to car/wherever and a kiss goodbye w/ an ass grab and a smile is. I just feel like that’s relationship-y idk. Remember. You are a man. Women are the gatekeepers of sex (and her gate is wide open since you used the word plate), Men are the gatekeepers of relationships. E…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:22 PM
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I don't think there's 1 good answer I can give you. For me, my main friend groups/social circles are really great so I just valued spending my time with them more. Other than that, I kind of just sucked it up. From the day my mother passed, to the day I eventually die, the fact remains that she is no longer with me. That being said, I just picked myself up, focused on lifting and hobbies and haven't really looked back. The fact of the matter is that you don't need validation. You just value vali…
/r/seduction02/09/20 07:18 PM
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I've read the sidebar and learned the definition of alpha
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:47 PM
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I am copying a comment I made a few months ago about something Mark said which stuck with me the most, more than anything you've summarized. ​ I think the best thing I've ever read (apparent to my situation) came from Models by Mark Manson where to paraphrase he wrote something along the lines of: "Set out to find the emotional knots in yourself that you may not be aware of. It can be simple things or bigger traumas such as being bullied when you were younger, a divorce, **a death of a loved one…
/r/seduction02/09/20 05:46 PM
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Great response, thanks! I'm still pretty naive when it comes to this stuff being 21, but this definitely shed some light into what I want in the future. I'm curious how Canadian laws pair up with what you described because oh boy does CS sound like a nightmare
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 03:08 PM
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That's the one!
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 01:14 PM
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you haven't fucking met her
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:07 PM
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I've heard the idea of marriage being trashed on TRP for a while now and I agree the main arguments. That being said, is it still a bad choice if there's a prenup involved?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/20 11:50 AM
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Amazing answer and something I personally struggled with understanding or accepting for a while. I think BP and transitioning men, if they continue to chase girls, get their numbers, set-up dates, and do all this planning and initiation on their part get exasperated and tired when things go south and all their effort was for nothing. "Why do I have to plan everything, initiate everything, make all the plans, decide everything?" --> Because you're the man in the relationship and you fucking lead.…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:41 AM
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You have $1,800 in your bank account and are considering moving out because your " Family is all super BP"? Are you autistic? Unless you're on terrible terms with your parents (i.e. abuse, neglect, etc - NOT just arguing because you don't agree with their BP asses or because you didn't clean your room), I think it would be a stupid decision. I'm 21 as well, have a car and fairly well off due to grinding previously, but I'm still living in the basement for at least another year or two until I fin…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:18 AM
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One of the 2 most influential posts I read from TRP are this one re: the lightswitch effect and another archived link titled "You're not her #1 priority" or something like that. Looking forward to the content!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 06:55 PM
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1) It happens. Not the limp mode, but the girls going away. Jerk it less and do your kegels. Remember that AWALT and if this chick fucks often and you didn't satisfy her, say bye bye. ​ 2) Saying she’s done with him and has achieved her aim in the relationship. She then asks me if I’m single and why is it that way, I respond that I haven’t found the one to give the ring to, then tell her that for now I’m not looking for anything serious. She then says that she’s open to having something open wit…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:25 PM
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Personally no. But if you're planning on continuing this kind of trend, stand up for yourself and excuse yourself after sex. Afterall, you have no obligation to spend more time than you want to. I imagine after you get post nut clarity and you're lying with a 4-6, the last thing you want to do is cuddle... Think of an excuse and there you go. If you want to go nuclear and get slapped, you gotta stand up and bellow the words "Begone thot" and problem solved
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:45 AM
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What I've heard and also found is that a lot of these things matter less after sex because that is when the girl usually gets more of an attachment (afterall, she has no more cards to play). Asking to hangout, come over isn't needy. Constantly texting her, sending memes and whatever else during the day is needy. As long as you have a routine and stick to it and send messages when you have the time, you're golden. Also. You're not pushing it. Read your messages over again. You hinted at the possi…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:19 PM
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showing a cat with a slightly scared/surprised expression Let me get this straight. She sent you a fucking sticker with a cat and that made you spiral into analyzing the sticker and make this post? What the actual fuck did I just read. (Mate, just ask her to come over or to be ready for X time, or ask when she's free, blah blah blah, do what you want... stop thinking about what she's thinking because she sent you a cat sticker...)
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:05 PM
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Love your response lmao OP, asides from overthinking, you also have oneitis. Don't give her validation, especially over the phone or apps. What you should do instead, is reply to that snap with a simple selfie or whatever (if you care that much), and then work on your purpose until you find the time to send the "come over" text
/r/askTRP28/08/20 04:01 PM
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TL;DR was in the title of the post and your long wall of text flowed and was nice to read, koodos to you. Listen to the other comments, but I agree with the "perf mode" as well as the inexperience aspect
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:58 PM
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Here's the deal, I don't like my gf very much. Idk why, but this made me laugh a lot haha Listen to VasiliyZaitzev or HurricaneHugues
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:47 PM
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How do you forgive yourself? You do everything the other comments said. You also look back your past self, call him a little bitch pussy, and then look at your future self (the only idol you should have) and work on yourself. I was recently in a similar scenario, except I realized half way that I'm being a little bitch and would have ended up in your situation if I didn't escalate. A little more detail if you will, she came over at home, all sort of IoIs Were you attracted to this girl? She came…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:23 PM
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So you sucked before, took a 3 year gap, and think you're gonna be a god in bed? Oh yeah it's gonna suck, but by no means the end of the world. Focus on keeping yourself composed, and don't apologize for subpar performance or for ED or any of that stuff. Do not say sorry, do not ask how you're doing, basically don't be anxious or concerned with yourself (or do all that, but your chance of meeting her again will be thinner). Worst case scenario is you finish too early, or the sex is subpar and sh…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:31 PM
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Thanks for all the pointers, will definitely apply them moving forwards
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:34 AM
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You missed the point by generalizing everything mate. And trauma sure, explained a little in my post
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:33 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion and insight. Will definitely dial it back a bit and focus on lifting and doing what I want
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:32 AM
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The marriage and security part is interesting to me as I've always had this I guess BP idea of a wife, nice house, cottage, car, kids all that stuff, but now TRP has me definitely thinking twice before buying a ring
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:30 AM
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I think I definitely overstressed or exaggerated associating emotions with my slip-up. I think it's more-so I'm fine with emotions, but I'm worried/cautious to not be overtaken by them and start doing BP stuff or go full simp as you said
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:24 AM
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Will look into PHAT & PHUL later on, thank you! I would say I look decent at 14%, but if I can bring that # down a bit to get that full six pack while continuing to gain muscle, it would be even better no? I'm going more for overall strength and mobility on top of aesthetic so HUGE mass isn't a goal for me, but obviously more than I have now so I have stuff to work towards
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:21 AM
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unchained man alpha 2.0" by caleb jones Thank you for the reading suggestion and for your additional insight. Definitely cleared some things up/corrected my viewpoint. Will read it soon!
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:19 AM
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Good shit, I'm mainly working on trying to cut just a little more to drop the BF while also trying to gain muscle so it's a bit of a challenge but I'm following SL 5x5 and so far it's working. Can't say much in terms of social circles, but I know there's great posts here and the main subreddit. My 2 main social circles I formed before TRP and it was just me putting myself outside of my comfort zone and trying/learning something new so there's that.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:18 PM
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Found TRP in February 2020. Started to take lifting/bodyweight/gym stuff seriously April 2020 (lost 35 lbs since then and I'm bordering 14% BF). Started to put this shit to practice July/August 2020. Honestly, the biggest thing was lifting. I was a big introvert and shy in general and lifting itself transformed that. It took a while for my perception of myself to catch up with my looks, but once girls started giving more IOIs and approaching themselves I started noticing results. In terms of you…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:07 PM
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Terrific response, thanks for spending the time to write all that and offering a perspective that I was missing/struggling to reach.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:18 PM
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Thanks for the input and reminder!
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:04 PM
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It's not so much that I'm worried I'll lose emotions, but rather that occasionally I'll meet someone who I'll want to LTR and show too much emotions. Basically, before TRP I met someone who checked all my boxes and I was in love with. The more emotions I showed, the more distant she got and things eventually died down and that's where I found out about TRP (and lifting as a result). I guess I just overthink shit and need to go with the flow while keeping TRP or at least the basics at the back of…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:03 PM
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Commenting on this post so I can see what kind of flair TRPcops gives you.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:55 PM
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I'd say that the death of my mom + reading about women are incapable of loving men the way men want to be loved + the fact that you're alone and can only rely on yourself when everything goes to shit did it for me. Pair those 3 with my young age of 20 + 1 and oh boy am I gonna have a fun life
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:53 PM
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Not everything's about sex duhh It's all about that love and compassion and sweet sweet emotional support women offer. Okay I'm done haha
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:17 PM
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don't listen to the person above me, that is disrespectful and she will block you!!!!!! do what I said instead, but also send flowers and chocolate
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:32 PM
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don't listen to ppl here, everyone is a fake alpha follow your heart, if she's the one you'll know bro! don't text her back, call her and confess your feelings and talk about something that makes you emotional so she knows you have a feminine side. Good luck dude!!!!!!
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:30 PM
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ok if I tip her big money, do I habe better chance? thx in advance, plz don't ban i am seriuous
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:29 PM
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This girl smiled at me earlier today. Is this an IOI? can my bros plz help? btw fyi P.S. she was my waitress ltr material?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:24 PM
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Fuck, I'm en route to oneitis in that case aren't I lmao I'll follow your advice you mentioned in the original reply, thanks broski
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:27 PM
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Do use call- back humor to a joke you two laughed about or teased each other about on your date when you reach back out. Could you elaborate on this a little? Never heard of it and I think that's what I did after yesterday's date so I'm curious
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:46 AM
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This plate is kind of wild and wants it in her mouth so no, not really haha
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:03 PM
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I was 20% and now I'm around 13-14% and I can see a big improvement, and can only imagine what 10-12% will do for me. Losing 6-7 lbs will not bring you to 15% from 20%, just throwing it out there.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:21 PM
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Thank you for your response! The main reason I asked this was because I felt a bit weird that I'm with a hot piece of ass who's unable to get me to cum, so instead I had to do it which got me wondering. Being able to feel yourself climax, but not actually cum as you pointed out sounds like quite the superpower haha
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:18 PM
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This means you're not actually working out. Your blood is flowing to your dick to make it erect. Blood flows to your muscle when you flex or lift. Therefore, you are not lifting. (But seriously, whenever I have an awkd situation, I try to flex in a natural way and away it goes)
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:14 PM
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That's not what STFU means. Go on the married red pill sub-reddit to better understand the concept of STFU. Tell your stories, don't shut-up. What you don't want to do is come off as insecure to women, or to say shit like "I'm gonna start lifting" or "I'm gonna learn to drive a motorycle" Do it, don't say it.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:42 PM
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Unless you are really light, developing that level of strength needed is going to be very difficult without weights. I used custom adjustable dumbbells for curls and press, and then I put the removable weights and was doing 40 lb pull-ups with a backpack so it's like I wasn't increasing weight. ​ Calisthenics are decent for warmups but beyond that it's just shit pussies do that don't want to feel the pain of lifting I see where you're coming from, but disagree. In my opinion, handstands (1-hande…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:34 PM
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According to SL, I'd have to lift for 6 months to get to respectable levels so I'm not sure I can hold off on pushups until then haha Thanks for the reply, I'll figure something out :)
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:20 PM
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My advice before reading the last little paragraph Agreeing and amplifying works for both men and women. You can make fun of the situation... "Her? Oh yeah, we sat in the same taxi and I pitched her this party" "Picked her up from the street" "She's my accountant", fuck man.. literally anything. If they persist? Simple --> "Why do you care so much?" "You think she's hot eh? Ask her out then champ" Easy. My advice after reading the last little paragraph Aha, so you've slowly been developing oneit…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:02 PM
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It seems a woman found her way to asktrp Do a little bit of reading on frame my guy. Also, why do you care? She's a plate. If anything, talk like that allows you to easy vet her and not pursue a LTR if that's your end-goal. Smash n dash
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:52 PM
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My obliques show, but not the good stuff yet. I look pretty good imo (at least compared to 35 lbs heavier in January), but I want the abs obviously to be more visible (9-12%?) before working up if that makes sense
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:15 PM
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Fair enough. I've just started SL so my starting weight is pretty light which is why I think it's feasible to add stuff (although that might quickly change). ​ My main issue is that while SL works all your muscles, it doesn't really improve (at least imo) skills such as pull-ups
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:14 PM
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Great Response! I don't do anything competitive or play sports all that much so I'm not too concerned about usefulness (my brother plays competitive vball and is super learn and not that big, but he's focused on movement and explosiveness, while I'm mainly looking at looks and overall strength). I'll up my calories a bit and try it out, but I'm still being careful as I want to still cut my BF % (currently resting at 13-14 I believe)
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:03 PM
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Your post was the literal definition of word vomit, holy fuck that was atrocious to read. Only reason I read it was because I had nothing better to do. You're not red-pilled. You never were red-pilled. You just knew of the redpill. You also never read the fucking sidebar so I suggest that's what you do. Once a cheater, always a cheater. And not to mention... she cheated on her husband with you (and you were fully aware that you're homewrecking), and then you became a little pussy bitch because y…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:41 PM
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Sweet, thanks for the insight!
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:30 PM
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I mean... the Canadian government reccomended using gloryholes for practicing safe sex sooooo The more research you do on the virus (not just reading headlines), the more you realize how much of a joke it is, and how a lot of stuff just doesn't add up so no).
/r/askTRP21/08/20 12:09 PM
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I went ahead and downvoted myself for not looking for it better haha, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 11:48 AM
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Ignore the blackpillers, short answer is yes. Fridays/Saturdays in the later evening.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:36 AM
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Dark mode please and thanks
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 11:19 AM
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Yeah, so you're gonna have to go back to the sidebar mate. You are so ego-driven and your situation makes you come off as a complete autist. ​ But to answer your question, no. You shouldn't hard next him or introduce him to trp. I won't bother explaining it in detail because there's already so many ECs explaining why introducing trp to people that aren't at their lowest/had their heart broken etc etc does not work.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:23 PM
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Just based off the fact that I've seen a bunch of similar posts, I'm going to go ahead and say you're trolling and half of these commenters are stuck-up with no sense of humour. That, or you're an autist haha
/r/askTRP18/08/20 06:10 PM
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To put it quite simply, despite having read on female nature and hypergamy etc, I still crave the love and affection of a woman. I want it so desperately that it sickens me. I cannot seem to take women off of this large pedestal I have set for them. The pedestal is even worse if the girl is some kind of model or something. Maybe you need to enter another LTR, and get female nature and the concept of hypergamy hammered into your thick skull when she leaves you for being a little boy that craves t…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:13 PM
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It honestly baffles me. I've only been self-introduced to TRP 6-7 months ago (mind you I'm 21), but I found that simply reading the Sidebar and a bunch of old top posts + archives, while practicing (gaming other girls, going on dates, but more importantly lifting, investing in yourself and paying more attention while giving less fucks) opened my eyes and I'm able to rationalize things better and simply enjoy life a lot more. OP just has no sense of humour and rationalizes every little thing that…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 05:43 PM
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If I was your girl and somehow saw your reddit post, I would next you for being a little beta bitch. ​ Why is your first reaction to such a thing to make a fucking reddit post? You have so many options - Confront her about how you feel upset about her blatant disrespect and would appreciate her suppressing her emotions (aka be butthurt) /s - Ignore/Dread/Anything else the sidebar preaches - Trust your gut (although from what I've read, you don't have any gut feelings for this situation, you just…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:01 PM
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I had a pretty good laugh reading your title. I imagine you're only joking/trolling, otherwise you sir, are a LVL99 autist. ​ Koodos to DerDroogie for actually responding to you
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:52 PM
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But can anybody explain why she be the first to view my Instagram stories even though she’s in another relationship? Just curious You're not just curious. You're lonely, pathetic and not over her. Sorry to be harsh mate, but come on, read your paragraph again... Are you focused on yourself or are you focused on refreshing your social media seen list to see if she saw it? If you're younger and waste your time browsing Tiktok/memes, there's that one where people think of a scenario and then say "I…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 01:45 PM
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You gave absolutely 0 context about your plate (sounding like oneitis) did to warrant such a reaction. You've been spending too much time with your plate (girlfriend)
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:39 AM
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Soooooo you've been working out for a long time, have no approach anxiety, have a lot of confidence, have daddy's money, approach girls and complain that they're too easy? Bitch please, you're running life on easy mode. ​ What are you trying to do? Find a gf? Sound like that's not your intention as you're addicted to sex (nothing wrong with that), but then you're complaining about the faces behind the sex? In terms of anger phase, it'll come and go and eventually disappear. I think your anger/di…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 11:37 AM
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I asked TRPcops for permission to enter monk mode.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:46 PM
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Bingo. OP, I'll also add one last little bit. Like... what's the point of improving, if I will never be a match to some people? This is dangerous (black-pilled) thinking and most people go through it at some point in time while improving themselves. The problem is this: You are lifting and becoming better NOT for yourself, but for others (mainly girls, and to be bigger and better than other guys). Which is acceptable, most guys start off the same way (heartbroken, etc etc), but I think the true …
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:18 PM
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As long as I feel that I'm physically/intellectually superior to someone, my self esteem is intact You identified your problem :) Stop trying to be the absolute best and learn (or at least try to become better) to be outcome independent. Honestly, you just gotta know that there will always be people better than you, so you just gotta work on being the best that you can be. As cheesy, or stupid as it may sound, think about it... Let's say you've worked out for 5 years and created your own busines…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:25 PM
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You're 2 years younger than me and actually want to learn so I'll bite a bit from I've learned, noticed and know. After discovering trp 2 years ago, I tried to boost my confidence by overcoming others. Learning social skills, reading books, getting jacked, avoiding any failures. But some days ago, I encountered someone who was better than me in every possible way, an utimate chad with a shitton of money, who was extremely charismatic. Imo, this part is a bit wonky and needs fixing. - What do you…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 11:49 AM
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You ask for advice and then defend yourself when people give you solid advice... Thank you. I was going to reply with more details, but OP is more interested in rationalizing his decisions rather than taking sound advice.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 04:04 PM
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I'll bite but i decided not to be too pushy or needy Are you content with remaining an orbiter? Be a fucking guy and make a move, ask her out to do something i always did my best to hold frame. I didn't wanna be the one introducing intimacy to the conversation These contradict each other? You say you're holding frame, but you're waiting for her to make the conversation sexual? I agree with you that frame is being held, but it's her frame that is being held and you're holding it for her. she lite…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 03:02 PM
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Investing in this post before TRPcop bans this guy's ass. ​ Jesus Christ you are a) insecure as fuck b) angry for not getting the girl's attention NOW and being left on read/unopened c) an AFC d) an autist e) insecure as fuck Reread your post and sound out how pathetic you are. But to not completely shit on you, the ONLY advice you can get is to talk to OTHER girls.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:36 PM
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Why'd you have to go expose me like that
/r/askTRP30/07/20 02:28 PM
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Nah dude, he didn't shabang on the first date. Absolutely terrible, HARD next /s
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:09 PM
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I love this response
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:04 PM
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you found her on tinder 5 miles away? Great, now go find the sidebar and the search bar 5 inches away from this reply on your screen. What do you like to do/are good at? (that has some sort of touch element involved) - Do you skateboard? teach her to skate - Are you adventurous and can swim? go bridge jump - are you of age? go for drink near a park and then go for a walk that's all you're getting from me. (Chances are you will get flaked on if you just asked "wanna hangout xD?" instead of polari…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:52 PM
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Are you under 25? Do you actively spin plates (or want to?) Keep that shit & ignore other people's opinions and praising words like "validation only, meet up with her etc etc). I use snapchat for keeping up w/ a few friends and snapping hoes. That being said, I don't ask a girl for her snapchat in person or dating apps. I ask for her #, send logistic texts, and then ask for snap/socials. ​ If you have an interesting life/goals/hobbies that you like to showcase, there is no reason to delete socia…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:44 PM
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Why live a life of self actualization when you can live a life of pussy annihilation This has to be the most woke and funniest shit I've read on this sub-reddit lmao
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 02:47 PM
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Want money but don't feel like working
/r/seduction10/07/20 06:31 PM
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Thank you for a great response, I appreciate it. I'll go along with the current situation, while finishing my engineering degree and keep on setting up my 23-24yo future-self for success :)
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:52 PM
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Moving out and putting some distance between you might be helpful to you both. I find that when I'm studying and living away for the term is a lot better for us, it's only when we live together for a longer time that things go south. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:38 PM
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Ok , get a decent job, spend less then you make, gain skills. Etc. it’s not rocket science The only issue is I'm still in school. I get good co-ops, but can't get a job until I graduate really. Also, don’t sabotage the relationship with your old man. He is all you got. I've got a younger brother and great friends but I hear you. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:36 PM
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Thanks for the explanation and link. I suppose if someone labels a relationship as abusive, then it's better to give them the benefit of the doubt. I would still probably refer to women that refer to the exes as "terrible" or a general negative adjective to just a be a subject of the lightswitch effect imo
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:26 PM
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Did anybody experience abundance If you are still working out with the sole purpose of getting girls, you either have not been lifting long enough or intense enough. It's fine to start wanting to get fit and shredded because of a girl in the first place, but there is usually a moment where you stop doing it for women and start doing it for yourself. But to answer your general question, - I was an introvert and my confidence has definitely spiked to new-time highs because of lifting and seeing pr…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:44 PM
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The most I did was 60 hours. I felt really good in terms of energy and focus, but the gnawing hunger sensation never went away. I meant to go 72 hours, but I couldn't do it. Not because I was that hungry, but because I needed to go to the washroom every 15 minutes or so and completely destroy the toilet with alien liquid shits and I was not about it (especially at work). But holy shit was the Shawarma I ate after the fast the best thing I have ever tasted in my life.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 02:34 PM
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Thank you for sharing that archive link. I have never seen that post and it is literal gold and applies to most of my situations as well. (My issue is moreso I approach girls who become high interest/act like I am their top choice, and then it fades away before even meeting..) ​ In terms of your question, (mind you I don't have much experience), I don't think there is any problem with your new approach. I think you need to engage/probe conversations a little, but then when they don't reciprocate…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 04:26 PM
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Funny thing is that I kind of already knew that a soft next is the right answer, I guess my issue is more with why it happened as I want to improve. To clarify, my understanding of soft next is to just drop contact with her? (I sent a last "sounds good, lmk" text, but I'm still uneasy with how things turned out, but I know dropping all attention and forgetting about the whole ordeal is the right move. ​ In regards to 2, I don't have an issue with SM. It's more the idea that my parents and other …
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:28 AM
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I definitely should have rephrased the title as your reply obviously makes sense. What I mean is that people can change their interest levels and in this case I'm speaking about someone who showed high interest at first, we made plans, and then then interest subsided and a flake occured. My issue is with the transition from high to low when there isn't anything obvious to me which might have instigated this
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:21 AM
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Thanks for your response, I think you're on the right track. I think my main issue (?) is that I want to know why it turned south when evidently everything was going great and then suddenly a full 180 happens. I almost want to reach out and ask what's up/what happened, but feel like that would be pretty low for me. ​ Maybe you genuinely care about them but that was just my guess. I think this is accurate too. Obviously not every woman, but if someone shows high interest and is fun to talk to, I …
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:20 AM
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I agree to a certain extent. I personally find that if you’re dealing with 9s and 10s, you’ll find a bit more resistance because they know they’re hot due to their circle of orbiters and shit tests happen more often than not. AMS, Rollin, and even Manson talk about this and to not limit yourself to only fuck yeses or fuck no’s
/r/askTRP03/07/20 03:33 AM
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I like your posts and website Andy so it’s pretty cool to see a reply from you haha I’m getting where I want to be BF and looks wise I think, but my game and abundance mentality gotta be worked on as I’m already fucking shit up with the girl I mentioned above.. Keep killing it!
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 01:44 AM
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You had it in the bag until you exposed your hand with the "You already know" text. Why bother answering that honestly? I would argue that her 👀 emoji should have gave you the hint that she's already thinking about that kind of fun, afterall she's divorced and you asked for her number. Stop trying to game her from start to finish through text. You gotta meet up, otherwise that ASD over text is amplified. ​ I would also argue that your last message wasn't needed, but I'm not sure what I would rep…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:11 PM
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and I’ve been reading TRP Annnd that's all you've been doing. You've been reading. NOT internalizing and NOT practicing. ​ Your second paragraph reeks of oneitis. Stop living in your goddamn head. You either a) ask her to hang out b) continue to forget about her and fuck 10 other bitches as TRP would suggest
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:06 PM
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By reading the sidebar? By formatting your post better? By not shitting where you eat? By not giving a crap and proceed to ignoring her? By reading my first point?
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:02 PM
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I like your analysis. This part hit me: his mind still sees himself as a 5. That's very unfortunate, but it's common. It takes time to internalize your own physical appeal if you weren't always the hawt guy. I've been on a crazy grind since April in terms of fitness, and while I do look in the mirror and notice a difference, I don't think that I've improved all that much aesthetically. I approached a chick earlier this week cashing me out who I'd say was a HB8 and 6 ft and got her number. Just a…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 05:55 PM
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Bingo. Also, there's a sub-reddit for this kind of stuff which is amazing.. it's called volume eating :)
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 02:40 PM
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Started taking things seriously in terms of calorie intake in February, working out consistently since April. Lost about 35 lbs since Feb and I'm currently 17% BF at 170 lbs and 6ft. (I've been told if you're >15% BF and eat at a surplus you gain mostly fat so I'm trying to get to 12% by eating at a slight deficit. I've only lost 1 lbs of muscle supposedly since February which I think is a good thing that I maintained most of it) - 40 minutes of stretching (flexibility was almost none-existent w…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:24 PM
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You don't need a proper profile for FB. I have instagram and linkedin for that. I only use FB for logistic and group purposes (i.e. events coming up, seeking help for hobbies I have, etc etc.) I don't use it to chat with people or to scroll through my feed. Only scrolling I do is on reddit (but none of that front page or popular page stuff), and IG
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:19 PM
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Longboarding; not much different in concept from the music stuff. Skate shops and so forth. To add on, obviously there’s expos for all these hobbies, but as previously stated, they won’t be active for a while. The groups are definitely active still. I don't know about Texas specifically, but in Toronto, many groups still organize rides (mainly electric, but lots of push groups still pump :) )
/r/askTRP24/06/20 11:15 AM
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Jesus Christ. That’s both my reaction to reading this mess and who you need.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:08 PM
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Life ain't complex. There is a perfectly good solution for this word vomit and you can find it in the first link under the "Frequently AskTRP'd Questions" section in the sidebar
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:45 PM
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that also doesn't change the fact that by pursuing that success and making the world worse makes me feel good either. Why are you you co-relating success and making the world worse. This part baffles me. Are you trying to become successful doing illegal things? Usually success =/= making the world worse, more time than not My brain just can't chase pure, easy success without feeling like I'm deceiving myself and my "soul". I just can't do it. Replace "can't" with "can" is step 1. Stop living ins…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:54 PM
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How do people find out about TRP, read the sidebar (???) and still make posts like this? idgi
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:15 PM
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how a trip to Las Vegas changed all members of this one group Ah yes, The Hangover movies
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 12:20 PM
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"M'Lady, I am so enthralled with your holy presence and the blessed ground beneath your feet. May I be so gracious and lucky to request a simple touch of thine lips?" I gagged while writing this, previous comments were right
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:30 PM
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What's the point of becoming "valuable" when you know that it only attracts people's wants, not needs, thus by becoming succesful - you've actually made the world worse, not better. Okay there Nietzsche..Who says you need to make the world better? You're attracted to beautiful women no? Well then you're a hypocrite. Because in this case, you are fulfilling your wants (you want to be with her, you want to score, you want, not need). ​ the youtuber/twitch guy called healthygamer went on a drunken …
/r/askTRP19/06/20 05:37 PM
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imagine that
/r/seduction19/06/20 12:00 PM
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Ignored your first reply because you were just a lost little "Alpha" boy. Looking at your post history and this reply, get your black-pilled ass out of here and read the sidebar more. And to address your reply, Good looking men get some, Average men who know how to dance get some, Danny Devito gets some by just uttering his name, even Autists like you sometimes get some, Sidebar m8
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:06 PM
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I absolutely love your response
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:49 PM
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YEs its for girl-seducing So while you should be shunned for wanting to learn something for the sake of women, my opinion is that men should know how to dance. Also, despite wanting to learn dancing for the sake of women, you'll quickly realize that this shit is fun as fuck. So I can't dance (well at least specific dances like salsa, yadda yadda), but I give the impression that I can dance at clubs and bars and women's eyes literally sparkle when they're being swung around and lead. Anyways, lea…
/r/askTRP17/06/20 06:45 PM
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I'm still in University doing engineering co-ops at the moment so there's not much I can do in terms of salary or raises (since I'm only at companies for 4 months), but I recently stumbled upon CorporateLand and I still learned a lot and bookmarked everything for the future. ​ Cheers!
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:08 PM
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I’m really self aware Nah chief, you're just insecure and you're wasting your time WONDERING if she likes you. Stop with the What IFs. Also lack abundance
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:33 PM
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Have you read the sidebar re: corporate land? Lots of great resources about this
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:13 PM
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You expect too much from women. The simple truth is, the only girl who will love you unconditionally is your mother. This is perfect and is honestly one of the hardest truths guys will ever (if they ever) accept. ​ And as someone who is younger than most people on this sub-reddit who lost their mother recently, boy is it ever a hard pill to swallow. ​ Great post.
/r/seduction12/06/20 06:01 PM
2

Never had even kiss ​ I am bound at this physical and hierachical location in space and time.You are imagine playing me as a character. ​ Your post reeks of not having read the sidebar, or to have even attempted to put in effort. Step 1 is to stop talking like that or spending time on philosophizing - Read the book of Pook, but more importantly read the sidebar and never post again until you do. ​ You become high value by putting in the work.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 05:42 PM
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Replace "girls" with "locks" and "n" with "unlock" and maybe you'll realize :) ​ A lock that is unlocked many times is a shit lock. A key that can unlock many locks is a good key.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:55 PM
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Don't believe links are allowed, but it's titled "How to handle rejection & one of the worse feelings" I found it interesting because even AMS says that he thinks back every month or so to some of these chicks who showed him high interest, but eventually lost it
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 12:44 PM
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I have a similar story involving this rich chick I had crazy oneitis for as I was introduced to TRP. I think AMS made a really great video about dealing with rejection, and the worst feeling in the world. The worst feeling being: rejected/losing interest from a high-interest woman (aka like the one you outlined: decently hot, tons of IOIs but you fail to escalate). The way you bump your oneitis down in your post here is great btw, I encourage anyone dealing with this oneitis disease to do the sa…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 10:54 AM
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She didn’t cum both times. ... Before she left she told me she had a blast. Have you read the sidebar? You are trying to interpret her words instead of her actions ​ Drop contact entirely and focus on yourself and gaining more experience, you're clearly on the right track
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:42 PM
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Can't be bother to give you the exact link or timestamp, but the RP youtube channel had a podcast w/ u/VasiliyZaitzev and u/ /u/itiswr1tten and I believe this EXACT situation/question was addressed. I pointed you in the right direction, gonna leave it to you to put in the initiative.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:47 PM
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And this is my Achilles' heel as someone who was for the most part raised as a man by my dad, and confided a lot in my mom in terms of emotional support. At least until 1.5 years when father called me at 7am to let me know my mom had suddenly passed away. I'm not sure I agree with the notion that you cannot open up or be emotional/vulnerable with women, but you definitely have to limit it significantly.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 06:35 PM
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You have watched too many videos, seen too many tiktoks, and read too many things about "simp" stuff, it's almost pathetic. I know everyone shooting their shot. Listen to yourself and listen well. This is no longer a case of simping or snapping, this is a case of scared of the outcome/rejection. You have labelled this girl as a hoe sending thirst-traps, so treat her as such. Don't think about applying any potential LTR/relationship labels, work on the #1 thing everyone here preaches: plates. And…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:59 PM
2

TRP is not a shortcut, it's a foundation/support structure. Just like lifting, reading a bunch of material and watching videos doesn't get you jacked, lifting does. Similarly, reading a bunch of trp material and acknowleding its existence doesn't make you alpha and capable of gaming/getting with any chick, practicing does. ----- Imagine your existence is a bowling ball, and your life is an infinite bowling lane. By becoming black-pilled, staying blue, or not knowing about trp in the first place,…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:49 PM
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I was going to go to bed, but one last scroll through Reddit revealed title that piqued my interest and I knew that sleep had to wait when I saw who the poster is haha Edit: The snippet about the Wright brothers' brothers was the part that really hit your points home, amazing. Plan is to still get married, but that's probably because I'm still new to all this. Gonna continue punching myself in the dick 10 times a day
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 03:24 AM
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So I'm relatively new to TRP... I read the first paragraph and literally said "wtf" out loud and scrolled to the comments. Saw who the OP was and I laughed... Well played haha
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:24 AM
1

That was a really nooby and shortsighted question of mine, just realized from your reply, makes sense haha ​ Keep grinding :)
/r/askTRP17/05/20 02:42 PM
2

Huh? You're 17% bf at 83kg and 6ft? According to my scale and a few electronic calculators, I'm 21% (was 26) at 78kg and 6ft. Anyways, I've lost maybe 25 lbs and gained a fair amount of muscle since the past 2 months by just intermittent fasting, eating <1700 cals on weekdays, 1500 on weekends, and working out 3x a week. This shit's not an overnight process. Losing weight/fat is all about calories. Make sure you're obviously eating protein while you cut on calories.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 04:12 AM
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because it's a shit question mr. Ididnotreadthesidebar
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:59 PM
2

I've never had severe scarring or cystic acne, but I do have a lot of it and definitely plays into my confidence I think. Any clue if it works/would be recommended with "mild" cases? Definitely looking more into it atm. Great read
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 02:23 PM
2

​ I watched an interesting video on YouTube about this and everything he said made so much sense I'm going to assume the video was called "NOT Doing THIS Saved My Life... | Dopamine Woes" by FarFromAverage. I'm not sure if links are allowed on the main sub-reddit, but I'm posting this because I watched the video last week and I think that it resonated really well with me and explained a bunch of stuff about my habits or actions that TRP doesn't really touch on. I won't talk about it because I wa…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 11:05 PM
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Would appreciate some further explanation//pointing to sidebar material if you could, but you've basically answered the question so I appreciate it :)
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:06 AM
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nce makes the heart grow fonder or some bullshit. Dont really text her during the corona lockdown. Not texting wont mak She's a "terrible" texter so I'm not even gonna entertain the idea but good point haha. Might reach out after this whole pandemic rolls over, might not, who knows. But if I do, I'll be prepared to take the L. Thanks!
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:43 PM
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Answered all my questions and I agree, thank you!
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:55 PM
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I met her as I found out about TRP so I still did some bluepill/beta stuff and didn't end up escalating so I can see your point pretty clear here and think that might be it
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:54 PM
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- yep, that's basically what my train of thought/idea of women transpired into. Some are bad, some are good, some are great, but leave the emotional support to the homies or immediate family. - I agree that it's bluepill shit and all centered around validation, but it worked and existed in the past (pre-social media) as far as I'm aware so I guess this was just a recognition of how things have changed since. - Very insightful about The Talk, definitely agree. - About uni, sure, studying is what …
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:53 PM
1

I'm just studying for exams atm so I basically am in monk mode as far as working out, eating, and everything else goes. These were just some questions I still thought about
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:49 PM
1

Fair enough, tl;dr for 3: is it harder to game/plate/eventually ltr a chick who's above other chicks in terms of smv? Aka gaming a model vs. gaming a 6 or 7
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:34 PM
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Fair points, thanks!
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:32 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:58 AM
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100%. Buddy made me have a reality check and I basically sent that message because I have better things to do than worry about some chick playing games/flaking. Thanks
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:24 AM
1

2 atm but this one's hotter and more compatible than the other ones which I guess is why I'm in a rut about it. ​ Asked my other buddy who has abundance and a bit of a trp personality and he said to just ask her again "hey we still on tmrw", but I feel like that's needy/shows me losing frame. Also thought of driving to hers anyways, mainly because she said yes last week, and technically I didn't ask her if she's still game, I just told her I'll be there at 2
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:01 AM
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/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:40 PM
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Holy shit, I thought I had oneitis problems... this is more extreme than when I graduated high school and was head over heels with this one chick. Did you even bother reading ANY of the sidebar? Like, any of it? ... You're living in your own fantasy world inside your head right now and are completely in her frame and have lost all sense of self. Take a big fucking step back, and then take another one, and then slap yourself. ​ Read the sidebar mate. Read the rational male. Read. Get out of your …
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:18 PM
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I was your 100% typical nice guy who was told all these things by friends (who I wasn't attracted to, but nevertheless) how I'm such a good guy and my future girl will be so lucky and all this bullshit I ate up. Met this other chick around a month ago which was also the same time I learned about TRP and started soaking up all this stuff about how women think emotionally and not logically and how hypergamy and comes into play. I'm not saying I'm no longer a nice guy, but I'm steering away from th…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:19 PM
1

Someone suggested Lillyhammer recently in another thread, 3 episodes in and I'm loving it.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:20 PM
1

okay okay, flew over my head haha
/r/askTRP29/03/20 06:20 PM
1

Very well put and definitely better understand the dynamic at play here. ​ I was mainly stemming from my most recent experience where I hung out with this chick, and didn't overtly escalate sexually and she ended up cancelling our next outing due to work (here, I was under the impression that she would ask to re-schedule, or at least get back to me after her work thing ended up being cancelled due to the pandemic). That being said, I basically pulled away and she still kept reacting to shit I po…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 05:45 PM
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Heathcliff (SAO ref?), I really appreciate you writing this. I feel that, after being recently introduced to TRP and reading the sidebar everyday, I could easily navigate through your story and make some connections to what I've read, good shit. ​ I do have a major question though after seeing your field report and that has to do with engagement. I've been under the impression that guys should always initiate first whether that's via texting for logistics, etc etc, but you seem to always initiat…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 04:42 PM
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Yup, I was a bit taken aback by that reply lol... I wouldn't even consider season 1 to have that much TRP content...
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:23 PM
3

Hey. I'm 21 and a year a half ago, one month before my second year university midterm exams, I received a phone call from my dad at 7:30am basically telling me that my and my brother's mom had passed away. We sent our mom to Poland for nasal treatment for a not so serious problem, but nevertheless one that was affecting her. She ended up going to the balcony for some fresh air, lost her balance and plummeted 6 stories being immobilized, falling into a coma a few hours later, and then died 2 days…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 01:19 PM
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But it ain't chief. I still wanted someone's Perspective which is why I made condensed versions. Who tf would make such a long detailed post to troll
/r/askTRP25/03/20 03:21 AM
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When? I did when she asked if I needed to use the washroom, but the mood wasn't there to escalate it? Oh yeah, I'm also a little introverted romantic bitchass that only recently discovered TRP and will laugh at this post in the future hopefully lol
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:21 AM
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Yup lmao Started writing and then realized noone is gonna read this fucking shit lol
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:19 AM
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Yeah, I agree with your reply. Thanks! Edit: I'm still considering one final opportunity to give me peace of mind/closure if she leave me on read/says no. I think at that point it'll be crystal clear. Aka next week, basically cook/drink/binge money heist
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:19 AM
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I guess I'm just overthinking her replies or lack of for that matter. I would think that if a chick is into me, she wouldn't be playing games//reply etc etc. In terms of plan B, I would disagree. She did have other plans that her girlfriends were inviting her too (nightclub) but she kept asking me during dinner how to reply to them to flake
/r/askTRP25/03/20 01:18 AM
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Holy fuck I wrote a lot. Sorry. It'll be enough if you read the shortest version + the ***** OKAY NOW part, but all the context is provided if you're really that bored//want to help out/give me a perspective. ​ Cheers
/r/askTRP25/03/20 12:10 AM
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... and never let one live in your head rent free. I made this account when I first found out about TRP 3 weeks ago and have been editing a draft for a while. I haven't posted it because it's a real bluepill/beta post centered around oneitis and me navigating through TRP philosophies while still trying to chase "the one". That one sentence you wrote really stung and really made an impression on me and I needed to hear it. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:12 PM
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