2 things I need to ask.

  1. I had sex with this girl last week. I went limp mid intercourse and I’ve been feeling shite about it. She hasn’t texted back since that night and I’m fearful she’s ghosted. I kinda like her, and wanna keep her around. Any help?

  2. Girl I’ve been crushing on for a bit is letting it be known that she’s leaving her man. Saying she’s done with him and has achieved her aim in the relationship. She then asks me if I’m single and why is it that way, I respond that I haven’t found the one to give the ring to, then tell her that for now I’m not looking for anything serious. She then says that she’s open to having something open with someone. I sense heavy branch swinging, but I’m a man of principle and don’t really know how to engage a girl in a relationship. Things are just so ambiguous that I mostly keep quiet when she throws subs my way. How should I play this?