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How is he cooked when he's been laid 10 times since summer. I'm almost 30, not ugly and I'm a virgin. Granted I deleted my dating apps in September and I live in upstate New York, not NYC.
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:48 AM
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I'm literally in the same position as you.
/r/seduction19/12/25 02:46 PM
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Nothing because i believe I was judged based on my looks when I did my 100+ approaches
/r/seduction01/12/25 10:02 PM
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It changed my life by permanently lowering my self esteem... I was age 26 in 2023 and I recorded over 100 of them on my Apple Watch. Last night I looked back at all of these rejections (some were actually fairly good conversations but none led to anything in the end), and they are just so depressing. Everyone has a boyfriend. It could be because of the way I look, but it was not a great experience and I've refrained from doing it since because i feel like i will be wasting my time.
/r/seduction27/11/25 05:10 PM
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29 and have been reading this sub for the last 7-8 years. For some reason I'm unable to post here and haven't made a post to the sub in the last 2 years. Don't know if I'm banned or not.
/r/seduction27/08/25 04:27 PM
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I'm a 28 year old virgin with lots of issues like these. Just check my profile. Even "mid" girls on dating apps just swipe past me. It's always the girls I wouldn't notice in public that look my way online. Not really anyone I'd want to be seen out with or get involved intimately with, regretfully.
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:13 AM
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I work in a "factory". Am I supposed to go ask the secretaries out? Lol
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:58 PM
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The issue is that I'm not sure what I'm supposed to look like to meet that threshold. I am not super attractive, I don't think I'm ugly either. I don't have a super strong jawline, it's not weak either. Don't have hollow cheekbones. My right eye is like 1/8" lower than the left. It's hardly noticeable but sometimes I get self conscious about it. My nose is big compared to the rest of my face. Again though this could just be my own perception of things. I'm 5'10", 160 lbs. I see guys who look muc…
/r/seduction27/04/25 06:52 PM
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I'm in the same boat
/r/seduction27/04/25 06:48 PM
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This is the number one issue that I have. I work in manufacturing, in college I studied engineering technology, and in high school I didn't prioritize dating. Now, I am coming to regret it,. Although I did move into the city where I live, and my logistics are solid, any interactions I have with girls are temporary. Whether it's in line at Chick-fil-A, or browsing the aisles at Wegmans, I won't be seeing these people again. It's not like school where you see the same people every single day consi…
/r/seduction26/04/25 07:50 PM
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This is an excellent idea... I'm stealing the uno one. My friend/wingman had the idea of bringing books to this lounge part of the bar. Leveraging the environment is key. Going in just to drink with no objective (which is what I've been doing for 2 years with 0 success) has been a complete joke.
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:56 AM
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Why send DMs and not just post here... this smells like a sales funnel. I've been on this sub long enough to know that check DMs means BS is coming. What if I ask the same question? You'll tell me to send a DM. Everyone wants to know what you did, it's not like you have a nuclear launch code.
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:53 AM
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Why am I on a blacklist?
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:34 AM
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I will throw /u/Captain_w00t in here as well. What do I need to do to be whitelisted?
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:23 AM
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/u/Elbynerual
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:20 AM
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While we're at it, I have been unable to make any posts here for probably the last 1.5-2 years on any of my accounts. I have no idea what I said or did to someone here back then, it couldn't have been much as I was never outright banned. Either way, I've messaged /u/Elbynerual and others here multiple times to have my posts let through to no avail. I've been on Reddit for almost 15 years and this is the most over-policed gated community that I've seen.
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:19 AM
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I'm a virgin
/r/seduction01/04/25 04:04 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I have no motivation to daytime approach because the last time I did it a couple of years ago, it just felt awkward.
/r/seduction16/03/25 04:34 PM
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I want to say that a few years ago I did a similar call with another YouTube coach, I forgot the guy's name but he used to go onto Playing with Fire's channel. I did get the impression that I was being sold a bunch of products and I felt pressured to do so even though I was broke. Today I make more money but not enough to justify anything over $200 to be honest. That's how much I spent on a Hinge premium membership last year.
/r/seduction16/03/25 03:21 PM
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I actually have an intake call scheduled tomorrow with a YouTube coach, I have no idea what to expect to be honest.
/r/seduction16/03/25 07:59 AM
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I am surrounded by people where I live, but everyone seems taken... go Bills
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:51 PM
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Judging by your username, you won't find anyone worthwhile anyways in this region on the apps.
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:43 AM
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my issue is that I'm 28 and haven't had more than a few makeouts, and girls within 3-5 yrs of my age want to settle down, and while I do want a family at some point I haven't even left the gate yet. it's very frustrating... this is why I am aiming for girls 19-25
/r/seduction10/03/25 04:40 PM
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TheSingleGuy
/r/seduction10/03/25 05:04 AM
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I did actually
/r/seduction10/03/25 04:34 AM
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That's a little kids game, I would never take a girl unironically using that app seriously... it's a great way for them to build and maintain rosters and you'll never know
/r/seduction09/03/25 03:41 AM
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I wasn't born with friends... and why do bars attract guys in the first place?
/r/seduction08/03/25 11:31 PM
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I think the issue is that street/shopping/malls can be difficult if you aren't in the right place. For example, this is harder to pull off in Buffalo, N.Y. than N.Y.C.
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:10 PM
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lol
/r/seduction05/03/25 10:26 PM
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I had my profile reviewed last week and was told it was "Ok" with the exception being that my photos looked a bit posed. But it's still subjective. I hardly ever get to see profiles of successful average guys. A friend of mine IRL found his GF through Hinge after only a few matches. I have been off and on Hinge for 4 years and have never been on more than two dates.
/r/seduction04/03/25 01:56 PM
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Your post completely glossed over the biggest issue with Instagram. There's no easy way to find girls to message. Are you supposed to just follow and message every girl you see that's fooling the account of the local college bar? Or am I missing something
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:14 PM
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Why did you start when you were 15? I'm 28 now, when I was 15 I was focused on playing Minecraft
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:00 AM
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DM WHO??? When I open up IG, I only see people that I know IRL. Not people I've never met before. There's no real way to discover anyone through IG DMs.
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:47 PM
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That's true man, I followed your advice on Hinge. Unfortunately, when I let the boost take effect in the first week and a half I only received 4 likes. You'd think I'm an ogre but that's simply not the case. Something is wrong with the app or where I live. I caved in early and started liking profiles shortly thereafter, and so far I've probably sent around 25-30 likes but I haven't gotten a match yet. I've been on Hinge now since Valentine's Day.
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:40 PM
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I've had 1 for 3 years now. I'm still a virgin
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:30 PM
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Look at what's posted here everyday. That'll answer your question
/r/seduction25/02/25 05:56 PM
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You probably made this via AI. You made the post, you should expect a conversation. We are all looking to improve ourselves.
/r/seduction25/02/25 05:52 PM
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Why do you believe that this is the default for most guys?
/r/seduction25/02/25 05:47 PM
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Gotcha!
/r/seduction25/02/25 06:53 AM
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I don't get the last sentence
/r/seduction25/02/25 06:44 AM
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It happened to me yesterday
/r/seduction25/02/25 06:39 AM
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I am 28 and have a body count of 0. It is what it is, but I anticipated being in a relationship. That never happened
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:44 PM
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Yeah you're right, I shouldn't have bailed though
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:37 PM
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Here's the thing, I'm 28 and a virgin... I live within walking distance of about 5 bars. I had the opportunity the other night to vibe with a girl at a bar very close to my place, and I had a wingman with me who was also talking to a girl. It was a group of like 5 girls/1 guy we were talking to. I opened the one girl by asking where she's from, where she lives, etc. Boring small talk but I wanted to just get the ball rolling. Meanwhile he grabbed a seat, I'm standing and talking down to her. She…
/r/seduction17/02/25 11:28 PM
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How are you getting a 20% rejection rate? That's almost unheard of
/r/seduction17/02/25 11:12 PM
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On Hinge I get likes from girls who want to get married. I'm 28 and also "new" to dating. Why would I be ready to settle down?
/r/seduction17/02/25 11:10 PM
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Hahaha I got a laugh out of this, I am on day 3 and I have 4 likes so far. Interestingly they are all black women and 2 of them want to get married, even though my profile says I'm just looking for an LTR right now. I am open to dating any race, in fact I live around mostly white people. The girls that did like me unfortunately don't seem to be my type for black girls.
/r/seduction17/02/25 02:54 PM
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Does this work with Hinge?
/r/seduction15/02/25 03:56 PM
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that makes sense, I tell you what though, I feel like I can determine whether a girl is interested in me in a span of 15-30 seconds just based on eye contact, facial expressions and responses alone. generally im very bad at reading these things but as I interact with more people it's gotten easier to decipher. but there are girls I talk to when I go out (bars usually) that are very nice and engaging, but then they just kind of disengage further in the conversation or I run out of things to talk …
/r/seduction10/02/25 05:01 PM
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I hate to say it but it seems like within the last few months, most girls I see or think im interested in turn out to have a dude of some sort. and the girls who are likely single just aren't really my type. but beggars can't be choosers I guess. so yes, self-growth is important but at the same time it can't be seen as a way to compensate for not getting results in my opinion
/r/seduction10/02/25 04:51 PM
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it is a no-win situation, I've been in conversations with girls for 20+ min, have gotten a phone number and either did not hear back or was given a run-around. then I am out around the neighborhood and what do you know, this girl is with some guy
/r/seduction10/02/25 04:43 PM
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it's called a hand
/r/seduction10/02/25 04:38 PM
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I don't want to be the guy on the other side, the one who gets serious with the girl who has the fwb
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:12 PM
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Well I think the issue is that you should t have to drastically augment yourself to attract women. Even if it's just for a confidence boost, depending on what you're doing girls can detect it. It's like why can't you be accepted with your baseline attractiveness?
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:11 PM
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I'm 28, but one day I'd like to not be a virgin I guess. I just don't want a ONS because then it could be another year before something happens. I need consistent and sustainable results, or perhaps a relationship
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:09 PM
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This happened to me last July on Hinge, and while it may be the case that I just have bad game (I'm 28 and a virgin), I think this girl was just a weirdo. We match, she's studying abroad in Japan. She was half white/half Japanese. Almost every hinge interaction I've had has been phony, because it's just a few messages exchanged every day and then it fades to nothing. Here, it was similar, but it dragged out for almost an entire month. Midway through she says she won't be back for another month a…
/r/seduction25/01/25 11:44 PM
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This has never happened to me. No means no whether it was implied or explicit.
/r/seduction25/01/25 06:21 AM
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I don't know where you find these girls patiently waiting for you, but in my experience at 28 I have to actively search. My social circle is almost nonexistent and I'm relying on 1 old friend and his coworker's friends to hopefully bring someone around me. In fact yesterday we had a football watch party at his friend's house, and his friend brought his coworker who turned out to be single. Whether she's attracted to me or not remains to be seen, but because this is the only potential opportunity…
/r/seduction20/01/25 04:44 PM
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You're spamming a random YouTuber. People like me with legitimate questions about game and techniques can't ask them because of people like you
/r/seduction05/01/25 07:11 PM
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/u/Elbynerual you let this post slip through the cracks... yet posts that don't break the rules get insta-blocked
/r/seduction05/01/25 07:09 PM
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I am 28, I have just given up trying too hard. I'm not ugly either, it just needs to be the right person.
/r/seduction05/01/25 05:00 PM
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Hah. That's like looking for a unicorn depending on where you are. About the only place you'll find one is in a grocery store, library or cafe.
/r/seduction05/01/25 12:56 AM
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What was so special about this girl that 1000000 guys were chasing her?
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:44 PM
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G Never. 28M
/r/seduction04/01/25 07:44 AM
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And that's the key. If these girls were in person there would be no issues. Unfortunately that's not the case online.
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:27 AM
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Usually this is how I get rejected... I think I'm saying something groundbreaking to a group of girls, I try to take things further and it just doesn't work.
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:25 AM
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