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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
72	My simple solution for defeating AA		FoxArrow	/r/seduction	22/02/13 06:16 PM

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1	What do you talk about to build intimacy? I like to talk about anything that reveals more about her personality, interests, and hobbies. I use simple questions like: What music do you like? What movies do you like? etc Their answers tell you a lot about them. I tend to only ask about things I have a strong knowledge about, however, like movies and music. If a girl says she "likes listening to metal" but mentions a bunch of mall bands, I have a good idea about what type of girl she is. The only problem I run into is when they have no opi…	/r/seduction	29/01/14 02:50 PM
0	Has anyone here studied evolutionary psychology/ behavioral science? I actually really study a lot of different things and, since most of my work is marketing, it all sort of ties into PUA in one way or another. In fact, the real reason I started reading PUA stuff wasn't to sleep with women but to become more persuasive for other reasons. One thing which I think ties into PUA quite well is Neuro Linguistic Programming because it focuses on language and interaction. The basic concept of NLP is that the majority of our brain's activity happens below the threshold o…	/r/seduction	25/02/13 10:02 PM
1	What I actually found out about all this in over a year -College guy The real secret to all of this is that it's much more useful for a beginner.	/r/seduction	25/02/13 09:49 PM
1	Seddit I am disgusted with myself right now You're thinking about it too much. Just make a vow to yourself that you won't pass up the next opportunity. Remember how bad you feel right now and remind yourself that it's worse than feeling nervous while talking to her. If you approach and it isn't going well then bail out. It's still a success because you talked to her, you can't win them all.	/r/seduction	25/02/13 09:43 PM
1	Need help/advice on not appearing desperate. It's all about one thing: Abundance Mindset You have to approach with the idea that there are tons of other girls out there. Sure, you sort of like this one in particular but if it doesn't work out then you have thousands of other options. Also: Outcome Independent So it didn't work out, oh well. On to the next one!	/r/seduction	25/02/13 09:40 PM
2	My life philosophies on becoming a better man There are more than a few guys at my gym who can lift a lot more than I can but who have much more body fat than I do. Body fat is really determined by your caloric intake and whether or not it exceeds the needs of your body and lifestyle.	/r/seduction	25/02/13 09:37 PM
2	My simple solution for defeating AA No offense bro but you're coming off as rather frustrated. If your technique is different and it works so well for you then I would expect that none of this would be a big deal for you. The thing about the truth is that it's a fact. When you find something to be true for you then it's a fact, even if it's only a fact for you. There's no need to argue in favor of a personal truth, you know it works and you should be content in that knowledge. Other things work for other people and, as long as it …	/r/seduction	24/02/13 01:49 AM
2	My simple solution for defeating AA Your second paragraph basically describes the old me. I'm very logical and analytical in my thought processes. I'd over analyze everything until I came up with an excuse which was good enough to make me not take action. The thing is that you're simply making assumptions about someone else. "She'll think I'm annoying." "She probably hates when guys hit on her." All of these types of thoughts are assumptions. If you haven't even talked to the woman yet then you're simply making stuff up and talkin…	/r/seduction	24/02/13 01:41 AM
1	My simple solution for defeating AA This is true but you have to feel it and live it as well. Adopt the posture of an alpha bad ass, speak like one, adopt the mannerisms. Adopting the physical aspects of a dominant personality will then change your thought processes and, according to a TED talk I watched, will actually change the levels of certain chemicals in your brain.	/r/seduction	24/02/13 01:35 AM
2	My simple solution for defeating AA Odin wills it!	/r/seduction	23/02/13 05:29 AM
2	My simple solution for defeating AA Hell yeah, we'd own it.	/r/seduction	23/02/13 03:30 AM
3	[FR] First approach, shot down in flames Congrats bro! You actually did it. You did what 90% of people never do and that is: Take Action. It doesn't sound to me like you got shot down at all, I think it was a total success. I personally know how hard it is to make that first approach if you have really bad social anxiety. Just keep doing it and you'll grow and improve each time. Inner game takes time to develop but as you become more confident you'll level up that inner game like crazy. Is it cheesy to say I find this OP inspirational?	/r/seduction	22/02/13 10:11 PM
1	Persistence? Sure, just try again. Do what bluehat said. Do it now.	/r/seduction	22/02/13 10:06 PM
7	My simple solution for defeating AA No, but the fact that it helped me means it isn't completely wrong. I'm hoping this information can help other people like me. Why don't you try it out for yourself tonight? It's Friday, what have you got to lose?	/r/seduction	22/02/13 09:36 PM
2	My simple solution for defeating AA If you keep hearing the same information over and over again then it's likely true. That's actually a saying from Alcoholics Anonymous. "If one person calls you a horse, they're crazy. If two people call you a horse, think about it. If everyone calls you a horse then you'd better buy a saddle." (they're referring to being an alcoholic, obviously) To respond to your edit: It's because I like to help, I like to share my experiences with people. If you think I'm preaching, that's your interpretatio…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 09:26 PM
18	My simple solution for defeating AA There's no better way to get over your fears than to face them. It's a simple fact of life. Maybe you don't like my advice but saying it doesn't work is just flat out wrong. It worked for me. The point is to avoid AA by simply not allowing it to be an issue. Nothing your AA rattled brain says is going to have any effect if you're going to ignore it and approach anyway. If you don't approach you're not playing the game at all. I think people might be hating on this concept because it's so simple …	/r/seduction	22/02/13 09:13 PM
2	My simple solution for defeating AA Damn, hate much? You must be new here if you don't know what AA means. Had you read any of the sidebar information you would know it stands for "Approach Anxiety" and is one of the more common problems people struggle with. Now that I think about it, you should've been able to figure it out if you had read any of the OP at all. Hating is the only recourse of the weak.	/r/seduction	22/02/13 08:44 PM
3	My simple solution for defeating AA It's funny, before you do it the whole idea seems impossible. "You mean I should go out there and do it as if I was a total alpha boss?" Hell yeah you should! Once you do it, however, it seems so incredibly simple you'll wonder why you never thought of it before. It is simple so keep it that way. Stop thinking about it. Just go out and do it.	/r/seduction	22/02/13 07:03 PM
4	My simple solution for defeating AA Yeah, like I said, it isn't what you say but how you say it. Radiate that positive energy like the sun at high noon in the middle of summer. Smile with your whole face when you say it. You can really say anything but I've found that keeping it short is the best way to go. "Awesome shirt!" "Hey, is that a Guinness you're drinking?" If she's struggling to carry stuff: "Here, let me help you with that." Hell, yesterday I was eating lunch and opened with "Excuse me, is that a Philly Cheese steak?" T…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 06:56 PM
15	Ask a girl out, rejects me, then she asks me out and gets my #. Advice needed! In a perfect world, here's what I would've done differently: Change this: Me: "lets go grab a drink one night soon" to this Me: "Have a drink with me." Or, better yet: "Buy me a drink and we'll call it even." Change this: Me: "ok, well that's all I've got for now. If you can think of anyway to repay me, let me know." to this: Me: laugh "Why would your boyfriend mind? Were you planning on getting me drunk and taking advantage of me?" or "Is your boyfriend always that jealous?" You need to stop ma…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 06:29 PM
3	Tonight I realized I need to change my behavior a lot. Best of luck man! You're a fucking boss so let the world know. The only reason I really noticed the stuff about romance is because that's exactly what I used to do. All it got me was used up by manipulative women. Hell, when I was a kid I used to read Playboy and instead of imagining myself banging their brains out I imagined setting up "romantic" scenarios like I saw in movies. Lame as hell, I know.	/r/seduction	22/02/13 05:35 PM
3	Tonight I realized I need to change my behavior a lot. Here's a perfect example: She ends your nightly conversations with "We'll talk tomorrow." Really? That's nice of her to decide that. This is an obvious indication that she's not worried about you having other plans. She knows, for a fact, that you will talk again tomorrow. Try responding with something like: "Actually, I might be pretty busy tomorrow. I'm going out to this great bar with a friend and we'll probably be out for a while." Then actually do that. If she texts you during that night an…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 05:10 PM
2	Tonight I realized I need to change my behavior a lot. Geez, dude. You say you want to be "bad" but it sounds like your courting her like a high school kid with an immature concept of romance. Don't take offense, it's just that this is all very indicative of you chasing her, it needs to be the other way around. You need to always be just a little out of reach. Right now you're "always there for her" if you get what I'm saying. There's no need for her to chase after you because you'll always be there waiting. She'll keep accepting your gifts, of cour…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 04:54 PM
8	Open Library 4 Set [FR] It doesn't matter if you closed. It was a resounding success.	/r/seduction	22/02/13 04:40 PM
3	Improving my conversation skills Play with her dog. Get the dog to like you, it's really easy. Then tell her: "Your dog really wants to see me again. What's his/her number?" She might laugh and say the dog doesn't have a phone. "Alright, then give me your number so we can plan a date to the dog park. I have some new tennis balls I need to break in." Or, you know, just invite them over to your group because that's probably what they were hoping you'd do anyway. Women go to bars for the same reason men do. It's society that tells…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 04:31 PM
3	Chickening out :( There are two problems I see with your night: Just fucking do it This is really the only useful solution I've found to AA. Just fucking do it. Don't think about it. Scared? Nervous? Shy? Who cares, just do it. That alone will be a success, which brings me to: Outcome Independence You placed too much value on certain goals and you're judging your own self worth based on those goals. Next time just go out with the intention of having fun, nothing more, nothing less. When you go out intending to ha…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 04:04 PM