| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 21 | Things are hard | FoxWitz | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 05:50 PM | |
| 2 | I Think I Know Her Game | FoxWitz | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | I Think I Know Her GameThank you 🙏 I am all to familiar with this process. One of the hardest things I can ever imagine is fighting with someone you love/ loved and protected in possibly the most relentless ways imaginable. I would rather get jumped by 12 people and shot at than to ever fight a battle like this. This don’t think this is going to end well. I wanted peace, equal shares, respect, trust and honorable transition. However I see what she has done and is doing now. I just wonder if I am absolutely right and i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 06:31 PM |
| 4 | I Think I Know Her GameIt is so overwhelming and trying to maintain focus on this has been extremely difficult. The ads and algorithms send me to shit that is useless to me unfortunately. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 06:11 PM |
| 4 | I Think I Know Her GameI have no money. She took everything. Can you recommend a free source of legal consultation or some idea how people like me can get the help we need? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | I Think I Know Her GameI don’t trust her or her family. She has been lying & cheating me for years. Her finale move was to magically pull money out of nowhere and take the kids and leave. She lied and said she was in a woman’s shelter that has witness protection people in their so I wasn’t allowed to know. Latter I got her to confess she was not staying at a shelter and had literally moved into an apartment. She still refuses to tell me so I am not allowed to know where my kids are. She never answers the phone and rar… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Things are hardI feel it | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Things are hardThank you 🙏 I will probably need your help and consultation. I believe these laws need reform but without you I guess we don’t really have a fighting chance 😒 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Things are hardI know that one day things won’t feel so harsh but I know things will never be the same again. All I will see is grey from now on. I know it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Things are hardThat is terrible. These laws need to be reformed! We need to stop letting people capitalize in our family matters. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Things are hardThank you 🙏 I need to keep myself healthy and focused. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Things are hardGood point | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Things are hardThank you for being real with me. I very much trust what you say. I have denied my instincts for too long. That sad thing is when it happens to me I tell myself I am being crazy and ignore it. That lead me here. I don’t think crazy has a reputation of always being right. I just hate it when I know Im right but deny or justify it to bring me comfort. Like a turtle hiding in a shell thinking they escaped. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Things are hardI try to tell myself that but Im afraid to be in love. So much so I may need therapy because I forced myself to love while watching red flags. That got me in a lot of psychological trouble. Now my worst fears are to be betrayed by the I person love. My past two relationships in the last 10 to 15 years turned into that scenario. I now believe I am f-ed in the head because of it. But just in the way where I look at someone who is being nice and I see monsters. Hopefully that makes sense. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Things are hardYes it does | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Things are hardYeah I believe this is when we realize the real world and we have reached our peak in our immature minds that has fully ripened to the true reality of this world. This is where you realize you are a man through pain and suffering. We forge ourselves into who we really are for eternity. I believe men are not made but forged from being left alone to fight for themselves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Things are hardI will consider that. I think though that what will remain as the most unforgotten thought of this experience is how it feels to be completely deceived and what it looks like. They say you can forget many things but you will never forget how it made you feel. Something I will be applying to what I thought was reality. Not to sound negative but I got to call it for what it is. Love is dangerous and trust will get you killed. To many people are deceptive in their nature. It will be a long time, if… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Things are hardShe left me but it doesn’t bother me as many would think. It is how she left and the lies. She also can’t forgive when she has been forgiven. This was the scent she left behind. I should have left her years ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Things are hardThank you 🙏 I appreciate what you said. I will definitely try to stay focused. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Life after divorce.Hmm… I think after 18 they can legally do what they want. However regardless of any movement and it is sad to say that men after our history would allow such things to plague our minds and to forfeit is bizarre. Look at Martin Lither King and the movement he successfully created and he achieved greatness with all the white people and the entire force of the government against him. Why couldn’t we do the same thing as men. I begin to wonder where have our balls went? This kind of thinking can do … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Life after divorce.If it is possible try to make the marriage work. If not you will have to roll with the punches. Im in that same boat. Honestly I feel like we need to start a movement and change the way divorce is handled in America. At least when it comes to the custody of our children. If we don’t you, me and every other man for the rest of time will suffer from this same outcome. Not to mention all these lawyers profit from our misfortunes. It is a stupid system that needs reform. Men need more rights to make… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/21 06:55 AM |
| 2 | When do you just surrender?Bad mentality man. Stand your ground and fight for what is right. Be fair even though she isn’t but for god’s sake never surrender. When has that ever worked out to be productive in any circumstances? I know things are hard and the stress and confusion makes us feel helpless which begins to make us loose the desire to fight. This is exactly what they want and expect. Are you going to give it to them or show them they were wrong about you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Women logic in 2021. Can you believe she thinks what her husband did is wrong, but her making a dating profile / crushing on another man (while married) is not??? WTF is wrong with people nowadays? Marriage is a joke in the west.LMFAO 🤣 yeah you could say that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Mind games during divorce?See I don’t believe it is just the individual but rather a brainwashed twisted culture in the masses. This has become socially acceptable which means thinking about it as a disorder is the wrong perspective. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Mind games during divorce?Hell no they don’t. That is all I hear all the time. Well before my separation started. Calling it ridiculous would be an understatement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Women logic in 2021. Can you believe she thinks what her husband did is wrong, but her making a dating profile / crushing on another man (while married) is not??? WTF is wrong with people nowadays? Marriage is a joke in the west.It is called narcissism. It is a personality disorder and copy cat behaviors that society pushes like a drug dealer onto the psyche of all women. So it isn’t the individual to blame necessarily or entirely but rather other women/ social media who accept this behavior as socially acceptable. This is the twilight zone filled with damaged minds. Also I highly recommend you educate yourself on how social media and cell phones are causing brain damage and brain washing. I mean that to the fullest ext… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Where do you seek support?Lol yeah that is always a problem. It is probably best not to do anything that can cause that. But I wouldn’t let the fear of the outcome control what needs to be done either. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Where do you seek support?Yeah I got an appointment for a counselor next week. My problem isn’t so much that I am separated but how I got separated. I am not in a divorce yet but she magically pulled money out of nowhere and got herself an apartment and lied and said she was staying in a shelter. Funny thing is I have been trying to plan for us to move out with all the stimulus money since the beginning of the pandemic. She has been holding the money to herself and gets mad when I asked to look into finding a place to mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Where do you seek support?Thank you for putting the time into explaining that. One thing I can say though about me is I can’t bear the feeling of doing something recreational for myself. I have this feeling of needing to be something greater than myself and it is a heavily dominating my pulse in life. I really don’t know why. Anything else feels meaningless and trivial to me. I’m not sure what this is supposed to mean for me but I feel like it is my only source of light. Like a moth attracted to a light bulb. I just can’… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 01:45 AM |
| 4 | Where do you seek support?What would you recommend? Once your life has a void in the center that turns into a blackhole how do you make yourself whole again? Living an empty life I have experienced so far is not good since a longing for some kind of self identity is needed after what we once were is lost. It is like walking around blind folded and hoping you don’t bump into anything. How do you find the light and bring ourselves into our full potential and not make things worse? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/21 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Wait at least one year after divorce before datingThank you for posting. I needed to read this. Im going through hell because of my separation and how it is making think, feel and react. I don’t have anyone to talk to so this article is the best I got. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | You never know who’s readingIm in a three ring circus in my marriage and what you said minus the books I can completely relate to you with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/21 04:03 AM |
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