| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 238 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me! | LESSON LEARNED | Foxesandwrenches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 107 | Male lurkers are pathetic. | MALE DEPRAVITY | Foxesandwrenches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:51 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhereWow, are you me?! I was childfree and proud in my twenties and by 29, I felt a hole in my soul. I wanted a child so, so badly it hurt. My son was born 2 months after I turned 31! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 12:34 PM |
| 33 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)In the Netflix documentary, he said he put their blankets over their heads and threw them in. He calmly stated one of his daughters last words were “Daddy no”. I will never be able to get this out of my mind. I sobbed for an hour and I wish I were religious and had the peace of knowing he would burn in the pits of hell for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:12 AM |
| 15 | Hearing ‘ILYBINILWY’ speechI had to screenshot this to read it every day. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 5 | I’m getting a lot of green flags from this guy. He’s very much an HVM, but his texting habits aren’t that great. What “green flags” do you look for when it comes to texting?If I’m not getting a good morning text, I lose interest. We can all be busy but, it only takes 30 seconds of the day to wish you a good day and show you he’s thinking of you. If a man isn’t capable of that tiny detail, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 10 | Wtf is this guy spewing? We were having a nice intellectual conversation until he started going off this tangent. (he also supports Jordan Peterson) I only talked to him longer than I should because he’s anti-porn and anti-sex work. He also compared revenge porn to an aunt not liking her toasterThe answer is: 30 minutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 35 | Wtf is this guy spewing? We were having a nice intellectual conversation until he started going off this tangent. (he also supports Jordan Peterson) I only talked to him longer than I should because he’s anti-porn and anti-sex work. He also compared revenge porn to an aunt not liking her toasterWow, those are a lot of words to say “I expect nude pictures and also, I will keep them and distribute them because they’re mine.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:52 AM |
| 33 | Such a disgusting porn-addicted man. Sadly, theres plenty of them out there. Found on r/creepyPMsThat would entice him more, there’s nothing to say to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:09 AM |
| 10 | Male lurkers are pathetic.Just how low can they go?? It’s baffling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Male lurkers are pathetic.This makes sooo much sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Male lurkers are pathetic.Did that as soon as I saw it but it’s a throwaway so you know it won’t do anything. Still feels good though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:25 PM |
| 20 | Male lurkers are pathetic.Can you say triggered? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 33 | Male lurkers are pathetic.The only thing I gather from his question is that he believes we can’t have tall AND big penis. We’re not settling for short OR small penis, so keep on moving. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Asking to split the bill from tinderOh my god I needed this laugh so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Man "jumps at opportunity" when new mother agrees to get a puppy - then calls her an asshole when she can't handle raising their newborn & puppy alone.It’s Reddit. Women and children are less than shit around here. These men are absolute trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:27 PM |
| 67 | Size really does matter: Men with small penises are more likely to be infertile say scientistsProbably because there are many hormonal conditions that directly affect it. I dated a man with a hormone issue that caused his penis to be less than 3 inches when erect. He was infertile because of the hormone imbalance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 08:28 PM |
| 12 | Clear Sign Of A NarcissistMy mom is a narcissist and this is 100% every single conversation with her. Here is an example! She visited Texas 2 years ago and went to a Whataburger and a seedy little bar. She talks like she was a movie star getting adoration on the streets. Everyone LOVES her in Texas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 5 | A comprehensive list of TV Shows with fat, ugly, potato-built scrotes who were one cheeseburger away from heart failure that Hollywood paired with slim, attractive, wives. Men have ALWAYS had a “body positivity” movement, so don’t let them ever shame you about yours 💅They’re aimed at women but they’re created by men so that’s the only way the can portray it all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 7 | I am a longtime lurker at r/breakingmom, and I suggest reading through posts there flaired “man rant” to see the extent to which LVM treat their wives and children with no respect. It will sober you up if you’re ever doubting incorporating FDS into your life.The scary thing is some men are really good at lying. No one starts a relationship with an abuser, they slowly become their true abusive self. Sometimes it is truly a gamble. I would pay close attention to his relationship with his mom and women relatives. His way of speaking to other men as well. Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable should be taken as a red flag. In my case, I had many red flags but he had changed for a year or two (enough to make me feel safe) and then became worse after… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:35 PM |
| 95 | I am a longtime lurker at r/breakingmom, and I suggest reading through posts there flaired “man rant” to see the extent to which LVM treat their wives and children with no respect. It will sober you up if you’re ever doubting incorporating FDS into your life.As a regular poster and commenter in that sub, I agree. It is so sad to see how many of us suffer at the hands of LVM. Sadly, some of these women just didn’t know until they were trapped. Having children is fantastic and it’s a love that cannot be described but having children with a LVM is a personal type of hell I wish on no one. For further proof, the guy who set his ex wife and his children on fire before killing himself. It’s heartbreaking to read through that sub but it’s good to be aware … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:08 PM |
| 19 | This is a one way ticket to being a forever girlfriend! No ring, no investment. Even then, investing in yourself is top priority.It’s fEmINisM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:54 AM |
| 56 | If you are a woman, it is named differently.This was a big problem for me when I worked. After I became a mom, it’s like a switch went off in my brain and I had enough. I was done being polite and I was done being steamrolled by men who knew less than I did. I began speaking up at work, I would respectfully but strongly voice my thoughts and opinions. I realized whenever I provided my boss with a plan to tackle a problem, it was an automatic no but, if a male repeated what I just proposed, he would agree. I started to think I was going cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 13 | Lessons learned from dadSeeing how a man treats his mother is a huge, ginormous, insightful way to see how he’ll treat you. My son’s father once took me to his mom’s house when we had started to date. I wouldn’t say he’s a mamas boy because she seems to emotionally rely more on him than he does her but, they’re very, very close and he loves his mother dearly. That being said, I don’t exactly remember what happened or what was said but, while we were saying goodbye, we all lingered outside talking and he and his mom sta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:10 AM |
| 6 | Really makes you thinkI wish I would have thought about this 7 years ago. It’s 7 years later and I still see her pop up in his DMs. Now I’m stuck here and she’s off somewhere else laughing at me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!I wish I could give you a big hug. I’m so sorry for all you’ve gone through, you’re incredibly smart and strong for being able to deal with your struggle. I hope you know how much you’re worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 03:18 PM |
| 13 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!They allllways come back! It’s like the one thing you can always count on! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:52 PM |
| 9 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!It’s outside but like under the house? It’s a two story home with a completely open space downstairs so that’s where they had it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:51 PM |
| 6 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!I’m so glad it makes for a funny story, I hated myself for it for a long time but now I just cringe and laugh because holy shit, it was ridiculously bad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 9 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!I’m sorry about your parent. It is really a devastating and heartbreaking childhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 17 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!I wish I could say I learned but unfortunately I married a man who isn’t HV. It has been a difficult and painful journey but I’m on the road to making my escape and finding myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 12 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!Laugh away!!!! It’s so fucking ridiculous how far I went for this dude. I can just imagine his mom or his grandma doing the laundry and reading that note and I die inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)I feel you sis. I find men more and more repulsive because I see them as children who are misbehaving for attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 135 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!I have abandonment issues and I was raised alone by a narcissistic mother and my views of love have been so warped and damaged for so long, I fell for the wrong men. I’m finally learning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 22 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.Ding, ding, ding! That’s totally what he’s doing. It’s so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:45 PM |
| 5 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)He’s letting you know he finds it sexy that you’re “playing hard to get”. He’s being condescending towards you. I read it as “oh, she’s so cute being busy! She thinks she’s a big girl!”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Men who say “I’m worse at X household duty because I didn’t learn that as a kid” aren’t worth your timeI’m glad he is the way he is but no, all Latino men are not like him. At all. Not even close. I’m Hispanic and I’ve only dated Hispanic men and let me tell you, they’re all fucking horrible. They are lazy and are taught nothing about household chores. Their mothers treat them like Kings and they grow up with mommy issues and no skills for being a good husband or even a good provider. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:44 PM |
| 11 | Thought I met a HVM, so glad this sub exists, I ended it last night.So just another Friday for them? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 03:06 PM |
| 28 | I'd rather be single forever than deal with a manchildNow, now. Let’s not insult babies here. My son is 3 and he eats left overs just fine 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 7 | Comment: “just take this as a valuable lesson that if you want some ass, go look up porn”...as if that’s not the entire problem of why he felt like doing thisThis happened to me in middle school! There was one guy who was new that year and he was an outcast by his own volition. We all once saw him taking upskirt pictures of us as we went up the stairs in our school uniforms. We couldn’t have been older than 11/12. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 47 | 🙄🙄🙄Generous but not stupid = I will not spend a dime on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 28 | Reddit once again promotes that men's feelings are more important then a woman or his child's life.I worked full time up to 3 days before I had my son. I had a pinched sciatica and wanted to cry when I walked. I also did all the emotional labor and caring for the household. Becoming pregnant was the moment my sons father decided to become abusive and it has never stopped since. I cannot leave just yet but this sub gives me a breath of fresh air and a feeling of empowerment that I need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else wonder what dating a woman would be like?That is really interesting, for me it’s the opposite. I am picky with women’s faces but I love their bodies. Beautiful women are absolutely breathtaking at times. Men’s faces are ok? Their bodies are ok? But if they’re too muscular or look too intimidating I’m immediately turned off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I lost the weight and they came running. Boy bye.I’ve been wondering if IF would work for me or if I should go back to keto. I lost 75lbs on keto in a few months but IF seems to work with my natural eating habits. I’d just need to adjust the calories for the 8hours. Thank you, I’ll definitely start trying this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else wonder what dating a woman would be like?That is actually really helpful, thank you for that! It is just kind of mind boggling to me haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else wonder what dating a woman would be like?I’m bi and I’ve always wondered what it is like in the mind of a strictly straight woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:31 AM |
| 7 | Women can tell when a man’s watching pornWhat is it with the squirting thing?! I’m so sick of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:39 AM |
| 2 | I lost the weight and they came running. Boy bye.Girl what is your secret!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Ex-NRL Star Rowan Baxter burns his estranged wife and children alive in their car, then kills himself, after lengthy custody battle. ANOTHER REMINDER TO STOP MARRYING AND HAVING CHILDREN WITH LVM!!!God fucking damn it. I have never really cried at these stories before but this has me sobbing. Those little babies, my god. How could anyone do this? Fuck everything. I’m so tired of men and their violence. They think they own everything and everyone. Those poor babies. I just can’t deal with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:26 AM |
| 3 | PoF is filled with LVM. Don't fall for the word salad, ladies. If you're confused, don't try to make sense of it. No response is the best response. It's hard to tell whether this guy is an idiot or trying to neg me. It reads like "hey, you're hideous, but I can see the beauty underneath"😂Yes, because no one ever before him had looked her way. She was just so insert feature here that no man would even give her the time of day. Poor OP! This guy is just trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 12:43 AM |
| 6 | PoF is filled with LVM. Don't fall for the word salad, ladies. If you're confused, don't try to make sense of it. No response is the best response. It's hard to tell whether this guy is an idiot or trying to neg me. It reads like "hey, you're hideous, but I can see the beauty underneath"😂I feel like his copypasta was incorrectly used. It should be like: "You have such an insert interesting expressive feature here" But he was too lazy so he just used the generic to send to everyone 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 12 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinklesThey just want to get matched with much younger women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 27 | 20 dark psychological tactics undercover LVM will use to manipulate you into thinking they’re seriousThey can have videos like that but oh my god, shut down FDS! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:46 AM |
| 10 | It's okay to not want to "try new things" in bed.Oh my god, the times I’ve read about men sad and upset their girlfriend won’t do what she did with her ex and actually giving her an ultimatum on the relationship sub is far too damn high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:33 PM |
| 10 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!Did he buy this on wish??? My god, that is a terrible fit for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.Taking care of their kids usually means handing them a tablet so they can game in peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)I have a question! During long term relationships, have any of your partners grabbed, pinched or pulled on your nipples when not in bed? Like, for example, cooking breakfast and he’ll just pull on your nipple. That is a big problem in my relationship. We’re currently not having sex because of a lot of reasons and that is one of them. Since I had our son 3 years ago, I absolutely hate having my nipples touched if I’m not actively turned on. It annoys me so much it makes me rage. I’ve asked him to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:56 AM |
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