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FragElder/r/askTRP30/11/15 11:57 PM
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You can, but it's almost never worth the time/effort required. Any showings of 'alpha' from now on will be perceived as false and you'll be shit-tested relentlessly. The smart move would be to cut your losses and move on.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:05 PM
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Every girl likes being submissive, every woman you've ever met in your life will turn into a submissive little slut for the right man. The level of submissiveness she is comfortable with will vary based on her attraction level, social programming, etc. But even the most hardcore feminist will fall into a natural submissive role. If a girl is not being submissive with you, it either means: She isn't attracted to you and doesn't respect you as a man worth submitting to. OR She is so damaged by soc…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 04:12 PM
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1) Read the sex god method. It looks like your issues are buffers that inhibit your confidence. 2) Find a girl to keep around for 6 months plus so that you can get comfortable having sex with her. If you just have ONS after ONS you will never get past the initial stage of sex (random awkward humping). Even if you have to get in an LTR for a while, do it. Experiment with new things that help open up your mind to sex and get you comfortable with each other. Once you've established that comfort lev…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:11 PM
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This is exactly what I needed to hear, when in doubt just default to amused mastery? You can't really default to amused mastery, since it requires, well... mastery. Or at least understanding. If you try to fake your way through it, it won't work. In this case it's just an issue of confidently acting on what you know you want to do. Don't be in your own head thinking about IOIs and potential opportunities during the date, you do that analysis afterwards to improve later. Just be in the moment, if…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:53 PM
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For that situation what you did wasn't horrible. The key is delivery. If you do it in an amused mastery sense, from the frame of "alright, dinners done, let's do this" kind of mentality, where you are overtly acknowledging the natural progression of the date, she will be turned on and impressed by that. If you awkwardly stumble over the conversation simply because you don't know what your next move is, she will pick up on that. I typically never get food until several dates in, because I think d…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 04:24 PM
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You may have had breaks in frame during the encounter but not getting the kiss till later is definitely not something that should be of any concern. I think you're just relying on the kiss too much as a barometer to measure how the date is gong, which you don't need. Read her body language, eye contact, etc. You should be able to tell if you can fuck a girl or not long before the first kiss. I sometimes hold off on the kiss depending on the situation as I find kissing too early can be detrimenta…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:54 PM
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"You look bored" While I agree this exact line is bad and likely to be overused by many guys, I've found variations of it to work. For example, I'll say very sarcastically/facetiously "you look like you're having a great time" with a shit eating grin, which will cause me to get a momentary death-stare that cracks into a smile and leads into a great conversation about their night. I've reversed girls piss poor moods with this opener and then a 5 minute conversation. They associate me with this ch…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:11 PM
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I think it's a little more complicated than just the number of plates you have. The HB rating of a particular plate can cause an isolated loss of abundance, where you will react irrationally with only one woman. I experienced this recently with a new HB10 plate that was giving me mixed signals. Everything about her is perfect for me, which made it harder to fight some BP tendencies despite having a steady rotation of HB6-HB9 plates. I've noticed the lower the rating of the plate, the less effort…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:03 PM
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There is nothing RP about this post. You have expended a lot of energy and gained nothing. Not only that you outed yourself as a social pariah when you tried to get attention on instagram by posting a Tinder conversation.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 02:32 PM
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It helps indirectly by helping you foster a better dominant attitude and being able to lead and understand women better. But it's definitely not the focus and will only help that a bit. For a newbie to kino there is nothing better than Decarlo's "Physical escalation ladder" PDF. It's only 20 pages or so but super easy to read/understand and gives you the most "bang for your buck" of any PUA material out there, because it's so short and to the point and because of how huge an impact good Kino is.…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:20 PM
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If you're already getting IOIs then you can cheat and read Decarlo's "Physical escalation ladder" PDF in order to get some very quick and easy results. You should still learn all the other assets of game, but I would say that arguably there is no other book/PDF that will get you the bang for your buck like this manual. If you can stumble your way through an opener and a hook point, you can use the method to increase your close rate like crazy. The things only like... 20 pages or so and extremely…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:28 PM
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There's not necessarily someone else as others have stated. But it is certain that she is physically repulsed by you. You have extremely low SMV in her eyes to be labelled as a "friend/brother". The thought of being intimate with you makes her sick to her stomach. All of this isn't easy to hear, and I'm sorry. But you need to hear it in order to change. You did not hold frame as well as you thought, in her mind you were as beta as they come and you gave her no excitement. There is no salvaging t…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:50 PM
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I've established a personal rule for myself not only not to take in any of the garbage facebook offers, but not to attempt to contribute to it as well. As a new TRP man you will want to share your new found knowledge with friends, but doing so will only lead you to being socially ostracized. I just enjoy facebook "ironically" these days, sarcastically and nonseriously commenting on things and using it as an influence to keep me grounded and informed with what the general public believes.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:46 PM
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You sound extremely passive aggressive. Although your SMV is low by your description, that's not why you were denied. You came off as a whiny neckbeard not getting his way, not a confident outcome-independent "asshole".
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 05:00 PM
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What you're describing doesn't work as well as you think it does. You have a stabilished friendship with some very beautiful pseudo-socialites. You haven't banged - even kissed - any of them, but the photos you post together in social media and your very affectionate interactions around the place makes a lot of people think that you are THE shit. No it doesn't. It's very apparent to outsiders what you are doing and what your role/status in the group is. Beta bitches might think you're the shit b…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 04:32 PM
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I've made the mistake of trying to bring up lack of sex logically in a relationship before. I went from having sex several times a day to ~once a week or 2-3 times a month, back up to several times a day or whenever I wanted it essentially. Improve your SMV and focus on other activities instead of her. The reason she is not having sex with you is because she is unattracted to you. Improve your SMV and use some dread game. Don't reward her with your attention/validation if she is not giving you w…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 11:21 PM
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BJJ provides a lot more than lifting as gives you a lot of confidence, humbles you and provides a more realistic vision of how you'd fair in a fight, it provides opportunities to meet new people and bond with bros through physical combat/competition. You really can't go wrong if you find a good gym to train at. Training BJJ will not necessarily directly add to your SMV though as to outsiders it's kind of seen as a weird pajama thing. People that don't train in martial arts can't tell the differe…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 10:58 PM
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Doesn't seem like you know what game is. Game is certainly not sitting by yourself silently and inactively while you buy girls drinks. Game is also not a facade, game is internalized. Everyone has game to an extent, even beta's have game. What you described is the difference between strong game and weak game, not the difference between game and no game.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 10:00 PM
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It's a buffer/defense-mechanism people use in their head to disassociate themselves from the dreaded "beta" label in order to feel better about themselves. I personally don't have a problem with others doing it, since it doesn't affect me in the slightest, but that mechanism/attitude severely impedes improvement. Did I used to do some naturally RP things...? Sure. Was I kind of alpha in some areas of my life...? Of course. Did I get laid by hot girls occasionally...? Yeah you bet. But before I l…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 07:28 PM
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I think this is a pretty obvious sentiment to most people who have figured out how disposable men have been and continue to be throughout history. What's interesting about this though is you can tell how much OP yearns to be listened to or understood. Everyone has this desire, women get it validated by beta's usually but men never really have anyone to turn to. If you understand this, you can reverse the process in order to gain massive influence. Don't whine about yourself, give the other perso…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 07:05 PM
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You've touched on what a lot of people have trouble with in this sub, balance. I never understand or take seriously posts that argue which aspects are more important to focus on. Those factors are totally unique to the individuals strengths/weaknesses and goals/objectives. If you're a millionaire beta with no game and a terrible body, then yeah, maybe lifting and learning PU is the best thing for you. If you're a broke ass personal trainer at the gym with no skills and no direction in life, then…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 06:47 PM
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Dont "try anything" on the first date. Even though how many "signs" you're getting. Why assert yourself as a sexual being and make your intentions clear and upfront when you could relegate yourself to the friend-zone after unveiling your beta status? If you aren't clear about your sexual intentions, women will think you're covert, manipulative, and scheming. If you don't have the balls to make a move, women won't respect you. Burn and forget everything you know about "pickup" and "getting laid 1…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:17 PM
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On a chilly Saturday morning, as the second line showed a faint positive I was gripped with shock, fear and sadness. The greatest joy to womanhood just turned into a curse. Knowing that my husband has been away for more than a year, a missed period definitely indicated a second man. Bear witness to the impressive amalgamation and usefulness of her liberal arts degree. Whoever told her women's studies or creative writing degree wouldn't amount to anything can suck it, those mysogonistic assholes!…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 06:34 PM
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Depends how he framed the post. If it was exactly as it was here, with him knowing the extent of his actions and using TRP terminology then yes, he would probably be down-voted. But if he used a different perspective, asking "what he did wrong" and then honestly recalling the events, reddit would jump on is side saying he did nothing wrong and calling the other guy a jealous asshole. If there's one thing I've come to realize, it's that even the feminist hive-mind of reddit overtly hates betas an…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 03:05 PM
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Ex. 1: Wife/Plate comes over after work and is complaining about how shitty her job is and boss doesn't respect her... Most people just want to vent and seek comfort/validation when this happens. With your wife you should listen for a bit and agree with what she's saying, take her side even if she's wrong. Playing devil's advocate or giving actual useful advice here won't help. Let her get it out for a few minutes and then move the conversation to something more cheerful. Don't let her establish…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 09:21 PM
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Well, I think that with 100k+ subscribers, there's an even greater number of lurkers who are also reading this stuff. The cat's really out of the bag, this shit ain't secret no more. I expect that the majority of English speaking people under 30 with access to the internet have at least HEARD OF (if not accepted) The Red Pill. Yes, that includes women. And dykes. Doubtful, you're really overestimating the numbers here. The only friends that I have that know of TRP are ones I've told directly. Th…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:33 PM
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Two different ways: Through her gina "tingles" - ie the initial attraction you generate that intrigues her. and 2) Through great sex, which bonds her strongly to you and makes it harder to let go of you. It should be noted you must maintain both in a healthy relationship. I've had girls that were super attracted to me initially bail after we had awkward drunken sex and I've had girls who I've made orgasm continually eventually break up with me because I didn't continue to maintain attraction (in…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 03:58 PM
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I'm not sure what you're looking for, either if it's to salvage the plate or your own sanity/frame of mind. My personal advice for your own sake is just to next with NC. Get her to change her passwords or reset them to something random that sends it to her e-mail so you don't know it. Doing either acknowledges the fact you 1) know her passwords and 2) have been using them to gain information on her. Both of these weaken her opinion of you and it could be detrimental if she tells others, but it m…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 03:53 PM
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Yes because I can't tell the difference between disgust and pure ecstasy.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 05:31 PM
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I had an excessively long post on askTRP about this incident, because it was so bewildering to me at first. I included every detail I could think of because I literally had no idea what I did wrong at first. Usually I find myself putting in more effort before we hook up and then the girls will chase me for commitment. I'm not an expert but no newbie either, so I typically know what to expect. This one was the complete opposite though. My game was on point and I was firing on all cylinders, she w…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 05:30 PM
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That's what I was saying. It's a catch-22 where you need to establish your outcome independence, but can't do so without more face time. If you have similar social circles then this isn't too hard, you'll "run into" each other at events. But if you don't, you need to get some face time in. I've asked this girl to hang out twice since then, once she cancelled and the other time she was just busy. These were both trying to make plans night of on the fly situation, which girls tend to bail on most …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 09:45 PM
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I had one of these incidences recently where I hooked up with a girl on her period. She was really into it and loved my sexual aggression, to the point where her eyes were rolling back in her head when I kissed her. We were planning to hook up again and I was being "overly nice" to facilitate another meet up (since I wanted to finish what we started). Doing things like planning far in ahead, inviting her to sleep over, offering her a ride home, texting her too early, etc. She was shocked I was b…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 09:13 PM
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Yes, you should typically only apologize when you are at fault. When you are at fault you should identify it immediately and then move on. This is readily apparent in the service industry where servers say "sorry" all the time when doing so much as passing by another server. When I was a bartender I never took part in the symphony of sorrys being passed around and people respected me more for it. A lot of people use apologies as a means to comfort others at their own expense. When you apologize …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 09:04 PM
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You touch on some very good points, ones that are often overlooked on this sub where there seems to be an emphasis to be "bigger, faster, stronger", often at the expense of other extremely important aspects like game and social dominance. I get why the standard advice for newbies here is "go lift", because the majority of users here are out of shape, too fat or too skinny, having lived a reclusive and inactive lifestyle. However for the guys that are already athletes or in shape, the "go lift" a…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 05:37 PM
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I was going to ask about this as I prefer calling to texting most times. Like you said a lot of women will be taken back by a guy calling, but I'm not sure if it's a good thing or a bad thing. I think if you make a good initial impression they will think the guy is bold and knows what he wants, but if you fail to amp up the attraction at first you might come off as thirsty. A lot of younger girls (18-22) also might think it's weird. I've had a lot more success cold calling girls than playing the…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 03:19 PM
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I meant purely in an aesthetic frame of mind. So far she's coming off as higher maintenance than I'm used to, which I'm willing to invest some more time into because I don't come across a body that is THAT perfectly my type all that often, so it would be great to lock her down as a regular hook up. I'm not willing to compromise much for that, but a few lost hours on meet ups or phone calls isn't a huge deal for that chance. I guess I could wait until after exams, but maybe sneaking her away for …
/r/askTRP02/12/15 07:00 PM
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Since you're the only one replying, figured I'd update on the situation and see what you think if you still give a shit. I called the girl, rang once and then the call ended. I thought this was weird so I did it a few times, same thing. Looked it up and found that's what happens when you block numbers on an iPhone (phone off or on DND goes straight to voicemail with no ring, unlikely she would ignore the call at the exact moment every time). So I text her from my work number saying essentially w…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:00 PM
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The reason I wanted to include all details was to draw a very accurate picture so there wetland no guess work and understanding and literally because I had no idea what the fuck I did wrong. I was trying to think of subtle things I did that could have screwed things up so I just listed literally everything I remembered. I do apologize for that. As for calling her. The last time we talked was stir day night. Would you say sooner or later is better in this case?
/r/askTRP01/12/15 01:15 AM
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Then don't read it. If you give an opinion based off a TLDR, the opinion is essentially useless.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:00 AM
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I think it depends on the reason for the lie and the potential benefits of lying or omitting information. If you can utilize dark-triad characteristics, lying will be one of your most valuable tools. Like you said, life may be harder if you lie, but taking the more difficult route sometimes has more potential benefits. However like you touched on, 99% of people just lie in the moment in order to avoid conflict when being called out on something. Very few people lie proactively for their benefit,…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 07:32 PM
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Most people won't care when a woman cheats on a man, usually because it's the males beta behavior that causes the cheating and males/females alike both deplore beta males. Even in myself, when I heard that a friend of mine had cheated on her boyfriend (who was an equally close friend of mine), I didn't really care or demonize her for it in my head. My gut reaction was almost that it was justified because he was so beta. His anti-social and girl-like behavior when he's in relationships was someth…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 06:49 PM
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Blaming the "player" takes accountability and responsibility away from the female. Decent females should be able to vet potential mates and recognize the gravity/impact of their decisions, they need a strong RP masculine figure in their life to learn this skill. Also, almost no girl I know has ever been "played" in the way that popular media portrays it. There are no cases of guys lying about intentions and doing grand gestures of love, only to bail once they get in the girls pants. Mostly becau…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 10:21 PM
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Do you now understand that your mom was shit testing him and he was failing? No shit. The problem with a marriage contract is that it makes passing shit-tests harder as the woman has significantly more leverage than the male. Women will take advantage of any footing you give them. Even if the male originally has a strong frame, the barrage of constant shit-tests will eventually wear him down. That's also not the kind of life I want to live, being constantly tested by an inferior person. Do you f…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:22 PM
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Gaming a 35 year old is much harder than a 17 year old. I could much easier bed a HB-9 17 year old than I could a HB-6 35 year old. The reason being is that the 35 year old has a much higher perceived value than the 17 year old (in her head). She has things like a career, maturity, experience, and all the other bullshit terms post-wall women use when comparing themselves to younger women. She is more cautious having slowly recognized the signs she is getting pumped and dumped (from having it hap…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:38 PM
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It's amazing how many man are still willing to run head first into an agreement that provides little to no benefits for themselves and comes with huge risk. I have never bought into the idea of marriage, after seeing what a raw deal my father got out of it. He works his ass off to provide for someone that barely works or does anything around the house, yet bitches at him at every given opportunity. If it weren't for TRP, I would have definitely been guilted into getting married due to the immens…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:49 PM
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I would say being 12 minutes late for a first date is no big deal. It's not a business meeting and you don't want to set it up like one, unless that's the type of interaction you want for a first date. If a girl is 30+ minutes late then you should just bail or have fun at the venue you're already at. I certainly wouldn't be mad if I was meeting a buddy and he ran a little late, and I wouldn't care if a date did either, because I would be having fun regardless. Addressing the fact that she's late…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:55 PM
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I can't believe this shit is serious. Apparently the new South Park season isn't even satire anymore, it's just a documentary on the current culture of American college campuses. In Canada things are a lot more lax and people that overact like this are definitely the SJW outcasts.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 09:52 PM
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I'd wager a bet to say the Mark is just as beta as Billy, however he is situationally alpha as he has higher status and is older than Billy. It won't be long before Sally finds an even higher status male and jumps ship. From the very limited information provided in the story above, Mark seems super beta: Raises another mans child Marries a girl he knows will cheat Many men on here will disagree simply for prides sake as they are in that situation, but there is literally nothing more beta than ra…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:49 PM
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do you see your mom and/or sisters in this same view point? No sisters, but my mother has provided countless examples of RP truths. My mother is a vapid cunt and a sorry excuse for a human being. She leaches off my father who is comparatively a much more successful, intelligent, and all around better person than her. She's completely entitled for no reason whatsoever, thinking she has earned everything my father has because she stayed at home watching kids for a few days a week. She currently wo…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:25 PM
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I've noticed over the years that it is the club promoters, bartenders, ski instructors, and those types of guys who get to have sex with a lot of decent looking women (alpha fucks) while the doctors, bankers, and other prestigious jobs end up being the beta bucks. Alpha/beta is not dependent on job title. I know a lot of extremely alpha doctors, bankers, engineers, and managers and I know a ton of beta bartenders. Yes it's true that those jobs put you in an environment where you're always expose…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 10:40 PM
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I've learned that the medical system main goal is to stabilize the working force, not to optimize the health of it's patients. The shit I've heard doctor's say really blows my mind, it's like they don't give a shit at all about your health or things that are bothering you. If you're in the US, consider yourself lucky that money can actually buy you good healthcare. In Canada with our bullshit socialist system, if you're a young male with a life-affecting health condition you will deal with apath…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 10:14 PM
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Why are you posting after only being on TRP for a week? You are just looking for attention and validation rather than providing actual value, which seems to be par for the course these days with this subreddit. Your post is all over the place and doesn't have a central point, other than feelings = bad? I will say that vulnerability is acceptable and can be used to your advantage to increase attraction, but it must always come from a position of power. If it comes from a position of power and a m…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 10:08 PM
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Just learn to let those experiences go. Your failures will define you as a person and help guide you to be the person you want to be. The thing about all successful people that they never tell you about or show correctly in popular media is how often and how much they fail. Successful people aren't born or just have a natural talent to do everything right, they've failed spectacularly countless times. There's a phrase along the lines of "the difference between the master and the amateur is that …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 05:17 PM
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First you have to create the explosion.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 10:01 PM
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I think he started off with some sort of anti-beta scenario and then it just devolved into his own perverted sexual fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 05:01 PM
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Women "like" them because they are a free labor force that gives them validation. Betas definitely serve their purpose for women, but most women are disgusted by them.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:50 PM
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The topic of conversation has absolutely no value in the minds of a woman, it's the underlying nonverbal communication that women always pay attention to. You could be talking about rocket science or joking about farts, as long as you are charismatic and physically escalating. Women don't value intellect, they value passion. When they are attracted to intellectuals it's usually because they can speak passionately at great lengths about their topic of interest. When a man sees an intelligent man …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:34 PM
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Get the screenshots your friend has (he's lying if he says he has none), print them out, place them on the table in front of her and walk out without saying anything. Cut contact completely, don't respond to any texts, calls, e-mails, etc. She'll go crazy trying to explain herself and win you back. Just move on and go find another.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:19 PM
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God modern feminism and PC/libcuck attitudes bring about some of the most unbelievable stories. Men like this disgust me on a primal level, I feel this deep seated compelling feeling that I need to remove them from the gene pool because they are such weak pussies. It's like the tribe mentality, his weakness brings weakness to all us and therefore he must be exiled or killed. The comments section is fairly disgusting as usual, but there are shockingly some people with common sense in them.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 10:53 PM
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This hasn't been my experience in the slightest. Sure, higher SMV women will talk about how much they hate topless selfie pics, but that's just because they want plausible deniability. They're the same girls that tell you they would never have sex on the first date and then do it all the time. They care about their self image in the presence of others, it's all just a fabricated facade they put on so they aren't ostracized as sluts.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:48 PM
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But it sure does factor in when you consider starting up a long term relationship and especially when you are considering having kids with this person. If the man doesn't want any of these things then it doesn't factor in at all. While you may want marriage and children there are plenty of men, myself included, who will never have kids or get married and are content with spinning plates forever.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 02:20 AM
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As boxers, we pride ourselves on being warriors. Well, the primitive warriors didn't get to choose a fight day. If the tribe was attacked, you fought, or you died. If your tribe survived the attack, and you didn't fight, they kicked you out of the tribe. If you choose to be a warrior (alpha), you accept that you will never feel 100% on "fight day" (or in pickup, no approach will ever feel perfect). You can tell who's a fighter and who's not by seeing when people will come train. There are those …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 09:10 PM
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People misunderstand what "being a good listener" is. It's not just making sure you hear everything the other person says and lend them your ear. A good listener will actively engage and lead the conversation, verbally and physically encouraging the other person to talk about things at a level they wouldn't normally talk to a stranger about. A good listener will dominate the conversation, take it in the direction they want to, and then encourage the other person to talk at great lengths about so…
/r/seduction14/11/15 08:57 PM
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You can talk about whatever you want. Talk about what interests you with confidence and engage her in the conversation. The topic of conversation doesn't matter in the slightest, it's the underlying nonverbal communication that you're doing during the conversation that builds attraction. I get that women don't want to talk about their job, the weather, or the other boring monotonous bullshit especially when they are out trying to have fun. Women love talking about monotonous bullshit, it's all t…
/r/seduction14/11/15 08:47 PM
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Depends on the severity of winter. I live in a city that has one of the harshest winters in North America and -40 degrees celsius tends to fuck with logistics and peoples will to go out. Meeting new plates can be more difficult if you don't have several social circles, as most people tend to gravitate towards parties at peoples houses instead of going to the bar and having to wait in line. People also go out less during the day unless they really need something. Plates are a lot lower maintenanc…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 10:12 PM
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I found some differe, I dated an Indian girl for 6 years and she was never confused about what she wanted, she loved her father and she was very upfront and alpha. Women definitely run the show in Indian relationships, she tried doing this at first with me which lead to lots of fights and us butting heads all the time, but she learned how to follow my lead and couldn't have been happier cause of it. Deep down every girl just wants to find a man to take charge. Most Indian women love white men be…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 05:19 PM
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Similar to the beautiful at every size or fat-acceptance movements, or whatever the hell those things are called.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 10:38 PM
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It's a sad reality that people choose to lie on anonymous forums, but non-the-less it is a reality. You have to use your judgement when when analyzing the validity of a post on here, it could be embellished, completely fabricated, or a huge troll post. That being said, there is nothing that seems unbelievable about his claims, you can make vast improvements of all areas of your life if you have the time and determination to do so. Even if you're already "successful", monk mode is required from t…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 05:14 PM
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I mean the best course of action would be to just completely cut contact and not concern yourself with her pregnancy, but it would be nice to get the "last laugh" and have her terminate the pregnancy she wanted. Lets be honest though, of she has the kid she'll find some other cuck to take care of it, she's going to be just fine regardless. No sensible man would take her, but luckily for her there's an abundance of beta males ready to raise a child that isn't theirs just to get some post wall pus…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 04:47 AM
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I'd make her get the abortion and then divorce her anyways. He's making a mistake waiting to decide while she likely lawyers up to protect herself.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 02:34 AM
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A few rules I've come to realize through experience: If she mentions her boy friend within the first 30 minutes of the conversation it means she's doing it intentionally to show disinterest. If she doesn't mention her boyfriend (and you know she has one), take it as an IOI. If she doesn't mention a boyfriend and you don't know her status, she is neutral. This should not be taken as an IOI or sign of disinterest. If she does it immediately when meeting you it can be for a number of reasons: 1) Sh…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:30 PM
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Just drink whatever you're comfortable with and don't let others dictate what you do. If you fold to group pressure when out then you're outing yourself as a lower status member of the group. Just say "no I'm good" if you don't want to drink and leave it at that. If you start listing reasons to why you're not drinking that night or you don't drink period, you're qualifying yourself to whoever is pressuring you, which also demonstrates lower value.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:15 PM
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There is a large misconception surrounding game with new TRP members. Game is not marketing a shit product as something that it's not, it's not tricks, and it's not "fake". Game is the most important aspect of your SMV, because SMV is based on social status (of which income and looks are factors of, but not extremely important). There are guys that make 1/4 what you do and are likely shorter, uglier, and dress much worse. But they clean up because they have decent game. Game is a persons underst…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 08:34 PM
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I've had this come up recently too, just do whatever you want in the moment and disregard what she's telling you. If you want to bust a nut on her face just do it without saying a word, 99% of the time the girl won't object. If you ask first though (and she obviously says no because she doesn't want to be perceived as that type of girl), then she will be pissed if you do it anyway. If you just do it they can rationalize it away as "it just happened" or "I had no choice in the matter, it's not my…
/r/askTRP10/11/15 08:28 PM
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I like the idea of eliminating RP terminology from discussion and I think it's something we should push for as a community to make our ideology easier to understand/adopt for newcomers and make our community seem less "cult-like". I don't think we should strive to be politically correct at all, but a lot of the terms we use could definitely be altered to convey better accuracy and understanding. However, there are some terms you've listed which I have had great success using in conversation with…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 07:45 PM
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A large part of this "pickiness" is caused by the fact that women are absolutely terrible at objectively analyzing their own SMV from the perspective of a male (ie their true SMV if they are hoping to get a man). There was a study posted on here not long ago which showed that while men could objectively and accurately rate the average SMV of the opposite sex, women drastically underrated what would be considered an average man (ie the 80-20 rule). What this also means is that women drastically o…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 07:24 PM
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The key point with gaming is that it's a hobby that provides little to no return on your investment. You can spend 10+ hours a day gaming and get no value from it other than your personal enjoyment. Comparatively, you can spend 1 hour a day in the gym and see a much higher return of value. If you want to game as a hobby that's fine, but you aren't going to get anything of value of it like you would from a sport, from reading, or from playing an instrument or learning a new skill set. Not only do…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:10 PM
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This was written from the viewpoint of a very BP man. I don't really know where to start to be honest. And you blowing up on her? What... You may have just become aware of TRP way of life but you certainly aren't practicing it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 11:29 PM
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I've never really felt like TRP should be responsible for motivating others. TRP is a source of information for already motivated but previously mislead males like myself to use to better our lives, with a focus around social hierarchy and sexual strategy in particular. TRP introduced me to so many new sources of information, I've read countless books and watched tons of videos on sexual strategy and game. Through TRP I've found the knowledge source to improve my own personal and professional re…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:00 AM
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I've seen this firsthand and heard girls describe this exact thing. One of my buddies recent LTRs described how seeing him "emotionally break down" (ie shed a few tears) added a whole new layer of his personality that intrigued her to find out more about this side of him. It adds depth to his character and because it's so rarely seen in strong men, they often want to see more of it. I've also cried in front of my recent ex-LTR maybe 5 times in 6 years. She would say she loved seeing me cry becau…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 03:57 PM
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I think the last one regarding the woman who lost her entire family in a car accident is just something any person would feel. You don't let go of tragedies like that and it's only reasonable that she would eventually want to let her new friends in on that information as they get closer, since it's a huge part of who you are. I can't see myself acting any differently to this woman in this context.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 11:17 PM
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You entire post confirmed what I said. So how come you did not give up after lets say 1 year ? Or 2 years or less say 8 years ? What you're alluding to is what some would call "gameness". The willingness for an animal or person to continue fighting, even when it may be detrimental to their health or survival. While gameness certainly helps with being alpha in all species, it is not a direct requirement in humans due to our complicated social hierarchy and the factors that make up an 'alpha'. The…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 05:51 PM
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Humans are highly social animals much more complicated than dogs or chickens. While we are still subject to our biological instincts, the majority of our behavior is learned and a product of our environment. While I would agree some children/men have a natural talent for aggression/violence, with humans that is not the only (nor most important) aspect of being alpha. As mentioned before, humans are highly evolved social creatures, and being alpha as a human means being able to navigate and manip…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 03:00 PM
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It's quite obvious you have no idea what TRP is about based on this post. You're probably quite new to the community and haven't read and of the recommended material. I'd suggest you start there and take a break from posting until you learn the basics.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:14 AM
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This sub is about the amoral discussion of sexual strategy, the problem is that users have applied morality to it but in the opposite direction. So rather than thinking of females sexual strategy (and how they can take advantage of it) as amoral, they view it immorally and attribute it to all of their problems.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 10:05 PM
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is like hating the sky for raining. In the end, you knew that could happen and it's your fault for not brining an umberella. Pretty much a perfect analogy. Too many users on this board shift the blame to others because they don't like taking responsibility for their own failures and inadequacies.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:45 PM
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It has to do with the fact that 95% of the users of this subreddit only get their information from this subreddit. They haven't gone through the sidebar or read a single one the the recommended books. I think it only took me getting half-way through Rollo's first book to get out of the anger stage and realize women and men are just different, I can be perpetually angry about that fact or I can learn more about it to lead a happier life. I do not use this sub as my main source of material for lea…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:36 PM
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Her lifestyle is shameful. According to who? To your own set of moral guidelines which you seem okay with imposing on the entire population? Morality is not objective, it is in fact highly bias. Your set of morals are unique to you and were fabricated to support your lifestyle. same as why we don't thank murderers for being proud to admit liking murder You're comparing serial monogamy to murder. The woman in the original post didn't even say she cheated ever, she was in monogamous LTRs. Your ext…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 04:53 PM
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This is the kind of woman I would like to have a short term relationship with, or be friends with, providing she is as honest and upfront in real life as she is in this post. I think a lot of you guys are misdirecting your anger at women, I see it on this board all the time. A woman like this should be praised for acknowledging her biological impulses. It is a rare quality that a woman would be so honest and introspective. At the end of the day we're all just animals and having a better understa…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 04:56 PM
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“Far too many young men have failed to make a normal progression into adult roles of responsibility and self-sufficiency, roles generally associated with marriage and fatherhood,” I love the language used here. So condescending to alternate life styles. Apparently because I have decided that getting married and having children is incompatible with my life style, I have have "failed" to be "normal". I am also not an adult, I'm irresponsible, and I'm dependent on others because I choose not to be …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 03:52 PM
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I really don't understand how some people can tell the different between a Chad and a self made TRP man. Maybe Chad has put a considerable amount of effort into improving his game, unless you've known him his entire life, how could you know? I know a lot of beta guys I know probably perceive me as a Chad due to my current success with women, despite my terrible history with women, countless failures, and immense effort I've put into improving myself. I know there are guys that despise me as a Ch…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 07:28 PM
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I am going to approach her today and talk it out Probably the worst thing you can do. She violated your trust and doesn't deserve an explanation or the effort you'd put into a conversation. Things will be hard, financially, emotionally. I'm not going to lie and tell you it will be easy, but that's what being a man is about, facing tough situations and dealing with them. Do what you have to to pay rent, sublet it or get out of the lease if you want to downsize, keep the dog if you're a dog person…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 06:22 PM
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Tren for a first cycle probably isn't the best idea.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:28 PM
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This thread seems pretty retarded, you're likely going to end up regretting your brief stint with roids in a few years. If you're "bulking" and only gaining fat, you either have no idea how to train or how to diet. If you don't remedy the problems with your training/diet first, any gains from gear will be lost quickly and you'll likely be worse off from where you started a few months after your cycle. I wouldn't advise stacking with a beginner cycle either and your injection schedule for prop ma…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:25 PM
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Isn't the point of prop to inject daily because of the different ester compared to e/c? Sounds like he got bad advice if he's injecting prop like it's cynth/enanthate.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:16 PM
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I did not like the style of writing for the intro of this article at all. It was way too condescending in an effort to separate masculine men from beta's. We know that the man writing the article should hardly be considered a man, I don't see the need to disqualify or condescend to these men in such a way. It just struck me as trying too hard to isolate/disqualify them, the same way women cry NAWALT. Rollo is probably my favorite author, his two books are my bible. But the start of this article …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 03:42 PM
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It's about an Irish family from Boston that moves to California after burning their connections in Boston. It's central focus is the main character, Ray Donovan, who represents high end lawyers, actors, and athletes. He basically handles problems and gets shit done through whatever means necessary. He uses violence often but loves to control people with leverage. He holds together his fucked up family. All in all a good show. Shows the power dynamic in conversations really well. Shows how vapid,…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:01 PM
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Not at all, because I do the same thing. Think about it, do you go around overtly promoting TRP way of life? Or are you more likely to agree to some bull shit in order to blend in and not out yourself? What if you were an actor, where the millions of dollars you make is dependent upon maintaining this facade? Actors are some of the most beautifully degenerate lying fucks when it comes to stuff like supporting stupid SJW agendas. They will blatantly support something they don't believe in or coul…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 07:07 PM
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I think your problem is simply misinterpreting what game is. Game is certainly not tricks, or cheat codes used by guys to cheat the system and trick girls into sleeping with them. Game is how you interact with others, your understanding of how the system works and the actions you take to game the system to your advantage. "Seeing reality for what it is", is just a small part of game/TRP, it's the first part. The next harder part is bending that reality to your will. Everyone has game, even if th…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 06:57 PM
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If you really want to display social proof through your phone, I honestly think it would be easier to just text and call people regularly so that they return the favor. Having a burner phone on you? That just seems a bit ridiculous. I'm a big fan of the "fake it till you make it" strategy, but this is an area where you don't really need to fake it.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:36 PM
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Game is an important factor in determining your SMV. If you ignore game you will never reach your full potential. I'd rather channel my energy into improving my career and expanding my knowledge. Game is far more important in your career than any other aspect. Technical knowledge in your field helps, but it's always vastly overshadowed by game. If you know how to navigate interpersonal relationships and understand the power dynamics involved in all social hierarchies, you will be at a massive ad…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 03:38 PM
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Yeah, I've seen professional RP aware women take hyphenated names or keep their maiden name in their field to avoid confusion. They are usually also fine with their children taking the fathers last name, they only keep theirs themselves to make their careers easier. It's very common for women with PHDs to do this, or those that have worked in client related business sectors for some time. When a women who doesn't have a professional career or any accolades attached to her name (or even worse a h…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:21 PM
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The first season was awesome. Seasons 2/3 were awful. His ascension to presidency was way too quick and unbelievable. They could have done 3-4 seasons of him working his magic as the whip in the senate. Having him breeze up the rankings in such a retarded fashion and the new terrible rivalries he had really ruined the show.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:07 PM
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Watching popular media with a TRP mindset has ruined a lot of TV and movies for me. One of the worst offenders is Forrest Gump, I used to love that movie but TRP has ruined it for me. Now all I can think about is what a useless unworthy bitch Jenny was and get angry at how obsessed Forrest is with her. I mean this guy was a war hero that won MoH, founded a multi-million dollar company, was an all american college football player, and became even richer investing in a start up called apple. All o…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:02 PM
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Also as stated above this is closer to Machiavellian or dark triad but he still uses RP theory. No, he didn't. He whined like a disgruntle child does to his mom in order to get his gf to reluctantly pay for a $20 video game subscription. Like others have said, I assume both him and his girlfriend have low SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:17 PM
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I really don't think there is anything RP or alpha about being an unnecessary dink to your loser girlfriend while trying to show off to your friends over video game voice comms and getting her to pay for your video games. But hey, that's just me.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 09:26 PM
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That entire article can be summed up by stating: 1) Some women don't understand what factors accounts for their SMV. 2) All women drastically over-estimate their SMV. We're all familiar with the 20:80 rule and how women are scientifically proven to be incapable of judging/identifying what average SMV is. Women already drastically over estimate their own SMV due to being able to casually date upwards in the SMP. Then they mistakenly think that things like university degrees or successful careers …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:17 PM
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In my experience most girls on tinder just don't have time to go out and meet new guys, or are not happy with the quality of guys that are approaching them. From what I can tell a lot of girls just use tinder for validation and don't actually end up meeting with many (if any) guys they meet on there. I've found using a model of less-investment works best for generating meet-ups, as if you get caught in long text convos the girl will get everything she needs from you (validation) and there is no …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 05:37 PM
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You're being way too controlling for a first date scenario. Controlling =/= leading. Like others have said it displays insecurity and weakness. If the girl was making out with another guy within 5 minutes of talking to you, you were clearly doing something wrong.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:54 PM
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Yeah only add your height if you're in the 6'+ territory. My buddy put's his height as 6'4" and girls go crazy for that shit. I can understand the desire to be upfront with these qualities from the start, but why draw attention to your shortcomings? Let her find then naturally. Most girls think height is important, but aren't fixated on it. But why add something undesirable right off the bat?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 09:50 PM
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I love how the term asshole gets thrown around to describe anything that doesn't conform to their methods of thinking and cave to their demands. Apparently an asshole these days is any guy that: Maintains frame and doesn't fold to outside pressures Values his time Focuses on himself Has options Expects you to contribute Is goal-oriented Is occasionally busy
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 06:16 PM
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I think you accidentally stumbled onto a goldmine with that article, thebolde.com seems like a fascinating insight into the psych of the female mind. Just reading some of the related articles on the sidebar, including but not limited to: The Girls That Get the Guys — 6 Things They Do Differently 9 Reasons Men Deserve the “Crazy” Label More Than We Do Is He Your Future Husband or a Waste of Time? Here are 18 Differences 8 Ways To Get Downgraded From Potential Girlfriend To Hookup 5 Self-Defeating…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:39 PM
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TRP is about the amoral discussion of sexual strategy. Discussing how we use that information and apply it with our own set of moral/ethical code is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 06:00 PM
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And you're and English major?!? Wow this just keeps getting better and better. I can't wait to hear what you do for a living.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 05:48 AM
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The very clear implication was that he is taking hits from those athletes on a daily basis and that due to their size, strength and athleticism, the force/impact to the head from those hits would dwarf that of a punch from a full sized man, let alone a little girl. I'm judging by the reading comprehension you displayed in your last few posts that you didn't quite make the connection so I just outlined it here for you. So now we have a guy who can't read, is scared of old men, AND resorts to "you…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 01:36 PM
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Nothing you said undermines what I said. What you're describing is a flight or fight response caused by a quick burst of adrenaline from a perceived threat. What Ray Rice did was not. at the time, my brain was a blur and I punched him I don't know how many times This is exactly what I described. In flight or fight you have little control over your actions, if you have any type of combat training, that will kick in and you'll be operating off of instinct/training. You had no control of your actio…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 02:52 PM
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I'm just glad social media didn't exist when I was 15. This kid is going to go through some serious cringe worthy regret in a few years after he gets turned down by ever girl he's interested in.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 06:06 PM
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This. It's just common courtesy if they're within a few feet of you. If you're holding the door for 5+ seconds like a jackass thinking you're being chivalrous because you see a M'lady within 20 feet of you, then yeah maybe you need to adjust your 'door opening game'. I think for the rest of us just following common courtesy is fine.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:49 PM
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The key is to try and make her come to you. You're still doing all the movement (literally moving her face), but if you can at the very least get her to look up prior/during the kiss it's okay to bend down a bit to meet her. The problem is when you hunch over weirdly and invade her space. Subconsciously this communicates the same thing as losing frame, that you're willing to sacrifice yourself for her needs. The standing kiss is harder to pull off naturally with a large height difference, but mo…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 11:48 PM
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Change the surroundings and isolate them with some excuse like... going to get a drink, outside to smoke, outside for fresh air, w/e location to show/get her to do w/e activity, etc. A girl is less likely to reciprocate if her friends are around her (doesn't want to be judged as a slut by her friends). I've found better success even by getting her to turn away from her friends (so she's not immediately aware of their presence). The more bull shit the excuse you give and she follows, the higher I…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:28 PM
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No, just no. Fight or flight is a response that happens during a life threatening situation. What happens is that people get a burst of adrenaline when they are encountering a threatening situation they aren't familiar with. People commonly describe not remembering what happened or having black outs during these times. What your body determines is a life or death situation is based on the familiarity of your mind/body to that situation. Someone who's never been in a physical altercation before m…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 09:06 PM
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You have to look at the size of the individuals in the fight. Not because it's "right" or "wrong", but because of the potential for serious injury that gets introduced when there is such a huge size/strength disparity. Feminists believe that the sexes are equal, we know that's BS and they are complementary. Women are weaker than you, you wouldn't hit a child like that would you? I wouldn't take a swing at a woman, just like I wouldn't take a swing at a 120 lb guy, because the potential to cause …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 06:57 PM
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I think you're confusing an alpha with a narcissist, which have a lot of overlapping similarities but are not the same thing. I would modify OPs post to add that alphas are not easily impressed. I've see a lot of very alpha people genuinely impressed at things or at others input, even when it's not related to them or their interests. They don't go bat shit crazy when people do pretty regular ordinary stuff though.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:46 PM
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A ton of women think Rainman is sexy as fuck.... Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:22 PM
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sounds like a guy who has fun with his toys and keeps them clean too. which is something apparently truck haters can't wrap around their heads. Not sure where you got the truck haters implication from. He took my post as a personal insult and felt the need to qualify himself. You know that thing that women/betas do? further point, the AG frat at my college was occupied exclusively by large pickup owners... because they all worked in agriculture and used the damn things Which is the exact opposit…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:43 PM
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Easy on the judgment, bro. You have no idea what people have a need for. Maybe he's hauling a big ass boat down to the river on weekends, or maybe he just enjoys the view from that cab. I'm mostly speaking of friends and aquaintances or people I work with, so I know they don't need it. Most of them don't ever want to put anything in their bed because they're scared of scratching it. The majority of them have never left the city. I always enjoyed listening to ignorant, jealous fucktards talk shit…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:35 PM
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I think for the most part it's jealousy, but sometimes you just can't help but bask in the stupidity. Like when people have gigantic lifted diesel trucks that they have no need for (and tiny 5' beds in them anyways) or ridiculous vehicle modifications that ruin the cars. Whenever I see a nice luxury or sports car though, or a high end truck with no retarded modifications I always think "damn, that guys a boss". It doesn't matter if he's short, fat, w/e, the social status the vehicle adds is the …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:15 PM
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TRP has given me better tools to understand women than anywhere else. PUA is fun, but it grew too soft and is pandering to women now (the bigger the site, the worse the pandering). PUA was awesome but did not give me the tools to handle a relationship after the initial pulls. Like Rollo said teaching guys PUA without TRP fundamentals is like giving children dynamite. I always felt like PUA had something lacking; for it's intended purpose (geting laid) it sure as hell did the trick, but I always …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:33 PM
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I don't see evidence for that. And plenty of evidence to the contrary. If they were all like that, they'd all be on AM, right? But we know relatively few are there, and more generally, most women remain faithful. (As do most men.) Women operate covertly, where as men operate overtly. Women do not need a website to get sex, they could look for random hook ups in bars, coffee shops, grocery stores, parks, basically any public place. If your wife was on AM it means she was looking for something spe…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:37 PM
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But aren't most Martial Arts Studios referred to as dojos No, most arts meant for fighting train in a gym. Even Asian martial arts that are meant to be effective call their training centers gyms (ie Muay Thai). In the same way that TRP community adopts a mindset of AWALT to combat the general/average mentality of women (when in actuality not every woman is like that), adopting a All Dojos Are Like That mentality for martial arts serves a similar purpose. There may be a few out there that are oka…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:51 PM
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In gyms. A good way to tell if your martial art is meant for fighting is if they call it a gym. If they call it a dojo, it's probably for children and weaboos.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 02:54 AM
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Like others have said, I'd be very cautious that you're guaranteed the money somehow, preferably by a large upfront payment. Half up front isn't unreasonable to ask for. Screw getting paid for each encounter because then you're just going to get used a few times for a few thousand dollars and then dropped. What he's offering is life changing for most people. 900k + a 450k asset is enough to set you up for life if you're not a complete retard with investing your money. Most well off people work 2…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:40 PM
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Have to agree here. I think a lot of posts on TRP these days are from people far too eager to post after learning some RP truths and applying that knowledge briefly. Posts like this don't really help anyone, but thanks for trying I guess? I mostly lurk and refrain from posting myself because I feel there are far more knowledgeable and experienced people on this board, but my field reports would certainly be more entertaining than "I went outside, talked to a girl, and got some matches on Tinder.…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:23 PM
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dojo grown ass men I think these two things are mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:19 PM
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There's also the possibility Mosley was a bit too beta in private. That's possible, a lot of apparently tough and alpha men are alpha only with other men, and total betas to women. This is probably what happened. I've been training/competing in MMA and Muay Thai for almost a decade now and there are certainly fighters who are masculine and alpha as fuck in the gym or around other guys, but who fall victim to the feminist conditioned ideas of what men "should be" (ie whiteknights and beta bitches…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:54 PM
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I've had the opposite experience. A lot of Indian girls will keep their tingles at bay for longer than most due to their prudish nature and religious/traditional background. It should be noted I'm speaking of my experience with mostly 2nd wave Indian immigrants from Canada (majority of all Indians in Canada fall into this category), I'm not sure how Indians are in the states. Both the female and male were tricked by unrealistic expectations of the opposite sex in this story. The male, buying int…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:43 PM
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my heart done those little jumps so I done what they suggested Everything I done to improve myself But I take a second to view things rationally And I dont need close myself off completely It's bad enough when people talk like this in real life, but some people actually fucking TYPE like this? My god.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:44 PM
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I think there is nothing wrong with treating both sexes the same, as long as you are a masculine guy with healthy male friends. Think about it, as long as you: Don't put her on a pedestal Don't give her special treatment/allowances Tell her no Tease/make fun of her Don't get too emotional in conversations If you're a guy that knows how to have healthy masculine relationships with other men but has been conditioned to be the gentleman or white knight towards women your whole life, you can easily …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 06:38 PM
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Being an ass hole requires balls. Nice guys don't have balls.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 08:37 PM
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You sound like a bitch. Nothing even happened.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 09:23 PM
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No I downloaded the PDF, printed it, and put it in a binder. I don't like reading stuff online when I'm trying to learn, I really enjoy highlighting things and writing in my own notes/opinions. All my TRP/PUA books are covered in yellow highlighter and notes on the sides of the pages. I'm sure you could find a torrent of the PDF pretty easily through google. Let me know if you have trouble.
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That's another thing is you are assuming she has no expectations. You're prefacing the encounter with negative emotions that will effect your performance. I was the same way when I read the PDF, I had to step out of my comfort zone in a couple areas. The scariest one was dirty talk for me. I never said anything before and thought it was super cheesy, but when I eased my way in, saying things like "you're so wet", or "you're so wet for me, you've been waiting for this all week haven't you?", just…
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I'll let you know for this particular girl. Not every girl is the same or will respond in kind. You also have to tailor it towards your own personal style but in my mind you can never go wrong with dominance. I have had some girls say I'm very pushy, but I think I can fault myself for not building enough attraction beforehand. Anyways through the date (drinks spanning 1 hour) I was very dominant. What I mean by dominant is not aggressive, but I was leading, controlling the interaction and conver…
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Read it through first, highlight things that you would like to try and then experiment with them at your own comfort level. The things in this book aren't taboo at all and the techniques are all very basic, so it won't feel unnatural or like you're trying to introduce something weird into your routine. You'll have to objectively analyze what you're good at in bed and what areas you are lacking. For me I was always great at dominance/immersion aspects, but usually fell short on the emotional/vers…
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...what?
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