Disclaimer: I'm not going to talk about genuine friendships. The post may also sound like orbiting to some, but it's not. Please read with attention.

Summary

There are plenty of advantages in keeping friendly relationship with females, even when you're not getting sex in return. But keep in mind: the scenario matters.

Body

Context: assiduity.

This post approaches the advantages brought by constantly building SMV in a chosen place where people are known/almost famous/pseuso-socialites.

The theories I'm going to present don't suit the habit of going from bar to bar, night club to night club. It suits sticking to a place and getting known there.

Target: women.

If you manage to go every weekend to the same night club or bar, for a month or two, you'll notice that every place has some famous people, especially girls - most often very beautiful girls -, desired by many.

Well, they are SMV hunters.

They won't be kissing various guys in the same night, because they known they have an image and a status to care for. They stay all night to hunt for the highest SMV guy they can manage to get, and then they get out of the place to have sex with them.

Most often their targets are party owners, DJs, people who also have social images to care for.

If you're still getting yourself known in the place, and in other words building your SMV, your chances with these pseudo-socialites will be drastically low. However, it doesn't mean you can't be their friend.

Yeah, the friend who doesn't get any sex.

The friend who just clings around.

But you still won't be an orbiter.

But why?

Because these socialites are very lonely women. They're used to dealing with dark triad guys because they instinctively seek dark triad relationships. They have dozens of other girls judging them and picking a fight with them every night just to see if they can get out of their female-beta zone and steal these socialites' spotlight.

You just need to show some attention, love and care. Express - even fake - happiness when you see them. They will do the same.

Orbiters give their time and attention and get nothing in return. With these women, by playing the friendship game right, you can get public DHVs and a huge boost on your SMV as "payment".

In no time you will have a very beautiful and popular woman screaming your name out loud when she sees you getting to the place, and then running to hug you. It happened to me with various girls from the same place.

Some of these girls are even very good and capable wingwomen, no kidding.

Ok, that was the introduction. Now we can get to SMV Hopping.

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But what the hell is SMV Hopping?

Let me explain:

You have a stabilished friendship with some very beautiful pseudo-socialites. You haven't banged - even kissed - any of them, but the photos you post together in social media and your very affectionate interactions around the place makes a lot of people think that you are THE shit.

This makes for a higher SMV than you actually have, since you are building up a social image based on assumptions. A perceived SMV.

People will be drawn to it.

Some people without any interest in you, only in getting their SMV higher. They will want to be seen next to you, talking to you, and being very, very friendly. If they are women, and they are doing that, if they don't instantaneously give off any IOIs, then they are SMV Hopping. Stepping on your SMV to getting an impulse for themselves to go even higher.

Just discard them-- you're the SMV Hopper. And to make the difference, you must show¹ genuine friendship to those who initially helped you - even unintentionally.

¹: I mean show, not portray. As in, show to the public, but you can still game them. These pseudo-socialites are so lonely they will be open to even dark triad game at that point.

Wrap-up

You need to frequent the place in order to build that relationship. Of course, if you actually manage to get the girl , then it's even better -- you won't need to go to the friendship way. She'll gladly give you these DHVs in public because she chose you and these pseudo socialites like to wave around some social trophies.

Last week I got too drunk and let a girl leave a hickey on me. Lots of people - people who are also quite known in the place, being part of a few inner circles - thought it was the pseudo-socialite - who I never kissed nor banged, but we have a good picture together in my instagram - who did it. They told me to scold her and never let her do that again.

Bonus Track

This may be quite situational, but for that place I used to frequent, the best way to get the attention of the beautiful pseudo-socialites was clearly ignoring them for weeks, even when dancing on the dancefloor. Then, when I "finally" gave them my attention, they were "so happy because they finally got to talk to me".

And no, no IOIs from them, ever. If I ever had seen one, I'd drop all this friendship thing and go for the game. The mentality was to find profit everywhere.

Lessons Learned

You can benefit from a non-sex relationship with beautiful girls, provided they're giving you SMV, DHV and attention of other girls in return of your attention.

It doesn't have to be a genuine friendship. Actually, they tend to go AWALT if you expect genuine friendships.

Learn to keep SMV Hoppers away from you. They tend to build a bad rep for them in these assiduity scenarios.