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In the end, I didn't. I got better. I shed the toxic attitude that I was entitled to things and that other people were responsible for my happiness and worked on my life. It's because of the Red Pill that I stopped being toxic It's detoxifying people
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 03:15 AM
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Nobody gave a rats ass about Boko Haram until they started abducting girls. They used to let them go after killing the boys until then
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 03:36 PM
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Male life is inherently less valuable than female life. A dead man is just another bag of semen. A dead woman is also putting future human beings at risk You know what? I'm okay with that We have to build value for ourselves to be noticed. Women simply have to exist (and maybe keep themselves from getting fat/ugly. No small measure but nonetheless different from what we have to do) Here's the thing though, we men can take it. We're the people who built civilisation, brought modernity, and drove …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 12:50 PM
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What's the subs policy on Ads or "sponsored content" as it's normally called these days?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 03:04 AM
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Don't you feel like Neo right now? Swinging your arms around as those bullets whizz right past you?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 02:24 AM
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I'm about half a year away from 30 and while I've calmed down a bit, the prospect of my 20s ending is truly scary. I prefer older women, and 2019 was a bad year for me on the account that all my friends were in their 30s now. Hell, I *despise* the prospect of dating someone who didn't grow up on the same things that I grew up with (e.g.: "Phoenix? What's a Nickolodeon?") On one hand, the biological imperative demands that women in that age area prioritise certain things. But on the other, I'd li…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 05:47 AM
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There is nuance to everything. Part of my mistakes starting out was following everything to the letter like an instruction manual and wondering why things were not falling into place
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:39 AM
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Get better friends
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:11 AM
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Consider it my civic duty! But I ain't trying to catch no coronavirass
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 05:45 AM
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It's a good book to start on for many recovering beta males who don't know how to love themselves
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 02:04 AM
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Thanks! I'm glad, too. I went from kind of being friend zoned by the mixed signals girl to having women asking to meet up with me by the handful. It's almost as if I discovered superpowers! I've spent a good deal of my young adult life pining for a relationship and commitment, and now that a girl has finally given me a chance, the last thing I want to do is hurt somebody. So from my interpretation, the second I say "we're bf and gf", that's when I close the taps. Until then, I'm gonna have a ver…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 01:52 AM
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No problem at all. The girl with mixed signals was sweet, but she was nothing compared to the girls I've seen seeing now. If anything, she's the investor that failed to see the potential in a group of kids from Harvard building the thing that eventually became Facebook. If she wants in, she's gonna have to pay a much higher price now. But as for dating multiple women, should I feel guilty?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 03:19 AM
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Damn. Insight from an alpha widow （no offence, the description just matches). Thanks for the tip. I'll keep it in mind going forward. EDIT: My guilt wasn't about throwing the mixed signals girl out. My guilt is about asking multiple women out even after I just had sex with one of them
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 11:28 AM
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Oh wow. I'm really happy for you too! For me it was a double whammy. I was always considered the failure, inferior of two brothers and that combined with a lack of encouragement in school made me grow up with zero self esteem. There were attempts to build it before, but people kept shooting it down. Let's call them "personal globalists". Then I realised I had to double, even triple down on building self respect, and it turns out the people who were shooting my attempts down were not good people …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:31 AM
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Yup. Zoned her ass to her friends. I'm even asking out an additional girl out next week. Kind of feel guilty about it, but maybe that's the remnants of my blue pill programming talking
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:25 AM
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LOL nice name, I wonder how Latinos fit in. They're known for being the romantic type, largely speaking. But yeah, I largely agree. Thing is, though in China， India, or Japan, I imagine there's some kind of social game that you have to run there. Good grades and academic achievement might have greater importance but they certainly aren't the end all, be all for society.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 05:23 AM
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Good men create good times -> Good times create weak men -> Weak men create hard times -> hard times create good men
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 04:21 AM
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At that point, if no one is willing to teach you to play the game, you just gotta learn the game like any other game you don't know how to play: press every button to see what works. (strategy guides might be helpful to, but nothing beats hands on trial and error) Just imagine this is Dark Souls. You're going to get your ass kicked, but you'll learn from every mistake
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 03:58 AM
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Not really RP related, but yeah. It's quite telling why most women shy away from games: to them it's a foreign language, and most speakers of that foreign language expect these newcomers to know the alphabet, and basic grammar already when they're starting at square one. That's why if ever a girl is interested in a video game, I go with something very simple and start them off with very basic tasks, so they feel like they're accomplishing something and learning at the same time. Dumping them in …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 03:20 AM
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It's not difficult to own Lauren Duca. She's an emotional trainwreck
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 04:08 PM
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Yeah. I kind of put it all out there when I told her, and as many commenters have pointed out, it might be a mistake. That said, I intentionally did it because, like you pointed it out, I wanted it to be special. Whatever happens next, I'll be prepared for it. But yeah, I'll definitely keep mum about my low count in the future
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 04:58 AM
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through a family and friends event. The irony is that I got screwed over by a tinder date a night prior. Fuck that app
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 02:34 AM
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Couldn't agree with you more. But even then, I suppose I do fall into the trap. Envisioning "getting women" as an end goal opens up a dangerous path to oneitis. But at the very least, with my virginity gone, women no longer have power over me. At least, that's how I feel
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:30 AM
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Oh man, yeah. I've heard that dating as an Indian dude can be really rough. I spent a good deal of my late teens/early 20s going after Asian women who wanted nothing to do with me, then going after white women who wanted nothing to do with me (ok, there were a couple of them who did want something to do with me but I was too stupid to act on it) It's not going to be easy, but nothing worth fighting for ever is. Exercise, enrich yourself and constantly improve and the results will follow
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:28 AM
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This might warrant a separate post. If I went into detail about how I met this girl (and it's an interesting story) I can definitely elaborate in a separate post if it's fine by the mods
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:19 AM
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Awwwwwwww In all fairness, the biggest obstacle in terms of taking the red pill is taking the initiative and opening yourself up to it. So many people lack the determination to see it through, much less even be willing to make the choice in the first place
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:14 AM
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Thanks for the links, man. I'll look into it!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:12 AM
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Maybe, I won't count it out. I left out some other details but I think I'll be fine with this girl, and if not, that's okay, I've got a few other girls in the wings. Long story short, this lay was actually in response to a growing oneitis for a girl who was sending me mixed signals. Now I'm debating what to do with her The important thing is that the prospect of being with a woman no longer has this mysterious power over me. I'm the one with the power and ability to choose and select, and I hope…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:07 AM
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Amazing! I resisted this kind of advice at your age and only started implementing it at 24-25, so definitely work at it!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:06 AM
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I've seen Greg Adams and other dating coaches and try to take the best advice out of all of them and put a personal spin on it
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:06 AM
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Thanks! I'm prepared for whatever happens next. I mean, of course my mom will take the credit despite the fact that she's done everything to ensure I don't become an eligible bachelor. I know I'll eventually have to forgive her, but I think it might be later than sooner
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 11:05 AM
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I know, what a tragedy. I was hoping to master the arcane arts, but it seems I've put too many points in mastering sexual arts instead
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 06:56 AM
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You're right. My life absolutely should not revolve around women. That leads to things like oneitis and whatnot. I'm just wondering what to do now that most of the girls I'm into are reaching Wall territory.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:56 PM
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I love reading. Problem is, however, like all interests, I tend towards the geekier side of it. I read fantasy, economics, politics, and philosophy. It will enrich the mind, but I highly doubt I can talk to women about the Mistborn saga, Ludwig von Mises, and Ayn Rand.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 12:28 AM
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In no way am I trying to offset responsibility, but after some introspection, I really did not know how to deal with the other sex until now. Why? I had the most cucked upbringing. A strict, abusive Asian mother (who placed academic achievement before everything else, before social health, before sanity) Being raised in a neighbourhood that worships political correctness as a religion (i.e.: always give women the benefit of the doubt, etc) Being bullied a lot in school. Self explanatory These th…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:51 AM
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Damn, My mom was a hardass, but at the very least, your mother had the good sense to teach you self respect and to stand up for yourself. I had no such parenting. Every time I had an ounceling of pride in myself, it would get shot down.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:03 PM
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Girls aren't your enemies, they're more like teammates. Some of them are highly unreliable, but I guess that's the point: you need to find someone who can play ball. As for betas. Well, if they are the enemy, they might as well be insignificant. They're only threatening to themselves
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 08:35 PM
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I once thought that men and women could be friends, but from what I've seen, women conceptualise friends differently than men. Then I actually entertained a close friendship with a girl from uni and it ended in a fashion best described as a social Chernobyl. When you're in a girl's 'friend' frame, she'll treat you like a girlfriend. It's not a good place to be, especially because, barring the possibility that you want gender reassignment, you're not a girl. I've instituted a new policy recently …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 08:30 PM
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Will you find your one true love who's been hiding among the swarms of women all your life who will love you forever and ever and ever? Probably not. Will you find someone who is well behaved and, while at the very end of the given to her feminine nature, someone who is pragmatic and willing to put her more base predilections in check? A long shot, but possible.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 09:52 AM
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It's all well and good that people say 'we make men and boys hide their feelings.' But with the same exact breath, when the men and boys start showing their true feelings, these very same people will start complaining about 'toxic masculinity'
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 09:39 AM
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The Team America speech comes to mind. "Pussies don't like dicks, because pussies get fucked by dicks." "Pussies think they can deal with assholes their way, but the only thing that can fuck assholes is a dick, with some balls." "Sometimes pussies get full of shit that they become assholes themselves, because pussies are an inch and a half away from assholes"
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 08:55 AM
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Get this nazi ass shit outta here. You sound like Evalion
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:53 AM
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"We appreciate young women for what they are. We appreciate young men for what they promise to be" - Goethe
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 07:05 AM
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Conventional wisdom says that, even in this world where the feminist movement has made huge strides, the guy usually pays. I usually just pay my share if this is the first or second date, as (1. I don't know where this will go and (2. I don't want to make and investment that won't return. If only let the girl pay if she insists profusely
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:46 PM
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Here's a better option: walk away. Resorting to the same fickle tactics that girls resort to makes you no better than them. If she tries to pull some manipulative shit on you, there's nothing you can do to change her. The only thing you can do is gtfo of there.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 03:19 PM
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There's a time and a place to say the word. Refusing to own up to actual mistakes and taking responsibility for wrongdoing and hurt caused can be just as awful as doing it far too many times in inappropriate circumstances. The problem is, many nice guys rely on it as a crutch and use it ad nauseam to the point where the word loses all meaning. For example. When someone who normally doesn't swear does so, it is powerful, it shows the kind of gravitas that wouldn't be around if he used curse words…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:10 AM
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It's a sad state of affairs when some people consider apologies to be a loss of face and a loss of power. I used to (maybe I still do) lean on the word as a crutch because perhaps there's an innate desire to be loved and accepted by everyone. But we all know that pleasing everyone pleases no one. You'd expect Asian people to be all about politeness, especially the Japanese. But I came to the conclusion recently that Japanese apologies are not sincere, but they are simply requests for forgiveness…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:03 AM
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I can easily see where the line can be used for a fellow female friend, but for a male friend? I don't know what else to do other than be upfront and say 'I'd rather have your undivided attention' and say that it's off.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:22 PM
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Ooops. I got that from 'Models'. I can see where you stand there. It's an absolutely deplorable state of affairs that the only effective way to put one's foot down in the situation is to walk away
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:19 PM
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That's usually grounds for nexting. But if you really must find out, ask her out again. Make sure to include the phrase 'last chance' at the end. That said, you probably already know her stance with regards to you
/r/askTRP19/07/16 05:02 AM
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Jesus, ok we get it. You don't have to post it a bajillion times!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 09:09 AM
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I want to post on that thread, because I see so much of my past self in him so much, but I know it will get downvoted into oblivion and regarded as 'misogynist, red pill nonsense' I was in a very, very, similar position in college. Made friends with this girl who shared several of my classes and interests. I did not know what I wanted with this girl, and swayed between wanting to ask her out and between being content to be her friend. I eventually decided to be her friend and there was a time I …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 03:44 PM
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I can only speak from first-hand experience. I no doubt believe that this kind of strategy could work, but under certain circumstances. I strongly believe that beginners following this advice will fall into oneitis My female friends made no effort to introduce me to other girls, or at least, to other girls I could have been with. My female friends have repeatedly alluded to me as a non-sexual entity, and have repeatedly told me that I was similar to a sibling or a gay best friend. They did not g…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 03:25 PM
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So much this. Watching girl on girl, or watching any other type of porn is basically like guzzling down McDonalds. Feels great at the time, but you're going to feel very sorry for yourself afterwards. There's also a post somewhere that compared watching porn to voyeurism. There was always an alpha male that would easily have women to couple with, while the beta males had to sit around in the bushes and watch. I don't want to be one of those beta males
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 02:50 PM
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Your libido goes up, and so does your motivation to interact with the opposite sex. Also, you're a whole lot less socially awkward with girls. Well, I know I am after trying nofap
/r/askTRP08/06/16 08:34 AM
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Lift, lift, lift, lift, lift, and fucking lift. Oh, and get some better clothes and develop interests beyond video games
/r/askTRP08/06/16 08:33 AM
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Some of them get their kicks that way
/r/askTRP08/06/16 08:32 AM
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I really don't see the point in friend-zoning a girl if you really enjoy her company. In my experience, women make terrible friends, to both men and women. For me, it's all or nothing. You're either someone I'm going to spend a portion of my time with on an intimate level, or you're, at the very, very best, an acquaintance, at very worst, a complete stranger.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 08:24 AM
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Say 'hi' to her at some point like I would any person in the room. If she's cool with it, that's cool. If she's a bitch-on-wheels, that's cool, and we'll go our separate ways.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 08:20 AM
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I like Al Jazeera, but finding an article sympathetic to Israel is like finding a hay in a needlestack. I guess these days, outlets always have a certain filter. RT (funded by the Kremlin) present things from Putin's perspective. CNN/BBC present things from a Western, pro-SJW perspective. Journalism, written by humans, will always be prone to bias. I just don't want to have bullshit in my face all the time
/r/askTRP06/06/16 07:38 AM
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In my mind, Alphaness is not something you reach. It's a constant process like perfection insofar that you constantly work to get as close to it as possible. Most alphas have something beta about them, but they don't let it show.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:04 PM
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As an overweight person who has gotten over his self-loathing and is working to get rid of the fact, I have this to say. It's ok to love yourself. It's not healthy to hate yourself. What isn't ok is to take that to unhealthy (see what I did there?) extremes where you start blaming everything else for your problems. Many of these fat acceptance people take that to the point of narcissism and it's disgusting. Accept who you are, but always look at yourself and constantly improve. The only constant…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:01 PM
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There was a similar article I read about desperate guys flying to Ukraine to find a bride, whom they talked to online. The women in the article mentioned that they do it to support their family, and they blow much of the men off when they get there after siphoning so much money. No. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:58 PM
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My brother suggested the Game several years ago. Reading it and learning the certain materials only address the surface of a situation. Sure, I could use an opener, go to attraction phase 2, and use a neg at some point, but I was completely missing the point. I was still (or am still) an insecure, nervous, overweight person without a modicum of self respect. I still approached pickup with the same geeky weirdness that I approach everything else. Only last year, when I started reading books like …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:57 PM
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Perhaps you're in a better state with a stronger measure of maturity to entertain female friendships. I just got out of a close, but toxic friendship with a girl and I do not plan on entertaining a similar friendship again. This ban on female friendship is not going to last forever. I am spending the last few months trying to figure out how to have platonic female company without being used as a doormat/emotional tampon. What I'm saying is, good for you in the most sincerest way possible. But I …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:34 PM
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I was burnt by a toxic friendship with a girl. I took measures that some would consider extreme: an exclusion act of sorts where I closed the platonic friendship border to women. Of course, there are exceptions. I have made some really good friends the past few months and I come into contact with their gfs every so often. Nice people, and good company to be around, but I nevertheless commit to keeping them at an arm's length. I treat them as an extension of my friends and no more than that
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:29 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, man. I've been burnt one too many times by platonic female companions, and I'm just steering clear because I still have not figured out how to be friends with a girl without letting her step all over me
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:25 PM
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...Or not be friends with any of them and observe their own self-destruction from a distance
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:17 PM
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Gone Girl might as well have been retitled: The Red Pill: The Movie
/r/askTRP18/05/16 03:01 PM
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'If you can't love yourself, how the hell you gon' love somebody else?' This principle not only applies to yourself, but to people like them. You want to help them out, I imagine, but you can't. No amount of tlc is gonna bring her up. Only she can fix her problems. Leave her and focus your attentions elsewhere
/r/askTRP18/05/16 02:47 PM
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There's only one way to find out. Give it a shot. If she pops the LJBF thing on you, she wasn't your friend in the first place
/r/askTRP18/05/16 02:41 PM
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Firstly, this question belongs in AskTRP. Secondly, there is no expiration date. You can be alpha as early as you want, as late as you want. You are the ultimate shaper of your own destiny. Fuck what everyone else thinks (at least, the people that don't pay your bills)
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:38 PM
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I'm very careful with the AWALT thing, because it can be very easy to go full MRA MGTOW neckbeard and be like 'fuck women' altogether. Yes, all women are predisposed to engage in a certain kind of behaviour, but there are definitely women out there who are able to control themselves much better than some. The same could be said about men. I think the reason why AWALT exists is because we live in an era where we're subconsciously taught to always give women the benefit of the doubt and to always …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:24 PM
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Being an alpha is like being a lady. If you have to say you are, you aren't Real alpha males don't give a shit whether or not they're seen as powerful. They just know they are. They bring the people around them up, not push them down.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 02:55 PM
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With the red pill, any kind of film can be seen as RP. However, there are a few films that do stand out. Gone Girl is really great. I won't spoil it, but watch it. It's a must watch for people of his subreddit. Haggard, a somewhat crappily made film by Bam Margera is based on a true story of Ryan Dunn (RIP) pining after his ex girlfriend and constantly getting shat on for it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 07:55 AM
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At the time, it was either that or tell her straight forward that I do not entertain platonic friendships with women, which she might interpret as anger. As AFAIK, getting angry in response to things like these are no-nos
/r/askTRP24/04/16 07:40 PM
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That won't be difficult at all
/r/askTRP24/04/16 07:40 PM
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You said it yourself. She's 'not very pretty'. I would have just laughed it off and never talked to her again
/r/askTRP24/04/16 06:35 PM
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Absolutely. A lot of 'sluts' (not the ones that actively chose that lifestyle and own it) have self-esteem issues and lack self respect
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:20 PM
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Times Hoes. Haha That sounds like a name of a Time Traveler-themed porn
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:20 PM
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It can argued that the equivalent of a slut (a woman without self-control) is a nice guy beta (a man without self-control). Just as how the slut has no respect for herself and continuously does things that she isn't 100% comfortable with, the nice guy keeps his mouth shut as he allows people to walk all over him. The Red Pill has done a great job helping me realise this and setting me straight. The quality of the men in my life has increased immeasurably. I hope that the same will be true of the…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 04:21 AM
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Reddit is generally a dark and angry place full of bitter, unhappy people who like to snark like it's going out of style. Hell, even this subreddit kind of has that vibe. Read some books, go the websites of men encourage positive masculinity like Mark Manson. Go to the gym. This stuff is only in the realm of the theoretical
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:22 PM
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I'm a man of my word. I'll be honest and forthright with what I want. If I want a monogamous relationship with someone, I'll commit to that, not because I'm loyal to the girl, but because I still believe a man's word should be worth something. Cheating hurts people. It's happened in my extended family a couple of times and it's after-effects aren't very pretty. However, if I and a partner agree to being FWB or being in an open relationship. Well, it's not cheating, because I would have agreed be…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:20 PM
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Margaret Thatcher was not known as the first female PM of the UK. She was known was one of the greatest post-war leaders of the free world (or, to the lefties, a callous monster that completely laid waste to the welfare state and made things very hard for industrial workers and lower class people). I admire Thatcher because she stood for something and stuck to it. She was an amazing first female leader of the UK. I'm afraid I can't say the same about Hillary. She touts the 'I am woman, hear me r…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 07:13 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I truly am. But at least your 'friendship' with this girl taught you a very important lesson about friendships. I used to be willing to be friends with everyone and anyone. But having a great quantity of friends did not translate to great quality. I now have very strict standards for who I hang out with, for both men and women (although I'm at a stage where friendship with a female is something I'm not interested in). The more honest you are with yourself and the person …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 07:08 PM
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I've only just figured this out, but this is one of those things where it would be better to phrase it as a statement or even a command rather than a question. Most girls tend to be indecisive, so you have to do be more compelling. Don't say 'Wanna go out with me?', instead say 'I'm playing at this bowling alley on Friday at 6pm. Come' or 'I'm drinking at this bar tomorrow at 7. Be there'
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 02:45 AM
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One of my favourite video game villains repackaged that famous phrase for me. https://youtu.be/rKMMCPeiQoc
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:08 AM
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the rule of thumb is, if her action can be seen as trying to get a rise up out of you, it is a shit test. Forget about her and move on until she returns to you, preferably on her knees
/r/askTRP17/04/16 11:20 AM
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I spent my younger years being vindicative and telling calling girls out on their BS. What did that accomplish. Absolutely nothing You'll either get a 'oh geez, no need to get your panties in a bunch' or 'yeah, I'm not attracted to you.' Girls these days, by and large, are not accountable, and there isn't a damn thing you and I can do about that. The only thing you should do is walk away, because she isn't deserving of any more of your attention. It's going to be hard, and as someone who's fight…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 11:17 AM
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So far, the girls I've put this on react to it in a rather civil fashion. One reacted badly and started being nasty to me, and another one was shocked and ran crying to my friend wondering why I was such a sick. Didn't go to bed with any of them, but at this stage, I'm beyond caring
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 11:09 AM
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The reason why the Friend Zone is seen as un-escapable is the fact that those involved lack the discipline and willpower to stay true to themselves. They'll often follow the lie that's been spoonfed to them by romantice comedies and Disney movies and kowtow themselves to oblivion. To someone who has other options, and is willing to put the friend zoner on the back burner or even out of his life, this won't be an issue. Good work man.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 11:07 AM
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In my experience, arguing with feminists is futile. No matter how much evidence you bring against their arguments, no matter how ridiculous they sound, no matter how unproven they are, they're always going to be right.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:23 PM
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Watch this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqDbb7-dn9A Tone done the rudeness (i.e.: don't say 'fuck you') but leave. In my experience taken women aren't worth your time
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:21 PM
2

Milo is the person who's best suited to tackle the PC SJW culture. He represents a demographic that they claim to care for, and flies in the face of everything they're throwing at him. A straight man would probably get crucified at this stage. That said, though, he's got some weird ass views on abortion and he's a trumpsexual, but hey, can't have everything!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:09 PM
7

My mom told me, jokingly, that she would love to be a man, so she could 'fuck a lot of girls'. Then again, when I went to college, and even, she says that she would love to trade places with me in terms of age. She doesn't realise, however, that being young comes with not having your opinions taken seriously and getting shat on by the older generations. Likewise, I don't think my mom understands the challenges of being a man. Norah Vincent, the writer who became a man for a few months, was shock…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:06 PM
1

'Think as you like, but behave as others do' Sure. I shouldn't go full anti-feminist and start tearing down feminism's tortured logic in public. But it also doesn't necessarily mean that I have white knight and defend feminism's honour like I used to. I just take a backseat and let them duke it out
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 06:29 AM
1

From my experience, most people will give you the time of day, provided that you're not wearing a paedophile trenchcoat or a pair of rapist glasses. Of course, some people just want to be left alone. That's fine, but that shouldn't stop you from striking up conversation with interesting people
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:09 PM
3

Embrace it. We're taught that anger is an unnatural feeling, that it's bad for us (ultimately true, but more on that), that we are wrong to be indignant. I'd say embrace your anger, but channel it productively. Don't go on social media and start posing #MGTOW hashtags and say that all women are horrific monsters, but do hit those weights, get into new hobbies, make new friends (preferably male), and push yourself past your limit
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:07 PM
1

Either way, you did well. The knee-jerk reaction of every beta is to run to her aid. But this little phrase in my head has kept me from going back to my Quixotic ways. 'She's a big girl. She can take of herself.' Whether or not that's true, it's not something to be concerned about. You're responsible for your own happiness, no one else's
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:03 PM
22

I don't know about you, but I'm surrounded by people who are fed up with feminism and the straight-up PC, SJW culture that has reared it's extremely hideous head in the past couple of years. I have a duty to myself and to my friends to be honest, because anything less is beta and blue pill. I honestly believe that the 1st wave, suffragette movement was a necessary movement. I have some doubts over how the 2nd wave affected society, but I know for a fact that the current iteration has gone stark …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:59 PM
1

On the off chance (and I mean 1/1000 chance) that shes dtf, move forward. Try and be more sexual. That will put her in a position to make it clear to you whether or not she's down for being more than friends
/r/askTRP07/04/16 05:15 PM
2

Why did you feel the need to go PATRIOT Act on her in the first place? As cliche as it sounds, if you can't trust your girl, you've already lost.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 01:30 PM
0

Wait a sec, I saw another post the other day about how this girl got pregnant and lied about it to her bf or something. Now I'm starting to think she isn't for real and is making videos like this for us to pounce on and get pissed off at
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 12:12 PM
1

That brings me to my next quote 'we never free a mind once it reaches a certain age. It's dangerous, and the mind has trouble letting go.' This is in relation to the fact that many people who are enslaved by the system will defend it with their lives. Trying to spread the subreddit's word to other people puts you at risk. If your friends really want to wake up, they'll do it themselves, you can't force it
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 01:25 AM
1

Firstly, we're in agreement about the suffragettes and reproductive rights. I don't see why we should preclude women from the same political rights that we men have. However, the fact still remains, no matter how utopian people try to be, that men and women function differently, and they are expected by society to play their respective roles, even if they are explicitly told otherwise. I guarantee that even the most hardcore 3rd wave, bra-burning feminist, barring lesbianism, probably has a fant…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 01:17 AM
1

Fuck no. Cooking is an awesome skill to have, girls or otherwise. I don't see cooking as a necessarily masculine or feminine trait. Hell, I think if you play it right, cooking for a girl might even demonstrate a level of leadership and dominance that she craves
/r/askTRP04/04/16 11:53 PM
1

He wasn't chasing women at all. He had the bad sense to believe that women would come to him for his charming looks and his winning personality. His problem was that he was entitled. He believed that going after girls was beneath him
/r/askTRP04/04/16 05:23 AM
2

The way I phrased it was completely off. You're right. Fixating on the idea of a One is fruitless. But by embracing self-respect and honesty to yourself will filter out all the crappy women in your life and hopefully lead you to better ones. They'll still be AWALT, but at least they'll be better in the fields that count
/r/askTRP03/04/16 03:02 AM
1

I do. I'm pretty sure an overwhelming majority of people in this world do as well. If the OP himself is ~14 agewise, I'd understand. But I cannot see how someone in their 20s could find an underdeveloped, un-mature (not immature, someone who still has yet to grow up mentally) person attractive, and quite frankly, I don't want to know.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 02:58 AM
2

You can definitely be Alpha without being rude. Hell, a true Alpha is extremely polite and friendly. The rude and mean 'Alphas' tend to be the guys who have insecurities and are taking them out on other people. What separates alphas from the betas is self respect and honesty with oneself. If a girl thinks that's rude behaviour, tough stuff.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:02 AM
3

I started of deluded by fairy tales that there is a One out there and I just need to wait for her to come along, then I'll know what to do. This lie was perpetuated by a coalition of churchgoers and ultra progressive nice guys. The results were predictable. I kept getting friend zoned. The problem with me is that I have a tendency to fall in love with the girls I'm into. I end up inadvertently building them into these angelic creatures these girls (mere mortals) can never hope to live up to. Sti…
/r/askTRP03/04/16 12:54 AM
1

Let's humour the idea that having sex with 14 year olds, people who are just barely starting high school, still very much dependent on their parents, and still physically and developing, is legal in your country. Even then, are you that much of a loser to completely ignore women your age and focus on girls who, in all likelihood, are still learning basic school stuff!? My advice: seek counseling.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 12:48 AM
1

Celebrities gon' celebrity. You think she means what she says? She says this shit to appeal to the politically correct narrative. Actors are a lot like politicians, except better looking and less affected by sex scandals. They'll say whatever the public wants them to hear on camera.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:01 PM
3

A very similar thing happened to me a couple months ago. Stop thinking about her and pivot your attention elsewhere, other girls or otherwise. But if you must (and I stress must as a last resort), ask to hang out again, but say 'last chance' at the end. If she fucks up again, you know what she's worth
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:44 AM
4

Step 1: you don't
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:41 AM
2

Do you know where the title comes from? If you didn't know, Morpheus offers a choice for Neo: whether to take the red pill, the path of liberation, or the blue pill, the path of blissful ignorance. 'All I offer is a choice, no more' You do not see Morpheus trying to shove the red pill in as many throats as possible. He, and the rest of Zion, are only willing to free people who are willing to make the journey themselves. You can't force someone to take off their blindfolds
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 10:21 AM
1

Don't mind them. Some of them are in the anger phase. Some of them are betas that haven't taken responsibility.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:32 PM
1

Suggest another meetup. Possibly say 'last chance' at the end. If nothing comes of it, drop it.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:21 PM
1

Girls don't give a fuck how you look. They care about how you carry yourself.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:19 PM
1

It's a defense mechanism. Speaking broadly, women aren't as strong as men, so their way of being powerful is resorting to deception and manipulation. Sounds malicious, but the real world would swallow a 100% goody two shoes woman whole and spit the bones out faster than you can say 'unicorn' Also, image protection.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:08 PM
10

If he's an orbiter, let him destroy himself. No need to help him there. Worst case scenario, she cheats on you - well, she just showed you who she truly is.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:06 PM
1

I've noticed a little something. I'm just out of college. Don't have much job experience. Employers aren't willing to take a chance on someone with little experience, while others even state outright 'unemployed need not apply' I'm just out of college. Never had a girlfriend. Girls aren't willing to take a chance on someone with little experience, while others are willing to hit on the guy who clearly has a girlfriend. The problems are the exact same, and the solution probably is to. I need to g…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 05:04 PM
1

Couldn't help but notice the headline. The situation in the 1950s wasn't exactly ideal either. Sure, families were a lot more cohesive and father figures featured a lot more, but at the same time, there was a lot of repression. The father was probably a catholic whore who secretly fantasised a liasion with his black jewish boyfriend who works at the military abortion clinic. Factor in the racism, and 1950s America, for lack of a better analogue is a lot like today's Saudi Arabia. That said, I ag…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 05:01 PM
1

Suit yourself, buddy, nofap's worked a treat for me. Ever since my teenage years I started getting dependent on it. I would look forward to spanking it to whichever porn star I enjoyed watching at the time, but I'd feel like hell every time I finished. Ever since my friend encouraged me to try 90 days without porn or masturbation, my sex drive has went up, I don't hesitate to approach girls as much, and I'm a lot less awkward. Then again, you did mention masturbation =/=. I think a lot of books,…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:56 PM
1

I know the whole 'don't ever tell a parent how to raise his/her kid' spiel but I can't help but be disgusted by this. This woman is basically whoring her flesh and blood out. Unless if the daughter herself is consenting, but even then, a parent has a lot of control over a child's decision.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 07:05 PM
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First of all, good job. It takes balls to do what you did, and you were straight up honest about your feelings. Now, onto the critique. Some may disagree with me, but if she ever mentions 'boyfriend' or any variation thereof, it's basically code for 'sorry, I'm not interested'. As you noted in your post, you aren't looking for female friends, great, don't follow up with her at all, and just move on.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:05 AM
1

I started my PUA journey looking for one, and to be fair, I'm still looking for one. Thing is, however, I realised later into the game that all I did was take women off one pedestal and put them on another. By making 'finding a gf' your end goal, you're setting yourself up for failure. Relax, man. Like you said, you're still in high school, and there's plenty of time left in your life to experience new things.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:02 AM
2

I'm 25, and that anxiety is hitting me hard too. What sucks even more is that the girls I would like to attract girls that are 1-4 years older than me. I really missed the boat in High School, and because I had zero social skills there, I had no idea how to act in college. My fear is that, by the time I finally do get to the part where I start attracting girls, they'll either be far younger than me, or they'll be the girls I'm looking for, but they'll be past their youth and now they'll start lo…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:00 AM
1

MGTOW and TRP agree that there is a problem with today's increasingly feminised, white knight, politically correct culture. They approach the problem differently. MGTOW people believe that they should dissociate themselves from the culture entirely, while TRP people believe that they should work with what they've got. In a way MGTOW is TRP's polar opposite in many ways. MGTOW supporters are extremely public about their views, and they'll post 'MGTOW' or scream it at the top of their lungs loud a…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 07:15 PM
2

There's nothing you can do for her. You're her boyfriend (or was), not her psychologist. As heartless as it sounds, the tragedy in her family is something she has to deal with, and unfortunately there is nothing in your power that can fix that. Move on.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 07:06 PM
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I was talking to this one girl and after a couple of minutes she said something to the effect of 'I'm a woman, of course I blame other people and never take responsibility!' At first I was pissed that someone would straight up tar their own gender with a brush like that, but deep inside, I was somewhat respecting of the fact that she straight up admitted it
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 06:44 PM
3

I used to be pissed off, as I felt I was lied to by the movies, but that's the point. The underdog gets the girl in the movies, because it seldom happens in real life. The reject somehow manages to move past the friend zone in the movies because it wouldn't happen in the real world. The point of fantasy is to live out things that are improbable in reality. As long as the viewer can separate fact and fiction, there shouldn't be a problem with enjoying the media. Just don't mix the two
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:00 AM
1

AFAIK, unicorns don't exist. And just because Donald and Melania say that they're a happy couple don't mean they actually are. There are plenty of 'happy' couples that turn out to not be so happy. That said, if she's sticking around, it's definitely because she's got a shot at being first lady. Strange, a First Lady who isn't American and posed nude....
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:48 PM
2

If Trump is the red pill, why has he married 3 times? You talk about an average joe in that position and that's Blue Pill example material
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:53 AM
2

I do what this guy does. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I66aySW4le8 Minus the 'fuck you', of course. I don't want to be too rude about it I've personally decided that I'm not gonna break apart a couple. Firstly, it's morally wrong. But on a practical stand point, it's just more trouble than it's worth. You have a boyfriend? Ok, we're done here.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:48 AM
1

I imagine if Cypher got his way, killed everyone on the Nebaduchenezzar (sp?), and returned to the power plant, the machines would probably inflict even more suffering on him. People who accept TRP but reject on it later on are like Cypher. He knows everything, but he wants to return to his state of ignorance, which is impossible. When Neo asks if he can go back, Morpheus says this 'No. But if you could, would you really want to? I feel I owe you an apology. We have a rule. We never free a mind …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:34 AM
1

There's got to be a fine line between 'ok, that's fine' (i.e.: she interprets that as, 'ok, he's fine with me indulging in this behaviour') and 'whatever' ('what? He's supposed to be outraged!')
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:35 AM
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Reading that fills me with rage. I'm the kind of person who likes birthdays. It's your special day and it only happens once a year. If a girl did me to that, I wouldn't even give her time to leave the flat. I'd take all her stuff and throw it out. Of course, that might lead to false abuse accusation charge, but shit like that should be considered a first-degree felony. Flip the genders for a second; people would be fuming
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:13 PM
72

He's the boyfriend the girl deserves, but not the one she needs. He's a silent protector, a watchful guardian. A.... White Knight!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 04:19 PM
2

It's called One-itis because you think she's the 'one'. As a victim of this phenomenon, I am slowly coming to terms that I can like and respect a woman for who she exactly is: a flawed human being, just like you and me, not this angel descended from heaven who farts rainbows.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 10:41 AM
1

Roosh V is the Ann Coulter of the MRA world (yeah, that's right, I called him a woman). He says the most outrageous shit to get attention. Hell, Return of Kings just strikes me as nothing more than the MGTOW version of BuzzFeed. Thing is, his movement, like MGTOW, know what the problems are, but are going about it the completely wrong way: by going public and painting targets on themselves and bitching about how inferior women are.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 10:39 AM
3

Say it with me, guys: 'We've established what kind of girl you are, the only thing we're debating is the price'
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:36 PM
1

But we must bear through it. It's horrible, yes, but either you can continue to wallow in your misery and continue bemoaning the fact that the world is unfair, or you can accept that, while the world is a bit unfair, you are going to do something about it. Stay strong, lift those weights, approach those sets, ask that girl out. I've found that life is more worth living when you're proactive
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:35 PM
2

Funny. I used to think of the seduction community as the Jedi and the Red Pill as the dark side. Nope, not at all. I at last realise that fear (of losing a girl/rejection/etc) is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger (at the girl for not returning your affections), anger leads to hate (of womankind), hate leads to suffering (alone). This is the essence of oneitis, and as a padawan, I shall control my feelings
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:29 PM
4

I have no problem with women serving in the military. It's illogical for a government to cordon off ~50% of its population from fighting, especially in a war. Look at the Soviet Union during WWII. Some of the female soldiers there did quite well That said, this debate is purely in the realm of the theoretical. If we're talking about the US, we're never going to have a draft in our lifetimes, especially since the generation that is governing the country (Baby Boomers) experienced the Vietnam War …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:25 PM
11

Women bitch and complain when you give them compliments. Women bitch and complain when you ignore them. Will they make up their goddamn minds about what they want? Oh wait, AWALT, nevermind
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:16 AM
2

Fair point. A lot of posters on TRP can get pretty negative, but I imagine some of these people are just pulling the 'tough love' routine. It's also the fact that sentimentality is something that isn't relied upon often here, and with good reason.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 07:55 AM
1

Had this been a couple years ago, when I would find the girl at fault, you probably would have needed to. Thing is, though, all the flakes have something in common: me. I accept that there's something holding me back in attracting girls, and that I need to fix this in order to improve my prospects
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 07:53 AM
1

So if Sweden is the Saudi Arabia of fundamentalist feminism, what does that make Canada? Iran? I would be also be careful about citing UpWorthy as a source. They're extremely biased and feed off glurge and the feel-good factor that bleeding heart liberals love
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:14 AM
1

Fair point. But to humour the analogy, Morpheus didn't go around trying convince every single member of the Matrix that they were being brainwashed, but they were eager to help people who were willing to take the first step. That quote comes to mind where he says there's nothing he can do for most of the people who have become so dependent on the system that unplugging them would make them go completely nuts. That said, I'm a fan of espousing TRP ideas without using its syntax. Most people warm …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 05:01 PM
0

People have said it before, and they'll say it again. What's the first rule of fight club? You don't talk about fight club. What's the second rule of fight club. YOU. DON'T. TALK. ABOUT. FIGHT. CLUB. TRP is basically a lot like fight club. This subreddit isn't MGTOW. It isn't even a movement. It's a secretive community for people to discuss things that we would not dare discuss openly in this political correct, groupthink world.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:34 AM
4

All together now. 'Where did all the nice guys go?' The friend zone. Where you left their asses
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 05:01 PM
3

As a 25 year old fella that chases the older ladies, my advice is to take your preconceived notions of age and throw them out. In other words, don't see her for her age, but see her for her (e.g.: pretend she's your age or younger if it helps)
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:24 AM
2

What I would say to her is: Suit yourself, ma'am. I hope you look forward to spending the near future stuck to your bed, unable to walk, have your SO wash and take you to the bathroom and cry in misery as your circulatory system screams in agony as the coronary kicks in. She actively wants to become a real-life Jabba the Hutt. Well, at least evolution will weed her out.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 01:19 AM
-2

It sounds like she wants to try and convert you to the friend zone. If she genuinely has problems, she's got her girlfriends/shrink for that. Fuck that shit, man
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:00 AM
1

Firstly, if you're just emerging from approach anxiety, congratulations! You've got the cojones to do things that 99.99% of people in the club would never dare do. But for us to give you more tips on how to make your approaches better, you need to tell us how you open, what your body language is like, how tense you feel, etc. Without that information, we can only just give you general tips. Some people say that approaching from the front might be a little too aggressive and might put people off.…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:58 PM
3

Let me translate that for you. "We need feminism because masculinity separates boys from being human." The flawed concept of masculinity is by far one of the most damaging diseases plaguing our society. Really means: We need feminism because I'm extremely bitter and would love to see others brought down because I can bring myself up. This is probably written by someone who is incredibly butthurt that she can't get any action, or just someone who wants attention. Probably both Masculinity is awes…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 06:32 PM
1

Give this song a listen. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgoZI6hJdDA There's one line that really stuck with me. 'If I can't put nothing in you, I shouldn't put no time in you' She clearly doesn't respect you, and she clearly is not giving you what you want. This girl is not your 'friend'. She's just using that term so she can absolve herself of the guilt of fucking somebody over.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:25 AM
1

I don't think that was his point. I think he was saying something to the effect that it's not only women, but men also who are prone to this kind of behaviour. The point of TRP is to improve yourself, and that also includes rewarding good behaviour and punishing bad behaviour, for both men and women. This includes being friends with the right people. It doesn't make sense to maintain company with people who do not honour their commitments and respect you.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:22 AM
1

I tend to stray away from blanket statements like this, but I say this from experience. Why do you think you've never heard the phrase 'I'm a woman of my word?' Men and women conceptualise promises differently. A man (well, some men) is more likely honor his word than a woman in the same position. That would be the polite way to say it. There's also the fact that, in today's world, we've robbed women of agency and responsibility, thus destroying their ability to feel guilty
/r/askTRP23/12/15 10:17 AM
4

Did it not occur to anyone that Finn, spending his entire life following directions and knowing nothing but carrying out orders and fighting and absolutely nothing else, knows absolutely nothing about the real world and is practically experiencing everything for the first time? Of course, it doesn't detract from the fact that he starts off as a beta, but in all fairness, as someone who had a sheltered lifestyle growing up (strict Chinese parents obsessed with academic achievement and CV-building…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 09:57 AM
4

This might be helpful for people who want to get into advanced stuff, but for recovering betas who have been seen as nothing but friends by their female peers, it's best to not play this dangerous game at all. A girl is more respecting of a guy who is willing to walk away. Of course, if the girl is more than willing to work towards your goals in a platonic way, that's fine, and you need to be 110% sure that you know what you want from the exchange. If she tries to emotional menstruate all over y…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 07:21 AM
2

Don't have crushes. Have girls you haven't asked out yet. All in the perspective
/r/askTRP19/12/15 11:39 PM
6

Hi Milo, Thanks very much for taking the time out of your busy schedule to do this. I am in admiration over your ability to stand up for what you believe in, no matter how unpopular it is. I've dabbled in journalism in university, and have written a couple of very controversial articles that have sometimes earned the ire of my friends and the editorial staff. Of course, Third Wave Feminism is a completely different beast when it comes to controversy. A lot like Islam, some people argue that some…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 05:45 PM
7

That's not white knight behaviour, that's just going full retard. Besides, I don't think the fiancee in question would have appreciated such a grand gesture.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 09:17 PM
1

They just don't get it. Karen Straughan had this interesting rebuttal to this point. Entitlement denotes that you deserve something without putting effort into it. A girl might be entitled to a man doing her errands because she thinks her prettiness or just the fact that she has 2 X chromosomes is enough. A rich douchebag might be entitled to special treatment because he believes that people should worship the ground he walks on. A Nice Guy (TM), misguided as his perceptions of sexual dynamics a…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 03:22 PM
1

Law 38: Think as you like, behave as others do. He's alpha, he probably does things in line with TRP principles. Hell, he has the self respect to refuse to be an errand boy for the girls. This is just a front, a front that, I suspect, a majority of the so-called White Knight hollywood actors put up. Trust me.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 03:17 PM
1

What kind of question is that? Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fSwWCr6VXQM If this kid had the cojones to approach girls way older than him, there's not freakin' reason you can't
/r/askTRP13/12/15 01:03 PM
1

As someone who has parents who bore witness to the Chairman Mao's Great Leap Forward and Cultural Revolution, they definitely know better. I don't think this is a good place to debate Communism vs. Capitalism, but my parents left their Communist country for a Capitalist country for a reason. As awful as capitalism is, communism is definitely not better
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 07:59 AM
1

Stop hanging out with them. You can come up with a clever comeback. You can think up of something that will put them in their places, but the most powerful thing you can do is walk away. If you absolutely must hang out with them, maybe take it up with your friends? After all, you're not going after their gfs, so they're merely just an extension of your friends
/r/askTRP05/12/15 09:53 PM
5

I personally disagree, on a basis of principle, with the MRM. It's Feminism for men essentially. They have brought up some serious issues, but they do nothing but bitch about everything. That said, I can respect that some of them are former feminists (Warren Farrell) and people who have worked on domestic violence (Erin Pizzey) Men are allowed to be emotional, but we can only be emotional over super serious things. Crying over the loss of a family member is A-OK. Crying because a girl ditched yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 09:49 PM
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I read something Karen Straughan (an MRA, I know, but still...) wrote, that most members of TRP aren't angry at women as much as they are angry at being lied to this whole time, by the media, by Disney movies, and by their White Knight friends. There's also the fact that men aren't allowed to be emotional. If a girl goes buckwild, cries her eyeballs out, and talks about how all men are evil, people will comfort her. Imagine a man in that role, and people are going to tell him to get a grip. Thin…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 08:18 PM
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As a general rule, I go for the snarker angle and either amplify her charge to ridiculous levels or reflect it back on her. Of course, there's nothing in the rules that say anything about leaving, so some of the remarks I see are cause for walking away Question 1: ”Are you a player?” "Sure, I play lots of things, the lottery, my PS4, and with your head" Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” "I bet you say that to all the guys" Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.”…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 08:14 PM
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Call this incredibly racist, but almost 90% of the Russian women I meet in my city are pretty hard to approach. Some of them put up their shields right away and put on their nastiest/coldest tones, wondering why the hell you're talking to them. It could be the fact that, as a recovering beta, they can sniff the rough edges immediately. I've heard that, in general, the men they want have their shit down 110%. I.e.: they need an alpha male
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 07:54 PM
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Back during my SJW days, I would have called you mad. Now I realise, sometimes the only way to see what someone is made of is to break them down. Pain is an awful kind of thing, but there's two ways to deal with it, either cry and whine like a bitch about it, or hold it close to your heart and take it forward and make yourself stronger
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:16 PM
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Chin-up, buddy. That Shia Leboeuf mentality is just what you need. Think about it. There are plenty of guys who want to talk to girls but just never find the courage to do so. Some of them might even be your friends and they'll try to shame you for approaching them. I call them haters, because they try and bring down people for having the cojones to do something they always wanted to do. But either way, even if you get blown off, you're doing better than the guys who did not even try. EDIT: Comp…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 02:41 PM
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Realistically, you ought to start rolling back the thirst. It's impossible to go cold turkey because your feelings are at work, but for the moment, busy yourself with other stuff. Blot her out of your mind with other things.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:46 AM
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If she isn't giving you what she wants, why should you give her what she wants? Good call on the whole 'I don't have room for friends' thing. I don't think it's unreasonable at all. The girl probably doesn't feel like she has to explain why she can't be your girlfriend, so why should you feel obligated to explain why you can't be her platonic friend?
/r/askTRP03/12/15 04:26 PM
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Simple: you don't
/r/askTRP03/12/15 04:22 PM
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I'm in a similar position and am trying to roll back my niceness. You see, a lot of my so-called niceness came out of a desire to be validated and loved. I learned the hard way that, while it does get returns, some people take advantage of that niceness. So from now on, I am going to be nice to the people who I feel deserve it. I am going to be a gentlemen, but only towards ladies (read: a lady, not the spoiled rotten privileged girl who's been spoonfed from birth, or a hoodrat) But above all. P…
/r/askTRP03/12/15 04:20 PM
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It completely messes up the Politically Correct narrative. Black and conservative? You're not a real black person and you're an uncle tom sellout. Female and anti-Feminist? You don't know what feminism is and you're not a real woman Gay and anti-liberal? Gee, I don't think the regressive left has come up with anything to take that down yet.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 01:12 PM
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Good to know! But in that case, what age do you think the wall would be at, on average?
/r/askTRP02/12/15 03:31 AM
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Interesting analogy. Being a libertarian, I always see radical feminism as Soviet Communism (or even Islamic extremism) and TRP as the Capitalist west. We get derided for having crappy values, we have opportunistic fifth columnists (male feminists/white knights), but some people quite like our system, while they have just straight up misery for everyone. But whatever tickles your pickle
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 12:57 AM
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Roger that. If I've gotten better at something, it's the fact that I've gotten better at not wasting my time with girls who aren't worth it. If a girl can't give me what I want, why the hell should I give her what she wants?
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:38 AM
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I was always of the opinion that, in spite of the inevitability of mortality, people can still work with what they got. In other words, I read in another TRP post that 'the Wall' is more a mentality thing than a physical thing. I've seen girls younger than me with wrinkly skin and I've seen girls in their 30s that look pretty youthful. I've always been into older girls since my high school days, but I also realise that as I'm getting older, so are they, and my chief concern is that I'm afraid I'…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:37 AM
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Live well, that is the greatest revenge. Getting back at a girl is just petty. Sure, there might be some short term suffering on her part, but she might grow to like the fact that she can still toy with your emotions. The best way to get back at her is to show that she has no sway over you, positive or negative.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:27 AM
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Having suffered the loss of a platonic female friend, here's a short litmus test you can take. Do you really want to be just friends with this girl? If yes, would you be okay with her talking about other guys as romantic interests? Would you be okay with her having a romantic interest that is not you? Would you be okay with her PDAing it up with said hypothetical romantic interest? If you can't answer 'yes' straight away with 100% certainty, then it isn't worth it. For me, rejecting a woman's re…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:25 AM
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The first step to solving a problem is to acknowledge it. You're on the right track, buddy, don't stray from it. Happy trails
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:17 AM
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Maybe the fact that I turn to other people for validation on what I like is still indicative that I'm still in my Blue Pill ways. But the point of asking was that, with reading so much about 'the wall' and hearing so much about how a woman's sexual value plummets after a certain age (they even have terms for it in China and Japan), I just wanted to make sure I wasn't setting myself up for failure. But yeah, I understand that this age group is probably going to have its share of challenges, but t…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:13 AM
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Having parents who are (un)happily married have put me off the idea of marriage for a while. Hell, reading all these stories on the main subreddit about how bedrooms die and how one cheats on the other because they aren't getting what they want from the marriage has cemented that. I'm a romantic guy, I want to date and stuff, but I also understand the pitfalls that come with girls in this age group and will adjust my strategy accordingly
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:05 AM
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Of course, and I thank you for reaffirming that. I just wanted to see if I was being beta/blue pill for having such peculiar tastes
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:03 AM
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No, it's a serious question. I wanted to run it through some of you guys to see if I'm out of my mind or not
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:02 AM
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This is where the term 'frame control' comes into play. This is someone who refuses to enter your reality and someone who is insisting on bringing you into hers. But you said it yourself. Apparently this 'high-standard' girl probably does not hold herself to the same standard. Talk to other girls. If that's not readily available, focus on yourself. But whatever you do, please don't mope over this person that clearly isn't worth your time or energy
/r/askTRP01/12/15 08:13 PM
1

I've just started doing the nofap thing a month ago, and while it's scary as hell (haven't gotten an erection for the past 3 weeks), the libido does return. If you're watching porn and masturbation, you should definitely give the nofap subreddit and the 'your brain on porn' site a look.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 08:10 PM
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I hate to break it to ya, but the common rule I've found is, if you're spending an inordinate amount of time thinking about a girl and that you feel the need to compete with another guy over her, you definitely have oneitis. This is going to be harder than it sounds, but remove your attention from her. Focus on something else. Your studies, your sports, your college applications, whatever. An alpha male (i.e.: the kind of guy many girls would want to be with) does not give two flying fucks about…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 08:08 PM
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If this is someone you do not know, take a look at her facebook page. If she talks about how hot she is and how horny she is, it's definitely fake. I'd prefer to keep in touch with people I know/I have dealings with. When it comes to random girls adding me on facebook, it could be part of some weird scam or something
/r/askTRP01/12/15 08:04 PM
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If anything, I think 2015 is the year the rape culture Feminism has jumped the shark. Maybe it's confirmation bias. Maybe it's the fact that I've practically purged almost everyone person pedalling that BS from my social networks, but at this stage, I have to go out and actually look for this stuff. I don't think it's on the rise. It's a bunch of wackos being wackos. Let's not give them any attention
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 11:09 AM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover That book can't be that controversial, can it?
/r/askTRP03/11/15 04:50 PM
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A hot girl doesn't need a college degree as much as a member of the Royal family doesn't need one. Sure, it's not necessary to get by in life, but they need it to go through the motions. It's an expectation (at least today). I'm pretty darned sure that skipping college, while still leaving some options open, would close off a bunch of others too, especially this judgmental world
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:41 AM
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I had a similar experience, but the difference was I deluded myself into thinking that I wanted to just be friends with this girl. She got really judgmental later into the friendship, and I decided to cut her off. That has taught me an important lesson not just about girls, but about being honest with myself and what I want. If a girl pulls out the LJBF speech, I'm going to retort with something to the effect of 'I'm not looking for friends.' If she responds negatively, well, nothing I can do ab…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:27 PM
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No. I was simply trying to make a point that a lot of faulty political movements proclaim to do one thing while doing the other because the targets that they want to pick off are too hard or intimidating for them. So they prey on the weak. You could easily substitute immigration for Senator Lindsey Graham being all gung-ho about war in the Middle East, but extremely quiet when it comes to China and Russia. He's loud about the Middle East because he believes he can bully them.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 07:16 PM
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I was having a think the other day. The British government does have a genuine immigration problem. There are illegals and asylum seekers that can easily game the system to get in and stay. They're definitely draining the welfare state and are taking away tax dollars that could be used towards British citizens. The people are angry, and they think the government needs to do something about it. But the illegals and the absconders are hard to track down and deport. The students, and other legal im…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 04:12 PM
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The humour the analogy, did Morpheus shove the pill down Neo's throat? No. Neo found something was up with the system and started climbing down the rabbit hole on his own, albeit inadvertently at first. It's a personal choice. It's not something that you can evangelise
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:00 PM
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As a soon-to-be 25 year old virgin (to be fair, I did kiss a girl, but it was just once and the girl instantly knew I was a n00b), the thought did cross my mind from time to time. Ultimately, the decision is up to you. You have to ask yourself what you plan to gain from losing your virginity. If you just want to get it done and dusted, go ahead. But I think most virgins don't really see it that way, correct me if I'm wrong. I plan on losing it to someone who holds value and in very blunt terms, …
/r/askTRP19/10/15 03:58 PM
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Probably not all that different. They probably got validated from their network of friends. The difference now is that the validation is not only amplified thanks to instant access on a global scale, it's actively encouraged and now there's a culture of unaccountability that supplements it
/r/askTRP17/10/15 02:55 PM
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This lady sounds like a hypocrite and therefore someone of questionable character. Feminist or not, it's not someone I'd be willing to give the time of day to These kinds of people are not worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 02:51 PM
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Before I took the TRP, I had a very polarised view of women. I grew up in a culture that taught me to venerate women and honor their sacrifices (giving birth, beauty, etc). The fact that I dealt with a lot of violent, abusive women in my life, and the fact that I have not had success with girls, I would also entertain very misogynistic thoughts. Here I was, at one point believing that that ground beneath women's feet should be worshipped while at the same time, hating them for being manipulative…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:53 PM
1

We men are taught that we should never lose our cool. And that's something that is valid. However, unlike women, who are encouraged to let loose on their feelings, we are often encouraged to do the opposite and keep it bottled up. There's a difference between being in control of your emotions and suppressing them. What is important to note is that your grievance is legitimate and 100% ok. What is not important is to dote on it too long and wallow in it. That's something that the opposite sex lov…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:40 PM
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I get the feeling that this is something that better belongs in AskTRP to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:37 PM
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The friend zone is something that, unlike the mainstream pop Feminist narrative would have you think, happens to both genders. It's a place where no one wants to be, let's be honest. It's caused by a miscommunication between the friender and the friendee (who are both indecisive) Unless if you want to manipulate a particular girl, I think friend zoning a girl, particularly if it's a girl you like, is counter-productive. I prefer to be honest and straight-forward. I'm not looking for female frien…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:35 PM
2

Liberalism is a very broad term. There's the original version of liberalism, the one that I (and some others) subscribe to. Classical liberalism believes that everything (well, almost everything) should be free from regulation. The liberalism that you're probably alluding to might fall better under Political Correctness, and it's horrible. Do you guys think the Neocons are really just people who grew up after WWII and still think the West needs to deal with issues like its 1939? It's just like t…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:12 PM
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This is something that a group of people on the internet posting advice can't really help with. I've just started to crack at my low self-esteem after years and years of Googling wtf was my problem. First of all: if the insults are coming from your friends, find better friends. If the insults are coming from random people, they're just random people, minimise the time you have with him if you can't eliminate it entirely But overall, OWN YOURSELF. It's not the same as that 'just be yourself' crap…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:07 PM
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I'm scared as shit about marrying. The fact that my parents are in a not-so-happy marriage, followed by the fact that it's practically expected for couples to divorce later on makes me very, very wary about the institution of marriage. Is it possible to find a quality woman who you can spend the rest of your life with? Sure, but it's important to understand the context and the implications of marriage, hence the divorce rape, the 50% of whatever is hers, etc. As fucked up as it sounds, a wife in…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 08:01 PM
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I always found that to stop me short in my tracks. But now, I basically do what this guy does (minus the 'fuck you' and dropping whatever he's holding part) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqDbb7-dn9A Walk away. In my experience, girls who drop that word usually do so for a reason, and that is either 1). to say 'I'm not interested' without actually saying so or 2). she's interested, but only as a friendy friend friend friend. I used to have a policy where, being morally high and mighty at the ti…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:56 PM
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What makes TRP so interesting is the fact that it isn't a social movement. I imagine a lot of us found it to change ourselves, not the world around us. (Of course, we can change the world by changing ourselves, but that's a whole new ball game). The idea that there will be a wave of self-respecting men who have rediscovered their masculinity, while idealistic, is just moot. It kind of goes against what I see as TRP. The very core of what it is, at least to me, is that you're not responsible for …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:51 PM
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Yeah, it's the movie. I'm afraid I might have spoiled a bit (well, to be fair, it's kind of given, at its base it's the story about a man who has so much weight and legacy placed on his shoulders, coupled with his personal problems, and meeting someone who helps him through it all).
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:45 PM
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If my life was the King's Speech and I was George VI (aka: 'Bertie'), PUA theory was the guy telling him that smoking was good for him and that speaking with marbles in his mouth would help him. TRP, or at least, the material that it espouses, is Lionel Logue, the guy who realised that the at the heart of the King's stammering was tons of psychological trauma, and that all he needed was a friend who would listen to him. In other words, I was sort of introduced to PUA was a way to make myself mor…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 10:05 PM
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I might get downvoted, but I'm of the opinion that the MRM is simply the other side of the coin, the observe of which is 3rd wave feminism. They have raised issues such as the fact that family courts are heavily biased towards women in divorce, that male rape victims are hardly believed, and that false rape accusers only get slapped on the wrist at worst. But what do they do about it? Whine like a bunch of little bitches. The exact same tactic that the modern feminists at the Guardian and Tumblr…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:53 AM
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Quite unfortunately, the Politically Correct elite is going to find a link between the killer and this subreddit. Just as they did Elliot Rodger. But you know what? It's just like the OP says, TRP actually prevents things like this from happening. I do recall reading Neil Strauss' 'The Game' and mentioned that he and his pick-up coaches are doing the world a service by lowering the crime rate by guiding rAFCs down the straight path. But it just seems that no one is interested in actually solving…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 06:43 PM
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Oops. Maybe I'm still plugged in. I confess that I haven't read the sidebar much, but I did read some of the books that were recommended (namely Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy). I do recall in the former source that there's very little room to be flirtatious in the texting realm and that the majority of the game comes from a proper tete-a-tete. I guess my problem is I have (or had, I don't know if it's still there) a tendency to fall in love too quickly. My imagination has a tendency to fill in…
/r/askTRP20/09/15 05:35 AM
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Wait. How come the UK bans Tyler and not Ice Cube and Dre? I mean, come on, Tyler's lyrics are hyperbolic outrageous. To take those seriously would be for the joke to be on you. NWA's lyrics were far more realistic in terms of 'misogynistic' lyrics. But even then, they don't condone it personally. They're just talking about it, the same way a historian talks about the Holocaust. I don't get it. Just talking about rape and violence against women will get you banned. So the government wants people…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:02 PM
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The problem with betas and nice guys is that they constant act as if they already live in the world they want to live. A just world. I believe it's perfectly okay to treat others with fairness, but it'd be folly to demand such in return.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:52 AM
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The first blurb from Bailey Poland: The one where Nice Guys are deceptive, I agree with, if only to add the caveat that they aren't just trying to deceive the girls they're interested in, but also themselves. It's also not entirely their fault because romantic comedies and Disney movies that they grew up with have also fed them this kind of lie. I completely lost it at the second blurb. 'Get used to just being friends with women.'? 'Being friends with women is rewarding'!? Words like these is pr…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:46 AM
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Thanks! I used to get so angry at the entirety of womankind, blaming it for the misgivings of one woman. The manipulative personalities, the angry, domineering and unchecked violent behaviour. Then I realised two things. One, as awful as it sounds, it was really all my fault; there's only one thing in common with these horrible girls: myself. Thus, I am only with the company that I deserve, and I deserved this company by being such a kiss ass, spineless craven. But no longer, I'm now attempting …
/r/ThankTRP06/08/15 05:30 PM
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Perhaps this is overcompensating, but I've basically closed the 'friendship border' to females. You have to be a very special, very helpful person in my life to be a platonic friend. My brother called this naïve, but I think it's done me a lot of good. It's almost insulting to see the word 'friend' thrown around so carelessly to the point where it means nothing anymore, and thus, I can't take a girl's offer a friendship after she's rejected me very seriously.
/r/ThankTRP04/08/15 09:06 AM
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SO MUCH YES! I'm pissed at myself for being so goddamn complacent these last couple of years. I've managed to see people my age fly past me while I'm stuck in the gutter wondering wtf to do. I'm gonna do something. It might be drastic, it might be crazy, but at least I'll be doing something. Like you said, the worst thing I can possibly do is to do nothing. As for change, a friend of mine who I used to smoke up with a lot said something like this all the time. "The only constant force is change.…
/r/ThankTRP04/08/15 09:03 AM
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Wow! I'm pretty sure friend-zone girls will throw up a lot of red flags (e.g.: start talking to you about guys they're interested in, bring in topics that she would not dare bring up with someone she's trying to impress, etc), so I wonder how they're keeping their non-friendliness on the DL? Also, thanks. I will eventually come around to forgiving my mother, but that takes a lot of time, and I'm definitely not big enough to do that at the moment.
/r/ThankTRP04/08/15 09:01 AM
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The funny thing is that I had her blocked. Hell, I even blocked her on WhatsApp, but for some reason it did not stick. Oh well, I'm not making that same mistake again. And yes, Confucius, although he has a few values I find disagreeable (e.g.: obey your elders no matter what) definitely had one good quote. "Live well. That is the greatest revenge". Of course, the point isn't to get back at this girl. She means nothing to me now. The point is, to learn from this mistake and catch up on lost time …
/r/ThankTRP04/08/15 08:58 AM
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Thanks! I spent the last couple of months wondering whether or not I did the right thing. I was emotionally torn to shreds when I decided to cut ties, and to be honest, I'm still dealing with the fallout. Her latest texts basically indicate that she does not value my feelings at all. There was something I did on NYE that angered her, and I feel genuinely remorseful. I told her as much in the aftermath and I did so again and again the following months. Even, her latest texts often brings that up.…
/r/ThankTRP03/08/15 04:24 AM
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Robert Glover mentioned in 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' about how a lot of his clients, when he tried the boundary exercise (i.e.: constantly violating the person's personal space until he said "stop"), most people would him have his way with them, pushing them all the way to the wall. There's being an uptight, stuck-up person, and then there's having solid boundaries. I had none, and therefore taught this person that she could run roughshod over my self-esteem. I put her on the pedestal and she got c…
/r/ThankTRP03/08/15 04:18 AM
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