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| – | Lift lift lift, now disc herniation w/ nerve compression be - FML advice?...If you're having neurological issues like that, it will take a long time, if ever, for your pain to subside. My advice as a medical student and as someone who has herniated L5-S1 is to see the surgeon and seriously consider the surgery. I've talked to many patients who say it is a life saver and massively improved QOL. I'm about 1 year out from my herniation, and I no longer get pain with normal activity. Can't squat or deadlift, but single leg lifts build character and legs in a way I never ima… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 09:40 PM |
| 3 | The line between being RP and just being a dickThe line between alpha and straight up asshole is often not your actions but peoples' perception of you. You can get away with a lot more if you're a successful person, tall, good looking, etc... You can also take a lot more slack if you suddenly change, because no one likes to watch someone they've known to be beta rise up in the ranks. This is why we recommend lifting and changing your appearance alongside the personality changes and life changes. I was the beta in my group for years and years… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/17 06:13 AM |
| 1 | What city or area of the USA from your experience has a lot of hot girls as well as a dating scene that is good to men?In the south they're fatter. In cities with giant black populations you basically just have more guys than girls because everyone wants to sleep with the white girls. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 02:25 AM |
| 7 | What city or area of the USA from your experience has a lot of hot girls as well as a dating scene that is good to men?It's about finding a place where girls value what you bring to the table while also not being surrounded by guys who do the same. NYC is a fucking fantastic place for a young professional guy doing well financially and professionally, but neighborhood matters. For instance, I got my undergraduate degree at an Ivy and now I'm a medical student at a fairly high-ranking institution. In big east coast cities I do fairly well, especially with college-educated girls who think they're too good for anyo… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 05:59 AM |
| 10 | LTR ProtipExactly, there is no problem with LTRs, but your mind has to be in the right place. There is nothing wrong with enjoying the bond between you and another person, even long term, but if you started TRP'ing less than a year ago, fucked some girl who took interest in you, and start falling hard and finding yourself pushing aside TRP advice... you're lining yourself up for a kick in the ass. If I had to put some concrete rules on it, I'd say you aren't ready to take on an LTR for fun until you've 1)… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/17 05:44 AM |
| 12 | Tinder Opener Having 100% Success Rate So FarIn my experience, on Tinder this is less effective than abs for girls. I know plenty of dudes DL'ing 400+ who have mediocre or ugly girlfriends, and it's not because they could do better. Often these guys don't even have bad BF%, but they're so bulky that even 15% BF ends up looking chunky in clothes (and even shirtless, since they still have substantial amounts of fat). I also know plenty of dudes who have the rock climbing body who are dating 7s and 8s. That being said, most guys here will rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/17 05:03 AM |
| 6 | Tinder Opener Having 100% Success Rate So FarI grew my beard around the time I discovered TRP, got back in shape, got accepted to medical school, and broke up with my ex. That was a particularly good summer. Lessons learned from that, being in shape > beard, but the beard opens you up to far more women. Simply put, you look older, more mature, and higher status. My dating range went from 18-23 to 18-35 basically in one month of growing and learning how to keep it looking sharp. You also get a pretty big advantage with the college-aged girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/17 04:48 AM |
| 4 | What is a slut?The only way to have the best of both worlds is to be the first guy who fucked her on the first night and then be the guy who she had to work for later on. You've got the AF aspect as well as the initial investment in you. This works better than other methods because, unlike every other one of her relationships where she merely had to sit back and decide when to open her legs, she had to work for this relationship. Women are nothing more than the oldest teenager in the house. Remember the kid wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Swedish mayor rules to clean the snow on sidewalks and bicycle first, in the name of gender equality, because that's where women walks mostly,The United States Presidential line of succession defines who may become or act as President of the United States upon the incapacity, death, resignation, or removal from office (by impeachment and subsequent conviction) of a sitting President or a President-elect. It's the first line of Wikipedia. If Trump dies, Pence doesn't have a snowballs chance, he has a virtual guarantee. Believe it or not this country actually sticks to its election rules, that's why we're looking at a Trump presidency i… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Moving up to the big leaguesBeta camp in her eyes. Not in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 03:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Moving up to the big leaguesTouching her shoulder within minutes of sitting down, I need to say start escalating right away, if you don't it will feel weird to do later in the night. Well you should've taken her home. You're definitely in beta camp right about now, so good luck plating without a push for commitment, but you've made one really good point. The most successful guys are "just flirty." The single phrase, "he's like that with everyone," has been the hamster's go-to line for as long as we've allowed women to show… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Swedish mayor rules to clean the snow on sidewalks and bicycle first, in the name of gender equality, because that's where women walks mostly,If Trump croaks tonight, and Hillary gets in Might wanna brush up on the line of succession | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 07:04 AM |
| 27 | The Post-Wall MaleConsider another perspective. There are too many things out of your control for anything to be a guarantee after the age of 40 or 50. You're a biological machine with a million working parts, and at any moment of any day one of those parts can break and leave you basically useless and unable to return to your former self. I see patients all the time who lived perfectly normal lives until one day things weren't quite right anymore. One year later the combination of cachexia and whatever insane nu… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 07:01 AM |
| 7 | Fatherhood done right, is...Neutral observation. I think we've evolved away from Rollo somewhat here, though we're specifically a varied group in our opinions here. I do think there's a place in TRP for learning to vet LTRs, and certainly a select group of guys could benefit from selecting a wife carefully. However, where's the evidence that marriage is objectively safe while living a TRP-driven lifestyle? Safer? Sure. Safe? Absolutely not. Primarily, a TRP attitude helps us in our interactions with women on a daily basis.… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/16 02:54 AM |
| 13 | Fatherhood done right, is...Which is exactly why we have such a difficult time here reconciling this with our "never get married" culture. I don't have the answer to this, and adoption and surrogates don't seem to be ideal solutions either. Undoubtedly most of you will probably ignore everything you ever read here, cry "NAWALT," and then relive the side bar as if you didn't know it was coming. Personally, I'm still looking for a better solution. I think we all should be. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 11:09 PM |
| 9 | Lifting is the first step to reclaiming your masculine self.Lifting is a requirement because people are shallow and make premature judgments. We can't avoid this. Lifting is so high yield in terms of changing people's perceptions of you in a short amount of time that it's a no-brainer. Ultimately, game and attitude matter more, but this will help so much with game that avoiding it is like well... trying to lift without a good diet. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 11:01 PM |
| 4 | The reason why we don't talk about RP truths in publicIn the very beginning they had a point. There was certainly a period of time when women had fewer rights than they should have been awarded. Those early feminists fought, and despite going about it completely illogically, as to be expected, they eventually got some good work done and evened the playing field through law by achieving suffrage and equal opportunity in the workplace. However, that was never enough, and the movement continues to be fueled by the old injustices that weren't "fixed" e… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Things I've noticed after lifting for 2 months consistentlyYour body adjusts to the volume, though some people are not able to keep up, and these people should probably be careful. Otherwise, lift more than you're currently lifting. Overtraining is usually just an excuse not to put in the work. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 09:38 AM |
| 6 | Things I've noticed after lifting for 2 months consistentlyAbundance mentality. I started lurking this sub in the midst of a failing relationship. By the time we actually broke up I was jacked, confident, and had gotten IOIs from basically every girl who I'd wanted to fuck in college. I didn't really know what to do with that all that confidence, but it seemed to just take care of itself. Broke up with her on a Sunday, took a few days to collect myself, had emptied my hardly blue balls in a new plate by that Friday and added 2 more by the end of the mon… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 09:35 AM |
| 5 | Swedish mayor rules to clean the snow on sidewalks and bicycle first, in the name of gender equality, because that's where women walks mostly,I know we have a boner for Trump around here, but he's done nothing to show he's worthy of the title yet. No one presented to us was worthy. Trump honestly has no plan. He's rightly earned admiration from this group simply because he was able to so successfully invade the minds of the American people by presenting himself as an alpha male, but for us to celebrate being placed under his leadership at this stage is premature. Celebrate the fact that it's not Hillary, but be cautious with Trump. Yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 09:03 AM |
| 3 | NEWSFLASH: 45% of white women with COLLEGE DEGREES voted for Trump.Exactly. I'd never say that Trump is a better option for LGBTQ than Hillary would've been, but come on, Ted Cruz held a massive convention to address his concern about the "moral decay" of the country, specifically relating to Gay marriage, and basically spelled it out that he'd try to reverse it. Christie voted against gay marriage. Rubio literally had a plan spelled out to make gay marriage illegal again. Trump says gay marriage is, "fine." Now, do you think we'd have our FBs blown up with ran… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 01:55 AM |
| 8 | Swedish mayor rules to clean the snow on sidewalks and bicycle first, in the name of gender equality, because that's where women walks mostly,It's the same for every person. Lucky for us, sexual strategy works on an individual basis. Next time you get laid, be glad that your competition still thinks women like big bouquets of sunflowers and sappy love letters. The price we pay (in the US at least) is a society gagging so hard on its own bullshit that a random celebrity businessman who presented literally no comprehensive plan for the country aside from a clear stance on destroying the insufferable liberal agenda still seemed like a be… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Swedish mayor rules to clean the snow on sidewalks and bicycle first, in the name of gender equality, because that's where women walks mostly,it's fucking up what already works fine Everyone avoids the real issues. What really makes feminism shine as a complete waste of everyone's time is their ability to invent problems that don't exist, or to nitpick at things that aren't perfect for women, rather than realizing that things aren't perfect for anyone. Feminism is women failing to see their own privilege (e.g. it's a horrible, disgusting burden on a woman to be catcalled, but the fact that most men are openly labeled creeps for just l… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/16 01:30 AM |
| 2 | The most important implication of swallowing the pill: women are now the least important part of your lifeThis stuff is going over a lot of your heads. You're basically taking the concept and applying it to its absolute extreme without really breaking down the components. To be happy most men need an internal sense of pride in what they do and a group of individuals to share their life experiences with. Validation seeking behavior is when you don't have pride in yourself or what you do, so you try to supplement that with others, replacing your own lacking self-confidence with praise from others. Wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/16 12:55 AM |
| 5 | TRP is a safe spaceTRP has become too whiny. I've been coming less and less, and when I (or someone else) does post something substantial (such as my post today that illustrates exactly what you did in the bullet points), it's typically met with a lukewarm reaction and guys hamstering their way out of realizing there's more to life than spinning plates, and that women are your plaything, not your main source of validation, whether that be from one woman or the endless string of community college 6s you bring home … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 08:52 AM |
| 36 | The most important implication of swallowing the pill: women are now the least important part of your lifeThe part that gets lost on people is that you literally open doors for yourself without making any sacrifices. Most men, especially successful men, either choose to have a girlfriend/wife or simply forego sex because they need to focus on their careers. I get laid often. I know how to plate women for a very long time. I never put in time I don't want to put in. That's pretty damn important for a medical student with little to no free time. The result is professional success without sacrifice for… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 08:41 AM |
| 11 | The most important implication of swallowing the pill: women are now the least important part of your lifeAs I explained in another comment, you're fooling yourself if you think you can attain a sense of self-fulfillment without allies, friends, and family, and you're robbing yourself of what is likely the greatest thing we pursue as human beings: social interaction and bonding. Humans are inherently social. We derive our sense of importance from the influence we exert on other humans. When I see a comment like this, I'm not sure what you're seeing as the ideal, or who betrayed you so badly you thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 08:14 AM |
| 7 | Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's NumberBuild a Better Girlfriend rather than wasting your time on unicorn hunts. No amount of theory or anecdotal stories of high school valedictorian devout Christian girls cheating on their beta husband of 30 years are going to convince me that AWALT means you don't need to heavily vet your women. All women are hypergamous. Some women are more hypergamous than others. All are hypergamous enough to want to leave you if they think they can do better. The quality you'd vet for, if you were stupid enough… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | The most important implication of swallowing the pill: women are now the least important part of your lifeI think this has different implications. I'm implicitly making the argument that ultimately your objective accomplishments define your value, but you're taking "accomplishments" out of the frame I presented. Rollo is talking much more literally than me here. Yes, you can have accomplishments in one area of life, but not all accomplishments require you to be thoroughly alpha, hence very successful betas who succeed wildly financially, but ultimately get taken for a ride by women or others in gene… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | The most important implication of swallowing the pill: women are now the least important part of your lifeWe're saying the same thing from different perspectives. I would say the athlete is winning because he's got the sort of respect he's looking for from his team, the respect of his athletic ability. However, it's equally likely that he'd ultimately derive less happiness from the experience than the second string QB because he's not getting the sort of respect he'd like to get. It depends on your personality, but everyone wants validation from others. Maybe you just want to win, but ultimately the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 03:31 AM |
| 1 | NEWSFLASH: 45% of white women with COLLEGE DEGREES voted for Trump.If you've still got the post, PM it to me. I'd like to at least see what sort of content the mods think should be removed. It's possible it came across as concern trolling. If anything, this is a great lesson in how to change the opinions of others deeply rooted in their false beliefs. TRP is probably about 75% correct. There's a long way to go on anything that isn't describing how to have your fair share of one night stands. One of the things that keeps me here is that this is one of the very f… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 03:17 AM |
| 20 | The most important implication of swallowing the pill: women are now the least important part of your lifeI'd ask what value is to you then, if not something dependent on your surroundings and the environment in which you live? TRP is a shift in frame. Blue pill ideology puts you in the feminist society's frame, but swallowing the pill doesn't release you from any frame at all. Unless you move to the mountains, you still exist in society's frame, but you've shifted where you receive validation, and which ideas you are susceptible to. Your shift in frame is from dependence (or "slavery") on something… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 03:03 AM |
| 30 | Others will do anything it takes to keep you in your social place as you begin your journeyLifting and eating right is an essential part of TRP for more than just becoming a nice piece of eye candy for random bar sluts. You lift, eat right, and adjust your appearance so that you can ease the burden on others for adjusting to your new role as the leader of the immediate area. People have a picture in their mind of who should be leading and who they should respect, and they assign respect based on what they see. When your attitude does not align with your appearance, you must work much … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 02:21 AM |
| 4 | NEWSFLASH: 45% of white women with COLLEGE DEGREES voted for Trump.I wasn't a Trump supporter either, but mostly because of my particular key issues (e.g. healthcare, where most of the patients I work with benefit greatly from the ACA, and research funding, which looks like it will head downwards given his plans for government attrition and dislike of the NIH). Save for my personal convictions, I would definitely go for Trump. The government is clunky and inefficient. If I were at the helm I'd certainly downsize most parts of it and divert more funds towards sc… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 01:07 AM |
| 7 | TRP is a safe spaceFeminists make some very salient, interesting points worthy of discussion and probably worth changing about our society. They just always try to piggyback about 10x more female-centric bullshit on the back of those few productive claims, at which point they lose all respect from me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 12:21 AM |
| 12 | NEWSFLASH: 45% of white women with COLLEGE DEGREES voted for Trump.She has no one but herself to blame really. She was one of the least likable presidential candidates in recent memory. Scandal after scandal after scandal, and hardly any voice in the media. Seriously, how often did you see Hilary talking on TV compared to Trump or even Bernie? She simply couldn't connect with the general population, and her motivations were clearly rooted in ambition and legacy alone (though you might say the same for Trump, at least he resonated with a specific population). I'… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/16 09:34 PM |
| 28 | Harvard Men's Soccer Season Cancelled for ranking girls' team by looksSome girl from Duke made a powerpoint explicitly detailing her sex life with a long list of athletes and it went viral. People just laughed, and she endured 0 negative consequences. The above situation isn't a problem, it's that for some reason it's not funny anymore when the shoe is on the other foot. Well, all they're doing is confirming what we've been saying all along. Women's value is in their looks, and men's value is in their accomplishments. Why else would an affront on women's looks be … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20%I'm ~5'10" and 175 lbs, which puts me in the overweight range, but my body fat is ~12%. I'm not a bodybuilder, just a guy who works out 4 times a week and eats well, and there are plenty of guys out there bigger and heavier than me. It's not uncommon at all to have people in this range, but you'll see more or less of them depending on your environment. Obviously if you're on the wards seeing admitted patients in a large city hospital you're seeing 95% middle-aged to elderly patients, almost all … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20%Writing effectively is really just about fleshing out ideas as concisely and organized as possible while appealing to your audience. TRP tolerates pretty lengthy posts, but content has to be very relevant and there needs to be a clear structure to the post (which is why paragraph breaks and labeled sections work so well). | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 05:20 AM |
| 9 | Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20%I think the best way to frame this is basically 1) Being in the top 20% isn't as hard as you think, consider this 2) Here are a few examples of ways you can be in the top 20% 3) Remember that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, so you don't even need to be top 20% in everything to be top 20%. Instead of crying over the traits you don't have, focus on the easiest and most important factors you can improve (e.g. fitness, style) and then move on to harder ones (e.g. charm, money) 4) Recap and en… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 04:48 AM |
| 15 | Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20%Barring major discrepancies in game between the two men, a 30 yo neurologist with a six pack has more value on the SMP than a chubby, 5'7" DJ no matter how you spin it. There's a lot more that goes into SMV than how many women you fuck, how hot they are, and what price you had to pay. Aside from getting women to sleep with you at all, how they treat you (and how well you have to treat them) and how they think other women think about you are huge factors. The chubby, 5'7" DJ may have fucked more … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 04:33 AM |
| 39 | Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20%An important thing to understand about the bar scene is that it's very self-selective. Most of the guys I know who get really excited about going out to bars and clubs are taller, leaner, and better looking than average. Most guys who are noticeably short, overweight, or fairly ugly are less likely to want to go out. When I'm at a crowded bar with a dance floor, particularly a very rich/white bar, I start to feel a lot shorter than usual (I'm ~5'10"-5'11"), and suddenly dressing well and being i… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 03:46 AM |
| 15 | Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20%I like the sentiment, and I'll come back to why you're mostly right here, but I'm going to bring up a few key flaws with your argument. The biggest, by far, is that the top 20% means the top 20% of your dating pool, or rather the perceived dating pool of whichever girl you happen to be going after, and dating pools are more restrictive than you're accounting for. Let's consider some of your examples. If you make a HOUSEHOLD income of $130,000 you're in the top 10% financially in the USA accordin… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 03:35 AM |
| 9 | Understanding the 80/20 rule. Don't confuse top .2% for top 20%Unfortunately the one place I've found where people take it seriously is in medicine. Every time we have a practice case in med school where they list a man's height and weight and he's in the "overweight" range I mention we should ask the patient about his workout habits and eyeball his body fat percentage/body type before making assumptions about his health. I'd say about half the time the MD running the session agrees, the other half of the time he/she is completely illogical about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/16 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Rant: Ex goes crazy over the weeks following breakupI've thought about making a post about that, but I have limited time and I'm honestly somewhat bored with the beginning stages. I write posts about things that aren't already covered in the sidebar, top posts, and daily musings of ECs 50-100 times a week. I'm at a point of diminishing returns with women. I can get sex when I want sex, I can get commitment without giving it, and I know how to tell women to piss off when I need space to focus on other areas of my life without losing her as a plate… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 05:38 AM |
| 2 | To the young man I saw at the gym last night:Also worth noting that your success in life doesn't necessarily have to do with how much money you make either. The sole purpose of money is financial independence and freedom. I've met a few CT surgeons making $700-800K+ and even neurosurgeons making $1M+ per year who I do not consider "successful" because they feel trapped by their jobs (and also have little to no influence outside of whichever OR they happen to be residing in). They've eliminated the main advantage of being wealthy, which is … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 08:47 AM |
| 9 | Rant: Ex goes crazy over the weeks following breakupNormally I'd agree with that analysis, but in this instance I actually think she told me to ease her guilt, which was the common theme in all of this. I think there was definitely a subconscious part of her that wanted to break up, but she begged for second chances and reattempted contact many times. The more powerful motivator here was guilt. She didn't necessarily want the relationship back, but she wanted redemption. She wanted the relationship to end on her terms. It didn't. It ended on mine… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 07:53 AM |
| 14 | Rant: Ex goes crazy over the weeks following breakupMinus the hooking up afterwards, this is very similar to my last breakup when I was just getting into TRP. She reveals to me she cheated I don't ask why. I don't say anything. I just told her, "You're not sleeping in my apartment tonight. I'll be in the kitchen. Pack your stuff and find a hotel. Please be out of here in the next 15 minutes." She begs me to talk I refuse, tell her to pack her shit and go, never losing composure. I realize she owes me money, but I had paid for a flight we were goi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 03:06 AM |
| 5 | The first rule should be to lift.Girls who sneer at guys doing bodybuilding are only sneering at a culture stereotype. Yup, avoid this and you're golden. I'm in medical school. How many of those girls do you think are looking for a jock with big muscles. Most of them sneer at those guys, call them bros, and think of them as stupid. Huh, I look a lot like those "bros," but when I'm in the top 10% of my class and carry myself like a genuine intellectual, it creates a totally different image. All I have now is a leg up on 99% of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 02:52 AM |
| 5 | The first rule should be to lift.You're making progress, you're also making excuses to go extremely slowly and barely progress. Don't do that. Join a real gym. Cut down on the weed consumption considerably. Fix your diet. For fuck's sake are we really approving of a guy who's trying to improve his physique and eating "ice cream, candy, cookies, cakes, and chicken"? I fell off the last two weeks because I sprained my wrist and couldn't lift. My version of falling off was skipping a single leg day and one night where I ate a bag … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 02:42 AM |
| 4 | There are no cool girls, just cool ex boyfriendsIt's likely more social than evolutionary (though the two are inevitably intertwined). Most of us would sit around and do nothing interesting without the fire under our asses that is society's expectations of men. It's all about motivations. What do we reward in men? Being interesting, taking initiative, etc... What do we reward in women? Being attractive, following the rules. What's the result? The 80% of women whose biggest concerns are who Chad is fucking and where she's going out on Friday. … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 02:29 AM |
| 6 | To the young man I saw at the gym last night:When you see this guy doing deadlifts with a rounded back, help him. The last thing he needs is a herniated disc (which will probably result in his departure from fitness entirely). When you see this guy quarter-repping 2 plates on bench, just let it be. He's probably not going to hurt himself with decreased ROM, and if he wants to brag about his 315 bench max, which is really more like 215 if he actually did it right, just let him. You go to the gym for you, not to be better than others. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 11:25 PM |
| 5 | To the young man I saw at the gym last night:Going to the gym and comparing yourself to others in the gym is like going to top notch college and getting down because you're not top of the class. Contrary to popular belief there are more than enough good jobs to go around for those putting in the work, and the same goes for cute chicks in yoga pants. It's especially true when all you want to do is rent them out for a weekend at a time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/16 11:16 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Multiple Girlfriends = Multiple lives lived in one. Reflections on a life of plate spinning. [Updated]While I think this can be an interesting experience, I would never engage in this sort of behavior simply due to the time demands. Ultimately, women compliment my life, which focuses primarily on a serious and time-consuming career. My career is my LTR and my main plate. My LTRs, FWBs, and plates all exist to supplement my life, and I need the freedom to spur them aside at a moments notice if my career starts to lag or suffer because of them. If this lifestyle looks appealing to anyone, this is … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Why Women Lose Interest In Nice GuysPeople act like you have to be an asshole to get girls. That's not it at all. Everyone who knows me thinks of me as a really nice and friendly guy. Most say I'm stoic in public, but those who know me best (including women, plates, FWB, etc...) even think I'm goofy. So why do people think you have to be an asshole to get girls? Because the "nice guys" have completely lost sight of what's mean and what's just being a person. If a girl does something I don't like, I'm going to let her know. She doe… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Yeah but most men don't just stop at RN Man you really missed the whole point of this, didn't you? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 05:40 AM |
| 12 | Red Pill Toolbox: Appearance, Action, and Persuasion10% is a perfect cue, because it shows how little of a change you need to make, but that 10% makes a massive difference. It's all about the details. For instance, this average guy looks alright. He's clean, well-groomed, and even has a few things in that outfit that pop. However, this is an example of dressing 10% better. It's still a casual outfit with jeans, but he swapped the sneakers for slightly dressier chukkas, swapped the button down for a layered sweater, and added a leather jacket. Not… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 05:35 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill Toolbox: Appearance, Action, and PersuasionI can't really advocate for this approach. $65 for a male haircut is too much. You're probably paying for ambiance and customer service at that point. Even if your cut lasts longer and they offer free trims (I've found it's rarely the case, usually they'll give you a cleanup on the neck and beard, but that's all, and you can often find the same service in $30 shops), you're still very much reaching the point of diminishing returns. Maybe you've found a great place that makes it worth it for you.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 05:06 AM |
| 23 | Red Pill Toolbox: Appearance, Action, and PersuasionCould someone confirm that the malefashionadvice subreddit is indeed a good place to get fashion advice? It's complete shit. Look at the upvoted posts. Half of it is ridiculously skinny guys wearing all black and trench coats they paid way too much for. Really just horrible advice overall. Any resource worth looking at will tell you (or at least imply) that the #1 rule of male fashion (or any fashion) is that everything looks better when you're fit. That means plenty of muscle, low body fat %, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Most nurses are not making bank. Average salary is in the 60K range. You're talking about specialized nurses or maybe NPs. Sure, nurse anesthetists make a killing (average about $170K), but they are doing a 3-4 year program, typically after several years in the field. I don't think I've encountered more than 1 or 2 under 30. Then NPs are paid well (~$100K), but again they are a minority and certainly qualify as part of the "successful" ranks of society. There are also certain parts of the countr… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 04:35 AM |
| 44 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.He's in better shape, gets more women, and is "infinitely happier." If that's not an endorsement for TRP, what is? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 07:45 PM |
| 13 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Plus every guy I know would be head over heels for a financially independent woman with her own interests/career rather than a demure, submissive child-woman. Use this to your advantage. You'll find that successful women or women who are around successful men, take it for granted that whoever she's dating will be successful. When you're dating the receptionist from a high power law firm, your six figure salary means nothing. She's got partners sneaking glimpses of her ass all day, or just blatan… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 07:44 PM |
| 8 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Here's the thing though, as long as you're a rational human being who does what TRP actually suggests, you'll be completely fine (that being said, not all of you fit this description, so work on it). Most women agree with me when I drop some TRP truth, but it's always vague, and it's always meant to be seen as knowledge I've picked up simply from being socially astute and having lots of experience with women. A lot of the time women actually feel safer or more comfortable around me because I see… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about hair lossIt's not a strawman argument, it's an apt comparison. You've got two chemicals guys put in their body to improve their appearance, each have risks. It's not a matter of which you'd rather have (I agree that ripped > hair), it's a matter of cost-benefit analysis as well as me expressing my confusion as to why guys care when other guys take fin or gear. As far as cost-benefit goes, gear will fuck up your HPTA. You can religiously PCT, monitor blood levels, and do things the "right" way, but unless… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about hair lossThe point of my argument wasn't to point out that these drugs are safe (they are, safer than nearly everything your doctor will prescribe you actually), but to point out that it makes no sense for you to criticize in the same way it's retarded to hate on guys on steroids. Why do you care what another person does with their body? It's not even covered by most insurance companies so it literally has no effect on your life. It's just a thing some guy buys. As for PFS, advil fucks up more people tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 10:57 PM |
| 8 | Let's talk about hair lossI never understood the poor reaction to using these medications for hair loss. By all means, if you don't want to try it don't, but these threads never cease to produce a number of comments getting visibly upset at guys using these drugs, even if they're doing so at negligible cost with no side effects. It's hilarious that the same guys who will tell you finasteride will fuck up your HPTA and cause permanent libido problems will recommend gear no problem. I can guarantee you there is a much, muc… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 02:46 AM |
| 8 | Let's talk about hair lossThis is highly unlikely. While I don't doubt your story (the doctor calling in the wrong thing repeatedly and then refusing to call in the 5 mg prescription), I highly doubt he's in Merck's pocket. It's simply too risky for a doctor to have associations like that. This sort of thing leads to a revoked license pretty much instantly. Merck would have to pay him several times his salary for it to be even remotely worth the risk, and he's not generating even close to that much revenue for Merck by d… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Let's talk about hair lossMy understanding is that this stuff will go quite a ways in preventing hair loss, but not regrowing it. Once the follicles are dead and no longer producing hair you're out of luck. So if you look like Jude Law, you need a transplant to regain hair in the bald areas and then medications to maintain it. If your hair if basically full, but you can tell things are going south with a thinning crown or temples, you can hop on these medications and slow the progression pretty considerably. At the very … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 02:08 AM |
| 7 | FR: Tinder Date with more red flags than a People's RevolutionI was on this Tinder date once. She was late on top of it and made me sit at the bar for about 20 minutes alone before showing up. When she arrived she was about 30 lbs heavier and significantly less attractive than her pictures. In hindsight, I should've walked out right then, but blue pill conditioning is a bitch so I stayed for another 10 minutes and tried to indulge her in conversation. It was like talking to a bland 13 year old. I can't believe it took me 10 minutes to finally look her in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 11:00 PM |
| 3 | FR: Tinder Date with more red flags than a People's RevolutionI literally can't even spend time with these women pretending she'd have a chance to be my sexual equal, even if it's a pump and dump. It feels wrong, and the fact that she doesn't find it weird that we're so different in SMV, conversational skill, and general life success is just another reminder that guys like me (but with blue pill attitudes) regularly treat 5s with no personality like Goddesses. The fact that OP nearly hit it is astounding to me. If you're thinking about hitting a drug using… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 10:52 PM |
| 10 | Taking GayLubeOil's Advice: My Authentic MGTOW ExperienceSadly the majority of these people are not entrepreneurs and they are not enjoying the fruits of their labor. We overestimate the percentage of the population that works 9-5, and we underestimate those still working basically like slaves, but on a different schedule. The thing we underestimate most is the number of people (women) off spending money that some guy earned at his 9-5. There are guys who work day to day, getting work on manual labor projects. There are others who work night shifts. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Your new self-esteem may be a vulnerability -- Dealing with her complimentsYup, this is pretty much how all my encounters with women go now. A staple comment from plates in the first month or so is, "It freaks me out how much I like you, and I just can't read you at all. It's so frustrating." That's all a consequence of amused mastery and non-reciprocal/lopsided praise. The next stage is really important though, because you're going to want to fulfill these girls' wishes. You're going to want to please them (due to blue pill conditioning), and you can do this by comply… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/16 04:33 AM |
| 15 | How to Flirt with Women: Flirting 101The thing about inviting her home is it's one of those things you can only fuck up. She's not stepping through your door unless she's already decided she's willing to fuck you, but she might change her mind at any moment, and she wants the option to do so basically up until the moment you both start taking each others' clothes off. The key is really plausible deniability on her part. You have to leave her a way out, and often the best way to do this is to keep things extremely innocent when it c… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/16 04:11 AM |
| 11 | That's who it took to replace meEverything in life is RP because it's a framework/model of the social world. However, not everything is worth posting about. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 06:58 PM |
| 3 | I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you.Being a respectful, courteous, interesting, feminine lady is apparently now a rare talent worth thousands per hour. (In fairness, I have no doubt that the market is almost as depressing for women seeking a confident, masculine man.) This depends. I've found that many, many women exhibit these traits... for a day or two, and they won't be as hot as the escort. Make no mistake, the majority of what she charges comes from her body. If she was your average skinny girl with small tits and a beer pouc… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Your new self-esteem may be a vulnerability -- Dealing with her complimentsI don't think any of this is necessary except maybe the last one. Save it for instances when comfort game is truly required. A direct compliment to you is a shit test. Comfort game is for when your plate is distressed because you've been giving her the run around on commitment for the last 3 months of fucking. It's for when she's had a shit day and come up directly against one of her insecurities. Even then I find the best thing to do is simply establish physical contact, look her in the eye, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Your new self-esteem may be a vulnerability -- Dealing with her complimentsYup, most common in HB 5s. Also known as, "the girl you're banging's ugly best friend." I've encountered quite a few of these, and typically they're hungry for dick, but know they can't get dick up to the standards of their hotter friends. These are the same girls who try to poke holes in guys for doing things like exercising and watching their diet (usually calling it pure vanity while they stuff their face with a pub cheeseburger). They hate on "bros," which is a term they apply to any guy who… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Your new self-esteem may be a vulnerability -- Dealing with her compliments"Look at how not slutty I am, commitment please!" I know nothing about these girls or the situations, but don't underestimate their ability to lie. Another common variant of this is you're the first new guy. I've seen plenty of girls continually bang their ex for the better part of two years and consider themselves basically celibate in that time because it's not a new dick. This seems to be far more common than women who are willing to not have sex for several years. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Your new self-esteem may be a vulnerability -- Dealing with her complimentsThis is a fantastic post. So unbelievably relevant to the successful RP man's life, while most of this sub is dedicated to bringing reformed betas up to speed on how to get laid at will. You start lifting, you max out your appearance, you learn how to fuck her properly, and you gain that cocky-confident attitude that has her wondering what the fuck you're thinking all the time. Now what? Your game is so tight that she rarely shit tests you, and when she does you don't even notice. Now you start … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 03:57 PM |
| 9 | If you need hard evidence that AWALT, then look no further than this Instagram page.A solid LTR prospect should have a best girl friend and solid friend group. Someone of decent value should like her for something other than her vagina, and the best way to verify this is to look at her friend group. However, if her friends are riding the CC, don't even bother. Women are motivated by social praise. Much like teenagers, they reject traditional advice and care more about their peers' opinions of them than their family's or what they know is good advice for sustained happiness. I'l… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | No One Cares About Your "Genes"Not a great example. Also quite tall for an Indian dude in India, but the point stands. Anyone can be a top 20% guy. The uglier or shorter you are, the more work it takes. If you're 6 ft+ with great facial aesthetics, it takes basically no work. 5'9" with great facial aesthetics, about 6 months in the gym with a good diet. 5'6" with great facial aesthetics, a few years in the gym with good diet and a bit of charm. and so on But it doesn't matter, because you should be doing everything to improve… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | No One Cares About Your "Genes"Hasn't been my experience. You have to appeal to the ugly fat dude's insecurities. Why doesn't the ugly fat man want to hire the guy with model looks? Because he thinks the attractive man doesn't approve of him or thinks he's better than him. Truthfully, our gut instincts are to think of people who are more attractive than us as better than us. When these same people appeal to us we are overjoyed to get approval from someone we secretly hold in high esteem. We're all jealous, insecure assholes u… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 09:52 PM |
| 3 | The culture of this subreddit is almost completely beta now.Almost everything that needs to be written has been written. The only reason it is important to keep posting quality content is that the community needs to stay alive so we can continue to make small strides towards better understanding of how men can get what they want from their lives in a post-feminism world. It's also good practice to chew on the ideas yourself and post your own thoughts for criticism rather than just read and absorb the sidebar, so sometimes revisiting an old idea has its b… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 09:45 PM |
| 2 | The culture of this subreddit is almost completely beta now.This is some middle school poetry-level dogshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 08:44 PM |
| 29 | The Bluest of Pills: guy learns his LTR is a former prostitute, is disgusted; relationships subreddit shames, tells him he's an insecure douchebagOther people will always tell you that you deserve what you have to offer. The truth is you deserve what you can get, and you shouldn't have to settle for less. We bash on women for exploiting their advantage, but it's just the game. It's the economy. Society loves to put people in their place, and feminism is telling women they don't need to play by those rules. TRP's central message is: neither do you. Other people see an economy, one that they are a part of. They don't want to see someone els… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 08:43 PM |
| 7 | The culture of this subreddit is almost completely beta now.I disagree with this sentiment. Self improvement is and always has been an important part of TRP. The process is essentially to unplug from reality, realize that you have a choice in things, and then realize that you don't really have a choice in things until you're in the top 10-20% of men unless you go MGTOW. First you need to see that the sidebar posts match your own experience with the world, that we're not completely full of shit. Then you need to address your weaknesses so you can take adv… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 08:26 PM |
| 13 | The culture of this subreddit is almost completely beta now.There are a few types of posts here that bother me, generally they are anecdotal posts that simply hate on women, and the top comment is something about "getting what they deserve" or "see guys, never get married." It's masturbatory at best. What did I learn from that post? That one woman was a bitch? You could write the same types of posts about individual men with your own set of made up stereotypes. We're here to prepare ourselves for real, pervasive trends that present among the vast majorit… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 08:20 PM |
| 1 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.Huh, that's 2015-2016, so I think it changes if you look at the last 5 years or so, but yeah you're right about that. One of my interviewers had told me the year I applied that most applicants were female now and it had been that way for a few years. Maybe he was talking about that particular school. It was in NYC and just about every female premed in the world gets wet just thinking about living the Sex and the City lifestyle through med school. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Turn Your Tragedy Into Success - How A Minor Stroke Saved My Life.We make fun of cliches, but often they hold some real truth, and it's true that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You'd be amazed at what the human body can overcome as long as your heart and your brain are still doing their job. I've seen guys on the brink of death come back to become healthier and fitter than 99% of the population. Glad you decided to share your story. I had a similar situation a few years ago. All within about 3 months I lost my job (company fired everyone), found out… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Dad accused of raping daughter saved by mention of ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’I mean a guy who isn't "attractive enough" can't approach a woman without worrying about being called a creep. This is the biggest contributing factor. Back when men could freely practice their game with nothing more than an eye roll upon rejection there was a lot more room for success (because you could afford more failure) if you weren't top 20%. Now anyone under 5'10", 165, and fit with a good wardrobe and solid game has his reputation to worry about every time he tries to get his dick wet. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.I'd disagree again. Also, it depends on the type of surgeon. A trauma surgeon operating on a man fresh from a car crash who was admitted unconscious doesn't need the same type of skills with his patient because he's just a limp body. On the other hand an orthopedic or general surgeon definitely has to consider the patients point of view and what they're looking for as an outcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.You have zero understanding of medicine. This is just misinformed, and we're letting these attitudes pervade into the medical world and influence what was previously sound science. Introducing more women into clinical trials for the sake of gathering more data on how the drugs specifically affect women only muddies the data for everyone. Remember that whole, "test one variable at a time," principle you learned in high school chemistry? Those of us actually involved in scientific inquiry still be… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 03:52 PM |
| 7 | Women Need the Three D's: Dick, Direction, and Don't ListenWe have to make the right distinctions, and luckily TRP is pretty good at calling out bullshit. I make sure to do my part in keeping us clean as far as the complete bullshit goes, but I can only be in so many places at once, and any community of this nature is going to get a bit outlandish with its claims. I often let the sweeping generalizations about women slide, but I'm hoping the sub develops a more sophisticated model of both men and women over the next few years. As far as women being attr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 06:27 AM |
| 23 | she lied but it was years ago, now what?If you're lucky it'll all come within a year. You'll find out about everything eventually, and she's not telling you for your sake, she's doing it for hers. In the relationship that sealed TRP for me I was lucky enough to hear about 5 guys in one "trickle." Who knows, there may have been more, but she wasn't around even 5 minutes after she told me, so there was no chance for further elaboration, though I'm fairly sure there would've been more. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Last year, I crippled myself, possibly for life. Now, I'm trying to reevaluate my masculinity.If you aren't seeing a non-conservative physical therapist about this problem, do so immediately. That's likely your first line of defense as doctors can often be pessimistic or conservative about injuries. "You'll never walk again" has been spouted by too many doctors to patients that would go on to be more physically fit and capable than 99% of the population. Also, you should be regularly checking in with an orthopedic surgeon as traditional medicine offers a lot of great solutions to a small… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 02:43 AM |
| 29 | Last year, I crippled myself, possibly for life. Now, I'm trying to reevaluate my masculinity.You should share this story. I'd understand if it's too specific and you'd be identified, but seriously this is the sort of shit that keeps us motivated when times are tough. I've had shit not even half this bad happen to me and I've considered sharing the progress I've made on the year. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Despite what this sub tells you, your unicorn probably existsone of those laws specifically says to cater to emotions instead of logic as humans are more susceptible to the former When looking to increase your own personal gain, cater to the emotions. When looking to mentor another human being, tough love is underrated. You can't use emotions to free a man from his plugged in mental state and help him transition into a logical thought process in which he thinks for himself. We'll lose some blue pill men along the way, but do we care? No. We're here to dis… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 06:15 PM |
| 3 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.That's in 2015-16. If you look through their history you'll find they are at the forefront of the social justice in medicine. In recent years they've toned down on female admits because the female application pool is actually larger than the male application pool. However, for years they prided themselves on admitting a greater number of female students and minorities than are prevalent in the general population as a way of evening things out. The fact that they've stopped as things approach par… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 06:04 PM |
| 9 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.On TRP, when presented with information that objectively opposes one's established bias, men actually yield and change their view instead of hamstering up a solution for why they are still correct. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Imposter SyndromeI don't think you ever feel like you're in the top 20%. That's the point. If you're improving yourself it will never seem like enough. I've got a better career, better conversation skills, and a better body than 90% of guys my age. I still feel an itch because I haven't been to the gym since Saturday. I feel unsure about my abilities as a future physician and current scientist because I'm behind in my studies right now. I question my likability after group events with new people if I make even o… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Fucked this girl out of a recent relationship with Army Man whilst he was calling and texting her non stopJust remember that if she can do it to him, she can do it to you. I've been in this situation before, but I wouldn't dream of lining up for that guy's old job. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 04:25 PM |
| 5 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.Well, that's not true, but you will find most of the top schools (specifically UCSF) touting very high female percentages and low male percentages as a positive thing. I never understood why overcompensation was lauded so highly in this country. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 04:06 PM |
| 3 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.59% of my class is female, but I'm pretty sure the national average is closer to 50:50. I agree with the female dominated environment of the hospital, but honestly I think being a man (specifically being a man who cares about his appearance) has only helped in my medical education. Nurses are more willing to help me out, while they get bitchy towards my female classmates (especially if they are better looking). The one demographic I can't stand are post-wall female doctors, specifically in the 4… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 04:02 PM |
| 13 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.Don't underestimate the power of social skills in being a doctor though. The patient interview is extremely important, and it will often reveal some very pertinent information. Ultimately you go off of objective test results, but the patient will often be the best source of information for symptoms and which tests to order. In emergency situations or surgery this is often not the case, so I don't give a fuck if my trauma surgeon is a neo-nazi, but in a routine visit I've seen doctors miss a diag… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 03:53 PM |
| 30 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.I'm in medical school specifically to provide inferior care to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 03:46 PM |
| 54 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.You know what though? This attitude is being taken on by more than just patients, and it's really killing me. At my medical school (top tier, very committed to "social justice") we have at least one patient paraded in front of us every month in a mandatory session. The MDs in charge of the program (who only practice once a week now in a shitty free clinic and never see serious cases) just let these patients tell us that our care is useless unless we can connect with the patient. I understand tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 03:44 PM |
| 13 | TwoX has their daily circlejerk about how medicine is misogynist. Motherfucking CARDIOLOGIST shows up to disprove them - gets downvoted and called a shitlord.As a medical student and someone who worked in translational medicine for 3 years prior, this really infuriates me from a scientific perspective, a business perspective, and a social perspective. This is nothing more than another stab at winning the oppression Olympics. So, here's the argument they're making in a nutshell. Women aren't exactly the same as the model organism they use in human clinical trials (in this case, mostly men, but many women are still included), so they're getting the raw… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Imposter SyndromeThis is for more than just the road ahead. I've seen guys throw away opportunities left and right because they don't see themselves as "that kind of guy." I kid you not, I know guys who refuse to dress well because the image is something they are uncomfortable with. These same guys avoid working out, wearing cologne, picking up interesting activities that women would be attracted to, etc... Often they've spent a lifetime looking at guys who do these things and being jealous, justifying their jea… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 02:23 PM |
| 29 | HB 5.5 loses her mind when I don't buy her dinner (FR)You completely fell into her frame by continuing to argue with her. You made it clear that you actually cared about her accusations and wanted to prove her wrong, which is why she continued to pursue insulting what she believed to be your negative qualities. Next time disregard her and walk. I would've walked by the time she said she might bail if she had better plans. Not that it matters, but if you held her to that standard you'd have seen much better behavior from her. Hopefully you'd be gone… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 11:45 PM |
| 1 | My friend's formerly fat fiance got plastic surgery.Why would I put in more work than I have to? I'd rather spend my time on my career. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 09:33 PM |
| 3 | You Are Not A Special CaseEven explicitly state that cheating is a deal breaker. Somewhere between your mouth and her ear this gets translated to, "I better do a good job of hiding my 'drunken mistake' because he said that cheating is a deal breaker." Punishment is a poor deterrent for bad behavior. Prevention in the form of lack of opportunity works much better. That's one of the central tenants of crime prevention. Most criminals don't think about the consequences before committing a crime. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 09:14 PM |
| 2 | You Are Not A Special CaseIf your goal is longer relationships than 2 years I can't offer any advice. I've gone up to 3 years but I really have no desire for it anymore. If you're still focused on raising a family it's going to be next to impossible to avoid emotional attachment. By definition there will (hopefully) only be one mother of your children. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | You Are Not A Special CaseAnd you still go through a lot of risk. I think you'll find that once you get the right attitude, there is very little risk to LTRs and extended sexual relationships. Be careful not to tie up your friends in the relationship (always keep her as your girl, never let her into the group as a full member), and obviously don't get married and tie your finances into it. Otherwise, if you've been through enough LTRs there is very little risk. Keep your game strong and you won't miss a beat upon breakin… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 08:47 PM |
| 2 | You Are Not A Special CaseOne of the major points of TRP is that you will never measure up to the rush of a new and exciting man. People think there's a root cause, but usually it goes like this. Guy and girl are in a happy relationship. Girl meets Chad through work/school. He charms her a bit. Girl sabotages relationship and creates drama. Anything guy doesn't do perfectly is criticized and exaggerated to rationalize her feelings for new and exciting Chad. Girl complains to girlfriends about boyfriend. Girlfriends get o… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 08:35 PM |
| 1 | My friend's formerly fat fiance got plastic surgery.Touche, but my exposure to them becomes more and more limited. I'm a medical student who also does research and is involved in several entrepreneurial pursuits. The more I progress professionally the less exposure I have to these types of girls, and hunting for them in a bar is tedious because you have to filter through the basic white girls and party girls with shitty hourly jobs and a desire to marry rich. I used to be exposed to fresh new 22-24 year old first year PharmD and PhD students on a… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 08:27 PM |
| 2 | You Are Not A Special CaseThe point is that there is no such thing as a unicorn. No such thing as a girl who won't cheat. Mother Teresa would cheat in the right circumstances, which is why we say AWALT. Sure, some girls are better than others, but circumstance is the bigger factor in my experience. If you're entering into an LTR, you are doing so with a girl who is willing to cheat on you. They're all willing to cheat on you, but if you really want an LTR for companionship (and you're mentally prepared for it), your best… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 08:22 PM |
| 1 | My friend's formerly fat fiance got plastic surgery.Yeah, I've got my solid pics put together and medical school can make getting out and about difficult. Sometimes I don't have the time or energy to go "hunting," so I let them come to me. Tinder offers a very convenient solution to this problem, but Tinder chicks get automatically downgraded to "unimportant" status pretty much regardless. Because the possibility of old/misleading pics exists, if they make things even remotely inconvenient I bail. Also, just fuck women lawyers in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 08:09 PM |
| 5 | You Are Not A Special CaseDepends on how you define success. Women were still cheating, but more people were resisting divorce. More infidelity was swept under the rug. Punishment does not prevent bad behavior. Lack of opportunity prevents bad behavior. We've known this for a long time. It's why in the military/police force they'll occupy all the men's free time with menial tasks. Less free time = less opportunity for getting into trouble = less trouble overall. Increasing punishment for crimes does not lower crime rates… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 10:57 PM |
| 7 | You Are Not A Special CaseThe best strategy for an LTR is limiting her ability to cheat. That means keeping strict personal boundaries and rules about what is acceptable and unacceptable, and ensuring she's staying in an environment where her exposure to new Chads is relatively limited. I can't tell you how many women I dated in my beta years who left, completely changed, or cheated once they entered a new environment filled with Chads. Starting a new school program? New job with lots of young people? Trip to Europe stay… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 10:47 PM |
| 11 | My friend's formerly fat fiance got plastic surgery.I'll call bullshit when I see it. Reality is that we really don't know the statistics. We only have common sense, not predictive abilities. We know that this is a possibility. That's about it. Marriage stats show that most first marriages actually do hold up. No point in making the stats worse than they are. Feminists do that. Does it get better or worse in this scenario? We don't know. My philosophy is don't bet your bank account on it. If you wouldn't put your life savings on red, why would yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 10:33 PM |
| 9 | My friend's formerly fat fiance got plastic surgery.I find whether or not she was considered hot in middle/high school is the most important factor in her general feeling of entitlement. I've met girls off tinder who have gained 30-40 pounds since their pictures (usually taken in late high school/early college), and they think they are still pretty. I still remember showing up to a bar to meet a girl, seeing she had gained a solid 50 lbs since the photos, and then watch her act noticeably displeased because she thought I'd be taller (I'm 5'10", a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 10:28 PM |
| 2 | My friend's formerly fat fiance got plastic surgery.TRP thinking is actually a very poor predictor of future behavior, especially from one person, and especially without background on their past, present, and their future situation. What I've found is that situation is a far greater predictor than the individual woman. AWALT is AWALT because any woman possesses that ability. Yes, some are a greater flight risk than others, but I've seen grade A sluts act like a class act while they navigate a complicated LDR and I've seen good girls cheat on thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 10:14 PM |
| 13 | Redpill Truths: My Experience as an Uber DriverThank you for making this point He's seeing the world through the red pill lens. Should it surprise anyone that a person working in the service industry, who is exposed to a huge swath of people using a service that is highly utilized by those living a party lifestyle, is seeing these bad behaviors? We know these things happen, so seeing them in person does little more for us than reaffirm that this behavior exists and remind us to be wary. What would be useful (though we'll never really have th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 10:02 PM |
| 12 | Radio broadcasters list the signs of being a "man-child"The whole thing is TRP. You have to realize that none of the behaviors they are shaming are deal breakers. They are demonstrations of high value to her, no matter how ridiculous it may seem. She clearly admires this guy(s), but can't get him into her frame. There you go, that's the turn on. It basically breaks down to a few qualities, rather than 33. He's immature and literally childish, he's unavailable and socially independent, he's ambiguous and unwilling to commit. The immature and childish … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/16 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.As is, that shirt is unnecessary. It's important that the shirt be snug, not tight, and that it is snug in key places (arms and chest) while being looser in others (waist, abs) to avoid the "tight shirt" look. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/16 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.You know who mostly thinks that guy looks like a douchebag? Jealous guys. These are attitudes literally derived from jealousy of men to keep other men from exploiting their superior looks. While you have to be cognizant of people's attitudes towards your outfits (if you get labeled a douchebag by overdoing it then you lose societal standing and become invalidated), women's tolerance for this is much higher than men's. Many men will consider any jacked guy to be inherently "bad" and "bro-y". They… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/16 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.That was a bad example and I realize that now. I knew I wanted to use him as an example (he has an entire video on how the shirts he wears make him look small), but I picked a bad picture. He's got his arms bent so his biceps are filling out the sleeves. A better example is how he looks in this pic vs. his actual physique. It's also worth noting that once you get to a certain size and definition, it's hard to find clothing that doesn't make you look good. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.I think most guys objecting here are forgetting the effect body fat has in making you physically larger. I went into this with the assumption that you've been lifting for a year and are under 15% BF. If you're 6' and 180 lbs at 12% BF or lower, you're going to look like you're swimming in a large shirt. If you're 6' and 180 lbs at 18% BF, you'll burst out of a small, but if you're 18% BF, you need to get leaner to benefit from wearing fitted clothing anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.I did have an entire section on not going overboard as well as tons of examples of clothing that actually fits. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.It was a basic guideline. You're probably a small or medium. Obviously some brands are different than others, and once you leave the US things get much more reasonably sized. The point was to not let your ego get to you. Lots of guys need to feel big, so they buy the large shirt that's actually not a great fit. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.Worth noting that once you get down to much lower bodyfat percentiles you'll start to look a lot bigger but actually be more compact. Your muscles will start to "pop" around 13-14% bodyfat, and they'll be very prominent at 10-11%, but if you're a natural lifter who's about average height within 2-3 inches, you'll have a small waist (~29"-32"). Also, you'll probably have arms that aren't that big compared to the average chunky guy, but look huge due to definition. Personally, I'm 5'10", 175 lbs, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 06:25 PM |
| 34 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.Your priorities are your priorities. I'm not telling you that you need to wear clothes that fit 24/7. I'm telling you that when you wear oversized t-shirts girls don't care how big your biceps are. While I wholeheartedly agree with your last sentiment, we're all about maximizing our personal gain on TRP. Maybe confidence and attitude are 80% of it, but you'll get your foot in the door with more women by dressing in a way that showcases your physique tastefully. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 10:24 PM |
| 11 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.I'm not sure what you're "breaking to me" here aside from the knowledge that you haven't put in the work to put on any size through lifting and proper nutrition. Sure you manage. Even short, skinny fat guys get some every once in a while, but you're leaving a ton of potential on the table here. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 10:18 PM |
| 1 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeYeah but with steroids you go bald much, much faster. If you would've lost it at 40, you'll lose it in your 20s instead. If you're showing slight signs of balding in your 20s, I say for most guys it's worth it to be jacked naturally while following the methods to keep your hair. Save the steroids for your 30s when your hair is going anyway and bald can be a fitting look. It's pretty rare for a guy to look truly good bald in his 20s. It happens, but he's got to have model-level facial aesthetics. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Stop Using Fictional Movies to Guide Your Alpha JourneyIt's an analogy, but we draw absolutely nothing from the matrix and even discourage that (and all movie/tv show comparisons) in our rules for posting. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 02:07 AM |
| 1 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionBottom 10% of guys have less than 1% of total sexual partners though. This thread is full of wishful thinking. VR is not going to turn things around for anyone other than the guys who use it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 02:02 AM |
| 2 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionIt's just starting to become acceptable for men to have like a fleshlight or similar that you can hide in your closet or something Is it though? Imagine you're at a house party and the host's fleshlight falls out of his closet. What do you think the reaction would be? Definitely a far cry from a woman's vibrator rolling out from under the bed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 02:01 AM |
| 2 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeThis has nothing to do with a moral high horse. It's an objective analysis of whether or not it's worth it. When I see a guy go bald for the sake of 20 lbs of muscle and more definition in his abs, I question his motivations. If he did it for women, he did it wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 01:53 AM |
| 1 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeYou're missing the point here. The second guy doesn't have to compromise, many guys do. I'd say about half the guys I meet get some sort of side effects from steroids eventually. Whether it's gyno, hair loss, psychological disturbances, bad skin/acne, whatever, it will ultimately not be worth it for him to upgrade his body at the cost of one of those problems. So for many guys it's a choice between the jacked natural body or the steroid body with noticeable hair loss. For some guys they'd even h… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 01:51 AM |
| 1 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeYou gotta do cardio 3-4x a week, watch your macros, eat every 3 hours, monitor blood sugar levels etc. You do not have to do any of that aside from watch your macros to get his physique. He's not that big and ~10% body fat. Easily attainable. You don't need cardio, you need the right number of calories. You definitely don't need to eat every 3 hours (meal frequency has been shown to be unimportant), and you definitely don't need to monitor blood sugar levels to be 10% body fat. That last one is … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 01:27 AM |
| -4 | Marissa Mayer, the Yahoo CEO who flushed the company down the toilet will end up with around $219 million after being sold to Verizon todayLet's be somewhat reasonable here. Mayer is an intelligent person with a hell of a resume. Do I think she deserves everything she has? No. But she does deserve to be rich and influential. Take away gender and you've got a woman who turned down some really big money and good lifestyle jobs (top consulting firms, academic positions, coding positions at established tech giants) to take a risk working at a startup (Google). That risk paid off. Was she a bit of an affirmative action case? Undoubtedly… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 01:12 AM |
| 2 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeI actually upvoted your comment because Most of your fitness models are on steroids. is true. However, the rest I totally disagree with. Where do I ever mention "cheating"? I don't, because I don't care that it's cheating. If you know you can take steroids and not suffer the side effects, take steroids. Otherwise, don't. What does it matter if pro-athletes take steroids? They have to be bigger and stronger than other people, you don't. You don't have to be more jacked than other jacked guys eith… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 06:43 PM |
| 0 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionWho's going to buy a girl a drink when they only get starfish beta sex IRL, and their VR waifu realistically fucks them silly on a moment's notice? Probably 99% of the male population. The stigma behind it will keep at least 95% of men from ever trying it. Of that 5%, the cost of a good VR system and sex doll will keep 80% away. You're left with the 1% of the population that never got any anyway, so the SMP remains unaffected. Not only will fake sex not measure up to real sex (in realism, sensat… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 06:19 PM |
| 17 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeAnother thing to experiment with for face gains is facial hair. A beard can frame the face. It can also hide poor jaw structure. One of my best friends had a round face with an odd chin his whole life. When he grew his beard it had a similar effect as Dan Bilzerian. Just keep it short. A short, thick beard is a huge plus for most women, especially if you're over 25. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 01:32 AM |
| 3 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeDepends on height. I think at 5'10" you need to be 160 if you're putting the bar at 10%. Basically add or subtract 5 lbs per inch and that's the minimum for you to be actually muscular and lean. If you're skinnier than that you look "fit" but not strong. It's kind of useless to look fit but not strong. You lose the whole appeal. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 01:26 AM |
| 6 | To maximise your aesthetics, low body-fat is key, not sizeDrugs can be a bad idea for some guys for a few reasons, some of them health related, some of them appearance related, and some of them psychologically related. You can achieve the ideal or near ideal "aesthetic" physique with 5 years of training naturally, and you'll be pretty damn close in 2 years. So there's not a need to take drugs unless you are really into strength training/bodybuilding for the sport, or if you're just too impatient (which is frankly ridiculous, because it will take you 1-… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 01:17 AM |
| 17 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionSupply and demand. If guys check out and it makes a noticeable difference in the SMP, guys will check back in. The moment they see that women have gotten thirstier, they'll be back in the bars showering them with attention. At most this would be a worldwide craze that somehow (unlikely) avoids the taboo reputation and captures a significant number of men. There will be a one year period where women never lower their standards, but notice they're getting hit on less often. Articles in shit-tier m… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 12:53 AM |
| 6 | VR will diminish the beta bux optionI think you're all fucking delusional if you think this is really going to make a noticeable difference. 1) The guys who decide to opt out of the SMP for this will be the guys who don't get any already. 2) Getting women has always been more about the conquest and the psychological turn on rather than the physical stimulation. If stimulation and sensation was really that important, we'd all have fleshlights and exclusively jerk off with lube. 3) This will be taboo as fuck and further condemned by… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 12:42 AM |
| 27 | The UK Might Be Putting an End to Divorce Rape in Their NationThe concept of alimony makes sense in theory if the woman took off time from work or made tangible career sacrifices, but the way it's calculated (as a percentage of the man's pay) is fucking ridiculous. I'd be completely fine with alimony if we based it on lost pay and lost opportunity due to sacrifices made by a woman to manage the household and care for the children, and if it were equal between genders. If a woman has made an actual sacrifice for the marriage (given up years of work to care … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 01:35 PM |
| 6 | The UK Might Be Putting an End to Divorce Rape in Their NationI've long said that divorce settlements should be based on an estimation of lost potential earnings and sacrifices made for the sake of the family, and child support should be monitored by requiring the receiving parent to account for where the money was spent each month. It's not that difficult a concept, and it would only be mildly difficult to set up. You'd think with the number of rich old men being taken to the cleaners this would be easy to push, but the fem-centered nature of our society … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Why You Should Take A Break From The Red Pill.I literally have a draft of a post on this exact topic. It also addresses how you can actually get better with TRP principles by developing them on your own. It will be my first post in 6-7 months. It's very important to leave the TRP bubble, because we're starting to sound like an echo chamber and we're losing our sense of reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 05:53 AM |
| 2 | 30-year-old woman on OKCupid subreddit is frustrated upon seeing men her own age dating younger girls. The Wall is a harsh and unforgiving master indeed.Yes because things have been "too good to be true" for women most of their lives. When someone makes a fake Tinder profile with a hot woman, all the guys who match assume it's a bot. When a mediocre woman matches with a fake 10/10 model they're giving out their address and phone number in the first 10 messages. That's just how their life has been so far, why question anything? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 04:29 PM |
| 4 | 30-year-old woman on OKCupid subreddit is frustrated upon seeing men her own age dating younger girls. The Wall is a harsh and unforgiving master indeed.Why the fuck would you stick around with this type of woman long enough that you would need to disclose that? What moral obligation do you have to them also? If you wanna be moral about it and not waste her precious last few years of beta hunting, be quick about it. Don't be like me and bang for 6 months. Get in and get out. Hell, that sort of blatant rejection is often a wakeup call. I've seen women go from pumped and dumped to married to an appropriate level beta in under a year. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Feminist rails against columnist simply for stating women are responsible for their own actionsBecause someone will take care of them. And also because Becky just made out with Jason and fuck that bitch, we're doing shots. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 09:22 AM |
| 8 | Feminist rails against columnist simply for stating women are responsible for their own actionsI once made this argument to a feminist. She was a medical student. I asked her, "So do you tell your patients to sue McDonald's instead of telling them to go on a diet to avoid fat-shaming them?" If there's something that can be done to prevent it, just do that thing. It's called personal responsibility, and it's part of becoming an adult. Realizing that the world isn't fair. The reason feminists preach this way is their worried about "victim shaming." It's insane that they think you can't simu… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 09:18 AM |
| 12 | Feminist rails against columnist simply for stating women are responsible for their own actionsThere are so many instances of this it's not even funny. Feminists are the only "victimized" group that consistently take the path of blaming others. When broke as fuck manual laborers in tornado alley continue to build their houses where tornados come through (because it's their only option for livelihood), people don't lobby congress to fund research to stop the tornados, they ask why they don't move elsewhere. When a guy gets drunk in a rough bar and gets robbed or provoked, people don't comf… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 09:12 AM |
| 7 | Feminist rails against columnist simply for stating women are responsible for their own actionsExactly. Rape is a morally reprehensible thing that we've been taught, rightly, to avoid. It is at an absolute low in history but feminists expanded the criteria for rape to turn a relatively small issue (that is really only the fucked up actions of a tiny minority) into an attack against masculinity. Feminists are scrambling for evidence that they are marginalized, but there's not much to work off of, so they created rape culture. They cultivated false statistics by rearranging definitions and … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 08:59 AM |
| 161 | 30-year-old woman on OKCupid subreddit is frustrated upon seeing men her own age dating younger girls. The Wall is a harsh and unforgiving master indeed.This is the true wall. This is where guys who are 30-40 can really cash in hard. Guys on here act like the wall is about declining looks, but that's not it at all. No matter how bad she looks there are always a thousand thirsty betas (and a few Chads with a preference for older women) willing to fuck. Women never lose the advantage in the dating game. It gets smaller, but they keep the advantage in dating/sex forever. They lose the advantage in the commitment game, which they never had, but they… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 08:43 AM |
| 58 | 30-year-old woman on OKCupid subreddit is frustrated upon seeing men her own age dating younger girls. The Wall is a harsh and unforgiving master indeed.Your whole rant about "how women behave in their teens and 20s" has me laughing pretty hard. I had a plate who was 32 years old who I just soft nexted last week. Now, she was very attractive for a 32 year old; yoga instructor, C cups, decent face, a solid 7, but she was so used to punching out of her league that despite being 32 and attractive, she was single. After we'd fuck she'd always talk about guys she used to date. They were all insanely successful. She was from a very connected family, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Why Sex is Different for Men Women and on the Double Standards Placed by those WomenA high n-count is the biggest yellow flag in the book, but it's not a red flag. It's the yellow flag that I've yet to see not lead to a red flag, but it's still not intrinsically bad. I'll go through the logic because it's interesting. Logically, a high n-count isn't a bad thing on it's own from the perspective of, "will she be a kind, loyal, and dedicated partner?" You say it shows lack of self control and self worth, but it's possible she's very open towards sex and isn't fighting her urges or… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 07:23 AM |
| 3 | LTR went to the counselor...If you say this explicitly, you are effectively nuking the relationship in the long term. In the short term she might realize she'll lose you and revert back, but in the long run she'll come to the realization that you're being a dick. Which, to be fair, would be true (that's not your problem though), but women like dicks. They just often don't like dicks that aren't at all subtle about it, mostly because being seen in a relationship with a guy who "mistreats" her is a social pitfall. You will h… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 07:11 AM |
| 9 | Why Sex is Different for Men Women and on the Double Standards Placed by those WomenIn my experience, her lack of experience doesn't matter. All sluts had an n-count of 0 at one point, many of them well into their twenties. You need to simply evaluate her behavior. Does she get worked up when hot guys come in the room? Is she craving a long steady relationship with a man of reasonable attractiveness and social standing given what she brings to the table, or is she craving being bent over the table by the jacked bartender while you buy her drinks? The girl who inspired me to joi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 11:23 AM |
| 19 | Why Sex is Different for Men Women and on the Double Standards Placed by those WomenThe only thing I disagree with here is that sluts have necessarily been fucked better than girls with a low n-count. Some of the hardest to please women I've been with have had low n-counts and exes that knew every crevice of their body. Most one night stand sex is low quality, whether because the guy can't get her off or because he just doesn't care enough to do so. If she hasn't had any long-term relationships then there's a solid chance she's never had great sex. I've met countless sluts that… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 11:08 AM |
| 2 | I come here often but more and more often the posts are becoming make believe.The specific endorsed contributor you're talking about has been on my radar for a while. What he's done is identified the tone that TRP responds to and used it to lure the gullible masses. He fits the typical stereotype of what TRP thinks of as a dominant man (tall and in shape) and he speaks with an authoritative tone. Honestly that's all it takes. I could write a post right now that was complete bullshit and would still get 300+ upvotes simply because I'm endorsed (doesn't show up on askTRP fo… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 06:22 PM |
| 7 | By the Time You've Had 'the talk', She's Already Packed and Planned Her ExitNever talk before the breakup, and never talk after the breakup. Closure is an excuse for her to rationalize her behavior. If she cheats or generally did something that reflects poorly on her, she's going to want to resolve things before going separate ways. I've even had women try to resolve things and get back together even when she knows she's going to end it eventually. She doesn't want to end things on a sour note that affects her self-image. At some point, either before or after the breaku… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?Okay I'm breathing a sigh of relief here. Sometimes guys just try to jump ship without knowing what they're getting themselves into. Sounds like you know what you're doing. Definitely emphasize your EMT experience. I know plenty of people in medical school with similar experiences to your own. I think it actually strengthens your application that you're leaving a high paying profession (as opposed to the dancers, actors, and others who are obviously fleeing a failed dream), just obviously don't … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 10:41 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?It's one thing to say you feel unfulfilled by your career, it's another to put in the work required in this profession. There will be times, many times when you'll be wondering why the fuck you left behind good money and relaxation for "fulfilling" work, so think this through carefully. Not all doctors are actually fulfilled. It's not all saving lives and impressing cute nurses. It's sacrificing your social life and mental health. It's treating ungrateful patients and having to supply addicts wi… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 10:06 PM |
| 3 | The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In DivorceCorrelation =/= causation. OP, you are right. Water is wet, but the researchers tip-toeing around the obvious RP truth is hilarious. The big thing here is that the researchers are basically saying, "The modern woman doesn't invest as much into her marriage, and thus cares a lot less about it." This goes for all things. Something I see less and less here is guys stressing that you need to get non-sexual favors from women. You need her to invest in you, because while we know that the sunken cost f… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 02:21 AM |
| 3 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?The fuck does this even mean? Women get almost no affirmative action in medicine. If anything the demographic that has it roughest in medicine is Asian female and the one that has it easiest is black (gender doesn't really matter). Applicant rates are pretty much 50/50 and so is matriculation. Stats between them aren't different either. I'm all about calling out women on their bullshit, but if we're not logical and informed in the way we form our opinions then we actually turn into the hate grou… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/16 03:35 AM |
| 5 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?making $400,000 a year after 7 years of slavery and incurring massive debt First, the debt isn't massive typically. Most medical students getting help from mom and dad, and the ones who aren't are now getting increasing amounts of financial aid. All the top schools give out generous aid. Personally I've got a full scholarship, and anecdotally most people at my school are graduating with under $100K in debt. Residency is a downside, but you can do ENT and ortho in 5 and plastics in 6. Anyone maki… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/16 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I see every guy with SMV higher than me (real or imaginary) as a threat, which pisses me off. How can I get over it?Befriend everyone, but invest your time with them wisely. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | I see every guy with SMV higher than me (real or imaginary) as a threat, which pisses me off. How can I get over it?As a general rule in life, seek to befriend everyone, but invest your time wisely. No adult whose opinion means anything has ever looked down on a guy who was friendly with "losers." However, if that guy invests all his time with them, that could cause perception problems. The same goes with alpha guys. If you don't see them as an asset you don't have to invest your time in them, but you do need to be friendly with them and get them to want you on their side. You lose nothing from being friendly… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 09:52 AM |
| 18 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?Keep in mind a few things. 1) Internet exaggeration or straight up lying. It happens (but it's irrelevant, more on that later). 2) Those who make a lot are more likely to talk about it, especially on TRP which frankly encourages a lot of bragging. That's just a consequence of the environment so get used to it. 3) There are 150,000 subscribers. Even the top 1% would be 1,500 guys. 1,500 guys making in the 150-200K range would seem like a lot when they're all offering that information on here. Tha… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 09:31 AM |
| 6 | Berkeley feminazi writes hate article on white boys; is utterly demolished in the commentsYou've been fucking the wrong asian girls then. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/16 12:48 AM |
| 16 | I see every guy with SMV higher than me (real or imaginary) as a threat, which pisses me off. How can I get over it?You're thinking of it all wrong, as is everyone else who answered. Men form alliances. In the typical social structure there would be an alpha male, several followers of the alpha male, and complete outcasts from the group. Your goal isn't to beat every man. That's a very quick way to alienate everyone and become an outcast without a group (and no access to women). Your goal is to align yourself with the current established group of alphas. Once you've done that, you may or may not ascend to bec… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 12:46 AM |
| 15 | Berkeley feminazi writes hate article on white boys; is utterly demolished in the commentsI was aware of what I had become: the irrelevant Asian girl in a budding Scott Pilgrim-esque romance. From the countless times that I’ve been rejected for a white girl, I’ve been taught that my desirability was only a fleeting moment whereas a white girl was the one worth getting to know She's such a stereotypical well-educated Asian with a white girl-based inferiority complex there's a solid chance I've fucked her. Pit them against a "prettier" white girl and they basically do the work for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 01:32 PM |
| 97 | Berkeley feminazi writes hate article on white boys; is utterly demolished in the commentsWhen it comes to Asians, especially Asian Americans that come from conservative families, you have to be even stricter on red flags like this. Tattoos, dyed hair, piercings, it's all a disaster on these girls. The barrier to entry on these sorts of "edgy" accessories/disfigurements is much higher on these girls. A white girl with a tattoo or two isn't launching the same kind of rebellion that an Asian girl is. Either way this is a pretty classic case. Girl who thinks she has "girl game" because … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 12:33 PM |
| 2 | "...And Ruth Gets Jealous "That's a fair criticism, but there are two reasons it's not valid here. 1) /u/omlala is calling them LTR material directly, which I took to mean he genuinely thinks they could make decent LTRs for a guy who is actually looking for that given all the information above. In this context we were assuming you know about these events. 2) It's on you to vet an LTR properly. If you take the information she provides and her behavior at face value then you'll always be burned. You might not find out about… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 05:00 AM |
| 2 | "...And Ruth Gets Jealous "I wouldn't LTR any girl I saw doing what these girls did, just as I wouldn't respect any man I saw bending to strong negotiating tactics of another guy. It is possible to be immune to this sort of manipulation, especially at this level when it is so blatant. Strong frame is great, it's not so great that any girl, especially one who wasn't filled with insecurities and impulsiveness, will yield to any sort of denigrating treatment. What these girls did says something about them. It's a nice model … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 08:19 PM |
| 1 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"Bonus? Nope. Don't even think about her. It's a waste of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 07:55 PM |
| 2 | We built voice modulation to mask gender in technical interviews. Here’s what happened.[...] had there been any staggering gender bias on the platform, with a few hundred data points, we would have gotten some kind of result. So that, at least, was encouraging. Look at that. See you know how feminists would interpret this? As a disappointing result. As a job done poorly. That's what's so insane. We could prove conclusively that everything was right with the world and feminists would be bummed they had nothing to complain about. The whole movement is just a power move by a gender t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 07:54 PM |
| 7 | I just got Chlamydia and two Phone NumbersEvery nurse I've ever worked with has cringed at any guy coming in with chlamydia or any other STD. Yeah I know it's curable, doesn't matter. I've seen straight up tens walk into the clinic. First the nurses get all excited. "What are you here for?" I've never seen women go from giddy to grossed out so quickly. I don't know if they would necessarily lose their licenses and livelihoods. More likely their jobs or strict disciplinary action. Hell, I've even seen environments where I wouldn't be sur… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 04:40 AM |
| 17 | "...And Ruth Gets Jealous "Let's not downplay the pragmatic, objective parts of picking up women and having them worship you. /u/OmLaLa has got a great physique and Patrice O'Neal was a fucking celebrity. Either of those things get your foot in the door. Hell, being a celebrity basically does all the work but physically taking her clothes off. Mental from is a necessity, but Patrice as a manager at a McDonalds is holding his unbreakable mental frame over fat girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 04:20 AM |
| 8 | "...And Ruth Gets Jealous "Because of your antics and the general insanity of your stories, you will no doubt be accused of making some of this up, or exaggerating at the least. It's hard to imagine women putting up with being put in the same room as another girl who's fucking the guy they are fucking, and then fucking the guy knowing what he just did. Well it's hard to imagine it happening sober anyway. What those people are missing is preparation. There's so much that went into this. First, Om definitely picked these gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 04:10 AM |
| 1 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"When it comes out of her mouth it typically means she wasn't actually abused. She's a self-diagnosed pity case. The real cases of abuse come out in different ways, not that they're any less red flag worthy, just easier to not hate. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 11:18 PM |
| 6 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"I had an ex do that. Went on a trip to Europe with a friend for a month and came back distant. It was basically what started me on this "horrendous and misogynistic" sub. Girl was ready to live in denial for years to come. The moment I found out I kicked her out obviously (literally an 8 minute turn around from when she told me to when her shit was out my door), but I was shocked at how ready she was to pretend it meant nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Never Enter Her FrameThat's an overrated mentality. Why deny yourself that? What do you risk aside from emotional distress? Are you that weak that you need to avoid any emotional investment? No, just have the mentality that it won't last forever. I've had 3 relationships that lasted over a year, including one that went for 3. I've had just as many years being single. I'm glad to have had the mix. Back when I developed oneitis, dreamed of happily ever after, and thought of her as "mine," ending it hurt. When you know… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 10:52 PM |
| 18 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"You'd never convince her that it could have happened. In her mind she's completely innocent and wouldn't have done it. Then, when she woke up half naked and half stoned after getting railed by him the night before it would just be a drunk mistake that the bf doesn't need to know about. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 09:52 PM |
| 17 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"and makes his GF think twice about her decision. Forget this bit. Doesn't matter. Option 3 is the situation where he gets out of his awful relationship. Thinking about how it makes her feel is backwards. She doesn't matter anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 09:44 PM |
| 9 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"Indeed. If you're here, chances are you fall into one of two groups. Either you never got laid, or you had some bad experiences. You're honestly better off if you fall into the second category. You know first hand that she's not worth the effort. You know first hand that AWALT applies to the same girl who tells you she loves you on a daily basis. Always be ready to walk away. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 09:36 PM |
| 22 | Never Enter Her FrameSay anything you want about TRP. Criticize it in any way, viable or bullshit, but you cannot deny this. This would never happen to a man who followed TRP. I swore this was going to end in marriage, divorce, and a blood sucking alimonymobile getting fat and collecting half your shit. So glad it didn't. Still the red flags were obvious from the beginning. We've been over it 100 times, but I'll say it again No single mothers No girls who are currently in need of cash, especially if they're out of y… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 08:10 AM |
| 36 | Start talking lessThe best way to play it out if you're going for 'mysterious' is to leave people with the impression that they had a great conversation with you, but only later does it occur to them that they don't know much about you Hey! There we are. Someone making sense on this post. Yeah it's a nice concept. "Be quiet and you become mysterious." Guess what? So is, "no one is watching you as closely as you think." So which is true? Is it that quiet guys are mysterious or is it that no one notices what you're… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 07:56 AM |
| 7 | Start talking lessBetter yet, figure out where you stand. Do you talk too much or too little? Probably, you just talk at all the wrong times. You don't talk when there's a hot girl around, and when one starts actually conversing with you you won't shut your mouth. The best conversationalists are extremely good listeners, but they aren't afraid to blurt out something random either. The key is random but relevant. It's less awkward than you'd think to just pull out some pre-packaged "out of the hat" question. Most … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 07:40 AM |
| 1 | After having a long break from lifting (3-4 months) should I start on a beginner program again?At those numbers, you should still be on a beginner program. If you can still make gains on linear progression, you should be doing linear progression. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 05:56 AM |
| 7 | I made a post on another sub about getting a picture of my wife at a nude beach. That post was linked here which lead to it's removal there. I'm no longer allowed to update there, so I'm telling you the rest of the story.Yeah, I wouldn't say anything about this picture was terribly strange. The story seems plausible, and OP doesn't seem like a total idiot. That being said, I'd be amazed if she hadn't cheated at some point. We've got trips abroad, naked in public, and mimosa brunch (hello "Sex and the City" lifestyle glorification). Honestly I don't think this particular scenario will unfold to reveal something awful, I just think there's probably been other times based on the lifestyle I'm hearing about. There's… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 11:54 PM |
| 2 | A Family Affaira friend I know she would never fuck Just be careful with that mentality. For me it's not as much about the guy as it is about the reason. Why are you seeing this guy, and is it necessary for you to accomplish whatever goals I know you're working towards? Often even when it's a guy she'd never fuck, she's still often doing it for the sake of acquiring new beta orbiters. You can't underestimate the power of the hamster. She'll tell herself it's just for fun, or that she's just being social, but w… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 11:37 PM |
| 3 | A Family AffairSometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Depends on what's in it for them and how their own behavior developed in life. A mother will back up their child, and a friend who exhibits the same behavior will back them up even more than the mother, but grandma's tend to be straight up with this kind of thing. At least in my family, grandma tells it like it is. Both of my grandmothers are quick to call out sluts in the news and in real life. They never had a chance to act this way, or their version of… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But HimSame experience with an Indian girl last week, but bar instead of Tinder. The takeaway here is to never marry someone who feels obligated to do so. If you're from one of the racial backgrounds that typically does this (asian, indian, middle eastern, jewish, etc...) it's something you need to test for in every relationship. Everyone else needs to just watch out for the red flags. If she's marrying you to please anyone other than herself, then someone else is going to be pleasing her. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But HimAt least Japanese women can be attractive. I gave up on Jews years ago. At the end of the day, any sort of JAP tends to be a bad investment, but let's not stereotype here, any woman can be a piece of shit. I've dated a piece of shit woman from every major racial/cultural group now. Some bets are better than others, but all bets are still bets. No guarantees with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But HimI have fucked tons of girls from these backgrounds and they're all more than aware that one day they'll settle down with a rich beta of their racial/cultural background, but it does nothing for them sexually. It's actually insane how consistent it is. I fucked a girl last week who afterwards told me about all the guys pursuing her. She was on the upper end of attractiveness for South Asian girls, and she had a billion South Asian betas chasing her. Guys with multi-story apartments in New York, s… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoThis sub idolizes lifting because it's the one thing that can bring you up a few points in attractiveness on it's own. Take and average height guy with an average face and have him gain a solid amount of muscle and chisel away the fat. You started with a 5 now you've got a 7. That's a big difference. Sure, maybe he's still behind the skinny 6'2" guy with an attractive face, but nothing else can upgrade a man's looks like that. One thing that definitely happens here that people are unaware of is … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoHe's bald and has an ugly face (which could be better at lower BF%), but if he looked lean instead of bulky he'd do much better. I mean, he has the "built fat" look. Guys with the built fat look typically end up with the chubby girl. Guarantee if he lost 30 lbs, mostly fat, some muscle, he'd do great with women in terms of appearances. He'd just have to find an attractive woman with an insufferable personality like his. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoI was thinking more along the lines of how fun you are to be around. Are you the life of the party? Do you think of fun things to do? Do you lead the group and project confidence? Saying yes to each of those gives you a top 20% personality for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 10:23 PM |
| 2 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoSan Antonio Spurs Fame >>> Height > Muscles I mean, Muggsy Bogues could likely outgame any guy on this sub in his prime. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 10:21 PM |
| -1 | Why are women the selecters and men the competers, and what would cause a reversal of those roles?If that's the case, then only the top 10% will be available That's ridiculous. You think 90% of men will opt out of the SMP because of VR porn and sex bots? It will be the guys who don't get any at all who do this, not the ones who only get laid once every few months. It will have very little effect on the SMP because the guys who opt out will be the ones who had the least effect on the SMP in the first place. If you consider the 80/20 rule, 80% of the SMP is run by 20% of guys anyway. Even if t… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 10:17 PM |
| 7 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoNot too much growth happens after 16 for guys. I've definitely known some guys who put on a few inches past that, but they're the exception. Don't get too down about it. Guys shorter than you have gotten more ass than you're getting right now. Focus on the things you can change. There's always room for improvement. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 05:37 AM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoI'm sure it will. Good luck man. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 05:35 AM |
| 3 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoCongrats on your progress bro. I'm jealous of at least that aspect of your life. Sounds like looks aren't a problem for you anymore. Now just kill it everywhere else and you'll be unstoppable. I've found that if you're top 20% in looks, career success/money, social status, and personality you're basically a unicorn among men. You've got looks more than covered. I don't know what the rest of your life is like, but don't stop just because the party started in your backyard. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend disrespects me in publicDepends on how much he's actually paying. I've seen girls make this joke about guys they do actually respect, but it's a shit test and the guy always passes. Sometimes girls just want to be shut down. Doesn't sound like the case, but could be. He needs to try passing the shit test. If it's a real shit test she'll respond. If it's not she'll get angry she's not getting her way. Either way he finds out something about his relationship. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend disrespects me in publicIt's possible she thinks of you as a portable bank, but it's also possible she's just trying to be funny. Only you can tell based on her tone and how she treats you otherwise. When she walks into the weed store and says that, you make eye contact with the manager or whoever she's talking to, laugh, and say, "Hah! Yeah alright good luck with that. So I'll be outside then." Manager will laugh along with you because she's so obviously in the wrong. Her response to this will tell you if she's using … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 03:52 AM |
| 5 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoAgreed. The husky honestly have it the best because fat is so much easier to shed than muscle is to build. If you naturally hold lots of muscle you can be in shape very quickly. I started at 135 lbs. It's been 1.5 years since I started lifting and I'm only just getting to that point where I'm known for being in fantastic shape. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 01:59 AM |
| 2 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoPisses me off for sure, haha! My gym is mostly black guys and it kills me. See guys ripped as hell repping out 135 on bench, as a working set, barely doing anything else, then going home. Meanwhile I'm here doing 2 plates and a ton of accessories just to hang onto these gains. In some dosage calculations in medicine it's recommended to adjust for black guys because they hold more muscle naturally. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 01:49 AM |
| 8 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoIf you've been lifting 6 months and haven't noticed a chance, you need to look at your diet. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 01:43 AM |
| 45 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoHeight > Muscle. The only thing that can really make a tall guy unattractive is a bottom 5% face (noticeable odd features throughout) and being fat. OP was fat, became not fat, and had all the makings of someone who is insanely attractive otherwise. If you're not 6'3" and fat, lifting will be a nice boon. It will let you mess up a bit more. It will get you an occasional lay without trying as hard. It will not turn you into a celebrity in 6 months. If you're 5'4", nothing you do will make you as … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 01:40 AM |
| 30 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoThis is definitely a needed comment here. Lifting is the easiest way to become more attractive. This opens your eyes to just how different of worlds we're living in when it comes to dating life, however, this will not be the experience for most guys. Typically, fat kills everything. Being above 20% body fat will pretty much ruin your chances with many, many attractive women. Even guys who lift a lot and are strong as fuck will do worse than a skinny guy if they've committed to the bulk and gone … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 01:33 AM |
| 4 | What the Hook-up Culture Has Done to WomenGirls who want nice guys are girls who don't get attention from assholes. Former sluts who want nice guys are girls who didn't get commitment from assholes. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 06:21 AM |
| 6 | What the Hook-up Culture Has Done to WomenIt's funny that a lot of the time betas end up with sluts because they're the easiest to initiate things with. When I first entered college I became friends with a girl who was way out of my league. I assumed I was friend zoned, just by default, and never made a move. At a party one night another girl started making moves on me. I went with it and ended up sleeping with her in her dorm room. Two weeks later we sleep together again. I catch oneitis of course and make her my girlfriend. Later I fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 06:18 AM |
| 6 | Girls getting upset after date/Buyers remorseHolding hands is fine as long as it's part of kino escalation. You just ran into some slut who uses feminism to justify her instant gratification lifestyle, like all of them. Did you physically push her mouth on your dick? No. She could've backed off at any point, but she blew you because that's her default. Then she felt slutty so she pulled the victim card. The only lesson to be learned from this is never to date a feminist. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | "In the process of swallowing the pill.."To play devil's advocate in a way, swallowing the pill should be a long process where you determine your own opinions about TRP. You don't have to agree with everything that is commonly agreed upon here. I'm pretty open and vocal about my personal beliefs when they differ from the red pill script, but that's part of being red pill. It's part of unplugging. Don't just plug into another script. The red pill can be just another script. Granted, it's a script that has the individual's best interests… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 05:40 AM |
| 2 | What Happened Before History?One big shift is technology in the workplace. The birth of the office job. The birth of the US as a service economy rather than a manufacturing economy. In the 20s and 30s most guys went out and got jobs in factories. That was the majority of jobs. If you were a real hot shot you were a manager, banker/broker, or salesman, but most guys were breaking their backs. So jobs were for men, because when it comes to assembling matching parts, men are better workers. In the 40s we had WWII. All the men … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 05:27 AM |
| 3 | What Happened Before History?house work takes a fraction of the time it did before No, we all just live in pig sties. Ever been in the house of a 30-40 year old couple on a whim? It's usually filthy. The women have to work in order for us to compete against other nations. Again not true. Women work because by expanding the workforce and creating more competition for jobs corporations can pay less for more work. What we have instead is an enormously inefficient workforce. China and India already beat us. Our economy is large… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/16 05:05 AM |
| 30 | So she's talking about meeting her ex "for drinks"It's basically pre-emptive trickle truth. She's going to cheat on you (or already has) or leave you (and already has in her mind). Now she's looking to ease the blow of the escape by dropping hints, not for your sake, but so she doesn't seem like a cold bitch for dropping it on you out of nowhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 06:24 AM |
| 6 | So she's talking about meeting her ex "for drinks"(and all LTRs and a lot of plates do it at some point) No, no they most certainly do not. They only do this when a) You've failed shit tests continually and she's lost respect for you. b) You entered into a relationship without properly vetting her and realizing she is alpha-widowed. If it's gotten to the point where she is voluntarily seeing an ex for drinks, you've lost the war. No sense in fighting the battle unless you've got kids or money on the line. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 06:21 AM |
| 19 | On the first day, he learned how to dressThe key is to be fashionable about it. You can look like an idiot wearing shorts that are too big for your tiny legs and come up to your fucking thighs, or you can wear basketball shorts that communicate you just don't care anymore, or minimalist shorts with boat shoes (can also use canvas sneakers w/o socks) that actually fit your leg. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How To Stuff Your White Meat Into Asian GirlsThis is true of southeast asians, but Korean/Chinese/Japanese girls still tan, though sparingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 11:08 AM |
| 4 | How To Stuff Your White Meat Into Asian GirlsI love this fucking post. Half because the phrase "China Vagina" made me choke on my drunk as fuck 6 am burrito and half because I'm basically every semi-rebellious asian girl's dream and my roommate, who directly shares a wall with me, has made every "squeak toy" joke imaginable at this point. While all of this rings true, there are a few things that really seal the deal for most Asian girls, but first you have to figure out what type of Asian she is. There are four basic types. 1) FOB. Fresh o… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I care more than I do about LTR driving with a guy friend cross country?He's the one moving. She's going along to "help him." She's at least connected enough to him to that she wants to see him through to the absolute end. My alarm bells would be ringing for sure. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 09:31 AM |
| 7 | Should I care more than I do about LTR driving with a guy friend cross country?Sure thing, but don't kid yourself, they're friends because there is unresolved sexual tension. Whether or not she acts on it will depend on her feelings for you, her morals, and straight up opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behaviorEven upvotes aren't a great indicator of what's great content. At any given moment TRP is like the gym in January. Most of the guys here are newbies. I say find a few users/endorsed guys who seem completely reasonable and take a look at their posts. Establish your own beliefs and validate them with your own real world experience (that means getting off Reddit, sometimes for months at a time. I haven't submitted an individual post in months). Then come back for more. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 03:27 AM |
| 24 | Should I care more than I do about LTR driving with a guy friend cross country?Why are men and women ever friends? 9 times out of 10 you can sum it up with either a) Validation of the woman and false hope for the man (friendzone) b) Unresolved sexual tension c) Backup plan In peer group social settings women don't respect men they aren't attracted to. They might have decent group friendships with them, but women never hang out one-on-one with a male peer unless she has respect for him (or is using him for something), and she doesn't have respect for him in a social setting… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 03:22 AM |
| 7 | The Fundamentals of FitnessWell, at least we're starting to look into opiates. I'm going to have to take a whole fucking course on them next year because it's become such a problem. I mean, I got surgery about a month ago and woke up in a mild amount of pain. The doctor calmly asks me if I'd like some fentanyl. The fuck doc? Why don't I just take a morphine IV home with me for the next time I stub my toe? That's a straight up public health disaster. Adderall you're overblowing. Kids don't throw their lives away on adderal… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 09:24 AM |
| 2 | The Fundamentals of FitnessAnyone with newb gains and relatively low BF is going to be "jacked" by average person standards. Why set the bar so low? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 08:57 AM |
| 3 | The Fundamentals of FitnessI always warn people though, especially beginners, not to attempt a 1 RM too often. Let's face it, none of these lifts are bad for you, but they're all terrible for you when done with poor form. A recipe for poor form is beginner + the maximum you can handle. Hell, even a veteran will injure himself at his max at a relatively high rate. Until you have a 5 RM in the range of 115 lbs for OHP, 185 for bench, 225 for squats, and 275 for deadlift, with at least 6 months to a year of weight lifting ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 08:55 AM |
| 1 | The Fundamentals of FitnessWhat do you mean Ronnie Coleman isn't natural? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 08:38 AM |
| 3 | The Fundamentals of Fitnessfollowing their routines and diets will get you fucked up. That's really important to remember. A lot of workouts are designed for guys on gear. So guys see that and immediately think, "he's huge, all that volume must be what does it." Next thing you know a natty guy is attempting 2 hour gym sessions every day with no recovery and inevitably ends up hurt. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 08:09 AM |
| 12 | The Fundamentals of FitnessTake it from a medical student, using test and other compounds on a consistent basis is far less healthy than weekly fast food or recreational drug use, but it's really all about habits. Spending 2 months out of the year on test and maybe some tren/deca with a proper PCT for a few years in your twenties while giving your body lots of time to recover and hold that level (it's not just about getting bloods back to baseline, baseline should be your body's norm) is healthier than a lifestyle of week… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 08:07 AM |
| 2 | The Fundamentals of FitnessI'm gonna offer a somewhat opposing view here. Personally, I love the barbell-based, powerlifting-influenced approach to getting in shape. It gives you goals and it gives you accomplishments. However, there's absolutely no reason that you need to approach fitness this way. We're lifting for SMV. We're lifting for overall health. The fact is, you don't need to do stronglifts, and you don't need to be strong (the the sense that your "big 3" lifts are massive). You need to be big. You need to have … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 07:23 AM |
| 9 | The Fundamentals of FitnessI'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess that the average red piller doesn't even lift. TRP is constantly like the gym in January. You've got a few regulars who've been here for years, but the vast majority have been here less than 3 months, won't be here 3 months from now, and aren't following most of the advice they are given. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 07:02 AM |
| 10 | Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behaviorThis is why you have to really pick and choose what you believe on here. Brag reports and over-zealous "alpha-ness" can sometimes get too much support. It's natural. You're told your beta tendencies are holding you back, so it's easy to think that 100% alpha is good. So some guy goes out and finds the most AWALTy woman alive, treats her like shit, and reports back that, "red pill totally works guys." It's way easier to believe that you have to do a 180 to get women than it is to realize you have… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behaviorNotice how women already realize this subconsciously. They know their actions don't correlate with their words, so why would they expect that to be true of men. It's no secret why communicating with actions is far more effective. You're suddenly speaking her language. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:52 AM |
| 19 | Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behaviorThis is a tricky topic. On the one hand, archwinger is completely right that no pussy is worth putting up with bullshit. On the other, every girl, actually, every person comes with heaps of bullshit. Any relationship you have, male or female, business or sexual, is going to have its fair share of bullshit. You have to assess your options. In the sexual marketplace plates are a dime a dozen. So if she's making your life more difficult than it should be, leave. But, this post is pretty uninformati… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:50 AM |
| 9 | Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behaviorI was just over at a plate's apartment. We fucked earlier today but I left to go to the gym with a friend. Then she invited me over again. I figured it was for another round so I agreed to meet her after I ate. When I got there she was not DTF. She said something along the lines of, "No, you don't get an all access pass. Tonight you're here to cuddle with me. We can fuck in the morning." I got no notice that she expected me to stay the night. Now, I'm a believer in a mix of alpha and beta traits… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:26 AM |
| 9 | When your LTR is an Alpha widowBe very, very careful while ghosting. I'm not a fan of the strategy at all. I think "physically present but mentally absent" or "briefly physically present but otherwise occupied" is a much, much better alternative. I look back on my blue pill days and remember that I was relatively red pill in how much I cared about the girls I dated (I really didn't), but that led to some times when I'd just ghost, sometimes for up to a week unintentionally. When I was the center of her love life it was effect… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 06:05 AM |
| 2 | The Godfather of Pick-Up (and the Red Pill), Mystery, has a Facebook MeltdownPretty much any time I see a "why is this downvoted?" it's on a post with a significant number of upvotes. The first few people who saw the post were just idiots, or people trying to get their post to the top (which I'll never understand, it's fake internet points). | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 08:58 AM |
| 2 | The Godfather of Pick-Up (and the Red Pill), Mystery, has a Facebook MeltdownIn a way. Although I know far fewer guys who are into no tits/big butt than I know girls who are into 6'6" guys. If anything I'd say 6'6" is for girls what G cups are for guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 08:55 AM |
| 1 | All this hysteria about false rape accusations is making me wanting to quit on women alltogetherRepresentation bias man. The truth is that something like 90% of actual rapes still aren't reported. By all accounts you could likely go around actually raping girls on an occasional basis and if you weren't an idiot nothing would happen to you. The percentage of drunk hookups that end in false accusations to the police is tiny, tiny, tiny, and you can avoid the vast majority of that tiny population by avoiding the girls who aren't supposed to be having sex (has a boyfriend, strictly religious, … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 08:54 AM |
| 12 | This is what it's come to.This is pandering to the beta fathers who want to make the day about everyone. The model is male. If you're a guy, you're supposed to buy this shirt and then spoil your wife for supporting you as a father, which she's done by either working a less difficult job than you and acting like it's equal or by sitting around the house pretending that being a stay-at-home mom is a tough job. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Stupid Simple Six Pack Abs (or, Minimalist Midsection Mastery)Bulk until your total lean mass resembles the total lean mass of your "ideal" weight (determined by your height and wrist/ankle measurements). Then cut until you are 10% body fat or lower. Burpees won't give you abs. You know what gives you abs? A solid foundation of muscle, a good lifting routine, and a properly managed diet that puts you at a slight caloric deficit with high protein content. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 06:49 AM |
| 3 | The Godfather of Pick-Up (and the Red Pill), Mystery, has a Facebook MeltdownLet's put it this way. If 6'2" is The Avengers then 6'6" is Rocky Horror Picture Show. Yeah, 6'2" is the popular option, the ideal, but 6'6" is the fetish. I know tons of girls who see a guy who's 6'5"+ and start drowning in their own vaginal fluids as long as he's not fat. Basically, while 6'2" is going to appeal to the most women, the ones who go for 6'6" are crazy about 6'6". One of my college roommates was borderline autistic and just sat around doing math all day. He was 6'5" and he still m… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm about to being falsely accused of rape.The best thing to happen is for nothing to happen. She's an attention whore for sure, but you gotta play to her personality and hope she never brings this to attention specifically. It's possible she has no intention of ever naming you, but she sees the positive attention that this other girl is receiving and wants a piece of it. I'm sure we can expect tons of copycat rape accusations from budding feminists in light of this whole thing. Obviously at this point you need to have saved those texts … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 06:27 AM |
| -1 | The Godfather of Pick-Up (and the Red Pill), Mystery, has a Facebook MeltdownThe guy was a hyperbole, and at the end of the day he hit all the necessary checkboxes for a select group of women and then exceeded them to a degree that was completely unnecessary and made him less desirable to many. At the end of the day he was "good enough" to get laid on a regular basis, and there's nothing wrong with that as an individual, but he's not the ideal to look to as a mentor at all. Yes he stood out with his ridiculous attire, and he had status in the environments he was in, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 04:14 PM |
| 3 | The Godfather of Pick-Up (and the Red Pill), Mystery, has a Facebook MeltdownThe guy was a hyperbole, and at the end of the day he hit all the necessary checkboxes for a select group of women and then exceeded them to a degree that was completely unnecessary and made him less desirable to many. At the end of the day he was "good enough" to get laid on a regular basis, and there's nothing wrong with that as an individual, but he's not the ideal to look to as a mentor at all. Yes he stood out with his ridiculous attire, and he had status in the environments he was in, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 04:14 PM |
| 51 | [X-post] "My wife cheated on me with her looser alpha-ex and I cant understand why since Im smart, rich and a good guy"There are a few lessons to be learned from this, most of which anyone who's been around here more than a few days would know. 1) Second chances are beta. It can be really tempting to give a woman a second chance when overstepping boundaries. She's finally where you want her, and she's showing all the signs of commitment you were told to look for. It's an act. She's backed up against a wall and realizes that objectively you're the better option for the practical things in life. Emotionally, she's… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 03:50 PM |
| 11 | [X-post] "My wife cheated on me with her looser alpha-ex and I cant understand why since Im smart, rich and a good guy"For a lot of people posting here accomplishes the same thing as a diary. You'll see tons of men hashing out what their ex did to them, what they plan to do in the future, and generally hanging their unabashed feelings out there. TRP will knock those feelings around a bit, but it's overall pretty healthy to have an outlet of some kind. What's dumb is leaving it somewhere someone can find it and use it as leverage over you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 03:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm Proud to Announce My Blog Is Up: RedPillDoctor.comDamn, now I'm going to have to get creative with my business name when it finally comes time to start profiting off this shit. Good luck with the blog man. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/16 03:04 PM |
| 10 | When I see AWALT posts, 90% of the time it's all stuff I'd do (and have done) as well.A lot of TRP can be made to seem much more fair and sensible if you just remember that all of this is from the straight male perspective. As men, we don't have to think about what we'd do. Some guys will make comparisons between men and women, but it's pointless. You're going to do what you're going to do, and you are the only man that should matter in your relationship. She's going to do what she's going to do, but you have no control over it, and if you've invested something in that woman, the… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 01:47 AM |
| 15 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.Anyone who doesn't believe the shit we say here should take a survey of what happens to nearly all men who get deployed in relationships. When I was younger (college) I used to feel a bit of envy for the military guys I knew because women would fawn over the "men in uniform." After seeing the way they treat these men the moment times get tough, I realized that the actual sacrifice means nothing to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.Professional school doesn't bode well for pre-existing relationships. The girls realize that they will be making more money than their current bfs and run off to find a guy on her level (often not realizing that her better career status doesn't really mean shit to most guys, and then complaining that guys are "intimidated" by her). The guys realize they've got girls barking up their tree and generally do one of three things. If they're attractive they dump their ex and start plating women left a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 12:55 AM |
| 14 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.I believe most people have sociopathic tendencies. At the very least, we are all inherently obsessed with out own self-interest. Look at the behavior of alphas. An objective look at what alphas do to their women and the people around them clearly shows that they are every bit as "evil" or "immoral" as women. Alphas cheat, they leave their wives/families for secretaries and assistants, they fuck over the little guys in business, and generally use the backs of others as stairs to the top. So why i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 12:47 AM |
| 17 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.Often men get dumped/cheated on during the worst/most challenging times in their lives simply because they're not holding up as well. Nothing turns a woman off more than seeing a man struggle. I'm still trying to fully wrap my head around why women never seem to take circumstances into account, but I think it's simply that they are so driven by emotion that any logic flies right out the door as soon as their natural instincts take over. I see a lot of guys in the hospital who will talk semi-open… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 12:28 AM |
| 15 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.My ex stored half her belongings at my apartment while she "traveled" throughout Europe, and then had me help her move 8 hours away. At this point, I've seen plenty of fucked up shit from women, but the worst part about it all is the complete lack of empathy. Here's the thing though. It's not exclusive to women. We say AWALT in instances like this, but the truth is, this is just the power of abundance mentality. The OkCupid OP's girlfriend knew she wouldn't go a single day without emotional supp… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 12:20 AM |
| 11 | Red pill and cheating?They do, but it's a shame. Personally, I chase after what I want, and I've learned that you can't take shortcuts and still be happy. Cheating is taking a shortcut, and ultimately it will undermine your ability to get what you want out of an LTR, even if you aren't caught. Have the discipline to stick to your word, have the balls to walk away when you don't want to honor that promise anymore. It's quite simple really. If you have kids/are married, that's no excuse either. All you're doing is sett… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 05:31 PM |
| 26 | Girl says, "we're not having sex", we have sex.If she brings up sex, it's yours to lose at that point. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 06:13 AM |
| 36 | The Three Major Pitfalls That Lead To Becoming BetaOne of my plates told me the other day that it has actually been shown that wives will intentionally get their husbands fatter so they decrease the chance of infidelity. This is likely the closest social sciences will ever come to outright saying that women betafy their husbands in order to gain control of the relationship and feel more comfortable. TRP teaches you that comfort is good, in doses. No women is happy being comfortable all the time. A night in watching Netflix and eating pie is fant… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 06:08 AM |
| 3 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleI've been busy and haven't been around much. Glad to see you're "endorsed" now. You were on a tear with high quality shit when I last left. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 05:54 AM |
| 6 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MalePersonally, I think making pick up a numbers game is a foolish move. It's time consuming and exhausting. I don't want to spend my afternoons wandering around town approaching girls and getting rejected 75% of the time. I did much better making no specific effort to go out and find girls, and instead just learning how to spot interest from a girl. If you look good, you should spot a very interested girl in your league approximately once every 10 minutes while doing things like running errands. Le… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 05:51 AM |
| 17 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleHonestly, once you go RP you won't want anything to do with PUA. It sounds cheesy and over-dramatic to put it this way, but you won't need it. Seriously, if you embrace RP fully, and not just the stuff that gets you laid (though ultimately it all gets you laid), you're going to be busy all the time. Just by living you'll amass more girls than you can actually juggle at once while also pursuing things that are meaningful to you. I've never read more than a few articles of PUA material in my life,… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Meet a girl, girl and me connected pretty well, girl has boyfriend. Should i go for it anyway?Honestly, I'm pegging you as a flight risk from TRP mentality. If you plate this girl, you'll likely hamster away all the reasons I mentioned not to get involved with her. If you're serious about improving yourself with this mentality and not getting fucked over, avoid her and call it preventative measures. There will be many, many other women once you embrace TRP. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/16 10:09 AM |
| 2 | How to date a 19 year old as a 32 year old and get away with it, in the public eye.Why would you want to date a 19 year old anyway? I'm 24 and I find most 19 year olds terrible company. Fuck them. They're cheap and easy. Impress them with a date to a shitty cocktail bar (where they get to use their fake) and then take them back to your place, where they'll be thrilled that you live alone and have a queen sized bed. Then, once you've gotten your fill, leave. If you want an LTR or even someone to casually but publicly date, get the girl who proved herself. Get the one who surviv… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 10:03 AM |
| 137 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleI watched 5 minutes of that video, and if your daygame is anything like that guy's then you should never, under any circumstances, practice within a few miles of where you live, and you definitely shouldn't film it and put it on the internet. I'm all for practicing, and I'm all for failing, but Jesus that's some cringeworthy shit. He's effeminate, he qualifies himself to them from start to finish, he treats them like a prize for having done nothing, and he generally paints himself as the loser t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 09:49 AM |
| 4 | Don't believe the Red Pill? Read any popular romance novel.If he's not a bad boy biker, he's a high-status billionaire. It has nothing to do with who you are. Some girls like bikers, some like guys with tats, artsy types, intellectuals, businessmen, military guys, juiced up bros, etc... That's just preference. It's just whatever type of guy her social circle regards as alpha. At the end of the day she's looking for certain types of traits in a guy who fits her preference, but while the preference changes from girl to girl, those traits don't. That's why… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 11:10 AM |
| 7 | Meet a girl, girl and me connected pretty well, girl has boyfriend. Should i go for it anyway?She's already proven herself to be trash in the LTR department. There's no such thing as a unicorn, but for an LTR you want someone as close as possible, and that means dogged loyalty, even when she's not feeling the relationship (because regardless of how good you are, there will be times when one of you isn't feeling it). Your logic of not wanting her to branch swing to you is idiotic. It's like coming up to a rope bridge and saying, "I don't want to shake it too hard to make sure it'll hold m… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 10:16 AM |
| 2 | 45 year old virgin woman advertises that she's looking for a husband on a billboard in BangkokIt's AWALT, not AWhiteWALT. Trust me those girls will do everything a white woman would do, but with less remorse because she doesn't connect with you the same way she would with someone from her own culture. You can be alpha fux to these women, but if you stick around you'll be beta in no time, and she won't even have your strong emotional connection to make her feel guilty about it. That's really where the illusion comes from. It's a bunch of guys thinking they've suddenly gone alpha because t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Cuck-mercialsThey portray men like this because men watch the tv shows for the humor alone. If they laugh, they'll watch it. Not true with women. They watch to live vicariously. They love the idea of being the woman in charge while her husband is a bumbling fool. Women play these games with whipped men all the time, trying to boss them around and emasculate them. It's part of the power dynamic, and make no mistake, it's the same instinct that drives modern feminism. They love that idea, but it doesn't mean t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Tinder slut explicitly admits her AF/BB strategyIf she started at 14, 10 isn't even close... The numbers also really skyrocket post-college. No accountability, no reputation. The world is too big for any non-famous person to have any sort of reputation, even in small cities or towns. My experience has been that the average girl you'd find at a bar has 10-15 partners at age 23-25. Typical girl you meet volunteering or through a decent school program has 5-10. Typical girl with more than two red flags is going to be 20+, with numbers going up e… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 02:19 PM |
| 6 | 16 rules of the GameI thought that might be the case. I just typically comment for the sake of teaching. Some guys will take that comment the wrong way. Just want to make sure they aren't swayed in the wrong direction. It happens too much on this sub, and you end up with a bunch of guys who literally think shitting on women is the best approach 100% of the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 01:59 PM |
| 9 | 16 rules of the GameYou can and should reward her by telling her she looks good. Just make sure she knows she doesn't look the best. Don't tell her generally that she's hot, give her a tiny bit of a neg, and I mean tiny. "You look much cuter in that scarf. You should wear it more often." In my experience, a compliment delivered like that will always be met with a shit test, even though it's such a subtle neg. "Oh I look cuter, implying what exactly?" Agree and amplify and move on. "Oh well I usually can't stand to … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 01:15 PM |
| 9 | 16 rules of the GameI told her, ' it looks interesting but honestly looks like you have a kangaroo pouch' she spent the rest of the night seeking my validation. You have to be careful with this. It really only works on certain types of girls. Granted, by going around asking for validation from multiple guys she is identifying herself as one of those types of girls, but for teaching purposes my point stands. In general, the direct insult is not the most efficient or statistically successful approach. If she perceive… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 01:07 PM |
| 6 | Don't risk your life for womenWas gonna give a detailed explanation, but this is more succinct and effective than anything I would've written. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Captain of Yale Basketball team is expelled after his plate claims that their 4th sexual encounter was not "consensual."See whenever a girl makes an offhanded comment like this I call them out now. It's especially effective if your SMV is higher than hers, and you know she's secretly is seeking your approval (hint: if your SMV is higher within the current social circle, she's almost definitely seeking your approval). Even SJWs and feminists can't call you out because the person is admitting that they're lying, which falls under definite false rape accusations, which severely hurts true victims of rape. Usually th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 09:24 PM |
| 1 | [27m] There is a part of me that wants to try to cheat on my girlfriend [28f] to send a message that she cannot hear otherwise.You shouldn't cheat on her. You sound like me in my last relationship. I mean, exactly like me in my last relationship. First of all, you need to find out if she's cheating. In my case, sex fell off when she started looking at other guys and eyeing up the benefits of the party lifestyle. She started realizing that she could fuck guys more attractive than me, and she didn't really care that they wouldn't stick around, because she had me as a backup. Once the cheating started, I noticed exactly wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 08:51 PM |
| 9 | Share your tips for skin care, hair loss and grooming techniques for men.HGH will also enlarge your heart and other organs if abused on the level it is used for bodybuilding purposes. Whether or not someone takes it is their choice, but they should do the research and then wait a few weeks before placing an order. If you're going to do it, do yourself a favor and do it under the supervision of a doctor at a legitimate clinic. Also, if you're doing it for health reasons, never order the Chinese crap. While the HGH might have some good benefits, that stuff is filled wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Bangkok = 80% match rate on TinderDude I went to Thailand as a 17 year old with my family. I was a skinny fuck with weird hair and a shitty wardrobe. In two weeks I got 3 legitimate marriage proposals and my mother was in complete and total shock at the attention I was receiving. Imagine being on a family trip where women are literally throwing themselves at you and you can't really do anything about it. That's SEA. You're 5'9", skinny, and white? Congratulations, you just found out what it's like to be a 6'2" GQ model with a Po… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Gamer GirlsIdk why anyone would want any girl who chooses to hang with crowds that are majority guys anyway. They're all attention-starved girls who are opportunistically positioning themselves in a place where they can soak up all the affection. This means gamer girls, engineering girls, lifting girls (though I can admire their dedication sometimes), metal girls, or just your run-of-the-mill "one of the guys." Sure their hobbies might appeal to you, but the cons far outweigh the pros. Why would anyone wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 08:09 PM |
| -5 | What are some good date ideas?If it's really not your scene then don't, but if you're comfortable there then there's really no easier way to establish heavy kino. If it's the weekend then I like to end first dates at whatever bar I've got friends at. Easy social proof. Easy kino. Easy dread. Easy inebriation. If the date was going well, 90% of the time we fuck. If it's not going so well, now I'm at a bar/club and can find a girl relatively easily. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 07:51 PM |
| 26 | LTR wants threesome, am I being cuckholded plus tips for holding frame?/thread | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Hi guys! What's your advice for someone living with a god damned monster of a bitch?Meet and fuck other women. You'll figure out fast that this one isn't special. You could pretty much sum up all of TRP with this statement. Once you have abundance you realize how little power any particular woman has over you. Ideally you'll progress to the point where having sex with an attractive woman is hardly more difficult than going out to the store to buy groceries. It's just a constant resource available to you simply by virtue of the world being filled with attractive women. This leav… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 07:43 PM |
| -5 | What are some good date ideas?If you're going for kino builder just take her to a fucking bar where it's cramped and people dance. If it's not that kind of date then nut up and fucking touch her for God's sake. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Sororities are going on a smear campaign against me and I need your helpThe best way to explain all of this is that you're outside of their social circle. Day gaming a college campus when you go to the college is a big no-no. Unless you go to a college with > 20,000 students, you can't fake social status. The girls know the social hierarchy, and they know who their options are from the beginning. If you go to the school and do a cold approach, she'll immediately start wondering why she doesn't know about you and assume it's because you're not connected to a mainstre… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 07:45 AM |
| 9 | Sororities are going on a smear campaign against me and I need your helpDo you see what happened here? This is what happens when you suck at day game (well, in OP's case all game) and you decide to practice right in your own backyard. Don't shit where you eat is a good principle to live by. OP basically took a massive dump all over his plate. TRP is essentially an accelerated version of how we all learn to flirt with women. You'll do 5 years of learning in 3 months if you do it right. That also means you'll be awkwardly hitting on 5 years worth of women, and probabl… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 07:16 AM |
| 1 | The problem with Tinder/online dating for most men.It's yet another device females use to get ahead in this world Let's not equate ease of getting sex from strangers with getting ahead in the world. Even your sweet, wise Grandmother knew that sleeping with tons of men was an easy cop out, and sleeping with strangers gets you nothing but a temporary reprieve from your crushing insecurities. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 06:19 AM |
| 2 | The problem with Tinder/online dating for most men.95% of guys can take a decent enough pic to get someone to keep looking through the photos. If you're ugly, catfish them on the first photo with the only picture in the world where you look good (everyone has one or can make it easily with a tripod and good lighting), then add in lifestyle photos where it's tough to tell what you look like, then an honest photo so she's not shocked when you aren't a super model. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 11:24 PM |
| 10 | The problem with Tinder/online dating for most men.Be shirtless, attractive, and funny and you can fuck anyone on tinder. Funny cancels out the shirtless douche vibe. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The problem with Tinder/online dating for most men.I use online game (aside from Tinder) to fuck good girls, not sluts (they're all sluts, but you know what I mean). I don't paint myself as a typical alpha. I paint myself as the boyfriend they've been dreaming about. I have good, attractive pictures that show that I lift without taking my shirt off. I talk about my passion for medicine and blah, blah, blah with just a little humor and laid back attitude. I go after girls in my demographic (e.g. well-educated), but well out of my potential income… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The real reason behind why you didn't get laid in college.I'm 5'10" barefoot and I can tell you women do notice the difference between 5'10 and 6'. I didn't quite understand the height thing for a long time. It doesn't get important until everyone is fully grown anyway, so until I got a few years into college (and roomed with a guy who was 6'5" and got hot girls despite horrendous social skills) I didn't make any effort to seem taller. I wore shoes in Vans/Converse style that probably only gave me about a 1/4", and I slouched a lot. When I finally got … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 09:18 PM |
| 2 | The real reason behind why you didn't get laid in college.Your assessment of his SMV is probably off. Is he short or below average height? Does he command the attention of the whole room like a concert, or is he there mostly as a source of music while people do their own thing? Is he playing up himself while he plays, or is he focusing primarily on providing good music? Age is also important. Is it an older crowd? Younger crowd? College-aged girls don't give a shit about a 30 year old playing covers in a bar. Maybe if he was 25 and looked it, but he do… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 04:43 AM |
| 12 | The real reason behind why you didn't get laid in college.Want to have a good career and slay pussy for years afterwards? Don't sell drugs in college. Seriously, just start lifting and join a fraternity. You'll get plenty of pussy on the status of that alone. One of my fraternity bros got caught selling weed on campus and it fucked his chances at grad school and a ton of employment opportunities. Everyone thinks they can't get caught, then someone fucks it up for you/exposes you when they get caught. It's just an unnecessary risk when there are so many… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 04:27 AM |
| 7 | 2036; the year you don't have a job & your SMV is based on different parametersWhile this is a huge issue that you should definitely keep an eye on as you progress in your career, keep a few things in mind when you say that 47% of jobs will be eradicated. 100 years ago we had an entirely different job landscape, but we managed to replace those jobs with different jobs no one would have even dreamed of even 100 years ago. If you're expecting the next 20 years to be a real life version of "Invitation to the Game," where most people don't even have jobs, you're definitely ove… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 04:16 AM |
| 16 | Don't ever show jealousyPeople don't change. Maybe they do very rarely, but believing a particular person will change is like believing the next roulette spin is definitely going to be 17 black because you saw it happen before three years ago at a different casino. Always play the odds, never try to pick out the exceptions unless it's the only way to win the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:59 AM |
| 10 | A Valentines Day BetaHonestly, if she's justifying the behavior of others, it almost always means she indulges in those behaviors herself. This is why bad girl friends are the biggest red flag. She often either idolizes her slutty friend who "gets all the guys," or she simply enjoys being around girls who don't make her feel bad for all the lying and cheating she's doing. "Team Girl" is really "Team Me." She supports herself in all her own slutty endeavors. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:52 AM |
| 11 | A Valentines Day BetaOneitis hits hard when the relationship is born of unusual circumstances or when she has particular qualities that look good "on paper." Granted, same birthdays is fucking stupid, but it was his crazy male hamster going for a serious workout. A lot of guys have this with high school sweethearts. I had a similar experience that forced the pill down my throat. When everything looks good on paper, denial becomes that much stronger. The girl I had been dating represented a lot for me. In my previous… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 03:50 AM |
| 7 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.This is why you need to keep girls on the line. She's going to keep her beta orbiters, and when a man comes out of the woodwork who she actually sees as a potential branch to swing to, you'd better have an attractive woman waiting in the wings. Nothing looks more pathetic to her than a man who couldn't get another woman. The best defense against a potential affair is hard dread game. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 08:45 AM |
| 5 | Being Red Pill is worse than committing violent crimes in women's eyes.It's true. You look at the frequency of brag reports and hate speech in here and it becomes obvious. I'd never claim TRP is a place filled with wonderful men, but it's just about the only way a currently hateful asshole can get a grip on his feelings without castrating himself. It's a place that creates great men, but it hasn't been around long enough to show the results, and currently the failure rate is catastrophic. Most guys here are just starting out, is it a surprise that most of them curr… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 08:32 AM |
| 11 | Being Red Pill is worse than committing violent crimes in women's eyes.I've had women find this sub/the manosphere and bring it up with me. I usually just act like I have no idea what it is and look it up. I pretend to read for 2 minutes, apply amused mastery while knocking on all of you fuckers' small penis problems, and then continue on as if it didn't happen. No woman (or person) would ever know I come here. Meanwhile I'm a fucking endorsed contributor... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 08:12 AM |
| 11 | TRP Is Getting Popular - even Simple Pickup hate usExactly. Anyone who gives a shit about the perception of this place is wasting their time. Most people think about as critically as a chimpanzee, and they only bother to give something a second thought when it reinforces the perceptions they've already formed. That's the opposite of what this sub is about. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | TRP Is Getting Popular - even Simple Pickup hate usIt's not that simple. Right now the pickup community is tiny compared to the potential market (all single men). Stirring up controversy is great for these communities because at least 90% of guys have never even heard of these kinds of places. If anything TRP has been a big promoter for simple pickup. I never would have even heard of it if people didn't keep bringing it up here. There have got to be a ton of guys who found the environment here suffocating and moved over to the more digestible, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 06:01 PM |
| 7 | TRP Is Getting Popular - even Simple Pickup hate usAnd because outsiders don't understand the culture of this place, they will take this comment entirely literally and then claim it represents all of TRP and our exact thought processes because it came from a mod. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 05:51 PM |
| 2 | TRP Is Getting Popular - even Simple Pickup hate usThis is a great breakdown. The two biggest advantages that TRP has over anywhere else is diversity of contributors (which you covered) and the fact that it is not a monetizing scheme. Any other PUA or manosphere community is trying to sell you something, and they're willing to compromise on values to expand viewership or get more clicks. The biggest TRP contributors are (mostly) not monetizing anything. When Rollo posts on here we don't suck his dick and upvote his every word to the top of the f… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 05:49 PM |
| 1 | TRP Is Getting Popular - even Simple Pickup hate usMake no mistake, I have always said that Simple Pickup is a business before it's a real aid for men. A business must remain in the good graces of the public, and the public is blue pill. They know that their largest fanbase will be guys who despise the alphas who "disrespect women," so they sell them a fake version of alpha that avoids that behavior entirely. Simple Pickup's bread and butter is betas who want to get tail without ever risking being looked upon poorly. They want to simultaneously … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 05:34 PM |
| 2 | The 10 Commandments of College Girlfriends - surprising amount of TRP truths of TotalFratMove3-6 new girls a year for the single guys in our chapter who actually make an effort. That seems about right. A whole fraternity of guys pulling a new chick every two weeks would be unprecedented success. Obviously some guys do better, but the average guy, even in a top tier frat, cannot rack up 20+ girls/year consistently unless he's stooping incredibly low. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 12:34 AM |
| 1 | The 10 Commandments of College Girlfriends - surprising amount of TRP truths of TotalFratMoveRatio was about equal, maybe 55:45 men:women. To be fair, it was an "elite" school where the women were notoriously ugly to begin with and far more focused on school than looks or relationships. Idk though, I've met your average sorority girl, she's usually carrying a bit of extra pudge with a "cute" face. Exactly the kind of girl the hot girls like to hang out with. "Pretty" but only cute, not hot. I'd say the average sorority girl looked like this, and these were the quality of women who made … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 05:37 PM |
| 2 | The 10 Commandments of College Girlfriends - surprising amount of TRP truths of TotalFratMoveI had a friend/frat bro who would always be pulling GDIs. He was a skinny fat 5'8" fucker with a receding hairline, but he got laid more than at least 75% of the fraternity, and with high quality chicks. He discarded chicks I considered LTR material, and a few of them I might still consider LTR material even after swallowing the pill. Sorority chicks are incredibly overrated, and usually the only reason they look hotter is because they use more make up and wear less clothes. Once the illusion wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 05:13 PM |
| 2 | The 10 Commandments of College Girlfriends - surprising amount of TRP truths of TotalFratMoveThing to remember is most of these girls are 7s and 8s 6s with terrible insecurities. Top girls and the freshmen are 7s and 8s, but let's be honest, by senior year they all look like the typical sorority "Moms" with 20 lbs of pudge and a disproportionate ego. It was always the ugly ones that slutted it up around my fraternity, while the 8s reserved themselves for the highest value guys only. I always refused to be part of the web, but we'd have 6s who made their way around to 30-40% of the frate… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 05:03 PM |
| 3 | The 10 Commandments of College Girlfriends - surprising amount of TRP truths of TotalFratMoveThis is a very accurate representation of modern frat life. The frats get "tiered," which essentially determines which sororities hang out with them most. Top frats hang with the top sororities. The top guys in each frat get the top girls in those sororities, and often the top guys in middle frats can jump up and get solid girls in the top sororities, but not usually the top girls in top sororities. There are still plenty of guys in these frats who are funny and socially connected but not attrac… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 05:00 PM |
| 7 | The 10 Commandments of College Girlfriends - surprising amount of TRP truths of TotalFratMoveBut as soon as they near graduation, reality sets in, and they all turn into gold diggers. Couldn't be more true. I've seen more than a few of my friends' college relationships fall through when the chick realizes that her sweet college boyfriend is working an entry level slave job while some 29 year old dude is already rocking that sweet 2011 Nissan Altima and has a house from the money he saved being a store manager... I'm obviously being a little ridiculous, but there are two aspects to this … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 04:45 PM |
| 9 | DaQuan and the Re-Used CondomI wouldn't go so far. We need to be data driven and logical here if we want this philosophy to be useful. Most women don't cry rape. Even most raped women (as defined by feminists) don't cry rape. If we're talking straight numbers, the vast, vast majority of sexual encounters, regrettable or not, do not result in criminal charges. The vast majority do not result in social/unofficial accusations. Basically, most women will take responsibility, if not entirely, but at least enough not to start cal… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 04:20 PM |
| 14 | [FR] After 6-8 Months of Monk Mode and Swallowing I Decided to Implement TRP at a PartyA lot of guys would've caved right when she said, "Well what about me?" You'll be tempted to give in to it, to make her feel special. It's a losing move. Stick to your guns, but seem reasonable. It's a fine line between not being a pushover and being an asshole who's drawing negative attention to himself. OP did a great job of this. You need to challenge her unreasonableness, not her as a person. When she's reasonable, reward her. When she's not, stop acknowledging her. As an example, I went out… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 11:19 AM |
| 15 | It Shouldn't Be This Easy...It's about being what she doesn't have. It's not just the married ones. If you're highly educated with a good career, find that HB8 dating (not fucking, but exclusively dating) a pot-dealing Starbucks barista. If you're a pot-dealing Starbucks barista, find the sweet girl dating a beta provider. Married girls are just far more desperate for what they don't have. Imagine you ate chicken breast and mashed potatoes every day for 10 years. Dried pork chops and green beans is a farcry from filet mign… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 10:01 PM |
| 110 | It Shouldn't Be This Easy...My dick is 8 inches when I'm dating her, 9 when I break up with her, and 4 when she realizes I'm not coming back. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 09:53 PM |
| 26 | It Shouldn't Be This Easy...Most women consider military men losers. It depends. I find women's perspective of military men depends on her surroundings and essentially whatever is "missing" from her life. If she's had tons of alpha guys, she will be pining for beta relief. If she's been coddled by a beta provider, she's jilling to the idea of a strong, alpha male. I also think military guys (actually all guys) have a ton of confirmation bias. If you're a military guy, chances are you hang around girls who hang around a bun… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 09:45 PM |
| 10 | Experienced AWALT for the first time and that anger phase has returned stronger than everExperiencing it first hand will be yet another time he goes back into anger phase. TRP knowledge is nothing compared to experience. It's like reading up on how to do a surgery without ever doing it yourself. You need TRP to guide you, but you need experience to really be able to live life this way. I think there are four times when you go into anger phase. 1) You read TRP and recognize AWALT in your past or the world in general. 2) You see TRP truths in real life from afar. 3) TRP truths and AWA… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship? Keylog the bitch and meet your girl. It won't be pretty.You're clearly still in anger phase. You describe it as an "advantage" over the women you're dating. She's not your adversary. It's not a battle. It's captain and first mate not captain and mutiny leader. You're missing out on the whole point of being in a relationship: enjoying it. If you have so little trust in her that you're constantly spying, then you're not enjoying it. You're protecting yourself from your fear of being cheated on or being lied to. Be a little more ambitious and try to not… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship? Keylog the bitch and meet your girl. It won't be pretty.There's a difference between Beta billy installing keylogger because of his lack of confidence and an AM, for example, ultimatecad who installed it so that he doesn't have to waste his time with a bitch that doesn't value his monogamous commitment. Weak justification here. The only real reason to monitor someone's communications is to be sure you aren't going to be blindsided with divorce without legal preparation. That rarely comes without warning unless you're horrendously deluded, so when thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 08:37 PM |
| 23 | In a relationship? Keylog the bitch and meet your girl. It won't be pretty.You know how you can tell if you are with someone good. simple.. just pick up their phone. do they lose their fucking mind? Just from seeing you pick it up. This is a tough one. They might be hiding something that is ultimately just an insecurity, or something they don't want you to know about that doesn't hurt you. Before I got extra careful, I would worry that I left TRP up on my laptop when others went to use it. When I was younger, I would worry that someone would stumble upon my porn histor… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 05:52 AM |
| 45 | In a relationship? Keylog the bitch and meet your girl. It won't be pretty.Look, people will get all up in arms in a debate about keylogging, snooping on the computer/phone, and generally invading her privacy, and we're not coming to a resolution any time soon, but I think a few things stand as a given. 1) It is not alpha. Of course it's not. It's a demonstration that you are willing to stay with someone you suspect may be cheating or lying to you. It also displays a lack of confidence in your ability to keep a woman faithful, which is beta (even though it's absurd to … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 05:42 AM |
| 7 | Defeating Gains GoblinsFitbits are the worst. "Oh I walked 15000 steps today, that means I burned an extra XYZ calories. Now I can have that piece of pie in the fridge." Meanwhile, before the fitbit they just didn't realize that living burned calories and they've actually increased their intake. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Defeating Gains GoblinsIt's gotten to the point where when I see someone I haven't seen in about a year, the first thing they comment on is my size. At first I would tell them all about how I put on 30 lbs, now I just brush it off. You get better responses when you say nothing. As I eluded to in another comment, when you make it obvious that you put in work to transform yourself, people see you as your old self + the work you put in. You would rather they just see you as you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 04:18 AM |
| 20 | Defeating Gains GoblinsTry just being very discreet about it. When we go through changes we have a tendency to talk about it... a lot. I know when I first started working out I would talk about it to everyone. That's when people start pulling you back down. Instead, say nothing. Going to the gym? Say you're going out for errands half the time, or even out for a jog (people respond better to "casual" fitness). Gains goblins aren't just for the gym either, they exist for all forms of self-improvement. Buying a new wardr… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Carousel rider in approaching the wall makes a relationships post complaining about her inability to find a decent guy. Apparently men are the problem.The glossary is awesome, but it doesn't always fully capture the concepts. I also think it does a poor job explaining SMV vs. MMV, presenting them as nearly the same thing. When you talk about perceived/actual value you have to specify between sexual value and relationship/marriage value (sometimes abbreviated MMV). Women consistently overestimate their MMV, not their SMV. I could write a whole post on this, but it basically boils down to the idea that women from ages 18-30 hold most of the casu… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Carousel rider in approaching the wall makes a relationships post complaining about her inability to find a decent guy. Apparently men are the problem.Post-wall is when she can't easily get the guys she wants the most simply by looking hot. It's basically when a woman notices that the guys she typically hooks up with aren't approaching her anymore, and they've been replaced by lower value guys. Post-wall a woman still has an easier time getting laid than almost any man, but she has to settle for something less than ideal most nights if she doesn't want to put in the work. This girl is likely post-wall because while she's hooking up with guys, … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I thought you guys were crazy, but...I don't want to hear about all the cock she took before me. That sounds an awful lot like denial. If what she did in the past would disgust you, you need to know about it before it has real consequences. You need to be okay with her past if you're going to use her for anything more than a plate. Also, it does have plenty to do with your relationship. A girl with 50 partners is going to have different issues than a girl with 3. You don't have to ask about her sexual history to make her know that … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 05:54 AM |
| 11 | "...Because Men Have No Balls"For someone of my "level" of attractiveness (7-8 is an honest estimate), I've found that the only women who aggressively put themselves out there are 5s and 6s. Their form of aggressively putting themselves out there is aggressive flirting and initiated kino. Often times the flirting starts with a shit test while you're standing next to each other at the bar. I can admit that is putting yourself out there, but girls don't do this for guys on their actual level. They do it for guys they know woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 04:03 AM |
| 2 | I thought you guys were crazy, but...You can usually get her to relax about it. It's a winning move. For one, being casual about sex is almost always a sign that you have plenty of it, which demonstrates value in her eyes. When she's more relaxed or feels she has to compete with you then she'll be more honest. Overall though, it's not a particularly important red flag, it's just highly correlated with other red flags that actually matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 03:45 AM |
| 127 | Carousel rider in approaching the wall makes a relationships post complaining about her inability to find a decent guy. Apparently men are the problem.I want to point out one commenter's technique for deflecting criticism while calling her a whore. My grandmother would have said you're acting like a whore while expecting to be treated like a princess, but I'll give you my two cents. Does this hold up to stringent logic and good argument practices? No, but it sure is effective in disabling a slut who knows it deep down. I love the grandmother line. She was a part of the last generation that believed that a woman doesn't deserve all the sex and … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 03:36 AM |
| 6 | Top Linguistic/History scholar Atttacked for Taking Red PillWhat I found particularly hilarious is that those same women would probably bend over for an ex con who turned his life around. It's funny when you look at which crimes we consider the most heinous. Respect is given based on the tingles you produce, not the actual effects of your actions. You can talk about how you joined a gang when you were 15 and spent the better part of 10 years killing other men and destroying the neighborhood while you were slinging drugs, but as long as you write a book a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 03:22 AM |
| 16 | Top Linguistic/History scholar Atttacked for Taking Red PillLuckily for us, we don't have to confront them. We don't have to "win" as men. We have to win as individuals. The truth is, feminism is still nothing but a shit test. No one has taken away our rights to resist through our personal actions (e.g. not marrying and/or signing firm prenups, spinning plates instead of being in committed relationships, etc...). This is all just noise. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Top Linguistic/History scholar Atttacked for Taking Red PillFeminism is the new McCarthyism It makes me uncomfortable how apt this comparison is. All the same elements are there. It's a movement applying fear to push a particular ideology. We just have to see who writes the history books 100 years from now. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Husband finds out he is infertile, wife tells him either he lets her EX impregnate her or she walks (XPOST)Let's see. Guy tries to have a child with his wife but they're having issues. He won't get himself checked out so resentment builds. His wife is now doubting both his literal and figurative virility. What do women do when they're trapped in a relationship with a guy who is both beta and pissing them off? They find their old alpha fling and offer him rough, NSA sex. The only reason she hasn't left him for Ben is she's not sure that Ben will come through and stay with her. She's obviously already … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Ugly girls are not nice.They have NO WAY of improving their value We live in a world where 2/3 of women are overweight and "curves" are beautiful. This is a world where to be below average you have to have an ugly face, 30 extra pounds, and a bad fashion sense. Just being moderately healthy makes you a 5. I work/study at least 80 hours/week, and I still find time to manage my diet and workout. There is no excuse except laziness. These women are nasty because they choose to be, and I have no sympathy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 02:08 AM |
| 12 | Ugly girls are not nice.My experience is that all types of women act essentially the same with men who are of the same relative attractiveness. A woman who is a 4 will treat a male 3 the same way a 7 will treat a male 6. It's only when you get to the extremes of attractiveness (9s and 1s) where this gets skewed. If you are: Way out of her league: She's searching for a lesser form of validation, agreement and platonic respect. She realizes she has no chance with you so she just tries to be friendly and earn your respect… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Poor chick manipulated into doing porn does AMA, gets called outIt's part of the porn fantasy. If this girl was really at Columbia, her story would be as big as the girl from Duke. Probably bigger because she is out here crying rape. Really, it's all just marketing. Probably she's a washed up nobody who needed cash and got into porn. Then the producers said, "hey we'll give you more money as a part of our marketing team. Pretend you're this perfect angel, completely normal girl whose life was basically ruined by us." Or maybe they even just took those pics w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 01:27 AM |
| 7 | The thing Jared Rutledge did wrong was apologize.These men are not being vilified because they objectively did anything wrong, they're being vilified because they were outed as good betas who were trying to buck their place in the social order. That is what feminism is trying to suppress, well-behaved betas who realize they don't have to be anymore. Jared and Jacob were business owners in a city full of betas who have "like, two part-time jobs and four roommates." None of the women they slept with held any ill-will against them. How many guys,… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Why Every Relationship Should Begin as Friends-with-BenefitsNot sure how apt the comparison would be if we met in real life, but he seems like a reasonable enough guy I guess. At the very least, he follows a line of logic while also keeping things entertaining. That's definitely not something everyone who posts about social issues is capable of. I'd like to think my posts accomplish the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 07:06 AM |
| 3 | End GameI would argue that the best end game of all is to be constantly pushing towards further goals. In other words, there is no end game, only constant improvement which is defined by your desires. The vast majority of the most influential and successful men on earth spent their last days pursuing yet another goal, acting as though their end was lifetimes away. Personally, I am happiest in the pursuit and accomplishment of a goal, not in enjoying the "fruits of my labor." That type of enjoyment happe… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Why Every Relationship Should Begin as Friends-with-BenefitsMeet some girls who don't have time for a relationship. Not, "I don't have time for a relationship right now," but girls who legitimately don't have the time to put into a relationship but still want their weekly dose of dick to come from a known/safe place. I'm in med school, so this kind of thing is a bit more abundant than in most places. I should probably specify that, because you're right, 95% of women and probably 95% of FWB situations aren't really FWB, but rather a continuous string of h… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 03:13 AM |
| 8 | Why Every Relationship Should Begin as Friends-with-BenefitsMore generally, a girl should give you what you want before you give her what she wants. I think of a FWB a little differently than OP in that in most of my FWB situations it is understood that the relationship is platonic + sex. That is, both parties are actively avoiding romance in the relationship. In that sense, I wouldn't want to be a true FWB first because she wouldn't be trying to earn my commitment. However, I agree with what OP is saying in general. Something earned is more valuable to … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Guy discovers his son isn't his and misses the big picture of sexual strategy. That's likely not the only Alpha cock shes ridden, and she's only crying because she got caught.Unicorns don't exist for men or women, but women can definitely come a lot closer to fucking one because they have so many more options. That's why being in the top half doesn't really get you anywhere. Women can next a new guy every hour, which means she can go through and find the best guy out of the last 50 she's met that were willing to fuck her (which, if she's a 7 or higher, is most guys). So by the numbers, if you want to find a person who is top 10% in looks, intelligence, and money, you… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 05:55 PM |
| 14 | The LBI Scale - A way to rate people not just on looks.Trying to come up with any sort of equations or universal rating system is usually wasted effort. At the end of the day, we can't even decide on 1-10 in looks. Also, the B and I give way too much room for male hamstering. Yeah she's 40 lbs overweight, a hard 3, but she the only woman I know willing to suck my dick so I'm giving her an 8 in basic and a 9 in intangibles. Look at that, she's a 6.2! We will never agree universally on a system to rate women overall because the only thing we really al… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 05:18 AM |
| 7 | Interesting Fittit Thread On How Lifting Changes How People Treat YouOptimal game does change with appearance. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to sell you a "one size fits all" cure to your girl problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 04:59 AM |
| 5 | Free sex and probabilistic reproduction vs mate selectionany women who divorced their husbands while pregnant and/or lactating Because women don't have the power to leave during these times. Seriously, no one picks up pregnant chicks, and women don't have the time to date around when they're taking care of small children. It's just a dumb move. even with more than one child You're kidding right? This is most divorced couples I know. By the way, anatomically modern man has only been around for 160,000 years, and psychologically modern man for a few tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 04:56 AM |
| 7 | Free sex and probabilistic reproduction vs mate selectionA desire for genetic diversity once they are reasonably sure their first genetic legacy is safe. It just makes sense that evolutionarily a woman employing these strategies would succeed. Find a male who suits your reproductive needs? Fuck him until you're pregnant, if you're not pregnant in 4-6 months, lose desire and move on. If you are pregnant, stick around and use him for protection until the child is old enough to be somewhat independent, or at least not in constant need of a body guard. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Free sex and probabilistic reproduction vs mate selectionI'm a firm believer that the "honeymoon phase" and the "seven year itch" are biological phenomena that show us our true capacity for monogamy without purposefully resisting our urges. The first is the time to conception, where if pregnancy isn't achieved by some number of months then the man is considered infertile and the woman loses desire. The second is the time to raising a stable child, somewhat similar to the 4-5 year pair bonding theory. This is why I'm a huge fan of the "mini relationshi… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 01:22 AM |
| 7 | Free sex and probabilistic reproduction vs mate selectionI think that as sex would not be distributed evenly we would see a raise in agression and frustration in those who do not get sex. Interesting to note that as our society moves closer and closer to this, at least for our younger years of adulthood (the modern day college experience is essentially a mix of the free sex model and short term pair bonding), we're seeing violent outbursts from those excluded from sex (e.g. mass shootings are almost always carried out by sexless omegas). Back in the t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Ten Red Pill Writers Comment on PornographyRub one out to fantasy. So much healthier. Porn works by overstimulation. You're consuming something powerful coming from the outside. It's meant to overwhelm you, which is why it gets so graphic (e.g. BDSM, gang bangs, etc...). It's much healthier to get off to a scenario rather than get off to something meant to shock your pleasure center. Also, there's a huge difference between rubbing one out once a day and going at it 4-5 times every day with escalating porn use. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Guy discovers his son isn't his and misses the big picture of sexual strategy. That's likely not the only Alpha cock shes ridden, and she's only crying because she got caught.A woman searching for a massive cock is usually a dumb endeavor. I know a few size queens, and usually when they finally find that thick, 8 inch monster cock, the guy is either too dumb to know how to use it or too unattractive overall for it to be impressive. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 12:33 AM |
| 12 | Guy discovers his son isn't his and misses the big picture of sexual strategy. That's likely not the only Alpha cock shes ridden, and she's only crying because she got caught.A fair point. Obviously she only has to believe it's true. It basically stems from the idea that women aren't opposed to seeking the "full package" from multiple guys, which can ultimately be distilled down to AF/BB. I also believe that men tend to judge other men as a whole, while women judge men for the value they provide to her in her given situation. If hubby is missing trait X, and she thinks that guy from work can provide it, it doesn't matter if he's a alcohol addicted, creepy loser, she … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 07:00 AM |
| 1 | "I'm a cold hearted bitch..."Your young. This doesn't help much now, but when you're older you'll look back on these years and you won't really care what happened. If you have some good times, awesome. If you're a super beta nerd, an insecure try hard, or just plain awkward, you won't care. Clean up your act as much as you can before college. A few pointers I had (and still do,) a tendency to walk around listening to music & to just get lost in my thoughts Instead of getting lost in your thoughts, spend time building your s… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 05:20 AM |
| 10 | RANT: New Show Picked up by FOX to Feature First Female Major League PitcherShows like this only highlight the differences between what the feminist agenda is pushing and what is possible in reality. It's a fantastic juxtaposition really. Here's the media, where a weak looking, "cute" girl (with a snarky attitude most likely), is able to compete with some of the greatest male athletes in the world. Then there's reality, where this is complete and utter nonsense. At some point we have to acknowledge that men and women are different, and not just in the ways that benefit … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 05:05 AM |
| 15 | Ten Red Pill Writers Comment on PornographyToday's porn has become another level of the instant gratification culture we live in today. It is the same problem that activities like lifting and building a career act to counter. Let me ask you something. When you watch porn, do you sit back and let the movie play? Do you watch the intro, stay for the dialogue, beat off to the action, and then get off at the end and be done with it? OR, do you skip the intro, watch a minute or two and then skip ahead, watch another minute and skip ahead, cli… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 04:57 AM |
| 10 | Guy discovers his son isn't his and misses the big picture of sexual strategy. That's likely not the only Alpha cock shes ridden, and she's only crying because she got caught.What I really made was a good argument for the state to regard the care of children as an investment, rather than enabling societies most heinous women to raise our future generation. It's a good argument for a major enhancement of public education, which branches to complete care for orphaned children (rather than leaving them undeveloped and primed to leech the system later in life). It's a better argument for acknowledging that women are not better suited to raising children, and that they sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 04:38 AM |
| 57 | Guy discovers his son isn't his and misses the big picture of sexual strategy. That's likely not the only Alpha cock shes ridden, and she's only crying because she got caught.He doesn't have to be better than you. He just has to be better than you in one single way. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 12:15 AM |
| 27 | Guy discovers his son isn't his and misses the big picture of sexual strategy. That's likely not the only Alpha cock shes ridden, and she's only crying because she got caught.Really, most of women's legal advantages in society can be traced back to the transition of the role of children from laborers to dependents. Economically, once it became a burden on the system to care for children without a mother, or to care for children whose mother could not support them, laws started to turn in favor of women. This is why most forms of crime that women commit are either punished less harshly or not punished at all. Violent or aggressive crimes (a nearly exclusively male out… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 12:14 AM |
| 5 | When Oneitis for a Slut Strikes:The Case of KBEven if you can handle a lion, a dog still makes for a better pet. Really though, there is no advantage to marrying a former party chick. They might be hotter for a few extra years, but just as often alcohol and cartons of ice cream catch up with them, and you can find chicks just as hot that don't party. They might be crazier in bed, but they're just as likely to be alpha widowed by the long line of dudes they fucked before you, and you can usually train a shy, submissive girl into being a frea… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.You provided no context and a graph that didn't even support your point. You really can't argue with stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.This isn't even relevant data... It's two specific geographic areas, limited to whites, and is nowhere near the actual divorce rates of the US. If this were more representative than my many sources that sample the entire US population, then divorce rate would be well below 50% for everyone anyway. It's got rates in 2010 at 8% for working professionals and only 35% for the lower class. If you're looking at the trends, then take a look at the data I provided, which is from a more reliable source, … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Alpha destruction--breeding with a weak beauty and 'punifying' the offspring??..Dude, this is my profession. Just accept that you know nothing about this. This isn't how it works, and you're quoting fucking wordpress blogs. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Alpha destruction--breeding with a weak beauty and 'punifying' the offspring??..... and then sometimes you have to acknowledge that your perspective might not be that of an expert, and maybe you should leave the speculation to the people who actually do this stuff. The poor condition of teeth and hair of poor people has little to do with "lacking modern cosmetics". I could go on and on about the resources that people have to improve these things and how they're only available to those who can afford them, but the point is unless it costs the state money because your child i… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 12:27 AM |
| 20 | When Oneitis for a Slut Strikes:The Case of KBNow, KB is smart, witty, good looking, charming, and loves the gym as much as i do. Sounds like you guys were young here, maybe 15ish. Guys who have their shit together when they're young have a tendency to be alright with LTRing sluts. Why? Because if you had the ability to get laid when you were 15, you took the opportunities presented to you. Who was presenting the opportunities at that age? Sluts. But kids didn't just hook up at that age. They'd (usually) enter into "relationships" first bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.I feel like this should go without saying. Who actually likes that shit anyway? The only time a chick with fake tits looks better is in a low cut dress, otherwise they look worse, feel worse, and indicate a whole string of bad decisions and dependence on sexual validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.You're attacking everything but the actual argument, which is really just bad rhetoric. You also ignored that the supposedly pathetically low sample size managed to quite accurately match data from nearly every other source, so maybe you actually have no clue what constitutes a representative sample. A representative sample must capture the diversity of a population with regards to the variable you're measuring, yet you keep talking about size as if that's the key metric. The census is larger be… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Alpha destruction--breeding with a weak beauty and 'punifying' the offspring??..Well we don't have to extrapolate, we can interpolate data from the past... I'm gonna be a little autistic here and point out that what you described is the definition of extrapolation, not interpolation. Otherwise, yeah it's not like everyone will be considered attractive. Although it might be a field day for guys. Women usually judge attractiveness on a very relative scale, where they can really only be attracted to a certain percentage of guys. Guys on the other hand, pretty much fuck above a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Alpha destruction--breeding with a weak beauty and 'punifying' the offspring??..Look at the teeth of people in low income neighborhoods. Look at the hair of people in low income neighborhoods. Look at basically any "fixable" cosmetic problem and you will see a massive disparity between the wealthy and the poor. Right now we can alter height through GH therapy, it's just that not many people opt for it because it's expensive (and medically irresponsible for those without a deficiency). Greater technological ability will change how people look in the suburbs, then it will cre… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.This is fucking disappointing. I thought most people on TRP were better than this. a) the data source is very, very old - at least a decade to decade and a half depending on the variable. From the site The National Longitudinal Survey of Youth 1979 consists of men and women who were born in the years 1957–1964 and were ages 14 to 22 when first interviewed in 1979. These individuals were ages 45 to 52 in 2010–2011 The data was collected in 2010-2011. It's about as recent as you can get for longer… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 05:53 PM |
| 15 | Matthew Santoro melts down and cries on camera while describing "extreme emotional and physical abuse" by ex-girlfriend Nicole ArbourWhat gets more youtube subscribers, the alpha who laughs in her face and never thinks about her again or the guy crying about a hot button social issue ("men are abused too!") in front of x million subscribers? Never analyze the behavior of "stars", especially the ones on the fringe. This could just as easily be a career move for all we know. Just ignore these people entirely. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 07:02 AM |
| 13 | Matthew Santoro melts down and cries on camera while describing "extreme emotional and physical abuse" by ex-girlfriend Nicole ArbourHere's my issue with the post. You're analyzing the behavior of two individuals who make a living drawing attention to themselves. You've got a Jenna Marbles impersonator (Jesus that's a shitty title) who posts an inflammatory "fat-shaming" video because she knows what brings in the views. Then you've got a guy who, as far as I can tell, is famous for pretty much no reason aside from what is probably brilliant marketing, because I can't find a single remarkable thing about his videos compared to… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 06:52 AM |
| 5 | Woman attempted to ruin my life.Lessons: While it fucking sucks, sometimes you have to feed the hamster. We're not a movement. We're here doing what's best for us, and if you have to say some things you don't mean, so be it. You'd be wise to take the same approach in business as well. I understand that you are not expecting this to be a moment of any consequence at all. You probably make 20+ deliveries a night if not more, most are uneventful, and almost none ever come back to you, but you need to make this a habit in general.… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 06:23 AM |
| 61 | “…And Lucy Tries Harder”Hmmm... a "quiet as a church-mouse" girl who happens to be a dating and fucking a known "player" who doesn't commit. Certainly fits the bill. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.Hasn't been true since the 70s or 80s, and it's especially not true if you're a college educated man or someone who gets married later in life. Check out the numbers from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Basically, overall 44.2% of first marriages end in divorce. If you have a bachelors degree, that goes down to 29.7%. If you're older than 30, it goes down significantly more. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 05:50 AM |
| 1 | UVA Jackie lied about gang rape, terminal illness, and invented a dude, all to manipulate one guy into fucking herExactly. Anonymity in any trial should be a right afforded to all people until a verdict is reached. By all means, tape the trial, release the footage afterwards to ensure the process is transparent. The way things are now the media has convicted him long before he can prove his innocence. Even with these famous cases, the initial accusations were far more publicized than the final conclusions. In lesser cases, the media will publish your accusation so that it shows up on Google when your name i… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.Exactly, there are many great ways to protect your assets. I know a guy who just got engaged to a girl from a wealthy family. His girlfriend's parents then stopped paying her tuition for school. Why? Because they didn't want her taking on the majority of the living expenses post-grad school simply because she had less debt (e.g. she puts down the majority of a down payment on a house because she has the money and he doesn't). They somehow worked out that the interest on loans for her remaining y… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.Most marriages don't end in divorce. I say shoot for the best one possible, which might very well be one where she stays at home. After all, that's more or less the end game of most guys here, so you may as well try for it. Hell, by learning TRP you know more about women's minds than 90% of guys, I like your odds a lot more than most guys'. Changing your whole relationship dynamic to maybe save a bit of money is, imo, foolish. Instead take steps to protect your assets. If you choose to get marri… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 09:29 PM |
| 12 | Field Report: A fool and his money are easily parted.I actually think it's the opposite. They will tell him he chose the wrong girl, but they'll tell him he did everything right except choosing. He was a good husband, a solid provider, and she never had any ambition. They'll blame her entirely and allow him to get off thinking he was a victim and require him to take no responsibility to change himself. TRP teaches you to choose well, but it also shows you that you can never choose a unicorn. While choosing a good woman will help tremendously, ulti… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The Wall is realThey have to see her as high value relative to her, not in general. He's the best thing she can get for her social status, not the best thing out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | A Word About FeminismDon't feed the trolls. Mods, care to take out the trash? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Legalize prostitution and relax fiance visa regulations before society implodesWomen (you know the type) even hate it that strip clubs exist b/c it draws attention away from them and their 'mom' bods. But strip clubs are renowned for 'mom' bods, specifically 'single mom' bods. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.In an effort to actually treat rape victims effectively, I think there should be distinctions made in rape charges. As of now true rape victims are being lumped in with girls who either can't communicate or can't see the difference between "he physically overcame me," and, "I was okay with sucking his dick, but I don't like the way he put his hand on my head while I was doing it." For instance, you could have rape by violent assault (e.g. date rape, at gun point, or use of physical force), rape … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.Jesus, this is sickening. Just the way she's parading around and gasping for attention. It's really giving the complete wrong impression about rape. Most actual rape victims don't feel comfortable getting naked at all, and they definitely don't get naked in public with strangers (or in showers), and her complete lack of understanding logic or the word "prove" really bothers me. Not only do I enjoy the freedom I feel being nude in nature, but it's also to prove the point that nudity does not equa… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.I read it fine, and I'm saying that grabbing someone's crotch =/= consent for sex. It's an IOI, a strong one, but ultimately nothing more. Consent for sex is obtained right before you have sex, usually when you reach for the condom and start to prep for sex, not in the bar beforehand, not in the uber back from the bar. I believe that at no point should you feel entitled to have sex with someone if you do not have consent. She can bail halfway through, sure, but it's totally fucked up and shouldn… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 05:09 PM |
| -3 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.I agree with you, I just don't see where it's incongruent with my comment. She's clearly knowingly putting herself in these situations, which means the situation warrants that she be chastised rather than applauded, but it doesn't absolve the guy. He has no idea about the first 9 times. All you can say about him is that a woman put herself in a precarious situation around him and he took advantage. Now, where it comes back around is in establishing proof. Obviously the source is far less reliabl… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Building a social circle in a brand new cityAsk this in asktrp and you'll get an answer | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 07:04 AM |
| 10 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.Not what I was saying at all. The girl in the example is a hyperbolic case of a woman's actions making rape incredibly easy for a man. My point is that regardless of how easy she makes it, he is still at fault for raping her, just as the mugger is still at fault for mugging the man. You wouldn't absolve a man of robbery charges if he used the defense, "I mean, come on, he was basically begging me to rob him." The point is, we need to deal with each party separately. There are a few "types" of ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 06:54 AM |
| 8 | Women Are More Comfortable Sharing A LoverYou know why women are more comfortable with it? It's because there is a scarcity of men. Yes there are more men than women in the world, but there is a scarcity of men. Women don't want to share any more than you do, but to a woman having a beta male is like having no male at all. Men see attraction on a sliding scale, while women have alphas (who are on a sliding scale), and betas and omegas (who are sexually useless). Women are looking for a few things in a relationship: genuine attraction, s… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 06:31 AM |
| 12 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.I'm not even denying that it was rape. I do think she was raped. I completely agree with the notion that if a girl passes out naked in an abandoned room and someone fucks her, it's rape. Just like if you wander around in the hood waving $100 bills around and get violently mugged, it's still robbery/assault. In both cases though, the victim is an idiot, but a victims idiocy does not release the perpetrator of responsibility for the crime. In those two cases, you handle the victim and perpetrator … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 04:51 AM |
| 4 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.I'm not even denying that it was rape. I do think she was raped. I completely agree with the notion that if a girl passes out naked in an abandoned room and someone fucks her, it's rape. Just like if you wander around in the hood waving $100 bills around and get violently mugged, it's still robbery/assault. In both cases though, the victim is an idiot, but a victims idiocy does not release the perpetrator of responsibility for the crime. In those two cases, you handle the victim and perpetrator … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 04:51 AM |
| 17 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.Having any remorse or stopping at that point is rape of the man, not the woman. Rape of the man? Bro that makes no sense. It's a bitch move, but it's not "raping" the man. No one will take our claims seriously if we're not at least logical. Women saying 'stop' anytime during a sexual encounter isn't exactly fair. I know this is TRP, but I really don't agree with this. There is such a thing as fooling around without having sex, and if a guy decides to push it further than she's comfortable then h… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 04:15 AM |
| 11 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.She's from New York (shocker!). She was there on a trip and this happened in a hostel | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 01:04 AM |
| 2 | I had my Professional Profile doxed by SJWs; words of caution to my fellow Red Pillers.On the outside, act like a natural alpha. My natural alpha friends tend to say things similar to TRP, but with none of the lingo. "Every girl is a slut except my Mom and my Grandma," is one of the more common ones I've heard. These same guys refuse LDRs, understand the girls like bad boys, and exploit dread and social proof like no one's business. Just keep it relaxed, don't get over-invested, and generally avoid these topics. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 11:58 PM |
| 1 | I had my Professional Profile doxed by SJWs; words of caution to my fellow Red Pillers.First of all, we are very guilty of this on TRP. Confirmation bias is TRP's biggest weakness, and it's something we need to work on desperately. We have a set narrative and think everything is figured out, but the truth is we're still ironing out the kinks in a lot of ways. which can be uncomfortable if you are one of the facts in need of adjustment. For feminism, the narrative is that the white male oppresses all women and minorities. Unfortunately they made some very impressive progress but th… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 11:53 PM |
| 3 | I had my Professional Profile doxed by SJWs; words of caution to my fellow Red Pillers.For fucks sake, if you have anything to lose by being found out here you need to be more careful. Just look at what happened to those coffee shop owners down in Asheville. You think well-known manosphere guys have even the slightest chance of employment outside of the life they've made for themselves? Personally, I only post behind a VPN, and I usually use a public wifi connection anyway since I can reach the local coffee shop's signal from my apartment. I change inconsequential details in my st… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 11:45 PM |
| 14 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.White knight who believes in the male romantic fantasy of saving the damsel in distress. "Every man before me has been an evil, misogynistic rapist who had no respect for her. She's yearning so much for a kind, compassionate man who will love and respect her that she will love and respect me because I am everything that those men are not." Then he realizes her definition of rape is any unwanted sexual advance at all, even if he stops as soon as she tells him to. Then she goes out and gets "raped… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 11:26 PM |
| 143 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.At first I was inclined to believe her. Okay, seems plausible that a rape activist would get raped and then acknowledge that the most logical thing to do is to document and spread the word. Then I kept reading and looking into her background. There's very little evidence to go on, but a few details here are telling. Raped 10 times. Extremely unlikely that a young woman will be raped 10 times by different people. Despite being very aware of the dynamics of rape and how it usually progresses, she … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 11:15 PM |
| 19 | (on Reddit's frontpage) Guy's GF fucks his dad, begs for second chance and threatens to do it again if he doesn't forgive herYou don't fuck your son's gf if you've got abundance mentality. You might cheat to escape from a sexless marriage, but you don't fuck your son's gf. This guy's scarcity mindset led him to ruin his relationship with his son. However, this shit is probably made up. I'm sure this exact scenario has happened somewhere, but it's 4chan. It's made up. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Same day lay online dating version. How difficult is it?Less about you and more about her. With sky high SMV and great game you can get it to happen, but it'll still only work if she's on the very far end of the slutty spectrum. Generally when this happens, unless you are about as good looking as they come, she's way below you. Think about the last time a girl made it so easy for you that all you had to do was say yes. Usually she's a long ways below you in SMV. That's the kind of girl you could get to do a same day bang. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 10:18 PM |
| 6 | More Women in Hell Than MenI never use social media. Giant waste of time, but I might try to shame her out of it. She values her reputation more than almost anything. I say make a video of you showing and explaining the DNA test and explaining that she is still making you pay child support. Send her the video first and tell her you'll post it and send it to her mom, siblings, and friends if she does not cease the support payments. She'll most likely stop it before you do unless she literally can't make rent without the pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 07:47 AM |
| 3 | More Women in Hell Than MenThere should be a clause when you claim paternity that excludes you from child support if the child is later proven to not be yours biologically. It should be the default, and if a guy knowingly wants to be cucked then he can waive that aspect of it and claim full responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 07:38 AM |
| 2 | More Women in Hell Than MenIt's part of a cycle. I wouldn't be surprised if it goes significantly further before swinging back, but it will swing back. It's just that these cycles occur on timescales bigger than 1 lifetime, so settle in for the ride, stop trying to change the world, and position yourself for success. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 07:35 AM |
| 28 | [Field Report] Social proof gives the best tinglesHalf of what a woman wants from you is bragging rights. Give her that and she'll "love" you forever. At the end of the day love is an exchange of resources, give her the one she wants the most and it'll drive her up a wall. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Good bye Vasectomy.Hello Sperm switch: Turn a switch inside your scrotum to turn your sperm on or offYes, but you know where you stand, and it's a one time thing. Why incorporate a feature that "switches" automatically but doesn't take an effect for months? That's asking for trouble. You'll definitely have guys turning on and off their switches left and right like it's immediate. With the vasectomy you're very aware of how long it takes to be effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 06:47 AM |
| 5 | Becoming friends with Girls?You wanna make friends with one? Add the sexual tension in and never act on it, ever. This is the only good relationship you can have with women. Either she is attracted to you and you let her hang, or you both have an attraction and never act on it intentionally. Anything else is beta orbiting. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Good bye Vasectomy.Hello Sperm switch: Turn a switch inside your scrotum to turn your sperm on or offThis is an awful idea because patient compliance for proper use will be garbage. Most people can't even read two lines of directions on a pill bottle. The fact that it's a switch means thousands of men are going to think they can just switch on/off on a complete whim. If it takes months to clear yourself out anyway, what's the point of the switch? I'd rather vasalgel or even a vasectomy where at least I know where I stand. If this enters the market, there will be a class action suit with the fir… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 03:57 PM |
| 12 | Israeli academics discover the post-wall women in the HR department, and find that they discriminate in favor of attractive men and discrimiate against attractive womenYou need to back up these common sense claims with data or anyone can call foul when you incorporate this into your business practices. Also, these people don't get much money to study this stuff. They're usually struggling to find a decent research assistant to trudge through all the shitty data and handle the logistics for the studies. Trust me, research funding mostly goes to healthcare. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:31 AM |
| -5 | Israeli academics discover the post-wall women in the HR department, and find that they discriminate in favor of attractive men and discrimiate against attractive womenHiring ugly women, even for a job meant for attractive women, won't get you fired. It's too easily turned around. How did he sabotage the company? Well, he hired ugly women for our booth. So these lovely ladies aren't attractive enough for you? You're firing him because you don't like his taste in women? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:24 AM |
| 5 | "All those other guys are like garbage"You should assume that about 90% of the posts on here are greatly embellished to at least 1) More accurately reflect TRP principles in a "textbook" way 2) Ensure that no one can attribute the OP's success to anything other than his strategy You know reality. You know it's far more complicated than most of the shit you read on TRP. TRP increases your success rate when you already had a chance, but it does not create success on it's own. TRP is useful because thinking of the world in this way will… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:54 AM |
| 2 | "All those other guys are like garbage"Not that even being 6'+ and good looking is an absolute guarantee of success, but at that point you're going to have women interested in you even if you're borderline socially retarded. Women see a tall, good looking guy who has trouble getting out of his shell and they all think the same thing. 1) He's an easy target. 2) Unlike Chad, he might stick around. 3) "I can change him" (to optimize the amount of social status being with him provides me). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:33 AM |
| 1 | "All those other guys are like garbage"Can't help but agree with you. Honestly, you've been in social situations before. You've seen this before. Would she really have just walked up to a 5'6" guy because he gave her shit a few times? No. She basically handed herself to him on a platter. Your game would have to be different. You'd have to be the life of the party and get all the guys looking up to you somehow. I knew a 5'4" guy with so much confidence that I seriously never even realized he was short. I looked through his FB photos t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:28 AM |
| 2 | "All those other guys are like garbage""Toes," that shit cracks me up. Another favorite is "Jagger". Non-hockey fans are pretty easy to spot. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 04:15 AM |
| 1 | A little Chinese RP nugget on being too niceTrying to find perfect balance from the starting point of "nice guy" is nearly impossible. Be an asshole for a while. Having seen both sides of the equation, it'll be much easier to see what gets results and where you need to draw the line. Most nice guys go through an asshole phase before they become good guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 03:54 AM |
| 6 | A little Chinese RP nugget on being too niceI agree with this except for one aspect. It also goes to show that you have to be 'on' all the time Eventually this will all become second nature. I've been steadily improving, even before TRP I was steamrolling towards confidence and success, and at first it was hard. At first I felt constantly uncomfortable, not myself. My new persona made me self-conscious. Now it's just me. I'm going to say ridiculous things. I'm going to let someone know when I don't agree. I'm going to be loud and command … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 03:44 AM |
| 35 | Protect yourself from ending up on the sex offender registryDon't just delete them. Buy a new phone, block her number, microwave the old one, put it through a shredder, and throw it in the ocean. These days all it takes to be accused of possession of child porn is a thumbnail in the deleted section of your hard drive that an "expert" thought looked underage, maybe, according to a completely subjective scale. I'm usually one to avoid conspiracy theories, but I'm not entirely convinced that this isn't a common strategy used by the government to get rid of … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 03:34 AM |
| 1 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessI didn't go through any special diets. My eating habits were notoriously awful before I started working out, but I have fixed that since. I am going through med school, and I would consider that an abnormally stressful event, but this began before I started (not that being a pre-med engineer or working in the startup world was a laugh either). Stressful events usually cause telogen effluvium, which will thin your hair everywhere, not in a MPB shape like mine, so I can safely say that I'd be goin… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 08:10 PM |
| 2 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceThis submission was meant as satire. As you can see I'm not drawing real conclusions from this, and I'm not encouraging anyone to rage at the musings of this standard slut. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 08:02 PM |
| 13 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceIt's biology. The 120 lb sorostitute is not going to be able to keep up with the 220 lb football player, but she'll do everything she can to "impress" him. It's because she's impressed by guys who can drink other guys under the table, so she naturally thinks he'll be impressed too. Meanwhile, he's more than happy to let her make that mistake, get her drunk enough to fuck, and leave at 3 am to avoid the awkward morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:59 PM |
| 11 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceShame. I didn't think of it at the time. This was entirely a joke and I was expecting it to die out at around 40 upvotes or so, I usually know a 100+ post when I write it, but this one surprised me. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:30 AM |
| 18 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceWomen who are "fierce" are trying very hard to appear that way. They only get away with it because guys still want to fuck and girls don't see through the facade. People will still call these girls out on their bullshit because it's hardly fooling anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Being An Asshole Won't Get You LaidOP, you went through a very important phase of development. Don't regret a single thing that you did, because you're on the road to becoming a much better person. I went through a similar phase, granted it was before I found TRP, but it served the same purpose. When I joined a fraternity, I found that I was a bit out of place. I was able to act alpha enough for a few weeks to get a bid, but by the time I finished pledging I was clearly unable to keep up with the general expected level of alpha i… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Being An Asshole Won't Get You LaidCorrelation =/= causation basically explains 95% of the hamstering that goes on in the minds of blue pill men and on subs like purple pill debate/relationships. She "loved" when he got her flowers. She was so happy when he said he wanted to be her boyfriend. She was so happy that he took her out to that $200 dinner. All those statements are true, but they are a consequence of everything that goes on behind the scenes that you aren't seeing. I could write a whole post on this. It's a huge part of… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 06:57 AM |
| 4 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceI figured TRP could use a laugh. All this serious talk about conspiracy and sexual assault lately... Not a serious post obviously. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 06:14 AM |
| 19 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceGood call, I'll switch them up now. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 06:04 AM |
| 50 | 12 Reasons You Should Date a Retired Party Girl... and other fantastic adviceWhy wouldn't she? She's fun and exciting, not like those prude girls who never go out. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 02:10 AM |
| 23 | Twitter's newest trend #wastehistime2016There are guys who tie her down (for easy sex/out of lack of abundance) and continually promise to make a wife and mother out of her for years while he searches for a hotter branch to swing to. It happens with men too, and it's a product of scarcity mindset. She's here, she's available, she's currently having sex with him. He knows he doesn't want her in the long run, but strings her along anyway because it's convenient right now and he's not totally secure with himself. When his "unicorn" final… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 02:02 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill and hair loss - a guide to keeping your hairI'm glad this didn't turn into a flame war. That's why I love TRP, you actually get mature responses and reasonable debates. having a full head of lustrous hair did not get me laid as much as frame, confidence, and poise. Amen. chemicals on your head [...] unknown and unforeseeable consequences down the road I understand this, especially for a cosmetic problem. I guess I just see people far too often who resist modern medicine because they believe the chemicals are harmful without having an actu… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessIt's MPB. Horseshoe pattern. Found old pics of my maternal grandpa, who I never knew, and the dude was heavily balding. I just wish I'd known, I would've started treatment even earlier and maybe kept my hair for life. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:33 PM |
| 6 | The Red Pill and hair loss - a guide to keeping your hairI've been on it a year with only good results, and the 10 year results of clinical trials have been pretty good with no serious side effects. Guys have been on it for up to 17 years with no side effects anecdotally. Guys have been on he same drug for prostate enlargement even longer (20+ years). I really hate responding to all these comments, but you guys really have no clue how to look at medications and assess their effects. Everything beyond, "we don't know what will happen if you take it for… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill and hair loss - a guide to keeping your hairI'm all about fin, but if you're NW3, bald is better than balding, especially at 22. If it's clear that your hair is missing, you might want to at least buzz it real short. Your call obviously. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:21 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill and hair loss - a guide to keeping your hairI'm in the medical field. I've read all the clinical trials. It's 2-3% of guys who really experience any sexual side effects, and 99.99999% are cured of their side effects once they stop. For most guys it's placebo effect or coincidence. I've been on it for a year with no side effects at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:19 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pill and hair loss - a guide to keeping your hairWhile I agree there are very few downsides to shaving your head when you're older, for guys under 25 that can be a brutal look, especially with a baby face. Let's face it, most people look better with hair. Some look better bald, but it's a rare guy under 30 who looks better bald. You're willing to spend time and money going to the gym, you're willing to spend money on a better wardrobe, why not pop a very cheap pill and keep your hair? If you have mild hair loss, it's completely manageable and … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessGuys who are under 5'4" tend to have a lot of trouble because they are shorter than the average girl. Doesn't mean you can't have a good sex life, but you'd really need to overcompensate at that height. I think there's a point where instead of focusing on being a sex god or player you need to adopt the strategy of really going out of your way to pick the right girls. When you're focusing on the girls as much as on your own behavior I think it changes the game quite a bit. You're always supposed … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 08:10 PM |
| 5 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessYou simply need to get jacked, and not otter mode either, you need to get big. If you aren't big enough that people are constantly commenting on your physique, you need to go harder. Go to the fitness sub, learn to manage your macros, and put in two years of solid work in the gym. In the meanwhile, manage your facial hair. If you can grow a thick, full beard, do it, and keep it well trimmed and oiled. Seriously, unless you have deformities or are unnaturally short, there's no reason why looks sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 07:38 PM |
| 7 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessThis is... very wrong. Hair loss comes from genetic sensitivity to DHT. For most guys with aggressive hair loss it begins in their 20s because their body is increasing levels of testosterone and therefore DHT, which comes from testosterone. Whether or not your follicles respond to elevated DHT levels depends entirely on your genetic makeup. As far as your DNA replication explanation goes, you're talking about telomeres, which are not coded genes. These are repetitive sequences about 2500 base pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 07:30 PM |
| 2 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessI never worried about hair loss in college. I had 1 father, 8 uncles, 1 grandfather, and countless cousins all sporting solid heads of hair. My grandfather fucking grew back an entire head of hair after chemo. I figured my genetics were untouchable until the "your hair looks thin" remarks started coming in at age 22. It wasn't really noticeable, not even my parents picked up on it. It was only my boss (completely bald), my best friend (6'5" and had a bird's eye view), and a bald co-worker who pi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Askmen feels a splinter in their mindThe social stigmas are declining at an exponential rate though. Yes it's still a problem in conservative areas, but most young gay guys I know never experienced serious backlash worse than your garden variety name calling. Even then it's far less hurtful now than it used to be because most people in liberal environments are pro-gay. So the majority of people will side with you. It's like being bullied as a kid for being a nerd. Most people later in life will acknowledge that it was the bullies t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 05:31 PM |
| 19 | Askmen feels a splinter in their mindI agree. Men want women to love them the way they love women, and I think the comparisons to mothers stems from the fact that men's love really is more "motherly." Men essentially want to protect and provide in exchange for admiration. Mothers want to protect and provide. The only difference is that we want sex and admiration in return. Meanwhile, women want to be protected, and take a very passive role in the experience. I think the passive role also leads to a lower sense of investment, which … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 05:17 PM |
| 86 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.And once we're all brown we'll still find ways to discriminate against one another based on increasingly stupid criteria. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Women need encouragement. Men plow ahead.The argument against this is that it's not the same nerds. Maybe the old timers in the industry, but new hires had nothing to do with it, and took none of that risk, regardless of whether they are beta nerds, alpha males, or women. Saying this is like reversing the logic behind affirmative action to go the other way. Women today don't face the same prejudices as women 40 years ago, but we still give them credit for it. Beta males in tech today aren't talking the same risks as those who founded t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 09:24 PM |
| 7 | Minimise Your Interaction TimeThis is an awesome comment. Totally worthy of a post on its own. When I first started lurking TRP I was looking for a way to improve my LDR. Yup, that's L "D" R. She had gone off to school elsewhere, the idea was that I would move there a year later (lol). She ended up making a ton of friends through school while I was going through post-college scarcity with a minimal friend group and very little going for me. So I would visit her and be surrounded by guys who were establishing themselves as th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Reflecting on a false rape accusation.I've got the same regrets. I let plenty of 6s and 7s slip, but not even in pursuit of 8s and 9s. I was just repulsed by sluts who threw themselves at me because I didn't like sluts. The irony of it all was that I was LTRing sluts and just didn't realize it. At the end of the day though, I'm getting my fill. I'm not going to let myself be haunted with memories of college pussy that could've been. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Human Condition as Narrative, How The New Star Wars is Written for WomenI think we should wait before making these judgements. There are two more movies and there could be an explanation. I personally believe she was already trained when she was young and was somehow forced to forget it all when Luke's academy went to shit, but that's a conversation for another place. I don't want to believe that a saga so important to me as a child would follow the feminist imperative so blatantly, but even if I'm right about her training, I think it's obvious this is going to be a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 06:13 PM |
| 2 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderOf course. A hot accountant > a frumpy doctor any day. Like I said, it's not even close to worth considering. Your career is far too important to alter for the sake of minor gains in social perception. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderI would never have thought someone would have trouble understanding NSA sex. It's extremely common in America to the point where pretty much anyone under 30 knows the expression. I figured it was thrown around here more than enough. I guess you find out something new every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 07:27 AM |
| 3 | For Men Who Want To Read Tons of Books But Have No TimeThis method is pretty damn good. I use it for studying fairly often since I have so much material to cover (med school, tons of memorization). I definitely have to go over things again (would have to anyway), but I probably get 80% of what I would have gotten at 1/4th the speed. Definitely worth the trade off. Speed reading is another option for recreational reading. If you do it right you end up with very good retention, sometimes better than normally because you can keep your attention on the … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Three tips on controlling frame in LTRsYup, great examples of TRP concepts at work, but through an entirely different lens. Very tough to pick out unless you are already familiar with the concepts, making it relevant but minimally instructive. he rates another woman as an 8, 9 or 10, but I don't get upset about it because by frequently referring to me as an 11 Comfort game among what I'm sure is a repertoire of finely tuned dread game. Obviously what she finds great about the man is the comfort. Just like a man thinks he loves sex, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 06:58 AM |
| 0 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderNot entirely true, but moving from paying to going 50/50 will hurt your frame. It's almost an admission of dishonesty, saying, "I was willing to pay for you to get in your pants, but now that I'm in I'm backing off of that commitment." It's an admission that you were once beta bux, even if she didn't realize it then. I did this with a previous LTR (prior to TRP) and she scoffed for a little while and finally accepted it. You still should make the transition, just be prepared for the backlash and… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 12:28 AM |
| 2 | "Entertain me"This is a great comment, definitely a post-worthy topic, but I think the crux of it is that we're going for hotter girls with better attitudes, and one way we do that is by having leverage in the relationship via better looks and alpha traits. If we were advocating getting way more attractive and continuing our old sexual habits, then you'd be 100% right, but truthfully we're leaving behind our exs who took us for granted and joining the top 20%. We're demanding more of ourselves so that we have… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 11:38 PM |
| 18 | "Entertain me"Let's be fair here, it's her body and she can do what she wants with it (serious). Telling her to lose weight is a beta move, and she won't respond positively to it. We live in a free market sexual economy. The much better approach is to make it clear to her that you can do better and she needs to up her value to keep you. Show, don't tell. That's the heart of dread game, and it's half the reason the fitness industry is keeping it's head over water in today's obese America. Telling the girl you … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 11:10 PM |
| 6 | TRP truth from a girl, and EliteDaily none the lessThe thing is, this girl really is a slut. Look at her blog history and you'll see she has every red flag in the book. "Retired" party girl Anxiety medication Talks openly about sex Social media whore She's basically a red pill nightmare that realized that the men she wanted wouldn't put up with her shit. She's become somewhat self-aware and now blogs about it. Read through her other posts, they are either full of red pill truths or they're perfect examples of the hamster in action. She's a textb… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderYou have to look at it as a whole. How does she reciprocate? Is she grateful when you make her a meal? Does she tell you how good it is? Does she do the dishes afterwards? I'd say you're probably missing an opportunity to lead, but it might be tough to transition back to that if you've set a precedent. The idea is that she isn't taking you for granted. That's the most important part. If she's sitting on the couch asking when the food will be ready then you have a huge problem. If she's helping y… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 01:57 PM |
| 10 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderThat decision was mostly based on my career interests. I wanted to work more directly with the population I was supposedly helping. As far as prestige goes, I'd have to say that doctor/lawyer > engineer, especially if you're looking at your career as a panty dropper. Engineers not only have a reputation for being awkward, but it's also a less exclusive field where salaries are typically (though not always) lower. Also consider the work environment. Engineers typically report to someone higher up… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 01:51 PM |
| 4 | A typical "What do?" situation about a girl.She's already expressed her interest in you. Now just make plans to meet up and close the deal. Be honest and direct. You already know she's interested. This is one of those, "don't fuck up" scenarios where you'll get laid as long as you're not a too beta. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Really like her for the right reasons, but...To me that implies that she's probably keeping some guys of her own. The only girls I've ever known who didn't get jealous were getting action on the side and weren't truly attracted to the guy sexually. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 06:04 AM |
| 36 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderGym, added about 25 pounds. Fashion, pretty much walked into Banana Republic with some coupons and bought the store. Attitude, increasing my expectations of her, amused mastery, etc... Posture, I was probably losing 2-3 inches from awful posture. Didn't realize women were perceiving me as short before (I'm 5'10"). Status, from engineer to medical student (proof that status > money). Of those gym/attitude/status were the most effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 04:12 AM |
| 4 | AWALT and "chemistry"She's not lying. She didn't feel chemistry. Maybe you talked for that long, but to her it felt laborious. You need to be more charming, charismatic. Most women expect to put little to no work into having good conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:52 AM |
| 20 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderThis is fine for girls you aren't seriously involved with, just be careful if it's a mini-relationship or LTR, especially LTR. I think the home cooked meal is great, the drinks not so much. Spending money =/= putting in time and effort. Her perceived effort there will be the time spent getting drinks with you and the sex. On some level she's definitely thinking of it as paying you with sex, or maybe just thinking of the two things as separate events (he came over and fixed my light switch, we ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:47 AM |
| 1 | It's not because American women find us repulsive, it's because most of us don't really want them - Asian American guyIndians are tough because their families are far less receptive to interracial dating than Asians or Latinos. That being said, they often love to rebel, and that can be great for a mini-relationship or plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 02:47 AM |
| 4 | It's not because American women find us repulsive, it's because most of us don't really want them - Asian American guyWhy would you put yourself through that bullshit when Asian, Hispanic, Indian, and Middle Eastern girls typically come from way better households, have way better outlooks on relationships, and are often pursued less aggressively than white women of similar SMV? Even blue pill me was smart enough to stop LTR'ing white girls after high school. It's not that I'm opposed to the idea, but I've yet to find a white girl who can compete with similarly attractive plates of other races when it comes to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 01:37 AM |
| 20 | Black Women Lack FemininityI think the same can be said of women in any lower class society. I went to a college in a very poor city with a majority black population, so the university took a lot of kids from the "hood" on diversity scholarships. In general, they stuck to themselves (don't blame them one bit for that), and there was a huge divide between the "hood" black girls and the black girls who came from middle/upper middle class families. In general, the black girls from upper middle class families bore no resembla… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 01:17 AM |
| 16 | "Man Fails to Mention His Vasectomy to His Baby-Hungry Wife"My only issue with that article is that they equate having a vasectomy and lying about it with not taking birth control pills. In one scenario the woman loses a few months of baby-making time before going to the clinic for a joint doctors appointment and asking what the fuck is going on. In the other scenario, a child is brought into the world with an unwilling father who has no say in whether or not he is responsible for it. The woman can break things off with the guy and start over. The man is… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 05:22 AM |
| 12 | Outsider's perspective on the U.S. and its people and what it means for TRPCulture and social stigma are the only things separating a woman (or a man) from acting on all of their desires for instant gratification. Somehow in the wake of all this feminism/equality, we forgot to distinguish between sexual liberation and instant gratification culture. More women are acting out because fewer people are disapproving. A girl can surround herself with people who believe that coming back from the club at 4 am "freshly fucked" is a liberating and admirable lifestyle. This is wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 05:08 AM |
| 4 | The truth about age and SMV for guys in the United States, how feminism and wealth changes things.I can only look at this from the perspective of a 24 year old, but what I can say, is that 30 year old guys generally are more attractive as long as they stay fit and avoid showing their age too much (e.g. balding, bad face lines, etc...). 30 year old men have a completely different and honestly superior appeal, even physically. 20 year olds have boyish good looks while 30 year olds have a rugged appeal. When it comes to sex, rugged and manly generally reins supreme with all girls who are 20+. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 09:07 AM |
| 6 | "What I've Learned About Dating In Silicon Valley" - female columnist has a meltdown after realizing she's surrounded by betas.Internet ratings follow a few simple rules. The most objective environment is seeing a woman you don't know on the street. If it's based on a pic or a set of pics then most people rate her 1-2 points lower. If they know her in real life, and they're claiming they want to bang her, she becomes a 6 minimum automatically and usually jumps 1 point from reality if she is better than that. If they know her in real life and have frequent (relatively positive) contact with her, they rate her 1-2 points … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 08:17 AM |
| 2 | 35 / Too Late to Start Self Improvement?It's better to lose weight through cardio while lifting for strength/size. Lifting while on a caloric deficit will prevent muscle loss while increasing your bmr (and thus burning more fat each day). If you just diet and do cardio, you'll get smaller, but you might be losing muscle in place of fat. I've found people who take this approach find themselves skinny fat after a year or two of strict diet/exercise (if they get there at all). Strength training while losing weight is simply more effectiv… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Your LTR is Not a UnicornA shit test is testing your value. This isn't really doing that necessarily. Maybe she's telling you this to see how you'll react, but likely it's just because the situation arose. It could be innocent, or it could be that she's looking for your permission to branch swing. Either way, you're going to want to a) not sound butthurt/jealous, and b) have a strong opinion without looking like you're mate guarding. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 05:15 AM |
| 15 | "What I've Learned About Dating In Silicon Valley" - female columnist has a meltdown after realizing she's surrounded by betas.She's not a 5. The bar is entirely too low for her to be a 5. In a world where 2/3 of women are noticeably overweight, she's above average by default. She's Plain Jane in every way. In the 1950s, when being pudgy wasn't excused as "having curves" she'd be a 5. In today's world being "not ugly" is good enough to be above average. Hard 6. I feel confident in saying most guys here would fuck her as long as there was minimal effort involved. That makes her a 6. A lot of guys on here would call her a… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Guess who's not coming to New Years?Of course not. I was never going to waste NYE with a plate anyway. Went out with good friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Guess who's not coming to New Years?Let it out. Just let that shit out and don't look back once it's all out of your system. Suicidal? Pathetic. You were meant to be way more than a sob story. Never think about the ex again. Kill your oneitis. God knows that disease has killed too many good men already. This plate. That's #1. Go find #2, then #3. You gotta be good with yourself first, then worry about the women. Until you have a handle on you, they're for sex and friendship, not romance. Got it? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 08:40 AM |
| 7 | Guess who's not coming to New Years?Didn't I say I wouldn't be attending NYE? Nothing wrong with getting free steak. Yeah dinner was an obvious attempt to upgrade our relationship. Trust me, she knows where we stand now. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 01:33 AM |
| 20 | Guess who's not coming to New Years?I thought that went without saying, but of course it does need reiterating. Cheating is unforgivable. It's a blatant sign of disrespect, but most importantly, it's a blatant sign that you are beta bux, and she's not attracted to you anymore. Doing those other things might keep it from happening, but once it happens, there's no going back. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/16 12:44 AM |
| 27 | Your LTR is Not a UnicornMy only issue with that test is that women rarely have that response to a hypothetical flip. A far more typical response is, "It's not like that. He's just a friend helping me out." Rarely will she back down in any way. If you press the point, you come off as insecure and jealous. If you say nothing, she meets up with Chad three times per week for one-on-one fitness training. I've found the best approach is to be upfront. "If this is something you want to do, I'm not going to forbid you from doi… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Dating in 2016Just be nice to her friends. Do nothing for them, but otherwise be bluepill and nice and normal. Do NOT do this. When her friends think you are blue pill/beta, then she gets no respect. Men get respect for being alpha, women get respect for locking down alphas. Without being overt in any way, you need to be an object of desire for her friends. Half of what she likes about you is dragging you out in front of her friends to brag that she has a boyfriend. If she doesn't get any looks when she shows… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 04:39 AM |
| 7 | Steroids & You - Part I - IntroductionCare to elaborate? Aside from instructions on proper use, this is probably the most important information regarding steroids. Are they worth it, and what are the sacrifices you will have to make realistically? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 08:25 AM |
| 38 | Are you lifting heavy weight but still too fat? Read this.This by far the hardest part of getting in shape. If all I had to do was go to the gym and follow a routine, I would've been huge years ago (and so would everyone else). The toughest part is tracking macros every day. Shit happens. You forget your lunch. You sleep in and can't get breakfast. You go to happy hour after work. Someone makes you food. It's so and so's birthday and everyone is going out for dinner. You're too busy to cook right now. You get the idea. I sure as hell don't have time to… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 08:13 AM |
| 1 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuideVolume and weight > intensity when training for mass and strength. It took me so long to figure this out. I was a 400 m sprinter, so my training involved a lot of work while in an exhausted state. I would tire myself down and then start the real workout so as to condition my body to work hard while in a state of exhaustion. I would want to collapse and/or vomit after most workouts. I developed great muscle endurance, but never grew in size. I took this mentality with me when I started lifting fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 07:40 AM |
| 4 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuideWe don't need this. You can find this online very easily. It wouldn't matter if OP was a skinny fat poser, the information is valid regardless of the source. If you want to see where this gets you, look at progress threads on bodybuilding.com to see what this does to your body. You'll find it's very dependent on age, body type, and of course genetics. The guys who end up the most ripped are typically young (16-18) and couldn't get fat if they tried. Guys in their 20s require a little more dedica… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 07:22 AM |
| 7 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuideIf you're not willing to do the research before you start putting known, harmful substances into your body, then you have no place using them. Steroids can be a useful tool for getting in fantastic shape. They obviously work, and many people use them without serious side effects, but you need to know the risks. You're going to put in the time at the gym. Put in the time doing research first. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 07:13 AM |
| 1 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuideI find this awkward and unnecessarily straining. I used to do this and always wound up with a sore neck due to the torque. You're not working directly against the downward force of the weight. Also, I'd be so focused on holding some cumbersome weight behind my head that I'd have trouble doing the crunches correctly. Stick to cable crunch. If you want to due crunches as part of a cardio circuit as part of a cut, that can work, but I stick by what I've learned from my other training, and that is t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 06:56 AM |
| -1 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Half of people are obese You're misunderstanding what top 10% really means. When we say top 10%, we are talking about the dating environment in which you exist, not the general population. If it was the general population, we'd all make top 10% at some point in our lives just by virtue of being young and not fat. Your dating environment is the group of individuals you would find at a local bar on a given Friday or Saturday night. The omegas who never go out don't even factor into it. The top 10%… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 06:49 AM |
| 3 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuidePersonally I prefer a cable crunch or other weighted exercise that allows you to add progressively. Just like you wouldn't try to get big from doing 3 x 20 dumbbell curls, you wouldn't develop your abs with 10 minutes of continuous crunches. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating: Over-Investment”Personally I think that technique works on anyone. I know it frustrated me, and it definitely made me want her more than I did before. Once something becomes elusive you only want it even more. That's human nature, regardless of gender. Abundance mentality keeps you from getting frustrated or impatient with these girls, but I know I fucking love the chase, and if she makes it harder for me, it's all the more satisfying when I finally get what I'm after. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 02:25 AM |
| -3 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Excuse me while I run to get your camera to prove my worth to you. Even if I wasn't better looking than OP, I would still be right. I guarantee I pop out of any henley better than OP, and I've been at it for far less time, and it's because I lift heavy weights on a barbell. My day game is tight, my life is good, and I look way better in a shirt. Also, the bulk/cut approach is way better for ultimately looking better shirtless. Recomposition is slow and ineffective. In 4-5 more months I'll be not… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 10:25 PM |
| 5 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Top 10% in looks? Hardly. With a shirt on this guy looks like Moby. Looking good without a shirt on is like having great game at a magic tournament. If no one can appreciate the effort made then it won't help. We should be advocating the best approach because it's just as easy as advocating this one. The best approach is lifting heavy things and eating right. Speaking of signal to noise ratio, this is noise. It's not the best advice, so it needs to be filtered out. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 10:16 PM |
| 12 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Unless you're fat, this post is useless. Even if you're fat, this post is of limited utility. If you're fat, broke, and have no free time, go ahead and read up. Otherwise, stop. This calisthenics otter mode bullshit will not help you with women. Is it better than being skinny fat? Sure, a little. Is it better than being big and bulky? No. Let's put it this way, women care about your physique only as much as other women care about your physique. If you put in a year of hard work to pull out those… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...I've been at the gym for 5 months and I'm at that level, but probably a little bigger and a little less toned. Dude's not top 10% in looks by any means, especially in normal society where people wear shirts and otter mode dudes look like any other skinny fat guy out there. If he's a day game coach, he's doing a good job compensating for what's on the surface, which is a young bald guy with an average face. This helps but his main asset is game. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 09:27 PM |
| 4 | “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating: Over-Investment”Realize that women do the same thing. With my last gf (before I fully committed to TRP) I knew this little trick. Before we started dating exclusively, our messages were basically a standoff on who would wait longer. Just before breaking up with her I did something a little bit stupid, but very revealing and ultimately worth it. I went through her messages. I was forced to choose between a very good medical school and a very average medical school that would leave us in the same city. I wanted a… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 08:35 PM |
| 2 | “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating: Over-Investment”Still good for plates, and what does it cost you? At the end of the day if you can get your SMV above 6 then it has a decent ROI. Just don't rely on it for your whole dating life, because it's low risk, low reward. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 08:21 PM |
| 12 | Cock Carousel and the beta bux boyfriendWomen won't get the alpha cock out of their system until they're approaching the wall. Women won't get it out of their system ever. The wall doesn't actually change the mindset, only their ability to attain what they want. Think of a failed entrepreneur in his 40s with a family to support. If he hasn't struck rich, eventually he has to give up the dream and work for a big organization. He's not happy about it, but he'll do it, and if he gets a chance to take a swing at the startup world again in… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks/Alpha Widow isn't new, but the roles are more defined than everI went to the movies today. Wait until you see the trailer for "how to be single." It's basically an advertisement for hypergamy. Just like this, I'm sure there will be some bluepill message at the end, but the only message or will really send is, "You can go out and fuck a billion dudes and at the end you'll still find prince charming, and he won't think your pussy is diseased either." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks/Alpha Widow isn't new, but the roles are more defined than everI've only got one issue with this post, and it comes in the first paragraph. they oppressed women because women can't handle freedom; women need their choices made for them, especially when it comes to their bodies. This needs justification beyond the suffering of men. Yes, alpha widows and AF/BB mentality are bad for men outside of the top 20%, but this is a free market sexual economy. No one cares that men with low SMV are losing out and picking up the scraps just like no one cares that Mom an… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 10:20 AM |
| 9 | Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks/Alpha Widow isn't new, but the roles are more defined than everBecause Chad is the guy she fucked one night. He came in looking like he had massive social proof (rolling with a big crew that night). He was in his peak physical condition (just ended a cut after a massive bulk/just came off a cycle). His game was spot on (he was in the zone that night, she'll never see him strike out 4 times next Tuesday). Finally, he was drunk enough to think she was pretty. She's comparing her lifelong partner, who she presumably shares everything with, to a guy on the best… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Reddit kind of wakes up to the injustices involved in child support paymentsThis is a really valid criticism, so I'm going to try to put forth a logical reply as to why it's included here. Mostly, the commenter showed obvious bias and nit-picked a very specific example that doesn't nearly justify the state of the laws today. First, any child who has gone through a nasty divorce will tell you that mommy and daddy do plenty of manipulative things to get the kids on their side, money is one of a million factors in play. Second, being one of a million factors, you can't jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Reddit kind of wakes up to the injustices involved in child support paymentsThe concept of child support is perfectly valid. The issues come into play when there is a huge income disparity between mother and father and when the system completely disables the father from even seeing his children. The point is not that child support is evil, it's that it's set up to extort as much money as possible from the father so as to bring in more government revenue. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Tinder has fucked my confidenceMy New Years Resolution is to slow down and find myself a good man. No more of these asshole boys. Nope. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 09:07 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is the commitment that we are offering?In today's world it's social validation mostly. A woman is expected to lock down an alpha man while she's still young and attractive. She gets to parade you around in front of her friends and show them the alpha she finally domesticated. It's not tingles, she can get that from Chad. It might be providing, although most women now are either hellbent on acting like they provide for themselves or simply feel entitled to your money (and the money of her beta orbiters) regardless of commitment. Keep … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 09:00 AM |
| 1 | 5 months since breakup still sleeping aroundI love that I come in this thread, and everybody's giving out exactly the right advice. This is why TRP actually works. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 08:49 AM |
| 37 | Reddit kind of wakes up to the injustices involved in child support paymentsI believe it stems from what was initially good intent from an era long ago when gender politics wasn't such a shit show. Think about the evolution of child support. In the colonial times, children weren't a financial burden, they were dependents for a few years and then became contributors as soon as they were able to carry a bucket, milk a cow, or swing a hammer. Increased standard of living and focus on education in the 19th century turned children from small time wage earners to dependents, … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Long Distance Dread GameI always appreciate replies to this post. It was largely ignored due to the vast majority of TRP being thoroughly against LDRs, even in the short term, but I think it's some of my best work. I might respin this and resubmit some time soon now that I've got a few solid posts and some notoriety around here. Guys are going to find themselves in these situations, you have to know how to deal when it happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Don't live with BP pplOP, your roommates dirty tendencies are not determined by RP/BP. Some things really are separate from sexual strategy. Your roommates are slobs. I've known BP slobs. I've known RP slobs. If you want your roommates to keep up their end of the bargain then find a soft spot and press it until they've cleaned their shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 04:19 AM |
| 50 | Father dropped some serious Redpill truth tonightIt's great that you've got a role model who's doing much better than the majority of guys out there, but he's clearly still got some blue pill tendencies. His life would be different? Oneitis. So what, he was definitely going to marry this girl from school, and because she's hot now she wouldn't have been a total bitch? He may have some alpha ideas, and he may be able to handle a shit test or two, but he's clearly picked up a shitty girlfriend who he doesn't have the abundance mentality to leave… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 04:14 AM |
| 1 | "No man has been special enough" -70 year oldThat's not a white woman. She's Indian, just albino/leucistic. Are you blind or something? The article only states that she's "a woman in India," not that she's an Indian woman. Also, she has a ton of Anglo features. Minus the teeth she looks like a spitting image of my Aunt Rita in England. I'm still not even convinced. If it's obvious to you, you've got some experience in identifying Indian features that I, and most people, certainly don't. 1) Yes they do. They absolutely settle. Are they happ… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Decision Making: The 4 Levels of Sexual ClarityThis is how I was picturing it in my head. It really is states rather than levels, but you're way more likely to make decisions with bad repercussions at level 2 than you are at level 3, so I decided to keep it simple. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 01:37 AM |
| 1 | (FR) young Latina starts her branch swing to me in front of her boyfriend-AWALTThere are. It's a big misconception that they are a huge burden on the healthcare system, but the reasons are a bit beyond me. I've had classmates who majored in economics try to explain it to me, but usually it's a bit too complicated for a guy who only ever took macro econ. There's plenty online that's a lot more reliable than a cocky first year medical student. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 01:35 AM |
| 2 | (FR) young Latina starts her branch swing to me in front of her boyfriend-AWALTI don't blame them for this mentality at all, though in some cases (not most, but some) they do end up worse off here than they were in their home country due to the language barrier and difficulty getting reliable work. They're actually a very vulnerable population and if anything I'm glad they're at least able to get any healthcare at all, even if it is subpar and supplemented with incompetent medical students. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 08:36 PM |
| 3 | New York City Tax dollars at work: Study Shows Women’s Products Cost More Than Men'sIt's shocking, literally shocking, how people can fully understand the free market and still just assume some sort of "-ism" whenever something is priced higher or less available for a particular group. You think the guys writing the algorithms that determine the price of razor blades secretly added another parameter designed to fuck over women? You think companies are compromising their profits to push their evil, woman-hating agenda on the world in the form of razors that are 7% more expensive… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 08:13 PM |
| 2 | (FR) young Latina starts her branch swing to me in front of her boyfriend-AWALTLook, you live there, and I'm not going to pretend that I know exactly what these women are like, but I do occasionally work in a clinic that treats mostly new immigrants from Mexico and South America. You said in another comment that she hasn't thought things out yet, and I'd say that's probably true based on the attitudes of the women who come through, but she's definitely thought about the visa. My experience with that population has shown me that the thought process is 1) Get a visa 2) Figur… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 07:49 PM |
| 66 | "No man has been special enough" -70 year oldThe woman I just feel bad for. It's not just her old age, she's been ugly since the start. She's a white woman who ran away to India to go be a buddhist for God's sake. She did this all before it was even fashionable, a pioneer of avoiding your own unattractiveness. However, the real take away here is the message delivered by the author. Basically saying, "If you can't get a boyfriend, just pretend it's because you don't want one." This is almost as hilarious as the guys who say, "I don't sleep … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Height and abundance mindsetYou're right that you're at a disadvantage, but it's nothing that can't be overcome. If you're not lifting and eating at a caloric surplus, get the fuck on that shit. For you, being big > being lean. Now, it's all about volume and social proof. Approach tons of women. If it takes a 6 ft guy 5 approaches to get a girl who's responsive, it'll take you 20. Doesn't mean you can't be fucking multiple girls at once, you just have to try harder. Then, use your social proof (friends) to become part of a… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Help handle current gf!Well, you've lost frame, and you're certainly not in the right place for an LTR. I just submitted a post on the main sub explaining the importance of achieving abundance mentality prior to entering a relationship. I suggest you give it a quick once over. Regaining frame in a relationship is nearly impossible. It can really only be done over time, and it can't be faked. Unlike frame with new girls, who can be convinced that you're a goddamn rock star if you're convincing enough, you have to overc… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 09:41 AM |
| 11 | A plate texted me "I'm thinking you can do better than me." How the heck do I respond to this?The Taylor Swift line is gold. Go with that OP. Downplay her stupid insecurity, and if you feel you're really losing a plate over this still, outright call her out for being a dumb drama queen. The key to these situations really is deflecting her dumb agenda behind whatever statement she made and then just saying what is actually true. Honesty really is the best policy. You fail a shit test by giving in to the option of appeasing her by lying or in some way acting as though her obviously retarde… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 09:34 AM |
| 4 | Nike had it wrong: DON'T Just Do It (and they will love you for it)Not only do they like it better (and I don't have to be a manservant) it's actually the more respectful thing to do because I'm treating them like a human being rather than some delicate creature. I wish I had a stick I could use to beat this idea into the heads of all the fucking beta white knights in the world. Seriously, you wouldn't even want to be friends with someone who grovels at your feet, nonetheless date them. Why would it work that way with women? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 09:20 AM |
| 23 | Sexual Decision Making: The 4 Levels of Sexual ClarityAbsolutely. This completely captures the "don't be thirsty" aspect of my post. Mine is more like a guide for a guy open to LTRs and trying not to make any mistakes. It covers the choosing process and also strategies for not yielding and appeasing within a relationship, LTR or otherwise. Yours is more like a guide for a guy fully intent on playing the field no matter who comes along, but both are explaining why abundance is incredibly important. I think the biggest concept I wanted to get through… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 09:13 AM |
| 19 | "The Order of the White Feather", a propaganda group created by the British Army, which tasked women with publicly shaming unenlisted men during WWI. They would pin a white feather on a man's lapel, symbolizing their cowardice.One of the best lines is, "I love promiscuous women, I think they make for fun people and great friends, I just wouldn't want to date one." Follow any criticism up with the justification that you're entitled to prefer whatever you want in your personal relationships. Politically correct society places friendship very high up (how else do you explain to beta orbiters that they should stick around?), but truly the conversation is about dating, not friendship. This protects you from the brunt of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 05:32 AM |
| 16 | Sexual Decision Making: The 4 Levels of Sexual ClarityIf you continue working on yourself and have confidence, you'll remain at level 4 (and maybe drop to level 3 occasionally). It's more about how confident you are to plate women than about how many women you're actually plating. A man in a 3 year LTR can still be completely confident that if it ended tomorrow he could find a new woman very quickly. With that mentality, he is free to walk away when he finds that the relationship no longer makes him happy, rather than staying in it for the easy acc… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl with divorced parents?It's already up. I don't have time to actually spend time on my posts. I write them in 20 minutes or less, otherwise I'm wasting time, which I have very little of. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Tried to handle a shit test, how could I have done better?I get that. Honestly, I couldn't think of anything better sitting here behind my computer, and it got the conversation around to where it needed to be. Don't worry about the slip-up. If she brings it up again (not likely), just deflect it. Don't outright refuse to give her the time of day about it (that would be giving it importance again), just deflect. Don't think too much about it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl with divorced parents?You inspired me to write a post. The 4 Levels of Sexual Clarity. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Girl with divorced parents?Trashy family is a red flag, but not a deal breaker, however, never decide on an LTR when you're thirsty. What sort of abundance do you have right now? What's your general access to sex with women of her SMV? Never enter an LTR for the sex, do it for the companionship. Easy and consistent pussy is always a tempting option, and women use this to coax men into LTRs. There are levels of clarity in your decision making process. The clearest your mind will be is when you are neither horny nor thirsty… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Tried to handle a shit test, how could I have done better?Well, good job on not going the obvious route, which is to immediately relate it to your other bone (low hanging fruit like that isn't going to do you any favors). I think for this honest and direct but unyielding is best. Your original offense was objectively a little bit of a dick move (not that there's a big problem with that necessarily, as long as it's done right, which it probably was if she messaged you about it). So you've already established that as your baseline. Really, the only way t… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Surprising discussion of shit testing on Advice AnimalsAdd no aesthetic value, and serve as a surefire indicator of sluttiness and party girl mentality. You're not alone in this. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 07:22 PM |
| 9 | Corpse FeedersToo much risk of literal alpha widow. No matter what you do, you'll always be compared to him. Honestly I think the women in those cases do really deserve a husband, but count me out. I'm not trying to be a hero in my romantic life. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 07:11 PM |
| 11 | Corpse FeedersAnd what's amazing is that she had to compare him to her future husband, and she feels no remorse about apparently keeping a theoretical guy as #2. There's nothing like a good untimely death to make a woman forget all of the bad things about a person and fill her head with an alpha sillouette. Anyway, just in case you needed more incentive not to date chicks with full back tattoos... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Even a world-famous millionaire rockstar who's banged over 5,000 women can be guilt-tripped into marriage.You know what we're not seeing here? We're not seeing how ruthless he really is when there aren't cameras around. Yeah, Gene looks like a beta here, but he's obviously alpha enough that he's gotten a model to stick around despite cheating and apparently a diseased penis, and all that without putting a ring on it. Probably behind closed doors he's doing and saying things that would have him slain by the media if done in public. That being said, I'm struggling with what we're really supposed to pi… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 06:13 AM |
| 8 | We outgrow our mothers, but not our fathers.The way we talk on TRP confuses a lot of people. First of all, we try to apply the same logic we use for analyzing social situations to analyze professional qualities. It just doesn't work. As far as the professions go, I know women who could wipe the floor with your average man in terms of competency. Trying to say that men are better in the workplace just doesn't work, just like saying that men are better role models just doesn't work. TRP works for the social dynamics of relationships and sex… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 01:28 AM |
| 35 | We outgrow our mothers, but not our fathers.I wish I could agree. I never had a "strong" father figure in my life. I mostly had a mysterious guy who came and went at all hours of the night and treated my mom like shit, but I'd say I've thoroughly outgrown him. Literally, I'm significantly larger than him (he's 5'7"). Professionally, I'm outpacing him by a large margin in a similar field despite significantly more competitive conditions. Socially I have had more success than he did. My mother, however, I still look up to. She's actually on… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | AskWomen throws a massive bitch-fit after realizing that men have preferences.Being in better shape than the average dude is incredibly easy. Fair enough. I took two years off lifting, got skinny fat, and then starting lifting again. Within 3 months people were calling me "jacked." Granted I live in a world with a very high skinny asian/indian guy population, but the fact remains that it was incredibly easy for me to mooch noob gains to regain "guy who lifts" status. I guess I only really count being in that top 10% for guys though, because that's mostly all that women no… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 01:05 AM |
| 3 | AskWomen throws a massive bitch-fit after realizing that men have preferences.Where do you get that dudes are going to greater lengths to look good and have a higher bar? Men are far more into fitness as a whole than women. The people into fitness are the ones setting the bar for what is very attractive, and men are more able to change their bodies (get jacked) than women, who don't benefit as much from exercise since the most attractive women aren't necessarily the most fit (a girl with a small waist, DDs, and a bit of "padding" is still a knockout). Women spend more tim… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 11:35 PM |
| 8 | Treat BP men like womenLaw 5: So much depends on reputation, defend it with your life Law 19: Know who you're dealing with, do not offend the wrong person Law 30: Make your accomplishments seem effortless | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 08:43 PM |
| 9 | Treat BP men like womenJust don't count in them if a chick is involved. Amazing that the most noble nice guys are the first to abandon their friends at the first scent of pussy. Meanwhile the "man whores" who chase tail all day amazing keep things together for their friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Treat BP men like womenI think that's looking into it too much. RP attitude =/= alpha actions. That takes time and dedication or a natural proclivity. By far the majority of "leaders" out there are natural alphas, and the majority of guys with a RP attitude are still working on achieving a RP life. Plus, I think a man with a RP attitude would see the value in aligning himself with other RP guys. Alphas travel in packs. The world isn't split into a bunch of teams all with their own alpha leader. Instead, it is split in… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 08:34 PM |
| 3 | The Rational Male – StorytellingRipley was just a badass. The problem I have with female heroines these days is they try to be so relatable to the average girl. She'll be a badass, but make sure her hair still looks good, make sure she's still getting sexual attention, and make sure she still has some girly traits, which are shoved in the face of incompetent males in the area. Ripley was just there to get shit done. She fit the part. Not sexy. Not nice. Just fucking up some aliens. There was no feminist agenda there, or at lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 07:42 PM |
| 5 | (FR) Experimented the Asshole Approach on Tinder, it got me nowhere.He's in Singapore, so 5'5" is probably like being 5'8" in the western world, not that much of a stretch. Also, Asians tend to expect a lot less muscle in general. In Thailand I was a fucking God at 5'10" 170. His situation isn't ideal, but he's probably within normal ranges. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 07:34 PM |
| 8 | I bet that your idea of revenge is fantastical. It won't be like you thought it would. Just keep walking...Revenge is never as sweet as you want it to be because emotions don't coincide with reality the way we'd like them to. I think a lot of the time we're brought into this false understanding of the world by movies. We expect this moment of retribution, with the perfect song playing in the background as the cameras fade out. We're plugged in to a lot of ideas beyond just the blue pill women fantasy. Poetic justice rarely, if ever, exists. Move forward. Guys get mad about a guy fucking their ex gf. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Art of the NegThere comes a point where things really stop being "moves" and start being typical social interactions. I did lots of things like this even before finding TRP, and I was BP as fuck. Taking her down a peg just makes for a better social interaction. Who the fuck has fun with someone by being completely nice and complimentary all the time? Do you do that shit with your guy friends? Didn't think so. The best way to "neg" is to stop thinking of her like a prize and start thinking of her as a human be… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 06:42 PM |
| 3 | How to Filter out a girl like a JediThat's the girl. Also, any girl who makes specific and frequent use of the term "guys" in the general sense (e.g. why are guys always such jerks!". She always means Chads (not average guys, because they don't exist to her) and she's always taking about just one guy, and he probably slept with her and never called her back. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 02:35 PM |
| 14 | Women have all swallowed a defective version of TRPThey can't help it. I know a lot of girls who are actually surprisingly aware of how dumb their behavior is, but they refuse to change because their chemistry wants what it wants. I don't even blame them. We absolutely do the same thing, following our dicks in all sorts of retarded directions. A few nights ago my friend showed me Louis C.K.'s TV show and we watched a few episodes. Now, Louis isn't a complete RP comic like Jim Jefferies or Bill Burr, but he still gets it right from time to time. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 02:31 PM |
| 5 | AskWomen throws a massive bitch-fit after realizing that men have preferences.Okay there are some races, particularly black, that can have good bodies due to genetics, but it's very, very rare even then, and usually due to some sort of active lifestyle. Yeah there are massive 15 year old black kids in my neighborhood who never lift, but they are naturally big guys who spend 3-4 hours/day shooting hoops. They'd probably be husky if it weren't for the exercise, and that's confirmed when I look around at the kids who don't frequent the basketball court. The guys with good bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Getting involved in politics this time of the year is a good way to meet available women here in the USA.Power and influence >>> hot women. If Bernie had a hot wife, he wouldn't be in the position he's in today because he couldn't earn the respect of his demographic. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 09:17 AM |
| 7 | Great illustration of Game from the movies.Harrison Ford in general plays very RP characters. Even in the new, feminized Star Wars he was a clear alpha, although he exhibited some very out of character beta actions which came off as somewhat awkward for him. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Partner Count and Why it Matters.I think there are multiple factors at play. There's oxytocin and pair bonding, but there's also the stresses of life. Younger couples are more likely to get divorced probably because they are less able to emotionally handle the stresses of being a new parent. They are less financially secure, less emotionally mature, and (usually) come from less stable backgrounds. Real life experience tells me that your friend who got married at 20 and had his first kid at 21 is going to hate his fucking wife b… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 08:24 AM |
| 11 | The Rational Male – StorytellingTo be fair, everyone had an issue with her sudden skills. I'll believe (in the star wars world where being a "great pilot" means you can pilot anything without training) that she can pilot the falcon. She was familiar with it's inner workings from before since she had scavenged parts for the owner for food. However, that light saber battle was downright stupid. To be fair, Finn actually put forth an unrealistically good effort as well, given that he was supposedly a sanitation worker only a few … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 08:12 AM |
| 5 | Female "Friendship"I still think the most advantageous allies are made when sex is on the table. In general, she doesn't respect you if she isn't attracted to you. For women, the two are very intertwined. It's why so many betas simultaneously lose the respect of their woman right as they lose her attraction. This naturally leads to a ton of infidelity, which one of the biggest displays of disrespect. My best female allies are all women who have something to offer me and are also attracted to me. I've known some ve… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 08:00 AM |
| 25 | Women have all swallowed a defective version of TRPThis post is getting at something really, really good, but I think it gets lost in the many details about your cousin/aunt. Women are quick to understand RP truth because RP truth is based around understanding how women actually think. They just don't take the time to analyze it in any way, shape, or form because it is so second nature to them, and they refuse to see the obvious implications it has for their actions. You can get them to demonstrate that they understand RP truth, but you'll never… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 07:46 AM |
| 40 | Treat BP men like womenI would love to have some RP friends, but they're few and far between. I've got a few, but they're natural alphas who have been cool since the 4th grade, and while they don't buy into women playing the victim they don't give too much thought to social dynamics. The most RP sentence that will come out of their mouths will be, "all women are sluts, except my mom and grandma." Everything else will be apparent in attitude and actions only. However, what you really need is a few RP tolerant friends. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 07:24 AM |
| 6 | Female "Friendship"In my experience, if sex isn't on the table you're an orbiter. Maybe you have ulterior motives, but as far as the women are concerned you are orbiting. I think the most advantageous female "friendships" you can have are the ones with high sexual tension. Usually for this to work there has to be a reason why you're not hooking up. Maybe one of you is married or in an LTR, maybe it would be weird because of work, or maybe mutual friends make it awkward, but the tension has to be there. Lots of kin… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 01:24 AM |
| 13 | AskWomen throws a massive bitch-fit after realizing that men have preferences.There's a difference. I look at a guy who has 20 pounds on me and less body fat and say, "He worked hard for that. Hopefully by next year I'll have achieved something similar." Why? Because by definition, a man must work for a good body. Men are never born with good bodies. Women, however, are often simply born pretty. They don't need very low BF% or muscle tone to be attractive. They need a fantastic bust to hip ratio. This does not preclude a woman who is overweight from losing that weight and… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 01:03 AM |
| 7 | How to Filter out a girl like a JediNah, just not true. Quality girls do not look to men for their primary friends, just like quality men do not look to women for their primary friends. A quality girl will have a group of even-handed girl friends who don't spend 90% of their time getting free drinks from guys at bars and clubs. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 12:42 AM |
| 19 | How to Filter out a girl like a JediOnly one I've got an issue with here is divorced parents. The most fucked up girl I ever dated was also the only one with an "intact" family. I dated a girl who was raised exclusively by her father, and honestly I don't even regret LTRing it. It's just too situational, and doesn't directly reflect her choices (though it does reflect the choices of her primary role models). I'd call it a yellow flag. The ones I've found to be the absolute worst in terms of infidelity and lack of respect are 1) I … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.Dude I understand that you have a massive boner for this guy, but tone it down a notch. I'm just pointing out that he's probably not the most successful guy in the thread as you claimed. He started a pickup business, website, and youtube channel. That's great, but keep things in perspective. There are a ton of small business owners on here, and a ton of guys who are incredibly successful in other fields. I'm not sure why you feel you need to claim he wouldn't give me two seconds of his time, as … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.I'm only saying this because you brought it up, but I can almost guarantee I've had more professional success than him, and I'm around the same age if not younger. Getting traction with a startup is tough for sure (I've done it myself), but let's not blow it up too much. Also business success =/= Red pill. I know plenty of blue pill multimillionaires. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Woman's SMV is fixed, Man's SMV is malleable. Build your SMV.Everything you're saying here is true. I wouldn't say that marriage and a family is such a facade, as I know many men who find immense joy in raising a family, but my problem is that the majority of men go into it completely oblivious to what it really is. They are such slaves to pussy, and so unsure of their ability to get more, that they never have the balls to leave a woman once she's already there. Who do they end up with, a girl who thinks he'd be a great provider, not lover, because women … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 09:53 AM |
| 4 | The Perks of Pissing on A WallflowerI had the balls to give an actual opinion before there was a consensus (something few people on here, or anywhere, actually do) and I got burned, but I stick by my assessment. I didn't think it was particularly clever, I just think it appealed to an audience that wanted to hear some rara man shit. I think it's some weak validation bullshit. Let's all sit around and circle jerk to how awesome it is to be us. Sounds more like a woman's game to me. And if you think I don't deserve a point because m… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.Doing this will leave you at least comfortable if not outright wealthy. Are you kidding? At least 75% of the country starts out with basically nothing after they graduate high school. If you chase power and influence, someone will pay you for your efforts, and if you're competent at life, you'll be better off than 95% of the country. Most people are chasing their "dreams." Some incorporate practicality and chase stability as well, but very few outright chase power. We aren't taught to chase powe… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillI wrote a post on this earlier this month. Guys come in here already angry and upset from the blue pill mentality. They come in with that mentality, and obviously it takes a little while for it to wear off. It's just that we tolerate the anger phase here. So yeah we get a lot of posts that are actually "misogynistic," "sexist," and "hateful," and many of them actually are those things, but it doesn't come from here. There are millions (if not billions) of men out there feeling this way with no o… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 05:32 AM |
| 0 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillI googled his name plus red pill. Got an article claiming he was part of a "pickup community" called "puahate." That's a community that has completely rejected PUAs, and likely didn't feel so great about TRP either. He was basically a massive beta incel who found the red pill but instead of doing something about his lack of success, he dove full on into blue pill anger. Obviously his mental instability caused his giant rampage, but the motivations were bred in an environment that is very much ag… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillThis just doesn't belong in an academic setting. This woman is simply projecting her own personal views, hardly supported by any real research-supported facts, onto hundreds of students. "Doesn't that sound... dehumanizing?" This lack of professionalism is really sad, and the fact that it's accepted in places that are supposed to be searching for objective knowledge. I have no issue with criticism, but she sounds no more logical than your typical Thursday night watering hole feminist. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 05:00 AM |
| -8 | The Perks of Pissing on A WallflowerThere's nothing terribly wrong with this, except that you posted it for other people to see. Next time keep it in your journal. It doesn't add much value here. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 04:04 AM |
| 18 | [FR] First night at a club since ending of 2 year LTRI was reading this thinking, "Come on people! Why downvote this? It's a little awkward but the guy needs some encouragement!" The I read that line. Wake up and read the sidebar OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Don't Be Like MikeI'll respectfully disagree. If Mike's drug addiction were so powerful then he wouldn't have been able to get going and get himself and job once she said she was out. He was lulled by the promise that once someone was your fiancé, they're yours forever. That's a blue pill idea, that women will love you unconditionally once you put a ring on it. He thought he had it locked down, but he was painfully wrong. Weed and video games isn't crippling addiction, it's poor life choices. It's just a shame th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Woman's SMV is fixed, Man's SMV is malleable. Build your SMV.Seriously, I was thinking of making sacrifices in my professional career for a girl before finding this place (considering going to a lower tier med school to stay in her city). The thing is, it's not like I didn't know about this mentality, or I thought life was different than it was, I just needed a reminder that 2 years in an LTR had completely blinded me to my priorities. I know objectively I've always been one to say people are dumb for making those sorts of sacrifices, but I had the blinde… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 09:35 PM |
| 31 | Woman's SMV is fixed, Man's SMV is malleable. Build your SMV.However most men never get out of their status and improve themselves You know why? Because they get to "good enough" and quit. They've never had a girlfriend, and they bitch and moan about it all day. Finally they decide to do something about it. They improve their physical SMV alone (because that's the most obvious thing to do that doesn't interfere with BP principles) and go from chubby slob in a t-shirt to Dad bod with a polo. Then one day an assertive 4/10 comes along and makes it painfully… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 09:29 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Being an AssholeI'm making the point that society has it wrong. Calling a girl a slut to her face is considered an asshole move, but if she ends up just being turned on by your attitude and sleeping with you then it really isn't. On the other hand, the much more common, much more expected, and much less traditionally "sinister" action here actually has negative consequences for her. I was simply distinguishing between the outward appearance of an action and the actual results produced by it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 06:49 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Being an AssholePretty soon you'll realize this isn't exactly being an asshole, just being direct. I've been an asshole before. Having her buy me things on the premise that we're going to become more serious and then breaking it off, having an ugly girl buy me a drink and leaving (that one I find particularly funny), sabotaging her chances with another guy to come after me and then leaving with someone else, fucking her under the guise that you'll definitely call her back. Those are all asshole moves because th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 02:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Well you guys, it happened to me.Who's going to prove what though? Most likely scenario by my assessment is that it's he said, she said. He doesn't go to jail or have official charges placed against him, but the kangaroo court of the university finds him guilty of potentially making their school look bad. He is expelled and a mark is placed on his record, so if he ever wants to go back to school again, he's fighting a severely uphill battle. Meanwhile, anyone who searches his name will find the media stories of the latest "rape… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 02:19 AM |
| 3 | The tyranny of the birth control pillHormones are funny things. It's really all about dosing. Sometimes the same dose of a hormonal drug like estrogen will cause positive feedback in some pathway in one woman and negative feedback in another. Sometimes it'll cause one effect at a high dose soon after ingestion, but another response once it's been mostly broken down and cleared from the body. Dose response is a tough thing to predict. It's impossible to say what's really going on, but I wouldn't be surprised if the pill affected you… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 11:39 PM |
| 4 | My experience with the unicorn.Any girl who basically just falls in your lap is bad news. You dodged a bullet here. I'm not afraid to talk about my blue pill past, so let me show you what could've been. In my freshman year of college, literally the first week, I met up with some friends and started making IOIs with one of the girls there. Fast forward 3 hours and we're all drunk back at her room. People start filtering out, two people are passed out on the other bed. I get ready to leave, but she holds me back. We fuck. I lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 11:28 PM |
| 3 | My experience with the unicorn.I think it's easy for guys to also get caught up in the mystique of foreign girls. Her approach to a relationship is going to be a lot different, so guys miss a lot of the traditional red flags. They assume because asian culture can be so beta compared to American culture that these girls are all different in some way. Well, whether it's the language barrier, differences in how they show their emotions, or whatever other cultural thing you have trouble reading about them, they manage to convince… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 11:10 PM |
| 9 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.There is a big difference between digesting RP truths and actually living your life that way. It's actually way easier for Omegas to swallow the pill because they've never had any success with women in their life. Women completely scorn them, so an anger phase post is only going to reel them in, whereas a beta looks at an anger phase post and thinks, "My unicorn is not like that. She's a sweet, innocent person with positive and negative qualities just like anyone else. These guys are just asshol… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.That's true. I think there are better ways to make a living that don't involve presenting yourself as beta though. I think the only time that is definitely "Red Pill" is when you are gaining significant status above what you could do anywhere else. For instance, Rainn Wilson portrays himself as a complete freak on television, and due to his roles he can't exactly get in fantastic shape or change his style significantly. He needs to be able to portray that role, which is generally a tubby, awkwar… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.It is more about how you act, but any guy who followed TRP long enough realizes that something as simple (and enjoyable) as a year of lifting will do as much for his game as a significant status boost or years of practicing social skills. It completely changes people's perception of you, and perceptions are the most important part of social interactions. So no, you don't have to be a meat head. If you're already 6'2" you could probably skip the lifting and do just as well as an average height gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 02:14 PM |
| 13 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.If he was truly red pill he'd have about 30 extra lbs of muscle and he wouldn't beta-fy every video, but his look works for the product he's selling. He's selling RP advice (along with a lot of useless advice to fill videos) in a very beta package to make his core audience comfortable. He's selling to betas who really just want to learn to be good enough to become the beta provider for a cute-but-not-hot girl. If he looked like Hugh Jackman he wouldn't connect with his core audience. Betas belie… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 09:20 AM |
| 21 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.It's what drew me to TRP as well. I've always been a fan of honesty and an open space where you can say fucked up things without judgement. We're all thinking some fucked up stuff, why are we making it a popularity contest about who can say the right things and not sound fake? I've had a lot of friends over the years who had some really fucked up views on life, but I knew what they were about, and I appreciated that I could say things to them that we didn't agree on and not have it blow up. My o… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 08:49 AM |
| 104 | Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page.Because Reddit has been complaining about the friendzone for ages, and people are just starting to wise up to it as the site gets more popular. Reddit's core user base is made up of the textbook definition of a beta orbiter. This website houses some of the most supplicating and beta opinions on women of anywhere on the web, and guys are just starting to see the light. Seriously, see a mention of the friendzone in a post, and all you have to do to get upvoted a bajillion times is say, "women aren… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 08:33 AM |
| 1 | White Knight proposes to his girlfriend on a busy interstate and gets charged with Obstruction of a HighwayIt is white knight because his thought process is one stemming from supplication. He wants a "unique" proposal that she can talk about for ages. He wants to meet her expectation that he go above and beyond to make it special for her. The fact that he completely failed in his execution is a separate issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 08:17 AM |
| 3 | White Knight proposes to his girlfriend on a busy interstate and gets charged with Obstruction of a HighwayThat didn't come through in your post. It's true, but it didn't come through. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.I keep running into terms that already have connotations. Not socially reactive is the exact sentiment I was going for with anti-social. Just need to find a better way to phrase it. I'll re-write that post someday, when I find a way to put it all together correctly and draw some better conclusions. I think it's really helpful to be able to characterize a person's actions in terms of social dynamics, but it's complicated enough that I haven't really gotten anything totally consistent yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 08:10 AM |
| 16 | Reggie Yates documentary on the manosphere - A reviewLuckily the positive outcomes of reading and posting on TRP and the manosphere are not at all dependent on the public opinion. As long as this knowledge continues to help me get laid, get ahead in life, and stay happy, people can call me extreme as often as they like. The reality is that I've only become more well-liked and respected since I started reading here. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.Jesus, talk about a fucking wave of anger phase. When you start plating women who actually fuck you because they're genuinely attracted to you, and don't want anything else besides sex (e.g. money, a relationship, commitment, social status boost) then you'll know what I mean. If just the act of sticking your dick in someone is the peak of what you want from women, just go MGTOW and pay hookers when the need arises. Personally, I like to actually have a connection with the people I'm fucking, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.I was really proud of that post when I first wrote it, but honestly seeing the reactions it was actually really confusing. If I could re-write it, I'd change it to alpha, beta, and anti-social, meaning all actions can be described as leading, following, or ignoring/walking away. I wasn't really trying to get at what most people on RP call "sigma" in that post, but the concepts are around if you search for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Lost frame, blue pill failureYou expect to make interesting conversation without listening to the other side of it? You realize conversations still need two sides right? You've really let the science get to your head. I go to an "elite" medical school. At one point I had an article written about me in Nature, and I work with some of the best medical researchers in the world. I got drunk with a nobel prize winner. You know what that means to me when I'm on a date, talking to someone who didn't win a nobel prize, or even get … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | An uncomfortable truth about guys that are "good with women" and get a lot of action.suburbs and wealthier neighborhoods tend to have a lot of hot girls The suburbs have a lot more skinny white girls in uggs. So I guess if you're into that specific demographic then that's true. Otherwise, doesn't matter if you're working class, middle class, or upper middle class, or upper class. Sure, lower class has a higher incidence of obesity, trashy tats, and gross piercings, but 80% of the American population has a pretty damn equal distribution of hotties, and the areas that don't have j… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 03:38 PM |
| -8 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.Hookers, gold diggers, and party girls chasing rich guys are the same thing with different forms of payment. Either way you're getting your dick wet because she desires access to resources, and not because she has any genuine desire to be with you. You may as well be a dildo with a roll of hundreds stuffed inside. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 03:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Lost frame, blue pill failureYou put the pressure on her to speak. Men are so focused on being the entertainers that we forget that it's much easier to slide the burden to her. If it's too quiet you can literally call her out for being boring. Joke about it, but say things that are truthful. Really though, if you're listening to what she has to say, making conversation should be easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 03:16 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Lost frame, blue pill failureThis is so disjointed, and makes little sense. Nothing here is congruent. She's in town temporarily and you gave her 15 O's, yet she's not willing to meet up with you again. I don't care if you're Barney the Dinosaur, if you give her 15 O's and that's not her norm, then she does want to meet up with you again for NSA sex. Then she calls you out for running a routine, which is a clear indicator that she thinks you're high enough value to be plating tons of women. Then you send that cringey text a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 03:11 PM |
| 39 | White Knight proposes to his girlfriend on a busy interstate and gets charged with Obstruction of a HighwayLet's ignore the post, which just zeros in on the idea that marriage = white knight beta, and look at the actual RP ideas here. This guy felt societal pressure to propose in a way that was new and innovative, and the result was publicly making an ass of himself. This brought negative attention to both of them. The proposal, which is typically a big status gainer for women ("omg look at my ring! Take a picture so I can put it on my Instagram!") became an embarrassment for her, making this one of … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 02:40 PM |
| -10 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.You really want sex you paid for? If I wanted a warm hole I'd put a fleshlight in the oven. I get off on the idea that she needs me inside her. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.Don't chase money. Chase power, influence, and status. Doing this will leave you at least comfortable if not outright wealthy. Then, when you've firmly established yourself on this path, chase happiness, and chase it like a fucking dog. It's a classic formula. Put in the work first, reap the rewards after. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 02:11 PM |
| 13 | "Don't Rekindle Old Flames"If you're on here, you were some version of pathetic at some point. Anyone on here who says they were never blue pill is a liar, and anyone one here who says they've completely given up those ways is a liar. Nothing is that straightforward. Personally, I had zero problems attracting women. Didn't go more than a month without sex since I lost my virginity at 17, but I was a serial monogamist. I didn't have the balls to leave my relationships because I doubted my ability to get a new one. I typica… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:08 AM |
| 15 | An uncomfortable truth about guys that are "good with women" and get a lot of action.This post is ranting, complaining, unproductive bullshit. You sounds like some SJW explaining that everyone at Harvard is there because of "privilege" alone. Except that argument actually has some merit, even if it ignores that 99.9% of "privileged" people still couldn't get in despite their massive advantage. This argument doesn't hold water at all. In creating natural alphas, natural proclivity > circumstance. They were raised in places and areas where there are just a lot of hot girls to go a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 09:35 AM |
| 8 | LPT gives Blue Pill advice on "What to do when your partner has a crush"Wife has had two "crushes" in two years of marriage. Yeah... I'm sure the marriage is going to go swimmingly. She definitely won't cheat on you with some dude from the office while you're admiring your sci-fi collection. On another note, this has some RP truth wrapped up in an otherwise very beta post. The crush represents what you are dissatisfied in with your partner He doesn't have to be better than you, he only has to be different. If you've been dreading like a motherfucker and withholding … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Help Me Nail the Hottest Match I've Ever Gotten on TinderMasturbation isn't sex. Sex is the purest form of submission there is. Masturbation still holds control in the hands of the woman participating in it. I see your point. I also see your point about most interactions not ending in sex for him. However, for as much sex as I've had, I haven't ever had a girl so submissive that she called/texted to thank me any time she masturbated. BTW, they fucked too. This is partially due to my preference (this kind of thing doesn't really do it for me), but part… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Help Me Nail the Hottest Match I've Ever Gotten on Tinderbut you can't neg her into finding beer bellies and fat rolls attractive. I thought so too until I saw him answering a text from an HB6 thanking him for her previous masturbation session. The guy looked like Ron Jeremy, but at age 21, without the big dick. I fucked more attractive girls than he did, far more often than he did, but I learned an incredible amount from a guy who had almost nothing going for him SMV-wise. The opinions of an 3/10 male wouldn't matter to even an HB5 if there was a 7/1… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How can I get girls to want to hook up with me instead of having to cheat on them because they wanted a relationship?Dude this is my life. 5'10" med student. I objectively look really good, but because of my height it's tough to be that guy who's "so hot" that attractive women (7+) will fuck him even though they know he's fucking other girls. However, I can get a girl hooking up with me really easily because I'm definitely "boyfriend material." Part of my game is that I like mini-relationships. I'll date girls exclusively for a month or two then break it off. Personally, I find this satisfying. You get the cha… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Plate: "I don't like to share things that go in my body "Exactly, this was a comfort test. She wants to know she's the only one you're fucking, but trust me, if she's not, it won't deter her one bit. She'll actually want you more if she thinks there's competition. Regardless of how many plates you're spinning, a meander will make her hamster spin without ever having to be direct. This is the sweet spot for plates, where she thinks you might be fucking other people, but can't prove it. She can't justify breaking it off, but you're getting all the benef… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Help Me Nail the Hottest Match I've Ever Gotten on TinderI hate arguing with you here, because you've got great advice elsewhere, but women will fuck down. You've never fucked a girl out of your league before? Most of the time it's insecurity on her part, and has nothing to do with the guy, but you can fuck a girl out of your league with enough confidence easily. Does OP have enough? The fact that he posted here is a big indication that he does not, but women feed off of your energy and off of her surroundings. Take her out of her typical environment … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill limbo: How to deal?Look at the 5 stages of TRP. It sounds like you're in the depression stage. I find people get stuck either in the depression stage or in the anger stage. You get stuck in the anger stage if you find TRP after being slighted by a woman (cheated on, left, rejected harshly), but have enough game to be fucking girls at least somewhat consistently (e.g. at least one new girl every few months). You get stuck in the depression stage if you're an average Joe who really wasn't having much success at all … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 02:14 AM |
| 9 | How long til things are "natural"?Physical habits take about 30 days of constant attention to break. Mannerisms that are hardwired into your system are often harder. I don't think anything will seem "natural" until you've been doing it for at least 6 months to a year. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Help Me Nail the Hottest Match I've Ever Gotten on TinderI've always found this particular sentiment debatable. Women only fuck if it will increase social status. In most cases that means fucking Chad, the universally accepted version of "cool." When you pull them out of their world, you can pull them into yours. As long as they're in your frame, they lose sight of what used to be up or down. For instance, I love introducing women who are "out of my league" to my bros from home. They're interesting people with unconventional jobs (artsy dudes in music… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Why you should be good with childrenWhy do you think the phrase "women and children" is a thing? The process of becoming a man differentiates you from children entirely, while the process of becoming a woman emphasizes largely the same ideals. When men go through puberty and transition from years 12 through 18 they experience a few changes regarding the expectations of society Crying and displays of weakness become shameful Supporting those around you (aside from other men) is considered an imperative (e.g. giving up your seat on … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 09:55 AM |
| 5 | Turn on Read Receipt on your Smartphone.I mean yeah, that's the point of abundance mentality. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 08:44 AM |
| 27 | Turn on Read Receipt on your Smartphone.Obviously this is more effective, but if you have a life where you can, on command, produce a snap chat story with you doing cool and interesting things, then doing this for the sake of one woman is probably a waste of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Turn on Read Receipt on your Smartphone.Good little trick here. Manipulative? Sure. Still not half as bad as the shit she's trying to do to you (and succeeding with the blue pill guys out there). | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Do you say the L-Word to non-LTR girls? (Particularly while having sex)Women may not be aware of how they see love but they experience love as a series of conditions being met resulting in positive feelings. This is exactly what I said. Not just women, but all people experience love this way. Women tend to overlook the process that goes into it and follow their emotions. Sometimes common intuition is actually correct. Saying, "I love X about you" to a woman is more likely to get on her nerves because you're implicitly not giving your full commitment in the form of … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Entered Nursing School before TRP and now I see the disrespectIf you've been bettering yourself, they may be perceiving you as "false". This is incredibly important. If you're acting alpha, but the transformation isn't complete yet OR they know a beta version of you, women will always try to expose you (via shit tests), especially if they are used to a higher tier of alpha. I struggle with this myself even years after I was whipped into shape by a fraternity and months after coming to TRP to really hone in on my life and personal goals. Hell, last night I … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 07:00 AM |
| 2 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.Hey man, this shit is my living. I have much harder conversations with much more difficult people on a regular basis in person. You're civil and easy to work with. The past few months of medical training has begun to teach me to actually respect the opinions of people I strongly disagree with even if they make no sense and don't reciprocate that respect. It's something the whole world could use a little more of. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 06:38 AM |
| 8 | Do you say the L-Word to non-LTR girls? (Particularly while having sex)This is how a woman views love and you are explaining it on her concept of love. Which ultimately is more digestible to them than I love You which is unconditional and foreign. Gotta disagree here. This is actually closer to how a man views love, and closer to how all people experience love. The reality is that I really like certain things about her, which makes me feel good when I'm with her, and all of these things add up to a feeling that we call love. Men have a tendency to recognize this, b… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 06:33 AM |
| 2 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.Like I said, you're free to have your opinions, and I respect your line of reasoning. It's not how I feel, but that's why it's a source of debate. There's no right answer here. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Insanity.Nothing official. Honestly, that would've been an easy way out, as if it was expected that you'd fail sometimes. It was expected that you didn't fail. Instead it was just random judging from the brothers. Sort of like getting booed off stage as a stand up comic. Guys literally dropped because of it. It was also sort of a way of weeding out anyone who somehow got a bid but couldn't handle being put on the spot to be funny or perform in some way. Basically, if you were awkward this would be hell f… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 06:10 AM |
| 8 | Insanity.When I was pledging a fraternity I was forced to do a lot of things outside of my comfort zone. Not just drinking and hazing things, but things that would make me an interesting person, but weren't in my wheelhouse naturally. One of these things was tell a story every week in front of the chapter about something I did that week. It sounds lame, but it had to be a great story, hilarious, and well-delivered, or you'd be really fucking embarrassed. So every week I had to do something ridiculous com… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 05:07 PM |
| 3 | And She Won't Get an Abortion: A DT GuideI'll counter that with a simple thought, and I'm not necessarily saying that it's okay to do this morally, just that it's not so clear. How fucked would the kids life be? How much less fucked would a kid who came from a decent family be? I'm not saying you can justify your behavior entirely like this, but depending on the situation her emotional damage may be the lesser of two evils, depending on how fucked up the situation is. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Insanity.That's a fantastic article, and regardless of where this discussion goes, I'm just glad to have read that. However, I still think this is a troll. I will point out that Aaronson did not want to get laid, but rather feared sexualizing women. I think it's distinct. I remember when I was younger feeling guilty for directing my gf to send me naked pictures in various poses. I felt predatory, even though it's what she wanted. That feels similar to Aaronson's feelings. I wasn't then lamenting my inabi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 08:56 AM |
| 1 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.As someone in the medical field, I simply can't make the moral distinction between birth control and abortion. That mass of cells doesn't exactly have feelings yet, so why does it matter if you stopped it from existing before or after it started to form? That's an entirely different debate though, and you're of course free to have your opinions. Personally, I think the world is a better place with a family structure. Abortion makes that possible despite our crazy hookup culture, and that makes i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 08:30 AM |
| 12 | Insanity.This is an obvious troll post. It's too perfect. It too perfectly exemplifies everything that guys in TRP and PUA communities view as wrong. Immediately saying he thinks respecting them and making them feel strong would get him laid. Saying he doesn't like mansplaining. The cuckold open relationship, and then talking about how he's not worried about his masculinity. He goes on acting like doing all those things should help him get laid. Even the most beta of betas knows that assholes get laid. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 11:11 PM |
| 7 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.I'd rather she do this than have the kid, raise him/her to hate me, and collect monthly checks (that only go towards her weekend fund anyway). I can move. I can't dodge child support and adult responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 08:50 PM |
| 10 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.This is a valid criticism. I'm used to the city, where it's assumed that any and every female you find in a bar is fucking around, using BC, and (at least theoretically) open to abortions. Take this discussion elsewhere, or get unlucky and find a tourist or the rare ultra religious city girl and you could be fucked. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 08:48 PM |
| 45 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.I think it needs a greater emphasis on abortion. It's a case-by-case basis obviously, and if you have the baby, being the one who pushed for an abortion will come back to haunt you, but I'd personally take my chances. If you are having unprotected sex with a stranger, she's probably somewhat progressive. That doesn't mean feels aren't going to take over once she gets pregnant for real, but it does mean that there's a decent chance she's open to the idea of an abortion. It's a perfectly legitimat… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 06:12 PM |
| 6 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.This is amazing advice, if you're morally opposed to abortion or if it becomes clear that it isn't an option. However, the first line of defense (aside from wrapping your tool) should be an abortion. This is a stranger. Most likely some girl you met at a bar, coffee shop, bus, etc... Having a child you haven't prepared for with a woman that you don't know is irresponsible parenting at best. At absolute worst it will kill your social life, finances, and reputation all for a kid who will grow up t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | You Got a Stranger Pregnant: A Guide.Abortion, done through a good organization in a medically safe environment, is a perfectly legitimate procedure. I'm not opposed to convincing her that abortion is the best option. I'm not even opposed to being pushy about it, since you're going to suffer like crazy otherwise, but this is fucked up. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 05:09 PM |
| -1 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.A year ago more of us were in the anger phase. Sounds like you never got out of it. Also, misogyny is the act of treating women objectively worse than men. TRP isn't about saying women are worse than men, it's about spelling out the differences between us and positioning yourself so you can get your dick wet while also avoiding getting fucked by the feminist imperative. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 04:58 PM |
| 15 | AF/BB Codified into State Law: New York Moves to Cap Alimony But Only for the Top %5 of MalesNot sure why you're upset about this. It's hardly ideal, but it's a step in the right direction. Are you going to get upset about any law that doesn't benefit you in particular? Who does this affect? Middle-aged gold digging wives. I'm more upset that they used the term "fair maintenance" with regards to alimony to women who've never done anything in their lives to earn their lifestyle aside from sucking the correct dick. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 10:01 PM |
| 2 | New round of outrage on social media after top venture capitalist Mike Moritz of Sequoia Capital says he won't lower standards to increase women in the companyIn my field, getting an MD gives you both better job security and more opportunities for entrepreneurial activities. I wasn't the founder of my company, and I could only rise so high with a bachelors. In this field, having an MD both serves as a source of inspiration for new ideas and simply opens doors for you. Even if I never practice, if I go into entrepreneurship it'll be 4 years well spent. Don't think I'm going into medicine to become the family doctor who sets up an office next to the Foo… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.This is a really valid comment. This post is definitely a bit apologist, but I think there's good reason to think about what our critics have to say about us. We're not a movement, but introspection is important, and you still have to justify that what you're doing is okay. It's also good to let the anger phase newbies know that believing men and women aren't equals is not the enlightened state we talk about on TRP. My only problem with this comment is the implication that the differences betwee… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.My point is that we give lip service to equality in this country but allow our evolutionary biology to take priority over equality. This has always bothered me. Even in something as simple as medical school admissions they tout equality and fairness, but I consistently see tall/attractive men and attractive women get more favorable reviews from interviewers. The halo effect is real. Biology takes priority. In the context of social dynamics, that does mean that women have significant advantages. … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 05:39 PM |
| -1 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.if we do we have "surrendered the frame" to our enemy at the start I wouldn't call feminists the enemy. We're not a movement, and while feminists stand for things against the general interests of men (e.g. divorce laws), we should be looking at individual issues and not squaring ourselves up with particular groups. I agree that those are terms tailored by the left (I wouldn't call them all "radical") to shame those outside of the current mindset/agenda. The left is every bit as controlling as th… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Stronglifts 5x5It's a great program as long as you're careful about your knees and hips while doing that much squatting, and you're not eating enough. You need to be eating at least 3000 calories per day, preferably at ~40% protein or higher (I do a 40/40/20 split). I personally started at 5'10", 143, 12% BF. I could squat 135, bench 100, and deadlift 155. 4 months later I'm 168, 14% BF. I can squat 245, bench 200, and deadlift 285. Stats might not be off the charts, but everyone I know has noticed the change.… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.Thanks for the gold. Really though, no excuse for racism at any stage. Someone on here once said, "behind every racist there's a woman bouncing up and down on a [insert race here] dick." Any racism here is a product of insecurity. I personally ignore it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 01:44 AM |
| 8 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.I'm going to go as far as to say that even comments like this are stuck in the anger phase. I think this can all be said to be true of women, but only in the context of forming relationships and managing expectations within those relationships. Women do tend to think far more emotionally, which is why you can't expect them to have the same depth of insight into those matters only. Many people will read this comment and believe we are here belittling women, but I would never claim that women are … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.This is exactly the sort of comment that would be cherry picked for an article, but really, you're just letting out that anger, or "wringing out your wet clothes" as a poster stated above. Eventually thoughts like this will become tiresome. You'll get better with women as you improve, and you'll soften in your views. I think you'll find most people are supportive of people protecting their assets, and you'll learn to avoid and ignore, rather than resent, the women who are out there looking for "… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Hypothesis Theory: Women absorb and carry living DNA and cells from every male they have sexual intercouse withThis sad attempt at interpreting medical science has literally left me stupider. This has zero relevance to TRP. You sound like the crazies who don't like vaccines because they have "unnatural" things in them, just jumping to crazy assumptions with no data to back it up. Do you have any idea what it means physiologically for a woman to have male microchimerisms in her body. First of all, the study found that 79% of women did not have them at all. Second of all, aside from some potential implicat… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 04:51 AM |
| 2 | "I'm going to have those kids of yours, lol jk"This is the only time mild black knighting/trolling can work well for you. She's trying to force him into beta mode and was never actually open to the idea of sex with him as equals. Don't show an ounce of respect until she shows it first. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 02:00 AM |
| 4 | "I'm going to have those kids of yours, lol jk"This analysis is spot on. She doesn't tell you she slept with someone else if she sees you as a potential partner. You knew her from your beta days, that's bad news If she's at all insecure, she'll put you back in the beta role, regardless of how high your SMV has soared. She needs to see she's still better than you more than she needs your validation. I met up with some girls from my very beta days (high school) last weekend. I had hooked up with one pretty consistently, but the rest thought th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 01:58 AM |
| 2 | "I'm going to have those kids of yours, lol jk"Take better pictures. Even if you have to buy a real camera, take some dopey shot of you sitting on your window sill with your arms bursting out of some ridiculously tight shirt, and put some dumb filter on it, just do it. You can make a fake Facebook too, or upload pics no one but you and a fake Facebook can see. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 01:32 AM |
| 1 | "I'm going to have those kids of yours, lol jk"Seriously, even in my beta days I never managed to make it more than 3 months without someone. What this guy really needs is more exposure, more approaches, and a richer life. Hobbies. Social circle. Day game. Looks wise I was about a 5-6 in college, had some confidence but not a ton, and I still got some pretty obvious signals from girls, enough to never go more than a few months without sex. Now with 30 lbs more muscle, better dress sense, and a good amount of confidence I'm never really more … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 01:29 AM |
| 2 | A young feminists idea of oppressionNext time you talk to a woman about men, look at how they talk. If she is in her early 20s, she'll talk about "guys." "Guys have it so easy. All they have to do to look good is throw on some jeans and a button down." "Guys are such assholes. Always just sleeping with girls and never calling them back. Hitting on me even when I say I have a boyfriend." This is really what she thinks about when she thinks about "guys." It's never the lumpy headed bald guy with the muffin top. He doesn't qualify. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 08:16 PM |
| 3 | A young feminists idea of oppressionI don't think it's exclusive to women. Men are the same way. In fact, men are often worse since their worth is often judged mostly by their toughness and fortitude, while women are mostly judged for their loyalty and beauty (of course there is overlap for each). In fact this mentality is a major driver in the anti-feminist movement. You have a whole slew of women (and men) invalidating the achievements of "cis white males" and saying it was all "privilege." How did you think they were going to r… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 08:06 PM |
| 2 | New round of outrage on social media after top venture capitalist Mike Moritz of Sequoia Capital says he won't lower standards to increase women in the companyI'm talking partners, but yeah. Some of those guys can eventually become partners as well if they show they have the right intuition and pay their dues. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 07:35 PM |
| 19 | New round of outrage on social media after top venture capitalist Mike Moritz of Sequoia Capital says he won't lower standards to increase women in the companyI'd say it's 60/40 alpha/beta. Some of those guys are brilliant dudes that all but fell into the money after having some intellectually brilliant thoughts. Many were the founders, but not CEOs of the startups that made them rich. Others worked their way up the VC industry ladder, they're alpha. CEOs are alpha. Founders of successful startups are usually brilliant, and they can go either way. I worked pretty extensively with VCs at a startup prior to starting med school. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 04:49 AM |
| 2 | A young feminists idea of oppressionAnd as to what I've done, I don't see a point in highlighting these because my comment had nothing to do with that. Haha, says the girl who posted a massive rant on a post that had nothing to do with her comment. Also, look, I'm in med school. I know a TON of people who came from countries in the middle east, India, and Asia, and all were among the wealthy there. The Indians are from Brahmin or kshatriyas families, and the middle eastern and asian people are from wealthy/educated families there.… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 04:05 AM |
| 2 | A young feminists idea of oppressionI once visited one of these towns Hmmm... you "once" visited one of these towns. So... either you're lying now, OR you grew up in the very wealthy area of a non-western country and experienced none of these injustices yourself. You did, however, live right next to these women and apparently haven't done anything about it despite your deep connection to the area. You've been back to these areas, but not on a mission to help women there. You were just back. Look, your story doesn't add up. If you … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 03:36 AM |
| 2 | A young feminists idea of oppressionNo, they complain about not getting as many sprinkles as the kid on the box, even though there aren't enough sprinkles to go around. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 03:25 AM |
| 3 | A young feminists idea of oppressionShe does this again in the article. A girl named Hilary gets an art internship in New York (because shockingly she can't get a paying job in art). The artist she was working for came on to her even though he was married and she fucked him every day. It obviously wasn't against her will, because she wanted him to leave his wife for her. Somehow this gets flipped into, "I'm suffering." Somehow, it's the guy's fault that she's not pursuing a real job, making no money, and fucking a married man. I n… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 02:59 AM |
| 3 | A young feminists idea of oppressionYou're trying to claim how helpless guys are because women have the final control over their pregnancy? No, I'm claiming that a western woman saying she's oppressed because a high school boyfriend told her she would have to keep a theoretical baby is ridiculous, especially since she has 100% of the power. Men don't even get effective birth control. Yeah the rest of the world has to deal with being sold to some 60 year old asshole as wife at the age of 13 and being raped over and over again each … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 02:45 AM |
| 2 | The Pursuit of 'Alpha'For many, including myself in my early TRP days, this sub was just another place to get low level, easy validation. We talk about women wanting validation, but men are just as bad. Look at all the brag reports, the comments on here basically AMOGing other users. This place can be a validation-based alpha pissing contest and some guys are just clamoring for people who will listen to their advice. Come here a few times a week to reaffirm your convictions. Don't stay very long. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | There Is No Such Thing As A "Natural Alpha"A natural alpha is a guy who, upon reaching puberty, had exposure to culture and mentors that laid red pill knowledge on him in the traditional and socially acceptable way. He joined the football team, where he learned the influence of status and physical stature. He had an older brother, who taught him all the shit his dad should've, but didn't want to out of fear he'd become an asshole. Because of these things he had girlfriends, who taught him what girls are really like. He had the opportunit… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Self-Reflection post over the last 12 MonthsI'm sure we'll say the same at 30, 40, 50, and onwards. Life is too complicated and short to ever reach a state where you really know what's going on. You just keep learning and learning until you die. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 12:08 AM |
| 31 | Man's wife's been urging him to reverse his vasectomy. Why? She cheated, got pregnant, and wants an alibi.They were telling him to divorce her, make sure he's not listed as the father, protect his assets, and they were saying some things about her that were as well deserved as they were unkind. Only in the worst circumstances do other "advice" subreddits and TRP align in the advice they give. I haven't decided if I'm going to divorce her yet, but if she keeps the baby that decision is made for me. I'm not raising a little fucktrophy for her infidelity. Hopefully he comes around. He's got a basis for… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 12:05 AM |
| 2 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPAmazing? No. A product of social justice politics. If our biggest public defenders were men, they would hold no credibility in our current climate. It should be the same for all groups. Someone with no stake in the game hold far more credibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Women are mislead by society, just like blue pill beta bob.She did the right thing by not staying with someone she didn't really love, and she's released him into the world to find someone who will adore every inch of his fat, bald self. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 11:43 PM |
| 4 | A Look into the blue pill world of Elliot RogdersI think there is usually more at play in these shootings, but lack of sex plays a huge role. However, I don't think it's necessarily blue pill mentality that leads to that. There are plenty of guys who are unsuccessfully red pill (red pill in beliefs, but not in practice) who are sexually frustrated. Plenty of these mass shooters aren't really red pill or blue pill, but just anti-social and unable to relate to society. Ultimately it's the sexual frustration and lack of acceptance that leads them… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Response to "Don't Hate Women For Being Women"This is right. No one is saying it's totally fine that women act this way, we're saying it's pointless to hate on them, because it won't change anything. Instead adapt yourself to make the most of what's out there. Be the branch that bends in the wind. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 11:24 PM |
| 11 | A young feminists idea of oppressionI feel like humans have a need to suffer and if there is no authentic suffering then it will be fabricated. I think that need is indirect. The right amount of suffering does create super humans, which is why a past trauma stirs up admiration in others. It shows you are "tough as fucking nails" to have gone through all that suffering and come out the other side successful. What people really need is admiration, not suffering, but how can you admire someone who hasn't had to work hard to get where… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 11:20 PM |
| 18 | What is an alpha way to ask for nudes?I'm in high school So... these girls are under 18. Are you even aware of the horrific consequences of having nudes of a girl under 18? The laws are so fucked these days that even a 16 year old guy with a 17 year old girlfriend can be fucked for college and/or a job later on just for sending/receiving a few naked pics. Avoid the issue entirely until you're in college and don't have to risk your record and reputation for some nice pics to look at. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 06:58 AM |
| 1 | "Natural" Alphas: How do you think your life has differed from "Learned" Alphas?My guideline is that if I don't think I can have great pillow talk with her afterwards, it's not worth it. Post-sex conversation with the right girls is some of the most honest conversation you can have. If I just wanted a warm hole I would've bought a fleshlight or a sex doll. I'm personally in it for the connection. It doesn't have to be romantic or unique, I just want to connect with people, and sex is an awesome way to do that. This is also a great approach for preserving your reputation. I'… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 06:29 AM |
| 1 | "Natural" Alphas: How do you think your life has differed from "Learned" Alphas?I get this mindset. I wouldn't describe myself as a natural alpha, but I've always been good looking enough and in the right environments to have lots of opportunities. Still, I turned down girls pretty regularly in college before I found TRP. Mostly, if it felt too easy, it just wasn't worth it. I fucking love the chase. I feel like a fucking primitive hunter, and there's nothing more satisfying than finally pushing her on to the bed, knowing weeks of hard work has finally paid off. It's delaye… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 06:19 AM |
| 78 | Hooked up with my ex-unicorn to prove AWALT to myself. Cognitive Dissonance abounds!Great FR. Not just a brag, but an eye-opener. One man's unicorn is another man's slut. Just remember, even if she's not a slut for you, she's a slut for someone. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 05:28 AM |
| 4 | Authority and The Red Pill.Depends on the situation. The general idea is that if you're entering a group with established alpha males, you become powerful by aligning yourself with them. If a cop is hassling you for doing something normal, be reasonable and follow his commands while maintaining frame. One way to do this is to give him an odd look, but ultimately obey his command. You'll basically be calling him out for being unreasonable and exploiting his given power (a beta move) without giving him authority to escalate… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 04:00 AM |
| 14 | Hooked up with a girl, went nuclear ASD.Probably, she's fucking insane, but I'm gonna guess you're a little nutty as well. Seriously, the moment a girl says the words "harassment charges," you should realize that it's a lost cause and you will gain nothing from further contact. Then you leave further evidence that you're exactly the kind of guy who would be harassing a girl by escalating the situation. You do it again with her brother by mocking him. Honestly, you let things go too far in your RP transformation. You became too much of… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 03:51 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Nuclear LMR, AWALTShe was feeling slutty. When a girl is feeling slutty, make her feel like slutty is cool. Validate her sluttiness is every way. "Sounds like a New Year's resolution" is a good start, but you have to take it further. Take a step back physically and get her to explain why having sex isn't perfectly okay. I mean, it is the feminist mantra. It is what girls want to believe, that they should never feel guilty for fucking a guy. She's not going to logically come to the conclusion that she's lowering h… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 03:43 AM |
| 2 | BETA friend told me that he "hopes more man become gay so there is less competition for women"Showing is better than telling. The closest I came to converting my best friend (who is the classic "good bro who's terrible with women") was when I slept with a new girl, exactly his type, every weekend for a month. Every Saturday he'd be sitting in the living room and I'd come out with her. We'd talk a little while, he'd realize that the girl I got with my "misogynistic" methods was actually a pretty cool chick (and not a whore), and then he started to come around. Didn't manage to turn him be… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 03:27 AM |
| 1 | BETA friend told me that he "hopes more man become gay so there is less competition for women"I try. I try so fucking hard. One of my best friends is 24 years old and still a virgin. He's a normal looking dude. A little on the small side (~5'7"), but not socially incompetent. He was in a frat in college, but it was a pretty nerdy one and his role in it was clearly as the guy who kept things running smoothly, and definitely not the guy bringing women to the party. I lived with him last year and it all became incredibly clear to me why he was having no success. He was the most boring human… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 03:22 AM |
| 7 | 3 Months of Tinder FROf course there are posts on here about doing that sort of thing and succeeding, but they are anecdotes. My point is that for most women acting like that will be creepy even if you look like Henry Cavill. Most women just don't appreciate that level of brazenness. This post shows that. OP admitted that it really only attracted a certain type of woman, but the rest turned it down and got creeped out. Also, you can screw yourself up doing this because no girl wants to be seen responding to that typ… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 03:02 AM |
| 13 | 3 Months of Tinder FRI can agree with that, but you have to keep the end goal in mind. I did the 180. I turned into a massive dick for about 6 months. I'm talking full on fratstar asshole. Eventually I came back down to earth. You have to do that or you'll really start to hate yourself. Most people don't like being assholes. It's sort of like a bulk and cut. First you're a DYEL skinny guy. Then you bulk up, and even though you're kinda fat now, girls are still more into you with some muscle than they were when they … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 02:51 AM |
| 59 | Little piece of advice if a girl isn't interestedWhile the premise still holds, it's important to realize that each of these girls would fuck both of those guys in a second. The top 0.001% do get more than 90% of the women because they have looks and status. Most girls would fuck them just to say they did it. What they mean is that if a guy who looked just like him but without the status came up to them, they might pass. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 02:40 AM |
| 345 | Little piece of advice if a girl isn't interestedEven a top 5% man in his prime is probably only attracting 50% of the women he wants, which means 50% will friendzone him or turn him down. The difference between him and the beta orbiters is that he recognizes it and moves on, knowing he has an abundance of women more willing to give him what he's after. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 10:50 PM |
| 3 | AWALT: Fuck up your family for attention!This is far too complicated to be described this few words. I'm sure there's a ton going on with these people you're not seeing. The only thing that's clear is that everyone is acting pretty fucking shitty, and that this family is incredibly trashy and tactless. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 10:47 PM |
| 10 | Feminazi Celebrity Hamster hits the wall: Sinead O'Connorthen she has to keep your standard of living to that which youve become accustomed This is the dumbest law in the book. America, the ideal meritocracy, where you get opportunity and receive only the money you earn, except when courts officially acknowledge that you've become spoiled. Where is the logic in that? I got spoiled living in a middle class home growing up, but no one is giving me handouts while I live on 20k/year in med school. Yet these people did nothing but fuck their way into a hig… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 10:41 PM |
| 73 | 3 Months of Tinder FRThis is a good post because we see the success of each approach simultaneously. TRP, especially in FRs, has a tendency to emphasize the effectiveness of approach #1. Too many FRs talk about guys saying things that would have most people labeling you as socially retarded and perverted regardless of your SMV. If you act like that in everyday life, especially around people you know, 90% of women will think you're "weird" or "gross" or "creepy." The problem is in these cases we're taking hand-picked… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Landed my First Plate, but want advice for sexThis sounds like a fucking mess. Whatever gets your rocks off man. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:46 PM |
| -4 | why a girl with short hair is a red flag?Usually indicates that she's with the times and updated on the latest fashions, which means she's fully in support of feminism and the casual sex lifestyle. She's seen her options and is fully aware of the world, which means she's fully aware that she can get guys hotter than you to fuck her. She may or may not understand the difference between sleeping with a man and getting his commitment. Ideally, you want a good girl who doesn't frequent the bar/club scene and is relatively old fashioned. Th… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Landed my First Plate, but want advice for sexCareful with this. I used to describe myself this way, but when I got honest with myself it was just because I never felt comfortable out of a relationship. I used to pick out girls specifically. The kind of thing where I'd break up with a girl and tell my buddies, "alright, next I'm going after [insert girls name]," and a month later we'd be dating. The girls were carefully vetted. I'd get to know her and her friends, look for red flags, and pursue when I found her acceptable. However, I ended … | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Landed my First Plate, but want advice for sexThis is a 22yo single mom who just broke up with her ex of a few years over physical abuse. So you're fucking the definition of damaged goods. I'd be fine with this if the rest of your post didn't scream that you're a commitment risk. where she promptly decided we should also be fuckbuddies but that I shouldn't "get attached" because this "isn't a thing" She's dictating the terms of the relationship. She isn't your plate, you're her's. went out to party (invited her but said I'd be out late, she… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 07:37 AM |
| 18 | How to escalate a Netflix and Chill?Get physically close. Make your intentions clear, and unlike the other comment, don't immediately go for tits, ass, or vag. She's being a slut, the point is to not make her feel that way. Get a cuddle position going and make sure your hands are free. Run a finger along her arm. Get her comfortable. Don't go for tits or ass until she is responding favorably to contact elsewhere, and not just putting up with it, but actively encouraging further contact. Never go for vag until your heavy into a mak… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 07:22 AM |
| 1 | "I like someone else" "I have a thing with someone else" yatta yatt yatt Ljbf. WTF am i doing wrongthat's what they all say That's a great one, because it implies you get with other women and have other options. It's basically social proof. It's the same as passing a shit test. It just shows that you've been around the block. You know the game. Just like not texting her right away to avoid seeming thirsty. She knows you're not too fucking busy to send a text for 3 straight days. That would be awful, an indication that you lack the basic communication skills to uphold any sort of normal relati… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when a male is belittling you?This video should be posted every time a short guy starts saying he can't be alpha. This is a slaughter. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Body issues, racial discrimination, mental health, and veteran care. Alpha men get public support while betas are allowed to suffer.I'm 5'10", not short myself, I've just seen the discrimination. Look at this comment. I mention short discrimination and you assume I'm a salty short guy complaining. You didn't assume I was asian/indian/middle eastern. Didn't assume I had mental health issues. Didn't assume I was a vet. I'm just bringing up the point that people make discriminatory judgements about short guys, and their issues are largely ignored because as a group they don't command as much respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Body issues, racial discrimination, mental health, and veteran care. Alpha men get public support while betas are allowed to suffer.Let's be completely fair here. I am looking at public support, not what we're actually getting done. I made that point explicitly because I know of the dismal state of the VA (check the username), and I'm aware of the dismal state of black employment and poverty in this country. Veterans healthcare is awful, but it's closer to being fixed than bias against short men or racial discrimination against asians because there is public support and pressure to do something about it. It doesn't fall into… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.It's a desert out there, and that makes for a lot of thirsty guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.Blue pill men know what's wrong. They don't always. That's the thing. I was truly clueless in high school, became more aware my first year in college after a tough break up (I was shocked she would cheat on me), and then things started to click when I joined a fraternity. RP has taken me from a point where I know what's wrong and rarely act on it to a point where actually direct my life in a meaningful direction. However, had I stayed in that relationship and continued to hang around blue pill g… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.Seriously, so many guys, especially when we're young, go into the "how could you do this?" rant. I was guilty of it when my first college girlfriend cheated on me, but a good bro of mine (who slept with a lot of women) smacked me back into shape. I went back to end things and did so with a solid frame. She was begging me to take her back by the end of it. This guy held solid frame, but honestly I think he would've been better off without the stunt. No matter how you slice it, he went to consider… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.I got the impression that this was basically just throwing it all in her face. He goes through it all clearly knowing it's over-the-top and ridiculous, talking about "glitter and shit" everywhere. He made her wear the antlers and nose to look stupid. She clearly wasn't into it, and she straight up refused to wear the nose. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:16 PM |
| 12 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.I'd say 6-7 premarital dicks per tat, and at least 1 postmarital dick per tat as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.Everyone will likely see the video since it went viral, but most youtube videos have something like 5 views. This will definitely be seen by everyone because people will want to know why the wedding is off. I'm confused as to why the proposal was after the wedding planning, but he clearly said she was cheating on him while planning the wedding, so family and friends will want to know what happened, and this video will be front and center. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.That was my thought exactly as I was watching. She's not crying, she never said, "I love you," "this is so sweet," "I'm so excited," etc... The only thing she had a real reaction to was seeing the setup initially and then seeing the trip. Reading the letter she looked straight up bored, if not annoyed that she had to read such a long letter. She looks like a slutty soccer mom before the kids came along. She will be inconvenienced by this. Her friends and family will find out she was cheating and… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 08:02 PM |
| 3 | 1.5 months into TRP - Ended 1.5 years LTR - Regretting?The only thing you can't fix is deformities and height. Everything else you can fix. Game is the easiest, looks is as simple as 1 year of intense diet regulation and lifting along with a wardrobe makeover, and money doesn't matter much for spinning plates. If you're bald and butt ugly standing at 5'6", yeah I'd believe you, but if you can get one girl to hook up with you, you can spin plates, you just have to do it more often. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 06:06 PM |
| 20 | Alpha Paul Walker dated 16 year old. Angry shrew pens bitter screed.Man, decide what you're going after here. Are you upset that she's calling out Walker, or upset that she's an unattractive feminist? Feminists piss me off too, but you gotta focus your argument correctly. Attack the argument, not the person. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | "If you have to ask, no you can't."She claims that she wants a man who will give her footrubs, spoil her, be a stay at home dad for her future children This isn't even sexual strategy, it's just strategy. Here she's focused entirely on herself, not thinking of the man at all. In this scenario she gets to continue focusing on her career while fulfilling her dreams as a mother with a man to wait on her hand and foot. She's assuming attraction (as women have a tendency to do), and not acknowledging that she would not be attracted to… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Males choose the alpha, and other thoughts on the value of male relationshipsSo many guys need to hear this. I made a similar mistake when I got to college. I had a tough time initially finding bros that were as solid as the group I'd grown up with. I went to an "elite" college so I felt many of the guys there were pretentious or simply pansies. I started dating a girl fairly soon and I made her a centerpiece of my social life. I joined her group of friends, and while I was in with the guys in that group, I never prioritized them. They always came second to the girl. I w… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 07:28 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The hypergamy is real, always a plan BThe real version is closer to, "he wasn't confident enough to make a move on me." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 07:40 AM |
| 11 | The grass is always greener. The not so roaring twenties.Look, these posts are all fine and good, but they're not what we need here. Just like some people abuse monk mode, others abuse this mentality. It's not a choice between professional/personal success or partying. You just need to know which sacrifices are necessary to get what you want, and which sacrifices are throwing you down the rabbit hole. 99% of men want a very active social life, an abundance of sex, and a fulfilling career/interesting hobbies. Posts like this only serve to justify not p… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 07:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR]Online Dating Payout w/ HB5.5(6+/-) - FCloseI would counter this with the observation that women never make the moves unless you've given her reason to do so. Yeah sometimes it's a beta hunter who thinks you're attractive enough and likes that you're awkward (because she can control you), but most of the time if a woman isn't into you she'll wait until you make a move and then turn you down. If she's making moves on OP, he's hitting the target, even if it's a relatively large one. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 06:42 AM |
| 1 | The underdog story: A red pill that Asian and Indian men living in America have to take as they start their journey.Lots of truth here, although I'll add that it's biological programming, not social programming, that makes women want Chad. Social programming determines what she specifically sees as Chad-type behavior, but the basics are based in biological attraction. As for chasing the blonde, it's overrated, but if a guy genuinely thinks that the most attractive look, he should chase it. I actually haven't dated (more than just FWB) a white girl since high school. A lot of that is my environment (elite coll… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 06:30 AM |
| 2 | The underdog story: A red pill that Asian and Indian men living in America have to take as they start their journey.suburban type white girls who are obsessed with status and haven't lost their high school mentality These girls aren't worth bothering with anyway, even if you're the type of white guy they usually go for. I'll gladly let the hometown heroes fight over them in the local bar they never left while I pursue girls with some actual substance. If Harold and Kumar lift (and Kumar controls unsightly body hair) they can lay as much pipe as any white man, just stick to metropolitan areas and avoid the sou… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 06:15 AM |
| 1 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.I think you're getting it. Emphasize the best parts of your job. You do shitty stuff all day, but what's something that's cool? Do you get to see what co-workers are looking up online? Dish out the hot gossip, girls eat that shit up (e.g. "seriously, until you have everyone's search history right in front of you, you don't realize how fucked up people are. For example..."). Do you make a lot of money? Emphasize what you are doing with it without saying anything beyond, "it pays well." Maybe you … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 05:20 AM |
| 2 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.I am invisible when I talk about what I do for a living. Want to combat this? Just act interested in your job, even if you're not. You know who is perceived as having a shitty job? The guy who says he puts in his 9-5 and can't wait to get out. Act excited about it. Phrase it in a way that sounds far more exciting than it really is. For instance, I was an engineer before I went to medical school. Instead of saying, "I sit around and play with CAD all day, barely see anyone aside from my 50 year o… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 04:13 PM |
| -1 | APALTI agree with most of this. The major difference between men and women intrinsically is definitely emotional vs. logical thinking, but the main difference behaviorally is circumstance. Being a woman is dating on easy mode (note: not relationships on easy mode, just dating and sex). Abundance mentality is there whether they try or not. As a guy, when you first start getting multiple obvious admirers, you really start to see why women act the way they do. The difference intrinsically is that women … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Fight For The Cause!There will be a time when it makes sense to fight for men's rights and oppose the vagina-obsessed society we live in today, but it's not today. It's not in our lifetimes. It's not even close. Maybe, when we're genetically engineering our babies and can fine tune characteristics and behavior we can rally for the end of hypergamy and male/female inequality. Until then, there will be winners and losers. Be a winner. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 01:05 AM |
| 9 | Response: Girl from OkCupid"Beta" is villainized in posts about attracting women, but you'll see most guys advocating for a healthy balance of alpha and beta in the proper areas for long term relationships. Personally, I go for alpha in the realms of social circle, looks, and behavior during sex and whenever other people are around. When we're alone I can mix in plenty of beta behaviors. That's the only time most women that I know want to see any vulnerability at all, when they're the only one who sees it. That's why guys… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 11:03 PM |
| 10 | Response: Girl from OkCupidOne day, you will take any vulnerability that your not-perfect boyfriend showed you and use it against him. This is not criticism. This is just the way it is. Sadly, this is very true. Too many guys fall into the honeymoon phase and divulge too much. They show so many unattractive sides of themselves, and women eat it up because it is a sign of him surrendering power. Really, they love when men are sensitive because it makes them feel more comfortable in the relationship. They don't think of it … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 10:59 PM |
| 11 | Response: Girl from OkCupidThe reasoning is concerning. Why improve yourself because women are irrational and need a leader? Improve yourself because you're a human with a life that shouldn't be wasted. You're thinking too emotionally here. You improve yourself to meet your desires. Women being irrational isn't a desire, it's not why he's improving himself. He's improving himself to meet and attract a girl. Women acting the way women do is just a factor he has to consider. Now, we're all socially conditioned to a certain … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 10:45 PM |
| 1 | AWALTThey're also not all presented with the same situations. Sometimes Chad comes around, sometimes he doesn't (He can only be in so many women at once!). Sometimes he comes around but decides not to pursue it, even if she's already decided she would fuck him if he went for it. Sometimes he's around, but goes for another woman. Just do what you can to minimize her exposure to Chads that want to fuck your girl. Be more alpha. Don't shoot too far above your SMV. Look for red flags, and then, when you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | AWALTI find dudes who don't commit and just have short flings all the time have a very rosy-perception of women because they've got their game down enough not to face that much bullshit when it comes to getting laid, and beyond that they're not subject to any of the relationship bullshit. I haven't found this to be true. I've found that guys who get laid a lot understand women better than guys who have mostly LTRs, but just haven't felt AWALT firsthand. They underestimate it. I know "players" who liv… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Getting older has its perks in the game but lets not give young guys in here false hope either.I've got no problem with what you're doing, but keep your future in mind. Eventually you will graduate, and the dating game will change, drastically. Girls don't really care about your success in college. It doesn't get them anything extra right now. Also their dating pool is mostly on even ground success-wise (guys going to X college), so it's all about social status, but once you graduate social status will start to incorporate money and career prospects far more heavily. You can talk about AF… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 08:39 PM |
| 4 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.The idea is to eliminate the natural competition for sex I believe. Get men riled up, but don't have them focusing their energy on getting women instead of training and fighting. With whores you control access to sex. No man is left brooding and no man is unfocused because he knows that sex is on the table as long as he does his job. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 07:45 AM |
| 11 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.I think a lot of this is just from being on reddit. Think about college. Go into a political science class and sit in the back and you'll see buzzfeed, Facebook, instagram, etc... Next go to engineering. Facebook, buzzfeed, reddit. Now go to a programming class. Reddit. Linux Forums, etc... Also, IT professionals are the types of guys who usually have low access to women. The time in most peoples' lives when they open up and gain confidence with women... college, and these guys spent it in class… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 07:40 AM |
| 25 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.The best part is that he's a prime example of a public figure that can speak RP truths in a PC manner, which brings people closer to accepting these ideas. Truthfully, if men talked in public the way we do here on TRP, the result would be polarizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 07:09 AM |
| 7 | So this guy David Futurelle, a male feminist blogger, tried to slander and take down the redpill movie. He's also written hit pieces on many redpill writers including myself.A big part of the ethos at redpill revolves around redpill being a journey, and not necessarily a movement. Thanks but I'm going to stick with this. If I can be a built, attractive doctor who can handle his shit in the workplace, household, and bedroom, I'm going to be okay in life. TRP is a guide, not a movement. Women will never take over. It's not something we need to worry about. They might establish some bullshit precedent where 50% of people in power need to be women, but the people pullin… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How do Women Deal with Each Other? - A Thought ExperimentI usually use these moments to work in a little amused mastery. She's putting herself out there with vulnerabilities, but they're not directed at you. Her problems seem stupid and inconsequential to you, so why act like you care? The idea is to let her know you think she's being stupid without doing it directly and looking like a jerk (because jerks are insecure). I literally just had this conversation with a plate last night Her: Blah, blah, blah, my friend won't talk to me, blah, blah Me: I li… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Being ALPHA makes it so easy. Okcupid examplesThe second girl is almost definitely a bot. None of her responses make sense. You just landed yourself on a call list. The first girl, if she's real, is probably just so fucked up that it doesn't matter. One word responses? Jesus. If she's real she's probably just fucking the pain away. I've fucked girls that'll just go for it like that. They're human petri dishes. If this is the approach you want to take, go for it. I'm just here to tell you that it's possible to get as much sex as your heart d… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 04:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Online Dating, Professional Photography, Fashion/Style InterplayOh I know. Enough guys on TRP are going after the 20-28 demographic regardless of their own age that I usually keep things objective unless the person posting says otherwise. That being said, judging a guy with your particular style is pretty pointless. If my hometown (rural) has taught me anything, you're basically an 8 to some women and a hard next to others. You've got the whole military, guns, and blue collar badass vibe going. How she perceives that is far more important than looks. I bet y… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | I have noticed that I am passive aggressive about getting attention. How does non passive ways of dealing with not being the center of attention?Start listening. Start trying to genuinely care abut what other people are saying. You don't have to say something about you. You don't have to say something that adds to the conversation. You can ask questions. You can probe further. Just genuinely be interested. People will be so impressed that you care what they're talking about that they'll keep talking to you. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 08:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR]Online Dating, Professional Photography, Fashion/Style InterplayIt's your style. Do with it what you like. If it were me, I'd go with a straight buzz and lose the square top style, but that could be culturally influenced. Your hair style is more popular in a small town setting in the heart of the"American homeland." It honestly reminds me of the hair I saw on "tough dads" growing up, but if you come to a mostly black/hipster city like the one I live in now you'd just be labeled a red neck. It's very "get off my lawn." If you're going for universal appeal, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 07:38 PM |
| 37 | LTR wont shut up about her orbitersWomen who keep orbiters, especially a pack of them with no other women around, are doing so because they crave validation. They keep other women away because they can't stand the competition. This can be fine for a relationship if you plan on being there to validate her all the fucking time, but in case you were planning on ever stepping away and focusing on your life for even a minute, you might want to reconsider. This is the type of girl who needs to be the center of attention, and that's why… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 07:00 PM |
| 14 | LTR wont shut up about her orbitersShe says she was always the type to get along with men more than women Did you even read the sidebar? She's not necessarily keeping her options open. If she wanted those guys, she would have dated them, but she does know what she's doing. She likes the validation she gets from their constant beta pursuits, which are beta enough to simply ignore and feign ignorance. Also, if she doesn't get along with other women, it's because she needs to be the center of attention. Girls like this are not LTR m… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Longtime lurker with a question based on how I see women act in restaurants...As much as I think women act like cunts, this isn't one of those times. Guys stiff the waitstaff just as often. It's probably because you're dating bitchy women. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 06:47 PM |
| 2 | [Theory]Size doesn't matter, Height doesI think more people equate very muscular with stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Good enough for shirtless photos ?You need to work on your shoulders and (honestly) your posture. You'd be surprised at how much just adjusting your posture will do for your stature. Lifting has a tendency to do this naturally, but it's important always. Keep at it. I would honestly suggest bulking now. Looking good with a shirt on is still more important than looking good without one. I'll take my 5'10" 170 at 12% BF over 140 at 8% BF any day. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [Theory]Size doesn't matter, Height doesmy easiest lays were girls who were taller then me by a few inches Of course they were. These girls are literal amazons. They're looking around for any guy who is even close to their height, and you're one of the very few. One of the most beta guys I know is 6'5". If he chose to (although he rarely did) he could effortlessly bang any girl over 6' just because he was the only guy around they could find even mildly attractive. I think nearly all of his lays in college came this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:53 PM |
| 0 | How should you react to compliments?Accept gratuitously and throw one back if you genuinely mean it. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 04:44 PM |
| 3 | [Theory]Size doesn't matter, Height doesI put on about 20 lbs recently at the gym and people have been asking me if I got taller. Seriously, it's about being physically imposing, not necessarily tall. Being tall is just an "easy" way to get there. Back in my BP days I've had girls think that I was shorter than some guys who were my height exactly because they carried themselves with confidence. Perceived height is a part of perceived value and confidence. Edit: Of course the ideal is being tall and imposing. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Plugged-in co-workers.How about Law #1? This is a good way to lose your job or get skipped over for promotion OP. Part of becoming alpha is situational awareness. Respect the established hierarchy and appeal to a power higher than the one you are hoping to displace. In other words, instead of being completely transparent in your views, simply live by them and don't make an ass of yourself at the office. Instead, appeal to a higher power by doing your job really fucking well and moving up. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:26 PM |
| 4 | [FR]Online Dating, Professional Photography, Fashion/Style InterplayNo, it's not real. Yes I've seen women rate Brad Pitt a 7, but that's because he's not real to them. They're rating his looks only and downgrading him because the effect of attractiveness is more powerful in person. If you saw a young Jessica Alba in person your jaw would drop to the floor. On the screen you just recognize that she's incredibly hot, but you don't really internalize it. Women also need to see his charm directly. They can only get off so much to a picture or movie. If any of these… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 03:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR]Online Dating, Professional Photography, Fashion/Style InterplayTo be fair, I legitimately think bolt ons are disgusting. It's unnatural, and we're programmed to like natural features. Aside from the unnatural look it's also a mental turn off, a sign that she felt she brought nothing to the table aside from her sexuality, and she had to enhance that sexuality to improve her life. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 03:21 PM |
| 4 | [FR]Online Dating, Professional Photography, Fashion/Style InterplayLook at the photos he posted above. I don't care if that black bar is hiding bright blue eyes that take you to another world, he's not a 7 (although he may be in the sad world of men over 40). Just another reminder that the stories on here are exaggerations. If a guy says he's a 7, he's anywhere between a 4 and a 7. If he says she was a 7, she's anywhere between a 4 and a 7. If he says she fell to her knees and couldn't resist his dick, he just got a normal blowjob. Just realize that it's all re… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 03:16 PM |
| 5 | The simplest way to naturally adopt abundance mentality - go out and experience itI find myself saying ridiculous things to women now. It's simply fun to watch the hamster spin. It's totally a power trip, but I'm on this earth to enjoy myself, and I could either leave you alone at the table and go watch tv or poke fun at how predictable you are for a few hours. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 06:07 AM |
| 18 | The simplest way to naturally adopt abundance mentality - go out and experience itI think there are a few stages. First you're excited to be getting so many dates. Next you get bored by the "first date" dynamics. All girls start to seem the same. You get incredibly bored with 95% of girls, and it's a rare girl that you really want to keep going with for any reason other than sex. Then, when you get good at closing, you get bored with sex as well. The thrill of fucking a new person eventually just wears off. I remember catching myself in the mirror while fucking this girl and … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 06:02 AM |
| 1 | The simplest way to naturally adopt abundance mentality - go out and experience itIt's really not that hard. If you can get one date, you can get more by trying more often. Just be prepared for tons of rejection. Day game all day. Literally all day. I think if I went out all day just roaming the streets and approaching every attractive woman I see I'd probably end up with 20+ numbers even if my success rate was relatively low. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 05:52 AM |
| 21 | Marriage destroys small businessesIt's more just an instant gratification thing. Women are used to getting whatever they want, when they want it. If they can't afford it, they have this thing called a vagina that prints money whenever they let a man put his dick in it, or even when she suggests that a man could put his dick in it. She's not going to take care of the golden goose, she's going to sell it for instant cash and find a man with another golden goose who's willing to give her a share of his profit from the eggs. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 05:44 AM |
| 13 | Interesting post on Male vs Female Suicide RatesThe doc is gonna cover his ass and say suicide attempt, but he is thinking cry for attention. The docs, both male and female, recognize that most female "attempted suicides" are really cries for attention. I've been spending some nights in the ER recently (as a med student), and I've seen a number of attempts, mostly women. When we get back to the center station where the docs hang out and fill out the paper work they'll usually give me their opinion. After a particularly weak attempt (girl said… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 05:25 AM |
| 9 | Interesting post on Male vs Female Suicide RatesThat thread makes me depressed. Seriously. I haven't read anything that echoes the complete lack of support for men in such a long time. Yes, some good comments were upvoted, but the top comment? Women actually attempt it more often, so obviously women are still suffering more. As a medical student I spend a lot of nights in the ER. I see a lot of these attempts. I'm not pretending that what I see is definitely indicative of the population, but I do see a lot more "suicide attempts" from women. … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 05:03 AM |
| 27 | One out of five women don't have kids by 45 (up from 1/9 in 1940s) partially due to female hypergamy: "IT'S THE MAN'S FAULT"she could have easily left and got with a very good man But how could she ever find another man attractive after that? What other man could provide the glitz and glamour and excitement of his lifestyle? What other man would cause all her friends to seethe with jealousy? This is the plight of the alpha widow. Don't feel bad for her, it is her own fault, but understand that she was trapped by her own desires. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 04:13 AM |
| 12 | Woman's Brain Explodes While Trying Hard Not To Admit She Dates Tall Men For Social ProofThis post does only one thing: complain. Okay you're life sucks. You're short. I get it. I really do feel bad for you especially short guys, but give it a break. We already know this. This isn't even close to new. Women like tall guys because they find tall guys more attractive. They also like guys with a lot of muscle, a strong jawline, a powerful job, a strong attitude, a solid frame, etc... Tall is something women find attractive. Now go post something productive. Post about how to attract gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 05:20 PM |
| 2 | 'Too much pressure on guys to lift'. Boo-fucking-hoo.It is a bad idea. I keep a 500 calorie excess. I believe the reason I grew so much so fast is because I had already been my current weight before. The hardest pounds to gain are the ones making you the biggest you've ever been. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 05:32 PM |
| 11 | How to do SkincareIf you're lifting (like you should be) then this should be a given. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 05:29 PM |
| 11 | "Don't Be Afraid to Dominate"The rules of the internet still apply. Many people here are lying, living in a fantasy world, or combining the best parts of their life into a single story. That or they're purposefully getting involved in very sexual communities. As a guy, these communities are very difficult to break into. Generally girls from Tinder aren't just willing to tag along as one of many girls going to a party with a single guy unless he's famous in some way. I wouldn't think too much about it. As long as you can get… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 05:25 PM |
| 3 | "Don't Be Afraid to Dominate"Now my turn is over. She’ll live a better life from what I’ve instilled in her Now granted I don't know this girl, but based on that message I'd say it's far more likely that she overcompensates, finds a guy who isn't quite dominant enough for her, and then builds you up in her mind as a fantasy. One day she'll come back to you, or someone she thinks is similar to you, and cheat on whatever guy she's dating because she thought she was "ready" for monogamy. Judge a girl by actions and past behavi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | 'Too much pressure on guys to lift'. Boo-fucking-hoo.I lost some weight after a stressful event and then put it back on. Also it's not that ridiculous even if I had been lifting before. 20 lbs of muscle? Yeah that's insane. 20 lbs? Totally doable at an 800 calorie/day excess. I would just call that a dirty bulk. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Important concepts this sub most ignores when it comes to doing better with women and just having better overall results in the game.Some of these are great things that we really don't talk about. Some of it is redundant bullshit, but I still really appreciate this post for the good advice that's here. Location, you couldn't be more right. I started browsing TRP when I was in a desperate location. I was parked in the middle of a mostly black, smaller city where most of the girls I was interested in were tied to a university. I worked for a company with 5 employees, all men over 30, either married or virgins. My roommate, a gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Important concepts this sub most ignores when it comes to doing better with women and just having better overall results in the game.Men are going to see it as a weird desperate attempt, but as long as you're the "hot guy in yoga class," the women are fine with it. I knew plenty of guys who cleaned up doing very "feminine" activities at a high level of mastery. The trick is to take it seriously. If you're floundering around in yoga class then you aren't high SMV, even if you're high SMV elsewhere. If you're a serious actor/dancer surrounded by gay guys and women, you're swimming in pussy. One of the endorsed guys on here told… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 04:34 AM |
| 3 | 'Too much pressure on guys to lift'. Boo-fucking-hoo.6-10lbs this entire year, if that, working out 3-5 times/week. This would just kill me. I'm up 20 lbs just these past 3 months. Eating right is more important than frequency of working out. I would even say it's more important than the effort you put into your workout, but I think there are some psychological things going on that make anything other than working yourself to failure a path for, well, failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 04:19 AM |
| 3 | 'Too much pressure on guys to lift'. Boo-fucking-hoo.I see this almost more often with guys. "I just want to run and be toned. I don't want to get really big." I fucking guarantee that with that attitude, you won't. Hell, tons of guys can want to be Arnold huge, carve out a great diet and workout plan, commit for 1 year+, and still end up somewhere just shy of "aesthetic. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 04:04 AM |
| 5 | TRP and The Revenge FantasyRevenge can be a powerful motivator, but it'll never last. You'll be crushed when you find out that your HS bully inherited his family's business and is raking in 200K+. You'll be discouraged when you're still not attractive enough for that one girl you always wanted to bang. You'll lose everything you were working for the moment the whole world doesn't collapse just because you got your shit together. Look at me. Sure, I'm in medical school. I'm likely going to outshine most of these fuckers on… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 03:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Holding frame momentarily trips up a natural alpha, changes the atmosphere of the night.He's currently in an LTR where he's allowed to keep banging chicks. My understanding is that she can bang other guys, but rarely exercises that option. Basically she really liked him, but knew she'd never get him to settle down at this age. Like I said, he's an anomaly, and he's one of the most socially adept people I know. His social circle is probably 4 times larger than your typical social butterfly. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Dan Bilzerian Sleeps With Bodybuilding.Com Founder Ryan DeLuca’s Wife...and posts it on instagramIt appears as though the vast majority of his money comes from a trust fund. I would also point out that it's easy to make large sums of money gambling when you already have a ton of it. He wouldn't have access to any of those sources of income if he didn't start out with millions, and despite a few large purses, it doesn't appear he's actually made a significant amount of money on his own. I'm counting 36K for poker and 385K for winning a race. Meanwhile he paid to appear on screen in a movie, … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Dan Bilzerian Sleeps With Bodybuilding.Com Founder Ryan DeLuca’s Wife...and posts it on instagramAny time a man steers his anger towards the man his woman cheated with, rather than at his woman, he is implying that he still cares for her, and that he is ready to forgive her at some point (otherwise why care? if he wasn't going to forgive her he'd just drop it). He is placing the blame on the other guy, and he's taking up the burden himself. He's saying he'll fight for her, rather than having abundance mentality. Also, depending on his approach to the situation he comes off as acting butthur… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 03:51 PM |
| 64 | Dan Bilzerian Sleeps With Bodybuilding.Com Founder Ryan DeLuca’s Wife...and posts it on instagramHonestly, I was with DeLuca on this until I heard three details. 1) He got back together with her shortly after she "needed a break." That's code for "needed some new cock." 2) He texted Blizerian from his gf's phone when he found the number. Classic beta move and a complete loss of frame. 3) He posted about "doing good" on IG and called Dan a douchebag. Punish the slut, not the guy who publicly outed the fact that you're dating a whore. Now, I think Bilzerian is operating outside of what I woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 06:04 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Holding frame momentarily trips up a natural alpha, changes the atmosphere of the night.Well I followed #1 by not trying to dethrone him. He's the appointed leader, and if I had tried to AMOG him, even if I was acting more alpha, my actions wouldn't have been validated by him or the group. Instead I'd be seen as an usurper of sorts. I also followed #25, not letting him dictate my role. Then #47. I didn't want to keep going. Anything more than this subtle action would have been too much. Idk, I've never been too big on the 48 Laws. Too vague, and there are too many. It's hardly a co… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 04:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Holding frame momentarily trips up a natural alpha, changes the atmosphere of the night.Well you should meet this guy. Part of it is that he maintains female friendships really well, basically keeping any girl he hangs out with on the line. The other part is that they all know what to expect from him. I imagine now that he's out in the real world he breaks a lot more hearts. He doesn't have his reputation to lean back on when girls are shocked he didn't call. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Sexbots for women?If anything, sexbots will become a thing for guys. Men are attracted to things that are far more easily replicated. Physique, looks, feel, and admiration. Women are attracted to physique, looks, status, money, power, and social aptitude. If anything, women will resent sexbots because the betas will use them and many will stop begging for sex. They'll be fighting for sex with the alphas, and they will get less special treatment. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 12:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Holding frame momentarily trips up a natural alpha, changes the atmosphere of the night.It wasn't really about the girl, she was just a spectator who noticed it as well. It was about our typical dynamic, which was pretty much purely alpha/beta when we were in college. I broke away from the typical and challenged him in a really subtle way. This changed the dynamic a bit because he saw a side of me that surprised him. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 12:11 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Holding frame momentarily trips up a natural alpha, changes the atmosphere of the night.Nah. You're thinking about that too literally. She might go for him over me if we both approached her simultaneously at a bar, but she's already invested in me, and she didn't see any long term value in him. I said that to explain why I stuck around. He wasn't a threat. Hanging with him was still a positive for me. I wasn't the alpha male of the area, but I was associated with a group of alpha males, which gives me further social proof. Most social theory out there suggests that the best way to … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 09:54 PM |
| 35 | "...Drop the Dough, Then We'll Talk"We'll never know if anyone is lying or not. I expect most of the material on here is anywhere from 20% to 100% fictional. At the very least, I imagine most guys on here are telling a true story with a very biased perspective and poor perceptions of what was really going on. What matters is this, have you taken a message from these posts that has allowed you to improve your life? I have. The concepts presented here are real. Fucking a girl is rarely as easy as telling her that her boyfriend is so… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 06:40 PM |
| 6 | My family went to visit me today...This is not realistic thinking. An attractive attorney woman will spend every Friday with their burgeoning cock collection. Attorney, nurse, professional netflix watcher. The key word is attractive. Women in this position only suffer when they disregard their looks in favor of career and still expect the advantages of being an attractive woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Bill Maher delivers gem of TRP wisdom.There are plenty of guys on here who are endorsed who don't know shit (but usually just know the right things to say because they've been around long enough). There are also guys without even a point who are slaying left and right and making big things of themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:28 AM |
| 21 | Betas on AskMen willfully act as doormats for entitled hot women. This is what "love" looks like in a bluepill world.But remember, women are oppressed! Right, feminists? Important to point out that the prettiest girl in the room is rarely a feminist. If I were an ugly woman, I'd probably think women were oppressed too. In reality, very ugly women are oppressed. I just have no sympathy because the only women who get worse treatment than men socially are ugly and fat. Anyone can avoid being fat. The rest of feminists are just too spoiled to realize that being responsible for providing worth (as opposed to having… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 04:58 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Dated a feminist. She just drove a knife through my heart. Lessons enforced.Also, I would imagine that the other guy accelerated this behavior. The girl who drove me to TRP did exactly this. We coexisted happily as beta and girlfriend for years before she went off to start a new school program. While I was a fairly alpha dude when we met, I had made sacrifices in my social life and had become very beta with her. It wasn't until a couple new alpha dudes came into her life through school that she realized how unbelievably unattractive I was to her. I think this is a big r… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 04:43 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Dated a feminist. She just drove a knife through my heart. Lessons enforced.Seriously. What matters is end game. Try to enjoy the ride as much as possible, but don't sweat the mistakes. I very recently fell victim to this, and the story was much like OPs (though I will say that her actions seem sudden and relatively extreme, even for a woman). There is no such thing as a "good girl." I could scream AWALT at the top of my lungs over and over again and I still don't think it would express how much this is true. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 04:29 AM |
| 18 | [FR] Dated a feminist. She just drove a knife through my heart. Lessons enforced.I agree, but I think OP is using those incidents as examples of how his entire mood/attitude changed. Consider two ways of going about those actions. 1) OP takes her to the concert and allows her to indulge herself on social media with a, "look at how great my man is," post. He takes her home, fucks the shit out of her, and passes out. Then, when she complains about the car, he tells her to bring it around to his place so he can take a look, and then jokes that she's going to owe him some seriou… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 04:24 AM |
| 62 | The "half night stand" for the modern millennial woman: Just when you thought the CC wasn't enough!I can see why people think TRP is incongruent. To put in frankly, TRP is a community that has given up on imposing widespread change. It is, by definition, not a movement, and can never be a movement, because by spreading it would literally be working against what it saw as an ideal world. Instead, guys on TRP are being realistic. We can't change the way women are. Even if we could, we definitely couldn't change the way they are while we still have time to enjoy it. The primary motivation is not… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Another example showing AWALTAs much as I can relate to this as a med student who is going to be broke, busy, and "emotionally unavailable" for years to come, this was a petty move that doesn't stand to benefit him. This sort of shit can come back around if they have mutual friends (I'm guessing they do if they lived together). If it becomes widespread enough, he may find himself with a reputation, and reputations have a way of making their rounds, including with girls who might actually be worth his time. He's always got t… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Her n-count is just the top of the icebergMost young guys don't dump girls at that age. That's a stretch, but I agree that if she hasn't kept a relationship going for at least 6 months by 25 then there is something seriously wrong. Either she has such a shitty personality that no guy could stomach being with her long term, or she's so afflicted with new cock syndrome that she'll never make for a good LTR anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Her n-count is just the top of the iceberg"I've always wanted to fuck a black guy" "I've always wanted to try a threesome." "I've never had sex with a celebrity. " "I really want to fuck a foreign guy in a far away land." Most girls with a giant pile of sexual fantasies are pretty intent on riding the CC. These fantasies can rarely be fulfilled by any single person, and she'll likely alpha widow herself in the process of fulfilling them. If she doesn't get to fulfill these fantasies then she'll resent you for keeping her from the sex li… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Highschooler trying to pull adult cougars.There is no such thing as an HB5 or below. The scale is from 6-10. Don't perpetuate that. At least he's being honest. I actively encourage honest ratings. For most guys HB6 = the ugliest girl I would fuck. I know for a fact that plenty of guys are going hogging every weekend. When many guys on here say HB6 or HB7 all you can be sure of is that her tits stick out further than her stomach. They say HB6 because they saw her in a dress and heavy makeup one time and she didn't make everyone in the ro… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Her n-count is just the top of the icebergIf the argument about men and women being fundamentally different doesn't convince you to expect more, this certainly should. So many guys are holding themselves back on the premise that they should expect what they are told they deserve. That if they don't have a particular quality, they can't expect a partner to have that quality either. The sexual market place is an economy. Pay as little as possible for as much as you can get. Just because you paid market price doesn't mean there wasn't a de… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeAll extremes are unsuccessful with women. Would you advocate that every man on TRP become a full alpha violent criminal drug dealer or a full beta white knight? Some mysterious/reclusive qualities can definitely help with women. Being an open book can make you boring and predictable. Women love to try to unravel a closed off man. An alpha with no sigma qualities will be seen as simple, a caricature with no depth, albeit a fun caricature. Look at my "ideal" distribution. Alpha 75%, beta 20%, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeBobby Fischer is a "sigma" by my definition above. You could also make an argument for Newton and Tesla. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeThat's what I was trying to get at. Evidently I confused everyone by using the term "sigma," when I should've redefined it entirely. In this post, Sigma means Newton or Tesla. I'm aware that it has other implications elsewhere, which I why I put the disclaimer, but I can see how this confused people. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 07:10 PM |
| 34 | Her n-count is just the top of the icebergI consider a high n-count on par with: history of cheating, alpha widowed, unrealized fantasies, unusual sexual behavior (e.g. threesomes, public sex), desire to continue riding the CC, and behavior altering habits (e.g. drug/alcohol problems). High n-count is simply used because it indicates many of these red flags may be present, even if you are unaware of them. The only thing a high n-count does is somewhat impair her ability to pair bond. That's it. There are far worse things out there, it's… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeOkay then. Elon Musk's fake perceived persona is a sigma male. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeGuys here are trying to figure out what generates sexual arousal in a woman. Don't you think putting it under one umbrella term is a little redundant and unhelpful? Guys want to know what sort of behaviors attract women, so saying, "behaviors that attract women will attract women" isn't helpful. At this point, most threads on this sub could do a "find and replace" with alpha = good and beta = bad and it wouldn't change the content at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeI really should never have used the word "sigma." Maybe I'll try this again in a few months and use different terminology instead of hoping people read the disclaimer. This post has nothing to do with the "sigma male" people talk about here. I only borrowed the term because they are the most widely recognized group who utilize what I consider "sigma" traits the most. In this framework, a "sigma male" is about 50% alpha and 50% sigma. In the framework I tried to create here, I would consider a pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeCommon theory I have seen so far states that actions exist on the Alpha-Beta spectrum, Which means Sigma has to be something else. I was trying to redefine it. Clearly it caused some confusion given that comments like yours are all other this thread. I was extracting the alpha qualities from a typical "sigma male" and using what was left over as a new trait, sigma. Maybe I should've called it something different. You must be able to describe people in terms of their behaviors (our behaviors are … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeLike I said, different framework, different definitions. I'm borrowing the term "sigma" from the "sigma male." I arrived at "sigma" traits by basically taking the stereotypical sigma male (e.g. James Bond) and stripping him of his alpha traits. In that way, I'm trying to separate the traits that make an alpha different from a sigma. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 04:16 PM |
| 7 | An Endless Debate for Me: Female Friends are UselessThose are the easiest to fuck, just in case you wanted to turn this into a plate. Sounds like all you have to do is add a smile and a "joking around" vibe to your current interactions with her and she'll fuck you. Just depends on whether or not you want to deal with it. I usually stay away from the "strong, independent" types. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeDon't get the idea that it's okay to be very sigma without a majority alpha. I listed 5% sigma as my ideal for a reason. You look at the stereotypical "sigma" male (James Bond, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs), and they're just about a 50/50 split between sigma and alpha, with little to no beta at all. There is simply no being respected in this society without learning to hold an alpha frame, so that should be your primary goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeI'm trying to put it into a workable framework. Right now it is just semantics because the terms are less useful than our natural intuition. We're describing alpha as attractive and beta as unattractive, and obviously that changes based on the situation, which causes a lot of confusion. The terms are being used to describe something we intuitively understand. I'm trying to break down the terms so you can use them to describe things that are less intuitive. I'm not pretending this is a complete s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 03:13 PM |
| -4 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeThis is the conventional definition of sigma. I'm "borrowing" the term and trying to separate out the traits that make a sigma a sigma instead of an alpha. The conventional "sigma" male (e.g. James Bond) actually exhibits a high degree of alpha traits. I agree that it's easy to call yourself a sigma. In the conventional definition, I argue that you cannot possibly be a sigma if you do not have either outlier success (self-made $$$ in the millions at a young age) or a very intriguing/valued job (… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 03:08 PM |
| -1 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeI prefer to see Alpha as all traits that generally generate sexual arousal in women and beta as all traits that generally generate feeling of safety in women. This is the typical definition, and it is exactly what I was trying to avoid, because traits that generate sexual arousal in women are not completely consistent. To bring it back to my definitions, some women require more or less alpha and beta. Two equivalent situations with two different women could require different traits or behaviors … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 02:59 PM |
| 0 | Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal lifeI can respect this definition, but it doesn't fit into the framework I've built here. That being said, no one has built a perfect framework to describe social dynamics, so I believe either is just as valid until "proven" otherwise. Like I said in the post, my definitions vary a bit from what is typically used on TRP. I knew I'd get some pushback from the sigma definition since most stereotypical "sigmas" have a ton of alpha traits, and I'm really describing something completely different. To cla… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Individualism versus Collectivism in Women.The craziest part about all of this is that Western women will paint these women as less than human. American men going after foreign women are nearly always seen as taking advantage or having some sort of fetish. The women he is dating are viewed as partial humans, and the bond he forms with her can't possibly be equal to the bond he would form if he were to settle down with a hypergamous American woman. It's basically because a western man has an easier time getting one of these women, and tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Request for advice from TRPThis is Biotech, not tech. Biotech is mostly run by older guys (35-70) because it usually requires more qualifications and speed bumps to enter (e.g. higher education, access to lab facilities, larger seed funds, etc...), unlike tech/software, which is readily accessible to anyone with a computer and a knowledge of coding. I've found that it can range from jeans with a tucked in button down to a full suit. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Request for advice from TRPI'm probably one of the most qualified to answer this question here. I presented to venture capitalists for two years as part of a pharma startup company before going to medical school. If they told you not to wear a suit, don't, but be prepared to change if need be. A blue sport coat will do just fine. If your beard doesn't grow in very thick, leaving you the ability to make it look clean and sharp, shave it. What's far more important is staying on point and listening. VCs think they're the shi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 10:54 PM |
| 2 | The "Fuck Boy" PhenomenonSo no one is going to comment on OP's obvious lack of social awareness? TRP is supposed to teach you how women and the larger blue pill society thinks. All you're doing with those comments on FB is publicly outing yourself as someone who doesn't understand basic social grace. Holding these beliefs is fine, but parading them around with zero tact is only embarrassing yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 10:14 PM |
| 11 | Regarding perspective on TRP and a loss..If you lose a potentially good relationship, you don't look back. Recovered relationships are never as strong as new ones. She has seen your weak side, but on her terms, not yours, so keeping her respect will be nearly impossible. Just move on. Use the pain as motivation, not for a new girl (your life really shouldn't revolve around women), but for a new hobby, skill, or self-improvement of some kind. Eventually you will have enough self-confidence to know that you will be happy with or without … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Reactions to infidelity (xpost science)You can use this to your advantage. If your relationship is lagging emotionally or sexually, become "close" with a female co-worker. She will become jealous of your new emotional bond, but you won't technically be outstepping the boundaries set by your relationship. This is the beginning of the best type of dread game. The best type is when that same girl hits on you in front of her (but you only accept, not reciprocate). Women can't do this. Once they hit our weak spot (sexual), they've already… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)I think of alpha, beta, and sigma as traits, rather than as types of people. It's easy to just call someone a [blank], where [blank] is whichever trait they exude the most. Being an archetype of any of those traits, including alpha, is going to have serious weak points. Be careful calling yourself a sigma. People look at sigma and think, "Oh that's me. I keep to myself and I don't open up my feelings," yeah... that's half of the men in America. "I'm absorbed in my work," okay... and does your wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)I'd wager that is because they are the absolute pinnacle of the RP mindset. I don't think so at all. I think the absolute pinnacle of the RP mindset is a guy who mixes alpha, beta, and sigma qualities very deliberately to carve out the life he wants. A Sigma is may be the pinnacle of the MGTOW mindset depending on how that MGTOW'er feels about even non-committal relationships with women, but that's it. Most guys want the life that comes along with a majority alpha traits, some beta traits, and a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)Keep things concrete. If you're spending money on her, it's because you want her to be there. It's your trip, and you're bringing her along. It's never "our trip." If you need to pay for a flight/hotel, fine, but ask her to chip in for smaller things like dinner, activities, etc... The trip should be as "painful" financially for her as it is for you. In other words, you should never feel more apprehensive about the amount of money you're spending on the trip as she feels about the amount of mone… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)Women don't even have an "alpha" category. Women have a "no," "maybe," and "fuck yes!" category, that's it. She isn't thinking about what's going on behind the scenes, she's only getting tingles. We look at the types of actions that give women tingles (or turn them off) and apply labels (e.g. alpha, beta, sigma). Alpha actions are indicators of social dominance. Beta actions are indicators of willingness to commit. Sigma actions are indicators of independence and professional dominance. No one m… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 03:58 PM |
| 13 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)If you're an MGTOW guy and you're doing it for the benefit of women, you really messed up somewhere in that thought process. MGTOW guys aren't trying to make a difference, they're just focusing on different things. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Short , bald and slim indian guy here. Just discovered trp. I am having hard time getting dates and sexTelling him to go for the "right girls" aka settling for the what he can get is bullshit and I'm calling it like I see it. Haven't you seen those 5'6" guys with really hot short girlfriends? Haven't you seen complete betas with "stacked" girlfriends who have nerdy personalities? Haven't you seen nerdy, socially inept, and ugly guys from India or the Middle East with their attractive girlfriends/wives from home (not talking arranged marriages)? Come on. I'm not saying, "settle for a land whale." … | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Short , bald and slim indian guy here. Just discovered trp. I am having hard time getting dates and sexI just turned 30. I am short 5'5" , 140 lbs and bald. You are climbing out of a deep hole my friend. I think lifting is probably a must, but mainly it's about targeting the right girls. First of all, go for short girls only. 5'3" and below. Go for foreign girls, they won't mind the accent as much. Go for Indian girls. I know you said they won't look at you, but that's probably less race and more awkwardness. Improve your confidence and personality. Did you have more success in India? Honestly, i… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 08:52 AM |
| -1 | How can you really tell if a girl is a slut?Most important tell, how does she act when she's around you and other attractive guys? How often does she seek out attention from attractive guys when you are not around? Sluts will maintain a "friendly" demeanor with guys who clearly want to fuck her, even when you're around. If she goes out with her friends often without you, that's a sure sign that she's soaking up attention from other guys as well. How much she craves new cock is more important than the mileage on her pussy. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)Idk actually. I heard about them here a few months ago and quickly applied it to my experiences with surgeons and other anti-social outliers I know in real life. I'm sure you could google it. They're tough to learn about because they are anti-social and rare by their very nature. You can see plenty of alphas in any bar across the country. Sigmas are much harder to find. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 08:25 AM |
| 4 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)Your superiors know when they are being unreasonable. Read them and push back appropriately. It's a delicate balance, but if you've ever been unreasonable in a position of leadership, you'll know how much respect you gain for those who can push back without breaking professional boundaries (aka, maintaining frame). | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Be polite, not nice. (a how and why)Posts like this are homing in on the type of person you actually want to be, rather than glorifying Chad Thundercock, football captain and douchebag extraordinaire. People look at Chad as a role model because he's successful with women and common enough that you see it in real life fairly often. He's also the polar opposite of who you were before, which makes it easy to believe that he's the ideal. However, there's a far less common guy, one who is well-rounded, confident, and easy going who is … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 07:58 AM |
| 80 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)This guy is a Sigma. Studying the behavior of Sigmas can end up being fruitless. To be a Sigma you need some sort of outlier factor. You need to be in some way uniquely important outside of social contexts, because the effect only really works if she thinks she can't possibly replace you. Achieving this is much harder than achieving "alpha" status, which is entirely social and essentially independent of your professional success. If you're a loner type who lives in a typical studio apartment wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 07:15 AM |
| 124 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)Flaunt your power, not your wealth if you're trying to attract women. If you want a good LTR don't flaunt either. This man is a model for how you should act when you have lots of money. It's my money and I earned it. If I were to lose it all tomorrow it wouldn't affect you in the slightest. I'll put into the relationship what you put in, and where I choose to spend my money elsewhere is none of your concern. Women like this make me happy I'm not going to be well off until I'm 32-34. As annoying … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Polyamorous couple wants to have child. Wife thinks that his husband is too jealous because he cares about paternityUsually the worst of these posts are met with resistance. This post may be a troll, but it's an indication that even the wider world of betas will put their foot down when it comes to genetic paternity. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Just saw this on TwoX, and had to share..But no one will ever love a whore The existence of this sub reddit is evidence to the contrary. This sub is filled to the brim with guys who loved extremely slutty girls and/or whores before they fucked them over. Plenty of guys could love a whore. The point of this sub is that guys here think it's simply more logical to place our bets on other types of girls. However, there are millions of men who stumble upon this mind set and decide to reject it. Find one of those men and be good to him. I'm … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | She loves me, he lost frame, I banged her after I saw someone go from beta to omega right before my eyes.And I'm saying pulling that stunt will ensure you get embarrassed by all but the most omega of omegas. Obviously a move like that is going to be seen as douchey by most people. All he has to do is criticize you loudly. Everyone in the area will take his side. You took a girl who was making a fool of herself and turned her into a victim, and you gave the other guy an easy way to look like a hero. "Yeah I would dump his ass too." -thinks every girl in the bar Meanwhile, "Mr. White Knight" is thank… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Just saw this on TwoX, and had to share..Absolutely not. My entire career is based on keeping people from harm. Honestly I'm sorry that you saw this thread because you don't seem prepared to handle it emotionally. The only thing I would tell you to do at this point is to make peace with yourself and what you've done. Stop worrying about what people think of you now, because it will only bring you further from being in a place where you can think highly of yourself. It doesn't make you a bad person. Have you knowingly harmed others? I w… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 04:57 AM |
| 1 | chick im sleeping with is going away for 5 days.....You clearly care if she sleeps with other guys. If you've got other options, why do you care? She sounds like a run-of-the-mill slut. A fellow guy would handle this by not caring at all. Stick your dick in her as many times as you reasonably can without spending a lot of money on her. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriendDid the story mention the part where the hummingbird got trapped the fire and burned? Because that's what would happen in a society this big. If you can't assemble a critical mass, and part of your target demographic is actually benefitting from what you are trying to change, then you will only get lost in the fire. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Why are some cosmetic improvements considered fine, and others insecure?I think there is some truth to the idea that shaming is used as a way of keeping some unfortunate genetic minorities from improving their appearance. The balding one is particularly true. People say "just shave it off," but I know plenty of people who look pretty bad with their shaved head. If there is a viable solution out there (e.g. hair transplant), and it's going to make you look better (e.g. the many celebrities who've done it), then it seems silly not to do it. It is pretty arbitrary what… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How to ask out a girl in my class?I think asking her to your dorm immediatly to drink seems desperate. Depends. If you ask her to drink in your dorm with a big group of people prior to going out it'll be normal, and it familiarizes her with being in your room, which is obviously the easiest place to close. Actually, in college this was the easiest way to get laid. If she had any intention of banging you she'd leave something in your room. Then when you left the party she'd have to go back and get it. Even my old beta self could … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriendThat's why we're not a movement. We're a group of people looking to be selfish, and I feel we're fairly open about that. We're not large enough to make a real impact on the climate, and many guys reject TRP even after hearing about it, and I don't believe we have any intention of actively recruiting since we have a large enough mass to still have a thriving community. Women are becoming plates to alpha guys with or without TRP. The number of natural alphas out there is way higher than the number… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | chick im sleeping with is going away for 5 days.....If you're really concerned, just go out the same weekend and have at least one pic of you with a girl of similar attractivness to her appear on social media that she could see. aka "dread game". No need for dread game at two weeks. That's just stupid. Dread game is for cases of exclusivity (e.g. LTR/marriage) and waning interest. Dread game is supposed to keep a girl interested in you, and from what I can tell she hasn't started categorizing him as beta yet. If she's already into you and she's s… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 08:23 PM |
| 8 | Just saw this on TwoX, and had to share..Couldn't have said it better myself. This is the response I always give to girls who go on about why "guys hate sluts." I can still have fun with a whore, stripper, or run-of-the-mill slut. I can still think she adds more value to the world than a girl who doesn't sleep around, but she will never be an LTR and that other girl might. I need certain traits from certain people. Whores, strippers, and sluts can have great traits for exciting times, I'm looking for loyalty and admiration from an LTR,… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriendNo, that's the point of TRP. TRP is saying that men will never be heard because no one listens to a weak man. Men will never be oppressed as a whole because there will always be the top men who benefit, which excuses society of any need to change ("It's your fault, not society. Look, this guy is doing just fine"). Basically, if you are a weak man you cannot change your position, so men can never move up as a whole through any means other than hoisting ourselves up individually. The weak simply d… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 07:54 PM |
| 1 | This Empress Has No Clothes: Elisabeth Holmes and Rise and Fall of TheranosEh, to be fair, usually years and years of research go on before you can even begin to think about commercializing in pharma, and investors are very picky (they usually just don't know a good project from a bad one because they don't fully understand the science). There's a lot of "investing in the people, not the product." Most people do genuinely believe their research works, it's just that once they begin they realize that they can make money even if it doesn't work (direct sale of company an… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Girls with boyfriendHe's just saying you can live above this, be the change you want to see in the world, etc... And that she's not worth investing in for anything other than sex. I typically don't go for girls with boyfriends, but it's just because they're obviously not LTR material and because I don't have that much fun with girls I don't respect. It feels more like using a sex toy if you don't see her as an equal, but that's just me. Obviously I'm not going to have respect for a girl who doesn't have the self co… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Plates Want Instant Commitment.They go nuclear when I don't offer it back .Thoughts?Usually this means she's looking for a boyfriend. My approach is to basically say, "I'm having fun with you. I enjoy your company, and I'd like to see where this goes, but right now I'm focusing on ______. Obviously if you find someone you want to be serious with, and he's ready right now, I would understand." I have similar issues because I'm "boyfriend material" for most girls (med student). Operating on the above sentiment gets her hamster spinning with all the emphasis on "right now" ("maybe… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | So I have this dilemmaFrame. You are naturally goofy, and you don't hold yourself to high esteem. You are doing this to yourself, and I would imagine you have a hard time not acting out in ways that cause you to be made fun of. Make changes somewhat slowly and subtly (otherwise they will call you out). Start lifting right now, I've yet to see a jacked guy be the absolute beta of a group (unless the whole group is jacked). Start wearing clothes that are a bit more mature (but phase this in, if you change overnight the… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Just lol at how women chase athletesI think he means she's looking for a guy who can act beta, but be automatically alpha (due to outlier status). I'm sure there are some gentle giants out there in professional sports. These guys are automatically alpha, but have a beta demeanor. So she remains attracted to him, but also gets what she wants in a beta provider. I go back and forth on this one. I'm not sure if it really exists or if it's what many women are really looking for. Personally I think women ideally want to compartmentaliz… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 12:47 AM |
| 1 | If I want to have a lower body fat percentage year-round, should I just cut out carbs?mass > abs Back when I ran track I was a fairly skinny 800 meter runner and I had very visible abs. I ended up injuring my knee and I couldn't run anymore, so I started going to the gym every day after class and just lifting without cardio. I put on mass pretty quickly and the results were immediate. Greater respect from my peers and more admiration from women. I lost my abs, but I was suddenly far more attractive since I wasn't going ottermode, which looks just like skinny fat with a shirt on. … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Seems like LTR views giving blowjobs as a choreDread game. All the dread game. Don't confuse this with the shitty version of dread game (making her think you'll break up with her). No that shit only makes her suck so she doesn't lose her beta provider. That'll buy you slightly better blowjobs for a week. I'm talking real dread game. Be flirty with other girls who talk to you (do not flirt directly, just be high energy and tease them a bit), up your looks (lift like a fiend and get better style), live your own life (go out without her, advanc… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Women in their 30s who are unable to get beta bucks commitment require covering up the causes for riding the CC to serve the female imperative. One of the MAIN reasons for feminism.It's tough. I went through the same thing, but mine was even worse. We had been together two years and then she moved, so I came here looking to figure out what to do about my LDR, but refused to believe the no LDR mantra. I don't think she ever cheated, but that relationship was trash. She had all the signs (orbiters, alpha widow, etc...). She already had me doing chores, driving her around, paying for expensive things, etc... One evening we went out with her friends from her program and she bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 11:39 PM |
| 2 | She loves me, he lost frame, I banged her after I saw someone go from beta to omega right before my eyes.Me, if I saw a chick doing that, I would sell her to the other guy. I would tell the other guy "you need to leave now, and you can take the girl with you for $10" - do this in front of her and make her feel like a cheap whore. Oh and there's definitely no way an alpha guy can turn this around and make you look like a ridiculous idiot for pulling a stunt like this. Sometimes this sub is really delusional as to how much you can "treat her like a cheap whore" before you just look like a butthurt as… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 11:06 PM |
| 3 | This Empress Has No Clothes: Elisabeth Holmes and Rise and Fall of TheranosI used to work in pharmaceutical startups before going to med school. Sadly, this isn't just female entrepreneurship, this is any entrepreneurship in a bubble field. I know a guy who raised $35M on the basis of a non repeatable experiment, and he's far from an exception. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 07:15 PM |
| 3 | She loves me, he lost frame, I banged her after I saw someone go from beta to omega right before my eyes.It's about frame. He lost his frame by confronting her, most likely in a very jealous way. He also failed to see how little his "feelings" meant to her. If your girl is flirting with other dudes in front of you then you've already lost and you should next her quickly to move on with your life instead of pathetically hanging on to a girl who has no respect for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 06:55 PM |
| 5 | She loves me, he lost frame, I banged her after I saw someone go from beta to omega right before my eyes.It's half the girl and half the OP. The way OP is cavorting around with his conquest is a pretty major tell for insecurity. He felt the need to take this beta guy's girl. That part isn't morally wrong (the guy needed a reality check), but that bang was way more about needing to prove he was better than the other guy than it was about genuinely enjoying the act. Some women see right through this sort of behavior, others dont, especially the very insecure/unstable ones. That's the problem I have w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 06:46 PM |
| 3 | The Winter is Coming: Future of genomics and cuckoldrySo if you read that statement that means the father suspects who dropped the cuckold. And he must have had this suspicion for a long time because we are talking about an event that happened 25+ years ago. Nah, the girl told him who the father was. The original post claims she talked to the mom and she eventually broke down (after 30+ minutes of trying to deny irrefutable scientific data) and told them it was a guy from their church. I would guess most guys don't know they're cuckolded just like … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 07:54 AM |
| 21 | The Winter is Coming: Future of genomics and cuckoldryHow this isn't illegal is beyond me. False paternity is a horrible thing for the father and for the child, and is a legal form of stealing incredible sums of money. Society is behind the times in legal punishment for crimes that aren't stereotypically "male". That sort of deception in any other context would leave you in jail. Tricking consumers (e.g. Enzyte/Smiling Bob) and lying to the government (e.g. tax fraud, perjury) are both illegal, yet tricking a man into raising a child that isn't his… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 07:40 AM |
| 9 | 28 year old woman on TwoX gets a cold hard slap of reality - high value men are avoiding her. Commenters furiously rationalize it away and tell her everything will be alright."Where did all the good guys go?" = "The only guys who go for me are either below me or don't stick around" = "I severely over-estimate my value on the relationship market because of the inflated value of women on the sexual market." | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 02:38 AM |
| 2 | A short story from my college days - alpha and beta are relativeIMO ugly girls are more likely to be alpha widowed by hot guys... That's their way of hoping/praying/trying to pretend their SMV is that high. That was the one moment she felt like an equal with a traditionally "hot" guy. The one time her friends would've been jealous of her. She was temporarily let into the exclusive world occupied only by very, very attractive men and women. It doesn't matter that she was only there as a living/breathing fleshlight for some guy who pulls girls hotter than her … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 02:34 AM |
| 1 | A short story from my college days - alpha and beta are relativeThe "Chads" that guys talk about here can be anyone from a 6'2" jacked varsity football player with a 10" dick to a 5'8" scrawny motherfucker with a good sense of humor. It's all relative. If you're going up to bat against 4s, Chad could be the one normal/non-socially awkward guy who went for her. If you're pulling 7s and 8s, Chad inevitably looks something like David Beckham. It can also just be a guy who has a hold over her (e.g. an ex who stopped caring). The key characteristic of a Chad is t… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 10:19 PM |
| 1 | A short story from my college days - alpha and beta are relativeAnalysis at the end is spot on, but idk about the land whale thing. For most girls, once you've fucked her fat friend, that's the level you're on. Women judge you by the sort of women you attract. If you're fucking 4s and 5s left and right, the 7s and 8s aren't going to start flocking to you. Ever notice how your girlfriend's hotter friend treats you? She usually sees you as being on a lower level, even if you've stepped down a level in SMV in your relationship. If it worked this time, it's beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 10:09 PM |
| 17 | 28 year old woman on TwoX gets a cold hard slap of reality - high value men are avoiding her. Commenters furiously rationalize it away and tell her everything will be alright.I kind of disagree. I think when it comes down to it, ease of getting laid is equal for both sexes once guys get over approach anxiety and start getting lots of face time with women. The issue is always ease of getting laid with people you want. As a 25 year old guy, obviously it's tough. The girls you want are 18-25, and your market is overcrowded. As this post indicates, it is occupied by both 22-28 year old guys and by anyone still attractive enough at any older age. Let's say a 40 year old m… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 09:08 PM |
| 79 | 28 year old woman on TwoX gets a cold hard slap of reality - high value men are avoiding her. Commenters furiously rationalize it away and tell her everything will be alright.Doubtful she thinks of it this way. Most girls out of college are willing to date a 60 year old if he has George Clooney looks. What's more likely is that she's seeing the guys willing to go for her and getting upset that they're uglier than they were before. Plenty of guys in that range will date a 28 year old. I'd say a vast majority would, but the sort of guys in that age range that look like the kinds of guys she used to date are either married or still dating the mid-twenties crowd. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 08:44 PM |
| 1 | My relationship with a Covert Narcissist (Long Story)I was the same way. Serial monogamist. At 23 I hadn't spent more than two months single since I was 17. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Stop lying to yourself and living in denial, you want that validation that comes from being a high SMV man.Temporary job. This guy isn't ready to enjoy until he's making steady money still climbing higher. Good progress, but enjoying the spoils isn't the attitude that gets you further. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Why living in a "red pill" country is bad.Appropriate from someone called "FatStig" | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 06:19 PM |
| 3 | The Entitled GirlThat's the catch 22 of women's attraction. The only way you can really be the object of their affection is by existing as a fantasy that's overblown in her head. This is why the only way to win the game is to not play. You can't be one woman's alpha for her entire life, but you can be many women's alpha one at a time for a good portion of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 06:09 PM |
| 3 | My relationship with a Covert Narcissist (Long Story)I was actively seeking a replacement at this point. If you're ever actively seeking a "replacement" then you're dependent on relationships. This girl may have been a narcissist or whatever, but the bigger problem was that she gave you all these signs of mental instability and you didn't walk. Spend some time alone now. Date, but never commit, even for a mini relationship. Spin plates only for at least a year and get to know yourself so that next time you'll know you can walk without feeling like… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Remember that "Elite Tinder App"? Here's the latest hamster from the creatorI'm not sure I agree with this. As a society we value career success universally. Comparing dick pics to career success is a stretch. Try this one out instead. Men want a loyal and supportive wife and women want a strong and successful man. Men are being encouraged to take on strong and successful women. Are women being encouraged to take on loyal and supportive husbands? Honestly, I think so. I think there has been a big push for each of those causes, but neither men nor women are listening to … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Who wants an LTR? *you guys have any insight as to why they don't? That's sort of the whole point of the sub bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | "Potential" and the potential inability of women to really understand this conceptI don't know why you got the impression I'm planning to just finish my PhD so I can be someone's BB who will fuck me over with a Chad later. Planning? No. No one plans to do that. My point was that your occupation has relatively little to do with genuine attraction. If you're waiting around for that to change then you're relying on it too much, and if that's true then you will become BB. You're ready right now. Monk mode is the most abused concept in red pill mentality. It's only to be used when… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Neil Strauss AMAI always liked TRP more than any sort of PUA bullshit because it's actually more helpful in a relationship. PUA teaches you to create a fake version of yourself for a few hours while you dip your dick in holy waters. TRP tells you to become genuinely attractive (lift, pursue ambitions, gain confidence, become fun and interesting, etc...) and then teaches you to sustain that attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Who wants an LTR? *Women never got tingles from being treated well. They got tingles from being treated well by James Dean, typical alpha bad boy. Our minds have not changed, just our inhibitions. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Cops are the ultimate white knights.Depends on the location. Hinky dink suburban town? They'll come by, probably make some disparaging comments, and leave and tell their wives about the pathetic guy who couldn't change a tire. Major urban center? A friend of mine got laughed off the phone for reporting getting his tires slashed in Baltimore. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 08:31 PM |
| 2 | "Potential" and the potential inability of women to really understand this conceptThis is sad to me. I know plenty of older guys doing PhDs who do just fine. Who are they? Attractive, confident guys with a good sense of humor and a focus on now. Women don't care about your potential if you're good for them now. If they don't want you now, then they won't really want you when you're the end result either. Money means almost nothing when it comes to actual attraction. It's drive, ambition, and power that they want. The only one you lack right now is power. Money and being the "… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 08:23 PM |
| 2 | In a rare moment of insight, feminist author notices the lack of an objective existence of "Patriarchy" in the western world. Other feminists are disturbed by this.Some people like the fight more than they like the resolution. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 07:58 PM |
| 4 | In a rare moment of insight, feminist author notices the lack of an objective existence of "Patriarchy" in the western world. Other feminists are disturbed by this.The only social movement I've seen in my lifetime that actually slowed down after accomplishing it's main goal was the gay movement. Things might still pop up, but after gay marriage was made legal the gay rights activity went down at least ten fold. It was refreshing. Most of them really just wanted to be accepted and have equal legal rights. It wasn't a massive butt hurt cry for attention, and the argument wasn't around long enough to really have a big "head honcho" leader that everyone knew a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 07:54 PM |
| 10 | Today's relationships sub digestThe second one reminds me of something I went through with my previous LTR, back in the blue pill days. When we met I was socially connected and she was a bit of a nerdy/shy girl (which I was really into at the time). She graduated college early and had an isolated job where she couldn't meet people her age, and her few close friends from college were moving away. I was pretty much her connection to the outside world, and she clung like a fucking barnacle. Fast forward one year and I end up gett… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 07:19 PM |
| 9 | Today's relationships sub digestHave you ever seen a person after they lose their child? It's probably the most devastating thing that can happen to a person. There are things that are more important in life than sexual strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 06:55 PM |
| 10 | Today's relationships sub digestYeah, OP is still in the anger phase. I read that and felt crushed. Imagine losing your partner, child, and the miscarrying all in one day. I think most people would probably kill themselves. My only response to that, "fuck drunk drivers." I hope she finds a way to turn her life around. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 06:52 PM |
| 33 | Today's relationships sub digestJust do it anyway. Obviously not around her or her friends, but keep your options open. When girls flirt with you, flirt back and act clueless when your girlfriend gets upset (that's what she does with guys). Have girls on the line, it can make for fantastic dread game down the line if you need it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 06:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR, she wants me to be in complete control and loves it.In those situations, dick vs. balls is all about delivery. I'll still tell a girl if she's an awful kisser, but I'll do it in a way where the message is clear, but I'm not implicated. Your second approach is definitely closer to what I'd go with these days. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | So now the MRM wants to sell itself as TRP?Yeah that's not Red Pill, it's piggy backing, but maybe I'll be the first to say I don't give a shit. To me, this community has always been about the individual, and there's nothing anyone can do to hinder my progress or anyone else's. Take from it what you can to improve your life, but we're not starting a political movement here. Any men's forum is going to talk about men's rights, but we're not the ones marching for men's rights, are we? We're here talking about how to survive and thrive in a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitWe're definitely not the starving artist or whatever, but we're a step above financial analyst or sales guy, even if they make just as much money. At the end of the day of course it's really about your attitude. There are plenty of BB docs out there, and there are plenty of AF insurance reps, but when it comes to jobs that are intrinsically attractive, doctor is definitely better than most. There's a certain mystique around the work (you're "saving lives" and to some women that is really hot). I… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 10:28 PM |
| 2 | This thing is making me thinkIt's like when people insist that it's cynical to think that there's no such thing as being nice, because nice people are just people who get pleasure from being nice. Instead of changing their thoughts on what "being nice" really means, they shut it all out and say, "why can't you just accept that some people are genuinely nice with no other motive?" What they're really saying is, "I don't want to think right now. Let's cover this up with a non-explanation." | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | This thing is making me thinkI love all the "Red Pill will eat your soul" posts. They always cite things and get them completely wrong. Shit like, "then there's 'dread game,' which is making your girlfriend think you will break up with her." No, dread game is DHVing in front of your girlfriend, and she'll fucking love you for it. If you do it right, she'll never question your loyalty, she'll only realize that you have options and that she has a guy who is actually attractive. What's more abusive, occasional pangs of jealous… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitHey bro, as an aspiring med student myself who wants to fend off the beta bucks, would you say that being super fit and well-dressed, and charismatic is all it takes? You say that like it's easy. If you're super fit, well-dressed, and (actually) charismatic you could be a trash man and do well for yourself. I know sometimes that (Atleast from what ive read sometimes), doctor=beta bucks. Doctors are good targets for women seeking BB. If you're alpha to her then being a doctor will only increase y… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Experiment: added a boxing pic to my online dating profile. Massive improvement in returns!Huge guys like that usually need a sense of humor or a soft disposition to get laid. Basically, women will find a man attractive if he is both strong and not a threat to her. Capability of violence is one of the requirements, but a guy like Patrice had better make her feel safe and comfortable or there won't be any attraction. This is why being big allows you to get away with having more beta traits. A huge guy has ability to protect on lockdown, but he needs to show willingness to protect. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Experiment: added a boxing pic to my online dating profile. Massive improvement in returns!It's because violence is a thing, not a trait. The ability to be violent is an ability, but women are attracted to traits. Strength, confidence, power, etc... There are other ways to show you have these traits. Showing you can be violent is one of those ways, but it's not a category to itself. However, there are very few things that show these traits as well as the ability to be violent, so of course it deserves at least a special mention. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 08:37 PM |
| 6 | SMV truths also apply if you become seriously illYour SMV is always up for evaluation, regardless of the circumstances (and regardless of gender). It's not uncommon for seriously ill patients' wives or husbands to have found someone new before they've even passed away. Sometimes the sick partner understands, often it's added stress on the family. Love between spouses isn't unconditional. I'm sorry you have to deal with this OP. Best of luck to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 08:29 PM |
| 0 | LTR, she wants me to be in complete control and loves it.women will put up with a lot of dick to get those balls. This basically explains why most guys overcompensate when they first start going alpha. They become dicks temporarily because they see that sort of behavior in guys that women like. Really, it's just a side effect of having balls. "Balls" (confidence, composure, strength) are what they are really after. You don't need to be a dick to get women to drool over you. I used to be pretty brash about things when I first started sleeping with wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitI've found that women are genuinely more attracted to me because I'm a medical student. I do really well in bars where conversation is possible, even with girls who fully understand that I have at least 7 years to go until I'm making "doctor money." I worked as a biomedical engineer before going to medical school, and even knowing that I made money now as an engineer and I make money later as a medical student, women seem to open up to me much more as a med student. Your ability to provide in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitWhenever a girl feels disgusted by some beta, the rodent does not say "what a disgusting beta". The rodent says "he is not my type, but could be some girl's type". No, she does think, "what a disgusting beta," but she thinks it as, "Ugh, what a gross/ugly guy. Why is he hitting on me instead of the gross/ugly girls he belongs with." Women just don't realize they are all thinking this about the same guys. The realization that the "gross" guy might've actually been on their level for commitment is… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitI don't know my father all that well, but from what I can tell he was at least somewhat naturally alpha. I don't think he was slaying it at the club (the guy is only 5'8"), but he told me a few stories that lead me to believe he at least had a spine (funny ways he picked up girls, things he did to avoid girls who got too clingy, etc...). However, I barely saw the guy growing up, and instead I spent most of my time with my mother, who is a devout catholic nurse who actually considered the convent… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitThey aren't involved in the attraction process. Once we approach, they are just along for the ride. Attraction just "happens" to women, but men have to earn it, because we are the ones approaching. By not approaching, we've already rejected that girl in our mind. A girl wouldn't ask a guy how to do her hair/makeup or what dress to wear if she wanted to get approached at a bar. We don't really know. We could give you the, "something low cut and slutty" answer, but that's no better than women's, "… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Women's advice on women, it's complete shitThe problem is her feelings get in the way of judgement and reality...how my winggirl feels about me is clouding her judgement of how a complete stranger I've just met will see me, to the girl I'm just another guy in the bar that night hitting on her with nothing to set me apart. Given that I'm a medical student, and thus fit into that category of "high potential/bright future," I've found that women I know overestimate my value to other women at bars/clubs. In a typical "club" atmosphere I'm no… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 06:46 PM |
| 9 | My long ago ex is the perfect AWALT. If I knew then what I know now....Every girl is the perfect AWALT, they just don't all get the time and opportunity to show it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 06:01 PM |
| 63 | OP in the OKCupid sub rejects woman after finding out she's pregnant. Commenters tell him to man up and that "you are far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mom."Women's advice on women is awful because they assume attraction. A guy asks her, "what do I do to get this girl to like me?" and she thinks, "what would I want Chad Thundercock to do for me?" Why? She doesn't even consider the 10 guys she rejects for every 1 she's attracted to. She doesn't think about what he does to attract her, she just knows she's attracted, and then she tells her male friend to do what she'd like that guy to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 05:56 PM |
| 15 | OP in the OKCupid sub rejects woman after finding out she's pregnant. Commenters tell him to man up and that "you are far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mom."This is the best analysis of this situation. The man looked insecure, women were turned off by it, and ultimately he was beaten down. He was wavering and exhibited some very beta traits, which ultimately got him in trouble. He even calls himself a "little boy" in the comments, meaning he was aware of how immature he sounded. No one would get mad at a guy for not wanting to date a 5 months pregnant woman as long as he presents it clearly. Single mom? That's where society has gotten fucked up and … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 05:51 PM |
| 3 | OP in the OKCupid sub rejects woman after finding out she's pregnant. Commenters tell him to man up and that "you are far, far too emotionally immature to date a single mom."I hate to say it, but the guy is a bit clueless on how to present himself. It is not the actions, but the delivery that gets him in trouble here. If he had said, "hey, so I've got a date with this pregnant woman, but I don't think I'm really comfortable with that and I'm going to politely cancel," he'd be met with praise (note how when he lets her know he's not interested he's upvoted in the comments). I don't think we're in a society that is so far gone that we'd expect a random guy from OkCupi… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 05:44 PM |
| 15 | Wealthy man hides past to find a good girl = Liar. Slut hides past to find beta provider= OK.If you really want to do this, why not just fake sudden success once she passes the test? Be a struggling "whatever you're actually successful at" with a fledgling company/firm/whatever that has a potential (but unlikely) big payout (i.e. acquisition, huge influx of contracts, etc...). When she passes the test, you call her ecstatically shouting about your big break. Then, over the next few months, just phase in your wealth. First a new house, car, clothes, etc... I'm never going to be able to h… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Front page of NY Times today - Sex Ed Lesson: "Yes Means Yes," but It’s TrickyIt won't be official, it'll manifest in reduced sentences and unquestioned defenses. "I was fed drinks and didn't know I was drunk." "He put more vodka in my drink than I asked." Lines like that will become staples of every DUI lawyer's defense the moment it gets out that women get reduced sentencing. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Front page of NY Times today - Sex Ed Lesson: "Yes Means Yes," but It’s Tricky"I hate that all these men are so fucking hesitant. I just want a [hot] man to throw me on the bed and go for it. Stop asking 'is that okay?' for every fucking thing." -All women | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:20 PM |
| 3 | "The MySpace Angle™"What I don't get is how can any woman or man make a themselves look like something they are not and not expect a negative reaction. Like that makes no sense. Because it's only a validation machine. They're going on dates (just like their pretty friends do all the time), and they're only accepting guys who they think they actually have a chance with (i.e. guys "only" 2-3 SMV points higher) to minimize the constant rejection. Most importantly, they're still getting the occasional guy who looks bot… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP hate sluts, but also complain about not getting laid enough?This has (shockingly) evolved from an open ended question into what is clearly an agenda-oriented diatribe. When did this group ever seek to shame promiscuous women? Maybe certain individuals talk about them in a negative light, but red pill has no official stance on sluts. We discuss our strategies for ending up with the best possible spouse. We have no political or social agenda outside of the Men's Rights category, which is mostly focused on divorce laws and rape accusations. This subreddit i… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 01:30 AM |
| 2 | TRP is making me feel inhumane.I approached this by ignoring her and telling her she was being childish Not a red pill approach here. Ignore her when she gives you attitude, but don't come back with an insult. Listen to her problems, but make it clear that you won't take shit from her if it's unwarranted. She cries in front of me and I still don't lose frame or care. If she wronged you, this is fine. She is acting childish (but you shouldn't tell her). If she's crying because she had a hard day, you absolutely should listen t… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP hate sluts, but also complain about not getting laid enough?Who are these "good girls" This changes from guy to guy, but generally it's girls who don't engage in one night stands, don't juggle multiple guys at a single time, and don't cheat. It's like having a good sexual credit score. I'm not putting my heart out on the line if you have too many risk factors. Either they don't sleep around for religious reasons or they don't have a normal healthy sex drive. That's not true at all. We're not looking strictly for virgins, but if you make a habit of going … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How to spot an Alpha Widow?If you're not hearing the phrase, "best sex I've ever had," or some iteration of it, she's thinking she's had better. If she's thinking she's had better, it's probably not your technique, it's probably that she has been turned on more by previous guys who she considers measurably more alpha. Also if she is reserved in bed, refuses to do things she did with a previous partner, etc... | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How bad is to use a condom?Condoms feel better than monthly child support payments. Buy the best condoms available and never use free ones. That's all you need to know. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP hate sluts, but also complain about not getting laid enough?TRP doesn't hate sluts. TRP thinks sluts are bad marriage material. Think about who is bitter and resentful towards women. Is it the seasoned RP man who gets laid regularly and has lots of fun interacting with women? Or, is it the new blue pill guy who is here because his latest girlfriend cheated on him? Who is going to submit an angry post? The blue pill guy. The guy who doesn't understand women and resents that he can't get them. He sees girls who are getting what he wants so easily (sex), an… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | The core of the Red Pill is value: A detailed analysis. Welcome to Red Pill math class.I majored in engineering in undergrad. I have a deep appreciation for the power of quantifying things, but in this case we're adding unnecessary bulk. Trying to put a number on your SMV is so subjective that the eye-test is simply a much better metric. Five minutes with any guy will tell you what level he hits at. We all recognize alpha and beta. We can see it as easily as we can look at a woman and know how attractive she is. I'm not saying that an analysis of value isn't important, but for the… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Putting women in the friend zone - yes its possibleFriend zoning women is easy. Friend zoning attractive women is a much harder task. I have a bunch of female friends who are 4-5s who I "friend zone" because they can be really useful (e.g. connections to other women, dread when your girl doesn't know what she looks like, generally being decent people to hang out with, etc...). The thing is, unlike with friend zoned guys, these women know they have no shot. They know they are unattractive, that I'm out of their league, and that's not going to cha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:55 PM |
| 10 | An alpha widow laments her inability to enjoy sex anymore.Your alphaness is subject to constant reevaluation where as the ex alpha will be an immortal fictional dragonslayer for the rest of her life. Exactly. Her ex-alpha is the guy who was gone before the new relationship energy ever left, before the tingles went away, and before she had time to see most of his true flaws. She loves the fantasy. She loves the idea that she at least was with an alpha at some point, so she'll play him up in her head to make that fantasy even better. Women love to look b… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:28 PM |
| 15 | I read AskWomen so you don't have to. (Today's special: girls rationalizing why they cheated on their boyfriends)"LALALALALALA, I'M NOT LISTENING, LALALALALALA" | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:43 AM |
| 25 | I read AskWomen so you don't have to. (Today's special: girls rationalizing why they cheated on their boyfriends)When I'm with a girl she tells all her friends I've got a big dick. Once I break things off I'm suddenly nothing special (or "tiny" depending on how crazy she is). | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:41 AM |
| 19 | I read AskWomen so you don't have to. (Today's special: girls rationalizing why they cheated on their boyfriends)After that they didn't talk like that around me because I told them their attitude disgusted me. And I'd be willing to bet at least one of them later made a joke that it was obviously because you had a small penis. I stay out of the penis size discussions. No good comes from that. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.This comment was aimed at the 25 year old virgins (who are obviously lurking, not posting). These guys are starving. One man's trash is another man's treasure. That being said, I'm not advocating you "eat out of the trashcan." I'm making the point that getting laid isn't that hard and the more important point that getting laid is exponentially easier when you put yourself in a position to meet many women. If you can get laid without trying that way, imagine what you can do when you combine this … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.Work is good for dread, not for adding plates. Don't shit where you eat, just make your LTR think you would be able to if you wanted. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.Oh of course, you actually have to be the badass, or at least well respected. That's sort of the point of RP though. If you follow these guidelines you will be respected and admired. The issue is that most engineering firms are overwhelmingly filled with guys. Honestly, this is totally fine, but if you're going to delve into your work completely, I'd rather be killing two birds with one stone. If you're the type (like me) who makes work a way of life, you won't want to have the added responsibil… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Reminder that women don't love you the way you want.While I appreciate the support, that wasn't what the comment was getting at. In my example, the man should leave the woman unless he really has much better action-based evidence showing that this is truly the case, and even then I'd be hesitant. Actions speak louder than words, and that is the only basis a man has to make his decision. In the story above, the woman is basing her decision off of an action the man took. This is the logical thing to do, not pussyfoot around and pretend everything h… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.The workload is pretty insane, but if you work hard and get good board scores you can get a relatively easy specialty that provides the money and prestige without the shit hours. Seriously, try getting a dermatologist appointment after 4:30... Your average dermatologist, radiologist, ophthalmologist, or anesthesiologist is working comparable hours to a guy getting paid the same amount in business. The only way to have time and money is wildly successful self-employment or fortuitous entrepreneur… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 09:39 PM |
| 10 | Reminder that women don't love you the way you want.But she still has that commitment without a marriage contract. In this day and age she appears to have less commitment from him than other women around her have from their men, who are offering to marry, and after less time. That's her point of view. Maybe he's less likely to cheat or leave her than her best friend's husband, but she has no frame of reference aside from the definitive actions each man has taken. This is one behavior we get from women that is actually logical, and is legitimately… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.It has been for me, I've bedded two 6s/7s in six months. It's hard to pinpoint the problem exactly... My comment was aimed at the guys who really can't get laid, but I agree you could do much better. Getting face time with women and not trying at all will probably get you a girl a year or so, not much more. This was just the hobos lucky day. Most of the girls I date are in their late 20's and seem to be looking for an LTR and I'm clear that I'm not looking for that. Beyond that I guess I'm not h… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 07:24 PM |
| 4 | She said, "Sometimes I think I just want to have a guy's baby and then leave him."What I meant by These relationships hardly even seem real. is that you weren't really expecting for all of your beta romanticized fantasies to come true with this girl. You met her in a different context, you bonded with her in a different way, and you aren't fighting years of conditioning saying that this girl should be loyal to you as long as you keep being nice to her. You grew up learning what a "real" relationship was, and it was with the girl next door. You summed it up nicely with the sli… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 07:11 PM |
| 12 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.Honestly it's half the reason I decided to go to medical school. I was finishing my engineering degree realizing that all my friends' social lives were better simply because they had greater access to women (and people in general) in their programs. It wasn't that I was less interesting or outgoing, it was that I had fewer opportunities to meet people each day. The deeper into engineering I got, and the less I was able to branch out elsewhere, the worse things became. I absolutely need social in… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 07:04 PM |
| 5 | The Great List of Non-Negotiables.Every time I read one of those "incel" posts I think to myself that if I wanted to curse that guy, I would give him exactly what he thinks he needs: a girlfriend. You know what happens when "incel" gets a girlfriend? He bases his whole life on her and gives up whatever little life he had going for him. Then she gets bored and hunts herself a new beta, and he's left with nothing. The only way you'll ever be happy in an LTR is to know you'd still be happy without the LTR. It keeps you from being d… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 06:34 PM |
| 14 | She said, "Sometimes I think I just want to have a guy's baby and then leave him."The only reason they seem better is because you don't understand them (both due to language barriers and cultural differences). These girls really aren't any better, they just exhibit the same behaviors in a manner you haven't grown to recognize yet. Also, I think you honestly form less of a bond with them. These relationships hardly even seem real. It's like there's a level of separation there, so I don't think you invest quite as much in that kind of girl as you would in the girl down the stre… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 06:18 PM |
| 167 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.Getting laid isn't that hard If this isn't proof of that, I don't know what is. Live your life in high traffic areas and it'll just happen. Maybe not with people you want it to happen with (I'm willing to bet this girl is next level ugly) and maybe not as often as you'd like, but it'll happen. The 25 year old virgins of the world are usually just not getting any face time with women. They're engineers or IT guys who aren't awful people or horribly undesirable, but work in a male dominated field … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 06:06 PM |
| 20 | Guy is secretly loaded with cash but does not tell his gf, she leaves him then finds out from his friends that he has been hiding his wealth from her (hamestering ensues) Re-PostThe guys who go off to Africa with Doctors Without Borders or something generally do very well with women when they're back. They have the potential to do well financially, and women see that in them while being turned on by the fact that he's mysterious and international. They think they can get them to settle down and practice in the US where they'll be rich and happy. Thing is, these guys don't do that all that often just for a woman. They're usually not looking to settle down, and they've go… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | My first threesome... sort ofI'm very surprised your first reaction when she pulled up with a friend wasn't, "oh, she doesn't want to fuck me." That's what it means about 99% of the time. They bring a friend because they had second thoughts and want to deescalate the situation. How old are the girls in question, and how old are you? Honestly you seem pretty young. I'm not sure if I know anyone who owns a pool and only keeps Jägermeister around. All the motivations here seem wacky. I don't know what to make of Kayla as she p… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 08:57 PM |
| 0 | America is the FATTEST country in the world: Major reason for men being so DESPERATE!There are as many fat guys as there are fat women if not more. I guess the only difference is that there are more attractive women willing to fuck fat guys than there are attractive guys willing to fuck fat women, but honestly, fat people simply don't enter the range of people that I date, so I don't care. Get yourself to a level where a girl who is noticeably chubby isn't even a possibility as a slump buster and you'll stop caring what happens with all these beached land whales. Fat women aren'… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 07:48 PM |
| 2 | The Turkey and the CowFake it til you make it is a fantastic approach at first though. Outright lies and bullshit won't get you anywhere, but as long as you focus on moving forward, it will get you further along than you would have otherwise. I used this and overshot at first. I became a little bit overconfident and even drove away one of my good friends with my attitude (to be fair he was very sensitive). Eventually I was able to scale it back, and now it's a permanent part of my personality. I'm naturally more conf… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Subtle Dread Games for the Error-Prone RP Guyif your girl is hot, you become top 20%? It will be essentially a given to everyone but her (because she doesn't hold her opinions as highly as those of other girls). Obviously if you interact with the hot girls that have put you into the desirable category because of your hot girl, then the illusion becomes reality. If you fail that test, then the illusion starts to break down. If you can handle and attract hot girls consistently, you're top 20% by definition. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How will things change once The Wall stops existing (or moves way into the 60-70s)?Yeah that's not how cell replication works. The damage is done, and not just to telomeres, to all your DNA. You'd need a technology to reverse the genome back to the way it was when the patient was 20. Even then we're not 100% sure that's all that is involved in aging. Everything is affected, even the ECM and the interstitial space. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Subtle Dread Games for the Error-Prone RP GuyYes, dear, you're right. Those girls did want me. And I know you think it's bad to feel jealous, but it's okay. Feel it, but don't act on it. I am attractive to women, but I won't cheat on you with them, because you love me, and you prove it to me every day. This line is what dread game is supposed to be. Her ideal man could have a million other girls, but he chooses to be with her. That keeps her attracted. Then the implied idea that he chooses to be with her because she keeps her ass in line i… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are totally fucked.Oh and to answer the first question, I prefer an LTR to spinning plates, but only because spinning plates is somewhat exhausting, and I have enough of that in my life. That might not be the case for everyone though. LTRs come very naturally to me. I was pretty RP in my LTRs even when I was BP in every other aspect of my life. As a former relationship whore, spinning plates is more time consuming and emotionally exhausting for me since it's new. Objectively though, I think I'd rather spin plates,… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are totally fucked.Still not sure I'm with you 100%, but mostly. It's complicated, and the reason it's complicated is that Ivy League girls, doctors, and highly successful women in general aren't a "type." Make no mistake though, the rules don't change, only the circumstances. Imagine driving in traffic vs. a clear day on the highway. The highway is the same, the obstacles are different. Career choices and success has trends, but they don't relate to how they act in a relationship as much. Maybe I'll make a post a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 04:15 PM |
| 2 | "On Inherent Value and The Ease of Hypergamy"It all comes down to insecurity. I don't even know if women actually have an emotional need for commitment. They do, but it's not what we're thinking. What we've been perceiving as an emotional need for commitment for years (because it jived with the "women are helpless emotional flowers" mindset) is really more a reflection of other insecurities. Whether for financial security, to meet societal expectations, or for genuine support/stability (women's friendships tend to be less supportive/stable… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 03:51 PM |
| 5 | "On Inherent Value and The Ease of Hypergamy"Sexual prowess is defined more by perception than experience. Her and other womens’ perception of you will define your sexual prowess, not inherently how well you stroke her walls. I can't stress this enough. Too many guys are hung up on things like penis size and sexual technique. Yeah, if you've got a below average dong it's definitely not helping your chances, but truthfully women experience sex the way they want to experience it. Back in my blue pill days in college I had a girlfriend who wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Debunking the Myths about the Red PillAll social interaction is manipulation. Why we decided it's only okay to go as far as you would naturally is beyond me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Debunking the Myths about the Red PillAdvocating for something you care about shouldn't be perceived as weakness. I agree that a man following RP will not have to explain himself, and that he doesn't need the movement to be "accepted" to benefit from it, but dispelling criticism may sway some BP guys to come over. Helping your fellow man should not be discouraged. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:38 PM |
| 7 | Girl wonders why an Alpha turns her onLooks are a lot, not everything. If you look like Channing Tatum and act like Kenneth from 30 Rock you'll still get more than a Danny Devito body double, or even than an average guy probably. However, most guys fall between 4-6. If you're in that range, personality and looks take on just about equal value. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:31 PM |
| 6 | "If you want to get laid you will do this for me..."A large portion of the value she gained from that trip was from sharing her experiences with her friends. We do not stress enough on here how valuable her friends' opinions are to her. She wants a guy or experience she can brag about. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [Finance] Pay in CashThat's awesome, and you can bet your life that $450 won't be reported as taxable income for the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Modern women are totally fucked.But I feel like when you set your standards to this level, you're not dealing with sluts everyone writes about here. This is what I call class fallacy. It's a more specific way of saying AWALT. You see a cute asian-american girl with a PhD in molecular biology and a middle/upper middle class upbringing, and you see her as more "solid" than a standard white bar girl. In a lot of ways you're right. For one, she's not going to be impressed by any old guy off the street. She's got a limited supply, … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:53 AM |
| 3 | The karaoke queen, cheating and the CC. A story.This is some weak shit. She's an objective 4-5, maybe a 6 on the MILF scale, but she looks bad even in professional photoshoots. I know girls who are objective 6-7s who have professionally done photos that make them look like an 8+ easily, so we know this woman looks like trash wandering around on the street on a day-to-day basis. This is an 8 on the MILF scale, provided she looks like this at 40+. The reality behind this board is that most people are living vicariously through their computer sc… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are totally fucked.I've got an image of you in my head and it's a guy who takes himself too seriously. Smile, joke around, don't be aggressive, introduce yourself, etc... Believe it or not, women actually want the sort of bullshit you see in romcoms. They want the hot guy in a vulnerable situation who doesn't seem to understand just how hot he is, but still manages to be funny and charming. They want to meet that guy, and then they want the alpha, confident guy to step in moments later when he's regained his footi… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 06:48 PM |
| 2 | The Travel-Widow, or why travel for the single woman is a red flagThe number of girls I've seen move to New York due to Carrie Bradshaw syndrome... They all end up hating it but are too stubborn/prideful to move. Eventually they realize that most guys in New York aren't any more interesting than guys elsewhere, and the ones that are more interesting only date more attractive women. However, they're stuck living in a box. They could get their fill of guys in any other city without having to shit with their feet in the shower. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The Travel-Widow, or why travel for the single woman is a red flagBut, yeah, someone hopping onboard a 747 to go party in some foreign club in hopes of getting some intercontinental ass [...] doesn't make you anything special. This should be printed on every sign up form for study abroad programs. Getting your pussy stuffed by some guy you couldn't even understand does not make you more interesting, and it is not an accomplishment. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 06:34 PM |
| 2 | The Travel-Widow, or why travel for the single woman is a red flagYou were essentially a more skilled cabana boy to those girls. As a diving instructor you're at least in great shape I'm sure, and you're in a position of leadership within that context. Sure, on the street you were just another guy working a temporary job and making probably mediocre money, but on the dive boat you were the guy in charge. I bet if you had an old supervisor who bossed you around in front of those girls for the whole class you would have gotten about half of the advances you did,… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 06:30 PM |
| 5 | Modern women are totally fucked.I think I've talked to you before. Facts are facts. Your level is the level of girl you are able to pull. I am average height, fit, look good, dress good, smell good, and broke (but with high earning potential later), but I'm able to get dates consistently and easily with girls who are HB 7+. On paper apparently I'm worse than you but doing better than you in real life. Something is up. I'm confident in my approaches, calm, controlled, masculine. No fidgety shit, no PUA gimmicks, no autism. If t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Modern women are totally fucked.No, I would argue that the low density of women in those fields is driven by natural inclinations (though I've known some who were very talented, women generally aren't as good at math/science) and societal pressure on men (engineering isn't exactly glamorous in the day-to-day, but there is more pressure on men to be the breadwinners, so they must pursue these high earning fields, whereas women tend to choose more traditionally "fun" fields knowing they'll have a beta provider later on in life).… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Modern women are totally fucked.girls in my league and above my league reject me in mass If they are rejecting you consistently, they're not in your league. That's the definition of what your league is, the girls you can consistently pull. Understand that if you were to line up every single guy and girl in the world by physical attractiveness the girl would be pretty disappointed by the guy she saw standing in front of her. That's the dating economy and sexual strategy. For sex, it's set up in favor of women. If you don't like… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 04:57 PM |
| 32 | Modern women are totally fucked.In general, the more they are hit on and the more they are valued for simply having a vagina, the less they expect of themselves. I majored in engineering in college before going off to medical school and every attractive girl in the engineering program was nearly intolerable. They had nothing to contribute to group work, they expected favors, and they cavorted around soaking up attention from the pussy-starved betas that essentially grew on trees. I always dated outside of the program, biology,… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 04:31 PM |
| 36 | Modern women are totally fucked.aren't women pretty damn boring to be around? Yes. It's actually starting to get to me. I hold a very strict, "don't resent women" rule when it comes to loyalty or rejection. You can't blame them for the way they are, but I definitely get upset by how vapid women are today. They expect to be entertained while bringing nothing to the table on their own. They expect nothing of themselves and take credit for their boyfriend's accomplishments (e.g. military girlfriends, scrub sniffers, etc...). I ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Oh, I get it now!When it comes to actually having sex with someone else while in a relationship, it's not every girl. However, if we're talking continual flirting until she's 100% sure the guy will have sex with her and pursue her further and then breaking up with her boyfriend, yeah that's pretty much all women. It's hamstering at it's finest, letting herself believe she's a wonderful person because she's not breaking any rules, but still effectively accomplishing everything that outright cheating does. However… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Oh, I get it now!Girls like to flirt. It means nothing until her clothes come off. Women keep orbiters for validation. They also flirt with random guys for validation. Every one of your girlfriends has had the above conversation with at least one random attractive guy. She probably didn't go for it because all she really wanted out of that interaction was a little ego boost. Most girls have social skills You know the social skills you get from doing 10+ approaches per day? Nearly all women have that, because the… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Ice breakingNow the key question, what are the best sources for reading up on the art of conversation? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 08:38 AM |
| 1 | LTR - dismissed after trying to initiate sexI guess what I'm saying is that when a woman decides she's not attracted to a man, no sexual advance will be welcome regardless of the delivery. There's a slight chance she's sitting there thinking, "damn I wish he'd just take charge for once," but 99% of the time a dead bedroom situation is indicative of a lack of attraction. A man exerting his raw sexual energy is a threat, and the act itself is not attractive, but an attractive man doing it becomes more attractive. Caveman style is great for … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Has being in or not being in a relationship affected your views of women or the inherent differences between men/women?And it's all possible because AWALT. That's the scary thing. As much as I'll acknowledge all people are somewhat predictable, women are far more predictable than men because they don't have to try. You see right through it because they are (more) genuinely being themselves. Doing that still gets them attention and validation, so why bother changing anything? Guys are actively hiding their true nature, because women aren't attracted to their true nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 11:35 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill vs. Angry Society: A Philosophical and Logical DisparityThis acceptance of reality is what drives the Red Pill’s fundamental success and what turns so many BP men and SJWs against us. It's worth noting that if it didn't work, BP men and SJWs would not have so much of a problem with us. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 08:06 PM |
| 46 | Woman discovers her engagement ring is fake, makes him homeless and takes his dog. Another sub celebrates. What if you flipped the script?Should be given back upon divorce by law. Should be collateral for a lifetime of marriage, not a stupid party where "the bride is always right" | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 08:01 PM |
| 25 | [Finance] Pay in CashJust like having a fancy car, all a woman sees is that you are not concerned about spending large amounts of money on yourself and that she could be the next thing you spend that money on. If you want to be fucked like a BB, this is a fine approach. There are women out there who genuinely get off on guys being powerful/rich, but for most guys with ordinary wealth all she sees is a normal guy hanging onto his wallet loosely. I don't judge guys who are willing to take on this role because it will … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 07:54 PM |
| 11 | Has being in or not being in a relationship affected your views of women or the inherent differences between men/women?Keep spinning plates until you feel you understand women and you fully understand why she cheated. Be able to point to moments where you should have said, "fuck no, this girl is bad news," going way back to when you first met. Learn to be able to elicit any reaction you want from your plates. If you want her to be jealous, be able to make her jealous without making her angry at you. If you want her to put in extra effort, be able to get her to do that. Once you understand women, you can safely e… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Has being in or not being in a relationship affected your views of women or the inherent differences between men/women?The most striking revelation I've had though is from looking back. Every time I succeeded with women when I was BP it was because I was temporarily RP for some reason. With my first girlfriend way back in 9th grade I had a bad case of oneitis. Over in a month. My second girlfriend I kinda didn't like that much. I dated her for convenience, and I insisted that I run the relationship because I didn't want to be in it otherwise. She was probably the only woman who ever loved me when I was BP. My ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 07:34 PM |
| 2 | AMA fitnessThe more you lurk/post here the more you start to see the difference between the ideal and the misconceptions. What many guys here think is RP behavior is really just manipulation and emotional abuse, but we all have learning curves. Take dread game as an example. A seasoned veteran knows that dread game is about showing, not telling, but many guys hear the concept and think, "alright, time to make my girlfriend think she's on the out." They tell their girlfriend about real (or even imaginary) w… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | AMA - Tired of seeing nutrition posts and training advices which are mostly no sense. I want to give back to TRP so AMA.I'm 5'10" and 165, up from 138 about 6 months ago before I started lifting. Natural ectomorph. I'm carrying about 12-13% BF right now, and I'm wondering when is the best time to cut, and what is the most effective way to do it without losing muscle. I know there are a million guides out there, but most say to cut calories, I've done this inadvertently before and I never lost BF%, I just got smaller. About two years ago I made the same transformation, but a very heavy workload forced me to quit. … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 06:52 PM |
| 0 | AMA fitnessas terrible as it sounds To most people here that doesn't sound terrible. RP has a big focus on understanding women from an objective point of view. Not unlike a game at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 05:21 PM |
| 18 | LTR - dismissed after trying to initiate sexBut realize that the sexual energy of your relationship could be waning, and she only responded to your freeze out because she doesn’t want to lose your Provider Guy benefits. This is huge. Often a straight up relationship killer. However, I don't think Caveman Game is really worth a try unless you're sure it's just a minor blip. If she really has lost her sexual attraction to you this is only going to seem odd and out of character. Dread is a much better strategy when things are really in the s… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How can a woman KEEP an attractive alpha male?I guess we're just different here. I always saw obsession with looks as an indicator of vanity and hypergamy, trying to get as much attention from high SMV men as possible. MMV is different from SMV, and while I think cosmetic surgery can make a woman look better, I don't think it makes her more attractive as an LTR. I want a woman who looks good without much maintenance who doesn't go out of her way to look good more than the average woman. While that's pretty tough to find, she asked how to ke… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Your happiness, you, and the leashHaving a good relationship is about managing your expectations of your partner. Just because she says she loves you doesn't mean she'll stick by you in all circumstances. If she sticks by you during tough times, fantastic, but too many men think their wives love them the way their mothers do. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Please critique and offer advice on handling of this (and similar) situations. I appreciate your help.That's why you're here. No one is saying I do everything perfectly either. I make several BP mistakes every day. I imagine it takes years if not a lifetime to become completely RP if you're starting from beta, which is about 80% of guys. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Young male shooters and a solution western media doesn't want you to considerChristy Mack and Bonnie Rotten are niche porn, not mainstream. Mainstream is like Tori Black, Alexis Texas, etc... The girls you mentioned are pandering to a specific audience that likes the "tatted up" look. Piper Perry is just not so great in the face and has no distinguishing features, very "blah" altogether, but her looks are at least on par with what an average guy would pick up at a bar. Even so, none of those women would have trouble out in the real world getting consistent dick with litt… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Young male shooters and a solution western media doesn't want you to considermainstream porn Nah, shit like BBW is fetish porn. There are no extremely rich/famous BBW pornstars. Ugly girls can do porn, but they won't be starring in the movies that pay $1000 per scene. The famous ones all look like Jenna Jameson or better. Supposedly you're getting something positive aside from sex out of an LTR, or at least I hope so. So while LTRs are more expensive, it's a better experience than getting a hooker. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 08:36 AM |
| 5 | 2 years with gf warning signsYou posted here because you wanted people to tell you to break up with her. That's my advice anyway. I don't know if you will, but at the very least you need to learn to lead your woman. If you really can't stomach the thought of being single and trying to find someone as good as an overweight girl whose best company is a butch dykey girl, improve yourself, apply dread game (correctly, seriously read about this a shit ton before trying it), and she will feel she has no choice but to step up her … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 08:26 AM |
| 2 | RP guys in the New York - New Jersey region, can you help me understand the culture there just a little bit better in regards to women and social dynamics?Not really. Social circles will have more noticeable stigmas than geographical regions, so just fit yourself into a social circle that is open to that. That being said, I always felt bad for my Indian friends because white/asian/black women definitely find Indian guys less attractive unless they have lighter skin and whiter features. This is nothing you can't avoid with a bit of lifting and careful maintenance of body hair. I had a friend who was about 40 lbs overweight and hairy. He had a prett… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Got a health screen test at work, few questions for those who know your results.I'm not a doctor yet, but you're fine and those levels are normal. Your stepdad blew this off because he listens to people all day get worried about stuff that's not going to lead to any significant health problems. Trust me, he's very good at looking at your test results and knowing if something is wrong. For experienced doctors this is like a sixth sense. Also, jacking it has nothing to do with your T. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 08:10 AM |
| 1 | How can a woman KEEP an attractive alpha male?Breast implants are common and give an automatic SMV boost. Breast implants scream 40 year old who hit the wall way too hard and couldn't stomach it. Guys are pretty split on these, and personally I'd rather have a cute girl next door who's flat as a board than a woman who looks like she just got done filming "Mommy Milf Fucks #7" Breast implants are an automatic hard next for me. So is any sign of botox, lipo, etc... There are some surgeries that turn out okay (I've known some korean women who … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Regarding OmLaLa's YouTube channelTRP is most controversial amongst liberal millennials, and reddit is pretty much the place for liberal millennials. TRP sprouted up because of those attitudes, and because those attitudes were so strong among this population. I posted here once about how people who can't get what they want use agreement as a lesser form of validation. For instance, ugly girls who can hardly get a man at all would be more likely to bash on other women for sleeping with lots of guys. They can't get the validation … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 07:44 AM |
| 1 | When guys try to prove their SMV..Show, don't tell. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 07:16 AM |
| 1 | When guys try to prove their SMV..Dread is social proof without the proof. Instead of demonstrating to a girl that you're a guy who pulls lots of attractive girls, you're demonstrating that you're a guy who could do so if he wasn't in a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 07:16 AM |
| 1 | How can a woman KEEP an attractive alpha male?dieting, exercising, makeup and plastic surgery Plastic surgery is a hit or miss game, and it can look trashy even when done correctly. Proceed with caution. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 07:09 AM |
| 3 | How can a woman KEEP an attractive alpha male?It's bad to ask for dating advice from the gender you're trying to date. We have a tendency to assume things that aren't okay to assume. Women, for instance, assume attraction when giving "girl" advice to guys, which is why it often comes out as a bunch of beta shit. They give you advice in line with how they would like their ideal alpha male guy to treat them. Guys will be the same way, we'll assume he's physically attracted to you. I'll try anyway. For me the difference between keeping a woman… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 07:05 AM |
| 2 | ControllingYou're doing it. Continue doing it. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Consequences of not escalating enough?Didn't go for a kiss That might've been kinda odd. You were just walking around for a few minutes, it's out of the realm of expected actions for her, so unless it "seemed right" you're better off going conservative and getting a number close. Throw a text her way and stop worrying about what she thinks of you. Seriously, she can smell that on you. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 05:21 AM |
| 7 | Please critique and offer advice on handling of this (and similar) situations. I appreciate your help.Yes of course she wanted to keep you as an orbiter. Jesus, she basically spelled it out. I really enjoy the exchanges between us, it doesn’t have to stop! Translation: Keep validating me. My beta boyfriend isn't enough for me, but I'm worried if I cheat on him I'll be alone and I don't think you'll stick around like he will. You could've come on stronger when she admitted she finds you attractive. Then when she talks about the guy come back with something along the lines of, "oh so you're gonna … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Signs of Cheating?I tried to call her a couple times during the day; she didn't answer. She's avoiding you because she doesn't want to deal with you. She wishes you were taken care of already, but doesn't quite have the balls to do it, especially since you're asking questions. She doesn't want you to just call her out on her obvious shit because she wants you to have a good opinion of her when she dumps you. Women want you to pine for them after they leave. She deflected my questions again as to why she was getti… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 05:04 AM |
| 8 | Decisions: Why Women Are Incapable of Making ThemI was with you until you started on poor men today. I'm in medical school and I see and interact with a lot of men (and people in general) from low socioeconomic standing. Trust me they are every bit as willing to suck from the government's tits. Poor men are just as willing to accept medical service and government assistance without paying taxes and without bothering to pay for insurance, and mostly without trying to correct their situation. Poor men have been put in the same situation as women… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 02:58 AM |
| 12 | Your happiness, you, and the leashThis is a fantastic post. RP is not just about success with women. It's not about being the alpha to a harem of alpha widows who keep throwing themselves at you long after you've discarded them. RP is about maintaining your life within your own frame. A huge part of this is realizing that you have control, and that you shouldn't ever give that control to another person. You can't blame the sun for rising and you can't blame women for being like that. This is the best line in this post. A red pil… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Young male shooters and a solution western media doesn't want you to considerI agree that it's money that brings them in, but it doesn't pay that handsomely. You can look up the rates pretty easily. Most girls in porn are making $50-100k per year, not that much. Most of these girls are doing it because they have no other options. You'd get the same demographic with prostitutes, but you'd also get the girls who are worried about family finding out/seeing her shoot. You'd also get the girls who are too ugly for mainstream porn. Girls would do it. You'd have plenty of girls… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 01:09 AM |
| 9 | Young male shooters and a solution western media doesn't want you to considerSupply and demand. It's expensive because not many women are willing to do it. Decriminalize it and reduce the stigma and you will have all sorts of girls doing it, far more than girls in porn. Look how many girls do porn? Girls are willing to fuck for money in droves and that's when their face, tits, and pussy are all on display for anyone to look at for the rest of their lives. Legalizing it would drive the price down and the quality up considerably. In an industrialized country you'd have leg… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 10:27 PM |
| 13 | Guy sees his fiance of 3 years talking to her friend about her Ex-Boyfriend's amazing skills in bedI can't even begin express how true this is. This is exactly why you can't LTR an alpha widow. Women fill in the blanks with whatever they want. It's also why she'll cheat with a guy who isn't better than you in any way. She's seen that you're not always alpha. She's associated some beta traits with you. When she meets a guy who presents as alpha she compares your reality to the fantasy that he is providing. When she thinks about an ex she decides to present him as either better or worse than yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexThis is a fair point. It's always hard to tell when a girl is being honest, but with enough time you get an idea if you're looking for it. Never let her know that you think being with too many guys is a turn off. If anything, play along with the idea that her "worth" is measured by how many high quality guys she's fucked. This is how she thinks of it, because it's often a metric she uses to judge you. She doesn't even realize beyond a surface understanding that it is a turn off for her to have s… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Ask yourselves why is there a crisis of rape culture on american campuses?I think a lot of what you wrote was getting at some good points, but that the delivery was unclear or poorly focused. The only times I really disagreed with you were the first and third quotes. Everything else was the elaboration I thought would make the post more instructive. The third quote is a good example of where your thoughts were unclear. I would also point out that the majority of women aren't holding rape claims above guys' heads. It's a vocal minority. In the vast majority of cases wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexContinue to pull off the player/alpha vibe until she starts to comfort test you. Hook up with her without really talking about the future. Eventually she'll bring it up. At this point it'll be a month or a few months into hooking up. Hopefully you'll be relatively comfortable with her. Basically tell her that you prefer LTRs to random hookups, but that you need to know a girl is really compatible first and you don't just jump into them. You'd rather be single than jump into something with someon… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 08:53 PM |
| 2 | The Doomsday Fuck ClockComments like this make me believe there is a natural cutoff for men as well as women. Just like women really only want the top 20% of guys, men really only want the top 50% of women. That's why we all consider a "6" the lowest common denominator for LTR material. No matter how good looking I get, I'd always fuck a 6 if it wasn't any effort. I don't think I can say the same about a 4-5. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 01:14 AM |
| 2 | The Doomsday Fuck ClockI'm with you. I even keep up game if I have a girlfriend. I don't cheat. I have always felt it's more in line with the actions of a man who doesn't have the confidence let go of his current girl and get sex when/where he wants, but I chat up girls and leave them hanging. If I'm out at the bar I'll still do an approach or two, just to keep things sharp. There is no worse feeling than coming out of a relationship, already emotionally battered, and realizing you'd have to lower your standards to ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Girls self value is determined by the men she can fuck - Example from Kimmel Live (interview)She's basically AWALT personified. She has no control over herself, so all actions and tingles are "go." This girl is lurking inside your sweet girlfriend, but if you've screened her correctly it'll take a major fuck up on your part to bring this part of her to the surface. The difference between high LTR value women and low LTR value women is in the ability to suppress her hamster tendencies. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:57 AM |
| 13 | Girls self value is determined by the men she can fuck - Example from Kimmel Live (interview)It's one of those times when women think it's possible for them to have "game." You can use this to your advantage when you want to screen them for a slutty past. Play along with the idea that women's sexual exploits take skill and are admirable and she'll spill it all. She's secretly proud of all of her "conquests." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:50 AM |
| 11 | Girls self value is determined by the men she can fuck - Example from Kimmel Live (interview)Good lord please don't. No man should have to endure that. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Girls self value is determined by the men she can fuck - Example from Kimmel Live (interview)There's AWALT, but then there's this. I've always said, AWALT, given enough time and the right circumstances. This girl is AWALT on the surface. She is AWALT given 15 seconds and a chance to get a few people to glance at her. She's what is buried deep within all women, but bursting open at the seams instead. But seriously, while she does represent the lingering attention-loving hamster lurking behind every "sweet" girl we fuck, we do know better than this. Anyone could meet her and realize she's… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Ask yourselves why is there a crisis of rape culture on american campuses?Yeah this was money. You could provide many counter examples for famous men. This works for sex, I don't think it works for cars yet. DUI is still one of the main reasons women go to jail, because it's one of the few things that is relatively indisputable and also just as dangerous when a woman does it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Ask yourselves why is there a crisis of rape culture on american campuses?I think there are a lot of good arguments to be made on this subject, but I've got a few problems with this analysis The problem is, promiscuity in women goes against human nature so it carries with it many social consequences I would argue the opposite is true. In a "free-market" sexual environment the 80/20 rule applies. She'll fuck Chad and ask you to help her take care of the baby. I imagine this is how our ancestors did it way back when. Humans are not monogamous. Rules such as marriage wer… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexthey are going to be as good as the container (you) that they fill up. This is indeed the essence of AWALT. The stipulation with AWALT is that all women will act the same given the right circumstances and enough time. Some will obviously take more time and less extreme circumstances. You're best bet at a successful marriage is to find a girl who is more resistant to hamstering than most girls and applying TRP principles to keep the relationship interesting and happy. Applying TRP is essentially … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 11:50 PM |
| 7 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexThis actually is how my current LTR came about. Met her once through mutual friends and invited her out to a party later. Fucked her that night, but against all odds. She had actually gone home and changed into her pajamas and I got her to change back and come to my place. A couple drinks later we were having sex, no condom (I was very drunk and it was a risky move, and I don't recommend it, but it does show dedication on her part). She then made me go through a whole song and dance, three more … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 11:28 PM |
| 2 | He doesn't have to be a Chad.I'm not sure if it's more primal instinct that they follow blindly or denial through the hamster. It's both, and it's also largely determined by what's available. Let's say Amanda is a 38 year old woman with two kids, a dog, and a 40 year old husband who has grown used to married life. Amanda is largely satisfied with her life, and she has grown somewhat complacent as well. However, one day she gets a new job and immediately Kyle from the eleventh floor is hitting on her. Kyle is single, on top … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexYes, wonderful! Make sure she's fully mastered the art of branch swinging and then make her yours "forever." Women are never thankful. They never look back at what you've "done" for them. They care about what you're doing for her now and what you will do for her in the future, that's it. All you've done is proved that she makes a habit of getting bored and moving on to something more exciting. There will always be someone there to "out-alpha" you and try to steal your girl. You want a girl that … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 10:55 PM |
| 6 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexYou sleep with her. You get to know her better and gauge the extent to which she's full of shit. Best case scenario you bag a great girl. Worst case scenario you had sex a few times. In this scenario, just like any other, it is up to you to decide whether or not she is worth your time in an LTR, and whether or not her behavior is "characteristic" or not. That part will never get easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 10:48 PM |
| 51 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexThe best way to find LTR material is to find a girl who sleeps with you on the first date uncharacteristically, writes you off as a player, then tries to earn your respect back. This girl respects you as an AF and then recognizes your value long term. This is incredibly important. If she makes you wait, but other guys have gotten in on the first night, then she thinks of you at least somewhat as BB. There are exceptions. Some women think they need to play games, and this is where AWALT gets thro… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 05:16 PM |
| 21 | Girls self value is determined by the men she can fuck - Example from Kimmel Live (interview)This is such an accurate description of how women feel about army guys. They don't care if he's knocking down doors in Afghanistan daily or filing paper work in a makeshift office in Iraq, as long as he's got the uniform and a few pictures of him carrying a big gun. Women fall in love with ideas, but then don't think twice about ditching when the reality doesn't match up. It's why you see so many women cheating on their "manly army boyfriend who can kick your ass" as soon as he goes overseas. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"Hardest part for most people is getting into med school (although objectively in terms of work required it's the easiest). This is because it's where you're most likely to fail. Make sure your undergrad grades are at least a 3.5, preferably 3.7. Make sure your MBCP grades are at least a 3.6, preferably 3.7. Get clinical experience, volunteer, and do one "interesting" activity. Apply broadly and cross your fingers. Once you're in you'll know what you have to do to get a surgery residency. Just pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"Doubt all you want. You clearly don't understand the culture of top undergrad schools. I know people who were heavily into cocaine and molly in college who are now in medical school, although they've cut back considerably now that they're in. I simply didn't have to work as hard as many other people, and there were plenty of people like me in my classes. It also didn't hurt that I never picked up a bad Netflix/video game habit. It's unbelievable how much time people waste on instant gratificatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"you'll spend 9-5 in the clinic and 5-11 reading so it's pretty much the same as surgery. No. It's simply not comparable to a surgery residency. You're just indisputably wrong. Things have gotten better since the supposed days of residents working 100+ hours/week in surgery, but it's still far more grueling and difficult on your social life. perfect boards, top of your class and research 80th percentile boards and great LORs with some clinical research to pad the resume. Hard, but not as hard as … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Women Have Dating/Sex Problems Too. They're Just Not YOUR Problems.Because they have the choice to do more While I don't necessarily agree that women have it better, this is very true. Men have a greater capacity to be loyal and loving for a lifetime because they aren't used to thinking that every woman is willing to sleep with them. They (generally) get fewer opportunities to cheat, and they can rationalize making a decision to be with a woman, even if there are more sexually appealing women out there. How many men out there would cheat on or leave a wife who … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Women Have Dating/Sex Problems Too. They're Just Not YOUR Problems.They can get what we want, but they can't get what they want. The only people who have it truly easy are extremely attractive and naturally charismatic men and women who have no desire for commitment (very, very rare). Asking any human being for unconditional loyalty is always going to be a path filled with betrayal. I don't sympathize with women either. They are ultimately turned off by the very thing they are looking for: commitment. A woman's ideal situation would be for all relationships to … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Marketing Yourself and Effecting Others Views through False Personas and Reading People.We all do this to a small extent. It's called manners and social awareness. I never understood why people aren't okay with applying it intentionally. Around beta guys I'm the nerdy guy who overcame shyness, around women and confident guys I act like I've always been hot shit, around mentors I'm a diligent student and worker. Doing this is a smart move. Yes, you can learn to be in the top 1% of charming and charismatic people. This is only possible because so few people actually try to learn beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 02:49 AM |
| 18 | Take a chick out to McD's first dateKick the tires a year into the relationship, not 15 minutes in. At this point she's still high off NRE, and you don't know what her circumstances are (she might be willing to give anyone a chance). Pull some shit like this a year into it. See how she responds. Don't be so invested that you won't pull the plug if she fails your test. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Hedonism and TRP?People are different. If it makes you happy, you are satisfied, and you can maintain this lifestyle indefinitely, why the fuck would any of us have an issue with it. Personally, the only form of hedonism I engage in is working my ass off to obtain inaccessible desires. I get no pleasure from things I didn't work towards. An easy fuck is an empty fuck. A gift of charity is a sign of the things I'm not doing to earn my worth in the world. I think most people feel this way. If you don't, that's fin… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"Derm is widely regarded as one of the easiest. There is no easy residency, but if you want one that'll only run you 80 hours/week when you combine work hours + external reading it's derm, path, rads, physical medicine, etc... Internal medicine and surgery will run you into the ground, and ER has reasonable workload but insane hours. When compared to those, derm is not bad at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 02:15 AM |
| 8 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"Wouldn't be surprised. Those debts can add up, and many girls can't stand not living the rich lifestyle of their friends. I've heard of girls selling their eggs too. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 02:08 AM |
| 11 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"I'm in medical school. Average hours for a derm residency aren't bad at all. It's usually around 50-60 hours. The worst part of it is easily the transition year in internal medicine. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 11:15 PM |
| 7 | He doesn't have to be a Chad.Women will only fuck down in LTRs. When I say LTR I mean at least 1 year, exclusive. She'll fuck down because she's downgraded you. Women have the amazing ability to enter a relationship with an 8 and think he's a 5-6 two years later. Why? Because she's found out all the bad stuff about him now, but in her head she fills all the "unknowns" in other guys with good stuff because she wants to believe it. So you have one area where you're deficient. Maybe you're a bit hot tempered, maybe you started… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 11:11 PM |
| 4 | He doesn't have to be a Chad.Women cheat because you're not providing for one of two needs. They need tingles and they need dedication/attention. When you fail to provide either one, they will get the urge to cheat. Most of this sub is very focused on lack of tingles, because that's the hardest to provide as a guy. Anyone can provide dedication, but we often overcompensate, or we simply stop trying, which is the worst thing to do. You can tell where she felt lacking by who she cheats with and the nature of the affair. Were … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 11:01 PM |
| 13 | What laws need to be changed to incentivise marriage for men today?she has been a stah mom giving up her own earning potential to support common children - and even here alimony should max out at some fixed income calculated to around the minimum wage. While I agree, that would never fly in this age. More reasonably, alimony should have nothing to do with the man's salary and everything to do with the woman's potential salary. If she was making $50k before hanging up the career to take care of the kids, there should be an assessment by a third party as to what … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 10:17 PM |
| 22 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"I'm sure she did. At least 40% of the girls in my med school class exhibit obvious red flags, another 55% are simply repressed, about 5% seem like decent girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 09:59 PM |
| 34 | Female doctor OD's on cocaine during "girls night out"I'm more inclined to think she was slutty all along. Too many people think doctors are too preoccupied with work to have social lives. Not true, especially for attractive women who have to do fuck-all to keep up an active social life. She fits a stereotype in my med school class of attractive girls who are really only there because it was the clearest path to money/importance with almost no chance of failure once you're in. This woman was a dermatologist, one of the most demanding fields in medi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Red Hot Chili Peppers Guitarist Ex-Wife Demands $75k Per Month in AlimonyHow in the fuck does alimony make any sense at all when there are no kids? Also, celebs shouldn't have to pay more just because they have more. What did she bring to that marriage that a middle class housewife doesn't bring to her marriage? What does a middle class housewife bring to that marriage that a lower class housewife doesn't bring to her's? I get it if a woman gives up her career for the kids, but she should have to show that was the case, and she should be getting enough to support chi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Deadlifting As A MetaphorThey act as bench marks for your training. They utilize entire muscle groups. Each of my workouts starts with either bench, squat, or deadlift after a proper warmup. That's my gauge. Have I gotten stronger since last time? The rest of the workout is simply exhausting my muscles. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 05:22 AM |
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