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"that's so weird, u usually only gag on something when Im around"
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:30 AM
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When a girl asks this question, is she asking for commitment? This question always confused me. Like, we are both single. You should assume I'm seeing other people unless we agreed otherwise.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:24 AM
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Enlist in the military and select a marketable job.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:44 AM
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Three dates is my limit if no pussy. Since you can't bring her to your place, tell her "let's cook dinner at your house."
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:03 AM
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10 dudes including me is by no means a lot Man fuck 2019
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:51 AM
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WHO HAD THE HERPES?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:39 AM
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Air Force, air traffic control.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:15 PM
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I live in California too. Everything is done over the phone and they mail me my medication.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 10:14 PM
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Got my giant condoms for my magnum dong!
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:36 AM
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Defy Medical. You'll pay out of pocket but its worth it.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:35 AM
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Unequivocally YES. The military completely turned my life around. Four quick years-FLEW by-and I was making six figures by my mid-20's. Get after it.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:29 AM
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She messaged me today "I miss you" and that's it. Haven't responded back yet.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:54 AM
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Exactly what I was going to say.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:31 AM
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I'm dealing with my own LTR bullshit at the moment if you look at my post history, so I'm no guru...But why would you LTR a girl that wasn't already doing great shit for you? When I decided to LTR my chick she was already cooking for me and offering to pay for dates. That's what separates potential LTRs from FWBs/plates. What has she done to deserve flowers? The verbal ultimatum sounds like something a girl would say. If I've learned anything here, it's that your best move is to make her work fo…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:29 AM
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Alright so I'm trying to learn here; how is my availability through the roof? She was pissed off because I was NOT available for her on Friday and did shit without her. She also voiced her dissatisfaction with how little I see her during the week. How am I too available?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:57 PM
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The biggest thing I'm getting from the feedback here is that I've given her too much attention when she acts badly.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:49 AM
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Talk to me man. I'm trying to learn from this LTR so I don't make the same mistakes with the next one.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:02 AM
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Go on?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 12:26 AM
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She never blames the BC. I noticed that she became way more emotional/unstable when on it. And when off of it, way more reasonable. She never uses it as an excuse.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 12:26 AM
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I hear you. What I'm wondering is how much of this punishing bad behavior I want to do before I throw in the towel in favor of a girl who won't NEED to be punished so often. It's exhausting and stressful. I just want a girl who will tell me, "Ok baby have fun snowboarding, be safe and text me when you're home". Surely that kind of girl isn't too hard to find, right?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:35 PM
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If the stern chat doesn't fix this, leave and save yourself the stress I'm with you 100%, but what exactly would you tell her in the stern chat?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:33 PM
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How do I not have a spine? I did what the fuck I wanted to do yesterday. Snowboarding was great and she didn't get what she wanted.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:33 PM
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Met a girl I really clicked with and after a while realised she was a coke whore Like an actual whore?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:19 PM
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So what's the next move when she gets in contact with me?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:14 PM
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Better than living with your LTR or drug addicts. Come on man.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:10 PM
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Avoid black and red colors. Why?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:09 PM
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I'm muscular, with a shaved head and tattoos. Some shit I heard on a first date from a girl: "you are very intimidating" and "I thought you were a gangster". Guys ask me regularly if I am in or was in the Marine Corps (no I was not).
/r/askTRP12/01/19 11:08 PM
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the bodybuilding.com forum
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:33 PM
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This girl probably won't change her ways, but since you're already in the LTR you can practice being a man for once in your life. Should better prepare you for your next LTR, which you hopefully will vet better.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:00 AM
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This girl is honest and to the point. Gotta respect it. She was 100% right on all points.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:39 AM
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He mentioned that he is a competitive bodybuilder. Steroid use is implied.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:55 AM
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The Charisma Myth
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:32 AM
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Here's my "HB" scale: ​ 0-4 invisible 5 Not attractive. Could be fat, overweight, have a gross body and/or face but is at the least, bangable in a pinch. 6 Cute and bangable, but not attractive enough to introduce to friends or take to public places like my BJJ gym or work place 7 Objectively attractive, and definitely attractive enough to take to my hobby places and meet people in my life. This is the bare minimum attractiveness for a potential LTR. 8 Beautiful, turns heads when she walks in a …
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:02 AM
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Why do you have to do either of those things? In an LTR, you need to come to terms with two things. First is that you cannot control your girl 100%. Her actions are not within your realm of control---Only YOUR actions are. And: You'll be fine without her. Like Patrice O'Neal said if he lost his girl, he knew that he would be depressed for a couple of weeks, "but that new Xbox game is coming out and I know a lot of dirty girls that hang out by the mall" (paraphrasing). The more dudes agonize over…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:33 PM
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Correct. When I met my gf, her birthday was a few weeks away. She didn't have plans for her bday so I offered to take her on an adventure. I took her jet skiing for the first time in her life, then we went on a hike that she picked. Later that night I took her out for drinks and dinner for her 21st birthday. The other night we were reminiscing about that and she told me, "that's why I fell in love with you." I asked for clarification, and she said "because you bring joy into my life" Emotions, f…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:25 PM
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"What's not to love?"
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:01 PM
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Being in relationship where you're unsure about partner's fidelity will eat you from within. You'll never be sure of your partner's fidelity. The question is, how do you function in a relationship with that uncertainty?
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:50 PM
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The hottest girls I've banged have always been the easiest. First day lays, no resistance. Sixes seem to make me wait more, put up more BS resistance etc. No real overlap or patterns in personality that I have noticed beyond that.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:47 PM
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Don't worry about that. I've banged girls in an empty apartment with zero furniture aside from an air mattress. Just break out some wine/music/funny video, hang out, talk and escalate. You're good.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:35 PM
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I wouldn't go for a kiss at the rink. Grab a bite afterward and invite her over to your warm/comfortable place for a drink. Makeout + escalate at home.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:33 PM
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You're doing great, man. Ice skating is a good date, especially if you are really good at it and know people at the venue. A girl I dated once surprised me by planning a mystery date that ended up being to an ice skating rink. Even though she was a better skater than me, we still have fun and ended up smashing. I used her skill and experience with figure skating by having her perform for me while I (in jest) harshly judged her form.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:31 PM
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Come smell my hand bro
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:26 PM
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"Of course...In the right lighting"
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:04 AM
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Agreed. Never hurts to try.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 04:52 AM
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What kinds of things have you been hammering her for?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:42 AM
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No wonder she is at her wits end. You fully accepted her and all of her personality flaws for the first 3 months of the LTR. Now, seemingly out of nowhere, you are taking issue with many different things that she does. She probably thinks you've lost your mind or something. Put yourself in her position---How would you feel if your girl started taking issue with random things you do out of nowhere, after 3 months of dating? Your best bet may be to take the L with this one but learn the lesson: la…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:34 AM
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I'm going to cease girls and limit social interactions for a bit Great idea. Let us know how that works out for you when you've had enough of celibacy but haven't hit on a girl in months.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:31 AM
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Truth. My current 21y/o girl couldn't care less that I'm not on snapchat or IG. She shares snapchat stories of us shooting guns, working out or just me being funny. I have a modest fb account. and that's it.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:28 AM
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Sometimes, especially before hooking up, you'll find yourself doing most of the work. The power is in her hands until you get the notch. Then watch as she suddenly becomes more interested in extracting time and energy out of you.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:17 AM
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I know we all like to say AWALT around here, but look at the facts. -She is in her sexual prime -You don't have resources to offer her (yet) -She is cooking for you She could be relationship-minded in general. Which is not a knock on you, your value or anything like that. Typically 20 year old girls are at their most impulsive. She sounds like she may have her shit together.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:17 AM
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Where there is uncertainty, there is real estate being used in her brain. Absolutely certainty = no interest
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 11:39 PM
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LMFAO
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:55 AM
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Monk mode makes you autistic in that you avoid pursuing girls and you lose that killer instinct.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:45 AM
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I'm way happier in a fun, highly sexual LTR than I was running a harem of four.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 04:38 AM
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Your question is completely inconsequential to the actual problem in your life. You are abusing drugs and putting your life in danger, but you take to Reddit to ask us if you think your girl will look at you differently for being a complete loser. You obviously don't have your priorities straight.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:59 PM
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Never understimate how thirsty most average guys are. Coupled with the fact that women can hide/smudge their past indescritions, I don't see any reason why girls would have a hard time locking down a provider in their late 20's/early 30's. Even if they are overweight/ugy/horrible personalities.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:33 PM
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You need to get your shit together man, Jesus...
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:31 PM
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With his degree, he could also travel internationally and teach English in an ESL capacity. That in and of itself is cool and interesting.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:25 PM
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You've been reading this shit for 6 years and have only picked up one plate? Am I reading that correctly?
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:14 PM
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My tinder success rate went wayy up when I started paying for surge or whatever it's called, once or twice per week. Combined with really good quality pics too. I'm under 5'10" and slightly above average looking. edit: just realized you said you are operating on MATCH. Dude, no...Don't use that web site. Use Tinder, Bumble and OKC.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 10:51 PM
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My buddy went ghost/monk mode a couple of years ago after a big dramatic falling out when he fucked too many girls within a large social circle. He sent me a text saying something like, "Hey I just wanted you to know, I'm going to be going off the grid for a while and won't be at the gym for a bit. Taking some time to work on some personal things." It was cryptic but at least I knew he was alive and dealing with some shit.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 10:41 PM
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When reading these posts by younger guys who are still in high school or college, dating other girls their age, it also rings so true to me how the power dynamic isn't yet in the guy's favor.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 10:39 PM
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Where did this come from?
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:06 AM
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Don't expect happiness from it.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:03 AM
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Most of my plates were from OKC before it turned to shit. The mall a number of times. I only met one plate at a bar and I was suited up.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:00 AM
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^ This times a million
/r/askTRP01/01/19 05:58 AM
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This sounds exhausting. I'm more of an asleep-by-midnight guy.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 04:20 AM
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Yeah but how she is handling is a sign of immaturity. I'm guessing she is very young.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 11:33 PM
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The only reason I can think of why she would say her friend said she can't have one more person at the party--What, is her friend the fucking daughter of the fire chief?--is because there is going to be a guy at the party that she wants to hook up with and doesn't want your dumb face there (no offense). She isn't playing you. You guys just hook up, there is no boundary being violated. What did you expect?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:07 AM
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I assumed all the 18-20 year old IDF soldiers get it on like rabbits. Hearing you say that is....very surprising.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:04 AM
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If you are not trying to date her, then why do you feel sick to your stomach thinking about her hooking up with other guys on NYE? Do you think you are over-invested?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:01 AM
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It's horseshit. She is trying to artificially inflate how in-demand she is to dread you into paying more attention to her.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:00 AM
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Two approaches to this. One is to just ignore what she says, or say "aight cool" and then proceed with escalating like normal. The other camp is the one I find myself in now: use logic on her. Straight up ask her WHY. I did this once and borrowed from Patrice O'Neal directly telling the girl "Listen I don't mind not having sex, but I do mind CAN'T have sex. That's like me telling you that we are going to fuck but I'm not going to buy you food, or give you any conversation." You don't want to for…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:58 AM
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She was at the very least interested in you and wanted to give you a shot.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:55 AM
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Yeah, so you want to date this girl, if I'm hearing you correct. You are unfamiliar with having no-strings-attached casual sex with girls without feeling something for them. Leaping from casually sleeping with her (as she is likely sleeping around with other guys besides you) to spending New Years Ever together is a tall order. If developing something with her is what you want to pursue, you need to add kindling to the fire. Small dates, medium dates, etc. Asking her to spend New Years Eve with …
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:52 AM
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Required reading. Buy it on Amazon and you'll be set.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:49 AM
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Couple of things: -You don't "ask her out". I'm cringing reading how you phrase this shit. You just invite her to do something with you. "Hey I'm going to check out xxx place on Sunday, you should come with." -Using Christmas as an "in" is perfectly acceptable. Many convos I've had with girls were started in a similiar way and lead to meeting up/dates.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:48 AM
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"Should I just downgrade her to jst someone I hit up when I'm bored. It makes me sick knowing that she will probably hookup with someone else at midnight. " Dude, she is just some girl you hook up with. Why do you care so much? She obviously doesn't care about you as much as you do for her. Wanting to hang out with her on a major holiday? That's boyfriend shit.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:44 AM
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Buy Starting Strength.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:42 AM
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Why do you want/need to be vulnerable around your girl? How is your relationship with your parents? Do you have close friends, or see a therapist? What I'm saying is, you should have other outlets to let your guard down and "relax", talk about your feelings, etc. But in your relationSHIP, you are the captain. And the first mate doesn't want to hear about all of the captain's weaknesses, fears and anxieties. She wants to see the captain as strong and unshakeable. The only truly limitless love you…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:41 AM
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18 year old girls are clueless. You need to lay down clear boundaries with your girl with what is and isn't acceptable behavior. ​ The fact that you are 19 means that this is all just learning/training for you anyway. With your next LTR, lay down the law at the very beginning for what your expectations are.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:36 AM
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Don't date trashy girls who brawl with their family members. What ghetto hood did you meet this girl in?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:33 AM
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My ex was a 7 who enjoyed watching me play video games and cooking us meals at home. My current girl is a 7 who lamented not hanging out with me the other day when I declined her offer to spend time together. I told her, I needed a day to do errands. I wasn't doing anything exciting. She said "I don't care I just wanted to spend time with you. You usually take me to the store with you. You know I don't care what we do. " Just have fun doing whatever you do and the girl will enjoy coming along fo…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:33 AM
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Correct. The age "problem" of them not being old enough to drink is the perfect excuse to invite them over for a movie, wine, ice cream, whatever.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:02 AM
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I've seen my girl scroll thru her IG feed and flippantly "like" any post that catches her attention for more than a fraction of a second. Then she scrolls on, sees something for half a second, "like", scroll on... These "likes" don't mean shit.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:58 AM
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If they say OSS, do the gauntlet (beat your back during promotion) or throw you, have weird rules about tying your gi or restrictions on drinking, or yell stupid shit during training Also as a brown belt who has traveled and trained all over the place, I can't stand the things you mentioned.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:53 AM
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I dated a beautiful, tall, thin lingerie model. I was in awe of her, as a young guy with a low n-count. Then she tells me how her ex-bf would fart on her and t-bag hear while she was asleep, laughing his ass off. I couldn't believe it! What a jerk that guy was, couldn't he see she was **special**?? Every little anecdote about her ex that she drops, consider these clues for how to win her heart.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:46 AM
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She 100% cheated with that guy. Dump immediately.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:27 AM
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I would never LTR a girl with an admitted notch count of 40.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:25 AM
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But my type has always been basically popular rich girls Fuck that. If you want those types of girls, you'll have to become someone completely different. Why not go after the customers who are interested in what you are selling?
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:17 AM
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Might be Canada or some shit
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 10:06 PM
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"That sounds like a super-theory, Will. That way you can go through life without ever getting close to anyone at all." Paraphrasing Good Will Hunting
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 03:56 PM
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I mean, for all they know, I could be an ax murderer right? Comfort is key. You are the one who will be completely naked and vulnerable in their house. Your safety is at risk here, not the TWO other people inviting you into their home.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:42 PM
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Funny timing, I just finished this audiobook a couple of weeks ago. And it has already served me well in business and personal life. I had a job interview recently where I had to disclose my less-than-ideal departure from a previous position. It was a case of lying on pre-employment applications and some pretty bad stuff. I lead with an "accusation audit" like Voss teaches. I told my boss-to-be, "So, when I tell you about how I left that job, you may think I'm the worst guy in the world. You may…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:52 PM
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I'm 5'9" and 205lbs, about 15% BF (I'm guessing, based on visible abs and veins in arms), arms are 15.5". Not sure how much bigger I need to get until I become "huge". Girls definitely do not approach me first.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:17 PM
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Sure you can pull lessons from this, but I don’t get the whole “she’s lower than me, so now IM the girl” approach. Not all dudes pursuing girls are pursuing higher value girls. Rules of game apply for lower value and higher value girls, hence AWALT. Yeah, this is a negative mindset OP has. He assumes that all girls are higher value than him, so he sees himself as this lower-value 6 he took a vacation with. He identifies more with her annoying ass than the high-value man he should see himself as.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:04 PM
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True but this is meant for girls who have low interest in you. Those girls don't even deserve a post. We don't game girls who don't want us.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:03 PM
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Yeah, that's what I was thinking too. This post is ass-backwards and he is just venting his emotions. He went on a vacation with a girl he didn't really like and spent too much time with her. That'll drive anybody crazy, even if it's two platonic friends who don't like each other that much.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:01 PM
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Because they do. I'm not Adonis, but I have an above-average physique and vascularity and abs. One of the best players I've ever rolled with is my Mexican buddy. Short, overweight, eats cheetos and pizza and beer all the time. Never steps foot in the gym or does any exercise at all. Pulls quality ass all.the.time. He is an inspiration to me and the more I hang out with him, the better my game and attitude gets. ​
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:54 PM
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"I actually am white, this is just a really dark tan." "Man, thank you! I have been trying so hard to fit into white society. I sincerely appreciate that." ​
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 09:05 PM
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I had some experience being around this environment as a teenager in the punk scene. Not "gangs" per se but party/show houses where a bunch of punks crashed, sold drugs and threw parties. OP does not lie when he says good looking girls are drawn to this shit. I saw high school girls stripping on tables and bars and girls at least 7/10 crashing/fucking the dudes on the regular. Not the highest quality girls of course, but they weren't unattractive and they were young.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 07:26 PM
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I can lift, make good money, continue training in BJJ and maintain good social skills while having a girlfriend. You're acting every guy who is single and doesn't commit is cool as shit, but the reality is most single guys are single not by choice.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 11:17 PM
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I like how you handled the bonus and totally agree. If your ltr keeps the conversation up with him she isn ’ t respecting you and your time. I've been the other guy in this situation---I was working at a cell phone store when my ex-gf walked by with her new boyfriend. She noticed mean and came on over, said hi and chatted while he waited for her. A few days later she was in my apartment.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 10:41 PM
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Cool, don't get too bulky. ( If she does it - soft next.) This is for a plate, right? You really care if a plate hangs out with another guy, or even fucks him?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 10:36 PM
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My mindset when I call out of the blue is kind of the same with how I call my parents out of the blue just to talk for a few minutes. It's not a big deal and I'm doing it when it's convenient for me (stuck in traffic, taking a walk on a break at work, etc)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:31 PM
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You would think so, but I've had success calling millenial girls on the phone and they love it. They love hearing your voice, especially if you throw in some sexy dirty talk. You stand out from all the other thirsty orbiters blowing up her DMs.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:30 PM
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They are not feeling you. I also count that as rude behavior and downgrade them.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:29 PM
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In 2016 when I was dating my ex-wife (maybe 2-3 dates in), I called her out of the blue one evening and just bullshitted for 5-10 min. She made a fucking facebook post later that night, about how meaningful and special small things are to her. Someone commented about how she loves ice cream or something and my then-plate responded, "haha I was thinking more like a phone call". Seriously, a phone call in 2018 is like a Mortal Kombat-style uppercut. Finish her!!!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:28 PM
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I implore people to do this even if you consider yourself shy or introverted. Hell, maybe ESPECIALLY if you are shy or introverted. I'm into a niche genre of music that most girls I date don't like, and most of my friends are not into. So often I go to concerts solo. And almost always I end up making at least one or two friends and exchanging contact info. Which leads to getting invited out to other events, meeting even more people etc. The most innocuous questions can lead to friendships. "Do y…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:12 PM
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After 2 years off the market due to marriage/LTR, newly single my game was non-existent. Embarassingly bad. It took 3 months before I was able to get dates from cold approaches and started racking up notches again.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:27 PM
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Please don't let the secret out.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:22 PM
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It was a shit show. Moving on.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 11:05 PM
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I ended it last night. Your comment was a contributing factor, so thank you.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 05:31 PM
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I see, so by having a playful/DGAF tone you both give her comfort while also maintaining aloofness. The serious reassurance should be used sparingly.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 09:12 AM
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I'll look up other posts on comfort. But if the point of the comfort test is to reassure her that you aren't going to leave her in 5 minutes or whatever, why is being direct and serious not a good response?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 03:59 AM
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I wonder how very petite girls feel. Like girls that are 4'11-5'1". They must feel tiny with practically every guy they come across. There must be a point of diminishing returns after a certain size difference.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:59 PM
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OP did make the choice to move in with this woman after dating for only 10 months. Much of which was fueled by a litany of drama, by his own admission. I don't think it's productive to predict his failure or relapse, but he needs to be aware that he may be susceptible to weakness and returning to her. For that drama, that "love" they have.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:56 PM
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He was able to leave on his own terms the following day without her calling the police on him (at least I assume she hasn't done that yet). He conceded some ground to win the larger battle. It was a good tactical decision.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:49 PM
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TRP is why I don't need a cable tv subscription.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:48 PM
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This is properly explained elsewhere I'm sure, but how do you know early on that you're dealing with a BPD girl?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:46 PM
6

Shin Ramen is so fucking good. This post has made me alter my shopping list.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:43 PM
1

I think "basic" also softens the blow of "bitch". "Basic bitch" is not as offensive as "bitch". Maybe he could have said, "oh no, I hope you're not one of those materialistic basic bitches"
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:39 PM
1

Aside from being direct, ("What are you talking about, of course I like you") what is the correct way to pass a comfort test?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:38 PM
1

Being abused is a red flag for mental health disorders and other issues. A woman's relationship with her father sets the stage for her relationships with men. If her father abused her, she will likely have romantic, interpersonal issues with men. I have yet to date a girl who was both abused and mentally sound. Pick one.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:34 PM
1

I’m pulling the plug. How is that getting “fucked over?”
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:03 PM
1

I needed to read this. I met a girl off of Tinder, direct to my place, hooked up within 30 minutes with zero resistance. One of the easiest bangs of my life with an obviously easy girl. At the time I had one other plate, but she broke shortly after. Other Tinder and online dates didn't pan out, so I had just the one girl on rotation. We started hanging out more and more and the girl just GREW on me. I started enjoying time with her more and we went on interesting and exciting dates. And the sex …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 09:48 PM
7

I hope I get my inner game strong enough to go out solo and cold approach for other options cause damn oneitis is torture. Just fucking do it. You'd be surprised how many numbers and notches you can get from just talking to girls at your local shopping mall.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 09:33 PM
1

What do you think of this in a conversation: My main passion is Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu. I love how cerebral it is. Even if you're fighting a bigger, stronger person, there are always ways you can figure out how to get around his strength or size and find his weaknesses. It's like playing chess with the human body. Or how Joe Rogan calls it, "problem solving with dire consequences." I've been doing it for almost ten years now and I still feel like I'm barely scratching the surface of all there is t…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 11:08 PM
3

Nice guy VS asshole. Player versus monogomaous.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 11:16 PM
1

My Jordan Peterson drinking game: take a shot anytime he mentions the number of deaths under Stalin Take a shot anytime he mentions the Gulag or Nazi Germany Take a shot anytime he plugs one of his books Take a shot anytime his voice cracks take a shot anytime he says “bloody”
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 07:25 PM
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She's now fucking other dudes and using you as an orbiter. He isn't an orbiter. He is fucking her. Even if it is just to assuade his bruised ego ("I won in the long run!"), you can't label him an "orbiter" if he is slinging that dick.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 11:00 PM
1

Weirdly enough, I had a plate that I still did some LTR-type stuff with but I maintained zero attachment to her. I knew/assumed she was talking to and dating other guys despite her being "in love" with me. She was 19, beautiful, dumb as a rock and I just couldn't take her seriously. But if I wanted a cute girl on my arm to see a movie with me or go out to dinner, she filled the position fine. Eventually I dropped her because I sensed she was getting way too attached and it became annoying. Scrat…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 07:01 PM
11

So what do you do if the girl you're dating is someone you actually would like to be in an LTR with? If you tell her you won't stop dating other girls, you could lose a good prospect if she is looking for an LTR and doesn't want to be a plate. In my experience, agreeing to monogomy isn't going to dry tingles per se, if you still maintain jerk behaviors in other ways. Flirting with other girls, going to strip clubs (with or without her) and generally let her know that she takes a backseat to your…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 06:42 PM
1

I remember a point in my life where I was at the top of my pimp game. Was fucking a 19 year old and several early 20’s girls. Had zero feelings for any of them. Had a huge accomplishment for my career. Didn’t celebrate with anyone. Ordered pizza and wings and watched a movie by myself at home. It was one of the loneliest nights of my life. What I had neglected was platonic friendships. I had moved to the town 6 months prior but had focused on game and career—not building a social circle. Being a…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 04:13 PM
5

That's key IMO---Bang a girl that is BETTER in some way than your ex. Younger, better ass, freakier, etc. I went from having an LTR with an 8 to banging 5's and 6's, wondering why I couldn't get over her. It wasn't until I started banging 7's and 8's again that it all worked out.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 11:14 PM
4

Maybe you did go out, maybe all you did was stay in and get caught up on laundry and a little reading. Guess what she's going with if you don't come over and STFU? I'll add, miss a phone call/don't return a text until the next morning.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 10:50 PM
3

I'm more "concerned" for lack of a better word of what to do when a girl insists on getting cold hard facts from you. Or if she outright calls you on your elusiveness. This has ruined dates for me in the past when an otherwise good vibe gets turned into a boring back and forth interview because I fell into her lame-frame.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 10:37 PM
1

Listen to Black Phillip on repeat.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 10:22 PM
1

Specifically, I've found the practice of letting go of intrusive thoughts during meditation to be the most useful thing. No one can have a completely clean slate while meditating. Thoughts come into your head. You can choose to fixate on them or just acknowledge the thought and let it float away, like a bubble or bit of dust.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 09:59 PM
4

That's contextual. Take the same bouncer off the door and put him at a table in Starbucks. He's just another (big) guy.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 08:32 PM
1

Link to the head exercises you mentioned?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 08:16 PM
4

I used to think a girl HAD to be at least a little drunk for a same night lay. Because that was always my experience. Until I banged two girls back to back, them both stone cold sober, within 20 minutes of being in my apartment. There is no limit to the shit you can do.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 08:10 PM
3

I have never done this. I wonder what quality of chicks you could pull doing that, and what the success rate is. But fuck I enjoy getting my 8 hours.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:50 PM
1

A girl's relationship with her father is HUGE. It is literally the most important relationship with a male she has/will have/have had in her entire life. If she doesn't have a good relationship with her dad, you are FUCKED.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:33 PM
2

Be fair, he is fresh out of this LTR/oneitis deal. He'll get there eventually.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:32 PM
2

Why even get into an LTR with a girl with a father like that and a drinking problem of her own? It's pointless suffering for the OP. There are plenty of girls out there without substance abuse problems. Alcohol or drug problems are automatic dealbreakers for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:32 PM
2

It all depends on where your actions are coming from. If they come from insecurity, it will come across as needy and lame. If it comes from abundance and just plain wanting to do gentlemanly shit, you're good to go.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:16 PM
1

I've noticed the quicker I kick a girl out after sex, the more likely I am to never hear back from her again.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:15 PM
2

One of my favorite compliments a girl has ever given me was: "you are like the perfect balance between asshole and nice guy".
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:08 PM
1

A woman's power is her pussy yours is the ability to walk away. Perfectly said. Take your ball and go home! -Dante Nero
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:07 PM
10

I wouldn't even say that. She just seemed interested in the guy. She didn't even talk to him, from what OP's story says.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 07:04 PM
4

Quick anecdote. I have a friend who is VERY good at game, tons of charisma, but is very out of shape. Eats junk food and only physical activity is playing NBA2K on Xbox. In a club or bar, he is mack. He can chat up any girl or group of people. However, we were at a pool party once full of people we both didn't know. Dudes were strutting around looking ripped but my buddy with all of his game kept his shirt on and was like a different person. Perhaps it was in his head and he didn't spit his norm…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 06:53 PM
1

What's the difference between IG and Snaphat, functionally?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:50 PM
1

I was exhausted after reading his post. Maybe I'm getting old (ok I AM getting old) but I'd rather run day game and save my money/liver.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 10:45 PM
12

A former Navy chief once told me, “if you’re explaining, you’re losing.”
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 06:52 PM
2

Seriously, me too. Gay Red Pill Memoirs.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:47 AM
1

...Or I got laid Saturday doing this.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 09:54 PM
2

There is definitely something to that and the “war brides” concept of identifying with the conquerer and not the vanquished.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 07:47 PM
5

If I had a daughter, this is what I would tell her in order to be successful in the social marketplace and lock down a quality guy: -Always take care of yourself physically by going to the gym several times per week and eating a healthy diet. Learn the best beauty practices for hair and skin care. Wear fashionable but not overly expensive clothing. -Do not ever have sex with a guy on the first date, or you will likely never get his commitment. He'll look at you as cheap and easy. On the other ha…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:32 PM
1

"don't ask deer how to hunt them. Ask deer hunters." - paraphrased from Patrice O'Neal
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:12 PM
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If you have a better-than-average physique, try this on your next first date. Wear a wife beater. (American slang for a thin men's sleeveless undershirt). Seriously. I wore a wife beater, chinos and dress shoes on my last first date and you should have seen the shock on her face. She even called me out on it, saying "what you don't wear clothes?" and I told her very seriously that "yes, actually I have a medical condition that prevents me from wearing clothes. It's very serious." :smirk: I think…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:11 PM
1

I'm a white American fucking a 20 year old Vietnamese chick at the moment. She loves war movies so I'm thinking of showing her Apocalypse Now or Full Metal Jacket to note her reaction. Very curious.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 06:06 PM
94

You want to play the game on Very Hard mode? Try following this rule when you’re married. And your girl is there every fucking day, sharing HER problems with you whenever they arise. And you’re dealing with some real shit, and they always say they WANT you to open up to them. Yeah, good reminder from this post. Better to be called “emotionless”, which I’ve been called by my last girl, than to be called “the girl in the relationship”, which my girl two relationships ago called me. Yeah, meditate …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 05:23 PM
1

I’m still working on it. It takes a lot of time to complete. So far I have made some connections that I otherwise wouldn’t have, as to why I am the way I am.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:34 PM
1

No porn Started my first T blast Went to BJJ even when I was exhausted cleaned out my room in preparation to move; got rid of a bunch of junk I don’t use anymore Worked on my Past Authoring project on Jordan Peterson’s web site All plates broke. Starting from a blank, fresh slate.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 04:08 PM
47

I know right. that was hot
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 06:36 PM
59

Correct. You must check every box before pulling the trigger.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 11:03 PM
241

My ex-wife and I went to a marriage therapist. After 3 sessions he (he therapist) agreed with me that the marriage seemed fucked and that I should get out if I wanted to. Despite having an infant. Dude kept it real and even told me that he slapped a woman before and that “sometimes they just deserve it.” Definitely not what I was expecting. Your mileage may vary.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 11:02 PM
2

Married with kids is worth the effort. if you want kids. When my gf got pregnant, I married her because it made the most sense logistically. I was moving, new job, she had zero money or health insurance. So I tried to make it work. Once she reached peak crazy/secretly spending tons of money, I pulled the plug about 1.5 years in. It still worked out better than if we never tried marriage. But the moment I knew with 100% certainty that the marriage was doomed, I cashed in. Do that. Do not fall for…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 07:22 AM
1

Coming off of TRT, my estrogen went through the roof and I broke down sobbing in front of my girl one day. She was taken aback, but took it in stride. She looked up TRT withdrawal and showed me how common and normal it was for this to happen. All seemed ok. But a few weeks later, she started very suspiciously dropping the name of a guy at the gym. “Someone said they liked my new bangs at the gym today”. “who said that?” “...josh” etc etc Long story short, she never cheated as far as I know. We b…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:18 AM
16

Different people getting different results? No way.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 07:14 AM
13

What part of the world do you live in? I’m in socal, and its tough. When I lived in Philly it was easy.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 03:46 AM
2

All of this is searchable. I’m on TRT so recovery isn’t an issue.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 06:06 AM
8

I assume you’ve never dated a serious gym girl. They are out there. They’re not hard to find.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 12:45 AM
9

The OP is using a few anecdotes to paint a very broad picture and write an overly verbose post full of hard and fast rules. That’s the problem with this post.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 12:44 AM
13

If you want a true show, check out Equinox. Preferably on a guest pass. (the rates are insane)
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 09:03 AM
5

It's an anecdote and it sends the wrong message. Did not deserve the multi-paragraph post in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 09:01 AM
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Speak for yourself. My last LTR was a hardcore crossfit girl I met at the gym where I coached BJJ. She was obsessed with training and had a damn near perfect body. We’d train together almost every day, spot each other, do CF workouts or tough hikes after a workout. Then’d we crush pwo meals and fuck like rabbits. It was a good set up. Only thing I’d do differently in the future is not train so often with my LTR. There were plenty of days I wanted to zen-out and train alone. But to say never to t…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 12:58 AM
14

In my personal experience. this is not true. My neck only grew from direct stimulation. Front/rear wrestlers bridges. Rear bridge with a 45lb plate held outstretched above you. These exercises made my neck significantly larger. Years of deadlifting did not.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 10:46 PM
3

I’d upvote 10x if I could. This is what it’s all about.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 02:13 AM
3

He threw a dolly through the window of a bus full of fighters. He injured two fighters with eye and face injuries from the glass shattering. He didn’t get anywhere close to Khabib. He’s now in jail and will be getting sued for millions of dollars. Yeah, “straight G”. What an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 09:25 AM
5

Have you banged the women after you've given them unsolicited advice?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:16 PM
14

Nobody likes unsolicited advice. You would have had a better chance if you asked her for lifting advice, like Roosh writes about in Day Bang.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 10:52 AM
12

I had a lot of female friends in high school. my male friends called it my “fan club”. The social proof is huge. Not being seen as creepy or weird is the first step to girls looking at you as a dating option. I was dating one girl, while two others were interested in me, asking me to dances etc. I broke up with her, dated one of the hottest girls in school, cheated on her with one of her friends. Eventually stopped dating girls from my school and got a LTR from a different school who was wild. T…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 12:50 AM
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