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Your behavior is materialistic and ungrateful, which is why your boyfriend is reacting the way he did. Perhaps this is a case of incompatibility, though I doubt there are many other men who would not have the same reaction that your boyfriend did. You are not entitled to gifts, and your reaction does not do much to inspire him to get the things you actually want. I find people with “gift receiving” as a love language as shallow, because your feeling of security and intimacy is built on finite ma…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 07:38 PM
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I am happy you came to the right conclusion and that your relationship is stronger because you decided to be accountable about how your own actions contributed to his. This is why I almost always agree with the mods when they enforce the “no ‘Leave Him’” rule. But in the spirit of accountability for everyone, before you start saying that the reason you got the advice to leave him is because the women here aren’t red pilled enough, I’m glad you also acknowledge that the initial story you told was…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 01:05 AM
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You are focusing on the wrong things, and it shows not only your BF’s immaturity but your own as well. Vetting for whether or not he has gift giving as a love language or not should not be your priority - that’s always been one of the more frivolous love languages. There are many other red flags that are more pertinent: no job, no desire to get a job no school/university irresponsible spending and saving habits no achievements (not even a driver’s license??) no ambition dopamine addiction (life …
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 12:23 AM
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I appreciate the edit and your graciousness. You hit the nail on the head - I am very opposed to porn and recognize the negative effect on everyone but felt that the assumption that men who are attracted to top 10% of women are all porn addicts was just untrue. There is absolutely a naivety to men who believe that all women can and should look like Pamela Anderson in her prime thanks to the media, but to call them porn addicts and not just unrealistic and ignorant just seemed unnecessary. I actu…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/24 07:46 PM
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most men understand that women aren’t airbrushed under their clothes. The rest are likely addicted to porn. Just because a man has certain physical standards for the women he’s attracted to does not make him a porn addict - that’s jumping to conclusions and a little shaming, don’t you think? Almost all media, whether it’s TV/film, marketing, or online social media, features highly airbrushed women. Wouldn’t it be much more likely that he’s influenced by those than a porn addiction? I don’t watch…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/24 06:24 PM
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Additionally, I’m not sure everyone has an Act II experience as you’ve laid out. I don’t think he says anywhere that every woman HAS to have one. He states that some people are able to breeze past it here: Some women make the full journey to reach Act 3, with some of them eventually rising far higher than those who have never suffered a humbling fall from grace. Some have avoided the pitfalls of Act 1 and 2, but are stuck waiting for their Act 3 to commence. Some slide effortlessly into Act 3, w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 07:32 PM
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I thought you were no longer replying and submitting to the responses?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 11:14 PM
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There are no absolutes or generalizations here: you provided a real life example. Based on the context you provided, multiple men and women, not just from America but also from Europe, have let you know how your actions are coming across. You just don’t want to listen.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 10:33 PM
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Lol the wording of all of this is hilarious. The sentiment is good, just such a funny way to put it
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 10:15 PM
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If just being friends men that men would fall in love with you there would be little need for RPW in dating as you could just get any man easily. You are being obtuse. Women put men who they don’t have sexual attraction for in the friend zone because they don’t want to be with them. Women do not choose to be friends with men they want to be with. The men you are friends with are men who are sexually attracted to you (because they’re men and are sexually attracted to any young healthy woman, no m…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 10:12 PM
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What is the point in speaking in false platitudes to yourself? Perhaps she feels like she is a bad person because she is consciously concealing sexual partners from a man who has been funding her and her child’s life, effectively using and manipulating him while she feels no real sense of attraction to him. Perhaps she feels like a bad mother because she leaves her child with her mom to go out often, late at night, to party and have non-committal sex with multiple random men. Pretending that you…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 05:45 PM
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Honestly, good morning texts are for high schoolers and you are right that making him do it would make him feel controlled and annoyed over time if he doesn’t want to do it on his own. Your trauma and attachment issues are your own baggage, not his. Expecting him to help you self-soothe does not create a healthy dynamic for you. The solution isn’t to make him text you good morning, but to address your attachment issues and figure out how your anxiety can potentially cause you to self-sabotage. H…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/23 07:03 PM
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Why is your personal preference to not care necessarily the “secure” take? To play devil’s advocate, I could argue that a man who decides to ignore the evolutionary instinct to be turned off by female promiscuity is one that is too insecure to assert for his own goals in the SMP and too easily concedes to women’s. You mention being 25 as if it grants you wisdom, but the men who are allowed to post here are supposed to be older, married, or TRP experts for a reason. To me, your age highlights you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 10:35 AM
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Sure. Build a relationship on a lie. That surely won’t have ANY consequences for OP down the line, right? 🙄
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 08:22 AM
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You are needlessly fixating on semantics. It isn’t “classless” for a man to want to know how many men his future wife has been with. What if he’s religious and wants to know if his wife has the same values as he does? They may be incompatible, but I don’t see how pretending the topic doesn’t exist is a valid long-term strategy. The truth has a funny way of always coming out eventually. Wouldn’t it be best for OP to find a man who doesn’t have a problem with her N-count from the get-go, rather th…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 08:21 AM
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Wrong answer. No, she’s right. Your attitude seems problematic and jaded and isn’t going to put your best foot forward when dating.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 06:17 PM
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Small competitions yeah. Not big ones. Those are classier. I’m only entering in the national ones It seems like you mostly care about the prestige and notoriety of winning these competitions more than anything else. You are a little naive if you think the women who make it to national competitions have not been training for it for years, competing in smaller competitions, and putting in the money and time investment to make it to that level. It sounds like you are barely interested in this and o…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/23 10:33 PM
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Cotton underwear that’s lacy sounds great. That’s not the issue. The issue was that attitude of “don’t like it? Just take it off then”, especially if it happens every day. It’s not really what you want to hear - man or woman, we all want partners who are enthusiastic about us and want to do things to be attractive for us. That attitude reminds me of when men say, “why aren’t you in the mood for sex?! Why does it matter that I haven’t bothered to plan a date for us in who knows how long? Either w…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 01:29 AM
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If they bother him so much, he could just take them off. With that line of thinking, why should a man put in the effort to seduce his LTR/wife and keep taking her on nice dates to continue to woo her? They’re already together, they could just have sex after spending all day at home doing nothing. Much more comfortable. The above scenario is understandably unappealing for lots of women if it becomes a rut. They would much rather be with a partner who still takes the time to romance them, even if …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 11:33 PM
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While the fault certainly lies with the adulterer, an unhappy, miserable, or otherwise unsatisfying relationship often creates the fertile grounds for infidelity. Such a relationship usually takes both parties not cooperating properly with each other.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 04:04 AM
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What is there to get over? Just pointing out the hypocrisy and entitlement so others know not to take you seriously. Have a great day too :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 10:30 PM
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If field reports are too personal for you, theory posts often reveal nothing about the OP and are focused solely on ideas. It just seems all too convenient that the people who are complaining in this thread have made no visible contributions whatsoever to the betterment of the sub. If your previous contributions made it to the sidebar or something then sure, but if you deleted everything, people can’t access it anyways. You say you are a “trophy wife” and that the sub needs to review the basics …
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 10:22 PM
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Funny how the people who complain about the sub not having enough field report or theory posts are never willing to step up and write those for the community. Sometimes, you have to be the change you want to see - otherwise you are just complaining that no one is doing the work, while also not doing any of the work yourself. If you can recognize what you DO want to see, then write about it yourself for the sake of the community like past ECs have. From what I can tell, there are still lots of ac…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 09:48 PM
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WE WERE MADE TO EAT. Ah yes, our hunter gatherer ancestors definitely were eating 3-4 meals a day plus snacks. /s No, they fasted until food was foraged, caught, or killed. They were opportunistic eaters, which meant that while they had to be innately responsive enough to hunger cues to eat whenever food was available, that hunger also couldn’t kill them for the first few days they could not find any. No one is saying to starve yourself, and if that’s what you did routinely, it’s probably ventur…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 04:16 PM
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Got it, so you’re the type to stick your head in the mud at any scientific discovery and innovation. What’s next, the earth is flat? I never said just eating healthy isn’t sustainable or a good option. It’s great for most people. But I’m not the one arguing that doing something that’s been studied, tested, and actively done throughout various cultures and time periods is “throwing your health in the garbage”. You were being overdramatic from the start, and weren’t willing to be corrected no matt…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 04:04 PM
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How did I go past it if I literally mentioned it? The information is all in the link if you bothered to take the time to read it. It is up to OP and whoever is interested to look into the risks themselves. The studies you are turning your nose up at come from Cambridge, USC00151-9), and Stanford researchers and PhDs. It’s a bit disingenuous to allude that it’s all pseudoscience when randomized trials have been completed showing 1-3 day fasts’ positive effects on weight loss and metabolism. I kno…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 11:15 AM
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Where exactly are you getting that you are throwing “your health in the garbage” for a multi-day fast? Though it doesn’t come without risks like any other physical change we make, research has shown it is good for cell renewal, reducing inflammation, improving insulin sensitivity and blood sugar levels, and potentially aiding in weight loss. Side effects are inconvenient and depending on the individual, somewhat difficult, but will not “throw your health in the garbage.” Of course, if you are pa…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 10:19 AM
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I’d argue it’s relevant for OP if she is an Indian woman interested in dating Indian men. If a large amount of Indian men are dating outside their race, it does affect her prospects and SMV/RMV in the Indian community.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 07:56 PM
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I don’t hate you just because I recognized and communicated with you some negative aspects of your behavior and attitude. Your defensiveness will stop you from the growth you need. Again, good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 10:08 PM
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Thank you. I’m just trying to highlight things about her that are obvious to me and probably others here, but not so obvious to her. Sometimes the truth is unpleasant, but it’s more useful for her to become self-aware than to sugarcoat and she won’t get it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 10:06 PM
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If you cannot see why you come off as abrasive and unlikable through what you told us, then you have a lot to work on. Good luck to you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 06:29 PM
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I’ve been trying to stfu more but I also don’t really wanna be submissive and vapid. Facepalm. Have you actually read the posts here about what STFU really is, and what situations it should be used? Or are you just assuming that to be a good “red pill girl”, you can’t have a personality? I’m sure that’s a little backhanded to the ladies here, who you are coming to for help. STFU means being conscious about taking the time to listen to your partner before over-reacting, nagging, and arguing. It c…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 10:04 AM
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Nice post. Well. If he asks you what you want, the submissive move is... telling him what you want. Be agreeable. Make it easy for him. Why turn it into a power struggle? I think there’s a bigger lesson here. A lot of RPW, femininity, or “old-fashioned” newbies think that they can and should demand a man to be masculine and to lead, not realizing that that kind of demand itself isn’t very … feminine or submissive either. Of course women should look for and vet for naturally dominant and masculin…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 03:50 AM
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Eh. I think it’s more that a lot of men think their dick game is SO good that they don’t need to get women off any other way. Most don’t know that the majority of women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. Pair that ignorance with cockiness and this is what you get.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 05:11 PM
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A lot of the things you’re saying are actionable advice which is great. There’s a lot to take from this. But I get the sense that you’re kind of in your “anger phase” still, and ultimately that’s not a productive way to be in the long run for red pill men AND women. Correct me if I’m wrong, but unless that person is calling himself that, calling someone a Femboy is really…hostile. The way you mock men for looking forward to a silly movie or look down on men with enough scorn to make fun of them …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 05:05 PM
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Thank you. Even to some of the men here, OP came off as flippant and backhanded. Am not surprised that she ragequit either at the first sign of criticism.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 07:46 AM
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which he is not threatened by, nor should he be lol. That second part is why I don’t think you’re qualified to be giving advice here or to be deeming what’s achievable or not. You do not understand how most men work, and are preaching exceptions and not the rule. Great that you found someone, but the vast majority of traditional and dominant men will not take women who masturbate on camera seriously. We have a sex worker EC as far as I can recall, but the difference is she doesn’t advise anyone …
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 02:30 AM
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OP participates on a demonology sub and also a suicide watch sub. I’m not the only man who thinks that there is more than a random correlation between women who are invested in the occult and suicidal tendencies/mental heath disorders.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 12:52 AM
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Not sure your perspective is the typical one, considering you are a “sex magick priestess” sex worker and OF poster who is interested in female domination and male submission. The women here are looking for male-led relationships and although you’re allowed to participate here like anyone else, I don’t think you’re in the right position to advise most of the women here who don’t want a life like yours.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 12:49 AM
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For Women Only is an RPW favorite and one of the ECs even did a summary/analysis of each chapter in the sidebar a few years ago. It basically describes why men feel/act/want in a certain way.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/23 03:51 PM
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Whatever you say. Just don’t be surprised.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 07:30 PM
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And what exactly do you think the man who has paid you thousands of dollars is going to expect when he visits you? Let’s not be naive. At least know what you’re getting yourself into so you don’t put yourself in a situation you don’t want to be in.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 07:07 PM
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You are missing the point. Men who are not your husband or partner do not wire tuition money “as a friend”. They do it as a sugar daddy, which is a form of sex work. Non SW women do not think about how to extract the most expensive gift within budget out of their “friend” when they finally get together in person either. Not saying that you aren’t allowed to be here as a sugar baby and sex worker. You are and there’s nothing wrong with it. But let’s just call a spade a spade and spare everyone he…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 06:44 PM
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Friends don’t have to ask their friends for a gift with the focus specifically on how expensive it can be. That is absolutely something to ask a “client”, even if it has not been explicitly defined as such.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 05:31 PM
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I can’t imagine him saying that you’ve always been disrespectful out of nowhere though, or if you two are just having a good time and he hits you completely out of left field. What things happen in the moments before he says these things? What led him to say it? Can you give some examples?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 01:47 AM
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I guess it depends on what you mean by local. I can understand your feelings if she has a REALLY small channel (around 5k or below) and is close enough to you guys that he could encounter her in person because you all live in a small town. At that point I can get why you feel threatened. But if you live in NYC or another major city like that, and she has tens to hundreds of thousands of subscribers, it is definitely is not that personal IMO. If she’s decently popular, he probably does not have a…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 12:50 AM
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I’m sure few men sit through the whole thing. But if it’s on, and they happen to come across it, I’m willing to bet you money most men are gonna be watching for at least 10-20 minutes. Source: am dude, with dude friends. I don’t think he’s taken up a sudden interest in women’s lingerie fashion or anything Of course he hasn’t taken up a sudden interest in women’s lingerie. He wants to look (operative word is look, not “fall in love” or even necessarily masturbate) at the beautiful women. Because …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 12:14 AM
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I think what u/LightOverWater ‘s point was is that it’s not that black and white. Did millions tune in to the VS fashion shows to get off or to buy presents for their gf? No, there were probably a large amount of people, men and women, who just casually watched because it’s enjoyable to see beautiful women in pretty lingerie. That same reason is why scantily clad beautiful women are used to advertise things to us EVERYWHERE - because everyone enjoys looking at that and the advertisers know it. I…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 10:56 PM
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Good point. I always thought “softcore porn” was full nudity, implied sexual/erotic tone, but less graphic and no penetration (manual, genital, and/or toys). Particularly when the purpose of it is commercial (just like how these try-on hauls, especially from a beauty/fashion YouTuber are meant for commercial/advertising purposes), it seems not so close to “softcore porn” anymore. There’s billboards of lingerie models in the mall and on the streets for all to see. I remember my entire 6th or 7th …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 10:33 PM
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What is petty to you may actually be very important to someone else. Yes, people have different values and goals. But let’s be realistic here - if what her bf watches harmlessly and casually in their free time is “very important”, I think that it’s pretty fair to say that her priorities are wrong. Because fixating on little inconsequential things is not how you find and keep long lasting commitment, which is pretty much the goal of this entire sub. That kind of preference is what makes women sin…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 10:15 AM
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I’m reminding her that attraction is not negotiable Uh, are we reading the same post? Did OP not allude to how turned on she was within an hour of talking to him? To her, he is clearly an attractive man. But he’s also human, which means that there are bound to be things about him that isn’t absolutely perfect in her eyes. There’s this great post in the wiki: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2jvfwb/on_preferences_and_requirements_in_dating/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_na…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 09:37 AM
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Sure, but does that give OP any actionable advice? Or is it just validation that she’s not being unreasonable? I thought the latter was against the rules here specifically because it doesn’t really do anything to help her with her situation.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 08:42 AM
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Almost everyone I’ve met who’s into it is… somehow off. Huge overlap with those Asperger’s weeb types that just gross me out. the fact that anime fans defend it so passionately just makes it worse. How exactly is this relevant to OP, though? She says that he’s fantastic, everything I wanted in a partner and more. I’m very attracted to him, and it’s been evident since we met. I knew I wanted to snag him (among other things) within an hour of talking to him. And it just kept getting better and bet…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 08:07 AM
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And how many of those guys behind the all promise rings in your jewelry box ended up being men you respected enough to submit to and to marry? Were the guys who were begging for dates and spending all day chit-chatting with you Captain material? Or was that type of desperate behavior a turn off and the vast majority of them relics of your memory box for a reason? OP does not have to sleep with a man on the first date if she doesn’t want to. Frankly, the best strategy is identify whoever is the h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 01:55 AM
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I would classify “your piece is bigger than mine! It’s not fair!!!” as wallowing, just like the people who shout into the void about how unfair it is that there are billionaires while they’re barely getting by are also wallowing. Throwing fits about fairness isn’t an effective way to try to solve problems. Obviously, little children don’t know this yet, but so many adults are stuck in a similar miserable rut with no way out. I think OP is making a case for gratitude and the power it carries. Not…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 12:00 PM
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The world isn’t fair. It’s not fair that some are born into poverty while others have centuries of generational wealth. It’s not fair that some people are innately much smarter, healthier, sexier, and more capable than others could ever dream to be. It’s not fair that women and children get to be cherished and protected and given automatic seats on the lifeboat, while men are expected to put their lives in danger for the sake of the greater good. It’s not fair that women, as the ones who bear th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 09:48 AM
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I’m not a huge fan of hint-dropping, because there’s a chance they’re too subtle and the guy won’t pick up on it. There’s also a chance that he finds it manipulative. Asking for commitment, or demanding commitment, like the post said, isn’t the best move. But there is a case to be made for talking about exclusivity or where things stand, without outright asking for it!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 08:06 PM
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u/SunshineSundress wrote this post about how to check for a man’s level of investment in you, while simultaneously showing him your RMV and level of investment in him. u/girlwithasidecar wrote this post about inspiring devotion and the discussion she started is great food for thought on this topic. I love the post about the Talk, because it captures what is the problem with it: there is an undercurrent of entitlement and a lack of feminine finesse. Demanding commitment won’t work on men who have…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 05:45 PM
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The Talk is socially awkward. Don’t do it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 05:27 PM
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I feel like you’re jumping to a lot of unnecessary conclusions. Why would having women in his music video (and being transparent about it) make OP look stupid? What exactly is so disrespectful about that? Have you ever watched a music video? The vast majority of them feature attractive people of the opposite sex, regardless of the gender of the artist. Even the PG-rated saccharine music videos from Disney Channel boybands had pretty girls costarring in them. If this scenario makes OP uncomfortab…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 01:16 PM
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I want my man to chase me, I want my man to look at me and cross the whole room to talk to me. It doesn’t matter that approaching men worked for other women in this community, this is not my story and I don’t want to look back and always see my husband as the passive one I had to give a hint, ugh. And how’s that working out for ya? You are 25 and have yet to have been able to “keep a man” or have a serious relationship. Perhaps the only common denominator in all the men you’ve encountered but fa…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/22 02:02 PM
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Respectfully, your relationship dynamic with your husband does not sound like the norm, nor does it sound very healthy. If your partner thinks less of you when you open up to him, I think you should consider if there are underlying problems that make him not want to care about your emotional wellbeing. Him being turned off by your vulnerability may cause resentment later on, when you feel like you cannot depend on him to want what’s best for you. In fact it made men lose respect for me. Men hate…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 07:14 AM
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Mean-spirited is poking fun at SOMEONE. All of the comments I’ve seen here did not poke fun at you, but rather at your idea, because quite frankly, it is a bad one. Even that is a stretch IMO, because I think most people were just trying to express their exasperation and using hyperboles to convey to you what a bad idea it was, in order to help you. After all, this wasn’t unsolicited advice. This is what you asked for: would oversharing be bad? Should you go into extensive details about your dat…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 09:17 AM
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I don’t see anyone being mean-spirited. RP means acknowledging the truth, no matter how uncomfortable that truth might be. The truth is, it is a terrible and incredibly short-sighted idea to spill all these details to your boyfriend. Just because it’s not what you wanted to hear does not make it mean. I’d argue it would be meaner for everyone to tell you that this is a fine idea and have you wreck your relationship that way.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 04:46 AM
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Okay, I can see where you’re coming from. I agree that the first take is pretty annoying, especially because it’s all from white feminists who want to virtue signal for their “The Blind Side” moment. The second take is where I’m tripping up a bit. If men are more protective to women submissive to them, then why are the “good girls” in the Taliban’s eyes (head covered, keeps herself and her daughters at home) still getting stolen from their families into essentially sex slavery and as child bride…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:02 AM
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Okay, I’ll bite! I already read that thing you wrote, and can get down with it. Could you elaborate on the sexual dynamics of what happened in Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:43 AM
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