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I don't think being skinny and feeling timid are the real issues. I've seen very thin guys do good. I've got a friend who's quite skinny, underweight for sure, and average looking get numbers in the streets after opening with "do you know where place X is?" Or even "do you know at what time they air Dragon Ball today?". He isn't ultra ballsy either, sometimes he spends a few minutes following the girl deciding whether to approach or not, because he's scared. But he knows what he wants, that is h…
/r/seduction14/08/24 12:24 PM
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You could try and test her. Since I don't know how shes like I wouldn't know how to structure it, but something that implies that she looks, or behaves, in a certain way but you're not sure if she really is like that. Like "you seem to be so edgy, but I'm not sure if you really are" It's nothing special but gives her the opportunity to prove herself to you, that would be a somewhat positive start. Or she can be dismissive and not care to impress you in the least like "nah I'm not edgy, I'm dumb"…
/r/seduction13/08/24 08:20 AM
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In the gym you don't need to "approach", you can just flirt. Nowadays everyone seems to dumbly approach with the same exact lines. Flirt in the gym, let her do the work. She looks at you? Look back, see how she reacts, if she turns away suddenly and then searches for you again. Then what? she might ask you to use the same machine you're using. Did it happen randomly? Maybe, maybe not. Does she starts some small talk? "Pretty hot in here, is the ac on? Oh I'm so tired bla bla". Or if she doesn't …
/r/seduction12/08/24 04:03 PM
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I'm a tall """Chad""" and I used to make the same mistakes as op with same results. So you're wrong.
/r/seduction04/08/24 09:12 PM
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She was just being polite. Take it as a learning experience
/r/seduction04/08/24 09:10 PM
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You acted like her best friend , so don't be surprised :/
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:07 PM
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Even if you had massive balls you still would strike out, because you lack social skills (not knowing what to say). Imagine you walk with incredible confidence, the sea of people divides in two to let the Man pass through, you keep intense eye contact with her like your eyes were laser beams, you pick her friends with your hands and throw them away like they were flies, you disharm her girlfriends by picking them up (even if they are quite fat) and throw them into the river, then you ultra confi…
/r/seduction04/08/24 06:53 PM
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You're right, women are terminators. They don't think "oh this guy just approached me with the usual lame pick up line "I saw you from over there and thought you're cute. what's your name". They instead have cybernetic vision that sees right into your bank account, and even your search history
/r/seduction04/08/24 06:48 PM
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It’s just a game we need to get good at playing. For example she played along at the first reply saying: “mhhmm, would be I the sinner then?” This is good, it’s a start. You could have replied with something like: “I’ve a feeling with you even a saint like me could be tempted to sin.” If you notice this is cocky and funny; it builds a game between you two together. Now the communication is this: you are creating mystery by saing “a saint like me”, because it’s obviously a hint that you might not…
/r/seduction04/08/24 09:46 AM
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This sucks man. Apart that it's hard to understand what you're saying, the power balance is all on her side. You are saying: 1) You are pretty 2) You are the biggest sinner I've come across (whatever way she reads this sentence, the subcommunication is that you're impressed with her) 3) Pretty like you dont deserve hell (stupid compliment. Also just because she's pretty she can't be a bad person?) 4) You are proving your worth to her ("very good at assuming things") 5) another useless compliment…
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:52 AM
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you have no idea what you're talking about, as fantastic said
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:40 AM
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I used to be a hobbist photographer and I had an easy time with models. I used to shoot with alt models who I dig a lot, so there was the added bonus of authentic attraction on my part. I never needed to "game" them. What I did was be good at directing them, telling them what they MUST wear when they come see me (like kinky clothing, a g string, fishnets, chokers etc.) and during the shoot constantly tell them what they must do. It seems to me this power dynamic easily translates to something se…
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:37 AM
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I had the same fear. What happened is that sometimes accidentally some people would come close to us, even if in the beginning there was no one around her.. A car full of people would park right next to us, a group of people would stop talking just next to us, somebody would walk past us, or I'd be so in the moment to not check if there were other people around, and so I was FORCED to experience the presence of an audience. Those random instances accustomed me bit by bit to more social pressure.…
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:28 AM
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I know what you're talking about, and I have no idea how to create it. In my case for years I've been having "it" on and off. most of my days it's off, then some other days for some reasons unexplained I have it, and all of a sudden I can just enter a room without having to do or say anything and women are into me. It has nothing to do with appearence, nor what you say, nor what you do, nor your body language. In the "on" days I can dress like shit, I can be grumpy, I can speak nonsense, but I s…
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:02 AM
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Learn to banter, flirt, things of the sort. Its Not easy, so maybe just read one concept, then try to use it at the first occasion (with anyone, not necessarily a girl you like)
/r/seduction31/07/24 03:46 PM
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Yeah I've a problem with being normal. I fear that if I go there and ask her so what do you do" God labels me as just another mediocre prick
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:32 PM
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Well I've read your story and I like the style, but the thing with me is I'm really, really stuck verbally. So if it happened to me my mind would freeze and I would have nothing to say. I also hate small talk, even if it's flirty. I'm like a terminator kind of guy, straight to the point. I have no problem saying bold things, but I can't think of them in time during an approach. Only if I already know the girl my mind is relaxed enough to tease them and play with them. For example I can go to one…
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:18 PM
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I figured as much, but practical steps to do it? Like already at the opener I just say stuff in a careless manner, not trying to be perfect?
/r/seduction21/07/24 08:11 AM
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In my experience if you say negative stuff about yourself not only you release inner pressure, but other people have positive reactions. Like they see you as bold and confident for not fearing telling the truth. Example being, I have no job and one day I was talking with a girl and her mother . Her mother was a bit antagonistic and said "well what are you doing walking in the streets at this time of the day (10:00 am), don't you have a job?" And I said "I have no fucking job, Ive Better things t…
/r/seduction11/07/24 06:45 AM
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Mr gym bro you got the wrong image about me. I know it all on being dominant, and it works for me when I already know them and I feel relaxed. But in the streets, doesn't matter. It's like my vibe is more important than anything I say or do. The days when I feel good I can approach in the stupidest way and have success. The days when I feel bad I can approach in the most bold, confident manner and have it go bad no matter what
/r/seduction10/07/24 06:05 PM
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Yeah I hate approaching, I don't like it at all. I have plenty of success with girls I already know, but as soon as I try to approach I'm like a total loser. Still I'd like to be able to do it, I don't like OLD and I don't like having to rely on girls I meet through friends, social circles etc.
/r/seduction10/07/24 05:18 PM
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It's not true. People have amazing responses to blunt honesty, she might even be supportive and do her best to make him feel good and relaxed
/r/seduction10/07/24 04:44 PM
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You want to know the stupidest and most effective solution? Fucking tell her what's going on. Anytime I have a fear or a problem or whatever I just SAY it, and its gone. Instead if you keep it inside it builds up and builds up. Most of the time when I tell people what's troubling me or what's going on inside of me they are pleased I did. Just be honest and see what a relief, instead of risking of vomiting during a french kiss lol
/r/seduction09/07/24 08:05 PM
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I've met a girl that had the same screen picture but was eager to fuck other people, her bf was just a toy for her (and gift giver) :/ quite sad
/r/seduction08/07/24 11:11 AM
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I love Alan, I wish I met him in person. I practiced what he said and this is what I noticed. What he used to say was true FOR HIM, not for everybody. But his teachings are gold nonetheless. An example would be that he hated small talk, but actually sometimes I do like to connect with a person and I don't need to even mention sex, to then have sex. It's like it's implicit and we both know it. Being blunt sometimes it's like being a caveman. You both know you're attracted to each other, so , sayi…
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:43 PM
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Honesty means being truly honest. Example: you don't have a job and have no money, you tell her straight. If you don't give a shit, she won't , but she'll maybe get excited because of your inner freedom. Also check David X book (it's online for free), it's all about honesty
/r/seduction28/06/24 09:05 PM
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You're being over cuddly friendly perhaps, the soft teddy bear mascot that hugs people at parties, they have no clue you're hitting on them and don't care about receiving a hug for free. Try tap on their shoulder, make them stop, tell them you're there to talk to them, maybe you're trying not to be a creep and this way achieving the opposite effect
/r/seduction28/06/24 08:56 PM
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I have overcome immense odds to start approaching. Immense. Ive never met someone who had the psychological difficulties I had. At the same time no matter what I tell you, it won't work for you because all the work we do is just for ourselves and can't be shared with others. Even if one tells you his techniques or strategies you won't be able to use them. You need to try and approach on your own until you're able to do it, and that's it, there's no other way.
/r/seduction26/06/24 07:12 PM
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A basic advice for you would be to just touch them more. When shaking hands at introductions just hold her hand as long as you want (or she allows). It's just a basic move that frames everything on the physical from the get go. Other things you can do are take her hand and make her spin on herself to show you her body, hug her, feel her biceps joking that she has massive muscles and stuff like that. Another advice is start telling more risky stuff, like about sex, about fucking her or whatever. …
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:04 PM
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Dude, you're doing stuff with the wrong mentality, it's obvious why you aren't achieving results. I'm no car salesman, imagine I go in the streets and try to sell cars, that I don't have, to strangers. They'd think I'm stupid, I'd think I'm stupid too, and only waste time. You don't think you can fuck girls, so it's like you're trying selling a car (sex) without having any car (sex) to give. What are you doing then? Wasting everyone's time, and you know that, and I'm already seeing you going to …
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:07 AM
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Being bold is nothing amazing like you might think, it won't change your life like some gurus say. For example you might be extremely bold and get rejected 100/100 times. So...
/r/seduction16/05/24 12:03 PM
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Make it edgier. Your bio is boring, play with that. This bio is boring as hell but at least I've got plenty of money to play with. I like to travel a lot, if you're like me then you'll do fine
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:17 PM
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it's practically never too late, ther are attractive males that still bang teens in their 60s, just look around. I know it's difficult and hard to think that you "wastes" all those years and now you feel old, but really a man is still young, full of prowess even at 45, so you've got so much time to get good. To start just do the simplest thing: approach ONE girl to begin with. That's it. Then nest thing: try to get ONE date. And so on. No need to overcomplicate, just small challenges for you
/r/seduction15/05/24 10:58 AM
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Man just DM me, I've got you govered
/r/seduction15/05/24 06:53 AM
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Hey I'm wondering perhaps you have some friends that are stuck because of their fear to approach? I've written a book on how I overcame my fears but im learning how to sell online as I go and I'm a complete noob. I'm just asking people around if they know somebody that could use such info and try to see if the book sells.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:04 PM
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You're welcome!
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:23 PM
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Try to read Alan Roger Currie or David X, they are all about telling whatever crosses your mind, even if it's sex. The two of them were actually friends since they teached similar things. I'm sure you'll find lots of helpful things from them and they were (unfortunately both passed away) legit players
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:25 PM
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I feel like people would do anything besides trying to actually get the thing they want and get rejected. I suppose this rejection therapy is about being rejected rom anything but from girls, right? I'm sure it won't work. You can say hi to a thousand strangers, ger rejected from asking stuff to strangers, but then when you have a girl in front of you all of that isn't going to help you that much. It's like training for tennis by playing golf
/r/seduction07/05/24 05:10 PM
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It's useless to say "nobody cares" cause it won't decrease your fear. In my experience I just needed to keep approaching and sometimes it would happen spontaneously that I'd find myself approaching while there was people around, and thus I'd get a bit more accustomed to it. My ability to act with people around developed by itself over time just by keep approaching. But if you try and do it from the get go without previouz experience your mind won't let you do it probably
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:45 PM
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You've too many fears all at once and that's why you can't approach. As your first approaches you should focus on doing something extremely simple like telling her you're in a hurry but would like to meet her again. In this way you'll just focus on one simple thing: ask her out and leave. She might say yes as you don't need to overcomplicate anything. Once you can do that you build from there and grow from experience. If you want to know more you can DM me, as for me It was extremely hard to beg…
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:16 PM
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I spent maybe 10 years trying to do my first approach, my mind was absolutely blocked and it seemed impossible to approach. If you want you can DM and I'll tell you how I actually did it
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:14 AM
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I didn't open with that line, I didn't say that. I saw her at the bus stop, I went beside her and looked at her without saying a word. We already knew each other just a little. She looked at me and said hi. I started talking to her and my tone was naturally sexy, it's just all happened by itself, I took her hand then both hands. She also touched le back on the arm immediately. I just said things like "so what are you doing right now" and I was so horny that moment I was thinking about taking her…
/r/seduction07/05/24 07:07 AM
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Watch this https://youtu.be/_cRIAMXJbis?si=qFz1Cpvr1y8FKlBQ
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:08 PM
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Cause I read a book called Mode One from Alan Roger Currie, he was a great guy (now he's passed away) and he teaches exactly what I'm telling you. Ive learnt SO MUCH from him and if you read that book, you won't believe what you can get away with when dealing with women. It's about being bold and straightforward.
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:03 PM
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I boldly whispered to a girl I was secretly in love with that the first thing I desired when I saw her for the first time was to put my dick in her mouth and she smiled and got wet. Sounds fantasy but it's a true story, I always dreamt of acting that way and I had the courage to try. That's the moment that changed everything in my behavior
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:00 PM
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Bored to hell, if she said you're really nice in womanese it means you're just a friend to her
/r/seduction06/05/24 08:56 PM
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That's cool I'm going to watch the videos later for sure and thanks for the reply. Honestly I didn't ask the question for an answer myself but I was trying to do a money challenge after watching a video on yt, so i wanted to know how other people felt on this topic. This guy (Andy from kill your inner loser, if you know him) was talking about making just a single dollar selling something you know about in order to change one's crappy mindset on money, so I wrote this guide for super scared guys …
/r/seduction06/05/24 04:25 PM
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thanks a lot. And what about your first ever approach? How difficult it was to do it?
/r/seduction05/05/24 04:41 PM
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Yes like already when you meet she is physical and is happy to be with you, you walk very close and your skin and hers touch while walking, she laughs at what you say. Normal things. I don't try if i feel nothing.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:51 PM
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I don't know they look badass and strong in photos, but those that i have met were very soft and sweet instead, so what we see on IG has nothing to do with real life. Like models in porn poses might be the simplest girls in reality
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:01 PM
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I don't make money out of it for now, i just like photography very much, so I don't know how to get clients for that. As for the models you can search for Facebook groups in your area dedicates to meet other photographers/models/mua. Search smht like "Los Angeles models photographers collaborations". Another way is to DM models on IG and ask for a TF shoot (Time For, free for both parties). It's useless imo to pay models, if you are good at what you do you always find people that want to work wi…
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:41 PM
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You're right, in fact I want to learn to approach in order to capitalize to the eye contact I get. It makes me so angry to make wonderful eye contact and then not be able to approach. my idea is to try approach a lot without caring for the results just so that when I lock eyes with a girl i like i can go talk to her.
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:37 AM
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Haha I don't know but i have quite a chemistry with tattooed girls, so usually when I meet them before the shoot already when we say hello there is physical contact, so even if I'm professional I can tell if it's ok to flirt right on. Also during the shoot if they do everything i say instantly, or when I show them the pics on my camera they put their boobs on my shoulder etc
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:07 AM
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Thank you very much, I will apply this and do my best :)
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:49 PM
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Thanks man. Yes I have to force myself. I'm not scared at all of rejection and i don't even care about results, I just want to stop be afraid of talking to girls i don't knwo. I guess other than asking friends to come with me I'll try to jump straight to approaching without any progressive training. How was it for you?
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:01 PM
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