TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Fresh_Truth_8569 Archive

View 2 posts and 878 comments by Fresh_Truth_8569 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
52

DebateFresh_Truth_8569/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:16 PM
0

Question For MenFresh_Truth_8569/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:53 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
–

Hold up. You feel the sweat less when it’s held tightly against your skin? Hahahaha Do you also feel less wet when you are swimming in a pool? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:32 AM
–

These don’t sound like valid reasons. Go somewhere else to workout. The whole thing is a pet peeve of mine. Wear appropriate clothes to the venue you are attending. Gyms need to be enforcing strict dress codes on both genders. I don’t go to the gym to see teen girls walk around in their bras. It’s distracting at a time when I need focus!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:28 AM
4

Having a 7 to 3 gender ratio can make an insane difference and that’s about where most universities are at right now. When I was in college and it was 6 to 4… I got a lot of benefit out of it. Especially coming from a high school where the girls treated me like I was invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:19 AM
–

Is it really not worth it? Our moral systems are not what they once were. Maybe this guy is Palestinian and can therefore do whatever the hell he wants and left wing women who run HR will accept it. Any workplace that is ideologically left leaning has a separate moral code for people based on their identity status. I’ve seen people get away with outrageous stuff in these settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:15 AM
1

This is a complicated dance. I can see how you might think this is just a basic thing, because we all talk like fidelity is something you are going to get… but it’s always conditional and most women are not going to make the requirements for it. This is why dating is so damn hard for women right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:07 AM
-3

You don’t seem to understand what makes a nice guy. Jimmy was about 4 when his mom remarried a super rich guy. She went on to have 5 kids with the guy. Jimmy has never been allowed in the house around the other kids. He actually grew up in the garage. They would go on family vacation and leave Jimmy at his grandparents house. He’s tall, handsome, not particularly smart, but he’s always been In desperate need for someone to love him. His real father supposedly loved him a lot, but overdosed and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:01 AM
1

I wouldn’t read it like that. There are reasons why you get different things from different people. In some ways this is healthy as you aren’t expecting too much from one person, but typically it’s a defence mechanism to keep lovers at an emotional distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:52 AM
2

It takes some time to gain an understanding of the world around you. It sounds like you have started forming opinions about yourself that may become self limiting over time. My suggestion is begin picking things that you think you might like and just throw yourself into them obsessively. It will help you learn about yourself and your capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:49 AM
2

I think you are correct in what you are saying, but it needs to be added that most women in western countries are totally incompetent at comprehending male behaviour patterns and thought processes. I can generally tell within about a month of knowing a guy what kind of husband and father he will be. Most women don’t know until the third year of marriage and the second kid. There are lots of reasons why this goes on and why it’s totally different in a lot of sub cultures, but that’s for another t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:40 AM
7

If a man can get 1 gf then he can get 2. Fact. You are thinking hookups, Do not evaluate male quality based on hookup availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:21 PM
-1

It isn’t the bare minimum. Most guys don’t offer this. Pull your head out of your bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:12 PM
16

You don’t experience this the same way as men do, so the entire conversation goes way the fuck over your head. My buddy Jimmy is a nice guy. Met this girl at a house party and she was a bit drunk. They kissed, had a long deep conversation, he got her number and she asked him to go pick up some snacks from the corner store, but didn’t want to leave her friend to go with him to pick them up. When we got back she was gone. Left to have sex with another guy who didn’t care she was drunk. Wound up da…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:11 PM
6

Actually… yes they do. It’s rare to find feminists who speak against it. I can actually count the articles written about a prominent politician who without any proof was mocked for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:48 PM
0

Most Greek men got it up the butt as boys and continued that into adulthood. Think about that. Also realize there were no hospitals if a guy with a big one got really rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:46 PM
5

This is backwards. Society places a lot of value on your size and some men with this issue are capable of ignoring it and some aren’t. I realized how gross people were on this topic when they started trying to use it against Trump. I knew in that moment that although I disliked him… his opponents were worse people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:43 PM
-5

That isn’t true. We just understand that women tend to be loyal to their feelings while men tend to be loyal to their spouse. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:02 PM
2

Yes they do adjust. Thats the whole point of hypergamy. They adjust to their own perceived status. They have done multiple studies that show women both adjust up and down. Men are the ones who don’t change… which means if you put 100 beautiful women around your wife it won’t make her look worse to you. The same is not true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:00 PM
1

At the end of the day… so looks really matter that much to your life? Beautiful women are always disappointing in my experience…. And often a pain in the ass too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:55 PM
0

As a general rule, yes. Of course you will find some who don’t care, and others who think they can just force rich people to pay it off for them. However, most of us who work are very worried. If you look at data on the issue… married women are very worried too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:51 PM
3

Lol… “On this sub” as if it has any impact on anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:09 PM
7

I’d take a chubby ugly wife with children over pointless hookers who pretend to like you. I highly value children though, so to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:07 PM
-1

It’s more of a responsibility than a right, isn’t it? Beyond that, I basically agree with you. I don’t think stupid voters are a gendered issue. The key here is that single women clearly have different priorities than everyone else. Most men look at the deficit and worry how they are going to pay that debt back. Single women look at it and wonder how much more they can get before it runs dry. That seems like a very rational choice. Let’s just face it, sometimes people are on opposite sides of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:58 PM
-8

You need to define “serves our interests”. Because these things are complicated and men look at relationships differently in many regards. For example, the highly attractive and popular man that cheats and punches his wife in the face is meeting some needs but not others. The boring accountant husband who is loyal and faithful gets dumped with high frequency. Men see these things as irrational because men are using a different emotional lens to evaluate them. When it comes to voting… women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:24 PM
0

Trump talking about chickenheads is not shocking. We’ve all met these women at one point or another. I personally think if Joe Biden said the same thing you’d be laughing like it was the funniest joke ever. This is why nobody takes this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:57 AM
0

Politics generally revolves around stupidity and lack of knowledge. Morals just don’t come into play. The first time I saw a 4D ultrasound of a baby at 25 weeks… I was fucking horrified that people would legally kill someone that defenceless for reasons of money and laziness. No moral person can desire to kill a baby. That doesn’t mean ignorant ass people will do it because they don’t know. Evidence of this is that most mothers will choose to not kill the child if shown an ultrasound. I actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:51 AM
1

Epstein was friends with everyone. I personally feel like he was working for the CIA… but who knows. Trump… I always hated the guy, but after that assassination attempt it set me straight on who the bad guys really are. What rubs me wrong about Trump today is what I hated about him 20 years ago. The arrogance and the bragging. Sets my teeth on edge, but what can you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:45 AM
0

He’s creepy with kids man, always has been. His daughters diary has some stuff that suggests child molestation of some kind. Obama hate the fucker… and you know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:39 AM
0

My point is twofold. Trump wasn’t convicted because the evidence was so damn week it’s probably a lie. Yeah he is a shit person, but making yourself into a liar does not convince people. I mean it probably feels like scoring points, but it isn’t. Second, we have lots of terrible people in politics I don’t know where he came from but Obama is one of very few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:37 AM
14

Lots of people adopt. There isn’t any shame or deception involved. My uncle adopted his ex wife’s daughter after she divorced him and abandoned the girl in order to start a new family with a super rich guy. It wasn’t selfless. He knew she wasn’t his from day 1 because she was like 5 or 6. He loved the kid and wanted her to stay with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:39 PM
5

Yeah… I think you misread that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:05 PM
-4

The problem is that it’s like saying that the guy looks like. Jew and you know how Jews are… so you won’t date him. Not only is it wrong, but it’s offensive too. How hard is it to just ask someone what their values are?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:01 PM
2

Yes, if you date a foreign woman that looks good, American women will treat her like absolute shit. It’s insane to see this work, but I’ve got a few friends that married women from other places. One in Particular married a Kenyan woman who is absolutely stunning. She is totally ostracised within his normal social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:59 PM
7

Bill Clinton? I didn’t realize he was running again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:52 PM
3

Sure, but a 10% shift in just 4 years for a very well known candidate… that’s an earthquake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:49 PM
3

Framing matters. The win for men is that they are coming together and putting race/ethnicity aside. That hasn’t happened before. Everyone should celebrate that in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:41 PM
3

They straight up hate on men. Just Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:34 PM
-4

It’s a win for men in two ways but only one can be publicly discussed. Stuff like that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:33 PM
-6

Those are pretty nebulous issues. Reproductive care. Is that daycare? To my mind all of those things are highly situational, and anyone who is so rigid they think of these things as core values rather than being positions guided by core values is just a terrible person. Luckily I find that about 70% of people agree on the core stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:31 PM
1

Core values are not the same as say a difference in minimum wage policy. I mean if you go by core values 2/3rds of the Populist Trump voters share core values with Bernie Sanders! Actually a lot of them started as Bernie Bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:22 PM
6

What I’m pointing out is that the subreddit in question is no different than what goes on in a public school, university, government agency, or media corporation. However, this subreddit has no power and no reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:12 PM
42

This sub isn’t exactly stuff you say publicly. On the other hand I was at the airport the other day and they had The View on every TV. I think to claim this stuff is equal is so blatantly dishonest that it’s just best to not comment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:03 PM
1

Not exactly prime time TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:47 PM
–

No because MGTOW doesn’t have a stated goal of trying to manipulate women. 4B absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:37 PM
1

No, something like 70% of the worlds women probably share your values. BUT only about 25% of the ones where you live… IF you live in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:32 PM
1

I think you are mixing up and conflating ideas. Like you won’t date anyone who doesn’t share your policy ideas? That just seems wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:30 PM
-3

I think most people just aren’t exposed to real arguments… women in particular. I mean how many of them still believe in the wage gap despite a near perfect debunking decades ago. I mean Obama had a larger gender wage gap among his staff than in the regular economy and he openly said they were discriminating in favor of women really hard. Did all the women just think he was a closet sexist and liar? Or maybe they were never told this was happening? There is an entire industry designed around fak…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:19 PM
1

I and most of the guys I know just put up a front. The progressive women aren’t really going to make good partners long term anyway because their belief set seems to be a mental disease or cluster B personality trait. Plenty of them grow out of it, but fewer than before. So if you want a real life partner you got just date the dipshits until you find someone decent. I will say this… there is a reason people change. Like racists have a hard time staying racist if they are friends with the race th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:03 PM
-2

I don’t think they are actually. If you ever have a conversation with someone about their actual politics, like on a policy by policy level… what you find is that most people don’t have a clue… they just vote however the people around them vote. This is especially true for younger women!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:52 PM
0

I’ve never understood this attitude. Political beliefs seem downstream of so many other important things and the options are kind of binary in most places. I think spiritual beliefs are super important along with life goals. Those things tend to line up with politics but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:48 PM
9

Women DO chase men. They do it all the time. They just don’t chase normal guys. You need to admit this. Regarding the brainwashing… for women it’s to push them into believing only the top highest tier of men are worthy… and that their mere existence makes them deserving of such men. It’s pure fucking delusion, but yeah you are correct here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:22 AM
–

100% fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:09 AM
3

People can learn by failing or by watching others fail. Most so the former, but the intelligent do the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:09 AM
-10

You mean Trans women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:07 AM
-2

A lesser extent? Look, they are given less brainwashing In public institutions… otherwise they do this naturally while men typically don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:06 AM
5

I know more than one gay friend who would agree with this. Can’t think of any straight ones. Once women involved it’s a different deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:02 AM
7

It’s all poison. Sure some guys can hammer down 10 aspirin and then walk away Ok… while the guys who drink the whole bottle of aspirin with a whiskey chaser are in bad shape. I think there is something inherently devaluing in hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:58 AM
3

It’s only empowering if you are stupid to the point of insanity. I’ve met a few women brainwashed to that point. It’s like believing that cutting your arms with a razor blade every night is empowering. I mean yeah I’m sure it feels like that at times… but it also means you are crazy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:56 AM
–

You basically sound like a 400lb fat chick with terrible skin disbelieving that losing weight and getting rid of the acne will make men desire you more. It’s dumb… like epic level dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:42 AM
-8

How did you not have a bad boy phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:38 AM
6

That sounds like very good advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:36 AM
2

That actually sounds like someone who has a ton of life experience… and who has a general ability with women, albeit unhealthy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:34 AM
–

I think a lot of boys… especially in the middle class and below… are raised to basically see themselves as pay pigs. Success brought me out of that mindset and showed me how much of it was beaten into my mind through a female dominate public school system. I feel like this is just an enormous system to destroy the lives of boys and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:31 AM
-6

Ouch! Virgin Bangmaid is about actions you take. Women want the billionaire heir pay pig, 6 foot 2 with flawless abs and a burning desire for only her…. That’s mostly about how you were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:23 AM
15

Are you working off the insane assumption that women don’t do the same? I think far more men are realistic. It’s the low experience chumps that believe women are wonderful. The rest of us generally are only interested so far as she has good qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:20 AM
10

There are levels of attraction bro. While AF/BB isn’t something every woman does, you should recognise that there are quite a few that do this AND that it’s not an intentional thing. You will almost never meet a woman who understands how her own attractions work. Instead most just work on archetypes and other simplistic methods of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:50 PM
13

Those are narcissistic traits, not feminine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:45 PM
5

There is a another view that this is not an inherently biological thing so much as a cultural phenomenon that hijacks positive feminine instincts for the exploitation of elite men. I mean if you think about it… the whole thing is essentially attached to one ideological group set. In a lot of other cultures women tend to mitigate their own desires for men with low quality fatherhood traits. The bad boy phase for them is an entirely teen phenomenon… it doesn’t last until late 20’s or on into 40s f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:43 PM
1

I don’t know any couple that has done well with polyamory
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:24 PM
-3

I think it’s deeper. If you chase empty things, you end up empty yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:55 PM
1

I think this is the exact reason. No matter what it’s never enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:53 PM
5

This whole concept presupposes an entirely male supported infrastructure. Like if all the men just packed up and left the country… women would not be able to survive. Like imagine all the Ukrainian guys just said “Fuck it” and moved to Poland. How long do you think the women would last before they all become slaves to whatever Russian guy wants them??! Are single women doing well? I think they aren’t. The female loneliness issue is maybe 1 or 2% points below men. Most of them work shit jobs for …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:50 AM
1

It’s a bit different in every country but women from the Philippines are very kind in my experience. I’ve known a lot of guys who married women from there and when we start swapping divorce stories they just don’t have anywhere near the bad experiences the rest of us have had. I think what you are going to find is that there is a mindset difference, and most men can feel it. American women have a giant chip on their shoulders and will not be happy putting family first. Also… they are terrible mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:41 AM
2

It happens, but it’s not very common. I see it mostly with 2nd generation French Arabs… and situations like that. Not Saudis for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:26 AM
3

How do they get married then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:23 AM
4

That isn’t how men think, nor is it what men care about in a relationship. If a guy who is upset that his wife wants to take time to raise her kids… it’s because the man is a loser. That isn’t what’s going on in relationships where American men marry women from overseas. These men tend to have money and careers. The struggle with American women is their selfish attitude and insane greed. At least that’s true within the pool of late 20s early 30s singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:58 AM
1

Think about the attitude implied by each for a moment. Then tell me what you would do as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:38 AM
5

What developing country? I’ve been all over and I can’t think of even 1 Asian country where the women are on average worse than the US… although the Thai are pretty close. I think most of this perception comes from never having dated women in the west and just listening to the bullshit they spew. It’s all lies honey. Women in Asia are no angels, but they aren’t terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:03 AM
3

Um… in a virginity hysteria culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:56 AM
21

This is for wealthy Arabs. I know 2 guys who married into ME cultures and both got absolute gems. First guy is Iranian and married an Iraqi… expensive but affordable. Second guy is American and married a secular Syrian woman. Big wedding and some support for her parents but that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:18 AM
3

It depends on the culture. The Romans had a difficult time with Germanic women. They often killed themselves rather than be taken slaves. Also.. they would stand in a ring by the wagons near the battle and any husband, brother, or father who fled to save themselves would be stabbed to death by the women who all carried long knives. Most of the women captured after these battles were trying to kill Romans rather than just stab themselves. I read a report from Marius that estimated out of 50,000 w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:48 AM
3

No, it’s the cost of divorce and the social pressure on men that relationship failures mean they aren’t good enough. Having no options is better that this hoebag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:36 AM
–

You are blowing up this thread. It’s honestly not that easy. You have to have a fun, free, non-judgmental energy to you. Without some charm or at least some really good looks, not many are going to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:10 AM
–

You had to pursue them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:04 AM
–

LOL… you should have been with the Red Pill crew in 2014. Good lord it was wild shit. A 20 notch count a year increase wasn’t outside the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:03 AM
–

Ok, Ive been to one of these and it’s not that cool. Not many people that are good looking or even young.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:59 AM
–

Seriously? Everyone loves sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:51 AM
–

Ever see her child support checks? My God, her milkshake must have been no joke, like $100,000 a month for one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:49 AM
–

Naw, the butt hurt is not from men she doesn’t mess with. It’s the stable polite nice guy with a solid income and nothing exciting about him that she dates later in life. That is the guy who gets upset, and I don’t think anyone really has a valid argument to say he shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:46 AM
–

Ah, actually this is proven by research. Beta provider men… women use the shit out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:40 AM
4

I’ve heard some raunchy stories like a French woman who did 8 local men one right after the other in Jamaica.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:55 AM
3

Their ranch has a part that takes guests, so they already have a full catering company on staff. The thing is like 10,000 acres.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:11 AM
4

Look, I could be just totally and utterly wrong. Maybe there is stuff I don’t see or don’t think about. So, what kind of things do you mean? Like eyebrow plucking? Fashion choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:07 AM
4

Of course, but they don’t enjoy overweight or out of shape men staring at their ass? Or am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:05 AM
11

And it’s not just ~makeup~ but women put so much attention to detail into having a nice appearance. It’s just that the effort is often not as hyper visible compared to looking at a guy who clearly has a progressive fitness routine and grooms himself for example. I think most women want a man who’s their efforts-match. I fully understand the amount of time that things like makeup require. I often watch women getting ready for the day and it's definitely a time consuming routine. The reason it jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:53 AM
3

I don’t want a man to stare at my ass in line at the bar. I want a man to stare at my ass because he can’t catch me in a race. I don't really understand. Is this an attraction to fat slow guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:37 AM
5

I've seen a few of them try it. The big problem is the kind of person willing to uproot their whole life like that is by definition kind of a bum with nothing else going on and the odds of them even being legally able to work a decent job in the U.S. isn't that great. I've seen more the ones that are ambitious, get a job and just vanish the moment the paperwork comes through. The guy in particular was from Ghana. Awesome guy really, she picked well. I just suspect he changed his mind after exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:25 AM
3

This is categorically untrue. Highly unattractive women who hit up extremely attractive men are much more likely do get rudely rejected than if the genders were reversed. I suspect this is mostly due to fear on the part of the attractive woman and that if she didn't have so much fear she would be just as rude as a man would in rejection, because in both situations it's an attack on their status. The overall point being men do not use the word creep on women. As for Pearl Davis, she's hot, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:45 AM
2

They THINK their options are pretty good here in the US, but I suspect they really aren't as good as the ladies believe they are. I really recommend women at least put some thought into it if they are struggling here. A lot of crappy men in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:16 PM
0

Yeah, but isn't that why you are bringing in mass immigration? Gotta keep the tourists happy somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 11:01 PM
17

if I'm generalizing, seem to be less-than-gorgeous older white women doing this in African and Hispanic countries. So, I've got a female friend who has spent like 10 years doing NGO work in foreign countries. When she goes to Africa, she and all the other workers date the local guys so much it just feels like it might as well be one giant orgy. When they go to Asia... they basically live like nuns and honestly I just can't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:58 PM
5

LOL... I guess that Zohan movie by Adam Sandler had a big impact on these communities. Seriously though, my cousin spent 20 years in US Special forces. When he wasn't on deployment we would hang out and go shooting or camping. One time he brought along a friend who was Isreali special forces. If the regular IDF soldiers had his general attitude and demeanor... I really don't blame those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:55 PM
10

The Rent-A-Dred ladies are just sex tourists. More power to them, but they don't bring these guys back. Also, 90 day fiancé is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:49 PM
–

No, it’s not about equality otherwise they wouldn’t use the code word for special advantage. They had equality two generations ago. The NBA subsidizes the WNBA, but if women watched women’s basketball as much as they watch the Kardashians… it would be as profitable as the NBA. The whole thing is about having power over men. Facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:31 PM
–

It’s a phase most boys go through. They start by being polite, when that fails, they try being demanding, when that fails, they try being interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:21 PM
1

I fully remember when I was a kid being entirely convinced by women that what mattered was how well you treated her. If you asked a girl what kind of guy she wanted, this is all the stuff she would say. Never would she say I just want a really hot guy. It wasn't until my senior year in high school when a female friend was complaining about being sexually assaulted by a football player at a party that I started to realize all of this was bullshit. I listened to her complain about this encounter, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:30 PM
1

I'm a millennial guy and never in my life felt lied to about whether or not looks matter. It was quite obvious. My sisters and female friends talked about guys being cute/hot all the time. Did you grow up in an English speaking country?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:15 PM
4

I’m exaggerating, but seriously if you don’t talk to her for about 15 minutes first, your chances are basically zero. What you have to understand is that women have to feel safe first and that Feminist scare tactics plus MeToo has made them extremely sensitive to any aggressive tactics. Also Europe is a shit show because they did a poll and found 97% of women 18-24 have been sexually harassed by Muslim immigrants. So they are just super afraid to be approached all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:54 PM
–

It was a joke…. And I wasn’t intending to send you to porn sites. I don’t even want to know that fetish. The point is that as someone who has been with a lot of partners… I know the drawbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:26 AM
–

Or they spent a long time in relationships. Duh. That’s why promiscuous people tend to suck at long term stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:19 AM
–

Well the problem is that there are more promiscuous women than men, by at least 2 to 1. And as one of those guys… I have a lot more choice than the ladies do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:17 AM
–

Of course it a fundamental poor fit. You did the smart thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:45 AM
–

Not a bad point, but most of them don’t stick to husbands very long. If you want to find them they are all over in the “TakingEverything” divorce subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:44 AM
–

Her homeless man fetish needed exploring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:30 AM
2

I've said it before and I will say it again... I like Pearl Davis. She isn't the hottest, but she's tall and built, has an interesting personality. She's definitely willing to stand up to assholes. Most of the pill guys dont' like her because she is tall and that makes them feel insecure. When she gets tired of doing her influencer thing... I'm going to hit her up for sure. Maybe I got a .01% chance, but I'm definitely going to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:20 AM
–

If I pick them up I can get a pretty good idea, but yeah, all those pics look like 150 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:17 AM
3

You can say that, but the fact that they vocally shit on literally every woman they’ve ever met says otherwise. If all they wanted was a loving relationship, they wouldn’t expend so much energy trying to be so pointlessly hateful. Look these are all very left wing guys, raised by feminist moms in a participation trophy culture and told from birth that men are toxic and bad. They internalize all this stuff and it feels like to them they need to make themselves smaller so that girls can get bigger…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:15 AM
–

I would happily date almost all of those body types... are they really 170?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:34 AM
2

I'm not super pretty or feminine but I don't think I'm freakishly ugly or manly at all. I'm not some fantastic looking guy either, but most people don't hate on me, and I'm pretty chatty. I live in Seattle, and people are pretty damn anti-social, but the guys also tend to be really polite to women, much more likely to just ignore you. I mean I don't care what a woman look like, I chat up old women constantly, they tend to be my favorite people to talk with. I'm not an Instagram model for sure. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:26 AM
3

It very much is aimed at shaming western women for not catering exclusively to their desire for submissive virgin homemakers who worship men and act like their fantasy waifu. That’s why there’s also so much chattering about how western women sure will be sorry when all those good men abandon them for nice sweet foreign ladies. They’re absolutely trying to scare western women they view as uppity into behaving the soft feminine helpless ways they want women to act. Do you really think that's what …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:54 AM
3

Nothing wrong with that. As kids get older they need less from mom in my opinion and much more from the father. The fathers main job the first two years is helping mom and bonding with the child as much as he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:29 AM
3

It just blows my mind. Wait? Are you in Texas and have like purple hair or something? Or an LA resident that wears a MAGA hat? It could be something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:52 PM
1

My longest relationship was from a woman who hit me up on Facebook. She actually stalked the shit out of me. It really caught me by surprise because I thought she was hot, but I had gained 10 pounds and felt pretty bad about myself. Yes, she was a single mom, but also like almost perfectly my level of hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:50 PM
3

I can't even imagine that... like nobody is that ugly. What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:46 PM
1

I don't think those guys turn them down, they just open up the scheduler and their like... I've got a slot open between at 2:15am but you have to be gone by 2:45am. Here is my address, you have to pay for your own Uber out and back. Well at least that's what I do.... except I've got better time slots available.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:44 PM
4

It depends on what class you are in. Upper Middle Class, women's money is play money. I'm not sure what middle and lower middle class people do. I assume the lower classes spend both incomes on food and rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:41 PM
0

Hahaha... that man is delusional!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:13 PM
2

I feel like doing it from a position of power and authority to impressionable children is horrifying, and since all of grew up with that experience, and nobody can speak about it publicly without getting cancelled. What options do men have? They are pissed and walking out. The language isn’t really aimed at you, it’s designed to help give other guys the guts to walk away too. We have to use anger. If you go and cry about it nobody gives a shit. It’s kind of that simple. This stuff just isn’t aim…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:28 PM
2

Whoah, slow down with the cuck talk! Save that for your guy. Phytoestrogens aren’t particularly bad for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:20 PM
5

Does it not bother you even a little when shitty women online say horrible things about average men like “men are trash” or “the bar is on the floor” or “kill all men” or “a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle” or whatever? It’s very reasonable for you to find such things offensive and hurtful. (Women who say things like that are trash, btw). I don't think most of us care when women say this stuff online. We naturally have a certain amount of thick skin and ability to deal with offensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:51 PM
1

I tell women to do this all the time. Fat acceptance for women is much better in South America and Africa. The only issue with Africa is that I've seen those guys just vanish once all the paperwork comes through, but still I think it's a risk work taking!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:40 PM
2

I actually know that exact woman! I'm pretty good friends with her and she isn't going to date her looks match. Flat out she is in an FWB relationship with a personal trainer. Actually, she suggested on time that the personal trainer is her looks match, and I just smile and nod. Honestly, she's a great person and I hope she gets everything she wants out of life. Oh, I should also mention she owns a very successful business and is rich as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:37 PM
9

Who cares what they say. These guys aren't men you were ever willing to date anyway. Isn't there some soy guzzling buzzfeed writer you should be hitting up instead of wasting your time here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:32 PM
3

You think getting out of a bad marriage is easy with no support system? If he controls all the money? In the US you are absolutely surrounded by support and help. I've never seen this stop a woman from leaving. I've seen it delay her a month or two, but it doesn't stop anyone. I have an xGF who came to the US through marriage from the Philippines. She said her biggest impediment was actually making the decision to go. They had a kid together and he lost his job... everything just went downhill. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:29 PM
-5

These guys just run lazy ass basic direct game. "Hey sexy, Let's go back to my place and fuck!" "What's you number?" When she says no. "Fuck you slut, you ugly anyways" Then they come crying back to the Red Pill that PUA doesn't work. It's fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:07 PM
2

I manage a team of reps that sells equipment to surgeons. I used to do that myself for years. I cannot even begin to explain how much I agree with you. As someone whose job and income relied on convincing surgeons to use something new, that they often don't want to use... your assessment is 100% accurate. I always tell them not to try and argue, because you will lose. Instead, you listen and try to make what you have fit what they want. Your ex-husband was a fool, and his insecurity was probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:03 PM
5

No, if a woman wants out she gets out. These marriages are just happier. The guys tend to be less physically appealing, but significantly better husbands. The exceptions are typically the men who make under $50k, although let's be honest. The women involved here are the ladies that local guys don't want. Like if a woman in Vietnam can marry an awesome Vietnamese guy... they are going to do that first. Foreign guys only become interesting when the quality local men aren't an option. That's just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:33 PM
4

That's just your jealousy speaking. Almost all of these women are hard workers and have no issue getting a job. The work permit doesn't take that long, so they are only dependent for about a year. The fact is that they are attracted to men that American women just aren't. So, there is no point getting salty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:19 PM
7

I had a high school friend named Katrina who was really big. Sweetest most awesome girl I knew. I was a total shitshow, but my friend was competing for Valedictorian and was very tall, handsome, all that stuff, wound up going to Harvard. She had the biggest crush on him, even wrote him a love letter despite me suggesting she not. He didn't even acknowledge it, just pretended like he didn't read it, claimed it fell out of his pocket before he read it. We all came back home after our Freshman year…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:07 PM
7

It doesn't really work like that. If you knew maybe 1000 girls in high school and none of them liked you, it's pretty easy to assume that whatever woman you meet in the future would have felt the same way, especially for guys that change significantly. Does that make sense? I was never particularly bitter about it, because my family was nuts, and I was going through stuff in high school. I didn't want to date. There are a couple of girls who participated in bullying me, and one female friend who…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:42 PM
3

I recognize the graph from dating app studies. So, keep that bias in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:27 PM
3

This is all about how you do it. If you strike up a conversation first and flash your personality a bit, then look for in indicator of interest... your chances of success go up much higher. If you just randomly walk up to women and ask for her number or sex... I knew a guy who was a doppelganger of Chris Hemsworth to the point where people would take pictures with him thinking he's really the guy. I've watched that guy get rejected 20 out of 20 times just walking up and lazily asking for a numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:03 PM
1

Walking into a surgeons office and buying a pair of tits isn't more effort. It's just these surgeries aren't available for men. How much effort does liposuction take? Look, none of this is real effort to be attractive, it's just all fake bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:59 PM
5

This is primarily just projection. There are really two types of guys doing this stuff. The ones you are addressing here are primarily just sex tourists and they almost exclusively see prostitutes. The guys who are actually looking for wives very rarely hold the views you are claiming they espouse. Their actual views on things are highly diverse, but not frequently contradictory. So for example Passport bros who want a traditional woman are almost always making enough money to support a family. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:56 PM
0

Doesn't matter. I still find you much more believable than the above posters. Take that however you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:57 PM
1

That's actually really awesome. I'm in an industry were most of us make about the same kind of money he does. I can tell by your response here that you are high quality! We have to be fairly high performance in order to succeed at work and most of the men around me are at least 10 or more years older, so I see how they live and what they like. You are spot on that many of them including myself greatly prefer soft and feminine, which if I'm a little bit blunt, the women in our roles don't do. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:35 PM
0

1%? It's way more than that. Every couple has their own energy... and it's complicated to navigate. No means No, except when it means Yes. I'm not going to stay in this country forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:39 AM
1

Ambien and Viagra at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:59 AM
1

That isn't a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:56 AM
1

Also, the concept of SMV is stupid It can be a useful concept in certain circumstances, but you are correct because it doesn't really exist. Your attractiveness to one person can be wildly different to another. It's one of the reasons I greatly dislike the sexual relationships to economics comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:52 AM
-1

Unlike the others, I actually believe you when you say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:48 AM
1

I do wish he’d fuck me more but…you can’t have it all 😂 I've got a good friend who matches the description of this guy pretty well. Finally left his second wife at almost age 60 and moved in with his long time lover and now husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:47 AM
6

This is just something special to Gen X. I see some Gen X women looking better than 20 year olds who have that botoxed ozempic face with weird duck lips. I'm a millenial and I've got most of my high school on facebook and those women look terrible. So, just enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:43 AM
8

Things have definitely changed in the last 5 or 6 years. You can see it in the survey data. I agree that men should be more respectful and initiate in the right way, but the right way is very individual to the woman you are dating. So, how exactly do you propose that people navigate this without the woman doing something like explaining how she wants this done? Why is that idea so offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:38 AM
11

Then what's going to happen is the assholes are going to learn to maximize their sexual aggressiveness, and the polite respectful guys are going to wind up getting frustrated and hating women. Or we can just have the young women be responsible for explaining what they like... is that too difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:54 AM
9

Actually it was kind of traumatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:47 AM
10

That's a joke. She made me feel like a rapist. I can't imagine any man who isn't enjoying a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:47 AM
12

No, this is 100% her fault. It's her job to explain and show how she wants a man to initiate with her. Younger men especially don't have the experience required to understand what can and should be done. We have done a really good job lately of making sure boys learn to be respectful and polite, but that means women need to step up and not expect men to be mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:36 AM
9

There isn’t a special amount of sexuality men need to show if anything it’s safer for everyone of men air on the side of caution. I agree. However, women also need to take responsibility for their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:30 AM
17

You can be sexually interested and respectful at the same time. While this is factually correct, the devil is in the details. I had an xGF that said no absolutely every time. She had just moved into my place, and I felt like maybe there was an issue with that so I went to talk to her about it. She tells me that, she just never feels like it, but that if I push hard enough and get her to do it, then she will enjoy it. I did that for about a month, but it just made me feel like crap, so I called i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:21 AM
1

I don't know about you, but if we wind up fighting Russia, I'm staying home and working in the factories. The first thing we need to do is form up some Feminist Battalions and let them fight. I suppose if we run out of them, THEN we can pull some men up to fight, but I'm going to be 100% against until the girlbosses have had the chance to prove themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:05 AM
1

I personally think Bill Clinton is the best fit in terms of a description. Trump was born rich and I don't think he would be a successful politician in any other era. I suspect the leadership qualities that he has, do not come to him naturally, but through years and years of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:18 AM
2

How Alpha is it to just walk away from your children? Honestly, if you look at studies, Alpha males are not what the Red Pill describes them as being. These big strong dominant aggressive men... those guys usually work for Alphas. An Alpha is the one that can build coalitions and groups of other males and get them working together towards a goal. Leaders are rarely the biggest, meanest men, because that kind of power dominance is going to make other men refuse to work with you. Competence and Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:10 PM
1

Ouch!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:03 PM
8

This is probably the most simple answer to any question posed in this subreddit. That happens because they are assholes... it's a pure selfish asshole move. You know how some little kids like to build towers out of blocks, and then there is always one jackass who wants to knock them all down and see how the pieces fall? Yeah, it's the same thing. They hate your faith, they hate that you value yourself, they hate that you won't just give them what they want. So, they give it their best shot to tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:02 PM
1

I really can't think of a better reaction to such a statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:48 PM
2

Oh, now that's very interesting! I have a friend who is bisexual and very drawn to feminine energy, and it just doesn't matter if it's a male or a female. I have a few kind of competing theories in my head regarding how human sexuality really works... as in what is the driving force behind it. The expression of it is just so wonderfully varied among people, but among those difference exist some very striking similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:44 PM
1

Yeah, I noticed that girls while doing much better at school, careers, and earning much more money... the polling data shows them just as stressed and lonely. So, part of this is just in the air or something. I think boys actually need something different from a school system than girls do. I think they need discipline, and they need someone to expect things of them. If you think about the social messaging that boys get, most of their masculine impulses are labeled as toxic. They are lectured ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:37 PM
0

I think that makes sense in a way. So my guess would be that you like women to have a strong effeminate energy, and men to have a strong masculine one? No judgement here just interested in learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:40 PM
2

I think what you are dealing with here is that your wife is a mentally healthy person. I think a lot of other folks have just never faced struggles in their life and are totally self absorbed. They have this list of stuff they want from a partner and just would rather be alone than compromise. In a previous thread one poster basically said if she wants a pizza then nothing else is worth eating. How healthy it is, or how it makes you feel afterwards is irrelevant. I suspect that such people are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:38 PM
1

What about you made her think differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:18 PM
1

Even if you are dating another woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:17 PM
1

Hmm… I will think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:07 PM
1

A good woman will help you succeed in life. She will work with you and encourage you. More importantly she will give you a motivation that you didn’t have before… she can give you a purpose. Also… a lot of guys focus on sex, but that’s because they can’t get it in sufficient quantities. Once you do, you realize the intimacy and love is what you really wanted. A bond much stronger than friendship exists there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:06 PM
1

That is a very interesting perspective. I’m very glad it’s working for you. How is your overall life trajectory looking? I know it’s been a strong progressive belief that men need to be more effeminate. Or at least allowed to express that. But what if you have a boy that doesn’t want that or feel comfortable with it? Or maybe it’s that I’m not understanding what you are saying. When you say boys are struggling with masculine gender roles, are you saying they can’t live up to them? And that other…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:33 PM
2

That is essentially how all men should behave. I may perhaps be less aggressive about it, but I also have no tolerance for poor behavior from people in general. My question is, how does this translate into your work life? My organization has so many women underperforming and nobody says anything about it. I just shove it into performance reviews and then hope someone does something about it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:57 PM
5

It's what you are picky about that matters. In general women need to raise some standards and practically ditch others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:40 PM
2

I would like to hear more about your thoughts and experiences, because if you look at polling data it’s mostly boys in your group that are failing at life and dropping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:15 PM
1

But technology shifts have made it less valuable on a day to day basis have they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:11 PM
3

Suicide rates, school attendance, and university attendance all suggest this is something new and different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:10 PM
1

I didn’t say women are evil. Women are good and bad just like men. What I think is going on is that the schools are structurally disadvantaging boys. I don’t think that’s their fault. At the same time workplaces are having discriminatory policies against young men and they didn’t choose that either. I also think the culture as a whole is absolutely toxic towards boys and too many elementary school teachers are radical misandrists. I mean would we let Klan members teach black kids? Or even teach …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:08 PM
1

That’s the Alcohol Pilled response. Drink until they all look good!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:01 PM
1

They have massive anxiety issues, do not feel comfortable at school, act depressed, and have low interest in anything beside call of duty. Someone mentioned earlier about camaraderie and brotherhood. A big shift between the generations that I hadn’t thought about is that they aren’t interested in sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:59 PM
–

About a year and an a half. It was awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:41 AM
1

Not thinking with your dick changes the way you see women, and what you are willing to tolerate from them. I'm curious if you could explain what you mean in this situation regarding what you will tolerate, and how do you typically deal with it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:07 AM
1

If I eliminated those feelings I'd have to eliminate her from my memories, and that's a happiness I'd rather not lose or miss out on so I'll gladly bear it. That feeling is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:03 AM
2

Oh... I've got a friend in that situation. So, he is VERY funny, but hyper anxious, 6'3" but nearly 500 pounds. Did a math major but couldn't do anything with it so he taught himself how to program in like 6 months and got an internship as a SWE, eventually that career took off for him. After being friends for 6 years, and I know he hadn't dated since high school. Well about 8 months ago he got a GF. Very pretty, but also a big girl. They actually really fit well together and he is so happy. So,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:58 AM
-2

A good woman is worth any price.... worth more than your own life. However, few men find something like that today, very few.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:47 AM
–

No, that's what YOU say. Women can do whatever they want. If they can land the man they desire, more power to them. My point was that Pizza isn't healthy for you, if the women around you are attracted to unhealthy relationships with bad men... then they are like indulgent children and you should not engage with them. There are billions of women out there, why waste your life on the shitty ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:50 AM
2

Thank you for your patience and polite explanation! I think that's a better term because nobody really trusts bisexual people. Like most people see bisexual men and apply the term "Bi now, Gay Later" So this is a good term to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:41 AM
–

LOL... Reading comprehension 10 - You 0. My point was clearly if you are surrounded by crap people, go somewhere else. Mic Drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:31 AM
8

Masculinity is different all over the globe. There are tons of ways to express it, some more healthy than others. He's my nephew, not my son. I don't know exactly how he feels about it or why he feels how he does. I just see a shit ton of kids like him. I'm not here to give you answers, because I don't have any. I think strength of mind and honor are universal, so is providing and caring for people... but what really hits home is that Comradery, Brotherhood, and Bravery... THAT sounds like somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:28 AM
3

Oh, that was the tone. It's hard to tell these things in text. Since beauty is entirely subjective...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:01 AM
–

No, I've faced plenty of criticism. I put a lot of discipline into them and push them to do things on their own. I've had stupid nosey moms screaming at me and threatening to call CPS. Have you ever had to face down a raging Karen? The difference is that I know what I'm doing is correct, and I don't give a crap what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:00 AM
–

Or... maybe you are just doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:54 AM
12

Expectations from a patriarchal society? What does that mean? Because when I talk to my nephew it doesn't sound like the "patriarchy" that's got him struggling. It sounds a lot more like he has internalized this message that boys suck and he doesn't feel like he has the right to succeed at anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:53 AM
2

Would you be willing to explain what that means? I'm unfamiliar with the term. I know Pan the Satyr from Mythology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:49 AM
–

Why does that sound... bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:47 AM
2

I don't know you, but I've worked with a dozen or so Insta Models in years past. They do not look the same in person. The thing is that a large piece of female beauty is just fake stuff. The things that really take true effort, like lean muscle are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:43 AM
–

This is just batshit. I spent quite a bit of time as a single dad. It's just not that hard, and it's also incredibly rewarding. There is nothing better on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:31 AM
1

Pan? I think maybe it depends on your age group and socioeconomic status. You look at the upper middle-class men and we outshine the women in our group by wide margins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:23 AM
5

Look, there is clearly something going on. It's like a third of an entire generation and they are just laying down and giving up, they are killing themselves at unprecedent rates, when they aren't shooting up schools they are shooting up heroine. Something is seriously wrong and I think it's immoral for you to ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:19 AM
13

I don't know bro... every boy in my family under 18 is in crisis mode and y'all don't give shit. Here is how this stuff works. If you want people to be kind to you, then you have to be kind to them first, and society isn't being kind to boys... it's been ripping them down for years. You remind me of this kid I knew growing up. He had his own dog and then his sister got a puppy. Maybe she was jealous or something but he used to kick that puppy all the damn time. Perhaps it just made him feel bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:53 PM
4

I worked in photography. They DO NOT look like that. The makeup artists and lighting make them look great, and when that fails I bust out photoshop. I don't know you, but seriously you are probably prettier than most Instagram models, you just don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:46 PM
4

I think it's popular with rappers. These women are trying to be chickenheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:44 PM
-1

Women are literally killing themselves getting bbls Those things look disgusting! Yes, women spend just piles and piles of money on quick fixes like liposuction and fake tits. The thing is that men are attracted to personality as well. They just don't want to date that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:42 PM
5

Well... that and it just isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:35 PM
14

In my eyes, they don't put in more effort, and they don't look better... men are just more accepting of mediocre looks. Of course, as another poster pointed out wisely... these things are all a matter of personal perception. I just find that a large part of female attractiveness in today's society is fakery.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:34 PM
3

What you type here is wise. Because looks are subjective and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it's impossible to say whether someone is wrong or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:32 PM
2

Well, if you noticed the Swedish feminists keep getting caught forcing these immigrants into sex for government benefits scandals. I mean let’s be honest, it immigration was all young single women with no chain migration allowed. Feminists would fight it tooth and nail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:49 PM
1

Look at what they were fighting for! Banning alcohol and the vote. That’s mostly it. The drinking domestic abuse thing… I don’t have any numbers on it, but some of that was just exaggerating to build up the moral imperative of the cause. It’s much more likely that alcohol was seen as an expensive male vice of the lower classes. Remember the women pushing for this are wealthy aristocrats, nobody is beating them. I suspect it was a way to get some of these more recent immigrants back to work and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:33 PM
2

Exactly. The end point of "no one is entitled to anything" is "why the fuck should I be following your rules?" Think about this for a moment. How much of what men used to provide for women is currently handled by the government? How many of the things that women typically provide to men are handled by the government? Do you see how important government is to women? Do you see why their entire lives and future plans are predicated on it's expansion?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:07 PM
1

Well... self-improvement benefits self primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:04 PM
3

for men. it didn't work for women or women wouldn't have wanted out of being dependent on men. This is a modern feminist critique. I find it overly simplistic and reductive along with anachronistic. It would be a much more correct to say that due to technology, biology, and the structure of society, women absolutely required men to survive, and men in return absolutely had to have women as well. That's why first wave feminism was absolutely obsessed with banning alcohol. Whiskey, and addiction w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:02 PM
5

Nietzsche basically looked at the world from a natural perspective. All of his general outlook towards life comes from his sense of Will to Power. As in Nature doesn't care about you, and you must overcome it if you are good enough, or die trying. He also viewed power as highly relational... as in relative to other powers. His ideas are not new. They actually cut straight back to Pre-Christian Europe. Let me quote Plato on this. "justice is nothing else than the interest of the stronger"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:47 PM
1

At that price, I can afford 2 or 3 fairly easy. Shit... I can probably make it tax deductible too. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:39 PM
4

We had a working contract… You mean the one where women were denied educational and financial independence? No, that was caused by technology and physical limitations. If you think 1900s women in Europe had the same rights and lives as say 1900s Ottoman Turkey... check your sanity. Who WAS that contract working for, because it sure as hell wasn’t for the bast majority of women AND Black men AND A lot of poor white men, too. It was working for everyone, but it was working a hell of a lot less for…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:37 PM
1

No, I totally agree that most women do this work without any real compensation. As for how much you should invoice your husband? Well, first you should add up all the stuff he does for you, and put a market dollar value on it, then all the stuff you do for him and again market dollar value it and then compare the two. I'm willing to bet they balance out pretty good, if not... well who cares as long as you are happy? Sometimes the things you personally value, aren't valued that much by the rest o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:26 PM
3

Not really, you are basically just telling men that they are either Übermensch, or they are not. Obviously, most men are not currently operating under this philosophy right now. It's very nihilistic, and to be blunt ever since it exploded the world 100 years ago every government and culture has been making it social suicide to follow this belief set. I really don't think that is going to last long, because it's the natural viewpoint of men in general to believe exactly what you are saying. The e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:20 PM
2

Think about it. Do you want to work for a CEO who pays himself crazy money and pays you the bare minimum? Or do you want to work for a CEO who gives himself moderate pay, and pays you more based on how hard you work for him? Think like a CEO. Yes, you will pay the woman generously, however, you will expect things from her in order to keep that position. She want's to know you aren't a stingy bastard, but she also want's to know you aren't a desperate loser as well. Highly permissive men will alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:12 PM
–

Here is a trick. Look good, feel good. Go get fit, and put on nice clothes. That will naturally boost your confidence a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:01 PM
1

LOL... no they don't. Prostitute and Personal Chef are the most likely combo you are going to see. Most of these guys are totally fine living in garbage and filth as long as the other two things are taken care of. It's the women who get frustrated and clean shit because they want it clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:00 PM
3

Yeah, this is Darwinist Nietzsche stuff. I'm not going to say it's wrong, but it ignores the beliefs that made all this civilization possible. My personal opinion is that we had a working social contract and feminist men and women are in the process of smashing it to bits. Once everyone realizes that it's broken beyond fixing, what comes next is unknown to me. I suspect that this western liberal style of government, men will just stop believing in it. I can already the extremes on both sides of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:56 PM
–

It's a meta-narrative that applies to the entire human population and we've all presumably had an awful lot of interactions with other humans and opportunities to observe other humans throughout our lives. It's not possible to have a large number of interactions with other people and not eventually notice that relationships aren't exclusive to attractive men and their harem of women. Not everyone is a hedonistic materialist. There are lots of women who want kids and families, so they look for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:30 PM
3

I'd say that source is experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:05 PM
2

You could get two and the donkey along with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:03 PM
1

Uh... Thats not asking much. I feel like that's way cheaper than the average wife/GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:03 PM
0

What? Maybe I need some coffee, but that sentence doesn't make sense. Are you asking why such a large portion of college educated couples married between 30 and 40 divorce withing 30 years at such a high rate? I don't know, the study didn't provide a reason. It just showed your chance of a marriage lasting once you hit a certain point. The early years showed a huge reduction in divorce from what I've seen of people in their 20s, but the overall curve remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:57 PM
0

Hitler WAS a socialist. Do you think he won Times Man of the Year award... the most notoriously left wing rag of it's day by talking about capitalism? Have you ever read anything Hitler ever wrote or how he governed? He was a vegetarian environmentalist for fucks sake. The only reason academics classified fascists as right wing was because Nazi's hated Jews. Now you can look at every college campus in the US and look at who is hating Jews. It's the great unmasking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:52 PM
2

One of the best thing men can to be successful with women is learn how to identify signs of interest and only pursue women that show those signs. Otherwise, you waste your time chasing people who aren't interested. No. The first step is learning how to CREATE interest. Then you need to learn how to TEST for interest. If you just sit back passively and wait for some woman to give you signals you are going to be waiting a long ass time, and you are going to miss most of your chances because women …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:48 PM
-3

In longitudinal studies the divorce rate for this group is still very high. I think the chances of making it past 30 years is like 41% or something. A man can get an almost 15% increase in the chance of avoiding divorce by just marrying a woman from overseas. Those have some of the best stats once you get past the 3 year mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:41 PM
2

I don't think it is explained well by economics, because if you view women as sellers of sex, then it doesn't explain the pressures they have in selling, or why they are willing to lower the price to the floor for one man, but not another. It's a blue pill version of sexuality that treats women and men like rational actors, when this stuff is almost entirely driven by irrational instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:37 PM
–

I don't think they get the opportunity, but definitely would if they could get away with it. I see guys who can get away with it, absolutely do tend to take this approach until it leaves them feeling cynical, anxious, and empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:24 PM
–

I'm 90% sure that's what's going on. I think this is basically what happens with most men. We just don't live in an area with lots of black men so he get's targeted. I don't really think this is out of the norm so much, but what really made my skin crawl was how some of them just acted like they had guaranteed access to his body. I've never experienced that. I'm sure a lot of women have and they hate it. I know he greatly dislikes it in most circumstances because he has standards, but also he ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:22 PM
–

You need to imagine yourself as you want to be, and then act in accordance. It sounds crazy, and it is a form of craziness, but over time you will just start to become more and more like that person. I suspect if you are autistic in some form then you will struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:17 PM
2

You know when we talk about Alphas, the Red Pill today just seems to assume that means a big mean muscular asshole, but I don't think that's how it works. Real Alphas are men who can convince other men to work for them. They tend to be extremely generous, organized, and competent. Think leadership qualities. Men don't choose just the biggest nastiest guy for a leader. They pick the guy that is going to help them win and bring them benefits!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:13 PM
2

My coworker... I should say friend since we have stayed in touch over the years, he shared with me one time that more than one of these women would use the N word with him during sex. The first time he was kind of shocked, but just rolled with it, later he was willing to lean into it with a GF, but by age 26 or so he had totally changed his mind. I never asked him what did it, but he seriously had no shortage of interested women, so I think he just decided he wanted a more serious relationship a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:07 PM
0

All the conservatives I know are married and have been married for a long time, and they seem to have a lot of kids. Do I think they are out having casual sex? Probably not much, and they probably don't pursue it as much. Do I think that the guys getting lots, and lots of casual sex are left leaning... absolutely. They tend to be very hedonistic and materialistic... those are core left leaning traits. I don't mean to disparage them. However it's also very clear that growing up in a left wing hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:33 PM
8

Nobody has ever denied that very attractive men get a lot of attention from women. The problem with so many guys in this thread is that they think women are comically averse to the bottom 80% of guys. Anybody who isn't completely divorced from reality knows multiple guys who aren't top 80% but have had successful long-term relationships with equivalent-value women and/or they've been modestly successful with casual dating. this DoinIt989 guy's story breaks the RP narrative. It's a meta narrative…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:30 AM
8

It's a damn good analogy actually, because Pizza is probably the worst possible thing you can eat.. it's so unhealthy. But she wants a fucking pizza, and the results don't matter, because that's someone else's fault. The analogy is just brilliant for that reason alone. The very idea that they should get what they want, no matter the consequences, and only because they want it, tells you exactly what kind of people you are dealing with. If they cant' get what they want, then they won't play, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:20 AM
7

What are we trying to say here? This just all kind of depends on what social situations you are in, and how you percieve them. The thing is that at some point you just meet one of those guys. I worked with a light skinned black guy that was a former D1 college athlete. I had never seem women just throw themselves at a man before... and the stuff was just crazy. I had to work with him for a year. The situations were just insane. We were walking to a starbucks one time and this woman did a full U-…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:11 AM
3

LOL... the point of insoles is that you don't tell women that you are using them. It also isn't insecure, it's just a way to deal with someone else's insanity. Damn few guys feel bad being 5'11" vs 6", like it doesn't affect much in your life at all, even sports. However when it comes to dating it suddently becomes the difference between having lots of options and not having very many at all. Best part is... after a few dates nobody cares anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:54 AM
1

lol… the morgue comment got me! I was a photographer for a company as a kid. I’ve seen that more than a few times. But they do all that stuff in photoshop now. The people on magazines covers, instagram models… none of them actually look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:57 AM
8

I did one session of Hot Yoga back in 2017. I was the only man, and I was pretty cool with that, but I also came in late and wound up in the back. Once the heat was up high and the stretching was getting serious, like 3 or 4 of the ladies just kept farting. After about 20 minutes I felt like I was going to gag, so I just dipped out and got my money back. Nobodies ass is worth that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:45 PM
2

Those bloody filters are unbelievable. Took me a few bad experiences to figure out how to spot them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:34 PM
3

Fact. What makeup generally does is mimic healthy young skin and make they eyes look bigger. Those valuable to men, but not nearly as valuable as putting 1 inch insoles into your shoes, or having 20 pounds of lean muscle mass and low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:33 PM
2

On the other hand, this can also instill the idea that a woman's value is 100% dependent on her appearance, which I don't think is a good mindset to have both for the woman or for a society. I think the issue we really face is that it makes them think that men will excuse whatever shitty behavior just because they look good. Then they go out and get dates and sex where men DO seem to not care about their behavior. However, they also can't get serious boyfriends and they can't get commitment.... …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:28 PM
2

Most women don't jump from a 3 to a 6 with makeup. Spend some time in Asia, I've seen some drastic transformations. Also... I'm not sure if this is still true, but Iranian women used to just go crazy on the makeup. So much so that rather than improving it tends to seem almost comical, but it's probably a cultural thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:24 PM
1

I know you as a good and careful reader, so I think maybe I just read between the lines for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:20 PM
1

If Im honest, sometimes holding your kids is better than romantic partners for just basic touch. But cuddling is kind of its own thing, especially when it’s kind of cold outside and you want to watch something. Oh, and at Christmas time! That’s definitely better than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:58 PM
2

Check the dead bedroom sub. So many women in there now. The guys just play with porn and never want sex. I think if they were into cuddling too, maybe that would be a great fit for Asexual women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:49 PM
1

I think he was pretty explicit about what he was talking about. Mostly it’s who you have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:47 PM
1

Thank you, I wasn’t looking forward to a sock dinner. I was thinking maybe with some sriracha?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:45 PM
1

That’s fantastic, but how can it be rare? I’m definitely a people pleaser at heart, but I get a lot of women that only want orgasms like once or twice a week, and sometimes not interested in multiples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:43 PM
1

It was pretty obvious, but also I note not many of the smart people bothered to comment. Look, the fact that we as men must improve, must become skilled and powerful… while they sit back and just try to be fake as hell with collagen duck lips, Botox and silicone tits… how do you find respect for that at the end of the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:09 PM
-1

The unfairness isn’t in dating, it’s in everything else and it impacts dating. It starts in schools. Also women need to be completely removed from DEI under threat of prison time and outsized lawsuit compensation claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:06 PM
0

Most of our fairness institutions have been co-opted by radical gender ideologues so what do you suggest we do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:00 PM
1

Oh… I don’t think anyone really wants duty sex unless they are trying to come out of a porn addiction. Listen, marriage sex is wild as a topic. Every situation is so different, and often times people get treated like their needs don’t matter. You got a whole pile of men now that want relationships but aren’t interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:54 PM
0

Don't feel bad. I do the same thing from time to time. Although I'm not typically miserable. I'm just really worried about what comes next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:28 AM
2

Naw, doesn't hurt my feelings. It actually makes me worry about you. I've got a summer house in Montana and a few years ago a Grizzly dragged a woman out of her tent and killed her. Now, I'm not saying that it's wrong to be afraid of men. I think that's actually a good idea. What I'm saying is... that you are placing a lot of faith in an animal that I feel like you don't really understand. Just promise me you wont go hiking without a gun. Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:28 AM
3

I would like to say that these men just target the people pushing them down, but there is a part of me that worries this isn't true. I've been observing other men most of my life, and I get this sense that when a man is completely stripped of agency and power, made to feel shamed and humiliated... they dont' take that out on the people who did it to them.... because those people usually have power. Instead they seek out women on the margins... who are weaker.... and that is who they pass their h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:10 AM
5

Just keep saying it. Seriously, it won't feel like it makes a difference, but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:57 AM
1

The last RP guys to say women were happier when they didn't have rights did it for me The idea that you let a couple of douchebags change your flair... .... ... that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:56 AM
4

You would be surprised. Sometimes people come back to relive old memories, sometimes to debate gender theories, and sometimes just because they are bored and this topic is interesting. It's not a secret that Eulen Watcher is mostly practicing her English skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:54 AM
1

I think it still pierces the veil. Because everyone knows that for some people it does last.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:52 AM
2

LOL... the close proximity is the issue. 99,999 out of 100,000 times you are completely safe in a elevator with a man. 1 in 5 times you are safe in an elevator with a bear. If you go out into the woods, you will always be safer with a man than a bear and you know it. Bears are absolutely terrifying if you have really encountered them. Your only saving grace is that bears tend to be very wary around men. You know the whole hunt them and skin them thing for the last 2 million years. So, I have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:40 AM
9

I know it can feel like nobody listen's or pays attention when you say this... but I suspect it does lift people up even if they won't admit it. I really think this is what the black pillers need to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:10 AM
5

I can't muster a whole lot of sympathy for people who blame others completely for their situation. Man or woman, if you are so entrenched in a defeatist attitude there is nothing anyone can do. People have to decide that they are worth fighting for before anyone can make them believe it themselves. To me it's more like this constant whining about sex and relationships is a sideshow. The real issue is the system we have created that drags young men down. They can't stop shooting themselves and ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:06 AM
2

The last time a woman told me to improve something about myself, I was 23 years old. I've been going from one relationship to the next since about age 26... and usually they act pretty desperate to keep me around. I don't understand why you wouldn't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:56 AM
3

Well, then what was the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:50 AM
0

I think it was an analogy for the whole relationship. It's true that men have to do all the upfront difficult work. Which is why a quality man is much more valuable than a quality woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:47 AM
1

LOL... that's because most of us think of going down on a woman as a privilege we get to perform rather than a duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:39 AM
-2

Lol, no. That's such a virgin take. In my house, sex is a duty to each other. About 3 to 5% of the time, one of us isn't really in the mood. When that's me, there's no way I'm saying no to the missus and there's no way s he doesn't cum spectacularly and then fall asleep in my arms. You just lack imagination. You didn't marry a western woman... I will eat my socks if she is American!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:35 AM
3

Don't you think maybe that is your problem? When you are hungry do you go looking through garbage cans for food? Why do you think that things other men throw away are going to be the solution to your issues? Stop looking for a wife in a brothel. You must look elsewhere. Why don't you check the Ukrainian thread of /Iwantout for people that want to get out of Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:30 AM
9

... and on the other side it's... "All these guys treat me like garbage, men must all suck" Well mam, that ain't exactly accurate. It's just the ones that fit your standards. Maybe the answer is to take the standards you currently have set really, really low, and raise them up high, while also lowering the standards that aren't helping you. Of course that kind of introspection is something an NPC is incapable of doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:26 AM
5

Bro, you just hit a point where suddenly you are getting the women you want. Then you just need to maintain. Usually without trying you just start getting better and better because a lot of this stuff is confidence and talking ability. But let me ask you this. Who benefits most from your self improvement? A woman? She only benefits as long as she is pleasing you. When she fails you kick her out and get a new one, and you have self-improved to a point where that isn't difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:13 AM
8

I know tons of Ukrainian men, and almost all of them have wives. Are you actually IN Ukraine right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:09 AM
13

We can't force women to be financially dependent on men again in the West or we can't make women horny for all men. We can't force women to be state-sponsored wives and girlfriends. Guilting and shaming women won't work. This just seems like common sense, but I really think this is what guys are hoping for... state sponsored wives.... which let's just say if Putin isn't going to do it, and that guy really wants babies, then we absolutely are'nt going to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:08 AM
7

...And LiftSushi brings down the hammer of logic. LOL. One additional point though. Our culture is obsessed with fairness between groups, so much so that we are willing to put our thumb on the scale and hold some folks back. Being somewhat near the CEO of a company with 80,000 employees, I've noticed a strong tendency to hire incompetent people, even when more diverse and better qualified candidates were in the pool. I have a suspicion that the C Suite wants people below them that can't challeng…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:03 AM
3

Listen, you get into elevators and trains and live in apartments, walk around all day next to men. A lot of those men are also freaked out because they don't know what's going on. So you take violence rates from all this constant exposure to men and then compare it to a bear in the woods? That's false equivalence. If you don't like the life raft. Let's say your building is on fire and there are two elevators down, one has a man, the other a bear... which one are you going to take?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:30 PM
2

Ya both sides extremes would want this. Absolutely, but which side has the extremes completely driving the bus? The stuff the bureaucracy has done the last few years is mindblowing. What was that quote from Alvin Bragg... "Nobody is above the law I invented to convict them?", or something along those lines. If you can't nail the guy on a serious crime, then it's not worth the political capital. It makes me feel like I can't trust these clowns in power... and I don't even know what the other side…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:24 PM
0

a form of political government with a single strong and empowered leader with no open journalism or counter narratives being allowed. No open journalism or counter narratives allowed? Hmmm... who does that sound like? I will not give up on sound reasonable social progressive and basic socdem economics just because some insane people make us look bad. Bro, you got sold out to billionaires and you don't even know it. Im glad we are moving back to just being able to attack the right again though. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:06 PM
1

I can’t figure out why there is no chemistry. I had no idea there was supposed to be chemistry between two people until recently. If I knew I would try to search for it before all of this If you are interested you can send me a DM and I would be willing to run down the normal checklist. I can usually create chemistry out of thin air with about 30% of women. There is a lot just "energy" to it. The core pieces are usually a mixture between dominance and intimacy. Competency plays a role, as does s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:54 PM
3

Bill Maher a right winger? Hahaha... I hope these people never stop being funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:47 PM
–

My friend, you are alone in the wilderness. Your left wing friends have either run further left, or ran back to the center. Feminists are currently just another branch of Maoist Red Guard goons today. They don't care about truth or accuracy, or even arguments that work. They already hold the power and when they say absolutely ridiculous shit, they are flexing their power over you. You either agree or you are cast out of the power circles. They will get ever more extreme and ever more crazy for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:34 PM
2

I think you are giving Drake WAY too much credit. But seriously... when I heard this scenario put forth and some women saying they would choose the bear... I think we all know they are lying. If the boat is sinking and only 2 life rafts available, one with a bear and one with a man... 100% of these feminist dipshits are going to choose the man. So, the whole thing was a lie, so that they could trash on men.... and they wonder why we think they are garbage people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:27 PM
0

I get classical Left Wing vibe. Probably watches Bill Maher, and would get either cancelled or burned at the stake if expressing these opinions on almost any college campus in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:23 PM
-1

The further away you go from what you are generally attracted to, the more difficult it gets. However, this stuff is all in your mind. This is why what you are attracted to changes over time, because it's based on your emotional needs, but there is a filter over that which is essentially inside your mind. I believe there are 9 levels of thinking... and I'm telling you to get to level 8, and stop dating in level 3 which is basically animalistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:05 PM
1

It’s not useless. It destroys sex and bad sex makes husbands unhappy. I don’t enjoy sex at all. There is literally nothing I can do to change it. And I will not fake to make it more enjoyable for him. And he doesn’t want sex with someone who doesn’t enjoy it and doesn’t moan. It destroys my marriage. No amount of non-sexual quality time spent together can change it. Chemistry fades over time, and then you basically wind up the situation you are in right now. The first thing you need to do is und…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:58 PM
–

I'm pretty familiar with the old school red pill stuff, but I never liked the idea of dread game. I suppose I have always been running the passive type... which is essentially the same thing you use in order to be attractive in the first place. I am familiar of course with what you list as active dread game. I've unintentionally done some of that and while it was highly effective short term... it was toxic long term. Also, I found that if it was something that helped attract a woman... if I stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:49 PM
0

I never heard of the other stuff as part of dread game. I’ve only ever seen active dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:41 AM
-3

Toss looks. Like totally garbage can it. Men especially should do this. Screw chemistry it’s useless long term. Instead focus as much as possible on long term compatibility traits and work ethic. I’m
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:38 AM
1

It has stages? Good God how much have they added over the years?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:19 AM
4

Conscious Choice, with the understanding that you have to wake up every morning and choose this same person and you should make that choice as easy as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:12 PM
2

No, dread game is absolutely toxic to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:58 PM
4

Oh, she birthed his kid, so now he'll be loyal and cherish her forever and definitely not have a wandering eye or consider dumping her for someone prettier and less stressed out from childcare. I think this greatly underestimates the laziness of the average man. I think you are assuming that you just married Harry Styles or some soy latte drinking celebrity pretty boy. The average guy would have to put out some fairly large-scale effort to find another woman... and if you are happy with what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:56 PM
2

I assume he meant at the sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:52 PM
7

Studies suggest that this was accurate in 1990, but not today. They have done an often repeated study that shows when women attend a speed dating event, their standard for attraction increases if there are lots of desirable men, and can decrease if they see few desirable men. The argument is that by seing tons of highly attractive men on social media it creates an "I see it, so I deserve it" attraction mindset among women who use these platforms a lot. The same effect is not seen in men, however…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:52 PM
1

The feelings are the entire point. I'm just going to give you this one piece of advice. Feelings change like the wind. If you base your relationships entirely on feelings, then when your feelings change your relationship will be swept away. I will also say that your feelings will also lead you into trouble more often than not. Love is a choice, not a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:43 PM
0

LOL... DnD reference is an auto-fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:38 PM
5

There is an underlying idea that should be dealt with. The question is, how shallow are people vs. how shallow should they be? We sit here and talk about attraction like it's some some objective number tattooed on everyone's head and there's nothing that can be done to change it. We are dealing with the most unhappy generation of women in what might be the history of the world, yet they are also the worlds most privileged people ever. The average middle class woman today lives a lifestyle that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:37 PM
–

How does your wife get (got) to waste a part of your paycheck on her luxuries without you silently letting her do it? All you have to do is cut her access to your paycheck. You are holding the final veto card over the money that you make, and in most relationships a man will make most of the money. No, you have accidentally conflated wealth and power. I may have made more income, but I had less power within the relationship. At the dissolution of the marriage... I still had to pay her a good por…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:16 PM
–

If women decide that new clothes are more important to children than food, Let's roll it all the way back. Have you ever been married? Yes, for 5 years. I made about 60% of the income and major spending decisions where joint. I think we made on 2 of those choices in 5 years. The rest of the money she spent on whatever she wanted... and she was not a frugal person. She's a lot better now, but as a young woman her father just gave her a credit card and let her do whatever. I grew up very poor and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:02 PM
–

My problem is that it's a concept, and concepts can't be tested. So, it functions as a false Motte and Bailey argument. If we turn Patriarchy into a theory... it completely falls apart, because it has no real meaning beyond a way to blame all men for essentially a few men being hyper successful (competent).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:45 PM
–

Again... So What? If men tend to be more competent at things that create power or wealth... and then use that power and wealth to exclusively serve the interests of women. Now the word Patriarchy really means a system where men work and women receive all the benefits. So, long as we include that into the definition, then I have no problem with the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:27 PM
–

This is incorrect. If you decided where money gets spent, that means you have control. That means corporations will serve your interests and not those of others. If women decide that new clothes are more important to children than food, they have the power to make that choice. 80% of spending control means that women control 80% of our economy. You can't get around that. The second piece here is that the majority of voters are women, and that has a massive policy impact. I think that the reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:59 PM
–

Or.. it's a bad argument because Patriarchy isn't really a thing, it's just a half baked stupid concept. The definition itself begs the question... So What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:51 AM
0

Look, I got a friend who is EXACTLY that man except this guy is short too. Married a chubby Thai girl almost 20 years younger, 30 years ago. 3 kids all through college and in successful careers. As far as I can tell, very happy marriage. I was at his retirement party, and he now owns his own consulting firm. Have you ever BEEN to the US? Have you ever met an American woman? 90% chance you are from some South Asian area and don't know anything about the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:47 AM
1

Hahaha... appropriate venues? Yeah, they get ignored on Tinder and Hinge and then become bitter angry losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:34 PM
1

Uh... Why in the world did you add India to that list? The only passport bros hitting up India... are Indian men. If you want to score with women from India... move to a tech hub and go to places where kids play and just hit on the married moms. If you go straight to India and you aren't Indian... the racism is unbelievable. It's possible to get laid, but actually getting a relationship... good fucking luck. Also... some of the Indian couples in tech are swingers... you can go that route, but yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:30 PM
–

Seriously... the confidence is a killer. My personal theory is that all female attraction comes down to perceived status and safety. This is why they crave height so much. Tall guys not only make them feel safer, but also indicate higher status. If you are not confident... the woman will always perceive you as below her. I once read a post by Roissy on Chateau Heartiste where he basically claimed that Psychotic Confidence... that is confidence based in nothing was the most effective way to succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:14 PM
–

Arrest and incarcerate is better than helping them commit suicide. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:07 PM
–

No, I never go exclusive unless I'm serious about it. No lying. Maybe they hope for something better? I don't know, and I don't really care, all I can say is that this is what they do. Honestly, I think it's just attraction types. Some women value feelings of excitement and lust above all other things when it comes to attraction, and some women value connections and intimacy. Honestly, the ones that value intimacy kick me to the curb so damn fast. I'm not Leonardo DiCaprio. I love older women. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:06 PM
–

It's not so much about sex as it is relationships. Prostitution won't make this better. What they are doing is turning to Porn, and when AI comes out... frankly I don't think any woman can compete with that. Seriously. Here is the thing... IT WASNT EASY for previous generations of men. That's something everybody gets wrong. The proliferation of easy women is insane, and women's standards for everything but looks has fallen through the floor. Women growing up in the 1930s, during the depression..…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:51 PM
2

Nobody talks about this stuff, but when I was a little boy, I got bullied damn hard in the 1st grade. They used to knock me down and beat the hell out of me after school before my parents could pick me up. I was ashamed and felt like nobody would listen... because my teachers didn't care. The next year I got aggressive with them and they left me alone. They came back at me in the 3rd grade, but I had already learned they backed down if I fight... so I got in trouble 4 times during the year for b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:39 PM
2

People pass on trauma of all kinds and victims are highly likely to become abusers later
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:41 PM
–

No. Women would throw themselves into harems. We already see that behavior. They are NOT going to date men they consider unattractive. It’s either harems of nunneries. I’ve been outed once or twice. I can tell you exactly what happens. You would be shocked at the number who don’t leave. I’ve never gone out of that situation and had every woman walk away. I mean they will say that on social media, but they don’t. Instead they stick around and compete for a while. Only about half really walk away …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:40 PM
–

Oh I actually like this point! Absolutely in normal circumstances and for maybe 500 years, women having higher standards has made men better. I don’t think that’s going to keep going due to technology changes and poor social investment into boys. I don’t think this generation has the capability of improving. That’s a feminism and technology issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:27 PM
–

I don’t think women are good at strategy or forming coordinated groups. Also, only right wing rural women are armed and they are almost all married or have men that will absolutely protect them. It’s the left wing urban/suburban women that would be vulnerable. But it would literally take a complete social breakdown and I don’t see that happening. Although if there is a civil war or something similar… well that would be a disaster on an unprecedented scale… and nobody would be trying to specifica…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:23 PM
–

I’m not entirely convinced of that 1 in 17 number. I suspect that what it means is several generations of very closely related very successful men at more of a 1 to 5 ratio or something like that. Fact is that 8,000 years ago it would be damned hard to support 17 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:16 PM
–

Most of those deaths by injury are motor vehicle accidents… many of which are substance abuse issues. My parents have a neighbor who just lost a drug addict son who was only 16. Got high and fell asleep on train tracks… and got hit by a train. When I was younger it was mostly drinking and driving, but the government has totally ignored for 2 decades a horrible drug issue with opioids. They take no action because it’s mostly men. Also that suicide rate is INSANE!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:12 PM
–

It wouldn’t change anything if these guys stopped. It would just cause an even greater concentration of young women dating an even smaller group of men… and the women would have an even worse experience. Look, the good women jump out of the dating market by 25 and never go back on. So we are mostly talking about women who are not marriage material anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:57 PM
2

It used to be true, isn’t anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:23 AM
4

Um… Red Pill today isn’t the Red Pill of yesterday. Like 2015 if you did a survey most of us… because I was in that wave were LTR guys who got screwed over. Most of us were just normal guys. The wave of Autistic Black Pillers came like 2020 during the lockdowns. Most of the regular guys like me walked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:22 AM
13

We have. I was actually one of those guys before I left it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:58 AM
1

Let me share a secret. People who got cheated on, they have a highrisk of cheating themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:49 AM
0

Yes, the car lied. I mean technically we operate under the mutual assumption that drivers will watch where they are going and not hit people. Breaking that is equivalent to lying. Do you think that works? I just made it up on the fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:44 AM
2

Hahaha… probably true, but the world isn’t about what you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:13 AM
6

Let’s think about this logically. A feminists tell men not to approach women and hit on them in public. Who is going to listen to that message? Assholes? I think not. Empathetic boys? Yup. When you hear feminists rant about how terrible all men are and how they hurt people. Who do you think takes that shit to heart?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:12 AM
1

This needs to be its own thread. Seriously!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:06 AM
1

It’s the same thing bro. Here is the deal, use crosswalks. If you get hit by a car while crossing the street, that driver has fault because he should be looking. However, that doesn’t mean you are perfectly innocent, crosswalks exist for your safety. Use them. Dating is like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:05 AM
0

Well at one point I thought women didn’t care, but once you hit a certain number… it becomes a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:53 AM
1

That’s an entirely different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:08 PM
3

If Germany can’t, nobody can with current technology. It would require nuclear. Just facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:08 PM
5

This should be viewed as an indication that the guys think of themselves as having many better options. Use some game theory, men do this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:07 PM
3

Ok, my assumption is that you don’t know the makeup of this demographic. Did you know that we can predict with almost 75% accuracy which boys are going to struggle with women and which are not before they are even born? If your mother is a feminist and your father is as well, or is absent. Then you take a look at metropolitan areas with fewer women. Attendance of public schools. Those indicators are more powerful than race, looks, social skills… these are the key factors. So most of the missing …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:03 PM
1

AI is probably going to replace most low and mid skill jobs in the future. The best part though is that we probably won't be able to produce enough electricity to run all of it. Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:38 PM
8

Ok, how are you going to make it so that young men feel comfortable talking to women? How? I mean narcissists and psychopaths don't care what you think, so they will always be there hitting you up. How do you get empathetic young men to feel like they can do this? Because women absolutely wont in any kind of scale. So, how do you fix this problem that essentially women created?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:35 PM
3

If you ever get very interested and begin studying the childhoods of notorious serial killers... certain patters emerge that popular culture doesn't like to talk about. I have this very strong suspicion that today's spree shooters are actually boys who would have grown up to be serial killers in the past. Now, not every boy who has an abusive domineering mother who makes him feel powerless and weak turns into a violent monster. My best theory on that is, some boys are born more fragile than othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:23 PM
1

Yes, and No. I think the key here is that men lower standards for casual sex, and women increase them. This is also why women tend to affair up, and men affair down. These are just generalities though, like saying men tend to be taller, but knowing that women above the average height of men exist and are not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:41 PM
3

Is a lie justified if it gets you laid? Well, the only time a person can justify that kind of behavior is when they feel that the balance of power in a given situation is unethical. That allows unethical behavior in response. When we talk about consent issues, that's rape. Rape isn't a crime of horniness, it's a crime of power. So, what you are saying isn't just a little bit likely, it's highly likely.... but you are incorrect that it's just about getting laid. I once read a book about the Green…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:37 PM
2

I agree that the overall attitude that these men have is incorrect. However, I don't think it's unique to them. I think a lot of people have these problems with just other scenarios not sex related.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:28 PM
1

DAMN good point! The only thing I will say is that a lot of these guys have the perception that they worked their butts off to become attractive, and that these ladies had skipped them over in the past. That could be true, but also could be incorrect. I find that women who lose large amounts of weight have a similar feeling with men, so it's kind of a universal human feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:18 PM
5

First, these are different men. High N Count men don't mind High N count women. If you hear a man complain about this... he hasn't been around much. Second, the overall complaint relates to the female dual mating strategy that the Red Pill calls Alpha Fux, Beta Bux. At this point, nobody even sex researchers deny this is actually a real thing. They can add nuance to how it plays out, but it's basically correct. Men do the exact same thing, and women kind of complain about it... but I really thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:10 PM
1

The dualistic mating strategy women employ is the source of this complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:05 PM
0

I think you have this all wrong. It's about when you have the exclusivity discussion and the overall quality of the woman. IF she is so awesome that you don't want to risk losing her, then when she wants to go exclusive you do. Otherwise you just keep multidating. I don't know why people have such a hard time with this. Its EXACTLY what women do. If a man does the same thing all you clowns have an aneurism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:49 PM
1

I've got a Mormon coworker with 10 kids. I had a contract job down in Utah and instead of renting a place, I just crashed with them for a month and helped them pay for stuff. So, while I don't know exactly how she lives, I know she is rich as hell, and runs a super successful YouTube business... promoting a lifestyle that I'm very skeptical she actually lives. I would not be surprised to find she has a production team and an army of maids. Then again... maybe not. Still, I know how her audience …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:19 PM
–

When a woman calls you controlling, she essentially means you aren't that attractive to her. I think the vast majority of women fully understand that men dislike sluts. They don't actually understand why, but they do get it. They also grudgingly accept that we have the right to ask and the right to dump a woman for any reason any time. What you need to do, is understand that you should ignore a lot of the crap women say in general. Focus on the one woman you date and make that relationship great…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:31 PM
2

All that stuff was achieved before I was born. My experience of Feminism is as a supremacist cult... which yeah is openly hostile to boys and men. As a kid I remember being fed a pretty steady dose of shame and attempts to make me self-loathing. The idea was that I needed to get out of the way of girls. I think I really believed it for a while, with this understanding that they would in return care about how things went for me. I was also very susceptible because I had a poor relationship with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:25 PM
2

It would be a lie if I promised exclusivity, and if I wasn't willing to just date one woman provided, she is really great. However, neither of those things are true, so there is no lie. Besides, it's not like I'm over here dating virgins. These women have gotten around just as much as me, often times much more. I feel like you just really dislike multi-dating... which is fine, but something like 70% of women do the same thing, so you need to take your complaints to them first. When you convince …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:14 PM
1

I’m talking on average. I do a lot of gym time and stay as fit as I can. As a result I have a lot more going for me. I of course also have good social skills and a fantastic career. Now, all of that together and I still can’t compete with a lot of other men. However, unlike them, women tend to find me addictive. Like years later they come back and want to try again after I dumped them. I honestly think unless you are autistic, most men can have success if they work on themselves… which benefits …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:02 PM
–

This is why we need way stronger laws against slander. False accusations always give them the high hand, and unless they can prove those accusations… they need to face financial penalties for reputation and emotional damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:51 PM
1

Yeah, sure. The point is that it’s a functional religion or cult. Not one where a great prophet came and delivered words one time, but one where a group of pope like figures can advance ever more extreme ideas and be immediately accepted by most followers. In years past the goal was to increase status and options for women. Today it’s to create a sort of Hindu class system with men of a certain ethnicity at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:48 PM
1

So the difference is they have a different idea of heaven? Also, what part of feminism isn’t do as I say or be punished? Have you never heard of a discrimination lawsuit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:36 PM
1

It’s very hard to understand German National Socialism in a modern context. It hated Marxists for the same reason today’s liberals hate Israel. They view it as inherently Jewish. I read the most definitive biography of Hitler as a teen and the whole way through it was so uncomfortable because he clearly held almost all of the leftist beliefs that I did as a kid. The only thing that I felt made him right wing was maybe nationalism and definitely his hatred of Jews. Now I’m shocked to see the left…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:35 PM
1

That isn't what's going on. Most of the time you are doing the same thing without realizing it. Actually, most often you probably use it on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:09 AM
1

So, the worst thing I do is dump someone, and every woman out there has done the same to a man. Why do you ask me this ridiculous question and not them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:06 AM
2

What you have to understand when talking about Trad Wives, is that I know at least 40 or 50 of them. I know them very well. I know their husbands, I know their kids, I've been over to their house and spent days with watching my kids play with theirs. Not the cosplayers on TikTok, real families living real lives. Most of them are highly religious and the church community helps them and provides a safety net stronger than the government ever could. Between church and family, most of the things you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:04 AM
4

It's ok. You aren't going to be able to comprehend someone else's experience in life. I have no idea what insight this hypothetical is supposed to provide. I imagine my life would continue as it did before I ever knew that person existed...? No analogy in the world, no matter how perfect is going to register within your brain. This sub, the manosphere, and the "male loneliness epidemic" (which - when elaborated upon - is actually just about dry dicks) begs to differ. It's not. Everyone knows tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:17 AM
2

I think I started in my mid 30s. I'm not sure I will ever really stop. I've already got an ex and kids, ... so I don't see the point. Maybe I will change my mind, but at my age now... dating is just so easy. I know a lot of guys complain, but just take care of yourself. Seriously, don't eat a bunch of shit and go lift, run. The benefits go way beyond dating. Speaking honestly, the main issue a man is going to run into with trying to do a "hoe phase" later in life is that most of the women in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:00 AM
1

I didn't say VIABLE options... I said options. Having to screen men out still takes mental space. Imagine you only met one attractive man every 4 years and typically they weren't' interested in you. I think most of us are quite happy being single, especially if we are getting laid frequently, and women have certainly not figured it out. The actual difference in loneliness between men and women is about 5%. The ladies are not doing better, that's a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:45 AM
1

I think what you fail to understand is that men and women tend to use different systems. Women’s choices always make more sense from the standpoint of emotional logic. Men on the other hand have a tendency to use unemotional logic and when they fall into emotional logic they mistake their emotions for facts. I find that emotional logic is much better for navigating social situations. While unemotional logic is great for long term planning and strategy… or sometimes just building things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:33 AM
3

Let me ask you this. If you only had one or two options a year come your way… wouldn’t you be much more likely to think heavily about the negative ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:29 AM
5

LOL… but unable to make a decision about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:18 AM
2

This is actually really solid advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:17 AM
1

Look, if someone gives you a power… and choice IS a power, then you must take responsibility for the outcome of that choice even though you may have chosen well based on the information provided to you at that time. So, I bought some stock in a solar power company out of China. It went really well for the first 6 months, so I bought some more. Turns out the company was faking all their profits and I lost my investment. Was that company bad? Yes. Does that absolve me from the choice I made? No. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:12 AM
1

Oh. I see. Those aren’t that common actually. There are so many different responses. I’ve heard everything from I’ve got a BF to, I only date cowboys, to being given a fake number. I think some jackasses dislike the fakery, but at the end of the day polite is polite. Now the point about constructive criticism… that could be crazy good for guys but not many women can do it nicely and very few men can take it. So best it not do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:46 AM
3

Polite rejection is polite rejection. What more can you ask of anyone? I don’t see the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:42 AM
1

Is the Red Pill trying to get women to lower their standards? If so… that is the dumbest thing ever. However, I thought the Red Pill was about getting laid despite high female standards. Am I wrong? Isn’t it a PUA thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:39 AM
1

Well look at it like this. If you are a girl boss type… then you better pick the right career. Because these companies don’t really give a shit about you and will dump you fast when the chips are down. Also, I’ve got a lot of female friends that worked in corporate for Amazon… and they are all in therapy for it. The stories are fucking insane, like my friend had a gallbladder surgery and Amazon made her come into work 4 hours after the surgery. The surgeon wouldn’t let her out and she had her bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:37 AM
1

Being controversial gets clicks, which makes money, and makes everyone feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:40 AM
2

Huge respect for you! This is the attitude people need to take. People love how they want, and women who like this lifestyle can watch her stuff. Women who don’t can watch something else, real housewives, or the Kardashians, or whatever it is that women like to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:39 AM
-2

They do it in bad faith. Women who live like her in my experience are significantly more happy than the women I work with. I know both groups and the career women are a shit show… many with no kids and no real family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:35 AM
2

Look at her. Just stop for a moment and really look. She is very low class. Don't go thinking this is going to be a new thing for women, because it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:57 PM
2

You are a smart woman. Do you think she is serious with this stuff? Because I think she is trying to get attention, and essentially tell everyone she is more valuable to men than other women. I honestly see this as a power play, and I suspect if faced with an attractive man... she won't stick to any of these points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:51 PM
1

One: make it worth her time - when you set up the date, you need to be creative and choose an activity. Essentially, she is saying that her time is valuable, and mine is not. Also, she is saying that she desires a significantly higher effort level up front than she is willing to reciprocate. These two things are high indicators of a selfish low quality woman. I have some go to dates that seem creative, active, and fun... and I've taken nearly 20 women to those things already. So she is not reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:45 PM
1

THERE IS NO PATRIARCHY. Stop debating ideas based on myths and pointless concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:27 PM
2

The key here is that I misunderstood your financial position. Unless you are president of a university, or one of their head football coaches then I can understand the desire to just be independent. The girl boss types around me are like me in that we spend more time trying to dodge taxes than building budgets I don’t think the average college graduate knows anything about history to that level. I read The Horse, The Wheel, and Language by David Anthony, and the only other man I know who has eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:39 PM
2

I struggled during university and for one year after. From age 25 on my career was on rocket fuel until I hit the gender quota wall in 2020. I already made wise investments, so my goals are all met. I’m not trying to rise up for money, I want create my own company in the future and I’m building the skills and getting to know investors. The Bronze Age collapse was most likely a climate disaster that was exacerbated by trade route failures. Cline’s work on this is probably the best available… or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:10 AM
3

… That’s just totally fucking mercenary. Yeah, I’m not going to do a relationship where the woman pulls out her accounting book and adds up how much she spent on me and demands it balance. Hard pass. I can’t think of any other guy who wants a scorekeeper either… unless he is so fat and ugly he’s got no choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:18 AM
1

The number of men like this is so low it’s under 10%… and most of them have low earning degrees and want a sugar momma. Now if you are talking super high end guys… which I assume you are… yeah they prefer it but also you are going to be 1 in 20 women shooting for this guy at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:15 AM
2

If you refuse to share money with your spouse… what other word fits? Greedy? Avaricious?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:05 PM
0

Selfishness isn’t a positive trait. The men who refuse to share with a wife are ridiculous and very few actually practice it in real life. It’s part of a study on the 300% increased divorce rate when women make more. Although… it also shows men more likely to cheat too, and much more likely to violently abuse women. I have a suspicion this has much more to do with US subcultures than perhaps we may want to admit here too. The rant was pertaining to a very specific situation. Outside that I’m jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:54 PM
1

Whats the point of having money if you just spend it all on yourself? You are supposed to take care of people, not indulge your personal greed and avarice. If you can’t even be generous with your spouse, I mean… that’s just messed up. Neither political belief set is perfectly correct, and if you can’t handle someone who disagrees with you, it means you are a fool and your ideas are wrong. That goes for anyone. My father is a blue collar guy and a left wing communist. He can talk about anything f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:47 PM
–

You should stop being a stingy person. The reason guys get insecure is because it’s typically understood that women who make more cheat more, divorce more rapidly, and generally act like controlling assholes. Not saying that you are any of these. Why the university degree thing? Im going to put my cards on the table and basically say that in my opinion unless you have a STEM degree, you basically have the equivalent of an expensive GED in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:10 PM
2

When I say predatory divorce strategies, I’m including all kinds of stuff. Frankly, passport wives are not an issue in any way. First the chance of divorce is half that of a wife that doesn’t need a passport, and if the woman works it drops even lower. Also these divorces happen very quickly and cost the men involved very little money on average. As far as adulterers, I don’t know if men actually cheat more or just get caught more frequently. It doesn’t matter to me. Cane them. Put them in stock…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:57 PM
2

I know a multitude of girl boss types in my profession. Actually... they are literally bosses. They often tend to be very good bosses as well. My primary complaint against them is that they are too snobby in who they date. Like if you are making great money stop trying to date men who make the same or more than you... this is not only often self-defeating it's also sexist shitty behavior. Also, stop being jackasses about educational attainment. I tried to introduce one of the women I work with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:46 PM
4

It's more like men are in completely different camps on the topic and if you are a woman you need to tune out the one that opposes the lifestyle you want to live. Also, voluntary celibacy is a positive thing. Just rutting around like animals until you meet someone is not a solution. It absolutely MUST be the solution women begin to choose in order to combat the horrible experiences from Golden Penis Syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:39 PM
2

THIS is what I think most women should do and be both enabled and supported to do. We have to find money so socially invest in women who want to stay home and care for young children, and find ways to help integrate them back into the workplace without too much career loss. At the same time there need to be social protections for sole provider men against predatory divorce strategies. Basically, divorce needs to be really fucking hard with lots of hoops, and adulterers need to be publicly whippe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:33 PM
–

Just date women for whom English is a second language. Bam, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:16 PM
–

Well, that kid wasn’t supposed to survive, and even if he did they said he would be immobile and non verbal due to some kind of brain damage. However, his wife has put so much effort into the kid that he talks with some effort, and can get around with the assistance of a walker. They have 2 other children that are doing really well. They just need to move into a low cost suburb, I think the fear is though that it would require the wife to change a lot of the support workers helping with the boy……
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:43 PM
–

I think everyone should have a few people like that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:13 AM
–

Seriously from everyone. Employers are typically the worst though. Get skipped over for promotions all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:42 AM
–

Yeah I set a reminder on my phone to hit him up twice a month. Last time we talked, I suggested he move to a lower cost house. He’s in a swanky neighborhood. That would remove some stress I think, but he says his wife is against it. They have quite a bit of equity at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:40 AM
–

Usually they do, and don’t receive much back. That’s just how it is to be one of these guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:09 AM
–

Look just make other guys know you care. Let them know they are appreciated and needed. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:08 AM
1

I don’t think so. It’s status projection. So it’s a bit of both. That means if you have enough info about each person and how they see themselves, you can typically predict this to a high degree of accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:07 AM
–

I knew the guy for 6 years. I asked him because he looked down. He said he was fine and I moved on, but at the end of the day he still looked not well, so I asked again but told him I really wanted to know. He almost broke down in tears. Turns out nobody ever really asks. I guess his son has some special disease, his wife had to quit to take care of him and this guy now has 3 jobs to support the family. I get the feeling he and his wife are both struggling and just don’t spend much time together…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:47 AM
–

Yeah, like when someone asks twice, not just the formal greeting crap people use. Those people don’t want to know. Also a lot of guys just aren’t used to talking about how they are really doing or feeling. The key is they just need to know someone cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:43 AM
2

It’s actually an almost perfect explanation on the individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:40 AM
4

It’s Beta Male Shaming. It’s just a technique women use to put down low status males.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:32 AM
3

Look creepiness is just Beta Male shaming. It’s for the most part an energy that some men bring to interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:05 AM
–

I think hugs are nice, but I know married men who haven’t had anyone ask how they are doing in a decade. They don’t get hugs or any other affection either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:40 AM
0

I think men in general talk in an adversarial manner about opposing groups. But YES I do agree that women do not understand male communication styles. Look at how often we come at each other with flames and then at the end of a thread find some common ground? Watch boys play. They will bash each other around and then when it’s over become friends. I think if we lost that ability… and it’s seriously dwindling in Gen Z and Alpha… we are in a lot of trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:50 PM
1

Ok, your are correct BUT I don’t think the study reflects this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:32 PM
2

I’m upvoting this just for the Frasier reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:39 AM
1

Wait, you can’t even mention them? I’m sorry I didn’t realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:51 AM
2

I think that was a different generation. Gen Z men will be just happy to eat and have a place to stay during the day before shuffling back home to their cardboard box on the side of the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:47 AM
–

University of Austin did the research. Think about it. They all say that they are oppressed and victims… that’s feminist ideology in a nutshell. They talk about government distributed girlfriends… etc. Just think about it for a moment. You have a mom that ardently believes in toxic masculinity. Feminism has no positive view for the masculine, instead jt just says boys should be more like girls. Don’t you think any mom who truly believes this would think she is helping her son by raising him to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:06 PM
6

Women don’t have an advantage, short people do. My good friend growing up was a fighter pilot and he is a short guy. They have greater strength and ability to control the plane through High Gs. Women can do it, but are not as strong. That’s what the studies say. The pilots themselves also say that women require more training on average to prevent panic. That’s just a personal belief shared among pilots. A man will not suddenly become attracted to 6 year olds just by being around them. So anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:56 PM
–

US polling data of incels. One of the biggest things that give us insight into this is that incels are only 60% white and men of color are significantly over represented at about 39% and growing! They tend to come from left wing households, so this makes sense. That only 12% or so identified as growing up conservative. 22% of US households are conservative… often religious. That’s stuff all makes sense when you listen to these guys and they all talk about being oppressed and victims. They have j…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:47 PM
54

I swear that no other profession is like teaching. I can only imagine being given a group of people who don’t want to work, and then being told I can’t fire them, can’t discipline them, and can’t remove them, and that my job performance is based on how hard I get them to work… and how happy I keep their parents. It feels like having to build a house with no tools, no help, and broken materials. Plus if it doesn’t get built everyone blames you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:07 PM
–

Look, the polling data is very clear. The number one risk factor for becoming an incel is growing up in a feminist household. I think… I really think that what’s going on is that the mothers really believe they are doing right by their sons in raising them to be highly effeminate… and that just murders their ability to succeed. Then they don’t understand why the boy is withdrawing from the world and massively depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:57 PM
22

I heard in a podcast that there are a greater percentage of women fighter pilots than there are male kindergarten teachers in the country. Guess which one of those two things the government is pushing? Also if you want men in education, then you need to raise the status of educators and increase pay based on performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:01 PM
1

I don’t know where you are from but some of these left wing countries… they fake the numbers like a Chinese economic report. But I mean if your population is 95% Christian… then that would make sense would it not? But more to the point, did you not read the part where I said it was culture not religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:34 PM
1

Was it really a church by that point? The clergy were almost all nobility, and the nobility only believed in themselves… and their power of course. The earlier famines in 1690, and 1710 were probably much worse…. I think France lost a million people in each. So the famine of 1788 was probably on track for a similar result had they not gone the revolutionary route. But it’s not like the local churches weren’t handing out bread as much as they could. The primary wealth of the church at the time wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:27 AM
14

No, this is an App trend started by American women then systematized by Red Pillers. The way most women were running this system they basically would date lots of guys at once, then go exclusive with the one they slept with first. However that guy kept bouncing and then coming back. So lots of guys noticed and started copying to combat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:07 AM
2

Better than dead under the Jacobins. A lot of historians believe they pulled the first modern genocide in Vendée. Must have butchered 200,000 all the way down to the babies. Also the Regime was about as Christian as the Merovingians… which is to say not at all. You could make an argument for Richelieu but I think he loved France more than God anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:22 AM
1

Well, lucky you this stuff is probably outside of your lifetime. However, getting sexually assaulted on public transit by an Islamic zealot… that’s totally achievable. You know it’s only a small minority of them that do this. Judging by Pakistanis in the UK… 10% or less. But Afghans… way higher, Syrians… probably under 1%. So, in my opinion it’s culture not religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:16 AM
1

Not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:10 AM
2

Sure, the future is unknowns
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:32 AM
2

Neither do the French Feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:01 AM
–

I can tell you exactly what feminists will do. They will assimilate rapidly. Before that they will serve as free prostitutes for whatever Muslim guy wants one… and frequent rape targets. They still won’t say shit about it for fear and ideological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:06 AM
1

France is very probable by 2050. The birth rate decline plus increased immigration makes a lot of Europe in striking distance by 2060 to 2080. I don’t think any feminist cares though and I don’t know why we should either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:04 AM
1

I agree with everything you say with the exception of how women tend to view penises visually. I think you are generally correct like for things such as unsolicited dick pics, however as part of foreplay… yes then it changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:41 PM
1

Some are, some are not. Believe me, this is something I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:26 PM
1

They have more than a few studies on women and penis size preferences. One is were they just had women rate themselves in terms of all these different factors and then choose thier perception of perfect size by selecting dildos off a table. So in this we know a rough percentage of size queens and some other stuff on the topic. I remember when we read two of the studies most guys were shocked that it wasn’t overweight women who tended to be size queens, but instead women who rate themselves bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:13 PM
1

If you don’t get it, then you don’t get it. As a man you work your tail off to improve yourself in every realm and it’s all real. But you cannot escape judgement for things you can’t change. There are a tiny number of women who understand how that feels, but not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:05 PM
6

I love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:30 AM
1

Yeah, the upper class is hardcore feminist. Just look at the polling data from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:09 AM
8

The KKK did that stuff to hold political power and put their workers in important positions. Feminists have hard control over the government in most places they don’t have to do that stuff. The secret service put a woman in charge who demanded 30% of new hires be women. I watched the assassination attempt videos and it really stands out that 2 of 3 female agents just hid, while 1 did an exemplary job. I also noticed one by the limo that couldn’t even get her gun out of the holster. So feminists …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:06 AM
1

Orthognathic Surgery can fix almost any underbite. I believe it’s covered by a good number of insurance too. The point is that it’s orders of magnitude more difficult to deal with rejection based on your immutable characteristics, because there is literally nothing you can do. Not won’t, can’t, totally different animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:34 AM
3

lol… I had someone once try to argue the same thing about the KKK. Do you know who joins the hate group? They literally talk about destroying the patriarchy… which is just a synonym for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:28 AM
4

Your life should be filled with good stuff and good people. Most of the hate comes from 2 things, emotional distance and trauma inflicted by experience. What you should understand is that love always defeats hate, but you have to actually choose love and most people don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:23 AM
6

Have you ever heard of this hate group called Feminists? Yeah… 61% of the female population. So obviously you are full of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:20 AM
8

The majority of voters in every district all over the nation are women. The government serves their wants first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:01 AM
13

And those systems would work better if run by women? From what I see the ideology of the person is more important than the gender in determining outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:59 AM
1

Ok you just basically described a subset of women that are towards the demisexual end of the spectrum. It’s around 25-35% of the female population generally speaking. At least 20% are absolute self professing size queens, and the better looking a woman js, the more likely she will be in this category. Most women are way more visual than you think, otherwise nobody would want 6pack abs in a man. I’m not going to say that there aren’t some who could care less about what you’re packing but I know g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:42 AM
1

I just really dislike the idea of community property children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:16 AM
0

This is just hardcore delusion. Almost any looks based issue women can improve significantly and easily. Plastic surgery is so common almost every woman in Hollywood does it, the list of things women regularly fake is immense. Fake hair, fake tits, fake nose, fake lashes, makeup, fake ass, fake teeth. Everything is changeable everything is fixable. Men don’t fixate as much on physical appearance because there is so much else they need to do, and your correct that women fucking lie through their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:11 AM
1

Oh well I don’t know that much about the gay community and how they do. I think sometimes you get pressured and sometimes you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:34 AM
1

Think about it. Why do we consider so much worse to refuse to hire someone for a job because of their race or gender, but not say because of how they wear makeup or their tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:32 AM
0

Appearance is very changeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:31 PM
-2

Studies show most of them are so used to watching what they say… that they even lie on anonymous surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:06 PM
0

Ok, explain how it works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:02 PM
0

If you are a man, then you have real world consequences for not conforming. So yeah other guys will push you. Women don’t face consequences beyond poor access to high quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:01 PM
1

The difference is that private school students are literate. They do homework, and can face disciplinary actions. They do not have routine classroom clears where teachers and other students are beaten by an out of control kid that never faces consequences. They hire more male teachers. They do things like teach. What makes one public school district better than another. In my state there is only once great public school district and what makes it stand out is that the majority of students are ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:58 PM
-1

Women always socially calibrate, in every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:51 PM
1

There is a very noticeable trend of women viewing their affairs as empowering. See Eat Pray Love and probably 20 books that have come out this year. There isn’t anything similar for men. So while I agree with you in general, you are missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:47 PM
1

Also said they still try to stick it to the husband as hard as they can. That doesn’t sound like any kind of regret I’ve ever seen. Unless they regret it because it’s hurting their chances of getting more assets… which I highly doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:43 PM
0

First, 1 in 20 North American women has fake tits. Second, even if it doesn’t help in the actual act, being larger makes most women feel more attracted as they see it as a proxy for masculinity. I’d say it’s about half as important as height in this regard. The more turned on, the more likely to orgasm. That’s just how it works. So there really is no equivalent to this for women with the exception of extreme looseness. That’s a topic nobody ever talks about, but again there are procedures to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:35 PM
1

Ok fair point. I may have poorly implied that point in a previous response. I think public schools are failing, and wealthy families have almost entirely abandoned them. Very few public school administrators actually put their children into the system and instead pay for private schooling. This may not affect their utility as daycares, but as they operate more as daycare they lose their core function to educate. As for multigenerational housing… that’s absolutely a brilliant solution. The US is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:24 PM
-1

Aka… feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:27 PM
1

Well, the topic is women having families plus careers, and why so many struggle to balance both. You bring up community child rearing, which as I point out didn’t work the way in the past you seem to assume. The nuclear family has always been the bedrock of even tribal societies. In today’s society the form of child rearing you suggest would be most effective in a multiple wife household, where one wife works while the other performs childcare. Alternatively it would work if the woman is willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:25 PM
1

Tribal living didn’t have daycares. Most women were married and having kids at 14, before they were women. Do you think we should go back to that too? Yeah they relied heavily on family elders to help with young children but the infant mortality rate was 50% or higher in some areas. The lifetime chance of a woman dying in childbirth was over 25%. Most tribes the vast majority of members were genetic relatives. Finally, most women spent 10 hours a day scavenging for food, roots, nuts, berries, ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:08 PM
-2

🤣 A higher standard? lol. That’s hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:59 AM
1

Well, feminism exists and patriarchy doesn’t.... so you feel pressured by your delusions. That’s wonderful. I mean I read that speech and kept thinking to myself, this is just you pressuring yourself to be some ideal that you can’t make. It’s all fucking make work stress. Half the content was bitching about needing to be thin. Well, be fat if you want to be fat. If people don’t like it, the fucking toughen up. If you spent even 1 day as a man, you would fucking hang yourself in the closet and ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:50 AM
5

We are absolutely NOT a communal raising species. For fucks sake! Bonobo monkeys or whatever are radically different. Communal child rearing basically has the same problem as the tragedy of the commons in Ireland. The women know exactly whose kid is theirs, but when the men have doubts they ditch out and don’t have no serious interest in protecting. What seems to fit us perfectly is serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:45 AM
-4

It’s thier bullshit idea of patriarchy. Oh the president is a man therefore all men run things. What horseshit! They can’t even really defend it. I one time watched Jordan Peterson shred the entire concept in less than 3 minutes. The lady interviewing him almost had a stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:39 AM
-6

No, people don’t like it because it is a mirror reflection of feminism but with a more positive message and core.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:27 AM
1

Hahaha…. That’s awesome! He plays WOW. I played the original game when I was really little. My cousin was all about that game so I got a chance to watch him play it a few years back. He made some very tight real life friendships while playing. I really do think it would make a great short story. Too bad you aren’t into writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:28 PM
1

I think that I’d probably watch that movie. Have you ever thought of writing a short story on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:25 AM
1

Most people are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:20 AM
1

Yes, but by that point the checklist is long forgotten. When people meet and base attraction is formed… both men and women do this… they imagine the personality of the other person. That is essentially part of what people call thier type. This is where the halo effect comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:29 AM
1

Personality is part of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:24 PM
0

What state is this? You cannot trust men like that. How do the other women in the class feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:00 PM
1

Religious communities really throw off the numbers. Of course I also knew some Catholic virgins growing up who were on abortion number 3 or 4… so there is that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:40 PM
6

Good Lord! The foot fetishers are so creepy! I’m so sorry. You shouldn’t have to explain this to any guy, they should just know. The only thing I can think is that this guy has poisoned them against you and is denying the issue. I know they kind of teach women not to reach out to unknown men for help in these situations, but I feel like if you explain the situation they may be able to do something to help… even if it’s just to create a buffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:37 PM
0

Bro, all that data is from OLD. That isn’t how women work in real life. Also, these apps all push top tier guys at women and hide the mid level men. Lots of women never even get a chance to see you because of the algorithm. So it’s not exactly what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:09 PM
1

There is only another bar if attraction isn’t there or isn’t strong enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:12 PM
1

If we got rid of No Fault, divorce lawyers would lose incredible amounts of money. New York was the last state to go No Fault and the year it did divorce lawyers made an extra 1 billion. Divorce was almost unheard of in Kenya until they reformed marriage laws in… I think 2014. You need to be careful reading stuff about there because they have 4 different marriage laws and customs. Islamic Marriage is totally different than secular marriage, ex wives get nothing… even if they were the breadwinner…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:09 PM
1

Well, children are the future and the intrinsic value of women to a society is the ability to produce and care for children. We live in a time of extreme wealth and privilege… do you really expect that to continue? Don’t you feel it ebbing away a little every year? Did you know that payments on just the national debt interest now exceeds the military budget? I think if you predict stability and more of the same in the next 20 years… I suspect you will be greatly disappointed. It’s likely another…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:25 AM
2

What you say here is true, but watch the dating market the next few years. 10% of all marriages last year were American men with International women. Nearly 20% of all American men using Tinder are talking exclusively to women overseas. Also these marriages are more than twice as stable. It’s going to be an earthquake in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:45 AM
1

It doesn’t work like that. How old are you? Nobody goes in thinking yeah I want this guy to punch me in the face. The source you should rely on are studies about how female attraction works. I’ve never met a violent nasty man who didn’t have a GF or three, but most of the guys who wouldn’t hurt a fly also wind up 40 year old virgins. Meh I’m being a bit extreme here, but I will explain the truth later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:39 AM
1

It’s proven that the more men a woman has slept with the worse long term partner she makes. That just cannot be argued. Any woman with even mediocre IQ knows how to keep the liars out. You just refuse sex for a few months. However, they also know that other sluts are going after the guy and they figure average guys will always be around to wife them up if they can’t land the really hot guys… the D1 athlete and such. It’s a calculated risk. Where shit is breaking down is that the hot guys never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:32 AM
1

Totally incorrect. These women are going to date abusive assholes no matter what, because that’s what they are attracted to. Game is where you emulate those assholes for a short period of time to build attraction. That’s why they always say ‘she isn’t yours, it’s just your turn.’
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:59 AM
1

No, I totally get you. The original Passport Bros were black men who got treated like shit in the US dating market. Usually high quality men who didn’t involve themselves in gangster culture and didn’t want to date fat ugly women of other ethnicities. Brazil was the hot spot back in the 80s and 90s as one guy told me. But the label is getting applied to the mail order bride guys… and by God are they running away with it. Right now 16% of all men using Tinder in the US are hitting up women overse…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:52 AM
2

Much respect. I think most men find this highly attractive or at least the sign of someone very high quality!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:47 AM
1

Nope, just been around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:34 AM
0

We are talking about the top not the bottom. Regarding how women choose, if it’s destructive for the society as a whole then it needs to be dealt with appropriately. I’m on the fence about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:25 AM
1

Best wishes bro. My friends say don’t bring them back unless you have a good community around you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:18 AM
-2

Answer is Yes. When a guy goes to prison have you ever heard the term ‘gay for the stay’? There is a strain of thought out there that supposes that women aren’t actually designed to choose partners because they suck at it so hard. These folks think arraigned marriages is how people are supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:13 AM
1

His mom is a trust fund kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:53 AM
26

THERE ARE NO STANDARDS. That’s just something women say to screen out losers. The only bar is attraction. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:21 PM
2

Ah, you are chasing low income men! I’m totally in favor of that too. I think women who have great careers are often a better match for guys who are less ambitious. I feel like the strength of women’s empowerment is giving them the chance to have great lives with lower income men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:20 PM
-1

Most place have child support agreements with the US. You have to go somewhere that doesn’t and the list is kind of difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:15 PM
-2

Think about it. If the real dad had money the woman would already be fucking hitting him up for support. You know the system takes a cut off the top for every payment a guy makes right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:14 PM
0

Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:12 PM
5

I live in a tech hub. You have no idea what’s going on here. It’s an absolute tidal wave of 20 and 30 something guys marrying women from all over the place. I’d say SE Asia is over represented but I see Turkey and Eastern Europe coming up fast. The thing you have to realize is that passport bros are concentrated in areas that make money, because it costs money to travel out. Also they are mixed in with sex tourists who are kind of doing the same thing but not serious and yeah those guys are most…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:11 PM
4

That’s not actually true. Self delusion is a giant part of our dating market. If you look at how big of an impact passport bros are making in such a short period of time… it’s over 10% of all marriages where I live and the divorce rate is half.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:49 PM
5

Well, do you want to have a discussion about the intelligence and knowledge of average people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:33 PM
4

Kenya did divorce reform where you get assets equal to your income, and housework + childcare time is calculated as income. The divorce rate is dropping fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:06 PM
9

Yes, it’s not about what’s best for the child, it’s about what’s best for the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:03 PM
1

I totally agree that music has a profound impact on culture, but also that culture has an incredible impact on music as well. Kendrick in my opinion has surpassed JayZ in the genre. His poetry… and it is poetry is superb. The fact that people often read multiple and conflicting meanings into it is part of the power it contains. That said, it can be too targeted and too political at times for me to really connect with. Still, it’s remarkable, beautiful, and packed with enough meaning to make you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:47 PM
2

I’m not sure we have chatted before, but I just want to say you seem really cool. I hope life has treated you well and continues to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:45 PM
2

Also… his parents entirely financed his early career. He got on DeGrassi because they helped produce the show. His music career is the same. Makes me think of Paris Hilton making a record. But yeah. Meaningless lyrics, auto-tuned everything. The whole thing feels like Chat GPT made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:11 PM
1

Drake fans are universally reviled by high quality men. On the other hand BTS fans, especially the ones who notice how they mock American pop music are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:06 PM
–

I all of the guys in my family have lost a kid in some way… most by foolishly dating single moms, and one by letting a drug addicted stripper and her kids live with him for 4 years. The loss was devastating for each of them. I think these guys are just virgins and it takes a sociopath to just not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:59 PM
0

Ah… it always comes back to cancel culture doesn’t it. Well you know I was once told by a much older relative… that Americans did once hate each other based on fiscal policy. I can’t imagine it, but I suspect it might be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:47 AM
1

Hmm… what are you finding? It’s possible I read it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:28 AM
1

Oh they do shun any man that isn’t liberal. We just fake it. It’s fucking easy. Also they are queer in most cases the husband or wife is bisexual or both. Sometimes it’s marriage, most of the time women won’t commit to such a weak loser man. I’d say our experiences probably match up perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:27 AM
0

Essentially any straight man… and most gay ones too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:20 AM
3

We are still talking about Trump right? The fucker has never had values. He’s a used car salesman and not even a good one. If you don’t know that, then you probably went to Trump university.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:15 AM
1

I respect all views except the ones where they can’t respect anyone who thinks differently. So yeah if you are one of those nutters… even your vibrator will run away eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:12 AM
-1

… smoking the good stuff this evening. I broke it down pretty clear. You are either in the cult or not. The rules apply differently in each situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:02 AM
3

If you followed the campaign in 2016 that was a promise he made to evangelicals along with Pence. He kept that promise and if you notice the court hasn’t made it illegal. They just pushed it down to the states. California is damn near decapitating one year olds like a fucking ISIS branch. It’s one of the most extreme abortion places on planet earth. The only places crazier are forced abortion nations… typically communist ones. So the commoners are fine. If you don’t like it move.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:00 AM
2

Sorry it was Kansas
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:40 AM
3

Oh, you mean candidates that are pro abortion like Trump? Seriously haven’t had many elections since the court finally sent it back to the states. It will work itself out in the long run. It’s not a top issue for conservatives except for the ones that want it banned. Everyone else wants to know how to stop the price of food from doubling again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:37 AM
1

Yes, some of them do. Not all. It doesn’t matter either way. It’s just them killing their own chances for a long term relationship rather than fun until something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:33 AM
-3

I’m generally willing to date regardless of political affiliation. I get along with most anyone. I’m technically center left and not too different than Bill Maher.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:31 AM
0

Then you don’t talk to anyone about it. The only conservatives that want a full ban are evangelicals who attend church more than once a month, Mormons, about 20% of Catholics and so on. It’s about 40% nationally. Didn’t you notice they upheld abortion constitutionally in Oklahoma? Did you really miss that? Oklahoma!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:27 AM
7

We would have to go around clubbing the male feminists like baby seals to get them into line. Otherwise you aren’t getting anywhere. I actually think you could get black guys and white guys working together pretty quickly… it’s the suck up to women in hopes of getting a date guys that will be Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:10 AM
0

I thought about this for a while and I think I’ve come to the conclusion that one of the reasons American women are such shitty humans in general is because of their extremist political beliefs. This rarely gets mentioned here, but most guys basically understand why you may vote one way or another. Like I almost never get upset when I talk about politics, because I worked for Obama and I know how most policies actually do on the street level. However, I find that talking with younger women the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:04 AM
2

It sucks to be in a relationship with someone who easily points out the stupidity of your beliefs. Much better to date people who can’t challenge you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:52 AM
2

Google it. I was looking at Texas and California.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:47 AM
3

Last time I checked 60% of conservatives want a 20 week cutoff just like France. So how and when do you navigate that conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:46 AM
-3

Aka… I want a stupid man who can’t form an opinion for himself. Seriously I hear this shit all the time. This really has 2 components the first is when she want to know you are in then cult with her. It’s less common because they tend to be super ugly. The other is they want to know you aren’t hating people, and that you don’t hate women… that’s what the hot ones care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:39 AM
0

I live in a super liberal area and all of the women say this and then won’t date effeminate liberal men. We joke about it all the time because sometimes they will marry these sad sacks and then immediately ask for an open marriage. That’s at least 50% of poly couples. Most of us don’t give a toss about politics. It’s a drug for stupid people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:32 AM
1

Yeah I was shocked at the number of dickweeds, but I don’t think most men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:22 AM
1

We don’t talk much about the value of female friends anywhere, but my heavens can they make a difference. Especially like you said a really hot one… but they are damn near impossible to find. It almost always fucks up somewhere or they are just takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:18 AM
1

Nobody has successful marriages anymore. Doesn’t matter what you do or how hard you work at it. It’s all just random chance. Like running through a minefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:13 AM
1

Of course. Women don’t calibrate this until they are much older. Like the difference between confidence and arrogance, it’s the same thing to most until 29 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:09 AM
1

No. It’s called the Dunning Kruger Effect. Intellectual men don’t do better until later in life, and it at certain point IQ becomes a limiting factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:11 PM
0

Red Pill is 100% a dating strategy. I didn’t see the gender
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:14 PM
0

LOL… your username is just creepy for a dating sub. Anyway, I’d love to see this data broken down by age and gender and then ethnicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:11 PM
5

Actually, you are correct. The whole innocent until proven guilty requires a higher bar for criminal convictions. I think for a civil suit the bar is so much lower it should be pretty easy, because in a he said, she said, you don’t need much to hit the preponderance of evidence standard. I think you just brought up probably the most compelling argument for state provided mandatory testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:56 PM
3

Well, why would his ignorance matter? Unless he went through the adoption process.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:31 PM
6

Then why does every single study show that dark triad traits to be more attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:04 PM
6

Let me just be blunt. If you give women a pass on this behavior you will get more of it. The stronger the punishment, the less you will get. So yeah it might impact a few kids negatively, but it may save thousands more. This scenario is only about 1 in 50 kids. My cousin has a kid with this woman who convinced her affair partner that the kid is his… because he was wealthier. She even faked the DNA test by swabbing one of her other kids to fake my cousin out. I think if he knew it would devastate…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:41 PM
5

There are usually other family members, and there is a biological father. Look if it doesn’t stop men from going to prison for missing a child support payment then why can’t we treat moms the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:25 PM
3

Bio dad, bio grandparents, foster system. Better than being raised by a scumbucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:23 PM
2

Of course I’m in a relationship. I’m sure you are too. So who taller and bigger him or you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:21 PM
13

I can confirm this. Once they decide play time is over, they suddenly become the Virgin Mary. Also they start looking for guys that can pay for shit and have their act together. This is where the dead bedroom sun comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:05 PM
5

You are essentially saying that an abusive rapist will have success with women provided he has wealth and status. Yet, many have great success even without that. My point is that being abusive should be such a massive turnoff that women should avoid these men at all costs…. But they don’t. So what conclusion do you draw from that? Also you see softer more nice guy types with wealth and status… and women use them as a resource and cheat on them with high frequency… what conclusion do you draw fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:56 PM
6

Foster system exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:48 PM
7

None of you are mind readers and there are healthy and unhealthy ways to do this. The funny thing is that you see a guy who supports female empowerment or some such thing and think he must be a good man. Well, actually you just can’t threaten him, ever, because he doesn’t feel you are ever capable of truly being on his level. Most women actually think men, think and feel like women. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:48 PM
6

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:41 PM
26

I feel that it’s how we treat the mother of the child that is most important. Does she have to pay the money back? Does she go to prison? We put an astounding number of fathers in jail for not paying child support every year. In some states it’s like 30% of all divorced fathers. I think if the mother is sitting in prison for 5 years on paternity fraud charges, most men are going to be just fine taking care of the child. Any kid is better off without a mom like that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:41 PM
2

That’s because you can’t tell who does and who doesn’t. The way women perceive this is entirely different from how it actually is. This is one of the key takeaways from the success of pickup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:32 PM
7

Well the issue you run into especially early in life is that stupid men tend to be more confident and aggressive. The more intelligent boys understand risks and are more likely to be able to accurately assess themselves. They also tend to believe what people in positions of authority tell them. Which is why feminist shaming tactics work best on them and don’t work at all on stupid assholes. Guess which one of the two becomes afraid to talk to women because they are ashamed of their sexuality and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:30 PM
7

Are you smoking crack? Russel Wilson’s wife was fucking the rapist guy while her husband was visiting kids in a cancer ward. When he got remarried women would go out of their way to clown on him online calling him corny. His current wife treats him like shit going back and forth with her toxic abusive ex. NO just having wealth and status does not make you automatically successful. It just makes you a solid resource to exploit! Now you can do well with women and not be abusive. That’s your point …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:25 PM
5

Get what they want. I’ve known men who want a relationship, many who just want sex, and even some that want gifts and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:15 PM
3

These guys are all missing the Why part of this discussion. If your attitude is “women ain’t shit” then you can have platonic conversations and get dates. If your attitude is that women are amazing and perfect… then you can have all the conversations you want, but you aren’t getting dates. I mean you aren’t wrong overall in that social skills help a lot, but the Red Pill core idea is to kick women off the social pedestal. Unfortunately these guys have kept the pedestal but now see women as horri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:13 PM
14

Friendzone absolutely exists I lived it. I sometimes wonder what experiences some of you folks have to just dismiss basic human social interactions. The biggest lesson I learn as a teen was watching my nerdy friend get bullied publicly and then seeing his best female friend date that bully 6 months later. That killed their friendship, and when their mutual female friends had to choose, none picked the nerdy guy. Women are not these perfect angelic beings and I’m tired of the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:06 PM
2

That whole concept is post 2010. The friend zone greatly predates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:52 PM
13

It’s not actually like that. The key is to project confidence, dominance, and competency. If you are not awkward, and have a great social life but you act submissive, and have low confidence… women are not going to be sexually interested in you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:45 PM
11

I don’t even know what you are trying to say really. Fact, the men who look down on women are the ones that do the best. The ones who are intimidated or afraid of women do the worst. This is why you can half stats like half of all NFL players with a domestic violence charge against them at some point, and a quarter faced rape accusations. You need to read Roissy. His stuff on this is old but spot on and I feel like the younger guys don’t get it. The key here is that it acts as a status display. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:43 PM
1

Normally it takes about 8 or 9 for men to get fired up, but this a a new generation so, maybe it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:53 AM
1

I spent a lot of time in Asia. They don’t like body hair either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:36 AM
1

I live near a district that is one of the wealthiest and I sat down and went through their budget once. 8% went to buses. I remember teacher pay was a ridiculously low 18%. Almost any business in the world used 33% of costs for pay. I remember finding about 21% gap between what was spent and what they should have taken in. But all this crap is impossible to account for because it comes from so many different sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:35 AM
0

Well, they are clearly dipshits
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:27 AM
1

I hope your day is awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:37 PM
2

Haha… you have a fan base among the Red Pillers! I can’t disagree with it either. You two would probably be a fun couple to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:31 PM
1

I think I will see you in a slightly different light now. In my experience the Asian folks appreciate chivalrous behavior way, way more than western people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:28 PM
2

We have the most expensive school system in world history and they can’t even teach kids to read. Do you honestly think another $100 billion is going to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:22 PM
3

I would happily do dishes and laundry if my wife had landscaping skills like you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:29 PM
2

Thank you for asking! I’m actually doing really well personally. I’ve got the career I want and a really great GF. I haven’t always been Ok. Took me a while to get to that point, and in a way I’m very lucky that other men who were positive took were willing to invest in me and help me. So I can understand what a lot of these kids are going through, and I know what they really need… and why Tate’s toxic destructive message resonates so hard with them. What I don’t think people understand at a soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:09 PM
3

Mongolia… that’s worse than a lot of Africa in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:48 PM
0

All that is ignored. They only focus on his rebellion against the system. All they see is that when women try to shame his masculinity… even if it’s nasty pimp style… he says No. he rejects the feeling and won’t be shamed into place. That’s all they see or care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:46 PM
3

The core thing that boys have lost in my opinion is social investment, but also family investment. There is a very conscious effort among certain mothers to try and make their boys more girly… which they see as gender neutral, but seems to actually be very harmful later in life. I’ve seen some studies that show that incels in particular are in the vast majority of cases from left wing parents. In fact that’s a bigger indicator than not having a father in the home. My guess is that moms remove an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:42 PM
1

Not crazy. Horses give a deep, deep bond. They require a lot of care and have their own personalities. Just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:24 PM
1

MLK and MalcolmX lived at the same time a fought the same fight. What made one person choose violence and another choose peace? What happens if everyone just totally dismissed the issues they faced? Wouldn’t that incentivize choosing violence? If people don’t care about your oppression then you must give them a reason to care. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:17 PM
1

I’ve been there and tried. The thing is that there are a couple things women always seem to do that sabotage the healing process, trickle truth is the absolute top of that list, along with minimizing, and blame shifting to the OM. But even when everything goes correctly, almost like clockwork around the 3 year mark men have a serious crisis and that’s usually when it all falls apart. Technically I think it’s biology because 3 years would be a point where any affair baby would be able to survive …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:12 PM
3

I like it. It makes guys think about what they actually want with game style limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:04 PM
1

They are only disadvantaged by their own mentality. A woman for the streets gets it in her blood and it never goes away. You can’t un-experience something. It becomes part of you and grips everything you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:57 PM
4

Get the fuck out of here! Africa has less crime and more stability than California. Tate did this in Europe because he can get away with it there and because he’s a racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:46 PM
-13

I want to say this very loudly. If you take everything away from boys, tell them every part of how they naturally feel is toxic and that they need to basically be girls, while women act like fucked up shitty men… this is what you get. They idolize the first guy to say FUCK YOU to the feminist system that oppresses them. You can argue all you want about this but Tate basically is what the modern woman sees when she looks in the mirror. They are that toxic and hateful. The answer is Passport Bros,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:26 PM
6

Still… regardless of the legalities… would you do this shit? Ever wonder why Tate didn’t try this shit in Africa?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:10 PM
-8

I don’t think you can criticize him as a feminist anymore, no matter what a disgusting piece of crap he is… because dude just converted to Islam. Which means among Woke UK feminists he can groom and rape underage girls and it’s totally cool. It’s a progressive thing now. The more I see this stuff, the less respect I have for either group. Tate needs to stay in prison. He is a predator, but I find these woke people just as morally bankrupt and reprehensible. They chose their broken ideology over …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:08 PM
1

Ok. We are missing each other here. I don’t mean to say it’s like online dating. When I said 99/100 rejections I’m talking in person street level approach… which is damn close to what I do for a living. Online dating is marketing, but you are the product. If your photos aren’t damn close to cat phishing, then you aren’t doing it right. As for retail sales, like I said I see a lot of women working there, but when they go to sell something, that person came in the door looking to buy already. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:43 AM
1

I got an Ex that worked doing something like that at Nordstroms. That’s mostly a customer service gig with some perks for sales. I know because it doesn’t pay crap, and if these ladies could go hunt business, I’d stack my team out with them and not put up with the nonsense I have to from the men. What makes you think these things are the same? Do you really thinks all sales is the same skill set? We divide between hunters and farmers, and hunter are typically men, farmers are mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:31 AM
2

That’s radically different. You just sit on your ass and wait for people to show up. Yeah that’s not far away from how women date too. Seriously, that’s not the same thing, not at all. If you don’t have to overcome cold call hesitation as the absolute bare minimum, it’s minimum wage sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:13 AM
1

Sorry, but look at the sales profession. I work in huge B2B corporate sales. It’s at max 20% women and although those women are ballers our success rate for hiring new women is under 10%. When I talk to them it’s the inherent rejection of sales. They can’t take it. It drives them into a deep depression and most can’t go 6 months. Base pay is well over 6 figures, so they try damn hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:41 AM
1

Sure, but it all hammers away at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:00 PM
–

Men didn’t use to be that fragile. It was only some of us and back then a lot of families put enough into their boys to overcome a lot of the issues. What I see today is that social messaging is completely negative towards boys anything even moderately masculine is demonized and in school they are told to be like girls and it’s fucking their minds up, they can’t deal with it. The ones with good families are surviving, but an ever increasing group are getting crushed under.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:37 PM
–

I think it’s Australian. I can look it up later
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:21 PM
1

Random. Do you seriously want to be limited to your social circle? Who wants to marry Tinderella?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:19 PM
1

I’m set already. What I want is for them to stop promoting unqualified women into spots above me or below me and then asking me to deal with the bullshit it causes. I will say this though, I got two black women the last 3 years moved into the team that are absolutely golden finds. One I helped get her promoted up last year. She’s older and started in a different industry. She had the balls to politely call out the CEO on a conference call one time. I had to pick my jaw up off the floor. So much …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:13 PM
–

Ok. Well you have to understand the key biological drivers of women. They need the kind of man that can protect and provide resources. Now we tend to think of that as your 9-5 guy but that’s wrong. It’s the kind of guy who can and will smash other men and take resources from them. So the key trait is DOMINANCE. Typically this is shown via confident actions. However if you just come straight out with that you will scare the shit out of them. They have to feel like you aren’t going to physically h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:04 PM
1

I mean just listen to them talk about it. To them these are the only men on planet earth, the rest of the male population are peons to be used and discarded at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:38 PM
1

It doesn’t take all of them, just a few. I mean how much even polite rejection can you take?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:32 PM
6

Women need to delay physical intimacy as long as possible. Men need to do everything possible to increase basic attraction, because that’s how you bypass crazy standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:19 PM
2

Look, all the guys are complaining about women today having crazy high standards, but that’s not the real issue in my opinion. It’s that those standards don’t apply to highly attractive men who tend to be inundated with women. So for these guys there is no standard and the competition is absolutely fierce, because unlike previous generations the basic self esteem of average boys has been crushed into to the dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:17 PM
–

OR too attractive, especially for high up guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:48 PM
–

Recent studies show women who feel bad about getting pumped and dumped actually increases the chances she will do it again regardless of how it makes her feel… and that over time she becomes desensitized to it. The dynamics of this aren’t entirely known, but I suspect she doesn’t have a choice. They are competing with mad amounts of other women for men so high above them it’s stupid to even try. In universities these are usually the D1 athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:43 PM
–

How old are you and how much experience do you have first. I find a lot of zoomers are addicted to defeatist thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:26 PM
3

No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:17 PM
4

How hard is it to not sleep with a guy right away. Wait 2-3 months and 95% of this crap goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:14 PM
2

Yes, but there are some key takeaways in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:12 PM
0

Well, let’s be honest. As a man you WILL face this rejection. It’s unavoidable and for more average guys it’s going to happen 99 in 100 times and totally crush your self esteem down to nothing. As a woman, all you have to do to avoid this is not be a whore. How hard is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:11 PM
–

There are really two keys the first and foremost is you need to make women feel safe up front. Once that is accomplished you project dominance. Then try for competence but it usually isn’t required. That’s basically how you bypass the checklist or standards, height requirements all that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:02 PM
-3

For the record, I really like your posting. I mean you are a hardass for sure, but you make good points almost every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:20 PM
0

Most of this is spot on and everyone is dealing with confirmation bias. The one thing I will say is that if you are involved in the education system hatred of boys and NeoRacism is absolutely pervasive. Also almost all corporations we work for now have DEI administrators that really make me feel like they are violating the law in a big way. I work at a HUGE multinational corporation in a middle management role. I just had a VP of sales position go to a 30 year old woman that I managed 4 years ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:16 PM
–

Bernie Madoffs children are not entitled to the money he swindled off people. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:57 PM
–

Well, I’m maybe not in favor of state bans, but time limitations make sense to me. Truth is that I didn’t realize until I lost a child that I loved deeply but never got a chance to meet. I just think if it hit me that hard, how much worse for his mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:52 PM
–

The baby was not capable of making decisions, thus the mother is in charge of that. If she as guardian lied then the child lied by implication. Nobody is entitled to the man’s income based on false representation. Additionally, there should be civil suit against the mother for appropriate damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:13 AM
–

If you lied, most contracts are void.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:20 AM
2

I’ve gotten out of shape once in my late 20s. I’m not doing that again. Having strength and vitality… it’s just so important in life, I mean forget the women, just do it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:58 AM
–

I’ve done an immense amount of thought on this and… I think I’m pro life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:56 AM
–

If the mother does like 15 years is prison. I’d 100% take the kid and pay for everything. But let’s get real, she’d do probation at most. The pussy pass is way too real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:54 AM
–

Those are all questions for the mother to answer. I’d be wanting my 15 years of money back first, and then I would make a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:05 AM
–

I feel like Woody Allen handled this situation best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:03 AM
–

Look, it’s always wrong to take advantage of naive people. If the guy signed believing the child was his, he should be able to get out of that if he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:02 AM
1

Basically women get judged on stuff they can control, men get judged on genetic factors that are impossible to change. I’d love to be an inch and a half taller, it can’t be done. I would love my muscle definition to be sharper… it can’t be done. Basically all the things women judge us on cannot be fixed. But of course it’s so horrible that men want women to not be obese. What a pile of crap. Also when it comes to being fat, 10% of the male population are chubby chasers… it actually turns them on…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:49 AM
1

Our food supply is basically poison. I barely eat living here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:31 AM
1

Ugly women have it so hard! In a society where a woman’s entire mate value is based exclusively on looks… if you don’t have that, what can you do? Basically plastic surgery is your only out. I will say this though. Most average men are not interested in marrying women that are too beautiful. So you can have issues at the top too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:16 PM
–

Ok, I pretty much entirely agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:40 PM
0

Proof is in the pudding, sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:39 PM
-1

It isn’t a new idea. A lot of men have felt this way for thousands of years. I’m not entirely sure where it comes from. I suspect part of it is that this world is win or die trying for men, and for women you just sit back and try to get the best deal possible out of the winner. Not all cultures have been like that though. The Celts supposedly women went to battle with their husbands and held the shield. LOL… as a result petite small women were not considered very attractive. But most ancient bat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:38 PM
–

East Asia has the same monoculture ripping through it. Look, it doesn’t matter how much your wife is attracted to you or not, they are biologically programmed to shut down sex if you cannot leave them. Their sex drive is totally designed to keep men from leaving and the moment you create a system that takes all a man’s resources and gives it to the woman upon a split… then you just permanently fucked men. Other countries don’t have this issue as much because they dont have stupid divorce laws th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:12 PM
2

I’m pretty sure that it’s mostly my personality type. I grew up in an area that’s 40% Hispanic. I’m decent with Spanish. The thing is that I just always come across as a rich kid… but not the cool rebellious kind…. More like the tightly wound prep school type. Every traditional culture has its own feel for masculinity. I just grew up in that cold highly disciplined, stoic, warrior mentality of Northern Europeans. We fucking crush at almost everything in life, but women really dislike it, with tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:14 PM
3

I just have lost all respect for these people. I really think they are completely racist, and sexist i
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:36 PM
2

Actually the women are on average better looking in Mexico and more pleasant. Unfortunately South American women have never liked me that much. I do Ok… not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:21 PM
–

I’ve done a lot of thinking about this, because it’s not the same in other countries. I mean it’s still there but nowhere near the same level. We have this urban monoculture that despises men and I think that’s driving a lot of what we see. I don’t think women are supposed to be this bad at mate selection, and I don’t think men are supposed to be this weak and effeminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:16 PM
3

I honestly don’t think they had sex. She changed her story like 4 times already. You know I read a study that suggested 75% of sexless men were raised by left wing parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:07 AM
3

I read the rat study. They absolutely bombed those rats with fructose, but I haven’t touched it since 2004.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:33 AM
5

Ok. One person cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:32 AM
6

Look the human diet should be 70% vegetables, but yeah you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:50 AM
7

You know, I try to tell the young guys that number one above all, is you have to have a gentle energy and make her feel safe, but also some dominance so she knows you aren’t a loser, and as much competence as you can muster. Then you have maybe a 10% shot… and those are good odds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:18 AM
4

The portions were huge long before the corn syrup came along, we just had lifestyles to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:15 AM
9

Well, the issue isn’t that she said this about him, I could care less about the jackass and frankly he says stuff almost as mean. The issue is that she did it so publicly and a lot of his exes pretty much said she was lying. Shaq’s ex did something similar if you can remember way back… and I assume that was a lie too. But I mean I don’t expect these folks to be consistent. It’s not a movement that’s about fairness, justice, or decency. It’s about power for your group and punching your way to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:14 AM
4

Like everything else… cultural positivity is just for women. Men get unrelenting unbelievably crazy standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:35 AM
20

When that escort who slept with Trump mocked his penis on national TV a left wing guy killed himself because the description fit his own manhood so well. Nobody cared, barely even made the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:32 AM
7

Portion control is a bigger issue in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:19 AM
10

Sometimes it’s less about the conversation itself and more about the energy you bring to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:16 AM
2

Those two things are equally important for long term happiness. It is simply much harder to be involved in a son’s attempt to find a wife. It is however very Important to ensure you have some form of veto power over his choices in the case that he is on the softer side. If he is completely struggling then you may need to do something. For daughters it’s a much more passive process and you have to both trust her more and provide more guidance because negative outcomes are much more negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:47 PM
6

That’s just so rare. Awesome, but so rare!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:09 PM
–

They can make their own spaces. As long as black men are not excluded it’s fine. Honestly, white women can just go fuck off and do their own thing. That’s my feeling on it. I’m on the west coast so no Jim Crow, no segregation, highly progressive politics even when California was having the Klanbake convention. We did not have a serious Klan presence. We had prominent black male business owners and some of those families still hold sway in the city today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:08 PM
0

Well to answer that, can a male coma patient hit orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:03 PM
0

They both have different challenges. With a girl you have to keep the cultural brainwashing away. Homeschool, no social media. You have to give her a sport and one or other talents. The teen years are going to be horrible but before that isn’t too bad. Discipline is important, teaching them to listen to wisdom is also very important. Then it’s just about helping them find a suitable career and husband. A boy is way damn hard today. Much more effort. Discipline is way more important. Self control…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:01 PM
0

If it isn’t required is it really primary? Do you see what I’m getting at? If you think about it, there is something that controls that visual stimulation right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:48 AM
–

It was a very progressive place. Black men were never banned. I don’t know about Jews, I don’t think there was a big population. Thing is they just closed it up and moved it behind an enormous paywall. Because women hate it when average men get a chance to move up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:40 AM
1

So are you saying blind men can’t orgasm? Older women need to fucking stow their egos and give it a go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:26 AM
10

This reminds me of a discussion I was having with EqualityFlan or something like that. I was trying to explain why older women tend to be sexier, but also not as beautiful. So young women basic tend to have body issues and not have a fucking clue either what they want or what men want in bed. So they compensate by just being super sub. The young women who are good at sex are often pros. Older women care a lot less for body issues and have had enough time to figure out what they need to hit the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:12 AM
1

The chance of dying in pregnancy actually fluctuated in history between cultures and times. I’d say the average lifetime chance is about 15%, unless you were Scandinavian and then it’s 25% due to some genetic issues with the hip structure. But if you didn’t have a man to help provide food and rest it could be 20% for a single pregnancy. The thing was is that in most of these ancient societies your entire social status as a woman was determined almost entirely by how many children you had and how…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:04 AM
3

I’m going to be straight with you, porn is better than sex. I had to give it up a decade ago because no woman could ever compete with my fantasy. So what kind of job do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:53 AM
0

You are correct that isn’t going to change. I’m not sure what these guys are going to eventually do. I don’t even think that sex and relationships is what they really want anyway. I think what they want is status and adventure. I can already see a huge chunk of them are bisexual if you look at polling data. The majority are left wing politically… although that may change. If you think about it, this is an entire generation of boys who have been marginalized and spoonfed shame their entire lives.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:08 AM
1

So essentially what you are saying is that Sunil Dutt is an arsonist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:57 AM
2

Well, I’m glad you didn’t stay. Self harm can quickly turn into harming others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:53 AM
1

I’m not a fan of grunt work myself up to a point, but I do love to work up a sweat, and I’m always willing to hire help. Main thing is the prices are still crazy. They are coming down about 10% but it’s still way up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:51 AM
1

That makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:56 AM
0

It’s highly possible that I’m misremembering. If I find the study I will DM you if that’s ok? I’d say 5% chance that I’m correct at this point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:51 AM
2

That’s awesome! Thing I’ve noticed is that some of these areas are very economically depressed. I think it would be great to build some stuff get involved in the community and help make a positive change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:49 AM
1

That’s exactly what I want to do. I want to set up a little commercial place and grow stuff for fun. I just think probably not many ladies want to join me in that experience. Probably will have to get one that’s already rural or bring one in from another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:48 AM
1

Ok. Then what is the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:45 AM
0

No, it just means he is a man and doesn’t work for the government. I worked for Obama doing outreach with these folks. Their values, beliefs, and everything are all wildly different from one another. They are defined by opposition to something on the other side and that something varies by the individual although they are broad categories. I mean there are now tons of gay Trump supporters… which would have been wild to even consider in 2012. Now that’s not to say you are entirely wrong though. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:38 AM
1

I’m certainly wouldn’t tolerate that crap. So I see two definitions of emotional intelligence. One is centered around a person’s ability to understand and comtrol their own emotions and the other is centered around the ability to read emotions in other people. They don’t always go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:31 AM
1

I don’t see that quote. The SPLC was totally cool with him until he got political.. and if he had told people to vote for Clinton, they would have allows him to publish rape fantasies like Bernie Sanders and never said a peep about him. Look, I met the guy. I talked to him online a couple of times over several years. He was very serious about 2 issues. The first is that he had zero tolerance for violence against women. I watched him swat down men on multiple occasions who felt this was acceptabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:58 PM
0

Polyandry is your only option simply for genetic diversity reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:45 PM
2

I will read this study! Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:43 PM
-1

I believe scientists have already proved we made it through a bottleneck like that once before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:42 PM
15

But isn’t that how it works in real life? You are like looking at his info going, yes, Yes, YEs, YES, No, NO, Holy Hell NOOOO!! And then on to the next profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:37 PM
0

What’s wrong with the Adam guy? Is it the desire to live on a farm?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:34 PM
0

He literally did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:14 PM
0

That sounds like very low self esteem. Are you sure it’s low emotional intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:14 PM
–

No, I’m not familiar with that concept. Is it like a mentorship? I don’t know how many of the younger men are willing to change. I think somebody has to convince them that it will work, and then you have to convince them that they are worth the effort, because most have given up on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:11 PM
2

I used to do chores with my grandma. She realized how not doing these things affected her children so she worked hard with the grandkids. She taught me to hand wash most cooking instruments. I also learned how to fold towels, sheets, shirts, pants. I really think if there was some way, I would love to be a stay at home dad rather than a middle manager in high pressure sales environment. However, life isn’t often about what you want, it’s about dealing with how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:18 PM
5

Powerful men don’t buy hookers for sex, they pay these women to go away afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:35 PM
1

Ok, first I didn’t know people were putting knives, pots, or pans in a dishwasher. Although it should not surprise me as I once caught an OBGYN who had metal reusable vaginal speculums simply soaking them in water between patients and then putting them into a dishwasher at night. Zero sterilization procedure. I called and reported him to the state and they did nothing. Second, communication is very important, but most people do not have the skills. I currently do because I’ve taken a course on n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:04 PM
3

I think a lot of those people were terrible parents, or are terrible in general. I think a lot of folks who neurotically choose to avoid children probably could have been saved by them. In the end it's a meaning of life thing, and hedonism only gets you so far. Your life is yours to live. Maybe you would have been a shit parent, or maybe being a parent would have made you a better person. Regardless, some day you will wind up in a crematorium and it doesn't matter if there is someone to spread y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:38 PM
2

Then you are essentially hoping some outside entity like the government is going to start caring about men and try to help them. I've been waiting my whole life for that... it isn't going to happen. I think every boy at some point in their childhood comes to the realization that nobody cares about you, unless you are doing something for them, providing them some kind of benefit. We used to respond by trying to be valuable, but also with a hard edge of disappointment. Today, the boys just give up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:23 PM
0

The most important of the Red Pill influencers was RooshV, and he was absolutely not a fake, or a grifter. However, the constant fight with feminists was wearing on him, their attempts to put him in jail and all that crap. When his sister died, he just broke down and quit. He was very intelligent and had a very big heart. Into that void stepped sociopathic assholes like Tate and Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:57 AM
1

The best George RR Martin quote of all time in my opinion is: “Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armour yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:28 AM
2

100% true! But what are your other options? Being a fuckboy toy? Buying cats? Getting beat to shit by a lesbian? How are any of these better? And other options seem like magical thinking to me. Not many get to marry the prince…. And even those who do often don’t seem happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:57 AM
1

Why could he not express emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:51 AM
0

I said the exact same thing. Then I held my baby and everything changed. I can understand the desire to live only for oneself, and while it can be a happy thing, it lacks true joy. Perhaps others are different. There are people who really should not have kids… typically they have many. It’s true though that those with poor mental health should not have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:51 AM
2

Men rarely go to Psychology today. I personally do not trust the website at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:40 AM
2

I think it’s actually a cool idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:37 AM
2

It’s social conditioning. Men are divided up as children and forced to compete against each other for everything. Go back in time and men have very strong fraternal bonds. However, in the US this had a very racial element to it, so a lot of it has been demolished with nothing put in its place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:36 AM
2

The point is that one is socially acceptable and the other is demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:31 AM
–

The ridiculous thing about birds aside, yes highly attractive fathers don’t parent much. Nick Cannon has like 14 kids with 15 different women each one knew about the ones before. This guy never sees his kids, it’s just a logistical issue for him. This is why women in other countries mitigate their own attraction to jackasses. Passport Bros figured this out decades ago and in my state they constitute 10% of all marriages now… and they are twice as stable as marriages to local women. This will hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:36 AM
5

I mean look, even the Boyscouts are gone. The truth is that these gentlemens clubs were mostly upper class things to begin with (not the kind with strippers), Australia is investing in work shop garages where men can go fix stuff and build things. Fucking brilliant if you ask me. But I mean… I don’t think it’s going to make an impact really. My expectation is that these kids will continue to be ignored and they will continue to lash out. It doesn’t surprise me that school shooters started in 199…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:16 AM
2

Actually… all of these things are social contagions. Wisdom!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:06 AM
3

My hometown used to have a men’s club. Some of the largest companies in the US were founded there, so women forced their way in and then all the men left for the golf clubs. It shut down in the 1980s. We need these spaces back desperately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:06 AM
1

And… they post it on a site for women, because that makes perfect sense. Side note. Female therapists tend to suck something horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:03 AM
1

Fact!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:00 AM
-1

They are the biggest pain in the ass my friend, country girls are so much better. I don’t even care if they are chubbier and don’t use makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:59 AM
2

I wish I could upvote this 100 times!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:57 AM
2

It shouldn’t be that hard. Especially if you are older. The problem for young women is that we put zero effort into the entire generation of Gen Z boys. So the ones with solid families have all the advantages and get to play the field forever. The rest are abject failures… and these would have been some of the best men. I don’t even know how you go about fixing them. My suggestion to younger women is to look for a salvageable one in societies garbage pile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:54 AM
1

I guess when you are living in the mental institution it’s pretty hard to date. It’s like every guy you meet is crazy or something. My suggestion would be to take your meds and lie down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:49 AM
1

Testing 1,2,3 testing!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:44 AM
-1

You got me all confused now. What dies the transmission of my car have to do with anything… especially sleeping with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:43 AM
2

You don’t know the problem with the term because you aren’t trying to have relationships with women. Do you know how many times I have to fight with a GF over how to tie a trash bag or hand wash a dish or even put it in the washer? They throw this term around like it means anything not done exactly how they want it done. Maybe it’s not the term itself, maybe it’s just being feminist makes you an asshole. I don’t know, but I can say for sure that this kind of crap is why so many guys just check o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:42 AM
1

No, there are many things in life that we just have not generated data for. Our social sciences at universities are so ideological that what they do produce is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:41 AM
3

Well, this one is something I think is probably true in some instances. It think female friends play a huge role in how women act. I’ve just noticed that really good high quality women won’t be friends with bad ones. I’m also testing engagement. For a personal theory on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:13 PM
-1

Oh, so you hate LGBTQST++# people? Wait? Did I miss a letter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:10 PM
1

Occult as in hidden. We don’t know the exact truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:08 PM
1

Well, the truth is occult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:46 PM
0

Any post that drives engagement is a good post. Don’t you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:45 PM
0

First you must be able to define what a woman is, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:43 PM
0

Very good argument all around. I actually do not believe the mindless parrot theory. I do think they have a pressure to conform to societal expectations that men just don’t tend to share. If you think about it. Young women want to suck up to the rich powerful men in charge. Young men want to dethrone them. That’s the basic social dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:42 PM
1

That Harvard professor and her Jewish husband. Tiger mom lady. American women fucking hate her but she’s totally correct and has flawless data.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:28 PM
-1

Almost all domestic violence claims during a divorce are false. It’s a legal tactic. The infidelity stats are believable. But yeah no fault means we don’t really know why. From what I see, it’s mostly women thinking they can get better elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:27 PM
3

I just think this is sad. 😔 If you are good with kids and like children… you will never have a stronger bond. My children are the reason I take care of myself, the reason I work hard. I want to see them and love them as long as I can. They give me pride and they give me joy in a way nothing else can. But here is the thing, resignation to fate guarantees that fate. The people who achieve are the ones who work and strive for what they want. I can tell you two things about children. The first is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:11 PM
2

Uh… in the study it suggests that you may be viewed as a potential husband poaching threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:48 PM
1

I’m mean the data. You can only say certain things in the conclusion and be published.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:47 PM
1

Ah, I see your point overall, and while I think your examples are ridiculously off base, I agree with the concept. LA marriages are not partnerships of equals on average. I’d equate them more to black women married to klan members in hiding, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:46 PM
0

How long do you think a guy can do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:42 PM
2

Then call it passive aggressive laziness. Don’t call a horse a unicorn when unicorns don’t exist. Whoever came up with this term is verbally incompetent, and doesn’t understand the situation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:41 PM
-1

Happiness is a feeling, and feelings come and go. Who is happy 100% of the time in a marriage? It doesn’t take much to get an otherwise happy person thinking maybe they aren’t as happy as they think. Especially when you see your friend dating a handsome new guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:38 PM
0

Well, when your friends make it look glamorous and fun a lot more are willing to try. Especially when faced with a good but boring marriage. Thing is that if you have ever done it, marriage is hard work. Dating is exiting and new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:35 PM
0

If they didn’t take care of themselves beforehand, why would you even consider pairing up with them? These things can’t be faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:33 PM
-2

It doesn’t say who initiates the divorce, it only says that men and women are equally affected, and that both receive a hit to in group popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:31 PM
0

Agree. I was just referencing the study on gender and peer pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:26 PM
3

I’m saying we already have a term for it, and that term is Passive Aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:24 PM
-2

Correct on all counts! To reach the conclusion I posted you have to lump together multiple unconnected studies. The majority of which I did not provide. I actually suspect that the key here is friend groups and culture. Like this idea that people with low morals are likely to be friends or that friends share similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:23 PM
0

I lived in LA for a long time. Amicable divorces are much more likely in Utah. Also I see no major difference between the feminist cult and the Mormon cult. Except maybe the feminist cult is more toxic and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:16 PM
2

Well, now your dad should fix the dishwasher and buy new glasses. Also, this isn’t incompetence, it’s lazy asshole behavior. My father also has this tendency. I used to have to clean his shop for him as a kid. I stopped when I went off to college but he would tell me to help him every time I came back to visit. He helped pay for some of my expenses so I did. But after graduation… he’s on his own and is basically unable to find or do anything. He used to complain about it to me, but he won’t clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:12 PM
-8

I’m not sure it means what you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:58 PM
-1

Evidently not if their friends are getting divorced. But I will say that studies show older women are significantly less affected by peer pressure. So this likely diminishes as women age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:50 PM
1

Any woman can resolve this issue by putting more effort into the relationship up front. Ask the guy out, initiate dates. As it stands by the time you start living together, you know exactly how he is and typically you even know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:48 PM
2

The number of unhappy marriages is about 30% at any given time, and the divorce risk increase is over 70%. That suggests having divorced friends actually makes women want to divorce in otherwise happy marriages. Not all divorce is bad, but it’s not often good either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:44 PM
5

lol… weaponized incompetence? I had a number of male roommates over the years and this is just a term used by overly picky and controlling assholes to justify bad behavior or terrible attitudes. It is either one of two things, either he is lazy OR she is unreasonable and controlling. Every roommate I’ve had you sit down and make a deal on how to divide chores and then you let them do it without bitching or trying to tell them how. Sometimes the fucker is just lazy, so that means you have to eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:41 PM
-3

70% of marital issues are not solvable. Divorce doesn’t fix that, you just get new problems with new people. Men shouldn’t have to change unless they are wildly out of line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:54 PM
-25

True, but it matches what we see in other areas, so we can make this conclusion based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:52 PM
0

It’s a politically motivated statement obviously. The CDC lists 10 things to watch out for in increased suicide risk. They list being LGBT, Native American… and a large number of other identity groups. Meanwhile the number one risk factor is being a man. It isn’t listed, specifically for political reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:48 PM
-9

It might be, which I why I linked the Pew Research study instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:45 PM
1

Look up gendered studies on peer pressure effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:44 PM
-3

Follow the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:44 PM
0

Uh… less than 30% of marriages are reported as unhappy. That’s less than half the increase in divorce chance. Assuming even distribution, you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:41 PM
-7

The percentage of unhappy marriages does not support the increase in divorce rates listed in this social contagion. Unless all the unhappily married people are friends… which I don’t think is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:34 PM
-1

I expect this type of social contagion is why women initiate more divorces. The marriage isn’t actually that bad, they just become hyper critical and desire to follow the trend. The don’t think this is something that affects the husbands much, as they don’t tend to just blindly follow what other people do as much, although it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:32 PM
-11

The data suggests it’s more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:26 PM
-13

Meh google it. They are all over the place. The important thing is the study! That’s hardcore factual data collected over 40 or 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:21 PM
4

Uh… love without lust is friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:58 PM
1

Lust obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:50 PM
–

The guys who don’t get any play… it’s because they don’t try or have standards above themselves. It’s hard to understand because you can be fit but with a crap personality and that makes you a male 4, which means you should be going for the bigger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:32 PM
0

Most women find that shit boring. They often don’t have great social standing because they have highly agreeable traits. I think a lot of western women make the mistake of thinking all women love bad boys, and it just isn’t true in places where traditional gender roles stillhold sway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:59 AM
7

Because if they want kids then they need a high quality father. Which is why it’s absolutely asinine that western women chase toxic dipshits forever. All of the incels are the products of dumb bitches chasing toxic assholes. These poor losers pay the price for their parents uselessness. Seriously the Passport Bros have it right, and they are making an enormous difference in the dating market. I just looked at the stats and 8% of all US marriages last year were passport bros and their marriages a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:39 AM
0

Up for most, a small cohort has gone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:30 AM
1

Studies show that women’s standards increase as the number of men they encounter increases. Technically women’s standards are infinite which is fucking insane. So yes women today do have just stupid high standards for traits and things that have nothing to do with successful marriages or quality fathers. Why do toxic dipshit traits always have to come first?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:29 AM
3

What these guys say here and what they really think are not always the same. Most of the Red Pill guys, the ones that have a PUA background, they will agree even if they don’t say it outright. I just think it’s something impossible to realize if you have no experience. The bitterness doesn’t help either, but that’s a topic for another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:36 AM
3

All cheaters broke the relationship. I think even polyamory is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:50 AM
6

That’s you projecting. You dislike boring men so you want to imagine they are bad, women do the same bullshit with nice guys. It’s just your hamster running wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:08 AM
4

I’m getting older myself, and in my opinion a fit woman at 43 just has something a 23 year old doesn’t… maybe even can’t have. In a way I totally agree with you that it’s not the same, but in another way I don’t. The beauty of youth is like a Bob Ross painting, something men look at and admire, but it actually takes something more to create sexiness. I mean there are men who would make love to that Bob Ross painting… but there is an underlying insecurity that drives it. Do you know what I’m gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:06 AM
3

You don’t know this already? Impulse control and risk taking behaviors are the two key traits. That will weed out 50% of the cheats. Also liars are high risk and empathetic men are super high risk. The thing with men who don’t cheat is that they tend to be very boring and conservative. So unless you think Mike Pence is hot… just stick to chasing men like Trump or Hunter Biden. At least then you know what you are getting. I like the analogies to politicians because women love the scummy rapist on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:46 AM
7

Any guy who wants to will find an opportunity. Once you are married your attractiveness jumps up at least a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:37 AM
2

I suspect he’s getting shot down a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:32 AM
6

My experience is that this is mostly due to either 2 different things. Either the guy is lazy or she is not picky and controlling… and it’s almost 50/50 on that. Lazy guys just don’t want to do anything and are cool with living in a trash bin. Controlling women, and there are lots of them, when they start telling you how to do things, the guys don’t want conflict so they just shut down. If you have ever been in an argument about how you vacuum, then you know what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:32 AM
3

You just divide up time slots. Also.. change every diaper you can and that makes a HUGE difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:26 AM
1

He’s assuming you are some hot young thing. I think if that were accurate you would be linking your onlyfans account. I have zero doubt that what you say is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:24 AM
-3

There is a difference here but it’s now what this guy is saying. Women will cheat when the relationship conditions are poor. So it doesn’t matter what woman you are with, if you hit a rough patch she is likely to cheat. Men… well some guys just cheat anytime the ability arrives. Guys who cheat will do so even when the relationship is good. So with men you just need to pick the guy who doesn’t… and it’s like 65% don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:58 PM
2

I’ve dated a number of former SAHMs. They seem much more likely to monkey branch out of a marriage, also they get a fuckton of court ordered support. Go up into the suburbs and you’ve never seen so much luxury. They aren’t shopping at Walmart that’s for sure. Of course if your husband didn’t make much…. Well it’s not that hard to replace him then isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:34 PM
1

Sexual history doesn’t play into this much. Career women though have a much greater propensity for this, I think because they have to do this at work and tend to date immature men. I’m not a big fan of virgin hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:26 PM
0

The number one thing is that she doesn’t tell you what to do. Also does not fight with you over how you do things and when you do them. This is a simple ask actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:53 PM
0

Women don’t do it because they assume that a man will financially control them during the relationship not after. They assume this because THEY try to financially control people. In fact these women are control freaks in most aspects and not generous at all unless they can virtue signal with it. I’ve dated lots of them, I know how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:17 PM
0

So… you fuck around on him? What a wonderful person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:48 PM
-1

The SAHM has much more power in the relationship actually. She can take all your shit. Independent women, you can kick them out and lose very little. I’ve done this many times and it makes dating them easier. The core thing is that men need to be needed and income isn’t the only way a woman can do that, BUT the stay at home mom types are way more in tune to this and better at it. The independent women absolutely suck ass at this so it’s 100% their own fault men avoid their toxic mentality. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:45 PM
-1

Uh… have you ever dated one of these ladies? They are a pain in the ass on the highest level. Plus there is no bigger turn off than being told you aren’t needed. These women are for fucking, not serious relationships…. Unless and this is a big caveat… they prove to be unquarrelsome and willing to follow your lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:33 PM
1

It would mean that feminists have essentially killed 500,000 men over half of which are boys in the last 20 years. Compare that to 4,200 trans kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:21 AM
2

Yeah, none of that is true. I actually read the Hebrew Bible and the New Testament when I was in college, and I attended about 15 different denominations… including one that had a lesbian intersectional pastor who gave a sermon on the patriarchy. So you are fucking nuts. The Hebrew Bible has female prophets and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:22 AM
2

There has never been a religion whose sole purpose was hating women. Some religions take a stance of extreme protection of women, but that’s an issue of overvaluing them, not hate. So feminism is totally new and unique. It should be viewed in the same category as racism. Again… randos on the internet are not equivalent in power or scope to the federal government… the very idea is stupid. Like you can’t be alive and that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:57 PM
1

Suicide is up 4x for boys. The rate is now 25 per 100,000, which is pure insanity, but no country with a large scale feminist movement is below 20, except Australia and it was 22 a while back. Meanwhile no country without a large feminist movement has a suicide rate for boys above a 10. Iran and Turkey are both around 3.5. They did a study on suicidal ideation and found that approximately 10% of boys with feminist parents had suicidal ideation, compared to 4% for other families. No other factor …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:51 PM
2

A better question is why do you think that counts? The vast majority of engagement is male feminist outrage? Compare that to hateful messaging boys get in schools by rad fem teachers that is funded by the government and mandatory for every little boy to hear? They have whole departments funded by tax dollars in universities whose sole purpose to tear down men and boys. Nothing comparable has ever existed for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:27 PM
4

From what I see Reddit, like real life only men are punished for hateful speech. I assume it’s because men are perceived as threatening and/or we tend to use more threatening language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:55 PM
-1

Because they submit to allowing their wives to fuck other men while they just simp and pay for shit. Have you never met one of these couples? I’ve banged a lot of these wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:25 PM
3

Yeah, so long as you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:21 PM
5

I’ve been through this and I’m telling you that privacy laws are a massive impediment. Even if you photo conversations on his phone it can be ruled as inadmissible. PI is your best route… and that’s even IF the state you live in allows this kind of clause. You should speak to an attorney beforehand if you decide to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:16 PM
7

Unenforceable in CA and many other states from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:27 PM
-1

That sounds very reasonable as long as paired with an infidelity clause is a lifestyle clause that dictates sexual frequency, with caveats for medical dysfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:27 PM
5

No, most judges won’t mess with it. The main issue with infidelity clauses is that you have to actually prove it. When a guy knows that up front he will cover up very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:13 PM
–

I swear that of all the disabled people I’ve met very few of them had poor attitudes. It’s like it forces you to be a better person or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:24 PM
1

This is absolutely true, although the number of men who didn’t talk much and who were emotionally distant was high because so many had war trauma. My great uncle came back from WW1 a totally different guy, and same with almost all of my grandfathers brothers during WW2. My grandfather ran communication wires during the Korean War. He said it affected him deeply for years. Right now even though we had some very long lasting wars, not many men have had to serve. But the core of what you say is ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:19 PM
1

No, I know this generation very well. The percentage of masculine men to effeminate losers was very high. So essentially they just had so many bad boys the women of the era just never stopped chasing them. That’s what people don’t understand about Boomers is that they were all druggies and rebels. The fucking women loved it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:22 AM
1

In 1950 I believe 35% of women held jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:16 AM
0

That doesn’t matter, because this shit is a skill. You get one woman spinning and then maybe another 6 months later. One will eventually fall off and you add another. After a year or two you have confidence and can get these situations going faster and easier and with higher quantities. I’ve seen it time and time again that most of these average guys, what makes them average is lack of experience. As they gain experience they become above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:57 AM
-2

He means dodging marriage. I think what average guys need is to spin plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:28 AM
–

Physically attractive and sexually attractive are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:57 AM
2

In the schools by teachers would be my preference. Maybe we could found a university discipline based on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:58 PM
2

Oh Ok. I live out in the West coast and while rural areas out here have some issues with drug addicts the overall safety is comparable to Switzerland. The county where my father lives had a gun death back in 2021 and none so far since. But, the whole area is armed to the teeth. If you do anything bad everyone is armed. They had a rumor of a cougar stalking hikers and it wound up getting shot and killed in the back yard of a farm by an 82 year old woman with rifle. The quote on the news was she t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:36 PM
1

How is the internet over there? How are the trains running? I have some friends doing the same thing as you and they complain constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:24 PM
2

You just ran into the Viking issue. Men have this amazing ability to compartmentalize. They can love their wives and then go out and murder people on the battlefield. In fact if your man can’t do that, then he won’t be able to protect you from other men who can! As for negativity. I think the culture is relentlessly negative to men. A few discord posts don’t even begin to tackle the issue, when you have this shit taught in classes and on every TV channel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:09 PM
0

….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:00 PM
1

When was the last time you were in Germany? It really depends on what you consider rough. I don’t value fine dining options or shopping anymore. I want a large chunk of land and peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:23 PM
1

Go to California, for most middle class people eating out is dumpster diving behind your favorite restaurant. 100k a year and best you can get is McDonalds $25 cheeseburger. No joke that’s the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:48 PM
0

Because it wouldn’t survive. The whole thing needs a level of technology that a society raised by single moms can’t maintain. It goes back to that “I don’t need men” idea. Basically yeah you do, just as much as men need women, or maybe more. It’s specialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:45 PM
7

Slut walks are not about intrasexual competition. They are about female dominance of social hierarchies. It’s about trying to brute force men into accepting lower quality women. It’s also about the female drive to refuse responsibility for any and everything they do. But you watch. They will show up for the slutwalk, but they won’t let their boyfriend or husband hang out with sluts. A much better example is fat acceptance. Skinny women join this because they want to keep fat women fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:24 PM
2

In the US most catholic guys think like you, but most of the evangelical churches are willing to accept Catholics. However, I get what you are saying. A lot of our Catholics are not very traditional. Look for areas settled by Germans, Irish, Italians. They tend to hold traditions better. The Spaniards and French Catholics are practically atheist to my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:53 AM
2

So, are you looking for rural areas with a strong Italian American influence? Louisiana has a lot of Sicilian folks… although they don’t mix well with the other Italians. I don’t know why. Most people think they are Mexicans… lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:48 AM
1

That’s because you are doing it wrong. Meet the guy and get married first. Easy as pie to get tourist visas from Europe. Seriously you can work both angles at once. The key is in finding the right guy. Also… student visas are available and we have TONS of universities in rural areas. Lastly, if you have cash, you can get a citizenship from a cash 500,000 investment. Most buy houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:22 AM
1

Hmmm… yeah, their traditions are straight up way harder on women. That said, you can get some that will soften up. I had a good friend who married an Eastern Orthodox lady named Tirzah. Good marriage so far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:15 AM
1

Catholic guys are mostly luke warm. The other churches have a higher percentage of solid men. Eastern Orthodox is probably the absolute best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:51 AM
2

Flamegoats, work those churches hard. They have the best men in the country. I’ve been there, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:50 AM
1

The Rural areas out west and down south are freaking awesome. A bit economically depressed but free of all the assholes in the city. MUCH lower crime. Way more kind polite people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:48 AM
1

YES! Rural America has way fewer douchbags
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:46 AM
0

Bro, Ukrainian women are way more faithful and patriotic than what you are used to. Not going to say it doesn’t happen, but it’s not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:27 AM
1

That’s the highest probability, however it could be a few other things too. The answer to all of them is to flirt and try to get her back into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:25 AM
5

It’s really simple. If he cares about you, then he is going to care about your pleasure. Just tell him what you want and he will deliver. If he’s blown his load in you 4 times before you figure out he’s just there for himself, you are an idiot. But, I don’t think that’s what is going on. I think the kind empathetic men who care make you drier than Death Valley, and the assholes who don’t care really get your motor running. So, the only fix is to change the story you tell yourself in your head an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:23 AM
0

Well LMS is black pill crap. Red Pill analysis would be way different. He may be highly masculine, or have solid charisma, you might be a size queen and he’s got a big one. Honestly about half the black guys in the Red Pill would constantly remind everyone that money only works well if you are a dork. Before the influx of black pill… these guys used to brag all day about the shit women would buy them. I miss those guys a lot. Anyway. I will just go with the big hands hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:16 AM
-6

The species could still what? Single moms are shit at raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:30 AM
2

Their problems are deeper than social isolation and sexlessness. These are the boys that came from fragile homes and didn’t have the capacity to deal with feminist hate and propaganda. The core issue is zero self esteem, which has essentially been stolen from them. You can’t tell boys that every masculine impulse is wrong and that they need to be like women… and then totally fucking abandon them once they actually do it. They need self esteem and social skills. Sex doesn’t fix that. Stop fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:26 AM
3

He’s confused because only men really get called out on this socially. Women get called out in the dark corners of the internet where people can say true things that aren’t socially accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:17 AM
2

Bro, this is a shit test. You failed. Correct response is something like “Now that I’ve had the best, it’s hard to be into the rest”… smile and laugh as you say it, don’t try to make it a serious moment. Just joke and play with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:14 AM
1

It’s a clear line between them friend. I don’t know why you don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:44 AM
1

You could also be a pimp dating your hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:12 PM
2

Why do you keep saying RP and then describing BP. It’s ludicrous. The easiest way to tell is if the guy believes Looks or Money is all that matters he is black pill. If the guy thinks charisma… or bad boy traits is higher on the list he is red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:10 PM
3

Why do you keep saying RP and then describing BP. It’s ludicrous. The easiest way to tell is if the guy believes Looks or Money is all that matters he is black pill. If the guy thinks charisma… or bad boy traits is higher on the list he is red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:10 PM
2

Or… he’s way, way better looking than you are. That would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:58 PM
11

It’s not just dating. Relationships are fucking terrible too and that’s a huge part of the problem. I read a little bit from that super popular female author Leslie Jamison. I couldnt get past the halfway point. She’s a good writer but so fucking whiney. She won’t let her husband do anything with the kid and then resents him because she feels like she is doing it all alone. It’s a trend with all of these ladies. They all fucking suck as human beings but think they are amazing and blame all their…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:22 PM
2

Aren’t most of those age 40+?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:12 PM
1

This is really genius. If I could make a suggestion. Take a few female friends and kind of walk them through it… and if it works for them, you have a million dollar book to write. Seriously!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:26 PM
1

That is so interesting! Essentially it’s more about edging than about hitting a certain spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:14 PM
1

I totally believe you. The thing is that not everyone has nerves in the same place… so people have to kind of figure themselves out. But my question is can you replicate it with a man or is it something that requires a dildo? Not that it should matter to you, I’m just curious because I almost never get a chance to chat with a woman who explores like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:20 PM
–

You know that the separate and divide with hate bullshit isn’t going to last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:54 PM
–

Red Pillers not black Pillers. Red pill just knows the shit women don’t say out loud. Black pill is hateful nonsense. You have entire continents where Red Pill is the default. Ask any African man about Alpha Fux, Beta Bux and he will understand instantly, but with less nerdy ass terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:26 AM
-4

All I know is that what we are doing now is fucking dumb. The past had some issues, but generally worked. However, I’m not convinced this hasn’t happened before. Every fat lazy rich civilization eventually falls to a group of hard ass men. What I can see coming is while we tear each other apart, eventually someone is going to walk in and put is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:27 AM
1

Hey, just my experience with others. You would be the sexpert here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:10 AM
2

Men can do them too. You know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:09 AM
2

All the erogenous zones in the world won’t matter if her head isn’t into it. That’s why body issues drive me nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:19 AM
1

You know that it would be hard to match speed, intensity and frequency. If it’s a guys first time… sure, but he knows you….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:58 AM
3

You put way too much thought into this. Has anyone ever told you that you can say No?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:51 AM
2

Do you think if more women did the foreplay orgasms then that PIV number could drop a few percentage points? The buildup is something not many folks know about. It get's a little easier each time. But I think a woman's mental game needs to be tight... or the guy has to be a damn good dirty talker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:43 AM
1

With her, I've go no fucking clue. All I can say is that it felt like a foot race and I lost most of the time. LOL... She'd roll over and I'd be thinking "Damn! Tomorrow I will beat her and win"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:41 AM
3

Usually there are muscle contractions... I can feel it with my hand. But yeah sometimes I've got no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:39 AM
1

It's boring? A guy actually told you that it's boring? If a guys mouth hurts, his technique is terrible. The fattest laziest guy I know can go down on his GF for hours if you do it right. Hand strength though... You just can't be a weanie. I don't know about my X. I think she was faking it, but I will probably never know. Why she would finish before me and then just go to bed if she was faking... I don't get that either. For PIV they wasn't a lot of muscle contractions... but I can't tell with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:37 AM
1

If you have had both types... do you have a preference? Or are they equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:05 AM
1

My question is whether this is physical or mental? The first time I dated a woman that could get their with just penetration I really couldn't believe it. It was very frustrating because she would finish before me too, and when she was done, she was done. I really thought I was messing up hard, she had this thing about me using my hands because I guess some guy in the past had long nails, but my hands are well maintained. Sometimes, it's just so damn hard to tell, and so many women have hangups …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:59 AM
2

I don't know... women tell me this stuff all the time and I have a hard time believing it. Maybe the ladies are just faking it and they don't know? I mean I know a couple guys that I could believe would be like this... but they got so many women. Maybe they are making it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:39 AM
-8

I think the grass touched you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:57 AM
-4

Then they mess around with a personal trainer and get right back out there. Winning!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:47 AM
2

I thought that the female sex drive worked best with comfort and familiarity. Is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:30 AM
1

Big town or small town? West coast or East coast? Because maybe these ladies looked better at 30? But man by 40 something so many are just dogshit while the husbands are holding up. Also… makeup makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:20 PM
1

Not going to disagree, but also not much sympathy since they put that shit into their lives. But I mean hey… this sub is all married women with great husbands listening to incels bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:52 PM
1

Here is the thing, these traits all have positive analogs. We need to teach that positive stuff to little boys and shame the shit out of the women who go for the bad traits. Needs to be like a government program with money behind it. You know… pipe dreams and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:04 PM
2

I coach a boys little league team. Mid 30s all the moms are just busted looking. The dads are more of mixed bag. The trend is that if a mom is at least a 5 her husband is a 6 or 7. Just walking around I don’t see this trend as much, but it’s still there. I honestly think it’s because at practice these ladies don’t wear makeup much early Saturday mornings? Working class area too… so this might be different for wealthy spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:00 PM
0

Again… bad boy chasing behavior. Act like a super nice guy next time and see where that gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:51 PM
0

This is just classic bad boy chasing bullshit. Don’t you get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:50 PM
2

Yeah an alien world called Instagram. About as close to reality as reality TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:49 PM
1

😕 You will never have a woman’s libido fired up like when she is trying to keep you. Now some fools seem to think this means cheating… it doesn’t. I mean you have to be a professional ball player or a Saudi prince to pull that crap off. Sometimes you can trigger a hysterical bonding phase… works on men just as well by the way… but it doesn’t last.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:38 PM
0

Lol… is that really choice A? I didn’t just accept my situation. I got to work and actually made it bigger. I think in the process I realised that my problem was that I couldn’t stand to be average, or even a bit above average. I tend to be like that in a lot of other parts of my life as well. It’s a big character flaw, but it also helps me achieve. Don’t you ever feel like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:00 PM
2

That book was brutal. I can’t imagine how they do it as a movie, but I will be there for sure to watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:53 PM
2

The Jihad was coming with or without Paul. He can see a rough outline of all future possibilities. It is the trait of the men in his family to believe they can overcome impossible situations and win. His grandfather died fighting bulls in some crazy stunt. His father believed he could take Arakkis and defeat the Harkonnen plots. Paul himself believes he can control the Jihad and temper its violence. So, he wasn’t becoming anything new. The book outlines 3 main choices he could have taken. He cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:16 AM
2

I’m so glad you said this! I couldn’t stop thinking how gay these guys seemed to me. Of course I’m older too and I see Gen Z is nearly 40% whatever that alphabet soup is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:12 AM
3

Ok… Dune 2 flattened Chani into a 2D person. In the book she is so much more. In the book she understands the political necessity for Paul to marry Irulan and take over the empire. It was always understood that Paul would love her above all and that their children would rule. Indeed she dies giving birth to twins and Paul unable to live without her goes off into the desert to die. In the movie they more portray her as a shortsighted and self centred woman, which is really nothing special. She wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:08 AM
5

I don’t know. The guy was a bum most of the movie wasn’t he? I didn’t pay that much attention to it. Really seemed like the lady needed a guy that could do more than just drink booze and smoke cigarettes. Honestly, I got the feeling she just got together with him for his looks… and greatly regretted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:53 AM
2

Bio female… Ouch! I have been in that situation and it’s just so awkward. Even worse now is when you meet someone born a woman, but you are second guessing because of height and face shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:43 AM
2

Are you sure? I think it’s at the same level of importance as world peace… and who wouldn’t lie for that? Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:37 AM
0

My suggestion is that you do this before finding a partner. This kind of applies to a lot of things like your mental health and some social skills. Women aren’t there to fix our personal problems, just as we shouldn’t be here to fix their issues. Unfortunately a lot of parents are not good at preparing us for what life requires. So we must listen to good advice and try different things for ourselves and see what works. I understand that wallowing in self pity holds a certain emotional attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:21 AM
0

There are actually quite a few options beyond what you are listing. I mentioned that surgery doesn’t work, but penile traction is proven to work. Also most guys are too chubby and that’s what makes them look small. When ladies suggest getting good with mouth and hands… even big dick guys should do this but rarely do. I actually suggest studying massage along with it. You need strong hands with stamina. On that note… I’ve done all the above and I didn’t start out really small. I was just chubby. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:54 AM
0

I don’t think this was a serious response, but I gave my best shot. You can read my response to him to see what I was meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:46 AM
0

Lol… I think you took that a little different than I intended. I mean listen, the first thing is that if you really struggle with this stuff there are some actions you can take to improve. First, lose fat. If I get chubby I lose a whole inch. Seriously, a full inch! The second thing you can do is use a penile traction device. If you have a curve this can net you some solid gains, but it’s hard bloody work. By pulling that ligament straight I gained an inch and a half. There are studies on this m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:44 AM
3

Yeah I can see that. I hate to admit this, but a lot of guys believe they can impress women by being cruel to weaker men. It does work on a certain type of woman too. Have you ever thought about lifting weights? Or going to a place where your traits have a higher value?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:56 PM
7

I have the sense that just telling someone tough luck go deal with it… is going to lead them to give up. Maybe that is the goal here. I know a ton of people who don’t just go with what they got… they alter it with surgery. This particular issue doesn’t offer that option. Besides that. I suspect you have missed the key issue that OP is worried over. It’s not that he can’t find someone who will love him as he is… instead it’s that he will find someone who does just that and never be able to fully …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:48 PM
0

I feel like you aren’t really entertaining the idea that when people say things they don’t take their audience into consideration. Everyone calibrates what they say, even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:37 PM
2

I mean are you absolutely certain that only men talk about this? Because I’ve been around groups of women and overheard them talking amongst themselves about this multiple times over the years… especially in wine bars. I’ve also had women essentially know stuff about me ahead of time that… ahem… they could not possibly know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:33 PM
1

To their face, very few, but behind their back… many. It also ruins a guys chances within the social circle. I think they call it reputation destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:20 PM
-1

I don’t really see interactions like this very often in my daily life. I know once people put you down it’s very hard to get back up and keep going. What about you seems to draw out all this abuse? I assume this is all from random people basically treating you like the elephant man or something. It can’t be just that you are bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:18 PM
3

I know kids can be cruel… but that’s extreme don’t you think? I got bullied as a young boy. Later I began to bully others, I don’t really know why. When I got to college I was away from my crazy family and I started getting better. So that summer when I came back I made it a point to track down everyone that I hurt and give them a full apology no excuses. I’m good friends with 2 of them even now all these years later. So, how do you do what those kids did to you and then live with yourself later…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:14 PM
1

I think that a lot of what you see are guys who have no interest in really committing, so yeah they keep it to cheat. Let’s be honest, a significant percentage of guys using apps for dating are already married. I have no idea how that works but I guess it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:48 PM
0

BMI doesn’t work for men. It doesn’t take muscle weight into account
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:42 PM
1

You should know that younger guys are VERY black and white about these things so if they see you post a list they will assume you won’t deviate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:37 PM
1

I don’t know why people want to cling to self defeating mental pathologies. When I was a kid I couldn’t find fat women attractive, there really isn’t a solid biological basis for it. After some years I got over it. It’s just you projecting needs onto a partner. Yes therapy can help. I’m not saying you will suddenly have a strong desire for men under 5 foot, but it can absolutely help you find attraction to men not too far from your height. These things are not set in stone for the most part and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:16 PM
4

Isn’t hating people the point of what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:27 PM
9

I don’t think your standards are bad, I just think they are like lotto ticket probability. Any guy who makes that much and is that tall… you are literally competing with every single woman in the world and half the married ones. If I was in your shoes, I would flex down on a lot of those things. I mean if you can’t be sexually attracted to a shorter guy, you can definitely afford therapy to understand why. Most other women your size can do it, I assume with some work you can too. As for the inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:25 PM
2

Not over 300? I mean that’s a pretty high number. I’m feel like most women won’t go over 200 unless the guy is quite tall. I’ve got a lot of muscle, to the point where BMI is a joke for me, but still at 5’10” women start to pass on me if I get over 200-210. I mean if you are older or bigger yourself that makes sense, but if not I really struggle to take this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:22 PM
17

I feel like even that requirement is going to catch some flak with people by today’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:13 PM
2

I’m doing great! Thank you for asking. I hope you are doing well too. I feel like you are from just reading your posts, but I know that’s not a complete picture. Don’t be afraid to unplug for a while from time to time. Too much negativity isn’t good. The funny thing about our emotions, when you turn anger onto yourself, it becomes depression. I always pushed my anger outwards at other people. I think it’s the same problem and often similar solutions, but they look very different from the outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:52 PM
3

It is going to depend on their goal in the conversation. Are they looking for empathy? Or do they just want to release frustrations? I know that in the long run, empathy can and will change a persons heart. So hang onto that knowledge, because it may not happen now, but when you show someone that you know what they are going through and that you care it will eventually reach them. It may not register in their minds for a while, but it does make a difference. I once paid for my xWife to get her M…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:38 PM
4

I think the key issue is an inability to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes. It’s too easy to just assume other people don’t have problems. I mean you found someone great at what seems to be a really young age… but that isn’t the end of your problems. I suspect had you been born a man, some of your childhood experiences would be more positive, but others much more negative, and your chances of finding someone great at a young age is much lower. Still other things in life might have been a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:04 PM
0

So you gonna pay that $35 Trillion? Or you going to push that on down the line?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:55 PM
-1

There are tons of women who if given more resources would have more kids and raise those kids better. Childless people need to pay WAY more. A small amount of property tax for schools is useless. Also they don’t pay for school lunches or welfare all that money is borrowed and has to be paid back by the children these people don’t have. At some point we will need to seize their retirement money to pay back all the debt from tax they didn’t pay and children they didn’t contribute. These folks are …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:46 PM
3

Um… I’m older but left leaning women are the most delusional and easiest to get what you want with. As a group also very sex positive. The men in their orbit are also total shit so they tend to thirst for competent and masculine men… so long as you make sure that masculinity isn’t threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:37 PM
2

We used to do field reports and post ideas for others to test. Once 100 or so guys all test the same idea it either becomes part of The Red Pill or gets rejected. That said… I hear younger guys say that some of the things that worked for us were artifacts of the culture we lived in and that today is a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:34 PM
-2

What do you think Welfare did? Look people who don’t want kids won’t have them. But we need to start directing resources from useless career men and women to the ladies who are raising our FUTURE. These people are just hoarding resources selfishly and not contributing… so a tax would even that gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:13 PM
-1

It can’t even begin to compare to the shit welfare did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:03 PM
4

Yeah, even the guy here. Only the most useless incels don’t and it’s mostly they just pretend they don’t. The fact is that the culture as a whole does have this dichotomy. The reason is very simple. Most women want very specific men approaching them for sex and they want the vast majority of males to serve as eunuch slaves. Look everyone has unrealistic fantasies… but only women have the power to make those standard cultural values.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:23 AM
0

Death.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:05 AM
5

This is a ridiculous point. The standard cultural position of the vast majority of women fits this narrative. Of course a sizeable minority disagree. What’s the point in mentioning them? They hold no power they don’t teach classes, or make movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:03 AM
-4

I have enough children to know what I’m talking about. I also have many close relations with no kids and at advanced ages:
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:00 AM
-4

How many do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:55 AM
2

You don’t have to do any of that. Build more @&$#ing houses. Tax the shit out of single childless people above a certain age. Make it affordable for a woman to not work. That would fix 70% of the issue without needing to change much else. Heck… a housewife tax credit may do all of that by itself. The idea they are going for is free childcare. That’s dumb as shit… we know it doesn’t work. Women who don’t want to work shouldn’t have to work. That is a solution everyone can get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:54 AM
0

All the people who didn’t want kids when I was younger either have kids now or are useless wastes of space. At some point we need to start taxing the childless at a much higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:48 AM
4

No. Incorrect. I know what it was like before because I was raised by those women. They valued honesty, hard work, and character traits MUCH more than what I see from the young girls today. Media has played a huge role in this along with a shift in culture. Previous generations women expected to have children and a family. They actively chased men who would be good fathers. My mother’s generation who had the pill began to change this radically. The dating world we live in today was created by wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:16 PM
2

Get a passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:10 PM
1

Uh… did you stop to consider they are dating men better looking and more in demand than they are? I mean look if a guy treats you like shit then it’s because he doesn’t value you… and that’s 90% of the time because he feels like he is dating down too much. This isn’t rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:08 PM
1

This is a screening argument. It’s the lazy fucker approach. It works for hot guys. Those of us who generate a lot less initial interest need to get good at converting women… building chemistry and getting them hot and bothered with words and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:03 PM
13

Um… guys hate this stuff because they are essentially treated like job applicants and not many women today want mediocre. There is no passion among women today for hard working boring men that make great fathers. When I’m texting my goal is to tease and joke as much as possible. It sucked for years, but now it’s so much fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:59 PM
1

I thought about this a lot over the years as dishonesty has played a role in my dating strategies from time to time. It was much stronger when I was young because over time I essentially became much closer to the man I was pretending to be. I’m certain that I was very angry that I had to be dishonest in order to have success in my youth. I think ultimately it’s about living in a system that gives every benefit to women and actively tries to push men down. Combine that with an unreasonable expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:51 PM
4

The Red Pill isn’t about changing women, it’s about understanding those preferences and ruthlessly exploiting the stupidity of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:34 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter