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You can’t, they need to learn it themselves the hard way. “Lessons not learned in blood are soon forgotten.” Plus, we need simps. They’re a necessary part of the social and cultural ecosystem, to their own detriment unfortunately. The presence and behaviour of simps provides a valuable contrast to sexually desirable traits of men for women. It makes it easier for women to select sexual candidates when looking for a real man, and also increases obedience and lessens the requirements of shit tests…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 02:35 PM
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Dinner dates with a girl you haven’t fucked is a rookie move. I use a dinner dates as a reward for good behaviour, and never before I’ve fucked the girl 2-3 times. First dates should be brisk and inexpensive. Keep it to 1-2 hours tops unless you’re going to escalate and go for the same day lay. Park walks, fun activities, coffee, late night drinks, etc. Never wine and dine a girl you haven’t slept with, it sets the wrong frame and makes it appear like you have to earn her attraction and physical…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 02:06 PM
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Yeah I never trust these posts that show maybe introductory level knowledge of lifting. His comments regarding squats are totally incorrect as well. Unless you're easily in the 1,000 pound club, your workouts should incorporate a high volume of compund lifts and leave out the isolation/machine bullshit. Otherwise you're too small/strong for bro splits to do anything. While I don't like "cheat" forms in power lifting (sumos, arched bench, etc.) for the purpose of just getting your numbers up, com…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 03:30 PM
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I grazed a bitch's boob with my elbow on a crowded subway once.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:16 AM
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Appearance/face mean very little for men compared to women. You are projecting your own ideals for attraction onto women and showing a very poor understanding of what attracts women. Over worrying over your appearance signals weak frame and is way more unattractive to women than an average face. Size, muscularity, definition, style, and most importantly frame are what women look for in physical characteristics of attraction. Beyond that there a lot of social elements and other factors that make …
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:47 PM
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Taekwando and aikido are complete bullshit for the most part and not applicable to real life scenarios. They're mostly just for kids to get a work out. Stay away from these arts unless you want to play dress up and break flimsy boards for fun. Boxing/wrestling are by far the best "bang for your buck" martial arts that will give you confidence and actually make you capable of defending yourself. Both of them have great fundamentals and provide an emphasis on perfecting basic powerful movements an…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:39 PM
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1) It's been 4 months, not 4 years. Act appropriately. 2) She dumped you over text. The only response to that is a hard next or at best a "k" reply back. Not an instant call and sappy ass reply. 3) She was very polite and courteous to letting you down easy, you're annoying her and your continued attempts to try to reconcile or get her to "catch feelings for you" are way too desperate and will not work. This is why girls ghost people, because of annoying ass clingy people that can't take hints. 4…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:57 PM
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Employers like having stable workers, which includes a family. Having a wife and kids is good for your corporate image and will make people think you're stable and reliable. Also, employers don't really expect men to take much time off after pregnancy, they expect the man to step up and work harder to provide for his family, so you're safe there. That being said, in many social circles (including corporate/business etiquette), there is a social stigma around having kids out of wedlock. It's cons…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:55 PM
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Yes. Read more poetry and old school writing, people have had this shit figured out for thousands of years. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:46 PM
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It's a shit-test. The majority of strong headed feminists I've been with want nothing more than to relinquish control in the bedroom. But they want you to take it, they aren't going to give it to you. In my experience they love to be told what to do, get spanked/slapped, rough stuff, etc. The most man-hating SJW feminist I know would roll her eyes into her skull and beg for more when I spit in her mouth and slapped her. Probably some self-loathing fetish thing, who knows. Obviously the longer yo…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:41 PM
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This is factually incorrect and just something dudes with small dicks like to pass around to feel better about themselves. It’s male hamster spinning.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 11:40 PM
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Short the market. Learn how to trade options.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 09:11 PM
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It depends on what the context is and what your definition of "winning" is when it comes to arguments or conversations. It also depends on what set of moral standards you set for yourself. For example, look at the political realm; where every single conversation, argument, and interview, is a battle that needs to be won in order to get a stronger foothold. Saying "I made a mistake" or "I don't know about that topic" is suicide in the political realm, it's all just posturing. Approaching argument…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:41 PM
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This is the first thing that came to mind when I read the story. Basically OP was a 6 that fell in love with a 9 who didn't give a shit about her, but wanted to use her for fun in the mean time. A lot of the "relationship talk" questions she mentioned were probably extremely off-putting as well for the guy and threw up a few red flags for sure. People always project their own ideas of attraction and motives onto the opposite sex. This goes for men and women. In this particular case this woman th…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:58 PM
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This is the first thing that came to mind when I read the story. Basically OP was a 6 that fell in love with a 9 who didn't give a shit about her, but wanted to use her for fun in the mean time. A lot of the "relationship talk" questions she mentioned were probably extremely off-putting as well for the guy and threw up a few red flags for sure. People always project their own ideas of attraction and motives onto the opposite sex. This goes for men and women. In this particular case this woman th…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:58 PM
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This is the first thing that came to mind when I read the story. Basically OP was a 6 that fell in love with a 9 who didn't give a shit about her, but wanted to use her for fun in the mean time. A lot of the "relationship talk" questions she mentioned were probably extremely off-putting as well for the guy and threw up a few red flags for sure. People always project their own ideas of attraction and motives onto the opposite sex. This goes for men and women. In this particular case this woman th…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:58 PM
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It will be almost no verbal communication, certainly almost none during the dancing portion. If you stay and talk to people after you can talk about other stuff, but mostly you're just focusing on your nonverbal communication and creating the image of a fun and courteous person. Once you get better at dancing you can start leading them as well and communicating subtle intent with your body language. Conversations during dancing should be mostly focused on the dance you're learning. Complimenting…
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:09 PM
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She's getting absolutely lambasted in the comments... You wrote in your article that you had 8 partners on average per year. In your quora account, however, you wrote this: “I stopped counting in college but I can easily get 1–2 guys per week. Sometimes it just a bj or me eating their ass. Then again I’ve been to a few orgies where I would have added 10+ partners per event. Well over 100.” and this “I lost track but could Be as high as 500, personally. And I’m not even the “sluttiest” friend lol…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 01:59 PM
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No, and to infer such a thing would show a complete misunderstanding of the sexual dynamics of humans and would be a massive projection of female attributes onto males. In fact, it's the exact opposite; men who can secure MFF threesomes regularly are actually very high value. When it comes to sexual attraction and mate selection, humans have shown characteristics as both 'pair-bonding' species and 'tournament' species. People who are more inclined to partake in casual sex (majority of young adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 09:18 PM
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I've had quite a few MFF threesomes and always encourage the girls I'm with to bring other girls into the fold if they're into that. Or I've helped a few girls who have never done it but were interested in MFF threesomes before explore their sexuality. I think curiosity and interest in a MFF threesome is totally natural and acceptable for a partner. MFM threesomes are another story. They're more of a bonding experience for you and a close friend and there are very few close friends who I would d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:43 PM
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That's pretty sperglord of you. Sometimes people are late, if she texted you and had a good reason for it, then it's common human courtesy to accept that or let her know you're leaving. Typically if women are late they: Bad at time management, par for the course really, get used to it. Are playing a power game, which you have to learn to navigate if you ever want to lose your virginity. Are not respectful of your time, but I would not make this judgement unless you notice a consistent pattern co…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:17 PM
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This post was brought on by a recent thread made on the sub unpopularopinion titled, "Women are the ones who are valued far more by society, not men." This had close to 7k upvotes before it was inevitably locked and removed. There were a lot of people who agreed with OP, but there were also many who didn't. It's not even an opinion, as a baseline men are less valuable than women. It's a fact based on biological differences and existing cultural standards/norms. The difference is that men have fa…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 02:55 PM
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I've always maintained the idea that you'll never understand women's true nature unless you've achieved becoming a top 1% man. Hell, even a top 0.001% man can expect completely different behavior from women than a top 1% man. But a top 1% man can extrapolate the extent of those behaviors based on what he's experienced from women (ie he won't have 20 year old models throwing themselves at him like Tiger Woods, but he won't be shocked by that behavior either, he knows it to be and expected). Until…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 04:36 PM
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You're getting very defensive for some reason towards someone who is just giving you honest and truthful advice. This is cute someone over the Internet wants to convince me to masturbate Judging by your post history, I don't think there's currently anyone that would ever want to convince you to masturbate or thinks about you in any type of sexual way. The point of disproving no-fap is not to convince you to masturbate or not. Nobody cares what you do when you're sitting at home alone all day. Th…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:37 PM
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Hitting my dick with a hammer every day also requires extreme self discipline, that doesn't mean there's any benefits to be gained from it. If you're putting your hope in a placebo effect, you're not going to get anywhere. Personally, I don't really understand the point of going on a message board to ask people for advice, only to ignore the advice given by it's more experienced members. Especially judging by your post history. You and I are at the polar opposite positions of life experience and…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:08 PM
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Semen retention, no fap, whatever weird name is may have in the future, is almost entirely bro science. It all started with one study that showed a spike in testosterone after abstaining from masturbation for 7 days (it peaked and then returned to normal levels). Beyond that, everything else is pseudo science and placebo effect. Logically it's on the same level as anti-vaxers and flat-earthers. Obviously it's helpful for those with an addiction to masturbating (ie 1-10 times daily), but assuming…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:49 PM
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I do semen retention and have been for 17 days now Bruh... Do you have difficulty finding volunteers to donate all the semen you need to retain? But more seriously. There's nothing you can really do to naturally "raise" your test levels. All you can do is ensure that all other conditions are optimal for your body to produce as much testosterone as your genetics will allow (ie if you have a zinc deficiency in your diet, addressing that will help). If anything like diet, sleep, training are defici…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:37 PM
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Vultures is a good way to describe them. But it all depends on how close you are as "friends" and the dynamics of the social circle. The key point here with the vulture distinction is that they are waiting until you're broken up to make a move. If a man wanted to sleep with your girl, they wouldn't wait until you were broken up. They would make their intentions clear or flirt with her beforehand. When guys jump on a piece of pussy that just became single it screams 'scarcity mentality'. I would …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:21 PM
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You see similar gaps (50%) when you move into job sectors that compensate based on different performance criteria (usually sales, revenue generation, etc.). Typically in finance and trading. There is a gigantic performance gap between men and women in these competitive environments, and the reason is most likely biological. The most aggressive and competent people will always win out in these very rare and competitive fields (which will always be men). I'm not a huge Jordan Peterson fan, but it'…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 05:32 PM
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She is into me enough to not hookup with other guys aside from the time she hooked up with other guys This is essentially what you're saying, doesn't make much sense does it? Either she doesn't hook up with other guys or she does, the two situations are mutually exclusive. It doesn't matter if she was drunk or that it was only a few times. You can add whatever constraints or conditions you want to the situation to make it sound better but the fact remains that she did hook up with other guys. Yo…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 05:38 PM
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Keep her as a plate, no point to upgrade to LTR material. Although she did absolutely nothing wrong in this situation, she's just not LTR material. Any girl/plate you are vetting for an LTR position should be into you enough that they're willing to not hook up with other guys while they work for your commitment. If they're engaging other guys and considering other options (most girls do), they're best to be kept as plates only. Upgrading them to an exclusive relationship is a fools errand. She s…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:25 PM
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If your end date is planned, it's not really an LTR. Since it's not really an LTR, feel free to start sleeping with other people. Theoretically there is nothing wrong with keeping a girl like this around till September while banging other girls, as I'm sure she will provide some utility and consistent sex/companionship. The problem is that you are clearly too emotionally invested in her for you to take advantage of this situation without caring. The fact that you're making a post on askTRP about…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:21 PM
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Umm, yes they do? Good movie Wonder woman Political statement Ghost busters Audiences can tell when film makers are pushing a political agenda and that their film is going to be garbage when their entire market strategy is "look how progressive and diverse the casting is!". ​
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/19 02:08 PM
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Microdosing has different meanings and applications for different drugs, which should be dependent on your goals with those drugs. There is not necessarily an implication of continual or consistent use, and as I said, this will depends on the drug being used and will differ greatly. Microdosing MDMA can be effective when used infrequently to talk about and relive traumatic experiences to in a way that lets you heal and move past them. Clinical psychologists have proven time and time again that t…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 11:02 PM
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It depends on the dosage and consistency of use. When I use to use it, it was very sporadically (several months apart) and at small doses. Once again, they are a tool, and as any responsible adult you need to know the limitations and potential dangers of that tool. People should not take drug use lightly at all, and should do their research before they jump into anything. The majority of drug use is from a desire for instant gratification; whether it's weed, LSD, MDMA, or steroids. Where as I ha…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 10:27 PM
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Get clean for over a year, and NONE of the shit you saw, realised, thought about, discovered while on drugs will stay with you, or serve a single bit of purpose. That's not true at all. Maybe for an addict, but people who use drugs recreationally/sporadically can gain new perspectives and ways of thinking. Micro-dosing drugs like shrooms/MDMA is great for working through anxiety and PTSD and working towards developing a better long term positive outlook on life. They're also amazing for destroyi…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 03:56 PM
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Some women who are jaded from past relationships, or who are manipulative by nature, enjoy having weak/feminine men as partners because they are easier to control and dominate. These women usually have been pumped and dumped many times in the past and now seek the control over a relationship that they previously could never possess. They are not attracted to their partners, it is all about controlling the power dynamic. These are the women who are almost certainly guaranteed to cheat habitually …
/r/askTRP29/01/19 03:27 PM
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24 months ( 2 years ) Thank you for clarifying this.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:50 PM
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"I have been mis-gendered several times in this store" By yourself maybe, bro.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/18 04:23 PM
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One test means absolutely nothing, especially when you see such a wide spread as your two tests. Get tested again, and test more than just your total testosterone. Get an entire hormone panel done: total test, free test, estradiol, RBC, glucose, LH, FSH, creatine, cholesterol, and a few others I forget. Having all of those together paint a much more accurate picture. Get tested 2-3 times to eliminate outliers (like I expect one of your tests is). If you notice a pattern, see an endocrinologist. …
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:15 PM
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Depends on the goals and the drugs involved. For depression/PTSD microdosing mushrooms and MDMA can help but should not be looked at as a long term option. Typically do this while combining with meditation, exercise, and being more active in your work/social life and ween off of it. Or use it sparingly at times when you're severely depressed/anxious. For work productivity I'd stay away from it unless you're in niche fields like programming/tech (ie jobs that require focus but also creativity). I…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 09:19 PM
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Have a heart to heart with one of the coaches and see if they’ll let it slide after you explain the situation. Since it’s likely a liability issue that probably won’t work but it’s worth the shot. You could also sign up for a sport outside of school. Like an MMA or BJJ gym. I think those require waivers to be signed as well but you could get an older friend to pose as your parent/guardian. You could give your parents an ultimatum and start ditching classes until they let join a sport you want. K…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:52 PM
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I wanted to play a sport or martial art, but my parents say no. This by and far seems like your biggest issue. It's really shitty because you're parents are likely just trying to protect you and raise you how they see fit but they're doing you a tremendously terrible disservice by limiting you like this. Parents don't know everything, hell most of them know next to nothing. Don't take your parents word as the be all and end all of something, do what's right for you. Ideally you need to convince …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:26 PM
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Ultimately it depends what your goals are. Since it seems like you're young, I'd just jump into a gym and let your goals develop as your interest in the sport/art do. Whether you want to pursue sport BJJ, MMA, or just want to have a hobby to get in better shape, you can tailor your gym to your preferences. Originally I started judo after I stopped playing hockey and then found my way to BJJ, MMA, and muay thai/boxing. I originally only intended on finding something to put my extra time/energy in…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:57 PM
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"Hey! Thank you - i had a great time dancing. You had a good date idea and put us in a fun environment at least. I should be up front - I’m reflecting a little more I'm thinking of how to phrase this to let you down easy. and I’m not sure how i feel about jumping into dating I have no sexual attraction to you at all. Either your SMV isn't high enough, or you didn't build sexual tension, or you didn't escalate and try to close and were waiting for me to take the lead. but would like to go dancing…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:16 PM
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It’s likely a rare occurance, I wouldn’t worry about it. I would take it as constructive feedback, because unless they’re just gigantic ass holes, if you’re doing something bad enough to warrant laughter, it’s likely horrendous form. The only time I laugh at people at the gym is when they’re doing completely ridiculous shit like hip thrusting hump push-ups or, or guys ego lifting and 1/4 repping, or all the weird shit people do on the heavy bag (side note: no actual fighter will ever hit the hea…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 11:09 PM
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Maybe OP and I just run in completely different social circles but everything he called "vetting" was just gigantic overt red flags that would be triggering my 'don't stick your dick in crazy' alarm. Vetting requires subtle extraction of information that they don't offer up readily or that isn't available on their social media. It's reading between the lines to figure out their history based on the limited knowledge you have. OP's post seems like and open and shut case.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 02:44 PM
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Women can be confident without being obnoxious. I certainly am not attracted to an insecure low confidence woman, that shit gets fucking annoying and clingy fast. Women can be confident and still remain feminine/submissive; in fact it's usually the opposite where insecure women try showcasing an image of hyper confidence to compensate for their low value and end up acting masculine. Just like guys who peacock or try to AMOG, they're putting on a facade of confidence because they don't have a fou…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:16 PM
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This is all just ridiculous theory crafting from the perspective of someone who is an addict, that cannot possibly empathize what it's like to have a normal functioning reward center in their brain. For addicts the best strategy is to go cold turkey on whatever harmful activity or substance they abuse, but they will always be addicts. They just need to replace their addiction with harmful activities to healthy ones, it's the basis of all 12-step programs and the successful recovery of any addict…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 03:08 PM
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Cultural shaming in order to eliminate weakness, both at a group level and at an individual level, is a function (not a flaw) of human psychology.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 02:57 PM
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Being born in a stable doesn't make you a horse.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/18 09:31 PM
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"British"
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/18 09:23 PM
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If you find something like this "deeply satisfying" then you must have had no backbone or boundaries beforehand. Feeling satisfied over a terrible situation like this is on the same level as fantasizing about winning arguments in the shower. Think of the situation objectively, what did OP really gain from this? He wasted a lot of time/effort beating around the bush and trying to get a girl in the mood and to comply. Then when everything has failed, he has to overtly state his intentions/boundari…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 04:18 PM
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For anyone reading, please go with a response like this over OP's autistic verbal outburst.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 01:40 PM
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I dated an Indian girl for 6 years and this all rings true. Even the most traditional Indian women will still sleep around with white/black guys before they settled down for an arranged marriage (and this usually extends to doing so after they've settled down as well). Indian women are so deprived of strong masculine figures in their life that when they encounter anyone with a hint of alpha characteristics they throw themselves at them; my girlfriends cousins, aunts, and even own mother were exc…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 02:02 PM
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In my experience it means they might see you as good lucking but they are wondering why you have no balls and show no overt interest in women. IE your game is shit. Or you're overly effeminate and it's triggering their gaydar.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:49 PM
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Hahaha, my god. You're trying to place some sort of moral/ethical judgement on selfies and dick pics? A "disease on society"??? Lmfao. There's a reason guys use selfies and dick pics, it's because they work. Ripped guys with big dicks have girls lusting over them after sending a 10 second snap. The same girls that you would invest a ton of time/money just to have mediocre unenthusiastic sex with would do anything to have a chance to fuck a ripped guy with a big dick that's done nothing for her o…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:18 PM
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There's nothing wrong with dick pics. Women love that shit and will lust over a nice package. If you're not in the top 1 percentile when it comes to size though, or god forbid just above average, keep that shit in your pants. You're going to have to find another way to generate attraction.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 04:09 PM
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> Untracebly hide money in BTC or under a rock on a mountain on a regular basis This is horrendous advice. Nothing is untraceable and if you are found to be concealing assets during divorce proceedings, the judge will nail you to the wall for it and you'll end off far worse. Better advice would be to not mix finances and assets/accounts that were created before marriage.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 01:18 PM
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A few months ago, a friend of mine got a new roommate. One of his colleagues needed someone to house one of their clerks, so he put her up for free until she needed to leave. “He was so possessive of me, it was the dumbest thing. We’re roommates, we’re not dating. It was like he was trying to protect me from you guys and other people. I was really annoyed by it. I’m my own person, let me live my life and talk to who I want to talk to. To me, his behavior is a sign of insecurity. It was even wors…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:57 PM
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Just remind yourself of... 1) All the benefits or positive outcomes you've gotten from venting. Are there any? Ever? Probably not. Focus your energy on fixing your problem rather than bitching about it, which does nothing productive. 2) How you view people who are constantly venting/bitching. Do you view them in a positive light or a negative one? Knowing this, how do you think others view you when you're venting all the time?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:56 PM
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Claiming she is heartbroken along with her son (Not mine, he is from a previous relationship). Honestly, I don't even feel bad for the guy. It's just comically pathetic at this point.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:03 PM
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In an hour, her parents and my girlfriend will meet with those three dudes, her dad will shake them up a bit, and if they won't rain that shit out, legal action will be taken. Lmfao, what a fucking update! So people commit a serious felony offense and the result is a stern talking to from her father? You're both cucks if that is as far as this goes. Admittedly, it does. I don't know why, but it does. My gut didn't tell me she was cheating You've rationalized every single fact about this situatio…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 05:19 PM
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Already told you, she doesn’t want to file a complaint for kidnapping, because she knows the guys and she didn’t get hurt. You're an idiot if you believe this. Either police get involved and she takes her story to the highest level or you are single, no exceptions. You tell her parents the story exactly how she told you. You don't hide the fact that you are involving her parents, you go over her head and get them involved because this is a serious criminal offense (if true). If she wants to act …
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:39 PM
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As others have said in this thread, this is a very serious offense that should be taken to the police immediately. You should be helping your girl friend compile all evidence and support her 100% in getting these douche bags a conviction. This comes with the disclaimer that we're assuming everything your girlfriend told you is truthful and not exaggerated of course. If your girlfriend has any hesitation about going to the police, she is no longer your girlfriend. It's normal for victims to feel …
/r/askTRP18/05/18 03:29 PM
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Even in my total BP days I cringed at this movie. I was like... wtf is this faggot's problem? He needs to grow a dick, and handle his shit.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:18 PM
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There is nothing wrong with sharing the principles and ideology of TRP, I do it all the time with friends, family, women, and even people I just meet or are gaming. The one area I shy away from it is at work, as I don't want to take any chances with my career in the current SJW landscape. You need to have a decent understanding of the theories here, and then you can repackage them and present them in ways that are relatable, enlightening, and even funny. You have to avoid all the terminology tha…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:03 PM
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I think the difference is actually simpler; it's one word - Frame. Of course SMV helps, but strong silent type are people that don't interact or engage others much but still have a set path and stand up for themselves when needed. Socially inept autists are either weak willed/minded or are overly confrontational when their position is challenged. IE they have no frame.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:39 PM
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How does this work in court if you're testifying as a witness? Or asked to testify as the accused/defendant?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:01 PM
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It's not just women, nobody wants to hear a man complain. Women complain all the time because they treat sympathy as currency. They use it to get attention and validation from men & women and also to get men to do things for them. As a man you will get no sympathy, the best you can hope for is empathy from a close male relative or friend that will help you out when you're in a rough spot. But men that require sympathy and validation for their problems are looked down on by men and women alike. B…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:16 PM
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They're just shit testing and you're overreacting and failing the tests. That test is a very basic "are you a player?" (fuck-boy for the youngins) shit-test. You could have used amused mastery / agree & amplify methods for that shit-test but instead you got butthurt and responded how a woman would. Also, if you're having people post online about you then you're doing something wrong; either with your initial gaming of women, your selection of targets, or in how you handle post-lay interactions. …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:45 PM
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It sounds like you need to work out and rehab smarter. If you're throwing your back out every time you have a minor fault in form, it means you're not giving your back enough time to rehab and recover or you are lifting too heavy. There is no pride in pushing through the pain of a back injury, just stupidity. I have an extensive history of back injuries; I've ruptured disks, have permanent nerve damage, and have had my lower back seize up more times than I can remember. I still work out and comp…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:09 PM
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You need to get your bloodwork tested first to establish a baseline. Gauging a T increase based on how you "feel" is retarded, you will either feel better or worse entirely based on a placebo effect. Also, unless you're malnutrioned or suffering from serious sleep deprivation due to stress or other factors, the changes you listed above won't make much of a difference. Sleep and a high fat/protein diet have been all I've needed to maintain high T levels. If you have low-T genetically, none of the…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 09:06 PM
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It means you approach women with a buyers mindset instead of a sellers mindset. Women should work hard to get your attention, not the other way around. Of course this requires that you actually are a man of value and thus have leverage to negotiate with within the sexual market place.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:35 PM
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Depends on how close the friend and what rules you guys have established / fleshed out over time. If it's not my close friend, there's no rules. A lot of my acquaintances have gotten mad at me or wanted to talk to me about sleeping with their LTRs after they break up or are "in a break". They say the same thing, bros before hoes, and I'm always like "name one time we've hung out together 1 on 1". Some guys will use hamster logic to justify their jealous thoughts and how they're in the right. My …
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:25 PM
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Have you ever thought that maybe these women aren't dating Chad because there isn't an abundance of Chad in the sexual market place? Or maybe because Chad is notoriously hard to lock down in a long term monogamous arrangement when he has 5-10 girls on rotation? That maybe these women use their beta "random guy" boyfriends as ATMs and validation dispensing machines while sneaking around to fuck Chad on the side? And that maybe these guys might get a little sick of their shit and treat them poorly…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:42 PM
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Everyone goes through it. And then you learn from experience, think you have it all figured out, and go through it again. And again. Everything in life is about enjoying the experience and failing, and relationships are no exception. As long as you learn from your failings and don't take things too seriously, you're doing better than 95% of men.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 01:33 PM
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It really is. When you have high value, you can go against the grain. While this makes some people hate you, it also makes nearly everyone respect you (and hate/respect are both great for tingles). When you're a high value male, Law 38 doesn't mean pretending you're a feminist to appease libtards, it actually means behaving like other high value males so that you don't lose value in their eyes; the true overseers of the social hierarchy. This doesn't mean you go out looking for arguments about f…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:34 PM
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I think the 4th 'F' can be 'fuck' or 'fawn' based on your predisposition between fight/flight/freeze. For example if you're much more likely to react with the fight over flight/freeze actions, your sexual approaches are more likely to be along the lines of 'fuck'; straight forward, aggressive, and animalistic. If you're used to enacting the flight/freeze mechanics then 'fawn' would be more accurate as you are likely to admire from a distance or approach in a more indirect manner.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:57 PM
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Like I said, context is very important. So is being able to read the environment and situation. But some of the most successful plates/relationships I've had were because I was so upfront and aggressive. I polarized the relationship early and made them feel something strong instantly. I've gone up to women, picked them up and made out with them without ever saying a word to them. Hell, I've gotten hook ups from women who watched me do this to other girls and then looked me up on social media lat…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:35 PM
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Like everything in game, you need to escalate it. Start small with something like "I like that", then you can say "I only like that a little" with a grin, then "I don't like that". More on that in part 4 and 5. Likewise with everything in game, you can ramp up dominance to 10 right away given the right context. With dominant personality traits there is active and passive dominance, or maybe more accurate terminology would be direct dominance and non-direct dominance. Non-direct or passive domina…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 04:26 PM
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Well no, If she's "making you wait", it is because she does NOT respect you, but is trying to exploit you. Don't believe the "I want to take it slow so we respect each other" bullshit - this is a thinly veiled disguise for "lock down a provider". These sentences directly contradict. Seeing you as "Husband material" means you have activated beta triggers. Not necessarily, sometimes it's just opportunism. A girl may go on a date with a guy she's super attracted to and just looking to have fun with…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 01:53 PM
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I've been dealing with thinning/balding since my mid-twenties. It actually started in my early 20's but I was naive and didn't notice it until then. I've tried all of the above (other than a HT) and can say that nothing works for MPB better than just shaving it and owning it. I may try a HT in my mid 30's if I can still retain decent hair coverage, but if I'm totally bald by then I won't bother. I've looked into it and if you have aggressive MPB, a HT will always just make it look 10x worse than…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 01:46 PM
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If you say that you train for strength. Everyone assumes that you are training for maxing out your 1RM. Not really. Strength is ~4-6 rep range, when people are talking 1RM they're talking power. That's why it's called powerlifting and not strength lifting. Yes to the layman power/strength are interchangeable, but in most athletic and lifting circles there is a pretty clear distinction between training strength and training power. 1-3 reps = power 3-6 reps = strength 8-12 reps = volume/mass (hype…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:12 PM
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That sounds like a great idea for an LTR, but I'm certainly not going to put in that much effort, or even want to seem like I'm putting in that much effort, for a girl I'm just trying to fuck. My frame is that they should be working hard for my attention, not the other way around. Still though, great idea to reward good behavior to long term plates or LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 06:23 PM
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When a woman asks or even begs for you to open up, it serves multiple purposes, but usually falls between congruency-test, pair-bonding growth, and information gathering (to be used as leverage later). If it's early on the relationship (or even a first date), you always have to play it off with amused mastery and never ever show any negative emotional reaction towards anything. You can be dismissive of things you don't like, but that's different than being angry or sad towards them. Negative emo…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 02:34 PM
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I've been researching an anti-oxytocin drug Try testosterone. Depression levels and bonding ability are at an all time low when I'm on cycle. It's stoicism in a vile.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 03:46 PM
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Get a voice coach, it takes consistent and constant practice but you can certainly change your voice. Failing that, you have to compensate for it by increasing masculinity in other areas. You think anyone made fun of Mike Tyson's goofy/girly voice to this face?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:01 PM
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Look at Connor McGregor and other short men’s Instagrams. Damn you're thinking just like a woman if you think Connor McGregor is short. The guys 5'9", true short men must be invisible to you. To add a point though, don't have tall friends... Or at least recognize it'll make you look shorter by comparison. I'm 5'11 and my best friend is 6'4". Everyone things I'm 5'6" because I'm always in pictures with him or look smaller standing near him.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 08:15 PM
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50lb up on the guy, and I'm resting at 11% BF. If you have any experience in MMA this should be all you need to know. I have extensive experience in MMA, muay thai, and boxing, with a shitload of amateur bouts in all of them and a lot of muay thai/mma professional fights and you're right, this statement tells me exactly what I need to know. It tells me you are an amateur at best, as you are placing size and laughably BF% as the most important indicators for this engagement. You didn't even touch…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 07:12 PM
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You sound extremely melodramatic and I can guarantee the interactions you had didn't go as described. Your quotes sound like some sperglord fantasy script you thought up in the shower. You came in with anger on your face and in your heart. You put your hands on him. You violated man's law. Was this before or after you tipped your fedora? Also any reputable gym would not have an instructor with 2-3 years experience. That's like blue belt level. I'm not saying that some people don't accelerate fas…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 04:36 PM
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Of course you can never eliminate risk, but you should know the realities and statistics involved to properly assess it. Then you have to find a level of risk you're comfortable with and live with it. I was simply highlighting the fact that people overestimate the risk involved with unprotected sex and over value condoms for their protection, which enables them to engage in what is in actuality riskier behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 09:29 AM
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I think people are way overly concerned about STDs, and this is coming from someone that's a borderline hypochondriac. I've been through the scares so many times that I basically can't get worried anymore. I used to be super anal about protection but eventually started raw dogging by and then after nothing bad happening hundreds of times I've gotten a positive feedback loop to essentially be confident to know the risks. Get vaccinated for HPV, Hep A & B, use protection when necessary and get tes…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 04:48 AM
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Gaming is like any other addiction. Yes, the majority of people can consume and enjoy it in moderation without it effecting their lives. But there is a small minority that will let it consume their lives. This thread is created from the perspective of an addict, who is like an alcoholic wondering how other people can just have 1-2 drinks and stop. They're brains are wired differently and they literally cannot comprehend the viewpoint of a person who can control and enjoy that activity in moderat…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 06:34 PM
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This kind of delusion exists in a lot of areas of life. Whether it's your health/weight, an addiction, your career/finances, or your relationship; people will always choose to be in denial and compare themselves to some extreme example outlier so in their heads they can define their own identity as NOT whatever that thing is... Fat people are one of the most glaring and obvious examples of this though. They shift the proverbial line that defines whatever that thing is (fat, poor, stupid, loser, …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 01:08 AM
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If she hadn't altered her behavior, they'd most definitely still be together right now. Most girls would start cooking him 5-star meals and fucking him like a pornstar, yet she basically did the opposite. I don't understand her thought process, it's like the thought of being rich short-circuited her brain. It's entirely because of her mindset and history with him. A normal woman who is meeting this guy for the first time feels the need to impress him and qualify themselves for his attention/affe…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:04 PM
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Women are like gases in this sense, adapting and shifting to the environment that they are in. Gases perfectly fit the container in which they are being kept, just as women perfectly contort their personalities to be compatible with the people they are with or trying to court. If you're used to women not liking to think they are sluts, it means you are subtly giving queues to them that you believe that behavior is unacceptable or that it disgusts you. It doesn't take much for a woman to pick up …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 03:38 PM
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Not everyone who finds the redpill starts on the same path. While some are beta incels, others can still pull but may just have trouble with dealing with the dichotomy of female's words and actions in relationships. Not everyone who starts blue pill is a pathetic beta incel, just like not everyone who's TRP enlightened is Chad Thundercock. First dates are easy: For conversation; stick to FORD topics (Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams (aspirations)) and avoid RAPE topics (Religion, Abortion,…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:42 PM
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No, you did not. I fucking destroyed with arguments. She called me a racist many times. Why? What a horrendously cringe worthy first date. You're trying to find someone to get your dick wet, not someone who validates your life choices and political opinions. Anyone who talks about that shit is always just looking for validation. You need to reevaluate your goals and objectives on dates, or you're never going to get laid. Just because a girl believes in political correctness doesn't mean she does…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:12 PM
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My father is the same way, complete and total control freak. It lead to many fights growing up and going through school. I'd always rationally win the fights (because I had the benefit of being right, I didn't fight otherwise), but he'd hold some aspect of his control over my head in order to make me feel disobedient or guilty in some way. I always admired my dad as he had a ton of sports and scholastic achievements, and had a successful career, so I felt bad disappointing him. And I don't mean …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:11 PM
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While withdrawal and social anxiety definitely go hand in hand with the incel lifestyle, I don't think it's the main cause of it; rather those are symptoms that manifest eventually when someone forms an incel mentality. I think the cause of incel's mentality and lifestyle is that they are people with ridiculous entitlement complexes that lack perspective. They're mad they haven't been born into a life of luxury and ease and feel they were cheated in some way, despite never earning anything in th…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:37 PM
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The exception to this rule though is wearing your shirt at the beach or the pool. Nobody can tell you're a fat disgusting fuck with this simple trick.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 11:18 PM
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I love reading that subreddit occasionally, because of the perspective it provides. I naturally tend to have a negative and very competitive personality. It's easy to get trapped in my own view of reality and feel down on myself by constantly comparing myself to the upper echelon males. But then I read something like this... My wife (35f and I (36m) got married ~2 years ago. Before marriage, she loved sex and wanted it 3X a week. However, after getting married, she stopped desiring sex. In fact,…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 10:32 PM
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It's all about how attraction is relative to women's individual strengths and interests. A woman who makes more money than a man views the man as weaker than herself in that area; and we all know how weakness is perceived for women in terms of attraction. You see this in countless areas, not just finance. If a woman is college educated she will almost never date someone who isn't. If a women has a powerful position in a company she'll want to date other managers and CEOs. By elevating their own …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:05 PM
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For anyone wondering about the bobs and bagels reference or the general state of Indian FOBs messaging girls. https://youtu.be/YM2NQgIG-QM
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 02:21 PM
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I'm with you. I don't buy it either. He looks really healthy for being truly homeless. He is wearing shorts and sandals as a "homeless" person in NYC? Where does he keep his other outfits? Etc... (FYI I'm a firefighter/EMT and have to deal with homeless people almost everyday at work) There's a big difference between a crazy homeless guy that sleeps on park benches and the "invisible homeless" who live on streets, in shelters, their cars, etc, but still try to remain employed and lead somewhat n…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 04:08 PM
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Only if you have a solid base/understanding of what you're practicing. I can work on certain drills and bagwork by myself at home in order to improve my technique and muscle memory, but that's because I have a decade of experience and many MMA/kickboxing fights under my belt. Even then, this is just for certain fundamentals, my skills will still begin to stagnate and deteriorate if I don't train with partners for an extended period of time. There is no substitute for proper training/sparring wit…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 02:45 PM
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Honestly I think he'll be fine. He's made the right decisions before and meeting up for coffee with an old girlfriend means nothing other than being friendly. This girl is employing the same strategy as every other woman, but doing it poorly and almost overtly because she's so crazy. You can tell through her post history she is completely unhinged and a fucking nutcase; totally BPD. She'll end up being more self-destructive than harmful to this guy in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:26 PM
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My guess would be it messes with the reward/pleasure center in your brain, similar to how cocaine does but perhaps through a different mechanism. When you use cocaine the brain starts to limit neuron receptors to offset the high neural load. The end result being that you don't experience natural highs the same anymore and are more "dull". Games these days use addictive models in order to keep their consumer base playing and paying. They've gotten REALLY good at it, World of Warcraft was the firs…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 02:11 PM
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I think this is in part due to the Dunning-Kruger effect. People that are somewhat experienced but still relatively new to something like to feel superior over complete beginners, so they put others down to make themselves feel better. If you go to a gym, it's never going to be the guy that's squatting 5 plates snickering and laughing at you. It'll be the group of gym bros that just started to see their beginner gains. It's almost never the higher belts that have these issues in BJJ, it's always…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 03:38 PM
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When I first found TRP, I went through the sidebar and recommended reading materials like crazy. I read every article on illimitable men and the rational male, then ordered books like No More Mr. Nice Guy, The Rational Male, The Book of Pook, The Way of Men, Art of Seduction, and The 48 Laws of Power. Since then I've read probably 20-30 books related to TRP, Seduction, and human psychology. Never mind the countless scholastic journals/articles. I think the books I mentioned are the absolute bare…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 05:36 PM
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This is the weirdest 'cripple fight' I've ever seen. I'm not sure what started the dissent between the two and I don't give a shit enough to look into it. All I can say is that from my experience "being alpha" is not a predetermined criteria checklist. I know alphas with shit dad bods who absolutely slay in life and are drowning in pussy because they are extremely charismatic and titans of their industry; complete and total leaders. I know self-made multi millionaires who look like shit and are …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 08:19 PM
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Krav Maga is about as mcdojo as it gets. Just watch a youtube video of it or look at the typical Krav Maga practitioner. inflict maximum damage shortest time possible IE "Our moves are too deadly to be used in a competitive setting" mentality. They are the modern equivalent of Kung Fu.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:09 PM
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Judo has been so watered down since it's induction in the olympics that I'd say it's not worth training anymore, unless you find yourself a legit old school instructor. It suffered the same fate as TKD did, where due to the new limited rule set, they were watered down to the extent that they're no longer applicable in a real world setting. BJJ is going down a similar path with sport BJJ and the IBJJF.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:01 PM
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It depends on the quality of the gym and the type of training. The best all around is wrestling/BJJ, simply because they both force all their trainees (casual or competitor) to train on a fully resisting opponent. Boxing/kickboxing are the most applicable in a real life situation, but the majority of people that train in those sports never step in the ring to spar. In my honest opinion if you aren't sparring in kick boxing or boxing, you won't be able to utilize anything you've practiced. Everyt…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:36 PM
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Just ignore them and do what you want. You don't need validation for your life choices. Although the look of pure jealousy and disdain on your female friends or women your age in general when you have a hot young 19 year old hanging off your arm will be all the validation you need.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 07:52 PM
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I have so many of these experiences in my youth that are forever burned into my memory. Girls that were extremely interested in me finding excuses to get me to their places only to be disgusted by me later for not acting on anything. I guess I could use the excuse that I had a girl friend at the time, but that won't change their opinion of you.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 04:44 PM
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Being honest does, being a tool doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 05:25 PM
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Jesus dude, just stop
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 04:13 PM
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This post was retarded and just an attempt to redefine OP's own self-image and self-worth because of his inferiority complex with Chads. It's the male version of "I'm not like other girls". Just because Chad is aloof does not mean he is immature. I know super-Chad self made millionaires that seem to do nothing but goof off and fuck around at work. They are serious when they need to be, around people they need to be serious around. If they aren't serious around you that means they don't view you …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 03:22 PM
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And alpha person would not feel the need to state that they are alpha. And they most certainly would not feel the need to then provide a list of reasons for why they think they are alpha. I don't get laid much This is the part of your post that tells me everything I need to know. You seem to have interesting accomplishments and maybe a high SMV, but if that's the case and you still aren't getting laid, it means you're the exact opposite of alpha.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 03:18 PM
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What's it called when you're autistic but actually have no understanding of math/science? I'm not sure, but I think this thread is a pretty good example of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:00 PM
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I was blown in the middle of a club in Cuba by one of the flight attendants on my plane over, who had a 5 year boyfriend waiting at home. I also wasn't RP at all at this point, just gifted with being an athlete and fun when I drink. Girls just want to have fun.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 09:04 PM
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I assumed OP's post was the onion level parody of some of the threads around here. Meant for humor. I hope for his sake I'm not wrong.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 02:50 PM
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I think you're spending too much effort thinking about it, and attaching way too much emotion to her and the event based on the length of your replies and how much you want to discuss about her character. Just protect yourself and move on. Yeah, we do this with our clients to avoid them trying to screw with us. I never thought I'd have to do this with a coworker. Coworkers I always give the benefit of the doubt at first, but it doesn't stop me from trying to get a read on them. The women in my o…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 09:41 PM
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Whether it's a client, coworker, or contractor I'm hiring, I make sure when I'm dealing with people like this that everything has a paper trail. Or if I don't have experience with the person and haven't gotten a good read on them yet, I'll cautiously record everything to ensure my ass is covered when they try to blame everything on you. This has saved me a few times and gotten a few people fired. You'll get shady people trying to by-pass this all the time by coming to your desk to talk to you or…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 08:31 PM
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The most important thing here is... Why the fuck do you care? If the boyfriend is your close friend, then tell him you think something is up. If not, then it's not your business and you're coming off as extremely low SMV by meddling in others affairs and acting like a woman.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 07:57 PM
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Since I was young I've always had the idea put in my head that you should treat others how you want to be treated, and that people with reciprocate your kindness. In my early youth I lived my life according to this value, only to find that it's the easiest way to get taken advantage of by your employer, women, your friends, and even your family. Between 18-25 I was a gigantic asshole, not particularly cruel, just brutally honest and unwilling to take shit from anyone. The truth is you need to be…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:40 PM
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You failed to mention the most important part of the analogy, which is that you actually learn through repetitive action. Putting your teachings into motion and going out and doing what you've been told, rather than just assuming you've learnt it from being taught/shown. The reason BJJ is renowned for being one of the most effective combat arts is that it trains it's techniques every single class against fully resisting opponents. A BJJ black belt has thousands of hours spent on the mat trying t…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 04:00 PM
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I really don't see much of any risk or reward in your current situation. Let alone "high risk, high reward". I don't think you understand the phrase. You sound overly anxious and excited when talking about every day occurrences and are putting far too much weight on trivial decisions. You might want to work on that.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 04:37 PM
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The problem is that we have completely unqualified people giving advice on those subjects as well. People posting diet/workout advice that won't post pics of their body, or when they do they're skinny-fat DYELs, or blasting PEDs while trying to sell their workout gimmick. I've seen posts from a 16 year old on here trying to give advice on financial investments. For some reason when people read TRP for a week or two they become "enlightened" and want to share all their thoughts and theories with …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 01:36 PM
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In all likeliness the relationship is not salvageable. The reason being that any change, even small changes for the better, will be perceived as drastic. Your LTR has been conditioned for 5 years to believe that you are the way you are, if you start to deviate from your typical behavior patterns your LTR will pick up on it and oppose it. I had this happen with a 6 year LTR where I was never super beta/bluepilled, I was always quite alpha but let her get away with too much shit. Just the small ch…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 05:15 PM
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Not necessarily. I've received numbers 4-6 all as shit-tests several times and blown past them. You have to gauge the tone/delivery of what they're saying. All of these can be either be IODs as OP said or they can simply be the woman trying to ensure plausible deniability to maintain their own image. An example was there was this girl who was really into me and I was picking up a ton of IOIs on. The problem was we met through a mutual friend who was already a plate of mine and was getting really…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 02:01 PM
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I'm not sure why some posters always feel the need to try to claim the story is false and made up, especially when it's not that outlandish. Like the OP said, this poster is verified. And from my own anecdotal experience, shit like this is not that uncommon. You just have to know what kind of woman you're dealing with, I've missed my chances with a few wild women because I wasn't as upfront with my aggression and didn't press the issue as much. Two weekends ago I was dealing with one of these wo…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:51 PM
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I've never liked the term "shit test", because it's a slang oversimplification. What they really are is congruency tests. They are subtle social challenges issued to you to check if your apparent value is congruent with your true value. I find simply framing it that way in your mind makes them a lot easier to deal with, because there is a positive implication to the term. People aren't just giving you shit for no reason or because they're ass holes, they are testing your value because they see v…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:07 PM
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If I ever had to tell my LTR to "shut the fuck up" and aggressively put her in her place, she wouldn't be my LTR. Just like this woman needs a man to put her in her place, I need a woman who already knows her place and respects me enough not to test/question it in such an overt and severe way. Like another user said, there are women that you fuck and there are women that you date/LTR. In newer generations like my own the former far outnumber the latter due to the effects of social conditioning a…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:54 PM
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It's not about your SMV, it's about how you're approaching the conversations/situations. You're dealing with them head-on, in a serious non-joking tone. Why? I have a recurring problem where people tend to chide me for refusing to date single moms. It's not only work colleagues who do this to me, but also some of my so called friends. These same people would never say anything against the chads whom pumped and dumped the said single moms. Chad doesn't have to deal with this because it's already …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:41 PM
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I disagree. That will work for a few months tops, but if your LTR is in the years, you can't smirk everytime she gets pissed and expect her to still respect you. I may do something like that if she's dysregulated, but if she is calmly articulating a point, I'll calmly respond. If your LTR is starting fights with you all the time, you've already completely lost her respect. Simply put, there is an unhealthy power dynamic in your relationship. You wouldn't start fights/arguments all the time with …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 04:34 PM
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Very simple answer. Do they provide or extract value from your life?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 07:18 PM
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I found I'd get anxious a lot during ONS and I figured it was from my internal risk assessment. When I perceived risk to be higher (condom break, no condom, slutty girl, unknown views on pregnancy, clinger/crazy person, etc.) I was anxious after and sometimes even during. When I'm more certain that many of the risks of sex are negated or minimized, it lowered my anxiety. I found it had little to do with the quantity of the sex or hotness of the girl, and mostly to do with the unknowns of the env…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 07:16 PM
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I've done both sexual strategies, or had a hybrid one in the past, due to my failed cultural upbringing. I tried to be the valuable nice guy, ie the "gentleman". This usually just ends you up as an orbiter. Being good looking and an athlete I occasionally hooked up with hot girls and friends. I will say that secondary sexual strategies actually required way more investment/effort for way less return. Once you've established yourself as an orbiter you are relying on the girl to throw one your way…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 06:23 PM
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Well, you fucked up by showing your cards over the phone like that. She now has all this time to figure out what she's going to say. You won't find out anything she doesn't want you to know. I agree, but other than ignore all her calls/texts there wasn't much of an option. I didn't bring it up until she noticed my cold behavior, trying to be stoic. I didn't react emotionally even when talking to her about it, and just said my initial reaction to what was happening. I'm usually very descriptive i…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 09:32 PM
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I agree now. The texting issue amplified all the other things I had a problem with but wouldn't have though much of otherwise. It's unfortunate that it just happened this morning though, as before the two incidents this has never happened with my phone. Tech issue fucked me up with some terrible timing. Also potentially the frame of mind I'm in since I saw two girls who both cheated on their boyfriends that they "love so much" this weekend. And will never tell them or break up with them. I've be…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 08:08 PM
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What were my other options? Ignore it? Ignore her?
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:42 PM
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But over the course of the last month or so I bonded with a chick, (now I am supposed to say I fucked her) but I didnt, I talked with her, hung out with her. Laughed like I had not done in months, we fucking connected on shit. Things were chill, fun and interesting. We are both in a very hard program in school, so time is very limited. Women are the gate keepers for sex, men are the gate keepers for commitment. A man that hands out emotional support too early in a relationship while getting noth…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:59 PM
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He was "creepy" because he wasn't escalating as fast as he could have. A girl entering a bathroom before your done is a huge IOI, her initiating touching is another huge one. He could have fucked her right there in that washroom if he knew what he was doing. He was likely just matching her escalation levels all night, which is letting her lead the interaction and comes off as waiting for approval to proceed further, which he was. Her telling her friend the guy was "creepy" was her hamstering to …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:40 PM
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It's all about context and ability to read body-language and assess the situation. I was introduced through a mutual friend so there was already some rapport/social-proof. Something came up about sports or fitness instantly and I said I can tell she squats, but she has some work to do before she gets on my level, then stuck out my ass and said "let's compare butts". So we were instantly testing the "firmness" of each other's asses. She asked what I thought and I said "meh, I'm more of a tit man …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 02:47 PM
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Disagree completely. Touching is the best way to build rapport, if done naturally and confidently. I've done the insta-kiss/make-out on countless girls. I was fondling my current LTRs breasts within 30 seconds of meeting her. You can do whatever you want, when you have the mentality that you can do whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 01:27 PM
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Women are people just like us and will also occasionally engage in high risk / high reward behavior. The chance of getting Chad's dick/attention/genes are well worth the risk of rejection. Nobody in their right mind is going to go into a situation that's high risk / low (or no) reward. Guys like OP get mad that girls won't approach them because they are evaluating their own SMV too highly. Some women will never approach because they're more risk adverse than others. But if you're never getting a…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 03:06 PM
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I just despise being around women - especially my wife Not that kind of relationship, especially if you started off in a blue pill frame of mind. You have signed away all your leverage and power by getting married. You got married on her terms and now that you've "swallowed the pill", you're salty because you realize what a terrible deal it was. It's extending beyond my wife. Women at work want to get lunch and email and I'm just over it. It does nothing but annoy me. No I don't want to talk. I …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:01 PM
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It all comes down to time investment versus the quantity and quality of results. For me Tinder really is a waste of time, because the place I live has a very small town vibe. Only lower quality women are on Tinder and they mostly just use it for validation. When travelling to large cities though I've used it to great success. Larger cities have more temporary residents and therefore less cemented social groups. People are looking to meet other people rather than just reside in their cliques, so …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:04 PM
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No one should optimize for just one factor (SMV in this case), if anything goes wrong, you're in for a big and possible lethal surprise. This is pretty obvious but not what this sub is about. TRP is first and foremast about male sexual strategy. While improving other areas of life have residual benefits for your SMV, they are much more straight forward and have linear progressions. I don't need TRP to learn how to workout, fix a car, land a job, or how to act in male spaces. That seems to be cha…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 07:56 PM
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If she wasn't there to help you build your empire, she won't be there when it crumbles. If you're successful you should be concealing your wealth if you hope to find an LTR. Or if you use status/wealth for your game, you should never be dumb enough to lock down any of the women you pick up.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:12 PM
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I go from LTR phases to man whoring phases. It gets tiring after a while and you just want to chill out again eventually. But it's a good mindset to go into a relationship with. You can't properly vet your prospective LTRs if you don't do it from an abundance mindset. Otherwise you'll be biased and thinking with your dick.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:03 PM
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In short overmasturbation is fapping compulsively anywhere from 7-30 times a week. It rewires your brain and body, destroys your erectile function and energy levels. It's truly dangerous things. This is what so many no fappers fail to realize. It's not that abstaining from masturbation provides health benefits to the average person, it's that they are addicts that are abusing their bodies. Of course you are going to notice health benefits if you go from masturbating 7+ times a week (to porn) to …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:10 PM
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This is always one of my fears when in an LTR, not that she will cheat. If she does that and I find out it's a very simple and quick solution. But if she were to cheat several times for years without me ever finding out. To be played the fool without even knowing it. I would hope that my friends would care enough that they'd intervene if they caught wind of something similar. I've seen so many people turn a blind eye because "it's not their business". So many unfaithful relationships that everyo…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 02:59 PM
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I'd recommend both. Even though I only compete in MMA lately I still practise no-gi because it helps with learning techniques and working with a different pace. Good gyms will do both, more traditional gyms will have an emphasis on training with the Gi most of the time. I'm lucky that my BJJ instructor is a seasoned MMA pro fighter that tailors the gyms jiu Jitsu style towards MMA and fighting. With sport BJJ becoming more popular lately there are some gyms that focus exclusively on that. Becaus…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:54 PM
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In BJJ? Almost never unless you catch a rogue knee or elbow to the face. I've seen very very few impact injuries in grappling like broken noses. Joint injuries are far more common but I'd say BJJ is one of the safest sports to practise, which is why you can spar 100% every class. In boxing it depends on how serious you train/compete. If you're just doing it for fun you'll never have to worry about a broken nose. If you plan on fighting you will get it broken eventually in sparring or fighting re…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:47 PM
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IMHO the potential for injury is far greater in cross-fit than in MMA and associated striking/grappling arts. Really bad for joint injuries.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:21 PM
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There is no fighter that will go from quiet person to a shit-talker after learning how to fight and gaining confidence in themselves. Connor is no different, in real life he is very humble. A lot of people on this sub seem to be ignorant to the fact that he is taking on a persona he knows will draw attention in order to sell himself. I have a teammate/sparring partner that trained in Connor's gym for 2 months this year. He said Connor was very friendly when talked to but was mostly quiet and kep…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:39 PM
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I cannot stress enough the benefits of training combat sports. Whether you do it for fun, for a workout, or to compete, it's an awesome environment with great benefits. I was always involved with lifting, but I started taking judo classes 12 years ago after I retired from competitive hockey. When you go from playing/practicing something at a high level 7 days a week to 0, all of a sudden you have a ton of pent up energy and competitive aggression to deal with. Because I was athletic and a quick …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:13 PM
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You should be able to read your LTR well enough to know whether or not she would fight to keep you without having to outright say it. If you can't gauge a person's reaction (let alone your fiances) well enough to tell without being outright told, you have no business being in an LTR until you learn that skill. You will get eaten alive by women, who play the game and use powerspeak and emotional warfare as second nature.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:36 PM
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Raves are hookups on easy mode. If you have a good body you don't even have to say anything. When rolling just walk up behind a girl and start dancing/touching/massaging her. I've had several hook ups where I hardly said a word before taking them home. The thing is raves/EDM shows get boring and tedious. You basically have to be on drugs to have a good time there. The culture is annoying and mostly just marketing ploy to get you to spend more money on stupid shit. The music can be great though d…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:16 PM
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This is entirely due to how you define and interpret the feeling "love". I know because I went through the exact same problem in my previous relationships. You've been sold lies all your life that when you find "the one", you can love and rely on them for everything. You think when you love a woman you should love someone who you treat as your equal, someone worthy of your admiration and respect. The problem is that you cannot admire a child, and women will quickly move on from a man who she thi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:00 PM
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Im 100% sure that 1400+ karma means your some sort of loser since anyone with a life would not be posting on here that much, especially DoTa, like come on man its obvious your nobody in the real world lol. Dont try to say your some socially well rounded fuck since your not. Whatever false reality you need to create to help you sleep better at night... Keep projecting those loser qualities you have onto others. This is the male-hamster in overdrive. And multiple degrees dont mean shit. None of us…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:47 PM
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Don't ask, just act entitled to it and take it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:19 PM
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LOL your on reddit, i doubt your that successful. Plenty of successful people on reddit and on this sub. Once again, you are projecting your own character traits onto people in the same community as you. And again, I never said anything about my work history. You didn't have to, your post said enough. You clearly have near-zero actual work experience. IE in a real job/career, making real money. I could take the time to spell perfectly to jerk faggots like you off but why should I? You can unders…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:11 PM
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You have zero work experience that matters. IE in your professional field for more than 5 years or building a successful business and wealth. Your experience at McDonald's or working as a student don't count. While you may not have seen the benefit in college, a lot of other posters that have actually already become successful have. I certainly have. Don't project your lack of success and wasted time/money/effort on others.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:00 PM
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sentences dont pay the bills Neither do you apparently. You stated you're just finishing your masters, hence you have zero work experience. While I agree many people unnecessarily default to college as the route to take, you should really stop giving job advice... At least until you actually get one.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:50 PM
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The only reason to go to college is so that you can become a licensed practicing professional. So if you want to be a doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc. Go to college. You could learn it all on your own but you need to suck it up for 4 years to get a certificate that says you can legally practice your profession. You also don't stop learning after college. A lot of guys settle into their 9-5 after college and have no aspirations to move up or create something of value. Always be learning. Don't go t…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:08 PM
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Even when completely anonymous women will under report their N-count. The reason being is that they must lie to themselves, because their N-count is tied to their value and they know it. They honestly don't believe they've slept with 30+ guys, because they'll make up any number of reasons for why 90% of their encounters "don't count". Or if they acknowledge their number honestly they'll manipulate statistics to justify them not being a slut. I had a friend tell me she's slept with over 50 guys b…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:36 PM
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When you take everyone into account, the average is a pathetic indicator. Even if you only average males from the 18-35 age group. Average is disgusting, don't shoot for average, or even top 10%. Try to be the absolute best person you can be given your genetic limitations.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:32 PM
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Who cares? Why waste your energy? Focus on improving yourself, not on seeking out arguments in online forums to brag about how "enlightened" you are.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:34 PM
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"it's all about selling yourself" But... He's right... That's not blue pill at all. Male sexual strategy is all about selling yourself. It helps if what you're selling is already an awesome product, but male sexual strategy and sales go hand in hand.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:34 PM
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A good rule of thumb I live by is only taking advice from people that have proven results in which I want to emulate. Even if they seem to speak eloquently and passionately about some subject, they're usually just blowing smoke up your ass if they don't have the results to back it up. For my training I listen to fighters that have positive professional winrates, or who I have seen perform well. I listen to my coaches who have either done well themselves or have a history of producing good fighte…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:30 PM
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This is why you never pool resources with women. Whether it's in the early stages of dating or in marriage, you need to protect yourself. Ignore all the incentives to do so, because while it may seem smart on paper it will just end up biting you in the ass. When it comes to women and money: Never take them out for expensive dates before fucking them, just go for drinks. Go dutch on everything, or establish a back and forth method of payment if it's more of an LTR type situation. This is obvious …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:55 PM
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I declined since I like walking as I could easily just drive myself to work, and don't want to escalate things since you don't shit where you eat. This rule is geared towards those with careers, not teens working in retail or restaurants. There's really nothing that bad that could ever happen to you by hooking up with a girl you work with in a non-serious job. At my current corporate job I've turned down a few good situations because I don't want to "shit where I eat". When I was a bartender tho…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 10:18 PM
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You got very lucky learning this information two months in. Your investment is low and you learned her true intentions and how she views you. She's likely alpha widowed by her ex and is utilizing your commitment while trying to stay in his life in case there is any possibility they would get back together. You don't have to dump her, just don't commit to her and know that the relationship will not last very long. Don't give her emotional validation or treat her like a girlfriend anymore, you are…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:53 PM
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I have no doubt that some crazy women will use every advantage that the situation has to offer to keep people around. My argument was simply that the initial motivations for keeping an STD secret with a new partner have little to do with wanting to trap an individual and are mostly to do with embarrassment, hamstering, and cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 05:34 PM
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More idiotic than getting herpes from a married man?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:54 PM
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So you are saying the science is wrong? I'm saying your understanding, interpretation, and explanation of "science" is completely wrong. The uneducated dribble you displayed in your previous two posts in this thread is ridiculous. Are you also going to say Africa isn't having a massive HIV problem? I'm not saying that at all. There has always been an HIV epidemic in Africa, but it has absolutely nothing to do with the reasons you stated. It certainly has very very little to do with being uncircu…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:50 PM
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Most men prioritize their health over their image. From my experience it seems to be a phenomenon predominantly with women. The situation you explained could be because he doesn't care, knowing that his wife already has it. My thoughts are though that with the extreme pain I've heard herpes outbreaks have, he refuses to get tested because he doesn't want to confirm infidelity with his wife. It's very unlikely you're his first indiscretion, he probably got herpes from another, lied about his wife…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:39 PM
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Read the 'Sex God Method'. You may have to search for a torrent of the PDF. Most ED and premature ejaculation issues are psychological, not physiological. It all boils down to "just relax and stop thinking about it", but that's easier said than done. It takes time and effort to focus on gaining that confidence where you no longer have to think about it. When you're completely immersed in the situation you won't be thinking of performance, you'll just be enjoying yourself, which ironically will l…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:35 PM
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Was he trying to trap me as well? Not sure if you even read my post. My argument was that they don't do it as a trap. It's the first thing I said. Congrats on sleeping with a married guy I guess though?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:32 PM
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I really hope nobody reads these last two posts and gives them any merit, as that would be dangerous. The assumptions made and statistics listed are not cited and completely off from actual statistics. These posts show a complete lack of understanding or comprehension for the transfer mechanisms of bacterial and viral infections.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:23 PM
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The don't do it as a trap. They are extremely embarrassed about it. They are so embarrassed about it that they cannot handle the cognitive dissonance between their reality and what they want to be true. So they lie to themselves and hamster it away as much as possible. Girls are so embarrassed and terrified about having an STD tied to their internal identity that they will flat out refuse to get tested or see a doctor when they have symptoms. They will rather pretend to not have them and wait fo…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 03:17 PM
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You should always be working hard, I don't think OP said anything negating that in his post. Like you said the difference is you should work hard on yourself. Treat your time/energy like an investment. Investing in your finances, your body, your habits/skills yield great returns. Investing in an LTR yields terrible returns, especially since you can get a good/easy LTR as a by-product of investing in yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:58 PM
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(Love or Sex) what's more interesting to you right now? you can get sex anywhere... true love isn't so common Is 14 partners a lot? No, Thats nothing. "That's nothing"... A girl like this will never find true love. She will be disgusted by the low value males that would ever commit to her and any male worth his salt would never commit to someone like her. Simply put she's a 4 that will forever be searching for an 10. It's sad really.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:51 PM
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4 months later, I had a house party and invited the same girl. She asked me if she could bring someone with her. I had no objections to this, in fact, this was how I had some many networks of friends. It turns out that her guest she wanted to bring over was the dude who dropped her off at the bar. She introduced him to us as her boyfriend, I was so shocked I had to find Jimmy and so he can get the same introduction. Me and Jimmy ran a train on this girl, and this Blue Pill Warrior STILL WENT FOR…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:33 PM
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Glad to hear that, sounds like a stand up guy and is going to be a doctor. The girl on the other hand sounds like a manipulative cunt leach of a human being. Well I'm addressing the reason she was cheating now. She wants more of my time and attention and I wasn't giving her very much before. God damn women are naturals at psychological warfare. Just break down all the strategy in that sentence that probably rolled right off the tip of her tongue.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 06:10 PM
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To be honest I just feel sorry for them. They peak and begin to depreciate before they even know what's going on. Then if they ever shed the BP mentality and wake up they have an extremely tough time knowing they will never achieve their previous SMV no matter what they do. It's like giving an 18 year old kid a million dollars and then telling him he'll get a million more every 5-10 years. He spends it all and awaits the next check at 25-30, only to get stiffed. He's now lived a life of luxury a…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:58 PM
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Humans evolved with a tribe like social structure over hundreds of thousands of years and are still very similar to primates when it comes to our social instincts and behaviors. A few hundred year bubble of civilization doesn't unwrite and recode 100,000 years of evolution. Even in today's society in the west, there certainly are tribes. Think of your fellow employees, your immediate family, extended family, your city and the sports teams you follow. Do you ever wonder why people are so proud of…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:46 PM
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I prefer the companionship and emotional connection/support that comes with finding the right woman for an LTR. The sex is better and having someone to support you as your best friend while you focus on work and other things is great. You still have to lead and generate tingles, but for me personally I think it's far more rewarding than chasing one night stands or plating several girls and constantly dealing with the "what are we?" bullshit and pressure for commitment. I enjoy giving my LTR my c…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:40 PM
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If you're judging his persona by his lyrics, he's an enlightened blue pill . Meaning he sees how things work in the sexual market place (most likely due to his extremely high status and SMV), but he harbors a ton of resentment and anger towards that fact rather than just playing the game. The lyrics of his new album make it seem like he has gone a little loopy and just doesn't give a fuck about women anymore, although I haven't gave it a thorough listen. This could all be an act though. It's no …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:17 PM
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I broke down and told her I do care, it's just strategies Jesus you're fucked now. There is no salvaging a relationship when she knows you were playing games strategically, they just feel manipulated. If you had just turned it on her and said she's too needy, or you half-assed a response that it's just hard for you to open up to people (kept the mystery), you could have fixed the situation. The funny thing is she will long for and chase after guys that treat her the exact same way, but only if i…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:05 PM
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I think a lot of people are missing the point of where this article is coming from. The article is simply one of the females sexual strategy that they've been using forever. When discussing males way out of their league, they attempt to degrade one weakness of them in order to try and ground them and make it seem like their own SMV is now on par with them. It has the effect of attempting to tear down the SMV of the high-value male while elevating their own SMV at the same time (by being the one …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:36 PM
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Some women actually do look better at 30 than 20 To each their own, but I find that's rarely the case for me. Boobs begin to sag in the early/mid twenties and so do other parts if they don't take care of themselves. Skin blemishes and wrinkles become more noticeably. Skin quality and smoothness takes a huge dive, especially if they don't diet/exercise well. Some women can be very good looking at 30, but most are not. I'm extremely attracted to very soft/feminine qualities as well, and youth real…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:21 PM
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I still like doing it just to ruffle their feathers. My mothers a huge cunt and my father is way too good for her. I like pointing her out as the reason for me playing the field, as well as the low quality of women these days, and then go into detail on how I treat and discard women like objects. A lot of people in my immediate and extended family are very BP with very controlling and entitled non-working wives/girlfriends. Whenever they pull the "not all women..." card, I have some studies/fact…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 05:53 PM
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Red pill is all about being realistic with the factors that effect sexual strategy though. Everyone who's read the sidebar knows that the different sexes have different factors of attraction and different emphasis on those factors. Leo may have a dad-bod, but from what females find attractive (looks, status, power), he's in the upper stratosphere SMV-wise. It's not like his overall looks are even that bad; his facial aesthetics are at the absolute top .01% of males, he's tall, and he looks amazi…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 05:26 PM
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The men on here only want one type of woman: slender, young, virgin, slender, and introverted That's what all men want... feminine women. Feminine women are young, thin, petite, and submissive. Masculine men are attracted to feminine women. Some men are realistic about their own value and will settle for a lesser woman, but that doesn't change the fact that they desire a higher value woman. Just look at the OkCupid results from asking men what the most desirable age bracket is. From males 20-50 …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 06:08 PM
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Just because Talulah Riley is extremely hot at 31, doesn't mean I wouldn't prefer the 20 year old version of herself. Go look at pictures of her when she was younger, much more attractive than she is currently. Just because she is in the upper echelon of female attractiveness doesn't negate the fact that as women age they become less attractive and less desirable than the 20 year old versions of themselves. A 31 year old bomb shell being hotter than most 20 year olds doesn't negate that fact. An…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 05:55 PM
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Dude you can't brag about banging sluts and then talk about slutshaming a potential daughter of yours. Yes, you can do just that. The reason being is that sexual experience is a valued trait in men, where as being sexually reserved is a valued trait in women. You can complain about the difference being unfair, but it doesn't alter the reality of what society deems valuable from the two sexes. I don't know if you realize this, but the "skanks" your bringing over are other men's daughters. Weak fa…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:46 PM
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Say you're open to the idea but haven't decided if it's the right path in life for you yet. Makes her think you're open to the idea and she'll have to try harder to lock you down. Also shoes value that you're approaching it from a buyer's perspective and only doing it if it will be valuable for you. I've made the mistake of flat out telling girls I didn't want a relationship or saying I was never getting married before. Dangle the carrot in front of their face, give them something to work for. F…
/r/askTRP16/12/16 10:21 PM
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It means they will be a huge source of drama in your life and will play innocent. Good for fun, not for commitment.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 10:18 PM
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He's not enduring a shitty situation just because he's too timid to say something. He's doing it after thinking logically what would be best for his son. He doesn't sound super beta, because when he was cheated on he didn't try to salvage the relationship at all. He wanted to GTFO of it and never look back, but unfortunately he has to coparent with his whore of an ex. I would probably be more reactively abrasive towards the ex and her new BF. Telling them I'm only there for my son and they can l…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 02:16 PM
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Victoria Secret and Sports Illustrated models are not exclusively the hottest women around. There are hundreds of thousands of women that are just as good looking as them that don't have the social status they do. What's really happening with those models is they themselves have incredible status and wealth from their modelling gigs. And women HATE dating men that have lower status than themselves. It's why college educated career driven women claim to have nobody in their dating pool, because t…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 08:40 PM
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I legitimately can't stand what a bunch of whiny pussies men have become. Even in this sub-reddit, you see people complaining and acting entitled all the time, completely ignoring the blessings and advantages they have over 99.9% of men in the world (existing and throughout history). Why would a HB9 or HB10 girl ever be attracted to a fat loser that lives with his parents, fails at getting a useless liberal arts degree, and is too scared to even go up and talk to them? What gives that loser the …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 04:41 PM
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it's been known that a larger person will have more of a baseline strength and reach and those are tremendous advantages by themselves independent of training. While this is true, people vastly over exaggerate how much size and strength play a role in it, especially when it comes to striking. Everyone just assumes a big guy can throw a hard hitting punch, when in reality most large guys can't punch as hard as some girls I've trained with. I've taken on guys with 100 lb weight advantages on me th…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 05:16 PM
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Women that agree with a one-way open relationship are usually not the type of woman you want to keep for long term. They are very needy, require lots of validation and attention, and shit/comfort test the fuck out of you. No form of communication is straight up, she is never comfortable, and everything is a test. She will coax you into being "honest" with her and that she won't be mad, she just wants to know about others, and then all hell will break loose. They will make you think they're okay …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:52 PM
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If you moved in with your girlfriend, if you made her sign a tenant agreement and have her pay rent to you, would this nullify the 50/50 split?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:46 PM
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Weightlifting 2-3 years translates into beating up everyone you see on the street? I've been playing badminton for 3 years, I bet I could beat everyone on the street in basketball. Most people who have been training to fight for 2-3 years still can't fight well, or utilize their skills that well in a street fight. How does he know he'd beat everyone he meets on the street in a fight? Is he testing/proving that theory? Getting into random street fights every weekend just for the hell of it? No, I…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:42 PM
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I've taken the first path with moderate success, but lately I'm tired and can't help but think, not everyone can be in to top 20-40%. While statistically this statement is true, I think a lot of people (especially on TRP) overestimate what constitutes a top 20% male. Look at the average male of any age bracket and you'd be pretty much appalled. While you have to put in some effort to get to the top 20%, it's really not that hard. You have to remember that even males in the top 1-10% usually only…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:21 PM
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They have the same change of perception as we do... They simply calculate that the opportunity cost of improving SMV is too high. I disagree completely. A lot of them seem to be in the anger phase that the world isn't as they believed it to be or was told it was. They take a whiny stance rather than an adaptive mentality. The cost of improving SMV is quite low, you get diminishing returns as you progress but the initial return on your effort investment for improving yourself is substantial. A lo…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:07 PM
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Why would you look away? Or rely on there be some kind of reflective surface to basically spy on her reaction? It's much easier to tell if a girl is interested if you look her in the eyes and smirk, wait for her to break eye contact. If she blushes, smiles, plays with her hair, or bites her lip, you're in. Easy.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 03:04 PM
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never seriously consider a relationship with me, my two children and our needy dog I love how women spin their bullshit baggage as some sort of positive quality, it's hilarious. Like it's some sort of challenge to be overcome, and any man that can't handle her two kids, her dog, and her being a strong independent woman is no man at all. Single mothers need to realize that men don't want to commit to them because they're garbage human beings, not because men aren't man enough to take care of them…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:06 PM
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the marriage will get cancelled if the girl has any shred of self-respect If you're a low value beta, yes. If you're high value the woman will do anything to sink her claws into you. They'll put up a front at first and try to shame you, with accusations of "I can't believe you don't trust me". But in the end if you stand your ground they will just be happier for it. It's pretty obvious you're completely oblivious to relationship mechanics if you think self-respect factors into the equation at al…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 03:08 PM
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Any effects to the trust of the relationship or extended family are completely inconsequential compared a proposed financial and time commitment of 18 years. The testing can and should be framed in a way that trust/distrust is not the driving force for the test, but precaution is. I would have it in writing before marriage that any planned pregnancies will be subject to paternity tests. As long as your partner knows beforehand there should be no trust breakdown.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:45 PM
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It really isn't. I read a study before that stated anywhere from 10-20% of fathers are unknowingly raising children that aren't their own. Women's dualistic sexual strategy has been shown and discussed in recent studies as well. I'd say a test that takes a few seconds to administer to check before signing an 18 year obligation isn't paranoid at all.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:33 PM
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I have no idea what point you're trying to make. The thread is about what attractive and high value males can get away with when it comes to the opposite sex. Not just when it comes to sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 02:07 PM
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"Sexual harassment is a crime committed by beta-males who think they can get away with alpha behaviour." It's true. I've heard girls cry harassment and feel uneasy because guys try to talk to them. I've seen girls call a guy a creep because he "stared at her weirdly" even though all he was doing was minding his business and sitting in the corner of a room sulking. Within minutes of meeting women I've grabbed their tits, asses, and even grabbed them right by the pussy. I've done this from a buyer…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:34 PM
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I think this is the most important point in the thread in regards to why women act like this. They will do anything to avoid judgement and will throw others under the bus just to make themselves look better. It doesn't matter if it's an innocent stranger or even their boyfriend. My ex-LTR got me in trouble a few times when she was drunk or acting up and passing by white knights would ask "is he bothering you?" When women fuck up, the very first thing I hear is "it's not my fault because..." and …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 05:51 PM
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Pretty great actually, I never even have to bring it up. I don't take women out for dinner on first dates, we get 1-2 drinks or split a bottle of wine and they usually offer to pay, go dutch, or bring the bottle. When I finally reward a woman with a dinner date (after several weeks of hooking up), they're so excited and happy about it they're glad to split it or even offer to pay. When you're high value women will gladly pay their way to get access to your time/commitment.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 04:34 PM
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I've slept with enough women to know this is complete BS. I've been with women that are basically walking dick holsters that are extremely ticklish and sensitive to touch. I've also been with virgins or near virgins that aren't ticklish at all. It's pseudo-science bullshit that makes sense on paper but doesn't hold up (thought process of "prolonged or consistent exposed touch reduces sensitivity to tickling in those areas"). How ticklish you are is mostly genetic and tickling has evolved in huma…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 05:10 PM
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Genitals If her panties are drenched after meeting you then she probably likes you. Of course, how could I miss this!
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 05:06 PM
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I think he meant 5% offered to pay their half while only 1 girl offered to pay the entire tab. I'd be hard pressed to believe he spent on average $700 per date.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 04:36 PM
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Yeah, if he's not being explicit about going Dutch. That's a dick move. If you want to go Dutch, then be honest about it from the get go. If the woman says no. You have your answer and move on. The established social norm should be that it's assumed the bill is going to be dutch. It's not my job to clarify to an entitled cunt that I won't be paying her way. If she wants a free meal instead of a date with two mutually interested parties, she should be upfront about her intentions from the get go.…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 04:28 PM
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It can be harder to work out as you age due to decreased natural testosterone and injuries that take longer to heal. There are solutions to both these though so people don't really have an excuse. Mostly it's genetically based, I know a 50 year old guy that's so jacked you'd think he's been cruising since his 20s, but his natural test is just extremely high. I'm in my late twenties and lingering ligament injuries combined with slower recovery times definitely beats me up a little more. I can't h…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 02:41 PM
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You clearly haven't been exposed to the true nature of women. I have had my fair share, I'm just better at defending/insulating myself from AWALT than others on this board appear to be. Your ad hominem argument and attempt to undermine my experience doesn't really add much to your argument. This has nothing to do with being proud or making a point. It's similar to a child who wants to start/continue a fight just for the sake of fighting. Or a woman who doesn't get their way. It has everything to…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:31 PM
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Micro-transactions are the reason I stopped playing games altogether. I don't mind when they keep it to cosmetics only but there are a lot of games that are essentially pay-to-win these days. I would suggest avoiding any dating site that has a similar billing structure, as the system is set up for you to be the loser.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:48 PM
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And...? If you have anything that could be potentially damaging on social media, you're an idiot. Social media is just a tool to increase and market your SMV. Not letting a girl know your last name or look weird and weak trying to control such trivial things. If you really don't want them to know, you can tease them and turn it into a joke "why? so you can look me up and stalk me?", then change the subject playfully. Going with "that's none of your business" may be stern, but it shows that you d…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:56 PM
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I used to date this girl. For some reason, she wanted to know my last name (none of her business). I flat-out refused to tell her. She pulled this on me: "Well we won't have sex anymore unless you tell me your last name." Big mistake. This was a big mistake on your part. Not wanting to tell someone you're seeing your last name comes off as uptight and easily bothered. It shows very weak frame as you overcompensate and get bothered by irrelevant issues just so you can "win" the argument. You forc…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:09 PM
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The most important asset to be successful at pickup is game. I'm not sure where all the whiny bitches have come from on TRP lately but it's getting a bit ridiculous. You can either work with what you have to maximize your chance of success, or you can sit around and whine like a bitch that you weren't born a 6'4" 200lb adonis. For some people being attractive was a genetic gift, but for most it's hard work. Most just don't see the behind the scenes work most good looking men put into gym, diet, …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 10:44 PM
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Women and men can be equally great and terrible friends. It usually depends on their upbringing, family life, and how they form bonds when they are young. A good indicator is a woman with a stable family, strong father, that has the same girl friends from early on in life. Women (and men) that don't have this usually have rotation friend groups, they're the ones to have a new best every year. While this attribute is more common in women, it happens in men as well, although men like this usually …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 03:58 PM
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Yeah all I saw in that post was male hamstering and victim mentality.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 03:41 PM
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I have this, and it's a horrible mentality that can effect confidence big time. Whatever I do, I have to be the absolute best at it. It's this weird competitive drive where anything close to average or above average is so disheartening or disgusting. Some things that bother be daily are my height (5'10") and my slightly thinning hairline. I absolutey cannot handle that I don't have a perfect hairline and am not above 6', despite having a genetically gifted face and body. When it comes to women a…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 05:00 PM
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So here goes my question. After you close with that first and only plate (for the moment) how about telling her there are others? Never tell her. You can imply it through hints, but you don't even have to do that. Just pursue other women. There is absolutely nothing wrong with pursuing other women if you aren't exclusive, which you should never be before sex. Let her bring up exclusivity/commitment. When she throws out the "what are we" conversation, just say you really enjoy spending time with …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:19 PM
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The sidebar is a good introduction to TRP theories and some hard truths and motivations to improve. However, you need to read the supplementary materials to have an actual grasp on the topics. I would say the following are essential for your RP education. If every member read these, there would be a lot less pointless discussions: No more Mr. Nice Guy The Rational Male 1&2 The 48 Laws of Power The Art of Seduction The book of Pook The way of the superior man The Way of Men How to win friends and…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:06 PM
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Whisper is onto something. He's identified the characteristics that you should seek out and ones you should avoid, he's just mistakenly attributed them to urban environments vs rural environments. I've banged enough country cowgirl sluts to know that being raised on a farm doesn't make you a good girl, and being born and raised in a city doesn't mean you'll end up a whore. In my opinion the most important thing is how close they are with they father and if they have close friendships and relatio…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:21 PM
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I completely disagree, the details are very important when starting out. They also aren't that hard to focus on for a beginner, it's much better to learn the proper routines and forms then to have to go back and correct bad habits later. Good programs are "starting strength" and "5x5" as they both focus on compound lifts and will get results. Don't worry about lifting too little or what other people think. Focus on getting the form for your compound lifts correct and work your way up slowly. I s…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:15 PM
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Just lift and clean up your diet. Don't worry about going too hard on the diet at first, as introducing lifting will throw things out of whack a bit. Cut out processed and junk foods, processed carbs, sugars, etc. Eat clean fats/proteins, complex carbs, lots of vegetables. Eat as much as you want of those foods, stay away from the chips and cookies though. Lifting will increase your muscle mass, which will offset your daily calorie deficit. More muscle requires more calories, so if your diet sta…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:14 PM
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AWALT is in reference to women's biological tendencies and how they differ from that of males. It mostly ties into how attraction works for them, their inner workings, and the reason for their dualistic mating strategy. It is not a description for their actions (which many members mistakenly attribute AWALT to). Every woman is capable of cheating due to AWALT. Not every woman will cheat despite AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 09:33 PM
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He doesn't do it intentionally. He's just oddly social like that and enjoys having 1on1 time with women friends where he does all that bullshit and hangs out with them constantly. I don't understand it myself but he acts all surprised when they get pissed off because they were "just friends" and he overtly laid out the boundaries of the relationship, ie as just friends or as just casual sex. He thinks because he overtly communicates and lays out boundaries, they shouldn't get mad when he covertl…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 09:12 PM
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1 Pretending to be her boyfriend (while being a player) My friend does this all the time to girls he's not interested in. Even if he's never had sex with them, he loves doing boyfriend activities like going shopping, going for meals, and hanging out all day (even with their kids). It's the ultimate unintentional push-pull. He just genuinely enjoys spending his time that way, he ends up friend-zoning them and getting female orbiters that will cook and clean his apartment. It's quite bizarre, it's…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 01:51 PM
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The two most important things people should take from this post are: 1) If you weren't good enough for her then, she isn't good enough for you now. A classic red pill truth that everyone needs to be reminded of now and again. 2) More importantly, improvement takes time. Years, as you can see in this post. TRP and it's advice isn't a quick fix that will solve all your problems. Like OP said you have to be willing to wait years and go through hell first. You will suffer, but you will be a better p…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 07:43 PM
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That's basically the rules I abide by already in my own head. The first guy will be thankful for my advice. Even if the second guy is going to hurt himself, he's not going to take my advice, he'll take it as a blow to his ego and just ignore me anyways.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 11:32 PM
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It's actually not bad but it relies a lot more on being able to read IOI's. There are so many guys staring, "helping" with form, and trying to talk to them that unless they show interest first it's usually a losing proposition. Differentiate yourself by paying no mind to them, doing your workout, and initiating a genuine conversation afterward if you can. You can make strong eye contact during but otherwise just go about your business unless they initiate. A lot of girls go to the gym specifical…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 10:31 PM
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People who don't care don't take the time to correct you, they just let you continue to be wrong. Not necessarily true. I've helped a lot of people with weights and in MMA/kickboxing/grappling if/when they ask. If I see someone that's clearly brand new doing something that will injure them I will usually jump in and show them how to do it right. But I refrain from jumping in and correcting everyone that does exercises wrong, the reason being that 95% of people are doing the exercises wrong. It d…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 10:20 PM
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The only benefits of getting a cat over a dog is like you said, they are more autonomous. I find the bond they create with humans is never that great, and girls think a guy that lives alone with cats is a weirdo. So be warned.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 01:40 PM
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Some solutions to this are: 1) Get two dogs instead of one. The incremental effort and cost increase from one dog to two really isn't that noticeable (unless you're talking large dogs that eat a lot). The dogs will become best friends and keep each other from getting separation anxiety. You'll still have to let them out at lunch or something, 8 hours without a bathroom break is too much. 2) Dog walker Relatively cheap and will get them out of the house for a bit. 3) Doggy daycare Basically they …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 01:26 PM
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Young undamaged pussy, only 2 long term partners She openly admitted she would only have casual sex with "guys with no brain so I don't get emotionally attached". I hope you realize that these two events are mutually exclusive. Not only does she engage in casual sex, she openly admits that she does so. In my experience most girls just do this covertly, she openly admitted she does it so I'd clock her partner count at 10-50. She likely saw you as a beta provider right from the start and lied to y…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 03:46 PM
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Increasing number of sexual partners dramatically increases divorce risk There are multiple studies on this, even ones form the CDC. And it's not an absurd partner numbers territory like 20-100+. Anything over 1 partner and your risk of marital troubles goes up significantly. This is troubling news in today's sexually liberal society where partner counts in double and triple digits are common. Even the "good girls" that are conservative will have multiple partners, my own LTR has under 10 which …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 03:21 PM
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There is some psychological backing to support the idea that there exists people that are perpetual victims. Just like people look for subtle cues to see if you're alpha/beta, they can also pick up if you're a victim or not. Predators who prey on the weakness of others pick up on these subtleties subconsciously and single out the weakest members. Actual rape survivors/victims are much more likely to be singled out and taken advantage of again than people who have never been subjected to that kin…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:06 PM
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Fake it till you make it works to an extent. Whether it's career or game-oriented it will help with the initial impression. The problem is that you will experience a lot of congruency tests (shit-tests) as people will pick up on subtle cues that you're faking it. If you're ready for them you can blunder your way through them, but it also is great experience to practice shit-tests and gain experience and actual confidence. It's a much better option than being labelled a loser/beta right off the b…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 04:15 PM
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I get too hormonal on no fap. I go from on top of the world to agitated to angry to depressed all within a few hours. I guess it's because I'm not getting my usual dopamine release, but these hormones don't go away even after 20 days of no fap. It's too much to deal with. And I'm 27, not a teenager. The symptoms you're describing are classic withdrawl phases. You'll experience the same thing if you go cold turkey on caffeine or quit drugs/alcohol. Your body is addicted to the dopamine release th…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 04:10 PM
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I've found there's a huge difference between the outlet for this sexual energy (ie sex vs masturbating). When you have sex often and don't masturbate, the sexual energy is still there for the most part. When I'm sleeping with many women very frequently, I can have sex multiple times a day. I've had sex with 3+ women in one day and haven't quenched my sexual energy desires. With masturbating it's different, there is definitely a release of that pent up sexual energy. This can be a good thing if y…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 04:03 PM
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Rows are actually extremely important for back development as well. Being a grappler and MMA fighter for over a decade has shown me that in hand to hand combat (grappling especially), it's one of the most important muscles on the body. Humans naturally engage one another by squaring off and aggressively pushing/pulling. If you look at animals that emulate this style of aggression, you'll see huge legs/chest for pushing and a huge back for pulling (think of the gorilla). It's not different in wre…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:18 PM
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Happens often, if you're high value women will flirt with you. The big problem is that if you haven't escalated with a girl you're interested in already, you've already significantly lowered your chances. You can't just become Don Juan pussy slayer over night if you've been solidifying your role as beta wiener for weeks/months. While I have hooked up with girls I've known in a professional setting or in shops/stores I frequent, it's usually because I game them but never escalate (because I don't…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:05 PM
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It's a red flag that disqualifies her from being anything other than a plate, for several reasons: 1) She was using for her own gain. 2) She was dishonest. 3) She attempted to shame you rather than rectify the situation. Of course the real problem here is you losing frame. This could all have been cleared up if you didn't freak out over a $20 favor. Doing people favors is fine, but she should be willing to do you one in return. If you just waited for an opportunity for her to repay the favor, yo…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:52 PM
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That's not to say that all bitches have the correct measure of their own SMV. Bitches can be broken. From time to time you'll run into bitches who are so self-entitled that no one short of George Clooney through a cocaine haze would have a chance. Don't get discouraged if you throw out a practice tease and some lower-level bitch shuts you down. It just means that turbocunt is overestimating herself (pretty common, especially in the West), and you can happily move on to a more well-adjusted prosp…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 02:34 PM
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Every girl is game-able, EVERY girl. It doesn't matter if she's a 10/10 virgin that has a BF, just like every man has his price, every woman has their tipping point where they'd hook up with a complete stranger in 10 minutes flat. If you're looking at it realistically/pragmatically, of course you will never be able to close every girl you approach. None of us are Brad Pitt, and even if we were there is still a chance we could get rejected based on whatever the hell is going on in that particular…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 02:07 PM
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To be honest, I don't find men with a high sexual count attractive as a mate either. You are perfectly entitled to have your own opinion on what you find attractive and pursue that in a mate. The thought of a guy sticking his penis in every woman he comes across strikes me as dirty and not self-respecting. I don't view it as "manly" or "attractive" at all because to me it indicates that he has no self control. I've heard this statement before from many women, but I tend to view it as an outright…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:50 PM
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Women withhold sex because society demonizes them if they are honest about having it and wanting it. And for good reason. Women and men chemically experience sex very differently. Women that have many sexual relationships eventually ruin their ability to pair bond with a prospective mate. And I'm not talking about 10+ or 20+ partners (which are common and in my experience, low numbers for a woman these days). The ability to pair bond to a mate is significantly decreased with each new mate (after…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:18 PM
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The difference is we won't withhold sex and try to pretend like we're something we're not. We withhold commitment but are straight up about it. From your other post, you say that you're not the type of woman that's into casual sex. That is a rare and admirable quality in today's young women, and both sexes know it. Men seek out that quality and promiscuous women pretend to possess it when they find a high quality man. It's the fake act and the lack of genuine value that men have a problem with w…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 07:26 PM
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This has happened to me multiple times. Some of my female acquaintances will try to hook me up with their friends and when they try to "sell" me to them, they think mentioning my career is helping me out. In fact it's makes things much harder and I now have to struggle with an uphill battle to close the same night. If women think you're a catch, they'll put on their best "good girl" act and give out a ton of LMR. It's fucking annoying when you can see right through it, especially when their beha…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:21 PM
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This is how broken women think. If you come across a girl that is showing or admitting to any of these behaviors, consider that a major red flag. Do not commit to women like these, they are good for short term fun only (and only when kept at a distance). They will be a huge source of drama but as long as you don't care about keeping them you can just shrug it off until it gets too annoying to keep seeing them.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 09:31 PM
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Youtube + mirrors. Also always lower the weight when working on form. Pretend the lower weights are heavy and go really slow with good form until the repetition and muscle memory makes it your natural movement. My form got way better when I did the 5x5 workout and started with an empty bar on everything. My squat, DL, and bench form are much better than before and I've increased my PRs in all of them. Compound lifts like the ones you do in 5x5 are the most important to do with correct form, as t…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 06:19 PM
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Financial success has very little to do with SMV. You can use financial success to boost your SMV if you are already alpha, but in and of itself it's pretty useless if you don't focus in other social areas. There are tons of beta millionaires who couldn't land a 5, and even more broke ass Chad's who can get any girl they want. Do not confuse SMV and financial success. For someone who's smart and knows the game, having one can help boost the other, but you'll find they rarely correlate. For the u…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 02:47 PM
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Depends how you treat them. If they're just another form of entertainment that you do socially as well, there's no harm in them really. If you binge-play them for hours at a time and they affect your energy levels or other commitments, then you need to go cold turkey. The problem is a lot of people in the second group are delusional and believe they just play them casually. They're exactly like the "I can stop anytime" drug addicts and alcoholics. I used to think that 6 hours a day of video game…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:54 PM
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Our marriage counselor seems to think her story is legit and I am impeding progress with my distrust This is why you never see a marriage counselor. It's so ridiculous I almost can't believe someone would say that. Your valid distrust from your wife and mother of your children cheating on you is impeding progress. Jesus fucking christ.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 01:50 PM
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As a precursor to steroids you need to: Do proper research on what steroids are, how they work, etc. Plan out a beginner cycle for yourself (probably 10-12 weeks of test prop with a good post-cycle therapy drug). No orals on your first cycle either. Get your blood tested to determine your natural test levels among other things. Lift for 2 years natural with a dedicated routine/diet/sleeping pattern. You may have low test, but it's probably due to lack of exercise, proper diet, and proper rest. S…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 07:04 PM
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Decision fatigue is a real thing. That's why it's important to eliminate or delegate lesser day-to-day decision making processes so you can save your time and energy worrying about decisions that have a much larger impact. Like others have said it's why routine is important.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 03:26 PM
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I wouldn't say staying out of debt is the important part, in fact that's counterproductive. Definitely don't waste money on frivolous expensive shit you don't want/need though. The cheapest thing right now... is money. If you're smart and comfortable holding debt you should be maxing out every type of lone/credit you can get your hands on to finance projects or investments that yield a higher rate of return.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:11 PM
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It's 5 RM. Unless you specifically train to improve your 1 RM, the difference in your 1 RM and your 5 RM won't be that much. People who train for their 1 RMs will be putting up much larger numbers than that anyways, they'll be hitting 2x their BW on squats easy. 1 RM is just a completely different beast that requires different training to actually get that number up, I personally never under 2-3 RM. Anything I can do 1 rep of I could usually do 3-4 of. Unless you're talking about a theoretical o…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:16 PM
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It's all relative and depends on your starting position. Fat people will have a harder time reaching these numbers as have to lose weight through dieting as well as gaining muscle through lifting. Skinny people will get there easier as their objective is closer to reach. It's a good rule of thumb because whether you're fat or skinny, those numbers mean you'll be meeting somewhere in the middle and will give you a good foundation for a solid muscular frame to work off of. Then you can tailor your…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 09:55 PM
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Start at the proper recommended weights, don't get your ego involved and try to jump the gun. I think the recommended starting weights are either an empty bar (if you've never lifted before) or half of your 5 rep-max (if you're familiar with how to do compound lifts like squats and deadlifts). If you've never lifted before, or you're a half-repper, or your form isn't good, don't cheat the starting weights. Start off with super low weights and increase them by 5 pounds per session. You'll get thr…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 02:08 PM
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I do yoga to supplement my lifting and MMA training. I really enjoy it and wish I could do it more often, it just seems like an unnecessary expense when you're already going to 5 other gyms. I use it in lieu of long stretching sessions as I find stretching tedious and boring but doing it in a yoga class helps make it easier. It also helps with your mental game as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 01:35 PM
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Your reply demonstrates my point. "I'm going to insult you personally by implying you're too immature to date a real woman your own age, as per my original post." " Enough said." I'm also not going to back my insult up with any points or logical thought. The different sexes find different attributes attractive. Because of the particular aspects that each sex finds attractive, women are a depreciating asset while men are an appreciating asset. If I'm taking care of my body/looks, leading an inter…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:45 PM
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These points are pretty common knowledge and can be used to save money for people that are young and don't have careers. But this advice can hurt you in the long run. When you are a professional or have a good career going, your time is far more valuable than saving some money here or there. That's why hiring others to do things such as clean your house, mow your lawn, prepare your food, or care for your vehicles, actually helps you maximize your time spent in generating more income. Avoid all d…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 04:34 PM
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They could kill of her character tomorrow and the show would go on without suffering in ratings/popularity at all. Without Kevin Spacey, there would be no show. If you compare the two's resumes, acting ability, and star power; Robin Wright getting paid even as much as 1/10th of what Spacey gets is a huge injustice. With all that being said, I'm sure she knows this and even agrees with it. She's just abusing the woman card in order to get something she wants, more money.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 03:57 PM
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I'm 28 and I date 18-24 year olds exclusively. The majority of 28 year old women I meet are no more mature than most 14 year olds, they're just 100 times more entitled and bitchy due to their "life experience". 18-21 year olds are much more fun to be around and what they lack in experience they make up for with attitude and appreciation. This is of course not even mentioning the fact that most 28 year olds look like shit compared to the average 18-21 year old.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 08:47 PM
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I've noticed travelling that as long as people recognize my Canadian accent as being different enough from their own, I can be much more sexually aggressive. They just laugh and write it off as "those goofy/wild Canadians". I think the trick here is just that you need to achieve a certain level of uniqueness so their unfamiliar with your type. They write off any qualities that they would usually attribute as negative for guys they are familiar with within their home culture.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:30 PM
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Because of their solipsism and projection, many career oriented women think their success on the job market will make them more attractive to men. In their mind, if these are the qualities they find attractive in men, then they must be the qualities men find attractive in women as well. This has been the most annoying plague of feminism in regards to the dating scene. The older women get, the more entitled they feel towards high value men as they mistakenly believe their value has appreciated, w…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:20 PM
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I've noticed this is the common pick-up tactics of minorities. Black, Mexican, Spanish, etc, men will be very sexually aggressive and ware down drunk girls at the bar. It gets written off as part of their "culture" and they get a pass because of it. They're just seen as coming from a more basic/sexually upfront culture. If you're a white guy, I would suggest staying away from this technique. It's seen as way creepier when a white guy does it and there are so many ways it can go wrong with white …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 09:14 PM
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If this were behavior from an old friend I might let it slide while approaching it very cautiously. When you LTR a girl she may have some old friends that she already has established boundaries and routines with. Some are orbiters and some may be the alpha type who rejected commitment from her (or there was sexual tension that was never acted upon). You can immediately tell the difference as she treats the two completely differently. She will slowly lose touch with both of these types of you are…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:57 PM
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From your previous comments in this thread, it seems like you are trying to pursue her for an LTR. Never do that, never push for commitment. Always let the woman bring up all matters of exclusivity and relationship talk and then LTR her when she has proven herself. If she ever brings up talks of exclusivity/relationships, let her know that you enjoy spending time with her and are open to the idea of a relationship, but don't push for one. The idea here is that you are implying that she can get a…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:51 PM
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From OP's post... Yet I'm still bitter. I'm still the same person in term of looks and personality from a year ago. The only thing that's changed is my social value and possibly my new found cynical view of women. With this statement it's clear that: He's completely misinterpreting what factors attribute to his value. That or he's somewhat acknowledging the factors that he now knows attribute to his value while disagreeing with them from a moral/ethical standpoint. He's saying the only thing tha…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:16 PM
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Your being bitter about women finally noticing you now that you have status is like a woman being bitter that men finally notice her now that she has lost all her fat after a long and severe diet. Unfair? Sure. But definitely normal and to be expected. I think the use of 'unfair' isn't justified here. Is it really that unfair that an 8 isn't interested in dating a 4? Or is it more unfair that the 4 feels entitled to the 8's affections?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 05:08 PM
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It's not just a girl/women thing, you're only thinking of it that way because their change in treatment towards you is the most apparent and most emphasized in your mind (since it's regarding sex). You are far more likely to notice a difference in how the opposite sex treats you in regards to mating than you are to notice the subtleties in how people treat you. It's very simple, you've increased your value and people have noticed. Nobody is shallow for doing that, you're just salty about it beca…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:59 PM
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We have heard multiple times that psychopaths can be very successful regarding relationships and seduction. Why does it seem like that a psychopath's tactic - love bombing - means putting the woman on a pedestal which is clearly something TRP advises against? How is it working for them then? Shouldn't the results be the opposite? How are psychopaths so successful? I believe that love-bombing is done after there has already been a decent level of interest generated. It's done early in the relatio…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:39 PM
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Coming back to present day, "taking the red pill" seems pretty removed from this basic premise, and there seems to be a lot more emphasis on staying in the anger phase for longer ala the echo chamber of how awful it is that women are hypergamous. A lot of posts are people posing as some kind of expert trying to break down and rehash other peoples comments over and over You have to remember that for the majority of users reading The Red Pill, their only source of information is TRP subreddit. The…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 02:23 PM
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I don't believe porn is the problem or the main cause of the fetishes you have listed. As another user said, you are confusing correlation with causation. Most of these fetishes have existed long before porn existed, or before the main medium of distributing it was ever invented. What you are seeing is the acceptance and normalization of things that used to be considered taboo, due to our extremely liberal (historically speaking) society/culture. There is no indication that these fetishists exis…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:29 PM
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That was my first thought as well, this kind of behavior is borderline autism. A guy is usually less likely to ask for assistance than a female because of pride, not because of a lack of entitlement. I find being overly courteous and nice (ie old-time "gentlemanly") to older and unattractive women helps boost your SMV as long as you aren't a push over. If they act entitled or condescending about it that's different, but many are very appreciative. If a hot girl asks for a favor that's when you t…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:05 PM
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I'm surprised so many of you seem to buy into the idea that it was ONE MOMENT OF WEAKNESS that ended the relationship. While I'm sure these guys thought everything was just perfect up until the end, that's just their own inability to read the many signs they were given well-ahead of time. All these guys were also the beta-bux in their relationships, providing comfort and reliability, not feels or attraction. The first guy was likely a supplicating beta that the girlfriend used for comfort and em…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 04:18 PM
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It's pretty much useless except for maybe defending attacks against homosexuals. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4WzLFWfyUU If you want to learn a martial art worth while, make sure you train in one that includes full-resistance sparring. Grappling arts can practice full-resistance sparring every day, where as striking arts will have to limit power occasionally due to repeated head trauma. But if you aren't practicing whatever you're learning on a fully-resisting athletic opponent, you're prett…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 08:10 PM
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Which isn't a bad thing, you just have to be very clear that your commitment is contingent on their performance. Even if you know you are not at a right place in your life to commit, outright saying that can get you automatically rejected with many girls if you haven't build attraction/investment enough yet. You say that you are open to commitment if the right thing were to come along. When the girl asks "what are we?" or if you're dating, you just say flat out that she hasn't done anything wort…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 02:21 PM
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Trying my best to not take a holier than thou approach, but the air here wreaks of fake confidence so I feel compelled to chime in with some knowledge. Please enlighten us superior being with real confidence. First of all, you claim to want the truth - here it is. You're all a bunch of fucking losers. Too soft to handle it? Tough luck, practice what you preach. What do you propose these losers do? Just accept their lot in life and move on? While objectively I'm sure a lot of users here are loser…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 04:42 PM
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Depends on the woman and on the Chad. If the Chad is a deadbeat criminal with no cash or resources, the woman will likely be interested in him purely for breeding purposes. If the Chad is a millionaire businessman then she will likely try to lock him down as well. I'm a firm believer that conservative women raised by strong fathers and from stable families will usually try to find their AF/BB in the same man. They won't go out and bang criminals because they know it's socially unacceptable, and …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 07:47 PM
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A woman that is genuinely attracted to her man will suck that cock until the back of her throat is bruised and her windpipe dislodged forward. She will beg to be fucked like a dirty whore. She will keep her head down and take any little bit of affection that man can afford for her. For the most part yes, but some women will still object when in a non-aroused state if it is way out of their realm of comfort because they've legitimately never done it before. It doesn't matter how high your SMV, if…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 07:26 PM
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She'll do what Chad wants her to do because she imagines in her mind that Chad is gonna give her a house, 2 Lexus SUVs, 2.5 kids, and all the mind-blowing sex she can imagine for the rest of her life. That's not why she's hooking up with Chad at all, and to think so means you have a fundamental misunderstanding of a woman's sexual strategy. The theory is Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks. She does not care about securing commitment or resources from Chad because she knows she can do so from some beta. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 02:42 PM
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A high class girl wants a $130 dinner date not a bush whacking adventure. This comment alone shows that you're still very much stuck in the BP mindset. You need to start reading a lot more and actually implementing RP, not just lifting and expecting everything to fall into place.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 01:05 PM
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I just usually overtly state it like it is when women ask why I date or am interested in younger girls. I say objectively they are more attractive and that a woman peaks at young age where as men age slower (my go to joke is men work in dog years). I don't go into the full Rollo explanation, but I don't need to, they all inherently know that it's true and why, they just hate when people acknowledge it out loud. I find just stating it in a matter of fact way is almost exactly like a pressure flip…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 08:02 PM
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You don't understand SMV at all. The average 19 year old woman is definitely way more attractive and valuable than the average 26-28 year old woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 07:50 PM
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Depends on your goals but in the beginning yes because your strength will sky rocket and you'll increase mass in your largest muscles quicker than with isolation. I could barely bench 135 when I started, doing isolation exercises at that point wouldn't do much for me. I actually made that mistake before as a 130 lb university freshmen doing a 5 day split (also never squatting) and I plateaud hard. If you work your strength to a decent level first then switch to isolation you'll get much better g…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:50 PM
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I'm in a somewhat similar situation, but where the girl hasn't overtly admitted to having history with the guy. She has a few orbiters/"guy friends", which she claims are "just friends, like brothers". Most of them are pretty beta and I can tell when she says they're like brothers, she means it in the sense that she would be genuinely disgusted sleeping with them. However there is one where she lived together with along with another girl for several months abroad. I think they might have hooked …
/r/askTRP15/04/16 09:49 PM
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Herpes isn't that bad, the "assault with a deadly weapon" thing is definitely fantasy overkill. I don't think anyone has ever been charged with assault for giving someone else herpes, but civil suits may be possible. Hell if you have HIV/AIDS you can have protected sex with someone without informing them of your status (I think some countries require you to also have a low viral load). Herpes isn't that bad and will go away by itself overtime (you'll always have the virus though). If it's HSV-1 …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:36 PM
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Typically when this comes up for me with a plate, I encourage her to be open and honest about her sexual past. I don't tell her it's unattractive because I don't want her lying to some poor beta schmuck and tying him down without him knowing what he's getting into. If beta bob wants to fuck up his life by paying full price for used goods, then that's his problem, not mine. Is also the only way to genuinely screen for LTR material if that's what you're looking for. All potential LTRs should start…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 02:50 PM
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Fuck this hit me like a shot in the gut. It's why I include as much detail in posts as I can remember because I want honest opinions and not misinformed ones from me leaving out info due to bias. It's funny because the last guy did the same thing as me, then ghosted her and she was stuck up on it for a while. I can see why he did it now.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:49 AM
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I think this is a spot on analysis. When she tested me I failed, which brought on the whole conversation. Then I joked about the bachelor life and she took that as getting blamed, she apologized for "being complicated". When I told her the BP falling for her line she went into an emotional lockdown where she cried and didn't want to say anything for a while, I think she was distancing herself from me just as you said. When I finally got some control back, she was better but not 100% okay. So I'm…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:56 PM
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Thanks. I kind of needed to hear this. I always thought that if a woman feels strongly enough she would rearrange her life for her man. While I think this is true to a degree in this case, the timing and pull of her career/passion is just not something I can easily contend with. She has always been very work/school/career focused and wanted to leave the city we live in for as long as she can remember. While I might not be doing everything perfectly, I think the fact she adjusted and considered c…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:18 PM
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Don't get me wrong, yes I agree that women are more emotional than men, but I think it's often overlooked by users here that men also can be emotional, and women can also be logical. This is best shown by a thread I ran into the other day about how there shouldn't be a female president, which in turn reminded me of comments saying that women shouldn't be able to vote because they'd just go for the strong male/they're too emotional. Women and men are different, physically, intellectually, and emo…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:27 PM
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But every once in a while I see people say things like "women are an inferior, trash gender" and "women have no place in grad school". What I've been wanting to ask for a while is are these more radical users, or is this an accepted sentiment here? I feel like I should know before I go any further. This exists for a number of reasons. First off is due to what has been coined the 'anger phase' around here. These days men and women are constantly lied, disillusioned, and conditioned into believing…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:27 PM
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When she's goofy around you. She'll sing ridiculous songs, giggle a lot, smile like a retarded kid. It's when she shuts down her rationalizing mind and it's all happy at that point. She touches you a lot, physically is in your frame, follows you around like a puppy. That's a woman's form of "love". My current LTR does this a lot when I'm with her, but can be very hot or cold at times, especially when it comes to setting up plans. She sometimes shit tests but comfort tests more. My schedule is mo…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 05:08 PM
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The only way it increases SMV is if it comes from anyone other than yourself (preferably from another girl for pre-selection). If you bring it up in anyway, even subtly dropping hints or jokingly, it comes off as insecure and/or gloating. If someone makes a small dick joke I usually just agree and amplify, or if someone genuinely asks about it, I joke about how small it is with a shit-eating grin on my face. I've had some girls display some interest in me after rumors of my size and prowess in b…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 09:21 PM
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And I'm not saying fuck other women. I'm saying get the option to do so. Oh I have 20+ girls I could call that would be over within the hour and I think she has a good idea of that. She kind of pegged me as a player or fuck boi when we first met. Oh yes... but then they start to doubt how alpha he really is, if he's allowed himself to get tied down to her... Completely agreed. It's one of the fucked up aspects of the female mind. They cannot accurately assess value by themselves and therefore mu…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 04:21 AM
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This is a lie. The "literally" is designed to add emphasis to make the lie more believable. Normally I would agree, but I'm pretty good at reading people and for I while I was her genuine AF. Which meant I was privy to the honest "pillow talk" I get after fucking a girls brains out. I've heard all the depraved thoughts, sexual fantasies, things she was ashamed of, etc. Nothing opens a girls "secret box" like no strings attached good sex, I have no idea why, logically it makes no sense but I gues…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 04:06 AM
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That's a fair point. I can be pretty needy in LTRs because I have a high sex drive and ideally would like sex every day. My ex-LTR was a good fit for that and between relationships I had a steady rotations of plates to choose from. It's just that in my experience, every woman, even career-oriented women with fully schedules and their own lives, will clear their schedule to get a piece of you if interest is high enough. I think that's just because when I'm getting plates I'm much more scarce. I g…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 01:52 AM
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Objectively speaking she would be great marriage material minus a few factors, but I don't ever see myself getting married or having kids so I don't really care about that. Just enjoying the ride for the moment but I always use everything as a learning opportunity. I'm just a classic analytical over-thinker. Whether it's work, school, sports, or relationships. I find the act of writing it all down or discussing it is therapeutic in and of itself and often helps clarify the issue for me before an…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 01:11 AM
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The difference is that you're doing compound lifts which engage your entire body. Squatting 3 times a week combined with DLs, bench, shoulder press, and rows 1-2 times a week is a great way to put on mass for beginners. Typically different rep ranges work different things: 1-3 reps works explosiveness/power 3-6 reps works strength 8-12 reps works atrophy (best for gaining size/volume) 15+ works muscle endurance The program is built around increasing strength mostly, but if you're not used to tra…
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